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I just told my stbxw who left for ap I threw away all the wedding stuff. Burned the photos..scrubbed every possible social media of you and your existence. Then I blocked her.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/23 06:50 PM
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I'm sentimental AF..
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/23 01:29 AM
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It's funny you bring this up...as I found a notebook a while ago, and written in it was everything I did wrong...the only good thing, was my hair... Her "friends" are toxic AF...And I told her this years ago.. She didn't leave me to have a post divorce life, she left for her AP..AND I got to hear every God damn thing a spouse should not say to the other...and watch her get all dressed up to go on date nights with this fat fuck.. Yooo, I'm pissed. I've never been so pissed for this long. It's exh…
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/23 01:26 AM
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That's essentially what I did..but with purpose..
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/23 11:19 PM
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That's what I think as well.. She would have to live with her guilt..
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/23 11:10 PM
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💯 this. Also, God damn weed.
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/23 11:11 PM
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Test it.
/r/Divorce_Men29/06/23 02:44 AM
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I think everything from here on out is covered on my end. I've systematically gone through everything, repeatedly.
/r/Divorce_Men29/06/23 02:41 AM
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I made her file..she wanted the divorce...she doesn't get to vilify me with making me file.
/r/Divorce_Men29/06/23 01:45 AM
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At some point..I plan on taking a trip to the north shore of lake Superior..the last place her and I seemed happy at. Doing some camping and photography..then..before I leave. I'll say a few words of remembrance before yeeting the ever loving fuck of that God damn band into the deep abyss.
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/23 11:11 PM
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I've been trying to maintain some contact with my step diaghter of 13 years...she's 16 and I think it's a losing battle. Grass is greener syndrome just like her mother if I had to guess.
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/23 09:05 PM
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My work doesn't really believe in therapy...just more work.
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/23 01:11 PM
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Thank you :)
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/23 12:32 PM
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Yes..definitely fuck cheating wives.. I actually just remembered that..after she revealed all this was going on..and we were still living together, she was getting ready to go to work..and she asked me if I spoke with her AP. I said no. Apparently they broke up in the first week for a couple days and she was fucking mad at me..her husband because she thought..I got involved.. They then got back together after "a long talk" my wife worked harder to be with her AP..than she ever did at being with …
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/23 03:23 AM
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My plans Step one, sell house, it will be sold soon, God willing Step 2: move to apartment in July Step 3: get apartment situated and how I like it Step 4: try not to have a fucking complete mental breakdown Step 5: work Step 6: work Step 7: try to get back into a hobby I did years ago Step 8: try to get outside...ive been living under a rock the last 10 years..just working working working I just got back from an hour long excursion to the local river and did some fishing..I lost a lure and deci…
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/23 11:54 PM
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It never occurred to me that she was being abusive until the very end.. At one point she did come lay down on the couch with me..but for 2 minutes and I was half way asleep. She abruptly said "Jesus, you suck" and bolted up and out. I didn't reply..
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/23 10:17 PM
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I cant even look at insta...its full of those sad, sappy "you lost her and its all your fault" articles/posts..seemingly overnight. It was full of fishing and political memes, before all this
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/23 08:25 PM
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I dont have any kids with her..and im moving to the city..closer to work in mid july
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/23 05:58 PM
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Lol..nope
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/23 05:28 PM
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Holy crap.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/23 04:17 PM
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I'm moving out because this house is not financially feasible for me. She's already moved out. The house is going to go into pending status very soon. Also, I cant deal with ghosts..too many damn memories in the house.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/23 03:58 PM
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How, how do they lose? I feel like this is something she's been wanting or had her mind on for about 1.5 years..how can she not truly believe that her situation is definitely greener? Edit: especially when it seems like this new guy is going to be footing 95% of the bill for all of them to go to Florida in august.. That's what she told me.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/23 03:43 PM
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I really hope your right.. In the past, I would be cleaning, cooking and general maintenance for a house of 3 people. Pretty much every GD day..I got ran down. And now..its just me. I really hope your right.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/23 03:30 PM
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I listened to the podcast "A man's journey through divorce" very early on..and stoicism is something that he brought up many times.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/23 03:20 PM
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It did...and didn't. During the day I find myself with mixed emotions In one hand I have the heavy burden of, I REALLY fucked up. And in the other I have the complete opposite feeling.. I'm glad it helped you.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/23 11:54 PM
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Oh yeah..I remember that song. I tried fishing a couple weeks ago..Couldn't do it.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/23 11:25 PM
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shrugs
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/23 11:19 PM
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Yes.. ill answer that. Dm
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/23 10:26 PM
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I know.. I know you're not wrong..and she clearly doesn't love me. Nobody that truly loves another person could be able to drop the SO like deadweight so they could go be with AP.. Realizations I guess.. I dont love her like I used to.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/23 07:12 PM
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How the hell do I get this "ghost" out of my head? I work out, all day every day. Getting out is hard for me to do since the city is 35 minutes away..one way.
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/23 12:45 AM
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It's not going to happen again as she is my STBXW.
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/23 10:37 PM
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I don't think years of daily weed use and prescription antidepressants helped... I'm just really trying to fully understand the situation..my side, her side. Flaws from both of us..I guess this is how I am processing things...as logically as possible.. And there most likely isn't a single moment or completely logical answer to all these questions I have.. It's all circles man.
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/23 02:35 AM
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Ok..yeah. I'll through it away..but is it not possible that somebody with clinical depression be affected negatively by using weed??
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/23 02:09 AM
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We didn't really struggle to make ends meet..it was more of a "If I can fix this problem, I'm gonna try" And I know..im learning that not everything can be fixed..sad shrug
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/23 01:50 AM
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Cook, clean, laundry, car maintenance, house maintenance, all of it..for 10+ years..every damn day. But the best thing I learned or picked up..was being able to fix appliances. Repaired every single appliance in my soon to be sold house without calling a repair tech.
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/23 10:11 PM
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First Father's day without my stbxw,(ILUBINILWU), and step daughter. And sons I haven't been able to see in 16 years.. stbxw moved out the day before I left town to go hang with friends and parents for Father's day/birthday. Step daughter just sent me a text to wish me happy father's day/birthday and she loves me.. I'm, so exhausted.
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/23 05:22 PM
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That's what my STBXW did..monkey branch..she told me..and then had the audacity to ask me how I'm going to fix it..we still cohabite..till this weekend..and she's still going out on dates with him.. Fun stuff...don't recommend.
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/23 01:30 AM
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