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Man, why are you even here. And this is addressed to everyone who think they are supersuccessful. Why are you even here in this channel?
/r/seduction19/06/22 05:45 PM
1

Sorry but this is an arrogant and useless answer.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 08:02 PM
1

The second best answer :D Thanks.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 03:00 PM
1

“Once I’ve dominated a cow and ride her and fuck her It’s that what you mean?” This was the only worthy answer so far, thanks.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 01:48 PM
1

I like it :D
/r/askTRP04/04/20 01:40 PM
59

Yeah I missed a lots of sex with pretty girls being friendzoned because of this "politeness". I was wrong.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/20 07:27 AM
0

It can be, you know why. As beautiful the girl in your eyes, as your non-verbal, you energy shows it. And she sees it, she feels it. That is why it is easier to get beautiful girls, because it is nature.
/r/seduction04/01/20 07:30 AM
2

I say "Sometimes I want you really hard". And it always works. Not at that moment but the next day they are coming horny. I don't know the underlying mechanism, but it works.
/r/seduction14/12/19 07:33 AM
1

I am not sure this is.. I am just not sure. See my standard MO is, I see a girl, I look her deep into eyes, showing I want her. After I take it away and see if she wants to gain my attention again. If she does I am proceeding to the next phase. And basically every step is like that. I am getting assurance that she chases and pass to the next phase. But sometimes girls don't take initiative and then I talk talk talk and talk until she softens and starts to invest.
/r/seduction04/12/19 06:55 PM
1

This.
/r/seduction04/12/19 06:07 PM
1

Eye-contact.. you will feel it
/r/seduction04/12/19 09:36 AM
1

Approach and stay in interaction, don't run away. The first instinct is to run away. You organism wants to get rid of that tension and you want to run away. Just stay and keep talking.
/r/seduction01/12/19 09:15 PM
1

No, anyway talks about number don't work. It works better if she knows why she gives you her number like "let's grab a coffee sometime" if she answers "yes" you say "let's exchange numbers then or maybe FB or anything so I can find you". And it seems very natural, not just "give me your number I don't know why". Also, if you give her your number, she will never call you, as they must know you like them. They are extremely scared of lowering their self-esteem. They work to gain it days and hours …
/r/seduction30/11/19 07:53 AM
2

Perfect. I gained a practical knowledge here. Thanks for consulting.
/r/seduction29/11/19 03:46 PM
1

Thanks man. 6 is about the rhythm, tempo of approach. Do you do it quick or you do it slowly? Let me put in another way. Say she is walking in her thoughts, you approach and start to talk with her. How you affect her speed?
/r/seduction29/11/19 02:21 PM
5

Hey man. I'd like to know several things if possible: You approach from the front, back or side? How do you enter her visual zone? What's your body position when you approach? Are you facing them or talk from the side? From which side? How do you keep your hands? Are you gesticulating while talking or no? Where do you keep them? Are you smiling while approaching? Are you smiling while talking? How do you react, when she does a wtf face and walk away? How do you feel, all the process is slow or f…
/r/seduction29/11/19 10:20 AM
2

Some of the other men there were more outgoing than me. Usually this makes me feel anxious because I feel like I should be more outgoing. But this time I decide to be more comfortable with my own temperament and try to understand my cards better rather than trying to wish I had someone else's cards. I didn't talk a lot, but I made a few jokes when I felt like and everyone laughed and I added to the conversation when I felt like it. This part perfectly described my problem. I often compare myself…
/r/seduction28/11/19 08:22 AM
2

Yeah, seriously I can't imagine reaching 100. Also can't imagine what kind if monster(in a good way) I will become after 100.
/r/seduction28/11/19 08:19 AM
3

I am 3 years in this and never managed to "just enjoy it". But, on the other hand, I am adept at nexting. If something goes wrong and I really don't like it I just Next it and start over with another girl. Every failure is one step to better calibration. And it works perfect. I am very result-oriented and gain very little joy in the process. And it still works. The key here is confidence, whether you enjoy the process or go with nexting, you gain confidence, you don't give a crap you will close …
/r/seduction26/11/19 11:28 AM
10

"Sore" yeah right. "We have had the best sex I have ever had in my life", "He was so good in bed, sexual tension was like tornado between us" and juicy details like that. She just checks out your reaction, as soon as you show, you are comparing yourself with that guy, you are lost. You must behave like you are the only alfa and you don't care what she does with anyone else. In these kind of cases I yawn and show that I am bored of this conversation, when are we going to fuck?
/r/askTRP26/11/19 10:10 AM
1

In fact, it is a matter of threshold. I have had recently a long period of professional development and 0 interaction with girls. And girls just faded away. After I reached some point of stability in work I initiated contact with one girl I liked and the same day appeared 2 girls who initated contact by themselves and the next 2 weeks they were falling on me like a hurricane. So when you have lack of girls just simply try to initiate contact with one of them and see what happens. I am not sure h…
/r/askTRP18/11/19 12:59 PM
2

Ok, principle is the same: be the prize and at the same time, show attraction to her (attraction not just interest). Also flirting contains hidden sexualization of things. Any subject can be kind of sexualized. Watch videos about flirting and you will get what I am talking about.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 01:32 PM
2

It was a shit test. You weren't a boring guy, she just wanted to gain an advantage in your communication. When doubts kick in, just remember that you are the prize and even if your behavior is boring, as a person you are not boring. She wants to interact with you not because of communication but because of who you are. Try to not abandon the initial frame.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 10:32 AM
6

Because of eye-contact. Pick a girl, any girl, approach, talk about anything and hold long eye contact, thinking this "Omg I want you so much". Do it honestly, make her see it in your eyes. Just try it out and see results, then compare it to your previous strategy of being friendly and not intimidating.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 10:27 AM
3

No, just improve yourself. You can gain weight and muscles and it is not that hard even if you are an ectomorph. Multivitamins, lifting weights and cardio can give you a good appetite. A lot of men who weren't Appolos improved themselves and reached gigantic levels across the ages. Also, you don't need to be a top-notch alfa male to be able to attract girls. Just work with what you already have and improve yourself. Sadly, the truth is that all this is under our permission. We must permit oursel…
/r/askTRP15/11/19 10:22 AM
3

Yes, stopping halfway up isn't a good choice. It is especially actual when you are almost got over the last relationship and at the last moment, you self-indulge and fall into oneitis or something. I believe that it is because of poor knowledge of your own behaviors and mental habits.
/r/seduction15/11/19 10:12 AM
25

I am 31 and I gained most of my experience with girls in past 2 years. And I will tell you, you already did half of job, relizing and confessing to yourself that you don't have enough experience. Remember that from now on it will go easier. Just Start from easiest steps. I personally started from eye contact. After I figured it out it became easier and easier.
/r/seduction22/10/19 02:11 PM
1

Wow, that must be huge. Especially in a big city.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/19 07:16 AM
2

Sorry to hear this man. Most of us have this kind of experience, that is what made us come here.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 07:01 AM
1

Let me fix here. *2. It is just her turn.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 06:58 AM
2

It is kind of weird man. It explains your fragility though. You are too afraid of being hurt. It is understandable. Are you a single child? See, the thing is, that every interaction is opposition. And you should be ready and calm when it happens. And responding salty and hurt like you did is not very much alfa. You want a girl with a lower SMV to play it safe, to minimize the possibility of being left by a girl. But you don't understand that even that huge (8 vs 5) difference between you and her…
/r/askTRP14/10/19 06:53 AM
1

This. Saved.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 06:32 AM
1

Is there any minimum N count?
/r/TheRedPill14/10/19 06:27 AM
2

I write "ok" and it works the same way. Seeing a message and not answering in some cases can be "salty". So alternative is "ok". Well it can be any Single word "understood", "yea"... Because it also leaves her in the middle of some mental process.
/r/seduction14/10/19 06:25 AM
1

You should change something in your strategy after every single approach.
/r/seduction07/10/19 06:51 AM
14

Yeah, I had a girl, we had sex on the 3rd date. And she confessed that she wanted and was ready to have sex on the very first date. She said "when you see him, you want the guy or you don't, there is no 3rd option".
/r/seduction28/09/19 11:35 AM
2

Like antiheroes in movies. Riddick for example.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/19 03:03 PM
1

Hugging, shy girls love hugging because it lowers tension. So hug a few times and then go for kiss.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 07:00 AM
2

Great rephrasing man. I also noticed that there is something incorrect in "it is your turn..", like you are chasing her to get your turn.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/19 09:46 AM
2

Really detailed but too many things to consider. When you try that hard to be alfa, you unfortunately become kind of beta.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/19 02:44 PM
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And when, like 5 years later? Maybe you are a 10/10 guy and girls just don't want to be friends with you, they just want to fuck you. What is cringy exactly, showing attraction? I am not saying that it is wrong to have a friend girl. I have many friend girls. But if you want to date them better to start from another point.
/r/seduction13/09/19 06:09 AM
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Don't do this. Rookie mistake. It will create friendzone. Interaction with girl should start from attraction, if you want to date her. "Being friends" will lead you to eternal friendzone, she will label you as friend. You will become her male orbiter. She will start to come to you and tell about how she dated some other guy.
/r/seduction13/09/19 05:31 AM
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This means that she doesn't like you enough yet. Your value is not enough high for her to go out with you. Don't be awkward but show some disinterest to her. Like "I am here for practicing and it is the main reason I am here, you are just another person there". But be careful not to act offended or something. Just disinterest, like how would you act if you had 5 other girls you are seeing. And see her reaction. 80% she will start to give some IOIs because she can't get your attention anymore.
/r/seduction13/09/19 05:26 AM
2

Not regarding to the exact subject. Well if there was no sexual liberation of women, we all would be forced to have one woman to fuck. How do you imagine handling 5 plates if there was no sexual liberation of women? Of course it is not good for LTRs because of hypergamy. But it is good if you want to have a lots of sex with different women.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 05:19 AM
2

Well written. You are a good writer man, besides everything.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/19 07:14 AM
3

"Approach and stay" that's it. If you learn how to stay, nothing else will be needed.
/r/seduction10/09/19 04:26 AM
2

Rehabilitating to social life is very hard if you are an introvert. I am now in a kind of a monk mode after my entrepreneurial experiment failed. And it is about 2 months. Yeah, workouts, bulking (I was skinny), a lot of work on different projects, a lot of walking, nofap etc. But it is getting harder to communicate with people. I don't even want sex with women. Maybe you are right but you have to have rehabilitation protocol when you get out of your monk mode.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/19 04:24 AM
1

Yeah, the same. But it become more assertive with time. You see what others cannot. You see real real social dynamics (not fancy RSD). You see what people want but cannot confess even to themselves. Hypergamy is always real, but you gotta understand that in most cases "honest, direct man, who says what he wants to get" considered as highest quality man.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 05:19 AM
3

Yeah, same story everywhere. It is sad.. extremely sad.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 05:11 AM
15

So all your plates fuck only with you? Some of my plates can also fuck other guys and I don't give a shit actually. That is why they called plates I guess. I guess it is an individual preference.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 12:34 PM
62

This. No questions. Just next.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 12:31 PM
2

Exactly! I mean it is very hard to calculate.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 08:45 AM
1

If you asked just once, it could give not very reliable amount of information to make a decision. Ask two times, to give her some comfort of you liking her. They are insecure too sometimes. If she refused two times not suggesting something else, then just soft next. Find some other girl. This cycle must be repeated until your attraction skills before asking out become better (it means workout and influencing her emotions).
/r/askTRP01/09/19 07:01 AM
5

Man, there are 2 different kinds of people: who overestimate themselves and underestimate themselves. So some people, even if they have Arnold Schwarzenegger's body, won't say "yes I would fuck me" and vice versa. So your advice is kind of not very objective. I seriously met 5s who wouldn't even look at me, and 9s who were astonished by me. So I guess it is random mostly. I mean yeah, workout must become a lifestyle. But it is 80% random.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 06:56 AM
2

The term negging mostly comes from Mystery PUA. He popularized it. Negging is validating the girl. I personally see it as overcoming shit-tests before they appear. I mean you see an arrogant 9HB you start to neg her to demonstrate higher value, so called DHV and give her IODs (indicators of disinterest). It is basically the same: passing shit tests.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/19 09:14 PM
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To look into this I would suggest to pay attention to "shit-tests" and "comfort-tests" and the difference between them. I have a comment saved which must be put here. It could give a good insight about this contradictions in female herself. Yes, comfort tests require a degree of beta behavior. Comfort tests are more often manifested during her Luteal phase(Her period) where she feels ugly/insecure, and is trying to make sure that the Alpha male she selected for reproduction wont abandon her afte…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/19 09:39 AM
1

I suck at confidence at work. I went to therapist and partly solved it. Daddy issues etc. But still sometimes I fail at it. I feel that I am not able, I just can't, and people around me are more mature. They know something I don't know, some secret that I can't figure out. On the other hand, I know that when I trust myself and don't listen to anybody, eventually I find the solution almost to anything. So basically I think the main idea of confidence is that "it is okay to fail. Every single fail…
/r/askTRP31/08/19 08:59 AM
2

I agree with bad day syndrome. What I am saying is we see a lot of men who are confident and have this, so called "big dick energy". But they are not Shaolin monks, they don't practice mindfulness, Dzen or any other philosophy. So what's the trick here? Maybe it is just creating positive logical chains or keeping thought on surface. Idk it is interesting, I want to find a "simple men way" of confidence.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 07:19 AM
3

I've heard this theory that boys are Alfa by nature. So theoretically if you eliminate or overcome all the negative memories of your childhood, you can become confident. But there is another question, negative memories is our natural interaction with the outer world, why are they redundant or not correct?
/r/askTRP31/08/19 06:57 AM
19

Confidence comes only with competence right? You need to backup your confidence. I am not sure if confidence can be acquired just by repeating to yourself "I am confident..".
/r/askTRP31/08/19 06:43 AM
7

Can it be used in any way? Like to start being more confident or something?
/r/askTRP31/08/19 06:41 AM
2

I am also in the process of overcoming it but I noticed some things help it: I read somewhere that your assumption about "you are not enaugh good for the girl" is not objective. It was an FR and that guy just said genereally that who he thought would be easy to approach like 5s or 6s were rejecting more than 8s or 9s. Being able to handle WTF face. The principle "approach and stay" also solves AA problem, why? Because when you "stay" in one, two.. ten interactions, you start to understand that t…
/r/seduction25/08/19 08:16 AM
1

It requires well formed inner game. I mean imagine you are 7 and she is 9. It is hard to convince yourself that your value is higher than hers.
/r/seduction23/08/19 08:22 AM
1

Thanks man, good analisys.
/r/seduction22/08/19 09:39 PM
2

Saved. Thanks.
/r/seduction22/08/19 06:56 AM
1

I just can't take their wtf face. I mean their confusion makes me feel akward. And the silence coming after that. Or my "okay" after rejection feels so hummiliated (it is not, but my own impression is like that). Still can't fully figure it out.
/r/seduction22/08/19 06:51 AM
2

Switching works too, I am always switching. I mean not in a nervous way, but more intimate.
/r/seduction22/08/19 06:47 AM
1

Yes man, don't waste your time. Set goals and phases and work on them. Time is the only real thing that can be missed and wasted. Also don't forget to relax, sometimes chasing goals can be exhausting and not allowing you to enjoy life.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 06:52 AM
1

Very simple. Some people reach 30s and then finally understand whole the truth about this dynamics. You wasted almost half of your life on LTRs. Being needy and clingy. Not making enaugh money. Not lifting weights, so your body is like child's body. And thinking that women are angels. So after 30, you feel you missed a lot of opportunities. What can be more painfull as inability to Ctrl + Z.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 06:28 AM
6

Nobody is going to hand you the life you want. I'd even say "Everyone is against you to have life you want". Endless war.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 06:17 AM
1

Can you please share what dishes you cook most of the time for dates?
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 06:11 AM
3

Master your boobies..
/r/seduction20/08/19 04:15 PM
6

I just ignore shit-tests most of the time. If it requires answer I make a shocked face like she is a monster and say "O kay". If it requires domination I just take her shit-test and turn it against her, or without answering to her shit-test I throw mine. When she does already 3rd shit-test on me I say "I know that you like me that is why you behave like this" after that they are surprised and become more submissive.
/r/seduction20/08/19 07:32 AM
3

Yes, this. Also I show that our conversation starting to be not much interesting to me. Most of the time it works, they start to put more efforts and eventually they offer to meet themselves.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 07:20 AM
0

I just put the opposite message. "No you aren't worth my attention", "why?", "because you don't respect my worldview"
/r/askTRP19/08/19 09:32 PM
1

Honestly the only creative answer. I don't know, maybe I overthink this, but I need to have a backup plan. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 02:06 PM
1

Your assumption is good. However I overcame it long ago, but there is a thing I can't overcome yet: social opinion. Let's say this question is not about a girl, but about a social circle who watches my approach. I want to be able to hold my frame even after the rejection in the social circle I am in. Because when you approach, a lot of people watch it like a Netflix movie, it makes me nervous, I want to give them some popcorn.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 02:05 PM
0

Too broken. Need something strong.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 09:41 AM
0

Don't want to see broken. Need something funny and not dissapointed. Or if she is bitchy, something equal musculine.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 09:41 AM
0

Don want to seem broken under her rejection. Need something creative, maybe funny idk.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 09:40 AM
2

Liked this, will try it out.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 09:39 AM
0

This one I knew. Need something creative . Thanks anyway.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 09:39 AM
-2

I need something creative, something equal to her rejection. Thanks anyway.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 09:38 AM
1

Didn't get what this is but thanks.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 09:38 AM
2

Loved this. Thanks man. Saved.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/19 09:36 AM
1

It is this Chinese "Doing by not doing". You are there, you interact, but you don't have any energetic exchange with that person. You create this emptiness with her.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 08:30 AM
1

I do Tai Chi all the time, several times per day. More specifically Tai Chi Yang style 24 form. Also workout, a lot of workout. Otherwise I would just explode.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 06:04 PM
24

It is for sure. It is like if a model asked you out, your reaction even if you were an introverted type. You'd say "Yes" or "Fuck, I am busy that time, but let's do it tomorrow".
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 06:41 AM
4

Saved.
/r/seduction15/08/19 10:26 AM
9

You just don't filter. That's it. Can't expect every Buddhist to be a guru.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 07:32 AM
3

I think the curve of seduction in the end, leads guys to become more natural than in the beginning of the path, but first they must become unnatural, later to become natural. It is not even about pickup, it is about acquiring any skill for any person. Bruce Lee has interesting words about it. "The first is the primitive stage. It is a stage of original ignorance in which a person knows nothing about the art of combat... The second stage — the stage of sophistication, or mechanical stage — begins…
/r/seduction14/08/19 06:13 AM
1

It is interesting, does this "extreme skilfullness" somehow seem not natural? Or maybe "too much"?
/r/seduction13/08/19 10:24 PM
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Wow, saved.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 04:21 PM
2

Yeah, it is a small unnoticeable hidden idea in the deep corners of mind which throws people to hell: I don't deserve it.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 07:13 AM
4

I think there is no choice but to bang two other girls. To make the whole situation equal. Turning it into a hippie camp free love. "I love you all girls, but also you are free". To make none of them special to not cause games. But anyway shit will flow from somewhere.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 03:22 AM
1

7 times confess to a girl that you want to fuck her and it will be solved. I won't dig into details but consider this is calculated.
/r/seduction10/08/19 08:03 AM
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My friend calls shit-tests, crush-tests. So the girl is checking whether you are strong enaugh to not be smashed against a wall. The reason she starts to do that is that she subconciously or conciously considers the guy as a potential sexual partner. She starts to shit-test you to see whether you are strong enaugh to be the father of her baby (in her mind she doesn't know the reason she does that).
/r/askTRP10/08/19 07:59 AM
5

For them it is "just a kiss". In some cases not even an IOI. Could be just stress coping. Like they went out with friends and kissed random guys and talk after that with each other "it was such a crazy night" etc. To get additional self-validation/dopamine. I mean it can be fully solipsistic. Guys in this case just need solid eye-contact skills.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 02:20 PM
3

I got you man, my oneitis fucked another guy, and told me about it, that was my breakpoint.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 07:24 AM
1

improve every aspect of yourself: Physical, Mental, Emotional and Spiritual Can I add one more aspect to improve to make it easier for other guys to understand your idea. "Image", yes guys, besides of all the listed, work on you image in society (let's say tribe). Because without image, even if you are a superhuman, noone will come to you. I guess OP just forgot to mention that.
/r/seduction08/08/19 07:01 AM
2

I understand your problem, I had the same thoughts in the past. I will put it very simple "A specific girl cannot be your priority. You play with the field, not with a specific girl. When you play in and with the field, it is easier to next and girls become just part of your life. Like in an RPG game, you just work on acquiring XP and skills." This doesn't mean you don't look for girls. But you look for them not to fill the hole inside you but to enjoy them. This prevents you from having oneitis…
/r/seduction08/08/19 06:34 AM
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Saved.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 07:02 AM
1

I personally spin 4 plates and time to time replace one of them. But if I were in your place I'd just hit better girls, if you are with 6/10 girls now, maybe you should start to aim 7,8 now. Or 9,10 idk.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 06:33 AM
3

Yes, surprisingly it is not clinginess or neediness. It is more about the desire. You yearn for women generally, not a specific one. If it doesn't happen you just pass to another one. It is the natural mindset of men I guess.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 03:23 AM
13

I agree with this one. Blue pill mentality includes using women to fill some empty hole in yourself. But RP is all about not having holes. OP can also have LTR again but another type of LTR, where he is Alfa.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 08:03 AM
1

Quantity, I guess you were internally not ready for sexual relationship with her. It is okay, try it out more times and it will happen. But you should be honest with her that you are here to have something, movie can be watched later. It is weird sometimes when you try something during the movie.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 06:00 PM
3

Thanks, I will take a look.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 02:18 PM
3

Noone gives advices to skinny guys. Who visit gyms for years, becoming Bruce Lees but never managing to gain any weight. So sad.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 01:29 PM
2

It's an interesting thought, maybe some compassion is due, something like "Don't worry, I'm nervous meeting new people too. =)" combined with a high-value frame could be useful for everybody involved. I will try this out.
/r/seduction05/08/19 07:14 AM
6

Not neccessarily better. Before that happened, I used to think I am not able to do it, or maybe I don't deserve it. The moment it happened, I felt that I can. So I stopped being clingy and needy, broke up with her as I didn't want anything serious, and started to live my full of experiments life, enjoying abundance. Before that, I spent 7 years on different "serious" LTRs. Right now I have 4 plates and I change them from time to time and I like this setting more than when I was in LTR (it is a m…
/r/askTRP04/08/19 09:34 AM
2

Happy to help.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 08:43 AM
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I am 31, at my 29 and 30, I was literally dead because of depressive toughts about not achieving anything etc. Then it happened to me I found a pretty girl, clothes model, 9/10, been with her a month and then broke up with her. Why did I break up? I just understood my power. And understood two important things: First, nothing is ever like you think. We never objectively see reality, reality is full of opportunities and the past or your age don't matter. You are not what you think you are and wil…
/r/askTRP04/08/19 06:13 AM
2

Yess. Exactly the same. It is so predictable. Also I am waiting for another opportunity to reestablish the frame.
/r/askTRP03/08/19 06:12 PM
97

I actually noticed that people who usually considered charismatic, talk with a lower voice and use hands less (if not Italians for sure). So I guess these points are your subjective charismatic points. If you find something more general and objective for everyone, I will read with pleasure.
/r/seduction03/08/19 11:27 AM
2

Mid-priced wine will be a good choice, also it is hard to get drunk by wine both for you and for the girl.
/r/seduction03/08/19 08:05 AM
10

Definition of insanity Doing the same thing every time and expecting every time it will give a different result?
/r/askTRP02/08/19 03:25 PM
1

Alfa -ism is not about Machoism in this case but about Big Dick Energy more. Calm, confident, abundance mentality.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/19 11:33 AM
1

Wow. Bluepill culture in a nutshell. The key is to genuinly want to be a chad. Not in a manner of being macho or something. You are a calm, strong, charismaric male, with you interests, work, ambitions, family, friends, sex appetite etc. She is just a human with whom you want to have sex and spend a good time. Maybe someday you will find a woman who will surprise you and maybe you will merry her, but for the time being, they are just females for you, as an alfa. Btw the way she described past ma…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/19 11:30 AM
8

As an introvert I have the opposite situation. I have leads all the time who go through the online funnel and turn into plates. But I suck at real world approach. I assume it is an introvert / extravert issue. My friend is a good looking extravert and he just can't do anything online.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 10:37 AM
1

Knife throwing..
/r/askTRP31/07/19 06:38 AM
2

Yeah man, it works like that. I am even being shit-tested by animals..
/r/askTRP31/07/19 06:33 AM
3

Any next is meaningful when you don't initiate contact. Soft next is, you just occupy you mind with somethinfmg else and don't think about her until she let's you know. You must be ready for breakup in case of LTR, any next can be a potential breakup. So she can come back with "You don't carw about me, you forgot about me a week.". This is good, it means she cares about you. You say something like "No I didn't forget you, just thought you were busy. Everything is fine?". And continue conversatio…
/r/askTRP30/07/19 12:40 PM
1

Saved
/r/askTRP30/07/19 12:32 PM
2

It all comes to the point 10.
/r/seduction30/07/19 07:15 AM
1

I'd suggest having sex with another girl. Maybe using apps, maybe sitting at the bar. Maybe just calling someone you wanted years ago. If not possible, just do something physical, when you have free time: gym, martial arts, running, hiking. Also, meeting new people, without thinking, go to some events, try to meet some new people, not necessarily women, just to get new impressions. Also, you should try to forget all this situation and adapt to new circumstances, when you are a healthy, strong si…
/r/askTRP29/07/19 09:46 AM
1

Wow, tactful as.. a feather.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 07:19 AM
2

Picture the perfect you, how he acts, how he looks, what he does, everything about him. Now picture yourself as you are. Be brutally honest with yourself. What separates you from being him? Make it as specific as possible. Now how do you address these things? This was the most valuable advice. Thanks.
/r/seduction29/07/19 07:16 AM
1

Well I use Facebook for work too, like Linkedin, but also for hookups. Insragram is also to post attractive pictures and reach hookups through it. I don't use it. What else? Reddit, it is to intellectualize around. Let's say concpiracy around total informative dominance can be true, and it is okay, anyway they won't be able to handle it. Technical progress will lead us to something else. They can't hold technical progress even more.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 07:50 AM
2

Improvisation and experimentation, the ironic part is that 2/10 guys can get 9/10 girls and the opposite. So if you improve, you improve mostly for yourself, not for someone else.
/r/seduction27/07/19 10:39 AM
1

Nofap is a good thing to consider. 90 days to stop fapping and make it a lifestyle. Gym, getting laid etc.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 12:08 PM
6

Just self-esteem issues. Long-term she can just affect your self-esteem with subjective shitty annotations. You can bang 99999 girls and you come home and she is waiting for you to say "you are not attractive", "you are not enaugh masculine", "you are too masculine and blunt", "you are gay" etc.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 11:09 AM
1

In scientific method steps: Experiment Draw conclusions (reflecting on experience and following calibration, adjusting)
/r/seduction25/07/19 06:23 AM
0

Sure,the first is eye-contact. Remember the thing, if someone makes an eye contact more than 3 secs, he either wants to kill you or fuck you. And the second, honesty. Be honest with girls 10 times, saying "I really want to have sex with you. You can combine these two.
/r/seduction24/07/19 09:55 PM
6

The whole point is that men can use long term relationships for the same purpose. You come, you have sex with me, and I will decide whether I want LTR with you or not. Because men are relationships gatekeepers and women are sex gatekeepers. The key is to not use it in the opposite logics.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 09:51 PM
4

Girls do this to get ATTENTION. MONEY, FAME. And loads of viewers/likes/etc. The reason your family member is turning into this is because of her Smartphone/social media. It's a DOPHAMINE TRAP. Chemicals in the brain. This. It is like gaming for guys or masturbating or any addiction.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 01:07 PM
1

Hmm, I will try it out, thanks man.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/19 06:47 AM
1

Thanks man. So gainer + what? And is gainer healthy itself, or it can affect idk hormones or something?
/r/TheRedPill23/07/19 11:35 AM
1

Could you say something abou5 gainers too. For skinny guys.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/19 10:43 AM
3

300 aproaches is really huge man. You are a Rambo. Well you don't need any advices, but to make your approaches more efficient I would advice to make your later interaction more intimate. Also the eye-contact, eye-contact is literally everything. And maybe you can consider of being more honest with girls. Saying them what you want. Because you can talk with them hours, and it will make stronger the friendzone basement, rather than the seduction basement.
/r/seduction19/07/19 02:19 PM
9

The idea of spinning plates brings us to the idea of distance, not overvaluing other people and not using them as a rescue from our problems. It can be done not only by spinning plates. Also by your life mission, if you have one, or your hobbies or just your lifestyle.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/19 07:25 AM
1

Yes, I think you are right. Sometimes even 9s and 10s can happen if you hold your frame. The thing is when you make too much effort you instantly lose your value. I know what you are saying about. You keep some plates and meanwhile you improve yourself and time to time you can even target 9s and 10s. But just from time to time, to not make assimetric efforts.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/19 04:13 PM
1

Saved.
/r/seduction18/07/19 10:08 AM
2

Next..
/r/askTRP17/07/19 01:31 PM
1

I would honstly say to my friend. "Your body structure is not enaugh in shape and you are too nice, clingy and you have scarciry mindset because of that". Sometimes honesty can be painful for both sides, but "Any progress, starts from the truth". What is your problem?
/r/askTRP16/07/19 06:35 AM
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Saved
/r/seduction14/07/19 08:06 PM
1

It is not only the west. Same shit is happening in the east. See this is the result of globalization. On the other hand, there wasn't a time when everything were normal. People have been, are and will always be fucked up, in different ways. For example, the time we consider as a cultural revolution, ancient Greece, with the most powerful philosophers, there was a thing, if you want to be an apprentice of a philosopher, you go to him and if he wants to have sex with you, you must allow it. And it…
/r/askTRP14/07/19 05:40 AM
2

Yes, but understanding is not enaugh to make a real change. Weak part of stoicism is that it mostly describes how it is working, but it never tells you how. How to not give a shit.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 02:44 PM
15

This cold approach game stuff really works, you can definitely get laid from cold approaching, and the physical attractiveness of women is fucking irrelevant when it comes to approaching them. The fucking hottest girls will make out with you, and the ugliest girls will reject you harshly. Beauty tells you nothing about how the approach will go. I feel like all my interactions that go really well have a certain self-amusing "vibe" which comes from the way I feel about myself and my confidence in …
/r/seduction11/07/19 10:01 PM
1

Oh, subjective therapist is a demon from the underground inferno. Be carefull with that creature. I'd personally solve it another way, if you want to solve it anyway. Allocate a month or two of mastering of giving her sexual pleasure but not only. Connect all your activities together with sexual pleasure for her. I do it sometimes with girls I spend some time with. You know Pavlovs reflexes theory right. So the goal is, you snap fingers, and she is sexually aroused and already have pleasure of b…
/r/askTRP11/07/19 06:46 AM
3

I think it all comes with, abundance mentality and reflecting on experience. I mean, even without reading anything about seduction, just being okay with rejection, nexting and thinking what you could adjust and calibrate after every experience. And spinning some quantity of experiments, you can become a pretty good natural, with your own gamestyle.
/r/seduction09/07/19 06:41 AM
1

Do you think you are not experienced enaugh for casual hookup relationships for your age? I mean come on. I'd suggest following: Develop or change your style to be more charismatic and attractive (including clothes, haircut etc.). Develop some style, meaning of personnage, as frenchs say. Set some number of women you want to have experience with (I mean, when you set some goal it becomes much easier, well you know that for sure). Nexting, when something goes wrong, either your game is not good e…
/r/askTRP09/07/19 06:31 AM
1

Yes yes it mostly works non-verbal. I know what you mean.
/r/seduction08/07/19 09:05 PM
6

Yeah you are right. I am about, see pickup had kind of a large spread worldwide last years, well including different styles of pickup as TRP itself. What if, some time later, men, despite of popular culture just stop being nice. What will happen then? I see it can bring to a large cultural shift maybe.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/19 04:26 PM
10

Yeah, I know, I am from a post-soviet country. I think there will be some kind of a shift of mentality. Maybe women will try to go back, like global wall. They will start being less independent and demonstratively weak. Or civilization will start to automatically generate new conservative religions.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/19 04:19 PM
24

Interesting what will happen when nice guys cease to exist. Because I think eventually it will be the only countermove for men.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/19 02:48 PM
2

Because it is not honest interest. You show intellectual interest and it leads you to friendzone. Naturally you must show sexual interest and flirt to escalate game. Not intellectial interest like "What do you do?", "What does your mother do?", "What does your father do?" and so on like that.
/r/seduction08/07/19 07:48 AM
3

Yeah, I try to slowly go from logic to emotions, because if you do it too soon, it can be too intimidating. So in 10-15 minutes I start to tell stories with subtle core like ".. that is what I felt there" or ask questons like "..what does it feel like doing that, how that felt?" etc. And yes they go deeper and deeper into emotion, turning off logics.
/r/seduction08/07/19 07:44 AM
5

I've had the last oneitis because she was my latest HB8. And it will last untill I find another HB8. This really disturbs how mind works when you are in a relative scarcity mode. It is really annoying.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/19 06:03 AM
2

"Hyper-partisan", met this term the first time. I just don't get why he doesn't talk about RSD for example or pickup in general. Lack of research?
/r/TheRedPill06/07/19 07:28 AM
2

It could remind her about her ex or something, but that is not your concern, use this as a routine to tell to other girls.
/r/askTRP06/07/19 07:17 AM
4

a juggernaut like Jung That was good.
/r/askTRP05/07/19 08:50 AM
5

I've been there. She cheated on me with her best girl friend. I would suggest, just turn her into a plate, go step back, cancel LTR. Or hard next.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 06:11 AM
3

With nothing to lose. That makes you a chad.
/r/seduction30/06/19 07:54 AM
1

I personally continue the game with lost self-image. Every time I am surprised how wrong you can see yourself from the side.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 07:46 AM
2

Start from strategy not tactics. All the non-verbal part is tactics. First learn "what" to say and after "how" to say. It would be much easier.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 02:59 PM
1

Yes, because when you aren't faking you don't give a shit, and that is the most attractive thing.
/r/seduction27/06/19 06:37 AM
1

I'd start from nofap, there is a huge community if you search. It will give you some tengible amount of confidence very quickly.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 06:34 AM
1

Wow, a really wide explanation. Thanks man, I got your point. And your metaphor using GoT.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 10:07 AM
2

No, I didn't even know there was a show like that. It is just a PUA term, like "there is always the next girl" or "there is always a girl who can be your next target".
/r/askTRP26/06/19 10:05 AM
5

I know a guy who is tall and blond and looks like half Curt Cobain and half Dorian Grayish. Some girls beg him to fuck them, but not pretty ones, mostly girls 5-6. As I understood it kind of heightens their self-esteem. Everyone trying to be good with him, sharing a place in public transport, etc. I guess it can give a huge advantage, but mostly I see attractive dudes don't use it, don't know why. I think they are a little bit spoiled, in that much attention you stop giving a shit about attentio…
/r/askTRP26/06/19 10:02 AM
2

You could have or you couldn't have, doesn't matter. Nexting itself is valuable. Every next emphasizes your abundance. Like you prove yourself that you can let it go. You work with yourself, with your psychology, you develop and form it by your actions.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 10:31 PM
2

It is not focused on inner game mostly. But it gives you the game tactical anatomy.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 10:28 PM
7

They are directly connected. When you next your 10th or 50th or 100th time, your subconcious mind realizes that you have a lot of options and they appear all the time. So you don't need to cling on just one blondy chick.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 10:27 PM
1

No he is kind of a student of Mystery. The same with RSD Tyler.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 10:23 PM
1

Ross Jeffries
/r/askTRP25/06/19 10:22 PM
1

How to cut out?
/r/askTRP25/06/19 10:19 PM
5

Then you are a natural, you don't need pickup and all this TRP stuff. You don't need this sub either.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 10:13 PM
29

Nexting is a state of mind more. If she shit tested you, and you couldn't pass it with dignity, just say to yourself "Next.." and move on to another target. Or you could have sex with the girl but it didn't happen because of some technical issue (you couldn't find a place.. her boyfriend appeared) you just say "Next..". Or you couldn't continue the game with her because you just didn't have a mood for it, you say "Next". Only nexting can lead you to abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 12:48 PM
37

Mystery is the second oldest founder of pickup itself, most of the terms you use now have been crated by him and his partner Lovedrop, for example IOD, IOI, Negs, DHV,DLV, Preselection, Shit-test, HB 1-10 etc. etc. Search for his first book called "The Mystery Method: How to Get Beautiful Women Into Bed by Mystery". Also RSD Tyler and Neil Strauss (there is a book about PUAs called The Game) were kind of his students.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 09:45 AM
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Nexting.. I haven't met more efficient mechanism than that. Especially soft nexting.. they always come back. I used to use Mystery Method, then switched to RSD and after I found TRP, which is not so commercial as RSD and more honest. And have deeper research of feminism and nowadays trends.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 08:07 AM
2

NEXT.
/r/seduction24/06/19 12:58 PM
3

First of all, get to know yourself, what kind of person you are, what do you like, what are your behavioral patterns, what is your role in society, fill that gap. I'd start from MBTI test. It is a pretty accurate test, result is one of 16 personalities. Based on work of Carl Jung. Helped me a lot.
/r/seduction23/06/19 06:58 AM
1

Brother Jesus
/r/askTRP23/06/19 06:52 AM
1

Glad that it's helpfull.
/r/askTRP23/06/19 06:50 AM
1

Thanks man, hope it'll help.
/r/askTRP23/06/19 06:49 AM
2

3rd was about your inner game. See there is a thing "Every object you concentrated on too much, becomes not just an object but something deeper". If right now, for the sake of experiment we took one of the girls you hooked up with lately, and put the same concentration on her, she will become a princess in your eyes. I am just trying to show you how your own mind tricks you.
/r/askTRP22/06/19 08:45 AM
3

Rate her objectively in HB range. Find and hook up with a girl one point above her. Remember that women will eat you like a meat if you go too deep into "her mental and spiritual and behavioral and psycholgical construction was so pretty and beautiful like butterflies in the night while moon was shining".
/r/askTRP22/06/19 08:32 AM
9

Your mission is to find another HB8. Just one more. Plates don't work if you have a lot of HB5s and one HB8, because you will autimatically put her on pedestal.
/r/askTRP22/06/19 08:25 AM
0

There is no HB4 (hot babe 4). There is just 10/4. HB I guess starts from 6 or 7.
/r/askTRP22/06/19 08:21 AM
2

I like the points you wrote, but why you hard next them, you can just soft next them. I mean, don't you think that being offended by a girl is kind of a beta behaviour. I mean "delete" them but blocking is kind if a victim behaviour, if you understand what I mean.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/19 06:08 AM
1

It is better now I guess, in terms of free sex, but also men need survival skills as hell. Women will lead civilization to chaos, as their nature wants. On the other hand, it'd be extremely interesting.
/r/askTRP22/06/19 05:56 AM
6

I want them, but I don’t need them — so if I have a chance with them that’s nice, if I don’t it’s fine, I’ll do other stuff. Key moment!
/r/seduction20/06/19 07:33 AM
1

She just wanted to keep you only for herself untill you fuck.
/r/askTRP19/06/19 09:19 AM
0

Dude, you haven't noticed, but eventually you developped a correct frame. Look for a frame definition in NLP. It is hard to get the correct frame without experience, or you should have very good imagination. Be yourself means pull them to your comfort zone. You like to be shaved for example, but everyone like beards now, doesn't matter, demonstrate you don't give a shit and you like to be shaved, and that is you, your authentic character, this moment.
/r/askTRP19/06/19 09:07 AM
5

Keep us updated.
/r/seduction17/06/19 10:42 PM
1

Hey, thanks a lot for advice. About my own style, I found really convenient to use dark humour. But in some situations it seems kind of creepy. So I should probably find something that is not dark but also close to me.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 03:55 PM
2

MBTI judgemental type. I'd soft next her but let her come back. She won't have another choice and will come back eventually (this strong independent woman). After 3rd or 4rth time she will be like a puppy, if you have patience for that kind a game.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/19 02:38 PM
1

It is all started from NLP in 70s. Basically, what you described is Reframing. I mean you can change it however you want if you find more efficient ways. The method you used is basically NLP, that is what I meant.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/19 06:40 AM
1

Yeah, be as subtle as possible, and never reveal your intentions and desires.. later to fall into the deep friendzone. Especially using Tinder.
/r/seduction13/06/19 01:59 PM
-1

"Intriguing.. let's have an eating contest, loser does anything winner wants" "Actually.. wanna feel your capacity" "So you basically saying.. you can handle big things" And continue in this flirty, sexual manner.
/r/seduction13/06/19 07:11 AM
1

Simple as fuck: maintain eye contact
/r/seduction13/06/19 07:00 AM
2

She wanna be sure that dated a valuable man. If you date someone now, after her, she will know that you are valuable.
/r/seduction13/06/19 06:56 AM
4

Hey, I know thay "Models" can be kind of an authority to you, also the therapist, also Reddit etc. But I want to tell you, what if I say that all they are just people with subjective interpretations, and you must take only what fits you. There is no right or wrong, in all this cosmic neutral world. Nature and existence are the only truth. What about Models theory, I, for example, have chosen not to blame anyone, even myself. If a girl doesn't like me, I don't blame her, but I don't blame me eith…
/r/seduction13/06/19 06:51 AM
5

if I don't fuck up texting You won't, you made this strong eye contact, you kind of touched her soul. She won't forget it. Just don't text her much. Assume she is already into you, but you both want something in real, not virtual. Keep it simple, stupid.
/r/seduction13/06/19 06:38 AM
1

Better fucking than masturbation. So if you are doing nofap, yes, better 4 than wanking.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 07:53 AM
1

Soft next, you show a little bit of a dissapointment and just go away find another girl. Some time ago the first one can come back with a suggestion to drink some coffee. Underlying intention is.. to meet you to claim your friendzone again. You reject saying you are going out with a girl or gf today. That moment, she understands that you have some value, and game changes a little bit. I mean you can reverse things but it is hard to do and not worth.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 06:04 AM
1

Her being disrespectful must not turn you mad or annoyed or offended. It is a beta male behaviour.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 06:16 AM
1

I think you like the situation because of subconcious competition between males. And that is okay, but realize it, calm down your ego, and make her dislike you.... You can't do that though, because you have gone too far already. Negged her, and that worked. You gave her a lot of IODs and she is completely into you. You make her think you are an alfa male, and you don't really give a shit about her. You did everything like by a trp or any PUA textbook. After all this, what do you really want man?
/r/askTRP07/06/19 10:11 PM
2

Be more authentic just slightly using red pill methods.
/r/askTRP07/06/19 08:55 AM
4

Maybe it could be done using a self-esteem raising type of website. Not sure the subject of that kind of a website though.
/r/askTRP07/06/19 08:53 AM
1

Oh, failed too many times to not know it. Solution is very simple, you have to keep in mind the following statement "Yes I want to bang you, yes I want you and I am not hiding it. I am honest with you. If you want someone more friendly (in a friendly conversation way), go meet your beta loyal orbiters.". Boom! Always assume that if she feels your desire, she will want it to happen in return. Because she will get wet. Main non-verbal part is eye-contact in a manner like she is a miracle and you w…
/r/askTRP07/06/19 08:51 AM
1

Yeah, NLP is our everything.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/19 06:43 AM
8

In the past I failed some situations by hard-nexting instead of soft-nexting. The idea is when you next her, you close the door in front of her nose, but you must open the small window to let her make effort and get in. Now I don't next saying bad words or showing that I am offended by her behaviour. I show a little bit dissapointment, but friendly, like nothing big happened, and they always come back.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/19 06:06 AM
15

Not sure I can use booger thing in my country, it sounds nasty. Eye contact is mastered, but still not enaugh risk to approach. Maybe I should start from just "hi".
/r/TheRedPill04/06/19 06:48 AM
1

You subconciously think there are not many girls to find, or you don't have many opportunities to find them. It is the last part of oneitis mindset, you will be good soon.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 01:02 PM
2

Just replace masturbation with sex. Step by step.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 12:59 PM
1

It is not a fair game here. That is why I wouldn't recommend you to get deeper into this. But surprisingly it is an oven where alfa males being baked. If you are interested anyway, read the pinned post and the sidebar.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 05:56 PM
1

Nexting, nexting is the only solution to it. If something goes wrong, not comfortable etc. Just say "Next" to yourself and go further. To the next target.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 07:00 AM
1

Oneitis comes deeply from treating women like your mother. Mother cannot be changed, replaced, nexted. So every guy who has a mother had oneitis at some point. It is a fear to not meet her expectations, to lose her etc.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 06:56 AM
1

Good material to experiment. Start to show her your attraction, your desire. Start from eye-contact. Look continuosly into her eyes, showing you want her, but try to be not creepy, do it relaxed.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 06:53 AM
1

Seems like an INTJ if MBTI classified. Maybe from reach family. I can think he is tall. Wear mostly shirts or something else classic, and always the same black/white colors. Intellectualizes everything, always can tell what is optimum to do in the situation. Can give a good advice, but too detached. Can do repetative, boring tasks very well and never complain.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 06:47 AM
1

I guess, in this thread, monogamy is always not a big deal. But you said it correct, if you respect someone, you don't go to dates with exes.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 06:34 AM
1

"Keeping things casual" what do you mean? And you consider her as an LTR or a Plate? Are you ready to next her if things go wrong?
/r/askTRP02/06/19 06:30 AM
1

Yeah, perfectly said, I went through the same path, understanding that oneitis is more about me than the girl took 5 years of me (I didn't know about pickup anything). Being authentic was my second biggest steps towards success. I can describe it like "pull her to your comforts zone instead of being pushed to her's". About abundance, I personally think the key here is nexting. After 50-th nexted girl you realize that there are lots of them. Understanding that there is no quantity or quality. I c…
/r/seduction01/06/19 05:04 PM
1

Visioning, strategy and leadership start from a vision. Also an important thing to understand in difference between stratrgy and tactics is this: in tactics you act from A to B in strategy you Develop the situation untill it reaches the point you wanted.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 06:04 AM
3

I feel you want to make her a plate.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 05:56 AM
11

Go sit by her eating some chocolate. You will be surprised by her reaction.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 05:54 AM
3

I'd advice to soft next her. Because you have pretty much deep emotions here. But if you dive in, you would learn how to control you emotional state. Just think how to get more sexual with her.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 05:51 AM
2

See the same thing everywhere, even in public transport, when a girl above 6, 7 dudes try to give her a seat. And then smile to each other letting them know "you see, she chose my seat.. I am alfa here".
/r/askTRP31/05/19 05:41 AM
1

Well, she did it because she is a plate. And she knows, she feels, that she is a plate, not an LTR. I am not sure about how good idea to change status from plate to something serious. What about disrespect. It is not a disrespect, personally, I think it is not even a shit-test, she just wanted to check how committed you were. Or maybe it is a shit-test, who knows.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 07:30 AM
1

What is you vision of your life after you changed your career? What do you want? Wanna fuck a lot of chicks, good for you. But define for yourself a lifestyle you wanna live.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 01:01 PM
1

Buy a shocker. It is an efficient weapon. But I would suggest to make a proactive move. Call or go talk with that guys saying that it just didn't work out and in your world men and women are equal, noone uses noone, "you conservative shits". Courage always wins.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 07:05 AM
1

There is an interesting method dealing with this. So the process flow is like this in action: you see a beautiful girl on the street and think "I am not good enaugh..", your nervous system acquires a lot of tension that moment, and you are just paralized. The same happens when you train martial arts and have to hit someone in the face. It happens because you know that you will destroy something and you don't know what comes next. In seduction is the same, as soon as you got that girl, you will d…
/r/seduction28/05/19 06:45 AM
13

You can still do all the listed, but also do Red Pill stuff. These seduction technics (included The Red Pill) are not about not doing things, but mostly about doing other things you didn't do over time. So, first of all, they are about experimenting. Not deprevating. For example I intentionaly broke every single rule of MM, TRP, RSD to see what happens. And I do it again and again because I don't want to narrow down my behavioral options. I don't want to be afraid of failure. And you know what, …
/r/askTRP27/05/19 12:00 PM
4

The moment she asked about it her status has been changed from LTR to Plate for spinning. With no return.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 08:41 AM
-2

Act like she said nothing about her boyfriend. You are a guy and she's a girl, you want each other. And everything must lead to sex. That is the way to overcome shit-tests like this.
/r/seduction27/05/19 06:30 AM
1

Women must not affect your success. Sure you can allow them to encaurage you, and then just leave and make your life shitty. As Buddha said "There is no disappointment when you have no expectations". You are a hunter, with or without women.
/r/askTRP26/05/19 01:55 PM
7

Don't be afraid of failure. Do it intentionally sometimes. You are not confident because your non-confidence is not intentional. Approach a girl and say "I am extremely unconfident and shy, but even that couldn't stop me to approach you..". I will leave a quote here. “Like everyone else, you want to learn the way to win, but never to accept the way to lose, to accept defeat, to learn to die is to be liberated from it. So when tomorrow comes, you must free your ambitious mind, and learn the art o…
/r/askTRP26/05/19 05:35 AM
1

You did correct. She is not a child, she made her choice and it is her responsibility to get over with the result. Let her know that, to stop be a child. Basically her underlying idea is "I want you to fight for me, as I can friendzone you, and you will be my slave, hoping that one day you can bang me, but that will never happen, and I will receive your attention forever".
/r/askTRP26/05/19 05:11 AM
7

IDGAF, in my opinion can give you that. I couldn't express anything untill I learnt the "NEXT.." attitude. In social situations you are not an action hero, if you are not getting satisfying results, change the scene/girl/plate/wing/method. What will it give you? Social intuition as it comes only when you have enaugh comparison and comparison comes to you when you change situations quickly. I am not saying about escaping but when your stress level rises you brain won't get enaugh oxygen to give y…
/r/askTRP26/05/19 04:57 AM
1

I know that most people don't quite much like Mystery in TRP but he said a good thing that is related to this situation "if you control frame, you can break any rules and the game will still work". Not word by word, but the idea.
/r/askTRP25/05/19 10:13 PM
8

I guess you are a smart introvert who can predict people's behaviour. In that case you always look for a riddle to solve. And when it is solved, it is not interesting anymore. Solution is to accept it and move forward meeting other people. Accept your authentic mindset.
/r/askTRP25/05/19 05:59 AM
1

Did you know that statistically rich people get most female orgasms regardless of size of their dick? It is because of their status. I am not saying you have to become rich. But forget about dick size and concentrate on inner game and outter game improvement. You shoud accept yourself as you are, as nature made you. We are just another animal kind, made by nature filling the forests.
/r/askTRP25/05/19 05:56 AM
2

Getting sex is easier than getting other achievements. Sex is both an achievement and an entertainment, nothing less, nothing more. But what is more important, to feel yourself self-sufficient. This book "Power Of Now" can give a better understanding of what people really want.
/r/seduction24/05/19 11:39 AM
9

I know you don't want to dump her as now you don't have another plate to spin (not a branch to swing). But you really need to understand that even if you fix this, it'll repeat soon. So here is the list what you can do to make easier your breakup, but do it immediately after you ghosted her: Register on Tinder or/and othet dating platforms and start swiping. Remember all the girls you dated or you were going to date and see if you can call someone out. Go to some trip (not disneyland). Some hiki…
/r/askTRP24/05/19 05:37 AM
5

Am I correct? BDE - Big Dick Energy RP - just Red Pill principles (I got confused because I thought it must be TRP)
/r/askTRP22/05/19 07:19 AM
7

Okay okay man
/r/askTRP22/05/19 06:57 AM
12

Wow, okay sensei.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 06:49 AM
7

Ok, I tried to use the sidebar, found the glossary but couldn't find there any BDE or RP.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 06:44 AM
9

Ok, I went to the glossary, but couldn't find BDE or RP. Can you just say what am I looking for?
/r/askTRP22/05/19 06:42 AM
-2

Please elaborate. For dummies. How to use sidebar and why to use it?
/r/askTRP22/05/19 06:18 AM
3

Resting Penis?
/r/askTRP22/05/19 05:10 AM
6

Hey, what are BDE and RP principles? I just tried to research, couldn't find much.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 04:35 AM
1

At some point you will find your trigger. I can share what I've found for myself in PM if you want. But it is individual solution mostly.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 08:09 PM
2

I personally wouldn't start LTR, but it is still good.
/r/seduction21/05/19 06:36 AM
5

Arya Stark, is that you?
/r/seduction21/05/19 06:34 AM
5

Well if they are not in LTR, most of the time, they are intensively in hookups.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 06:08 AM
2

IOD for IOD is a good solution almost always. But this is not that case. I would rather act understanding than give IOD. I would play "our private secret" card instead of punishing her. But it depends, if she said it out loud, to show all the present people that she can shout at you, you better go hard on that.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 10:00 PM
1

Sometimes you gotta do something just as you do job. Because sometimes, appetite comes with eating. But what you described is very much like depression because of feeling guilty. Like "I don't deserve it".
/r/askTRP20/05/19 09:36 PM
2

It is mostly because of overestimating sex. Sex can be deep emotional, spiritual thing but it also can be just an entertainment, like drinking wine. So it is meaningless to have expectations of something deep in your mind, untill it happens in reality.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 01:45 PM
1

I had the same when I was 30. You are just 22 and you already know what to do. What you must do. So be calm. But I would recommend you to understand more about yourself. Your the most authentic version. For the starting pass MBTI test.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 01:18 PM
3

Ok, see, don't be afraid to show her your attraction. It is an alfa treat. From the very first moment you show you want her. Directly and honest. But the underlying idea must be following: yes, I want you, but if you don't want this to happen, it is fine too, there are a lot of other girls. The same in texting, you text her, showing your attaction honestly, enjoying it, if you see she is not answering, or started "ok", "yeah", "nope" thing, you just immediately stop texting her, untill she comes…
/r/askTRP20/05/19 04:41 AM
3

I just read previous comments and understood your problem actually. Are you afraid of showing her your attraction and therefore loosing your value?
/r/askTRP19/05/19 06:39 AM
1

Don't ask for a date. If you like texting, lead her to the point when she starts giving hints of date. And just say something like "let's drink some wine together one of these nights".
/r/askTRP18/05/19 10:17 PM
1

Well I saw a guy who was acting shy and having sex with a lot of pretty girls. Wouldn't say he was really shy, but he was good at acting.
/r/askTRP18/05/19 10:13 PM
2

Read about shit-tests. Read a lot about it and also TRP beginner's guide several times. Please. And get the hell out that place and from her life. Even if it was your condom...
/r/askTRP18/05/19 10:07 PM
3

The term I used is just for describing the key idea, or key behavoral tactics which will bring you to a good game. Let's take a mechanism and analyize it. For example a gun, it has a lot of mechanical units which help the gun to shoot. But there is one part which initiates whole the process - trigger. Saying cornerstone I meant the trigger which helps you to initiate everything you learnt in all this pua stuff.
/r/askTRP18/05/19 09:43 PM
1

I will come from general. It is a feeling of quantity over a single target. Feel the field, not just one girl, and always keep that feeling. You always play with the field, not with a single girl. From this perspective you will never be needy.
/r/askTRP18/05/19 09:38 PM
2

I had the same thing, not with body shape, but the cornerstone strategy I've found for myself after a lot of experimenting. I couldn't get used to that kind of efficiency and success. But after some quantity and proving myself that "all this is real", it became a part of me. I think it is just a matter of your brain to get used to the new reality. Brain sometimes has it's own "getting used to" strategy and timeline. So I think after 50th hot girl attention you will be okay. The aim is to convinc…
/r/askTRP18/05/19 06:09 AM
1

Sure. But if you haven't had sex, it is better to aim sex now. Because it is obvious she wants to know you more without romantic relationships. She shit-tested you actually. I don't know how you responded, but thesys is always must be the same from your side "I like you, but if it doesn't work, it is okay too, there are a lot of other people I can meet."
/r/seduction18/05/19 05:32 AM
1

There are some variations of "I have a boyfriend" and this one most probably not your mentioned variation. Because it is obvious this dude have a good social intuition.
/r/seduction18/05/19 05:25 AM
1

There are some variations of "I have a boyfriend" and this one most probably not your mentioned variation. Because it is obvious this dude have a good social intuition.
/r/seduction18/05/19 05:25 AM
1

There are some variations of "I have a boyfriend" and this one most probably not your mentioned variation. Because it is obvious this dude have a good social intuition.
/r/seduction18/05/19 05:25 AM
1

There are some variations of "I have a boyfriend" and this one most probably not your mentioned variation. Because it is obvious this dude have a good social intuition.
/r/seduction18/05/19 05:24 AM
1

There are some variations of "I have a boyfriend" and this one most probably not your mentioned variation. Because it is obvious this dude have a good social intuition.
/r/seduction18/05/19 05:24 AM
1

There are some variations of "I have a boyfriend" and this one most probably not your mentioned variation. Because it is obvious this dude have a good social intuition.
/r/seduction18/05/19 05:24 AM
0

If she is not interested yet. Stare at her even if she isn't looking at you. They have a good periferic vision. You will notice when she realizes you look at her. When she realize, pull away your stare. She will be thinking like "I felt interest from this side, let's take a look what there is". She sees you and you don't look at her when she turns to you. Allow her to examine you freely. Give her a ticket. She will be thinking "hmm, I looked to long at him.. phone, where is my phone? Ah there it…
/r/seduction17/05/19 06:11 AM
1

MBTI fan here. Si is very much like -Introverted Sensing.
/r/seduction17/05/19 05:56 AM
1

Yeah, even sometimes you have to learn to know how to be honest and authenthic.
/r/seduction17/05/19 05:51 AM
2

He is talking about the good inner game. And he is right. You live your life, doing your job, going to some places to eat or drink coffee and meeting your friends sometimes. So in all this you definately will meet different girls. And if your inner game is good, girls will be into you. Sure you will have to do a step to make it happen, but you will see wide, interested eyes, looks full of desire.
/r/seduction17/05/19 05:43 AM
5

"At first, don't show your attraction if you want to have sex with her." Let me ask you a question, how is she supposed to know, she can play your game? You are not a rockstar. Not a millionaire. You don't have social proof right now. I failed on this a lot of times, not showing attraction leads directly to friendzone. Sure you should play like this "I am attracted to you, but if you are gone, it will be okay too."
/r/seduction17/05/19 05:36 AM
2

Overcome my own borders. I like freedom.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 08:53 AM
0

Wow, that is really hard. See girl to have sex with you must get a feeling of confidence that you are not a psychopath or trafficing criminal. So you have to go with her drinking coffee or any other public place first. After you go somewhere alone and your target is to get to a kiss. After the kiss, you show her you want het, but not like harrasment or so. Eye contact, words, describing emotions etc. If it went well, it is possible you have sex with her on the first date somewhere in the park. B…
/r/askTRP15/05/19 02:20 PM
0

Didn't get the question.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 12:13 PM
1

Just don't be afraid to look awkward, it will happen almost every time in the beginning. Be cool with awkwardness. She will be awkward too, so you can both laugh at it.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 11:15 AM
2

Once I saw a documentary about deep-sea octopuses. So when a male couldn't reach the female, he pretended he is a female and passed through another masculine male, which was bigger and stronger than him. So the masculine one thought he had two females, but he was wrong, our main character had sex with the female and went away like nothing happened. So the narrator explained that female chooses the following: either the strongest male or the smartest male (smartest in terms of getting or creating…
/r/askTRP15/05/19 11:04 AM
1

Any..TL;DR ? No? Okay.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 10:49 AM
1

That is for sure, money is status too and provide good inner game. But you want to keep simplicity right. Through this principle you better know what is for what without adding additional logic to it. I personally treat seduction as a craft more than an art.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 07:59 PM
3

Bruce Lee burns..
/r/seduction13/05/19 09:44 PM
3

Your brain doesn't know what will happen next, so you prefer doing nothing to stay in the comfort zone. Warmup means going out and talk to different people. Better girls but can be whoever is possible. Counts everything, starting from functional approaches like "how to reach the place", "where is the nearest burger place", "where did you buy your dress, I wanna buy the same one for my gf" etc.
/r/seduction13/05/19 01:10 PM
1

I know, I have done that too when I was younger lol. Yeah, money is only for good logistics. Keep it all stupid simple. You don't have to overcomplicate things to get shit done.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 07:12 AM
16

It is all right. You know that man's sexual market value raises in his middle 30s and raises to the end of his life. Go to another 11 dates. Just dates, and you have just one task: maintain eye contact. You can do that, right? Just one thing. Look at her like you are in love, or like she is a miracle.
/r/seduction13/05/19 07:00 AM
3

Yess, except of money. Without money you can't have good logistics. You won't have sex with her in the park right? Or would you?
/r/askTRP13/05/19 06:54 AM
1

You can reproduce it seeing someone who is doing it. As a primate type, we humans can reproduce any behavior. But I wouldn't recommend you do that if it is not naturally close to you. There are a lot of different ways of flirting. Choose one which is closer to your kung-fu style. Sometimes not flirting is also flirting. Start with the opposite tactics.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 06:43 AM
1

In these cases you should learn the art of "next..". There are no failures, there is only experience.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 06:38 AM
6

Looks - it is just for you, you to feel confident. Money - is for good logistics only (e.g. renting a nice place) Status - again it is for you only. I saw a lot of bartenders and poor writers who had another pretty girl every night.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 06:35 AM
5

Just a quote: "Keep it stupid simple. Approach and stay". Good luck.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 06:29 AM
2

Always "spin plates" in these cases. When you meet difficulty with a girl, go with next, untill you understand why these difficulties appear.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 06:27 AM
1

The main question is "are you ready to just pass the 10/10 if she is not interested in you at all?". You should be ready, and that thought will lead you to a really good game. See the principle is that you always play with a field not with a specific target. Flaking depends on many factors but two things, while you approach, make probability of flaking less: sense of humour and honest deep attraction. Elaborating the second one: most of the girls look for "real" attraction, if you can show that,…
/r/askTRP13/05/19 06:23 AM
-1

In all these cases, forget about how atteactive she is and ask yourself a question "what should I do to make het attracted to me?". And intuitively do whatever your body dictates according the target. If it is done correct, you will feel kind of a connection.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 06:11 AM
6

Actually, no, but if it went not very much okay, you can anways blame warmup. But if serious, sometimes you can even have this right alfa mind state, but your energy doesn't attract women yet. That is when warmup is good.
/r/seduction12/05/19 08:06 PM
5

I guess that can happen to anyone without warmup.
/r/seduction12/05/19 03:37 PM
1

Try to play with people's emotions. Connect to them. Ask yourself a question "What does she really want?".
/r/seduction12/05/19 03:34 PM
1

Direct opener will serve you the best I guess. "I saw you last time and promised myself to talk with you and invite you to have a coffee break.. what do you say?...Whew, I am not always that quick"
/r/seduction12/05/19 03:31 PM
3

What do you do when you see an attractive girl but she can't see you? How you look at her? Yeah, you look at her like she is a miracle. Learn to do the same when she can see you, and you will get results.
/r/seduction09/05/19 07:48 AM
3

YouTube stuff mostly, like eath healthy food, do workout, think about pussies etc. All these kind of advices never touch the core, they are on the surface of your motivation scheme. Figure out mostly these kind of questions: why am I doing this? Who am I overall? What is my role in society? What do I really want (it is not about your specialization)? How real and tengible is my target?
/r/askTRP08/05/19 06:57 AM
1

Shit-test man, underlying message is "Saying you are my now, and future, I mean you have to compete with my ex. Show as much effort as you can to make me feel better. But after you achieve it, I will dump you and return to my ex (most probably)." What she really wants is this "I would like you to show that you don't want to please me. I would like you to show that you want me, but if I say no, you will be laid back and switch interest to another object. And that would make me chase you."
/r/askTRP05/05/19 10:25 AM
2

You are a genius man!
/r/askTRP05/05/19 10:16 AM
2

Unhappiness mostly comes from wrong type of motivation. If you solve the problem with motivation you will be happy in any field, no matter how close it to you. And don't try to solve motivation problem by conventional ways.
/r/askTRP04/05/19 07:17 AM
1

Use your innocent appearance as an adventage. Next time you are with a girl say "you know I am a virgin, haven't had sex ever". And see what will happen. Target romantic/nerdy/gamer/adventurous girls mostly.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 09:24 AM
1

Kung-fu man, start from Tai Chi for better understanding "inner efforts".
/r/askTRP30/04/19 08:20 AM
1

Pushing means, creatively developing and maintaining interest man. I don't know what you understood under "pushing". You don't get sex, you develop the situation until it reaches sex. That's what I was trying to say.
/r/seduction30/04/19 08:09 AM
2

It works but only if you show subtle attraction to her from the very beginning. Imagine this kind of scenario: you meet a girl and she is cute as hell, and you stare at her like she is a miracle (in a good way, not like a predator). Now imagine the same situation from her point of view. She feels that you are honestly attracted to her. Not hiding your attraction is the best way to show that you are a strong male. Basically it is an alfa male treat. This approach works every time if done correct,…
/r/seduction28/04/19 10:03 PM
2

See your levels are correct. I am just saying that you can leave some space to be creative. It is obvious that you need to do a lot between these levels. My approach is mostly intuitive, and the important thing is that closing the deal is not the target but the result of your overall tactics. You push untill it happens. So putting the kiss as the last point makes you more natural.
/r/seduction28/04/19 09:50 PM
2

Liked the levels. Usually I simplify them: 0 level - she doesn't know you in any way 1 level - contact established 2 level - kiss At this point I consider game is already won. Kiss is the apex. After this point everything else is just the force of gravity. What is happening between these points depends on your creativity.
/r/seduction28/04/19 09:36 PM
3

It is not abundance if you don't have another 9.5 to spin plates yet.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 08:01 PM
1

Keyword: Tinder
/r/seduction23/04/19 04:47 AM
3

Got tired of these advertising posts.
/r/seduction20/04/19 04:18 AM
0

I like your report, whatever moderator says. All the points are correct. I would add something guys need to know and related to your post: showing honest attraction to a girl can bring you more success than any deceptive technic.
/r/seduction18/04/19 07:55 AM
1

If you want to shoot straight - shoot slow. Slowly pulling the trigger. That is what you did, and now you just can't believe your eyes.
/r/seduction14/04/19 07:35 AM
3

Try to understand yourself, and... Just kidding. It is just about your self-esteem. You will probably say "no it not about self-esteem, I really loved her." etc. But it is. Your task is to find ways to raise your self-esteem.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 06:50 AM
2

You touched one of the core aspects. In any.. type of communication.
/r/seduction07/04/19 05:57 AM
2

You just passed throught the "first phase of interacting with woman". Doing something you think is right, but never feeling what she really wants. Almost every successfull guy passes through that. You should try other girls, but quickly, about 5-6 different girls.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 07:17 AM
2

" Yeah. I'll let you know when to come by" This could be written when you have already banged her. If it is the first time and she made a move, you should show "equal" interest. Not disinterest while she is interested. You just punished her for her interest and willingness. You basically banged her ego. But it is not a lethal mistake. You can now go with "Hey, I had a little headache yesterday (that day), what about a coffee today" it will show that you had an objective reason of "being cold". 4…
/r/askTRP01/04/19 10:05 AM
1

Have the same problem. I think it is because of two variables she is the hottest + she doesn't give as much attention to you as you want. ​ I personally found the solution in detecting her interest: you feel that she is not quite much interested you do several attempts to gain her interest (including giving her IOIs or negs, IOD etc. ) you detect if you gained her interest or not if not, just do nothing, stay where you are and do nothing, and detect if she wants to communicate with you as a frie…
/r/askTRP01/04/19 09:30 AM
0

It is not about any of this, if it is not religion thing, then it is money.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 08:07 AM
1

Omg, I am saving this.
/r/seduction30/03/19 07:57 AM
-4

I get the same result demonstrating non-confidence, shimmering low voice, almost every girl in the room turn interest to me, because I seem different. But later when you are talking with some girl already, you have to look directly into her eyes, with a relaxed attitude. When you are cocky, you belong to everyone, when you are non-confident, you are only hers.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 07:08 AM
2

A technical question, does anyone know what is the mindmap tool used in the video? A really good one.
/r/seduction20/02/19 07:03 AM
2

All the things listed in the video are results not causes. The cause is just one "scarcity mindset". If there are no any other pretty woman who likes you, you will be always clinging to the last plant, while you are falling into the abyss.
/r/seduction20/02/19 06:41 AM
1

Thanks man. Sometimes it still feels like shit when I think about it. I really liked that girl.
/r/seduction03/02/19 08:07 AM
9

You can write amazing stories bro. Use that talent.
/r/seduction03/02/19 08:03 AM
3

Great post. I have passed through every single one of the reasons. Sometimes even I could break some of them changing girl's beliefs about friendship etc. But it is a hard way (not worth in the timeline). All this shit was over when a girl friendzoned me told me how she hooked up with another guy and surprisingly I asked for details. She told that he kissed her but were trying to get under her pants during all the first date, but she refused. So she goes home lays in the bed and starts to think …
/r/seduction02/02/19 06:51 AM
1

Thanks, great hint.
/r/seduction19/01/19 07:55 AM
1

Stop telling about yourself. Stop updating about events of your life. If someone asks you about anything particular, just give vague answers. The problem is your identity. Your mind created an identity of a supernice guy. The trick is to see your identity from the side. Stop telling stories about yourself to you. Be vague and unpredictable for yourself.
/r/seduction14/01/19 07:31 PM
1

I can even make an addition. Every person has a blindspot, so noone is confident. All we are scared monkeys in this infinite universe. So they put themselves on a pedestal, compared to somebody else. I have had 3 girls 8-9 range. And all they were as inconfident as penguins, they were just disguising it at first.
/r/seduction08/01/19 08:05 AM
1

It is a good advice, but there is a nuance. It is long but I recommend you to read, it is a standart situation with beautiful low energy girls. Imagine this situation you see a low energy girl, you look at her, deep into her eyes, and she notices your sight. She tries to not look at you but she felt interest to her from you. After you just take away your attention from her to anyone else. She starts to look at you, because now she can, you look at something else. She thinks "Okay, this guy is ki…
/r/seduction03/01/19 08:09 AM
3

"A beautiful woman is an ugly woman in a beautiful skin"
/r/seduction02/01/19 07:45 AM
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Set your house... bla bla bla bla
/r/seduction29/12/18 11:56 AM
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Yes, if you want to go deep into spiritual stuff.
/r/seduction28/12/18 04:21 PM
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.."especially for guys to realize that they are more than just their logical mind." Reminds me of "Power of now"
/r/seduction28/12/18 07:43 AM
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Sorry😂
/r/seduction27/12/18 07:21 AM
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No, no, see if you go there just friendly, she will never feel herself desired. To let her know that she is desired is always the first step. So to let her know that she can be involved in game. After you can just pull that bait to you to make her come, but it is another story. This came from a lot of mistakes I did and I heard guys did. Especially PUA brainwashed guys try to not show desire to gain value, but they don't realize that value is gained not by acting just friendly. The funny thing I…
/r/seduction27/12/18 06:15 AM
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Hey man, congrats, it was a really heart thrilling story and experience, thanks for sharing. Imagine if you try this with 9 more girls. And then with 50 more. And then with 100 more. Feel it? Predator feeling.
/r/seduction26/12/18 08:00 AM
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Shy or not shy, you want or don't want, he wants or doesn't want, anyway at some point you should be honest with him. Because being honest is always the next step in people's interactions. Probably he would be dissapointed, not because he is shy or something else, but because he already has expectations, it is obvious from what you told. What do you offer to him? Being used? Emotionally used and thrown away? Because, probably he wants a relationship, not just a game. So, I think he will run away…
/r/seduction23/12/18 07:54 AM
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Dude it is easier than you think "Just put under the question everyone, challenge everyone. Who they really are? What habits do they have? Are they really gods?"
/r/seduction19/12/18 06:44 AM
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Don't be afraid to show her desire. Remember that women hardwired to switch on, when they see they are desired. Look to the both eyes continuosly. Calm and deep. Sometimes look to another way, to make her want you to look at her again. Find out your own intuitive ways to show her your desire. It is like a chessgame "If you win - you will learn something, if you lose - you will learn lot more". It means that you should be risk taking, experimenting. You can be brave. You are alive, enjoy it!
/r/seduction19/12/18 06:39 AM
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English is not my native but I wi try. Just show them that you want them sexually, to show it in a genuine way you have to pretend that she is so attractive that your sexual desire got over your rational mind.
/r/seduction15/12/18 10:30 AM
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See, the thing is not about staring. You should look in both eyes continuosly, not like staring to one eye like cyclop or something. The best approach to look in the eyes is following "looking as if you want to figure out color of her eyes". I have a lot of friend girls and I was discussing it with every single one of them. And every single one says that "real eye contact with a guy is an outstanding experience". Sometimes I even think that "all the seduction starts from the eye contact". It is …
/r/seduction14/12/18 05:02 AM
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It is another test. I personally prefer mbti types, let me give you a link. https://www.16personalities.com
/r/seduction13/12/18 03:01 PM
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Are you an ISTP? It is really impressive how you put all the gears to their places.
/r/seduction13/12/18 09:15 AM
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Wow, good job, I couldn't do that. Sociophoby.
/r/seduction10/12/18 02:11 PM
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Her place is better, in any case
/r/seduction09/12/18 07:44 AM
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It is simple. It is not about interest or disinterest. It is the main key of seduction - honesty. When you hunt women, you are not honest to them, because you think that, if you want something you must act in some way. On the other hand when you don't hunt, you just more honest with them, you want her, you show you want her and vice versa. So the challange is to go hunting, but be honest.
/r/seduction02/12/18 07:48 AM
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Time Anxiety
/r/seduction27/11/18 07:16 AM
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You both try MBTI test. That will give some hints about your personality types. From my experience (30 m) with girls almost 10 years difference I can say that by age guys become less playful, while girls your age are absolute players. That means that if everything is okay you would be bored, so you start to pull wires every time. Just try to not do everything by the textbook "if he is in a bad mood send nude photos". No try to really understand him, maybe it is his game, maybe he does it to make…
/r/seduction26/11/18 08:25 AM
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Umm, english is not my native, I'll try to simplify. When you want someone really strong, you can't control your behavior. You can show that she is so hot that you can't fully control yourself. And you honestly show your desire.
/r/seduction24/11/18 11:05 PM
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Ok another task for you: intentionally get akward with another girl you are talking to. Try to get that feeling of awkwardness. Dont be afraid, it is one of your parts.
/r/seduction24/11/18 09:19 AM
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Just call her out whenever you feel that answers get dull. Or tease her, or get sexual. Get into flirty sexual conversation like "i dont like compliments much... buy sometimes I give some accidantely ... in some situations... when I cant control myself". And shit like this. You will see how soon she will be ignited. But anyway texting is just for calling her out.
/r/seduction24/11/18 08:36 AM
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Yeah this is the last breakpoint.
/r/seduction24/11/18 08:14 AM
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Dude it is easier than you think. Let's do it more naturally, not pickup (it is basically pickup, but more natural approach). First show her this "I am the victim of my desire to you". It is naturally in you, you just have to summon it. Sparkling eyes, warm feeling in guts. Second, think about sex while you interact with any girl you attracted to. This taughts may seem to you not natural at first. But they are more natural than basic PUA approach like "think about strategy, think about strategy"…
/r/seduction24/11/18 08:12 AM
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No, I tried, it doesnt work if you dont show Desire. You must give them something, they wait for it. They have instincts. After you created some Attraction, showed value, you have to quickly show desire. Or even without DHV, just show desire, you basically play with their basic instincts. All women want to be Desired, in a dirty way. Just after that you can show Connection, not before. It is more natural game. But you will feel an interesting thing if you try it. I cant say what to not spoil it.
/r/seduction24/11/18 08:01 AM
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Yes, recently I had the same experience. She fucked with another guy on the second date. While we were meeting already 6 times. I was annihilated basically. I just removed her from my game. After I started to show them my desire. Look at a girl on the street and show that you want her. Pretend that you are a victim of your own desire. That worked for me.
/r/seduction24/11/18 07:54 AM
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If you look at the people who surround you, you will notice that there are extremely few people who leave their comfort zone and do things beyond it. But the person who does it constantly, grows very fast.
/r/seduction09/11/18 05:32 AM
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Yeah there is a famous quote "do one thing every day that scares you"
/r/seduction09/11/18 05:30 AM
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It is just starting man. 20s doesnt count. 20s are just an introduction. We are men and we are getting better by age. The most valuable thing in your age is that you learn 10x faster than anyone younger. Same thing you learn in 2 years in 20s you can learn in 2-3 months after 30. My advice is just go where your fear is. It is the fastest way to learn. For example every time I used to be scared asking woman about her past sexual experience. It was harsh to me when she was telling me about another…
/r/seduction09/11/18 04:46 AM
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Dude, you found a great thing. I realized the same. I can even develop your idea a little bit. When you start to put her on pedestal, you start to make mistakes and eventually spoil the game. On the other hand, how to overcome that thing? Well as we overcome anything - by calmly accepting it in ourselves. Kinda "Yeah I already put her on pedestal, I know I did, same thing every time, I know my habits.".
/r/seduction27/10/18 07:36 AM
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One interesting solution, every time you think about "her, the one.. her, unique.. her, intriguing.. her, enigmatic... her, horny... etc.", just imagine that you have $500K in your pocket right now, ready to be freely spent to anything. Are you still so much interested in her? Just think what you can do with all this resource, just imagine how many "Enigmatic women" you can meet on this path. ​ The core of this method is that "Men are hunters". The main instinctive priority for us is gaining res…
/r/seduction23/10/18 11:43 PM
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This one the best.
/r/seduction03/10/18 09:51 PM
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I will try that, I already decided. Thanks man.
/r/seduction02/10/18 09:40 PM
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Yeah, it can be really devastating relationship.
/r/seduction02/10/18 08:57 PM
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Omg dude, it was cool. Thanks a lot.
/r/seduction02/10/18 07:30 PM
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This happens all the time, with almost every guy. Ironically she is not a 10/10. After some time you will see that she is probably 7 or even 6. Just your inner emotional program does everything to make her "unique". That is okay. It is very similar to approach anxiety: you know that you are scared, your inner emotional mechanism says "run", but you already know that it is just your hormones, adrenaline etc. Same shit here, you know that it is not you, it is just your emotional hardwired program.
/r/seduction24/09/18 08:39 PM
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It is a good one.
/r/seduction22/09/18 06:31 AM
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Hey, where did you find this rule? I wanna read about it more.
/r/seduction21/09/18 06:15 AM
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Thanks man, if not your hint I wouldnt get what's going on. So basically I understood that sometimes you need to believe that "Yeah this hot girl can feel connection with me, yeah it is possible". And in any situation relared to anxiety about "She doesnt write to me" or something, remind onself that we are already in C2. And stop taking texting shit seriously. Now I am getting not very clear responses. About meeting etc. And I even think sometimes that it could be a situation to roll-back, back …
/r/seduction09/09/18 07:47 PM
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Hey man, I remember answers you gave in my last queston. So I fugured out that we are already in C2, so she doesn't feel the need of superactive conversation via chat. So my mystake was, as she is HB8, I couldnt even believe that I could lead through the A1-A3 and she feels Connection. So I just started to be more calm and laid back about her answering or not, or not investing into conversation. And she says like "As I already know you in real it is really seems distant to talk to you in chat". …
/r/seduction09/09/18 07:31 PM
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Yeah now I got it. Yeah it is becoming dating.
/r/seduction07/09/18 08:31 PM
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So you are saying basically to use texting, just as a logistic tool, to make appointments etc.?
/r/seduction07/09/18 03:11 PM
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So which are typical dating reactions and why? And what's the difference between one night stand thing and several time-bridges, and why it works like that? I would rather think that this is time-bridged game. But you said that this is not even a game, so what is this?
/r/seduction07/09/18 02:41 PM
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2017 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vnWJPjl-JJw
/r/seduction07/09/18 02:18 PM
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Oh sorry I misused the term Long Game, I didn't even know that specific term exists. Let me tell more about the situation. I meant it just going long, I mean after 4 dates we just started A3. It is pretty long actually, it is about 2nd week I am chasing her. And even though I could initiate 4 dates and I did a little too much kino at 3rd date. I tested kino and it halfway worked, but not enough to consider that it is A3. So I started to neg her and DHV and initiated 4th date, where I used BHRR m…
/r/seduction07/09/18 02:05 PM
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Nope it is a long game(cultural specifics), and I am not a master, and I care, thats why it goes so slow. But it is my second experience with a really hot one, so I dont want to quit, I want to stay in set, to gain as much experience as I can.
/r/seduction07/09/18 10:46 AM
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Oh man it is really hard, because it is not english :(
/r/seduction07/09/18 10:35 AM
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Thanks man. I know that this is a noob question actually. I had with her already 4 dates, but still this problem is continuing. And I do kino on dates, but it is extremely slow, because she is the person like that. And now I just don't want to spoil the text game. But anyway I know that I should not care and play her game. Yeah and you are right, there are a plenty of different guys trying to get her attention, I guess she's probably about HB8 something like that. And that's why I am so nervous …
/r/seduction07/09/18 10:35 AM
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Just can't get clear vision of situation, don't know how to test it out.
/r/seduction07/09/18 08:46 AM
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See, I do it, but I guess she plays kinda BHRR with me. Because I do the same. But I am not sure.
/r/seduction07/09/18 08:46 AM
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Pretty often, but I want her to do this as a rule of thumb. So she will know that to communicate with me she must to invest, I am not a character from Shakespeare's tragedies to monologue every time.
/r/seduction07/09/18 08:45 AM
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Yeah. Thanks man.
/r/seduction01/09/18 10:07 PM
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I guess the best option is to date the day after tomorrow. But yeah, I am not good at spending quality time by myself.
/r/seduction31/08/18 08:06 PM
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Hmm.. yeah could be a solution :D
/r/seduction31/08/18 11:45 AM
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Yeah, I realized several things, in order to reach target state: Maybe I should have one or two that comes always when I want (to be as plan B or C; with lowest compliance level) Schedule the date the day after tomorrow (they have time to prepare, mentally and physically; and compliance level is lower - because it seems safer) If possible, schedule the next date during the date Increase the qty of girls to 6 (try out, could be overwhelming, but I guess handleable)
/r/seduction31/08/18 08:59 AM
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You mean schedule the date during the date?
/r/seduction31/08/18 08:53 AM
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Ahaha. No see, I can organise myself. The question is how to have plan B plan C, and make it work if plan A goes wrong? Because some days I feel that neither of my plans work.
/r/seduction30/08/18 04:37 PM
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I gues I needed the term I will read about it. Thanks.
/r/seduction09/07/18 03:52 AM
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