New member here! (Married 2.5 years and happy)

Although I swallowed the pill just recently, I always heavily believed in many of the concepts.

But--I also was very combative and unfair early in my relationship before we married. After we married, I calmed down just a bit because we began having sex (he was waiting for marriage) and so became better because we do have an outlet as opposed to before being married.

Before finding TRP and RPW, although I was naturally good in many of the concepts, I realize that I have been wrong in many other areas. I realize that I have shit-tested my husband and I have escalated arguments for no reason. I think that there are many areas in which I can learn and areas in which I do well, but can be better.

I'm very happy to be here and I hope to learn and partake :) one thing I hope to learn is what are ways I can posture things so that my husband assumes the more leading role. He has RP tendencies; however, due to being raised with 5 women and due to me being combative, he tends to be a little insecure in decision making, leading, and overall dominance. I know I am to blame so I'll be here, reading posts and the sidebar. Learning as I go :)