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Try laredpill.com
/r/RedPillBooks28/05/19 03:37 PM
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I just did
/r/RedPillBooks10/03/19 03:40 PM
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Thanks
/r/RedPillBooks17/10/18 11:16 AM
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There is a corollary here, or a caveat, a very important one in my point of view. Be extremely certain of the truth of your ideas, and never doubt them, until you have reason to. In the words of Bruce Lee, "be like water my friend", become flexible enough to dump outdated ideas when you see them, but don't be questioning them all the time.
/r/becomeaman27/10/17 02:55 PM
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The effect lasts until you start cumming in your sleep.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 02:54 PM
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good for you
/r/askTRP22/12/15 11:56 AM
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So the effects are real but since they level after some time no one should do it?
/r/askTRP22/12/15 11:55 AM
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So you fucked every day until 30? Great for you
/r/askTRP21/12/15 07:34 PM
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Thats not the only problem, masturbating will cut down on your agressivenes, since you have already cum, and are "satisfied". If you cut down on masturbating for a month you will get better results chasing out girls since you will tolerate more bullshit.
/r/askTRP21/12/15 06:58 PM
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It is common sense, I was not aware of the pill but shared most of the stuff we discuss here for most of my adult life, the difference, being in Argentina, was that everyone else was a fucking beta crab pinning me down. After finding this place I just felt freed from the mental blocks everyone else was throwing at me. Having a beta dad was was pushed me over to not confronting this status quo. I have a friend who had an alpha dad, but the society made him a beta bitch, after I found the pill I p…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 04:52 PM
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AWALT, dude. If she doesn't tell you "no i am not comfortable with that" then you just do it, she will adapt quickly, it's in their genes.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 12:16 PM
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You all need to understand that lifting is used instead of calisthenics because of the clear message, if you think two minutes about it you will see that people can get lazy while doing bodyweights (hey, I do BW, i do 30 pushups a day!) and not so much by lifting
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 03:09 PM
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If you don't mind. I'm gonna steal everything from here and translate it to spanish for my blog (about the red pill in spanish, since there seems to be no one talking about this... in spanish) It's more detailed than the last one. Great writing! EDIT: So here it is, in case anyone needs it in spanish: http://laredpill.com/?p=60
/r/askTRP16/12/15 02:18 PM
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Talking for myself here but: Most adult males (post 25yo) would have had enough experience in life so as to not be a real Nice Guy, since everything the book says is, obvious to anyone with some experience. Now, TRP? Seeing thousands of like-minded individuals confirming my own suspicions? That was the eye opener. That said, I had a friend almost same age as myself (around 30) that was a textbook Nice Guy, I helped him out of that and into the Red Pill, and the change is outstanding.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 06:56 PM
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Because he is frameless.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 12:17 PM
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One item a week, more if I have the time and find the will, eventually will get the whole Red Handbook, I hope.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 12:16 PM
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If you do, You are operating under her frame
/r/askTRP03/12/15 11:43 PM
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No.
/r/askTRP03/12/15 11:21 PM
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I am in the process of translating everything to Spanish in my blog, many of my friends don't know english.
/r/askTRP03/12/15 11:07 PM
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Everyone should read the Bonecrcker blog at least once. It is from 2003, this is 12 years ago, he was still in the anger phase, but everything he says is spot on. Here is the link (http://no-maam.blogspot.ca/2003/01/the-book-of-bonecrker-table-of-contents.html) Some solid advice: Bonecrker #35 - You Mean NOTHING To A Woman Until You Have Sex Bonecrker #75 - Most Women Don’t Want a Man Who Isn’t Choosy Bonecrcker #90 – There Is No Point In Approaching Any Woman Who Doesn’t Look At You And Go “Yum…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 02:58 PM
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There is no real analogy for sex, if you date someone is because you want to have sex, that is the only difference between a date and a friend. Maybe an analogy would be if someone invited you to a steak house and then said she didn't eat meat so you both should not eat.
/r/becomeaman30/11/15 12:45 PM
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There is no "I'm too tired for sex" you might not get PIV but you can get kinky.
/r/becomeaman30/11/15 12:43 PM
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I stop being his friend, if he, as a male has no basic coherence and doesn't follow men rules, he is no friend of mine.
/r/askTRP29/11/15 04:01 PM
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She's a late bloomer, has low n-count that I tend to believe (4 guys) she was really shy at the beginning but has been opening like a beautiful flower every day since I met her. It's what I like more about dating girls, I find broken girls disgusting, but that's my taste.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 07:04 PM
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My current girl is 37 and just like that, I love how innocent she is, never ate cold pizza, never combined gum and candy, never went to a canival... never fucked in the beach, or the pool... i'ts like dating a 20 year old.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 02:17 PM
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4-5 simultaneous plates are a nightmare to handle if you do anything but fuck women outside your work. At least from my experience, I could never handle more than 3. Plating is also the reason and consequence of focusing in being alpha mainly for sexual strategy.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 05:30 PM
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The idea is not to bounce like a ball, but not to invest too much. If after 10 minutes you don't see her engaging, bounce.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 03:19 PM
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The thing is, we don't care about other males, because the red pill is, as stated in the sidebard: "The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men. " So we only need to look alpha for the girls, in order to score.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 12:09 PM
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Just a Black Swan stability brings that to the table.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 06:58 PM
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This is what I do, once she slipped that she knew that for example if on a Friday night I didn't initiate texting, that meant that I was at my friend's house, I started texting her randomly on Fridays, even if I was with my friend, or not texting her on Fridays, even if I was alone at home. Keep it random, lest they get comfortable.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 01:25 PM
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The turning point for me is where you can't tell them "Oh I just have an active life, not much of a gym guy" because they won't buy it. Remember they want natural alphas because that means you have naturally good genes that make you muscular without trying. We know that is bullshit but their hamster don't.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 01:55 PM
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Start fucking other women, don't tell her, but also stop being available so much for her, she will either get the hint (really, they are good at getting the hint) and leave you, or she will fall in line and keep fucking you. Just keep in mind if she tells you that you cheated, that she is cheating you in her mind, no faithul woman should keep orbiters like that if she wants the relationship to be exclusive. They instinctively know it, you know it, just that you are letting that happen.
/r/askTRP16/11/15 11:22 PM
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My current LTR said to me at the beginning (when I told her I was starting to exercise and that my plan was to get big) that she didn't like muscular guys. Turns out she actually does like muscles and cannot stop touching my pecs and biceps. When I tease her about it, she comes up with "well I didn't know" or "well but I was talking about their personalities" or whatever the hamster comes up with at the moment.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 08:58 PM
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Besides the self-discipline you have to inflict upon yourself, the T increase, the assertiveness you get, the aggressiveness you develop, the self-confidence you raise, and the fact that for women 80% of males are below average (facts: http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-looks-and-online-dating/)?
/r/askTRP13/11/15 09:02 PM
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Unless she fixates her gaze on you when you enter somewhere, clearly interested.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 06:06 PM
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Yes, that's why I said "Usually".
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 08:37 PM
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The wall is not menopause, is the age of enlightenment for women when they realize they are on an unstoppable decline. Usually set at 30 years. So approaching the wall is 28+, post wall is any girl over 30.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 07:29 PM
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Way to not understand the Red Pill. Working out has a lot of upsides: 1) builds muscle 2) fixes posture 3) forces you to stay on track (ie. helps to fight procrastination) 4) new social environment with like-minded individuals 5) raises T 6) gives you callouses 7) gives you an objective and purpose that can actually relate with other humans 8) increases your self-steem
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 05:48 PM
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I love videogaming, love it. But the truth is, videogaming has zero to negative impact in how others view you. How others view you is important because that is the way you achieve success, the lone wolf theory is only viable for a selected few that are either sociopath or extremely lucky. So you want to do something that is satisfying to you while earning you social points. Guitar playing, if you are okay, will give you social proof, you can play in a circle with friends, and even if you have an…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 02:12 PM
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As usual, girls like natural alphas, they love for you to feed them the lie that you don't kill it in the gym but just jog a little every once in a while.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 12:12 AM
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There is a very important difference, he talks about women playing games but shit tests are about a woman testing your strenght. Different stuff.
/r/askTRP07/11/15 04:50 PM
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From the top of my head: Guitar or any instrument skating or rollers bodyweight (learn to do the flag, or l-sit) the ropes running
/r/askTRP07/11/15 04:08 PM
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Now, back to the point, if you tell the typical slob that comes here to get lean, he will probably get all HAES on himself and stay that way. But if you push for bulky mess of muscles, he will have no other chance but to get to the gym. Most people will not get big, but will at least get a little more closer to average male than if they didn't try. Aim for the sun, land on the moon type of incentivation.
/r/askTRP07/11/15 01:16 PM
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Because it doesn't look like you tried too hard, women like natural alphas, something bulky guys don't understand.
/r/askTRP07/11/15 04:07 AM
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Higher than yours? Then your marriage is most probably doomed.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/15 03:30 PM
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My little snowflake... If you raise above her SMV like a rocket to the moon, she will lose all inhibitions, period.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/15 01:06 PM
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I am really not THAT big, and everyone close to me had to eat me up talking non stop about fitness for a year. But every new person I know I just tell them something in the line of "Not working out, just drinking less and walking more" Also gives you the benefit of the "natural alpha" that girls dig
/r/askTRP05/11/15 07:38 PM
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Exactly, and if you can lift them up without trembling, like they weighted nothing? prepare the mop because she will wet everything.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/15 06:51 PM
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Tesla Yes, his genes were not transmitted to the pool, hence whatever he did in his lifetime, will not compound.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 03:36 PM
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TRP is not for anyone, it is the way the world spins, so you cannot chose it, you live by it or it lives by you.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 07:01 PM
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I am not even ripped yet, but already changed my clothing style, darn do I feel and look sexy now, fitting shirts, fitting pants, and girls dig it.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 08:11 PM
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Try to look older, take good pictures of your ripped body doing stuff, get a real hobby, you will get there, approaching is not that hard. If you have troubles try tinder, with good pictures you will get matches, I'd rather fuck a 6 than not fuck anyone.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 08:10 PM
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V.Luro, Capital, por que me hablas en ingles?
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 04:57 PM
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IDGAF can also be "my stuff is my stuff, get off my stuff bitch" and not letting her break that frame. But you need to have that frame from day one.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/15 03:09 PM
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Women are boring deal with it, that is why you should look for feminine qualities in them, they make you interest in them more in a natural way. If you look for male qualities in them you will get burned and bored.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 02:42 PM
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You also avoid making them know where you live.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 02:23 PM
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We have them here in Argentina, too, pretty convenient.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 04:02 AM
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Where in SA? I actually met with some people here in Argentina, but most of them are still pretty early in the path to red-pillness and were too nerdy for my taste... if you are in Bs.As. we could meet for a beer.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 04:00 AM
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Actually we don't say that, provider is beta.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 04:54 PM
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So you contradict yourself, respect, for a 18yo has nothing to do with his work. Neither when you become adult, people respect you for what you make them feel when they are with you, not for something material like a job. In some ways that line of thought is really beta, giving more importance to the provider aspect of the male vs the ability to grow and face adversity
/r/askTRP29/10/15 03:33 PM
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You can flip burgers and fuck lots of girls, I am 34 and after I split with my ex went back to my parents to reorganize myself, still have more pussy than when I lived alone. Everything is in your frame, whatever the RP tells you to do, is to naturally increase it so you don't have to do so much effort.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 03:09 PM
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Because what we do is important, a male who does everything for them is not a valuable male. Who would you rather procreate, if you had to chose between only one of them, a blue collar employee, or Lionel Messi?
/r/askTRP29/10/15 03:02 PM
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Not for men, hence, the whole debate, we don't have sex with someone we hate.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 02:01 PM
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It doesn't say women can't love, you need to go back to school and learn to read.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 02:00 PM
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If you read rollo, the idea is simple: Men believe that love matters for the sake of it. Women love opportunistically. Women love us because of what we do, not who we are. Men love women because of who they are, not what they do. So in short, women are incapable [of the type of] love [we have for them]
/r/askTRP29/10/15 01:59 PM
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As long as she likes you, you won't even need to go down to her, every girl I have been with (After RP) has always been wet, they are eager to suck me but never ask me to do anything for them except to fuck them harder, and always thank me afterwards (funny thing, I think that never happened to me before).
/r/askTRP27/10/15 08:21 PM
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But it's true, I can get away with lots of things I could not before. I have girls telling me they don't want to feel down if I can't manage to meet them, getting nervous about giving me anal sex (because they want to perform well for me, not because of pain). Girls asking me out of the blue if when could I become free so they could meet me, etc. It's every men dream I tell you, and I am not even close to the body I want.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 08:19 PM
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I don't, they create them temselves. I said it before. I am 34, never before the red pill had a girl complimented me on my dick (except a couple of girls I've fucked while cheating, hence, while being more "alpha" than my relationship self). Ever since the pill, every girl remarks how big my dick is. You just stand there doing everything the pill says and the tingles will come by themselves.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 06:57 PM
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Think of it like this, the woman is a skateboard, and romance is impulsing yourself with your foot. You cannot impulse yourself if you are not already on the board, and you need to impulse yourself from time to time to stay on track. Also, if you try to impulse too much, you will lose balance and fall off the board.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 03:12 PM
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You really need help with every situation? Of you invite her, you pay, but try not to be the sucker who paid for whatever, be assertive. "Waitress, two coffees" Look at her "Decaf, milk?" Order accordingly etc.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 11:00 PM
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Really? What about MEs? They suicide bomb themselves because once they die they get to have a harem of virgins...
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 08:43 PM
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That's the difference when they look for you as opposed of when you look for them. If a girl wanted to go out with me I would say something along the lines "you could join me at bla bla" But If I am inviting them at least the first time, I would pay, then jump venues or order a second or most probably third round and make her pay that one. Except my girl which offered to pay herself for the theatre entrances the first time we dated, certainly made me look at her in a different angle.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 02:32 PM
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Really? try telling them upfront that you will be sharing the dating expenses, see how well you do.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 01:25 PM
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Is bad because it is bad for them, and anyone that enters into a relationship with them. Women with multiple sex partners are much (read, from 15 with only 1 to 50% with more than 5) more likely to have unfulfilling marriages and initiate divorce. Women with multiple sex partners are scientifically known to be unable to pair bond (or have a really hard time). Women with multiple sex partners are more likely to be an alpha widow, in which the woman reached a male so above herself that every male …
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 01:41 AM
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Who fucking cares how I look... oh wait, you do.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 08:26 PM
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Didnt read the sex part, agree with you
/r/askTRP23/10/15 10:58 AM
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You took too long, she felt you weren't interested, now you are friendzoned.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 02:14 AM
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Seconded, from there I found the light... oh my god. I have a friend I converted that keeps telling me that The Red Pill and me both saved his life (he was suicidal last year, and not is having the best sex he ever had in his life, and he had his share)
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/15 08:39 PM
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We are talking about upping your game to be top game, getting ripped, successful, with money to spend.
/r/seduction21/10/15 07:49 PM
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As easier as college, with college girls, if you were the best quarterback of school
/r/seduction21/10/15 06:33 PM
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You should learn to read because I never anything ever remotely close to that. I said that the child needs a male only space to cultivate his masculine skills, and that he should lose woman influence during that time. That does not mean the father is the only guide, nor does it means that the mother never sees the kid again, you are certainly picking straws here.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 12:58 PM
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You seem to believe that my idea is to take my child to the mountains to fight wolves. I am talking about taking him to camping, going watch soccer games, maybe boxing matches, the races, making him play rugby, etc.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 08:20 PM
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Mother love will always be there, I am not advocating to remove the child from the house, but to have different guides during different ages. Mother at the beginning, father until he becomes adult.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 07:04 PM
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Thats what I mean, I got the list from one of the top posts... good you like it, I also believe it really sums up the pill.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/15 07:03 PM
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I used the whole terminology with my girl and she eats it up, she comes from a more traditional household, mind you, and she even keeps finding examples in real life and keeps telling me about them. Now she is trying to change her girlfriends to embrace the pill and force their husbands to go get some balls. So your milleage may vary. I take it that for a real LTR she can be aware of what you are doing, but you still need to feel natural to her.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 04:56 PM
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You need to read more, I believe that is on the sidebar
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/15 02:35 PM
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I have an ex blue friend which father has a lot of alpha qualities and in fact they used to fight because of their clashing morals (red vs blue) Only after I pried him out of betadom he started to realize that his father was right all along... and he is over 30. I believe the best thing is to have a male only space for kids, once they get to 10/13 years old they should lose woman influence so they can develop as they should.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 12:07 PM
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But that's easy to reverse, I mean after my first girl I've already learned about "powertalk", in the sense that everything they said could have several meanings and you had to be able to discern which one she really meant. If someone asked me why don't I date a pregnant girl, I would just give any plausible excuse: "I want to give her and the parent space to get back together" "She will need someone with more time and with my studies and activities I wouldn't be able to give her what she needs"…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 12:04 PM
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I would say your angle is bad, but to each its own. Any girl that is pulled into your frame will become more childlike than you want, because they get to become free from the feminist standard while you take charge. I honestly have stopped looking for that, I get intellectual stimulation from friends and get my dick stimulated by girls. But I stll only date non whores, is just that I stopped trying to find male qualities in women,
/r/askTRP19/10/15 11:10 AM
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More intelligent girls will not throw themselves to you, they probably have a different education than the hoes you are fucking. You are fucking lots of girls, right? If you are not then your SMV is not yet at the level you need to attract a smart, beautiful girl. You also seem to be looking for a girlfriend, try to just get a main girl and girls on the side, its a much better arrangement, trust me.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 02:40 AM
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The red pill list of priorities: 1-You 2-You 3-Your family 4-Your hobbies 5-Your friends 6-Your work 7-Any woman not your mother
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/15 02:22 AM
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We already have that in Argentina, they are called "Telos"
/r/TheRedPill17/10/15 08:31 PM
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Well I decided to implement the guide in Argentina, where we have no ghetto, and I am getting numbers left and right, so many that now I don't know what the fuck am I going to do with 15 numbers and three days next week.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/15 06:58 PM
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I love the: He: "I am very happy" She: "we are very happy" She isn't very happy but she finds everyone else happy...
/r/TRPOffTopic17/10/15 04:12 PM
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Agreed, the thing everyone needs to consider is that to gauge how your wife reacts to you, you need to also gauge other women. You need to get out there and try to pick up girls until you are actually able to, then you will know and feel you are ready to challenge the status quo of the house.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/15 04:09 PM
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I did convert a friend, took a lot of effort and he was a really good friend. Before beginning I told him clearly, *I am going to force you to change because this is good for you, and I don't care if it costs us this relationship" He came around fast, and is now in a really fulfilling relationship.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/15 12:34 AM
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(Incorrect due to subjectivity. Fat chicks are great at sex in your eyes compared to skinnier chicks because women will only truly enjoy putting out for men they deem worthy. Skinnier chicks don’t find you worthy of good sex, so in turn the sex has been dull.) This is strong, as I have commented elsewhere, before taking the pill, I was never acknowledged as having a big dick, but since taking it, every girl I have fucked remarked how well hung I am.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 08:52 PM
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No, women are not always like that, unless you are red, that is my point, which you missed.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 03:14 AM
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When I was blue no girl I dated said I had a huge dick, but once I went red, every girl has said to me that I am well hung, talk about perspective.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 02:34 PM
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that is why he is in asktrp and not the main sub, he is learning we should take that to consider in our answers,
/r/askTRP15/10/15 03:40 AM
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You should read more sidebar, of course this is A&A
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/15 07:52 PM
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not worth it, they have more skills than us at that game, and will probably re-string him before he realizes.
/r/askTRP14/10/15 06:36 PM
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Every woman I have been with, liked anal, no exceptions. But every woman I was in a relationship with, I fucked in the ass at the beginning but witdrawed anal sex when I became a fucking mangina doing chores like I was taught to do. Nowadays they ask me please to fuck them in the ass. For people with a little more experience (over 30) the red pill really feels like talking the fucking pill from the matrix movie.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 01:18 PM
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Yes, you are right I meant 60kgs.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 05:00 PM
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I've been thinking about this for a while, after reading "The way of men", but there are probably places like this in Argentina, and I am totally focused on my degree this year to really take the time for this. But if anyone is from Buenos Aires, PM me and we could meet and do manly stuff, no homo.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 01:52 AM
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Well if instead of couch it was her body, and instead of living room it was the middle of a restaurant.... that could be seen playful and masculine. Edit: But again, you both need to have the correct bodies for that. Since my last dead bedroom i've decided not to date any girl over 60kgs (and I also decided to get as fucking ripped as I could)
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 12:12 AM
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The problem is that if you are in a very beta position, you need to steadily build back up. Fucking with your girl can be seem completely disrespectful if she does not sees you with the right light. That is why it is always so important to set the frame of the relationship as yours, and to be certain she si completely under it before comitting.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 12:11 AM
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Really? Read the sub material then, because we talk about this all the time and is all over the place.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 09:02 PM
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High partner count is wrong if you want the girl for anything but sex. They are essentially broken. some links image from here
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 08:00 PM
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Makes sense but is a flawed hypothesis. Continuing with your analogy, if you also knew why that technique yields better results, for example, let's say it is because the rotational spin of the ball is never less than 30 and never more than 40. The problem is, to achieve that level of rotational speed requires big bones. Now, you have small bones so there is no way you can emulate his technique successfully. But since you know what is the secret of the technique, you can try different ones that y…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 03:48 AM
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The other day I was excepcionally excited so my dick grew an extra two or three fingers in lenght, got my girl to twist around in vaginal pain, crying, after my first deep thrust of the night, two days later she was still in pain. (we ended up fucking anyways, it turned out she cried because she was not able to accomodate my dick more than because of the pain) So big is not better.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 02:37 AM
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I did that, still the best guy she ever had in her life, won't trade me for anything, feels good to be so lusted by someone.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 02:32 AM
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It's the thrill of the chase, no the chaser.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 06:36 PM
2

Or maybe you need to up your ante and go for harder girls? I see what you are talking about, but then I found a nice shy girl and I have been opening her to a lot of new kinkies, seeing her face in awe for every new thing that she enojoys rivals the same reaction from my kid.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 06:21 PM
1

If you find sex boring maybe the problem is that you are boring, try to break your boundaries and try new things, lilke fucking her in a McDonald's or making her suck you off in a bus, or maybe bondage.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 03:18 PM
12

The biggest problem blues see about the RP is that they lose "love" or "infatuation", since they now know everything is temporary they just cannot get lost in emotions like a baby in a womb, the way they used to do. And that is really depressing to them, I guess, until they meet face to face with hypergamy in their new state and start fucking like never before, doing things they only dreamt about.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 08:17 PM
2

Hahaha I just saved your post because of his comment, I am reading the same book and making the same notes.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 08:13 PM
1

You learn it, be prepared to fail, a lot. I used to be a bore, then a bother, now a fun ongoing guy. Lots of failures on the middle. Years of practice, by myself, I guess if you do some theatre or stand-up classes you will learn better and faster.
/r/askTRP06/10/15 08:10 PM
1

What I did for my friend was: 1) Tell him I would change him even if that meant risking our friendship. (get that point across) 2) Debate indirectly with him, try to use facts, this will be a long battle and you will need to take the point across several times. 3) Use tinder and the RP guide to online dating and show him that you can get a number using 4 sentences: "hello" "good, you" "what are you looking for" and "give me your number" (I've been field testing this in my country, Argentina and …
/r/askTRP06/10/15 08:01 PM
2

I've had a friend change from "telling them to go out without asking before if they are busy is disrespectful" to "I like to hit them with my belt and make them cry and say they love me" in 2 months. Once RP shows the cracks in the wall, the ensuing break down is downright scary. Also, acid helped a lot
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 03:22 PM
8

Morality has no way into sex, at least not from women perspective.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 03:15 PM
2

But we here want to know the why too, because that will let us improve our technique.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 02:48 PM
8

Downgrade, yes, stop building whatever you were building and start acting like she was a plate.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 06:06 PM
1

Incredible, but not everyone can be an overachiever, I know I don't, but great energy!
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 03:38 AM
4

If you do 2) you already don't care if she tries to make you look bad.
/r/askTRP04/10/15 10:37 PM
6

Just use a safe word and go along enjoying yourself
/r/askTRP04/10/15 10:21 PM
0

I have, but I mostly do pull-ups and squats at home, then the full routine on the park (whenever I can)
/r/TheRedPill04/10/15 10:12 PM
1

Yeah, during heavy winter I noticed i was being extra spotty with my routine, so I payed a month for a gym in a hotel next to my office, expensive as hell but I used it every fucking day, even saturdays (since it was winter, no camping nor picnic for me). I have weights and I even got a bar, but i don't have a bit enough place to do it comfortably, so the only thing im using is my pullup bar, almost every day I do at least 15 pullups
/r/TheRedPill04/10/15 10:11 PM
2

You work part time, I work full time (9hs) with 3hs of commute, so 12 hours of my day are used for work, and then 5 hours are used to my degree, so I have 6/7 hours of sleep a day. All I could do was go to the plaza in front of my job and do my calysthenics routine that lasts 45 minutes and requires no showering (fuck smell in the office). I could pay the exhorbitant costs of a gym and go on weekends, but why? If I can just do my routine already and I would only be able to use one of the two day…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/15 06:09 PM
1

That's my plan for the latter half of next year, when I finish my degree, in the meantime, no time for gym.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/15 04:54 PM
0

I am still woking out, but using my body not the gym, when you work from 9 to 18, while also having 3hs of commute (1.30 each way) plus university two days a week from 19 to 23.30 and you wake up at 7.30 and go to sleep at 00.30, tell me about hitting the gym. I do what I can to keep engaged
/r/TheRedPill04/10/15 04:53 PM
2

Yeah, don't overuse a phrase or it will eventually lose strength.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/15 04:27 PM
2

Exactly, but then, if you are like me, never starting to lift because "mommy it is too hard" you can find your way around it and still get some gains.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/15 02:16 PM
1

Yes, that's the idea, I didn't because it is too complicated for me to keep a schedule, even then, I still got great progress.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/15 02:15 PM
1

What does that have to do with my comment? The expected situation is a learning red piller, so of course we don't expect the wife to hold much respect now.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/15 07:25 PM
1

You are in "married red pill" not "already red and married"
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/15 06:49 PM
1

agreed
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/15 06:43 PM
1

It's not a commont situation, as he framed it I would think it was a great idea, how would you have handled it? making her return it? what if she said no?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/15 06:19 PM
2

Argentinian, we speak different, it's a "sorry but I don't care" kind of sorry.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 05:55 PM
3

"could you do it?" "sorry, i'm doing something too"
/r/askTRP28/09/15 05:17 PM
1

That's the gist of it, just wanted to show another side of the coin, most troubling is that she didn't follow his lead, but he also didn't lead at all...
/r/askTRP28/09/15 03:28 PM
3

Sounds like she likes the attention: 1) She didn't follow suit with your option of updating the status (you shouldn't have asked, if you wanted to do it, you tell her while doing it) 2) She is dreading you
/r/askTRP28/09/15 01:02 PM
3

To go against the flow. I've been dating a girl for over a year now, we could say she has become my LTR project. From the get-go I've decided not to cross beams in Facebook, I think i'ts lame and don't really post pictures of us together. She has complied so far, mimicking what I do. All her friends know about me, I'm just the mysterious guy who doesn't want to be known. So thread carefully, in my case, the non-facebook interaction comes from me, but I bet that if I wanted us to update our relat…
/r/askTRP28/09/15 11:56 AM
-12

He is right, tho. This reeks of anger phase like I haven't read in a while
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 02:43 AM
13

Betas have the same problem, they list their achievements for getting easy chicks, but they are all beta qualities.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 12:51 AM
1

But that's not what the phrase is about, check Draki's comment: 80% of women want to bang 20% of men. That is how you gotta interpret.
/r/askTRP27/09/15 02:26 PM
2

The big difference betwen TRP and seduction is the "no bullshit given" to feelings, so... yeah, sometimes, but most of the times, no.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 12:02 AM
4

Man this is tight I have been implemeting this the past few days with my tinder matches, and hell its really useful to weed out quickly non interested girls.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 08:04 PM
6

1) You didn't have a role model 2) Society does not want you to have one 3) You didn't have a role model 4) Society does not want you to have one
/r/askTRP25/09/15 12:57 PM
2

If you worry about crime come to Argentina then. Much safer than Brasil and you can live great with $1000 a month.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 11:34 PM
1

I don't see it that way, its not the vulnerability that turns me down, but the kinkiness, I like the chase, and part of the chase is getting to fuck them. But also part of the chase is making them really like you and making them do things with me that I feel are not given to everyone, and I can only achieve that by loving them.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 11:31 PM
8

To each its own, I just cannot have ONS or completely unattached sex, I just don't find it that pleasant. So I try to strike a balance.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 10:35 PM
16

You can love your plates and do that, as long as she knows you are not exclusive, she is a plate.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 09:17 PM
3

I've started with the RP over a year ago now, and I have been doing some exercising since then, mind you, I couldn't get to gym, yet because I work+study from 07 to 23, but i did begin with the startbodyweight.com program my gains are great but I am not jacked yet. Last month I have been noticing some extra IOIs from more and more girls, it seems the compound result from everything I am doing is starting to show, and I am seeing myself prettier in the mirror (flat tummy, not ripped, just flat, 2…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 09:09 PM
1

And a lot of positive things too, crazy how we can argue against and for something.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 01:45 AM
11

Thats bullshit, many here are MGTOW and that is fine, too.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 10:43 PM
1

The difference between Billions and Millions.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 03:30 PM
1

Then we both agree, you weren't clear enough for newbies and it could be misinterpreted.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 08:33 PM
6

1) The fact that she broke down crying means she knows she was in the wrong. 2) The fact that she turns off her ipad notifications means she is afraid of what kind of texts you could find in the future. NEXT her Wrong on both accounts. 1) She cried because she was found out. 2) She turned off her notifications because she is afraid she is going to get caught again. This point itself validates the first one, if she was sorry for what she did, she would have stopped, but instead, she just covered …
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 05:14 PM
8

Wait wait wait, both things are different, we should all remember our priority list: 1) You 2) You 3) Your Family 4) Your Friends 5) Your Hobbies 6) Your Work 7) Any Woman
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 01:05 PM
8

Soft next, this is not a woman to keep, she is already trying to branch swing, and has probably fucked someone by now. If you are living with her, don't, that will only bring you trouble.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 12:17 AM
2

They can all become sluts, not all of them do, and you might get lucky and find one who is not really interested or was educated differently.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 10:29 PM
1

You know what I meant, whatever you are feeling now, is nothing compared to what you will change when you actually start lifting.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 04:53 PM
2

No, you are not experiencing anything by doing cardio, your T increases with lifting, and with high T comes the change, agressiveness, assertiveness, strenght, confidence, posture, humor, concentration, hell, you really change yourself by lifting.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 01:58 PM
2

So someone got hold of some hard data here If you missed 2 or more active (hormonal) pills or if you started a pack 2 or more days late Take 2 active (hormonal) pills as soon as possible Also, use condoms or abstain from sex until you have taken active (hormonal) pills for 7 days in a row.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 01:43 PM
2

So no real data then, a pity. Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 07:16 PM
6

You have some data to backup those claims? I would love to keep that information but I've never heard that before.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 12:02 AM
2

So you say that the majority of the single mothers are caused by males leaving them after a bait and switch where the male lied about wanting children and afterwards deciding he didn't want them?
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 08:09 PM
-3

So you are saying NAWALT? Way to miss the point and way to miss the words. Here, again, so you can read them, they even were bolded in the OP. Again, it is total bullshit that the huge amount of kids who have no father all had asshole fathers who abused the mother/kid when most men in society are complete fucking betas. That's just not plausible. This is simple female blame-shifting mixed with misandry.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 06:49 PM
1

I remember a study that said that to show yourself as someone with more power around others, you should never open a door for someone, but let them open the door and then step in first. And if you cannot get in there first, let everyone in first and then enter yourself while the last one is holding the door for you, like a boss. The idea was that entering first would show that the others opened the door for you. And by entering last would let everyone see you last. The issue was in how to do it,…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 06:46 PM
1

You really think an autistic person can have a normal social life? My mother is a special education specialist and I have interacted with people with every mental disease you can think of. No, a real autistic will not be able to come here and struggle on a campus, the mere definition of autistic is: A pervasive developmental disorder characterized by severe deficits in social interaction and communication, by an extremely limited range of activities and interests, and often by the presence of re…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 05:18 PM
2

You know how many "I love you" I heard while fucking girls in a relationship? Lots, they can say good bye honey bunny to the cuckold while planning which position to fuck with me. Don't believe in their words, just their actions, are they genuinely into you? By that I mean, can you push her limits all the time you want? Can you do anal, get her to swallow, fuck her while she is pissing, bathing, cooking, talking to her mom, on the street, in the pool, finger her while walking, on a queue, on the…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 08:20 PM
-5

Really, autistic much? Is anyone in the US autistic just because?
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 08:01 PM
2

It's not what you say, is how you say it
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 08:00 PM
3

We hear this all the time here, a girl is sorry that she got caught, when she cries because you got her red-handed, she is not crying because of what she did, but because of she getting caught. Always take this into account, and always remember, add "...in this very moment" to everything a girl says... "I am sorry" "... in this very moment" "I love you" "...in this very moment"
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 07:51 PM
6

You want to fuck, yes? Negging women makes them lust you and fuck you. "But some of them that want a relationship will get offended and not give you attention!" You want to fuck, yes? Then worry about effectively increasing your chances to fuck girls, not date them. There, 2 plus 2.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 12:22 AM
5

Exactly like you are doing now.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 12:19 AM
-1

Go to /r/asktrp for this shit
/r/askTRP31/08/15 08:10 PM
2

Be careful, she might just be a slut, those are the worse, since they have no trouble stringing you up until they have your assets.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 09:07 PM
1

Those are the ones that people refer when splurting NAWALT, but we know they will act like they have if the situation provides
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 09:00 PM
2

You somehow miss the point that she is purposedly missing the point that being the first choice for someone does not mean being the first ever to fuck her, but to be the best ever to. I am dating a 37 year old girl that is discovering her sexuality with me, everytime we go out she is grinning the whole time, she cries (of sadness) when I cannot make it a weekend. I am pretty sure I am her first choice of the many she was with before.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 08:57 PM
1

Exactly, it's incredible how much they love to suck your dick after fucking.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 08:39 PM
1

It's tighter, more dominant and rough. Allows you to try different positions since the insertion point is on the back, unless you have a very long dick and then that doesn't matter so much.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 06:52 PM
2

You are focusing too much into anal, like you said, if you were dating a girl that never lets you push her boundaries a little, but you knew she used to have no boundaries, your gut feeling will be right, she is simply not that into you. Probably anal sex is what tipped him over, she probably won't swallow, won't let him be kinky outside the bed, etc. He broke up because she clearly settled for him and he didn't know better.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 06:50 PM
2

There are no girls who dislike anal sex, once they tried it. You will find that out once you have more experience. Nowadays I will break up with any girl that is not willing to at least try something I want and that I feel is within limits. In that sense I want to try a treesome, but I know that can be off-limits, but if I want to try filming, or light bondage, and she disagrees, that means she is just not that much into me. Edit: By break up I mean stop dating if exclusive, or stop considering …
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 02:34 PM
1

He said she sees him as a beta, not even trying the ass is a pretty big indicator.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 02:08 PM
-1

Who cares, the alpha male sexual imperative is making babies and make someone else take care of them.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 01:48 PM
2

totally, was the sex worth the paint house and all the expenses?
/r/askTRP28/08/15 08:13 PM
2

I don't know you, but based on the four lines of conversation you quoted and your post, you don't sound like the kind of guy who's so awesome your girlfriend would be afraid of screwing things up with you -- who just couldn't bear to lose you. This is what everyone striving for a LTR has to target to, unless she is that sheepy with you, you already lost.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 07:52 PM
13

AWALT does not mean they are actively doing it 24/7, you certainly don't understand AWALT at all.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 05:18 PM
3

reward her good behaviors with displays of commitment and bad ones with withdrawal of those signs. This is very important in any LTR, over time, she will know inmediately that she did something wrong and will probably cry because of that, you won't get blamed ever again unless you really screw up.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 04:50 AM
6

Just imagine the compound interest of a 100 year montly $1000 investment!!!!! (at average 5% yearly interest)
/r/TheRedPill22/08/15 07:18 PM
1

Tell us what you think it means because from what you are saying you didn't understand it at all.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 05:22 PM
1

But he is right, here another user condensed it for you: So you are basing your NAWALT on one relationship with a newly-immigrated phillipino girlfriend that you have only been seeing for a couple years? She comes from a very traditional, red-pill region. You are automatically top tier because you are local (maybe even white).
/r/askTRP20/08/15 05:18 PM
1

I don't even live in the USA and we don't know if he does. So your mileage may vary. In any case, he did allright so far so...
/r/askTRP13/08/15 08:04 PM
1

Why lie if you can just own it... if your SMV is high enough she will do the justification for you, since she will like it, too. To the OP: another exit would have been "yeah you are right I did, you ended up totally hot, here see for yourself" and send her the text via whatsapp or something.
/r/askTRP13/08/15 07:50 PM
0

No human has morals, those are real social constructs
/r/askTRP12/08/15 02:33 PM
6

That is possible, but since males are less emotional and since I can actually get tired of punching his face and only get a minor conviction, I think that might be the lesser of all evils.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 05:17 PM
7

that is good, what if we marry with a bro so no chick will ever be able to claim that?
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 04:02 PM
1

As I said, stay there, your mind would not be able to cope with the rest of the world.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 04:30 PM
3

Totally, my girl gets really lusty when I dread her "Can't see you over the weekend, see ya on tuesday"? I end up getting tons of dirty pictures and tales of how we she was "who knows why" and how much she masturbated
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 03:10 AM
1

I am from SA, certainly your nimble mind wouln't be able to cope living somewhere else than where you are, guess you are reaping what you are.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 03:53 PM
0

Leaving the house either? What are you, kidnapped? Go live to south america
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 03:48 PM
-2

Just take LSD dude, and chill off, you will have bad trip after bad trip, facint your demons in real life until you surpass them and then you will be ready.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 03:36 PM
1

What? No, if a woman gets an alpha higher enough from her, she will desperately try to commit, the problem is that in this internet life we have, women have access to a lot of alphas all the time, so they compare what they get with what they could get, and they decide that they could get better, so they stop trying to get commitment.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 01:30 AM
-1

What is this piece of shit post? You are really snarky with no sense, there are a lot of reasons not to date a single mom, and you articulated almost none of them. It's almost as if you just want us to go along with your anger phase.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 01:15 AM
1

I used to agree, but now I started dating girls by keeping a little more frame and being a little more assertive and less a doormat, and who would have tought, I have almost the same level of sex I had 10 years ago with my first completely slut girlfriend (slut as in take a guy from the dancing floor to fuck him in the bathroom of the family oriented restaurant next to it and end up being kicked by making too much nose kind of slut) So not necessarily, a girl completely in love with your alpha s…
/r/askTRP07/08/15 04:23 PM
3

We call that soft next, stop initiating contact until she does and when she does, you make her go where you are already having a good time, that way you don't waste any more time unless she shows real commitment to date you.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 08:33 PM
1

You never read models, have you?
/r/askTRP06/08/15 08:02 PM
2

I love this snippet from the WSJ: [the female writers] debated whether Betty Draper, the fictional 1960s housewife of advertising executive Don Draper, should have a one-night-stand in a smoky Manhattan bar. The men were against it. Betty would never compromise her integrity like that, consulting producer André Jacquemetton recalls saying. Most of the female writers disagreed. After all her husband’s infidelities, “how the hell is she going to take Don back if she doesn’t do this?” executive sto…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 04:41 PM
4

That is a really ignorant thing to say. What he means is try not to alpha widow her.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 03:30 PM
11

Short answer: NO. A woman will see whatever qualities they want in their alpha males, that is why you hear them say that. You might mistreat them, like, for example, always doing what you want, never going shopping with them, etc.. Hell, you can just lay on the bed and make her make all the work, and she will love you because you are so good in bed, if you are, in her perception, an alpha male, whatever you do is right. Women get their perception from whatever you do in your life, and by how you…
/r/askTRP03/08/15 09:53 PM
1

I find women tears envigorating, I usually just laugh while they cry... It really is like a kid, my nephew will start crying while throwing a tantrum and when I mock him he will start laughing and continue his lfe like the crying never happened... And many many girls did the same to me since taking the Red Pill... so just have fun!
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 02:41 PM
2

I would bet that new riches do not follow the pattern.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 01:31 PM
12

Also rich people marry beautiful people for generations so they biologically engineered themselves.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 12:33 AM
-2

You are typing the same words I did but changing the context, you know it, I know it, the rest of the sub knows it.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 04:00 PM
4

They are when the conditions are met.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 02:35 PM
3

Why did you even add her as friend? I've been dating the same girl for over a year and we don't have each other's facebook... to each its own.
/r/askTRP31/07/15 01:48 PM
2

The thing is, male do this to women too, WhiteKnights react the same way, because they want to fuck anything, every girl is something they seek validation to, so anything they say is good, etc etc.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 07:57 PM
1

Yeah, try to have as much fun as you can, if leaving the house is better for you then do it.
/r/askTRP30/07/15 04:25 PM
1

She might be planning a date with some Chad after you leave, it is probable that she saw someone who know her and Chad both and is now scared of either finding out. Besides that, you should just go out and have fun yourself, you don't need her at all except for sex, which you can get any time you want, by paying or by conquering some random girl. This is the correct frame to have and It can be hard, but you need to accept it first.
/r/askTRP30/07/15 02:28 PM
-1

So I take it you are a past-wall guy right? What a bunch of nonsense.
/r/askTRP30/07/15 02:25 PM
1

Fuck some other girls around, she will notice that and look you up, don't let her fuck you (by taking attention from you) unless you fuck her (by putting your penis in her vagina)
/r/askTRP30/07/15 01:49 PM
2

Just laugh it off, hear her out when she wants to talk, but just act like it never happened, she will she the difference between both your mindsets and will eventually calm down. Remember women live in the moment so any feelings she is feeling right now are just for that moment. Edit: For the record, act like it never happened, don't go around denying it just... don't pay any attention to it
/r/askTRP30/07/15 01:47 PM
0

Dont hace it around, duckduckgo is your friend
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 03:08 AM
3

Its a child throwing a tantrum, be careful of her not flaking, you should set the date up that in case she flakes you have something else to do. Also, plate is a girl you are currently fucking is this the case?
/r/askTRP29/07/15 05:33 PM
1

10% for unsuspecting fathers, 30% for suspecting ones.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 03:31 PM
1

To keep with the analogy, that pet snake is poisonous and cannot be defangled, so how do you treat it? With extreme caution everytime that is
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 03:16 PM
4

As Bonecrackr said, she is not doing that... right now
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 03:15 PM
6

And then you have the blue guys holding off to that "might be" and not changing at all.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 03:10 PM
0

Thats the idea of A&A
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/15 05:08 PM
4

Great, you got the first number!
/r/askTRP28/07/15 03:08 PM
1

At fucking her
/r/askTRP28/07/15 02:18 PM
2

Its just your turn, remember that.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 01:24 PM
1

Traveled several hours to the university every day, took her a long time to become a dentist and she did part time work as a promo girl meanwhile. That kind of grinding is good test of character
/r/askTRP28/07/15 03:38 AM
16

She will hamster good heart for you, notice she said "smart ass" that is arrogant for you
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 05:43 PM
1

Have it your way man, as someone else said it: Take what you need, leave what you don't.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 12:04 PM
3

Pointless debate is not tolerated, this post is an example of how debate is tolerated.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 02:25 AM
3

You still don't get it, it is a generalization, of course there are exceptions, but almost all of the exceptions you know are exceptions only because the conditions were not met. The probability of any of us meeting a real exception is so rare that the term coined for that is unicorn. You still need a lot to read, you are not getting deep enough in the concepts and are getting confused by that. The second advantage to AWALT is that it just silences people pedestalizing their girls, desperate men…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 02:16 AM
2

I'd rather look like and ass than cheap, so I guess is better telling her when the check arrives.
/r/seduction26/07/15 12:11 AM
0

I take you are that guy that comes empty handed to a dinner in a friends house...
/r/seduction26/07/15 12:10 AM
14

Yeah he should pay her for the time she spent too, and the make up she used and also the bus ticket if there was any. /s
/r/seduction26/07/15 12:08 AM
2

seems you didn't understand what AWALT stands for at all... you should read the sidebar
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 11:50 PM
1

how is that useful for your sexual strategy?
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 11:48 PM
3

A statement like "there's a TRP consensus that all newbies should lift" is both encouraging and practically helpful. A statement "choose yourself whether you want to be selfish" isn't. Imagine if we told newbies "hey, some of us think you should lift, other people think you shouldn't. So do whatever." The difference is, being selfish or not makes no difference to your sexual strategy... well, in fact, being selfish will actually give you a bigger pool of women to fuck, but we understand it can b…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 11:44 PM
12

I agree that Gervais Principle should be sidebar'ed, the social dynamics it includes, with great examples of Powertalk, Straightalk and everything else are worth it.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 01:20 PM
4

Yeah if she is still with him he knows he is the best Beta Bucks she can afford right now.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 03:26 PM
23

spare me the "dump the bitch" or "lose the hoe" posts. This is my choice and I'm right now choosing to take back what was my place in her life. If it blows up in my face then its on me This, here, shows how you are thinking right now, we males give shape to our live by ourselves, you don't have a place in her life, she has a place in your life. This is what we call "frame", by thinking this way, you are showing you are inside her frame (that is, her reality defines your reality), and this explai…
/r/askTRP23/07/15 12:40 PM
6

"Get on your four" "Turn around" "I wanna put it in your ass, turn arround" "Kiss my neck while I pound you" None are forceful unless you are so programmed to think you cannot say what you want without that being forceful
/r/askTRP20/07/15 08:44 PM
0

QUOTE "I want something that will be both simple and at the same time >not so simple. Something that will make sure that I often ask >myself questions, but the minute I'm in the same room as you, I >know." She wants social proof probably, not knowing why she likes you, but when she enters the same room as you and sees you the center of attention she will know she has a man.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 07:04 PM
2

What he means is that you should feel pretty sure she is giving it all sexually and that she is really sexual with you. If you see yourself needing less and less to excite her since she is always ready and wet, you are on the right path.
/r/askTRP17/07/15 06:38 PM
5

No it does not.
/r/askTRP16/07/15 07:45 PM
1

seddit Reddit's seduction board, hence the nickname: seddit
/r/askTRP15/07/15 01:02 PM
1

Man up, TRP was branched from seddit because of the bullshit, if your girl is looking for ex adultery partners it means you are a doormat for her.
/r/askTRP14/07/15 12:30 PM
2

They DON'T CARE, if they like you, everything you do is seen in a good light, so unless you are a fucking psycho manipulator that is constantly hurting her, she will just say "you are mean" and then forget all about it next time you are pounding her.
/r/askTRP14/07/15 12:53 AM
1

There is a difference between opening up insecurities and being kind, loving and sensitive, if you want to have a LTR you need that side to be available, it is hard, and to be honest you need a reaaaaaally good girl that will help along, probably only doable with post-wall chicks.
/r/askTRP14/07/15 12:50 AM
0

What I mean is, take away the old marriage and take away the new marriage, now what, 80% of the males won't be able to have a wife, and 80% of the females will be left with children they cannot raise. Is there a grey area? Where to draw the line? And where do you draw the line to make everyone happier?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/15 12:34 AM
1

The thing is, there is a FINE balance between both worlds, that balance is the fact that marriage in Christian cultures have the unintended effect of ensuring that the male, even a beta male, will have some level of power over the wife, thus making everything easier, lustful women, happy males, productive society.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/15 10:27 PM
29

She was looking for them in FB so she obviously has no lust for you at all, had she found them she would be fucking them already. She probably cheated on you on a monthly basis, hell I fucked married girls with children and when I was not available when they wanted, they just got someone else to fuck them, once the gates are open there is nothing that can stop the cuckold flood that comes afterwards.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 06:47 PM
2

The best man she could get a hold off? More like the best doormat she could get. EDIT: made a new comment instead.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 06:46 PM
2

He is trying to troll this sub.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/15 03:58 PM
6

But of course women have their share of the fault, if you read the literature what comes clear is that we generalize to simplify the message, otherwise you end up with lots of people saying NAWALT grinding the advance of the general theory to a halt. This happens in every science where you get consensus for a general idea that explains everything but not everything, there are always extreme cases that cannot be explained and are threated as such, eventually learning and studying those cases may …
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 12:45 PM
1

Come to Argentina then, they say our women are the hottest in the world.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 12:10 PM
1

Well good luck any way, I found RP to be the answer for everything so far, most ideas from here I already had as my own, this... well the red pill mostly glued them together in a cohesive and rational manner, and when I tested them on real life I got girls lusting after me like never before.
/r/askTRP12/07/15 07:28 PM
6

I would ignore her, she used straight talk wich means she is out of options to manipulate you covertly, so she is trying to be more direct. And as usual, don't listen to what they say, but what they do, you are having more sex and she is being more flirtous, remember i'ts been proven scientifically that women have dissociated their minds and vagina, what they lust is not in sync with what they like, unlike men.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/15 02:45 PM
1

If you are happy, keep being so, when (and not if) you find yourself unhappy, you know where to find the recipy for long time happiness.
/r/askTRP12/07/15 02:40 PM
39

Oh wait, didn't a Nobel laureate say that a month ago?
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 08:41 PM
1

be me beta faggot with some alpha strains be in love at first sight, living together since week one of getting to know each other, fucking our brains out year and half in, le me SO gets pregnant captain orders sex engines to go full stop child is born, beautiful amongst peasants year and half go by, sex engines still off le me is touching himself to a crying sleep daily tipping point, break up, child is fatherless now theory debunked
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/15 11:20 PM
12

After the german guy who let himself be eaten to death while getting off, nothing is not real life.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 04:19 PM
1

Turn it around a little, "if you are interesting, a girl will like you" Interesting being someone really interesting for the rest of the world, not mom or yourself. One example, you can be really good at playing the triangle, but really, is that interesting at all for anyone besides you? Now play the guitar, learn to play songs people know, play it good enough and people will ask you to play when you are with them, that will make girls like you more. Notice how you also need to have a group of f…
/r/seduction05/07/15 04:16 PM
2

A friend of mine did something like this the other day and my solution was to drive like a maniac, drifting, accelerating, and the rest of us (that did not bring a girl to a guys meeting) acted like complete douchebags, the girl was really put off and I doubt she will accept to come to another reunion.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/15 08:42 PM
1

He will tell you, then you bounde, if you don't compliment her and just powertalk you can bail out... I guess... :D
/r/askTRP03/07/15 06:32 PM
3

♂
/r/askTRP01/07/15 07:19 PM
1

This is really important to notice, I have friends who after dating a couple of weeks with a girl (and alpha-ing a lot, according to them), end up with the girl trying to make them reschedule things they do (like family visits) to accomodate her. The devil is in the details.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 01:04 PM
3

Seconded, but keep the dosage low (max 1 drop), so you can ponder a little, otherwise you will just trip in la la land.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 11:48 AM
2

I have this thing I do, that when several girls tell me they don't like something I am doing, I am on the right path. Dislike of muscle guys? Yeah, tell that to your hands that can't stop touching my shoulders (they have developed really well, are stone hard even tough my arms still lack definition, my shoulders don't) Dislike my new knitted cap? Yeah half the people that try to call me on it actually take it off my head and try it on anyways. In general anything your girls will tell you they di…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 11:37 AM
2

You see the same in another Disney movie... Into the woods. There, the baker's wife has an affair with the prince and chants something line "a husband at home for the family and a prince for... whatever"
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 08:51 PM
1

I guess you need to have some metrics, also, lower partner count means better at bond pairing, so it is anyway important, that even if they are not alpha widows, they had few partners.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 11:27 AM
19

Go ask for a babysitter if that is what you need... https://duckduckgo.com/?q=multiple+partners+lack+of+bonding Any fucking duck search gives you several examples and research, like this: https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/fulfillment-any-age/201304/the-lingering-psychological-effects-multiple-sex-partners or this: http://www.addictions.com/sex/ or this: http://cat.inist.fr/?aModele=afficheN&cpsidt=1549518 You need daddy to tie your shoelaces too?
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 01:02 PM
2

Look it up, i'ts been posted several times over.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 12:07 PM
3

Having kids early is good, slutting since 18 is bad, but if they commited to a man and had kids that would be good, if she can stop becoming a whore later, of course.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 12:01 PM
2

The point is, he can improve, he can learn, she can't, one is broken forever, the other is fixable forever... sans any real mental issues he might have non related to sex or relationships.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 11:59 AM
3

That is the thing, the way I see it, since we cannot get into a fist-fight, the mods need to use other tools, either fall in line or go away, most of us that took the pill will see the reason for it, since the message can be easily diluted, many many betas come here to see if they can get away with whatever they think life is, and if they don't find a clear message they will only hurt themselves and others. As many said before, if a BP comes here to educate, he needs to set aside every preconcie…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 11:28 PM
1

You do, I mean that is the whole way of men, since ancient times, if you have a disagreement with some other tribe-member, the one who wins in a fist fight is right, no matter if he is really right or not, he is right in the sense that you have to accept his point of view, or continue to receive a pounding from him. We men instinctively know this since birth, and that is why we have a different code of conduct than females, we know that if we disagree enough, the argument is resolved via violenc…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 06:44 PM
1

You can either don't give her anything, give her a silly gift (here, have a chocolate) or just spend it on some experience you like that can include her, like a theater play you want to see, or a movie. This is as much as your anniversary as hers so focus on enjoying yourself first, she will see you enjoying and as any girl, will follow suit (eventually)
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/15 05:37 PM
3

No, whoever is willing to walk has all the power.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 11:45 AM
4

It is a real thing, but of course how much effort a woman will make to get back on track depends on how much are you able to walk.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/15 12:36 AM
0

Rarely, you never go full alpha at once
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 07:13 PM
-1

So? What does that have to do with the magazine's point?
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 07:13 PM
-1

We are discussing two different points. I argue there is truth in the article, any male that suddenly starts doing everything in the article is almost certainly cheating or will cheat/leave his girl.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 02:18 PM
4

No, but the article is spot on, any married guy who suddenly changes like that, and is not particulary driven to keep the marriage is doing it because he is cheating, I know lots of cases like this. If you never let yourself go, this article is useless, if you always go out with friends then going out with friends is nothing to worry about, but if you change your netflix weekends for "fishing trips" with friends you never used to frecuent before, it is a red flag.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 01:22 PM
1

So... did you try it? did it work?
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 02:10 PM
1

That is what I am trying to define, is bullying a sort of shit-test society does to the weak in an either become a human being or dissapear you societal door-mat?
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 11:58 PM
1

Maybe, but then nor me or my friends ever did that in a pack, I am talking about people I randomly met through life.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 09:19 PM
1

Is it? What do every motivational phrase, talk or idea have in common? You can only improve if you fall and recover...
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 09:17 PM
1

As /u/TheSKSpecial said, if your SMV is high enough, you can bring fisting to the table and she will say "yes". Don't need to order around, you can just suggest and she will try.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 11:13 PM
3

Tall, Thin, blue eyes, lacking some hair, bad posture (corved) Natural Alpha, he touches them, approaches them like nothing, he approaches every beauty that crosses his path, everywhere, every time, to the point of grabbing a girl that just crossed his path to ask for the time, he gives zero fucks. Pushy with Friends, egoistical, likes to be the center of the room and will try to be no matter what. Also, rich, not by himself and still doesn't have Access to much money from his parents, but he sp…
/r/askTRP10/06/15 11:03 PM
2

Sexually, he likes to control women and gives little or no attention to their sexual pleasure. Foreplay, if it occurs at all, is only a necessary means to an end. He likes oral sex but only as a recipient. His favorite positions enable him to avoid looking the woman in her eyes. I don't know about you but since I went the Red Pill way foreplay for my girls has become the trip to where we meet, they do everything in their heads before they even get to see me, and are already dripping wet when we …
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 08:47 PM
1

You will miss the T increase, the gym community (friends and males with a different drive than the people you surround with) and the perseverance, hability to maintain a routine, resistance to pain, etc etc. Getting ripped means all of that, not only the superficial body, but the mental change you need to do to get there (a lot of sacrifices, and mental discipline)
/r/askTRP10/06/15 07:29 PM
1

But they are servants because they put themselves in that position, they are servicable to people they feel superior to them, even if after the fact they resent them, maybe this dynamic cannot be avoided and it is a cycle that needs to exist to make better humans, or drop them forever from the gene pool.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 10:48 PM
1

Thats my postulate, I just want to check if more people (besides my friend and I) felt that urge ever, but it seems we are the only ones
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 10:47 PM
1

I don't feel the need to teach anyone a lesson, I am trying to see if maybe we are talking about something bigger like how a woman will shit-test you to see if you are able to handle her, maybe people will shit test you to see if you are able to become a human being.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 10:19 PM
1

I don't know exactly it happens mainly with males, just people that somehow make everyone else mock them
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 09:28 PM
1

It's not just any weak, is some special kind of weak, as I grew older I began to see less and less of these around me, and now at my 30's I barely interact with some...
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 09:05 PM
0

Good luck, then. That is not what we strive, so you can follow your own way and stop trying to distort the Red Pill message here with your own vision.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 11:30 AM
0

You are wrong, the teorethical RP man has a great life, with no need for a woman, he is open for a trip companion if such companion proves worthy of his trip. Your drive in life is not pairing with a woman, so you don't look for LTR, you are open to the idea if the woman is good enough.
/r/askTRP08/06/15 04:17 PM
1

good luck
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/15 09:23 PM
2

If you're spinning plates while married, don't be fucking married. Except that you still need to have abundance mentality and being able to pick up women is something you should refine every day, don't go fucking them around if you don't want, but you need to be flirtatious enough not to attract anger from your SO, but to generate attention from other women that will attract your SO attention
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/15 02:23 AM
-5

Then what the hell are you doing in The Married Red Pill, this is a SUBSET of The Red Pill, not something outside of it.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/15 02:20 AM
3

What the fuck are you talking about? So blaming the girl for something that falls into the man's obligation is not black and white?
/r/askTRP02/06/15 11:32 AM
1

This, the most important part, whatever you think you were doing right, is shown as wrong because they both felt they could step over you like this.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 11:29 AM
1

You need to read the sidebar then, there is a lot of literature in there about hamstering. You can also search the main sub for this, a lot of examples are available for you to understand it. the hamster is an allegory to the way we lie to ourselves, like you, saying she was really inebriated, that has zero effect on how much she disrespected you, as some other guy said, she could have gone on her knees and sucked the guy dick, because once the line she crossed is crossed, nothing else matters.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 11:25 AM
2

you are ignoring that we also have a hamster
/r/askTRP02/06/15 02:20 AM
2

any outdoor activity is good, any social activity is good. For example on a date go to any underground comedy club, I use that for first dates, and I am bluntly honest with them, "in case you are boring so at least i dont waste my time" (this being said with a shit eating grin, or by being very clear by text) Then you can just go picnic (by the side of any highway of road you can sit and talk under a tree) You can do team sports, like basketball, soccer, rugby, no need to be professional though.…
/r/askTRP02/06/15 02:19 AM
5

You know like that comic... http://weknowmemes.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/evidence-youre-wrong-comic.jpg
/r/askTRP01/06/15 08:05 PM
13

Telling her will only give her weapons to defend herself, not telling her won't so she will have a harder time fabricating a lie to convince him back.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 08:02 PM
1

They don't come back to you because you are a boring fuck, take risks, have fun by yourself, explore.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 06:06 PM
2

That is the idea, if they get offended they offer nothing. In any case, why would you care what they offer? They are supposed to be plates, and only after demonstrating value they get to be promoted... nothing they can say you should take it as a truth.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 06:04 PM
5

We are meant to live in communities not alone, when males group together to go acquire meat (hunting), women stay together to maintain the settlement. No child needs to have a singular father since they are children of the commune.
/r/askTRP31/05/15 07:32 PM
4

One way that I define an alpha is: is he mostly trying to win the approval of others, or are other people trying to win his approval? If people are trying to win his approval, that means he has power, and thus, the ability to choose and exclude. A leader commands respect by his actions not his words, no real alpha or leader will ever try to win the approval of others. This is true even outside the RP.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 08:10 PM
0

Disagree, if you want kids, you need to be in a relationship together, not married, tho.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 06:17 PM
1

My ex did that, best cook I've knew, best sex I've had (until the pill), best wife material you could know... until she got pregged, pancakes don't turn around as fast as her attitude did.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 06:14 PM
3

Just let the Blue Guy be, I am currently dating one such girl, post-wall, very introverted, just coming out of years of therapy to combat that, low partner count (4+me), dresses like a prude, hates dirty talk, but she is a monster in bed, and it got progressively better week after week after month, I do admit feeling overwhelmed by her sex drive.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 06:09 PM
2

I fucked girls left and right before TRP, but every time I would get oneitis and then repeat the same cycle with a deadbedroom, exploring the reasons for that found me a way to this den. I now realize the girls I fucked were girls that were searching beta behaviors and since then I've met girls that fuck my brains off in a way I never thought possible.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 05:27 PM
1

Heh, there was a ceiling fan (off) and I had to move around it, but yeah
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 07:53 PM
-5

Blah Blah Blah, some girls cum really easy and that is also why I stated the number, me being able to lift her to my shoulders and eat her left her so horny she started cumming for whatever I did.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 08:33 PM
-6

This, the girl im dating is 173cm and fit, damn fit like a freaking model.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 08:30 PM
-2

Yeah, she cums pretty easily, thus is the gift given by us by playing alpha.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 08:30 PM
-6

I used to be like that but I have so much better sex with light girls, I can get more creative and my short dick is more useful since I have less fat competing for space.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 03:07 PM
-19

Is not that every FR about? I could just spew the last part but I thought maybe adding some detail would help. being able to manipulate a girl like if she was weightless is really good for your sex life
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 03:06 PM
1

Why even do that? just let her hamster go full speed by trying to gauge whether she got her spot back or not.
/r/askTRP07/05/15 07:33 PM
1

"casual" and "open" don't mix with "solid LTR"
/r/askTRP06/05/15 01:33 PM
1

Do you want to LTR her? if not, then lower it to 1x some weeks, and keep her in the backburner if you end up a weekend without dates.
/r/askTRP05/05/15 08:59 PM
2

Thats your problem, why are you investing so much mental time in them? Keep your main plate happy by seeing her once or twice a week tops, then let the rest reach to you, don't chase them much.
/r/askTRP05/05/15 03:12 AM
10

It isn't the first time it's happened. Yeah, um.... stop doing that.
/r/askTRP29/04/15 12:30 PM
1

but im not sure why she keeps messaging me for my attention etc You know that feel/drive you have when you want to fuck? Girls have that same feel/drive, but for attention. She is "fucking", but you are not.
/r/askTRP29/04/15 12:09 PM
3

This sounds incredible, reads like a bait to me.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 07:37 PM
3

You can also LTR career women who can work part-time, doctors for example can open their own practice and work it out when they have time. Also teachers, and even engineers.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 05:06 PM
2

It's up to you, you might want to have a shorter fuse with this one, but since she is up to date you she probably just wants a good fuck. This should be similar to married game, easier to get in the sack, less drama, too.
/r/askTRP27/04/15 05:32 PM
3

Really not that hard, you just tell them straight what you spect, and act accordingly. Harder to do with pre-wall girls, but there are lots of post-wall women that never rided the CC, or that did it, but never knew a real dominant male.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 03:40 PM
-5

women with exceptionally high libidos who soak through their panties every five minutes thinking about their skinny, laid back, underachieving, nerdy, overemotional boyfriends that can barely keep up with them sexually So I've met this Unicorn you are talking about, post wall, of course, but yeah, such women exists, and the more tingles you create on them, the hornier they become.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 08:32 PM
13

Someone said in the sub a couple of weeks ago, that this is the new frontier, women taking time off from their stable relationships to go "explore themselves" and then coming back to the cuck. This seems incredibly in line with that.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 07:04 PM
2

From my experience, experience with other males will not make a woman better in sex, but how much trust she has in you, or, how much alpha she feels you. Also, chemistry and personality. I am dating a girl witch seemingly had not much experience (debuted at 27, supposedly), but once she fully engaged with me, after a couple of months, has become a beast in bed, much better than any girl I dated before, and I had the luck to date girls with very high libidos. higher N-count means a higher Alpha W…
/r/askTRP24/04/15 06:44 PM
3

It's not easy if you do it for years, its easy if you did it for a couple of months and the gains are not real.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 11:22 AM
2

As Bonecrackr said: Males have an 80% surplus of their work Females have a fertility surplus (only they can give birth) In a relationship, males take the female surplus and females take the male surplus It's the natural way for a woman to eat up all your surplus productivity for her. And is your responsibility as the head of the family to say no
/r/askTRP21/04/15 08:09 PM
2

I'd go with this, is cocky and funny
/r/askTRP21/04/15 02:25 PM
2

Well I've never had the chance, but from what I could view in the field, they don't care if you are fucking someone else, as long as you keep letting them think they will eventually win you over.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 02:23 PM
4

Yes it is, that doesn't change the current status, woman will jump ship if something they want (commitment) is at their reach, males will not, because they seek sex, not commitment.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 01:55 PM
3

Well I rubs off as true, you hear cases of males having more than one family, but never with women. Males seek sex, Females seek commitment, so It's pretty obvious why that happens, sex can be shared but commitment cannot. We will see what happens with polyamorous relationships
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 12:58 PM
3

This, I had loads of bad GF's who just drove me down, its taxing and you might just lose a golden chance just because of her, any girl that displays this behavior is a soft-next for me and loses any chances of ever being able to get commitment from me.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 08:22 PM
3

How is that against TRP philosophy if it's the basis of one of its canon books, "Models"? The whole idea of spinning plates is loving them, as an independent man can, without commitment, and leaving them better than they arrived.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 10:49 AM
1

You know if you join this with something we already know... Always add at the beginning of everything a woman says the following "Right now I feel..." "Right now I feel that this was the best sex of my life" "Right now I feel that i have never moaned more in bed" etc.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 04:50 PM
0

You know they cannot chose, they feel tingles for alpha traits and most of them aren't even aware, we do. Maybe I could just have said, leave the girl better than when she met you, that's a Red Pill motto.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 10:58 AM
0

Well that's refreshing to hear, I've never had the chance to toss a girl around with friends but yeah, what I mean is not only during sex, but the rest of the time, I've dated around 10 girls and ever since taking the RP they look at me different, with more lust all the time, and they do treat me like a king, something that never happened before... I still have a lot to learn tough.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 01:34 AM
-1

If you know it is addictive and it will break you down, it is, selling drugs to people doesn't make you innocent if they use it afterwards, but the RP is amoral so, suit yourself with whatever moral compass you have.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 01:21 AM
1

Because if you have ever done that, you will know how how different they can be with you, its a completely different ballpark.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 01:10 AM
1

You don't tell her, you do her, push her to her limits all the time, don't go overboard. For example my current main plate told me she had a fantasy of fucking in the beach, and also she really loves to wet kiss me in the middle of the street. So I invented a picnic next to the highway, took her out of the car, pushed her against a tree, kissed her hard, turned her around behind the tree (so it was not that obvious), then I just fingered her until she came, and then pulled down her pants enough …
/r/askTRP09/04/15 11:46 PM
8

that response is too wordy and sounds butthurt....
/r/askTRP09/04/15 08:17 PM
2

If you say that the animal brain can be modified by modern standards of society then you are against the whole Red Pill philosophy, so... either you are not from here or you are wrong.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 01:20 PM
2

What? why would you tiptoe? Its your frame, as in, my ball, my rules, she doesn't get to get angry unless she wants to risk losing you, and you should be working on being so high value (for yourself, mostly) that she will never dare risk that. That's what I mean with having a strong frame, if she gets angrier your job is easier because she loses control and you can just manipulate the conversation to your favour.
/r/askTRP07/04/15 02:20 AM
-1

I know, right? What the Fuck, I had to concede with a friend who likes chubby girls that he might be right.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 02:17 AM
3

allright, whatever, the elephant in the room in that study is exactly the opposite of what you are saying.b
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 02:16 AM
1

Thats the thrill, this is not a conscious decision but an unconscious animal one, no matter your experience, you will find the optimal WTH ratio sexy
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 10:22 PM
2

You are missing the point that the optimal WTH ratio bypasses the brain and goes directly to the animal side, no niches here, pure unadulterated masculine appetite.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 10:20 PM
2

They only used 15 samples, it's a limited study but powerful nonetheless because they did fMRI on the males brains, so this goes deeper than a survey.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 07:29 PM
6

Well, we know women cannot consciously know which things they find that arouse them, there is a study posted here a couple of months ago about that, even lesbian women will think they dislike straight sex, but their vagina will act up really aroused anyway. Males, on the contrary, are pretty dead-on with what they like and what they don't.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 07:28 PM
2

The article is there to be read, too. But they used another study with images from pre-op and post-op women that did a w-t-h ratio change for esthetic changes, so most probably no hamplanets but a healthy range from skinny to average.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 07:23 PM
1

I've personally had better sex with fit girls than chubbies, my understanding is that fat girls are more vocal and more daring at the beginning, but once you have broken their fears, fit girls are way better, you can manage them better in-and-out of bed, every time. Try doing cunnilingus on a chubby girl sitting on your shoulders while you are walking around the room...
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 07:12 PM
6

Lastly, this finding may extend our understanding of some men's proclivity to develop a preoccupation with stimuli depicting optimally designed women (e.g., pornography). Interestingly, our findings did not demonstrate that BMI had a large effect on brain activation except in areas associated with simple visual evaluations of shape and size. This does not downplay the importance of BMI in evaluations of female attractiveness, but may suggest that BMI's role in these evaluations is less the produ…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 03:45 PM
3

When she told you her feelings where hurt, I would have played with her, like "hur hur hur! I am gonna hurt more of those feelings of yours tonight" or anything playful, thus defusing the situation. Of course this is easier if your frame has been really strong lately, once they know they cannot break you with silly tests, they stop almost all of them.
/r/askTRP06/04/15 02:56 PM
5

Same in Argentina, not as extreme as Russia though. But the basis for The Red Pill still apply, tough we are still not as PC as the USA.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 12:22 PM
-3

Do you have any proof of this? Just curious Edit: Downvotes for asking for proof? silly people, check the rest of the thread, it gets really interesting.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 12:13 PM
4

Maybe we should put that at the top of the sidebar. If you are not fucking a woman, you have no relationship with her, you are background noise in her life. I think only guys who are extremely beautiful and get hit on a lot by girls can really feel what they feel like every day, being bombarded by males fighting for their attention.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 05:40 PM
2

Repeat every morning for every day until you internalize this: A woman does not have a relationship with you at all until you have fucked her. No she doesn't care about you as you expect her to care about you, you are not special for her. Edit: Made my point a little to extreme the first time around, don't write early in the morning unless you slept.
/r/askTRP31/03/15 11:15 AM
0

I've read somewhere that the 80/20 rule applies too: 20% of the effort for 80% of the results (for getting ripped) 80% of the effort for the 20% extra that you see on professional competitions.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 01:31 AM
0

Agreed! Three times a week 40 to 60 minutes and a good diet (no flour, unless its pasta, no soda, lots of meat and vegetables) will take you there in a year.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 01:29 AM
0

No need for that, I am two months in and the advancements I am seeing on my body are enormous.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 01:28 AM
2

With a year in, you can take a picture in the beach while hardening your muscles and that will be good enough to attract a lot of quality
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 08:27 PM
2

The thing is, if you ever date a woman who really loves you in an AF/BB way, one that is available for you always, that goes out of her comfort zone for you, and that respects you and admires you, a woman who will get wet just by seeing you... You will know that no falseness can simulate that. Dying without being loved... and thinking that is love? Sad...
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 08:12 PM
5

While talking about being a politician: "This is not a game of cards" Holy fuck did he coin the phrase that was used for the House of Cards series?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 01:09 AM
1

Thats the exact attitude we try to remove from fellow males here, that is "Mr. Nice Guy" attitude that is talked a lot in the "No More Mr. Nice Guy" book, check the sidebar.
/r/askTRP28/03/15 02:37 AM
5

The point of the comment really flew past you. What he means is that for women, the male "average body" is a body that 80% of males fail to have, thus putting 80%,of males under below average. He even then says what they mean when they say they don't like muscular guys. What a woman usually means is that she doesn't like Schwarzenegger types, but still loves average looking guys, which are actually only guys in the top 20% of bodies.
/r/askTRP27/03/15 10:37 AM
8

3) 80% of men are below average. In their mind, a somewhat but not overly muscular guy like you or me is the average. When you and I think of guys that lift, we think of guys that lift. When they think about guys that lift, they think of the roided up mass monsters. What we think of about "normal", is normal, the average skinnyfat guy. Their normal is either of us. So much this
/r/askTRP27/03/15 01:15 AM
1

I did, not with bullshit but with "Well you are doing it now"
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 02:22 PM
25

And that's part of the problem, too. Women with quality partner hold off marriage while on the peak of their attractiveness, fails to acquire a similar quality partner later in life. Hello Alpha Widow.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 02:00 PM
4

It is if she cannot drop the issue.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 09:23 PM
2

The only solution is to focus on yourself, once she perceives you as two points over her own, she will gradually stop bothering you.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 02:04 PM
4

You still need to read a lot more, shit-test are frame test, she is seeing changes in you and she wants to make sure you are the real deal. The more you fail, the more she knows its just a facade.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 01:46 PM
1

That's exactly the problem, we are teachers of men (I'm far from being the perfect alpha, but I am training friends in RP lore and boy are they like little children sometimes)
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 02:05 AM
1

Why not? thats why we are all here.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 02:35 PM
3

The last relationship I started, I stated early (like in the second date) that withholding sex for me means immediate termination of the relationship, not caring the situation we will be at the moment, be it living together, pregnant, whatever. This goes for gaining weight. Now that girl has become a sex beast that dries me out every time we see each other. In past relationships I was sex-shamed by everyone that "sex is not that important", and I always ended up in a DB, not anymore, sex is very…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/15 02:07 PM
4

Thats some clever shit. If girls like guys who are: Stronger than them Earn more Are Older More intelligent than them etc That means they are: Weaker than him Earn less than him Are younger Are less intelligent than him What is there left for him? Ass and tits.
/r/TRPOffTopic21/03/15 09:30 PM
21

Ever since taking the red pill I have dated girls that: * Are prettier than any I've dated before * Treat me like someone they look up to, all the time * Are more receptive to my needs * Lust after me all the time * Have sex with me on almost every of my whims, and enjoy it * Pay half of every expense (even on the first date!) * Don't try to change me at all
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 04:18 PM
2

the fat gets in the way This, after years of overwheight girls I landed a 9+ body and boy, I feel like a porn star, I can fuck her in the air, I can put her in my shoulders, I can turn, twist, rotate, move, lift her any way I want, we can fuck in closed spaces (like a car). Penile insertion is easier, we can fuck in the pool while being just close with no sensible movements needed for her to get mounted, she can suck me on the bus withouth needing to move a lot of space, etc etc.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 05:04 PM
1

There is no need to plan for that, but maybe it's becase we actually walk a lot around. When I see a cloth i find sexy I make her try it out, she is shy with her body, but once she sees herself in the mirror she likes it, and she also sees my horny face when I look at her in a sexy dress.
/r/askTRP14/03/15 12:48 PM
2

That is why dread is so effective, it sends a clear signal that you are not working for her anymore. No more delays.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/15 06:23 PM
2

You need to understand that they are not even trying to fuck other girls because they respect the girl they are chasing / chased / dated. That's Nice Guy territory and that is why the standard answer is, "go out and try to fuck as many woman as you can", the internal change he needs to do to be able to "disrespect" that woman is enough to make him forget, never mind the fucking or not.
/r/askTRP13/03/15 02:54 PM
2

Don't you have sex motels in your area? Go there for long sessions, have sex everywhere else meanwhile. Sex in (almost)public is great :), like a plaza, a construction site, a car, cinema, bus, get creative!
/r/askTRP13/03/15 02:36 PM
2

Can you link to some studies?
/r/askTRP12/03/15 04:51 PM
1

Sure: www.nytimes.com/2009/01/25/magazine/25desire-t.html?scp=1&sq=&st=nyt&pagewanted=all&_r=1&
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 02:31 PM
4

Agreed with the last part, dread is GOOD, and amused mastery is great
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/15 06:06 PM
6

We already know that, there was this study about women and male real arousal versus perceived arousal, and women could not coincide with both, they thought something didn't arouse them when it did, and viceversa all the time. This even happened with lesbians, that marked hetero sex as something they didn't find arousing but their arousal levels where up. Males had an almost perfect match, we know when we like something and when we don't.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 05:42 PM
1

The double benefit is that you get social proof, contacts, etc.
/r/askTRP13/02/15 08:42 PM
1

I would prioritize hobbies that you can interact with people. Rugby, Soccer, team sports.
/r/askTRP13/02/15 07:25 PM
1

So what happened, if she is interested, she is interested and you can use the second phrase as an example.
/r/askTRP13/02/15 05:44 PM
1

Rule #1 - you never propose commitment, that breaks your frame and makes you her beta bitch.
/r/askTRP13/02/15 05:32 PM
2

I would ask, why should a plate know your status? You can be honest in a weird way: "I live with someone but we are just friends, I cannot divorce for monetary reasons so for now this is my situation"
/r/askTRP13/02/15 05:30 PM
1

You are right, after all this is /r/asktrp , in any case your proposed answer is really bad, it's boring, verbose, and sound emotional. Far from a rock in the storm.
/r/askTRP13/02/15 05:08 PM
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Well you should be dominating her, that's what they want. Just remember she will leave you in the spot if she feels like it.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 04:25 PM
1

What I mean is you are too verbose, halfway through that discourse she will fall asleep. You sound really butthurt, saying instead of doing, and I can bet you will forget some of those words before you finish saying them, sounding like a tool.
/r/askTRP13/02/15 04:24 PM
4

Maybe nothing to do with Thai girls and a lot to do with Alpha frame. I live in Argentina and I've dated gilrs like the one OP describes, but once i swallowed the pill and really started implementing it into my life, all the girls I've dated are more like the Thai one.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 01:15 PM
12

I got bored halfway through it...
/r/askTRP13/02/15 12:49 PM
0

I tied her up and used her as one of those dick-lantern things (thank you RP for getting ripped, getting bolder and dating girls half my size)
/r/askTRP12/02/15 06:09 PM
1

Well the main thing advocated in The Red Pill is that you live your life for yourself. Hint: humans only feel fulfilled if they interact with real humans in a real setting. Playing Call of Duty over internet with friends is nothing versus playing paintball with them. So transform your hobby into something you do while being next to someone else.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 05:10 PM
1

The only re-engagement you should do is drop a joke or a tease and forget about it. New girls are coming to your life daily if you use badoo, or pof or tinder of heck, even if you go out, so no excuse to re-engage a fluke.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 05:07 PM
11

Thanks for sharing that, I hadn't heard that before. You aren't doing your duty of reading the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 05:03 PM
5

If you ever get into a real abundace, you will undestand that you give a fuck about a random acquaintance, with so many people talking to you and proposing things, you lose track of who is who and only re-remember when you reencounter them. I hate the idea, but we should instruct newbies to get a realistic picture of a model, get on tinder and then use it heavily for three days straight to understand how things are for a girl. When you have 20+ tinder matches and you are talking to many of them,…
/r/askTRP12/02/15 01:27 PM
3

Alpha attitude too: Once, a person blankly asked if she was “the one who takes care of him.” We’ve gotten used to this bizarre, recurring question, and often find ways to poke fun at their ignorance. “I just pay her to be my friend,” I will say.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 05:49 PM
1

What the fuck are you talking about? Discussing feels with a woman is completely counter-productive for whatever you want to have with her.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 03:15 PM
1

We should just downvote and not answer. The idea of The Red Pill is to cut the bullshit, that includes being an asshole with someone who is acting as such.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 02:51 PM
1

Lets not even talk about Lilith
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 02:52 PM
3

She broke your frame, your first answer was right, opinionated and assertive, she tested that frame by reasking and you lost it. Hence the loss of interest.
/r/askTRP10/02/15 11:04 AM
3

Why the hell should we even help you if you don't want to help yourself by learning? If you don't internalize concepts that are crucial for you to not become a stupid fucking asshole (right now you are just an asshole). Go read, learn, ask specific questions when in real need, this is real life, not school.
/r/askTRP10/02/15 11:03 AM
3

This is discussed in Bonecrackr's book. Males have productive surplus of around 80%, that means males can live with 20% of their productivity. Woman have fertiliy surplus. Marriage is the exchange of fertility for the 80% productivity surplus males have. Thus you will always be worse off if you mate with a woman, and better off if you mate with a male, helps explain why most gays are so rich, imagine having extra 160% a month to save or expend.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/15 03:08 AM
23

Woosh! Read No More Mr. Nice Guy.
/r/askTRP09/02/15 02:35 AM
10

Except every physicist in the world.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/02/15 07:05 PM
3

What is unhelpful? You are doing something that turns people off, since I don't know you I can't help you more than confirming that. I find it peculiarly strange that you hamster away that someone is trying to sabotage you, if a friend ever came with a question framed as you did, I would worry a lot about their mental health, you have to have your head deep inside your arse to believe there is someone sabotaging your social connections. Not that I endorse it, but since you appear to have some ha…
/r/askTRP06/02/15 06:00 PM
1

P/S. I said acquaintance because I don't really have any close friend whom I can confide with right now, but I do have lots of acquaintances. So.... yeah, #1 that is.
/r/askTRP06/02/15 01:36 PM
2

That's the thing, I already accept myself and I am not dishonest with women. I'll add mode one to my reading list. Thanks!
/r/RedPillBooks06/02/15 11:27 AM
0

Let me give you a silly example. So I started a new routine, from www.startbodybuilding.com a month or so ago. I was already doing some lifting but mostly soft-core, this thing is harder. After a month it shows a lot of progress and since I am happy I change my Whatsapp profile to that picture of my core body. 10 minutes later, a girl-contact I have opens with "Hey very nice picture you have as profile, how tall are you?" and starts using emoticons left and right, sending kisses and everything. …
/r/askTRP05/02/15 05:31 PM
4

Why would you tolerate that attitude from your woman is puzzling, even going so far to be willing to commit to her. Your frame should be sturdier and she will eventually fall in line or fall on the side. Edit: What I mean is that by being disrespectful about your daughter she is being disrespectful to you, not a really good sign. Remember always see what they do, not what they say Edit 2: Maybe clearly state that no commit is going to happen unless she can get along with your daughter, don't fal…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/15 01:55 PM
1

Remove the fear or ridicule from yourself and that's it. You will need to correct along the way because you will go too far the other way someday. Just to give an example, if your girl ever asks you where you were last night and why didn't you answer the phone, simply say "I was with my lover fucking like rabbits". You will say "But but thats dangerous!" Yeah it is, it is also the best way to win them over.
/r/askTRP05/02/15 01:52 PM
2

The guys where doing "great" by their therapists, then I insisted to my guys that they talk about the covert contracts they use (that they don't really know themselves they do). The typical contract is, if I date a woman is because something is going to happen, I only date a woman for that, not because I want to go out and have fun, and they believe everyone else is going theirs lives around thinking like that. The reality is that you date a girl with no real expectations and you only idea is to…
/r/RedPillBooks05/02/15 01:27 PM
3

Exactly, they want true love(tm), not ONSs
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 07:27 PM
6

Maybe if you explained it a little it would be of use to someone here.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 06:21 PM
2

You see! He knows you are fucking his wife, he just likes to live in denial, all you have to do is not be stupid about it (like, fuck her in his bed waiting for his return from work) and you will have a plate that lasts years. Also if she gets pregnant you have him to bail you out from maintaining the kid, this happened once to me, the plate aborted but the one who was with her all the time supporting the decision was the Blue, I found out later (and thanked my goddess for the luck)
/r/askTRP04/02/15 06:18 PM
2

My experience is that if you never let her carry it far enough (ie, make it obvious he is being cuckolded), he will be willing to let you fuck her. All the husbands from my plates tend to don't like me, just me, not any of the orbiters, this is probably their gut feeling so they certainly know something is up but they prefer to live in denial, so if you never force their hand, they will just willingly let you fuck her wife for years to an end. Regarding cock hungry girls, in theory any girl will…
/r/askTRP04/02/15 05:26 PM
12

Disagree, if you read Models you will see he has a similar approach about "alphaness" the author says that you should love every woman you are with (but still not commit), because the only way to have really good sex is to connect with the other person in bed (I can really vouch for this, the difference is enormous). So don't use them, connect to them and love them as plates.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 01:03 PM
1

You can imply whatever you want, that's what they do, but never be overt about it, you don't need to really lie about it, since she will be imagining whatever she wants anyway.
/r/askTRP04/02/15 11:58 AM
5

Married girls make the best LTP. Edit: someone with more experience should write something about it.
/r/askTRP04/02/15 11:54 AM
2

Agreed, Its only she testing your frame, like a blinded glass, expect her to try if you really are blinded or not, depends how sturdy you are each testing, she will test you more or less, but never will the tests stop.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 11:52 AM
1

I just say he is no real investigator that I know of (like the authors some other RP books i've read), and I find it funny that if it was that easy to detect we would be having more psychologists diagnosing that faults. I know a couple of guys who do therapy and their phsycologists tell them they are fine, until I insisted on them telling them about the duality in their thinking, the covert contracts, etc. Only then they where diagnosed with psych issues.... I hope I made sense.
/r/RedPillBooks04/02/15 11:18 AM
3

She should be so willing to do exercise to be more beautiful that you shouldn't really "get her to do it", just mentioning it in a passing way should be enough to make her want to do it. It really sounds preposterous but hell, I am dating the living proof that this shit works ans is exactly like that.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/15 07:04 PM
2

Don't be afraid to tell her straight how she can improve herself for you. "You know I like you the way you are but if you did Rollers/Whatever your ass would be tighter and damn I would love that, im a male after all, I lust after body parts"
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/15 06:13 PM
10

No, it's Happy life, happy wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/15 04:51 PM
5

She either adapts or you next her. Also checking out other girls make you more of a male and less of a doormat, she will get used to it, she will become more conscious of her competition, eventually she will see some beautiful chick returns the gaze... oh the dread, the beautiful dread
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/15 04:50 PM
3

"Im insecure" "I don't like insecure women" There, done
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/15 02:50 PM
1

I think The Rational Male is more attuned to Married life, but that's just my point of view.
/r/RedPillBooks03/02/15 02:40 PM
6

The Good It really hits the nail in the head if you really are a Nice Guy The Bad Some of the psychological issues he brings related to how a Nice Guy is created sound... phony. My Overal Take and Opinion I never felt identified by it, but i have a friend who is a typical Nice Guy. He read the book and started changing some things in his behaviour, but man, do these kind of people really like to fight back. Rating and Recommendation If you find yourself thinking that going out is only to get gir…
/r/RedPillBooks03/02/15 12:34 PM
2

So that's the way she is, sadly, why do you believe you can change a person? That's a Blue Pill strategy, you either tell her straight that you will not tolerate negativiness or you simply punish her when she is negative. Some things I did in a similar situation: -End a date early -Starve her for sex -Dread - Stop answering her for one or two days -Go out a weekend with friends, no contact at all until monday. -Constant tease her every time she starts to complain, A&A and AM can be useful: "Sinc…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 11:42 AM
1

Oh I know a guy, but he has to row like a roman slave to get something done.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 01:52 AM
5

You could think that once she feels satisfied with you, she will be happy. And I agree, she will be happy enough to start looking someone else that is more of a challenge. She will never be satisfied of drama, you have to keep her hungry for more, being careful not to starve her to leave.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 01:32 AM
1

This is what I do with my BP friend, he keeps coming at me telling me about something he disagrees with RP about, and then I make him explain in detail what things he sees wrong, then I proceed to explain him why his point of view is wrong and why the RP one is not. This worked 100% of the times so far, but I usually need to have the same conversation several times over several months to get the point straight, he tends to get any detail in the RP Theorem surface and make a big deal out of it.
/r/askTRP30/01/15 07:04 PM
1

Have you been plating girls for at least a year or two? If not then you are not ready for LTR.
/r/askTRP30/01/15 12:07 AM
2

Why don't we sticky generic questions and answers? Like "What is a plate?" And only one answer detailing it. Etc. Maybe 4 / 5 of those will go a long way. People learned to ignore sidebars because of ads.
/r/askTRP29/01/15 07:19 PM
2

So what, it still impairs her ability to pair bond, she will be unhappy with what she has because what she had seems to be better.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 07:47 PM
3

The market will not correct itself, laws are in place that create this imbalance, laws have to be put in place to correct them.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 07:46 PM
3

No Red Pill literature says women are doing this on purpose, hell, even bonecrackr's 2004 book says that they are as much a victim as we are. He, even in his anger phase, understands that women are only doing this because we are letting them, we don't set the boundaries right.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 11:49 AM
-42

Who the fuck are you talking to? What women read this forum? Really this sounds a lot like circlejerk.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 11:23 PM
2

Then if they really are friends (not friends but friends) you will never be alone. Specially if you carry over the hobbies and activities towards old age.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 09:31 PM
1

You are not lazy, you are scared as fuck, petrified from terror, and you keep telling you that is because you are lazy. Face your real problems
/r/askTRP26/01/15 06:56 PM
2

The sad truth is that only people who cannot make friends believe they will be alone at 75+. I am one of them (yet, but I am trying to change that), my father is one of them (74 and no friends, zero, zip, nada) On the other hand there is a pub that became the place because of hipsters, and I constantly see 70+ old guys playing pool, metegol, or just hanging around together in that bar. So the problem is within yourself, and I think this is something we should talk more in RP. Hobbies is a must, …
/r/askTRP26/01/15 06:14 PM
2

TL;DR: Connect physically and emotionally, be varied with ups and lows.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/15 11:26 PM
16

What the fuck are you talking about? Without child support laws there would be a lot less divorces, since women wouldn't be able to branch swing so easily. Males do support their families, women not wanting anything to do with family is the problem. When marriage 1.0 was in effect, when the child of a marriage was of his father and not of his mother, there were almost zero fatherless children.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 10:26 AM
2

It's part of the dread, if in years and years of relationship you never bought clothes without her consent, what is changing that behaviour? They know we don't peacock just because. And the same applies to them, if they start changing clothes without your input, something fishy is going on.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 11:51 AM
2

That only works if you are so set in your ways and routine that buying new clothes is something special. Take that phrase as an analogy. So it's not just buying new clothes, but learning to use the clothes, learning what to use and when.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 11:49 AM
1

The key is never get more involved than her, it's a weird place, you never fully engage and you feel you could leave her any moment. I am still learning so maybe this might change over time, but this proved to be extremely effective.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 11:47 AM
2

Oh, trust me, I know a lot of males don't, if not for The Red Pill I would still be struggling with all this, it's harder to learn how to cruise a relationship since you don't have that many, and most people just lie that everything is great in their relationship so you have no feedback.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 02:34 AM
1

I insist, what the fuck are you talking about? Woman SMV depends heavily of looks, what percentage of women can keep being beautiful after 40? She has no time to increase her SMV and it will irreversibly go down every day of every month of every year. Males can do nothing and then have a strike of luck with a business and increase their SMV in months. Or they can just do some exercise and keep working and doing male stuff (mind you, not a lot of effort) and they will keep increasing their SMV.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 02:31 AM
9

Its the basis for RP, become the challenge. If your life is interesting and does not include her by default, that makes her work for that position (position she should never ever obtain). Working towards something makes her feel it is superior, thus giving her tingles for reasons you can get all over the literature.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 07:51 PM
21

Dread and randomness can get you a long way. Take the impulse vacation with friends, not her Suddenly don't compliment her where you did before. Don't fuck her so much one day, or just don't feel like fucking once Fuck her like an animal someday, don't tell her anything cute that day. Make her work for sex another time. Go to the movies once and choose something she does not like Call her out of nowhere someday Be random in your response times. For example the girl I am dating told me she learne…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 07:01 PM
3

Good strategy, amused mastery all over the place.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 06:55 PM
-1

So you mean once you started dating girls over 18 they stopped being so immature? /s I agree with your point though.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 06:54 PM
3

It's for both, if it were for him, he could just use his 20% time that he needs to live and save the extra 80% that a woman requires. But if he wants to keep in a LTR he needs to be the best version of himself. An LTR is a great way to keep you on your toes, specially if you already had a failing relationship.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 06:51 PM
33

Maybe you never lived with a woman before, he did, I did, and I can tell you the first thing we learn from RP (since the pick up girls we already can do) is that you have to keep being random, better than her, and unpredictable. That's the only thing that will keep the dead bedroom away.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 06:49 PM
2

so the exception is the rule now? What the fuck are you talking about?
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 05:15 PM
1

Shame has nothing to do with it, it has everything to do with how laws and women are. There is a high chance that a single mother will try to lure you in to secure your income, they do this unconsciously but per briffaults law she owes you nothing, at any point in time in the relationship. There is also the matter that most single women are very bad at choosing mates, this happens for a reason that since we are not politically correct we can say, they have self-worth issues, issues that are most…
/r/askTRP22/01/15 03:28 PM
1

Do you really want to date someone who willingly got into a relationship with someone like that? This talks loads about you and your self-worth, you are probably in denial about it and should work on it before entering any LTR.
/r/askTRP22/01/15 03:16 PM
1

Why look for single mothers? You could get into a LTR and rent a womb, or adopt. Single mothers are a problem because a lot of things you learn in RP. She doesn't really care about you, she does not really consider you the father of her child(s), she might be an alpha widow. There is a high chance she is trying to secure your income, so she will lie to no end until she has secured you and then kick you out. It's much more fair to have a LTR and adopt willingly.
/r/askTRP22/01/15 03:12 PM
9

You should read The Gervais Principle Will probably blow your mind.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 01:42 PM
0

You should start reading then, /r/RedpillBooks is a good start.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 01:38 PM
1

We are around 90k subscribers in TRP
/r/askTRP21/01/15 07:43 PM
1

Read Models (the book), become vulnerable and approach, no need to improve SMV to start talking to girls, improve it as you go. Remember not to take the bait and get into an LTR yet, it's a trap.
/r/askTRP21/01/15 03:08 AM
1

Well it seems pretty neutral. TRP can outlive us because it is a philosophy, there is no way to go back to all of us 90.000 souls, I am converting people as I write this, and doing awarenes as much as I can, but that is me, because I like it and because I don't care about the repercussions
/r/askTRP21/01/15 03:05 AM
5

Maybe you like cuckolding? I would never take back a girl who disrespected me like that, maybe plate her, but again to the LTR? No.
/r/askTRP21/01/15 02:50 AM
1

As some authors put it (like Mark Manson in "Models"), negging might not work for girls who are honest and not playing the game. Don't negg a girl unless you really feel she isn't being honest, it's the way to throw them out of their game. But if they are not playing any games and just being honest, you end up like a fool.
/r/askTRP21/01/15 02:46 AM
1

Read the whole NO'Maam blog, I don't know why it's not in the fucking sidebar, it has less concepts to learn, it's more to the point, it's even less politically correct than fucking Rollo, heck it's older than Pook.
/r/askTRP20/01/15 11:31 PM
9

As Bonecrackr said in 2004, you have no relationship with a woman until you have fucked her at least once Edit: Really, this is deep, she does not consider to have any relationship with you until she had sex with you.
/r/askTRP20/01/15 10:25 PM
2

What the.... lol nice troll
/r/askTRP20/01/15 06:29 PM
2

Getting ripped is not a synonym with getting bulked. Get ripped, not bulked. Ripped Man Bulked Man
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 05:17 PM
1

that's why mods have been trigger happy lately, but... this is a forum anyway and people seem to like those shitty posts.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 02:47 PM
1

"Don't you find it refreshing?"
/r/askTRP16/01/15 07:18 PM
5

So I asked a friend who just finished accepting the Truth. We have been sparring for over 6 months while I absorbed more and more, and he decelerated from Ultra Blue Bitch to Angry Phase. He is a 30+ engineer, who slept with 30+ women so far while Beta Bitch. Far from a complete loser. His words: It's hard to accept the Truth. The mental breakdown that this does to you that is terrible. Your paradigm is halved, and you have to rebuild yourself from zero. I was too far the other side, and suddenl…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 06:51 PM
18

I have friends (30+ years) with experience (30+ girls, a couple of LTR) that still cling to their beta mindset and ways. Experience might be the catalyst but ego investment is where the crux is.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 06:33 PM
2

Exactly this, I am converting several friends and they keep coming with excuses and they also fight me all the way down and up from every concept. Most of the time they cling to their old beliefs not anymore because they believe on them (because I keep showing them in real life just how effective RP is) but because they don't want to realize the world is a hostile place.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 06:32 PM
1

Too wordy for my taste, I would go by the tangent, "So bad I will probably go to prision" or something like that, depends on the girl
/r/askTRP16/01/15 06:23 PM
1

That is what I am trying to convey, even by working more than me by a long shot, they are having much more fullfilling lives. Workaholism seems really bad if you work for someone else, but if you do what you love for yourself it's not, the sky is your limit.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 12:38 AM
2

He does many jobs, he started working as IT Support Staff and now two years later he is leading several digitalization groups, second in command of a new political space, while also fixing cars, building his own house, as an electrician, while keeping his IT Support position, he also bought some cabins and manages them with some other partners, etc etc. Also he is not the only one, another friend of mine worked 20hs a day while traversing the big city in a bike, working during day as data entry,…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 10:22 PM
0

This is why /r/TheRedPill was created, /r/seduction without the politically correctness shit. That also is abused by a lot of mysoginistic fucks, and crazy people, but there are crazies everywhere, if you can filter the absurd and crazy you get some great advices.
/r/seduction09/01/15 07:56 PM
5

Some people, like me, use this as an excuse, "I have no time so I do nothing" but the reality is, that you can use more time and still be productive. The main problem is the rat race that only betas enter. This changes from city to city, the smaller the city, the more time you have, since you win in travel time and lunch time (in smaller cities where you are 5 minutes away from work) I have a couple of friends who work their asses off, like 18 / 20 hours a day, but still manage to live a life mu…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 06:39 PM
1

But culture depends on the location! I would rather discuss culture in TRPOfftopic or the new /r/GEOTRP
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 03:40 PM
1

Great summary, thank you! I don't like the first point about discussing politics/culture, I have several reasons why. /r/TheRedPill is international, and politics are regional, a lot of content will be interesting to a partial amount of us. What if I want to discuss politics/cultural events in Argentina? I can keep posting about it and no one would give 2 cents... Why should we care about politics? We should care about ourselves only, politic discussion should be in /r/DarkEnlightment I see it e…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 11:55 AM
-8

So your point is? I haven't seen science that contradicts RP yet... have you?
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 03:44 PM
1

Have you read "Organized Mind" from Daniel Levitin? there he states that there are two types of minds, that witch considers everything that happens to them as something external, and that witch considers everything as something internal. Thus an external will say "I don't find a good woman because they are all toxic" while an internal will say "There is something I am doing wrong because I keep matching with toxic women". Or Something important to note from the book, those minds cannot change fr…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 03:30 PM
1

Maybe I misread but nowhere in the thread is a talk about roleplaying fantasies, but about morning blowjobs. Of course planning a roleplaying fantasy kills the thrill, you cannot plan a "rape fantasy" for example, it has to happen.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 03:19 PM
1

I don't see it in the top bar, is that in the making?
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 03:13 PM
1

If you only find toxic people you should seriously consider the toxic one is you. The only way to know someone to match you is being in peace with yourself, go to a counselor and improve yourself.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 03:10 PM
2

Because you contributed nothing to the article, what do we learn from this? what should we be discussing here? /r/TheRedPill is not a news aggregator, it's a forum to discuss and learn sexual strategy.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 02:25 PM
1

An example to illustrate, maybe you'll get the point. I once said my girl that I found waist chains to be extremely sexy and that I fantasized about her using one when fucking, we exchanged maybe 2 minutes about it and that was it. Several weeks later she surprised me with a waist chain to fuck her. I didn't repeatedly ask her, I just told her once what I found to my liking, and she complied. This should be the same, state and talk about you liking blowjobs and fantasizing about being waked by o…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 02:09 PM
0

I would go, and if they just use you as a taxi (as in, they just get lost in the concert) go back home alone and let them deal with the return trip themselves.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 01:22 PM
1

I love you, been looking for something like this this for ages.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 03:49 PM
-3

You are confusing terms, Alpha is a mindset, you might be physically very masculine. Also, where in the post you describe how this girl is a good girl? only because she is not murdering someone that does not make her good at all.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 10:37 PM
1

Well, thats why you are here in Red Pill and not PUALand, adapt to your situation.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 06:04 PM
0

Come by my house and let me show you. Then she goes and if she asks where is it you say, i just wanted to see how naive you could be, lets fuck, or whatever you use to get her in bed.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 04:01 PM
5

Both are terrible choices, you are either calling her a slut, or signaling you are putting her in a pedestal and want to secure her fast. A&A should go like "Yeah in the cosmetics before/after ads", dont add anything else like "you are the before" or "you are the after" let her figure it out herself. If she has a nice ass just say "in the reef ads" or something like that. You digged a nice hole here...
/r/askTRP06/01/15 02:56 PM
2

Sure thing dude, let her branch swing, not worth it.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 02:53 PM
1

If she does you win. If she does not she can only submit to using straight talk, in witch case she also loses, because she will have to spell out what her real problem is, thus giving you real power over her. That is why Agree and Amplify is so effective, it effectively cuts all of her exits and gives you a tremendous upper hand.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 02:40 PM
1

If she laughs then you defused her complain, and there is no more blame.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 01:51 PM
3

Hey Brazilian friend, I live in BsAs, so hit me up if you want to go out someday, you might be useful as a wingman to break the ice ;-). I work 9 to 6 but after that, we could hang out. EDIT: Also we could chill out, I have a couple of friends who are doing the BT->RP transition so you would fit pretty well.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 01:32 PM
1

LTR of 1 month? really?
/r/askTRP06/01/15 01:00 PM
1

We differ, but I see your point.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 12:08 PM
3

It's not wrong if she surprises you sometimes, not is bad if she decides to give you a present with no expectations for yourself. But from what you write, she is not surprising you, she is telling you she is going to surprise you, and she also set the expectations so much that you are acting around her, and not the other way around. Maybe she is letting you "show her you are the man" but it seems from what you write that you act according to what she does, and that should never happen if you wan…
/r/askTRP06/01/15 12:07 PM
1

Really? It's everywhere, she is the one defining the expectations of the relationship here, sound like she is in charge. she painted a portrait of me for christmas and makes me little gifts now and then. she texted me that she is working on a great present for me but maybe she is doing something else this time
/r/askTRP06/01/15 02:05 AM
0

Looking up to you is not clingy, I love my girls to be needy in a femenine way, this sounds more like she is setting the frame here, setting expectations about what to do and what not to do. Remember the one defining the expectations in the relationship is the one in power.
/r/askTRP05/01/15 11:23 PM
-2

What I would do: Make plans with friends, don't spend it with her. A little dread goes a long way. You are also sending the implicit message that you didn't like how clingy she became in such a short time. (well I wouldn't like that if it were me) A letter is something that you will want to avoid completely, in fact almost every beta behavior you can think should be avoidable. You should concentrate on your Alpha mindset first, and once she is ogling all over you like the second coming of Christ…
/r/askTRP05/01/15 10:59 PM
2

Shouldn't this be in /r/TRPOffTopic ?
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 07:38 PM
2

As a parent, nope. 90% of the time a baby cries is because of gases.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 07:36 PM
2

There is a entire school of psychoanalysis that states that the therapist must not influence at all the therapee, they are there as a compass for your own journey, not as a guide, they only help you realize everything yourself. EDIT: But i love your idea, if I ever do therapy this is something I will do.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 07:27 PM
1

Take into consideration that the mantra in reality is, if you build it, they will come, and only if you keep maintaining it they will stay...
/r/askTRP05/01/15 06:57 PM
1

How the fuck is saying "I'm not interesting in a relationship right now" to a woman that is leaving her cuckolded husband, hurting? It doesn't take balls or courage to say no to that situation, it takes balls and courage to shut the mouth and take advantage of it, in this case, keep the plate, avoid the drama.
/r/askTRP05/01/15 06:51 PM
1

He is just giving her too much information, after she stabilizes her relationship with her husband (being, divorce, cuckold, whatever) she will want to get back with him, but not after such a repertory of straight talking.
/r/askTRP05/01/15 06:48 PM
2

The less you say the less they know, the less they have to attack you afterwards.
/r/askTRP05/01/15 05:46 PM
2

You are too predictable and she is telling you she does not like that, predictability is a turn off for women. She told you how she is measuring your predictability, use that to change her perception. You are not random enough, you don't need to never text first just considerable less, you also need to sometimes answer immediately and keep talking with her for a while, some other times answer at one but don't keep up, another answer 20 minutes late and talk, another 20 mins late and don't... you…
/r/askTRP05/01/15 05:42 PM
2

Thing is, we as males have a biological imperative that drives us to fuck as many pussies as we can, originally trying to pregg as many as you could before you died at 25 from some disease, or were eaten alive by some sabretooth. In the current era we still have the drive to fuck as many pussies as we can, but we can control the pregg part, and the die-before-christ part. Everything you do is driven by that, denying it and trying to feel "superior" because you think you are denying it is stupid …
/r/askTRP05/01/15 05:24 PM
2

I have friends with severe personality issues (borderline suicida, / depressing) being told "I think you are just fine" by their therapists. Me? I just hit them in the face with RP truth and debate at their intellectual level until we get tired and try again until I win them over. Therapists are happy to tell you whatever you need to keep paying them and make you feel happy.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 04:44 PM
21

Just the regular influx of beta buck faggots still in their anger phase, maybe we should add /r/TRPAngerPhase for them to vent.
/r/askTRP05/01/15 04:40 PM
4

I have a male friend who is a mechanic, he fixes my car for free once ever few years. When he needs a big loan he knows he can ask me no strings attached, and owe me the money for a couple of years, or return it in installments as he can. Another friend has several cabins in the mountains, he invites me to spend time for free there, provided i pay for the "asado". They also provide companionship and enjoyment, but those are ways friends are "useful" to you. Could I send my car to some mechanic i…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 03:56 PM
1

From the sidebar: The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men.
/r/askTRP05/01/15 03:48 PM
1

I was half-unplugged when I arrived here, I never had bad luck with women, but I also lowered my bar just enough to get me a constant stream of pussy. Then I got a kid, a dead bedroom and a bitch as a partner. After a breakup where I can no longer see my kid (yay for feminist lawmakers) I found /r/TheRedPill and everything I already knew clicked into place. Since them, I have been trying to overcome my AA, but I could try a lot of techniques from the Pill and I can tell you they work like magic.…
/r/askTRP05/01/15 12:43 PM
20

You win some, you lose some...
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 11:31 AM
2

Thanks, nice reminder, specially #2, I still haven't managed to read 48LoP, Im reading something else right now. It's high in my priority list tho.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 02:54 PM
2

Nope, dropped the relationship and now I am happier than ever, I get girls to do stuff I only dreamed about, and I changed the way I manage my interactions with them
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 02:51 PM
2

I'm not talking about constant validation, but sometimes I just need another human to listen to me, that is the basic function of counselors and shrinks, but I apply that to friends, they can be my "emotional tampon" when in need. And it also has the benefit that I do get contrasting opinions, it's good to check your idea out there and friends are a good way to do it. Also maybe it's my country but I find that The Red Pill is accepted by almost everyone I tell about. Even my extremely Blue Pill …
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 11:29 PM
0

Check this sub, and cry /r/TumblrInAction/ People really believing they are wolves, dragons.... some guy there was sad because his mother didn't liked when he ate her diamonds, because now he was hungry since he is dragonkin... what.the.fuck.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 09:08 PM
1

It is indeed a good idea, but don't you feel sometimes that you need to account of your actions to someone who can rationalize them? And also confront you, sometimes that helps me too, to see if I am too deep in my ideas and not being realistic enough....
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 08:05 PM
5

The hardest part is blowing off steam. What I have currently in works needs male friends to whom I can tell everything, this helps me not blow up steam in environments where it will be detrimental to my social health. I'm still working on it, but I feel this is the way to go.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 05:22 PM
12

Never comunicate overtly, that will only backfire.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 12:26 PM
1

In short, because your male biological imperative dictates it. You can do with that what you want, but a male that can get pussy as he wishes can free his mind to do what he fucking wants, having placated his main imperative. Of course you can also get addicted to sex and do no shit at all in your life.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 11:55 AM
1

Not Obviously, I did that, but once I lost frame I got a DeadBedroom, and that's why I am here.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 11:24 AM
-13

Opening to dissent will only let BluePillers come here and tell us their worldview, witch we know is a complete charade.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 02:42 AM
1

I completely disagree. I have a BP friend that I am trying to convert, he is slowly coming to terms but i am constantly met with "What you are saying is offensive to me", only after a few weeks of rational discussion i manage to make him see the truth. Being open to dissent will open the floodgates to these kind of dwellers, and this will only hurt everyone in the short-mid and long term. Red Pill is the culmination of over two decades of battle-tested field research by countless souls, nothing …
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 02:39 AM
3

Only after you are involved in a field is when you can see the cracks in the theory.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 02:33 AM
7

If you don't agree then leave. Everything Red Pill contradicts everything you have been taught before.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 02:33 AM
-1

Not what /u/DanAffid said, and the girl stated that the bank did not know, the court should check that fact, if true, she should not be liable, but the bank or clerk that informed her.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/01/15 12:09 AM
3

Argentina
/r/PussyPassDenied31/12/14 10:31 PM
-2

About what? All I see when someone transfer money to my account is the date, the amount and whatever they choose to label it, usual examples are: 31/12/2014 Thanks dude! $###.##
/r/PussyPassDenied31/12/14 10:30 PM
-5

Let's discuss your belief vs the reality.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/12/14 09:03 PM
-4

Not where i live.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/12/14 06:40 PM
36

But the bank told her they didn't know who sent it, as far as she could know it was a gift from someone. The bank should be made responsible for this mess.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/12/14 06:07 PM
1

Excellent post, i think you should cross post it to /r/TheRedPill
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/14 04:37 PM
2

How the hell is that offensive? Being fat takes time and dedication, do you feel it is offensive to say to a guy "you are ripped"? Fat is a conscious choice, not an unavoidable consequence (and as with everything, there are exceptions). So no, no person with 15kg overweight should feel offended if told they are fat, they should feel ashamed.
/r/askTRP26/12/14 03:21 PM
1

How can it not be your imperative? Aren't you male?
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 03:14 PM
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I see a problem here, you talk from your mind, I talk from my experience. I would never fuck a girl in her house, that is tremendously stupid. I never text anything that can incrimintate me, always use double meaning "Hey long time no see, shall we have a drink at 20?" You need to consider that most Bob's will hamster away any leads you can leave, after all, I dont like this Arnold guy, but who am I to stop her seeing old friends, right? Beside my 1:1 experience, I used to work for a turism agen…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 09:50 PM
1

He draws a line over consent, so little girls are a no go, and rape isn't. But you have no business taking care of her relationship, the same you have no business to inform a retailer when he makes a deep discount at a loss. They know their business, not you, don't step over the lines. TD;DR: If she decides its good for her business to fuck you, who are you to state the contrary?
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 09:31 PM
1

But that is what he is saying, he does risk analysis of the situation, preferably that risk increases a lot the closer the cuckolded is to his own social circle, and then he acts accordingly. But the mere fact that a woman is in a relationship is no moral cockblock to him,
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 09:26 PM
1

You mean like you would tell all your social circle how you were cuckolded time and time again? That will work wonders I tell you.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 09:19 PM
2

What the fuck are you talking about? Reread my answer. He did understand me (check his answer) and I am not calling him anything, he is not being cuckolded (that we know). But if someone is, that is because to the woman you are a little piece of shit, worthless human wallet, yadda, yadda, yadda. I know you know we all in TRP agree that woman are binary when coming to lust after you, either you are a god, or a creep. And if you... sorry someone gets cuckolded is because someone is in creep territ…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 09:11 PM
1

I left her in India because she can't handle the East Coast winter. Red Flag, is she a sick person? If not, she should be with you, why would she choose to stay away from you? You need to start reading the sidebar and books and really start planning for a change of course over this relationship, one where you lead not only by social convention, one where you lead by being her rock. You will know when you reach that state by the way she lusts after you, incontrollable lust and awe, like a child t…
/r/askTRP25/12/14 09:02 PM
0

Honour is only good between equals, if a girl is dropping her pants faster than she is saying hello to you, while having another mate, and he has no relationship with you, why should you consider him an equal?
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 08:56 PM
0

This is the core of the argument, is fidelity a code we are forced upon or not? The majority of the TRP cred is that we are animals with little control over that, we have the female and male imperative, if you agree with that then there is no discussion about monogamy, it is certainly a social construction and not something we can naturally mantain. Naturally speaking, it is best for the whole species that your girlfriend cheats on you with a better mate and has his child, while making you take …
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 08:54 PM
0

This is the core of the argument, is fidelity a code we are forced upon or not? The majority of the TRP cred is that we are animals with little control over that, we have the female and male imperative, if you agree with that then there is no discussion about monogamy, it is certainly a social construction and not something we can naturally mantain. Naturally speaking, it is best for the whole species that your girlfriend cheats on you with a better mate and has his child, while making you take …
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 08:54 PM
0

If your personality is so lacking that your girl will just fuck any guy that crosses her path, is your problem to solve. This line of thinking is beta to the max, getting angrier at the symptoms (other guys fucking your girl) instead of the disease (you, you and you, it's all your fault) Quick edit: Notice how nor GLO or OP say anything about fucking girls without consent, your girlfriend is choosing to fuck another man because you are no man for her, you are at best a doormat to be stepped on, …
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 05:09 PM
0

Impregnation is our imperative, spread those genes as far as you can soldier!
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 05:06 PM
2

Is it? Is it a myth from the Patriarchy? Maybe it is a myth from the church, who imposed fidelity as a way to control something?
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 05:05 PM
2

A Venn diagram for uninhibited women will show you that: 1) Sex with your girl while alpha is good. 2) Sex with a non-commited girl can be good, or not, specially if she is not commited to your alpha-ness. 3) Sex with a girl in a relationship is always good. Gosh I am a recovering beta but i was with a couple of girls in commitede relationships and they all wanted me to creampie them, i used to drop them one block away from home, dripping in my cum and almost every time they went to have sex wit…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 05:01 PM
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I believe by "AMORAL" we are talking about lacking a baseline moral agency. You wouldn't fuck a relative/friend's girl because the risk/rewards analysis says you not to. Losing a friend over pussy is not worth it. Losing face ofer pussy either. And before you try to use the "but then pissing a complete stranger that may murder you because you fucked his girl is bad", let me remind you then that the best course of action if you think like that is not leaving your home ever, walking down the stree…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 04:56 PM
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Why would it be tough? Unless you are socially inept you know when something you say is offensive. To OP, please try to make a difference between is and could be taken as, woman have the ability to take almost anything you say and make it offensive, don't fall for that crap. If i ever see a woman i'm dating try to pull that kind of shit on me I would next her right there right then.
/r/askTRP25/12/14 04:37 PM
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Disregarding everyone else's advice, please try to be more specific. Did you really say something that offends? Or did she decide to get offended by a truth? Saying "You are fat, go hit the gym" to a woman who is 30 pounds (15 kilos) over her weight, is not offensive. What is offensive is that she expects you to like her nonetheless her lack of pride in herself and her lack of interest in being sexy for you.
/r/askTRP25/12/14 04:01 PM
1

You don't need to get married to still get castrated
/r/askTRP23/12/14 10:13 PM
1

I like this approach, if she expects someone else to handle communication, then she has no say in how that communication is handled. Otherwise she can handle it herself.
/r/askTRP23/12/14 10:12 PM
0

We are all animals... And there are different kinds of black people
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 09:57 PM
1

This happened to me, only her Aunt was the one calling the cops over my boy, I loaded my car and left far away, there is no way I'm going to jail for nothing. Now I cannot see my kid because she doesn't wan't me to, and a trial will take at least 5 years, so there you have.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 06:26 PM
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If he made a bet like that i'ts most probably she gave him enough hints to signal he could do that kind of bet with you. Certainly no LTR material
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 01:46 PM
0

No context, downvote.
/r/MensRights17/12/14 03:39 PM
3

You are wrong at many fundamental levels, let's see if I can make sense while avoiding to write a wall of text. A slut will become a nun if you are not her man. A nun will become a slut if you are her man. AWALT, hypergamy for all. Sluts are women that cannot control hypergamy at all, it's a ticking bomb for any relationship, that means it might not even matter if you are man enough, she might get bored anyway. Nuns can control their hypergamy, if you control your manliness you control her. Wome…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 06:18 PM
0

You are talking shit. It's RedPill canon that any woman gets all tingly over their Alpha, I can personally confirm this after being a fucking AFC for most of my life. The problem is taking girls and not being man enough. And keeping being that man enough for all your life. That is the sad true of the matrix.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 03:34 PM
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Concur, i've changed my Tinder profile using the same pictures from a "nice guy" to a DB, and started closing the numbers as fast as i could, best i could do is four sentences, including my hallmark ";)" first line
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 03:30 PM
2

Agreed, we are discussing something else in this particular comment thread. 115lbs is thin enough i think, but then again, maybe she was 90lbs before or something
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 11:22 PM
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Most girls use Tinder and other online dating apps just to validate their egos, adding lots of guys that give them attention. That is why meeting a girl off a dating app is a red flag, you might get some good out of it but...
/r/askTRP15/12/14 07:19 PM
2

Also weight, so if she is gaining weight or not losing it, she is eating like a wild boar to counter the natural weight loss she should have by breastfeeding.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 03:36 PM
1

You are talking shit. I know many woman who had children and kept fit, pregnancy is no excuse to let go. It is considered normal to add 1kg per month during pregnancy, 6 of with should go when the child is born (4k for the kid, 2 for the placenta, etc). So any woman after birth should be at most 3/4kgs over her initial state. Saying that, my ex added 9kgs just in the first 3 months of pregnancy, adding to 15kgs overweight after birth. So this is not unfair at all, she should be able to shape up …
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 03:35 PM
1

Gray law zone, they are expected to defend by not hitting, just disabling the other part.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/12/14 06:31 PM
1

I don't know in the US, but here in Argentina people doing Martial Arts, Boxing or anything similar are banned from fighting, because it is considered they have a complete upper hand. Professionals get banned, and amateurs can get jail time.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/12/14 03:10 PM
1

You can always make them fail and hit themselves
/r/PussyPassDenied14/12/14 03:09 PM
2

By actually paying attention, what the hell are you going to do on the field when something unexpected happens? ask? no, you learn by yourself.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 10:46 PM
-1

What the hell is this answer? Go back to TwoX you... you...
/r/askTRP07/12/14 02:31 PM
2

Sorry dude, she is already bailing out. You should avoid drama and dump her.
/r/askTRP04/12/14 06:58 PM
2

Well I found one, jackpot i guess, but i am taking my time, I am very afraid she might be a ticking bomb, even tough she didn't show any signs yet. Is she worthy? Well she wants to be a FO, and agrees with almost every RP truth I know. The trick is never fully rendering your powers to anyone.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 01:41 PM
-2

I like your answer, maybe not what the OP wanted, but many guys here will probably understand what you imply, and this comment might shed some light to them brains.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 06:08 PM
1

Or an extremely shy girl witch just now is getting out of her shell...
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 06:04 PM
1

This. ♂
/r/askTRP01/12/14 11:16 PM
2

I don't know why the hell do people try to convince you to keep her. You want to dump her? Just. Do. It. There is never a good time to dump someone you are involved. Keeping her around demotivates you, wastes your time, brain. She will cry, she will yell, she will forget about it next weekend while she is being pounded by another guy.
/r/askTRP01/12/14 10:59 PM
1

This sounds very non-direct.
/r/askTRP01/12/14 10:56 PM
-13

Master? after 7 months? OK.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/14 04:48 PM
1

Those questions should be for /r/AskTRP Game related discussion is different from a newbie question I believe.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 02:13 PM
0

Completely unrelated but, can we remove "Blue pill example", "Off topic", "All topics", "Ask TRP", "Mens Rights", "Rant venting"? I think we might be better with "RP theory", "Behaviour example", "Field report", "LTR" and "Meta". I see a lot of posts that contribute nothing and most are related to those flairs.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 02:12 PM
7

It gets bored seeing all these masturbatory posts, he didn't even read the comments and then comes to this subgroup to pollute it.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 01:12 PM
20

So according to your username, you are a filthy bird, hence, not a woman.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/11/14 04:20 PM
1

As many said, sex wasn't really special, I tried in my mind to frame the moment as something special but I could not. The real thrill was in the chase, to the moment before clothes fly, after that, just regular-life-chain-of-events. Afterwards, some proud
/r/askTRP22/11/14 04:29 PM
3

My point of view is that you can tell a girl "I want more sex..." by stating desire before you both fuck for the first time. For example if you ever talk about your wishes and stuff with her, you can say you are pretty spirited about sex and that you just don't tolerate low libido women...
/r/askTRP22/11/14 03:23 PM
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You can check "The sex god method", any girl whom you are making fly with orgasms will gladly suck your dick. Saying it plainly is good, here are some ideas. [While still not hard enough] "suck me so i can pound you" "You know what i would love right now? A Blowjob" As usual, if she says no, de-escalate the sexual innuendo, punish her for not complying, and reward her when she does. This means don't give her such a great night when she refuses, go the extra mile when she does not. For specially …
/r/askTRP21/11/14 01:32 AM
7

Because now SJW have taken over Red Pill :D
/r/askTRP21/11/14 01:23 AM
2

The answer is never. She already lost respect for you and knows your flaws. You might want to plate her if you dare, but I would not recommend it if you are just starting with this stuff... you might most probably return to your old self before you can improve your new self.
/r/askTRP19/11/14 05:34 PM
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Another run-of-the mill blue pill article, you have no insights on her, it's just an article, go post some experience from a friend instead. This is pure garbage.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 05:11 PM
-2

This is /r/TheRedPill so please post stuff in line with it. If you don't want Redpill24/7 then please use your internet connection to go to another, more relevant site.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 05:10 PM
-6

This, a thousand times this.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 02:50 PM
-6

So how the fuck does this "article" provides some insights for the Red Pill? Go post this in /r/trpofftopic
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 02:43 PM
0

Please put this in mra and avoid polluting TRP
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 11:14 AM
1

I came here to say the same, took the words out of my fingers brother! I am in the second camp, i have been lurking /r/seduction for 6+ years, had some success with girls but with TRP i now have the framework to build my success.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 06:14 PM
0

What the fuck are you blabbering about? Of course he wants the woman to put him on a pedestal, that´s the idea, to be "worshipped" by your woman because you are so valuable to her life.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 06:10 PM
2

Excellent post, you should submit it! ♂
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 03:18 PM
-4

This is not /r/mensrights, please go post this there and not here.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 12:50 PM
-4

What is this post even? Is this a Field Report? Please put your toughts and analysis into it. Is this a RPExample? Where? Why? And why the hell do we as a community put 350 votes into this piece of shit of a post?
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 11:59 AM
1

Why the hell did anyone upvote this? the first post by pontfix contains the minimun ammount of information we should require for anyone to post a link like this.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 06:08 PM
2

We should ban them all! :-P no, seriously.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 01:06 PM
1

Maybe endorseds or Red Pillers with more flairs?
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 02:18 PM
2

We are not a support group? I take /r/TheRedPill and its satellite subs as my kind-of-No-More-Mr-Nice-Guy support group. Learning from examples, both good and bad. But i agree we are seeing too much of "Look what a woman did and no one did anything to her", that's US bullshit and many of us are not in the US.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 02:17 PM
1

I just talk about what i know, i know almost no one from africa or asia, so...
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 12:32 PM
2

Bullshit, this is happening in europe and south america too.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 11:31 PM
1

What is right for you. You mean. Also unless he has some proof, she of innocent. He might be confusing signals for all we know.
/r/askTRP05/11/14 09:41 AM
0

That's not a white knight. You are confusing terms. Please go read some of the books. Statistically there are more chances of him being blamed. It's not worth the effort. And he is certainly no alpha if his woman is looking for an upgrade just next door.
/r/askTRP05/11/14 09:38 AM
2

Have your even read TRP? He will probably blame him.
/r/askTRP04/11/14 09:13 PM
8

Fuck her in a motel, not your house or hers.
/r/askTRP04/11/14 09:12 PM
8

I've also read, and somewhat agree, that the shit-tester is supposed to resist the change, to verify that your frame is indeed a real one and not a fake one.
/r/askTRP03/11/14 07:31 PM
-1

Vegetarian is a male that caved in to feminist ideals.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 09:44 PM
7

You are all missing the real meat: "women would rather her ideal man enjoy watching sport at the pub than watch soap operas and reality TV shows with them." "two thirds of women would rather Mr Perfect admitted it when he is eyeing up other girls, rather than trying to cover it up."
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 09:42 PM
2

Whoa, my Mr. Nice Guy Meter went off the roof with this one. Never do anything you loathe just for the sake of being with your LTR partner. It will make you miserable in the mid-term. It will make her miserable in the mid-term. Go read No More Mr. Nice Guy.
/r/askTRP31/10/14 06:01 PM
1

But then its not the same as socializing but being around people that love you
/r/seduction31/10/14 05:46 PM
1

Did you even read the sidebar? there is a whole subreddit dedicated to that.
/r/askTRP31/10/14 12:15 PM
1

Im by my fourth book myself, still a long way to go. But each one was an enlightment read. Try to get a buddy to walk along yourself, someone to challenge your assumptions and learnings, and someone to go test it out too.
/r/askTRP30/10/14 03:26 PM
2

And read the 50 or so required books. You are in for a life-ride, not a carnival distraction!
/r/askTRP30/10/14 03:01 PM
3

Older
/r/askTRP30/10/14 03:00 PM
7

This is not something you don't like this is lack of respect for you.
/r/askTRP30/10/14 02:22 PM
-3

Stop confronting in a passive agressive way. He means you shouldn't be in a monogamous relationship in general because it is bad. But also in particular with a girl that does that to you. Also you are to
/r/askTRP30/10/14 02:21 PM
4

The other day in a pub i was with a plate full of french fries, looking for my group when some chick in a table started screaming she wanted fries. She was sitting with a guy in that table. She opens her mouth wide open, stretches her neck upwards towards me, and sticks her tongue out, waiting for me to put a fry in her mouth. Me: "Want one? kiss me" She: "Cheek" Me: (leaning) "Mouth" She then proceeds to steal one fry from my plate, so i confront her, and she ended up kissing me in the cheek. W…
/r/askTRP30/10/14 02:14 PM
1

If you know your priorities then why are you even asking? ;-) Being a teacher means an income is possible, and you also need to study for it, so this fits on priority number 1. And 2, since it helps with training and self-improvement. win-win if you ask me.
/r/askTRP29/10/14 05:15 PM
1

Every path takes years to master. Transforming from a beta male to an alpha male takes time, years at minimum. /u/sgwest gave you lots of good tips, but you should also start the path of enlightment and read the recommended books for red pill, "No More Mr. Nice Guy" is a good start. You have us as your support group. Have strength.
/r/askTRP29/10/14 03:07 PM
1

Don't we agree about fake it till you make it? I did a couple of weeks of Power Poses consciously and now my body adapted, this week I noticed myself doing them unconsciously. This should be the same.
/r/askTRP29/10/14 02:58 PM
2

I deactivate notification for the apps i use to pick up, hence only when I have time and open them, i get notified.
/r/askTRP29/10/14 02:54 PM
2

Can you suspend your studies for a year or so? Then go for it. Have you just started your studies? Then go for it. Are you finishing your studies with 6/10 months to go? Then don't go for it.
/r/askTRP29/10/14 02:52 PM
9

But why not even try with women? I understand closing upon themselves when in a very agressive environment. But today's tech can make you interact (and date) girls using it (Tinder / Wechat, Badoo, etc)
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 02:25 PM
20

Does anyone have more information about what the hell happened Japan to generate these men?
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 01:22 PM
1

So this is not about girls, but males. You need to see who the alpha male is and acknowledge him. Raise your alpha-ness and once you have him under you he will follow, as will the others. You have a long way to travel, we are talking years here.
/r/askTRP29/10/14 12:16 PM
9

Agreed, i did the same thing with my tinder profile and the first girl that did that and i apologized blocked me. The next ones i just went on the offensive and they sticked around. Didn't get a date though. But i wasn't feeling that so i didn't even try.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 07:31 PM
4

The conversation around it got interesting.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 07:29 PM
1

It's her frame from her point of view. Just be careful.
/r/trpGAME28/10/14 01:42 AM
-6

You could try to message her just to know how she is doing, keep it short, less than 4 lines from you, and let it dry for a few days. I do the following: Me-"Hey" Her-"hello" M: "Enjoying the day / Just finishing exercising / Hanging out with friends" H: "Bla bla bla" M: "So you enjoying yourself?" H: "Yeah" Every 4/5 days...
/r/trpGAME28/10/14 01:38 AM
15

So every TIL that links to a study must provide sample size, and percentile differences in the title?
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 07:01 PM
14

You mean like: "Hello, do you have the time?" "Yeah, it's..." "Suck my dick, now"
/r/askTRP27/10/14 06:46 PM
1

Thanks for /redpill_couples, didn't know that sub
/r/askTRP27/10/14 05:54 PM
3

Excellent reply. Women and Love are ways to achieve happiness, they are not complete ways, since having a fullfiling life is so much more than women and love. You can love your kids, you can love your friends, your parents, your nieces, your brothers and sisters. You can love your work, your hobbies, your life. And if loving that mostly needs that you love that, and does not depend on the highs and downs of a person who is genetically ready for mental illness, so much the better.
/r/askTRP27/10/14 05:52 PM
2

I am personally a little bit more flexible, one hour shift i can do (if not busy, of course), but maybe i'll use that to shorten the date a little bit. But since you went full thermonuclear you can just answer that, she now has three choices, make the effort and meet you at 1, drop you altogether, or text you "hi" in a couple of days when she thinks of you.
/r/askTRP26/10/14 05:05 PM
2

Yeah, and then nothing, if she doesn't answer, don't talk to her and take her as a flake. If she says yes don't drag the conversation, not at the moment, not after.
/r/askTRP26/10/14 04:00 PM
1

Maybe we are talking about different things, in an LTR you need to be able to switch a little bit, or you alienate her. No amount of alpha fucking will keep her around for years. For plates, your method is the best.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 02:55 PM
1

Why are we helping him? Not sure I understand how the scarcity mindset applies (just read up on it quickly) Go read first, then ask!
/r/askTRP26/10/14 02:36 PM
-5

But her body is only satisfied when you are alpha enough in some days of the month, and beta enough in others, that's the tricky part.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 02:29 PM
3

Agreed, don't tell her anything, just let the relationship die.
/r/askTRP26/10/14 02:23 PM
2

If she ask to reschedule, do it, she might be sincerely busy. You are clearly not her priority, but her wanting to reschedule indicates interest. I would reschedule tuesday if you can, but dont chat anymore until she talks to you, or until you tell her you are there.
/r/askTRP26/10/14 02:21 PM
2

No one says you should not smile at all, just don't smile so much (the right level there is for each one to find)
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 06:35 PM
2

Not during fighting, during the staging, smiling is submissive and people unconsciously understand that, there you have the proof, now go play to the park, or read some of the RP books, seems like you haven't even read the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 03:57 PM
1

Go to askrp for this kind of questions.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 03:50 PM
14

They both have sex with people outside of the marriage, they both know about each other too.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 03:30 PM
5

Here you have, now read. "Smiling fighters [at the staged face-off] are more likely to lose [the match]" http://digest.bps.org.uk/2013/03/smiling-fighters-more-likely-to-lose.html
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 03:28 PM
1

But you choose to wear a condom, I understand you do not choose to be gay. Moral or not, its a biological self-sabotage.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 03:23 PM
10

That is the consecuence of being an alpha, not a trait. Jeez.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 08:09 PM
1

But homosexuality is a self-sabotage of the species. We are talking full on gay mode, males who like to get things done to them but also like woman get a pass.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 06:15 PM
2

Great now get ripped, seeing the change in posture, musculature and looks from girls that come with doing that is emotionally rewarding. Don't expect to do it in just 6 months though. Be constant, do something every day and you will see changes fast, but not the end result.
/r/becomeaman23/10/14 05:28 PM
1

He means ugly girl with great personality, a 6 can become a 7 or more if you like her emotionally. Like they say, people in love see no blemishes.
/r/askTRP23/10/14 05:27 PM
3

Lift, get ripped, yadda yadda yadda. Lifting elevates your tetosterone, makes you hotter and stronger. It also changes a lot of chems in your brain, and getting ripped will mean a change in a diet, meaning a raise in your self-control. "You're a creepy piece of shit" -> you are trying too hard "You're just annoying her" -> white knight, if your SMV is high enough she will want you to annoy her. (try answering, "well let her say it") "She doesn't want to talk to you" -> (same as before) "You can'…
/r/becomeaman23/10/14 03:26 PM
6

You are interpreting it wrong. You make it clear you are attracted to the girl, and by make it clear I say do not tell her that (not in many cases, at least, maybe in a pub this might be a good approach), just lust her with your eyes, kino escalate her, hit on her friends, or tease her right. Then show her that even if you find her likeable, you will not go out of your way for her, nor will you try to win her over. Then they get crazy tingles for you.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 03:11 PM
2

The difference with his therory is that he believes that woman want you to become an alpha, not just be one.
/r/askTRP22/10/14 08:36 PM
4

Lift, you don't need to hit the gym, just do the 6 week plan, and the 7 minute workout. You can search in your phone store for the 6 week plan, usually they are: 100 pushups 200 squats 200 sit ups 150 dips 50 pull ups To start with you don't need more. This way you will feel stronger, fitter, better, T levels will increase and yadda-yadda-yadda, read the sidebar and also the recommended books.
/r/askTRP21/10/14 11:05 PM
2

TRP has no affiliation with morals.
/r/askTRP21/10/14 12:45 PM
20

Whoa, dense as plutonium are we? I have a friend just like you, that phrase means "i do not acknowledge any of my mistakes, but i will tell you "yes" just so you stop making me feel broken"
/r/askTRP20/10/14 12:16 AM
-1

Do you even read the article? Gosh, and we all here are trying to stop procastinating... :D
/r/TheRedPill18/10/14 03:26 PM
6

You summarized it very well, comrade.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/14 03:24 PM
1

The magic is in the word feel. Stating a girl is hot does not make you, in her eyes, able to pick her up with little effort. A group of girls next table taking pictures of themselves that ask you to take them a picture? Neither. But when you return them their camera and they decide to take a picture of you to remember "their photographer hero", that is dread game. And you never uttered a single word about you being able to pick up women. As the saying goes if you have to state it, you lost
/r/askTRP18/10/14 12:37 AM
1

In the book "The Organized Mind" the author briefly discusses that there are two types of minds (and hence, persons), those who externalize and those who internalize. He claims that no matter what happens to them, they will not change from external to internal, or vice-versa. The externalizer believes everything that happens to him is external to his actions, the typical "I got lucky / I got screwed" guy. The internalizer is convinced he is at fault for what happens to him, the typical "I worked…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 07:23 PM
0

Integral part of that is that by becoming a better man, you get more sexual perks from the other side of the fence. Many guys come here looking for a recipe for success, all the while saying they do not want to put any effort to improve themselves. To that, i say, go away.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 06:51 PM
2

Exactly, go have kids and then live a miserable life while being cuckolded by your partner and while you become celibate.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 12:11 AM
1

I meant get out of the forum and seek help somewhere else. Red pill strategy involves a "get better until it is effortless" approach. So there are no shortcuts.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 11:19 AM
1

If you just want to get laid then get out. :D
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 11:44 PM
5

Why are we even answering this troll? Can anyone remove this crap?
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 11:09 PM
1

I would try to tell her she is pretty TO ME, that way she cannot use that validation for others but only in the context of knowing me. "You are pretty" is generic, she is pretty for everyone "I think you are hot" is attached to me, i can like her, but that does not mean she is liked by someone else.
/r/askTRP09/10/14 03:48 PM
2

Well only the mother can create a psychotic son/daughter, this from the mouth of my mother who is an experienced psychologist and teacher of special needs students for over 50 years (now retired). As far as she know (we are talking years upon years of cases) no father had to do with his son being psychotic.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 03:44 PM
2

The idea is to reciprocate elevating her argument to something ridiculous, giving her what she wants, but in a way that she cannot take seriously, this disarms her, since the only solution possible is to go from PowerTalk to StraightTalk. An example: Her: "Where have you been?" - This is PowerTalk for "Have you been cheating?" You: "I come from a love hotel, had sex with my lover" - This is PowerTalk for "none of your business, but i see your fears" She got the answer she wanted (yes i have been…
/r/askTRP09/10/14 02:04 PM
1

You can't lead by example if he believes what you do is "offensive", and even less if he still gets laid, only with lower SMV girls (that he hamsterizes are what he likes). Thanks for the support by the way!!
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 10:58 PM
1

The problem is that RP goes again the very nature of some people, and many of them like to believe that RP is the answer to all their problems... but they still haven't swallowed the pill at all. It's hard to explain but I have a close friend who i am coaching and he is challenging me all the time for every step, and he didn't read the sidebar, nor any of the books, so he gets easily confused about the terms we use, he twists them so they conform to his blue pill reality, and so he goes doing so…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 10:13 PM
1

I like that idea, but I am coaching a friend who is the epitomy of Blue pillness, he, like many newbies, insists on doing only a few of the RP mandates, believing that not doing what he thinks is not correct (in his still-blue-pill world-view) is enough. So I have to be there constantly correcting him at many steps. Now I am no Red Pill veteran at all, but I have been on seddit for more than 6 years and I have been learning everything in there. The only thing new for me in RP is the theoretical …
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 10:04 PM
2

You have the link somewhere? If not... what would reactive mean? (in this context)
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 10:16 PM
1

Who is going to teach the newbies? I believe this might end in a pure newbie circlejerk where none of them learn anything useful and end up distorting the original theory.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 09:17 PM
1

I see TRP as mostly the theoretical framework over witch to use PUA and game strategies. It helps you explain failures and successes...
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 06:21 PM
1

He just did.... how dense can you be?
/r/askTRP04/10/14 08:21 PM
1

Tell her "you look normal enough so far, no crazies yet, but you could always be a crazy one, i'll hold my comments for when we get to know more"
/r/askTRP04/10/14 07:49 PM
1

And you don't know how to extrapolate.
/r/askTRP04/10/14 11:19 AM
1

Then why this is happening everywhere?
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 11:18 AM
0

So... wars in the conventional sense are necessary for our evolutionary stability? Thousands of males dying in a war diminishes the ammount of males and cancels out everything this article states.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 02:07 AM
1

If you have a smartphone check the 6 weeks plans, like 100 push ups in 100 weeks, or 250 dips in 6 weeks, or sit-ups, pull-ups, squats, etc. They automatically create a daily plan for you to follow, if you can't finish the plan that day, retry next day, or the same day... I'ts probably not the best option but it beats doing nothing ;)
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 01:41 AM
1

These scientists (and probably more): http://www.francisflynn.com/papers/What_Have_You_Done_for_Me_Lately.pdf The word i was looking for is "serviceable" (maybe)
/r/askTRP02/10/14 10:29 AM
2

Would you want to be with someone who leaves you because you use some cloth item she doesn't like? Me neither.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 11:46 PM
-2

Go to a psycologist or sort your life. Who the hell is voting this up?
/r/askTRP01/10/14 02:16 PM
1

Reality check: Behavioral scientists discovered that making people small favours actually lowers their perception of you. They don't feel like they owe you something, but rather that you are serviciable to them.
/r/askTRP01/10/14 02:10 PM
1

Love this, i'm gonna try it.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 12:17 PM
3

This video is gold: http://9gag.tv/p/a5X1bw/ocktv-what-happens-when-a-woman-abuses-a-man-will-shock-you-domestic-violence?ref=hl
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 05:05 PM
6

I enjoy fingering girls, specially arouse them until she ask me to please stop because cumming so much starts to hurt, then y ram while she is still so sensitive.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 07:47 PM
1

Just to know, what was the average of girls you got before?
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 07:24 PM
1

Allright! This might be a gold mine :)
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 07:23 PM
1

Es la app de tinder para Windows Phone. No hay versión oficial, esta es la no oficial. Misma red, misma gente. Usa la api de tinder para funcionar.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 01:57 PM
12

Tinder does not have an official app for Windows Phone... so the unofficial one is called timber
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 12:39 AM
3

Give it some time, no online experiment (specially on Tinder) should be considered a failure until you spent two weeks. It helps to get on the app ever 3/4 hours, the app seems to favour active people.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 12:03 AM
5

Not in this country (not the US), feminism is not that strong here so most girls are looking to hookup for real. But then again, maybe my beta lenses are distorting reality for me again :)
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 12:02 AM
4

Yeah, but in any case what i wanted to test is if a simple text change could modify anything... and i find most of them (90%) like me before I do... that was also striking... I'll add it to the text.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 08:20 PM
2

If any mod can change the title to "Let's" thank you! and maybe also add (Online game) too! Thank you!
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 08:14 PM
1

What i understand is that they cannot explain the result using a neutral model, we should see what the neutral model is but i think it would mean that every woman got pregnant by a different man. So if his model is true then that could be an explanation...
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 03:22 PM
2

I think that is because monogamy is a dichotomy for men. We are not build for a life-long monogamous relationship. We are build to get a woman pregnant, and keep around her and our offspring until he can provide for himself (usually at age of 10), we can do this simultaneously with more than one woman. So anything saying that the solution is to go back to our natural ways, we take it with a more receptive outlook. Just my 2c.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 08:08 PM
49

Because you intuitively know some things, but you just cannot connect the dots, Red Pill gives you the thread to join everything together. It gives the explanation we need to confirm our bias. Do we use pull push? Yes, but most do not understand why, or how to improve it. Etc. etc.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 04:27 PM
7

Observation is not proof. I can go to a sunflower field and say, "flowers are getting yellower, don't you see how many of them are yellow?"
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 12:55 AM
2

After sex reinforces good behaviour, indirectly associates sex with a reward, kind of like the sugar cube and horses. Good strategy 'mate!
/r/seduction19/09/14 09:14 PM
5

Not OP here, but i want to chime in. I'm not good looking but i have some good pictures, on brazilian beach, on the mountains, smelling some exotic flower in my hand, sitting in a rock in a black sand beach looking pensative... and i can count a hundred or more matches. I also have a friend who is similar in looks to me, but doesn't have any of that pictures and had 2 matches so far.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 07:24 PM
2

If you open too much they end up losing interest too. Check /dedbeadrooms for more insight on this.
/r/seduction19/09/14 06:42 PM
3

Great FR!
/r/seduction17/09/14 09:21 PM
1

So why give a fuck and comment then?
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 08:45 PM
1

You know i've been doing this lately unconsciously, and crazy thing is... it might be working, sex is wilder every day and she is more fascinated to me than ever, month after month... This never happened before, if i didn't say "i love you" more often i would get screamed at by the hamster in them... And i would feel the initial outburst to fade progressively month by month...
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 03:00 PM
4

It's not that extreme, at least not in my country, in fact the girl i'm dating right now believes strongly that the woman has to cook, clean and keep the house for the man, also she is a doctor so she works too, any help i can give her is appreciated but not expected. But i dated girls like that, and the principles of TRP apply, if you emasculate yourself too much, the woman will gradually lose respect for you and will betafy you, leading to a dead bedroom and a lot of relationship issues. So fr…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 02:55 PM
8

I'm in the same boat, a couple of LTRs, some casual dating, and i had most of this figured out by myself, only not stringed together, i saw roads, i saw buildings, but now i see the city and the details i was missing, and now i know why two street cross, and where each building is.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 02:36 PM
5

Lol, never go full retard :D
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 08:45 PM
2

Can you elaborate a little more about this "I love you" during sex? I'm intrigued.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 07:51 PM
1

Interesting idea, did you encounter any deviations from the norm by changing your attitude?
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 04:31 PM
-3

Singing to the choir, this is a gigantic circlejerk, adds nothing to the conversation at all. Or also. Dick or GTFO.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 02:17 AM
5

Old history now, but you imply that all of that is not even possible in the frame of a novel, and i can tell you first hand it does happen.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 10:23 PM
2

It's the same as when you start fucking with a beautiful girl, it's all nice but after a couple of months just her beautiful ass is not enough to get you off, you need experiences together and some imagination. That is not related to your argument that was that by watching porn you learn to enjoy a girl having sex with another man...
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 10:21 PM
3

This ain't no field report
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 09:48 PM
-6

In call bullshit on your first half of your comment
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 09:39 PM
-10

What the hell is this? Sorry but this isn't the place for this keyboard knight to shine.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 09:36 PM
7

I live in south America and this happened to me. Not anymore but its a real scene. Maybe you never had the nice guy frame so you never got into that situation. Lucky guy.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 09:28 PM
11

I would say TRP is seduction without the fat, or without the policitally correctness ways. And a lot more, seduction is included into the TRP group, but TRP is bigger than that.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 02:09 PM
1

Photos are everything for Tinder. A friend and I both got into it, we are both average looking. I have pictures at the caribbean, hiking the mountains, going places. He has pictures in a concert and drinking in a bar. Guess who gets all the matches?
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 01:59 PM
1

It's both ways, so that compensates, anything that you both benefit from is not something that adds up for a relationship.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 04:12 PM
3

Agree, but the force is strong, we are conditioned to do it. Reminds me of a FRIENDS episode where Ross is talking whith Phoebe, he stands up and the following happens: Ross: "I'm going to the bathroom" Phoebe: "You were in a relationship until now, am i right?" R: "Wha-How did you know?!?" P: "Because you just explained what you were going to do, don't do that" Or something like that is what i remember...
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 07:18 PM
1

Bullshit, i've known girls that never masturbate and i've known girls that touch themselves daily ever since the age of 12.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 07:10 PM
3

I just threw this phrase to a friend of mine a couple of months ago (before discovering RP), and it is completely true.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 03:58 PM
3

What? I'm dating a girl that can easily make me dry up in a night, she stays wet through the day and me, i am depleted for one or two days, she certainly would love to have sex more often but i have a reservioir that needs to fill up first... Horny girls are rare but real guys, i've met a couple in my life. The rare thing is a horny girl that is not a slut...
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 02:47 PM
1

I know a couple of individuals (both girl and boys) that are bitter about their past, they are bitter at the people that did things to them, bitter at the objectives they could not complete... etc. Those people get zero traction with the opposite sex, oh, they might date people, but they never "click" with anyone. Any attitude they see on their dates that an ex did, means for them that they are just like the ex, no benefit of doubt at all. Don't be bitter.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 02:21 AM
1

I tought the implication of your comment was more like, dont choose pearls over swine, and turns out it was nothing like that. Thank you for the clarification.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 02:09 AM
1

And in this FR that means? I'm learning so please clarify this to me. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 11:13 PM
2

Well when i was telling her about hamstering, she asked for an example and i used her own... she kept looking at me amazed at her own rationalization attemps, and agreed, she then dropped me the "you should have not transfer the burden of choice to me, you wanted it so you should have taken the choice". I saw potential there for someone to help me improve to a better level. I agree this not being this girl i wouldn't have spilled the secret. But then again, i am still heavily influenced by my ol…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 10:24 PM
1

Thanks for sharing!!! Something similar happened with the girl i am dating. In my case was asking her while inside a sexshop if we should buy some toys, i've got the same answer you did, "Lets wait till next month and then we will see". TL;DR, week after that i bought the stuff i wanted and yesterday we used it, she was thrilled by that and fully enjoyed them. Just do the stuff you want with ther, no questions, no validation for what that, if she feels really uncomfortable she will tell you. Jus…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/14 08:16 PM
0

Yeah, but i want her to become a RPW, as i said she seems to agree with the RP status-quo, how would you thread it then?
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 08:07 PM
1

Why you say that? She tends to have a busy schedule and i tend to occupy most of her free time, also the look in her face every time she sees me is like "i want to eat you alive im so horny for you", i've never seen a gilr look at me like that, with such fascination, respect and hornyness
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 08:06 PM
1

Yeah, the 100 pushup plan is by the third week and im pretty built, my muscles remember my old muscly early 20's self :)
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 08:04 PM
1

She clearly stated that she does not want a threesome, but nonetheless she showed me some alfa sharing traits, and thinking back she admits that if we were not in a LTR she might had accepted an open relationship.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 08:02 PM
3

Male here, she always offers to split the bill, i tend to pay dinner, then she pays the hotel, or lunch, and the drinks in the bar before the hotel... Typical interaction: Waiter: That would be $$$. She: Let me pay half at least! Me: No, i'll pay this one. She: But... i want to share... Me: Allright, you pay the drinks, Ok? So i end up paying ~10-25% more than her on a given night but this arrangement is good, lets her pay, lets me not feel ripped, allows me to be a gentleman by offering to pay …
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/14 07:55 PM
3

Whoa, i would never have tought of proceeding like that, but you are right, you sure have a short lash on your GF...
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 10:21 PM
2

It's a risk i'm willing to take, i want a kid before i hit 36 (33 right now) so i'd rather test the waters now than lose her to my still strong beta ways.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 10:13 PM
8

Whoa, can't imagine being there, soulcrushing if you were courting any of them...
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 10:11 PM
2

That would be my last two LTRs...
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 10:08 PM
2

I'm starting! Right now doing the 100 pushup plan, and i might start going to a gym, its hard because i hate gyms, but its something i want to do.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 10:07 PM
1

Not right now, we plan on going some swinger bar or something and that will be the time.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 10:06 PM
0

That might be true, but then again i want to explore RP with her and having a real woman confirming stuff afterhand is great for beginner me :)
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 10:05 PM
2

We clicked hard, and i hadn't swallowed the pill when we started dating more seriously.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 10:04 PM
3

She wants to be led, she clearly tells me she does want me to choose for her, she might be a red pill woman so i took the chance to see her reaction, that would be the dream :) Edit: Lead for led ;)
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 10:03 PM
81

You need help from friends, remove women from the pill equation, become interesting to other males, let them take you into their herd, they will aid you, support you and push you further than any woman could. I am doing this with a BP "Nice Guy" friend of mine, he would get literally offended every time i told him how i asked a girl out ("lets meet saturday to see a play, 21:30 ok?") instead of his "nice guyness" way ("are you free on saturday? no? would you like to go out with me? where would y…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 08:58 PM
1

You are right, it is something i am learning to change, she acknowledges that she wishes to be leaded so i am using this experience to learn, and having her to reflect and confirm some situations is great, she even showed alpha-sharing intentions (subconciously) and i used that chance to know a little more about the tought process that lead to her admitting that. As any newbie, RP sounds too-good-to-be-true(tm), but i do believe, and this is a great way to reinforce my beliefs.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 06:50 PM
1

Completely agree!, In fact i never said i was sorry, i just stated that i saw i did wrong by giving her choice and that i understood this was my responsability so i was going to follow through with it
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 06:44 PM
1

I completely agree, i just told her because i messed up so my thinking goes that i have to admit i was wrong and also lay the inmediate plans for how i will fix my mistake. Since you have more experience, you think i should have just bought the toys and bring them up just like that after this? Without a word? Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 04:42 PM
1

I hunged around Seddit for a long time, but my last LTR ended up in a dead bedroom, finding ways to counter this the next time got me into RP. I'll rewrite the beginning to clear up how new i am to this.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 04:34 PM
1

That's right, i shit-tested myself, i showed weakness and yep, i'm learning as i go. I think i could save some face by coming clean and aknowledging i made a mistake.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 04:31 PM
2

Whoa dude, i've cut the cord after 3 years but i can totally see some of these reactions in my old relationship.... Tell us how it went!
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/14 05:16 PM
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