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| 21 | Red Pillers who are 30+ if you were in your 20's what would you do differently?Agree with all the above. Also learn to dance or play an instrument. If you plan on working up the chain in the corporate world, learn to golf. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/20 12:52 AM |
| 4 | Post first date contactWhy would a girl off Tinder wait a week for you to talk to her? As a guy, you should be setting the rhythm - and a week is long enough to be interpreted as disinterest | /r/askTRP | 03/09/20 06:02 AM |
| 3 | Post first date contactI typically wait about 1.5 days (if she doesn't reach out to me on her own) before I text a girl after a date. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/20 05:52 AM |
| 9 | Does she see me as a friend or a guy she wants to fuck?That's what polarization and escalation are for. If she kept grabbing your arm that was a clear opportunity for you to mirror her behavior and gauge her reaction. Instead of wondering in your diary if she likes you, try escalating by meeting up with her and see what happens. And if you're scared, go to the gym until you're not. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/19 11:01 PM |
| 2 | How Can I Be Less GAY?Happens to me too. I think it's a way for girls to save face from being rejected by a guy who seems too "clean-cut" in her eyes. I treat it like a shit test and Agree & Amplify: "I am gay. (Look at her waist) Gay for that ass." | /r/askTRP | 07/11/17 08:44 PM |
| 17 | In dire need of some adviceForgot who said it here first, but if a girl asks for "space", make her feel like a fucking astronaut. | /r/askTRP | 04/11/17 01:49 AM |
| 2 | What kind of dance classes would you recommend for increasing fluidity, kino with girls and general charisma?Add basic 2-stepping (the poor man's waltz) and that's a good set. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/17 01:56 AM |
| 36 | Am I missing something by not having snapchat or instagram?Get a snapchat. Girls use it like texting. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/17 01:36 AM |
| 5 | How Bad Did I Fuck thiis up?You communicated with her overtly - women communicate covertly. You triggered her ASD, and she went into lock down. You can't throw a frog into boiling water, you heat it up steadily. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/17 01:27 AM |
| 1 | 20M, Tokyo, white. Going clubbing for first time in my life today. Any tips?More often than not I end up clubbing alone. Like the scene in Dark Knight where he escapes the Turkish prison without the safety rope, going solo gives you that extra drive to succeed. Plus the logistics are usually easier (I've had many close failures due to "friendly fire"). Since it sounds like you're new to this, pick something you'd like to work on (say maintaining eye contact) and practice it when you go to the club. It'll improve your skills & take your mind off picking-up girls (appear … | /r/askTRP | 23/09/17 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Wedding day coming up, celebrating without sex?"Having a good time" as your mentality leads to her having a good time, so that she becomes more receptive to fulfilling your needs. Your frame should be "you don't care what happens", not in the sense of following whatever she wants like a puppy, but rather planning to have a good time, and no matter the outcome (outcome independence), you will not be affected. You are a rock, and she is the tide. You are Cool Hand Luke, and you couldn't give a shit about anything trying to bring you down. The … | /r/askTRP | 15/09/17 09:56 AM |
| 3 | I can't switch over mindsets after consuming the red pill. How does one really start?If you want to start, then start. No one is stopping you but yourself. Don't think; do it. If you can't feel, go to the gym and lift. You'll be feeling plenty the next day. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/17 08:39 AM |
| 1 | Possible to night game in a small sized city without becoming "that guy"?Agreed, my city is half that size. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/17 03:59 AM |
| 3 | Is there a "trp" but instead of plates and casual relationships, something for more serious long term relationships?Men are the gatekeepers of commitment. Women are the gatekeepers of sex. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/17 10:46 PM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread August 09A "nice" car should be an accessory, not a crutch. You should be able to game women succesfully without it. Usually, girls will make a comment about it, but I brush it off as not a big deal. I'm implying I have a nice car because I like nice cars, not because I'm trying to impress them. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/17 07:21 AM |
| 2 | Listening to "Pimp: The story of my life". Need help with pimp/black jargonSearch online for the Urban Dictionary using Baidu or a VPN | /r/askTRP | 04/01/17 07:10 AM |
| 1 | How does an alpha ask a girl to a dance?Walk up and say "Come dance with me." She isn't going to be the one who asks you. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/16 05:20 AM |
| 3 | "I've got a boyfriend" - game over?Credit to Uncle Vas - I've used the third one, and knocked it out of the park. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/16 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Learn to dance. Picking styleDepending on where you live, learning swing and 2-step is a good idea. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/16 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Creatine useDrink plenty of water while on it, won't be an issue. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/16 06:00 PM |
| 0 | How much of a 100% red flag is a high partner count?Something like 5 | /r/askTRP | 14/07/16 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Snap chat spamI was busy. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/16 05:47 PM |
| 1 | [EASY QUESTION] Any tips on how to carry someone piggyback longer?Hydrate night before. Take pre-workout 30 minutes before. Use the bathroom right before. Have her grab further down your chest (not the front of your neck). Loop your forearms through her legs initially (save your grip strength for later when they start slipping). DON'T round your back. Breathe regularly. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/16 11:56 PM |
| 2 | not sure if i should goGo to the park and do whatever you feel like. Ditch them, hit on chicks, ride the same slide 40 times, who cares? They have to come find you after since you're their ride back. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/16 11:07 PM |
| 51 | Emergency TRP LTR Advice Needed (GF Planned a w/e vacation secretly then lied to me about it)DEFCON 1 - Nuclear Next I'd wait until she's on the flight there to let her know ("It's over. Your stuff is at xxx place"). You will not communicate with her afterwards. You won't yell. You won't explain why. You won't pass go. You won't collect $200. Pack all her crap and drop it off with a friend or relative. Change your locks. Get yourself tested. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/16 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Lifting SupplementsGlutamine is pointless unless your muscles are literally wasting away. Beta Alanine, BCAA, & Creatine are a respectable base. Be sure to drink at least 1 gallon of water per day while on these. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/16 08:32 PM |
| 5 | My friend has become a cuck, how do I save him?You can't unplug him - only he can. Often, men find the red pill after hitting rock bottom and realizing there is something very wrong with perception vs. reality. But you can be there when the phone rings. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/16 02:42 AM |
| 3 | People who have lost a significant amount of weight, how do you not resent people who treat you better?You can't negotiate attraction. Instead, you must become what they are attracted to. How is it her fault that she is genetically programmed (through millenia of evolution) to like ripped Alphas? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/16 01:31 AM |
| 2 | Could Not Break The Social AnxietyAll you need is a few lines. If you don't have anything to say after, tell her you'll see her later, smile, and moonwalk away (because after all, there's a long line of girls waiting for the privilege to talk to you). Either she'll keep the conversation going, or you'll have indicated you're high worth and don't have a lot of time for her. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/16 12:47 AM |
| 4 | I understand the importance of grooming because of SMV. But, I've got no fashion sense, or desire to be fashionable.TRP is a toolbox. It's up to you to decide which tool to use, and when. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/16 02:34 AM |
| 4 | I understand the importance of grooming because of SMV. But, I've got no fashion sense, or desire to be fashionable.It's a question of economics. If the market is flooded with products, the ones with the best packaging stand out. If a chick had to choose between you or your clone wearing fashionable clothes, who would she pick? In general, fashion reflects status, awareness, or simply respecting yourself enough to wear clean clothes that fit correctly. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/16 02:20 AM |
| 3 | Did I play this wrong or is this girl just a bitch?She started a game of "prove you're worthy" over text, and you decided to acknowledge it. Writing "nuh-uh, you prove you're worthy" is not a pressure flip in this case. If you were actually worthy you wouldn't say anything about it; you would act like it (actions not words). Replying "#" implies I'm not going to prove the obvious, now what's your number? | /r/askTRP | 16/06/16 01:14 AM |
| 2 | Did I play this wrong or is this girl just a bitch?Nope, you're entering her frame. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/16 12:26 AM |
| 11 | 41 year old blue pill man....where do i startRead the sidebar, but to get you quick started: Lift, meditate, sleep, & find a useful hobby. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/16 12:49 AM |
| 0 | why is it important to keep texts in social media to logistics only?You cannot build attraction via text. Attraction happens in-person. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/16 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Remind me how to make plans with girls that they won't cancel?♂ Had to learn this the hard way. Great summary. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/16 01:36 AM |
| 2 | A girl from the time before TrpIn her mind, you've already been binned together with all the other Betas she's encountered. You face an uphill battle. Not saying it's impossible, but you're going to need to engage all cylinders to shock&awe your ass back onto her Alpha list. If you succeed, great! If not, who cares - a million others are waiting to give you their number. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/16 10:20 AM |
| 4 | Beta looks for clarity after being cheated (?) on1) I would've ghosted her. No contact. Next. 2) If you wanted to become her plate, sure. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/16 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Did I make the right move?Try not to lol/haha/emoji Distic is right about "cool" Next. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/16 04:49 AM |
| 4 | How to leave redman styleAccept the truth Neo. There is no such thing as a "redpill goodbye letter." Ok. I'm walking away. Are you? Then do it. Wtf would you put in a letter ? There is no goodbye letter. Writing is for logistics. I'm focusing on me and not obsessing about her 24/7. Then why do you think you need a letter? Or I could just plate her Then do it. How do I say Through actions. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/16 04:45 AM |
| 2 | "So tell me about yourself"Agreed - for logistics only. "My biography is still being edited; I'll have to tell you in person" | /r/askTRP | 09/05/16 04:37 AM |
| 3 | How much of a disadvantage am I at in the dating scene if...You are implicitly Alpha with women until you are proven wanting. This can happen the second they see you if you don't take care of your appearance. Or on the approach if you lack confidence. Etc. 0-Notch count Doesn't matter unless you make it matter. This will be a shit test. Read the sidebar. Prepare deflection. Mentally: "Why the fuck is she worthy of being my first with me" body language Practice. Fail. Learn. Repeat. Succeed. Find a wingman and go out just observing if you have to. Never m… | /r/askTRP | 09/05/16 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Confused about a girlAssuming you've already accepted VZ's truths, that guy is her BB. She wants AF. Or a more resourceful BB. AWALT. But she's not worth it. Abundance mentality. Next. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/16 03:57 AM |
| 2 | How to shake being stuck in complacency?You got 1 plate and became content. Nothing wrong with not banging every single girl that you could. Some guys want to, and some don't. Some only enjoy the chase, the rush leading up to the close. TRP is about improving yourself for yourself, finding and doing what makes you happy. You are journeying down a highway, and if you wanna pick-up a girl for a stretch of it, why the fuck not. If you don't, so be it. Either you don't actually want to close with these girls, or you're afraid you can't an… | /r/askTRP | 09/05/16 03:49 AM |
| -2 | If TRP states that women go for the badass alphas, how does this truth work alongside them seeming to go for the "normal" guys.AWALT and they all want AF. Either be the Alpha (redpill) or appear it (PUA). fucking the quieter, semi reserved guy Because he was the Alpha in that time/place. Is he really the biggest alpha? Yes. AWALT. Therefore, he must've been the AMOG. QED funniest guy that gets laid; not the loudest; the biggest; it's the "normal" guy. Funny, loud, physically dominant are all Alpha traits. However having just one is not going to cut it in competition. Can anyone explain this? Yes. He was the MOST Alpha (… | /r/askTRP | 09/05/16 03:22 AM |
| 1 | What should you shave/trim for summerNo. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/16 03:01 AM |
| 1 | ExhaustedNext. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/16 03:00 AM |
| 6 | LTR wants to take a break, while I'm awayExactly - she used you. Don't let it happen again. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/16 02:41 AM |
| 2 | Where did I go wrong?Padawan - there are 4 billion women on this planet. Forget about her. To you, she should now just be a lesson, personified. Full autopsy: we went on a date for some drinks Briffault's Law You probably paid for all the drinks. In 24 hours, she will forget you EVER did this. What value has she provided you (in advance) for access to your resources (money)? Use the 2/3 ratio as a guide - she does something 3 times for you, you do it twice back. I tell her if it was OK if I can Very weak. You should… | /r/askTRP | 08/05/16 01:17 PM |
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