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Shepherds pie!
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/15 08:46 PM
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He's just not that "into" her. Time to move on.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/15 01:56 PM
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Spot on! You're captain isn't your one-in-a-trillion soul mate, he's the one you've dedicated yourself to, the one you choose to love. Remember, love is a choice and hard work.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/14 11:38 AM
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You don't get how women are wired. We are literally built to seek the approval of our group. Without the approval and acceptance of the other women around us, should we not have a mate to care for us, we would have died. Though we are capable now of supporting ourselves, there was a time that was not true. Just because times have changed doesn't mean that our programming has.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/14 04:51 PM
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You've hinted that your husband has fantasies that he won't act out with you. Don't worry about them. Many fantasies are not practical to act out.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/14 04:42 PM
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-He body builds, but won't train me or workout with me. He does expect me to keep up with fitness, but he works out with friends and so it's part of "guy time", so I workout alone usually. I'm a personal trainer. You don't want him to train you. Find your own work out buddy or join some classes. If the budget allows, hire a trainer. -We have been together 5 years and he still spends Friday nights out and I am not invited to these outings. In the beginning I would go out with my own friends, but …
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/14 09:05 PM
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"hold this" as you shove your purse at him at the store would be a shit test. It's all in whether you asked politely or just barked an order at him.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/14 05:46 PM
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"it's up to you" is code for "I don't give a shit". Just pick a restaurant already.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/14 05:44 PM
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I ask nicely. "Hey honey, can you _____ for me?" Don't forget the kiss when you say thank you. It isn't rocket science. Just be polite.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/14 05:35 PM
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I don't think she's a feminist. She wants to be the First Mate, not the Captain. She wants a strong man who can lead. That sounds pretty traditional to me. Even if she has a job, so do many women who take a submissive role at home.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/14 04:08 AM
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Several of our Endorsed Women are atheists. As am I. You do not need to be religious to be Red.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/14 01:44 AM
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but would it be tacky/in bad taste to tell him? Short answer: no. I come right out and ask Mr Strom if he likes the way I did my hair or whatever else I want his opinion on. Generally, I know what the answer is going to be. I just like hearing that I make him happy.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/14 02:52 AM
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Congratulations on your successful life changes! hugz
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/14 02:22 AM
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Word. All the support in the world isn't going to change a man who doesn't want to change. He has to WANT to be self-sufficient, polite, and law abiding.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/14 01:57 AM
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WTF does abortion have to do with the role you want to play in a marriage? I'm pro-choice. I'm submissive to my husband and am a traditional housewife.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/14 01:54 AM
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E-Rewards and Valued Opinions. The rewards are okay. I have almost a $100 credit with E-Rewards right now, but they aren't offering anything I'm interested in. I might get a subscription to Runner's World. Valued Opinions's rewards are better.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/14 12:47 AM
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That was way easier than the 30 minute ones I do for shitty "rewards"
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/14 12:41 AM
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First, props for breastfeeding. Second, get yourself a box of those at-home dry-cleaning sheets. You spot treat the stains, then pop everything in the dryer with a dryer sheet and 20 minutes later your clothes are refreshed. Third, while you little one is little, a few pairs of well fitting dress slacks will help fill the gap between skirts and jeans. Lastly, get yourself (or sew some, they're easy) a few cute aprons. They'll take the abuse so your nice clothes don't have to.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/14 12:06 PM
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So, because he failed to live up to the expectations in your head, that you never told him about, he's the failure? How about you don't make covert contracts and then get pissy when things don't work out? That's what beta orbiters do. They tell themselves that if they do just this one more thing for Jenny-the-slut that she'll finally see what a great guy Forest really is and they'll get married, happily ever after blah blah blah. You just did the exact same thing to your boyfriend.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/14 11:50 AM
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I've owned three copies. I gave them to friends after I finished each one. I highly recommend it.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/14 11:48 PM
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The corset did not cause your uterus to prolapse. It may have made it worse, but it did not cause it.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/14 06:55 PM
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I waist train. Pm me
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/14 06:54 PM
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Depends on the situation. I'll murder her if she's his girlfriend. But if he was just getting his rocks off while out of town for a month? I don't mind that so much.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/14 01:57 AM
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He also has extremely an extremely high karma rating on Reddit which must show some serious character. LOL. ....and now my phone is covered in coffee. Good thing it's waterproof. Seriously though, great work. It's amazing how fulfilling taking care of your family can be if you just let go of the feminist rhetoric and let the love flow.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/14 01:13 PM
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"I'm very flattered, but I don't date younger men."
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/14 12:29 PM
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I don't see a reason you have to go to college. Personally, the only thing college got me was debt. Most jobs that work well for young women who are planning on having a family don't require a degree. It's easy enough to get a job at a makeup counter or as a caretaker for a senior citizen.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/14 02:44 PM
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Mr. S and I do the same thing. Only I don't work. But he hates housework, so I do all that.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/14 06:36 PM
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I wonder if she has ppd. She sure sounds depressed. Add in how addicting those stupid games are, and you have a recipe for a very unhappy husband.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/14 11:26 PM
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Women don't understand emasculation. Even me; I get that it's a real thing but I have no frame of reference. you had anal and enjoyed it witth John Doe, but you won't try it with him I like to compare this to a man happily having a child a child with a rachet ex-girlfriend, but not with the sweet, feminine current wife.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/14 01:02 PM
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Good to hear. You'll need to be especially careful about who you pick for relationships. Make sure he's a leader and physically attractive to you. You won't want to be remembering some guy from college and dreaming about him instead of your husband. This might be hard considering your past. So really work on being the best version of you possible.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/14 08:13 PM
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First, stop whoring around. Second, be honest with the guys you date. You don't need to give them a list of names and addresses, but your boyfriend shouldn't be put in a position to hang out with a guy you've already slept with- especially if he didn't know before hand. Third, give your ltr's everything you gave random guys. If your future husband finds out you had anal and enjoyed it with John Doe, but you won't try it with him, he's going to be understandably pissed. Last, become the best vers…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/14 06:42 PM
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I almost posted this here yesterday. Apparently Mr Strom lurks TRP and sent me a link. I almost peed myself laughing.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/14 02:40 PM
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"Your friend looks like a bitch" "No, she's really nice! I'm not sure why she's always scowling." Yeah, they were talking about me. That was 7th grade. And learning to smile in public, especially when you make eye contact, can be exhausting. If you're shy, you also need to learn to make eye contact.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/14 12:05 PM
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Her chocolate chip cookies are to die for
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/14 12:37 AM
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Her chocolate chip cookies are to die for
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/14 11:59 PM
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http://brittanyangell.com/ This woman's recipes are gold.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/14 11:16 PM
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I'll share my secret weapon with you ladies, just for NorseLady's first submission. Paper lunch sacks. On a scrap of paper write "Blow Job" and put it in the sack. Give it to your SO. You just gave him a blow job in a paper sack. Works like a charm.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/14 01:11 AM
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/r/getdisciplined And you might want to get on meds for the ADHD. They'll help with the attention span and procrastination.
/r/askTRP22/07/14 12:15 AM
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Move on. She didn't like you. What ever. Take this time to improve yourself. Hit the gym. Read a book. And stop calling your crush your oneitis. Sounds like you two dated for all of five minutes. You sound like a desperate loser. Girls can smell desperation and it smells like a burning cum box.
/r/askTRP22/07/14 12:06 AM
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Whether she was drugged our not is immaterial. She put herself into a situation that she could be drugged, or she got shit faced and tried to go home with another guy.
/r/askTRP21/07/14 09:07 PM
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I immediately thought of you.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/14 03:05 AM
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I completely agree.
/r/askTRP21/07/14 12:19 AM
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I was a divorced mother of one when I met Mr Strom. He also was divorced and had one child. We've been together for 11 years and married for 7. Dating some one with kids brings its own challenges, but if you don't want to start over, it is a viable option.
/r/askTRP20/07/14 10:12 PM
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I guess I should have been clearer. It's cool to trust your gf, but don't think for a minute that this guy isn't going to bad mouth you behind your back and make a move on your girl.
/r/askTRP20/07/14 03:49 PM
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Well that's what beta orbiters do! And then they get pissy when you get a boyfriend that doesn't lick the dust off your shoes and buy you fresh flowers every day- because that's what he would do if you were his girl. So in the meantime, he'll be your emotional tampon and help you move when your landlord hits on you.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/14 03:38 PM
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Yes it is, but it also puts women in bad situations because they can't see the danger until its too late.
/r/askTRP20/07/14 03:26 PM
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That depends on how ugly you are. If you're even a little pretty, they want to have sex with you. They've probably tried using their telepathy to get you to kiss them. They're probably giving you the girlfriend treatment, hoping you'll finally see what a great catch he is and decide to start a relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/14 03:21 PM
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That's great and all that she's inexperienced. I was like that too, right up until a casual acquaintance decided to try and put his tongue in my mouth. He knew I was married. He knew my in-laws. That's how I met him. I never went out of my way to spend time with him. I just thought he was being nice.
/r/askTRP20/07/14 02:51 PM
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You get it.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/14 02:43 PM
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Damn it feels good to be a gangster.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/14 03:35 AM
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The pill isn't about whether or not you feel the need to have children. It's about recognizing our nature and working with it. You don't need to have children to do that. In general, having children is a drive women have. You may never feel it, or it may come on suddenly after you meet a man that sparks those feelings.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/14 06:45 PM
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You are a genius.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 03:55 PM
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So insist that she go to the doctor. Take her to the appointment if necessary. Make her go through the motion of showering and dressing. Every little bit helps. Several studies have shown that our behavior affects our mental state and vise versa.
/r/askTRP17/07/14 02:46 PM
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Your undergraduate work needs to be relevant in order to get accepted into grad school. A ten year old bach with no relevant work experience will not get her into grad school.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 02:27 PM
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First, you need to make sure you pick a good man. A good balance of strong, sexy traits and comforting, provider traits. You wont be happy with too much of one or the other. And its on YOU to make sure you get that part right. Second, focus on the good stuff when you feel unhappy. Its all to easy to get caught up in a hate spiral where all you notice is the bad stuff. (That does not mean you ignore him beating you or cheating on you. It means if he didn't wipe the coffee off the counter, just cl…
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 02:24 PM
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eatplaycrush is right. Sounds like you need to find something else to do than obsess over what your boyfriend may, or may not, be thinking about. At the end of the day, do you really want to be his thought police?
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 02:18 PM
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Why would you bring that up? Why is that a thing? O_o
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 01:53 PM
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"Pitbeards" ROFLMAO I think I <3 you.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 01:52 PM
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Men are visual. They look. Hell, I look like I'm 25/28. I have a small waist, big boobs and a nice, round, perky ass. I wear skirts and dresses almost every day. I do my hair and makeup. I wear jewelry. I do my nails just the way he likes. Mr. Strom still looks. That's okay. Usually, he's noticing what ever it is she's wearing. Jogging shorts got added to the list of clothes to buy when he noticed a woman wearing them and came right out and said "Those would look better on you". tl;dr: he loves …
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 01:40 PM
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I'm conflicted. On one hand, TRP has a habit of screaming "Next!" when a guy is asking how to save his marriage. That's why I unsubbed. But, women tend to be much "nicer" than men. The mommy blog guy has been mentioned. He didnt' need a blog for his wife to read. He needs to cut off her money and put his foot down. He needs to maintain frame. But most of the answers he got were about the blog and not responding to the actual issues.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 01:32 PM
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The kid is 2.5 now. Even if they don't have another, that's 12 years before he's in high school- when she claims she wants to start looking for work. A ten-year old degree won't get her a job. It'll be more classes all over again. It makes no financial sense for her to be getting a useless degree; nevermind that she doesn't have the time to do college and keep up on her SAHM responsibilities. Why should he or his child suffer because she suddenly decided that she needed a degree. And frankly, I …
/r/askTRP17/07/14 01:25 PM
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If you were a partnership, she wouldn't have gone back to college at such an important time in your son's life, against your previous agreement. And she is free to leave whenever she wants. She doesn't have to stay with you. This is one big shit test that you are failing. A 10 year old, unused degree isn't going to help her get a job. She's going to have to go back again to retake classes and possibly get another degree just to get a job in 10-12 years when your son is finally in high school. Th…
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 01:14 PM
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I disagree. The mommy blogs guy came to us because he knew what TRP would say if he explained the situation to them. His shrew doesn't need a blog to read, she needs him to put his foot down. Yet the great majority of answers were about the blog, not the actual problem that she was running roughshod over this guy.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 12:59 PM
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Only if you've had 5+ points awarded to you by some one with big flair.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 01:10 AM
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Apparently, because I don't have a keypad, I can't award points. :(
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 11:37 PM
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Got it! :-D
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 10:57 PM
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I barely figured out how to register the first time....
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 10:42 PM
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I wish I could award you a point for this. What's a "point" and why can't I have one? :3 They're after your name. Wingnut has one and Tempest has three. I've seen Tempest award them. they need to be done! This is exactly what I'm talking about. Men don't see the dishes as a job that "needs" to be done. Sure eventually, but there's no harm with, for instance, waiting until tomorrow. Messes don't need to be cleaned in a time frame, at least not the time frame that would meet a typical woman's stan…
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 09:55 PM
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And how much does she think her degree is going to be with in ten years when she finally goes to get a job? It will be worthless. Just time and money wasted in a piece of out-dated paper. If she really wants to get a degree and go to work when the kids are in high school, then she needs to wait until the kids are in high school. Getting a degree now is a waste.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 09:48 PM
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There just aren't enough hours in the day to homeschool kids and get a degree of your own. It's just not going to happen. I was being serious about cutting off the money. Let her see what life would be like without your paycheck. Also, you need to up your alpha game. "The Mindful Attraction Plan" by Athol Kay will help.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 09:32 PM
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How does she plan to work and home school!?! Sounds like you need to put your foot down. It's your money that's paying for this foolishness. And it's your son who's paying the price. Start new accounts without her on them if necessary. Cut off her money. If she isn't willing to do what's right for her son then I guess she needs some help. You can put fuel in her car and give her enough money to buy groceries a few days at a time. She's made her bed. Now she needs to lie in it.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 09:24 PM
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I wish I could award you a point for this. You are so spot on about the differences in the temperaments of men and women creating the traditional "blue" and "pink" jobs. Men prefer manual labor to cleaning. And women generally prefer to not get sweaty and nasty. So why fight it? It's not the patriarchy holding you down if you do the dishes. Women just dislike doing them less than men. And they need to be done! And let's not kid ourselves. I will not change the flat tire on the side of the highwa…
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 09:18 PM
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Why is she getting a degree now? It seems like a properly fucking stupid idea to go back to school when the two of you have a two year old and were planning on having more kids. She's needlessly stressing herself out. She can go back after the kids are in elementary school, if it's still important to her.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 08:52 PM
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Here's the thing, why should he but the cow when the milk is free? And why should he suddenly buy the cow if you threaten to stop giving him the milk? Your milk is not that special. He can find other cows who give away their milk. But really, without the silly analogy, why should a man marry a slut he's already had? If you were a slut with him, you probably were with half the town. A man doesn't want to be out with you and run into five guys you slept with in the grocery store. They like to thin…
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 01:21 PM
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Sounds like your boyfriend is cheating on you. Unless the talk you had wasn't really a talk and he's under the impression you two are just dating. Either way, you have three choices. Ignore what you saw. Continue to be a plate. Break up with him. Try to establish exclusively. Personally, when I was dating, I didn't sleep with men who were sleeping with other women. One man at a time, and I made sure he knew that I was looking to get married. "I'm looking to get married, not saying that I'm even …
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 12:32 PM
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Not everyone wants to get married. Many couples are happy living together without getting married, especially if they aren't planning to have children in the near future. And either way, if others were allowed to bring their boyfriends, then it's a serious breach of social etiquette to tell one lady she can't bring hers. OP and her SO are a social unit. You either invite both, or neither.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 12:05 PM
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Divorce parties are all the rage these days. I suppose a gift wouldn't be all that far out of line.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 01:08 AM
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There is no way in hell I would attend any function where my SO wasn't welcome. And there is no way in hell that I'd tell a friend her SO wasn't welcome. You need new friends.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 01:07 AM
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Don't ever be alone with a man that you don't plan on having sex with. Obviously, relatives don't count. But being alone with him put you in a very vulnerable position. Speaking from experience, not all men are fine, upstanding gentleman who will take no for an answer.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/14 05:19 PM
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Uh, yeah. I'm with Harley. Don't be a nag and don't turn him down. If the sex is getting boring, put on too much eyeliner and some thing uncomfortable before bed.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/14 02:58 PM
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I'm a huge fan of clearance racks, especially at Target. Goodwill and Salvation Army are also favorites.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/14 01:27 PM
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Even in the earliest societies, women braided their hair, put flowers in it, died their clothes, wore jewelry, wore perfume, and groomed. Just because we got better at it, doesn't mean it's "worse" now then it was. The problem now is that the feminists have dismantled (at least attempted to) the matriarchy and the patriarchy. So instead of being encouraged to develop ourselves as good wives, mothers, and friends, we now have an entire generation of self absorbed, narcissistic little shits runnin…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 01:17 PM
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Society had always been appearance driven. Corsets weren't invented because they were comfortable. Ancient Egyptians didn't wear make up for the health benefits. People who complain about our society being less than their version of perfect are trying invoke a recollection of some magical past where every thing was fair and wonderful. And if it wasn't for insert group then every thing could be honky dorry again.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 12:44 PM
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I think you're take on compliance testing is a little off. First, Athol Kay's terminology, loyalty testing, is more accurate. Also, the intent is inherently different from the shit test. When the woman is loyalty testing, the overall attitude will be different. Taking your example "I'll bet you flirt with all the girls this way" can be a playful jab to escalate relations (flirting), hostile (shit testing), or melancholy (loyalty testing). The first two have been covered in depth so I'll examine …
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 02:24 AM
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How boring can she possibly be if she has your dick in her mouth? I'm not sure I believe you. Would you really be unhappy with a reasonably pretty, sweet, but mildly retarded woman?
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 10:48 PM
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I feel you. Learn to sew and draft/alter your own patterns. Very rewarding.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 02:24 PM
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I'm in my 30s. After I had my son, my nursing bras were GG and were too small. I'll be having the sisters adjusted in a few years. Tl;dr: plastic surgery is a personal decision.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 02:22 PM
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I'm jealous! :-D Sounds like you had a great time. And it helps so much to relax when you really trust your SO to take care of things. (I approve of wearing make up every day. It really helps you feel put together.)
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 01:24 AM
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Depends on the attitude. Feigned indignation can get you make up sex.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 10:51 PM
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If she takes offense to you slapping her ass after even a couple of dates, she isn't interested in what's in your boxers, only your wallet.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 10:50 PM
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:-D congrats! I'm glad it turned out well!
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/14 09:54 PM
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Thanks
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/14 01:02 PM
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When I quit, I just didn't want to smoke anymore. The small change in attitude made all the difference. Previous attempts at quitting all ended in obvious failure because even though I wanted to quit, I didn't want to stop smoking. The last time, seven years ago, was easy. My husband and several of our friends still smoke and it doesn't bother me at all.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/14 01:01 PM
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Bearing children is a biological drive. Acting on those feelings is a choice only you and your SO can make for yourselves. I have a teenagers. But my friend's four month old makes me ache. I can't wait till my boys get married and have children.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/14 12:43 PM
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They probably accepted you before, but now they wish their wives would take a lesson from you. It's amazing what a good attitude will do.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/14 11:48 AM
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It's more in the attitude. You can say her perfume must be expensive because it smells like cow dung if you say it with a smile and a wink. Think Clark Gable (Rhett Butler) in Gone With the Wind. He was a rascal that dropped panties but wasn't considered marriage material till he used his alpha for The South, and was running the blockades. Later, because he was a doting father, all his previous "sins" were forgiven.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/14 11:18 AM
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They forgot two: It's fun. It's free.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/14 02:15 PM
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Yoga, zumba, lifting weights, all will increase your balance and fluidity. You can also practice speaking softly; it'll give the illusion of grace.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/14 11:31 AM
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I'd be willing to bet she now has gonorrhea in her mouth. That's why.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 10:13 PM
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I was thinking disgusting, but slut works too.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 07:59 PM
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I have 10 pounds to lose and at least 5 sewing projects to finish. I have a tendency to leave things unfinished.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/14 10:36 PM
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I believe this is an issue that involves both men and women. The hormones that cause the feeling of being in love affect us both. That's the reason women stay with abusers and men develop oneitis. I thought this sub was supposed to be about discussing Red Pill theory, and using it to you advantage, whatever your personal path (marriage, ltr, spinning plates, or MGTOW ). If I'm wrong, I'll happily unsubscribe.
/r/AlreadyRed05/07/14 04:46 PM
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That's great and all, but how about a link?
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/14 12:51 PM
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By your account then, I'm an evil step-mother. When in reality, my step-son and his mother have had it in for me since the day I met my husband. I couldn't send my step-son to the corner for a time out for hitting without a screaming, flailing, temper tantrum. But I'm the bad guy.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/14 12:42 PM
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Preach it! Mr Strom's ex-wife is the same.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/14 12:35 PM
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I thought the same thing. But the very fact that you're helping to raise her child will cause problems. Most women are insanely jealous and will make up reasons to cause problems.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/14 12:32 PM
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An extra mother-in-law that hates your guts and calls child protective services on you just to cause problems.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/14 12:29 PM
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I wear mostly dresses and dress pants, but I do have a couple pairs of short shorts. My butt doesn't hang out because I exercise to keep it perky. I also have nice legs. So sue me.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/14 12:27 PM
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Mr Strom calls it pushing girls in the mud and pulling their pigtails. It's been 11 years now.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/14 03:36 AM
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Bullshit. There is no balance. Marriage, children, career: pick two, there isn't enough time in the day to do all three well. That's a fact of life. Daycare is no substitute for a loving parent in the home.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/14 12:40 AM
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Happy Wife is right. You're not attracted to him anymore. Her solution is also right on the money: focus on his good qualities. I'll add one more thing: do something new together, go some place new. Novel things rekindle flames.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/14 12:35 AM
6

Mr Strom is the quintessential boy scout. There isn't anything he isn't prepared for. If he can't fix it or find a video on how to fix it, it probably wasn't worth fixing. I know there is no problem too big for him. He's my rock. And he steals flowers for me. Not often, but once in a while, he'll see some flowers that he thinks I'll like in a business's landscaping and steal them.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/14 11:50 PM
2

My personal role model is Marmee March from Little Women. She is always looking for ways to improve herself and is a dedicated wife and mother.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/14 11:40 PM
3

Negging is more like, "nice shoes, my mom has the same ones". Its meant to be playful teasing, not mean or nit picky. If you've been insulting women, or picking them apart like that, knock it off.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/14 11:01 PM
12

Negging done right is just playful teasing.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/14 10:57 PM
2

This one time at the bar, I got totally smashed. I could barely walk. I didn't even realize that I was dragging this hot guy out to the parking lot to suck his dick and have him bend me over the hood of his car! Why didn't he stop? He knew I was drunk! I feel so violated! That's how every woman ever has been raped.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/14 02:05 PM
1

Thanks asshole. I just spit my coffee out. :-P
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/14 01:58 PM
2

blowjobs My first thought! Haha Congratulations!
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/14 01:55 PM
13

Word. At 22, date guys 25+. They're more likely to be ready to settle down and are more likely to have the resources to support a family. And how is this coming up in casual conversation?
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/14 01:19 PM
20

No where do we claim that you can't get married past a certain age (commonly referred to as "the wall"). However, the pool of candidates does get smaller with time, as men get married or "go their own way". And physically, female beauty fades with age, but your competition isn't getting any older. As you get older, you really need to make sure you're rocking in the personality department and really do your best to preserve your looks in order to compete with the fresh faced, perky, sweet young w…
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/14 12:43 AM
5

Go concern troll elsewhere.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 11:51 AM
3

I learned it from Reddit. :-)
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/14 09:01 PM
3

That link. It got hella dusty in here.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/14 12:57 PM
2

Uh, road head!?!
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/14 01:10 AM
1

Pretty much. Let him talk if he wants to. Give him a back rub and a bj to help him feel better. You could throw in a foot rub. Maybe make good favorite cookies.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/14 12:41 AM
4

Give it a shot! Be sweet, feminine and maybe he'll be your prince charming.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/14 11:14 PM
3

You are spot on. There is nothing to be gained from picking a side other than his. Despite her instincts to give her opinion, she needs to keep her thoughts to herself and focus on being there for her man.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/14 11:07 PM
1

Can I be "Marmee"? Like in Little Women?
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/14 12:45 AM
1

I've had this flair for more than two months. ;-)
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/14 12:11 AM
1

You may not be afraid, but Dana has a family to think about. As do most of us in RPW. Not to mention, as women, we really do need to think about our personal safety. We really are the weaker gender. Even if matched against a man the same size as me, I'm fucked, and not in a metaphorical sense.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 07:33 PM
0

You could rewrite this for /r/fatpeoplestories. Just post it under an alt. They hate trp. Which is weird. You'd think the most hated subs on Reddit would stick together.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 06:49 PM
2

I <3 cardigans with dresses and skirts. Now you can play dress up for your hubby! Have fun!
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 04:00 PM
7

Wait to sleep with him. While its entirely possible that he's legit, it's more likely that he's using PUA techniques to create intimacy, seriously decreasing the amount of time and energy needed to get in your pants. It seems to good to be true.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/14 02:48 PM
6

He's the one person that really wants to make you laugh. It would make sense that he'd turn the humor on for you. So he probably is that funny, for you.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/14 02:10 PM
3

When he makes you laugh, he's literally making you happy. He made you happy Isn't that (some of) what guys are hardwired to do?
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/14 02:07 PM
4

You're right. Some women like to pretend that they're "above" liking men with violent tendencies. But those women are full of crap.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 02:17 PM
-1

Exactly. It's nice knowing my husband is can be an asshole. He's just not an asshole to me or our kids. But I have no doubt that he wouldn't mind making some one disappear if the situation called for it.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 12:10 PM
4

Women would rather have sex with a good looking serial killer (Ted Bundy) than a nerdy doctor who saves lives. That's a tough one. Does Ted say he loves me? That he won't kill me?
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 12:06 PM
6

That wasn't an exaggeration. It happens entirely too frequently.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 11:42 AM
8

Agreed, this is one of those instances you can say NAWALT with out sarcasm.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 03:09 PM
1

You should have realized that his sexual strategy is not the same as yours, and that plate spinning is the better choice. Emphasis mine
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 01:52 AM
2

Other than she didn't give birth to his child.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 10:02 PM
1

She can't just add his name to the birth certificate. He'd either have to sign something saying he was the father, a court ordering a paternity test and legally finding him to be the father, or the couple being married at the time of the birth or conception. Otherwise woman could go around adding Elvis to birth certificates.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 10:00 PM
2

It's his strategy and his choice. Who died and made you king to decide what he wants? I'm sure there are MGTOW that think you're stupid for bothering to spin plates, just like RPW tells young ladies to avoid ONS and becoming plates.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 09:55 PM
3

She forgot a bit. The captain has the final say. It's the first mate's duty to follow the captain's command and support his decisions. But the captain takes responsibility for his decisions-the buck stops with him.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 09:52 PM
1

So he was having an emotional affair with you before he split with the mother of his child? And now that he can't see his child, you expect him to commit to the home wrecker that ruined his life?
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/14 06:51 PM
4

Women often forget that after the kids grow up, it's going to be her and her husband. You're kids grow up and get lives of their own. Don't neglect your husband in the meantime; you might not have one after the kids leave if you do.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/14 03:54 PM
1

The most RP advice ITT. I'd also advise cutting off physical affection until she starts putting in some effort. Women are the gatekeepers of sex and men the gatekeepers of commitment/affection. Cut off all that warm, cuddly affirmation and either she'll get with the program or go nuclear. He's better off either way.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/14 03:48 PM
1

So this is the thread that spurred you to post about guys not posting questions here. I get it now. This is a fucking mess.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/14 03:43 PM
18

Exactly, she's his WIFE. Some how it's okay to tell a guy to downgrade or next his wife, but a woman doing the same thing to a beta makes her Satan. Only in extreme circumstances is divorce appropriate. And cheating is never appropriate.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/14 03:26 PM
79

My only gripe with trp right now is that any man asking questions about a LTR hears "well getting married was your first mistake", and "downgrade your wife to a plate! " as knee jerk reactions. Generally, these guys want to know how to save the marriage, not nuke it.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/14 01:52 PM
3

There's a very good chance she just doesn't get it. I'm with Dana on this one. She can't think about how dangerous your job is without losing it. I can feel her. I broke up with a really great guy before Mr Strom because of his hazardous job. The longer we dated, the more I cared for him, the more neurotic I got when I thought about it. You need to talk to someone. I'd recommend one of your male friends.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/14 02:03 PM
10

I don't know about that. Mr Strom loves it when I dress slutty in public and we've been married for 7 years, together for 11.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/14 02:35 AM
1

I think pampering and smothering will ruin any person. That's how you end up with children trapped in adult bodies. That said, I think you can go too far the other way as well. There's a line that needs to be walked between too permissive and too protective.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/14 12:57 AM
3

First, you're in the wrong sub. /r/redpillwomen is much better suited to you. This space is more for the guys. Second, it's not about a number, it's about taking care of yourself and being the best woman you can be.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 02:18 AM
1

Dress size in women's clothing isn't a reliable indicator of anything. Depending on the brand, I wear anywhere from a 2 to a 14. Waist size and hip-to-waist ratio are far better indicators of health.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 02:00 AM
2

Without explicitly asking going to change his behavior, you're hinting about what you want. That's a covert contract. You can't make deals with him in your head. "I like doing the dishes while I'm making dinner. She how much easier it is honey? " "I see what you mean baby " Later that evening~ *the woman thinks: boy, I sure am glad he agreed to do the dishes my way! That went so much better than I thought it would! *the man thinks: I wonder why she's been to needy lately? Like she needs to be to…
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/14 09:36 PM
1

Not according to Mr Strom.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/14 04:34 PM
2

Some one should sticky those to the side bar.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/14 04:34 PM
5

We actively discourage using covert contacts. Either you make a request for change or you don't. The ONLY thing you're doing by hinting around is creating more drama and complications when he doesn't catch on.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/14 04:25 PM
5

We actively discourage using covert contacts. Either you make a request for change or you don't. The ONLY thing you're doing by hinting around is creating more drama and complications when he doesn't catch on.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/14 04:25 PM
1

I have had this problem as well. I've found that taking the time to phrase things like I would for my grandmother helps. When you catch yourself starting to curse, rephrase what you want to say and really focus on what's coming out of your mouth. It gets easier.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/14 04:03 PM
9

Lose weight. It'll help with the symptoms. Low carb diets work will with pcos. This thingy works like electric tweezers. It hurts, but they work really well. http://m.remingtonproducts.com/womens/HairRemoval/Epilators/Smooth-and-Silky-Essential-Epilator.aspx Lose weight.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/14 02:51 PM
4

Because she's not making a case for modesty for modesty's sake, she's freaking out because there are younger, more attractive women on the planet that her husband might be attracted to. At this point, these ladies she's complaining about could be dressed modestly, but attractively and she'd still complain. I see women like her all the time. They're the ones who hit their husbands when a pretty, modestly or immodestly dressed, lady walks by because he dared to look at her. Men are visual creature…
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/14 02:07 PM
3

I wonder how many of those young ladies are in his spank bank. I'll bet she's only having starfish sex with him, if she has sex with him at all.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/14 01:54 PM
2

All women are slaves to their emotions. This lady's problem is that her husband is the more attractive partner by what is probably 2 or 3 points on a 1-10 scale. If she could get out of her own way and lose some weight she could close that gap and improve her marriage. But she's probably given up because she thinks it's a lost cause.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/14 01:52 PM
5

Bwahaha! That's hilarious! I'm fat and insecure. I worry that my husband doesn't find me attractive anymore, but not enough to do 7 minute abs.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/14 12:48 PM
2

Pulling out is not an effective birth control method. There is often sperm in precum. It only takes one little swimmer to make it through. And even one drop of precum can have MILLIONS of sperm in it.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 03:26 PM
1

Female= hostess Male= host
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/14 01:56 PM
1

And where were you going to find a sane woman? I may not be making out with my brother, but even I am a bit crazy. Spoiler alert: I don't drink blood either. But I did have an eating disorder, and you know what they say about girls with eating disorders.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 11:34 AM
1

I must be too young to remember that. That's too messed up to make up.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 11:16 AM
2

Owen Wilson's nose is like viagra for women. Hell, the only reason I watched hockey in the 90s was to watch the fights and fantasize about Chris Osgood.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 02:21 AM
3

I liked The Care and Feeding of Husbands. I've bought at least three copies and given them away after reading them. But Dana's cliff notes are cheaper than the book and so much more to the point. Succinct I think is the word I'm looking for.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/14 01:40 AM
1

I wear mine over sweaters, dresses, shirts, under the sweater but over the shirt... the possibilities are endless! :-D
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/14 11:16 PM
3

I'd argue reaching out to the comfortable friend is a direct consequence of the birth control. Hormonal birth control messes not only with libido, but who a female is attracted to.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/14 07:09 PM
7

But how does she look at pictures of cats if she's not on Reddit?
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/14 07:01 PM
2

I feel like I've posted this already this week.... Hmm.... http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/2011/12/tim-gunns-10-essential-wardrobe-items-for-2012/ My white shirt is beige and sleeveless. And my blazer is actually a cardigan. To be fair, I own several cardigans. Never underestimate the power of CZ studs or a set of pearls to pull together a look. Every lady needs a wide black belt. It can make the difference between frumpy and shapely. I also recommend a red belt. Dresses, dresses and more …
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/14 06:58 PM
2

Kitten heels are always a good alternative. They realistically aren't any higher than most tennis shoes, but look feminine and put together.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/14 06:49 PM
3

I'm a 33 year old house wife. I have plenty of time to Reddit. But you're correct, I doubt young college 9s are spending much time here. They're on Facebook and Pinterest. I didn't say 9s date 5s. I said 9s don't get as much attention as you would think they would. But u would say a m7 with game could easily bag a f9. Just remember that women and men are judged differently. Angelina was married to Billy Bob Thorton for three years.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 04:51 PM
1

As a former 9, I promise you I was rarely approached. I get hit on more now that I'm starting to show my age then I ever did at 25. The reason 9s are so nice when they turn you down is because they're honestly pleased that you approached them. Even now, I blush and say thank you but I'm married.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 02:48 PM
2

One of my friends did the same thing to my (now) husband. He never liked her. She was a fat annoying lumberjack. I'm no longer friends with her because of this incident. She had taken her car some where she wasn't supposed to and her car got scratched. They had a few run-ins two years before. He had moved into a neighboring school district and had actually graduated from the other school the year before. To cover her ass, she told her father she saw Mr Strom key her car. Her father called the po…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 02:30 PM
1

You're right that the more attractive women are nicer, but wrong about why. 9s and 10s aren't approached often. Because they don't get as much attention, they tend to be more level headed. Edit: since when did classic beauty models look like men? One of the most agreed upon markers for female beauty is having .75 waist to hip ratio, meaning her waist is 3/4 the size of her hips. Men typically have waists almost as large as their hips.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 11:40 AM
1

Where did he say anything about her not being affected by the wall?
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 11:33 AM
3

Was that the chick who got bent out of shape because one of my posts didn't mention god?
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/14 01:49 AM
7

I always thought the personality traits he loved in me included my above average intelligence and ability to succeed at (most) things I commit to. Now I realise that may be true, but what's wrong with wanting to be the best 'first mate' I can possibly be? I can now measure my success (and sense of fulfillment) in different terms. Exactly! You're going to be an awesome mom with such a wonderful attitude. Welcome to the fold!
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/14 03:33 PM
2

Looks like you got some great responses. I'd like to add that /r/abrathatfits will make all your clothes look better. Once you have a couple bras, get Tim Gunn's essentials. http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/2011/12/tim-gunns-10-essential-wardrobe-items-for-2012/ My white shirt is beige and instead of a blazer I have 54,482 cardigans. But the list is a great jumping off point.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/14 09:50 AM
2

Kandee Johnson has a 5 minute make up video. BB cream, blush, concealer, mascara, and eyes, iirc.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/14 09:41 AM
2

Flint did! They called him The Poopertrater!
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 11:48 PM
14

And when was the last time you were fucked by a man with a 12" dick? That's what I thought. You haven't. He's the real truth: Size matters, but not as much as you think. Getting fucked by an average (4-6") penis is by far the best of both worlds. Big enough to feel when is inside, but small enough to take the whole thing in your mouth or butt. So long as the guy isn't 12" long with girth to match, or a micro penis, we care far more about your confidence in using your member. Guys with big dicks …
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 11:59 AM
1

Whatever response you pick, practice saying it out loud. You'll be less likely to freeze up and say nothing if you have something ready. Practice makes perfect!
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/14 09:24 PM
2

Of all the comments I've ever made on Reddit, this is not the one I expected to be told that I was lucky in response.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/14 08:35 PM
1

Maybe it's because I get enough sex from Mr Strom, but Ramsey Snow is fucking creepy. Now Jon Snow in the other hand....
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 01:59 PM
2

I like (Tim Gunn's list of clothing every woman should have)[ http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/2011/12/tim-gunns-10-essential-wardrobe-items-for-2012/] Hopefully I remembered the formatting code correctly and that shows up as a hyperlink. Edit: stupid phone I have at least five black dresses,and five day dresses. My white shirt is beige. Instead of a blazer, I have half a dozen cardigans. My trench coat is just a classic leather jacket. My sweatsuit alternative is a dress, well four of them…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/14 01:26 PM
2

You're very welcome
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/14 02:52 AM
2

I can't read it :-( Stupid phone
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/14 01:54 AM
2

Try focusing on things about him that you do respect. Is he frugal? Dependable? Trustworthy? Hardworking? Handy? Intelligent? A good father? Make a list in a journal of every good, respectable quality he has. And every night, write about something he did that day that is worthy of your respect. If this gets monotonous, write about something that was sexy, manly, or something that made you love him more. The point of this exercise is to retrain yourself to think of him in a positive light. Hopefu…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/14 01:51 AM
11

So he stopped smoking pot?
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/14 09:07 PM
1

That sounds fairly rp to me. He has boundaries.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/14 09:06 PM
1

My dad is completely awesome. I grew up in the burbs on a lake. Every summer during shut down we'd go camping up north with my grandparents and aunts and uncles. He is the head of the house. What dad said was law, mostly. I'm still daddy's little girl. I can honestly say, I have no daddy issues. Mommy issues are another story though.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/14 12:36 PM
1

Two years is a long time. It's even longer when you're not WITH the person you're with. Can you transfer to a school near him? Does the job you're aiming for absolutely require a degree? Its a shame how many young people are going into debt for degrees that aren't getting them jobs. More so for young women, many of whom end up becoming homemakers with student loan debt. It's up to you if you decide to try it. Personally, I'm not that strong.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/14 11:13 PM
1

Can I ask what your ultimate life plan is? How I answer your question depends on where you see yourself in 10 years.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/14 09:35 PM
2

Sounds like you need to be single. Seriously. You need to work on yourself and become the kind of woman that will inspire a man to be his best self. This sub is about self improvement -NOT how to change the man you are with. If he's not "good enough" for you, then I suggest you leave the poor man alone.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/14 09:33 PM
2

Personally, I take it as a compliment. But Mr. Strom is very good at not realizing it when women are throwing themselves at him. And really, it makes me want him, knowing other women would like to have him.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/14 02:06 PM
2

Roflmao @ your disclaimer
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/14 02:01 PM
1

And... was there a direction you wanted the discussion to go?
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/14 07:34 PM
3

Start treating yourself like a ten. Act like a ten. Become a ten. You don't need her. If she leaves, you can date younger, hotter women who will appreciate you. If she stays, you don't have to go through a divorce. Either way, you win.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 12:52 PM
1

That's why you need to date ladies younger than you. 5-10 years younger will buy you a few more years to build smv and she'll still be hot. For example, she's 25 and you're 32.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 11:27 PM
2

I think it's a good analogy. Just some most women are dumb.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/14 05:51 PM
1

Personally, I think where you meet sets the tone for the relationship. Meeting a girl at the bar or club is just asking for trouble. Nice girls go there to hang out with their girlfriends, not meet a guy. Try joining a rock climbing club, gym, or CO-Ed sports team if that's your thing. Visit the library. Check out what's in her grocery cart while picking up a few of your own. (If it wasn't for the fact that I'm already married, I'd have met several candidates in the produce section. I'm convince…
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/14 12:54 AM
6

(fewer) Sorry about my grammar Nazism.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/14 10:07 PM
5

I retract my previous statement. She'll come around eventually. Or not. Either way, you should be happy with who you are.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 11:18 PM
11

Sounds like you need to stop being her doormat.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 10:50 PM
2

Health conscious people will have lots of fruit and vegetables. Parents of small children will have diapers and baby food. Party boys and girls will have more alcohol than average. Even the type of alcohol says something. Cheap beer? Probably broke. Expensive beer? Better taste and/or better job. Bottle of Chablis? Probably a good cook, or is learning to cook. Even things like how they dress to go grocery shopping can be indicative of their general attire/attitude towards life. If he's in staine…
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/14 12:55 AM
1

You're just so sweet and exemplify what a RPW should aspire to.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/14 02:52 PM
1

This is why I love you.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/14 02:23 PM
3

1) How can I get the long hair without sacrificing looking good? (I have extremely unruly hair and simply cannot just let it air dry) Start supplementing with biotin or a hair and nail vitamin. It'll help your hair grow faster. Also switch to a gentler shampoo. I recommend Euphora. 2) How can I start to build a makeup base/what are some basics I should buy? BB cream, blush and mascara. I'm currently using Stilla BB cream, Be A Bombshell blush, and CK One mascara. 3) How can I be more feminine da…
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/14 02:19 PM
3

You would have had more success had you taken her home with you. Abused women often won't leave until there is a viable, safe, attractive alternative.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/14 01:23 PM
4

I'd rather be happy than right. If it's not important, I let it go. Sometimes that's extremely difficult to do, but it's worth it. Edit: autocorrect is stupid.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/14 04:08 PM
10

I have a friend with a PhD who had established her career several years before marrying her current husband. Her PhD and several published papers are in her maiden name. It makes sense for her to keep her name for those purposes.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/14 01:29 PM
-1

Don't you stick your tongue in her mouth? Logically speaking, there isn't any difference.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 11:23 PM
14

There's a reason the "strong & silent" type is so attractive-it puts women's hamsters into overdrive trying to figure out if you're attracted to her. When used properly, this leads to her jumping through hoops to earn your approval.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 04:07 PM
13

I thought judgments had to be repaid as a part of bankruptcies. Either way, going through a bankruptcy isn't pleasant. Though I hope she gets denied if she files for one. Bitch should be made to pay for the rest of her life.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 12:44 PM
3

Deal.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/14 11:53 PM
2

Alpha and beta are behaviors. No one is purely one or the other. Alpha behaviors create sexual attraction and beta security. Trp has more on that in the sidebar and SH posted a great meta on it a few months ago.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/14 11:17 PM
18

This is RPW; we focus on long term relationships, not plate spinning. For a healthy ltr, the man needs to balance alpha and beta behaviors.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/14 02:50 PM
2

But then again, so will Reddit. ;-)
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/14 10:41 PM
8

Yup. Mr Strom hasn't bought his own clothes in YEARS.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/14 10:38 PM
1

Good find!
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/14 12:37 PM
2

I wear hosiery occasionally, but mostly in the winter. I don't like being cold.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/14 12:48 PM
2

Victoria's Secret carries them both ways.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/14 12:47 PM
11

That and died of infections afterwards, but that's a lack of modern medicine, not from physical activity. Moderate exercise had been proven safe for otherwise healthy pregnant women.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 06:19 PM
21

Shut the fuck up with your broscience. Women who lift weights during pregnancy have easier births and recover much quicker than lazy, fat bodies who lay about and eat Twinkies. Women just need to modify the exercises after the second trimester to avoid dropping a weight on her stomach, stay off her back, and reduce the risk of falling. What do you think women did before all of our modern conveniences? The cows still had to be milked, the horses fed, blah blah blah.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 05:28 PM
0

Wealth does both. It signals social status and that you have the means to provide for children.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 12:43 AM
-1

All women want a man with means. Some more than others. Don't fool yourself into thinking otherwise. We aren't all gold diggers, but we are all silver or bronze diggers.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 12:42 AM
2

Mr Strom likes French tips on my fingers and bright reds and pinks on my toes. I do shellac myself on my fingers and plain old polish on my toes. I used to do gel overlay on my nails, but have started supplementing with biotin and my nails are much stronger and longer now. As for what you wear to work, as long as you don't go to work looking like Robin Sparkles, you should be fine. If you type a lot, it will help to keep you nails shorter than the ends of your fingers. Otherwise your nails will …
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/14 11:11 PM
3

http://www.bravissimo.com/m/pepperberry/#?/ Not sure if the hyperlink will work, I'm on my phone. But I really like this site. They give you your size based on your waist, then modify it for your bust and overall shape (hourglass, etc). It's a bit expensive, but worth it to have clothes that fit.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/14 06:22 PM
2

Yes we do. If you've been fired from every job for something stupid like tardiness or sleeping on the job, I care. If you're working your way up the corporate ladder and have a promising future, I care. These things are indicative of you future career potential/social status. At least smart women look at these things.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 03:53 PM
1

I promise to visit when I get home next week, Mom. I left my laptop at home. Next week, I promise.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/14 12:47 AM
2

On YouTube, the are table manner lessons. You could learn to eat continental style, with your fork in your left hand.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/14 12:17 PM
0

RPW love beards. Just not hipster beards.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 01:08 AM
0

Sportsinjuryclinic.net On my phone, so I don't know if that will hyperlink or not.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 01:02 AM
4

Can we recruit her?
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/14 11:52 PM
4

In order to have someone hear your message, you have to speak to them on their level. Neil deGrass Tyson can't talk to me about astrophysics in scientific terms. He has to talk in layman's terms. The same principle applies here. If we want feminists to hear our message, we have to speak in terms that they will understand. Tl;dr: the red pill is bitter but can be made more palatable.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/14 12:03 PM
4

I can read Trebek.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 05:48 PM
3

You should definitely talk to him about it. I don't have much drive either. It's an accomplishment if I finish a long term project within a year of my original deadline.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/14 01:47 PM
9

That's the definition of solipsism.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/14 10:45 PM
2

My friend went there last night to tan and decided to hop on a treadmill. She noped out of there when she found Tootsie Rolls in the cup holder. I laughed so hard I cried as she was telling me about it. I almost peed myself when she told me it was pizza night at PF.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/14 08:22 PM
2

ROFLMAO! I love it!
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/14 02:08 PM
3

Mr Strom works out of town quite regularly. He's gone just long enough for me to mid him like crazy, then he comes home and we make like bunnies for a few days. He leaves and I cry. Rinse and repeat. Truthfully, I like winter because he's home. The rest of the year can suck an egg.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/14 02:25 AM
3

To keep the baby oil of the floor/sheets
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/14 01:24 PM
6

Lol!
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/14 03:51 PM
12

Two things: dollar store shower curtain, baby oil. You're welcome.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/14 03:43 PM
2

Yes it can. And it's free. You just add "users".
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 12:38 PM
7

There's an app called My Days. It tracks menstruation and ovulation.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 12:32 AM
2

According to her wiki page, Meg hasn't been active in the music scene in several years.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/14 02:25 PM
1

Exactly. Eventually your children will leave you to have their own lives. Your SO is your partner for LIFE.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/14 07:23 AM
2

Why are you so insecure? Figure that out first. Then work on it. Overweight? East healthier and exercise. Feel ugly? Learn to apply makeup. Look frumpy? Buy some new clothes. While you're at it, learn to cook a new dish and read a non fiction book. You don't have to approach men. If you make eye contact and smile demurely at them , you've signaled your interest. If he's interested and confident enough, he will approach you.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/14 07:00 AM
2

The problem with the GI Bill that recruiters don't tell you, is that it only pays for certain degrees. Granted, those degrees are chosen in part because of the job outlooks in those fields. But don't think that you can join, and get your off the wall degree when you're done.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 08:01 PM
1

I don't know what that was, but the next time she says that tell her you can give her all the attention and love she can handle, then take her to Pound Town. Screw her brains out. Don't worry if she's enjoying it or not. Grunt, talk dirty, and pull her hair. When you're done, lay her head on your chest and play with her hair. You'll be killing two birds with one stone. She'll know who's boss and feel safe.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 01:57 AM
2

"because they're worth it"
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 12:11 AM
0

Do you know why divorces cost so much?
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 10:04 PM
6

I must hate myself. :-\ Seriously though, I'm red and wouldn't have it any other way. My best friends are also red. We have amazing relationships with our husbands and will bend over backwards to keep them happy.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 07:49 PM
1

Can you elaborate? It's hard to tell from your post is she's fitness or loyalty testing you. If you're applying too much dread, she'll likely give up trying to please you. She'll sound and look sad/mopey when she asks if you still love her. That's a loyalty test. She needs reassuring. If you've been too... well, I beta, it's a fitness test and you should react accordingly. A good rogering should do the trick.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 07:34 PM
8

That's disgusting. You should get new friends.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/14 02:20 PM
9

I've had my orbiters. Some I've realized that's what they were, offers not until after the fact. I'd rather not have any. When I was young, I thought men and women could be friends. Now I know better. They can be hard to get rid off without turning on ultracunt mode.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/14 02:11 PM
3

I'm with you. Even if he's not getting on the side, who would want to spend the rest of their life knowing the best sex of their relationship was behind them?
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/14 02:56 PM
3

If those kids are at home, good luck getting anything to stay clean for more than 20 minutes. Children are remarkably adept at dirtying dishes, tracking mud/sand, projectile vomiting, and just plain sucking up large quantities of time.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 11:11 AM
3

They sound jealous that they didn't do the same as you. Crab mentality at it best. You're fine. There's nothing wrong with being a virgin. Keep your head up.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/14 01:42 AM
11

Tbh, men generally have greater earning potential. So it makes sense for the man to work outside the home and the woman to stay home. After all, men don't need to take time off work to recoup from childbirth.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 07:39 PM
27

Not to mention that with the wife at home taking care of the house and children, the husband is free to put more time and energy into his career. Its a partnership, each with their own role to play. A good partnership plays to the partners strengths and weaknesses. That isn't sexist or misogynist. It's common sense.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 07:06 PM
6

I'm alive and my son has a mother because of modern medicine. Yeah, piss on the patriarchy.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 06:21 PM
12

Choking on a bag of dicks is her weekend schedule. I blew coffee out my nose.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 07:36 PM
13

Tell your sister to choke on a bag of dicks. Edit: You are an adult. You don't have to talk to your sister, especially if she's being a bitch. First, you should probably tell her that you are happy and that there's nothing degrading about your husband taking the leadership role. You trust him. He loves you. Where's the problem?
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 06:41 PM
1

My daddy is awesome. That is all. Edit: I was sitting in traffic. I'll explain now. My dad was 30 when I was born. Add in that he's 10 years older than my mom, and I'm sure you can see where this is going. My dad's word was LAW when I was growing up. On the other hand, I was daddy's little girl (still am).To this day, I still call him Daddy and will bake for him so he can cheat on his diet. (I bake a mean apple pie. )
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 01:17 PM
1

Sounds like you need to meet new people.
/r/AlreadyRed24/04/14 08:14 PM
3

I can see why you'd feel that way. Personally, my hobbies are my "me" time. He can go visit his friends, work on some thing in the garage, chop down a tree, or whatever else he wants to go do. I don't need to be up his ass 24/7. And I like it that my hobbies can be set down for a time so I can focus on something else, like when his grandma was in the hospital and I was there every day for what felt like forever. Edit: besides, it's a hobby. I have more important things to do most of the time.
/r/AlreadyRed24/04/14 08:09 PM
2

The fact that women have monthly menstrual cycles proves men and women are biologically different. That's a big part of the reason we have different drives and motivations. This is TRP at its most basic level.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 03:33 PM
13

Some of the women's medical studies do need to be done. Men and women are biologically different. Medications affect us differently. We have different signs/symptoms for heart attacks! Which leads me to my mini-rant: I'm sick and tired of breast cancer awareness. Heart disease is the single biggest killer of women because women don't know the signs/symptoms. All that money that's going to breast cancer awareness should be going to educate men and women of the signs/symptoms of both genders!
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 03:29 PM
1

Hypergamy! Of course she was flirting with the Senator. She's having "issues" with her boyfriend (read: he's failing too many shit tests) and is looking to upgrade. Men, learn to recognize and how to pass shit tests!
/r/AlreadyRed24/04/14 02:22 PM
10

Most women don't have actual hobbies. Some do though. Here's the kicker: female hobbies often are boring as getting a dental cleaning to men. I knit, crochet, and sew. I enjoy these activities. But in no way shape or form do I expect Mr Strom to enjoy them with me. If we're doing something together it's usually riding our motorcycle, traveling, boating, having sex, or watching TV.
/r/AlreadyRed24/04/14 01:48 PM
3

Some one coughdanacough should invite her to join RPW. She's just the kind of practical, unselfish, lady we need!
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/14 01:20 PM
11

I can't condone lying. Especially not to your husband. We can't, as RPW, endorse dishonesty or a frigid marital bed. If you did it for some random asshole, you better be willing to do it for your husband. It is cruel to give yourself freely to a stranger but not to the man to promised to love for the rest of your life.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/14 01:13 AM
7

Have him try /r/AlreadyRed. Its not nearly as bitter. Mostly veterans.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/14 01:03 AM
1

I was thinking they could get face cancer, or maybe DIAF.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/14 01:01 AM
1

In all honesty, I'm not worried much about my friends and family finding out I'm red. What I am slightly worried about (to the point of not even discussing where I'm from with SH) is SRS/TBP finding out who I am IRL. I don't need a stalker.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/14 12:59 AM
2

You guys need to join /r/fatlogic. I saw this there yesterday. Nothing but fat women with cardio bunnies for hamsters. It's a riot.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 01:41 PM
1

Yeah. Thanks. :-(
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 02:07 PM
4

That was his sole semi brave act. He's lucky I didn't tell my father. My father swung a hammer in a foundry. And I'm still my father's daughter.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 06:43 PM
1

Haha. I love all of them.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/14 05:06 PM
9

I was in love (well, as in love as a 16 year old girl can get) with Josh. I wanted to be his June Cleaver. We'll call Josh 's best friend Sally, cause he was a giant pussy. I had Sally in the friend zone. He was generally in dire need of a hair cut and a shower. Very needy. We'd hang out occasionally, but nothing serious. I didn't even let him pay for stuff because I didn't want him thinking anything was up. Sally invited me over to watch a movie one night. I thought Josh was going to be there. …
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 04:54 PM
1

ass and titties. Now i have that song in my head
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 04:17 PM
1

Get some lotion. At least invest in some KY.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 04:06 PM
3

My first boyfriend was beta. I hated him. I hated the sneaky, snake like way he became my boyfriend. 18 years later I still can't stand him.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 03:56 PM
3

All of them?
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/14 03:33 PM
19

Good catch! Its too bad for him though, she'll wonder what happened to her bad boy when he puts her on the pedestal, then drop him like a bag of shit.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 03:32 PM
25

You seriously need to adopt the mantra "If it happens to me, it is my fault". This really does sound like she lost her attraction to you. She was attracted to you. She wanted to have your baby. So she got pregnant. Then what happened? She went from being your wife to The Mother of Your Child. You swooned and started giving her everything she wanted. You doted on her and put her on a pedestal. You became her beta bux. What else was she supposed to do? You put her so high up she had no choice but …
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/14 01:22 PM
2

Can you explain that with more detail? I'm not tracking.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/14 12:33 PM
15

All women have the potential to be a RPW. You have to be red pill first though and keep her attracted to you. Some women just require less game. The first step is to improve yourself. Your wife left you not because she felt trapped, but because she wasn't attracted to you anymore. Get the MMSL Primer and the Map. Once you're confident and are outcome independent you'll be ready for another ltr.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/14 12:22 PM
2

I quit six years ago on tax day. I used that book and the patch for two days. It was easy.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/14 05:37 PM
5

Hold the phone. That wasn't satire? Fml
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/14 01:32 AM
4

Welcome! RPW is more of a mind set than a goal. Read Little Women, Marmee is the ultimate RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/14 02:06 PM
23

All women are not whores. All women are hypergamous. All women have hamsters. NAWALT is not a catch-all magic word that changes meanings depending on how you feel.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 01:57 PM
2

As you should. I don't care if a guy wants to spin plates, but I will be damned if I'm going to be one of them.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/14 01:23 PM
1

I blame autodidact autocorrect
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/14 04:30 PM
2

Lol, Anthol Kay is his name. He's from New Zealand, so he's a kiwi.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/14 03:49 PM
1

I love Anthol!
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/14 03:23 PM
4

Be careful these "shit tests" aren't "loyalty tests". They look very similar. Mmsl has a blog post about the difference. I'm on my phone, so linking would be a pain. But if she's loyalty testing you and you're treating them like shit tests, she'll pull away and stop trying to please you because she's given up. She'll think there's nothing she can do to make you happy. So why try?
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/14 03:22 PM
1

Start tracking your plates' monthly flow. From there you can figure out when she's ovulating. Women are crazy horny when they're ovulating. There are apps to help you track it. Then show up the day before she ovulates.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 01:13 PM
1

What kind of crazy is really the most important issue. You'll never find a truly sane woman. All you can hope for its one whose crazy you can live with/ train.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 01:03 PM
3

That plastic surgeon better be filling my boobs with unicorn jizz for $20k. I got a quote to have my tummy tucked (stretch marks from having a baby), and boobs lifted and topped off for $8500. Iirc, that included hospital fees.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 01:01 PM
1

Roflmao. By the title I was saying "well no shit. At any given moment 25% of women (of child bearing age) are premenstrual" Add in the 3-4 days we're ovulating (if she's not on hormonal birth control ) and women are bat shit crazy damn near half the month!
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 12:57 PM
2

Its all good.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/14 12:15 AM
1

Well, he's not my husband. I believe that man is married to Mrs Storm, not Strom. ;)
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/14 12:01 AM
1

Lol! He only has one post. Is he not much of a redditor? Am I missing something?
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 11:53 PM
6

I was 22 when I started dating Mr Strom.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 11:46 PM
1

Not really. The extra 12 hours are usually while I'm sleeping.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 10:50 AM
2

For me, I didn't want to smoke anymore. I was over smelling like a dirty ashtray and just didn't want to smoke. It felt different than wanting to quit. If you can get yourself to that mindset, quitting should be easy.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 01:47 AM
1

Yeah, I might be mildly retarded today. My apologies.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 01:43 AM
2

Haha! I love the first half of that movie.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/14 05:20 PM
1

Probably water retention. Drink more water to flush it out. You'll get there, just keep on keeping on.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/14 04:36 PM
2

Popsugar has a great 10 minute booty blaster video.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/14 04:34 PM
2

Quitting smoking was the best thing I ever did (besides marrying Mr Strom).
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/14 04:33 PM
6

I could text you. Send you links to videos clips of private pile.... It could be fun!
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/14 04:31 PM
3

I'm glad I wasn't the only one who forgot.... Yoga went well. Fasting was great. 8p tonight I'll start a 36 hour fast. Planning on doing yoga 3 times this week and walking everyday for at least 30 minutes in the afternoon. And I will finish that damn dress, even if it kills me. Edit: just cleaned the entryway that I was going to do last week!
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/14 04:30 PM
7

Roxy is a cunt. I hope you told her so.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 04:20 PM
10

Privacy is for pooping and surprises.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/14 12:00 PM
1

... GPS trackers... but I use mine. Mostly when I'm excited for him to get home from work and I want to count down the miles or if I'm trying to plan a surprise and want to make sure everything is timed right. That is genius! I'm going to have to get one of those!
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/14 11:57 AM
1

But why does the genius have to be a shrew? The assumption was that the genius was unattractive and a shrew.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/14 10:31 AM
1

She's an alpha widow now. Yes she's broken, but she will chase those feelings she had for the rest of her life.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/14 10:29 AM
3

Yeah, I guess I don't understand why the genius has to be ugly to be unattractive - her shrewish personality would be unattractive enough. So I'm a shrew? I score around 135-140. If anything, I realize how much I have left to learn and am humbled by the universe.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/14 11:38 PM
1

Most people don't have the fortitude to make major changes in their lives and feel guilty when some one else does. It's much easier to be angry with some one else than it is to admit that you need improving, then talking the appropriate steps.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 06:33 PM
6

Raylan Givens from Justified.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 02:57 PM
2

Don Draper. Love that show.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 02:52 PM
3

The guys after you. Its up to you if you want her back or not, but her hamster appears to be a cardio bunny. You'll need a strong frame to keep her from going nuclear. Good luck.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/14 01:35 AM
3

Yes! His head is currently on my lap. He's watching a movie while I Reddit.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/14 12:27 AM
3

Mr Strom has me do the same stuff! I love hanging out with him. He works out of town a lot so we gobble up every spare second we can.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/14 12:25 AM
3

I'm with Dana. You have no commitment from this man. You have no responsibility to him. Live your life. Read books, learn to cook a couple of really great dishes, and become "the one" for a wonderful man. If you're available when he gets out then you can decide then, but don't wait around for some one who can't give you a commitment.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/14 11:58 PM
6

The core of the redpill is sleeping with women. I disagree. The core of redpill is understanding women. Its more than just understanding women. Its understanding the basic natures of men and women, and the differences between the two. You can use RP theory to improve all of your interpersonal relationships, provided you're willing to put the time and energy required. Men can use RP to get promotions at work, spin plates, get married, improve friendships, just to name a few. And women can do the …
/r/AlreadyRed05/04/14 11:26 PM
2

You need to remember that we are not TRP. We are not talking about plates or MGTOW. RPW's goal is happy LTRs. Behavior that is acceptable to a guy spinning plates is not the same behavior of a married man. We endorse a Captain/First Mate model. That model requires a high level of mutual respect and cooperation. If I see a young lady being treated like a plate when she wants to be a wife, I'll tell her to ditch the guy and find one interested in a LTR.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/14 10:43 PM
7

Yup. Personally, at 19 OP might want to consider losing the weight even if she dumps the boyfriend. She'll be happier and healthier for it. Best to have since wiggle room in case shit hits the fan.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/14 09:14 PM
2

Some subs you assign your own flair. Some subs the mods do it. Here, the mods assign flair. If you've been around a while, you can message a mod and ask.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/14 09:08 PM
1

Check your flair.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/14 08:27 PM
1

RP Man gives you slightly better cred here. It means you aren't a total newbie but are still learning the ropes.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/14 08:26 PM
2

I think maybe OP and her man might have a personality mismatch.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/14 05:48 PM
1

Really? To each their own. Mr Strom loves it that I'm just as interested in sex as he is. But he doesn't obsess over anything. He's very laid back.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/14 05:36 PM
1

She'd be better off just interrupting his game with a blow job. Or walking around naked.Give him the sex without strings and he'll repay you ten fold.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/14 04:09 PM
1

Thank you. He's worth it.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/14 09:37 PM
3

Saying some women have larger "mine" nets isn't the same as NAWALT. And you know that. You're picking apart what I said, unnecessary. So yeah, you seem bitter.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 09:30 PM
3

Doing something a handful of times doesn't make it a habit, so no. But he'd he in deep shit for a while.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/14 09:24 PM
2

I had to stop and think about how old I was when we got married. Lol 24%
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/14 06:25 PM
7

I consider my brother and my husband's friends to be "mine". I give them rp advice on a regular basis and bake cookies for them etc As a woman... blah, blah, blah, blah, hamster..... wow just wow! Who we claim varies by individual. NAWALT Blah blah blah I'm a bitter asshole Ftfw
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 05:44 PM
20

Exactly, it's my job to take care of the castle while he's out slaying dragons.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 04:22 PM
5

I consider my brother and my husband's friends to be "mine". I give them rp advice on a regular basis and bake cookies for them etc. Who we claim varies by individual.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 04:12 PM
4

I love my husband, and I've stuck with him through downsizing and him deciding no kids (we have one a piece from previous marriages but none together, which I had my heart set on). However, if he decides that a heroine habit sounds like a good idea, I'll bail.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/14 03:24 PM
31

Well fuck her. I'm a damn good housewife and support my husband by keeping a nice house, cooking his favorite meals and taking care of our kids so he can comfortably go out and have a successful career.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 03:02 PM
15

Fuck other people. 24 is a great age to have a baby. After 30 your risk of birth defects goes up drastically. Starting at 24 gives you time to have two or three kids with space to breath in between before you turn 30.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/14 02:30 PM
3

My TiVo box is YouTube ready. I do videos from Pop Sugar and Elkhart yoga on a regular basis. My favorite workout is yoga first thing in the morning, before anyone else is up. It's so quiet and centering. Sun salutations working through warrior 1-3 and reverse warrior. Amazing stuff
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/14 10:25 PM
2

My shallow husband thinks my vanity is wonderful.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/14 10:18 PM
4

There's nothing redpill about it. I'm vain and have good genetics. And when I was 25, I looked 18. I could have made a fortune in barely-legal porn.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/14 10:06 PM
2

Wear a head band; it'll make you look 5 years younger.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/14 08:24 PM
4

They've all known me since I was 16. I married my high school crush; we still have mostly the same friends as we did back then. I've known my best friend since junior high. So for the most part, it's not a big deal.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/14 07:05 PM
1

CIV iii. But not often, I'm pretty busy sewing and baking.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/14 06:49 PM
5

33 but I look 25, drinking tons of water and getting 60% of my calories from fat. I'm 5'7" 135# and bacon is my friend.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/14 06:16 PM
3

If you read trp's side bar and listen to the mods, women have whatever value an individual man chooses to assign to them. Trp supports whatever sexual strategy a man chooses, whether it be ltr, plate spinning, or mgtow.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/14 01:59 PM
1

"be the kind of man the ladies you want are attracted to" would be better.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 07:13 PM
4

He sounds like a keeper to me. My husband was in much the same situation, tattooed and a sealed minor record. Now he's in his 30s, with a bald spot and a mortgage. He's still spontaneous and a ridiculous amount fun. That's the great thing about men, the usually get better with age.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/14 07:02 PM
3

Former divorced mother here. There are tons of awesome answers here, looking at Dana and Baker. If you are a single mother and want to find a good husband, date single dads. Also, realize that you are not as desirable as you were before the child came along. Adjust you game accordingly. Be the best mother and potential wife you can be. You need to bring your A Game to compete with the childless women your age.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/14 02:42 PM
1

Unless it's Cosmos with NdT! Which reminds me, I have an episode of Cosmos to watch!
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/14 02:37 PM
1

If he's hanging out with you alone, he's already attracted to you. Now start touching his arm when you talk and putting yourself within kissing distance. Unless his mother has his balls in her purse, he'll "make the first move".
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/14 02:18 PM
2

Last week, I managed yoga just once. I need to start going to bed earlier so I can get up in time on the weeks my son is home. So this week I want to: Do yoga 5 times for at least 15 minutes Deep clean entryway Fast for 18 hours, three days.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/14 01:54 PM
5

You should read "Little Women". It's full of pearls of wisdom.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/14 01:48 PM
5

Mr Strom is only 2.5 years older than me. Being closer in age isn't bad.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/14 01:44 PM
7

The internet.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/14 01:40 PM
2

You obviously haven't learned a damn thing in your months in RPW. You need to stop. You just let your hamster word puke all over.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 02:43 PM
6

Shh! We don't need or want concern trolls in RPW.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 02:41 PM
3

A nicely cut pair of yoga pants do wonders for your butt. And a touch of mascara and blush work wonders for giving an awake, but no make up look.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/14 11:39 AM
2

McDonalds Well there's your problem. McDonalds adds sugar to everything, even the buns and salad dressing.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 01:59 PM
2

That's what I told myself too! And once you start, you lose track of time and 30 minutes later you feel amazing and can go clean or walk, anything really, for hours!
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/14 12:57 AM
2

I do coconut oil fasts. I'm also partial to cream in my coffee. /r/fasting is my new favorite hang out.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/14 08:07 PM
4

My goal this week is to complete at least 15 minutes of yoga at least five times.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/14 08:03 PM
0

You're probably right. I probably don't notice most of the attention I get. I don't get a ton of attention,that I notice. Though my mother thinks going grocery shopping with me is hilarious and points out the men that are checking out my ass. So while men rarely hit on me, I probably do get looks. Really, the only men that talk to me are really old guys, think 70s and 80s. And I'll spend 45 minutes chatting them up in the grocery store.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 02:04 AM
3

8+ don't get as much attention. So any attention we get is good! And even better for you guys if she was an ugly duckling. I was on Ritalin as a kid, do I was very thin, but tall and extremely uncoordinated. It didn't occur to me as a teenager that I could have dated any boy that I wanted.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 04:29 PM
10

As a former 9, you should pursue 9s. Truly beautiful women don't get approached often. Most of us have no idea how hot we are. I'm still an age adjusted 9, but 30+ yo me just can't compete with 21 yo me. The only man willing to hit on me, other than my husband, is the autistic guy that I see at the grocery store.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 01:05 PM
2

I love the picture with #3. The look on her face is priceless.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/14 02:56 AM
2

It's nice to have a place like RPW where we can be ourselves
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/14 11:43 PM
3

If you do cross the line, we will let you know.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/14 11:27 PM
2

I didn't say you should. I meant that we need to change the degree for profit industry. If these programs weren't available, women might focus on more useful endeavors.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 02:53 PM
4

I think you're both forgetting that black men are prosecuted and then convicted at a much higher rate for identical crimes as whites. After conviction, they also receive much harsher sentences, again for identical crimes as whites.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/14 02:51 PM
5

Ikr! Thank Zeus some one with a bit of authority is speaking out. I've had enough of violent rape being lumped in with day-after regret.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/14 02:46 PM
3

The problem with that is that many/most universities are offering these bullshit degrees because they bring in money. Only women that come from money can afford degrees that don't apply to real world skills.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 02:16 PM
1

Thank you :-)
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 03:53 PM
7

You. Are. Right.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/14 11:06 AM
6

Come on over to RPW then. We're nice. Mostly.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 02:55 AM
2

Because post-wall sluts need some one to marry. And if the men their age (30+) are marrying 20-something ladies, then there won't be any men for the feminazis. They can't win fairly, so they're tripping you so they don't lose.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/14 10:05 PM
3

You can't lump all men together. Some are spinning plates and some are looking for a wife.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/14 09:50 PM
14

No. Soft Harem is right. Men love sluts, even high quality men. They don't respect or marry sluts.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/14 09:34 PM
1

Exactly. As long as you're cooking because that's what YOU want to do and you're not pandering to a woman/failing shit tests.... I think that's the part newbies don't get. Its not about what you are and are not allowed to do, its about doing what you're going to do and not lowering your value by worrying too much about what a woman thinks.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/14 09:26 PM
2

I don't think "shit test" applies here. Think fitness test instead of shit test. Both are tests we subconsciously use to gage the quality of a man. If he folds, you lose respect. If he holds frame, he gains it.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/14 09:20 PM
35

Oh, men like sluts. They like sluts very much. Just not for marrying. At least not high quality men. 7+ men want fillet mignon at home, not a greasy bar burger. After all, they can get a burger at ANY bar or restaurant, fillet mignon is much harder to find.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/14 08:29 PM
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Speaking of porn induced ED.... That was my ex-husband. That's actually part of the reason we're divorced. (The escalating violence was the other part). He couldn't perform his husbandly duties, and refused to try for months at a time. I internalized his constant rejection because at the time I didn't know about his porn habit. Mr. Strom however, has a healthy sexual appetite and prefers looking at pictures of me instead of porn. I know he still looks at porn, but it doesn't bother me much becau…
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/14 08:24 PM
5

Learn to make your own! They're not hard to make, and you can often make them for less than you would buy them in a store.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/14 04:53 PM
2

I've been bad- I haven't been in a while. I'll stop by soon.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/14 07:19 AM
37

You were with a guy that was in prison for rape? WTF. There's your first mistake.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/14 02:15 PM
2

I'm in. Sounds like fun!
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/14 01:45 AM
8

The are several women here. I haven't noticed you at RPW, you should stop by. Edit: good post BTW
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 12:20 AM
4

Exactly, and no "oopsies" along the way.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 10:52 PM
5

Good. I hope this ruins her life. Every false allegation makes the real victims look like liars and ruins innocent men's lives. The police should do this more often.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 07:42 PM
2

It's not Vasagel, but a product very similar to it.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 07:33 PM
6

I welcome vasagel. I'll encourage my son and stepson to both get it. When men have the power to control their reproductive futures, balance between the sexes will be achieved. No more unwanted pregnancies; there will be a huge drop in the abortion rate. Women (in established LTRs ) will no longer be to take hormonal birth control or undergo invasive surgery to prevent pregnancy. Vasagel will be a boon to both sexes.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 07:28 PM
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Female here: yes I can. I can also tell the difference between Mr. Strom cumming inside me or not. Frankly, without a condom and cumming inside me is preferable. There are hormones in cum that interact with a female's biology to make her happy. There have been studies between women who have sex with and without condoms. The women who were going full monty had a much lower rate of depression and suicidal thoughts. Which is why my tubes are tied. And before that, I was on the Depo shot.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 03:05 AM
10

A friend's now ex-wife did this. Stupid bitch. "But you didn't even fight for me!" Twat! He was willing to work on the relationship right up until you started fucking other guys! What was he supposed to do? Go to marriage counselling with another man's spooge in your cunt?!?
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 02:59 AM
2

Smile! And be conscious of resting bitch face. You want to be approachable. After that, laughing at his jokes and blushing at the appropriate time should come naturally if you're sufficiently attracted to him. When you feel comfortable enough, stand within kissing distance. Though, you'll probably do this without noticing. It was mentioned elsewhere, but touch him. Even laying your hand on his arm should give him sufficient encouragement to all for your number or kiss you. Above all else, have f…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/14 09:37 PM
2

Most RPW blogs are Christian. It's kind of annoying for an atheist.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 12:53 PM
8

Satire. OP admitted to writing it.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 12:23 PM
2

Well done! It took me a few minutes to catch on.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 12:19 PM
11

I adore Gordon Ramsey. He's sexy, dominant, and sexy. He's a man. He could fuck you silly then feed you an amazing chocolate souffle, then fuck you again. Feminists hate him because he makes their lady parts tingle and there's nothing they can do about it.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 09:14 PM
3

I was going to suggest she find new friends also. I also like "you're the one who married him". Sometimes these women need to be called out.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/14 03:01 PM
3

There are several of us here. We chime in occasionally. Mostly we're from RPW.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 01:47 PM
1

Congratulations on swallowing the red pill. Your welcome packet is in the mail.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/14 09:07 AM
2

I lift. I lift heavy. Go big or go home. And their are several women at my gym who are the same way.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 08:51 AM
1

You're spot on. No worrying if any got on the sheets, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/14 08:36 AM
3

But sluts sees every attractive man as potential lover. For them, presence is a sexual signal. So every unattractive man is creepy in their minds. Ftfy
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 12:57 AM
4

So long as you're not going into debt to get your degree, it's not unreasonable to finish it. However, I would suggest you look into other options for your major. Psychology isn't terribly useful. You'd be better off with something that will get you a job if need be.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/14 09:57 PM
4

Personally, I won't shoot myself in the head because of how I'll look if I fuck it up and live. I will, however, slit my wrists. But I'll do it in the bath tub so there won't be a mess to clean up. Vanity.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 09:48 PM
0

It's a small but very vocal segment of the population, and they're making new laws based on their outdated and bigoted religious beliefs. Idgaf what they believe but now they're shoving their religion down my throat. My husband ought to be able to visit a prostitute if he wants and I should be able to get an abortion if I get pregnant (at the very least of I was raped) and have the insurance my husband pays for cover it.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 09:14 PM
3

Lol, we do it up against the wall with one of my feet on the side of the tub for access, or in wheelbarrow.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/14 09:05 PM
8

Shower sex. No mess and he still gets some.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/14 06:24 PM
1

We obviously don't live in the same area of the country. I promise you Puritans are alive and well in Michigan. More than 300k of them in fact. That damn rape insurance bill just passed.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 01:47 PM
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I'm curious to why you see legalized prostitution causing more abortions than old fashioned sluttery. Many sluts are sloppy with their birth control where a prostitute has a real incentive to not get pregnant.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 01:43 PM
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At 26 she's just repeating what she's heard herself. Wait till her looks begin to fade....
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/14 12:04 AM
5

I'm with you. I'm quite certain that Mr Strom will die before me. I'm terrified of that day and only hope that my children will be old enough to take care of themselves, because there's a good chance I'll commit suicide. I don't want to wither into nothingness without him.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/14 12:03 AM
2

I feel like this article is disingenuous. When I hear "war on women" I think of businesses refusing to cover birth control as part of their health insurance and forced vaginal ultrasounds to have an abortion. If I don't want to have a child, I shouldn't be forced to have one. Never mind that my tubes are tied, there's still a small chance I could become pregnant with a child that my husband and I did not ask for. And now the Michigan Republicans have passed their Rape Insurance bill. I hope my s…
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/14 10:51 PM
8

We're all crazy. Every. Single. One.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 02:11 AM
3

I'm with you. There's no reason to be rude, but letting him know she's married certainly seems in order. And there is an art to the big smile, "hello", and moving on before they get up the balls to engage you. If you dazzle them enough, 95% of men won't approach you.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/14 01:45 AM
1

I truly hope you're right, but the last I heard we're supposed to be getting crappy weather for at least another two weeks. Today is nice though. The sun was out this morning.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/14 05:26 PM
1

Sometimes shit happens. And that's okay. I'll bet the Captain learned from the experience and will know for next time. No one is perfect and getting upset over unrealistic expectations is an exercise in futility. It's a lot like rocking in a rocking chair, it gives you something to do but doesn't get you any where.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/14 05:12 PM
1

Spring is here until tomorrow when everything will freeze again. :-( At least up north.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/14 05:08 PM
2

I know I've seen you there. But it's probably been six months....
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/14 01:53 AM
3

You sir, need Anthol Kay's books. The Primer and MAP will do you much good. They are geared for a redpill ltr. When you're done reading the books, head over to the forums and the blog. Dana is a regular, and I pop my head in from time to time.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/14 11:45 PM
3

Mr Strom would too. I'd probably get a dirty look and told to piss off to boot.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/14 06:37 PM
6

"will you please hold my purse " as you shove your purse at him with a shitty look on your face.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/14 05:03 PM
1

As a cpt I can tell you it was in every textbook I used in college.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 01:58 PM
1

Timeless Trends, Dark Garden, and What Katie Did are all good choices. Or make your own. Lucycorsetry.com has good tutorials. I made my own and really enjoyed it. I'm already planning my next corset.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/14 02:09 AM
0

I love Target and Maurices for separates. A pencil skirt, cardigan, and cute blouse is always a winning combination. If you're feeling kinky, a cute corset over a skirt and blouse works too!
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/14 01:39 AM
5

Don't worry about offending me. This is Reddit, where people are assholes and the points don't matter.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/14 12:55 PM
8

What happens at your funeral is a direct reflection on who you were and how you affected those around you.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/14 03:29 PM
1

BTW, sense of humor = laughs at his jokes. Men don't cares if you can tell a joke yourself, just that you find his jokes funny. Source: I can't tell a joke to she my life, but I think my husband is hilarious.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/14 12:46 PM
4

You can check karma decay to see if something has been posted before. Generally speaking, as long as it's been six months since the last time, you'll be good to repost. On topic, I really dislike the religious blogs. While they give okay advice, they act like they own marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/14 12:41 PM
1

Erase paste by benefit and L'Oreal BB cream. And Kandi Johnson YouTube videos.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/14 12:37 PM
5

Maybe I do! It's really cold in Michigan right now and I could use a laugh.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 09:52 PM
3

Those boots just scream "drama magnet". Not to mention they're ugly as sin.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 09:51 PM
5

Crabs in a bucket. Women do this to each other when one tries to lose weight/get in shape. It's not as common for men, but it does happen.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 09:46 PM
1

Depends on the guy doing the eye fucking. If he's donning a Fedora or neckbeard, it's creepy.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 09:08 PM
5

No where do we say men are better than women. Men are better at some things, and women are better at others. Men and women are just different.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/14 12:43 PM
3

I guess I'm part of the "problem". I'm a housewife specifically so my husband can work out of town and long hours when in town and know that our kids and home are looked after. It always amazes me when I see the feminist hamster - even though it shouldn't.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 11:22 PM
11

That's not genetics. That's the side effects of the medicine you were on. Not the same thing.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 02:46 PM
2

That's wonderful! On the "what to make for dinner" front, try making a list of your favorite things for her to choose from when she can't make up her mind.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 02:26 PM
2

Came here to say "blow job", bit I see I've been beaten to the punch.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/14 03:48 PM
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It's not her fault, but it is indicative of the larger, social problem. Women her age tend to forget, and are told, that age doesn't matter and that they're still beautiful just the way they are, no matter how fat or wrinkly they get. Edit: spelling
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 03:43 PM
11

Or worse, going to Hamplanet Fitness, and eating the donuts and pizza they provide.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 03:39 PM
0

Men in uniform are hot. Well, kinda. The uniform adds 1.5 - 2 smv depending on how well you wear it. So an average 6 becomes 7.5+.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/14 11:53 PM
3

A regular bra under the sports bra world wonders for preserving your feminine shape. And helps minimize bouncing.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/14 06:51 PM
3

I love my tennis skirt. It's cute and protects my modesty keeps me from pulling a Lindsay Lohan.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/14 06:49 PM
4

Road. Road. Road. Ro-ad. Ro. Ad. Ro. Ad.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 06:40 PM
12

Fantastic post! Our single/new ladies need to see more real life examples like this. We don't feed our men because we're oppressed, we do it because we love them.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/14 10:26 PM
2

I hated my beta ex-boyfriend. 20 years later and I still don't have any respect for him.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/14 03:26 PM
2

Oblivious lady is oblivious.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 03:21 AM
5

Just because he's spinning plates doesn't mean he's cheating. It's entirely possible that she knows. When I'm not available, I'm okay with Mr Strom getting his rocks off elsewhere, as long as he's not dating her. That's why I'm cool with sluts.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 05:16 PM
1

Same here.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/14 11:04 PM
2

That's a field where you stand a chance at repaying the loans. Good luck
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/14 08:58 PM
2

The hard truth is that most people shouldn't be going to college. And even more important, people shouldn't be going into debt for a piece of paper that doesn't qualify you to manage a McDonalds. Male or female.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/14 08:50 PM
5

You say that, but then why does RPW exist? We're reclaiming our femininity and encouraging men to act like men. We're not perfect,but we're putting in an honest effort. Maybe I'm just being oversensitive.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 04:06 PM
3

On the women smiling at you... Most of the time, women don't consciously friend zone you. Women just don't have the ability to see things from your perspective. So when she's not attracted to you, the relationship isn't sexual and she thinks you don't think of her sexually. Furthermore, most women abhor making the first move. So if you don't make the relationship sexual, it probably never will be. The next time a girl smiles at you, smile back and wink.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 03:38 PM
1

<3
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/14 12:49 AM
1

Congratulations!
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/14 10:13 PM
3

Its a jealousy thing. They don't want to put in the effort to get the kind of attention that they want, so they put down the women who are getting it in a vain attempt to make themselves look good. I occasionally get this from Mr. Strom's friend's girlfriends. Guess its really hard to learn how a man takes his coffee or to wear makeup or enjoy sex....
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/14 01:14 AM
2

Its hard to determine tone in written language.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/14 01:03 AM
2

First, there occasionally is a point in which an ultimatum is the only thing left to do. The ultimatum comes after you have exhausted all other avenues. From what you've written here, it seems you have made a reasonable effort at fixing the problem. However, I'm not sure you're really there yet. Second, I feel you. Mr. Strom works out of town quite a bit. Sometimes I get to go with him, sometimes I dont. Its hard. You go from being extremely lonely with entirely too many decisions to make on you…
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/14 12:53 AM
2

Ya'll sounds less confrontational. Personally, I like "yous".
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/14 12:32 AM
6

Lately that noise has been getting pretty bad. We've been mentioned/linked in a few other subs lately and have a big influx of new members. Men are rightfully pissed when they first learn the truth. They feel betrayed and deceived. They need to work through these feelings to come out the other side as RP.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/14 12:17 AM
1

That place is asnine. I won't be posting there, and I regularly post in TRP.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/14 04:11 PM
2

Not necessarily drunk.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 12:38 AM
1

They're fun and improve your sex life!
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/14 08:34 PM
2

Well thank you! We do try. :-D
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/14 08:33 PM
1

Depends on how attractive they are. The ugly one have to develop other things like personality and talents to attract men.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 08:32 PM
2

That's because she's amazeballs
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/14 08:29 PM
7

or 7. He has a medical condition causing low testosterone and in turn, a low sex drive. He might need to see a doctor and get some blood tests.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/14 11:15 PM
2

That's just common sense, but so is most of TRP/RPW. Hang out here a bit longer and you'll be amazed at the stupid shit people do and expect to get a good result.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/14 11:13 PM
2

Saw a GWTW reference and knew it was Dana. LOL
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/14 11:10 PM
2

men should hold their frame While you are absolutely correct, they're still human. They're going to make mistakes, and that's okay. But if we nitpick them every time their frame slips, well... Super Cool Ski Instructor put it best: You're going to have a bad time. Edit: I spend way too much time on Reddit.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/14 11:07 PM
2

RES = Reddit Enhancement Suite. Its a Chrome add-on. Not sure if its available for other browsers. But its rad. I can see that you have a total of +3 votes from me. There are other cool little options that you can choose from to make your Reddit experience more enjoyable.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/14 11:04 PM
2

We are all in agreement that hair, makeup, and outfit should be fully done before cooking begins, correct? In most situations, I'd recommend having the makeup done well before the party starts. If you're wearing an apron, you can pressed powder and lipstick in the pocket so you can quickly touch up just before guests/hubby arrive/s.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/14 10:47 PM
2

I have three, wear them daily, and am going to make another in a few weeks. I love them.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/14 10:42 PM
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"Well you're the one that married him!" ought to do the trick. You might piss off a few women, but they'll at least watch themselves in front of you.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/14 10:36 PM
3

Mr. Strom and I don't usually do much for Valentines Day. Our anniversary is the 16th, so we celebrate that instead. But I'll get him a card and a BJ. Saturday night we're going out to dinner with his parents; they're anniversary was a few days ago. I really should have planned out the anniversary date thing better. His mom's birthday is in less than two weeks. My birthday is the beginning of March. At the end of March is my son's birthday. His son's bday is the beginning of May. Then comes Moth…
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/14 10:34 PM
3

super cute pair of red heels that are very fitting for the occasion so I'll wear something nice with those. Matching apron over lingerie to cook breakfast?
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/14 10:29 PM
5

I just can't find a way to match his gift-giving skills. Blow jobs.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/14 10:27 PM
3

(Shower sex works well for ladyweek. A tube of silicone based lube helps.)
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/14 10:26 PM
2

RES says you were downvoted. :(
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/14 10:19 PM
2

There is a month left to prepare! I suggest everyone read He Comes Next by Ian Kerner, Ph.D., the author of She Comes First. Good stuff. I also like The Handjob Handbook.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/14 10:19 PM
3

so that won't be too special. Oh sister, you need to read "He comes next" and "The Handjob Handbook". Blowjobs can be very special. ;)
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/14 10:15 PM
1

ROFLMAO! Mr. Strom has this t-shirt. My girlfriend says, "You don't give a mouse's donkey?" We laughed till we cried.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/14 10:12 PM
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A big thing for me when I was swallowing the pill, was realizing and really internalizing the fact that my husband loves me and truly wants me to be happy. I'd be willing to bet your husband feels the same way about you. That means that we can TRUST our husbands to do right by us. They're not out to hurt us. If he forgot to put his socks in the hamper, that doesn't mean he's out to get you or make your job as the housekeeper more difficult. It means he didn't put his socks in the hamper. This al…
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/14 10:07 PM
2

(Happy Cake Day!)
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/14 10:05 PM
2

Don't discount us liberals. ;)
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 09:51 PM
1

I think you're mostly right. But a lot depends on how the women perceive themselves and eachother. If a woman perceives herself to be high value/pretty then she'll care much less than if she were insecure. Personally, I have my Man and I'm confident in my ability to keep him. So, as long as I don't perceive another woman as being a threat, I don't mind if she's wearing the same thing as me (plus I probably will look better in it than she will). Tl;dr: women are snarky bitches to their competitor…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 07:48 PM
7

We'd love to have Digits join us! And now I"m all warm and fuzzy feeling! :D
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 07:38 PM
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Its completely true. The women I actively dislike, I hope they get face cancer or maybe the airbag goes off and breaks their noses. For women, their looks are a good 50-75% of their worth for the first 25-40 years of their lives. Little girls aren't told how awesome they are based on their achievements, their told how pretty they are or how pretty their clothes/hair/shoes/jewelry are. I'd rather be in a wheelchair for the rest of my life than have my face messed up.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 07:08 PM
2

Nose goes! Some one with an established alt should do it. I like my username.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 06:43 PM
2

It's for the American counterpart, Vasagel. No catches.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 11:31 AM
1

WTF, lol. You're quickly becoming once of my favorite TRPers
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 02:28 AM
2

Pain and swelling at the injection site, slight risk of infection... very few and mostly minor.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 02:26 AM
9

Not big pharma. Vasagel is being funded by private donations. Not enough money in it for a major pharmaceutical company to pick it up. The shot itself costs less than $5 to produce, plus the administration fee. There's a link to the Vasagel donation page elsewhere in the thread.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 02:24 AM
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The failure rate of vasagel and other products like it is near 0. They have been shown to be more effective than hormonal birth control with far fewer side effects. If she gets pregnant, it probably isn't yours.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 02:14 AM
9

RoK touched on this a while back; it was something about the top five reasons to date a girl with an eating disorder. Basically, the less attractive a woman perceives herself to be, the better she treats the man in her life. My hamster tried really hard to disagree with him and get angry, but damn it if he wasn't right.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 10:45 PM
1

I smile and say something noncommittal. It's best to not poke venomous snakes.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 10:10 PM
2

If you're looking to spin plates, then you are right. But this is RPW, where long term relationships are the goal. Peacocking takes more energy and gets old.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/14 06:42 PM
1

Well I hope you both feel better soon!
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/14 11:49 AM
7

Quiet confidence looks good on everyone. If you really are amazing, you don't have to use a bullhorn for others to recognize it.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/14 12:25 AM
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Too true. It's feminist propaganda that men are "afraid" of masculine women. They're just not attracted to loud, obnoxious women. But it makes womyn feel better to think they're intimidating.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/14 08:20 PM
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Holy awesome responses batman! Just a quick note on altering your behavior. Learning to moderate your volume and letting others be the center of attention isn't changing who you are. You will still be you, with all the same likes, dislikes, thoughts, and feelings. The difference will be in the packaging. You might want to pay attention to your actual packaging also- take a look at your wardrobe and make sure it's feminine. Tomboys can still wear jean skirts and ruffled blouses.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/14 08:16 PM
7

Lol @ dick pics. And very true.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/14 08:02 PM
1

Okay. I think some one else mentioned it, but are you sure him poking you isn't him initiating?
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/14 02:20 PM
1

God damned phone. I don't want to sound paranoid, but are you sure he isn't watching porn behind your back? My ex husband was addicted to porn and exhibited many of the same "symptoms".
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/14 07:04 PM
1

The best of luck to you. I didn't tell you my gut reaction
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/14 07:00 PM
1

He should at least see a doctor and get guys testosterone checked. Low T will cause many if the problems you described. Best of luck.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/14 08:14 PM
1

We're probably the only ones self aware enough to give care enough about our significant others to bother learning what men like.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/14 12:44 PM
2

I sub to r/fatlogic, I was so confused by the comments. I had to look and see where I was. Thanks for the laugh this morning guys!
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 12:25 PM
10

I love how Mrs I pointed out that she was smart enough to "pick a winner". Remember ladies, he might be an idiot and a loser, but YOU married him!
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/14 03:27 AM
2

Blue jobs: one of many reasons I married a man and not a woman.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/14 02:54 AM
5

It's amazing how paying for a class can suddenly increase your motivation.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 02:48 AM
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That depends on your definition of "smart". Barring extraordinary events, your IQ doesn't change much over the course of your life. IQ is just a measure to predict how easily you learn new information. Going to college didn't increase your IQ; but you did increase the amount of stuff you know.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 09:20 PM
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how in the bloody hell did you manage to stay married to this guy? You deserve some kind of award. Its up to you, but I would have divorced him years ago. We tell women here that denying your husband is tantamount to emotional abuse, well that street runs two ways.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/14 04:41 PM
1

I must be a masochist.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 09:05 PM
2

My pink brain definitely interpreted the conversation differently than your blue brain. Upon reflection, you're correct. Sometimes I really hate my scumbag pink brain.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 05:30 PM
1

Lol, the discussion was about if a woman can unconditionally love a man- not about whether a man can unconditionally love a woman.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 05:16 PM
1

I can see how that would be infuriating for your mother, yet stop the argument dead in it's tracks. She probably learned early on that further argument was futile.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 04:49 PM
1

It does, just not in romantic relationships. Some mothers have unconditional love for their children.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 04:10 PM
1

How low of a sex drive are you talking about?
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/14 03:52 PM
3

Absolutely. PUA works great for creating attraction, but is almost counterproductive in creating relationship comfort.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/14 07:35 PM
2

I'm one of the few women that posts in trp. It requires a thick skin. Many of the new guys see a female username and get aggressive.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/14 01:12 PM
2

There are leaders and followers. It's easier to let someone lead you when you trust them. Rp tends to make men into strong leaders. The ones who follow Anthol Kay's map become strong, trustworthy, sexy, fun leaders. When you have a man like that, you'll follow him to the ends of the earth.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 03:12 AM
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The only way to make a man stop watching porn and masturbating is to keep his balls empty. This goes beyond just always being available. You must fuck him everyday. Blow him a couple times a week and anal twice a month. He's far less likely to be horny enough to use his hand if he has a constant and steady source of a variety of quality sex.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/14 12:48 AM
3

Dressing better than the guy next to you will set you apart from the crowd.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/14 03:08 PM
1

Well, I have a 19 yo cousin whose going to college to get her Mrs. Her older sister was a virgin when she was married last summer.... So the odds aren't horrible. I think the key though is being a strong leader. If she trusts you, she'll follow you anywhere.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/14 02:37 PM
6

In my experience, the easiest way to control the conversation is to turn those kinds of questions back around. When she asked if he was easy going, you could have asked 'why would I want an easy going man?' Now you're making her defend her position -taking her off the offensive. Your next move would depend on her-does she keep trying to attack or does she take the question seriously and try to respond thoughtfully? Her intent will be made clear. If she's malicious, a simple 'I will not be baited…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/14 01:55 PM
1

True altruism makes ladies' panties wet. It signals that you have ample resources and power to the extent that you can afford to give them away. The doctor returning from Africa after a month of treating sick children is respected and loved by all and all the women will fall over themselves to be with him. That's the kind of man they want fathering their children.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/14 01:42 PM
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You've hit the nail on the head. For years feminists have been telling women that femininity is weakness and that we should be more masculine but at the same time demonizing men. They tend to be very unhappy but don't seem to know why. If I were you, I wouldn't discuss this with people irl. Let your happiness speak for you.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/14 02:14 PM
3

Yuppers.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/14 01:22 PM
10

Yes. Lol. In fact, I'm posting this from bed as Mr Strom just poked me. It was exactly like that meme yesterday where the couple was cuddling in bed then he poked her with his stiffy, but Mr Strom knew he was getting laid.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/14 01:06 PM
1

Of course you're welcome here. You should check out our IRC channel too. I haven't been there in a while, but it's fun and you can ask questions there too.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/14 01:38 AM
2

Sanity is overrated.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/14 06:36 PM
2

Well, if by feminist you mean that women deserve basic human rights like the right to be physically safe, the right to free speech, the right to own property, and the like, then yes. I am a feminist. But if you mean that all men are evil rapists and must be kept down in order to raise women up and that femininity is weakness then no. I also believe that women have the right to choose to have a career, and that she also had the right to "suffer" the consequences of those choices. Marriage, childr…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/14 01:48 PM
2

"only because you're good at it" Then smile and wink.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/14 09:37 PM
5

Thanks for the referral! While I'm here, I'll add that OP should put the word out to his parents friends that he's in the market. You're mother will be the harshest judge of new girls imaginable. Also, join a group or two. Book clubs, jogging groups, etc, are good places to start. Then there's my personal favorite, the grocery store. You can tell a bit about a person by what they have in their cart.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/14 04:10 PM
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Yeah, I got lucky. He's just enough of a bad boy to make my lady parts feel funny, but responsible enough to make me feel safe. Touch him and I'll cut you.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/14 03:26 PM
2

It was awesome. He didn't even shake all the dirt off. I laughed so hard I cried. We were on our way to dinner though and they died died before I could get them home and in the ground. I tried anyways, but there was no helping them. :-(
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/14 03:18 PM
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This might be an unpopular opinion here, but I can see spending a butt ton of money on a reception. It's a party celebrating the two of you making public vows to each other and the beginning of the rest of your lives. If you picked well, this should be the only reception you'll ever have. That said, it is not all about the bride. It is about the couple. And I love the trend of having a bride's cake and a groom's cake. The bride's cake is all pretty and girly, and the groom's cake is more manly. …
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/14 03:12 PM
6

I love you. The best bouquet of flowers Mr Strom ever gave me was the bunch of daffodils he yanked out of the doctor's office landscaping, roots and all. I'll never forget them. I should plant some daffodils this spring.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/14 03:02 PM
4

My ring is an antique he picked up at an antique show. It's from 1953, a jeweler friend could tell by the cut of the diamond. In fact, his grandmother wears an almost identical ring- his grandparents were married in 1953. Cool little stuff like that makes for much better memories than how much he spent.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/14 02:58 PM
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Femininity is sooo sexy.... As it should be! There is nothing wrong with masculinity either! I don't understand why androgyny is so desirable these days. Femininity and masculinity are complementary; they complete each other. Together, they are more than the sum of their parts. Being a straight man, there is no reason why you shouldn't find pretty girls doing girly things attractive-it's in your DNA. And women shouldn't be afraid of admitting that they want a manly man either. The new age femini…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/14 02:35 PM
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Great advice no matter your sexual strategy. Self improvement is the key to confidence and confidence is everything. Now if only we could get more women to realize that improving yourself isn't tantamount to selling out....
/r/TheRedPill26/01/14 12:36 AM
5

I occasionally get the same responses from women. These women can suck an egg. You can either conform to what men find attractive or not: there are consequences to both.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/14 07:33 PM
5

And really, why would OP deny us the chance to make fun of analyze her ourselves?
/r/TheRedPill24/01/14 01:50 AM
4

I'm with Dana on this. Read the MMSL books, join the forums, and start your journey. Easier said than done, but you'll enjoy the benefits.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/14 02:42 PM
3

Because it's his opinion you value the most. If you're anything like me, you want more than anything else to be the object of his love and desire. Even if the rest of the world hates you, if you have him, it doesn't matter.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/14 10:22 PM
11

Is teaching a pig to sing anything like playing chess with a pigeon? Because when you play chess with a pigeon, the pigeon knocks over the pieces, shits on the board, then struts around like it won.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/14 06:43 PM
4

I've bought dresses for <$5 before that would have cost me $20 just in fabric & notions, plus the time to make them. Target clearance racks are my weakness.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/14 01:13 PM
2

Yes it is. Autoimmune disorders suck. Chris Kresser and Mark Sisson are my heroes.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/14 09:09 PM
2

Nightshades can do that. :( I'm lucky enough to have an asparagus farm not far from me. Too bad pickled eggs aren't my bag.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/14 08:20 PM
3

OMG the comments section is enough to make me cry. Once again, girl game isn't "godly" so its bad. I'm still not sure what's wrong with stoking your man's fire.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/14 07:56 PM
3

Thank you! OMFG! Thank you! Some one who gets it! I really wish I could give you 50 upvotes for that.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/14 07:53 PM
3

I'm the OP the blogger is quoting. Its about the way your girlfriends treat your SO. If all you do is bitch about him, they will treat him coldly. But MY girlfriends are always full of smiles and bat their eyelashes at Mr. Strom- because I take the time to brag about him. Its a big boost to Mr. Strom's ego, and I reap the benefits. I might have phrased it in the original article a bit awkwardly, though the article was supposed to be light-hearted and fun.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/14 07:50 PM
3

I coupon and meal plan. I also sew. Just yesterday, I bought everything I need to make a cute circle skirt from the salvage bin for $4.75. I'm in the middle of sewing a corset. I even drafted the pattern myself from a tutorial I found online. A similar corset would have easily cost me over $400 while mine is coming in at $75.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/14 07:44 PM
3

I would love to learn to sew Youtube videos are really helpful. And you should look for an antique sewing machine. Mine is a hand-me-down from Mr. Strom's grandmother. It can't do anything but straight stitch, but it does it wonderfully. Each stitch is tight and exactly the same length- and its easy to work on. Sewing really isn't difficult if you take the time to learn the theory behind why's and the when's.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/14 07:37 PM
3

pickled beets Amazing stuff right there. Have you pickled asparagus or hot peppers? I'm addicted to both. I'm thinking of getting into pickling just to keep up my habit.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/14 07:35 PM
2

Even if you can't afford the expensive pieces retail, you can always buy things that coordinate with the rest of your wardrobe. And if you learn to sew, you can make anything you want, tailor made for your body. I'm currently sewing a custom corset- at a fraction of the cost to have someone else make it for me.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/14 07:33 PM
3

Instead of buying candles, boil a mix of citrus peels and herbs on the stove. This is wonderful in the winter. Keeps everything from getting staticky (that's a word, right?) and smelling wonderful. Cinnamon sticks and whole cloves can be bought in bulk at a restaurant supply store.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/14 07:29 PM
3

Encourage her to be the best version of her as possible. Praise hard work, not being "smart" or "pretty". Too many kids these days get praised for being "smart" then give up when things get hard because if they work hard then fail, then they aren't "smart" anymore. But if you praise the work that went into the end result, then they learn to value the hard work regardless of the "A" or the "F" and will put more effort into everything they do. So when your little girl does something that prompts p…
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/14 03:46 PM
1

Bj level: black belt ninja
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/14 02:44 AM
2

I'm atheist. Many Christians try to claim the red pill is a Christian thing like they own it. Blah
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/14 12:45 AM
1

Congratulations! <3
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/14 12:10 AM
1

It's not that we don't accept non-binary gender or fluid sexuality (I identify as bisexual), but the outliers just aren't our target demographic. We are mostly heterosexual, cis-gendered women seeking to educate the same. And in most cases, we aren't very far off target. And very often we are marginalized because of our unusual way of life. It's gotten to the point on Reddit that if being nice to a man and accepting that most men aren't rapists or mysognists, you're almost automatically assumed …
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/14 10:51 PM
3

I'm working on a follow up. It'll be fun
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/14 09:02 PM
5

I'm not sure at what point I was supposed to mention Jesus. I'm an atheist. :/
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/14 07:17 PM
5

Though... I'm almost honored. It's like hate mail but better. At least what I said struck a nerve and irritated her enough to take the time to complain about me/it. That settles it, I'm writing a follow up!
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/14 03:49 AM
3

Who the hell is this? Needless to say, I'm a bit peeved.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/14 03:43 AM
6

Some people can handle dairy and some can't. It's the same with wheat and other grains. Though I agree that dairy isn't spectacular.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/14 07:23 PM
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I'm on my phone so this will be short.... Start exercising now! Like yesterday. Keep your body strong and flexible and you'll be much happier even when you're 80. Drink plenty of water. Not soda, not coffee, tea, or juice, drink water. Water is the medium of every chemical reaction in your body. Dehydration wreaks havoc on your metabolism, mood, skin, digestion, and everything in between. You can still drink other stuff, but the majority if your liquids should be water. Eat healthy whole foods. …
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/14 02:34 PM
-1

Didn't mean to offend you. That's how I talk irl. Your just younger than me.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/14 01:36 AM
0

Walt Disney hated his step mother. That's where it came from.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 11:16 PM
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I was with you right up until you said all stepmoms are evil.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 08:44 PM
7

This is still Reddit honey. Upvotes don't tell you who is upvoting what. Even within the sub, the group isn't really cohesive. What you're seeing is two different "groups" within the sub. The individuals are probably consistent in their beliefs, but when you look at us as a whole, we look like a bunch of hypocritical assholes.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 08:35 PM
2

I didn't really have another choice. He has mad game and decided that he wanted me. Its kind of funny because I don't think he really knows what kind of power he has. I couldn't ever leave because I literally can't conceive what life would look like without him. I'd have no idea what to do. Even when we fight, and I think I want to leave, he's the one I want to make it all better. I really can't explain it. Some blue piller will probably look at what I just said and think that I'm abused or some…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/14 05:31 PM
6

I had this HUGE thing all typed out because I only read the first part of your post. LOL. Get your chores on a schedule. Here's an example. I have a lot of glass doors in my house, so I clean them weekly, not once a month, but you get the idea. Start making lunch plans with one of your girlfriends once a week. I do this with my BF from high school (yes, we're still friends, she's amazeballs, and the guys we married are friends too, so we do couples things with them!) I meet her at a restaurant h…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/14 03:04 PM
2

I'm glad you enjoyed it. Have you checked out /r/redpillcouples yet? /u/Lady_Motido is working wonders over there. And be sure to head over to http://marriedmansexlife.com/.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/14 02:21 PM
3

It took me a minute to figure out your username. I love it!
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/14 11:50 PM
1

I just posted my write up on this thread in RPW. Check it out here
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 08:27 PM
14

A wink and a devil may care smile will get you pretty far with women.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 04:09 PM
1

You should live together for at least a year before you get married. And don't have kids till you've been married for at least a year.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/14 07:24 PM
3

I just watched the first movie night before last. The second one I'd in the mail. Netflix is awesome.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/14 02:20 PM
3

That was fantastic. Thanks for the laugh
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/14 11:56 PM
7

A real man just is. He takes care of business. When stuff breaks, he just fixes it. Occasionally there will be cursing involved, but it gets fixed. He goes to work and the bills get paid. There's no douchebaggery involved. Given enough time, they're easy to spot.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/14 11:43 PM
7

There are times I'm ashamed of my gender, this is one of them. Who in their right mind airs their dirty laundry in public? It appears this woman has no dignity.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/14 08:01 PM
1

I'm paleo, so I <3 Marks Daily Apple and all the super awesome paleo recipe sites. Pinterest is always a good way to waste 20 minutes to 2 hours. :D Kandee Johnson on Youtube is amazing. She's so sweet and does really fun things with makeup.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/14 03:33 PM
2

:D
/r/TheRedPill07/01/14 06:08 PM
3

very thin due to a high metabolism Common logical fallacy. Most people have about the same ability to burn calories for energy. Even the obese. Unless she has an overactive thyroid or some other medical condition, she probably just eats less or moves more than you're guessing. tips I could use to help coax her into the RP lifestyle or at least into being more open-minded and feminine? I'm going to quote Dr. Phil here. Mainly because its one of two intelligent things that have come out of his mou…
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/14 04:17 PM
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Forget this. You should never discuss TRP with any woman you're sexually inclined to. Even girls who understand the game don't like admitting to it. For them it needs to be an opaque, mystical experience, breaking it down to reproducible bits and pieces ruins the allure for them. All my wat. Have you seen /r/RedPillWomen? I don't care if I know Mr. Strom is gaming me. I like it! He gives me gina tickles! The women that are going to have a problem with hearing TRP/game are the ones who have train…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/14 03:49 PM
1

I said "within reason"
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/14 12:38 AM
9

A small dose of dread works wonders in a LTR for reminding her she got a good deal.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 02:03 PM
3

Yes you are, thank you.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 03:31 PM
6

As far as the manipulation goes, of course it is. We manipulate the people around us everyday. And you're right, the motivation really is key to whether that's a good thing or not. Personally, I want to manipulate the people around me into being in good moods and pleasant behavior. Everyone likes being in a good mood. So I'm polite as I can be while still being sincere and I smile and make eye contact with people (most smile back).
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 12:21 AM
4

This is why the RPW ladies like you so much.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 12:13 AM
1

*let him kill spiders *reaching high objects, lifting heavy objects, opening tight jars I have these two down! I'm terrified of spiders and heights. I can't even stand on a chair to change a light bulb or look a spider in the hairy eyeball.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 12:10 AM
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Basically, be feminine. All these behaviors should be natural to you. You'd think so, but radfem men haters have been telling women of my generation since we were little that to be feminine is to be weak.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 12:07 AM
1

I appreciate your response, even if it did feel silly. And I guess its a good thing we're not married. I'm terrified of spiders. My boys and Mr. Strom kill them for me. And if it wasn't for the killing wonder, Ortho, I'd have burnt my house down to kill them by now. I just added Before Midnight, and Before Sunrise to my Netflix queue. :)
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 12:05 AM
2

'Your dick is ENORMOUS.' I snorted.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 11:58 PM
15

I'm sorry I came off as condescending or insincere. That wasn't my intention. And just to be clear, there is no pure alpha. There are alpha behaviors and beta behaviors. Men in LTRs need to learn to balance these two. TRP generally advises to increase alpha behaviors because most men have been shamed into displaying mostly beta behaviors. If you disagree with me, I suggest you check out /u/SoftHarem's meta post. http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1u6m3m/the_basics_explained_and_our_dire…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 11:57 PM
3

Thank you. I appreciate your sincere reply. After I finish making Mr. Strom's dinner, I'll give you a better response than this. But for now... thank you.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 10:11 PM
1

Then give me the really simple, no big deal list! :D Remember, we're oblivious!
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 08:31 PM
1

... that wasn't the Onion? That's a whole lot of crazy. She needs medication.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 08:27 PM
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I wasn't asking how to not make him feel like a useless shitbag. I was asking how to help him feel in control. Just pretend I've never met a man before and have no idea how they think or feel. (Cause let's be honest, women really are solipistic. We really don't understand how men think or feel.)
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 08:20 PM
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If he's well enough, you should think about asking him to fix some things around the house. Think replacing a faucet or vehicle maintenance. Concrete things that show you need him.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/14 08:16 PM
2

MMSL is Married Man Sex Life. http://marriedmansexlife.com/blog/ you also might want to wander over to /r/keto, and Mark's Daily Apple. http://www.marksdailyapple.com/unrestricted-low-carb-diet-wins-hands-down/#axzz2pCd1b4Ev
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/14 08:01 PM
3

hugs
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/14 01:05 AM
4

You wanted our advice. You're getting it. We are not here to hold your hand and tell you it's not your fault you're attracting abusive assholes instead of real men.
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/14 08:07 PM
2

That's why I said it increases the likelihood that he'll have a companion. I agree that it guarantees nothing.
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/14 08:05 PM
7

What body type/size do you think most men actually prefer? Which ever one will have sex with him (within reason).
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/14 06:11 PM
3

Everybody has given you really good advice about what kinds of things you could work on, so I'll tell you this: work on the things that need it most first. Example: Tom is an out of shape, high powered lawyer. He makes $120,000/year. Losing 20 pounds will get Tom farther, faster than making an extra $20,000/year. Bob is an ametuer body builder who brings in $30,000/year. Earning an extra $20,000/year will get Bob farther, faster than lifting more weights or other fitness goals. Anthol Kay's book…
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/14 05:57 PM
1

I don't see a problem with men not wanting to get married. It's his life! If he doesn't want to get married then he shouldn't have to! And if ladies women want to be sluts, then fine. Let them be sluts. You can do what ever you want. But there are consequences. The consequence with being a slut is that you have less likelihood of getting married. The consequence of a man not marrying is no one to grow old with. On the other side of that coin are ladies who choose to be wife material and men who …
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/14 05:41 PM
5

Dana is right. There are no male friends. There are just men that haven't gotten up the balls to sleep with you yet. The husbands of your female friends don't count- but don't be alone with them either. In case no one has told you this yet- DO NOT LET YOURSELF BE ALONE WITH A MAN YOU ARE NOT PLANNING ON SLEEPING WITH. Sorry for shouting, but most young, single women don't want to hear that. TRP tells guys to "isolate and escalate". That means a guy who wants to get you alone, wants to sleep with…
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/14 04:56 PM
3

I forgot to mention, the biggest contributor to girl game! A kind and polite demeanor! A little sugar goes a long ways in keeping a man happy.
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/14 04:41 PM
0

You look like a girl I know. You aren't from Michigan are you? I liked the long, curly hair the best. That particular shade of blonde makes you look very red. I'd go with something darker. Definitely start wearing make up. I <3 Kandee Johnson. She has tons of great tutorials, and she's a sweetheart. Here's a link to her Make-Up Basics 101 playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL9997B7D51440038C On my "lazy" days I wear L'Oreal's magic BB cream, blush, a touch of eyeshadow, blush and ma…
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/14 04:40 PM
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facepalm Its no wonder TRP is so bitter. They should be with drivel like that being lauded as "good advice". We might as well come right out and tell our young women to be self-serving whores and not worry about their future until they've turned into dried up shadows of their younger selves so they can then cry about how all the men are either taken or uninterested in a relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/14 04:16 PM
2

Its not just me. He's been suspended more times than I can count, slapped his grandmother, and one of his teachers slapped him at his private school. Yes she trash talks me at every turn. There isn't much that I can do about it though. He was three when I started dating his dad. His mother was cheating on my husband long before they split. She's now married to the homewrecker. LOL. I <3 you. My son is a year older and went through all that 4 or 5 years ago. He's taller than me and outweighs me b…
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/14 03:41 PM
1

Words have meaning. The word "equal" means "50/50 split". Seriously. Learn to use your words. Splitting up chores according to each person's abilities is NOT equal. It might be equitable; it might be fair; it might even be practical or prudent. None of those mean the same thing as equal. Divorce law calls for an equitable, just, or reasonable distribution of the assets and debts- not an equal one. There's a reason for that. Equal would mean that each person would get exactly half the debts and h…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/14 03:34 PM
2

I clean by chore, but split them up over the week. Every morning I wipe down counters, empty the dishwasher, start one load of laundry, and a weekly chore. I put dishes in the dishwasher throughout the day. In the evening I cook, and after dinner finish the dishes. Before bed, I pick up and fold blankets. I spend very little time cleaning. And because I don't let any one thing go for very long, my house is always presentable. The only time I panic is when my mil is coming for dinner. :-P
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/14 03:21 AM
1

Thank you for the advice. And I really wish it was as easy as that. His dad has been an active part of disciplining him all along. He's been spoken to, grounded, had nothing to play with other than dirt, spanked, sent to his room, made to write sentences, walk up and down the stairs 50 times, anything you can think of short of actually beating/abusing him. We even had him in counselling for well over a year. He's had Child Protective Services at our house twice now because he makes up outlandish…
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/13 11:12 PM
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Forgot to add, thank you for the clarification, and the advice. Both are appreciated.
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/13 05:24 PM
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subtle hints about girls not wanting to make out with someone who eats like that might help? LOL, I wish. He's not interested in girls yet. I practically have to shower him myself and force him to wear clean underwear. So far it looks like he's going to be one of those gross boys.
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/13 05:24 PM
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Some men are losers. Losers do not deserve your respect or submission. My BIL is a loser. Can't hold down a job and lets my in-laws pay for everything for him. He's 36. In no way shape or form should any female marry him. And on the female side, men shouldn't marry lazy, or trashy women.
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/13 03:19 PM
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Well, then I guess you and I aren't that far off. I don't usually consult Mr. Strom on what we're eating for dinner, or what dish soap to buy. On big things though, Mr. Strom and I discuss the issue thoroughly. Then Mr. Strom makes the final decision and I back him up. I trust him to make the best decision for our family that he can. I may not always agree, but I trust that he loves me and our children enough to do his best and trust his judgement. Every now and then, things don't turn out like …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/13 02:35 PM
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All people have a right to food, clothing, shelter, safety, medical care... IMO. This is not across the board with all Red Pillers. We have some very differing political opinions. However, the RPers that I will associate myself with believe that marital rape and spousal abuse are crimes that should be punished. Our definition of abuse may differ (I know a few Taken in Hand couples), but a man giving his wife a black eye is not okay in anyone's book. But we also believe that a woman shouldn't try…
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/13 02:29 PM
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That is covered in another video (there should have been an entire playlist there, if it wasn't there, let me know and I'll try to fix it). When you are done with your silverware, and ready for your plate to be cleared, the handles go off to the right and the eating ends go in the center. I THINK the handles are suppose to cross- I've never had to remember if they cross or not; even the $100/plate restaurant servers will ask if they notice you're not eating anymore. (Silverware leaves with the p…
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/13 02:17 PM
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I've always advocated timing your outings around your child's nap schedule. No sense in taking a tired child out in public then screaming at him like a banshee when he whines or misbehaves.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/13 06:27 PM
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He's 13.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/13 06:25 PM
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My stepson has terrible manners. I've made him sit on the floor and eat more than once. cringe I hate eating at restaurants with him. We can't correct him without him causing a scene... so we don't take him out much. This next month is going to be nerve wracking for me. We have a ski trip coming up and we go out to nice restaurants every night. Last year he order crab legs. No big cheese, until he started cracking the legs then setting the meat on his napkin (which was not in his lap). There was…
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/13 04:57 PM
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Sounds like he's hot for you, but ashamed of how much younger you are. Tell him that you want more, and won't settle for less. Its time for him to "shit or get off the pot".
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/13 03:01 PM
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So... what ya doing later ;)
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/13 02:56 PM
2

You're welcome!
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/13 02:37 PM
1

Feminists tend to put quite a bit of emphasis on everything being equal in a relationship. I'm simply trying to shift away from "equal" and toward "what works best" for each individual couple. Personally, I take the word "equal" very literally. They each do an equal amount of laundry, dishes, cleaning gutter, mowing grass, changing the oil, etc. That just sounds silly to me. I don't want to change the oil in the car. And I'm certainly not climbing up a ladder to clean the gutters, or sweeping th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/13 02:36 PM
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This sub needed more substinance. Rather than snivel about it, I did something. :)
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/13 02:25 PM
1

In most instances, an equal relationship will not work. There can only be one leader at a time. In very limited circumstances, an equal relationship can work, but the partners must be on equal footing. I'm not saying that men are better or women are better. I'm saying men are apples and women are oranges. Apples and oranges aren't equal or unequal- they're different, with different strengths and weaknesses. Trying for an equal relationship will only cause undue stress for both partners. However,…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/13 09:22 PM
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Oh wow. Where to begin? First, stop getting drunk. Its sloppy and unladylike to get drunk and then have sex with men you don't have a commitment from. Second. Stop isolating yourself with men you don't want to have sex with. You basically greenlighted B. Third. Stop getting drunk and being alone with men you don't want to sleep with. Dangerous combination that basically guarantees you're going to have sex. I doubt you can fix this. Scrap it and learn from your mistake. Note: you probably should …
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/13 07:54 PM
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Its worked out very well for us. Bonus: I got a kid without having to go through labor for him! possible ninja edit: I did however potty train him. That sucked. He was stubborn and didn't think much of pooping and peeing himself to antagonize me.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/13 07:44 PM
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Being able to change your opinion based on new information is a sign of maturity. Don't apologize for it. Just make sure you're not a flipflopper.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/13 04:44 PM
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We went to HS together. Never dated, but ran in the same circles at different times. After we had both been married and subsequently divorced (with 1 kid each), we ran into each other at a restaurant that we both frequented, though apparently never saw each other there before then. I recognized him and was all "OMG!?! Mr. Strom!?! How are you!?!" Then he was all "And you are?" He didn't recognize me. I was in love. A guy who didn't trip over himself trying to talk to me was a very rare thing bac…
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/13 04:43 PM
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Lesbians are hot. I'm bisesexual. I like men just a little bit more than women though, women can't grow beards. I would assume that at least some lesbians are more dominant and therefore could lead the relationship. However, I think a pair of very feminine lesbians could have an actual "equal" relationship and hire out the dirty jobs. Don't know enough about transgendered individuals to have an opinion. All humans have value. Some just more than others, based on their value to society. Morality …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/13 04:35 PM
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What's your definition of "even"? Is it okay for me to do the cooking and the cleaning, while Mr. Strom does the household maintenance? Or do we need to split all of these chores down the middle so that he does half the dishes and I mow the lawn every other time?
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/13 03:46 PM
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Keep your head up. I was a single mother too. Mr. Strom was a single father. We've been together for nearly 11 years and married for almost 7.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/13 03:32 PM
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Good call
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/13 11:24 PM
3

No its not. Women need men. The world needs men. They design and build everything we take for granted right down to the roads and cars we drive on them. "Strong women don't need men" my ass.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/13 06:19 PM
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I sure as hell don't. I think OP is way off base as to what Red Pill means.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/13 06:16 PM
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That was a shit article. Of course the author is going to marry a wealthy man- she came from wealth. A working class woman won't even have the connections to marry a wealthy man. Being from a middle class family, I married a middle class man. That's a terrible article. Marry within your socio-economic strata. Become the best version of you as possible, be the best wife you can be. "Strong women don't need men"? Are you kidding me? This isn't Red Pill, its feminist apologetic hamstering.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/13 06:15 PM
1

There are nice glue-in extensions that are reuseable. Please pay the extra money and have them professionally done. People change their hair all the time. Who cares if you got extensions? My hair is currently dyed a very unnatural shade of red. You ought to be able to manage a nice 50's bobb cut in a few (>6 months). Hang in there. Hair grows back.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/13 06:08 PM
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Nicely put.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/13 06:04 PM
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Most plates would ditch you if you're sick for more than a day or two. And FSM forbid you get admitted to the hospital, you'd have no plates left. A wife or fiancee on the other hand, who you've been gaming and maintaining frame with... she'll nurse you back to health because she loves you and sees it as her privilege to nurse a strong man.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/13 02:32 PM
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Clearly, you don't value what I have to offer. That's fine. You don't want a deep, emotional bond with a woman. That's cool. You don't have to.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/13 09:50 PM
10

Blow jobs and cookies. Keep his stomach full and his balls empty. :D
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/13 09:19 PM
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Oh good! You did come over to ask! I can't speak for ALL rpw, but I can tell you I add quite a bit of value to Mr. Strom's life. Sex. I know, I know... the plate spinners get sex too. But I know him better than some random slut does. I know the intricacies of his body and what he likes. I read him like a book then lay him like tile. Love. I love him better than his mother does, partly because his mother is batshit crazy, but mostly because I know him as a man. Companionship. I'm better than a do…
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/13 08:43 PM
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I feel honored you thought of us! hugs
/r/TheRedPill27/12/13 08:28 PM
4

You don't have to put a ring on it to say you're going to be exclusive.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/13 04:20 PM
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I should have been clearer. He was stalking me and threatening to rape me. If a guy crosses that line then he should go to jail.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/13 04:19 PM
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First hand experience in this. Ex husband stalked me for 5 months. No contact means no contact. Ignore him and hope he goes away. If he doesn't, get a PPO or restraining order. I ended up having both. Jail is a strong motivator.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/13 08:36 PM
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it depends on the guy. Mr. Strom likes me to change it up 2-3 times a year. I'm a red head right now. Two months ago I was dark blonde. I've also had dark brown and everything in between.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/13 08:34 PM
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I'm with /u/TempestTcup, If you really want this relationship you have to be willing to blow it up. Sit him down and tell him that you really like him and would like to be in a relationship with him BUT you need a commitment of exclusivity. Tell him that you are playing for keeps and want a relationship that leads towards an even more committed relationship, perhaps even marriage. Tell him that you want to go slow and that you are not going to jump into a sexual relationship until you feel secur…
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/13 08:26 PM
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Plate spinner. Let him know you're not putting out without a promise of monogamy. Also make sure he knows that there's more than sex on the table.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/13 08:23 PM
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The other exception is June Cleaver in a world of Peggy Bundy's. We wear makeup, and dress up just because we can. We adore our husbands and dote on them. And for that we are shunned by most women. I don't talk about my relationship much with other women because if I mention that I made Mr. Strom a cup of coffee, they ask if his legs are broke. :(
/r/TheRedPill22/12/13 05:08 PM
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It just goes to prove that the "me be strong, me be independent!" attitude is just a massive shit test. Women don't want to be that. They simply maintain that attitude out of necessity until the right guy comes along who will let them be little girls again. Exactly. And if you notice your SO behaving in "strong, independent" ways, give her a dose of alpha. Chances are she's feeling the need to lead because you slacked off.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/13 04:46 PM
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throw away everything in my dresser that doesn't fit that description I did that a while ago. It helps. I have a pair of yoga pants and other workout clothes. I tend to wear them when I'm working out. I also wear them or leggings when I'm feeling lazy. I pair them with well fitting t's and sweaters. I <3 leggings for at home. They show off my assets ;) In warmer weather I wear light weight knit dresses and sun dresses most days. Target clearance racks are my best friends. I also make some of my …
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/13 03:15 AM
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I call bull crap. You can wear makeup everyday. I do. Hell, I planned on staying home today to cook and clean... I put my hair in pin curls last night, and I'm wearing a full face of 1930/1940s makeup. If you really don't want to put on a full face, you can put on a BB or CC cream, blush and mascara. It would take all of 30 seconds and will make a big difference in how you look and feel. I also call bull crap on not dressing nicely everyday. Today I wore black dress pants, a black tank and a leo…
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/13 01:48 AM
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Oh good. I was worried for you. Note: Nerdy men tend to make money after college and also tend to make good fathers. My favorite uncle is the Captain of the Nerds.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/13 06:02 PM
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I have a love/hate relationship with HuffPo. This chick needs to get her head on straight. Where was she when 7 of these brides she stood up for went hamster on their husbands? Why can't she just be happy for her friends? Seriously, journalism has taken a huge hit in credibility now that column space is effectively free. Just print whatever selfish, mean-spirited thoughts you have and call it a human interest piece. And it sounds like the author needs to get laid.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/13 01:52 AM
2

You love me! You really love me! :D Seriously, I'm very honored. :)
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/13 01:36 AM
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I second this. Dana is amazeballs. ( I heard that on a commercial earlier and thought it was appropriate.)
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/13 01:35 AM
2

tag along to college parties :/ Dude, maybe hang out at the library, but going to tons of parties will get you a reputation that isn't conducive to getting wifed.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/13 01:32 AM
1

You should check out MMSL. It might clarify what we're doing here at RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/13 01:26 AM
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This isn't TRP, its RPW. And its about recognizing our own faults and learning to deal with them. Generally speaking, women beta-ize their men and then bitch and piss and moan that their man isn't "a real man" anymore. They beat their man down and he keeps doing what he's told is "right". Too bad that what is "right" is what men-hating feminists has told them is "right" and it just kills the attraction even more. Once you recognize that a little kindness goes a long ways with men, and that you d…
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/13 12:17 AM
3

PMS. Sometimes I realize it as its happening, other times, it may take a few days and one of my friends calling me out. Its something I've been working on.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/13 12:10 AM
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Call her out early. Sometimes we're forgetful. Something along the lines of "Seriously? I'm having a shit day, you don't need to make it worse." Or you could "punish" her with a spanking. Nothing says "he's the man" like a good spanking. ;) Note: For all the BP/feminist trolls, I'm not condoning physical violence- I'm talking about kinky sex.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/13 11:56 PM
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If he had just left, you'd still have divorced parents. Your life would still be screwed up. And if you're honest with yourself, it was probably mostly your mom's fault. Men are pretty easy to get along with if you can get over your pride. *ninja edit: Cause seriously. Make a guy a sandwich and play with his weiner, you'll be aces in his book every time.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/13 11:50 PM
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Writing shit like this makes me think she wouldn't have hacked it as a in-print newspaper reporter anyways. Column space is expensive and writing drivel will get you fired or plain not hired in the first place. Sounds like her lack of employment is her fault.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/13 04:51 PM
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Most men don't cheat for no reason. In most instances, its because she turned him out of the bedroom.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/13 04:45 PM
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First thought- gee I wonder why you got divorced? Nagging shrews often get divorced because they think the grass is greener. Cheese and rice. I can't read anymore. What a twat. She made a series of very poor decisions and now she's whinging about how its all someone else's fault. Her hamster must be a cardio bunny for all the wheel spinning. I am a stay-at-home mom and housewife. Have been for many years. When times were lean, I'd get a job to supplement my husband's earnings and still do all th…
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/13 04:43 PM
2

I have wondered on several occasions if these realizations would ever get easier They better or I really might just shoot myself in the face.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/13 04:33 PM
2

Copy Pasta! These things you don't like about him her, you won't get him her to change them without causing serious resentment. Either learn to deal with him the way he she is or move on. Men Women do not change unless they want to. And nagging him until he she does change does not work. He'll She'll just start eating junk food in secret and lying about studying doing the stuff you don't like in secret. And really, he she sounds like a 4 at best. You'll eventually tire of picking up his her slac…
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/13 04:30 PM
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Wild shot in the dark... You're either still in highschool or just starting college. These things you don't like about him, you won't get him to change them without causing serious resentment. Either learn to deal with him the way he is or move on. Men do not change unless they want to. And nagging him until he does change does not work. He'll just start eating junk food in secret and lying about studying. And really, he sounds like a 4 at best. You'll eventually tire of picking up his slack. Go…
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/13 04:26 PM
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Apples and oranges are both fruit, as men and women are both humans and worthy of human rights. But we have drastically different biologies and psychologies that have different needs and wants. And you're pretty fucking stupid if you came in RPW expecting to get away with feminist strawmen arguments.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/13 04:14 PM
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I facepalm at least twice a week, twice a day when I'm PMSing. I'm getting better at admitting that I was the asshole and humbly asking for forgiveness.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/13 04:10 PM
2

Threads like this one are the reasons I still subscribe to TRP as a woman. Warms my feels.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/13 04:03 PM
6

First and only gold I'll probably ever buy- cause you deserve it.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/13 03:57 PM
2

Its like calling apples and oranges equal.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/13 03:37 PM
3

I realize after it blows up in my face that this is a woman's rational and not a man's but these are the things I can't seem to think through until after it blows up. Right!?! Its like you're watching how many times the basketball was passed and completely missed the guy in the gorilla suit until the third time you watched the video- in slow motion.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/13 03:33 PM
2

Manners and self improvement for the sake is self improvement. Both are lost arts.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/13 03:44 AM
1

Lolz, I just told my baby cousin (she's 19) that she should get her Mrs instead of a MBA. Personally, college was a waste. All I got out of it was a useless degree (for the area I live in, cpt ) and some debt.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/13 03:42 AM
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Sorry this took 2 days. Once in a while life happens. I encourage a "feminine" hobby mostly because it implies not sitting on the couch, eating chocolates, while watching Jerry Springer, in other words: not getting fat and lazy. Sounds like you're already fairly well rounded- but really, being a little extra feminine does tend to make men feel protective and horny- a good combination in a husband/boyfriend.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/13 09:13 PM
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I second this motion. No matter what happens though, be the best man you can be. Even if you are alone, if you can be happy with yourself, everything is better.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/13 09:09 PM
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I was 22 when Mr. Strom and I started dating. We moved in together after six months and married four years after that. You are not too young. Don't be afraid to ask him where he sees your relationship headed. You both have a right to know how the other one thinks things are going. In the mean time, become the best wife material you can be. Learn to cook and clean, and pick up a feminine hobby. I sew, knit, and crochet. Oh, and don't be a slut.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/13 11:06 PM
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I lost my grandmother last year. I was a wreck. I managed to keep the house clean and the laundry done but little else. Mr. Strom was pissed that I wouldn't share my grief with him. He says it's his responsibility to take care of me and that I need to let him. So I let him hold me while I cried. He didn't even care that I snotted all over him. My advice: do your best and let him help with the rest.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/13 06:36 PM
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Welding and plumbing are yucky, dirty jobs. Why on earth would a woman want to get dirty? That's why I got married.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/13 02:04 AM
3

touche
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 08:17 PM
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Mr. Strom is self employed as well. We tell each other "Everything is going to be okay" when times get tough. Tell him that you have faith in him. Then play with his weiner. Men love it when you play with their weiners.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/13 03:24 PM
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Female BC sucks for chicks too Ramen! I was one of the last to get Adiana, silicone plugs for my tubes. They got sued for stealing the idea from Essure (which uses copper springs). Too bad the copper springs cause more problems and once you have it done, you can never have your uterus ablated (used for lessening bleeding during menses in cases of heavy flow problems). And I have a 14 yo son. He doesn't know it yet, but he'll be getting Vasagel as soon as it becomes available.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 03:14 PM
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Its cheap because its 1. non-profit and 2. its already been tested for 15 years in India. Its just a rebranding. Vasagel is a polymer that coats the inside of the vans deferens. It creates a small magnetic charge that rips apart sperm on their way out- effectively rendering a male sterile. There's no hormones or blockages, so no side effects other than pain/swelling at the injection site and small risk of infection. All that has to be done is check all the boxes that the FDA wants checked. This …
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 03:00 PM
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"Little Women" encourages women to tame their tempers (see Marmee and Jo), develop womanly talents (Amy learns to paint china), marry someone you're compatible with (Jo lets Teddy down easily, Teddy ends up marrying Amy), and not being lazy.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 02:20 PM
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I didn't. I was responding to the BP OP's comments about feeling unatrractive.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 02:00 PM
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You have issues. Serious issues. Take a look at what we're encouraging over at RPW to the ladies. Self improvement isn't just for the guys. We encourage men to be men and women to be women. Men should be more stoic and less whiny. Women should be soft and sweet. I'll forget that you just wished rape and a beating on me. You should call a psychiatrist tomorrow.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/13 11:31 PM
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Lol @ mangry! I'm Mrs. Strom, not Mr.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/13 10:19 PM
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That's not funny, that's sad. "Little Women" needs to be required reading.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/13 06:36 PM
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She's begging you to not turn into that loser. When she shit tests you, push back. Be a brick wall. Let the storms of her emotions rage against your impenetrable stone walls and be the light in the dark to guide her back to smooth seas. Then lay her like tile. When you're done, have her make you a sandwich. She'll adore you.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/13 06:10 PM
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Whatever happened to changing yourself for the better? If he feels unattractive, maybe he should exercise and dress better? Get a haircut? I'd friendzone this kid just for being a whiner. Women do not want a sniveling doormat for a partner. We want men. So stop whining, get off your ass, and get on with being a better man.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/13 06:04 PM
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I have my doubts about this picture. Three days post baby, I could barely stand up straight, let alone take a selfie (not that cell phones had cameras back then). I was 5'7" and 118 lbs leaving the hospital. My belly was still bread dough. But if that really is a post baby pic, good for her.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/13 05:29 PM
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Most babies born today are 6-8 lbs, with all the fluid and stuff with the baby they should gain around 20-30 lbs. Is it not healthy for an expectant mother to continue exercising, to eat healthy? After giving birth, women are supposed to take it easy for 6 weeks, which includes no heavy lifting, no running/jogging, no sex, and lots of sleep. Its a lot like recovering after major surgery. Or are they trying to excuse the fact that a baby is an excuse to gain over 100 lbs and eat ice cream constan…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/13 05:18 PM
2

Really? I think she's very pretty. And really, who knows? Maybe she's a freak for Harry.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/13 05:12 PM
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Women are a jealous and vicious lot. But that could be my thin privilege talking.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/13 05:10 PM
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No clue. Mr. Strom occasionally calls me "woman" and then tells me to make him a sandwich. I giggle while making his sandwich, then put a cookie or two on the plate and ask if he'd like something to drink. Tl;dr: maybe we're not the best group to ask about that.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/13 12:46 PM
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Your are awesome! I'd heard of that before, but it wasn't up for approval.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/13 01:07 AM
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I'll keep my eyes and ears open. Thanks for the heads up
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/13 03:18 AM
1

The response you get is completely dependent on the recipients mind set. Sometimes they are ready and sometimes not. It's like quitting smoking, when the conditions are right, it just happens.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/13 03:16 AM
1

What's it called?
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/13 02:59 AM
5

I know I would. I wonder where Mr. Strom went off to....
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/13 02:48 AM
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I have a 14 year old son. I wish I could get him a fully reversible vasectomy for Christmas. That would be awesome!
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/13 02:47 AM
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I didn't take it that sarcastically. I'm dead serious, I'm glad I'm not just a boy without a penis. I very much like being a girly girl. And I love my manly man husband. But I'm atheist. If I'm going to thank a deity I don't believe in, I might as well thank a cool one. So thank the Flying Spaghetti Monster for manly men and girly girls!
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 09:20 PM
4

Thank Zeus!
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 08:18 PM
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Boys are punished more and more at schools for acting masculine As a parent, this irritates me to no end. Schools keep cutting playground/active/gym time in favor of quiet reading/instruction time, and its been detrimental to boys' learning. Boys are hardwired to NEED physical activity. Its no wonder boys are having a harder time learning and are getting into trouble for being "disruptive" when they aren't being given ample time to wear off their excess energy. Boys are not defective girls.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 04:29 PM
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I've never understood why some parents feel the need to bash the other. My ex-husband does this. Its almost like he's afraid that our son will love me more than him if he doesn't bash me at every opportunity. Personally, I'm not worried about how much my son loves me or if he loves his father more than me. I'm his mother. His relationship with his father has nothing to do with his relationship with me. As long as I hold up my end of the deal, being a good mother, I have nothing to worry about. I…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 04:24 PM
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I don't know if I agree with that. Hubby and I are socialists. I make Obama look like a Tea Party door knocker. But I'm RP. And an atheist. Well, anti-theist actually. But I think the Captain/First Mate model works very well, and I believe that men and women are inherently different. We have different needs and wants. Men are not just defective women. So why not play to our strengths? I'm a better homemaker and he's a better breadwinner. That's not conservative or liberal- its realistic.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/13 06:58 PM
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if I can eat cereal out of your ass cellulite I just threw up a little in my mouth.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/13 06:49 PM
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For a minute I thought I was in /r/fatlogic. But then I remembered I saw this there too. Fucking hilarious for both subs. Stupid feminist ham planets. It's okay to be fat! If your man doesn't find you sexy after gaining 75-100 pounds, just blame the weight gain on having his children, and shame him for the next 30 years! This way you can stuff your face and still have all the perks of being married without having to put in any of the work!
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/13 01:42 AM
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Check out Anthol Kay's stuff. I own both books and occasionally visit the forums. They've both helped. The biggest thing for us was me actually telling him that I wanted him to lead- and then letting him. There are times that I disagree with him, but I also trust him to make the best decision possible with the information available at the time.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/13 05:16 AM
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Typing on my phone. Please be gentle. Mr. Strom is a natural leader. I'm far too emotional to lead effectively. In the beginning, he'd let me have whatever I wanted, and it nearly sunk us. So I gave him "permission" to tell me no, and I promised to not get mad when he did. That was years ago. Since then things have improved dramatically. These days I'm his stepford wife and he's my rock. We function better as a team than we do apart. In lost without him. In the bedroom? Lol. You don't want to kn…
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/13 02:43 AM
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I was a legal secretary/paralegal (small office) when Mr. Strom and I got married. By George that was a good time.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/13 03:22 PM
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It might help to remember that baby fever is hormonal. I'm 32 and still get twinges. It gets really bad if I'm around a newborn for too long. Their pheromones are like crack, and I'm a junkie. Which is why its a good thing that you're following your husband's lead on the baby thing. If it were left up to women, many of us would be perpetually pregnant or nursing and in the poor house. At least I would be.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/13 03:19 PM
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OP, try reposting to /r/RedPillWomen or /r/RedPill_Couples. You'll get better responses there.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/13 03:02 PM
1

Blue? Oh, Mr. Strom wouldn't notice that. He's colorblind. He can't see red, blue, green, purple, well fuck, he can only see yellow.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/13 01:20 AM
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First, I adore that you noticed my username. He's taken it before. But he was like 25. So we really didn't notice a difference. Now that he's older, we might try it again.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/13 12:47 AM
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Sorry to write a book-length reply to a throwaway comment, No man, that's cool. TIL!
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/13 12:29 AM
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the strange cognitive dissonance of your body doing something your brain would rather not Not my brothel, not my problem.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/13 11:59 PM
1

Viagra?
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/13 11:09 PM
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You would make so much money. The trouble would be finding attractive men willing to have sex with land whales.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/13 10:26 PM
3

That would explain why nurses "eat their young". Old nurses are fucking bitches to nursing students.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/13 10:06 PM
1

Oh, LOL! No, sorry. I'm Mrs. Strom. I'm married to a man. Though, Amy is very pretty. But she's married to one of Mr. Strom's friends. Thank you for the laugh.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/13 10:02 PM
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She's married. Her husband makes more than enough money to support them.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/13 09:19 PM
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We do love Dana. And you probably deserved it. ;)
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/13 06:58 PM
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Housewife here. I promise you /u/danabanana9 is right about him not resenting you. That's just not how men work. Well, most men. I know ONE who thinks his wife should make more money, but he's a schmuck. The rest couldn't care less if their girlfriends/wives even have jobs- even the ones that are barely scraping by. The general consensus among Mr. Strom and his friends is that they want a woman that will love and adore them- then have sex with them. I was quite serious in my other reply about pl…
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/13 05:26 PM
1

I want to be the highest I can be career wise but I also want to have a family. You're not Wonder Woman. You can absolutely have a career AND a family, but one of them will suffer for the other because there is only 24 hours in a day. My girlfriend Amy is a career woman. She has 3 small sons. Her boys often call the nanny "mommy". She's had 3 nannies. Her children are being raised by strangers. The last one to be fired was doping the kids with benadryl. You can't have your cake and eat it too. E…
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/13 04:49 PM
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I'm a housewife. I literally don't have an income separate from Mr. Strom's. Every penny I spend is his. That being said, I'm a 8 or 9. Even at 32 I'm a fucking catch. Why? Because I take the time to be the best wife I can be. I call him in the middle of the day to tell him I love him, and hint at the sex he'll be getting that night; I bake his favorite cookies on a regular basis. I cook meals that I know he'll enjoy, etc. I exercise and keep myself thin, and keep my hair long. And I play with h…
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/13 04:44 PM
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"How to Be a Good Girlfriend/Wife, Even Though You're Busy" by Mrs. Strom, married woman Step 1: Play with his weiner. Step 2: Repeat Step 1. If you get bored, think of new ways to play with his weiner. Most men really enjoy this thing called a "blow job". Most men also enjoy a sex act often referred to as "butt secks". Men also enjoy it when women dress up like French maids or cheerleaders, and then play with their weiners. Be creative. Have fun.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/13 03:06 PM
2

I had some severely disordered eating in my early twenties, anorexia nervosa. Though I am now a normal/healthy weight (5'7", 135 lbs.), I am still occasionally very critical of my appearance. ROK is spot on.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 02:56 PM
2

For me, the amazing sex on a regular basis is pretty awesome. Alpha cock is pretty good the first few times, but when you're with the same Alpha for 10 years, the sex becomes absolutely unreal. Add to that the safety, security, sense of belonging, and having a built-in best friend who knows you inside and out, and settling down can be... indescribably amazing. Getting to that point takes work. You have to be mindful of picking a partner that you really are compatible with, and would still want t…
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/13 06:05 AM
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She's the kind of dumb bitch that ruins it for everyone. She's screwing over perfectly nice men who could have become awesome husbands and fathers, and adding fuel to the MGTOW fire. She should be shamed. Publicly.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/13 10:41 PM
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Will you adopt me? Be my mother Lady Motido. Seriously though. You hit the nail on the head. He is the boss. And when your man is the boss, you WANT to make him happy, for him to approve of you.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/13 07:29 PM
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Mr. Strom and I have always been kinda RP, but not as a conscious thing. He's always been very charismatic; he has a very "the devil may care" kind of attitude. I had a crush on him in high school. I've always been very submissive to him; even more so now that we are consciously managing our marriage with RP/D/s theory. Where do you find a RP woman? I'd recommend Fetlife if you live in a densely populated area. Look for a submissive woman. The more traditional way would be to look for a woman wh…
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/13 07:24 PM
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I partially answered this elsewhere, but I'll go into more detail here. When women orgasm, her body releases oxytocin. That's the hormone responsible for attachment and loving feelings. There is no way around that. The more you orgasm with a particular male, the stronger the feelings are going to be. And those feelings linger. Alpha males are very good at making women orgasm. The hormonal high you get after intense sex is addictive. You'll crave it once you have it. Mr. Strom's best friend, Capt…
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/13 06:47 PM
2

BDSM wife here, specifically: Stepford wife/slave/masochist. Hubby is Dom/Ward Cleaver. I'm not sure RP has a stance on poly relationships because we're not exactly a unified, homogenous group. So these are MY PERSONAL responses, not meant to represent RP or BDSM. Switching/topping can be fun. And even my Dominatrix friend enjoys being topped and being submissive to a strong enough Dom. Really, I think she'd enjoy being submissive more often if she hadn't married a bottom/sissy boy. She's very h…
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/13 06:31 PM
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Bad boys are exciting. Its like being in high school again and skipping class- you know its wrong but its just so much fun! In the long term though, neither (skipping school or fucking the bad boy) are sustainable. Rich men can provide for her offspring. They're attractive for LTRs but don't necessarily make our panties drop. I got lucky. Mr. Strom was the bad boy in high school. God did I have a crush on him. He'd come to art class high; he cut my best friend's hair cause she was a walking FPS …
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/13 05:46 PM
1

Its on Kindle and Nook. Looks like you can order the physical copies from Amazon and BandN as well.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 11:18 PM
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They've been doing it over there for several years from what I understand. I heard about it at least three years ago. Edit: and basically it hasn't been approved by the FDA because none of the pharmacutical companies want to fund the studies necessary because there's no money in it for them. The materials for the injections are less than $5 and takes less than 10 minutes to administer.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 11:04 PM
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Posting from my phone, please forgive formatting and spelling errors. There is cheap, effective, male birth control available, but not in the USA. Two small injections on the vas deferens of a, forgive me if my memory is wrong, silicone like liquid coats the inside of the walls, creating a small magnetic field that shreds sperm on their way out the door. It's available in India and lasts for at least 10 years. Edit: forgot to add that it's easily reversible with another injection of normal salin…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 08:45 PM
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TIL!
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 01:27 PM
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You might want to look into BDSM "sub' or "slave" tattoos. A rose is a common one that refers to her submission/devotion without having a name or initials on her. Its like /u/LifterofThings said, names/faces etc are bad mojo. If you two ever split for whatever reason, she now has something tattooed on her that she may regret.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/13 03:49 AM
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I read that in NPH's (as Barney Stinson) voice. That night will be legen.. wait for it... dary!
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 03:02 AM
1

Hair: Super gentle shampoo and a moisturizing conditioner. After towel drying my hair Beautifying Serum by Euphoria. Skin: Balancing cleanser for combination skin can't remember the brand or coconut oil and hot water. Nails: at home gel with french manicure. Weight: keto/paleo and exercise. In the next ten years I will probably get the breast lifting surgery with small implants to perk the sisters back up and will begin considering other invasive means to maintain my looks.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/13 06:16 PM
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congrats /u/danabanana9 !
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/13 03:46 PM
2

of course, I'm straight and female Exactly. I'm bi, but I prefer men. So for me, I love an attractive woman with short hair. However, straight women looking to marry a man shouldn't be too interested in my personal preference.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/13 10:41 PM
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I think you're looking at the gay men/women/feminist's opinion of short hair in the wrong light. Who are gay men and straight women attracted to? Men. So how are gay men and women going to often prefer women's hair? Like a man's (short). Feminists seem to think that you should look however you want (fat, dirty, short hair, whatever.) Because its your choice. What they are failing to realize is that what is attractive to straight men is not what is attractive to gay men, bisexual men, or women. T…
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/13 08:59 PM
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Sounds like my MIL. One day I told her she couldn't take the kids because they had school. Next thing I knew I was fucking every Tom, Dick and Harry and my husband needed to divorce me because I was a cheating whore bitch. She now denies that ever happened and she just loves me like a daughter now that my BIL is divorced and she has no one but me.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/13 05:07 PM
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I get that. But no one uses it properly anymore. Plus "jumped while walking through the park rape" and "home invasion rape" account for a very small percent of rapes. The large majority of rape victims know their attackers. "Date rape" has lost its original meaning and now refers to all the dubious "did she have too much to drink pseudo-rapes".
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/13 01:49 PM
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Since when is it a shit test to confirm plans?
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 01:09 AM
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Gawd I hate the term "date rape". If you were raped, you were raped- it doesn't matter if you were on a date or not.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/13 12:35 AM
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No, its in my spine. I'm seeing a chiropractor. It's helped quite a bit.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/13 05:31 PM
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I wear heels quite often. Mr. Strom is a fan of them. Bonus: dressing up and putting on a little music makes housework kinda fun. Looking nice makes your whole day brighter. :) Don't be surprised if you find out your bf has foot fetish. He might even decide that you need a pedicure allowance! :D
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/13 04:30 PM
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What a lying bitch. Planning your wedding and buying a dress and being the center of attention is FUN. It's a socially acceptable excuse to spend an obscene amount of money on frivolous things.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 08:06 PM
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You'll always be third place behind her and her kids Not necessarily. Some of us have taken the red pill and know that putting our marriage first gives our kids a stable home and helps keep us from spoiling our children. Your problem is figuring out who we are.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 02:28 PM
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She probably gave her babies Mt Dew in their bottles too, didn't she? Something about white trash women dictates they give their infants and toddlers Mt. Dew.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 02:24 PM
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Unfortunately, yes. His ex-wife did it too. D:
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/13 02:00 AM
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All my friends are married. I couldn't imagine being 32 and single. Though it does suck. Hubby's BF is divorced and I have no one to hook him up. And because of the abysmal selection of women our age, he keeps dating the horrible, post-wall divorcees that let themselves go 5 years ago and probably can't write a cohesive sentence. And they give their babies MT DEW IN THEIR BOTTLES. Anybody wanna date a handsome, home owning, no mortgage having, ginger iron worker?
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/13 01:59 PM
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Its articles like these that make me happy I married my hubby young.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/13 11:28 PM
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I'm starting to feel like we should have a RP for LTRs. Because seriously, guys should know that they can use the PUA/TRP methods to keep their marriages fresh and sexy. Want your wife to be all wet and practically begging for sex? Game her. I love it when Mr. Strom games me. Its hot!
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/13 11:45 PM
1

My hands go numb if I keep my hands above my shoulders for too long (like more than a minute). So my hair tends to be either very quick to do like a ponytail with a headband or something that I can do in short pieces like an inverted bun or very occasionally a french braid. I also like braiding just the front bits and then pulling it back into a bun or ponytail. Hubby is coming home tomorrow, I like the first pompadour. Maybe he'll get a new hairstyle to look at. :)
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/13 05:29 PM
2

LOL @ "jew hair".
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/13 05:24 PM
2

I wish I had more than one upvote to give you. The Primer and the MAP are priceless. They're changing lives!
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/13 04:24 PM
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I love the Primer. I recommend everyone read it. And really, its the idea of a RP LTR that set us apart from TRP. Sure guys and spin plates for quite a while, and many guys will never want anything more; but many men want loving, long term relationships that will sustain them into their golden years. Eventually most men hit the wall too and will no longer be able to bang pre-wall chicks.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/13 04:21 PM
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Thank you. I like you too. As a woman who was held down and legs forced open then raped, I fucking hate stupid bitches that cry wolf and make those of us who really were raped, look like liars. I'm sorry you were falsely accused. I wish you all the luck in the world.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/13 05:18 PM
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People who are blackout drunk often don't appear to be all that drunk at that moment. The blackout part is often the result of later drinking. It is entirely feasible for a girl to be not that drunk, have sex, go back to drinking, get blackout drunk, then forget WTF happened all the way back to before the sexy times. Did he rape her? I'd say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/13 04:46 PM
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Are you fucking kidding me. Why would you even go there? You are seriously fucked up. I don't even give a shit if this gets me banned. The fuck is wrong with you? In what fucked up world do we compare consenting adults with CHILDREN?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/13 04:44 PM
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How is the guy supposed to know that she's blackout drunk if she's walking and talking? I'm not sure how being physically able to say yes/no means you're not able to give consent. Mind you, I did say elsewhere it still wasn't a good idea for a guy to have sex with a gal who was obviously inebriated.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/13 02:41 PM
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(hence her shouting that she was unable to consent at every turn)? She was functioning well enough to verbally express her desires. Therefore the sex was consensual. Regret does not negate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/13 02:38 PM
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Five IQ points is not a lot. In fact, it is not enough to accurately predict someone's gender based on their IQ. Its very similar to using a baby's heart rate to predict gender. Sure girls' heart rates are faster in general, but there isn't enough of a difference to predict the sex of the baby.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/13 02:07 AM
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It shouldn't be that way, but it is. I really do think men ought to be able to legally opt out of parenthood if that's what they want to do. It'll suck for the kid, but in this kind of situation, there's no winner.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/13 01:54 AM
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I'll play. She stole the pizza and the cab ride and was not raped. She was able to consent to all three. She might be a selfish, thieving cunt, but she was not incapacitated.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/13 01:35 AM
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If she's incoherent, passed out, or otherwise unable to actively participate, its rape. That being said, I think most guys would be doing themselves a favor to not have sex with a chick for the first time if she's 6/10 drunk or more. I draw the rape line closer to 8-9/10, but that doesn't mean that she would have engaged you sober and is a far cry more likely to call rape. I'd also like to point out that while it may not be her fault that a guy decided to have sex with her passed out body, but i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/13 10:55 PM
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Actual rape victims generally don't go screaming "I'm a rape victim, LOOK AT ME!" from rooftops, myself included. That being said, Fuck. That. Bitch. Fuck her and Fuck her stupid fake rape alleging ass. I hope she gets face cancer that never kills her, just fucks up her face for the rest of her life. And fuck the whiny white knights who get all up in arms about their little sisters fucking older guys and convince themselves that the dude MUST HAVE raped her because there's NO WAY his little sist…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/13 10:01 PM
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I pride myself in being a Stepford. I'm proud of keeping my house clean, laundry done, and my husband's and kids' bellies full of nutritious, homemade food. I'm proud that I haven't let myself go and maintain my health and beauty. I'm proud that I married such an amazing man who has his priorities straight and can provide for our family financially without my help- in fact, I'm so comfortable in my husband's competency as the head of our family, that I easily defer to him in everything and follo…
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/13 08:31 PM
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I think a lot of us are in that same boat. Tempest is right. All you can really do is give him your all. Stay in shape, or get into shape/lose weight, makeup, clothes that fit, cooking, cleaning, and laying him like tile. And what ever you do, don't take his goggles off.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/13 06:28 PM
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I'm surprised you guys haven't thought of this yet. In China, there is a steady population shift happening. From an even split, to more men. Since the arrival of the ultrasound to determine a baby's sex, women in China have been aborting female fetuses, or in some cases just "accidently" having some thing happen to the baby. Men and boys have traditionally been more valuable than females. Well, now there's a shortage of women. The pretty women have their pick of pretty much who ever they want. T…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/13 06:06 PM
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Yeah, call me. Cause that would be cool!
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/13 05:49 PM
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I don't know why you have to have a Bible verse to be a decent person/wife. This list (other than the praying) are all things that everyone should try to live up to no matter their religion or lack thereof. And really, this list is redundant. Treat your husband as a human being with valid thoughts and feelings, worthy of respect- otherwise why the fuck did you marry him. Don't be a selfish cunt. If you have any questions, refer to 1 & 2.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/13 02:54 PM
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in my eyes the degree of intimacy is in the chemistry of the pair performing, not in some sort of "scale" of bases That very well may be for you, but for me, PIV sex is way more intimate and emotionally charging than even the most enthusiastic blow job. And the better the sex, the more upset I was when we broke up- even if he was bad news. Please don't misunderstand me, I'm actually 100% in agreement with /u/FleetingWish. But the gal I was suggesting this to wants to wait for the real deal until…
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/13 12:56 PM
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I guess that would depend on who you are and how the teasing was done. Mr Strom teases me fairly regularly. He's not mean. He's playful and he makes me laugh. I enjoy it, and it helps keep our relationship fresh. YMMV
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/13 12:45 AM
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Red Pillers, would you like to be demeaned and insulted when you go out searching for a date? RP doesn't just address dating advice. It also applies to LTRs as well. And I wouldn't say men should demean or insult women to get a date/sex, but a little playful teasing goes a long way- even after you're married and keeps her on her toes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/13 11:55 PM
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You tried to reason with him? I was trying to egg him on. Oh! He's back. Now I have lots of wrinkles because I'm 30+.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/13 11:49 PM
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I got the same message. Read you're in your 30s...Yikes... Sounds like you hit the wall a while back. That's probably why you're sucking up to TRP. It's also kinda cute that you think you have this adorable family life. Can't wait til the day your husband upgrades to a newer model. I mean, old cars can't be maintained forever while rackin up tons of miles on em, amirite? ;) If you think you're some kind of an exception to the rule because your husband "loves" you, that's even more adorable. Men …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/13 11:43 PM
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LOL! It is the same one /u/danabanana9! They just switched out our ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/13 11:38 PM
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Just because I like arguing with strangers, not because you don't make a valid point.... Men often don't know if they like "you" until they've had sex with you. Up until they have sex with you, they're trying to have sex with you and may not have a realistic view on whether or not they'd like to hang out with you after sex. Immediately after sex, they can see you for who you really are without sexual thoughts clogging their brains up. A good compromise might be to give hand jobs or blow jobs to …
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/13 06:02 PM
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IMHO, lasagna is better the second time. He could heat up a piece or two of frozen garlic bread in the toaster oven at the same time. I'm also a huge fan of soup. It reheats easily and depending on the soup (ie: french onion) comes out just as nice as the first time. Also: chili, chicken chili, gazpacho, and beef stroganoff.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/13 05:57 PM
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LOL, I noticed that as well.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/13 05:50 PM
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We are not TRP. And even the guys over there don't deny that rape and abuse happen. They just know that many cases are bullshit. I'm a happy Stepford housewife. Living the dream. Tomorrow I'm baking him oatmeal cookies.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/13 02:49 AM
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Woman here, can confirm. The only things that vary after the type and intensity.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/13 02:33 AM
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Women are fucking crazy. I've said it for years. Every single one of us. Myself included. Female hormones have a tendency to make us conniving shrews who can rationalize just about anything. Men are stuck trying to find a wife with a brand of crazy that he can handle. Those of us that are self-aware enough, and/or are married to someone strong enough, we can reign that in, to an extent. Me? I'm vain and self conscious. My vanity knows no bounds, well, I (probably) won't get botox because I'm afr…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/13 06:42 PM
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Nursing is one of those fields that any shlub can get into, most 4 years schools, and even 2 year schools have a nursing program. Depends on how the waitlist is set up. Some schools (many 2 year cc's) accept new nursing students based on how long you've been on the list; others (many 4 year universities) accept new students based on prereq gpa. At a 4 year, you might have finished your prereqs with a 3.3 gpa and never get into clinicals because new students keep outscoring you.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/13 06:15 PM
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I have five female (close) friends. They're all married and I don't hang out with more than one of them at a time. But I'd have to say that my best friend is my husband. And I'll ditch any of the ladies for a chance to hang out with my husband. He's the Schizzle. And I'm totally with /u/danabanana9 on men being better friends- the hubby's friends will help him bury the body, if not kill someone for him.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/13 06:10 PM
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Now I for sure have to delete the thread. LOL
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/13 08:09 PM
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That would have been 16 years ago while she was married to her ex.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/13 02:32 PM
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LOL, this would also apply in /r/fatlogic. Thanks for the laugh.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/13 02:12 PM
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oh no, at 45 after raising another mans kids, he wants some of her and her kids money for himself!!!! Frankly, I wouldn't recommend cashing in your retirement before retirement to ANYONE- no matter their marital status. That's not "her" money, that's HIS retirement. Even without her and the kids, how is he suppose to retire if he has to work until he dies? Yes, he will get SS, but I doubt that will be enough for him to live on let alone enjoy his golden years.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/13 01:54 PM
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No. The three at home are her ex-husband's. And I still don't think she'll divorce him. She might end up using it as a shock tactic/last resort thing. But at this moment I don't see it happening.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/13 01:51 PM
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No. Even being completely honest and admitting that I can't read minds, I really don't believe so.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/13 12:54 PM
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Well, it isn't a bad choice for Randi, being a BSN, she's not as far in student loan debt as Jen who's a MSN. Jen works 12-24 hour shifts. I just can't help but think that her kids would be better served if she were home instead of them spending so much time in daycare. And then Amy. OMG. Crazy lady thought it was FUNNY when her kids started calling the nanny "mommy". Or at least she was pretending to save face. I would have died.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/13 12:48 PM
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:( I wouldn't say "nothing". And she really doesn't want a divorce. But the path they are on isn't sustainable. They've already filed for bankruptcy two years ago.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/13 12:44 PM
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The "threats" aren't threats. Telling your SO that if things don't change, you are leaving is a last resort after all other options have been exhausted. It's also giving fair warning. I just can't see a man taking this from a waman, no alpha man at least. From your username, I see that you aren't a man, so I doubt you can see things from a man's perspective. When you've been trying to communicate for over a year and you get no response, or you get promises to change but no change occurs, some ti…
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/13 10:58 PM
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Its straight out of the MMSL handbook.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/13 08:30 PM
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Thank you. Sincerely. You've added a great deal of depth to my understanding of the situation. Edit: I'm going to forward your reply to "Heather". And you are correct, he'd be mortified if he knew I was discussing him. I'm just very concerned for him and Heather. I don't want them to divorce. He really does try. Thank you again.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/13 07:49 PM
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I believe "shallow" is the term you're looking for. Women are vain for wanting to look their best and men are shallow for wanting good looking women. No shame in that though. That's just how we were made. Both sexes want the best mate they can get. For men that means a smoking hot Marilyn Monroe type and for women that means a man with power/money.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/13 07:29 PM
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TBH, I can't be sure that this isn't the case. She is fairly laid back. She makes fun of me for my need for things to be "just so". But she does have a tendency to frame everything as "just this one thing". Example: he had agreed to smoke rollyourowns instead of buying cigs at the store. When he didn't come through, instead of just plainly calling him out, she said "why can't you do just this one thing". They have well water and the water intake filter gets clogged. When they got into an argumen…
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/13 07:04 PM
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He is absolutely a good father to the boys. All five adore him. He's a hard worker, very skilled in most things masculine (he's a large diesel mechanic, works on firetrucks) and a would be a great provider if he'd stop hemorrhaging money long enough to make and stick to a reasonable budget. But at 45 he's talking about cashing in his retirement for the fourth time to buy a brand new motorcycle- fresh off the showroom floor.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/13 06:56 PM
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From an outsider's perspective, he has very low self esteem. He's told ME that he's saving to do the bathroom, but then I talk to her and he spent what little he saved on something for his motorcycle. His teeth are falling apart, but he won't spend the money to get them fixed. I'd love to hear what a man has to say.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/13 06:49 PM
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Only the oldest is his. And possibly one of the youngest. But that's another story for another day.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/13 06:31 PM
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His child is all grown up and married. Long story short. Lee is Heather's first husband. They had a kid together and then divorced. Heather married Steve. Steve makes mucho money and they have two kids. They try for a girl- get twin boys. Steve works too much and asks Lee to "take care" of Heather. You know what happened there. Heather and Steve divorce. Heather remarries Lee. Heather and Lee have been remarried for 11 years. Lee loves all five boys the same.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/13 06:30 PM
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Well, he is "older" and has a shit diet. He very well might have low T.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/13 06:23 PM
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Is he okay otherwise? Are you sure he doesn't have low T? Or a porn addiction? My first husband was addicted to porn. I didn't realize it until I found MMSL eleven years later. He was a douche canoe anyways so I'm glad I left him. But it might be worth looking into.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/13 06:21 PM
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Holy fuck you're amazing. Thank you! That is a much better approach for him than Option A/Option B.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/13 06:17 PM
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I've thought of that as well. Maybe if she reads it and records it for him (he's dyslexic)....
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/13 06:15 PM
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LOL! Did you see that asshole comparing child support to rape earlier in another thread? People are throwing that word around WAY too much. Unless you've actually been held down and forcibly raped or drugged into submission, you don't get to define rape.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/13 06:13 PM
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Dude. This is RPW, not TRP. We like women here. We celebrate the inherent gender differences and encourage each to play up the best about them. not raping a man for life Child support is not "raping a man for life". If you didn't want to have kids with her, you shouldn't have stuck your dick in her. If you got "conned" or "duped" into having kids with a soul sucking bitch, that's your fault for not doing your homework. Never mind that child support is only paid until the kid is 18 or graduates f…
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/13 05:38 PM
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How fucked up is it that she's the one that introduced me to TPE? (not the sex stuff, she's family) Things weren't always this horrible. As the other men in our circle became more successful, and he stayed at the same job for the same pay and was passed up for promotions, his spending got worse. Now he's trying to "keep up" with guys with "better" jobs with fewer kids.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/13 05:29 PM
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I would probably go with 3 while threatening 2 if he doesn't get his shit together That's what we're working on right now. Any suggestions on how to convince him to get his shit together. I don't think she'll go nuclear for at least 6 months. I'd really like some ideas on how to let all of this be his idea.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/13 05:23 PM
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This subreddit will be Jezebel before you know it. Gawd I hope not.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/13 05:22 PM
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MrsStrom is much more patient than I am; She's family. But thank you? I already gave her my Kindle login so she can read the MAP and MMSL. I'm slowly convincing her that divorce isn't a terrible option. We went through the "worst case scenarios" today. They're not that bad.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/13 05:19 PM
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Its a difference in knowing what men want in a ltr and what women wished men wanted in a ltr. Men truly don't give a shit if you have a "career" or just a "job". For most men, it really is enough that you are responsible enough to hold down a job and can carry on an intelligent conversation. Beyond that, you're self-improvement efforts are far more effective in learning how to really manage a household. Things like meal planning, couponing, keeping house, budgeting what money you do have, all me…
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/13 05:14 PM
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High school art class. I crushed pretty hard. But nothing came of it until we were in our early 20s and going through divorces. I saw him and said "Hi" he replied "and you are?" He claimed he didn't remember me. Turns out he was gaming me in hopes he could fuck me. Then I made him chicken with crunchy rice for dinner and cleaned his house. The rest is history. My rice isn't crunchy anymore but the house is still clean. :)
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/13 02:56 PM
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I'd rather be 32 with an Associates working behind a makeup counter and excel in the arts of homemaking and all things feminine. It is much easier to catch and please a man when you're not self absorbed and career oriented. (But I already have a Mr. so what the fuck do I know?)
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/13 02:47 PM
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Cook that man something! Give him an idea of what home life will be like if you two get back together. And congratulations on to coming to your senses. :)
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/13 02:32 PM
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About a year and a half ago, my grandmother passed away. She was one of my best friends. I was devastated. I'm not sure why, but I thought I needed to be "strong" and just push through and not cry or burden my husband with my grief. What a mistake. It hurt him that I didn't trust him enough to be vulnerable to him and because I was just stuffing my feelings down, my depression deepened. I was pretty much useless. It wasn't until I was sleeping 18 hours a day and the house was a wreck that he con…
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/13 01:56 PM
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clean the house and cook with heels and a dress on every time (though I do sometimes) Isn't it fun!?! A little makeup and nice clothes (I recommend an apron) make household chores so much more pleasant. And then the rest of your day goes better! Back to the point.... I tell my husband not to "ask" to have sex with me, just do it. Sometimes that means we fuck up against the kitchen counter while the dishwater gets cold, but goddamn its hot! You just have to be sure not to shut him down when you f…
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/13 01:45 PM
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Its threads like these that make me happy that I only have a few female friends and that I'm the Alpha in those relationships. Women are insane. They cause most/all of their own marital problems.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/13 01:38 PM
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I'd like to point out that many women hit "the wall" (of declining looks) much earlier than 40. I know a 30 yo gal who is going to be lucky to find a LTR/husband because of her looks. She kinda looks like she was rode hard and put away wet. Its not pretty. Her personality doesn't help either. But she's an Strong Independent Woman! And she won't settle!
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/13 06:17 PM
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I worked off and on when before he started doing cable. I'm not completely opposed to women working. I just think most women are spoiled brats and would be happier with less.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/13 01:55 AM
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A good leader, among doing other things, inspires you to be better because loss of his good opinion is emotionally painful. gaining/maintaining his good opinion of you is emotionally rewarding. FTFY
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/13 02:45 PM
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it would be interesting to see an honest accouting of how many women who post here or sympathize take any type of psych meds or drugs I smoke marijuana for chronic pain. Though I do enjoy the other side effects.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/13 02:37 PM
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He does telecommunications maintenance. He installs and repairs cable/internet hardlines and equipment. Why?
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/13 02:24 PM
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Fewer men graduating OVERALL or fewer in relation to women? There is a difference and I feel that not making that distinction is disingenuous. I'll also point out that men can earn a pretty good living without getting a degree. You (men) are stronger (physically capable of jobs that women are not), don't take as much time off for having children (you work more hours/days/weeks per year), and even when you do get degrees, they're in REAL subjects- not women's studies or philosophy (not very well …
/r/TheRedPill11/10/13 04:28 PM
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/u/sugarcrush is right, if the two of you aren't compatable, just move on. That being said... you have to prove that you're housewife material- that you aren't just going to end up a fat, grubby, sweatpant wearing, lazy ass who let herself go. Even if you can't stay home, you need to start proving that you're in it for the long haul. Be all that you can be NOW so he can decide if this kind of life is something he's interested in. I'd start dropping hints a month or two from now about how much mo…
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/13 10:05 PM
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Yeah, I've been accused of being a Stepford wife several times. Its not for everyone. Though, it is very gratifying for us.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/13 12:11 PM
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Oh my good Lord yes. Its hard deciding how much to spend! You want to buy him a really nice present, but you don't want to spend too much of his money!
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/13 12:09 PM
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Dating is done in preparation of marriage. Marriage includes assigning responsibilities/chores/duties. My husband and I have a very 1950s arraignment. I do all of the traditional "wife" or "pink" jobs, and he does all of the traditional "husband" or "blue" jobs. There is very little redundancy. Pink jobs include laundry, cooking, baking, cleaning; as well as a few, more unusual things such as rubbing his feet, making him drinks, waiting on him, and keeping a very feminine appearance. I "do" my h…
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/13 01:59 AM
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She did. She came right out and said that she and an ex-fiancee broke up several years earlier because she wanted kids and he kept putting her off. It sounds to me like she wanted to get pregnant in her late 20s or early 30s and was put off by the men she was with.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/13 08:43 PM
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My husband is only an inch or two taller than me. Does that count? I'm a little over 5'6" and he's about 5'8".
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/13 11:40 PM
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I didn't make it past 1:24 on that video. That was cringe worthy.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/13 03:40 PM
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I remember getting those! Fucking crying sobbing uncontrollably after holding a newborn because my womb was empty. At one point I told him that I hated my best friend because she was pregnant and I wasn't. I literally BEGGED my husband for a baby. Never mind that our kids were already 6 and 7 and our 6 year old is/was... special. The good news is that the kids are now 13 and 14 and the crying jags have passed now that most of my girlfriends are done having babies. Its just hormones. You'll be ok…
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/13 03:19 PM
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blah blah blah. tl;dr: rub his weiner and make him a sandwich; also, don't be fat or ugly.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/13 02:10 AM
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Two to Three THOUSAND? Jesus Christ. I'd rather have a hot tub for that price. He's never told me, but I'm sure my ring (wedding band included) was less than $500. (At least we can have sex in the hot tub.)
/r/TheRedPill26/09/13 06:52 PM
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Mmsl is another good source for material. I'm on my phone so linking to the page is a pain.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/13 10:25 PM
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Obviously not OP, but Mr. Strom "pets" me when I sit at his feet. BUT, he also calls me "kitten" and we may or may not have BDSM tendencies. It is very comforting. You should stroke her hair. She'll probably like it. :)
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/13 03:52 AM
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Have you undressed him before bed? You should. ;)
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/13 03:49 AM
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Americans' way of thinking about education is backwards. You don't get educated to get a job- you get educated so you can have an education. You learn job skills to get a job. Education goes far beyond what you do at work and into who you are and who you will be. It helps define every fiber of your being.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/13 03:47 AM
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Housewife here: don't let undersexed career women lie to you- they're jealous. I also, have a college degree. Its now my hobby. My main concern is my husband and children- and they are happier and healthier for it. And quite frankly, so am I. I have time to cook dinner, clean the house, bake cookies, work out and keep myself looking like a million bucks- then STILL have enough energy to lay Mr. Strom like tile.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/13 03:45 AM
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I'll second that. Touching his wiener works every time. You can get creative and "accidentally" rub your butt on his wiener. "Accidentally" rubbing my boobs on him tends to work as well. Also, walking through the house naked.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/13 12:46 AM
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If he's married, you are now the home-wrecking hussy breaking up his marriage. Find out. If he is married, you need to cut off contact. While it isn't your responsibility to keep him faithful to his wife, you don't need that kind of drama.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/13 04:56 PM
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Just throwing this out there, it kinda sounds like you're a virgin. If you are, or just very inexperienced, a beta for a life partner, probably isn't a bad choice. Betas need love too. And if you've never been with an Alpha, you can't miss what you never had.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/13 10:22 PM
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Just no cartoon characters. shudder Then suit up.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/13 01:26 AM
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The great majority of men are not rapists. You can calm down a little about safety. Unless you live in the hood, you will not be attacked in the grocery store parking lot. TemptestTcup is right about talking to men. I love chatting up elderly men. They are so sweet and have some of the best stories. Ask a man for help. Men eat that shit up. (It still works on Mr. Strom after 10 years) Ask him about which blah blah blah he thinks would work better or how something manly works. When he helps you, …
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/13 12:47 AM
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It doesn't have to be that formal. I'm with Sugarcrush. Keep it kind of formal. Its fairly easy to lead a guy to keep it formal. You can "mention" a restaurant, or an activity that you like on the first date (like putt putt golfing, that new italian place, or the new art exhibit). If he pushes for something more intimate, tell him you want to "slow down".
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/13 12:37 AM
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Sweat pants and a stained t-shirt never got a girl a date. Taking care of yourself definitely signals that you are a high quality gal worthy of his attention.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/13 12:32 AM
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Its okay if that's your thing, its just not mine. Personally, I'm a Stepford wife. I'm "submissive" to him. But really we try for more of a Captain/First Officer arraignment (Thank you Anthol Kay), where I dress up like a Barbie doll for him then we have rough sex.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/13 12:27 AM
1

Some people are just bat shit crazy. There's no accounting for bat shit crazy.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/13 12:02 AM
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maybe you can help them do prep work then and they can teach you more detailed stuff?
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/13 12:01 AM
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That's why I said coffee, and not a lobster dinner. But letting him pay signals that you could be submissive to him. But him offering to pay does mean that he's interested in having sex with you. In men, that's a good sign. I'm fairly positive men get married mainly so they can have a steady sex partner they like doing other stuff with too.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/13 11:59 PM
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Its okay to have a polite conversation with other young men at college. They think you're pretty. You should let one buy you a coffee from the coffee cart. After all, college used to be for getting your "Mrs".
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/13 11:33 PM
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I wanted desperately to be Sleeping Beauty, Cinderella or Snow White. :( You can probably guess how that worked out.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/13 11:30 PM
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Good question! I have no idea. :( I guess I never really tried to hide my crazy. I've admitted for at least 12-13 years that all women are crazy and I'm no exception. I'm unreasonably vain and have some pretty crazy insecurities about how people perceive me. I just got lucky that I found a man that enjoys my crazy.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/13 12:50 AM
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"Submissive Women" is pretty good too. A bit big, but lots of info. My personal favorite is "1950s Household".
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/13 08:29 PM
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Not all of us Fetlife chicks are fat. ;) And check out the Stepford Wives groups too!
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/13 08:20 PM
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Sounds like he had decent game. Sorry about your ex-wife though. If you're still interested in a LTR, you should look into MMSL. I have both books and they've really helped to improve an already good relationship. I'm regularly giving my husband tips on how to game me.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/13 04:44 PM
2

I lightly touched on going gluten free elsewhere, but seriously. You have an autoimmune disorder and you're ordering food from a service? You need to start cooking for yourself. No question about it. You seriously need to cut out all nightshades, gluten and legumes. You should also be cooking and peeling all your vegetables. Go on a allergen free diet for a month and I guarantee you'll feel better. It was mentioned by someone else, but you need to start prepping your meals on the weekends then r…
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/13 04:07 PM
4

Have you gone gluten free? If not, you should. Having an autoimmune disorder so young is only going to cause major issues (like more autoimmune disorders) later in life unless you get it under control NOW. (I should know: psoriasis, vitiligo, Celiac, and arthritis at 32.)
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/13 03:56 PM
4

To be fair, you're always the hero in your own story. That said, if it happens to you, it is your fault. Case in point: I should have never married my ex-husband, and my (current/last) husband should have never married his ex-wife. Both of our exes are bat shit crazy and we should have seen it; but we didn't and that is our own fault.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/13 03:40 PM
2

I completely agree with this analysis. But seriously, what do men expect? Women grow up watching Disney princesses, that have no value other than being pretty, being rescued and wifed by white knights. We've been sold a pig in a poke. Women would be far better off watching/reading "Little Women" or "Pride and Prejudice".
/r/TheRedPill04/09/13 03:07 PM
6

How does her filing for divorce necessarily make it her fault? I'm the one that pulled the trigger on divorce with my ex-husband, but he was the one that got violent.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/13 02:18 PM
3

I agree that turning a man down is a touchy situation. Though, I've found that just being polite and making conversation with them is quite often all they have the balls to do. If they do ask you out, politely decline with short explanation. "I'm sorry, but I have a lot on my plate right now and can't handle starting a new relationship; but thank you so much", seems to work. If he doesn't drop it and gets pushy, then don't feel bad about escalating your response to something a bit more assertive…
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/13 12:22 AM
4

I appear to be the matron of the group at 32. I've been with Mr. S for 10 years. Edit: I guess not! lol
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/13 11:58 AM
5

Because there are REAL, MEASURABLE differences between men and women. I like to play to my strengths, and have my husband play to his. That way, we're complementary.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/13 05:55 PM
8

Ugly duckling syndrome. Either they were chubby or way too skinny or some other thing that skewed how they saw themselves until they were much older.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/13 05:40 PM
1

Mathematically, I can see how a girl could rack up those numbers, (4 a year for 10 years is 40 partners) but STILL!
/r/TheRedPill31/08/13 08:39 PM
6

30 partners? That's disgusting. But I was married at 25. So maybe I'm just a prude.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/13 01:45 PM
1

Married Man Sex Life. Its LTR redpill stuff. It goes beyond "game" and PUA, so you can have a happy and stable marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/13 02:39 PM
1

You sound like you'd get along with MMSL very well.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/13 02:14 PM
1

Dealing with PTSD is far different than the whining I was talking about. Thank you for your service. Even if you don't have hope left, I have some for you. Sometimes, the men most worthy of it are ones who are the hardest to love. I'm sorry your ex-wife wasn't up to the task.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/13 05:34 PM
1

I disagree. My husband does an amazing job of maintaining his SR and I (even though I know that he's gaming me) strive daily to make him happy and earn his approval. IF we divorce, sure I'll get half, but then I won't have him; and he'll have no problem finding another woman. He's in charge and has options other than me. (Knowing he has other options is both terrifying and motivating.)
/r/TheRedPill28/08/13 02:21 PM
5

As a woman, there are few things that are as unattractive as a guy who whines and complains and lets life daily annoyances ruin his mood. So really, you could look at maintaining frame as making yourself sexier.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/13 02:15 PM
1

Elizabeth Taylor was a good shrew.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/13 02:13 PM
1

she holds the cards and you have zero options to intervene. This just sounds so blue pill/defeatist to me. TBH, its very unattractive. An Alpha with a good game/MAP will almost always be the one in charge.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/13 12:54 PM
1

It's like Anthol says, we may not be gold diggers, but we are for sure copper and silver diggers.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/13 12:35 PM
3

I'm an atheist. I'd pass on all of them too. lol
/r/TheRedPill28/08/13 12:33 PM
1

Those men you work with have friends. Or you could quit and be a house wife. There are options.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/13 03:52 AM
3

Office politics? Hmm... Seems like a damn good use of girl game I hadn't previously considered. Hell, you might even end up getting wifed that way. Keep up the good work.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/13 11:05 PM
2

What's the purpose of girl game outside of husband hunting or keeping your husband happy? TBH, if I had things to do over, I wouldn't have gone out on dates with half most of the guys that I did. Only 2 of them were husband material, the rest were a waste of my time.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/13 07:55 PM
7

One of the reasons TRP guys are so against dating a girl they're not sleeping with is because that generally means he's shelling out money without seeing any kind of return. If /u/Burger_Queen can demonstrate her value (like cooking/cleaning, and nonsexual affection) to this guy then I think there's a good chance she'll get him to commit on some level. He just needs to know that he's not getting shafted and that sex WILL happen, just not till he gets off the carousel.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/13 08:03 PM
2

Have you tried no poo?
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/13 06:52 PM
5

This is the lobster bisque recipe I use. Though I modify it- I use lobster stock instead of chicken. I have "lobster base" I bought from a high end specialty store that I use to make the stock. And I use heavy cream- no need to cut calories when the name of the soup has the word "bisque" in it. Hubby raves every time I make it. Served with a fresh loaf of bread with room temp real butter and I'm getting laid like tile. *Edit: I also just buy lobster tails and chunk the meat myself after simmerin…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/13 06:39 PM
5

I wonder what they would think if they knew I occasionally send my hubby texts telling him about the "burglar" that's supposed to be in the neighborhood, and how I "hope he doesn't break in, because I'm already in my nighty. He might tie me up and take advantage of me!"? Hahaha (Yes woman have very dirty fantasies)
/r/TheRedPill21/08/13 06:29 PM
2

Good job!
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/13 06:25 PM
2

Edit: I'm an idiot and thought this was in regards to cardio. No, MDMA doesn't fuck your metabolism or nutrition. You might want to beef up on fatty foods before and after (to help replace the endorphins), but I don't see it as a huge problem. I still advise against using MDMA though. As long as you keep it under 45 minutes at a moderate intensity (sing "old McDonald" and if the pauses for you to breath are in all the right places you are fine). Personally, I walk everyday. I hate running, so I …
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/13 06:13 PM
3

Cardio isn't bad. And if you keep it under 45 minutes at a time, doesn't eat muscle. Its the overuse of cardio to control weight that is bad. Once you go over roughly 45 minutes you start producing cortisol. Cortisol is the dieter's enemy. Source: IAMA personal trainer
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/13 06:05 PM
3

Personal trainer here. The problem with MDMA isn't the good stuff. Real MDMA, properly made, isn't really bad for you. It just triggers a MASSIVE release of endorphins into your brain. Then you feel good. When the endorphins wear off, you feel a little sad/blah the next day or so while your body stockpiles more. The problem is that MDMA is illegal and therefore the manufacturing isn't regulated. Lord only knows what you're putting in your mouth. Even if you have a source that you trust, you neve…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/13 06:03 PM
9

ROFLMAO! Poor guy. hahaha, I guess this means I've been raped by my husband several times. Seriously though, unless she's obviously incapable of making sound decisions, she's fair game. Being tipsy and making poor decisions that you'll later regret doesn't make sex rape. This kind of BS is insulting to women who were held down and forced against their will.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/13 05:54 PM
2

Right!?! The matching sets almost have me a Stepfordgasm. Mind = blown
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/13 02:52 PM
1

You rock. Thanks for the link to the aprons. Now I'm all excited. :)
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/13 02:21 AM
4

Congratulations on being called a Stepford Wife! You should take that as a compliment! :D
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/13 01:57 AM
3

The Princess Daphne clap and squeal. MMSL has a clip of it. Basically, when they fix something or do something manly (like chop down a tree, unclog the toilet, fix the broken water pipes, etc.) clap your hands together while bouncing up and down and squeal. Then give him a big hug and tell him how wonderful he is. Then put your tongue in his mouth. Good sex will inevitably follow. I swear to Zeus this works every time. My husband even knows that I'm doing it on purpose and he doesn't care.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/13 01:55 AM
1

grocery store, museums, gym, etc. Those are just ideas. Make your own list! If you like jazz music, go to a jazz festival. Like kayaking? Hang out in a sporting goods store. Maybe you can ask a man for "help" picking out some new equipment. (men like it when they can teach you stuff/help).
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/13 01:47 AM
1

I guess I'd call that emotional maturity. But I know what you mean. That's why I'm not on FB anymore.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/13 01:45 AM
1

Care to elaborate?
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/13 06:13 PM
1

This is /r/RedPillWomen. My view is not a minority view here. I'll direct you to the Intro Page I think you might be in the wrong subreddit. :(
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/13 02:27 AM
3

So, where to find a husband.... Make yourself a list of all the traits you'd like your ideal husband to have. Done? Good. Step one: Take a good look at that list. Really look at it. What kind of wife do you think a man like that would like to have? Step two: Become that woman. In other words, MAP. This book will help. Become the best version of you that you can be. Step three: Hang out in places you'd like your future husband to hang out. The grocery store, libraries, museums, the gym, farmer's …
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/13 10:43 PM
1

You laugh, but I'm serious. A woman who can completely pay for all her own stuff doesn't need a man. And if she gets a job after she's in a committed relationship, the next thing you know, she's cheating or dismissing him because she doesn't NEED him anymore. A woman who financially NEEDS her man/a man is far more likely to keep her hamster in check. I've seen it happen. Waitress (graduates from college and finishes poorly paid internship) becomes corporate banker and suddenly thinks her Army hu…
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/13 10:07 PM
6

The man should pay. If she pays, it just smells like female dominance.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/13 08:20 PM
1

Don't give up! One of our best friends is 34, has a good job at a stable company, owns his home outright, has sole custody of his two kids and is in the market for a good wife. He's alpha as hell and all his ex's rave about his bedroom skills. There are still good men to be had!
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/13 03:08 PM
1

The grocery store, the masters programs at your university, the professors, the library, anywhere you would like your future husband to hang out or be seen in public.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/13 01:25 PM
7

Thanks, I needed that. I'm going to my cousin's wedding this afternoon and was debating whether to wear the dress with coordinating accessories or slacks. The dress it is!
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/13 06:17 PM
1

I think MMSL does a good job of differentiating between the two. Assholes are just assholes. A real Alpha maintains frame and knows (or pretends to) when to give and when to take no prisoners.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/13 12:27 AM
14

Just FYI, not taking the pill at the same time every day can get a girl pregnant. That's why my tubes are tied.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/13 05:20 PM
3

Be vulnerable (ask for help when I need it/let him hold me while I cry), look good (super healthy diet, daily walks, resistance training, make up, clothes he likes), and making a point to do things for/with him. I bake at least once a week so he can have homemade cookies, rarely wear pants (mostly dresses with some skirts and short shorts thrown in), and try to sit with him while he watches his tv shows in the evening- even if I'm doing something else.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/13 02:13 AM
-1

Socialist =/= State control. In socialism, the people own the means of production. A good example of this are credit unions. The members are the owners. The state doesn't control credit unions any more than banks- but the credit unions are there to serve the members/provide a service, not make a profit for some fat cat in New York. I'd argue that socialist programs/businesses services benefit the alpha. It's easier to find a suitable mate if she's healthy (universal healthcare) and you have job …
/r/TheRedPill03/07/13 02:29 AM
1

Socio-economic theory isn't the same as nazi-feminism. I'm a socialist and very much anti-feminism. The two aren't synonymous.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/13 02:48 AM
-6

Dude, no reason to bash the left wing.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/13 02:18 AM
17

If you really think he might be worried about that, start sexing him up now. Buy slinky things to wear in the bedroom and show your new found enthusiasm in the one way you know it will translate: sex.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/13 12:09 AM
10

That chick is laughable. I'm a personal trainer. There's no way in hell I'm as physically strong as my husband who's only 10 pounds heavier than me. Its just not in our genetics. We lack the testosterone. And that's not bad; its just the way it is.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/13 06:11 PM
7

Most women people are irrational and uneducated in the matters anyways FTFY. Our voting system sucks and allows the willfully ignorant an equal voice to those that bothered to graduate from high school/college. All opinions are not created equal. There should be some kind of IQ test to vote- and no matter the gender, if you pass you vote.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/13 06:05 PM
5

girl game I really liked this post over at MMSL. I even tried out the clap and squeal on Mr. Strom after he unplugged the tub drain. Worked like a charm. He went on to fix a couple of other things that I'd asked him about and then he took out the trash. Then I laid him like tile. :)
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/13 05:53 PM
3

Female here: Emotional cheating is having "feelings" for and/or attempting to have sex with some one other than your SO. Its a big deal to chicks.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/13 02:22 AM
3

Woman here. Don't worry about objectifying me (in particular). I like it when Alphas hit on me. I'm married of course, so nothing happens. But the fact that you're objectifying me means that I'm still sexy enough to be worth objectifying.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 10:07 PM
4

The problem with your analysis, is believing that the US is the alpha because its the best. Its the alpha because its the bully with rich parents and a mean dog. Eventually the rest of the neighborhood will get tired of the bully and put him in his place. The NSA just got caught spying on the entire world. That makes the US the bad guy, not Captain America leading by virtuous example.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 02:13 PM
1

He's probably embarrassed of his unrequited love and deleted what he could to hide his shame. As he should be.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 02:07 PM
2

As a woman, I prefer male doctors. I know this is slightly off topic, but it does serve to support the idea that more men should be getting medical training than women. Women are fucking mean to each other. I don't like seeing female doctors in general and refuse to see a female Ob/Gyn. When you tell a man that something is wrong in your nether regions, he's on top of the situation getting results- because he is absolutely appalled. "You're period has run over by two weeks?!?" practically shoves…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 02:01 PM
9

I hate to say it, but you're completely correct. Even though I'm not logically opposed to prostitution, my knee jerk reaction is that I don't like it. Sorry. :(
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 09:34 PM
1

Why can't equal partners in a relationship have different roles and duties? In my house we have pink jobs and blue jobs. Pink jobs include cooking, cleaning, laundry, and looking pretty. Blue jobs include yard work, earning a paycheck, and having a beard. He takes care of me, and I of him. So what part of that isn't "equal"?
/r/TheRedPill10/06/13 06:46 PM
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