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Where PEDs really help is when you get older. I'm willing to believe there are soccer pros not taking PEDs, but I'm willing to bet almost all the older ones do.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 09:00 AM
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It's great you never had to prove you have a degree, but I've had to do so multiple times. I've worked for organizations that won't promote you past a certain level if you don't have a degree. If you're trying to be a film producer, sure, there's no real point. But there are a lot of fields you're effectively locked out of or required to start your own company because you'll never get your first job in that field without a piece of paper.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 12:27 AM
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How is that believable? He raped her and then she decided to start a clandestine relationship with him? Maybe this relationship stuff is easier than I thought.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/15 11:44 PM
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The quote says they wanted him to stop because he was making "sexual assault survivors" uncomfortable. I agree, though, if it was really about getting the class moving then he shouldn't have been so vocal.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 07:30 AM
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But the turning point was when he refused to stop discussing his beliefs on rape, even though sexual assault survivors told him outside of class that it made them uncomfortable. I have to respect him for that part. Whenever this topic comes up in a college setting you find 7 out of every 5 women have been gang-raped by their uncles (of course there was never a police report - hey, are you victim shaming?) and you're making them very uncomfortable so you need to just sit down and shut up and admi…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 07:04 AM
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People in the US who call themselves "liberals" are simply appropriating a label they don't deserve. They're not liberals; they're leftists.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 07:00 AM
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There's a lot of truth to this. The same guys who complain about women using them look right through women who are out of their sexual interest range.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 05:39 AM
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Heh. I remember dealing with a woman who was pulling this crap. Not nearly as high SMV as you actress/model/whatever, but I'm not exactly a young Fabio myself. So I pulled her aside and basically read her the riot act. Finally she said something like "I don't understand it myself. I don't want you that way, but I don't want other women to have you either." This was before TRP even existed, so I didn't have a word for "beta orbiter", but I knew this wasn't going to be a good association for me.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 06:04 PM
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If she wants to get married then she will immediately lose all interest in you... ... for marriage. That doesn't mean she won't sleep with you if she finds you attractive, particularly if she thinks she's going to wait until 34 to tie the knot.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 12:27 AM
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I had the opposite experience. My parents have been happily married more than 50 years, and if I could find a person like my mother in terms of her expectations and outlook on life, I'd marry her. But her generation wasn't raised on a steady diet of "whatever's right for you is the right thing to do".
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 12:25 AM
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Evolution selects for individual benefit, not group benefit Group benefit aids the survival of a closely related genes, just not as closely as progeny. Consider the stereotypical gay uncle scenario, where an orphan who would otherwise have died is raised by his (childless) gay uncle. The uncle ensures the survival of genes that are very much like his own. Evolution is always a balance between traits that benefit the group and traits that benefit the individual. That's as true for bacteria formin…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 12:18 AM
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If she didn't she'd have to admit some uncomfortable truths about her own marriage.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 12:05 AM
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Anyways the whole scenario is very bizzare, I'm just going to ride this one out and amuse myself at the absurdity of the situation. Well, okay, but you'll only have yourself to blame when you piss her off and she accuses you of rape.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 10:33 PM
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http://community.seattletimes.nwsource.com/archive/?date=19960908&slug=2348001
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 09:34 AM
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Instead it will become a matter of social justice that women are entitled to such benefits, notwithstanding the lack of a marriage partner. Government will take from men what the women demand. This. At this point the best reproductive strategy as a man is probably to stay unemployed (above the table, anyway) and have as many kids by as many different women as possible. Those poor 9-5 suckers will take care of the children without having any of their own, and 1000 years from now geneticists will …
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 08:33 PM
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This is a better presentation of the data.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 08:25 PM
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Times have changed, though. When I was young (I'm in that bracket too, toward the higher end) there was still enough cultural inertia people got married. Because that's what you did. You might decide not to propose to a particular girl, but the expectation was you'd eventually get married unless there was something wrong with you. I don't think that's true any more. Women are delaying marriage to the point they're no longer a net positive as a wife, and that cultural inertia is gone, so men are …
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 08:16 PM
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In that case she would have gone to jail, because her story fell apart not because she recanted but because she couldn't keep her lies straight. I don't think those guys will pay any lasting price for that, social or otherwise. Everyone except a few hoary old lesbian Women's Studies professors knows they were innocent. The stripper went on to stab two different boyfriends, one of them fatally. But even beyond that, since they weren't convicted I don't think they'll have any trouble finding jobs,…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 07:43 PM
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Not sure what you mean by that. I'd rather get out of a long prison sentence because my accuser had conscience pangs than have her think "I'm sorry about what I did to that guy, but I'm not going to jail for a decade to make it right."
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 07:16 PM
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It's already illegal. The problem is the police and prosecutors don't press charges.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 05:38 AM
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Law enforcement in the US almost never charge women for making false rape accusations. So we're not dealing with a sample size of one here. The only one I could find on Google was Elizabeth Coast, who got two months (which she was allowed to serve on weekends) for sending a guy to jail for four years.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 05:35 AM
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The thinking is if they press charges these sorts of people will never recant, and you'll end up with more innocent men in jail. Were I in charge the way it would work is if she recants on her own (due to conscience or whatever) she gets off, but if the investigation proves her story to be false she should go to jail.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 05:23 AM
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No, it's not true. If anything cops are credulous regarding rape accusations.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 05:19 AM
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Thank God I graduated before they added this bullshit requirement. I don't think I could resist telling this crazy bat where she could stick her loony ideology. The fact that she could even conceive of changing a paper's grade based on whether or not it's “detrimental to the American Feminist movement” should tell you what kind of quality "education" you're getting.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 07:15 AM
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Oh, no doubt FB is overpriced. But they're cash flow positive, so they're under less pressure to monetize everything.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 01:00 AM
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But do they make a profit?
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 09:13 PM
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You can use debt to keep a company running for years, but at some point you have to start making money.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 01:33 AM
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That's been the approach in my circle of friends. One of these days one of us will call her out at the start, but so far everyone just drinks fast and leaves.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 01:31 AM
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This. 1000x this. There was a sort of fad at my work where women started to volunteer at the local women's shelter. Between five women they probably volunteered (maybe) twenty hours total. But it was a very public volunteering, in the sense that it showed up on Facebook and other social media, in dating profiles, and in conversations at work. I've never seen a man milk so much social mileage out of such a small amount of work.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 07:43 AM
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From her perspective that's perfectly logical. She's holding up her end of the deal, so she's just another creditor hounding him for money.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 09:42 PM
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Strippers and drugs go together like peas and carrots.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 09:41 PM
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Oh, absolutely. The ones who stay in the business more than a year or two will be ineligible for a lavish "retirement". They'll end up (for a few years, anyway) with someone merely wealthy instead of filthy rich.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 09:40 PM
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The retirement plan is to pull an Anna Nicole Smith, where you get a old billionaire to marry you.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 07:17 AM
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"We make more than lawyers." One of them says she makes more than $200k a year. I'm willing to bet her math is off by a wide margin. I doubt that. I'm always amazed at what women in these kinds of businesses make. There are strippers who make thousands of dollars every night - more than whores. And it's all "tax advantaged", too.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 07:16 AM
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I suspect it's usually the latter. Some women are unhappy without constant relationship validation. I had a gf once whose defining childhood memory was her father's departure from the house when she was five as a result of divorce. She was pathologically afraid of abandonment - to the point that it damaged our relationship. If she never requires that kind of validation she probably thinks she can do better than you.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 07:10 AM
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This is what happens when you let physicists date.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 06:47 AM
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It's posts like this that make me glad I never married. It all sounds like too much work for the payoff.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 11:38 PM
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She left him less than two weeks later. Maybe he wasn't okay with it. Or maybe they were already quits without it being public knowledge. I'd be a little leery of cuckolding a guy I see at work like that. Even a 5' 7" fat guy can kill pretty much anyone if he brings a gun.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 08:22 AM
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I'm a software developer, so I'm in an industry where you're expected to work more than 40 hours each week. I've been at it for decades, too. My colleagues over the years are mostly men, but there have been quite a few women. The one constant in every job I've held over the years, is when I look around the cube farm at 7:00 there are still plenty of people in the office, but none of them are women. Looking at that pay chart I'm shocked that men make 4% more than women. It seems grossly unfair to…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 05:11 AM
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Yes. The implied assumption is hairdressers and brain surgeons should be making the same amount of money.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 05:05 AM
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There's something wrong with you.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 09:02 PM
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That's just some organization telling you what they think. Take that to a judge and see how far you get.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 09:02 PM
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That's what I meant by "put[ting] up with that". I didn't mean I'd be her slave for BJs; I meant I wouldn't divorce her.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 09:00 PM
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That's not really true. When you engage a prostitute she doesn't promise not to screw anyone else. And you're not expecting her to bear and raise your children. Besides, in the current legal environment she has no obligation to provide you sex for your resources.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 11:23 AM
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Where is this? Even in California there's no such thing as "financial abuse" except in regard to your infirm parents.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 11:19 AM
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I guess if I had young children I'd put up with that, but once the kids are out of the house (or no kids) I'd start looking for another place to live.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 11:15 AM
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Literally slapping the bitch would give her even more power over him. He should probably just dump her, since it doesn't look like she's his wife as much as a "SO".
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 11:13 AM
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She refers to him as her "SO", not her husband. If a girlfriend gave me a list of things like that I'd boot her ass into the street and hire a maid to do the chores. EDIT: Actually, come to think of it the right response is do the chores, get the BJ, and then give her a $20 tip.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 11:13 AM
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Not only that, but what kind of quality is this guy gonna get? I'd much rather get a BJ from someone who was counting on repeat business to pay the rent as opposed to someone who is grudgingly dragging herself to the bedroom.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 11:07 AM
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I think I'm actually giving less credit. She's not deliberately steering him, it's instinctual. That's what I mean by giving her too much credit. She knows she's using him like a snot rag. She just doesn't care. In my mind that's worse. That's why she won't reject him explicitly. If she gives him the opportunity to profess his love for her "I don't see you that way" is explicit rejection. The smart ones will tell him "I just got out of a bad relationship and I'm not ready for a boyfriend right n…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 09:48 PM
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I think you're giving her too much credit. In these sorts of situations if you listen to their conversations very carefully you'll realize she's deliberately steering him away from any attempt to profess his feelings. The longer she can hold off rejecting him explicitly the longer he'll act as her boyfriend without getting any of the benefits. Once she rejects him she may have to find another orbiter.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 09:12 PM
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I read an article a few months back where someone took an in-depth look at peoples' porn watching habits. Essentially guys were mostly (not exclusively, but mostly) into straight up sex between a man and a woman. Women are the ones watching all the gang bang, DP, man-on-man, fetish, etc, etc stuff. They can have normal sex whenever they want, so it takes the kinky stuff to excite them.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 05:25 AM
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Oh no, we don't see each other like that. He sees her "like that" and she fucking knows it.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 05:21 AM
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The problem isn't that a woman who cheats on you is some kind of extraordinarily bad person. She's not - they're all capable of it in the right circumstances. The problem is a woman who cheats on you either never had or has lost respect for you. At that point you're better off alone.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 09:54 AM
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As /u/handyandypandy pointed out, odds are she was never raped at all, so if he gets any reaction it will be her realizing she's supposed to react otherwise it damages her credibility.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 10:34 AM
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Heh heh. There was an article linked on HN awhile back where the guy was talking about doing business in Japan. There was one particular quote I found particularly revealing: You might imagine that you heard a supervisor tell a young lady in the office “Hey, you’re 30 and aging out of the marriage market, plus I hear you’re dating someone who is not one of my employees, so you might want to think about moving on soon.”, but that would be radioactively illegal, since Japanese employment discrimin…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 11:33 PM
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That's not surprising. I was talking about guys who brought their brides to the states. If you had by now she'd be complaining about the patriarchy and decrying your use of your penis as a weapon of oppression.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 08:35 AM
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The last thing in the world any man wants to do is give up his preferences for a woman. She won't respect you for it anyway. The proper response to whatever attack she makes is "That's the way I roll. The door is over there."
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 07:42 AM
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I don't know where that "submissive" thing came from. Asian women tend not to be too assertive in public when they're with a man, but they can be ballbreakers at home.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 07:41 AM
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It doesn't take long at all. Just a few years. Guys who think they're going to marry a woman from another country and not have to worry about the poisonous feminist attitudes they find in native born women are really fooling themselves.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 07:39 AM
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Is that even in question? The only women who don't use sexuality to get ahead in life have such low SMV they can't.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 07:12 AM
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This is why I would never make it through college today. There's no way I could get a passing grade in this class.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 09:31 AM
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He's in a California state prison. California has conjugal visits, which they call "Extended Family Visit", but it's only available to people in medium and low security prisons. So Manson wouldn't be eligible.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 06:08 AM
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I don't get it, prostitution is already illegal. Not everywhere. He doesn't say where he's from, but it could be from a country where it isn't.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 05:59 AM
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This is kind of interesting for me. I'm in this age group myself, and one thing I noticed is all the women I went to college with who traded career for family drink like fish. They're totally miserable, and the booze takes the edge off.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 05:54 AM
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This is simply wrong. Don't try to apply common sense to the law - it doesn't work that way.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 01:17 AM
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In the US, at least, it is absolutely sexual assault. End of story. Just because that seems unreasonable to you (and to me and most people, frankly) doesn't mean you can pretend the law is otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 11:34 PM
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Why do you assume it isn't enforced?
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 11:14 AM
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Legally it absolutely is. In theory you could be arrested on the spot.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 10:32 AM
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"Next"? It's already here. Where my niece goes to school "elevator eyes" is considered sexual harassment for which she can file a complaint. Which in turn could, in theory, get a classmate expelled. When I went to school you had to demand sex for a grade or continue pursuing her past what a normal person would consider reasonable before it rose to the level of official sanction. But women back then were made of sterner stuff. Today's college women are really not women at all but overgrown girls,…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 06:34 AM
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Legally, an ass slap at the club is sexual assault. The problem isn't that they're trivializing sexual assault, which can, in fact, be relatively trivial. The problem is by lumping sexual assault and rape together (as in that "1 in 5" statistic) they're trivializing rape.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 06:32 AM
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But I get what people here have been saying, end of the day you are making a choice between family and yourself by choosing career focus instead of family focus. I don't think so. I think you're choosing between short term happiness and longer term happiness. It's great when she's in her 20s because she has money and independence, but there's a price to be paid later. Only a tiny fraction of people (men or women) can find happiness in career. The women I went to college with who chose career in …
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 09:48 PM
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I was going to make this very point. There's always a cycle with Marxism - first it's purely economic. But when it doesn't work it's because you people are doing it wrong, which is when the political part gets a head of steam.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 06:43 AM
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You have to be selective about the church, though. There are a whole lot of Christian congregations out there who have embraced the soft left feminist zeitgeist of the day.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 06:40 AM
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Look at it from the potential husband's perspective - she's spent five or six years in college and then a bunch more years busting her ass to get her career off the ground. If she drops out to raise a family she's off the fast track. So as a man if you marry a woman dedicated to her career you're gonna get one of three things: She resents you for wrecking her career. It's not logical, and she may even realize it's unfair, but resentment happens anyway. This does not a happy marriage make. She re…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 06:31 AM
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There's always China for attractive women who can still bear children. The one child policy has led to Chinese guys snapping up women from all over Asia.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 06:12 AM
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We're talking past each other here. I'm not talking about sex. I'm talking about the way you arrange your life. There are a whole lot of women out there who go from women to men because they want family. It has nothing to do with satisfying sexual or romantic urges.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 05:05 AM
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That's more complex than gender/sex. Not all men want to or are able to give women biological children. So she finds one that can. That concern is less prominent than the "bisexual people can never be satisfied by one gender long term" belief, which is rampant in both gay women AND men. No, I don't think so. For most women children are going to trump other considerations at a certain stage in their lives.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 01:56 AM
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The difference is children. Both blondes and redheads can have children. Lesbians run the risk of having their partner wake up one day and say "I want children, and you can't get me pregnant." Of course there's always sperm donors and what not. But all that is pretty murky from a legal perspective, particularly if the relationship ends. Where I live the woman pretty much gets custody of the children if she wants them and the man pays for everything. With two women, who is the judge going to forc…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 12:47 AM
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With good reason. I've seen it happen - a sister of a friend was in a relationship with a woman for years, and when this other woman decided she wanted children she dumped my buddy's sister and started dating men. Women's sexuality is a lot less binary than that of men. Most women are attracted to other women to some extent.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 10:21 PM
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The court would order a DNA test if you contested anyway.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 03:16 PM
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That's not a consequence of the law. That case is just straight-up fraud. The mother can put whatever she wants on the birth certificate. Depends on the state, but these days what you'll get as the supposed father is a court order for a DNA test. There are certainly ways you can get stuck paying for someone else's kid. Where I live in California if your wife gets pregnant the kid is yours. End of story. The kid can also be declared yours if you act as that kid's father for any length of time.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 03:14 PM
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I asked her for a paternity test to be certain, it took some persuasion, she insisted, "It's not necessary, I know it's you, you're the father." That right there should have been the big tipoff that she's trying to put you on the hook for someone else's progeny. The more resistance you get to testing from an ex the less likely it is that you're actually the father.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 03:06 PM
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Like I said - she'll hate it. But she'll come talk to you when she realizes this isn't going to get her the attention she wants. If you spend the entire day supplicating you're just encouraging bad behavior.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 08:45 PM
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I doubt they'll need to. Despite the "there's somebody for everybody" propaganda, unless the screeners are idiots the men they let through will be mostly acceptable. I wonder if part of the business plan is to sell access to men. You should do better if women think you've been pre-screened by other women.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 08:44 PM
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This. You can't let her start that shit or you'll be dealing with it forever. When I'm breaking in a new gf and I get "I'm fine" my response is "Great. Since you're fine that means we're both fine. I'm going to bed." And then I go to bed. They can't stand it. You're supposed to spend all evening dragging whatever it is out of her so you can apologize. Fuck that. Ten minutes after I go to bed she's standing at the bedside steaming mad with her arms crossed ready and willing to tell me, in more de…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 07:08 AM
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I don't see the big deal. Women are already eliminating 80% of the guys on Tinder. This just allows them to be a little more efficient.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 06:53 AM
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Sure, but that's because the fatties don't show up, not because they wouldn't show up if they were thin. If you mean "they're not even competition" in the dismissive sense, then yeah. But imagine how much harder things would be for you if every time you went out the club had twice as many men.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 09:27 PM
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Yesss... but you can hardly be unprepared if that was the goal at the start the evening, can you? Am I the only one who's messed with a hot chick because she expected beta and I was bored?
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 02:06 AM
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If looks really didn't matter, you wouldn't have to work out. Of course looks matter. But by the same token, if you keep your weight down and have reasonably defined arms you're gonna pretty much be at least a 6 no matter what your face looks like. That's the upside to obesity in half your competition.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 01:41 AM
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Sure, but if the object is to have fun trolling hot women and not actually landing hot women, the nastier the rejection the more fun you can have.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 01:36 AM
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I assume when women complement me they're pursuing an agenda. It's been my experience, anyway.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 01:35 AM
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You're taking too narrow a view of natural selection. Culture is part of your environment.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 07:54 PM
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You're talking about cultural pressures that have existed for thousands of years.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 07:16 PM
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The way the law is written in California it doesn't matter if it's not your kid.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 05:44 PM
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Not true at all. Inheritable, biological traits play the same role in reproductive success as they ever did. We just have different pressures selecting for different traits than we did before.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 05:41 PM
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I can certainly understand you have certain rights and responsibilities if you've already spent five or ten years raising a child. But to stick a guy with someone else's kid before it's even born is ridiculous.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 08:20 AM
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Where I live none of that matters. If you were married when the child was conceived, even if you divorced her the day after, and even if you can prove beyond a doubt the kid isn't yours... legally the kid is yours.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 07:12 AM
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Natural selection applies to people as much as it ever did. It's just that the forces guiding the selection have changed. But that, too, was always true.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 07:06 AM
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Pretty much, yeah, though the details vary depending on the state.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 07:49 AM
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It is not uncommon to walk into the hottest new West Village bistro on a Saturday night and find five smartly dressed young women dining together—the nearest man the waiter. Income equality, or superiority, for women muddles the old, male-dominated dating structure. Yeah... smartly dressed in clothes they put on the card. The men aren't there in a lot of cases because they're at work. The funny thing is the best dressed guys in the joint are either established middle-aged men looking for younger…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 12:45 AM
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Still going for un obtainable men is just stupid. If there's one thing women understand intellectually but refuse to accept emotionally, it's their declining SMV. If men aren't hitting on her she's just not going out enough.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 07:25 AM
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It also sets the tone. If you get interest from her it's because she has you pegged as a guy who can buy her stuff.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 06:58 AM
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I remember the same thing when Lorena Bobbit cut off her husband's dick. All the women I knew said "That's perfectly reasonable because he mistreated her." "Well, okay, but couldn't she have divorced him in that case?" "No, she couldn't do that because she was here on a marriage visa." Women just don't think.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 06:47 AM
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It's hard to come to any other conclusion from a green-eyeshades perspective. You have to bring in children and religion for marriage to make any kind of sense for a man.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 06:40 AM
6

The legal term is "imputed income", or "I know you can make $x so I'm going to set your support based on $x." A lot of guys think "Well, if I get divorced I'll open a dive shop and kind of take it easy. I won't make a lot of money, but who cares? She's taking half of it anyway." Which would be a perfectly reasonable strategy, but the judge will base his support payments on what he made at that high stress corporate job. So it's back to the cubicle.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 06:37 AM
5

The simple rule, of "don't shit where you eat," is quadruply appropriate for you. Women can't keep secrets. If you bang one of them, the rest will know within a day or two. That's why you have to bang all of them.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 06:27 AM
0

Men with debt were more likely to get degrees that will allow them to retire the debt.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 08:35 PM
4

The student loan debt is a big deal. Somehow an entire generation of women was sold on the idea an advanced degree would bring the status they crave. It doesn't, but that debt isn't going away.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 08:18 AM
4

The question I would have asked myself from the get-go is "Why is my wife of three years using snapchat?" Snapchat is an app with only two kinds of users: teenagers who want some privacy from their parents and married people who want to cheat on their spouses without getting caught.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 08:47 AM
3

There's no support in the article whatsoever for the contention low Japanese birth rates are "endangering the global economy". The fact that Japan holds a lot of US debt could mean low US birth rates would endanger the world economy, but not the other way around. As to the substance of the article, talking to Japanese friends I get the impression the whole "herbivore" thing is more about posturing than serious lifestyle choices. The general consensus is young people are lying their asses off abo…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 10:48 AM
1

It's all well and good there's a person in politics that thinks prenups should be binding and divorce court tilted against men. But it's quite a big step to go from there to "The UK". We'll see if her bill passes, but without knowing a damn thing about UK politics (besides the PMQ tradition is awesome and should be imported to the US), I'd be willing to bet money it doesn't go anywhere. As far as men-only parenting classes, well, I can just hear women saying "Men need those classes because they'…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 12:49 AM
1

Sure, but how many of those reported are false reports?
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 08:42 PM
55

They also quote "76 cents to the dollar!" which is literally from the 50's. It's just the amount women make divided by the amount men make. The 76 cent number assumes hairdressers should make as much as brain surgeons, which makes about as much sense as everything else feminists say.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 02:05 PM
5

6 in 1,000 and we don't know how many of those are bogus. The real number could be substantially less.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 01:53 PM
3

She seems to understand placing women in jail is a big fucking deal. It's the innocent men who don't concern her. Wonder if she's a clam bumper.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 09:32 AM
8

False rape accusations are almost never prosecuted at all in the US. You really have to piss off a judge to get even a misdemeanor charge. Crystal Mangam almost put four guys away for decades and they didn't charge her at all. Well, until she knifed her boyfriend. Boyfriends.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 09:30 AM
1

But the base commander still gets the angry letter from the mother who just found out her son married a bar girl.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 06:23 AM
6

Used to be you had to get permission from the base commander to get married. I never heard of a case where it was denied, but decades ago when I was contracting there were a few guys who got the "I want to make sure you're really thinking this through" speech. Do they do that any more?
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 09:05 AM
13

Don’t be a Republican. They are self-dealing crooks with no sense of honor or patriotism to their fellow citizens. Well, I can write this guy off as an idiot.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 07:46 AM
1

Well... true, but if you marry her you're not planning to dump her in three months.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 09:45 PM
2

That's not true at all. A real alpha will nail everything in sight and then marry a virgin when he wants to have children.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 06:10 AM
5

I want to do this the right way for once. That shit just cracks me up. "I've slept with guys for a song, but you're gonna have to work for it." How is a man supposed to take that? "You must not be that damn hot for me if you can maintain now when you couldn't in the past. Shouldn't I find someone who's actually attracted to me?"
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 06:08 AM
11

Pretty much. You lose respect when you unload your feelings on someone. Anyway, women like a puzzle (even your mom). They'll be happier if they have to figure out what you're feeling by the way you act, and when your wife/girlfriend tells you she wants to have a discussion about feelings she means her feelings.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 11:19 PM
8

But once they're older, they're mothers, they're damaged, etc., hooking another sucker to pay her bills won't quite be so easy. That is certainly true, but if you've ever stayed home sick from work and watched daytime television you realize there's an entire industry dedicated to convincing her she can find someone, and not just anybody, but someone better than her current husband. She's read Eat, Pray, Love (which is funny if you actually read up on how the characters ended up in real life). He…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 07:26 AM
3

No idea if it's true but I said it with conviction That will get you the victory at least half the time.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 07:21 AM
1

One thing you might be missing here is if you get remarried your new wife's income is included in child support calculations.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 07:19 AM
4

Yeah, this shit is amazing. In CA a man is legally a child's parent if He was married to the child’s mother when the child was conceived or born; He attempted to marry the mother (even if the marriage was not valid) and the child was conceived or born during the “marriage”; He married the mother after the birth and agreed either to have his name on the birth certificate or to support the child; or He welcomed the child into his home and openly acted as if the child was his own. This concept is c…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 07:14 AM
4

Most guys aren't actually all that concerned about assets. First of all, only a tiny percentage of couples have a nontrivial amount of money saved. Beyond that, having a clean break with the ex is worth money. When my brother got divorced he was happy to get rid of the house he and the ex had lived in - he didn't need the reminder, and the amount they had in equity wouldn't have covered the cost to sell it. It's the support payments that drive men crazy. We all know someone who's making good mon…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 07:08 AM
3

Actually, that's exactly how it works unless you can show the court you would have been making less money anyway, i.e. you're disabled now or there's been some big shift in your industry (e.g. a loan underwriter in 2008). It's called "imputed income". If you were a hedge fund manager (or whatever) and decided to quit your job after the divorce and work at Starbucks, you're still going to be assessed hedge fund manager level support payments. You can Google "child support debtor's prison" if you …
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 06:34 AM
2

Not directly. However, many men who get ordered to pay child support end up losing all passion for their jobs because so much of your money is disappearing every month. They end up getting laid off and getting lower wages, which means much lower child support. It's lose/lose. Hah! If only it worked like that in real life. No, the judge is going to assume if you ever made a certain amount of money, you can still make that much money. The court doesn't care if you "lose all passion". They assign y…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 06:20 AM
1

All a wife has to do is tell her lawyer, which pretty much everyone who isn't completely broke is going to hire, and they are going to have a fucking field day. Of course she's going to hire a lawyer. Why wouldn't she? Ultimately the husband will be paying her legal bills.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 06:17 AM
2

In California you generally get to keep whatever you had when you entered the marriage.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 06:16 AM
5

It's not like he's the first guy to come up with this. Pretty much every divorcing man thinks to himself "If I'm gonna lose my family, why should I bother? Why should I even work if all the money will just go to the ex?" His idea is he'll just shift into low gear, work less, make less (or no) money so there isn't anything for the ex. You can't get blood from a turnip, right? But what happens in the real world is the judge says "I know you can make $x, because you used to make that much. So I'm g…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 06:11 AM
0

But anyways, why would a single guy go to a kid's leisure park? Nowhere in the article to they describe it as a "kid's" leisure park.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 10:05 AM
3

The really stupid thing about all this is there just aren't that many pedos out there. And the ones that are out there usually molest children they know - neighbors or relatives. The whole thing is the maternal instinct gone cancerous.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 10:00 AM
5

There used to be (maybe still is) a park in San Francisco like this. The signs said something along the lines of "No loitering by unaccompanied adults." "Loitering"? That's what you're supposed to do at a park. I have no interest in paying for public spaces I can't use. Were I a local voter I'd be pushing to get the thing turned into a strip mall.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 09:56 AM
7

Meh, there is a HUGE difference between fucking a girl who wants to fuck you and sticking it in some broad who just wants your money. Well, that's certainly true. But is there a huge difference between fucking a girl who's with you because you're a good provider and "sticking it in some broad who just wants your money"? Is there a huge difference between fucking a girl who's having sex with you because you have a fast car and an expensive watch and "sticking it in some broad who just wants your …
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 07:05 AM
1

Sure, I accept them. I just don't want to see them nekkid. It's less about men than other women. Women are vicious to each other in a way men will never be.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 10:44 AM
1

Heh heh. Well, this was before the internet. Everything I knew about sex was from the sex ed class at school and sneaking peeks at dad's stack of Playboys.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 10:03 PM
2

Your reset timer may be quick when you're young, but so is your, eh, timer. When I was 17 I was ready to go again after five minutes, but 90 seconds later it was over.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 08:40 AM
11

Yeaaah... has nothing to do with bright. Even the dumbest girl knows the score here. The reality is she's interested. Next comes the "I wouldn't have slept with that guy if you hadn't been such a jerk" excuse.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 10:29 AM
2

Anyone who's ever been to a strip club knows it's not the women who are being taken advantage of. They're a great example of women taking advantage of a double standard tilted in their favor and then pretending men are somehow benefiting.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 06:29 AM
10

And while the man is obligated to pay, he has no right to know the true biological parentage of the child because under law it violates the mother's medical privacy. In the US you don't need anyone's permission to do a DNA test. He may not know who the real father is, but he can certainly determine whether or not he is the father.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 09:51 PM
8

If you're throwing the party it's a different situation. I'm talking about going to a bar or a club and buying drinks for women you don't know. Waste of money.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 11:53 PM
18

My impression has always been buying drinks for women is a waste of money. If you're going to do well you'll do well regardless, and if she doesn't find you attractive spending small amounts of money on her isn't going to do much.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 11:48 PM
1

Yeah, that's my take. "She" has written something from the standpoint of her husband.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 06:22 AM
1

It helps if you realize there's no such thing as a nonprofit organization. The difference with these sorts of companies is the profit goes to the executives instead of shareholders.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/14 09:43 AM
1

From what I can see the exact content of those phone calls wasn't divulged.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 10:57 PM
1

I can hardly be expected to defend a statement I didn't make.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 10:56 PM
1

So what you mean is "I have no idea but I think its this..." Which is exactly what you're doing. Meh. We'll know for sure eventually.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 09:15 PM
1

She probably didn't have a fever. Elevated temperature and fever are not the same thing. If you go to your doctor with a 99.5 temperature, in the absence of other symptoms he's going to just shrug and tell you to keep an eye on it. And yes, she almost certainly explained the situation to them. Otherwise they would have asked her why she's bothering them.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 08:30 PM
2

She knew it was wrong. You don't know that was the case. Hell, you still don't know if it's even true.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 08:25 PM
1

That's why I didn't say that.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 08:24 PM
-1

I don't necessarily disagree. I just don't think it's fair to assume the nurse was looking for an excuse to do something she knew was wrong.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 10:13 AM
3

That's overly harsh. When it comes to medical stuff it's very easy to let your fears overwhelm you. She called to get advice from someone detached from the situation. There's a reason 100.4 is the point at which doctors start to assume there's a problem - because it's possible to have a temperature in the 99s without anything being wrong. And that's why they told her to get on the plane.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 09:48 AM
8

The real problem with this policy is what it portends for the future. You know the feminists won't stop here if it's allowed to stand - what they really want to do is chip away at the legal presumption of innocence whenever a woman accuses a man of a crime. DNA tests should really have opened everyone's eyes to the fact that men are falsely accused of rape and imprisoned on a regular basis. And that's with the laws the way they are now.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 03:17 AM
9

As you say, some already operate like this. But it doesn't really matter that much if there are children. In my state women don't get much in alimony any more, but the judges have basically included alimony in child support. You don't have to be married to get child support.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 10:17 PM
7

This. Women are being taught men are callous, raping simpletons. From the man's side the institution marriage is all risk and no reward. Of course marriage rates are falling.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 10:14 PM
7

If she's sleeping with other guys she's not really your plate. She's just a slut.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 10:28 PM
7

Riiiiiight. It's hilarious how many people genuinely believe they are smarter than almost everyone around them. It's like they observe their social awkwardness and use that as proof of their intelligence. For about a decade I played a lot of poker. Meaning pretty much all my free time was spent at the local card club trying to take money from other people in $15 or $20 increments. I learned three things about intelligence there: Well schooled is not the same thing as well educated is not the sam…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 10:25 PM
35

She sat me down right after we took pictures with our wedding party and told me she couldn't have sex again because of what happened to her. I told her there was no rush we could take our time, that I would never pressure her and that and that we get counseling but she said it wouldn't work and that she was giving me a chance to get out of the marriage since she already knew I needed a healthy sex life to be happy. She's sleeping with someone else, but she doesn't want to admit it and she doesn'…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 08:20 PM
16

So, instead of telling him the truth, he'll hear that his personality—which he very obviously cares a lot about—sucks. Because she's worried if she tells him the truth it will make her look shallow. That's her interest here - she's telling herself (and everyone else) she's going to lie to let him down easy, but the reality is she's afraid other people think only bad, shallow people are turned off by fatties. The sad thing is she's probably right. It's sort of a classic example of Orwell's double…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 01:12 PM
7

That's been my experience. For me exercise actually makes it harder, because it makes me ravenous, whereas if I'm just dieting I don't get that hungry.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 01:04 PM
5

Doesn't matter to me what the excuse is. When I hear women complaining about wage gaps I glance at all those unoccupied cubicles and roll my eyes. Yeah, sometimes it's about kids. But the childless women do it too.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 05:58 PM
24

There was an article I read a few months back that said people who describe themselves as "soul mates" are far more likely to get divorced.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 06:05 AM
2

Cable companies call that "bundling".
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 12:32 AM
44

At my white collar job there are a fair number of women, but if you look around at 6:00 PM even though roughly every third cubicle is still occupied you won't see any of them.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 08:56 PM
1

She's probably doing film studies because she likes it, and with $200k in the bank she doesn't need student loans. Besides, there's a reason you find more women men taking film studies, psychology, sociology, liberal arts, etc. They don't need to make a lot of money. That's what men are for. I have brothers whose wives work (or maybe I should write "work"), they tend to be in jobs that have few, flexible hours and are somehow rewarding. Jobs like "paid volunteer" at the local animal rescue cente…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 06:19 PM
1

Oh, that's all true. She's not going to be able to walk away without paying a price. Though she wants children, so the 60 year old guy is out unless the plan is to wait for him to die and then marry her "real" husband.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 09:23 AM
1

I don't know if you can go that far, but it certainly doesn't necessarily mean she wasn't.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 05:01 AM
4

There will always be men who work. Some out of sheer stubbornness and pride, some because they're raising families.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 04:30 AM
7

She seems pretty smart. He won't find out.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 02:45 AM
9

No they aren't. You think that means they'll be mired in poverty, but what it really means is they'll vote to raise your taxes so the government has enough money to pay their bills. It's the ultimate mass-cuckold.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 02:41 AM
4

She claims she never did drugs, and she doesn't come across as someone who needs more validation. She does say she misses the money and the excuse to spend $600 dolling herself up.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 01:55 AM
1

I'm coming around to that way of looking at things. Reading this sub is probably part of it.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 01:54 AM
4

Nah, she's 24, and she's done, or so she claims, anyway. She can still have a loving (in his ignorance) husband, kids, grandkids. Hell, if she finds a husband in the next few years she'll still be married earlier than average.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 01:53 AM
3

All of a sudden we’d all be naked, in the bed, but then it would be the girl and me having fun, and the guy doing his own thing, and honestly, I would forget about him. His girlfriend would definitely forget about him. I promise you that. Hahahaha. They say inside every threesome is a twosome and a onesome.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 01:49 AM
8

It's no less pitiful than going to an actual psychiatrist and just as likely to help you.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 01:26 AM
42

/u/anttyk47 has the right of it. Normal people don't pay $5k for a woman, just like they wouldn't pay $3k for an Italian suit or $300k for a car. But for a guy who's worth twenty million dollars, $5k is less of a hit than for a normal guy to treat at Starbucks. All expenditures are relative to your wealth and income.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 01:24 AM
3

Women's sports exist as a socially acceptable way for men to enjoy the eye candy. "Naw, honey I'm just enjoying the athleticism. Respectfully." Why is women's beach volleyball popular and not other sports?
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 10:35 PM
7

No, those things are not similar at all. Having something stolen from you is something you get over in a few days. Being raped, and I mean really raped and not some bullshit next morning regret thing, is something you may never get over.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 10:24 PM
9

Rape is on par with what we call "battery" in the US, but it's much worse than robbery or theft. Theft? You think we should treat someone lifting your iPad the same way we treat a guy who knocks a woman off her bike with a lead pipe and rapes her (something that happened to someone I was acquainted with)?
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 08:59 PM
2

The whole point of typing something into the box and hitting "save" is that other people will read what you've written. Say something controversial, especially on subs dominated by women, and you will nearly instantly find your comment below the viewing threshold.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 08:45 PM
1

I don't have to. I didn't make the assertion.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 08:54 PM
1

Education and intelligence are not the same thing. The dumbest people I know have college degrees.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 07:21 PM
0

People with large families are often less intelligent... And often not. Seriously, do you have anything at all to back this up beyond your own observations?
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 10:49 AM
4

How would you know she never cheated? Take her word for it? I guess as a thought exercise it's worth exploring, but IRL I don't see how you could believe that a promiscuous woman never cheated.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 04:55 AM
3

They're not going to do themselves any favors by caving in and alienating their core audience. Too much political correctness in a game makes it dull and likely to sink the franchise. Hopefully they'll take a look at Hollywood and think "Hmmm. So we do have to make a product people want instead of just preaching to them."
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 08:57 AM
8

The funny thing about that is the girl wants you to admire her ass. She just doesn't want you to say anything unless she finds you attractive. I weep inside every time I run across a guy who is that clueless.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 08:53 AM
1

Yes, that's all true, but hardly any AAA games get released for the Mac, so if you're running a gaming magazine site (or whatever you'd call them), your customers are going to be PC and console users.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 08:49 AM
2

I don't see it. The unattractive women will pick out attractive men, show their pictures, and get rejected at that point instead of never getting interest at all. They may fall for the illusion of being in the driver's seat, but reality will come crashing back when the cute guys see their pic and take a pass. Early or late, at some point she's going to get rejected.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 06:20 AM
0

Well, there's two ways you can feel slender - actually be slender or be more slender than the people around you.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 08:48 PM
53

If I had Facebook stock I'd sell it ASAP. Any tech company with 50% women is doomed.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 07:50 AM
5

It really depends on what you want. If you're just interested in banging cute women, the US is the land of opportunity. If you want to raise a family (and most guys do, at some point), it's a minefield.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 07:27 PM
1

Or married men are more willing to take jobs they don't want and work hours they wouldn't work as a single guy. Either way, this isn't something you can point to and call a benefit of marriage.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 03:06 AM
2

On the flip side, if you both make about the same amount of money you will pay more taxes if you get married (filing jointly or not). That's what people mean when they talk about the "marriage tax".
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 03:05 AM
1

In general they just show no interest. Culture, genetics... what does it matter?
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 02:51 AM
1

Evolutionarily, what the alpha "cares" about matters not. What matters is: does his behavior result in viable offspring? If he just breeds randomly with every willing female, but doesn't defend the offspring of his union, his offspring are at a disadvantage. There will be a man to defend the child. It just won't be him. That's the best of all possible worlds from an evolutionary perspective, since it leaves him with all his resources to have legitimate children or woo other married women.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 07:43 AM
7

Why would the alpha care if she gets pregnant? He's cuckolding the husband in the truest sense of the word.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 06:21 AM
1

Well, that makes sense, doesn't it? If she wants someone to take her to a museum she's got the husband. He's got everything covered but her desire for some new dick.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 05:09 AM
7

Alpha (as TRP defines it) may fuck, but if Alpha doesn't marry, his children are at a disadvantage. Not if the woman's husband doesn't realize the kid isn't his.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 05:07 AM
3

Women don't file sexual harassment on men they actually want to fuck. Oh yes they do. They don't file against men they want to fuck right now, but once it's over she has a huge legal club with which she can beat the boss/colleague.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 04:55 AM
3

You should have texted "Is your husband free? We'll do man stuff while you shop or something."
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 08:03 AM
5

This is from 2011. I'm curious as to what's happened in the meantime.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 01:16 AM
8

Actually, that's not a double negative.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 10:27 PM
13

The accused ex-boyfriend would sometimes then offer to show his receipts and plane tickets, proving he was in Las Vegas that day, or he would provide 5 witnesses swearing the guy was working a factory shift 50 miles away during the time he allegedly was raping the accuser. What always scares me about these kind of stories is the cops are only "putting the file away" when the accuser is an idiot. How many innocent guys are rotting in jail because the ex is smart enough to figure out when he would…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 07:18 PM
5

The narrative is "sex workers have a job just like you and me" and at the same time "men who pay for sex are horrible perverts who should find a dried up crone to marry!"
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 08:53 AM
1

He came out ahead if she didn't invite her swarthy "brother" to come live with them when they got home.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 05:08 AM
1

"successful educated"? What does that mean, exactly? A woman with a good job who won't have time to cook or clean or take care of your children?
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 05:05 AM
2

Yep. I can't get women to admit it, but they aren't against prostitution because it's "icky". They don't like it because 1) it reduces their pricing power and 2) married women don't want hubby spending family resources on hookers.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 05:04 AM
1

STDs aren't really a problem. Whores don't let you fuck them without a condom. But sluts do. I'd feel safer with a whore than some random chick who was willing to make the beast with two backs on the first date.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 05:02 AM
1

Yeah, if she's dumb enough to put it into something you can show him later that's ideal. But even if she's not this is just one of those cases you do the right thing because it's the right thing to do. I'm kind of curious if you guys are talking now that he's divorced.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 06:26 PM
4

Yep. Where I live the standard is the wife is supported in "the style to which she has become accustomed", which is ridiculous for two reasons. First, now that they ex-couple is supporting two households expenses have gone up. If her lifestyle isn't changing, he's taking a big it. And second, while he's providing what he provided during the marriage, she isn't. She doesn't have to cook or clean or any of that stuff (assuming she did during the marriage). And, as Chris Rock says: When it's time t…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 05:44 AM
12

Right at the top of the "Lessons Learned" section you should put "Never, ever, marry a woman with a Women's Studies degree. The type of person who signs up for that major will never make a good wife.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 01:39 AM
1

It always was, really, because that's the default mindset of women in general. You won't find too many women that can make the statement "I think [something] is wrong, but I don't think it should be illegal."
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 01:21 AM
1

The UK and Canada have been racially diverse for one generation. It takes some time for cultural momentum to run out.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 10:13 PM
2

That's the fun part about freedom of speech. Say whatever you want, but don't expect to be respected for it. Well, that's the rub, isn't it? I don't care whether you respect me for saying what I say, but the fact that mobs are mobilized to keep people like me from speaking at all doesn't reflect well on your side of the ideological aisle.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 08:35 AM
15

This happens any time people stray from leftist orthodoxy on campus. Conservative speakers are routinely shouted down - it's not just people criticizing feminism.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 06:13 AM
4

Honestly, fucking your friends GF is an act of charity, assuming you tell him about it. Sacrifice your friendship to show your friend that his GF is a cunt and that he needs to move on. Oh, bullshit. You don't need to actually fuck her to show his girlfriend is sleeping around - you just need to tell him. You can't laugh at women for the rationalization hamster and then tell yourself you're actually doing a guy a solid by sleeping with his girlfriend. That's hypocrisy of the lowest sort.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 06:11 AM
5

My ex wife cheated at least 5 times in 5 years. When I caught her and told her it was over she told me that I needed to accept some of the responsibility for her cheating. Me. For HER cheating. As if something I did was a trigger for her to open her legs. Legally, you should be able to slap your wife if she says this.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 05:07 AM
3

I honestly think women are better at handling infidelity from men. Sure, because you always know who a child's mother is but not the father. If your husband's lover gets pregnant it's the lover's husband who raises the child. But if your wife gets pregnant by her lover you're putting all your resources into raising someone else's child.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 05:03 AM
1

The term is defined as a country's military plus suppliers of military equipment and materials. You've simply made your own definition because otherwise you don't have a point.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 10:02 PM
1

This is why immediately post-Civil War Southern blacks viewed Democrats as the racist party, and now the script is flipped and they see Republicans that way. The 19th century Republicans thought people shouldn't be treated differently based on skin color, whereas modern Republicans think... people shouldn't be treated differently based on their skin color. The Democrats are as racist as they ever were - they figure blacks can't succeed without the government. The only difference is there used to…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 09:44 PM
1

Well... okay, if you include non-military stuff in military expenditures you can get to a large number. Meh.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 09:12 PM
8

The hospital position was created for her when her husband was elected to the Senate. And it was so critical to the hospital they didn't bother to replace her when she left. That wasn't a job. That was a gift.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 08:16 AM
1

Oh come on. We're spending about 4% of our GDP on the military, down from around 10% during the cold war, even as the total for the government rises to unprecedented levels (around 22%, last I checked). We haven't spent this little on our military since before WW II.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 08:10 AM
1

Sure, sure. Meanwhile the Democrats had a Klansman in the Senate for decades and that's okay.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 08:06 AM
1

Yeah, Michael Steele... a black guy.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 08:04 AM
1

I hope she's a candidate. The US isn't populated by socialists. Yet.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 08:03 AM
1

The problem with that is kids can be awesome at video games, and it's pretty embarrassing shit to get your ass kicked by a 7 year old.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 08:01 AM
1

Oh come on. That won't stop Al Sharpton from showing up and shaking down ESPN. When your livelihood depends on it, you don't get the joke. The problem here is, as men, we don't have a pressure group to go around policing other peoples' speech.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 07:59 AM
1

Yeah, but you wouldn't want to live in Arizona unless you're retired and all you plan to do is sun yourself like a lizard.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 10:00 AM
12

Pretty much any complaints from women about being too popular with a particular set of men is "bragg-plainging". This particular one is a two-fer for Asian feminists - on the one hand they can complain about men being sexist and seeing them as "paper-thin cutouts". On a deeper level it's "Look at meeee! White men don't think you're sexy but they think I am!" When white women complain about yellow fever it's because otherwise they'd have to consider the possibility those thirty extra pounds might…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 07:23 PM
3

Seriously. Brandishing for pepper spray (it was almost certainly pepper spray, not mace)? The most I could see any man doing is taking it away and slapping her.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 07:12 PM
1

Maybe so, but I'd be willing. Anyone else and I'm jumping out of the way.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 05:04 PM
3

I'm sure Frankly_George is referring to a different incident, but this is the one I was talking about. He's right - if a woman is crazy enough for a gang bang, she's crazy enough to accuse you of kidnapping and gang rape, which means your life is over. Remember this story the next time someone tries to tell you women don't lie about rape.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 02:44 AM
1

That makes less sense to me. The bonding is all chemical, and if that were an evolutionary advantage it would go into the brain wiring.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 07:26 PM
1

This has happened more than once. There was a story on one of the Orange County, CA free paper sites. I'd google it, but I'm at work.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 07:24 PM
1

Only because he went into politics. You can bet he he uses it in private conversations when he's sure it won't get repeated.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 07:00 PM
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You were with her for five years and didn't see it. I submit you couldn't have seen it because she was actually a different person. I don't mean she had some sort of mental break or anything. It's just that the type of person a woman is depends very heavily on her female friends and how she thinks other people see her.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 06:23 PM
1

No gf or wife. I'd take a bullet for my mother. Nobody else.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 04:43 AM
20

Not even below average. More like below the 80% line.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 03:21 AM
2

The idea that she could be both happy the way things are and too stressed for sex doesn't really compute.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 09:39 PM
3

He can't do that without losing the kid. I agree he should have done it long before the baby was conceived, but the kid definitely complicates things. OTOH, if it were me I'd have a paternity test done yesterday.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 09:37 PM
8

Holy Christ. If a woman cheats on you, don't ever, ever, ever marry her. Ever.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 09:36 PM
1

You sound new here. I'm not. But I still don't think it makes any more sense to ask about this than it did to ask when people were worried about AIDS. For an LTR you should definitely inquire about her sexual past, as it will give you insight into how she will behave in the future. The time to figure all this out is before you get emotionally involved. But you can't figure it out by asking - you'll be lied to, and you don't know her well enough to catch any but the worst liars. This guy has alre…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 06:27 PM
-9

Aaaaaaand that's why you never ask a girl about her past. What's the point? The real problem is this guy feels like if he turns his back she's going to cheat on him with the FWB guy, and he's probably right.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 03:06 AM
9

Is there any way to be married and properly have this mindset? She's got you by the balls and can divorce you and take half of your shit. Placating her will make divorce more likely in the end. How can you not maintain that mindset?
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 11:25 PM
15

Saying it's a feature is probably going a bit far. It's just reality that you need to work with/work around depending on your goals.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 11:21 PM
2

Yes, but the reason it's funny is there's a lot of truth in it.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 02:11 PM
30

If someone texted me asking how tall I was twenty minutes before a date, I'd be tempted to ask her what her cup size is.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 02:05 PM
6

Our sex life has tapered in the last few months The times in seven weeks isn't "tapering", and she's giving other clues that she's lost interest (like gaining weight). They've only been together five years. If this is life without kids when the kids come this guy will be remember fondly to the time when he got sex three times in seven weeks. He should leave her before it gets complicated by children.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 06:41 PM
1

When someone else is taking my money because of their own poor choices, that's not "freedom".
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 06:15 PM
0

Ah yes, another phony internet IQ chart. You've been taken in by a hoax.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 06:13 PM
2

There's nothing wrong with forever. The problem is it's an ideal, but marriage is a legal contract. You can't bank on the ideal, but she can certainly bank on the family court system.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 05:52 AM
0

Yep. For women like this the relationship isn't about "them". It's about "her".
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 05:42 AM
4

One's who know how fucking stupid this feminist wannabe crusade is...But jesus brother, I don't think the chances of finding a girl like that, nevertheless a girl like that who fits me personally are likely. The real problem is even if you find a girl you think shares your values, you have no way of knowing if it's all an act. Beyond that, she can certainly change her mind after marriage.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 05:25 AM
0

No they don't. That's just an unsupported conceit people on the left have.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 05:22 AM
1

You can with the crime part. People don't get divorced because sometime in the future their children will become criminals.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 05:17 AM
1

Never mind the reality that men have ZERO custody rights when they have a child out of wedlock That must be a state-by-state thing. Where I live your marital status doesn't affect custody rights.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 05:16 AM
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There was no incentive for him to hurry things along in legally getting a divorce, but there was a huge incentive for her to do so. Rather than missing the point, isn't that exactly the point?
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 05:15 AM
3

That's fine... as long as people accept the consequences of that freedom. A woman who spends her youth sleeping with every attractive man she runs across, never marries, never saves, never develops a marketable skill... that woman is going to expect you and me to support her when she's sick or too old to work.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 04:52 AM
5

...with the French government citing psychologists who state that fatherhood is determined by society rather than biology. Not for the "father", it isn't.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 04:49 AM
4

the no sex without marriage/adultery is a sin thing came about in the days long before there was contraception and dna tests. That explains fidelity, but it doesn't explain sex being proscribed for single people. There's more to it. Having sex with someone releases brain chemicals that stimulate bonding, so the idea is only ever having sex with one person helps create the strongest possible emotional bond. I suspect this is why women with a high number of sex partners before they marry are more …
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 04:47 AM
1

What happened in this case was the judge essentially took the extra credit card debt out of her share in the equity of the house.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 10:48 AM
1

Which is all very reasonable, or at least... understandable. The gentleman in the article got stuck with all the debt, not just half of it. Where I live joint property means joint debt, but once the preliminary paperwork is filed you're effectively on separate credit accounts. A buddy of mine was getting a divorce and the ex ran up all the cards thinking he would have to pay half of everything she spent until the divorce was final. But that wasn't the case.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 06:58 AM
1

Ah, nostalgia. When I was in college there were always groups of mostly uninformed people who wanted to "educate" me.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 05:03 AM
6

If she says she regrets not having more experience it's one thing, but if she suggests opening the marriage she's either already banging someone or she's got someone in mind. If you tell her no she's going to fuck him behind your back. Your marriage is pretty much over, even if you're only just realizing it at that point.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 04:49 AM
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He should use his new credit to sue his divorce lawyer. How did he get stuck with the entire debt? Also, if you feel you have to put your credit cards in a safe, then maybe you ought to think about leaving the wife before she impoverishes you.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 10:08 PM
6

I'm single And I pay less than $200/month to have someone come in and clean the house top to bottom every two weeks. That's what her contribution is worth.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 03:36 AM
3

No... I think even if the "friend" is lower on the ladder the guy may want to sleep with her and still keep his "official" girlfriend. The "getting away with it" part just depends on circumstances. Look at Arnold Schwartzenegger. The maid was waaaaaaaaay lower on the ladder, but he still slept with her. He just flubbed up the last part.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 07:40 AM
5

3 is iffy. He might still try to nail her if he thinks he can get away with it.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 06:30 AM
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Agree 100%. I've had gfs where I felt like I was expected to be a combination of tour guide and personal comedian. It's just too much work.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 04:47 AM
9

Of course the friend zone exists. Within five minutes of meeting a girl she's put you into one of two categories - "a guy I might sleep with" (small category) and "a guy I will never sleep with" (much larger category). If you're in the second category she'll only interact with you if you can do something for her. That is the friend zone. And, as you point out, you're not really friends. So maybe the feminists are right about one thing - we should call it something else.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 05:15 AM
26

Ah, good times, good times. No, wait. That was the most painful fucking lesson of my life.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 11:52 PM
1

I have written than young women sometimes avoid nice and available men because they aren’t ready for, or are scared of, commitment. Except that the same women desperately chase after (and sleep with) unavailable men trying to get commitment from them. I can never figure out if women actually believe what they're saying in some kind of mental compartmentalization pretzel, or if they're flat-out lying because otherwise it makes them look kind of pathetic and illogical.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 05:11 AM
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I don't understand why I lose all attraction to him when he is sick and starts complaining. I can't stand him. It may not be so much the sickness as the complaining. For all that women demand empathy from men, they don't really have much of their own to provide. Instead of complaining you'd be better off adopting a stiff upper lip and just telling her what you need from her. It's not like she can actually do anything about your sore throat anyway.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 04:54 AM
2

Ah, yeah, we all had a good laugh at this one when it came out. Tough, independent, you go grrrrl! expects to be treated like a princess by men who have no reason to do so.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 01:39 AM
1

That may be, but it puts you in a tiny minority.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 05:57 PM
1

Because normally when it comes down to he said/she said they believe the woman. That's one of the explicit goals of feminists.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 05:56 PM
1

I think they'll start with a bachelor tax, though not officially. We already sort of have that - people with dependents pay less in taxes because they get extra deductions. I agree that doesn't work in the long run, though, since guys who aren't incentivized to create and support a family will be perfectly happy working part time at Starbucks as long as it covers the rent and leaves a little bit extra for beer money. But there's no reason to hold themselves to a bachelor tax. Like the Romans, th…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 05:56 PM
1

The problem with rape is it so often comes down to he said/she said. If she sticks with her story he's probably screwed.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 07:57 AM
1

There was anger from women's rights campaigners who claimed that such severe sentences would put off rape victims from going to the police for fear they could face prosecution if allegations were not proven. Severe? She got three and a half years. She was trying to pin multiple counts of rape on this guy, and in the UK rape averages an eight year sentence. And prison for men is a whole different world than prison for women. She got a slap on the wrist, IMO.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 04:54 AM
2

There is a valid argument against severe sentences for false rape accusations, and that is if we don't punish false accusers they'll be more likely to recant and the victim will be spared a long jail sentence. But the idea women who were legitimately raped won't go to the police for fear of being prosecuted is daft.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 04:52 AM
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Alibis, evidence from Fensome's phone and his work shift patterns undermined Brooker's accounts. This woman is an unmitigated liar. A full investigation was conducted (like it's supposed to), and her accusations were proven baseless. The real miscarriage of justice was that it took 37 days to prove she was a lying sack of shit. The scary thing about these stories, to me, is that if she'd been a better liar he'd be in jail and nobody would see anything amiss. Now, in my experience most women are …
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 04:47 AM
1

When I asked about that, (we only went on 4 dates) she said you act like you're not ready to settle down in life but, on paper you should be. I'm into guys a little less put together so much. Translation: I'm into tatted outlaw biker types, and you're a bit beige.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 04:29 AM
2

What's bad is when a woman says "you're the type of guy that I could see myself with later in life" or something like that. Then it's really clear that she's not attracted to you and only likes that you make decent money and will put up with her shit. If a single woman tells you you're marriage material but doesn't want to date you, that's exactly what she's saying.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 04:26 AM
1

I think TRP and MGTOW will be the forces that shape our culture in the next century far more than feminism ever will. I hope that's true, but I think it's unlikely. Women still control the culture and the government, so what's more likely to happen is as men refuse to get married women and the (relatively) small number of men who benefit from the status quo will use the state to simply take what they want. I can envision women reacting to a generation of men turning into slackers by instituting …
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 04:23 AM
1

There's nothing capitalist about banks in the US. They are de facto agents of the state.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 04:14 AM
3

I think he didn't like that he was fat, too. But he was willing to at least entertain the notion that it might not be a good thing.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 09:56 PM
3

The difference is the legal system and culture aren't stacked against you.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 07:04 PM
2

That vocal minority is in control of the education and legal systems, though.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 07:03 PM
0

Yes, but statistically people don't in the US.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 06:03 PM
1

People who go to college are probably a bit more intelligent on average, but we're talking about individuals here. You can't be successful in the skilled trades if you're an idiot, and there are a whole lot of college degrees you can get with an 85 IQ. A woman with a sociology or communications degree may think she's settling for someone with a lower IQ when she marries a successful plumber, but she's most likely wrong.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 06:02 PM
0

Well, I guess, if you don't mind having screwed up kids.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 05:59 AM
4

I know most women think a college degree is a college degree, but the reality is what you study makes a big, big, difference. There are a whole lot of degrees which will never pay for themselves.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 04:23 AM
8

This shit really pisses me off. In general I don't have any desire to tell other people how to live their lives. But I don't expect to pay for other peoples' choices, either.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 04:20 AM
2

tax benefits. MFJ is a prefferred tax bracket over a single bracket on the federal level. Only if you make substantially more than the wife. If you both make good money, you pay more as a couple than you would as singles.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 04:16 AM
0

It's not 50%. For college educated white people it's about 30%. But you're right. Unless you want children there's no reason to get married.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 04:12 AM
5

What isn't discussed is that the chance for various birth defects and miscarriage increases exponentially as a woman ages and the critical age is around 30. I wish people would understand this. Where I work couples all started trying to have families at 35+. Half of them never got out of the gate, even with very expensive fertility treatments - the guy in the next cube spent $130k with no success. Of the ones who had children I would say about half the kids are screwed up in some (most likely ge…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 04:09 AM
1

Nah, there's no criminal case here, particularly if she was sending him text messages after the fact. She's got a civil case over the firing, though.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 02:15 AM
2

That was just an example. In this case she claims she was fired because she slept with the boss, and if that's actually true she has grounds for a lawsuit.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 12:24 AM
3

No. See my other comment. Essentially you can fire someone for no reason, but you can't fire someone for the wrong reason. What that means in practice is you can probably only get away with arbitrarily firing white, straight men under the age of 35.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 11:12 PM
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Not in the real world. You're confusing things somewhat. A "right to work" state is one in which you are not required to join a union even if the shop is unionized. What you're probably thinking of is an "at will" state, where in theory the boss can fire you for no reason. In practice there are no "at will" states, though, because there are all sorts of reasons you can't fire someone. There's no state in the union where you can demand a BJ and fire a woman if she doesn't provide it. Hell, you ca…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 11:10 PM
11

IMO his legal problems start when she's fired. Legally you can't fire a woman because you were shtupping her and the wife found out.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 07:48 PM
15

Yeah, if she could have stopped it by saying "no" and asking him to leave, then it was consensual. The idea uncomfortable=rape is retarded. Life is uncomfortable sometimes for everyone.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 07:45 PM
8

"Stop talking about business/politics/philosophy so much". "That's all you guys talk about". This shit drives me crazy. It seems like whenever I'm at some social gathering the women all immediately get together and ignore the men (unless they need one of the guys to do something), but the moment I get into a conversation with other guys about something I care about somebody's wife or girlfriend zooms over from across the room to break into the conversation and demands a change in topic to someth…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 07:34 PM
1

Most of us are struggling to make $7000 or $8000, not that we're not trying... Really? $8000 is $4/hr. And of course people in their early to mid 20s don't make $250k. My point was you don't need $250k to be middle class. Though I'll concede if you're making $8k you're poor, not middle class.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 07:46 AM
2

Then why are there so many families with two working parents? Are they daft? I think it's a social thing. Women view marriage as a potentially temporary thing, so they don't want to be in the position of not having a career should they get divorced. Also, whereas women in the fifties and sixties left high school and started a family, today's woman goes to five or six years of college and then stay single until their early 30s. They're loath to give up a career they've already spent ten years dev…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 04:37 AM
1

Economically accessible higher education should be a priority. I used to think so, but no longer. Lots of countries have very well schooled young people with nothing to do. To the extent that the state gets involved in higher education at all, I think it should focus on the top students, and should only pay for degrees which are likely to generate economic activity. Physics or engineering are investment. Art History is consumption. The savings you can generate through frugality pale in compariso…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 02:34 AM
3

When Mitt Romney said the middle class income was 250,000 he wasn't making a gaffe that showed how disconnected he was from what Americans actually earn. He was just reflecting the reality. In order to live what we would call a middle class life today (home ownership, two cars in the garage, 2.3 college bound children, comfortable retirement prospects) you need to be making that much money in many parts of the country. All that means is we've redefined middle class to mean something that's not a…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 11:40 PM
2

Of course the women don't realize this as they are so self centered that it takes them a while to figure out they're being played. What makes you think that? Most of those women aren't going to settle down with that tatted outlaw biker, and they know it. But they're not gonna rope in someone stable until they just can't have "fun" any longer.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 05:00 AM
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And if, by some chance, one of her old alpha flings takes a renewed interest the panties can't hit the floor fast enough.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 09:14 PM
1

Well... okay. If you assume she assumes the man filed for the divorce. But she's just as likely to assume the wife filed because there's something horribly wrong with the husband. I had a buddy get divorced and he seemed to do pretty well for himself, but only with women who already had children. Part of the attraction was they didn't want to have more kids and figured he wouldn't either.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 09:08 PM
1

The problem I have with your logic is it's normally the woman who files for divorce, so the "fuck you, I'll just pay the price for my freedom" part doesn't really work.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 06:55 PM
1

I think so. Did you read the whole post? Her dad used to take any clothes she bought that were the slightest bit tight or revealing. And her blog is sprinkled with religious references. My upbringing was similar. My parents didn't let us curse, we weren't allowed to go to R-rated movies, we went to church every sunday, etc, etc. We learned all about sex, but it was from the religious perspective - i.e. it was a wonderful gift God gave to married people, and only married people. I could see my si…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 06:32 AM
6

Contra what seems to be everyone else's opinion here, I don't think she looks bad at all for someone her age who's had a kid. She's got a little extra weight around the thighs, but her face is cute. And pregnancy can give a woman stretch marks whether or not she started or ended up fat. If I have criticism it's the need she feels to say, over and over and over, "I'm not blaming you for showing off your bodies." Of course she is. And she's fighting a losing battle. She's never going to be able to…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 06:09 AM
6

Yeah, what women either don't understand or don't want to face is that "slut shaming" stuff is coming from other women. They say "society" tells them to do this or not do that, by which they're trying to imply men. But that's not what's really going on.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 06:03 AM
1

Seems to be, from her blog.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 06:02 AM
1

You might be interested in this.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 09:10 PM
38

That's what allows feminism to exist. You can pretend you're a strontindependantwomanhearmeroar while collecting benefits from the diffuse taxpaying population (as long as you don't think to hard), but you couldn't if you were dependent on a single man.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 08:45 PM
2

That's the right attitude. You have kids because you want to have kids, not because you've been bullied into it. That's much too large of a commitment to go into halfheartedly.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 05:25 PM
1

As 121895 says, depends on the state. In some states you have a few months to challenge the paternity of the baby, and after that it's yours, legally. In others the judge decides whether you've acted as a father figure, meaning you treated the child as yours for some number of years, and if you have it's legally yours. I don't know if it's still true, but at one time in some states if the woman you were married to had a child it was legally yours. Period, end of story. There was a sob story ratt…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 04:55 PM
26

Seriously, the one thing I can't swallow about TRP is the obsession with marrying some 18-20 y/o, seriously they're as mentally stimulating as a fucking cheese wheel Which differentiates them from older women... how? If a woman has a sense of humor and a zest for life it's gonna show up by 22.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 07:42 AM
4

The asshole model of masculinity is valid because it requires confidence, not because it results in douchebaggery. Absolutely. If you're willing to piss people off the message you're broadcasting is "I can deal with whatever you're going to do as a result of being upset," which is something you only do from a position of strength.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 04:06 AM
5

That was certainly true 25 years ago, but is it still true when every dork has one too?
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 04:00 AM
5

Really? I don't believe I've ever heard a feminist describe rape as a problem that's diminishing in scope.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 03:54 AM
3

Yeah, it's definitely an age thing. You will definitely see a shift in "dating power" as you hit your mid 30s. If you don't let yourself go women who wouldn't give you the time of day ten years ago will be waiting for your call. But you won't be interested anymore, because you'll be dating younger. It's a little depressing, too. You'll see lots of gals that used to be smoking hot become overweight and frumpy, seemingly overnight. There are exceptions, but not many. It was pretty common in my cir…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 07:09 AM
6

If a 30 something man is looking to hook with 30 somethings, he's not getting laid? I'm curious - how old are you? I'm not looking to score a debating point, it's just that I'm through my 30s and this is how I would describe it: 30 something men will definitely hook up with 30 something women. But only 30 something me who aren't getting laid will marry a woman his age. The successful (sexually) guys are dating women in their twenties. Again you're saying he's getting less attractive than her at …
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 06:01 AM
10

Most likely not. If he's looking at a woman his own age at 30+ he's probably not actually getting laid, whereas only the biggest of the walrus women can't get sex. And while he's getting less attractive, it's at a much slower rate than the rate she's getting less attractive.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 01:18 AM
4

... and in a few years she'll decide the only part she really likes is his money and divorce him.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 01:14 AM
4

Sadly, it's just not me. On the one hand I like sex as much as the next guy. On the other, though, that kind of thing puts your life on a certain trajectory, and I wouldn't have the job I have or know the people I know if I hadn't been a lot straighter than that. I know a guy who did the tatted biker thing. Nailed one hot chick after another when he was in his twenties (being 6' 5" didn't hurt). But now he's a coach at the local high school making a quarter what his friends make. He's got kids b…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 06:32 PM
5

Where I live the benefits of prenups are strictly limited, and even then during the divorce the judge can void a prenup because it isn't "fair".
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 01:48 AM
19

Not where I live. Oh, they want a nice man and a nice family... someday. Until then it's sex with tatted up bikers and junkie musicians.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 07:00 PM
9

People change. The problem is the incentives are wrong, and as long as that's true there's a chance she'll decide to pull the ripcord. There's no downside for her.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 06:58 PM
3

I wish women would realize this. Despite what you hear on NPR, normal men don't go to work for personal fulfillment. They work because they have to.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 04:58 AM
2

"Occupation" implies unwillingness. That's not the term I'd use.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 06:28 PM
1

But those weapons are under control of the US, which, and I say this as an American, is a fickle ally when the chips are down.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 05:46 AM
0

What a stupid thing to say.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 06:43 PM
1

Well, they've probably done the best they can do with the data they have. But by now it's pretty clear the models they're using don't have any predictive value at all - if you're predicting surface temperatures out fifty years and the "actual" curve deviates noticeably from the "predicted" curve in only a decade your model is clearly wrong. And "all national academies" don't hold much weight to me. Scientists are famous for saying stupid things once they venture outside their area of expertise. …
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 06:38 PM
1

It probably has roots going back to that time, but I don't remember seeing anything until the mid '90s.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 06:31 PM
1

Who in Europe has nukes besides France and the UK?
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 06:28 PM
13

Putin has been drawing a sharp cultural contrast between Russia and "The West". It includes lots of things, from military strength to laws regarding homosexuality to a complete rejection of mealy-mouthed PC platitudes. This is just part of a deliberate strategy. Of course, it doesn't hurt that he represents Russia. Russian voters eat this shit up and chase it with vodka.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 06:55 AM
8

And throw away half your shirts. Who needs to wear a shirt, da?
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 06:51 AM
-1

If you have an engineering degree you should recognize crap data when you see it.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 06:51 AM
5

It gets a lot of attention because an important person died, and the administration has been lying, badly, since the day it happened.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 06:49 AM
-1

Hillary was quite pretty when she was young. That was a long time ago, though.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 06:47 AM
15

The EU countries have perfectly fine militaries for the main reason you need militaries, defence. This isn't really true, though. Outside of France and the UK EU countries are virtually unable to defend themselves.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 06:46 AM
15

Merkel is far more intelligent than Clinton (either one). She can be tough without seeming to be tough, whereas Hillary cultivates tough body language but can't seem to avoid being pushed around.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 06:44 AM
1

Heh heh. Yeah. These RP stories don't exactly paint the institution in a good light.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 10:08 AM
1

This. He'll never be able to trust her again, and that lack of trust is entirely rational. If your wife respects you she won't cheat.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 10:02 AM
7

Yeah, there's no way this woman could have reached the age of thirty without realizing she's attracted to women. She's simply a failure as a heterosexual and thinks she can convince herself playing for the other team will make her happy.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 09:45 AM
1

Jesus Christ. Aging rotund lesbians can debate whatever they like, but the thing that sticks in my craw is the money for this kind of nonsense is ultimately coming from tax dollars, meaning mostly from men.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 08:03 AM
6

Or he has found women but the gf has vetoed them all.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 09:38 PM
14

The only threesome you want involves you and two girls. The part that made me roll my eyes was how they just "hadn't found" the right girl or couple. Pretty obvious who's making the decisions there.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 07:01 PM
5

It's funny how she doesn't realise she's the one who falls short. That's pretty much it. She's in a city where relatively high income men are willing to date her because the sex ratios are so far out of whack. She should contemplate the fact that in a city with normal sex ratios she'd be lucky to get a date at all.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 05:54 AM
8

She keeps whining about how great the artist, sculptors, puppeteers were. So . . . why isn't she dating them? To be fair to her, the idea those kinds of people were all driven out when techies with lots of disposable income drove up rents has a basis in fact. The problem is if you removed all the programmers you'd see an article from her about how she's tired of dating penniless artists and is ready for a man who can support a family.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 05:43 AM
2

When I got to the part where she casually slid that in I thought "Huh. Yet another woman who doesn't realize men don't care whether or not you've been to Paris."
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 05:39 AM
5

I thought that was a little odd myself. Here she is with the standard "there are no good men" rant, and she runs into a pair of guys that are, by her admission, "cute". And she complains because they aren't gay.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 05:36 AM
8

What's really bothering her is these men don't accept a master's degree from Berkeley as an indication of high intelligence. She wants to say things like "men are intimidated by my intelligence," but she can't because they aren't in the slightest. In fact, it's the other way around. The part about "concrete/literal brains" is her telling herself that even though these guys would double her score on an IQ test there's something about the way she thinks that's somehow better.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 05:31 AM
1

Yet, after the success of the initial feminism movement, modern western feminists are left in a world where women are rarely if ever oppressed. There's nothing easier to do than convince someone they're "oppressed". The entire left half of the political spectrum is built on this simple fact.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 05:10 AM
1

Heh. You missed one of them.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 08:57 AM
5

It is men who could have helped Rodger if he'd found them... Rodger was an nut who couldn't be helped by nearly an entire lifetime of therapy. It's unlikely anything short of incarceration could have forestalled what happened in IV. I see that everyone wants to fit him into their world view, with the feminists blaming white men, the gun control people blaming guns, and even RP guys blaming feminists. As Chris Rock asks, "whatever happened to 'crazy'?". If a psycho kills someone and tells the cop…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 10:36 PM
1

Not a chance. People in other parts of the world can see what's dooming the West.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 01:34 AM
16

Because self defense is the right upon which all the others rest.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 07:13 PM
2

I don't buy it for a minute. Women are no more or less likely to be obese than men. I think it's much more likely a large majority of fat chicks simply can't pass up the coffee cake at Starbucks.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 05:07 PM
1

It's doable. As you say, it's not super healthy, but it's not going to leave any permanent damage if she's careful to get all her vitamins.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 08:55 AM
1

Begs the question. You assume there are "so many" abusive men. But statistically there aren't.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 11:36 PM
6

maybe if everyone is that concerned one could you know... improve things a little. I don't think "everyone" is that concerned. Guys who are 7s and above are having the time of their lives in their 20s and settle down with a mid 20s hottie at 35. Women in their 20s don't realize how hard the wall is until they hit it. Who is it that people are most likely to listen to? Guys who are 7s and above. Hot young women.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 08:13 PM
1

No. That was a neg in the same way it was a mild rebuke to the women he shot.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 08:47 PM
3

And since this is supposed to be a safe haven for women, who are often in an emotionally vulnerable place, once the vitriol has been read, the damage cannot be undone. Who knew that women were so fragile? If someone you don't know is inflicting "damage" on you through a pm, you probably shouldn't be on the internet. Or leave the house, for that matter.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 08:45 PM
4

By the way, what kind of woman makes out with a guy, while she's engaged to someone else, in a public place frequented by lots of people? Not only is she sleazy she's pretty damn stupid too.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 08:09 PM
9

The fact that his ex would dump him because he saw her sister cheating means he's well rid of her. I like this guy - he behaved with honor and stuck to his guns. Me, I would have made the sister blow me for my silence :)
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 08:04 PM
12

One customer said “what did you do to that man’s coffee to make him so mad at you?” Hahahahahaha.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 08:01 PM
9

That was my thought. Wish I worked for a guy like that.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 07:58 PM
7

It's generally considered fine to bang someone else's girlfriend/wife, it is not our job to keep strangers girls in check. No it isn't. It's not fine at all.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 07:57 PM
0

No, actually, none of what you've written is true.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 07:36 PM
2

This is all very true, but the reality is women have the political power right now, and women like the situation the way it is.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 02:13 AM
4

It's easier after you've had sex. And really, having a girl text another love interest from your bed is pretty insulting.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 06:23 AM
1

This really depends on your state. Where I live alimony and child support cannot be set in a prenup.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 06:13 AM
4

This is true. If you don't marry her you have no obligation to support her, whereas you have to support the child in either case.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 06:11 AM
2

That's a problem, because the person responsible doesn't have anything to take. He should get a free pass to rape her whenever he wants.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 07:58 PM
3

She's paying the school district because she successfully sued them for damages. They're just trying to get their money back.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 06:39 PM
6

If that were true she'd be wearing an orange jumpsuit.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 06:38 PM
1

She probably spent it.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 06:37 PM
1

Good. And they should go after whoever's dumb enough to marry her, too.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 06:37 PM
11

We take it for granted because those types of people can be replaced easily. With advances in automation the biggest problem we're going to have as a society going forward is there isn't enough work for people on the left half of the bell curve.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 06:38 AM
1

I've had breakup sex with all my exes. There's something particularly satisfying about nailing the chick who left you for another guy while she's still dating him. The key is to make sure they know it's just sex. You have to be blunt.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 06:16 AM
8

While this article is correct in stating that there are a lot more men with higher IQs than women, what it completely leaves out is the reverse. Because low IQ people don't matter that much. They won't affect the course of events, at least not deliberately.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 05:45 AM
3

One of my customers fired its CIO for being an asshole. He was so bad nobody wanted to work for him. They'd hire people in from outside only to have them quit within a week or two. As far as I know the guy had good organizational and technical skills. He could even be charming when he wanted to be, but if he had a power advantage over you he didn't see any reason to take your feelings into account. You can be an asshole, but you can't be a raging asshole.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/14 08:10 AM
1

This isn't about me bending my will to yours, this is about opening yourself to a different facet of human experience and the rampant injustices that still exist today! "This isn't about me bending my will to yours, it's about me bending your will to mine." Oh hell, it would have been easier if she'd used the damn idiom properly. I guess one thing they don't teach in women's studies is how to write. There is somebody out there, I know, who wouldn't hear me plead about how it's important to me be…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 05:58 AM
1

If you're a woman in her 30s the survey is pretty depressingly useful.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 05:31 AM
13

pounds back 16 year old scotch, my favourite kind of teen I'm totally stealing that.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 04:45 AM
21

The goal isn't the same as this sub. TRP is about seeing relations between the sexes for what they are. Men's rights is about addressing a legal system that's stacked against us. Changes to unjust laws always start with "whining".
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 08:51 AM
-2

Except she still sees her ex as a "good friend", and she didn't want to tell her fiance about it at all. Irrelevant on both counts. Why in the world would she want to tell him? If she doesn't want to repeat her mistake she's setting herself up for this problem if he wants to try it - either she tells him "no" and he gets jealous or she makes the same mistake again. And make no mistake. This isn't about lying. It's about jealousy. He's angry because he feels she treated the ex better than she's t…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 01:21 AM
-1

Given these three facts, you can safely conclude that she wasn't just "experimenting", she indeed liked it, and that she was ashamed at the fact she liked it because she felt admitting to it and liking it would "hurt" her value in her fiance's eyes. I don't think you can safely assume that at all. The threesomes may have been the beginning of the end for her last relationship, and she doesn't want to repeat the mistake.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 12:57 AM
-2

It could just be she's already done her experimenting and decided she doesn't want to do it again. Threesomes are bad for a LTR - if she really wants to marry this guy it's something she'd want to avoid.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 07:08 PM
2

No, not really. There's a whole branch of law devoted to contracts, and much of it is about what you can't put into a contract. Contracts where one of the parties enters indentured servitude or surrenders a kidney as some sort of penalty, for example, can't be enforced. It differs state-by-state, but most states put restrictions on prenups. Where I live you can't specify spousal or child support in a prenup, you can't specify disposition of post-marital assets, and in any case the judge has the …
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 02:52 AM
2

They're graduating from an American college. Statistically, two out of three of those brides will be divorced before they hit 30 years old No, the statistics do not support this idea, particularly for white women with college degrees. More like one out of the three.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 02:46 AM
7

Because women call the shots in the West, and women don't care about unrelated boys.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 05:35 AM
1

A 23-year-old guy may be loving that girls these days are so easy and predictable. But when the time comes and he wants to find a good woman, a good mother that will teach his daughter how to carry herself with respect and dignity, what then? Realistically if that's what he wants he's going to have to have to get married when he's relatively young.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 05:13 AM
1

I'm sure they they mean well but I don't think this administration realizes how much damage they are actually doing by putting things like this in motion. They know and they don't care.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 08:11 AM
5

Thank God I've already graduated. These people have gone mad with power. The reason they don't get the cops involved is it would be obvious that, regardless of what you hear over in the crazy harpy wing, seven out of every five women haven't been raped or assaulted.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 01:40 AM
3

I agree, but that's the world we're living in.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 10:02 PM
10

Heh. Meaning she wants you to work for it even though nobody else did.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 09:56 PM
1

It really depends on her age. The century mark should be rare for a girl at 19, but if she's 35? It's probably not that uncommon. It's one every 2-3 months.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 09:54 PM
5

I agree about the publicity. Women have successfully sued clubs like that out of existence in the past by saying you can't exclude them from places where business deals might be conducted. This particular club has probably survived because nobody knew about it.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 08:15 PM
1

This would be my response to the original poster: No. Just no. She's damaged beyond repair, and after your fifth or sixth "slide" you'll have had enough. Save yourself a world of hurt and don't marry her.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 07:24 AM
6

Let's say you're worth ten million bucks and she stands to get half in a divorce. If she doesn't have highly marketable skills and it takes her five years to convince you she really, really loves you it's worth her time and effort, even if deep down she despises you. The more money you have the greater the possibility she there for the cash and nothing else no matter how long you've been dating.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 11:40 PM
8

No question about it. I'll bet if he looked up her first husband and had a beer with the guy he'd find the whole sob story was bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 11:32 PM
1

Why do you assume she has genetic diseases? Women can be infertile for all sorts of reasons - she could be infertile if she had chlamydia and didn't get it treated. Hell, she may have had her tubes tied and just lied to him.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 11:30 PM
25

But in these kinds of cultures the mother doesn't just put pressure on her son to have children. She's also supposed to be warning him off these kinds of women.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 11:24 PM
5

It said something like, she decides within the first few moments or the first day of meeting you whether you are going onto the sex ladder or the friend ladder. The way I've seen it stated is upon meeting a man a woman may not know if she's going to sleep with him, but in most cases she knows if she's not going to sleep with him.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 01:56 AM
0

Though the part about TB is interesting and surprising. Do you have a stat on that? I can't find US numbers, but I see the UK slaughtered 38k cattle in 2012 because of TB. With mass dairy production, paseurizing milk is probably necessary giving the unsanitary conditions. But I don't think it is required when talking about small local dairies. Which is why I don't think those farms should be prevented from selling raw milk if they want to. TB thrives just fine in sanitary conditions. All you nee…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 11:41 PM
1

Eh, wrong. If that were true we wouldn't pasteurize milk, now, would we? This isn't controversial stuff. From the CDC: Before the invention and acceptance of pasteurization, raw milk was a common source of the bacteria that cause tuberculosis, diphtheria, severe streptococcal infections, typhoid fever, and other foodborne illnesses. These illnesses killed many people each year, especially young children. I don't know how prevalent the others are, but tuberculosis is still pretty common in cattle…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 10:49 PM
-5

Raw whole milk is dangerous. Seriously, if you're drinking unpasteurized milk you're an idiot.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 09:09 AM
1

I'm okay with some alimony if she can show she made career sacrifices as a result of the marriage. If she took time off to raise kids, or as in your scenario her career was derailed when the couple moved to advance the husband's career. But even in that case I think the "style to which she's become accustomed to" standard is blatantly unfair. Consider a woman who stayed home and "kept house". Now they're divorced and she needs money to live on. But she's no longer cooking, cleaning, shopping, or…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 11:02 PM
2

Prenups are a dicey solution at best. Where I live spousal support can't be specified at all - you can only arrange for the disposition of pre-maritial assets. Beyond that there seem to be a whole lot of judges who are willing to throw out prenups on the flimsiest pretense. There was one recently in the paper that was thrown out because the woman was "feeling pressured". You see, she was afraid he wouldn't marry her if she didn't sign the prenup, which the judge decided made the whole thing to u…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 10:46 PM
2

So if she didn't contribute much to the marriage she shouldn't get much alimony, then?
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 07:19 PM
17

Women tend to make less money because they won't commute as far, won't do as much business travel, won't work as many hours, won't do dangerous work, and don't get marketable majors in college. In short, they don't make as much money because of choices they've made. My brother was in this position. He put in 50+ hour weeks in a technical position to support an art-history-major wife that worked part time at the local riding stables. When they divorced she got extra alimony because she didn't mak…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 07:18 PM
2

Getting her number is "closing"? If she's interested she wants you to ask for her number. Just ask her. If she says no she's just being polite. As to how you actually do it, that depends on how the conversation developed. If you've been making some dominant bad boy play then tell her to give you her number. Or even just grab her phone and call yourself. If it was more like normal conversation "I'd love to continue this conversation over dinner" works. You don't have time to be super smooth, and …
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 03:19 AM
1

Never happened even once. Either she drops the pretext that everything is fine when I tell her I'm going to bed, or it comes out the next evening.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/14 09:48 PM
6

When we say we’re fine, we’re NOT The worst thing you can do as a man is to allow her to parcel out the reason she's upset. The point is to extend the humiliation - not only are you expected to humiliate yourself in an apology (which, lets face it, probably isn't sincere, but that doesn't matter to either of you), you have to humiliate yourself dragging the reason out of her before you can even start with the apology. I did that with the first couple and finally made a personal rule - I'm not do…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/14 02:07 PM
13

Women will undoubtedly say they agree with you, but if you actually tried to sue one they would take off the feminist mask, put on the damsel mask, and ask you if you're some kind of pussy.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 08:44 AM
2

She's 21.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 08:01 AM
1

Eh, this particular gal is 21. Though she's either already ruined or taking a bit of artistic license.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 07:54 AM
2

No, I think double digits is pretty much guaranteed for this particular gal. I agree she'd have to be an overachiever for triple digits, though.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 07:51 AM
3

Sure, but the problem is the terms change after the kids are born. The choice is 1) don't have kids or 2) accept the possibility you'll become little more than a slave to your ex.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 06:46 AM
3

Two words for you to look up: "Imputed income"
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 05:40 AM
3

... then she takes you back to court for an increase. I worked with a guy who was burning his way up the corporate ladder and the ex hit him up for more money on every rung. I think he put his lawyer's kids through college. Honestly, guys in this subreddit know you're screwed in family court, but it's even worse than you think.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 05:38 AM
2

I'd better file and get as much as I can now before he spends any of it paying off his debts. I won't get shit for child support or alimony since he's unemployed, so I'm going to need as much as I can to live on while getting another man. Nonsense. That's what imputed income is all about - she can get alimony and child support based on the most money you ever made, and you owe her even if you don't have a job. EDIT: I a word.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 05:33 AM
16

Let me just point out here there's really no point in flushing the condom if you cum on her face.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 05:13 AM
5

Just that I'm okay with women saying "no short guys". People find attractive what they find attractive. But they have to accept that men will be unwilling to date, say, fat women or women with kids. All that stuff about sterilization was just her talking shit. It's hard to imagine she was actually serious.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 04:50 AM
2

Seems like with that kind of thing there will be some acceptable women who will write you off as having too much baggage.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 03:41 AM
6

I don't care if women refuse to date short guys, but by the same token they're going to have to deal with no-goes from the other side.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 03:38 AM
3

I will overlook a woman's shitty face if her body is hot enough. Hell, I might not even realize she has a shitty face, not having, you know, looked at it.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 03:31 AM
13

This guy sounds like a good man. He did his damnest to raise his daughters right, but it didn't quite take for the elder one. Now she wants him to fix her social life, but in a way he's putting his own honor on the line if he tries to pass her off as some kind of virgin. My guess is he'll end up telling her she's on her own.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 05:31 AM
2

Oh, come on. So you want me to provide statistics with the proviso that they're clearly wrong if they don't support your argument? My friend, not only are you wrong but you clearly realize you're wrong.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 05:21 AM
3

Since you seem to have trouble grasping the point let me try again: There's no media bias against non-Asian minorities. The fact is they're more likely that white men (or Asian men) to commit rape. The only reason there are more white rapists is there are more white people. This is about percentages, not raw numbers. This is why even someone like Jesse Jackson can say “There is nothing more painful to me … than to walk down the street and hear footsteps and start thinking about robbery, then loo…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 01:10 AM
11

This one-in-four statistic is a load of crap. Rape and sexual assault are totally different categories - sexual assault could be giving a woman a pat on the butt or kissing her on the cheek. The numbers of actual rape are tiny.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 12:43 AM
2

The fact that most rapists are white is both true and totally irrelevant. Shall we have poverty programs targeted at white people because most poor people are white?
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 12:40 AM
8

Also, how the fuck can such a law be passed if the majority of politicians in France are still men ? Doesn't matter if the majority of the electorate is women. The politicians will do whatever the women want them to do.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 05:21 AM
4

Am I the only one who feels sorry for this guy? He's been lied to about female sexuality his whole life - by parents, teachers, media, women themselves... not just left in the dark, mind you, but lied to. The enormity of it is too much to deal with. That's why we call it the red pill, after all. So he's trying to fit reality into his world view instead of the other way around. The "bros" must be getting attention from women despite the way they act as opposed to because of the way they act. This…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 09:29 PM
2

Just the kind of jobs where you'd expect to see guys blow off some steam when they got home.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 08:32 PM
3

I saw that, but what does "in the last few years" mean? Does it mean you expect she was a virgin prior to the last few years, or are you just not going to count what she did when she was younger? Very few women these days are looking to get married in the early twenties, and even fewer are interested in marrying a virgin. You've set for yourself a really hard row to hoe.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 01:13 AM
4

However, anyone I'd want to be in a LTR with would have to have a low count - that low count number is not definite, because it mostly depends on the number in the last few years. Say roughly a maximum of two flings per year. If you marry her when she's 35, two flings a year adds up to something around 40 guys. You don't really look at that as a low count, do you?
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 12:37 AM
16

I think you can pretty much dispense with everything but the "lack of options" part. No man (of any type) marries a 35 year old woman thinking she's a virgin unless he seduced her from a convent. These are guys who haven't been laid in a long, long time, are tired of being alone, and are despairing of ever having a wife or children. They're vulnerable, in other words. It's really not more complicated than that. They know they're getting a raw deal, but they're willing to make sacrifices to get w…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 12:33 AM
2

By 28 she's been sexually active for 12 years or so. Unless she had three or four looooong relationships she's probably been with, literally, dozens of guys. If you're gonna date her at all there's no point in dwelling on it. I wouldn't even have the conversation. What's the point?
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 04:51 AM
4

Not with the husband, anyway.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 04:46 AM
2

Chris Rock has the definitive "used to a certain lifestyle" bit.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 05:07 AM
9

Yeah, well, the rest of us find out too, but we find out the hard way.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/14 12:21 AM
9

Have you ever heard of a bachelorette party without a stripper?
/r/TheRedPill05/04/14 12:20 AM
16

Yeah, I know a guy who had similar stories too. Get a bunch of women together and make it socially okay for them to be slutty and they will be slutty. The only part of the story that doesn't square is when he says he never fucked anyone he thought was unattractive.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/14 12:19 AM
17

Even if she didn't sleep with him the reason she's there is to give the guy a chance to woo her. And there's no way she would have been there that long unless he did. Any man worth the name dumps her after this.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 04:47 PM
7

The law basically is enforced in a way that says it's impossible for a woman to give sexual consent with any amount of alcohol in her. Not true. The situation isn't nearly that grim. The standard is "too drunk to consent", not "any amount of alcohol", and prosecutors don't bring prosecutions they don't think will be successful. If both parties are drunk and it comes down to a he said-she said situation most times you won't see charges. However, in terms of campus discipline the situation is very…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 05:10 AM
10

Cute girls everywhere can afford to go to bars. They're not paying.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 07:10 PM
3

It's a poor way of phrasing the idea to say that their clothing is "tempting". I didn't say their clothing was tempting. It's not going to provoke someone who ordinarily wouldn't rape someone. "Provoke" isn't the right word to use here. I think there are a whole lot of guys who, having had too much to drink, would be more apt to take advantage of a drunk, scantily clad woman than a woman who was dressed more modestly. Whether that's rape or not really depends on the details. When I went to schoo…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 05:30 AM
3

That was my first thought. For most STEM jobs you're never going to be able to impress anyone with your bad alpha self because your GPA has already eliminated you.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 03:43 AM
1

That you can spend time in jail for nonpayment of child support shouldn't be news to anyone.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 03:36 AM
4

So you’ve gained a few pounds? You’re becoming a woman you’re not supposed to look 18 forever. Well... sure, but you're supposed to look 18 when you're actually 18. And you're not supposed to look used up by age 21.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 03:30 AM
2

The people who say that, are referring to the fact that it's not backed by social "science" aka feminism This is why I'm much more willing to trust my own experience and judgement. Academia has become like wikipedia - you can trust it when you're dealing with subjects like the migration patterns of the spotted loon, but anything that strays the slightest bit into the political arena isn't even worth the time it takes to read.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 03:24 AM
2

That looks like an attempt at satire, or maybe trolling.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 03:19 AM
2

I don't like this because it implies that men are powerless to stop themselves raping. I think it's more a recognition of reality. The vast majority of men aren't powerless to stop themselves, but there's no reason to tempt fate either.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 03:12 AM
11

Politically, your enemies can never hurt you as much as your allies. They probably realized this shit is so far out of hand the entire left side of the political spectrum was taking splash damage.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 01:58 AM
6

No one would deny that we should teach boys to respect women. Respect is something you earn. Of course we should teach boys to behave in a civilized manner, but we should also teach girls not to get blackout drunk and not to dress so immodestly the men around them can think about something besides sex.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 01:57 AM
8

According to the instructors, it's "impossible to give consent with any amount of alcohol in your system." That's simply untrue as a matter of law and custom. Thank God I graduated before this nonsense started.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 01:53 AM
3

I was angry, and hurt, but the therapist said her reasons were valid. Get a new therapist. Or better yet, don't. But my fiancée won’t tell me what went on, she just says it’s over, and we need to focus on our problems, not her affair. Why in the world would you not break of the engagement? You'll never be able to trust her (and with good reason, too). Maybe your mother doesn't like her because your mom realizes she's a low class ho.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 08:38 AM
4

The chick chose him over a football player... Or the football player decided she wasn't a very good lay and moved on.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 08:34 AM
6

sounds like this girl might be a better plate than gf. That's what someone else was thinking too, and not the op. The crying was guilt, and the two-hour delay was her talking to the other guy on the phone and realizing he just wanted her for sex. Right now she's promising herself she'll never do it again, but it's only a matter of time.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 02:38 AM
3

Yet, as Murrow (2005a, 8 ) points out, Judaism, Buddhism, Hinduism and Islam all have at least as many male adherents as female ones. Podles (1999, ix) also notes that, within Christianity, the Orthodox Church has a general [sic] balance. The implication is clear: it is not that religion or spirituality per se are inimical to men. Rather, it must be specific forms and expressions of religion or spirituality that alienate men and deter their participation. This isn't surprising at all. I know the…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 01:52 AM
5

I feel sorry for the guy, but he had to have realized this was a possibility. That's the problem with LTRs of all types - people change.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 08:02 AM
11

She's brought it up enough times he's probably been really careful, and if she says she's pregnant he's going to be suspicious.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 07:59 AM
1

The only way he could do this and hold his head up is if he's banging her sister and all her friends.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 05:09 AM
8

I would have thought you'd have to be working a truck stop for cash to rack up those kinds of numbers before age 19.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 05:02 AM
38

To expect any man to keep that up year after year is being unrealistic. Basically, this woman is forever ruined for LTRs. Women lie about their N because they know it's important to men. And this is why.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 05:00 AM
4

Anything, good or bad, that gets you a spotlight raises your status in the eyes of women. That's why serial killers get a dozen marriage offers.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 10:49 PM
5

I don't know why people are downvoting this. When an early twenties woman in a seven year relationship goes on a three month vacation with a girlfriend she's going to cheat. You can take that to the bank. There are only two questions: Whether she's honest with herself beforehand and whether she'll be honest with you after.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 08:15 PM
5

Yeah, especially when they're young every woman is the star of her own movie and the rest of us are just the supporting cast. You exist to add to her drama.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 08:35 AM
1

There's a reason Putin is trying to change his military to more like that of the US. Not every place in the US is like NYC.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 08:30 AM
3

Well, we're all descendants of pretty much every kind of person. But adultery used to be taken quite a bit more seriously than it is today and was probably less prevalent. What allows women to act this way is the knowledge that, worst comes to worst, the state will be there to put food on the table. It's a relatively new guarantee.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 03:44 AM
8

You don't, if you're in one of those schools with three women for every two guys.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 12:22 AM
6

You're right about women fighting tooth and nail. We can't even get laws to provide relief to guys who've been the victims of paternity fraud. The reality is women want to retain it as an option.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 12:13 AM
3

I agree with the guy on the redditlog - she probably mostly slept with the husband but had something on the side. Maybe only once. Since she didn't keep track of the days on the calendar she figures she'll play the odds.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 12:11 AM
9

I agree with this. Paternity tests should be mandatory, and the husband given the option to adopt the child on the spot or to refuse any responsibility.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 11:53 PM
18

Heh heh. I read your comment twice and the only thing I understand is what you've written isn't at all clear.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 11:51 PM
2

You've never had any contact with family law, have you? Believe me, the judge will order you to produce the gold and hold you in contempt until you do. There must be more to that story.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 08:39 AM
-4

I pour her one and say "You got it sweetheart." just out of habit. Immediately I get the whole "Do NOT call me sweetheart, you're a pig, blah blah feminist bullshit." So I just say "Whatever, bitch" down the shot and just walk away. Better would be to smile and say "Only sweethearts get a shot" before you slam it and walk away. You might be seething inside, but what you're saying is her anger means nothing to you.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 08:04 AM
7

The pussypass works a whole lot better if she isn't a land whale. If she were hot there's no way it would have gone that far. Hell, if she were hot nobody would have complained.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 04:12 AM
14

If your long-time wife comes to you and says she wants to open marriage there are a few things that are almost certainly true: She already has a lover picked out. If you say no she's going to fuck him anyway. If you sleep with another woman she'll be upset. The plan is for her to get outside sex, not you. As soon as she brings it up you may as well mark your calendar - no matter how you react you're about 90% likely to end up in divorce court within a year or so.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 04:06 AM
1

Judges aren't stupid. They're going to assume you still have it unless you have proof.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 03:52 AM
30

Heh. My buddy's hot ex-wife used to be really upbeat about people. She loved to go out and do all sorts of social stuff. The bigger the crowd, the better. Because guys would majorly kiss her ass for a little attention. One year we went to Vegas and wanted to go to the nicest restaurant in town. I went to check on availability and was told there are no seats for the entire weekend. I go back and inform the group. So she goes to the reservation desk. Comes back in a half hour with a reservation. W…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 08:21 AM
2

I doubt that, just based on what she's written. But I also doubt she'll risk a blow to her ego by making herself clear. Most likely if he doesn't intuit her reversal within a week or two she'll fall for someone else and tell herself "the timing just didn't work out". The moral of the story is never, ever be a beta orbiter. As much as it can hurt, if she friend-zones you tell her you have enough friends and wish her well. Even if you end up dating she'll see you as a servant rather than a man.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 02:19 AM
6

Feminists will never accept this. They simply have no understanding of (or interest in) male sexuality and are trying to understand rape entirely from a woman's viewpoint. That's why they believe in the existence of a "rape culture" and think rape is about power instead of sex. Because for women sex is about status and power, and they can't wrap their minds around the possibility that for men sex is about, well, sex.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 02:01 AM
3

I figure there are two ways she can go. One is to sit him down and say "I've changed my mind and would like to date you." The other is to take off her clothes and jump him. Of course he won't make the first move - he thinks she's teasing him and she'll shut him down again. But it's not like there's any chance he would actually reject her - if that were the case he would have stopped with the beta orbiting.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 01:50 AM
14

Now, I find feminists as ridiculous as the next guy, but I have to believe only a tiny minority wouldn't like to see a male pill. I've never met one.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 07:22 PM
42

Bah. Feminists are always outraged. It just becomes background noise after awhile.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 08:13 AM
2

Ah, you're right. I'd never realized there were two words.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 04:16 AM
136

I wouldn't hire anyone I think is primed to sue me over some small sleight, real or imagined.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 01:56 AM
5

Definitely you bring it up when you arrive at the restaurant (but before you enter) at the latest. Once you sit down it's too easy for her to say she doesn't have any money and just assumed you were paying. First off I would have planned it so there wasn't enough time to go to a fancy restaurant before the movie. There's plenty of time for that after the movie if you decide you're hitting it off. Nothing worse than spending a whole meal with a stranger with whom you're not clicking. But assuming…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 07:19 AM
6

I don't think that's really viable. If I'm understanding the timeline correctly, once that sat down for dinner she started poormouthing so when the check came she could say she didn't have any money. When the check comes you can bet your last dollar she's gonna say she doesn't have any money and had assumed you would pay.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 06:57 AM
1

As I said, I'd ratchet it up from there. I may end up being blunt; I just wouldn't start there.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 04:20 AM
4

I wouldn't be blunt because blunt offends some people irrespective of the message. If you come across like you think she's taking advantage of you she'll be offended if that's not the case. I'd give her a chance to volunteer to pay half, and then ratchet up from there.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 02:42 AM
12

I wouldn't be that blunt, but yeah, he could have headed the whole thing off by making it clear she was paying her own way. On the other hand... it's not a bad thing when a girl like this gets burned. Maybe he'll save some other guys from a crappy date.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 02:00 AM
9

You can't buy sex in a country where it's legal? That's wrong on so many levels.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 09:50 AM
15

That may be true. I'm not sure exactly how strictly it's enforced. But the point is the women have set up a "heads I win, tails you lose" legal environment. You have a transaction in which both parties benefit, but somehow it's only illegal for the man. It would be like changing the drug laws such that it's legal to deal but illegal to buy.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 07:43 AM
2

Exactly what you said and how you said it when you gave them the cake matters a whole lot here. On the other hand the world is full of assholes of both sexes. I refuse to associate with people like that regardless of sexual dynamics.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 07:38 AM
1

Thank God the kid is yours. I have no idea what I'd do if I were married and my test came back "unrelated". Everything I'd want to do is highly illegal.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 07:08 AM
12

Sweden's wacky rape laws were in the news recently when Julian Assange ran into trouble, and then there's the laws on prostitution - legal to sell sex, illegal to buy it. There's no question feminists are 100% in control of that country.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 07:05 AM
4

It's not legal, but really, how are you gonna find out? Even if you have the test redone somewhere else there's always the possibility the test results the first doctor got were wrong. To find out for sure you'd probably have to actually sue your doctor and get the documentation in the discovery process. Most guys would get the (false) results, shrug, and say "Well, I guess he/she's mine after all." It wouldn't even occur to them to redo the test. Personally I think paternity testing should be a…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 06:57 AM
20

...and make no mistake, all women are prostitutes in one form or another. Yes. This was a depressing realization when I finally faced it. Most heterosexual sex is transactional at some level, even if it's not stated (or even recognized) openly.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 06:46 AM
44

This is how you get laws in northern European countries that make it illegal to buy sex but legal to sell it.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 06:37 AM
2

I added "at once" after the word "guys"
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 05:56 PM
2

The problem is you don't know, and in order for the prosecutor to get a conviction he has to prove the boy didn't make a motion the father could have construed as reaching for something. If the prosecutor didn't bring charges it just means he didn't think he could prove a crime was committed, not that he didn't believe a crime was committed.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 08:39 AM
15

Definitely not LTR material. If she's emotionally okay with sleeping with multiple guys at once there's pretty much no chance you'll ever be the only one.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 06:46 AM
12

If she is at least now you know. I'd probably want to move on.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 06:43 AM
1

I felt a lot of responsibility for it ending, but then I found out the real truth, which I can’t necessarily disclose because I keep it locked in my safe for a rainy day. That looks like something with which she can blackmail him. Maybe he was cheating with a guy.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 11:14 PM
8

You've just given me the blueprint for my first divorce, assuming I have one.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 11:13 PM
2

Couple points about that. First, people like to confuse intelligence and education. You don't have to be particularly smart to get advanced degrees any more, especially if you're selective about the field of study. A masters degree in sociology is no guarantee she can hold an intelligent conversation. Second, you certainly don't want a dumb wife, because she'll get in all sorts of trouble you'll have to deal with later. But I doubt an exceptionally smart girl will make you any happier than one o…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 06:55 AM
5

It's pretty clear you have to take what guys say about their bedroom conquests with a grain of salt. That's especially true for people trying to sell you something.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 06:30 PM
12

Gorgeous and sane. No question.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 12:43 AM
1

So far all we have is her version of the story. The stuff with the rejected coworker is bad, if true, but what seems to have most upset Horvath is the founder's wife was mean to her, which is something I'd hardly characterize as sexism.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 10:15 PM
2

He's dating her, not marrying her. Plus, it's not like Holmes is ever going to get out of jail.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 10:13 PM
3

For besides, we have reason to apprehend and grow Jealous, That Men by frequenting these Stygian Tap-houses will usurp on our Prerogative of Tattling, and soon learn to excel us in Talkativeness: a Quality wherein our Sex has ever Claimed pre-eminence. That really reads like something written with tongue firmly in cheek.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 10:08 PM
12

Unless you're dating an ex-nun or a divorcee, by the time a woman has reached the age of 34 she's been sexually active for, what 18 years or so? You're not going to find one with N < 10 at that age, and after ten does it really make that much difference? The circuit in her brain that associates sex and attachment is pretty much burned out.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 08:38 PM
13

In my experience few women are willing to put in the hours required, and even fewer are willing to sit in front of a screen all day with minimal human interaction. None of the women with whom I went to college lasted five years as an engineer or programmer. They all moved into management or sales.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 12:14 AM
1

Well, I don't suggest anyone actually go through with it.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 09:46 PM
0

The sad part is she's most likely lying about being raped. There's a certain type of feminist that will always try to play that trump card, because it works with most men. The next time a woman tries to end an argument like that tell her you're planning to file a complaint. Tell her you can't, in good conscience, allow an evil perpetrator of rape to escape the long arm of the law. And see what she says.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 09:10 PM
2

South Korea (and Asia in general, really) is significantly more homogenous. Eh, yeah, okay. They all look the same to you. But this is Koreans themselves doing the complaining, and the complaint isn't that they look like sisters or that they look related. It's that they look like the same person.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 08:52 PM
13

Yes they have. And nearly all of those civilizations have fallen, too.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 10:29 AM
8

When people are complaining three of your top actresses have the same face, you've gone too far.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 08:56 AM
19

Because in Asia you can't just suck on the public teat if you fail in life. Even in Japan, which is a pretty wealthy country, government money for single mothers is paltry by American standards. So the expectation is a woman needs to keep herself pretty enough to attract a husband. There's none of that "fat acceptance" BS and obesity isn't normalized like it is in the US. The Koreans take it too far with all that surgery, though.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 12:39 AM
4

Meh. This is no surprise. Women are used to being taken care of. By daddy, by boyfriends, by interested men, and finally, by the government. As a group they don't derive pride from independence.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 07:30 PM
2

Why do people keep acting like this is a fact? You have no evidence that women are responsible for pushing such as law. Very few women are legislators and there has not been any kind of opinion poll that shows women being overwhelmingly against prostitution. People keep acting like it's fact because it is. You didn't even look, did you? Well, let me Google that for you. See here. The important part for our discussion would be this: "A majority of women (57%) and 40% of men oppose legalization. O…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 08:27 PM
0

It doesn't matter that only a small number of legislators are women. Women make up more than half the electorate, and politicians will pander to their every whim. Of course they can't come out and say "We don't want prostitution because it lowers women's bargaining power in the sexual marketplace." So it's all about "sex trafficking" and "sex slavery", as if that wouldn't be criminal behavior when prostitution is legalized. There's no theocracy in America. What in the world are you talking about…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 07:52 PM
0

So... less than 0.1% of the country's population? It's a spent force, politically. That's why old laws against, say, sodomy and adultery aren't enforced and are coming off the books.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 07:46 PM
1

Oh, there will always be moral panics. They're just not sexual any more.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 07:43 PM
2

For pragmatic reasons, that will always be the case with most women worth their salt to condemn weak men and weak genes. It's all well and good for a woman to decide she'll save herself for a certain quality of man. But it's downright nasty for her to push for laws such that the men she wouldn't sleep with anyway don't have any access to sex. But Puritanism is live and well in the US. Remember the Superbowl show a decade ago and the 'Manufactured Outrage' it caused? You know why they call it "ma…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 08:52 AM
7

The Puritan mindset runs pretty strong in many pockets of America. That's a huge part of why it isn't legal. I don't think that's the underlying cause. In the end women know scarcity is advantageous for them, and they're quite willing to condemn a third of men to a sexless existence if it gives them a little more leverage.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 06:26 AM
2

Government.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 12:32 AM
3

What's more fulfilling for an 18-22 year old feminist than studying herself, the way she feels, and the way she feels about the way she feels? The bonus is when she can't find a job after graduation it's because patriarchy rather than, you know, a lack skills anyone would pay for. When I went to college if she planned to go to law school she could get a degree like women's studies and not worry about ending up as the most feminist stripper in town. Jobs for lawyers have pretty much dried up outs…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 12:28 AM
1

Yeah, Ima go with this one next time.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 12:03 AM
7

The same income is paying for two households.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 08:26 AM
2

Well, it's hard to know for sure, but I doubt that's true. Most likely he won't get her into bed without wining and dining her.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/14 10:25 PM
-5

You say that like masturbation is a bad thing.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/14 08:02 PM
2

The problem isn't so much the provider qualities. The problem is that's the top of her list for what she finds attractive. You can practically write the story of their relationship before it starts, and it's mostly a tale of him giving and her taking.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/14 07:28 PM
0

...but what they're all saying is that it was a reflection of what people thought of you when you were still alive. Obviously. Are you thick? Off you go into the "idiot" pile.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/14 11:52 PM
-1

That may all be true, but you're past caring.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/14 07:41 PM
-9

Bah. Who the hell cares what happens at your funeral? For the first time since you were born you're there and it doesn't matter what anybody else thinks.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/14 09:53 AM
15

"When I use a word," Humpty Dumpty said, in rather a scornful tone, "it means just what I choose it to mean—neither more nor less." "The question is," said Alice, "whether you can make words mean so many different things." "The question is," said Humpty Dumpty, "which is to be master—that's all."
/r/TheRedPill08/03/14 05:46 AM
1

Generally speaking females have a greater value to society then males. Greater value? No. Society needs both men and women to survive.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/14 01:31 AM
1

But it matters, from a political perspective. How can you send a guy to jail for this when a woman doing the same thing not only isn't prosecuted but also gets child support payments?
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 09:14 PM
2

It is a criminal offence to make a false statement or representation and to provide false documents or information. But, according to the CSA, there has not been a single prosecution of a mother for making a false claim. Uh huh. She's trying to hook an innocent guy into 18 years of support payments, and when she gets caught there's no consequence at all. Must be that patriarchy thing I keep hearing about.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 01:18 AM
1

Where is this patriarchy thing? I've never seen any evidence of it.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 01:16 AM
3

Do we still call them baristas when they take money for that kind of stuff?
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 01:12 AM
3

Take heart that this specific example is an outlier. Most women are very dedicated to their children -- they'll screw over all kinds of men left and right for the good of themselves and their child(ren), but they normally prioritize their kids. I don't think OP has any reason to be hard on his biological mother. Most women in that position will opt for an abortion. He's lucky to be alive at all.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 12:58 AM
1

Sad thing is, his friend proved to be loyal. His friend didn't bang the girl, and his friend showed him the texts. Friend of 15 years is always more loyal than girlfriend of 2 years. However, the guy doubts his friend. He's right to doubt his friend, since the friend didn't show him all the messages. I agree with TattedGuyser - the friend probably ONSed her and was hoping they could all just pretend nothing happened. But the gf got attached to him. OP should definitely sever all contact with the…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 12:54 AM
2

That's what the capsule hotels are for. You drink yourself insensate and just skip going home for the night. It's cheap and you can buy a new shirt right at the hotel.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 12:40 AM
6

A good (Japanese) friend of mine was the CEO of a small mutual fund company in Tokyo. The way he explained it to me, in Japan what counts is how many hours you put in and not how much you actually accomplish. So your employees are perfectly happy doing the same task by hand over and over even when they know a way it could be automated. They are supposed to just do what they're told - no less and no more. When they finish the last task they've been assigned they just stop like a robot that's come…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 12:38 AM
1

Without knowing the girl it's hard to know how much is serious and how much is tongue-in-cheek. A girl who really believes this isn't going to put it as her Facebook status.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 12:23 AM
2

Oh, yeah, in that case you're better off buying unless you're not planning to stay more than three years or so.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 06:59 PM
11

You know, this kind of stuff is putting me off marriage.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 07:38 AM
9

Oh, older women are threatened by younger women? Gosh, I can't imagine why that would be.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 07:24 AM
2

This obviously ignores many other considerations when it comes to renting vs buying, but if you have financial independence, and don't make a claim above your means, Home Ownership can be much cheaper than renting. If you actually work all the numbers you almost always come out ahead renting an apartment. Rent is usually cheaper than a mortgage payment. Renters don't pay property taxes. They usually don't pay for trash pickup. Where I live renters don't pay for water. I guess it would be more ac…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 07:11 AM
1

Just get a credit card and pay it off every month. That's enough of a good credit history for home loans, and it won't cost you anything.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 06:45 AM
8

This poor guy. He's gonna wake up in a year and think "What the hell have I done?"
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 02:27 AM
16

I notice on these /r/relationships questions the fat ones always say they're working on it. Always.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 02:24 AM
1

Except that the man in question was never named the presumed father. She could certainly try to get him named as such, but I doubt she would be successful. Well, except in this particular case as it's what he wants.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 12:16 AM
1

I doubt that's true, given that he and the stripper were never married and he's not listed on the birth certificate.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 12:03 AM
3

You RP guys are seriously messed up for debating whether or not he should leave her. We're not debating that, because we actually read the post.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 12:01 AM
3

Which is funny (not funny funny, but you know...). Because in a lot of states (all?) if you're cuckolded when you're married the child is legally assumed to be yours if you don't challenge that assumption within some length of time (depending on the state - some as little as three months). So you're stuck paying child support for a child that isn't yours, and that you may not see much anyway since you're divorced.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 11:59 PM
1

Usually you have to be married for that assumption to happen automatically. The legal assumption, anyway.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 11:55 PM
9

Yeah, what the hell? Who wouldn't have a DNA test done under those circumstances? Even if you didn't want to antagonize the mother they have mail-away kits you could do without telling her. A lawyer should know better than this.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 11:53 PM
1

I like it in the sense that if a woman is into FA, she would make a lousy long term investment (even if she's hot now she'll hamster away the effort after the wedding). Have you seen pictures of the women promoting FA? I'm open to the possibility there are slender women advocating for FA, but I haven't seen any evidence of one. That's not to say, of course, your thin bride won't convert to FA after she bulks up.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 08:04 AM
1

There are enough downsides to obesity that obese people are motivated to be thin. Beyond that, "fat acceptance" isn't going to override anyone's reptile brain. Men are not going to find porkers attractive just because they've been told to.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 08:01 AM
7

Practically every woman there is overweight or obese, with as many words for it as Eskimos have for snow. Bahahahaha. That shit is funny. Because it's true.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 07:56 AM
1

Marlon Brando lived to be 80.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 07:54 AM
2

You must have been pretty close to balanced on calories, then. It takes hours of daily exercise to support a bad diet. Most people don't have the time even if they wanted to exercise that much.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 07:51 AM
6

When it comes to finding someone just to knock boots with women are every bit as picky about fat as men are. Women are only "judged much more on their body" when it comes to marriage, and that's because her financial calculations crowd out the physical to some extent, whereas he's not worried so much about how "successful" she is or is likely to become.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 07:49 AM
4

Damn, I would marry pretty much anybody that offered to do my taxes every year.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 07:35 AM
4

This is the key quote: Kim is also unsatisfied with how differently we are along in our careers. She is an ambitious law graduate, with stellar grades and a burning ambition, and I am in my first year of tertiary study after messing around for years. He's not "ambitious" enough, meaning she's decided he won't make tons of money. So she's trading up.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 06:09 AM
1

It might not be that bad. If he's going to school the admissions process is long enough that he's probably still going to move even if she breaks up with him.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 06:07 AM
8

Never get married, I guess.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 06:05 AM
0

That was the very first thing I thought. She's definitely sleeping with another guy, probably in a nearby apartment or one of her professors.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 06:02 AM
-6

That was probably good advice. It's probably good advice for men's dorms and apartments, too. Doesn't have anything to do with fraternities in particular, though.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 05:48 AM
3

Meh. "Why are you still single" is really a loaded question to ask any single person. It's not that far from "what the hell is wrong with you?" If she's not going to laugh it off the only reasonable reply for a woman is "they can't handle me," which always comes off as a cliche no matter how she phrases it. It's a rude question, IMO. I'd only ask it of someone who annoys me.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 08:39 PM
4

Yeah. This they're so intimidated by me stuff is really wearing thin. I have yet to meet a man who is intimidated by a woman's personality. Men get intimidated if a woman is so gorgeous they don't think they have a shot, but a bitchy woman is not intimidating. She's just annoying.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 08:33 PM
5

Complete with gender studies degree. That's all you really need to know. People with anger studies degrees are wrapped up in their own neuroses and shouldn't be taken seriously.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 08:25 PM
3

Ah, well, it's not hard to see why she didn't like the short hair criticism from RoK.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 08:22 PM
1

You are missing the point. By modern standards she would probably be considered overweight. She also was considered to be attractive for the time, and had many suitors. The fact that she had many suitors or people called her attractive may just be a function of her family's wealth.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 06:34 PM
16

I like the last comment: 350 isn't that big a number ;-) Really? In what universe is 350 not a big number? I wonder how many women out there have a number that big and aren't hookers.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 05:54 AM
5

Until about the turn of the 20th century, marriage wasn't about love or sex. It was about joining families, particularly among the wealthy. I've no doubt she married beneath herself, but all that means is her family had money.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 05:52 AM
2

OTOH, I don't know a single 40+ single woman that I find attractive. WTF? Thanks to work and friends of friends, I know a number, and almost universally I find them less pretty, less likable, and just generally not desirable in any way. Survivor bias. The ones who are single have been picked over, just like the single men.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 03:14 AM
6

Same here, but realistically...
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 03:10 AM
18

Hotties subconsciously pick up these cues, but consciously may remain unaware just how awestruck men are in their company, which contributes to their frustration with not being approached as often as those subtle attraction clues from men would indicate. Yeah, but that doesn't mean hitting on a 9 is going to actually get you anywhere if you're a 7. The reason she's frustrated is she doesn't get the ego boost of being hit on - she's not actually going to date any of those lesser guys, and if she …
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 02:57 AM
2

The modern 40s are so busy it’s hard to assess them. Researchers describe the new “rush hour of life,” when career and child-rearing peaks collide. Today’s 40ish professionals are the DITT generation: double income, toddler twins. You're so busy because you didn't get your shit together until you were 35. That's nothing to brag about.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/14 08:11 PM
1

...she’s single because she’s prepared to wait for the right man. Heh heh. She's single because she's prepared to wait for the perfect man. And while she's waiting she's gonna go through a string of bad boys. At some point she'll realize the perfect man either isn't out there at all or is interested in women ten years her junior. Then she'll try to tie down one of those bad boys. Turns out a bad boy's idea of "long term" is planning a weekend in Vegas. As her fertility wanes she'll latch on to t…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 12:02 AM
5

Which is funny, since women divorce their husbands at about twice the rate men divorce their wives.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 11:51 PM
3

Yeah, 9 million is just so clearly wrong anything else she says needs to be viewed with suspicion.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 11:49 PM
2

Oh, I don't disagree with you. If you (and I don't mean you, but the general you) have a relationship that's in trouble by far the best thing to do is to fix it. But that's not always possible, particularly if she's already moved on emotionally. My best friend from high school had a wife that started sleeping with someone at the office, and when he confronted her she had a restraining order by the next morning. He had an hour to pack his clothes as the sheriff escorted him around his own house a…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 10:40 PM
3

I want to put a face to an industry that no one is willing to talk about but everyone is willing to consume. I love how the same people who are shaming me are the same people who are jacking off to me." Yeah... no. The people doing the "slut shaming" are women.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 08:46 PM
8

This is factually incorrect, at least in every state I've lived. All she has to say is she fears for her safety and you are out - doesn't matter if your name is on the lease or your family has owned the property for 200 years.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 08:27 PM
22

Yeah... every guy says that. But you know what? When push comes to shove the cops will come and kick you out of your house. It's not like you get a choice.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 10:09 AM
1

I don't. It something I read in the newspaper before I stopped reading the newspaper. I'm not even sure that it's true, just that there are feminists who say it's true and are advocating for the old system because they think women will get more money.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 10:34 PM
2

There was a good reason for no fault divorce, though. Where I live the old system was much more acrimonious. People hired private investigators. When it got to court both parties would lie like rugs, so the best liars had a big advantage. In your case you may have had documentation, but she may have been more careful if it was going to cost her money. Feminists were big supporters of no fault, but statistically women aren't getting as much out of divorce as they did under the old system. It turn…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 08:20 PM
2

That's the way it should work, anyway.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 03:50 AM
1

As I get older and realize just how precious my time on this earth is, the question I gotta ask is... why would you even bother associating with feminists?
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 02:14 AM
-5

I don't see any actual evidence to support that conclusion. You can explain the whole dynamic by observing women are willing to share and men aren't. That has nothing to do with sex drive, per se. Also, there are a whole lot of men out there (maybe most men) who aren't getting any and also refuse to go to prostitutes. Doesn't that argue for diminished male sex drive?
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 09:41 PM
0

If the desire was equal on both sides, than the need/demand for prostitutes wouldnt exist. I don't think that follows, necessarily. I suspect the difference is more that beautiful women are inclined to settle on one man whereas popular men play the field - i.e. 20% of the men are getting 80% of the sex. Women will share a high-status man if they have to.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 09:00 PM
2

He might still "love" her, whatever that means, and he might miss the sex, but how could a man possibly trust a woman who that? I would say pump-n-dump her, but he's not strong enough emotionally to dump her. He should wish her well and cut off further contact.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 08:22 PM
-1

That doesn't support your point. There aren't many male (hetero) prostitutes because if a woman just wants sex, unlike a man she can easily get it for free.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 08:09 PM
1

He's 19.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 01:19 AM
18

CultOfBlackPhillip had some good insight, too: When a person suggests an open relationship, what is really implied regardless of it being true is "I have set up or am looking for somebody new to fuck, but I want you as my safety net to come back to when i'm done."
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 01:05 AM
6

So... she tells her boyfriend to fuck other women and he does and she realizes it was a horrible mistake? She sees the BF as a homebody beta who won't be able to bed another woman in that time frame. That way she gets the best of both worlds - she can go from one exotic bed to another for three months, but it's okay because they agreed to open up the relationship. And then the plan was for her to arrive home and hear "I know we said it would be okay to see other people, but I just played video g…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 12:39 AM
2

Is beauty skin deep? Or does beauty come with the confidence built over years of experience, with the strength that surfaces in times of hardship, with the self-awareness found through exploration and life lessons? I believe that women grow more beautiful year after year, not less. Hah hah. Nope, it's pretty much the skin deep part. This is very amusing, particularly given the content of the original letter by a woman who refuses to date any man who isn't wealthy. All around the world the female…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/14 11:53 PM
35

I wouldn't even consider that a "conservative" decision. It's just common sense.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/14 07:58 PM
1

The one thing you don't want to do is get violent. Don't hit her or him. Don't throw shit or scream at her. An acquaintance of mine caught his wife in the act. The guy split and he started calling her a whore at the top of his lungs and spit on her. That shit just played right into her hands - by the next morning she had a restraining order and he had an hour to pack his stuff under the watchful eyes of law enforcement. If you're not married just move on and thank your lucky stars you discovered…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/14 07:33 AM
1

Why would anyone take a 17 year old girl's advice on... well, anything?
/r/TheRedPill22/02/14 01:25 AM
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