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Social Issuesttlx0102/r/MensRights24/09/22 03:33 PM
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Generalttlx0102/r/MensRights23/04/24 02:49 AM
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As much as I hate to say this... it's likely peer pressure.
/r/MensRights20/05/24 01:23 AM
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Not the same way, but definitely wanting a relationship. Companionship and intimacy.
/r/MensRights19/05/24 01:56 PM
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That has not been my experience but I'm willing to say I don't know what the actual trend is. My experience has been that older men want relationships (especially women). But they have limited methods of finding them.
/r/MensRights18/05/24 02:28 PM
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Again, life is a long road. That said as long as your ok with your decisions as your own. Don't get pushed to something your not going to be comfortable with.
/r/MensRights17/05/24 09:24 PM
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I think it depends highly on the person. Male friends alone never really did it for me. I want a woman in my life. I just accept this as who I am. That said life is a LONG run... when your older... being alone can be very tough and a woman in your life goes a long way. Now you have to decide if that relationship is worth it...
/r/MensRights17/05/24 07:35 PM
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Your mileage may vary. My personal experience is this: men (including myself) need relationships in their lives. We are subject to getting lonely and feeling depression when disconnected from the social world. Having a family and being included in a family can be extremely rewarding and enjoyable, even with bad times. There is no one size fits all. Each man has needs in various ways. We are social creatures and building relationships *while your young* help you in the later years when it's nearl…
/r/MensRights17/05/24 07:18 PM
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Clearly there are exceptions to this exception. The point being is that sex impacts how people are treated (as does attractiveness etc). While we like to believe that (in the U.S. at least) the legal system is 'blind'... it's not. People can be biased.
/r/MensRights10/05/24 12:32 PM
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There are two issues. First is to ensure the laws are applicable to both sexes. The second part, which is far harder, is to get laws enforced without preference to a particular sex. In my divorce, I was assigned a woman judge. I was terrified of what she would do. I was convinced that she would side with my ex. In fact, the exact opposite happened. She was not swayed one bit by the manipulation. In fact she was far harder on her than I ever imagined. My lawyer told me this: the women judges see …
/r/MensRights10/05/24 01:36 AM
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Your saying that in the U.K. there is no such thing as a rape charge for a woman, because the law requires penetration?
/r/MensRights10/05/24 01:19 AM
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My personal experience has been in the area of divorce. There is significant work to be done here. First and foremost the manipulation by women of the divorce courts involving children and custody must be reigned in. Laws, rules put in place to (rightly) protect women from abuse and children from dangerous situations are weaponized against men because the woman holds a grudge, is mad, or otherwise wants to be vindictive. Financial characteristics of divorce need to be revamped. This includes a c…
/r/MensRights10/05/24 01:17 AM
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I would hope the judges are using some actual contract law and no the women manipulating them. Going through my terrible divorce I found out that the judge was a woman. I panicked. I thought to myself that... well, I'm dead. My lawyer calmed me down and said, "This is the best thing ever". The woman judge was absolutely the best thing. My ex and her woman lawyer could not manipulate her at all. My lawyer summed it up like this, "woman judges typically are far harder on the woman, they see throug…
/r/MensRights07/05/24 07:39 PM
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Is there any information on why judges throw out a pre-nup?
/r/MensRights07/05/24 03:40 PM
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Take care of your physical health. Lose weight, get an exercise program started, go to the doctor, eat right. Stop drinking. Don't smoke. Stop doing drugs. Create a budget and stick to it as much as possible. I use "goodbudget" because it's on my phone and I track my spending each day. You will never hit your budget, but you will be FAR closer to your goals compared to 'winging it'. Life is about relationships. Stuff won't make you happy. Enjoy the stuff you like with people. Build relationships…
/r/MensRights01/05/24 07:14 PM
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In the U.S. there have been initiatives going back 40 years to try and entice females to becomes Locomotive Engineers (train driver being the European term). There is little interest from the females in doing this particular job, which is fine.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 07:09 PM
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Not all feminists are against men. Seriously. That said there are feminists who are against men. For various reasons I suppose. I realized this in 2011 when working on a particular project with several women. My experience working with women is just as varied as working with men. The particular woman who enlightened me just hated "men", the made up imaginary stereotype male that society thinks is predominate. IMHO, the MeToo movement wasn't dangerous. There are many situations where women experi…
/r/MensRights01/05/24 12:55 AM
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This is great advice. But... In a weird way, "they" have their sounding boards and post generalities... not all ... but it happens without recourse... we don't seem to have a place to say "eh... women... blah blah blah"...
/r/MensRights30/04/24 06:43 PM
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Does anyone know how this happens? I mean mechanically? Is there some "report a sub" and they get enough reports then reddit bans the sub?
/r/MensRights30/04/24 06:41 PM
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I should have added "if the birth control" works effectively and has little side effects.
/r/MensRights24/04/24 02:18 PM
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The assumption is the male pill would be effective and not have any significant health side effects.
/r/MensRights23/04/24 09:01 PM
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If any two people in a relationship (can be two women or two men for that matter) don't agree on being committed to each other, then there are some hard decisions to be made. The whole controlling thing or misogynistic label is just manipulation. The feelings are valid, it's painful to have a partner state they want to be 'free'. This is simply a case of someone wanting to test the waters to see if there is better while holding a person in reserve. This situation is unacceptable, which is why th…
/r/MensRights23/04/24 03:12 AM
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That sub is run for the glorification of feminism. Your not going to get a real conversation. I have yet to find a sub that doesn't ban you for trying to discuss real issues. For full disclosure, i think male groups sometimes do this as well. It would be good to have a sub that actively allows the two sides to discuss.
/r/MensRights19/04/24 05:44 PM
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Thank you for the reply. A real problem is the concept of "why"... what do we do in life that gives us purpose. (No, not a religious perspective). But the actual things we do per day that make us feel like we have purpose in life. More basic: how do we feel good? Toiling away with no results doesn't work. And we have created a society that capitalism (which got us to this point) runs our lives, but it doesn't make us happy. We lack real science in this area.... what makes us happy and how to acc…
/r/MensRights19/04/24 02:56 PM
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First... I understand your frustration. What we don't have is any actual proven steps that are followed will help. There is no recipe that will always help. I'm not saying it doesn't exist either. Maybe one day with research and actual science processes and rules will surface. They will be tested and validated and *most* men (even both sexes) will be far better off. Right now we have a deluge of noise.
/r/MensRights19/04/24 12:51 AM
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Staring is probably not what they are talking about. For example, averting your eyes completely if a woman is on the beach in a bikini.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 11:58 PM
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I think they mean that, for example, a woman is in a bikini at the beach, you must avert your eyes?
/r/MensRights27/10/22 11:57 PM
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Wow. This is exactly why we need legal paternal surrender. Before the child is born, the male can opt-out of this. No contact, no support.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 07:44 PM
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I had to read this several times. All of your concerns on how to raise children are valid. I absolutely agree that we (as a society) have much more work to do. I personally believe that a strong family unit is best for raising children. Society has done much damage to this. My point however is that a male should have the same decision capability as a female. "You'd be forcing every mother to make an ultimatum about their child when the man can just leave whenever he wants before the birth". Yes.…
/r/MensRights07/10/22 04:39 PM
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"Why should a father be allowed to persue his dreams and get wealthy, while the kid he created is left struggling to survive?" Because that should be his choice. The same choice that is available to a female. And in that case, the female should make the life decisions with the knowledge that the male is not going to provide support. I realize this isn't going to fix societal ills. Hopefully it will change behaviors and move society away from the 'bread winner' male view. For those that want to, …
/r/MensRights05/10/22 11:37 PM
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"Basically i think LPS is an unrealistic goal and waste if time advocating for becuase most voters and law makers are going to look at you like your a lunatic when you suggest that men should be allowed to avoid the responsibility of supporting kids they helped create." I would like to focus on this statement. A female has the absolutely right to avoid the responsibility for supporting kids they helped create. Why would it be different for males? (Note that I'm talking about two individuals who …
/r/MensRights05/10/22 05:49 PM
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This is almost exactly the whole point. First, it's helpful to think of this as "legal paternal surrender" which I learned from this group. A male would give up their paternal rights (same as a female putting a child up for adoption/having an abortion). If a female wants to carry a child to term after the male has opted out then it would be her responsibility to determine how to raise the child. Maybe you should present a scenario that can be discussed. My suggestion is this: a male/female have …
/r/MensRights04/10/22 10:50 PM
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Unplanned pregnancies are as bad for males as for females. Take the simple case: a unwanted pregnancy with a woman you barely know. Most reasons to terminate the pregnancy for the female are applicable to the male.
/r/MensRights04/10/22 02:11 PM
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Understood and agree. But it seems that practical application of such has proven unreliable. The suggestion is that a male can 'opt out'. I am not advocating a male have any input into the decision on carrying a child to term. It would be exactly like a woman giving a child up for adoption. A male could 'opt out' and relinquish parental rights to the female completely. And in that, there would be no financial responsiblity. I don't see Vasectomies as viable for younger folks. Males will want to …
/r/MensRights26/09/22 12:54 AM
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Are you saying this because: 1) You believe that abstinence is available to both male/females and when practiced is 100% effective (thereby avoiding the whole pregnancy problem in the first place, "an ounce of prevention...") 2) You believe that a female alone should make the decision after conception?
/r/MensRights26/09/22 12:21 AM
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In my experience, females tend to be impressed by a males ability to provide. I somewhat "get" that, but I wish we could have that conversation. A female and I ended up in an argument about this. I tried to point out that a womans attraction to wealthy males (providers) is no different than a males attraction to (well) attractive females.
/r/MensRights26/09/22 12:13 AM
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I un-joined. I wonder if there is a feminist sub/discussion sub that you can get real feedback on a topic like this. Problem with MensRights is... it's probably 99.9% males (and I really do want a female perspective).
/r/MensRights25/09/22 02:18 PM
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I keep trying to find a place where some women will provide answers. I'm pretty sure I know why ... but even asking the question really, really makes some folks mad.
/r/MensRights25/09/22 02:16 PM
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Agreed. While a female may or may not terminate a pregnancy, a male cannot. But a male can, like a woman, surrender all parental rights (ie, adoption). Right now, that option is not available. And I am beginning to believe it should. It would significantly change consequences of sexual intercourse.
/r/MensRights25/09/22 01:10 AM
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Agreed. What is frustrating is the group actually invites you to "askAFeminist".. and when you do, the individuals over there seem to relish the idea of shutting anyone down who even seems like they might not agree. I messaged the moderator to ask if I had made a mistake/if I had not complied, and I was muted. No dialog at all. Fair enough maybe they have had their share of trolls or something, but maybe you shouldn't run a "ask" community if your burned out. I wonder what a real feminist view w…
/r/MensRights25/09/22 12:05 AM
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To be more specific, should a male have the legal capacity to terminate their parental rights before the child is born? This would include their financial responsibility as well.
/r/MensRights24/09/22 11:59 PM
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Agreed.
/r/MensRights24/09/22 11:45 PM
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I think that the "legal paternal surrender" moniker is much better. You bring up a great point. What I am asking about isn't even about abortion, while that was the origin of my question I seems the better comparison (and probably less negative) is adoption.
/r/MensRights24/09/22 06:46 PM
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What bothers me is I wanted to truly understand their viewpoint. I admit, it doesn't make any sense to me. Which is why I tried to reach out. I did submit another post to "Feminist", hopefully that will at least get some attention.
/r/MensRights24/09/22 06:22 PM
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Or.. to make it simple... unless otherwise declared, the assumption is the male is not interested in any offspring. For a simple example, if your married, that would be considered a automatic declaration. (I guess you could opt out and still be married, but at least you have to have that conversation with your partner, which is a GOOD thing).
/r/MensRights24/09/22 05:52 PM
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There are many details to work over, agreed. What baffles me is how some women react. Even mentioning it (to have an honest discussion) will evoke severe retaliation. It's like you can't even bring up the subject, which is confusing.
/r/MensRights24/09/22 05:49 PM
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I asked the same question in the askFeminist, and was muted for 28 days. What I wanted was clarification on their own wiki, which I am confused over. I would have thought that a feminist would at least be somewhat supportive, considering they wish to have the same choice. But it seems (at least for that reddit group), their stance is: As it stands right now, men do frequently "opt out" of actual parenthood; they never see their child and don't really care about them, but they do have to help sup…
/r/MensRights24/09/22 05:48 PM
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I think my question would assume, if females have this right to decide, males should have at least some similar right.
/r/MensRights24/09/22 05:44 PM
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