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Totally agree. I am a huge fan of Brothers Grimm's fairy tales, since you mentioned Disney. The evil women they describe are just as horrible as the evil men, so that's part of why Disney stuck with it, I suppose. I genuinely dislike the mental gymnastics around it in everyday life. A woman is bad: the patriarchy taught her to behave like that. Patriarchy = evil, men made the patriarchy, hence men = evil, women = victims. Worst of it is how don't they realize how insulting that is to women thems…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/10/23 06:41 AM
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The two problems you have listed are why I don't assosciate with the term or people who staunchly defend it. Also the disgusting infantilization of women when it comes to taking responsibility for their actions. As a woman, it bothers me the most.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/10/23 07:36 PM
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She cracks me up
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/23 05:41 PM
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Come to the Balkans, where both will be shamed constantly and questioned why they have no partner yet. Men are viewed as manwhores and f-boys, while women are viewed as having failed at life and, quite literally "left behind". It's great 😅
/r/MensRights15/05/23 10:06 AM
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Here there is a high level of skepticism when it comes to rape accusations and women tend to not be believed. The rate of victim blaming even in cases caught on camera is astounding. Not to mention the rate of failed marriages due to drunk and violent husbands. It's a serious issue, considering there are fewer than 3 million of us in total. I'm from the Balkans, so it's about as shit as it gets. On the other hand, there are absolutely no support systems for men victim of domestic violence, nor s…
/r/MensRights15/05/23 04:37 AM
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I'd say it depends on country and region. In mine, it's a shitshow for everyone involved (in certain cases for women a lot more), except for the rich.
/r/MensRights14/05/23 10:18 PM
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Stepdad's heartbreaking story and imminent loss and passing of his only child. I started looking into the laws and societal standards and it changed my views. Reality is messed up for most people, not just women.
/r/MensRights14/05/23 09:09 PM
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You risk being accused of having internalized misogyny and being the reason the patriarchy still lives on Going against feminism is a shitshow regardless of gender.
/r/MensRights23/04/23 07:23 AM
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Thank you guys! Happy holidays and don't forget to reach out if you are in need of someone to talk to!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/12/20 10:38 AM
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Please check out the Ragening series by Dr. Randomercam and Alison, too. I found them through Karen and the HBR. I am also very fond of Diana Davison and especially Hannah Wallen (the woman is like an encyclopedia and knows her stuff!) Lovely to see you support Karen, she is wonderful!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/12/20 07:52 PM
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Thanks! I agree, but I have shared many personal things with them, as they have as well, and it was shocking and quite hurtful realizing that it all meant nothing, just because I dared question the feminist narrative.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/12/20 08:48 PM
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Yes, I was also referring to the point about women actually wanting to be breadwinners. I think the pressure is immense to be in such a position, and the women I know absolutely loathe being in that role. It's not about the money, it's the position I think. Here in my country at least, if the woman works while the husband does not, or if her job is better and pays more than her husband's, such men are by default deadbeats and are regarded as losers and vilified. I have first hand experience with…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/12/20 08:46 PM
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I don't know. The breadwinner women I know personally are insanely bitter towards their male partners for putting them in that position. I have yet to meet a woman happily being the breadwinner. They do laugh at you, don't get me wrong. But it reminds me of the internet quote "look at what they do, not what they say". I have found this to be very true in regards to most women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/12/20 03:26 PM
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Friends literally kicked me out of their lives after a discussion on men's issues and rights, all the while laughing and mocking the notion that men can be raped, can suffer and mainly lead quite difficult lives. I can only imagine that they have mocked me behind my back for years now for it. And it's worse because all of them have brothers too. So as women we are independent and entitled to our opinion, as long as that opinion fits with the feminist narrative.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/12/20 03:22 PM
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I mean...
/r/MensRights22/07/20 09:11 PM
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As far as we know at this point is that August had serious mental health issues that the Smiths took him in for to help him out. Age aside, which in my opinion is indeed relevant in this case, Jada's behavior matches that of a predator. Vulnerable, young, mentally ill person has sex with the older, rich and powerful person who took them in to help them out. Genders aside, the behavior itself is very messed up. And in the video, she states that August cut ties and completely cut her out of his li…
/r/MensRights15/07/20 03:30 AM
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It may not have been political but the agenda was very prominent. It was very upsetting seeing the boards about teaching boys not to rape, posters with thongs hung up to show that no matter what you wear you don't deserve to be raped...on a protest for child abuse. I spotted just one or two posters with messages for boys. Now before I seem like a loon, this is not solely because it didn't include boys and even pointed the finger at them. Even if no boys ever got abused and only girls did, this w…
/r/MensRights05/06/20 06:31 AM
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Even here, an independent study with children gave out the same result, although with a small percentage difference, children in Albania also reported more violence from mothera. And what I found interesting is that the violence was on same-sex basis. I mean, mothers would be far more violent towards daughters, whereas fathers towards sons.
/r/MensRights05/06/20 03:58 AM
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It was funny the first time I heard it too. Had to do a double take because it was so weird haha
/r/MensRights05/06/20 03:56 AM
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I want to keep this relationship going I would advise you to reconsider
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/19 06:14 AM
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It has little to do with autism, in my opinion. This isn't any different from a non-autistic child's behavior and it's completely normal. And he is only 5 years old, my god this news pissed me off!
/r/MensRights25/09/19 05:15 PM
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It's a goal of mine too! I have spent several summers in the village, looking after the animals and only worrying about feeding them and taking care of them was incredibly helpful and relaxing. Oh wow, are these people for real? I hope she continues to make videos and not get discouraged from these things. You are a filmmaker, that is so cool! It must be so interesting to see videos like hers, being someone who knows how things work and the work it takes to create something so serene and perfect…
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/19 06:11 AM
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Many of the comments say it's Chinese propaganda and that she most definitely is an actress on set, but honestly, I absolutely love watching her videos. They are beautiful in all regards, be it for the directing and editing, or her hard work and interesting recipes. Got my cousin to watch her too and now we joke about being completely manipulated by the Chinese government after spending hours binge watching her videos.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/19 05:11 AM
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Oh wow, that's awful! Is there a chance that you might get the house back or at least sell it after the trial?
/r/MensRights21/09/19 07:29 AM
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That's good to know that she has managed to move on somewhat from him! And she is being very strong by allowing her children to keep in touch with their dad. Yes, completely agree, and it's unfortunate that we might not see any improvement of this situation anytime soon.
/r/MensRights20/09/19 10:57 PM
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I am so sorry about your sister! I hope she has managed to leave that horror behind. It really is sickening because now we get many people who, understandably, are cynical of the accusations that come out, because so many are false or exaggerated. It affects real victims of abuse, as well as the innocent people that get accused.
/r/MensRights20/09/19 06:19 PM
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I am worried I'll be met with a "Well, duh!"
/r/MensRights20/09/19 05:57 PM
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Yeah, explaining your own argument most often results in "Oh wow, can't believe you said that!!!" as if you just said how wonderful Hitler was.
/r/MensRights20/09/19 05:55 PM
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That has been my experience as well. The damsel in distress is one of the biggest pet peeves of mine because you can see through how fake it is as a behavior right away, especially as a woman. Oh, here too. Some people I have come across or been friends with were totally outtaged if you would even dare question the statements of a supposed victim. I have heard several horror stories of men having their lives ruined and they are personal acquaintances of mine. One of the biggest concerns for me i…
/r/MensRights20/09/19 05:27 PM
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Haha that's so good! I am stealing it with your permission
/r/MensRights20/09/19 03:20 PM
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I did all of those (it was a lengthy discussion), and all he said was "So you are saying women are the source of all evil, I see". It was baffling to him that apparently women are not only as violent as men, but even more so when it comes to violence against children. I was clearly lying.
/r/MensRights20/09/19 02:28 PM
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I am a woman, too :) This was very informative and disturbing at the same time. I had an idea that it was such a shit show, but this is infuriating, to be honest. My acquaintance's point was that this is the proper way to go about it, because women don't really lie about these things. Which we all know is complete nonsense. Thank you very much for you comment, I'm saving it.
/r/MensRights20/09/19 02:15 PM
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Yeah, my country has many issues regarding the genders, but feminism is worsening things beyond recognition here, too. There is just parroting now, in my experience, no logic, no "stop a second to understand what I was just told". The one that yells the loudest is right.
/r/MensRights20/09/19 12:03 PM
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Thank you, you're very kind!
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/19 03:00 PM
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To be honest, not really. I thought it did, for a while, but really thinking about it and how many years of my adolescence I spent trying to be one of the boys while simultaneously trying to show to boys that I was indeed a girl, it only set me back. As for getting used to it, it did not. I cannot stand people who are harsh and impolite to others, it is one of my biggest pet peeves still and it makes me feel incredibly uneasy.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/19 02:12 PM
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Likewise! In my family, being feminine in the typical sense (kind, approachable, gentle and agreeable) was seen as equivalent to being stupid in certain cases. You'd have to be a go-getter, always in control and very bossy. Despite my mother and grandmother being somewhat feminine in behavior towards their partners, in relation to other people (especially women) they would be quite abrasive, harsh and sometimes demeaning in the way they would speak. I grew up with that example. I used to look at…
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/19 11:54 AM
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Thank you! I'm always glad to come across other women in this sub :)
/r/MensRights05/08/19 04:53 PM
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Ah the good old "Women are smart, independent and intelligent, except for when they care about men". Then we are brainwashed idiots who need feminist guidance to leave the kitchen. Only a feminist is a woman that can make decisions on her own free will, and still blame men and other women for her idiocy. The rest of us are cute sheep.
/r/MensRights05/08/19 03:48 PM
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I wear no heels and put on barely any makeup but I'll take "handmaiden of the patriarchy" over feminist any day.
/r/MensRights05/08/19 03:44 PM
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Hahaha much better!
/r/PussyPassDenied18/07/19 01:09 PM
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More like Robbing in the Hood
/r/PussyPassDenied18/07/19 11:10 AM
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If you want a brilliant breakdown of false accusation, the Jihan Ghomeshi series by Diana Davison is fantastic. She is the only one I have seen do such a detailed report on what was happening with that trial and showcasing how society blatantly supports and favors women even when they are proven liars and psychotic.
/r/MensRights28/06/19 01:46 AM
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Of course, and there are options for women to do so. In fact the options go so far as to allow a woman to give the child up for adoption even against the father's wishes and desire to raise the child himself.
/r/MensRights30/05/19 11:31 AM
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I suppose they meant that it's easier to give birth and put the baby up for adoption than having to pay for so many years when you didn't even want it in the first place. I could be wrong.
/r/MensRights30/05/19 11:14 AM
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Abortion is not the female equivalent, it is a female-only equivalent option to parental surrender. I don't see how you can make someone go through 9 months of pregnancy and after-birth recuperation against her wishes. Which is why the majority of the advocacy for parental surrender does not require women's rights to abortion be taken away or forcing women to give birth against their wishes, but rather for men to have the option of legal abortion for a child they do not want. You cannot make som…
/r/MensRights30/05/19 10:59 AM
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Parental Surrender would imply legal surrender that the person opting for it will sign away legal rights and responsibilities over the baby, with no means of getting them back. Same way as a woman who gives a baby up for adoption cannot just go and decide to be the mother and take the child from the adopting family because she had a change of heart after some years.
/r/MensRights30/05/19 10:53 AM
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It is a thing for women only, however. Not solely limited to abortion, a woman has other ways of getting out of parenthood, such as surrendering the child or giving it up for adoption. Abortion is the female equivalent of parental surrender because it ensures that the woman has a way out of parenthood, whereas for men it all depends on whether she gets the abortion or not. He has no say whether he will have to be financially responsible for a choice that is almost unilaterally made by women.
/r/MensRights30/05/19 10:48 AM
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There are more options for women in this regard, however. She can give the child up for adoption, even against the man's wish, or surrender it with no questions asked (safe haven) in several places. Therefore, if she doesn't want to, she doesn't have to actually raise the baby into adulthood. A man who doesn't want a child will still have to pay if the woman decides to have the baby, otherwise he faces jail time or other reprimands.
/r/MensRights30/05/19 10:41 AM
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Agreed and thank you! You also reminded me of this Mother's Day ad I saw on Prim Reaper's video. LINK Gillette's virtue signalling has nothing on the video above. It is very upsetting that it was even produced, but at least the dislikes really got people's point across.
/r/MensRights28/05/19 12:16 PM
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All the previously mentioned women, along with: Diana Davison, Hannah Wallen and Prim Reaper (on YT).
/r/MensRights28/05/19 08:41 AM
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I love Diana's work! He channel is worth binge watching for anyone who has the time. I especially love the part where she is fangirling over Jian Ghomeshi's lawyer and the whole series of videos on that trial is really good.
/r/MensRights28/05/19 08:37 AM
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That is very interesting, thank you for sharing! My comment was a referral to feminists insisting that masculinity can be toxic, yet insist that there are no male-only or female-only traits of personality because there are no differences between the genders, while at the same time attributing all bad behaviors to be male. All the good behaviors and traits we see so often exhibited by men are apparently not related to gender, yet all the bad behaviors are. And if women do commit crimes and are as…
/r/MensRights28/05/19 06:16 AM
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Take it from me, who barely has a relationship left with a relative and lost people I thought were good friends after them finding out I was an MRA, this is a lost cause. ​ Unless she gets informed on her own and starts to understand things by herself, you arguing with her will only make her more convinced that she is right. People hate thinking that they are wrong. The more you do it, the more she'll push back and find support in feminist circles.
/r/MensRights27/05/19 10:19 PM
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Reminded me of Katherine Spillar's interview with Cassie on the RPRF segment. Absurd through and through.
/r/MensRights27/05/19 10:07 PM
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Very well put! To agree with toxic masculinity you'd have to agree that there are male-specific qualities of personality. But if there are male-specific qualities then surely there must be female-specific qualities. As we know, there are no differences between men and women, not one, not ever, nope. "Men are pigs and women are equal to men!" as the saying goes.
/r/MensRights27/05/19 09:51 PM
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1)I wasn't talking to you as if you were an idiot. It wasn't my intention in the least. Why would you interpret someone explaining their points or suggesting something as an attack to your intelligence? By this comment alone I can find several instances of you assuming I'm the idiot, but I don't think that's what your intention was. ​ 2) I have not, at any point, felt as if you were trying to oppose me as an individual or paint me as the bad guy. This discussion is not personal in the slightest …
/r/MensRights08/05/19 12:04 AM
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For being "sexist and hateful" towards women.
/r/MensRights07/05/19 07:47 PM
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It's not. Women, in general, prefer men who earn more than they do and who are richer than they are. "Rich women want richer men". That's because women look for stability and men look for youth and fertility in their partners. https://www.newshub.co.nz/home/world/2018/01/women-are-more-attracted-to-rich-men-scientists.html This is also anecdotally provable by looking at celebrities who marry richer men than themselves, women who divorce husbands and require insane alimony payments because they "…
/r/MensRights07/05/19 07:31 PM
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It's considered unreasonable on an individual basis. Each man or woman has their own standard and limit of what they would consider too many partners. ​ "Giving something to whomever they please" means that women choose *who* they will sleep with out of the men that approach them. The man also makes a choice on who he finds physically attractive to sleep with. He can and should say no when he's not up for sex with a woman. I never implied the opposite, you assumed it. ​ Biology is not an excuse.…
/r/MensRights07/05/19 07:12 PM
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Congratulations ♥
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/19 01:15 PM
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Cassie ♥
/r/MensRights07/05/19 01:02 PM
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I was explaining it in short as to why, in general, the perception of having had multiple partners differs so much for each gender. Let me explain it longer now. Women post the invention of birth control are viewed as sluts if they sleep with just any man because it is much easier for women to get sex than it is for men, what is so difficult to understand about this? The average woman needs to put effort appearance wise, she doesn't have to even be able to hold a conversation to convince someone…
/r/MensRights07/05/19 12:42 PM
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Not their own side, of course Some branches of feminism actually loathe the other ones with a burning passion. I, for one, enjoy the shitshow that is this movement.
/r/MensRights06/05/19 11:31 PM
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It's much easier for women to get sex generally. Men have to earn the right to have sex with a woman. They have to make an effort. For someone that has the ease of giving something to whomever they please, doing so too often is an indicator of their looseness and results in loss of 'value' after some time . On the other hand, for someone who has to earn the right to something and manages to do so often, is an indicator of their capability and desirability.
/r/MensRights06/05/19 11:25 PM
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Well it can be disheartening reading comments in this case, because you could be reading them wrong. MRAs are fully aware that there are women who support their cause and advocate for men's rights. The Honey Badgers, Diana Davison, Janice Fiamengo, and even feminists like Camille Paglia and C.H. Sommers, are some of those women. ​ Women do, by far and wide, want easier jobs than men. It is not sexist to tell the truth. Look up Social majors in universities, they are majority female by a large ma…
/r/MensRights06/05/19 08:38 AM
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Albanian woman here, can verify to the truth of our STEM majors. In fact, in nearly all university majors across the board, women are the majority of attendees and graduates.
/r/MensRights06/05/19 08:23 AM
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This one is worth a read, too. https://www.theatlantic.com/science/archive/2016/11/the-understudied-female-sexual-predator/503492/
/r/MensRights06/05/19 08:15 AM
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Have you come across the Gender Critical subreddit? They were recently making jokes about a man killed by his wife for watching porn. That sub will burn your retinas, check it out if you haven't already. Correct me if I am wrong but I have yet to see MGTOW celebrate or condone the murdering of women. Men-hating feminists are not simply an online hassle. These people are pushing for laws and have successfully passed laws that not only discriminate against men but also victimize them, such as the …
/r/PussyPass06/05/19 07:45 AM
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Misandry is a made up word by misogynists like you, fyi <sup>/s</sup>
/r/MensRights06/05/19 12:45 AM
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I understand but I was referring to OP here, on a Men's rights subreddit, who made that same generalization as feminists do.
/r/MensRights04/05/19 09:58 PM
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I am inclined to agree, to be honest with you. It is hard for many women to come out and admit when it happens, I cannot fathom what it must be like for men. The 1 in 71 statistic was in reference to the same study that found that 1 in 5 women would be sexually assaulted, which is why I used them together. I am a woman too btw and agree entirely with your last point. The argument "But she suffers more because she was penetrated" is ridiculous and dismissive against men, including also women who …
/r/MensRights04/05/19 11:27 AM
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A study for my country showcased the same thing and also, interestingly, that children were more likely to be physically disciplined by same-sex parents, meaning boys were more likely to be beaten up by fathers, and girls by mothers. Mothers were also the ones most likely to physically discipline the children. ​ This was quite interesting because here, as with anywhere else, the narrative implies that girls are not just the ones most abused physically, but that it's men doing it. Needless to say…
/r/MensRights04/05/19 10:41 AM
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He has had several scandals in the past years, including another domestic violence accusation, a couple of restraining orders and sexual assault allegations. I cannot attest to their legitimacy, but the Rihanna incident is not the only one.
/r/MensRights04/05/19 10:31 AM
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Enough already with these statements of "makes all men look bad". He is not all men, what are you on about?
/r/MensRights04/05/19 10:27 AM
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This sounds horrible, I am sorry that you are both going through this. Kick her out, seriously. Get the police involved if necessary and better record those phone calls just in case push comes to shove.
/r/MensRights04/05/19 10:15 AM
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I am not buying it either, to be honest. Apparently their marriage was so abusive, according to her, that she kept staying with him for 10 years. She knew she could outright destroy him in court for alimony and child support and yet continued to stay with this allegedly sick pervert who was too turned on by his wife. Why?
/r/MensRights04/05/19 10:11 AM
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Problem is that feminists cannot backup their claims on patriarchy because history proves them wrong. ​ Feminism and Marxism on the other hand, that is provable, not just from the history of feminism, but from modern feminists who complain about capitalism and want socialism to rule modern, democratic countries as a way to coddle women.
/r/MensRights03/05/19 06:07 PM
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I love it when they bingo the comments with suggestions of communism.
/r/MensRights03/05/19 06:00 PM
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Because many countries don't even recognize male victims of rape. No penetration, no rape. I've had woke feminists laugh in my face "Wow, seriously, how can men even be raped in the first place?" Apparently 1 in 71 men will get sexually assaulted in their lifetime, but because we are in a competition of who is the bigger victim, the "1 in 5 women" statistic makes male victims seem completely unimportant.
/r/MensRights03/05/19 05:55 PM
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INFP here with two ENFP best friends. They tend to do this sometimes, which I don't really mind personally, but it can get in the way of conversation. I used to do this, too. I would get so excited that I kept on and on. When I asked on this sub about a related issue, that of having a tone in my voice that came off as hostility when it wasn't intended as such, one of the commenters (on phone, cannot link it now) suggested I wear a bracelet as a reminder of remaining cool and taking a step back t…
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/19 07:55 AM
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A relative of mine lives there and visited us last year. To say the man was entirely brainwashed and too far gone with the SJW/Feminist nonsense is an understatement. He wouldn't have it if I dared talk about some legal issues that face him there in case of a divorce or for being a teacher. I was a misogynist (am a woman btw) and misguided for not being able to sympathize with women's suffering around the world. He was so repulsed, he complained to my mother (he's 40 lol) about me being so close…
/r/MensRights30/04/19 04:24 PM
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In Albania too. In some clubs women can enter for free during these special. There has not been a single case for men entering for free in clubs that require an entry fee.
/r/MensRights30/04/19 04:06 PM
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The last part is so important! I have several friends and relatives whose relationships ended because either them or their partner entered the relationship with the objective of changing the other party's mind about some really important matters, such as having children for example.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/19 07:36 AM
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In fact, the law is "Innocent until proven guilty". Johnny Depp was assumed guilty by the public, not found guilty in court. She made the accusations, therefore it is her responsibility to prove them true. The evidence he provided actually showcased her as the abuser, which is in fact his responsibility to prove as that was an accusation he made against her. And he did prove it. He couldn't possibly prove himself innocent of something when there was no evidence to defend against. ​ So your point…
/r/PussyPass19/03/19 07:37 PM
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I think it might be because it's very appealing to many people to play the victim and feminism has really ingrained that in women ever since we are children. Society hates us, men hate us, politics hate us, biology hates us, other women hate us. Everything is made so that we suffer the most and are the most disadvantaged while men are living the life and plotting to rape and kill us when given the chance. If you are a victim then what happens to you isn't your responsibility or your fault. If yo…
/r/PussyPass16/03/19 01:14 AM
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Many men don't really consider the possibility of being abused as the women they are with are typically smaller than them and appearing to be "sweet and loving", thus not coming off as an obvious threat. Besides, according to a study men also fall in love faster than women. Men are also quite romantic, which goes hand in hand with tendencies to idolize partners and downplay red flags or incidents of abuse. Also, women who tend to be abusive are also quick to bed, which then tends to cloud the me…
/r/PussyPassDenied16/03/19 12:46 AM
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I agree. I would agree with the second part, too. I think denying female responsibility also takes away all agency from women, by equating them to toddlers who are not to be held accountable for what they say or do. It's really insulting. It's ironic to think how hard many feminists fight against holding women accountable for many things, and then turn on men by labeling them as being fragile and childish. It's so funny, according to them men are the only ones who can bear all responsibility for…
/r/PussyPass15/03/19 11:44 PM
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The feminist is your mother, your sister, your friend, your daughter, your wife. It is the one that pushes for equal rights for women. Nope. Neither my mother, cousins, sisters or close friends are feminists. In fact, that's quite an assumption. ​ If you decide to despise feminism because you link the movement to people who do not stand and defend those beliefs, that’s on you. ​ Which people are these great and amazing examples of feminism that also have as large a platform as those other femini…
/r/PussyPassDenied15/03/19 11:07 PM
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It's too common, unfortunately. Anything that strays from "women do nothing wrong" is misogyny. I'm glad you have that approach towards such issues and that you, too, are a frequent viewer of the sub!
/r/PussyPass15/03/19 11:03 PM
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Same as me on my old account. By the request of a friend of mine who is a male feminist, I joined a feminist group for my country on FB, where, according to him, I would find rational discussion that would definitely make me rethink my anti-feminist position. I had to thank him after spending a week on that group, it really reaffirmed my views. To say the women there were toxic would be an understatement. I only saw one girl that mentioned information about men facing inequalities and listing th…
/r/PussyPass15/03/19 09:52 PM
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It was feminists who pushed for the Duluth Model to become common practice when it comes to domestic violence arrests. So, feminism does indeed stand for that. ​
/r/PussyPassDenied15/03/19 09:30 PM
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It's funny to me how "Don't stick your dick in crazy" is so acceptable to be told to a man who is a victim of abuse by a woman, but telling women "Don't spread your legs for crazy" is victim blaming. ​ ​
/r/PussyPassDenied15/03/19 09:05 PM
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That's why "Innocent until proven guilty" is so important. I saw several comments on Twitter today of people backpaddling and apologizing for automatically siding with her when the news came out. Ironically enough, not only is she a liar, she is also the abuser. ​ I am beyond infuriated that she "might" be dropped from movies and still continues to have an online presence and invited into interviews. She not only falsely accused him, but also continued to lie and was violent towards him. I hope …
/r/MensRights13/03/19 05:10 PM
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That's great! I am sure now you are even more excited to do them :) I do my own gel nails at home and love it when my friends and family compliment them. Little do they know that aside from making me feel good, it also pushed me to spend more money than expected to buy some more colors haha
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/19 08:07 AM
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The second part is so so so important! I am single, but just in general, having friends around me who try and calm the situation down rather than jump on the rant train (super rare and often directed at my parents) is such a big help. And I try my best to do the same for them when they get into arguments with parents/friends etc. My grandma is that type of person. She rarely takes sides when an argument is happening and tries to de-escalate immediately. It's a great skill!
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/19 09:56 AM
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I am butting in frequently but some of the comments here really resonate with my own experience. The relationship you mention was that of my mother and father. He would not hold a proper job, had dreams and goals that she helped pay for, and he'd spent most of his time sleeping, as absurd as that may sound. So she had to run the house, be the breadwinner and he felt entirely emasculated by that, despite her always being supportive of him emotionally, and it ended after 16 years together. Now she…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/19 08:30 AM
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I'm happy for you! I'm just responding as some of the things you mentioned resonate with me. ​ Because of this and my lack of a boyfriend, I decided I didn't need a man; all I needed was a career working in a lab and a home filled with dogs because I had also decided that kids were not for me. I am childfree and believe will remain so as I had to raise my brother due to my parents divorcing and mom working for 16 hours a day. It wasn't fun nor rewarding, despite us being best friends now. But th…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/19 08:23 AM
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I am sorry you had to go through such an experience to get to this point <3 ​ For me it was when my stepdad came into my life. He is a wonderful man who went through a terrible, terrible marriage with a borderline woman that ruined his life. Up until that point, due to my experiences with my father, who is a narcissist, and other not-so-great men, I always looked at women as victims. It bears mentioning that I was 22 when things started to change. Being surrounded by women who never took respons…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/19 08:00 AM
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This reminded me of something I was told in high school by the grandmother of a friend of mine, who is happily married for more than 50 years and very much in love with her husband still, and so is he. She said "Whenever the women I worked with saw that my husband would come at my workplace everyday to pick me up and he would often bring sweets or flowers for no special reason, they always asked what did I do to keep him that happy. And I always replied with 'Never turn him down for sex, ever'".…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/18 12:05 PM
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I understand. I also understand that it is quite overwhelming at a moment like this. You said your baby is only 3 months old, it's such a short time for you to have gotten used to all of it and having people that you dislike there only adds to it. But just try and see if you can find some middle ground with them as I am sure they are trying to help out, albeit in an overbearing way.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/18 07:24 PM
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In your post you stated that your husband was the one who gave the baby to SIL because he agreed that she should nurse the baby, not that she grabbed the baby from your hands. And that she offered to do so because your breasts were inflamed. I hope this doesn't offend you, but I think that your dislike for your SIL and MIL is making you look at their behavior as intentionally malicious.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/18 06:47 PM
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I understand, just wanted to put it out there that in some cultures it is quite acceptable and seen as a gesture of kindness rather than disturbing since she called the cops over this. It's understandable that she would overreact due to how messy the post birth experience can be, so just wanted to give her some perspective on why her SIL may have offered to nurse the baby and why her husband was on board.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/18 05:56 PM
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In my country nursing someone else's baby when the mother is unable to (not lactating yet, pain, whatever the reason) is not weird. Sometimes in the maternity ward, after the birth and if lactation has not started for one of the mothers, another one of the new moms will offer to nurse the baby so that they don't resort to formula and to also teach the baby to latch onto the breast properly. It's a cultural thing maybe, but here in the Balkans it is not that weird. It's actually seen as a very ki…
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/18 04:13 PM
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If he's a fraud for doing so, she should really steer clear of makeup and high heels.
/r/MensRights21/09/18 08:40 AM
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Would love to!
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/18 01:19 PM
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I genuinely hope this will be a fantastic relationship that will last for the rest of your life and for you both to have a healthy baby 😊
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/18 07:44 PM
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Shoot, meant to say after the 4th month. You are right!
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/17 12:12 PM
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I am pro-choice, but frown upon using abortion as the go-to birth control and not using any actual contraceptive methods. After the 4th month* it is too late, imo, to opt for an abortion, but luckily this is usually an occurrence only when a medical issue is the reason for terminating the pregnancy.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/17 11:32 AM
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I second this!
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/17 06:40 PM
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I was looking at these exact videos 2 days ago and they were adorable. The one on picking a husband especially. Glad to see them shared here 😊
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/17 06:43 AM
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I'll give that a try as I'm quite a smiley person in general, but never thought to use it with this issue. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/17 05:58 PM
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Thank you! I found a couple of feminine speakers on YouTube, but didn't have much luck on any actual vocal coaching videos. There were, however, some ladies who spoke about being feminine and how to walk and talk in a more feminine way, so that's what I'm doing first. And funny enough, a family friend of ours is also a voice-over and radio personality, with a great voice. Meeting him and seeing that he actually spoke that way in real life, too, made quite an impression on me, as other "celebriti…
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/17 08:01 PM
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Haha that's me in a nutshell. And indeed there were instances of hours, at the end of which we were all angry at each other, tired and in dire need of water. That's a very interesting sentence, I'll keep that in mind as I often, during the times I get like that, just want them to see the light and see why they are wrong. Very childish and unnecessary. My main issue is coming out of debates "defeated", if that makes sense. I feel as if I'm stupid if I can't debate a point until the very very deep…
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/17 08:05 AM
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Their relationship, apart from Ron, is the best part of P&R. I'd never seen it in this light, so thank you. In my 17 y.o ( at the time) eyes, Ann did what was right as she was trying to show him the right way, which is something I see in most real-life relationships. Growing up, I thought that was a sign of caring for the person, but later realized it was a sign of being selfish.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/17 07:58 AM
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It was suggested here earlier and I looked into it, but there weren't any in my country unfortunately. I'll do some Googling and see if there's any online option that resembles it. Thank you, for the link as well as your suggestion!
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/17 07:49 AM
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Very true, most women I know have the same issue. Thank you, I'll work on that!
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/17 07:22 AM
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I am very expressive Right there with you! Now that I think of it, I also need to work on my laugh, as I laugh very loudly, especially when something is really funny. Never a good sight. u/Pink_182 suggested a physical reminder, like a rubber band on the wrist, but maybe a ring or a bracelet, would work just as well. I'll use that right away, such a good idea. Maybe it would help you too :)
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/17 07:22 AM
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English will do just fine, in my case :) Thank you, I'll look into it and hopefully find something.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/17 07:20 AM
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I'll start on the journal right away. Glad to see it worked for you! What I found helpful with my anxiety, surprisingly, was starting ketosis and losing weight. I think the mind clarity, combined with the positive results on weightloss, in my case made a big difference. The physical reminder is a great tip, thank you so much for that!
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/17 07:19 AM
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European, sorry 😊
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/17 11:38 PM
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Are there online options? I'm in Albania and there is nothing similar here
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/17 07:16 PM
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I will do my best to report back and share what helped and what I did, in hopes that it might help somebody else who is facing the same issue. That sounds like a fun idea! You mean sharing pieces from our daily journals? That would be cool! Guess I will have to practice my handwriting skills now. No more chicken letters haha
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/17 05:37 PM
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Thank you so much for so many great tips! I'll definitely start with the journal and recorder. Especially loved the one about smiling when talking. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/17 05:23 PM
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Great advice, I will try and refrain from having to give my input. As a child I was congratulated on my oratory and that started the habit of never shutting up. I was insufferable as a teenager and knew everything about everyone, as they all came to me for advice. Talking a lot as a kid, apparently lets other kids know you are smart and know what you're talking about. Problem is, I was an idiot, so there's that. I used to feel as if I were stupid if I didn't say my opinion and then had to explai…
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/17 03:01 PM
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I'll do some self reflection, maybe there is something that triggers it, but what bothers me is that I'm harsh even when I don't intend to be. I'll look into it though so thank you 😊 Being feminine is very hard for me, I grew up obese and being " the dude" in my group of very feminine friends and it seemed ridiculous being gentle, soft and playful with people, especially men. Being so masculine throughout my teens, might have reinforced speaking this way. I do have a resting bitch face but I've …
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/17 02:41 PM
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Very similar situation here, including parents divorcing about 10 years ago. It sometimes has happened with friends with whom I've had no conflict or anything. I get passionate about a topic and get myself too worked up talking about it, and that's when the tone comes in. But it more often than not happens when I'm just discussing, while emotionally and mentally being completely calm, yet the tone in my voice is still harsh. I hate it when my mom does it to people, too and they are completely pu…
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/17 02:19 PM
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I'll start on YouTube, I think. There are some channels where the women are really feminine in their voice and behavior, Terri Cole comes to mind. Thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/17 09:00 AM
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That is awesome! Good for her 😊 I hope your sister is doing well now! Stress eating made me feel helpless throughout my teenage years and it got debilitating sometimes. I knew I shouldn't eat that, but I just couldn't stop doing it. And kudos to your mom for being awesome! Thanks, I really appreciate that! While I can't help my mother any longer ( believe me, I've tried so many times with no results. I hoped keto would be different, but she barely made an effort), I'll be damned if my brother en…
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/17 04:01 AM
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My mom is an overeater and really overweight. So am I (working on that, doing keto too), due to my upbringing and sometimes it gets very hard to stay on track. I would have liked a therapist growing up, as I was eating completely out of control during my teenage years. So I agree that it is a disorder and must be treated as such. I used to eat a whole pizza as a 7 year old and that was just one meal. My brother is overweight too and a common conflict topic between me and my mother, due to her re…
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/17 02:45 AM
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That is terrible! Any death is terrible, but to burn yourself alive, that poor man! I agree and that's the point I was trying to make. That they were ignored because they were men and society here judged them as weak and then, after death, as selfish and inconsiderate. Same goes for female on male murder here. It is terrible but people don't start campaigns like they do when a man beats his wife. There is a video in Albanian and it is absurd. "A man measures his strength with men, not women". So…
/r/MensRights30/06/17 05:16 PM
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I saw an Australian ad, I think it was titled "Those are men", which showed the frightening suicide statistics. Just horrible I am in Albania and there are zero statistics on suicide rates here. And it is even worse that mental health is barely ever spoken about. I read how mental issues in the US do not receive attention, and frankly it is a joke, compared to here. The only solution here is medication in really extreme cases, no one goes to therapists or even seeks out help. The families try an…
/r/MensRights30/06/17 10:43 AM
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I did mention the fatality rates, especially job-related ones. When he told me that the wage gap does not measure income on same-level jobs and it is sexism making women earn less, I told him " Why doesn't your wife go and become the school principal where she works at? Why are you aspiring to become a principal at your school but not her? How is that on sexism and not her choice?" And then mentioned the risk taking men do when going for far more difficult jobs both mentally difficult, as well a…
/r/MensRights30/06/17 09:08 AM
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I was telling a friend to watch it, since she really liked The Red Pill and I broke down while trying to find a link to it, because of a photo from the documentary where Andrew's parents were crying. It had been over a year since I had watched it and somehow it felt even worse than it did then.
/r/MensRights29/06/17 02:42 PM
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Thank you!
/r/MensRights29/06/17 01:12 PM
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His wife is very controlling and absolutely refuses to acknowledge opposing views, so you are entirely correct. We have had the same issue on god and belief. I am his niece and he has always viewed me as...lesser, in a sense. Because I am younger and instead of having an adult conversation, he starts explaining things as if I am 5. Maybe it's because of her, she is a dolt and he is constantly explaining things to her. And I am not being an asshole, she is incredibly daft. That's what happened la…
/r/MensRights29/06/17 01:11 PM
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I think he might watch both of them and I hope he does. I did tell his wife that it's okay e that she doesn't want to watch something that opposes her views, as it is better to stay in the bubble, because not everyone can face reality.
/r/MensRights29/06/17 11:32 AM
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I am laughing so hard now, because that last quote is what I told her, too. Because she did actually say, and I quote" When you say men's rights, is it about gay men?" I said that it was about, well, men. And she went " Oh, I won't watch it then". To which I then replied with pretty much the last quote of your comment. Sending virtual Hi5
/r/MensRights29/06/17 04:44 AM
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I got that, I was just kidding about the typical expectations of people who seek out "true equality", but only about what suits them best. As for the draft, agreed. 6.35 a.m where I'm from so off to sleep. Thank you!
/r/MensRights29/06/17 04:37 AM
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Why, grant rights to the oppressed, without the responsibility and consequences those rights come with, of course! For example: the right of being treated equally under the law, unless I, as a woman, have to suffer the same crime sentence as a man would.
/r/MensRights29/06/17 04:15 AM
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I feel bad because it was clear that I got irritated, especially as the discussion tactic on his side was " You are arguing like a teenager (I'm 24) and look here ". Patronizing and funny, considering how much feminists respect women's input. There were no arguments whatsoever apart from the history one and a continuous case of saying something and then opposing it a minute later. Me (5 times): Give me one example of a right you have as a man, that your wife and daughters don't Him: Irrelevant, …
/r/MensRights29/06/17 04:05 AM
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I find it hard to compromise sometimes when the other person just goes on and on about the definition or the history of something. When I get on the history train and mention some issues men have historically faced, then the timeline suddenly doesn't matter anymore and I am suffering from a case of misinformation However I agree, compromise is and should be present. What I've come across is feminists either dismissing men's issues completely, or trying to one up these issues. By giving a one in …
/r/MensRights29/06/17 03:56 AM
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Which is ironic as I know far more women than men, that belong in that poster.
/r/MensRights29/06/17 03:34 AM
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I had a bit of a weird situation. I learned values from my mom who was the breadwinner and the "man" in that marriage. With her now partner, after he lost his house to the court and a lot of money, she stood by his side and he slowly got back on his feet. Now he's doing much better and they have, unconsciously, a very RP relationship. They're happy and he is a wonderful man. As long as my father was around during my teen years, I was insufferable. I did things as a 12-13 year old that still cann…
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/17 05:01 AM
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I have no words for this, it was simply beautiful and heartwarming to read! You are a lovely person!
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/17 06:33 AM
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She's brilliant! Especially inspirational as she is herself a victim of FGM and managed to escape Islam and become a truly outstanding person. Like you, I also tend to disregard what self-proclaimed feminists say, especially when it comes to how almost identical, but just a bit superior to men women are.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/17 10:52 PM
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You give me hope that things will turn out well for me too, as a childfree woman. I'm 23 and reading RPW at first was discouraging, because I (mistakenly) assumed that in this sub, you could not be a real feminine woman without having children. I'm really glad you're having a good life and relationship!
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/17 11:26 AM
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Not really, because she is the same. She rarely expresses love out loud towards us. He will say kind words and is supportive, but there are no declarations of love and romantic conversations. It's how they both are. As I said, he goes above and beyond with actions and I think that counts a lot more than if he said the words. My parents are divorced and my father was all sweet talk but his actions didn't match those love declarations and grand expressions of affection. He'd only focus on himself …
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/17 09:53 PM
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My mom's partner is like that. He doesn't really say it, but he goes far and beyond with actions. Now that he's more comfortable around us, he will say things like "For me it's a pleasure to be around you", but I don't think I'll see him ever say he loves my mom or us. It's not in his character and my mom doesn't do it either. But he expresses it in a million other ways, which I think are more meaningful than if he said loving words.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/17 06:05 AM
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Yet again an excellent point, thank you! I find it funny that they just dispute the whole notion that a woman can cause actual harm to a man, solely based on physical strength. There's this video with Sharon Osbourne who makes jokes and thinks it is hilarious that a woman cut her husband's penis off, because he filed for divorce. Imagine the reverse situation there. Same happened with Boku Haram. #bringbackourgirls got a lot of attention, but none of those same people gave a damn about the murde…
/r/MensRights20/05/17 03:35 PM
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One of them likes my posts on Facebook so maybe there is hope after all :P
/r/MensRights20/05/17 10:38 AM
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Am I missing the /s at the end of your comment? It's a bit early in the morning where I'm from and my brain is half asleep. If not, then my comment on that is a line I've heard and read many many times by feminists themselves. That's the punch line of that comment. It's not me defining these feminists, it's what they themselves have said. The feminism I know, is about giving women rights that men already have, according to them. When this is challenged, they go back to the dictionary definition …
/r/MensRights20/05/17 06:51 AM
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You've made excellent points there. But there is one that can and most probably will backfire: Difference in strength. I've discussed that and what I got was: Yes, men are stronger than women. Which takes us back to domestic violence against men. Women cannot hurt men as much as a man can hurt a woman, that's why the focus is and must be on violence against women. Ah, fun times, fun times indeed.
/r/MensRights19/05/17 06:54 PM
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Are you me? I've made those points over and over, but when it comes to in-person discussions (I'm not having one of those again, screw it, what's the point), they yell and get really upset. As for online, I'm talked at like a child, with belittling comments and "sarcasm" to point out how stupid, ignorant and moronic I am as a person, not just my arguments.
/r/MensRights19/05/17 04:32 PM
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blushes You are giving me far more credit than I deserve, but thank you very much!
/r/MensRights19/05/17 04:30 PM
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Are these people sane, seriously? They're medical professionals, are they supposing they'll never run into a male patient? What the heck!
/r/MensRights19/05/17 06:22 AM
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That's so sweet! Thank you :)
/r/MensRights19/05/17 06:21 AM
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It must be one of those tiny ones, cause otherwise...ouch :P
/r/MensRights19/05/17 06:21 AM
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Men can only be allies, not true feminists, therefore they cannot be part of the hierarchy. I'll provide the Tylenol.
/r/MensRights18/05/17 11:19 PM
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My family thanks you for waking them up with my laughter
/r/MensRights18/05/17 10:51 PM
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I understand it may come across as that, but by what I've seen, it's the way they argue and discuss, even with each other and other people. They are passionate about it, it's not out of malice, that's why it doesn't bother me to the point of cutting ties with them.
/r/MensRights18/05/17 10:41 PM
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Pointing out the truth and how certain events are seriously messed up and do, unfortunately, represent the majority of cases that nobody bats an eye against (child support, alimony, male abuse, male rape), is not hate. I've said this in another post, I'm a woman and although I wouldn't consider myself a honey badger, because from where I am there isn't much I can do to influence anything, I've always been welcomed here. This is my second account and on the first one I had only positive interacti…
/r/MensRights18/05/17 10:25 PM
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The fact that a lot of people have started talking about it and some have had their eyes opened by it, is considerable progress. I'm European and from a very small country which does indeed have some rudimentary beliefs and treatments of women. But men are not having it great, either. However, even here the victim mentality has reached ridiculousness. Men are quite often generalized and fall under a blanket category just from the actions of a few. We are still going through a wave of feminism wh…
/r/MensRights18/05/17 10:19 PM
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They are pretty nice girls and they are smart and supportive people. Luckily though, my 3 close friends of 5 years are all anti-feminists and anti-SJW. You are correct, it is liberating and it feels nice having constructive discussions with people you respect.
/r/MensRights18/05/17 10:05 PM
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Spot on! I'm not American, actually, I'm from a European country. When I mentioned that Europe shouldn't accept millions of refugees because it is difficult to keep track and help them adapt to our culture, I was told that that is exactly how Hitler started off. By thinking "These people don't belong here". Should have ran, but I'm a lady and ladies are polite. Here I go again with gender roles, god damn.
/r/MensRights18/05/17 10:02 PM
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Why, they are protesting against the Patriarchy. Did you just call them ignorant and stupid? What is this, misogyny in action? You are being literally Hitler right now. Lame jokes aside (from my side), they have no clue what they stand for themselves. With so many sections of feminism and so many different types of feminism, it's hard to stay on top of things. So there is barely any time left for them to actually look into what MRA stand for and critically think about it. My impression is that t…
/r/MensRights18/05/17 08:57 PM
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Yeah, 2 months in and still no contact from the aforementioned friends. Let's see how this goes.
/r/MensRights18/05/17 08:53 PM
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I just assumed my own gender #triggered
/r/MensRights18/05/17 08:52 PM
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Not to mention that I'm a white, cis-gendered, heterosexual woman. Couldn't be lower in the hierarchy than that. The words I've been told and faces (eye rolling, mocking) I've received from people I thought as close friends, when I mentioned men's issues, blew my mind. Atrocious, in their opinion, for me to say that men can be great parents and deserve parental rights. This is just one of the many examples of how I've internalized the oppression and misogyny.
/r/MensRights18/05/17 07:44 PM
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Myself, I'm for freedom of choice, whether you want to marry early or never do so. Have 10 children or have none. Does the fact that I don't necessarily want to marry and I definitely want no children make me less red-pilled? I agree with TRP for the most part, but just because I do not see myself in the traditional "babies and husband" type of life, I don't think it makes me less red-pilled. Just my opinion, anyway.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 07:20 PM
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I've made that actual point, but it was irrelevant because I suffer from internalized oppression.
/r/MensRights18/05/17 06:57 PM
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So she cannot hold "red pill views", unless she is married at the age of 21 and having children? I guess then other women here who are childfree or don't necessarily see the need to marry are not welcome here and are just doing it for the male attention. What nonsense is this?
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 06:56 PM
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That stood out to me too. In every discussion I've had with feminists (I'm a woman), they have treated me and talked down to me as if I were a 3 year old. They would "explain" things to me in questions, as in "Do you have any idea that....?".
/r/MensRights18/05/17 06:45 PM
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