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| 2 | Height takes the backseat to race when it comes to White women’s preferencesFact the more people are becoming aware of the fact same persons dating value would be perceived differently in different regions, doesn’t mean that significant enough amounts of people are actually moving somewhere purely because of that. Things like immigration laws, visas, work/residence permits, travel costs, langue barriers, assimilation difficulties, etc are still very much factors. Not even to mention that countries outside of first world ones generally have pretty shitty economies and yo… | /r/BlackPillScience | 22/01/26 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Height takes the backseat to race when it comes to White women’s preferencesSo you’re trying to say that A) Most white men DO prefer Asian women? I get that many wouldn’t mind dating Asian or don’t care about race, but to have Asian as a preference? For majority of white men? Yea nah. B) Asian women alleged preference for white men can still somehow affect anyone even if there aren’t any white people around? How can these dynamics possibly exist somewhere without different races living together? | /r/BlackPillScience | 22/01/26 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Height takes the backseat to race when it comes to White women’s preferencesThere’s levels to this, white people are not all equally white. They aren’t all seen as the same and don’t all share the same extent of perks. You claimed central Asians and some Arabs where “white as fuck”, are any of them blonde? Ginger? Color eyed? Pale? They’re bare minimum white at best, quit pretending. Either way, when dudes cry about white women’s preferences for their own race, those aren’t the women they cry about. And chances are, if you’re central Asian or Arab yourself, you wouldn’t… | /r/BlackPillScience | 18/01/26 08:56 PM |
| 3 | Height takes the backseat to race when it comes to White women’s preferencesYea, if you wanna count those go ahead, they’re not white to the real whites. Even Eastern Europeans don’t get treated like fully white in the west unless they grew up there, those groups are not even from Europe at all, neither are they Christian or white culturally. Also if you wanna look at it in the context of dating, those are also not the white girl types that people fetishize. | /r/BlackPillScience | 18/01/26 08:24 PM |
| 4 | Height takes the backseat to race when it comes to White women’s preferencesActually just looked it up, whites only make up 10-12% of global population, which is way more rare than one in six, your math is wrong. | /r/BlackPillScience | 18/01/26 08:12 PM |
| 2 | Height takes the backseat to race when it comes to White women’s preferencesLol, yes? All of different nationalities of white people combined are still gonna be less than the Chinese or the Indians alone. One in six men in US is six feet and above, yet women get slandered for having that preference because it’s too rare. | /r/BlackPillScience | 18/01/26 08:09 PM |
| -5 | Height takes the backseat to race when it comes to White women’s preferencesOxford study is largely a myth and even if true, white men don’t all prefer Asian women. Either way, these dynamics only exist in diverse areas and can be escaped by moving somewhere where you are the majority. | /r/BlackPillScience | 18/01/26 03:37 PM |
| 7 | Height takes the backseat to race when it comes to White women’s preferencesPerhaps because it’s expected that most people date within their race, in which case race becomes irrelevant because your competition as well as your target in that case are the same race as you. But also it might just be too sensitive of a topic for some, idk. | /r/BlackPillScience | 18/01/26 04:05 AM |
| 28 | Height takes the backseat to race when it comes to White women’s preferencesAnd? As if everyone is owned access to white women. They’re the most desired ones, obv they’d be the pickiest too. Y’all know that white people are globally rare? | /r/BlackPillScience | 18/01/26 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Is hookup culture cooked?Well I don’t want to be doing fine lol, I’m kinda used to be doing good, so “fine” would be a downgrade. That’s what the post is about. Definitely don’t think I’ll ever go celibate, less successful? Unfortunately seems plausible. | /r/seduction | 17/01/26 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Is hookup culture cooked?Idk, I also just feel like talking to girls one on one vs in let’s say party setting are different skills. They way others feel about you matters a lot and I’m just never the most popular guy in the rooom, but give me your undivided attention on a date for an hour or two and I’ll do all the right things. | /r/seduction | 17/01/26 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Is hookup culture cooked?They can also go on sex positive apps like Feeld where people are open and forward about their specific desires, but it doesn’t seem to very popular | /r/seduction | 17/01/26 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Is hookup culture cooked?Well hopefully it fades before I’m old and unfuckable | /r/seduction | 17/01/26 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Is hookup culture cooked?Well how many of these women stick around to be their fwbs vs how many stop hooking up soon as they understand it’s not going anywhere? I also still am hooking up with new girls fairly often, but I can’t just booty call any of them afterwards and expect them to show up, they’re just not on that type of time anymore it seems. | /r/seduction | 17/01/26 10:44 PM |
| 2 | Is hookup culture cooked?Oh boy. Happens to me all the time. All this talk about wanting to “build something first” meanwhile I don’t even know how I feel about them because idk how they are in bed and I’ve never even seen them naked. Worst part is that these hard to get girls are almost never amazing at sex, they just have lower sex drives hence why they’re able to resist the temptation. They’re just not gonna be all that crazy once it comes to it. | /r/seduction | 17/01/26 10:35 PM |
| 2 | Is hookup culture cooked?Well, I’m not worried about ever not being able to pull women. I am however worried that having my preferred type of love life will become so difficult it’ll no longer be efficient. I average between 30-40 new hookups depending on the year, if everyone becomes super wholesome all of a sudden, those numbers are gonna be very hard to achieve, but that’s what I’m used to so anything less would feel like a downgrade. | /r/seduction | 17/01/26 10:31 PM |
| 2 | Is hookup culture cooked?To few are single while still being attractive. The ones I met I def had great times with, but they’re too few and far in between. | /r/seduction | 17/01/26 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Is hookup culture cooked?But are they hooking up more than millennials did? Because if they don’t, then I’m still right about the hookup culture being in decline. Unfortunately. | /r/seduction | 17/01/26 10:13 PM |
| 4 | Is hookup culture cooked?Well, I won’t say I have it hard, but the efficiency is just not there. I sleep with new women more often now than ever before, but the ratio of first dates/sex is worse than it’s ever been. I just go on A LOT of dates these days because I’ve improved my dating profile a lot. But most of these dates don’t really go anywhere sexual on the first night because of how wholesome everyone has gotten. It’s just a huge time sucker and doesn’t feel super efficient. Also less and less girls I hookup with … | /r/seduction | 17/01/26 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Is hookup culture cooked?But yea, I definitely see the healthier choices trend, especially amongst gen z. When millennials were young it was cool to be a degenerate which definitely made casual sex easier, now I’m the drunkest at all parties and I’m not even that drunk. | /r/seduction | 17/01/26 10:07 PM |
| 3 | Is hookup culture cooked?Well, that’d still require her getting dressed, physically commuting to a bar, arranging for her friends to come with her as she’s not likely to want to do that alone. All that effort while still running the risk of not liking any of the 20 dudes that will be kicking it at that bar. Online she’s got hundreds of dudes to choose from, most of whom will agree should she tell them to come over. | /r/seduction | 17/01/26 10:05 PM |
| 2 | Is hookup culture cooked?Yea, I feel like it’s also more common for dudes now to put a lot of effort in their profiles and pay for unlimited likes and stuff making it a hyper competitive environment. So these said women are getting even more likes and the guys sending them look better too. Little do they know the bottom half of my matches aren’t even ever getting a date, just a booty call take it or leave it. And I’m not even a Chad. | /r/seduction | 17/01/26 10:02 PM |
| 9 | Is hookup culture cooked?Definitely noticing people wanting to meet in person, but do they actually do it? Plus what you’re describing is still probably more relevant for relationships than hookups, not sure how many girls these days are going out hoping to sleep with someone that very night. If you want to have sex with a new dude tonight, the apps are probably still the best way to do it, though the number of people who are into that sorta thing seems to decline. | /r/seduction | 17/01/26 09:57 PM |
| 3 | Is hookup culture cooked?So in other words, yes, it is getting harder. It takes a lot more effort to get to the point where you’re considered something between friendship and romance than it takes to simply hookup. You can only do it with so many girls at the same time too, so it seems like the numbers are about to go down. | /r/seduction | 17/01/26 09:48 PM |
| 8 | Is hookup culture cooked?Yea, but a lot of women are also way less open to being approached, no? Obviously you’ll always gonna be able to have sex as human biology isn’t about to change overnight, but how many of these girls are gonna be responding to booty calls and being ok with just fwb arrangements? Especially if they’re very hot. | /r/seduction | 17/01/26 09:45 PM |
| 8 | Is hookup culture cooked?Not too much. The caliber of a woman I seem to be able to attract online, for whatever reason, seem to way higher than the caliber of a woman I ever even meet in person. Maybe it’s because I’m poor so I just don’t cross path with the hot girls organically because I can’t afford the venues they frequent or neighbourhoods they live in. | /r/seduction | 17/01/26 09:41 PM |
| 3 | Unethical seddit tipThe absolute lack of understanding of male experience is astonishing. You can’t begin building a connection without getting your foot in the door first, period. That’s most of what this sub is about. For some it’s a cold approach, for others it’s the apps or social circle, for this guy it happened to be weed. You can’t “build a connection” with someone who doesn’t know you exist or is never going to meet you or give you the time of their day. Most need a way in. | /r/seduction | 17/01/26 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Do girls on apps only compliment you for attention?It’s different for everyone, you gotta find what works for you. Though if you don’t have good pictures, or don’t know what good pictures are supposed to look like, that right there is a good place to start. | /r/seduction | 13/01/26 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Do girls on apps only compliment you for attention?Yea, typo | /r/seduction | 13/01/26 06:59 PM |
| 3 | Do girls on apps only compliment you for attention?So same, interesting | /r/seduction | 13/01/26 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Do girls on apps only compliment you for attention?That is an interesting way of looking at it, though I will add that a decent number of these women are attractive, obviously, otherwise I wouldn’t match with them in the first place. My dating life has been largely dependent on me trying to hack the fabric of online dating and I think I was able to achieve great results, so kinda wanna keep on doing that tbh. | /r/seduction | 13/01/26 08:44 AM |
| 2 | Huge influx of fake profiles on TinderI’m in my late twenties, but I’ve not been watching corn since teenage years. Good looking teenagers do exist but for a 30+ adult man to find a 22+ woman who looks like an Instagram model he will need either money or to be crazy attractive. And? You know that some men DO have money and that some ARE attractive, right? Once again, you don’t seem to have any idea of what men actually want, many of those girls, who’s pictures are being used for scams, don’t even look like crazy hot insta models, ra… | /r/seduction | 13/01/26 07:16 AM |
| 1 | Huge influx of fake profiles on TinderJust because that’s what YOU need to achieve it, doesn’t mean there aren’t any women out there born with that. I myself have encountered all of the things I’ve mentioned in the women I’ve been with, neither of whom are likely to have had any work done due to their age, background, personality type, priorities, etc. I'm bringing it up exactly because you men don't get it cause you look but you don't know what you're looking at. As if we only ever see women on the internet and have never seen a be… | /r/seduction | 13/01/26 06:59 AM |
| 2 | Huge influx of fake profiles on TinderExcept for hair and nails is just packaging, it’s not what makes you beautiful. What makes you beautiful is mostly genetics, like facial symmetry, healthy weight, good body proportions like hip to waist ratio and nicely shaped breasts, etc. No amount of money spent on beauty can fix that, gym can fix some, but only to an extent. No one was talking about money btw, why are you even bringing it up? | /r/seduction | 13/01/26 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Huge influx of fake profiles on TinderAfford who? Models? Are you trying to say not a single one of them has ever fucked someone for free? | /r/seduction | 13/01/26 05:54 AM |
| -1 | Huge influx of fake profiles on TinderY’all need to chill talking about “unrealistic standards” as if images they use for these bits are all AI, those women, who’s pictures are being used for scams, do exist somewhere and someone is sleeping with them, so someone else can probably get a chance too. Same with models and insta girls. “Men don’t want real women anymore” Those ARE real women, they do exist. | /r/seduction | 13/01/26 03:11 AM |
| 2 | Huge influx of fake profiles on TinderReason I quit tinder here in LA about two years ago, number of fake profiles I had to filter through made it no longer be efficient to use. Plus it’s way less popular than Hinge these days it feels like. | /r/seduction | 13/01/26 03:07 AM |
| 1 | How do I ask for fwb the right way?Perfect relationship, if only they all knew that the girls inviting you over are the only ones having you genuinely look forward to see them, while the others are being seen as a chore. Which one do you think will last longer? | /r/seduction | 10/01/26 03:41 PM |
| 0 | How do I ask for fwb the right way?I don’t get asked about it more often than not, in most cases I’ll sleep with a woman before any serious topic like this even comes up. | /r/seduction | 09/01/26 09:05 PM |
| 3 | How do I ask for fwb the right way?Though they’ll be a lot more likely to be cool with it once they realize that’s what you’ve already been for sometime without verbalizing it and that it’s not as bad as everyone makes it out to be. | /r/seduction | 09/01/26 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Are Christian girls worth going after?A date maybe, dates as in multiple - definitely not. | /r/seduction | 09/01/26 07:35 AM |
| 32 | How do I ask for fwb the right way?I mean you’re not lying by simply not bringing something up, if it’s important enough for them, they should be the ones to ask | /r/seduction | 09/01/26 05:24 AM |
| 168 | How do I ask for fwb the right way?You don’t ever verbalize it, you hookup, then just only ever go to each others places to hangout for one reason or another until it becomes the norm and they stop expecting anything other than that. | /r/seduction | 09/01/26 05:19 AM |
| 3 | Are Christian girls worth going after?My biggest fear right here, hope those were cheap dates | /r/seduction | 09/01/26 05:07 AM |
| 3 | Are Christian girls worth going after?Good one | /r/seduction | 09/01/26 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Are Christian girls worth going after?People oftentimes want what they can’t have, maybe subconsciously I think I’m not supposed to have girls like that knowing that their parents would probably be super against it, idk But there’s plenty examples of that amongst different groups of people. | /r/seduction | 09/01/26 05:06 AM |
| 5 | Are Christian girls worth going after?Bro how did you even end up on a subreddit like this | /r/seduction | 09/01/26 04:30 AM |
| 3 | Are Christian girls worth going after?well yea, I didn’t say raging leftist, I said left LEANING ideology is just not very high on the list of things I care about, but if I had to pick one, than yea probably left ish | /r/seduction | 09/01/26 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Are Christian girls worth going after?Did you even read the post man, who said anything about Instagram? You can oftentimes see people’s political views and religious beliefs on hinge and I found those to very common amongst the demographic I’m after | /r/seduction | 09/01/26 04:26 AM |
| 5 | Are Christian girls worth going after?Once I got what I wanted I usually don’t mind seeing each other again and again but don’t care too much whether or not it’ll actually happen. Def not looking to actually date someone in a serious enough way for values to even be brought up let alone become a problem. | /r/seduction | 09/01/26 03:54 AM |
| -1 | Are Christian girls worth going after?Cause way too many of them happened to be my type looks wise, not really looking for anything more serious than a fwb, I’m too broke to date ppl for real anyway. Been that way forever, approaching 200 bodies never been even remotely close to meeting someone’s family. | /r/seduction | 09/01/26 03:46 AM |
| 4 | Are Christian girls worth going after?Idk, one of my last hookups had a bible quote in her ig bio but I didn’t see it until after, we also never touched on those topics as I’m always trying to keep the conversation fun and playful, so it’s easier to escalate compared to if it was deep and serious. | /r/seduction | 09/01/26 03:44 AM |
| 8 | Are Christian girls worth going after?Yea I def feel like for many of them being religious is rather about tribalism than actual morals, but I’m not sure how to tell which is which. Those girls also tend to stay kinda far away in rich suburbs, so stakes are with them as I don’t want to waste all of that time and gas to meet a prude, you get me? | /r/seduction | 09/01/26 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Any options if I am not conventionally attractiveI don’t think anyone can answer that question honestly without knowing the extent of what you’re actually working with. Style was bold, RSD Todd is short, I bet mots can name men they’ve personally who seem to have it good with women despite having a feature or two that aren’t considered attractive, though strongly believe it depends a lot on the severity of those features as some are probably worse than others. | /r/seduction | 07/01/26 12:25 AM |
| 1 | How to find other guys to game with?🙋♂️ LA, mid/late twenties | /r/seduction | 04/01/26 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone experimented with AI generated photos for dating apps?Definitely didn’t write this post to get advice on how to generate super obvious AI slop | /r/seduction | 01/01/26 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone experimented with AI generated photos for dating apps?I mean, I’ve had about 40 hookups this year alone mostly from apps, so whatever my model is definitely works for me. It’s just that the quality of the people I meet isn’t going to improve unless my pictures will. So I’ve been stuck sleeping with girls of more or less the same level for the past three years of using the above mentioned picture as my main one. It’s not the worst situation to be in of course, but I would prefer the women I meet to be getting more attractive as I’m improving my dati… | /r/seduction | 31/12/25 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone experimented with AI generated photos for dating apps?Yea I actually have friends who are photographers I asked to take pictures of me, they turned out great as far as clothing, lighting, setting, colors etc, but as far my facial expression I was kinda frozen, didn’t have the right “vibe”, I just can’t do it on command. Whenever I upload it to bumble (I use other apps to, but bumbles the only one that actually tells you WHICH photo it’s choosing to put first when you turn on the smart photos picture), after a couple hours I get a notification that … | /r/seduction | 31/12/25 02:05 AM |
| 5 | Anyone else noticed that the hotter they dress for the date, the least likely they are to put out?I’m in my twenties, that’s where young people drink. Besides, it first my aesthetic, which they liked me based on since they’re all from dating apps and I also go on a lot of first dates all the time, so even those two drinks at a dive bar add up overtime. | /r/seduction | 22/11/25 07:44 PM |
| 6 | Anyone else noticed that the hotter they dress for the date, the least likely they are to put out?I’m not convinced anything of what I said is 100% true, but that’s what’s been my experience and I’ve been going for at least one first date a week for many years now. | /r/seduction | 22/11/25 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else noticed that the hotter they dress for the date, the least likely they are to put out?Same stuff I wear on my pictures since that’s what they liked me based off. I wouldn’t mind wearing other things if I got women sexually excited but that’s just not exactly how it works since attraction isn’t as visual for women as it is for us men. Trust me, if there was a male equivalent of a mini skirt, I would only ever leave the house wearing exactly that lmao | /r/seduction | 22/11/25 06:45 PM |
| -1 | Anyone else noticed that the hotter they dress for the date, the least likely they are to put out?Yes they are hot as fuck, but it’s not about meeting some kind of bare minimum hotness requirement, it’s about having the hottest experience possible. So if there’s something they can do to look even hotter, of course I’m gonna wish they did, why wouldn’t I? I mean, it’s not a requirement, it’s just a wish | /r/seduction | 22/11/25 06:41 PM |
| -2 | Anyone else noticed that the hotter they dress for the date, the least likely they are to put out?Have you ever considered that if you invite someone over for sex, doing something that’ll make its more exciting experience for them would probably result in the whole thing being a better experience for you as well? Doesn’t have to be some expensive uncomfortable lingerie either, even just booty short with a mini top would already make you stand out from all the other girls who look like they’re about to go on a seven hour flight. Also how tf did I make them feel uncomfortable? When did I say t… | /r/seduction | 22/11/25 06:10 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else noticed that the hotter they dress for the date, the least likely they are to put out?Idk, in my experience when they make sex very easy for you they are less likely to be nice to you otherwise. When I get invited over for sex, they always wear sweatpants or pajamas or whatever, never anything hot. Then you get ghosted with no explanation soon as they no longer feel like doing this anymore | /r/seduction | 22/11/25 05:27 PM |
| 8 | Anyone else noticed that the hotter they dress for the date, the least likely they are to put out?Idk bro, if I were to pull up stats for how many of my dates looked slutty vs how many acted slutty, I would unfortunately have a case. Unless those revealing clothes get me too excited as I fumble them all as a result. | /r/seduction | 22/11/25 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Change my view: leading women on is the most effective way to be a man who sleeps around.Idk dude, women don’t usually give it up immediately to dudes they want to be in a actual relationship with, if anything they’re only more likely to withhold intimacy in that scenario so that you see them as a relationship material too. Had plenty hookups with girls I had JUST met or haven’t even met yet and just got invited from a dating app straight to theirs, I doubt any of them were looking for boyfriends or seeing me as a candidate. I really doubt your approach is as efficient as you think. | /r/seduction | 18/11/25 11:01 PM |
| 3 | Where The Hell Are You Guys Finding These High Interest Women?Lol WHAT. I am convinced LA has a severe shortage of hot girls who are down to earth. | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 08:37 PM |
| 3 | Where The Hell Are You Guys Finding These High Interest Women?Mind elaborating on what region you’re in? Small town/big city? I’m in LA, girls are too preppy and think too highly of themselves here. They come here from all over chasing their dream LA life and it just doesn’t involve getting dicked down in the backseat of my old bucket with wheels. | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 07:56 PM |
| 8 | Where The Hell Are You Guys Finding These High Interest Women?Probability of that highly depends on your location and age group. In my experience, it’s easier to get into the girls place than it is to move her from the front seat to the back. I can just ask to come upstairs to use the restroom when dropping her off after a date, then take it from there. Meanwhile, moving into the backseat has a clear implication of “you’re about to get fucked in a car” which can activate their anti slut defenses. | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 07:23 PM |
| 18 | Where The Hell Are You Guys Finding These High Interest Women?Exactly, women have such a big choice on the apps, if they go out with you you’ve already won against hundreds of men. Though might also just be that OP doesn’t have proper logistics set up for escalation and moving things to his/their place. | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 07:02 PM |
| 139 | Where The Hell Are You Guys Finding These High Interest Women?You sound like the women who say “where are the men looking for a relationship? all they want is just sex!” They’re not low or high interest, they have low or high interest in YOU. You can already get dates - good. Now work on your act. | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Is it worth paying for Tinder?Yes, if 1) you are getting at least some results without a premium version 2) your lifestyle actually allows you to spend loads of time swiping to take full advantage of the unlimited likes Just remember that it can’t make women like you any more, it can only show you to more women. So if there’s women out there who find you attractive based on your profile, their number will increase if you get those premium perks. | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 03:00 PM |
| 1 | I don't think race that matters when it comes to seductionWhat about progressive cities/spaces? As a white dude I always wondered if ethnic guys get the advantage of having girls be scared to blow the off immediately out of fear they might come off racist, so that should at least win you some time. | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 09:35 PM |
| 4 | Age gap - how to attract youngerThey’re in COLLEGE. If they’re old enough to study rocket science, they’re old enough to know who they want to fuck, long as it’s done respectfully there’s nothing weird about it. Men of all ages prefer women in their early-mid twenties, it’s biological. | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 08:57 AM |
| 1 | Is dating younger college girls worth it ?My steak is too juicy and my lobster is too buttery. I’m the same age, yet for some reason seem to mostly get girls around my age. Yes, they’re smarter, but not in the fun way. Early twenties are generally a better time, you just have to try not to cringe sometimes. Appreciate your blessings. | /r/seduction | 20/08/25 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Watching pron and wasting energy instead of going after girls & goalsI viewed porn as a teenager all the time, but aroumd early-mid twenties, once I got good enough to pull girls I actually find hot, their social media and my memories of them started to slowly replace porn. Rubbing one out to a picture/memory of someone while actually knowing what their pussy feels like is just so much better, like it’s a way more comprehensive experience. I would still dabble into porn here and there, but these recent years I’ve really started noticing the negative effects it ha… | /r/seduction | 20/08/25 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Ones active on the apps, what’s your match/sex ratio?Yea, unfortunately. I find women in their thirties to be easier than ones in late twenties, but they’re few and far between | /r/seduction | 31/07/25 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Ones active on the apps, what’s your match/sex ratio?Anywhere in their twenties, mostly towards the middle/late twenties as that’s the age I am. Occasional 30 something year olds | /r/seduction | 31/07/25 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Ones active on the apps, what’s your match/sex ratio?that too | /r/seduction | 31/07/25 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Ones active on the apps, what’s your match/sex ratio?So all of the people you’ve slept with have been from actual dates? I get not wanting to go out with every single person you’ve exchanged numbers with, I don’t do that either. I just select the ones I’m most interested in and am actually willing to put a little effort in and try to take them out on dates. Everyone else still gets an invitation to come over if they want, which has a low success rate but still works sometimes. That way the effort I’ve already spent on swiping and messaging to get … | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Ones active on the apps, what’s your match/sex ratio?In my experience it’s best to choose one that you have the most motion in and focus on it. | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 10:53 PM |
| 3 | Ones active on the apps, what’s your match/sex ratio?I believe is culture in general, it’s becoming way less sexual, the excitement is down, you no longer see half naked women in advertisement as much, people no longer care for things that used to be provocative not so long ago. Dating apps have been around for a minute now and hookups are no longer exciting. Girls just know it’s there if they want it and they kinda go “meh”. I’m young enough to occasionally still meet girls in their earliest twenties and even they are overwhelmingly on some tryna… | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Ones active on the apps, what’s your match/sex ratio?Like “body count”? Somewhere under 160, I started kinda late so def missed out on 1-2 years of peak hookup culture when people were still excited about dating apps. It’s getting harder every year. | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Ones active on the apps, what’s your match/sex ratio?I do, though definition of what a good picture is changes every few years. My current ones are starting to get old and I can’t seem to take any new ones that’ll outperform them. The ones I have rn are also taken abroad, which is always a big plus, but I haven’t had an opportunity to travel lately. | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Ones active on the apps, what’s your match/sex ratio?Wym by total in this context? | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Ones active on the apps, what’s your match/sex ratio?I can’t tell if you’re being ironic, but yes, unless you look like greek god, you can only pull consistently through buying a premium subscription and spending loads of time taking advantage of the unlimited likes. | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Ones active on the apps, what’s your match/sex ratio?80 is nothing, if I could get even just a date for every 80 swipes I’d have like three a day fs | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Ones active on the apps, what’s your match/sex ratio?Def not anywhere near a 9, I’m just dedicated if not obsessed. Going on a four first date in a row tonight and the last three didn’t end in sex. I have a cool profile, premium subscription and a job that allows me to spend hours on my phone every day liking tons of girls. Looks wise I’m tall and slim, so have that going for me, but otherwise I have bad teeth, asymmetrical face, no blue eyes, thick beard, super sharp jawline or any of those gigachad traits. Just a tall dude who’s not fat and I gu… | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Ones active on the apps, what’s your match/sex ratio?Def don’t have money or prospects of getting a lot of it before I’m no longer young. Rotation is preferred, but hard, as you said girls start to want more and I’m just not into that. Believe it or not I have a fun life outside of dating and in any given day there’s loads of things I’d rather do than to spend time with someone I would never hangout with had they not been hot. | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Ones active on the apps, what’s your match/sex ratio?Fascinating! How exactly do you conduct those tests with your profile and chat gpt? I always thought shirtless pictures are a turnoff, but maybe I should try. I’m pretty skinny so any muscle I put on is immediately visible, not hard to get in shape. | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Ones active on the apps, what’s your match/sex ratio?I wish | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Ones active on the apps, what’s your match/sex ratio?About to start pushing 30 so yea, it’s starting to get harder. I used to catch 40 bodies a year back when I was younger and tinder was still popular, hinge is more labour, but at least it works for me and women are way better on average. | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Ones active on the apps, what’s your match/sex ratio?Not too many, most of the time I have a premium subscription and spend loads of time every day swiping, so all my potential matches will see me in their likes rather than in the card stack. When I don’t have a premium subscription, most I get anywhere between zero and two likes a day, but it’s pretty random. I can get no likes for days then get like 5 in one days. About half the girls that like me I consider at least somewhat attractive, occasionally genuinely hot. | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 04:21 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys feel about opening the car door for the girl?When I pick them up for the first date, I always park and get out of the car before texting them that I’ve arrived. I do it to give them a hug upon meeting and so they can see how tall I am, it naturally leads to me opening the door but I never really thought about it. | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Ones active on the apps, what’s your match/sex ratio?I’m strongly against being suggestive on the apps because they’re my only source of women and being banned, or even reported, leading to the decline in the algorithms, is literally my biggest fear. That being said though, how do you screen for the more sex positive ones? I’m experience you sometimes can never tell. I had the most innocent looking girls agree to come over on the first link and had the seemingly sluttiest ones not put out after two dates. | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 03:49 PM |
| 2 | Ones active on the apps, what’s your match/sex ratio?You can escalate quickly, to make those not interested in hooking up bow out. Such as asking quite early if they like massage. It need be vanilla enough that you're not breaching TOS. Ugh, not sure that’ll work for the kinda guy I am. I look kinda rough, which I think is good as it makes me appear more masculine, but I feel like things like that would appear to be way more creepy coming from me compared to lets say some golden retriever type guy. I have no idea what my stats are, but when I use … | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 01:41 PM |
| 2 | Ones active on the apps, what’s your match/sex ratio?Yea, I don’t keep track of how many matches turn into conversations, then dates and hookups, but I imagine it’d be somewhat similar except for the matches/conversations ratio would probably be better as I’m only using hinge. Women are far less responsive in swiping based apps like tinder and bumble in my experience. Dates/hookups ratio is about the same though it used to be way better in my early twenties with 2/3 if not 3/4 dates ending is sex. Which is crazy to me cuz I was kinda ugly back the… | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 01:21 PM |
| 3 | Ones active on the apps, what’s your match/sex ratio?To have the best possible roster. A good variety of attractive players omen consistently available to me sexually. Not all out of 34 are equally hot and not all of the hottest ones are open to just continue hooking up without going on a date first. Even the ones who are only last so long before they start to want more or just fizzle out, so you gotta always keep looking for new ones. They’re never yours, it’s just your turn. | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 01:16 PM |
| 7 | Ones active on the apps, what’s your match/sex ratio?Yea, white. I’m also mostly after white girls though | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 01:10 PM |
| 0 | Ones active on the apps, what’s your match/sex ratio?I probably have premium subscription like two thirds of the time and my job allows me to be in my phone for hours every day so I take full advantage of unlimited likes | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Ones active on the apps, what’s your match/sex ratio?Depends on your lifestyle I guess. My job allows me to spend hours a day on the phone, otherwise I’d be right there with you. | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 12:57 AM |
| 7 | Ones active on the apps, what’s your match/sex ratio?I’m a man, I’m in charge, I can just plan cheap dates. Take them to a bar that only has a license for beer and wine, so they can’t order fancy cocktails that’ll bankrupt you. Two drinks with a tip will be like $25 tops. I only do one round, then take them to the beach or somewhere more intimate so we can make out and I can pump up the buying temperature before suggesting we move this some place more private. I live in LA and can still afford it with a basically minimum wage job. | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 12:55 AM |
| 12 | Ones active on the apps, what’s your match/sex ratio?All you need to know is that I’m 6’4 | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Ones active on the apps, what’s your match/sex ratio?I see those as more of activities rather than hobbies. Mine have been with me since long before girls, things I’m genuinely and deeply passionate about and am know and respected within the community of, wouldn’t trade that for just a little more pussy. I hear you though. Do you have any very specific preferences you filter by? I only like certain body types and hair colors and feel like I can somewhat afford having these preferences on the apps, but not so sure about real life | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 09:46 PM |
| 5 | Ones active on the apps, what’s your match/sex ratio?I got friends and hobbies and stuff I’d call touching grass, but yea going on hinge dates is the only way in which I ever cross paths with single women around my age I find attractive. It’s just hard logistically, hot girls are all rich and from good families, they live in nice parts of the city that are far away from ones I can afford. I’m not driving there unless I already have someone lined up. | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 09:37 PM |
| 2 | Ones active on the apps, what’s your match/sex ratio?What does your profile look like/what kinda city region you live in? Mine would be not too bad in most places, but I’m also in LA where it’s almost laughable. People’s social media game here is insane | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 09:28 PM |
| 0 | Ones active on the apps, what’s your match/sex ratio?Wow this is very relevant, thanks 👍 | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 09:19 PM |
| 0 | Ones active on the apps, what’s your match/sex ratio?ugh, so the answer is more matches then, more people to talk to, feels like a job at this point | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 09:16 PM |
| 16 | Ones active on the apps, what’s your match/sex ratio?Not complaining for sure. The amount of effort it takes is unsustainable though. I got a job that allows me to be on my phone for hours a day, which helps, but as you can imagine this job doesn’t pay very well and I wouldn’t want to keep it forever. Don’t want to compromise my sex life either, so looking for ways to optimise this process. Hence the post. | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 09:15 PM |
| 9 | Does having a reputation as a fuckboy/horny man with a high bodycount work for or against youKinda both tbh Women: Younger girls are impressed by this as they’re oftentimes just exploring and not looking for anything long term yet, even the ones looking for a relationship are more likely to be open to other things along the way. Older girls are more likely to be less flexible about what kinda arrangement they’re willing to get into and having a reputation for being ran through makes you seem like a waste of their time since you’re seen as unlikely to actually commit. Men: Having success… | /r/seduction | 28/07/25 09:01 PM |
| 9 | Does having a reputation as a fuckboy/horny man with a high bodycount work for or against youbelow mid twenties - yes, above mid twenties - no or at least that’s been my experience so far | /r/seduction | 28/07/25 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Being 6'1+ is a cheat code, everyone else saying otherwise is copeI would sacrifice quite a few inches just to slightly enhance (or obtain) some other conventionally attractive features like a super sharp jawline or perfect teeth, etc. And I’m not even ugly | /r/BlackPillScience | 27/07/25 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Being 6'1+ is a cheat code, everyone else saying otherwise is copePeople who genuinely delusional enough to think it’s a real life cheat code are the same one believing a few extra inches is all they’re missing to be a pro ball player | /r/BlackPillScience | 27/07/25 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Being 6'1+ is a cheat code, everyone else saying otherwise is copeIt’s like being in a professional sports league, for a regular person it’s beyond their wildest dreams, meanwhile you have to experience it to know how hard it actually is. Not everyone is gonna be the champ. | /r/BlackPillScience | 27/07/25 05:37 PM |
| -3 | Being 6'1+ is a cheat code, everyone else saying otherwise is cope6’4 guy here, it’s not a cheat code and that is because of all the same reasons OP has listed. Vast majority of attractive women simply only ever go the 6 foot + men, therefore when you’re on a date with one, you get zero special treatment as your height (which supposed to be a rare and highly desirable attractive feature) is taken for granted. You don’t stand out as they’ve likely never even been on a date with someone who isn’t tall. Because of dating apps it’s become more of a bare minimum re… | /r/BlackPillScience | 26/07/25 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Where do you meet other’s to do game with?No I don’t do any of those things or at least they’re not a part of my everyday life. There aren’t any women in my line of work and the only densely populated areas with loads of foot traffic in my city are very ghetto and don’t have attractive women in them, rest is all very car dependent. It’s very segregated and the only areas you can frequently see attractive women are wealthy ones that I neither live or work in, so yes, I have to make a conscious effort to go there as it doesn’t just happen… | /r/seduction | 11/07/25 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Where do you meet other’s to do game with?Yes, however I just imagine it being a lot easier to get into cold approaching when you’re out with a group of friends you can come back to after every unsuccessful approach so you’re not just standing there alone after being rejected. I assume pushing each other to actually go approach people would also be helpful with overcoming the approach anxiety, you can turn it into a competition too. Basically I imagine it actually being fun this way as opposed to doing it by yourself if you’re a beginne… | /r/seduction | 11/07/25 04:25 PM |
| -6 | What is the difference between American and European Women in terms of Seduction?Dude must be doing something terribly wrong. I have a lot of experience with Scandinavian women due to the fact they’re physically my favorite ones and I go for them specifically. I’ve had dates with them go very bad and still end up in sex, they’d be like “well, I don’t like talking to you, let’s see if I’ll like ducking you at least” | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 11:41 PM |
| -3 | What is the difference between American and European Women in terms of Seduction?Scandinavians not being sexually open is wild. They might be down with pda due to being kinda shy, almost awkward sometimes, but it’s a very sex positive culture. Hookups are super normalised, same as first date sex. | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Some guys just have itI would imagine not constantly having it on your mind being quite difficult if you know you only have so many hours left in the city you’re in. | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 10:04 PM |
| 2 | Some guys just have itHow much thought are you putting into logistics though? Is there even an opportunity for a woman to sleep with you while maintaining plausible deniability in the settings you’re approaching them? I moved cities multiple times and it sometimes took me months to figure out a perfect first date that leads to sex smoothly, which I could then repeat with new girls over and over again. Always being in an unfamiliar city I could def see how that might be challenging. | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 10:01 PM |
| 8 | What are the best cities in Europe for getting laid?That’s fine. Italians are just one of many nationalities. I’ve hardly been with any Spaniards during years I’ve lived in spain and my sex life was amazing | /r/seduction | 09/07/25 11:35 PM |
| 7 | What are the best cities in Europe for getting laid?So basically like any city with loads of tourists/exchange students. Ones in Amsterdam seem wealthier than ones in southern Europe though, so maybe there’s too big of a disconnect for me given that I’m dirt poor | /r/seduction | 09/07/25 09:20 PM |
| 6 | What are the best cities in Europe for getting laid?Are you actually Dutch though? I’ve had by far the lowest success ration with Dutch women out of all ethnicities I actively went after. Always felt like the Dutch just don’t fw foreigners the long way, everyone I knew who studied abroad over there said they used to mostly hang with other foreigners even though there’s no language barrier with the locals as all Dutchies speak near perfect English. | /r/seduction | 09/07/25 09:07 PM |
| 6 | What are the best cities in Europe for getting laid?Amsterdam?! Fr?! What do you look like | /r/seduction | 09/07/25 08:59 PM |
| 12 | What are the best cities in Europe for getting laid?Even Rome with all the Erasmus/Exchange students? | /r/seduction | 09/07/25 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Sacrifice all fun just to get more girls? Last night got me thinking.how do you find those said communities? and what age group are most men in them? | /r/seduction | 07/07/25 09:56 PM |
| 5 | What are your best practices for dating app efficiency?Nicely taken pictures having an interesting life, traveling different countries and doing cool hobbies I’m good at. Dress well, not just new clean clothing, but have a distinct aesthetic, “a brand” if you will. It’ll draw the girls who dig the vibe you’re going for, there’s plenty men’s fashion pages available for any aesthetic you want to pursue. Have social shot with people who appear to respect and admire you while looking presentable themselves, but not enough to take the shine away from you… | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 12:10 AM |
| 1 | What are your best practices for dating app efficiency?It’s hard to give useful advice without knowing their circumstances, isn’t it? If the details I feel the need to share happen to make someone assume I might be doing good, well… I can’t think of a way to avoid that. But if you can, you are more than welcome to share that and I mean it genuinely. | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 11:56 PM |
| 1 | When moving from apps to texts, is it better to ask for their number or to give yours?I don’t meet with people unless I think I have a good idea of what they must look like. Had actually met some people who looked better than their pics, but long time ago. Probably doesn’t happen anymore with how tough the competition have gotten and how curated everyone’s social media, and subsequently, dating profiles have become. | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 06:37 PM |
| 4 | What are your best practices for dating app efficiency?Pretty much what I needed to hear, thanks. I guess I just swipe and talk to a broader demographic of people because if I only ever talked to the absolute hottest people I match with I will probably never get hookups without going on a date first and it feels nice to just get invited to someone’s place once in a while. They try a lot harder to please you too, always felt like it gives me more confidence I can then use to get hotter girls. | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 05:29 PM |
| 1 | When moving from apps to texts, is it better to ask for their number or to give yours?I still find dating apps more efficient, especially for someone who doesn’t enjoy going out much. If I have let’s say two free nights each week, I’m a lot more likely to get laid going on a date with someone who I already know has chosen me out of hundreds of other men then just going somewhere randomly hoping there will be women I happen to like who happen to be single and also like me back. If I had enough time, money, energy to go out every single night, then sure, I’d do both. Not everyone’s… | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 05:22 PM |
| 1 | When moving from apps to texts, is it better to ask for their number or to give yours?It’s about dating apps bro | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 04:51 PM |
| 1 | When moving from apps to texts, is it better to ask for their number or to give yours?It’s about efficiency. I do a lot of swiping to get matches. I talk to a lot of matches to get numbers. I text a lot of numbers to get dates/hookups. Anything that helps to optimise this process and have those efforts not go to waste would be extremely helpful. | /r/seduction | 26/06/25 08:57 PM |
| 15 | Content Creators are slowly ruining your chances to pick up woman/menWasn’t “game” a lot more mainstream back in the day? Doesn’t seem to have impacted it that much, no? | /r/seduction | 12/06/25 08:46 PM |
| 44 | Best country for flirting as a woman?Aren’t men easy by default? Lol If I were you, I’d go for countries with less good looking women, or places where it’d be easy for you to stand out based on you appearance, being unique is always a huge plus. If you’re a petite brunette go to the Netherlands, Germany, Scandinavian countries. If you’re a tall blonde go to Greece, Italy, Spain, Portugal. You get the idea. | /r/seduction | 02/06/25 11:53 PM |
| 2 | The "2 Block Rule": always pick a place within walking distance of your place for the first dateAlmost all restaurants and many bars are hard to physically escalate in, which is why I prefer to have a slightly more intimate “in between” location where they’d feel comfortable making out, so I can pump up the buying temperature before going for the close. That way they’re already aroused when I suggest going back to mine or theirs, they’re acting on emotion and a positive response is more likely. It’s hard to have a super formal dinner date where you sit in front of each other with no opport… | /r/seduction | 02/06/25 11:33 PM |
| 1 | How do you get the ACTUAL 10s?What’re you doing on this post anyway, considering it’s a seduction group I am probably not even half as sleazy as most here | /r/seduction | 30/05/25 11:44 PM |
| 1 | How do you get the ACTUAL 10s?Where did I say anything hateful in regards to women? I’m so tired of these misogyny accusations, just because one is attracted more to some women than others based on their appearance doesn’t mean they’re going to treat them any differently. I’m not sure if everyone really lacks the bare minimum amount of intelligence to understand this not THAT nuanced concept or are you all just hunting for things to be offended by. | /r/seduction | 30/05/25 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Can you date if you live with your parents?Never lived with mine as an adult but had plenty complicated living situations making me unable to have people over. Yes, you definitely can. Especially if you’re driving. Just offer to pick them up, that’ll naturally lead you to drop them off back at theirs at the end of the night and if you’ve been playing your cards right, they’ll end up taking you home with them more often than not. | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 05:22 AM |
| 2 | How do you get the ACTUAL 10s?Bartending isn’t that easy to get into if you live in a popular city, been a bouncer a few times, you don’t really get much of a chance to talk to anyone, let alone 10s | /r/seduction | 12/05/25 06:07 PM |
| 1 | How do you get the ACTUAL 10s?So when they want to sleep with you, they will only be allowed to do so if you have an X amount of money and status? What’s the exact amount necessary then? And how do they check for it? These questions cannot be answered because it’s all bs In reality, your ability to convey whatever quality matters so much more than actually possessing it. | /r/seduction | 12/05/25 06:06 PM |
| 1 | How do you get the ACTUAL 10s?If you had to rate every woman in the world from the least to the most attractive one, what would the top one be then? | /r/seduction | 12/05/25 06:01 PM |
| 1 | How do you get the ACTUAL 10s?Literally why? If you’re a “premium” woman, who’s got an abundance of her own resources and you want sleep with a specific guy, you wouldn’t do that unless he “pays the premium price”? Why would you deny yourself something that you want? Especially if you already have made as far as material things go | /r/seduction | 12/05/25 05:55 PM |
| 1 | How do you get the ACTUAL 10s?Some women are more attractive than others, thought it was commonplace in seduction communities to rate women long as they’re above a 6 | /r/seduction | 11/05/25 03:51 PM |
| 2 | How do you get the ACTUAL 10s?10s - the hottest of women, ones that can live good purely off their looks and have hot girl jobs available to them. Models, influencers, whether girls, etc | /r/seduction | 11/05/25 03:26 PM |
| 2 | How do you get the ACTUAL 10s?Well, Style had it all made aside from being good at game (at first) he had a very decent job and lifestyle, was financially independent enough to dress well and be able to afford to frequent places where hot girls hang | /r/seduction | 11/05/25 03:25 PM |
| 1 | How do you get the ACTUAL 10s?Too many people in these comments have a problem with me calling someone a ten, they’re saying tens don’t exist, etc Meanwhile I’m just talking about the hottest of women, whatever you want to call them, you all know what I mean | /r/seduction | 11/05/25 03:22 PM |
| 1 | How do you get the ACTUAL 10s?Well I’m in LA right now, so there’s definitely plenty of them somewhere out there. Since moving here, I started getting way better gurls on average, but those rare extremely hot ones I used to sometimes get before LA, became much more rare and harder to even get an opportunity to shoot your shot with. Feels like being a ten in LA you live in such a different reality as far as ways you can earn a living, places you get invited to or just spend your time, you hardly ever even cross paths with wor… | /r/seduction | 11/05/25 03:06 PM |
| 2 | How do you get the ACTUAL 10s?As much as I hate it I do like white girls the most, so probably not gonna be a passport bro unless I’m going to Scandinavia, where 10s are probably most common. But those countries are extremely expensive very difficult to move to permanently | /r/seduction | 11/05/25 02:55 PM |
| 1 | How do you get the ACTUAL 10s?I never said I was, but I’ve definitely seen guys do better than me looking way worse | /r/seduction | 10/05/25 04:27 AM |
| 1 | How do you get the ACTUAL 10s?Well, I want the perfect model girl lol Maybe after I get a few I’ll decide they’re overrated and start to prioritize other qualities, but that’s not where I am rn neither is it what this post is about | /r/seduction | 10/05/25 03:24 AM |
| 1 | How do you get the ACTUAL 10s?Real 10s already have it | /r/seduction | 10/05/25 03:22 AM |
| 2 | How do you get the ACTUAL 10s?Long term, probably yes. But do they not have fun on girls trips/in between relationships/during their “slut phase” like all other women? I don’t think so | /r/seduction | 10/05/25 03:13 AM |
| 1 | How do you get the ACTUAL 10s?Ok, 9.5s then, whatever you want to call the best ones there is | /r/seduction | 10/05/25 03:08 AM |
| -1 | How do you get the ACTUAL 10s?If she looks like mia malkova I’ll be happy with what I can get | /r/seduction | 10/05/25 02:42 AM |
| 1 | How do you get the ACTUAL 10s?Well, if I can figure out how to get them with enough consistency, would really care to keep them. That’s kinda how I’ve been dating my whole life anyway. Everything you said is kinda how I usually date anyway, if tens work the same way, which I’m sure they do, my main challenge must be the logistics. No tens just wandering around, they’re out there somewhere doing some rich people stuff whether or not they’re rich themselves. | /r/seduction | 10/05/25 02:23 AM |
| 1 | How do you get the ACTUAL 10s?I’m sure that’s what most women’s idea of a 10/10 men would be, but I’m not sure how true this is for women who are themselves tens as they’re oftentimes got money of their own, whether it be their lucrative hot girl jobs, coming from a wealthy family or being a sugar baby. So they might be less likely to care about material things as much as they would about physical and emotional ones, they still have needs like companionship and sex. How many wealthy successful men had their wives cheat on th… | /r/seduction | 10/05/25 02:19 AM |
| 3 | How do you get the ACTUAL 10s?Boom, now we’re talking | /r/seduction | 10/05/25 01:58 AM |
| 24 | How do you get the ACTUAL 10s?Probably a lot. Now let’s focus on how to become a 5 that gets to bang instagram hotties as opposed to being one that doesn’t. | /r/seduction | 10/05/25 01:51 AM |
| 2 | How do you get the ACTUAL 10s?Well, seems like a decent job, so not surprised | /r/seduction | 10/05/25 01:50 AM |
| 1 | How do you get the ACTUAL 10s?Mind sharing what line of work are you in? | /r/seduction | 10/05/25 01:39 AM |
| 1 | How do you get the ACTUAL 10s?What about those that are | /r/seduction | 10/05/25 01:39 AM |
| 3 | How do you get the ACTUAL 10s?What was the context of y’all bumping into each other in the first place | /r/seduction | 10/05/25 01:38 AM |
| 0 | How do you get the ACTUAL 10s?Once again, not sure how affordable/accessible the activities elites engage in are for a regular, let alone extremely poor dude Unless you know any specific ones, in which case I would absolutely love it for you to share | /r/seduction | 10/05/25 01:36 AM |
| 5 | How do you get the ACTUAL 10s?Well, I live in LA, so they’re definitely somewhere close yet feel so far away | /r/seduction | 10/05/25 01:35 AM |
| 4 | How do you get the ACTUAL 10s?That’s an interesting perspective! I guess I should’ve specified that I’m not actually looking for ig models specifically, I just used that as an example of what a “ten” would be. In my time dating I’ve encountered plenty girls with features I’d consider worthy of a ten, but hardly anyone having them all or even most. A girl, prettiest in the face, probably had a kinda average body otherwise, one with the craziest curves was probably not that pretty in the face, one with best boobs had kinda nar… | /r/seduction | 10/05/25 01:34 AM |
| 2 | How do you get the ACTUAL 10s?Definitely not looking to do either of those things. Remember how you viewed them before having slept with one, that’s probably the mind state I’m in rn. | /r/seduction | 10/05/25 01:20 AM |
| 13 | How do you get the ACTUAL 10s?So not one instagram hottie has ever banged a dude that’s not a ten even once in her life? How many of the rich/successful/famous/powerful men are also young and attractive? I’m pretty sure they’re more rare than girls who just got lucky with genetics | /r/seduction | 10/05/25 01:17 AM |
| -36 | How do you get the ACTUAL 10s?Mentally, yes. Not read my post again and see when I said I was in my twenties | /r/seduction | 10/05/25 01:10 AM |
| 3 | How do you get the ACTUAL 10s?I’d imagine so, but don’t seem to even get a chance to play, let alone win | /r/seduction | 10/05/25 01:10 AM |
| 2 | How do you get the ACTUAL 10s?Well, that’s kinda the question I was asking in this post, how does one enter that social circle as someone regular on paper and how do you not look lower value in relation to all those rich “high status” trust fund kids | /r/seduction | 10/05/25 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Have any of you ever pulled an influencer? How did you do it?Had some influencers and OF girls through dating apps, I never knew until later on though so unknowingly didn’t do anything different, it worked. | /r/seduction | 01/05/25 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Have any of you ever pulled an influencer? How did you do it?Lol you think being over six feet will help you pull a mf influencer SO MUCH that your experience wouldn’t even be considered a valuable knowledge in any way? | /r/seduction | 01/05/25 09:04 PM |
| 2 | How to stop being easy to sleep with?Commitment before sex is an unrealistic expectation, you want someone to buy a car they haven’t even test driven. You have to either be more selective with who you even let near you in a way that can lead to sex, so you’re not upset if it leads to just that, or consider men you’d normally look past, ones that would be lucky to have you and would agree such unfavourable arrangement aka commitment before sex. | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 08:02 PM |
| 2 | Why do some men ghost when everything is going well?As a man I’ve many been accused of “ghosting” the people I’ve been seeing, when in reality I’ve just stopped actively reaching out. That usually happens with some, oftentimes tragic, things happening in my life which have nothing to do with whoever I’m seeing, but it’s hard to be entertaining some girls while your life is actively falling apart. Had they reached out, I definitely would’ve been honest about what I’m going through and probably would’ve appreciated them initiating contact quite a l… | /r/seduction | 18/04/25 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Hard to get laidHad a good amount of Swedes and other Scandinavian expats when I lived in one of the warmer european countries. I am tall, though they definitely don’t care about it anywhere near as much as americans do, Don really have much else going for me, just charisma I guess but that’s something one can work on. | /r/seduction | 11/04/25 08:53 PM |
| 7 | What is the frequency/vibe of sex addicted women?That was my experience so far, you just can never tell. Women in their thirties tend to have higher sex drives though. | /r/seduction | 11/04/25 07:41 PM |
| 4 | Hard to get laidBecause it’s very progressive and feminist, women aren’t necessarily looking for relationships don’t feel shame for having hookups and one night stands which are totally normal. | /r/seduction | 11/04/25 07:27 PM |
| 3 | Hard to get laidthat part of europe is slutty af, shouldn’t be that hard, plus when you do get it it’s amazing since girls are absolutely gorgeous | /r/seduction | 11/04/25 05:40 PM |
| 2 | Those w/ 2+ women active on your rosters, how did you achieve that?Wym? If one woman wants you, there will be others that want you too, you only really have to figure it out once, then it’s a matter of your personal choice how many you wanna maintain at once | /r/seduction | 08/04/25 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Guys who have girls on a rotation/get girls? How often to you get rejectedLol, I feel like having a rotation makes me face rejection more often, because you’d only go for girls that are hotter than everyone who’s already in the rotation right now. Trying to put together the best rotation possible is obviously harder than just simply trying to get laid. | /r/seduction | 08/04/25 07:21 PM |
| 5 | Do I have to accept that being promiscuous means compromising my ethics?How many of the women who think you’re looking for a relationship are sleeping with you in the first date? Because if you have to do multiple dates with every single one because of them not rushing since they thing it’ll go on for awhile, that just sounds like sooo much work | /r/seduction | 06/04/25 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Statistically Seduction Isn’t in Your FavorThose statistics probably don’t account for every woman’s level of attractiveness and whether or not they live in a big city. I think hot girls, which is who we are after, are less concerned with being perceived as a slut because everyone around puts them on the pedestal. They simply aren’t worried about those things as everyone will treat them better than others anyway. If you’re interested in practicing seduction, I assume you must live in a big city, so people date and shop around a lot more … | /r/seduction | 13/03/25 01:14 AM |
| 5 | Best way to find horny, hedonistic women?In my experience it’s either one’s raised religious or recent divorcees who got married too young and never got to explore. I met them all on the apps, however there seems to be no way of telling which ones are that way based off their profile alone, you just have to go through A LOT of women. If you ONLY want those girls and don’t mind ruining your chances with everyone else, try suggesting skipping a date at meeting either at your or theirs, I find girls willing to do that to be way more likel… | /r/seduction | 10/03/25 11:34 PM |
| 1 | How do I manage a high Volume of Matches from Dating AppsWell, hinge only allows you to have up to 7 people waiting on your response at any given moment. If it goes up to 8, you’re no longer allowed to give out likes until you answer some people. | /r/seduction | 07/02/25 08:43 PM |
| 1 | How do I manage a high Volume of Matches from Dating AppsYes, I have it memorized and when messaging back on hinge I’m pretty much on autopilot since it IS the same conversation each time. However, in the process of it we get to know each other a little and by the time we exchange numbers and move to texting it naturally becomes less scripted, which is the point where it starts to get overwhelming. In app communication is really not an issue. The number of matches or day fluctuates a lot. I don’t get too many likes, it’s mostly just people liking me b… | /r/seduction | 07/02/25 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Will I die being a mid guy nd Is dating a luxury ?You’re welcome, a lot of men are genuinely hopeless and will probably be better off putting their efforts into anything but dating, but if what you’ve described is true, you can actually make it happen for yourself so I’m happy to help. What do you mean by part 3 though? | /r/seduction | 07/02/25 08:10 PM |
| 2 | How do I manage a high Volume of Matches from Dating AppsI get that, perhaps it’s just fear of missing out for me. It’s not like I actually need a new girl every day, it’s more so just me wondering what if this next one is the best night of my life. | /r/seduction | 07/02/25 08:06 PM |
| 0 | How do I manage a high Volume of Matches from Dating AppsThe point is to have that rotation be the best it can possibly can be by constantly trying new people to see if any of them would be better otherwise ones you’re already seeing on the regular. No goal other than that, the journey is the destination. | /r/seduction | 07/02/25 07:48 PM |
| 1 | How do I manage a high Volume of Matches from Dating AppsThat sounds like a smaller scale advice. Dating apps themselves aren’t really an issue, it’s the numbers I get from them that tend to be frustratingly overwhelming. | /r/seduction | 07/02/25 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Will I die being a mid guy nd Is dating a luxury ?Bruh it sound like you got it made and the only thing you’re lacking is social skills, which can definitely be improved, they’re called SKILLS for a reason. GAME Try to hangout more, watch good stand up comedy, listen to podcasts with charismatic hosts and kinda just absorb that shit. EXPERIENCE For men of your generation it’s entirely normal to loose your virginity later in life, you can look that up! I myself had no action until almost 21 and I’m crushing it now at 27. CLOTHES Style is importa… | /r/seduction | 07/02/25 06:54 PM |
| 1 | HookupWell I’m Eastern European myself, so the polish wouldn’t be THAT excited about me, but yea fs I did have some luck in NL, but they were all foreign | /r/seduction | 04/02/25 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Hookuptrue, but Germans and Nordics aren’t much shorter than y’all and I did really well with those whenever I lived in multinational expat bubbles there’s always been tons of international couples, but hardly ever there’s been one with a Dutch person, everyone I knew who studied abroad in NL said they felt excluded and didn’t have much local friends, just saying | /r/seduction | 04/02/25 07:09 AM |
| 1 | HookupAmsterdam is probably the best in NL because of countless schools and exchange students, but Netherlands as a whole aren’t very good imo. I just feel like the Dutch don’t like to date foreigners all that much. Dutch women tend to have features I’m into, so I’ve definitely given them plenty likes on dating apps in my time in Europe but hardly had any success, meanwhile I was doing very well for myself with German or even Scandinavian women who imo are far more gorgeous that just about anyone else… | /r/seduction | 31/01/25 06:02 PM |
| 1 | I Moved Abroad for Dating - and Had This Surprising LessonIs that really a thing now? Do men really move to barcelona just to be dedicated fboys? I used to live there at some point in my life and yes, my dating life was amazing hugely due to how perfectly suited for it that city is. But I always thought a big part of it must’ve been a great men/women ratio as there’s seemingly more attractive women then men moving/visiting there to be full time hot girls, go to clubs, beaches, bars and portray a dream lifestyle on their instagrams for relatively cheap.… | /r/seduction | 30/01/25 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever used Instagram as a Dating App? Is it possible to get dates?You can’t use tinder or okcupid AND you’re shadowbanned on instagram? My boy, what’re you doing? Haha | /r/seduction | 29/01/25 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Using hinge for casual datingThose sounds like surprisingly good stats. How would you rate their average attractiveness level? But also relevant to you and/or matches you get in other apps. Did you adjust your profile specifically for feeld in any way? | /r/seduction | 26/01/25 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Using hinge for casual datingInteresting! How frequently do you actually meet people from feeld? I tried it once, most profiles I’ve seen weren’t very attractive and I was kinda taken back by everyone listing their kinks, I’m open minded but don’t really have any of my own, so felt like my profile might come off boring because of it. Also maybe it’s just my settings, but everyone on there seemed very old to, millennials. | /r/seduction | 26/01/25 02:31 PM |
| 1 | "lets get to know each other before meeting"There’s always room for improvement as far as your dating profile goes. Just get into a habit of having pictures of yourself taken whenever you’re in a scenic location, doing something cool or just dressed well, just like girls do. Experiment with different promts, find what works for you. Then if you figure it out, consider investing in a premium subscription to scale the results, but never before getting any results at all. | /r/seduction | 26/01/25 08:12 AM |
| 1 | "lets get to know each other before meeting"Sounds like your time is better spent working on getting more prospects my brother. One man’s three months talking stage is another man’s first link backseat special, you deserve better. | /r/seduction | 26/01/25 08:05 AM |
| 1 | "lets get to know each other before meeting"At this point I just don’t bother. The amount of effort it’d take can be enough to pull multiple other girls, gotta be smart with your time. Besides, at this point I simply refuse to believe they’ve never met anyone without having been chatting for a few weeks first, which probably means she’s not as into it as she once was with someone else prior. Your time is better spent talking to someone who is. | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 11:41 PM |
| 7 | I'm thinking about traveling, where do you think it's easier to get a laid? The United States (if you can tell me the best city you know with the best clubs, I was thinking about Miami) or Spain, Madrid?Lived in Spain for years and it’s definitely true except it was almost never the Spanish women. Language barrier can be tough a lot of them are bad and English plus the logistics of them oftentimes living with their parents until mid 30s and having reali life responsibilities like work and studying make it difficult. Much rather go for free 24/7 tourists looking to have some fun within the few days they’re staying there. Exchange students and expats too. | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 11:27 PM |
| 10 | Is it better to leave women on read or un unopened?I think that depends on whether they’re reaching out or responding to your text. Reaching out first and then just not opening/leaving their response on read seems kinda weird | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Why Meeting Women in Real Life Makes You Unstoppablewell, 5’6 is below average, so he’d probably not be pulling girls CONSISTENTLY, but it’s definitely possible, though at that point your best bet is probably to focus on finding the one rather than trying to be a player. One advantage you can have however, is being a non threat, so long as you’re cool and not creepy, it’s easier to infiltrate groups of girls or groups that have a lot of girls on them. This won’t pay off immediately, but will help to build a good circle, but hitch makes you more a… | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 01:08 AM |
| 2 | Don't "Next" women, keep them in your orbit.This only happens in smaller cities | /r/seduction | 24/01/25 11:03 PM |
| 2 | Why I think getting a girl's Instagram is better than getting her number.Loads of people faking it real well | /r/seduction | 24/01/25 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Why I think getting a girl's Instagram is better than getting her number.I have a pretty fun and interesting life, I’m very successful in my hobbies, hence the following. I’ve lived in and traveled different countries, have a good social circle, etc. Nothing too crazy but far above vast majority of guys. Still not some rich celebrity. I think it also depends on where you live, I live in LA so everything I listed isn’t really that impressive, when I travel to other places I am more eager to share my instagram as it compares to my competition really well. | /r/seduction | 24/01/25 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Why I think getting a girl's Instagram is better than getting her number.That’s not my thought process, definitely not through texting. It’s just that whatever people are hoping for is always gonna be better than objective reality. Same with us guys going dates with girls we already find attractive secretly hoping they actually aren’t even very photogenic so in reality they will be way hotter. | /r/seduction | 24/01/25 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Why I think getting a girl's Instagram is better than getting her number.In what way does it explain it? I’m not sure I follow | /r/seduction | 24/01/25 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Why Meeting Women in Real Life Makes You UnstoppableI guess, heard it’s brutal for short or below average looking guys especially if the two are combined. I’ve seen guys who do well irl be of all sorts of heights and levels of attractiveness. | /r/seduction | 24/01/25 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Why I think getting a girl's Instagram is better than getting her number.key word slowly with that approach, how long does it take you to go from meeting to close and roughly how many times per year does that work out for you? no shade at all, genuine interest | /r/seduction | 24/01/25 06:44 PM |
| 5 | Why I think getting a girl's Instagram is better than getting her number.Very valid points, but idk. I have a somewhat decent instagram with a sizable following for someone who’s not actually for someone who’s not actually famous. I get on average a couple of phone numbers a day from dating apps and adding all these people would’ve screwed up my ratio real quick. My handful of thousands of followers only look impressive if I myself follow under a thousand people. Even in huge cities, a lot of hot girls know each other and it’s almost always a deal breaker if you used… | /r/seduction | 24/01/25 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Why Meeting Women in Real Life Makes You UnstoppableI mean, OLD is very superficial and some people it’s never gonna work for, what else is there to do in that case | /r/seduction | 24/01/25 06:14 PM |
| 3 | Why Meeting Women in Real Life Makes You UnstoppableIt all sounds appealing but I just don’t know, dating apps get me more dates per week than I have free nights anyway, so it just feels like a better use of my time going out with someone who I have specifically selected out of all the available options, especially considering I know they’ve done the same. Best case scenario when cold approaching, especially day game, is getting a phone number of someone you will later still have to take on a date, meaning it’s a minimum of two days for maybe one… | /r/seduction | 23/01/25 07:50 PM |
| 1 | The future of hookup cultureThose are the ones you gonna have the most fire sex with though, love me some daddy issue psycho hoes, in moderate amounts though | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 05:06 PM |
| 1 | The future of hookup cultureWhether or not I’m strictly interested in sex is irrelevant to this post, which is about hookups, as they’re becoming harder. There will never be a shortage of women wanting to go on dates and have relationships, that’s what makes most of them happy, I’m not worried about that ever not being an option lol | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 07:24 AM |
| 1 | The future of hookup cultureWell, occasionally there are women there also looking for hookups, hinge is just a better app. But even if they aren’t looking for hookups, they might still be ok with it if you play your cards right. What’s understood doesn’t need to be explained, the way my profile is set up and the way I carry myself irl wouldn’t really make anyone consider me a serious partner, rather a fun experience. But also, sex is an important part of a relationship, how can you expect someone to even consider any level… | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 07:21 AM |
| 1 | The future of hookup culturebut they weren’t a year ago? and every year before then? | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 07:08 AM |
| 1 | The future of hookup cultureYou’ve completely missed the point, I never said they’re not doing it, I said they’re doing it less And of course I know they’re being with someone, because it’s me, yet it’s starting to happen less and data is on my side | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 06:52 AM |
| 1 | The future of hookup cultureLol what I actually feel like the way we have very open discussions about sex these days might be taking away the excitement for young people, they probably already know everything there is to discover going into it, idk | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 06:37 AM |
| 0 | The future of hookup cultureAbsolutely irrelevant to the post | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 06:12 AM |
| 0 | The future of hookup culturedo you have a lot of millennial friends too then? because if not, how can you compare, no one’s saying you guy’s aren’t having sex, you just have way less of it than everyone before | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 06:00 AM |
| 2 | The future of hookup cultureIt’s a personality quality of mine to rationalize everything through graphs, percentages and statics, in this particular example it shows how my personal dating life has dropped simultaneously with the downfall of dating apps. If you met a few girls, what you’ve said would apply, if you met a LOT of girls, you’d find my approach actually makes a lot of sense. I also keep a file with pictures and dates and stuff, helps to observe patterns | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 05:38 AM |
| 1 | The future of hookup cultureNot at all | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 05:26 AM |
| 1 | The future of hookup cultureOk, so it is definitely not just me. I’m in the same boat as far as looks and pictures. | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 05:23 AM |
| 1 | The future of hookup cultureThat being said though, if I do decide to change my ways, through all that experience I’ve learned a lot about myself and now have a gained a pretty good idea of what I like in a partner should I ever decide to get one that’s serious. | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 05:07 AM |
| 0 | The future of hookup cultureCorrect, I do not find joy in relationships. I got plenty friends who are happy having girlfriends but I never felt jealous of them or wanted something similar for myself. I wanted to be a player since I was a little boy | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 05:03 AM |
| -1 | The future of hookup cultureThat sounds incredibly depressing. So what do you even do then? Give up and get a girlfriend? It just feels so sad committing to someone just because you’re unable to score as often as you want | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 04:46 AM |
| 1 | The future of hookup cultureI mean, they don’t message me first with their addresses of course. But you’d be surprised how hot of a girl you could pull with a good profile and some clever messaging. Still can, just not as often anymore | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 04:43 AM |
| 1 | The future of hookup cultureI’m embarrassed to admit, but day game is something I’ve never really tried. It always seemed super complicated logistically, plus such a huge commitment of time and effort. Fact you’re probably not gonna sleep with anyone you’ve met that very day makes it so much harder to force yourself to get into it too. There’s just many things I’d rather be doing if the sun is out | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 04:41 AM |
| 0 | The future of hookup cultureWell, I was writing this post under assumption it’ll mostly reach the western world, which I’m pretty sure is accurate. I’m also in US and don’t think the culture regarding sex differs all that much state to state. Besides, I myself am in a very transplant heavy melting pot type region, so we’re supposed to have it all. | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 04:36 AM |
| 2 | The future of hookup cultureI am starting to get the idea I’m on the wrong subreddit, what makes you interested in seduction if it’s not to hookup with people? | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 04:32 AM |
| 0 | The future of hookup cultureIt was bumble and tinder for me all 2023 and they both worked super well, then they just stopped. Hinge is good, but way more effort | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 04:31 AM |
| 0 | The future of hookup cultureUnlikely, I’ve had a least a couple (that I know of) FWBs that were also doing seeking arrangements. They still want to enjoy sex and would also use regular apps to find someone to sleep with just for pleasure. | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 04:28 AM |
| 3 | The future of hookup cultureWell have you changed anything about yourself? Maybe your profile has gotten significantly better? Etc Also what apps do you use/have used in the past? I had my best year ever in 2023 and those same pictures and chat lines only got me like 70% of 2023 results in 2024. That and I had to put more effort in as in 2024 way more of my sex partners came from actual dates rather sneaky links. | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 04:24 AM |
| -2 | The future of hookup cultureWell, I have moved to hinge, actually only use hinge these days. Many dates, many end up in sex though I don’t consider first date sex to be a hookup, because you have to work for it and your personality matters, not just your looks. But still, roughly 2/3 dates back in tinder times used to end in sex and hinge is more like half and half if not 1/3. Dates themselves feel a lot less flirty too, I just feel like I’m being screened for boyfriend material sometimes | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 04:20 AM |
| 1 | The future of hookup cultureI was not on those threads and don’t even know what they are. Yup, seems about right. Perhaps it might not just be the cultural shift, but also just me getting older. | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 04:16 AM |
| 2 | The future of hookup cultureIsn’t that what started hookup culture though? Women getting confident enough to no longer care about how men perceive them, so they no longer were afraid or cared about being slut shamed for going after their desires? Hookup culture can actually benefit women’s sex lifes as by making yourself easier you have chances of sleeping with men, who you might’ve not had a chance of being taken on a date by. A highly attractive, very in demand man can only date so many women at once, but he can pleasure… | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 04:14 AM |
| 4 | The future of hookup cultureIt’s not they are hooking up less, which they are, it’s that they are having less sex period. Casual or not. Less sex makes you feel less good. | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 03:49 AM |
| -3 | The future of hookup cultureComparison is a thief of joy and a very unproductive thing to do. Dating is something I’d love to be getting better at as time passes, so even though I hat I currently get is probably more than enough for many, if it’s less than what I had before, it’s a major step back. Think of it as a twisted never ending self improvement journey. | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 03:47 AM |
| 1 | The future of hookup cultureI am gen z lol, just being an older gen z my early adulthood was influenced by millennial culture more. I’m not against their preferences, I’m just looking for ways to maintain my seemingly dated lifestyle in these changing times. | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 03:40 AM |
| 2 | The future of hookup cultureI mean, that same research has shown that Gen Z is the most unhappy generation. They’re also the ones having the least sex. Maybe these two facts aren’t related, but maybe they are | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 03:37 AM |
| -3 | The future of hookup cultureYou’d probably have more success had you actually read it, paying attention | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 03:33 AM |
| -1 | The future of hookup cultureWhat do you mean | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 03:27 AM |
| -12 | The future of hookup cultureWhat a time to be alive. I selfishly think my age group had it the worst as I’m old enough to remember how much fun millennials used to have. Spent my entire childhood anticipating getting old enough to engage in all the same things, yet it all went downhill soon after I became of age. Meanwhile younger Gen Z, as miserable as they are, don’t know life could be different. | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 03:25 AM |
| 0 | The future of hookup cultureWell, OF is actually contributing to girls having less partners as you can do it with your bf, as opposed to having to be with a ton of random men as you’d do as an old fashioned p*rn actress. Besides, people getting fucked over and cheated on might actually cause them to remove themselves from dating. I experience it personally as many girls tell me how they’ve not really been with anyone for a very long time after their last relationship. Surely, some might be lying but not all. I still do wel… | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 03:18 AM |
| 5 | The future of hookup cultureOver the last 15 years they’ve definitely increased, but over the past couple they have dropped and dropped a lot | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 02:51 AM |
| 1 | The future of hookup cultureWell, it seems like what it takes for young people to want to have sex these days has become a lot more complicated compared to when hookup culture has peaked, which is now definitely in the past. Sadly | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Do you pay on the first date?I think most these comments don’t make much sense since the culture regarding this is obviously different in different parts of the world. Even though I assume most of us here westerners, US and most of Europe are quite different in that regard. That being said, I’m very curious as to where are you located | /r/seduction | 10/01/25 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Should I hook up with girls I don’t find attractive just to gain experience/wins?I’d say do it if it takes no effort. If it’s just a hookup situation where no one’s gonna know, why not. If you don’t like it you don’t have to do it again. Less conventionally attractive girls can put in a lot more effort into pleasing you might be willing to do things others aren’t willing to. Married men get caught cheating on their wives with less attractive women all the time. Also seeing it in their eyes that you’re probably the hottest person they’ve been with can be good for your confide… | /r/seduction | 12/12/24 10:31 PM |
| 5 | I finally stopped pedestalizing models after learning the truth.Never seen a model with huge rack or a good twerking potential, checks out | /r/seduction | 15/02/24 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Need advice on how to act nextSeems like that's exactly what it is man, thanks! | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 03:07 PM |
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