Socially I'm an agressive, dominant guy. I'm the guy in my group who steers the conversation, people defer to, and have been known as the wild boy. All in all I'm fairly alpha.

One thing I haven't seen discussed here that interests me is how that doesn't translate into women being attracted to you, or respecting you.

What is the main difference women use when trying to figure out if someone is alpha, and how do you project that differently to get women?