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51

I think she deleted it, I can't seem to find it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 02:53 AM
24

Def going to take notes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 05:41 AM
4

GBS?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 12:58 PM
9

Oh no! Anyways. Despite having it better married, most men die before their wives anyways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 12:56 PM
8

It wasn't even anything you did... He was acting sullen over the fact that you didn't watch CNN? Wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 12:56 PM
12

It's kind of nice to be able to completely cut yourself out of the drama isn't it? I moved out of state from my last relationship and it was amazing to just completely tuck that part of my life behind me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 12:55 PM
15

It's so nice when they realize that you won't take a tsp of their shit. Wonderful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 03:52 AM
110

What a fucking psycho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 01:40 AM
30

Good for you for not letting his whiny ass convince you to stay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 01:37 AM
27

But why the bike battery? Was it out of power?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 01:36 AM
59

Was his name John? I think we may have dated the same person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 01:35 AM
34

Isn't it great knowing if they ever looked you up, you'd be listed at a law firm while they're still paying off debt for a degree they never completed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 01:32 AM
37

You'd think they would change after the first or second, but no...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 01:30 AM
4

Do you remember the title? I'd love to read it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 04:59 AM
33

You'd think men would learn to step up, but noooo it's women who are the problem with high expectations, boundary setting, and needs!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 02:02 AM
8

I don't understand this entitlement men have for sex on the first date . Also the fact that he said you were assuming right AFTER he asked. The audacity lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 03:19 PM
126

Just turn it around and say: "I hope you're kinder to yourself than you are to others." and then give them a lopsided smile and walk away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 03:16 PM
7

Yes the vice documentary on that was so upsetting. There was a beautiful lawyer who was 30+ and she was getting gaslit by the same company she hired to get married. When she went to her family they essentially shouted that she was selfish for not settling and just finding any man and having children. It's just so bizarre.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 10:09 AM
10

Sorry this is a long one. But my realtor was a narcissist, gas lighting MF. I found my realtor's information on upnest.com which basically provides a list of realtors that have low commission rates. They were the top earning realtors with excellent reviews and so I went with my realtor to sell my home in a really hot market. One of the first things that was a red flag was the fact that he did not want to abide by his own advertised rate of 4.15%. He stated that he didn't want to go lower than 4.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 03:32 AM
9

Yeah I don't get it either! He had even had to borrow money from his parents for a down payment but never considered there were other costs?! Like, this dude didn't have any money at all and expected a house?? No idea how he was preapproved at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 06:45 PM
26

I lost another buyer for my home showing - but this time it's not due to my shitty neighborhood but due to the facts that this dumbass hasn't got his money or his shit together. How the hell did he put in 7 offers on 7 different houses and never realized that there were closing costs associated with buying a house?! I'm so frustrated because I'm trying to move out of state and even offered to provide 700$ towards his closing costs (he has $8000) and STILL he had to back out because he couldn't f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 04:52 PM
1

Good on you, keep on the path.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 09:37 PM
3

Also please use periods at the end of your sentences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 08:22 PM
12

I'm selling my house and managed to get the realtor to take 4.25% commission! I'm really lucky. Unfortunately the house will be set at 288,500 which is a little lower than I'd hoped. I'm so stressed out because not only do I have to sell a home but I also have to buy one and do a move. I think the biggest thing though is my fear of disappointing my current bosses when I give them my 1.5 month notice tomorrow. They've been nothing but amazing and ill truly miss them . Makes me think of the happin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 03:27 AM
12

hell yeah, sister!! Way to go!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 01:05 AM
16

Fuck yeah I'd date me. A woman who's got 2 corgi's, has her shit together, adventurous, has her own $$, and fun? I love that I can say that now. When I was in my 20's , the answer was a resounding no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 01:04 AM
38

Holy shit, I can't believe I'm living in a time where this is even happening. I wish there was something I could do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 06:36 PM
92

Okay, so he had to be joking and the joke just fell flat and he continued to dig himself further. There's no way anyone could say that in all serious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 12:39 AM
83

I'm about ready to remove my uterus from seeing this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 05:55 PM
12

What subreddit is this on? Would like to see him get roasted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 11:10 AM
61

Sounds like she keeps getting picked. Good for her. Hope you're doing much better:)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 09:21 AM
7

Honestly my anti depressants really made me celibate without even trying. Thought it was a con, but now I don't really mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 02:52 AM
10

What a load of horse shit. I hope she grabs her stuff and dumps his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 05:36 PM
12

This is amazing !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 07:50 PM
4

Holy shit - who does he think he is. He literally hasn't even met you and he's already asking you to do wifey shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 05:24 PM
127

I've been told I was bitter about men by coworkers who've I've talked to about FDS principles. I said I wasn't bitter, I was just more aware that most men are trash. One of my male coworkers even agreed with me hahaha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 05:21 PM
7

Queen! Way to go
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 02:47 AM
138

The fact that he wrote this says a lot about how much space she takes up in his mind and psyche. His poor girlfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 08:37 PM
118

Holy shit. That's absolutely trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 08:56 PM
54

I wonder if we'll see her on arr relationships later on with all the comments stating "communicate more!" I hope she gains more insight on why she is feeling the way she is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 04:32 PM
12

If they don't respond then don't reserve them in your schedule. It's a type of passive aggressive reaction to you not agreeing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 05:59 PM
14

Wish you the best of luck!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 05:58 PM
11

Trust me, don't do the poly thing with women in other relationships. It's just not worth it. There won't be that emotional connection and you'll always have another man to deal with . Find a single chick to be casual with and see where that goes. Let them know that you're bisexual, but curious upfront. Sometimes there's a bias against bisexuals in the LGBT community, not sure why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 05:58 PM
36

Like last minute catfishing. Real interesting that he immediately blamed his "brain isssue". I bet he uses that excuse a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 05:54 PM
73

Literally say they've moved in, but it's been like that for months
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 03:45 PM
11

Was just looking for another movie ! Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 06:13 AM
15

triangulation manipulation - fuckkk I had that used against me and it always bothered me and I could never put it into words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 03:20 PM
24

Block and move on. Not only is he a LVM trying to love bomb you ("You're the most beautiful...") but he's also a liar and a porn-sick scrote. I'm glad FDS got to you in time and helped you decide to stay in your own city. Chances are you'd be completely reliant and dependent on him when you moved to a new city. You'd be isolated and completely vulnerable. That's like NVM and narcissist 101.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 03:18 PM
52

The fact that he has to work under his father now, knowing that his son is such a piece of shit is hilarious . Probably couldn't find another job elsewhere
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 03:16 AM
91

Holy shit, you fucking QUEEN. I bow before you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 09:12 PM
3

Honestly, have you looked into comphet? (Compulsory heterosexuality)? I honestly felt the same. Being around men made me feel uncomfortably - even when they touched me. And it wasn't until I got into my 30s and got with another woman that I realized it was because I was 100% gay and trying to force a cube into a circle. Not saying your fear is invalid, but offering another perspective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 08:52 PM
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That literally happened with me in my pickme days. I dated a man that was 12 years older than I was and at first he was "oh wow, you're so much more attractive than I am." and then he started dropping negs "I don't normally date asians" and picking at my habits. He was so insecure with his overweight ass that he started trying to control MY eating so I'd stay "attractive". Never again. NEVER AGAIN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 08:48 PM
17

Honestly? Knowing it's a gay bar makes it way easier for me. I wouldn't go alone to a straight bar because there are way too many LVM predators but there's a kind of acceptance in gay bars that I enjoy. Also I'm the kind of person to start up a conversation with strangers and do things on my own if no one is willing to come with. I try my best not to let other peoples scheduling limit my ability to enjoy myself. That said, there were a few points where I was in the middle of the dance crowd and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 04:39 PM
40

Went on 2 dates with women over the past weekend during the heatwave and while they were both beautiful and great, didn't feel that "click". The first one there was some connection, but she was recovering from a divorce with 5 children and we just decided that it was best we stay friends. The other one was nice, but awkward, and we agreed it was best that we just play wingwoman if we hung out at a gay bar together. Also I ended up going to a new gay bar in town on my own and it was so refreshing…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 03:28 PM
47

At least once a day, mostly when I'm driving. Oh well. At least we'll never make that mistake again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 11:49 PM
14

I broke it off officially. I'm so grateful that she opened my eyes to women that I'll never look back to men. But there were undercurrents that would have caused long term issues and thankfully we both caught it quickly. I haven't necessarily blocked and deleted her, but I've put her in the archives, turned off notifications for her, and am focusing on myself and my career (and a move that may be taking me from CA to San Antonio, TX). She booted me off her Netflix account, but it's okay I have o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 05:52 PM
1

I broke up with my girlfriend because I might move to San Antonio. But now I'm questioning my need to move. I have a wonderful job here, good friends whom I go camping with and hang out with, I have a home that I've been slowly remodeling to make it my own. Really - there's nothing necessarily pushing me away other than the fact that I enjoy switching things up and would like to return to Texas. I don't know what to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 05:19 PM
5

Honestly as much as I love FDS - it's ruined fanfiction for me. Now I read the synopsis of a fic and get insta-turned off by a/b/o, bondage, and anything resembling a shitty LVM/NVM relationship. Which.... is a lot of fanfiction, unfortunately. Other than that, it's been great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 10:24 PM
3

I just got an email updating me on the job at the VA. It sounds super promising! I'm super excited about it and honestly think I'm going to get the job. Definitely just have to wait and see. Hopefully the process will get started by November or December so that I'll have been in current job (which I love!) for a year and a half at the least. So my girlfriend really made me reconsider the relationship last night. She backed out of a camping trip with some buddies and decided to wait 3 days prior …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 10:14 PM
9

Usually it's a real subtle neg, like about my house which is in the ghetto by the freeway. And it's all by this one guy friend I'm with when he comes over. But he knows he has no chance - I think he's trying to low key joke about it but it's annoying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 03:14 PM
66

I love the silly comment! My issue is being aware of being negged during the moment. It's usually after I get home that I realize what's happened
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 03:33 AM
17

Nice. He's got that Yakuza main character vibe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 09:24 AM
151

Damn this is literally too real. Wish I could post this on my social media.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:11 PM
13

I'd wait until after I was able to get on my own two feet before getting disowned due to not being married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 08:40 PM
91

Holy shit. Literally what is the point of even getting married to an Indian man? Not only will you be stuck dealing with a LVM, the MIL who will treat you like a servant, and loss of your identiy, but you have to PAY THEM TOO? Wow. Fuck that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:26 PM
256

No self reflection or awareness whatsoever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:22 PM
65

Oh yeah, that one chick from Houston was a fucking queen. Knew what she wanted and wouldn't even consider men beneath her. Then there was the rich guys who didn't care until a literal model came by.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:21 PM
77

I've dated an Indian man before and I can second that they're cheap. They also tend to be pushy. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:20 PM
74

Oh good, at least there's some repercussions. Hopefully.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:18 PM
45

They're only high because we're "females". Females don't have rights to standards /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:03 PM
63

That's smart. I hope she continues to aim high and doesn't get weighed down by low value trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:02 PM
76

And considering how beautiful Indian women are, it's a total shame. I wonder if that's why they've forced arranged marriages into the system.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 05:58 PM
94

I was watching the Netflix show on arranged marriages and I wonder how many of the men were like this? They kept framining the women in the marriages as being "too picky" and it just rubbed me the wrong way so bad. What do these men have to offer?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 05:57 PM
96

There was a posting about a guy in a hospital in India raping a 80 year old patient with Covid. She was all wheezing for help due to lack of oxygen and he's thinking that's his time to get his dick wet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 05:55 PM
194

Yeah that's particularly awful. Like does he even realize that he's being a pedophile?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 05:54 PM
5

Yeah but it was Lindt chocolate and my dogs are about 20 pounds. She had about 8oz of it total, the crazy thing. But FYI, the Hydrogen peroxide 3% really works!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 04:21 PM
9

Part III of the girlfriend series... I stayed over her house again with my 2 dogs. Except she had chocolate on a table and apparently my dog got to it and we had to get hydrogen peroxide to get her to throw up. Any mood to get down was gone by that point - but she was still somewhat pushy about it until I said "not happening". We stayed up until 12AM to make sure the dogs were okay and finally fell asleep. Then whenever I go out to see her, the dogs run out. All my friends usually immediately he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 03:59 PM
21

Honestly, getting a dog was the best thing I've done. Now I go to dog parks regularly and meet people that way. I have an excuse to go hiking and a reason to get out of the house. I highly recommend a dog for any person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 07:51 PM
49

Literally looks like a bangmaid. An illustrated bangmaid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 04:45 PM
9

So I'm kind of the same. Dick is pretty disgusting tbh. I hate the stretch and it never really hits my gspot because it's so curved inwards. If I didn't find a butch lesbian I was 100% attracted to, I'd be happy to be single for the rest of my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 04:22 PM
7

Also would like a discord invite, if possible! Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 04:18 PM
26

Always look at how someone behaves to servers/retail workers. They can be as suave to you as they want, but nothing screams NVM than someone who treats retail/servers like crap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 03:16 PM
10

Not OP, but it doesn't hurt. It's just uncomfortable when you first wear your retainers or change retainers. Currently on my 4th retainer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 03:11 PM
30

Damn, that burn was so fire
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 10:00 PM
15

Theres a post on 'r' relationships about a woman with her foot broken and needing help and upset because her man won't help her with anything. Her post was "how do I commuicate without being overbearing?" Shows how invasive the patriarchy is when a man can treat his gf like trash and she STILL is concerned about being "overbearing and naggy" rather than question why a scrote is even in her life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 09:53 PM
5

To be fair Waffle house is amazing and great late night munchies. But yeah, they don't have real logical responses to your inquiries. Just "ignore her, she's FDS".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 04:47 PM
12

As a Chinese American, I was always so proud of Mulan for being such a strong protagonist. Then Mulan 2 came out and it was like 2 steps back. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 04:43 PM
19

So yesterday the girl I was talking to and I had a lovely dinner and cookie date and then we defined the relationship. So now she's my girlfriend and it feels so ... right. We've been moving so fast but at the same time it just feels so natural - it's the strangest feeling. I've never felt this way about a man before. I'm legitamately happy y'all. I'm also hosting a BBQ in my backyard for a few friends and inviting her so they'll meet. It's so stressful because I have to clean the backyard, pull…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 03:47 PM
19

Which one was it ? Love listening to the dateline podcast
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 08:46 PM
12

Damn she looks fabulous. They did a great job on her outfit and makeup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 07:11 PM
7

That's kind of insulting to Dollar tree don't you think?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 07:08 PM
7

Of course he would be obsessed with women having any sort of "advantage" from his POV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 07:07 PM
6

Block and delete. Easy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 07:05 PM
6

She is a straight up narcissist. Have you seen /r/raisedbynarcissists ? They might be able to help you. Seems like a difficult situation. I hope you're able to move out safely with the least amount of emotional damage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 06:11 PM
6

What is she doing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 05:31 PM
7

Do something nice for yourself - get a massage :) Especially a foot massage, they usually go for 20-30$.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 05:30 PM
48

So I'm still dating that chicka from 3 weeks ago and it's going super swell. She's so sweet - she reserved a spot at a fine dining restaurant and we drove for 30 minutes at night, just talking and enjoying the ambience of the night. Afterwards we hung out at her place and just watched shows. Then there's the issue of my guy friend who is acting low-key butthurt about the fact that I'm into women now and he doesn't stand a chance. He's very much into things being 50/50. He organized a trip to Mon…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 05:28 PM
3

Like I can't even look at it, it's terrifying. And a part of me responds to it despite knowing it's satire. The patriarchy is real...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 03:43 PM
15

Thank you! She's wonderful. Highly recommend my fellow FDSer's check out other women if men aren't working out. Compulsory heterosexuality is a huge thing with women and a reason why women take so much longer to find their true identities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 06:10 PM
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Date 3 since my last update and I can proudly now say that I am 99% a lesbian. I feel so relieved - like I've finally found out why being with men was so awful. I hated it when they touched me but I thought that was so normal. The difference between touch of the girl I'm dating and my ex .... Wow. I'm so comfortable with her and I actually feel excited about going to the next step, whereas with a man I just felt put out, as in "let's get it over with." She met all 3 of my dogs the other day and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 05:23 PM
23

My ex was like that. Within the first 5 minutes of introducing himself, you'd know that he made 6 figures, was in management as an engineer, owned a house. Literally didn't even ask questions about the other person, just talked about himself. I'm amazed I stayed in that relationship for a year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:49 PM
174

Typical scrote demands if you think about it. Only issue is he hasn't tricked a woman into a relationship to do those things yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 04:59 PM
14

It's funny because I'm definitely attracted to tomboys and butch women. I've tried femme and ... nothing. It's so crazy how attraction works. Any advice?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 06:27 PM
15

Well we're just getting coffee for our first date to kind of check each other out. It's really close to a local ice cream shop so maybe that afterwards... We've had some great text conversations already so it's been good! But man it's super nerve wracking. Any advice??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 04:41 PM
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I have a date with an awesome sounding chick on Wednesday. She's a top, and butch, and oh my goooosh I am so excited. We had a little bit of a conversation and I actually got turned on. That literally never happens with men. So I guess I'm officially lesbian, y'all. What a fucking relief.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 03:24 PM
20

You are glorious!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 03:22 PM
1

Oh god, I can imagine his disgusting, unwashed hands, nails full of dirt and stains. I feel so violated just imagining it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 07:10 PM
27

And when women are promoted, they immediately blame "sex scandals" and reverse discrimination. Such bullshit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 08:30 PM
94

Not really. I feel like since FDS, I've grown above the game. What's the point?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 08:28 PM
82

"You're not like other women"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 08:58 PM
134

I think it's hilarious that they think Asian women are soft and submissive. Have they ever met an Asian tiger mom? They're the last thing from soft and submissive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 08:50 PM
5

There was always that weird sense in my head that dating LVM felt... wrong. But I would look on askreddit and online and keep seeing post after post of women needing to be open and have sex within the first 3 dates and to go 50/50... There was about a year in my life I went on a few dates - but none of them panned out. Some of that was me, some of that was the men. But then I got into a relationship with a man that was 12 years older than me and he was trash. He was cheap. Would gaslight me abou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 06:23 PM
2

I listened to this twice. It's so accurate, I busted out laughing quite a few times. We need more of this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 05:26 PM
18

Holy shit, that is the most unattractive thing I've heard yet. What did he expect, for pity sex? Jfc, I can't believe these are real people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 04:07 PM
12

Fucking fantastic. Way to go! I used to be into nerds but after FDS, realized that most of them are unhygienic, have poor social skills, and tend to be addicted to porn moreso than the general pop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:20 PM
19

Even blocked, he still attempts to use you as a free emotional support
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:17 PM
19

I've had that happen to me before too. Dressed up to go to a nice asian restaurant and the guy comes in with a dirty Tshirt and jeans. I was flabbergasted. How do people think that's okay?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:12 PM
15

Yeah no. I don't understand how men don't realize how dangerous that is for women. Oh right, they don't have empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:10 PM
16

Did you send him the small finger emoji and block him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:08 PM
14

Hilarious how they come crawling back expecting to be taken back in. Good on you, Queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:08 PM
9

Wow the audacity to kiss you right after too. Hilarious. Hope you had a good time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:06 PM
39

A ex guy friend did that to me on a hike. Every time I caught up he'd rush be 20 feet ahead of me. After a while I got so mad I'd stop and wait to see how long he noticed, and once he stopped is slowly make my way to him. It pissed me off beyond belief. I'd never do that to someone I was hanging out with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 09:45 PM
26

Whoever mods that gram is a fucking queen and I love them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:03 PM
39

OT here. This is more of a counseling, psychologist and psychiatrist territory imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:01 PM
12

So I may be an outlier but I take BC for management of PMDD, regularity, and severe hormonal acne. It's done wonders for me, thank goodness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 04:07 AM
12

Just give me a tiny house in a tiny house village please
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 01:19 AM
60

It's official, they're emotional and life draining vampires.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 04:58 PM
3

Really wish I had a friend who could help me learn this stuff ! Id love to help her remodel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 02:19 PM
27

There's also a study that showed women in general were unhappier in marriages after children than men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 12:59 AM
49

That's partially the reason why I don't want children of my own with a man. What's the point when you're expected to sacrifice everything that makes you you and still be discriminated against by your career and your own husband ("You're not the same anymore"), all while you have to be the perfect home-maker, wife, cleaner, mother... no thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 11:17 PM
0

Hope it's at my hobby lobby!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 05:21 AM
5

As someone who graduated OT school 4 years ago: welcome and don't let school shove you down. It's a bunch of bullshit that you're gonna have to wade through. You'll learn it all during your rotation. Congrats!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 01:33 AM
15

Every time I have an intrusive flashback about the men I let touch me, I shudder in revulsion. Their half lidding "O" faces are especially awful. Only got off once and it was because I was on E.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 04:27 PM
4

Saving this for future reference!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 03:09 AM
54

Amazing!! We need the whole song !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 03:29 AM
34

Only regret was looking back when she was driving away. Never look back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 04:34 PM
119

I feel the same exact way. Why tolerate their ineptitude and their millions of expectations when we're perfectly happy in our own solitude? I don't have to account for my actions, location, or choices. I just do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 11:39 PM
5

I had a friend who I considered a best friend. And then she started dating men again and it just... ruined her. She became the pickiest pickme of pickme's. All she would do was talk about a guy and then cry about things he's been doing that she's upset about without dumping him. I used up so much energy trying to console her. All she would talk about was herself and her "man" and the issues that surrounded their relationship. It didn't really hit me until I had surgery and ... all she did was ta…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 11:33 PM
9

That's amazing. Do this next time, OP!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 05:06 PM
37

bet he won't find it funny when we take his shit and throw it out of the apartment. "look, you don't live here no more!" and call the police for vandalism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 04:51 PM
29

That's terrifying. If someone did that to me and called me after, I'd love to give him a piece of my mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 04:49 PM
24

Gorgeous! And I agree with you regarding the ring feelin prohibitive on my L ring finger. Like I'm doing something "wrong" by having it on a finger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 04:47 PM
37

Nearly nothing about him. Just his demands. Typical.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 05:23 PM
205

At that point I'd just straight up ask him: "Can you order something? I got us last time." and see what he has to say. But honestly, I don't think I'd ever be stuck in that kind of position. There's nothing that turns me off more than a guy that's a cheap bumfuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 09:32 PM
78

They're just defensive and attacking at all angles- hoping one will stick. It's pathetic, really.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 09:29 PM
4

Wonderful! Congratulations!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 01:51 AM
20

Needs pic of pup!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 01:37 AM
12

Yes ! When I was with my narcissist ex scrote, my grades and energy suffered. I was constantly worried and stressing about being his 'perfect girl' while also making my way through the hardest semester of my graduate program. Was literally like having two jobs. And for what!? My degree and career is the only one thats stayed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 01:34 AM
18

Me too. I was initially afraid at first for buying myself an opal/diamond ring and wearing it on the "marriage" finger, but you know what? Fuck it. Why not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 01:30 AM
10

$375 at a pawn shop if you can believe it !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 01:29 AM
10

Thinking of going to a pawn shop and finding a pawned wedding/engagement ring for myself. Knowing it was most likely sold due to a broken relationship makes it even more sweeter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 04:10 AM
29

He probably takes shits heavier than he is. What a piece of trash he is. She needs to lose 200# of man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 09:39 PM
40

20-121!! Happy new years! May more women find FDS and level up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 09:37 PM
39

Might be time to have a talk with the wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 06:19 PM
58

I did this. I lost my virginity to a guy who rented an apartment and had only a tv and games in his living room. Not even a couch. For all his meals , he's only eat chicken and lightly seasoned rice. He lived there for months. Months !! Needless to say we broke off shortly after. Don't know what I was thinking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 04:12 AM
2

Thinking of going to a pawn shop. Somehow having a history behind it makes it all the better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 04:09 AM
3

Man, this is another reason why I don't want to do dating. When shit like this is a possibility ? Aw hellll nah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 07:23 PM
16

Seriously, at this point what does he even bring to the table.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 07:16 PM
8

I've been thinking of getting one. What's a good place to look for a ring for yourself?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 07:13 PM
7

Didn't know about that streaming service ! I'm so happy , new things to watch. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 01:48 AM
7

Last minute plane tickets over 1K after we both missed our flights. And of course it was my fault, not his, that we missed it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 07:19 PM
8

Link? I Def want to see that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 02:26 PM
1

Ooh I need to watch this. Thanks for rec. Any other ones I should watch?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 09:34 PM
7

That's my biggest fear is being trapped in that. Is there any way you can escape? Any family out of the country?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 08:03 PM
40

There's the stereotype of men being the "fun" parent" while mom is the "mean" parent, because that's just typically what's easier. Plus, the mom has all the "hard" jobs: cooking, cleaning, changing diapers, feeding, washing... Dad takes the kids to practice and "WOooooOOW You're such a good dad!!" It's such a pile of bullshit. The bar is truly low. What's even the point? I feel like it'd be easier just using them as sperm donors and then just finding a group of similar women as a support group/f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 07:56 PM
171

At that point what did he even do aside from work?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 04:09 PM
29

Really strong filters is what it is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 03:17 AM
0

She needs to be our next president.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 08:09 PM
8

Same. Had an ex who had intermittent contact with his exes and I felt so uncomfortable with it. When I broke up with him I blocked him on every social media platform available. Just seems easier that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 08:06 PM
2

Ive never had cats , only dogs. So maybe potty training isn't the right word
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 07:45 PM
47

Cats. It wasn't potty trained but it was free to Rome the House
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 05:25 AM
19

It's awful that it's how most romance is portrayed in hollywood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 03:26 AM
24

I'd guess r/relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 03:24 AM
202

I was dating a guy and was honestly interested in him... Until he took me to his house and I saw the state of his living room and guest room. The floors were stained with urine , dust and dead bugs on the kitchen countertops. the guest bathroom toilet had deep red ring stains and the shower was filthy. I immediately lost all attraction. fuck no- I'm not gonna be messing with that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 03:20 AM
48

Get a divorce lawyer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 06:20 PM
51

I'm so sorry that happened to you. What a fucking worthless pig to only think of his dick rather than you as a person and a partner! I'm so infuriated about this on your behalf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 04:53 PM
54

I went on a hike with someone who did this. I didn't even realize why I was getting so angry , but I was. He had no consideration at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 02:30 PM
6

The pigeon scene I'm rolling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 08:41 PM
4

This looks like a projection of a guy's apartment. And surprise, surprise - it's drawn by a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 06:30 PM
5

I need to rewatch rapunzel. This was a great recommendation, thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 04:19 PM
2

Can you link the post?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 03:57 PM
4

That's terrifying. Makes me really think that I should invest in a firearm. I refuse to feel vulnerable in my own home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 12:38 AM
5

no!! I had no idea. I'm so upset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 03:44 PM
154

This is wonderful news. But all I can think about is the misogynistic male scrote complaining of "pussy-privilege" They can fuck right off with that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 03:35 AM
11

Never thought I'd see the male version of the duck face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 03:28 AM
85

Car accidents would be way down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 05:06 PM
6

Not the first season. The second season all the interviewed patients are pretty much women though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 05:05 PM
3

This is why I'm child free. I never want to be trapped in a relationship this bad. Men only reveal their true selves when they think you're trapped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 04:57 PM
6

Oh shit, never even thought of it that way. Mind blown
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 07:59 PM
14

It really does help. A few months ago and I would have gone into a relationship with a guy who essentially struck a few annoyed cords in me. He was nice, but he was socially awkward, used passive aggressive communication, and had this laugh when he got nervous that just irritated me. But the issue is we make great friends. We watch shows and cook together. Our personalities are generally matching. We hang out twice a week. Except today it really showed. We got into an argument then he yelled. An…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 06:28 AM
6

That's why I split laundry unless we're married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 05:24 PM
51

Aaaand this is one of the many reasons I never want children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 03:02 AM
2

Amen. Every time I open myself up to a relationship I immediately get worried about their needs, their opinions, my style, my actions. Whereas when I'm single I do whatever the fuck I want. Do I want to just laze around all day? Then hell yeah, I deserve it because I'm the queen of my own life. I don't need permission from another guy to live my life. I had men get disgusted because they tore me after sex and thought it was my period. I was manipulated by men into cleaning their homes, paying re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 02:59 AM
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