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| 16 | Some red flags I wish I didn’t ignore in the beginning:I 100% agree with you! I’m genuinely glad I experienced this because it made me realize I needed to work on my boundaries, self worth, self love. But I have therapist, psychiatrist and I’ve been reading a lot of books and listening to podcast. I feel like a new person everyday ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 02:17 PM |
| 20 | Some red flags I wish I didn’t ignore in the beginning:I was always told there’s nothing to be jealous of because they are family ….Yeah never again will I deal with someone that is in contact with any of their ex’s! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 02:14 PM |
| 7 | Unbelievable... my brother can't come visit our dying mother several states away but has time to go to a further state to sky dive with his bros.Yupppp. I disowned my brother when he couldn’t come to see our dad one last time after he passed away because he went to basketball game. Mind you he barely saw him the whole time that he was in the hospital, and when he did! It was like an hour or two once a week. Once I confronted him, he cried about “it was hard for me to see him like that” and my enabling mom was upset with me for being too harsh. I think that was the moment I realized I didn’t want anything to do with him because he was use… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 11:17 AM |
| 2 | How do you get rid of narcissistic partner?Thank you so Much to everyone that interacted with this post or sent me a message. This is literally the best community on Reddit and I love y’all so much. I want to eventually reply to everyone but I’m currently so drained emotionally. A little update: I used alittle bit of every tip you guys gave me and they left me alone. I’m finally free and I can go back to working on myself and resume the things I stopped working on when they came into my life ❤️ Happy thanksgiving to everyone that celebra… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 06:21 AM |
| 19 | How do you get rid of narcissistic partner?Thank you so much boo, and I did it 🎉🎉🎉🎉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 02:29 AM |
| 12 | Being around women who hate their bodies makes you hate yours too.Damn I never really thought about it that way. Thank you for this amazing reminder | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 06:06 PM |
| 10 | 5’2 with an attitude and audacity.Firstly: I’m sorry if this has been posted multiple times, you may take it down if it overdone. Secondly: if you’re on TikTok, please watch some of stitched videos, they are soo satisfying Thirdly: the emotional incest is just grosss 🤢🤢🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 06:04 PM |
| 28 | Dude makes 6x more and refuses to adjust the 50/50 budgetNo fucking way, I genuinely hate men. I hope she leaves him and finds her tribe and people | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 05:43 PM |
| 47 | The audacity of a zero value manI felt like she got all the info she needed to know within the first 30 seconds of talking to him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 06:48 AM |
| 77 | The audacity of a zero value manI posted this because it genuinely made me feel confused by the amount of audacity and false confidence that is be present in a 2 minute video. From what I’ve gathered, the original source stated that she’s a dating coach/match-maker on Instagram. She often hosts her followers on her Instagram lives to find connections by answering her questions. So the audacity is that this man really rolled out of bed just to come on a Instagram “dating show” and say all of this with confidence | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 06:46 AM |
| 25 | The audacity of a zero value manYesssss 😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 06:29 AM |
| 46 | “Build with him”I never give men compliments, cause they immediately think you want them, there’s nothing genuine to them cause they are never genuine | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 05:48 PM |
| 20 | “Build with him”The first one is coming from an anonymous page, the second one is just bold | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 05:48 PM |
| 22 | “Build with him”I wouldn’t blame you, I gasped so hard when I came across this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 05:46 PM |
| 52 | “Build with him”Same, I’m also glad that they aren’t the only thing I’m attracted to. They are so useless most of the time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 03:50 PM |
| 24 | “Build with him”I have been away from FDS for a minute. Are we not suppose to post stuff like this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 03:49 PM |
| 70 | “Build with him”When I watched that season, I almost went up in flames. She should’ve never scarified her life like that. Learned a valuable lesson there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 03:46 PM |
| 245 | “Build with him”I died at that too, they were not pleased by that comment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Check-inThe thing is I know to treat men pretty well. I can read them easily and became really uninterested in them. I’ve known I’m bisexual for a very long time (since I was 8-9, I’m 26 now) but my dating experience when it comes to women is basically nonexistent. I’ve recently met someone amazing but I see few red flas and I don’t know how to properly handle them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered November 1 2020Now that I think about it you’re right, I usually see it as a red flag when a guy asks for Snapchat before number, but I never saw it as a red flag in general. Thank you :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 08:01 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered November 1 2020Your phone number can be used against, please use alternative ways of keeping in touch with this guy. Maybe Snapchat (that isn’t connected to you phone or email) or download one of those apps that gives you fake numbers. Once you know the guy is a solid HVM, you could simply say that you changed your number and then give him your real number. I learn this the hard way! Getting 20 anonymous phone calls a day from a someone i went 3 dates on wasn’t fun | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 09:02 PM |
| 12 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered November 1 2020I’m so sorry you had to experience that. All I’m going to say is that this man has no respect for you, and I don’t see how this will work in your favour in the long run. If I were you, I’d block him from everywhere and move on with my life. And no he did not forget the promises he made 3 days prior or “couldn’t” keep his hands off of you, he simply doesn’t respect you. What disgusting being! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 08:56 PM |
| 21 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered November 1 2020He is nagging you already, run while you can ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 04:06 PM |
| 15 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered November 1 2020I’d say wait until she’s passes the postpartum period and tell her, I recommend screenshooting any evidence of him hitting on you. I mean how would you feel if your fiancé was hitting on other women and nobody told you? You’d be doing her a huge, life saving favour! Given that she’s not a pickmesha who will try to fight you for her husbands mistake | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 04:03 PM |
| 2 | It’s always the LVM/NVM that speak the loudestI was so shocked the first time I saw a post on r/ relationships about a girl whom claimed her boyfriend stopped bathing/ brushing his teeth and she was asking for advice on what to do (like that was her problem) But I’m saddened to say that since then I’ve seen so many posts Of women complaining about their boyfriend getting TOO comfortable. 😂 Why is personal hygiene so hard? And why does it stop when you settle with someone? What’s wrong with you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 12:15 PM |
| 2 | It’s always the LVM/NVM that speak the loudestYou’re welcome 😇 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 12:05 PM |
| 15 | FDS got me likeThis is my actual goal, be an independently successful badass mom. You’re my inspiration!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 06:42 PM |
| 27 | It will be effortlessTook me a long time to come to this realization. Until then, I’ll focus solely on myself and become the best version I could be. I’m okay waiting for my partner and won’t let loneliness drive me to the wrong person! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 06:40 PM |
| 101 | Where is the lie?Laughing through your own trauma is funniest thing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 04:07 PM |
| 27 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 7 2020I made a post on a subreddit and was immediately hated, simply because I often post on here. I’m just so confused by why everyone finds this subreddit toxic?? Like this subreddit helped overcome things that my expensive therapist couldn’t. Is it because it’s empowering? Or is it because we finally know our worth? I just find it so funny | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 02:29 PM |
| 7 | She sent a $1000 to a man that got her saved as “lawyer chick” ... have some self respect 🤡🤡🤡🤡This is what happens when you’re dickmatized. There’s 99.99% this is made up conversation for likes but if it’s real then it’s the saddest case of pickmisha ive yet to witness | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 12:36 AM |
| 8 | She sent a $1000 to a man that got her saved as “lawyer chick” ... have some self respect 🤡🤡🤡🤡Me too, I hope she moves on! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 11:43 PM |
| 28 | He also told me he cheated on an ex but he was “just being a guy”At this point, it’s not even a red flag sis, it’s a whole stop sign and a U-turn looool | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 03:47 PM |
| 14 | This is the harsh reality!!! This is why you should only date a HVM, and stop wasting your precious time on dusties that don’t even love you 👑😌High or low, majority of men don’t have the same emotional intelligence that women possess. Therefore, you always have to be careful who you give all your love to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 10:35 PM |
| 20 | This is the harsh reality!!! This is why you should only date a HVM, and stop wasting your precious time on dusties that don’t even love you 👑😌Well I have to say that I am very jealous, but after many heart shattering experiences, I’ve learned to reserve that love for myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 09:35 AM |
| 11 | This is the harsh reality!!! This is why you should only date a HVM, and stop wasting your precious time on dusties that don’t even love you 👑😌Omg same, I started following her yesterday and I’m already obsessed. Some of her post are hard to swallow but necessary for growth and levelling up. I stan | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 09:31 AM |
| 11 | Girl has sex with her “boyfriend” on his flea ridden mattress. Shit makes me sadOmg me too, I actually had to take a shower at 3am cause it made soo itchy and paranoid. I can’t imagine someone being that comfortably dirty 🤢🤢🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 07:45 AM |
| 1 | I had to re-read this few times and I still don’t understandThe last quote right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 04:03 AM |
| 13 | I had to re-read this few times and I still don’t understandAlready done sis 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 08:56 PM |
| 8 | I had to re-read this few times and I still don’t understandMy same exact thought | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 08:55 PM |
| 5 | Roommate is dating the lowest of low value men, any advice on how to get her to realize?Are you talking about my coworkers? Lol A bunch of old boys always talking about how men are better than women. Continuously calling women ugly and not funny (they’re just projecting). I hate them so much and I can’t wait for September to come around, so I can move on to better things. As for your roommate, I hope she comes to her senses before he completely fucks up her self esteem | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 01:30 AM |
| 127 | Not me, but my heart aches for this girl. “My boyfriend displayed my nudes on a wall of women he and his friends have slept with. I feel like my life has been ruined”And thats on never sending anyone nudes ever!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 06:26 AM |
| 2 | My mom always gets so upset when I tell her, I won’t marry a Muslim dude even if my life depends on it. I’m sorry if I offend anyone, but as someone who spent years studying the religion, the whole thing is super misogynistic when it come to women.I was talking from my OWN personal experience as a black Muslim woman that was born and raised in Saudi Arabia until the age of 16. As beautiful as the religion is, its not very kind to women and I know that because I saw it with my own fucking eyes. Sorry my meme offended you but I am allowed to share whatever I want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 09:04 PM |
| 2 | My mom always gets so upset when I tell her, I won’t marry a Muslim dude even if my life depends on it. I’m sorry if I offend anyone, but as someone who spent years studying the religion, the whole thing is super misogynistic when it come to women.Thank you for the kind words ❤️❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 08:54 PM |
| 50 | My mom always gets so upset when I tell her, I won’t marry a Muslim dude even if my life depends on it. I’m sorry if I offend anyone, but as someone who spent years studying the religion, the whole thing is super misogynistic when it come to women.Yeah as someone who grew up in Saudi Arabia, I got sooo brainwashed by all the misogyny. I always thank my lucky stars that I left that country and was given a second chance to be a human being and not someone’s property | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 04:26 PM |
| 21 | My mom always gets so upset when I tell her, I won’t marry a Muslim dude even if my life depends on it. I’m sorry if I offend anyone, but as someone who spent years studying the religion, the whole thing is super misogynistic when it come to women.Omg I chuckled 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 04:15 PM |
| 33 | My mom always gets so upset when I tell her, I won’t marry a Muslim dude even if my life depends on it. I’m sorry if I offend anyone, but as someone who spent years studying the religion, the whole thing is super misogynistic when it come to women.Thank you 🙏🏾 I refused to call a community dick my husband 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 04:15 PM |
| 41 | My mom always gets so upset when I tell her, I won’t marry a Muslim dude even if my life depends on it. I’m sorry if I offend anyone, but as someone who spent years studying the religion, the whole thing is super misogynistic when it come to women.Lmao anything to justify marrying multiple women 😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 04:14 PM |
| 7 | Husband cheats by getting women’s Snapchats from Tinder and his wife threatens all them instead of leavingThis is such a sad cringe! I don’t understand why women come for other women when their mans cheat? I’d rather spend the rest of my existence alone than go through that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 06:17 AM |
| 116 | How many other NVM phrases can you think of ?Yeah I had an ex like that myself. I officially ended it with him at the beginning of this year when I found this sub. For a year (yes I know 😢) he wasted my time by love bombing me and I’d fall for it, then he would ignore me for months on end and I’d fall back and he would love bomb me. It was an endless cycle. I officially ended it with him because he shamelessly said that his ideal partner is someone that cooks/cleans and fucks him daily, he would put a ring on it, if she leaves him alone an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 01:41 PM |
| 6 | A queen said so!!!Story time, One of my ex friend went out with this dude, on the second or third date he brought her over to his place. From how she told the story, the apartment was a complete mess, the kitchen was overflowing with moody plates and condiments, the stove literally changed colours, his washrooms was something from nightmares .. basically homeboy lived in a dump. Instead of just leaving after seeing his living conditions, she decided to “Netflix and chill”. This low life has the balls to say that … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 01:31 PM |
| 5 | A queen said so!!!First of all, your flair had me dying. Secondly, I am a very boring person too. I work and go to school so on my down time, I usually don’t want participate in activities aside from dancing and maybe host a games night with friends and a whole lot of Netflix. I hate that question cause it makes me feel extra boring lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 11:40 AM |
| 7 | A queen said so!!!Using that next time 🙏🏾🙏🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 04:43 AM |
| 37 | A queen said so!!!Shame on me 😂 Can we add weed to the mix too??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 01:28 AM |
| 109 | A queen said so!!!I lose all my interest the second I see that question! I can’t believe I used to write paragraphs upon paragraphs about my interests and hobbies just so I can appear worthy. Sad! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 11:11 PM |
| 117 | A queen said so!!!Most of the men I met in my life time have one of the following “hobbies”: the gym -video games cooking (they can cook like one good dish and that’s it) apparently their height is their personality and hobby -hiking (they love to throw hiking in the mix but only went once back in 2017) And that’s it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 11:08 PM |
| 40 | A queen said so!!!Oh my am I embarrassed, I can’t believe I used to be such a pickmisha. Sometimes, I remember the way I used to act and I just cringe myself to sleep. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 11:01 PM |
| 2 | My pickmeisha bff is pregnantI feel for her tbh, shitty parents and family members really did a number on her. But, at that point she was a grown, beautiful woman and had not one or two but THREE VERY HVM interested in her. It sucked watching her treat HVM like shit and LVM/NVM/ZVM treat her like shit. It was a never ending train wreck for like 4 years. Everytime I remember her, I just hope that she’s in a better place and realized her worth! The daughters are fucked, both parents are drug addicted ( I don’t know the full s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 01:42 AM |
| 6 | We have set the bar for men SO lowThat’s even worst omg! What’s wrong with men? 🤢🤢🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 12:55 PM |
| 23 | We have set the bar for men SO lowI always say I don’t know how to cook from the second I meet a guy. I use the same excuse everytime which is my mom never let me into the kitchen therefore, I didn’t learned how to cook (true story), When I turned 18 I moved out and I had to learn how to cook, but Ill keep lying cause I refused to cook for a LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 12:10 AM |
| 23 | We have set the bar for men SO lowHE CALLED YOUR MOTHER????!??? Omg that would’ve been a fight FIGHT. I’m so glad you’re out of that relationship! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 12:06 AM |
| 26 | My pickmeisha bff is pregnantI had a friend like that, but she had a new man in her life every two weeks and they were all VERY LVM if not NVM She had abandonment issues and it made her a huge pickmisha, she would go all out for every relationship. It was heartbreaking seeing someone so beautiful be so dumb. Last time I spoke to her she was living with 40 year old crackhead CRACKHEAD (I can’t be making this up) she moved from the city to rural area to live with him and his three daughters (my friend is 24 years old). They m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 05:56 PM |
| 242 | We have set the bar for men SO lowI work in a male dominated space. Not a single one of them cooks! The ones that still live with family, will have their mommy cook for them, those who live alone spend a big chunk of their paycheck on fast food delivery that are often being delivered from across the street. Lol the main joke is, they often talk about their ridiculous standards, whilst they can’t make a sandwich without messing it up. Seriously ladies, just stay single and save your energy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 05:29 PM |
| 31 | On 90 Day Fiance Rose stands up for herself and calls out Big Ed for humiliating her and lying. Reminder to not take shit from men 💅What’s crazy to me is how trashy his personality is, yet the man thinks he is a catch and gift to womenkind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 05:20 PM |
| 14 | Being a Kinkmeisha traumatized me, but now I’m recovering!I used to be the same, I always feel soo much shame everytime I think about the way I used to let these beings treat me. I got sucked into doing sooo many messed up things and I always wondered what voodoo was used for me to become such a doormat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 09:44 PM |
| 30 | Men will sleep with absolutely anyoneSame, my room is right next to his. Majority of the time if not all of it he is playing video games with his friends and some of the things that he says are just heartbreaking. My mom and I raised him with soo much love and care and the fact that he turned out to be such a fucking garbage makes me lose all hope in men. In reply to the actual post. I don’t really have casual sex but when I do, I’m only thinking about my needs and not theirs. Their views and opinions don’t really phase me, as long… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Left on readIf I’m constantly being left on read, I’m bouncing. Same goes for if I’m always starting the conversation and keeping it alive. | /r/seduction | 04/04/20 03:56 AM |
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