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Brainwashed is the wrong term. People lie to themselves, women lie about what they like, low smv men about why they are failing. The redpill is an expression of reaction, not a social invention to further perpetuate that we are blank slates.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 11:07 PM
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I don't enjoy going down, I'll gladly finger a girl but no I won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 11:04 PM
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Going back to college, running, reading, swimming, the odd couple of beers and a cigar.
/r/askTRP21/06/15 08:07 PM
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A beta man is just a man who assumes he should think like a woman.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 12:59 AM
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Patrice O'Neal, right as usual
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 12:58 AM
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This shit is golden. Be a fucking man, I think most of us are naturally alpha and have just had society beat it out of us. Go into the wilderness, mediate encounter your uncomfortable poltically incorrect thoughts. Deal with them accept the fact you want a submissive woman and that's good.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 06:57 AM
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LA is different because of its lay out, it's more like a loose collection of different small cities and towns. Areas aren't easy to get to, it's horizontally organized rather than vertically. I actually considered putting a caveat for LA in my original comment.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 10:52 PM
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You don't date a girl like than unless you're an idiot. You fuck her and move on. No guy is the best guy to her, the next guy she can project her fantasies until she gets bored is the only guy that matters.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 10:47 PM
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Those are probably the big two. Plenty of colleges in big cities have universities with more desirable pussy than you could ever fuck. Plus all the other types of pussy that are available in a city. Besides life in a college town is boring as shit, especially if you aren't going to the university.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 10:12 PM
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That's the big difference. A college in a big city, the college girl is there to experience the city. A college town, you're an older townie, and as any of us who went to such colleges townies are automatically considered low status. NY, Boston, Philly, Chicago etc... pulling a nice prime ugh booted 18-21 year old college girl if your in shape, dress well, are successful or very interesting (think have traveled, in a band, that sort of guy) is definitely doable.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 10:03 PM
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Yep, having language, math and being able to grab stuff is pretty awesome.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 04:14 AM
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Most powerful brain (elephants and whales have bigger), pandas and raccoons have opposable digits.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 02:50 AM
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Still a hot twenty something is hotter than a well maintained forty something.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 12:30 AM
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Fuck twenty somethings as long as you can. That's the best revenge, fucking the younger version of the girl who is now post wall who thought she was better than you. Will it hurt her, no, but you'll know your fucking the girl who is now better than her.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 12:27 AM
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I'm not a very empathic person so maybe chalk it up to that for me not getting it. All we ever are is one person, that type of projection seems awfully close to self deception to me. I think that's an awful thing to do to a kid but I don't feel bad for the things I haven't done, or things that I cannot change.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 11:17 PM
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Yeah. I'd say if you want a good long term goal it's expat women or real upper class, not upper middle class women.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 09:46 PM
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No sour grapes this is the group I do best with and I grew up in upper middle class suburbia. I just find them incredibly boring and not that pretty. They aren't ugly but aren't worth extra effort, they aren't the big end goal types of women you dream of and better yourself to be in their league. I think OP's description of them was the view of a guy who is an outsider to that and thinks they are a lot better than they are.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 09:38 PM
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Feminism tries to change reality, and view reality through it's idealistic lens, we just describe it. Redpill isn't a poltical or social movement. Redpill is just discovering and using what works as sexual strategy. Feminism and redpill aren't equivalent or compatible. Feminism is an ideology, redpill is a bag of tools.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 08:50 PM
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True, but his point is that must feel like you will be castrated by nature. Even if you don't want kids for a man that's a fate worse than death for a woman it's a biological certainty.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 06:01 PM
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"..researchers often differentiate between two types of empathy: “Affective empathy” refers to the sensations and feelings we get in response to others’ emotions; this can include mirroring what that person is feeling, or just feeling stressed when we detect another’s fear or anxiety. “Cognitive empathy,” sometimes called “perspective taking,” refers to our ability to identify and understand other peoples’ emotions."
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 05:59 PM
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Foreign women and rich girls are more interesting. Suburbia girls aren't the hottest (they don't beat out that cute little Ukrainian bartender, or that girl who went to real prep school and her perfect skin and legs), they are however consistently above average. They aren't a four star restaurant or the really unique little in the know place that has mind blowing good food, they are that accessible relatively upscale place you took your prom date to. Also you're blocking out the pudgy girl who w…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 04:10 AM
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It's not nessecarily self hatred. I am not physically attracted to black chicks, or mixed race part black chicks. I grew up socially white pretty much, upper middle class upbringing all that. I mean black chicks are objectively more masculine, less attractive. Let's be honest if you can't land white girls or asian you're settling, the only exception might be a really stunning latina. A man doesn't work hard to get what he doesn't really want.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 01:24 AM
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Yeah there would be a lot or turn over, and most men would be warriors but a more sizeable percentage than the percentage of today's society would be leaders, I guess it depends how much you care about your likely lifespan, value peace that all effects how you'd feel about the deal. I also threw in bands which I mentioned, that's the more base level of homo sapien organization so I'm assuming he means closer to our natural state of organization and without the various artificial constructions we…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 12:58 AM
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More than you'd think. If you look at say bronze age society or early medieval you have local chieftains, it's certainly a minority but it's not very few. If you look at prehistoric society there were even smaller groups which meant being the baddest mother fucker of your band or tribe instrad of a nation state, that's the difference between being an NFL quarterback and you local highschool team's. A good number of men wouldn't have the largest territories but with an absence of power they could…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 12:50 AM
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On a related note I was talking to a friend about how middle aged women tend to be bitchy. He brought up an interesting point. Running out of eggs, being barren, having your reproductive organs cease to function would be like if a guy knew he was definitely going to lose his testicles at 50. All of us lucked out biologically, not having to be women.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 12:46 AM
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I can understand OP maybe not attracted to his own race. Either way complaining doesn't solve shit, he could just move somewhere else instead of whine to us.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 12:43 AM
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Save up, make plans and move.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 12:41 AM
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Some of us don't want an LTR. It's hard work for a prize we don't want. It's like asking me why don't you work hard to save up for a stradivarius violin, when I don't care about violins.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 09:28 PM
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I forgot to switch out the definitions mentally in the first comment. I then tried to explain why I used the wrong definition and where my confusion came from in the second comment. In my last comment I tried to clarify it further because I didn't communicate it clearly enough. I agree with you, there was just an initial semantic confusion on my part.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 09:21 PM
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I'm not. Let me break down what I meant. When feminists say empathy they mean feel what the person is feeling with them, not understanding why they are feeling it. Going back to the panicking analogy, let's say someone is having a panic attack over something that isn't a big deal. To help them, and be empathic (by the normal and not feminist/SJW definition that used mostly on reddit now) you try and understand why they blew it out of proportion and reacted the way they did. Once they calm down y…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 09:09 PM
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Feminism tries to sell a certain version of reality. Why is there a difference in the rate of women and men in certain job? Feminism's sales pitch -Patriarchy not biological differences in the frequency of certain traits between the sexes and effects of hormones. Feminism isn't the "radical idea women are people too", it's the radical and false idea that behavior sexual dymorphism exists in all mammals but magically not humans. It's selling a conclusion, based on what they wish to be regardless …
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 08:46 PM
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You need cognitive empathy. There's been a shift in the definition of empathy from understanding what someone feels (normal definition), to feeling it with them (the new definition it seems). You definitely need the former. It's like if you want to help someone stop panicking, you need to understand what they are feeling but you shouldn't panic along with them. Keeping the various semantics of words and how different communities on the internet use them is fogging up my brain.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 08:38 PM
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Silencing speakers they don't like at universities by being unruly is.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 08:35 PM
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TRP describes things as they are. Empathy is niether he nor there. If I hand you a map, and instead of using it to find your way home you decide you'd like to plan a murder and use it to scout routes to sneak into your victims home, you aren't gonna blame the map for causing a murder. TRP is a map of how human nature in regards to gender relations work, whether we like it or not. It can be as easily used to create happier healthier relationships for men and women as it can be for manipulating pe…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 08:29 PM
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Yes. She cheated on her boyfriend, admitted she was wrong to do it and did it anyway because she didn't care enough about him not to. She knew she was wrong, it was her fault, didn't rationalize just didn't give any fucks it made her a bad person. She sure wasn't a unicorn but she didn't hamster.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 08:25 PM
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Sometimes people's survival means nothing without their ambitions. They're willing to gamble the prior for the later. Otherwise there'd be no fighter pilots or extreme athletes.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 07:51 PM
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People will sacrifice love, comfort, safety for ambition. I remember being close to broke and had to move for an opportunity I got handed. I had enough money to either move in two weeks, or eat for those two weeks. I went two weeks without eating, didn't consider the other option for a minute. I'd say Maslow's hierarchy is an averaging of what most people's hierarchy is most of the time.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 07:48 PM
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I read somewhere that even if you go off a cycle with maintenance afterwards you naturally maintain 80 percent of your gains,
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 05:05 AM
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People confuse a lack of aggression for empathy. They are good at reading people and they use that to avoid confrontation and manipulate people while hamstering that they are helping them, it's how they can believe "feminism helps men too".
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 05:03 AM
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There are always outliers and exceptions. The boxes are real, the problem is we are now trying to say because there are exceptions that the rule doesn't exist. For any general rule in biology, any law, there is some loopholes, so exception but that doesn't mean the category is false. For every feminine women there isn't a butch one, the butch one one is the deviation from the norm (I don't mean that in a judgemental way here). Jean Piaget who established the normal stages of child development wa…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 01:19 AM
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I've never used to term MGTOW, but I've definitely dropped out to the idea of LTRs and don't see the attraction or point. It's all red pill, the difference is the pros and cons based decision each guy has to it.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 06:50 PM
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People don't understand the difference between miserable and depressed anymore. It's your meaningless situation that's what's making you miserable, a life devoid of events or consequence. We've spent centuries trying to make the world safe, peaceful and "happy" (happy now meaning numbed the fuck out, with some pudgy wife and long term job that means nothing). The truth is people need purpose and adventure more than "happiness". Men wanted to be vikings over merchants, men went out west for adven…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 05:41 PM
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I quit Facebook and watching TV. Two biggest wastes of time there are.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 11:08 AM
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Seduction is a class on personal finance, TRP is studying economics. Personally I think TRP focuses too much on LTRs, but seduction now is even less focused on ONS now.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 06:08 AM
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Exactly this. The Alpha option is for OP to do what he wants, it's up to him.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 06:04 AM
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In the U.S. and I knew a guy this happened to, a man can be passed out drunk and if a girl under the age of consent has sex with him (rape), he is still legally guilty of statutory rape. It's a strict liability crime. In this case said girl even testified in court this is what happened. Less extreme even if you have sex with someone who lies about their age, has a fake ID, you are still guilty.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 04:26 AM
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The goal is to make us a docile androgynous mass, not in the sense of some big conspiracy but it's because society now pressures itself for this outcome. Boys get anti-psychotics, atypicals if they are too agressive or somehow seen as under emotional (mild autism, bipolar...) or stimulants if they get diagnosed for being too fidgety (ADD, ADHD, hyperactivity). Google Robert Whitaker who wrote Mad in America. In college I had a psych professor who brought up the over medicating of kids in America…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 04:09 AM
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I enjoy being shitty, it's half the fun for me. I guess I assume most people are the same but feel pressured not be due to society telling everyone to be nice now. My point is more don't think you are obliged not to be, if you enjoy it, be that way.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 05:19 AM
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Exactly this, stop wanting to be the nice guy, stop self hating what society suddenly considers "toxic masculinity". Be an asshole also understand plates aren't meant to be kept, the minute a plate becomes more work than fun it's time to next her. You don't owe a plate anything, it ain't your job to leave her better, you're not her buddy or protector, she's a cum dump and if you do it right she likes it too.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 04:15 AM
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Being hairless is also a sign of having high estrogen and are neotany associsted traits many of which men are programmed to find attractive. Blond hair likewise falls under neotany. I tend to skew towards biological explanations but for tanning you have a valid point. I'd still fuck a low class woman who did that but I wouldn't invest the same way. It's not exactly a one to one comparison there imo. I would because of physical health, but I don't think most models are really that unhealthy aside…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 02:37 AM
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I try not to waste my time feeling bad for lost causes. Yes on the most extreme end a man is doomed, however a man hovering around average can through hard work, will power raise his SMV in ways pudgy little Jane Doe cannot.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 12:38 AM
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I disagree with a few points, romantically there is going to be a difference how preciously you treat a ten than a seven, one is more easily replaceable it's simple supply and demand. A woman from a rich family is more valued to for a reason For men beauty is less important. A man's status comes from abilities and power, is he athletic, is he smart, is he a leader. Secondary is does he look good. Physical health should be a part of beauty, mental health not as much. That would just be lying, if …
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 12:28 AM
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The status thing doesn't really apply to what women make of themselves. A woman being a CEO or a PHD, isn't sexier. Coming from a rich family, being a pampered little princess however does add hot points. Or if she is a model, celebrity some piece of arm candy that you have to compete to get. If a woman's ugly everything is negated though. Unhealthy body standards are bad, but unrealistic ones, the truth is those in the top tier of genetic fitness are the most attractive. It isn't attainable but…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 11:51 PM
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I think if anything the view of what types of women are attractive and men have narrowed. You can be skinny or curvy if a woman (think January Jones and the usual thin model type). With men you used to be able to look rougher or less tradionally handsome (look at pictures of Steve McQueen or Humphrey Bogart, I doubt either would be leading men). As men one key advantage we have is with work a guy can get the ideal body type (height aside) a guy can be cut, he can be bulky, or lean. Men's attract…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 11:46 PM
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Fixed it, was when the sleeping pill kicked in.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 05:58 PM
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Good point. It can't even accidentally refer to women. Unrelated thought. What's interesting is oil rig workers and crabbers are jobs women are attracted to the fantasy of the type of man who does that, but the actual guy many would probably look down on.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 05:57 PM
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Yeah they've been wrecked beyond repair.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 05:54 PM
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I think this is the best explanation. When faced with reality they dig further into fantasy.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 05:51 PM
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Insecure is my favorite. It's such a vague term it can be applied to almost anyone and anything. It seems to me that the chief aim of the term neckbeard are nerds who dare to start to consider that they've been lied to about how women are.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 06:54 AM
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But they are encouraged to give up hope I guess is my point because then instead of improving their station they just decay in a pile of ridicule, piss bottles and jacking off into stuffed ponies. They realize they got lied to but this way the render themselves into an ineffective mess.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 06:14 AM
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I am thankfully a regular guy so it's not an act. I think being yourself and presenting yourself are two different things. A person is their thoughts everything else is just window dressing and one should do what ever gives the most efficient route to a goal. If the type of girl you wanna fuck responds to something better just use that method.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 03:39 AM
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One way to game it is if you are brown act like a regular guy. Too many minorities either seem overly white (they take on the persona of the most sterotypically inoffensive non threatening white guy) or they exgerrate their ethnic traits (style of speech etc...). Indian women like Asian women are slowly becoming socially white. I thus that's a trend I've noticed and part of why they react so well. Latina girls I've noticed love to pretend to be preppy if they come from a middle class or aspirati…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 03:18 AM
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Ugly and medicore women are afraid of being associated with ugly men because that confirms their status to them. A beautiful woman knows she's a beautiful women and a 9 and up will be much more polite about rejecting a man. An 8 can go either way, a 7 and below is gonna be bitchy when ever she can.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 03:13 AM
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Life can be shitty, it can also be funny. I'd rather see it all as a dark comedy than a tragedy. Seeing the humor in pain as well as the beauty in it is one of the most quintessentially masculine traits. It's why women are less funny and when they try to be it has to have some clear lesson attached (i.e. say Tina Fey vs George Carlin). Women don't have amused mastery the admire a man who has what they lack.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 03:08 AM
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I'm a city boy and smiling to us looks very silly, beta, childlike etc...I've been around country people and in rural areas (relatives) and yeah it's definitely different. Each seems beta in the others environment, I don't know how to chop wood, fish or hunt, as a city guy that isn't a measurement or expectation.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 06:08 AM
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I think this is different, I don't care if people like me, but I do care if they think I'm weak that's social currency and leverage. There is a difference between caring what people think and understanding how to manipulate your image.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 06:04 AM
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I'm on the fence. I think if it's been an extremely long time it can help because you aren't desperate for sex, you can enjoy the thrill of the chase without being just so desperate to get your dick wet that you can't keep yourself together enough to have game. I'd say never get a hooker in the area you live in, but if it's on a vacation than it's fine to treat yourself to blow of steam.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 04:20 AM
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In general I'm not taking advice from someone who defended terrorists.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 04:08 AM
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Definitely NYC between the two then.
/r/askTRP18/01/15 12:44 AM
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LA has better looking women FYI. LA is a different game than NY. NYC is that arrogant sarcastic dude. LA is the fun outgoing dude who probably plays an extreme sport. Which would you have an easier time being unless you're loaded should tell you how you'd do. I'd wait until I got my masters to move to NYC. You have more options than a native city boy, as even smaller cities are a pain to live in for many of us.
/r/askTRP17/01/15 10:03 PM
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Simple answer. You are going to die. You don't need to rush it. You get to experience life. You get to exist. Do something with that. You can decide to take one step that leads to a larger and larger getting closer to what you want to do. You don't have a purpose but you have a life, you're in the world, make what you want out of it.
/r/askTRP17/01/15 09:51 PM
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That isn't emotional maturity. That's just conformity. Emotional maturity is too often used as a thought terminating cliche against anyone who does't hold the ideals of middle class subruanites. There is a difference between repressing certain instincts, i.e. not punching out your boss and two people forcing themselves to be a type or person they don't want because people they mistakenly believe gender equality means suppressing gender differences in personality.
/r/askTRP17/01/15 09:29 PM
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For me it is, but RP is good for other types of relationships. Here I am speaking more for me than red pill. I really like being able to be left alone when I want, and never have to consider someone else when I move, when I change careers. I don't like being anywhere or doing the same thing for too long. I don't understand people who want relationships. I am a pretty self contained person, here it's just probably my personality. I also just don't deeply connect. Wanting to have a relationship to…
/r/askTRP17/01/15 09:22 PM
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Actually in my case that is all I want, but you're right that wasn't my point. RP helps with both. I've known many guys whose relationships failed because they believed in BP nonsense.
/r/askTRP17/01/15 09:15 PM
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Having blind faith of accusers, clearly the corner stone of a fair justice system Will people ever get tired of witch hunts.
/r/MensRights17/01/15 06:42 PM
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You sound a lot like I used to be. The fact you aren't getting laid/women etc... shows at least partially that your strategy doesn't work. There are BP relationships but for the woman it's devoid of animal attraction on her part. Why should a relationship even if it works enough to not have a break up, not be better by having a situation that isn't going against both their natures?
/r/askTRP17/01/15 06:27 PM
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I'll address your last point. Relationship wise for me hearing TRP was a relief. The dynamic TRP advocates is the actual one that I always wanted but was discouraged from due to poltical correctness.
/r/askTRP17/01/15 06:23 PM
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Awful. Your kid isn't some weapon in the war of genders. Some man is dedicating himself to a lie, and some kid is likely to never meet his father and/or have serious issues trusting women for the rest of his life. It's using the ability to have kids for hateful and spiteful reasons which is just heart breaking
/r/MensRights17/01/15 06:04 PM
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You might want to check out /r/purplepilldebate, I've lurked there, haven't felt like getting into it myself but it seems close to what you're looking for.
/r/askTRP17/01/15 05:53 PM
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Yeah. It would be like discounting the civil rights movement in the 60s as just a group of young angry black people. There is a difference between anger and rage. It is fully possible to be angry, nonviolent and rational.
/r/TRPOffTopic17/01/15 06:46 AM
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I don't think boys are dirty perverts or women are perpetual victims. 99 percent of this sub I agree with. I'm just saying what I think is a complicating factor in some of the cases on the site OP linked to.
/r/PussyPass17/01/15 06:18 AM
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I think you really hit the nail on the head. The fact is most men do the same thing, we want white women, with asian women a close second. Fewer guys are attracted to black women. It boils down to building SMV. A big thing also is a lot of minority guys who try and act white, do it poorly and just act overly inoffensive and professional all the time.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 10:41 PM
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I think it's different. Sex at the age effects most women and men differently. A guy is more likely to view it as just sex. Here I can kind of see some of how society treats it as different. That being said, I can't emphasize enough how disgusting it is that the ones where the student involved is really young that the teachers listed essentially got away with a really horrible crime.
/r/PussyPass16/01/15 10:11 PM
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Yeah. The cases where the student is 16 and up probably doesn't warrant a severe punishment. Now an adult having sex with a 13 year old, that is just a pedophile and it's horrible that someone who commits that sort of act can get a slap on the wrist.
/r/PussyPass16/01/15 09:44 PM
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Femologlism: Popular feminsim's tendency to create poorly constructed gendered neologisms ascribing blame to men for various perceived slights. See also: gynovernacular, womansplaining
/r/MensRights15/01/15 05:24 PM
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There are two types of jobs in the modern world. Ones where if you're a man you need to act like a woman, and ones where if you are a woman you need to act like a man. Emergency services, police, fire departments, parts of the armed forces, finance, STEM. If you're a woman you are expected more or less to adjust to a male culture. On the other side; academia if in social sciences/humanties, teaching k-12, administrative and human resources, most non technical office work, retail etc... If you ar…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 04:19 PM
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Yeah. I'm not white knight but I'm more more cautious with how I talk to women than I do men. Also anytime gender relations are brought up you just have to avoid the subject. I don't agree but I just try to avoid the topic. Even with male feminists I've known there could be a back and fourth without me getting demonized for any philosophical disagreement.
/r/MensRights15/01/15 04:11 PM
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Just google accent reduction. Most places offer both in person and skype sessions. Look at the sites that come up.
/r/seduction12/01/15 10:21 PM
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Yeah. That's what I do. It's almost an understood etiquette between the two subs. Unless someone asks a question specifically about the sub (like ITT), where at most I'll just try and answer said question. Men's Rights isn't a Red Pill sub.
/r/MensRights12/01/15 01:37 PM
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Hypertrophy training. That's what you want to look into.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 05:09 AM
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Look at accent reduction and modification. There are voice coaches, you can either find one locally of over skype. As for your problem I had it when I was younger. I just forced myself to speak clearly. After forcing myself to be mindful, practicing speaking, recording myself I never get what did you say anymore.
/r/seduction12/01/15 05:05 AM
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I have a strong accent from my region. I used to hate it, as I've gotten older I've made it work for me.
/r/seduction12/01/15 05:03 AM
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Agree with you about dentists come to think about it. They have smaller hands, and their disposition lends itself better to it. They are more likely to notice when something is causing discomfort, tend to be more cautious as to when surgery is needed.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 01:08 AM
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Red pill and the academic culture of psychology can't really go together. Have you thought about switching disciplines? I was in a similar situation and then switched. Also since it's your last year you should think about institutional psychology. That tends to be much less femimistic, and they tend to earn quite well too.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 01:05 AM
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Men and women have different measurements of that. To make an extreme example think how many women are attracted, actually get turned on by a guy being president or a ceo. Now if say Hillary Clinton became president how many younger men would find her sexually attractive because of that.
/r/MensRights11/01/15 10:49 PM
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There is some overlap and differences. The overlap is many of the poltical and legal issues that concern men TRP and men's rights have similar opinions. Red pill isn't really focused on that so many people with be parr of both subs. I'm a red piller and I think most agree about the ways our legal system hurts men. Red pill isn't a poltical subreddit however so men's rights and red pill also discuss different topics from another. There do tend to however have different opinions on society. TRP do…
/r/MensRights11/01/15 10:45 PM
2

In general don't trust women. Even when they are "honest" they are so for different reasons. A woman is honest because it makes her or you feel good, because she wants to convey a certain feeling. Women unlike men, don't care about honesty in the sense you should tell someone the factual truth. Women also aren't aware of truth the same way. They don't compartmentalize what is and what they feel. It's why the man a woman describes wanting is different than what she does. Keep that in mind, in gen…
/r/askTRP11/01/15 10:38 PM
1

Yeah. People view all conversation as social engineering. Any use of words despite how nuanced or accurate the point is, that doesn't fit the redefinition of words for what the social aim is/the larger narrative being created, is met with a backlash. I don't even think at this point it's something the majority of people who do it are self aware about. Hence courage now means some vague way of being in the right in an arguably dangerous situation even if the person succumbs to fear, hides and onl…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 05:46 PM
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Exactly. We all know the guy who is good with women but has little to no respect from his fellow men. Men can tell when a guy actually is alpha/dominate/masculine, women however can't tell the difference between that and a man just emulating the signs they pay attention to. A successful man, doesn't need to fake it. He is it. Sometimes that means if someone insults you past a certain line a measured physical reaction.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 05:23 PM
1

I don't let them walk over me. I just don't respect them in that way/ to that degree where I am going to get angry over it, I'll just leave. I however do care if another man/peer considers me that harmless. Murdering someone is uncalled for, a few punches over it isn't.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 05:15 PM
1

True. But that assumes the priority of long and healthy overrides all else. One can lead a very peaceful long and healthy life and not have sexual success as well. To me living a long, healthy and probably a less honorable maybe more uneventfull life doesn't seem like much of a life at all. I'd argue that probably being blue pill, living a life of moderation is being more risk averse. It's probably the safer option. We just have very different ways of thinking. Also the Honeymooners hasn't edite…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 06:14 AM
1

I find the Honeymooners funny. I think more than you'd think outside of the type of people who blog and write letters , like to be professionally offended. They still run a marathon of it every new years eve so it can't be but so bad. It's not self esteem, it's being what I consider honorable. Not fighting when you should to me is dishonorable, and at the end of the day the most important thing, more than pussy, social acceptance, social consequence, peace, safety, my neck etc... is living in a …
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 05:40 AM
2

More honor than morals. It's less about other people more about being proud of myself as a man. I don't think it's in line with a lot of societies views on morality but in the end the most important thing is how we judge ourselves. People should build their own code. From what they admire who they want to be instead of what ever was forced on them through accidents of geography and time period.
/r/AlreadyRed11/01/15 05:35 AM
1

Violence against women even in tradional societies serves a different purpose. One is about honor, a man fighting another man, in general the only type of men you won't fight are those you either don't respect at all so much you don't consider them actual men, or the elderly and frail due to aging, or cases where they were several castes above you and there was some tradionally believed divine reason for it. Violence towards women was punitive. It was about enforcing order. It was the same viole…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 05:03 AM
2

The impulses I have against a woman and another guy here are completely different. Most aggressive men, don't have the same reaction with women, children etc...That's more when you're dealing with someone with other issues/factors other than aggressiveness. If someone hits me and I don't need to fight back I still would. It's not just because you can't use words, it's in that instance that guy doesn't deserve a peaceful reaction.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 04:08 AM
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Philogist Edward Rulloff had the second largest brain ever measured and was incredibly violent. Ludwig Wittgenstein had a huge temper on him. Doc Holiday who was reportedly intellectual as well as a gunfighter probably did as well. Alexander the Great had the problem of chasing down enemies when it made no strategic sense. Some guys with tempers have lower IQs, some have higher IQs. There isn't one type of high IQ person. There is a difference between non violence and impulse control. Sometimes …
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 03:16 AM
2

Yeah we're very different people. I couldn't care less about the respect of a woman past what it gets me, the respect of other men, my peers matters immensely more. Most important I can't stand the idea of being the guy you can mess with, without consequences. She doesn't matter enough for me to be that upset at her. Some other guy insulting me, and me having to live with being someone who reacted passively to that. Personally that's not the type of guy I can be and respect myself. I'm also prob…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 01:23 AM
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Yeah, I wouldn't go so far as saying faking it, but it seems to be a personality divide on here. Sometimes I see this and a few other traits that seem to divide guys with more natural and acquired "alpha" tendencies. Both have their pluses and minuses. Both when they are successful are admirable in different ways. I don't really like the idea of bad mouthing ingroup here though. We're all on the same side in the bigger picture despite the differences you'll find here.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 01:17 AM
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We (probably strongly) disagree. I don't really want to infight about this in the sub.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 01:14 AM
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I care about the insult not her. Women cheat, they lie. I'll just live her. I don't expect her to be capable of true loyalty. Women aren't. Women can't keep promises, it's their nature. To be honest I don't even care about here that much. She can be nexted, her betrayal of me, lack of intimacy, all of that doesn't bother me. When someone steals something you own, even if it's something you don't care about that much it's the violation by the person who broke in, and took it that makes you angry.…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 01:02 AM
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Women are women. She doesn't matter in that way to me. She no longer exists to me. I'm not capable of keeping a level head at that level of insult. Maybe he didn't know, if I'm sure he didn't know, I'd be pissed at the situation. If he did know, you can't have someone, another man disrespect you like that. You're being a pushover if you don't show, you can't do that to me and not have me react. Most guys in that situation in general do know.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 12:51 AM
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True but that's an understood risk of sleeping with another guys girl. Also the reason you're angry isn't that she betrayed you, it's another guy has insulted you. She's replaceable, heck almost everything in life is replaceable. Killing someone is insane over it. Punching, giving a guy a black eye, over it, I don't think it's unreasonable. Hell if I sleep with someone else's girl, I'd judge the guy for not trying to punch me.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 12:42 AM
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To be honest I'm a guy who would beat up a guy who slept with my girl. I wouldn't kill him, but I don't think I'm capable of just calmly using my words. There is a huge difference from a few punches back and forth and murdering someone. It's not about her, it's the insult. It's a real instinctual thing. It's some guy in essence by doing that thinks I'm harmless, she as a person is irrelevant, it's the insult by proxy that's been thrown at me. I think most guys will at least get in a bit of a fig…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 12:32 AM
2

You need to let go of the guilt you have for wanting to be ambitious or agressive. I think the biggest part of the unlearning is realizing that what you want to be deep down, is actually the same that she wants. Gutsy, powerful, successful even selfish. As a man your nature is attractive to women despite what modern culture tells us. The truth is they like us for what we are, people confuse who they are now with what they force themselves to be because we are a generation fed the lies of feminis…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 09:29 PM
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I've done a bit better in gtown than admo or dupont. I don't look great either neither does my friend who does well. It's more dressing the part (probably the biggest difference), confidence other than that I don't think it's that much harder than other parts. Gtown requires more social proof too. If you're outta shape you are only gonna get really low SMV girls any area.
/r/GEOTRP10/01/15 04:02 AM
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Different dude (also a skinny Jewish guy who holds his frame well when talking to MMA fighters though). Meant Ari Shaffir, he has is own podcast and is on Joe ' s a lot too.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 02:49 AM
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I knew a guy who did very well in gtown. Wasn't loaded but pulled of preppy style and was/is going places. Success in gtown depends on appearing in the top 20, seemingly at least upwardly mobile and being near by in location.
/r/GEOTRP10/01/15 01:42 AM
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Him and Ari are great. Both are really red pill in different areas. Stand up podcasts in general one of the few entertainment options left that don't try to make everything about drilling PC nonsense into your head.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 12:40 AM
1

I kind if agree with you. I don't care about happiness, some people do. I don't get how it's an issue. If peace, stability, happiness, fill in the black instead of what ever other differing goal someone else might have chase that. It's not very stoic to need to convert people.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 11:45 PM
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Yep. It was called sprezzatura in the renesaince. Think of the myth versus the reality of every scientific hero, sports star etc... It plays down the hard work even of the immensely talented, the trial and error all that. I've brought this up other times here but women's obsession with things being natural makes them hate TRP. They don't even dislike the result they dislike the process. Women also being considered attractive less by what they produce more by what they are as mates, don't even un…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 10:44 PM
1

We're talking more social clubs or gentleman's clubs. Things like the Union Club, or The Knickerbocker Club. It's a bit different than lodges. It's good the masons have stood by those traditions.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 10:18 PM
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In the states they are usually called social clubs, or just clubs (actually in conversation I've only heard them called clubs now which probably says something by itself).
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 10:16 PM
1

I'm fairly certain in America it's worse. If I remember from reading up on it, the vast majority now admit women. Finals clubs at universities however here still have quite a few men only (i.e. Porcelain, Skull and Bones etc...).
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 09:59 PM
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In the states since the 80 most of those clubs are now including women as well.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 03:53 PM
1

Yeah. As an aspiring player redpill truths are nothing but good news.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 12:28 AM
1

I'm saying women don't like the idea it can be acquired. That it's not more of a biological certainty if it's acquired so they subconsciously want to discourage beta turning alpha. I agree with you it doesn't make a difference. I'm naturally pretty alpha, I don't have any urge to be vulnerable with women, don't feel romantic attachment am generally agressive, naturally close to a lot of dark triad traits. Still because of how I was raised, I definitely had to learn too or rather unlearn/reprogra…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 12:19 AM
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Yes. If they live in a city, it's higher than average but not jaw dropping. Horizontally usually. Ask yourself if the risk is worth it to you. Make a decision. I would if you're looking for something possibly forever. If you want to date this person, enjoy their company and expect to last maybe a few months, a year, than it might be a rewarding experience if she's altogether interesting enough. A good phase to go through. Make sure it's them and not the idea of them you really like.
/r/seduction04/01/15 01:46 AM
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Women need to understand what pretty much all men already know. You can be dumped for any reason . You aren't owed a relationship. The minute someone no longer wants to be around you, they can leave. It can be because you gained weight, because you like a TV show he doesn't, doesn't matter that's how voluntary associations work. Women have this obsession that relationships need to be a job, requiring work. More specifically to this. For absolutely anything the best predictor of future behavior i…
/r/AlreadyRed02/01/15 05:56 PM
1

I've been in my own monk mode, though not an SMV specifically related one. I've also been a slacker before then. What defines monk mode is work, if monk mode is at all relaxing you're doing it wrong. It's about bettering your body, mind, carreer and education prospects. It's not a vacation.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 05:41 PM
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Thanks for the clarification. May save me ass someday.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 05:35 PM
2

Damn thats a shame. I love an old fashioned southern girl.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 03:37 PM
2

I know in one state you can't contest after signing, think it's either NY or NJ.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 03:36 PM
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Depends on the state. Some have it that signing makes you the legal parent no matter what.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 02:24 AM
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The other part, the scarcity isn't there as well anymore.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 02:18 AM
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Personally I know allot of guys who have. I think it's more about developing a tight schedule, manuerving that.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 01:08 PM
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Getting laid isn't my top priority however I go on TRP for frank sex advice. That's the purpose of this sub. I don't think TRP is the center of most of our lives. It's got to see a post getting back to that.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 12:27 PM
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Lawyers are losing their prestige. Too many people are entering the profession it's become over saturated.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 12:23 PM
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Isn't that also what we should want for ourselves. Carreer success and hitting the gym aren't mutually exclusive.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 12:20 PM
1

Fair enough. We just have different perspectives on this.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 02:00 PM
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I agree with parts of what you're the saying. The not fucking taken women, the long term vendettas you may get out of it, but the whole create a family, be a patriach. Maybe cause I hate being around kids and domestic life, it isn't a requirement for a full life. Personally I'd rather have cancer than a family. The basis of civilization is a codified law, complex social structures and abundant food supply. You can look at a myriad of civilizations from the aztecs, Rome, Greece, Sumeria, the Unit…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 01:52 PM
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I did. Move out as soon as you can. Be alpha. At first you'll suck at it cause it's a second language. After a while you'll get better at it. Lift. Work out, play a sport, even just a club sport. I played club football and it helped allot. Realize you're you and he isn't. It's not your job to change other people. It doesn't work, and he probably needs someone to not judge him. You didn't get the dad you wanted, you weren't allowed to play sports, had hippy dippy parents. Welcome to the club. It …
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 09:34 PM
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Honestly fucking. Not everyone wants to build a life with someone else. There is nothing as nice to me as the rush and knowing at some point I won't have to see this person ever again. Frankly I'd rather have no sex ever and be alone than have an LTR. Just depends on what you want. There should be room for both hypergamy and monogamy.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 09:27 PM
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I'm against any moral lecturing on TRP. If someone wants to cheat logistics and such should be an acceptable topic here. Personally and this is where I disagree, I don't think that's what makes it better. A guy hates being cheated on for what has become a very poltically incorrect reason according to feminists. It's not about a breach of intimacy or even a dying relationship it's an insult to the other guy by proxy. It's telling him, you are harmless, I am not afraid of you. It makes him feel po…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 09:22 PM
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His problem was he smoked so much he lost money. Dude used to eat a couple hash brownies every single morning for breakfast.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 06:09 PM
1

Except when you smoke so much you lose more money than you make.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 06:07 PM
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That's the guy they will date. Not necessarily the guy who'd they fuck. I have a friend who fucked those type of women. He is a slow but nice dude who couldn't even sell pot cause he consumed his own product.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 01:19 PM
8

Exact same experience. Knew an Aussie girl, seemingly prim, proper, prep school educate. Learned appearantly she got more dick than a truck stop glory hole.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 01:16 PM
-1

I think of here as a technical manual. If you don't agree with something don't do it, but don't stop people from discussing how to do it as long as the discussion involves consensual sex among legal adults.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 12:46 PM
2

Good point. No reason to get poltical. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 12:40 PM
1

I meant more, not being able to objective look at something because you're too busy feeling. Too much empathy and overusing it as a tool is a bad thing imho.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 12:39 PM
1

In regards to empathy you misunderstand my point. Not being empathic doesn't equal psychopathic, you can care for people without feeling with people. Understanding people doesn't require an empathic connection niether does not acting in a sadistic way.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 12:37 PM
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Because reddit is most left leaning naturally very beta. Non aggression, vulnerability, empathy above reality as core reddit values. We are nihilist, we know humans are biological animals, we see through the shame of progressivenes. We don't want an equal partner, androgynous social roles. You can't make us into progressives because we don't even want what it is selling even if it did work. They hate us, because we don't want to be like them and they fear deep down they don't want to either.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 03:56 AM
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Using social and psychological domination doesn't both me at all. Why should it, it doesn't inhibit choice for anyone all it does is create attraction. We need to get over consider traits like ambition, domination and aggression bad things, rather things men need to use responsibly, and when it is very positive masculine traits.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 03:52 AM
0

Avoid relationships. I think this is a key thing and don't get why TRP doesn't embrace it more. We all know women aren't loyal, they don't like you being vulnerable, that they crave alpha fucks. Why not just ditch the illusion completely.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 07:11 PM
2

I feel good. Maybe it's because I just want sex, don't want an LTR, so AWALT is actually good news. If you get past any need to be emotionally intimate with a woman, the fact there is a cock carousel, and to take advantage of that you don't have to be nice. It means you can be self focused and get laid at the same time.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 04:29 PM
1

All this women like dark triad is making me think I'd actually do pretty good if I did.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 08:56 AM
1

I think that's close to it. I can't be manipulated by other guys, but I probably try and alter myself with women to try and sell myself. I don't tell certain jokes and so on. I pretty much interact with the two completely differently. I don't do nice guy shit, but I have a mean east coast sense of humor where people shit on each other when they're comfortable.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 12:04 AM
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I've come to realize there are two reasons why people really hate TRP, which operate subconsciously. The world needs suckers. Modern civilization depends on a large supply of beta suckers who aren't aware of what is in their actual self interest. Now TRP is small enough in real life, that they will still be enough suckers to keep the ball rolling. Related to point 1, only alphas are supposed to reap the benefits of the betas. Women what alpha Da because people want their kids instinctually on th…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 01:51 PM
0

Yeah. I'm part black and to be honest am not a attracted to women who are. Pretty much only asian and white chicks, and maybe a latina.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 01:36 PM
1

As someone who wants to avoid LTRs at all costs this made my day. After finals week back to lifting.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 12:15 AM
1

I don't like RSD. It's too heavy on group dynamics and too much on being "genuine", with genuine requiring more than just purely physcial interest. I tried watching the blueprint and just couldn't get through it.
/r/askTRP15/12/14 11:35 AM
3

Exactly. Red pill is first and foremost about accepting reality, not wish fulfillment. In the real world evangelizing TRP doesn't work. It makes you ostracised by those who disagree and those who do agree can even be threatened because of TRP's image in the media. The best we can do is discuss the ideas here in male only conversations but without overt references to hear and our jargon. It is what it is.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 09:34 AM
2

Don't seek happiness through others. Don't need an audience for your thoughts. Have close friends. With a proper close friendship you have someone to talk to about your problems but since it is non sexual there is no possessiveness. Friendships can also be more stable. Male camaraderie is important. Understand intimacy and respect from women, and even how close to they feel to you have a negative correlation. Women are who they are, you are craving a relationship with an ideal that only exists i…
/r/askTRP15/12/14 08:08 AM
1

Yeah. At that point leave, maybe get pissed off at the other guy too. Either way that chick should have be left that moment.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 08:12 AM
1

Don't we want to ride the carousel. It's only bad news for the plugged in, for those who reach alpha status we get to enjoy being the ride.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 07:28 AM
1

Yeah. As a guy who had abusive shit - box parents, while I am nothing like that guy, it gives you no fear of physical injury, cause that isn't something unusual in your head. I'm no badass, probably more nerdy than I'd like to admit, was always scared of having a record, didn't instigate anything but to this day visceral fear of injury is not part of my mental landscape. Guys like that have that coupled with poor impulse control, extreme narcissism and violent insecurities bubbling just undernea…
/r/askTRP13/12/14 03:37 AM
2

I knew allot of those guys in highscool, a few in college (they lasted a semester) up to my early twenties, I went to a shitty highscool and for whatever reason got along with them but was never really criminal myself. How do you get like that? Lift Don't care about getting a record Don't care about career prospects Get into lots of fights Engage in low level criminal activity Spend some time in county lock up Bonus points if you have alcoholic, abusive or absentee parents and grew up in poverty…
/r/askTRP13/12/14 01:07 AM
1

You needed to buy two sets, one for you and your guest.
/r/seduction12/12/14 05:41 PM
1

Damn. In general how did you get them back to your place, mass trans, walked together, took a cab?
/r/seduction12/12/14 05:31 PM
1

Cool, that's a relief. Also I think I've never been more encouraged to keep my place ultra clean.
/r/seduction12/12/14 05:29 PM
1

I'll be aware of it as a factor. I'm still gonna go out and try, it just is nice to know where I stand, how much I have to compensate and not be surprised at how it might effect things. I like knowing the size of handicap I'll have to work against.
/r/seduction12/12/14 02:08 AM
1

When I was younger what helped was when a girl brought up something really down to earth. Then I'd just feel very comfortable. Bring up a funny story and physically show romantic interest, touch his arm, or leg, so this way he knows, oh I'm not being overly optimistic thinking she's romantically interested in me.
/r/seduction11/12/14 08:38 PM
3

Below thirty so I figure I'm still in the grace period in regards to not having allot of material resources, late twenties. I look a few years younger than my age too. Getting into shape, I figure that'll help once I shed the weight.
/r/seduction11/12/14 06:13 PM
1

What about for short term stuff, sex outside a relationship? Is that possible. I'm not looking for a gf, don't want to add anything serious relationship to my life.
/r/seduction11/12/14 04:13 PM
4

New bucket list item: fuck hot israeli chick in Thailand
/r/seduction11/12/14 04:17 AM
2

Damn. You sold me.
/r/seduction11/12/14 03:30 AM
7

Exactly. Why do feminists hate male bonding and cooperation so much. Women can have "safe spaces" and "solidarity" but men, it's someone oppressive if we do it, even if to help someone being wrong.
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