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[–]Mella_20FDS Newbie37 points38 points39 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is the only way to do it 👏👏👏🙆♀️🙆♀️🙆♀️
Something that should add to your life shouldn't be a challenge.
[–]torabullFDS Newbie26 points27 points28 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Took me a long time to come to this realization. Until then, I’ll focus solely on myself and become the best version I could be. I’m okay waiting for my partner and won’t let loneliness drive me to the wrong person!
[–]learningtobestrongxoThrowaway Account20 points21 points22 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This is why I want to get off dating apps.
Full of NOTHING but fuckboy LVM / NVM
[–][deleted] 8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just do it. I never use them and I’m happy as fuck. I wish the same for you.
[–]clairemaffeisFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Amen!
[–]SpicyLolli7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
But no human relationship, romantic or not, works like this. With my parents, with my friends, with everyone you'll fight now and then. No one is perfect, I'm not saying compromising or having someone who doesn't respect you/treat you right but no one is perfect and no relationship ever flows like water. I am not perfect myself why should I demand someone who is perfect?
[–]Mella_20FDS Newbie12 points13 points14 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't think they meant that it would be perfect. It's more about compatibility. Not having to explain yourself over and over again because they get it. Disagreements are normal but not losing your hair from stress because you're fundamentally incompatible with someone 🤷♀️
There are certain things I will never fight about, at all. It won't even be a discussion. Not just with a partner, but my family too. My boundaries are set.
[–]ThrowRA745318FDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't think it's about being perfect at all. It's about being comfortable and compatible and caring about one another.
I've never been in a relationship where there haven't been disagreements - but in the good ones, we'd resolve those without animosity or spite. They were a part of our relationship as much as sharing nice things.
With unhealthy relationships, I've felt like I'm always hitting snags. Like if I say something the wrong way, it'll cause a problem. Like any long silence is something to be worried about, or like attempts to even share nice things can be jarring.
It is absolutely not about perfection. It's about mutual respect.
[–]LevelTurbulentFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I agree, especially if you're in a relationship where you live together and have shared finances and/or have children. There are going to be difficulties.
[–]LuciannaVampFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Great words! Thanks OP for sharing!
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