The Female Imperative

Whisper · 2014-04-08T04:54:28+00:00

Overall I think I agree.

One of the dangers inherent in learning about seduction and becoming part of the PUA culture is that one can start to regard "success" with attractive women as a measure of one's worth.

But early twentyish women are mostly silly creatures whose greatest interest is themselves, and whose strongest opinions are about fashion and what the world owes them. They are not, by and large, a useful measure of anything.

If you really want a series of ONS with attractive girls, or a set of plates to spin, by all means do pickup. But pickup is only for the service of that specific goal. It's not a measure of your value as a human being or as a man.

You have to decide for yourself what you want to do and be. Don't let hoes determine it for you.

christiefrontdrive · 2014-04-08T02:30:26+00:00

One of the most important turning points in my life was when I realized I need to be great for me, not for her. Whether her was actually a girl I was dating at the time or some bullshit bluepill fantasy girl I invented in my head, I was telling myself it didn't matter if I was a slob because no one really depended on me and I could always change for a girl if I really loved her.

And how fucking far we've come.

RojoEscarlata · 2014-04-08T01:10:03+00:00

Focus on your dreams and creating value. The women will show up after you are a success.

And they've been getting used strictly for sex ever since. I regret not going to prostitutes when I was younger. Would've saved me a lot of frustration thinking about women who didn't want me and were gonna go through hell and high water to make sure other women didn't either.

RojoEscarlata · 2014-04-08T00:42:13+00:00

Great post as always Gaylube.

And I think you touched a very important aspect here, what drives a man.

To grow as a person we need to find a purpose in life. We in a deep subconscious level know this but do little to follow on our own desires.

To make it worst we ate constantly bombarded everywhere with false goals.

You gotta have the nicest car, the best house, a wife, etc. All this goals are created to crate a void in you, and even when you get them that void in you won't ever feel complete, because you have wasted your life chasing a path that you did not choose.

If anyone here hasn't read Mastery by Greene. He talks about all of this in his book.

One of the people he studies in the book is actually Da Vinci. Great book.

Edit: Found his lecture about the book in Oxford U. Never mind the robots:

http://youtu.be/8sYmQFPXmJA

trpfieldreport · 2014-04-08T03:07:20+00:00

I think this realization more than any has been tough on me since discovering TRP.

It straight knocks women off the pedestal that had been constructed by my upbringing and cultural experience.

Initially, I felt strangely betrayed, like all women had been lying to me. Then I felt disappointed that they aren't as amazing as I thought they were (hence the pedestal).

Now I feel I've come full circle - they are this way because it makes biological and evolutionary sense for them to be this way. And they aren't to be degraded for, they should be celebrated for what they are.

I love women, they make excellent company. But they aren't men. We should stop expecting them to be.

Lawgick · 2014-04-08T05:00:56+00:00

100% agreement.

Women see men as tools to be used for their benefit. The wisest move the modern man can make when it comes to women is ignore them while he is on his path. Stay focused, pump and dump, gather around you a group of honorable men and create strong bonds with them. They will be far more beneficial to you then almost any woman.

No Homo.

Neburel · 2014-04-08T03:47:08+00:00

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TheAntiZealot · 2014-04-08T01:32:25+00:00

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GayLubeOil · 2014-04-08T00:13:13+00:00

I predict this will go over better than another recent post that rustled jimmies.

Also, you should consider narrating an audiobook on your take of biblical stories.

tipofmywang · 2014-04-08T02:45:24+00:00

GLO, your stuff is always gold brother. One of my favorite aspects are the hilarious pictures you use, and this post was no exception. Now, I gotta ask, in the "modern western variety" pic, is that the bitches tits or her gut? It almost looks like they met somewhere in the middle to become some sort of titgut hybrid. Ugh...

vandaalen · 2014-04-08T06:18:21+00:00

Although I expected something on passive agression behind the title, this was nonetheless a good read.

I heavily recommend Esther Vilar's book The Manipulated Man(pdf) for further reading.

I'm ashamed the femnazi mob compeled her from my home country for telling the truth.

logically_ · 2014-04-08T04:07:59+00:00

Next time you're driving around the city, take a look at the buildings. Without exception, men built every single structure you see around you. Not women, men. I'm still waiting to see the all female construction site. I'm not holding my breath.

So much for equality.

asaspade5 · 2014-04-08T02:28:55+00:00

Oorah, man...oorah...disregard females and acquire currency.

mr_throwz · 2014-04-08T11:29:52+00:00

I've worked a variety of jobs since I was 15 and without a doubt, there have been some lazy male workers and some real go-getter female workers. However I would say, on average, the females are far lazier than the male workers and are constantly trying to shove their responsibilities off on one of the men.

I'm pretty sure I could bone half the women I work with because I refuse to do their work for them and instead give them orders. The other day this girl asked me to clear her tables for her, I leaned towards her and put my hand on her shoulder and laughed out a "What?". She blushed and giggled and went to clear her tables. I waited a few minutes and walked over to her as she was clearing and put my hand on her shoulder again - "When you're done clearing your tables, I'm putting you in charge of cleaning up the bridal suite." And she fucking did it; she cleaned it, and when she was done, she came to me and asked me what I needed her to do next.

jerdo · 2014-04-08T16:55:32+00:00

GayLubeOil is fucking carrying this sub hard right now. Just stellar content. Always gets a laugh and a "he's so fucking right."

newpopehere1 · 2014-04-08T07:52:09+00:00

Ok so I was a white knight virgin till I was 22 and though women were unicorns and sex was evil.

2 years ago i took the red pill and started improving my life. I studied evolutionary psychology read books on biology, mating, sex, everything. I hit the gym gained muscle and started becoming a man of action. I stopped fapping and eating healthy. Still I have not gotten laid. WTF went wrong?

I dont go upto women and game them because I dont have the patience to do not nor am I interested. Now that I have increased my SMV why are not girls coming to me? Do i have to make all the effort and go chase them?

Idontlikekarmawhores · 2014-04-08T12:24:32+00:00

This post is great, the part about the gym is SPOT ON. Bitches only come to be provocative (and use my damn jumping rope ). Gaylubeoil you are a MAN among bitches.

pwrfull · 2014-04-08T16:28:18+00:00

Men find joy in creating value. Men are obsessive in this pursuit, whether by improving themselves, developing an idea or creating something. This obsessiveness is why men can spend years on a painting, waste months on a Minecraft creation or spend all of their free time in the gym. Men have a drive to create, invent, improve and innovate, which is why everything of value on this earth was thought of, invented, created and built by men. Its also why women's history is a joke.

This entire first paragraph. A+

VirgoRooster · 2014-04-08T01:54:32+00:00

Still somewhat misleading in that women aren't going to just come to you if you're successful, just like DaVinci wasn't getting chased by the women of his day. You still have to approach if that's what you want.

Otherwise, it's definitely a good post. You must realize that your value comes from within. Don't seek external validation.

coquio · 2014-04-08T07:39:11+00:00

Holy shit, OP. This is just what I needed to read before going to bed.

crybannanna · 2014-04-08T00:47:30+00:00

I liked the images accentuating your philosophizing. Nicely done.

LegitAnswers · 2014-04-08T02:34:54+00:00

Great post man. This is exactly why I posted what I posted on r/seduction. So many men don't realize that self-improvement is the key to getting laid.

2014-04-08T00:03:24+00:00

ah this is pretty good stuff. these posts give me some good food for thought. thank you.

lightfire409 · 2014-04-08T00:28:27+00:00

An excellent description of the primary differences between male and female behavior! This shit is core red pill.

theultimatewarriors · 2014-04-08T08:02:25+00:00

I don't create things because I want to create. I do them because I'm annoyed and frustrated. Plane and simple, my energy come from a focussed fury, or the excitement of an impending finish. I push mankind forward in areas because my brain can see how things can be better, and I want to seek that freedom, that feeling of conquering something. Same as an orgasm, I want that release. Fixing stupid shit people break is me taking care of my mental blue balls. (this is where I could wax philosophic about video games and other forms of fantasy being mental masturbation)... Man is progress, sure. But I don't give a fuck about anyone else. I don't do it for the rest of you. I do it from anger (the grind) or curiosity (how I find my passions) or obsession (the fight with whatever I'm doing). But I never am doing it for other people on earth. I'm exhausted at night because my brain is a monster, my body has pushed through all pain on it's march to conquering my world, my march to my own kind of freedom.

That's where women come in. Women take care of others. I hate most people. The woman I've chosen to date would take care of an animal like it was her own child. She cares for everything. She knows I'm a monster to myself, and she makes my environment at home a place for me to relax. She wants to help everyone she loves in every way she can. She works her ass off at it. It's a different kind of exhausting. It's a woman saying she's emotionally exhausted, and why they ~~seek~~ need affection from those they've made themselves vulnerable to.

My attention means working on things that push human kind forward. Her attention means nurturing everyone so that no one is left behind.

If a woman tries to be the human leader pushing forward, she'll fail and lose focus. She doesn't have the power of anger wish can override pain. Pain is emotional, I can avoid the emotional side and push through pain. She will need affection before she can push through the setbacks of pain. If a man tries to be the human who takes care of everyone in the world and be a hippy dude, he'll fail and lose focus. Man desires relaxing more than he desires taking care of someone. Taking care of someone requires patience, and man needs to get rid of his anger to have patience. Man leads, woman nurtures. Shitty men don't lead well, and shitty women can't nurture.

Both sexes also have the false paths. For a man, it's competition over bullshit that doesn't matter (thinking that beating someone at something pointless means he is a great man). For a woman it's thinking that attention or guys wanting to just have sex is the same as love (thinking that attention from a lot of guys that are just using her is the same as a lot of guys loving her or needing her).

TL;DR - Great men work towards freedom. Great women work towards affection.

IM_PRETTY_RACIST · 2014-04-08T14:40:37+00:00

I'm actually fine with her exercises, gayLubeOil

rife_omeqa · 2014-04-08T14:56:11+00:00

Your contributions are always gold, GLO.

Pics are getting better and better, too.

2014-04-08T18:24:34+00:00

Very well thought out post, I'll give you that.

tmpjb · 2014-04-10T19:55:40+00:00

Do your own thing and the women will come? I love this cute posts that turn the sub into r/theredhampster. This is our version of "just be yourself". The evidence you've provided goes against your own argument. Many of the greatest/most important men in history have been beta - just look at scientists and inventors. But they were still beta, or at most beta bux. Attraction is primitive for BOTH sexes! Game is just the art of incorporating other shit women find attractive with your words and body langauge. Therefore a physically fit man with game is at the top. In closed social groups game doesn't mean much, but since there are strangers everywhere faking until you make it works. And thanks to contraception sex can have no consequences. Casanova didn't cuckold nobility because he was higher ranked or "just being himself" He was a nobody compared to these guys, but he was attractive and had mad game. Change the world like Einstein, but I don't know of any women flicking their bean to his lectures. By all means, focus on your dreams. It's just retardedly foolish to think your dreams will line up with what women are naturally attracted to; especially in a sub dedicated to the hard truths. Go invent something amazing and get rich! Just don't be surprised when u turn beta bux.

ZR6X · 2014-04-08T03:08:10+00:00

Lmao @ Jen Selter standing on a dumbbell

Cate_Gary · 2014-04-09T05:29:40+00:00

I wrote the joke about women's history that was posted here. I meant it as a critique on how historians represent women, focusing on trivial nonsense instead of real accomplishments.

I'm a woman. The fact that my joke was cited to make the point that only men create things is hilarious.

lojoco · 2014-04-09T16:48:14+00:00

Meh, guys are the same in this regard, raising their own smv to obtain high profile women.

yourgfsthrowaway · 2014-04-08T04:37:18+00:00

I cultivate mass

theBergmeister · 2014-04-08T10:22:06+00:00

Damn. Just damn...

chakravanti93 · 2014-04-08T12:16:45+00:00

s/ratchet/wretched

TheAntiZealot · 2014-04-08T12:37:59+00:00

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somerandomguy376 · 2014-04-08T13:13:50+00:00

"I do these things for myself and not to attract men."

In my experience this is somewhat true. Girls will dress to impress other girls. Men are just another accessory to them to make their girlfriends jealous like an expensive purse. If a girl is dressed in tight yoga pants it's most likely to show off to the other girls how great her butt is and how easily it attracts HVM.

RompeChocha · 2014-04-08T15:06:51+00:00

Great post man, the pictures cracked me up.

BluepillProfessor · 2014-04-08T17:07:39+00:00

Kudos on the pics. Always important to document your claims.

cooltrip · 2014-04-08T17:25:54+00:00

"The women will show up after you are a success"

He seems to disagree.

Also, you get success at an age when all women have hit the wall.

Sexual selection has defined "sexual success" as a pre-wall success; you ain't fooling Nature, bro.

But, anyway, YES, you are right: THIS is why she will help you a lot develop science, technology and progress.

2014-04-08T18:50:05+00:00

The weirdest thing to me are those gyms that have ellipticals set up in front of the windows. Could it be any more obvious?

JGH8763 · 2014-04-08T22:49:49+00:00

Do you have any actual scientific evidence for any of this?

XeroGeez · 2014-04-09T01:44:52+00:00

Hey, i'm new here and i've been lurking. I'm a blue piller or whatever you guys call them. Anyway, I'll preface this (Since it's my first post on the sub) by saying that i'm not here to cause trouble. i'm just interested in the way that this community thinks and how they arrived to those conclusions. Anyway, you said that everything of value on Earth is created by men, and i'm sure most commercial clothing designers are male. Sexualization of women by men is completely natural and you're bound to see at least glimpses of that sexuality when those men create a product for women, no? It's either wear more comfortable skimpy outfits, or be bogged down by baggy day clothing. Its just not as mobile, just the same as with men's work out clothing. I agree completely with your idea of forgoing sexual pursuits in favor of substantive goals, but i'm a bit confused by this subreddits stance on women. How biologically different do you guys believe them to be? It seems as though the common consensus around here is that the inner workings of a woman's mind are completely different from that of a man. (Once again, I mean no offense so nobody hop on your "beta pussy ass bitch" wagon and start running me down. I'm trying to get perspective)

heli_elo · 2014-04-08T10:39:24+00:00

Overall I agree, but I don't understand why women are being demonized for doing EXACTLY what men are being encouraged to do here. Women try their best (albeit through stupid ass avenues sometimes) to be attractive to men, and are heavily criticized for that. In the same breath, men are given the secret to being the most attractive they can be. Both sides are just trying to fulfill their biological imperative.

On the topic of careers, I completely agree. I work as a mechanic with all men and I cannot wait to get out of my contract. I grew up in my dad's garage so it isn't any lack of skill that makes me hate it, it's actually the men that detract from the overall effectiveness of women in the workplace. Older guys view me like some kind of twisted daughter figure, "oh, let me help you sweetheart!" or trying to develop an inappropriately friendly relationship despite large gaps in the rank between us. Young guys, i.e. white knights, cannot let me do my fucking job without tripping over themselves. I'll be carrying something moderately heavy from point A to point B, and a white knight will come out of nowhere about halfway through to help. It's absolutely, brain dead retarded.

TL;DR men are just as guilty of trying to get laid, it's just that the male tactics end in personal improvement. Also, my experience shows that it's the betas that make women in the workplace ineffective.

YourFoxyFriend · 2014-04-08T15:05:02+00:00

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GayLubeOil · 2014-04-08T01:37:49+00:00

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RejectionEquality · 2014-04-08T07:09:24+00:00

Who wants tea?

through_a_ways · 2014-04-08T06:22:38+00:00

clothing, makeup, instagram selfies, parading around in front of horny dudes in gyms and clubs is all a means for women to attract men of value

If a guy showed up to the gym in a sports bra and yoga pants/shorts, he'd probably be arrested for indecent exposure

Its_a_snake · 2014-04-08T09:50:30+00:00

Listing to female rationalizations isn't going to expand your mind.

Listing

Listening

entiat_blues · 2014-04-08T07:15:47+00:00

i don't see how a completely subjective diatribe is anything more than manufacturing your own blue pill to swallow. placing yourself on a pedestal is no closer to reality than categorically placing women on a pedestal.

sfudman · 2014-04-08T03:46:52+00:00

Just for laughs, Seinfeld did a parody of that bible story. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wsbgwNe4Rv4&feature=youtube_gdata_player

GayLubeOil · 2014-04-08T01:18:22+00:00

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cascadecombo · 2014-04-08T05:44:03+00:00

God would be so proud at your rendition of the story of King Solomons wisdom... Perhaps you shouldn't be quoting from a book you've obviously never read.

nitoko · 2014-04-08T06:17:37+00:00

Next time YOU'RE in the gym...

Title	The Female Imperative
Author	GayLubeOil
Upvotes	475
Comments	231
Date	April 7, 2014 11:40 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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