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CMVuterine_blackmail/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:14 AM
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Everybody loses attraction, men or women. Contrary to what romcoms tell us, it is physiologically impossible to stay attracted to the same person. It's a lie. Making sure you're eating clean and healthy has no repercussions on whether you are attracted to someone or not. You should eat clean anyway, but that is not the point. Women lose attraction to men, men lose attraction to women. On a separate but related note, I have noticed that men who talk a lot about enjoying cunnilingus have small dic…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:20 AM
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Exactly! But people, still today, keep telling unsuccessful people to get hobbies to have more success in dating. So stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 05:59 PM
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I don't understand your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 08:30 PM
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A woman might have the exact same interests as you but still fell no genuine attraction towards you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 07:52 PM
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Having hobbies is only good for yourself, but it won't make you attractive. Whoever tells people to get hobbies to pull more men/women is detached from reality and pretty stupid. What the hell are hobbies going to do? If there is no attraction, you can't generate it through hobbies. An ugly man or an ugly woman won't magically generate attraction by having interesting hobbies. If you think about it, "get hobbies" is not only useless advice but it stems from the just-world-fallacy. People refuse …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 07:51 PM
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Not really. A powerful politician or CEO or someone like Jeff Bezos are still ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:00 AM
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What the hell are you talking about? No, I am a cis woman. I was born a woman with a uterus and ovaries and a vagina. I am XX. I am an ally, though, and I have dear friends of mine who are trans women. That being said, yes, I get wet when I see attractive guys. Most guys are not attractive to me, though. But I get wet. The dead bedrooms don't happen to hot guys, they happen when one of them settles
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:42 AM
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Bullshit. Saying that women aren't turned on by looks is the stupidest cope. You have been seduced by a lie and you are speaking from a very unqualified place. Women can marry for status and money, but that doesn't mean they are GENUINELY attracted. And you are even adding "lol" to your response? Women absolutely fawn over hot guys even when they are broke. They might marry a rich and old guy and give them a dead bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:14 AM
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Wait, what? What the hell? Mystical feefee? Attraction is visual. Period. If you are ugly and rich, your partner won't be genuinely attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:12 AM
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Bullshit. Bullshit. Bullshit. Tons of men become hobosexuals. Tons of men marry rich women they are not attracted to and cheat on them. You have been fed a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:11 AM
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It doesn't matter how many times you say "no", attraction is visual. Period. We are primates, after all. We rely on our sense of sight.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:11 AM
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yeah, a lot of men think that going to the gym, having confidence, and having a nice haircut will make women attracted to them. If you're ugly, there is no gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:10 AM
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What an inane argument. What the hell do fetishes have to do with anything? Fetishes are fetishes, in other words, it's paraphilia and not genuine, all-encompassing attraction. Someone who is with you for the money is not genuinely attracted to you. THAT is NOT attraction. That is called using you. Do you understand? Also, you couldn't be more wrong. You are very mistaken. Tons of men use women. Look up "hobosexuals." You have spent too much time online and not in the real world. It's a lie that…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:10 AM
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Okay, well, yes, but it's meaningless. Don't resort to bioessentialism. Not everything can be explained away through evolution. You wanted to give us a speech about evolution, but the point is that men are genuinely convinced that they can buy attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:07 AM
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That is not the point. AT ALL. Because people genuinely think they can generate true attraction with money and status
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:06 AM
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this individual thinks he is smart, but he is clueless and oblivious
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:05 AM
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Your response is trash. It's the most idiotic and irrelevant thing I have ever seen since I have been on Reddit. Your entire response was intended to show off that you knew about the no true scotsman fallacy, which, by the way, is utterly irrelevant. It has nothing to do with what I wrote, but yet, you thought you were going to have a short moment of glory and people were gonna applaud you and say, "wow, he knows about the no scotsman fallacy." Again, it has nothing to do with what I wrote and y…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:04 AM
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Better off being alone than feeling settled for and used.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:03 AM
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That is not true. I am a woman and I know I am not as horny as men. At all. Also, unattractive women are usually hornier because they use sex as validation. Very attractive women tend to be less horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:56 AM
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NOT TRUE AT ALL. Guys get turned off by nice women. Sprinkle sprinkle
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:08 AM
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No, don't try to turn the tables on me, honey. It won't work. Read about the Coolidge Effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 10:17 PM
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The point is not whether or not you can live a good life based on what a think. You are deflecting. I know that what I believe has no repercussions on your life. Duh. But that is not the point. It's impossible to stay attracted to the same person. And I am certain she is not attracted to you either because, after 15 years, it's physiologically impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 03:05 AM
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There are different hypotheses: You might be lying to yourself You might be living in denial You might have lack of opportunities You are victim-blaming. Plenty of people get cheated on not because they did something wrong. I do not believe you for a second that you are still attracted to the same person after 15 years and you don't fancy anyone else. Spare your breath, I won't believe you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:43 AM
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I am a woman and I agree with you, especially the part "A lot of this delusion has to do with bad/naive parenting." I felt this in my bones. BUT, this applies to women too. I mean, everything you wrote applies to women who want to attract men. It all boils down to how good and young a woman looks. Personality is secondary. Men say they want a loyal and kind woman, but that's a lie. They want a hot woman. Period. Men will say that they are disgusted by fake breasts and then will drool over fake b…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:29 AM
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men don't stay attracted to the same woman either
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:26 AM
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this doesn't prove isht. Being married to someone is not evidence of genuine attraction. AT ALL.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:09 AM
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They do NOT know that. AT ALL. Most guys think everyone is into them. I have male friends and even when they are brutally rejected, I have to actually lay it out for them because they can't fully comprehend that women aren't into them and were using them for a foodie call. I agree that having money can give you a slight advantage when you are average, but it won't create raw attraction which is what OP is talking about. Rich men with gold diggers do not know they are being used. They fall prey t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:08 AM
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If you are TRULY attracted to them, yes, you would
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 02:44 AM
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I am a woman and I am going to tell you a secret, but don't tell anybody. No, women do not get turned off if a guy is living with his parents as long as the guys is truly attractive to her. If she claims she got turned off because he is living with his parents, that means she wasn't that into him to begin with. Maybe she was on the fence and is using that as an excuse. Same applies to men. If a man is really attracted to a woman, he won't get turned off if she likes certain types of food or musi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:29 AM
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Well, no, that is a lie. Women are DEFINITELY jealous. I have been jealous. Women are mad when they see another younger and more beautiful woman steal the spotlight. The sisterhood concept is a lie. Of course, women are never going to admit that. Sometimes they even lie to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 07:32 PM
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I agree only with a part of your post. It is true that women cock-block out of jealousy. No question about it. Not only that, but women will give bad advice to other women to sabotage them. I am a woman myself and I have seen this pattern many times. Women will want other women to be fat and will gas them up and claim you are fabulous because it is in their best interest to keep you in your ugly lane. Or women will push other women towards guys who don't want them. I thought it was stupidity or …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:21 PM
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The thought of paying someone, regardless of age gap, to provide me with some sham bastardisation of love physically and mentally repulses me. You expressed the sentiment extraordinarily well. I wish more people were like you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 03:04 AM
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What you have described is one of the many paradoxes of life. Men are not self-aware, though. When old and unattractive men end up with much younger and much more attractive women, they (the old men) think that there is genuine attraction there. And you don't have to be overweight. You can still be fit with no weight to lose and be unattractive. Being unattractive is not exclusively depend on weight. Going back to men, they never for a second contemplate the possibility that they are repulsive t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 12:54 AM
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It's a type of schadenfreude. Men prefer to guilt-trip women who have rejected them instead of realizing that a relationship in which one of the two is unattracted to the other is a recipe for disaster
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 07:37 PM
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Ok, but don't get mad at me. I don't disagree with you, but don't shoot the messenger.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:02 AM
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I used the adverb happily on purpose, just to convey my mordant sarcasm. But I have spoken to some of these men and they say they still love their wives but they need sexual variety and that they can't help it. And that cheating on their wives doesn't subtract from the love they feel for their wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:34 AM
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I am a woman and I get approached by a LOT of married or engaged men. Most of them lie and say they are single, but since I don't have my head up in my *ss, I do my investigations and I find out they are happily married. Draw your own conclusion
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 09:31 PM
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A lot of people should not have children. Period. Society can't fathom the existence of people who should not have children. The maternal instincts don't always kick in considering that a lot of mothers end up abusing or even killing their unwanted children. It's absolutely outrageous that in 2024 we are still talking about this. I am 23 and happily childfree. I will never, ever change my mind. I would be a terrible mother and I would condemn my children to a hellish existence. No, thanks. My au…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:57 PM
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No, not at all. There is NOT someone for everyone. That is a lie. In fact, there isn't someone for most people, actually. Just because two unattractive people end in a faux relationship, it doesn't mean there is genuine attraction. They always end up resenting each other and becoming roommates, but they project the image of the perfect couple to the world. So, I am 100% certain that there isn't someone for everyone. That is a f*cking lie that does more harm than good. Yes, there is a lot of fals…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 06:18 PM
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But, if you're hot and an asshole, you won't keep a good woman for long. This couldn't be further from the truth. Women get obsessed for years, even decades for guys they truly like, even if they are assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:05 PM
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I think you are very smart and insightful and that is an extremely rare quality. I mean, your friends will tell you that you are smart and kind and all of that jazz, of course they will, but I can tell you are smart by what you have written. Very few women and men have the level of self-awareness that you have. I am a woman and I have a few male friends and when they get rejected by women, they don't fully realize they are being rejected. I have to be that bad person to tell them, "Look, don't w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:04 PM
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To be honest with you, I am glad when they send di*k photos so I can weed them and avoid awkward and uncomfortable situations. Some people, men and women have very unattractive genitalia (I am exclusively heterosexual, but I can easily acknowledge that some genitalia are truly ugly). Last year, I met a guy who was 100% my type. He was a literal stud. 26 years old, 6'4'', great face, a very broad and aesthetic face. Then he sent me his di*k photos and his penis was one of the ugliest and most rep…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 06:35 PM
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You are right, but only up to a certain point. For example, plump lips were considered very unattractive in the past. If you look at the Renaissance paintings portraying women who were considered beautiful back then, they would be seen as ugly nowadays. There are poets who praised the beauty of women with pale skin and thin, non-existent lips. However, certain traits remain universal. Short men will never be considered attractive or the first choice. The fact that some women are willing to settl…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 06:30 PM
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My husband speaks my native language, English, Italian, Spanish, Russian and a bit of German and a few words of Lithuanian. How well does he speak these languages, though? Can he write professionally without major mistakes? Can he have day-to-day interactions in society?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:16 PM
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That's a non-sequitur. My name is not indicative of my attractiveness level.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 07:10 PM
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You feel inferior to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 07:10 PM
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You want to know the truth or do you want a lie? I will tell you the unadulterated truth. A lot of women love having gay friends because it's a prop, a fashion accessory for virtue-signaling. It's cool, it's like having an expensive handbag. Now gay friends are getting outdated and women want a trans friend (preferably ugly, so they can feel better about themselves). Gay men pose no threat and no competition. Women have to compete with each other, even when they pretend to support each other. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 02:22 AM
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You missed the point, completely. Yes, of course, someone who is well-off is going to attract gold diggers. But we are talking about attraction at a primal level. Yes, you will be fully established when you are 38, so what? You won't be more physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 09:53 PM
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PhD in a scientific field. Just because I am passionate about languages, it doesn't mean my PhD is in that field. Also, a lot of fields within linguistics are incredibly technical. Computational linguistics is one of those fields. You are exceptionally naive. Also, I am not pretty, I am more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 09:19 PM
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Then, that is not attraction. It's a transaction. You are looking at it all wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 01:32 AM
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I personally think your standards of expecting of “making a claim to speak” are too high. No. If someone claims to speak Russian, I expect them to hold a conversation in Russian. If someone puts on their résumé that they are bilingual, I expect them to be bilingual. “Mastering the grammar and possessing a rich vocabulary”. Extremely nebulous definition on the last part especially. Who defines that? You? What standard is being applied to distinguish the qualification into rich vocabulary here? It…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:35 AM
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No, I am not humble nor kind. I wouldn't have survived.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:26 AM
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a language, as ordinary people do not even necessarily know their native language to that extent. A lot of native speakers are illiterate, no doubt about it. However, you are using a hyperbole because an illiterate native speaker who writes ungrammatical sentences is in no way comparable to a foreigner who claims to speak a language when he/she doesn't. Language ability is a continuous spectrum from 0 ability to perfect fluency, and deciding what point along the spectrum constitutes being able t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:25 AM
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My English is perfect. You have no room to talk. I haven't made any mistakes in my post. You missed the comma after the if clause. If you want to be pedantic, you will lose. Someone who can express himself/herself fluently and make some mistakes can speak that language. But most people who claim to speak another language just know a few pre-packaged phrases.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:05 AM
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Oh honey, poor YOU
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:01 AM
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ok, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 04:05 AM
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I am polite. Not to the extent of most fake Americans, but I am polite. However, when I deal with professionals who have high-sounding job roles and who are incompetent, I call them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 03:57 AM
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do you genuinely think people will try to inflict pain on me just because I am a Ph.D.? I highly doubt it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 03:52 AM
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Not really. I am not holding normal people to Ph.D. standards. If someone writes that they speak Romanian on their résumé, I would expect them to be able to carry a normal conversation and write decently. I do not expect them to write a philosophical treatise, and I do not expect them to understand every imaginable dialect, but people who claim to speak another language just know a very narrow set of words.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 03:40 AM
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men love me, though. Whether I am pretentious or not, they are naturally drawn to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 03:25 AM
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If someone can write and speak without major mistakes (even if they have a thick accent), that to men is good speaking. Someone who is not able to do that should not be claiming to speak a different language.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 03:12 AM
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I am not even setting high standards. I would expect the very bare minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 02:48 AM
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I know it was a (bad and trite) joke. I was playing along. Also, hon, I don't need to be fun at parties. That's the beauty of being a young and attractive woman. I can show up and be brusque, even unpleasant. Hoards of men will flock to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 02:18 AM
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Based on the very few sentences I have seen, I would say that you understand SOME Spanish. I would never hire you to communicate professionally in Spanish. The very few sentences you have written were very ungrammatical. I cannot imagine how much more ungrammatical you would be if you were to speak more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 02:17 AM
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That is not speaking. That is getting by.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 02:15 AM
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They cannot speak it, technically. It all depends on what you mean by "speaking." To me, speaking means having a coherent conversation. If they vomit a couple of random words and everything is broken, that is not speaking
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 02:01 AM
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No, no, I know. I was joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 02:00 AM
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Both. I have definitely met Americans who claim to be Irish and Italian even though they are not (their distant ancestors were Italian). Also, I interact with people who claim to speak a different language on a daily basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 01:59 AM
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Puedo comprender tus frases, pero están muy muy mal escritas, o sea, sin gramática. It is not a me issue. And no, you can't hurt me. You can't even tickle me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 01:58 AM
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yeah, I get it, but it doesn't mean they are bilingual or trilingual. They have a very basic proficiency in a foreign language, but they cannot write and speak fluently in another language. They couldn't even watch a movie in the language they claim they are proficient in.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 01:55 AM
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I don't need any consent, honey.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 01:53 AM
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You couldn't be more wrong. I am only 23 and people in my department (I am getting a Ph.D.) who are all native speakers run their drafts by me because I am eagle-eyed. Knowing several languages activates different areas of the brain, so I have a privileged perspective and I can perceive nuances that monolingual people can't. I know that language isn't just grammar. However, there is a paradox because when you end up reaching such a high level of proficiency as I have, then you become better than…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 01:53 AM
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Okay, so your entire point is pointless. You are invalidating my experience. This is my experience. The fact that you have not experienced it, is pointless. Also, there are several mistakes in your Spanish text. It should be: ninguna de las mujeres hispanas en los Estados Unidos tiene los problemas que tú tienes You have intentionally proven my point. Really bad Spanish.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 01:49 AM
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That's probably why. They end up looking stupid, though. Because I probe them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 01:10 AM
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LMAO, that makes you totally bilingual.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 01:09 AM
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You are very mistaken. It might be because I am Slavic and I look Slavic, so men use that as an icebreaker. Every single one of them claims to speak another language. Women do not need to impress you, so they don't use that line on you. You refuse to see things from a 23-year-old woman's perspective and you are confusing the cause with the effect
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 01:05 AM
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You do not know how you will think when you are 65. People vastly overestimate their fortitude and discipline. Yes, thank you for your tautology. I didn't really need to read that if you're 50, you're 50. That is not the point. Forget about sexual desirability for a second. Your cognitive abilities decline, you get slower. I have seen people aging and it's horrible and I am not talking about the physical appearance only. They are no longer mentally sharp. Old people need to go under the knife to…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 12:30 AM
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I go outside every single day
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 03:45 AM
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Missy, what kind of counterargument is that? Just because I am fast and efficient, it doesn't mean I am spending my day putting you in your place (which is boringly easy, by the way)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 07:24 PM
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And yet you are so socially unaware that you think I was suggesting asking her. Jesus Christ. You don't need to ask. And even if you asked her, she wouldn't tell you the truth. Without knowing them, I can guarantee you that she is not genuinely attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 07:24 PM
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you are contradicting yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 07:06 PM
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Apparently she is from what I’ve been told. What you have been told.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 06:17 PM
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You are inferring non-existent absurdities. I literally post from my phone when I have time to kill. Don't try to psychoanalyze me just because I am very vocal about speaking the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 06:14 PM
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Straight up a lot of dudes wouldn’t get laid without facial hair and it can take men a while for it to come in This is another way aging helps besides the many others have told you Buaaaaaaaaaaahhh. No, I am disgusted by long beards. A bit of scruffy facial hair is okay, the beard is nasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 06:07 PM
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What kind of stupid ass argument is that? They'd be uglier if they were dead and in an advanced state of decomposition. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 06:06 PM
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I see a lot of ugly, old, unattractive men who still think they have it. They go to the gym, they do crossfit, and they end up with herniated discs, dislocated shoulders, torn meniscus. The confidence thing is a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 06:06 PM
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"everything else being equal" is a meaningless statement that waters things down. You are just encouraging ugly men to get into dead bedrooms. Happily coupled up, you say? LMAO. Are you serious? Do you really think you know what happens in their bedrooms?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 06:05 PM
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I am just very angry when older men approach me. It's insulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 06:03 PM
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I can't tell who you're saying is victorious in what war. I'm just explaining why "the wall" is a thing for women and not really for men. Men believe that they are victorious in the gender war. The wall isn't a thing for men because men tend to be more vocal about it. And, also, men have a distorted self-perception so they think they are hot even when they are not. ​ There are some men who hit the wall, but most men never get enough speed going to make a spectacular crash when they hit it. If a …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:04 AM
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It is not a strawman argument at all. Have you been living under a rock? It's a very popular myth that men get more attractive as they age.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 03:50 AM
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t hitting the wall is irrelevant for men because they are always valued for their "provider" status for all their life. false. We are not attracted to old men. We might use old men as a Geldautomat, but no way we are genuinely attracted to old men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 03:47 AM
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Especially from younger & hotter women than the beligerent older ones. Its crazy how that works. yeah, right. Please!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 03:46 AM
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which will give us more options with women who are not truly attracted to you and are using you as a walking Geldautomat.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 03:45 AM
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Just because something is part of life it doesn't mean it's desirable or idyllic. Aging is horrible. Are you kidding me? Yes, everyone gets old and unattractive. And that's your argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 03:44 AM
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It's a pyrrhic victory, though. I would rather enjoy it until it lasts. I am 23 and I am in my prime. Yes, I will become invisible in 10 years, so what? At least, I will look back and say that I have enjoyed my youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 03:43 AM
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the richest and best looking guy I know is 35 and dating a 22 year old. and you think that this girl is TRULY attracted to this old fart?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 03:40 AM
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and they all get divorced by 30
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 03:40 AM
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They don't care because they have been sold a lie. And they bought it. They think that women will be magically attracted to their decrepit rear-ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 03:36 AM
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because no young woman is attracted to an old fossil
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 03:35 AM
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BS. Plus, these celebrities are not representative of reality and they are buying prostitutes, they are not getting women who are GENUINELY attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 03:33 AM
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You couldn't be more wrong. Yes, rich guys can get some fleeting attention from women who are not genuinely attracted to them. I was approached by a very rich guy months ago and he even showed me his mansion and told me, "all of this could be yours." I was repulsed by him. When he saw that I rejected him, he tried with my friend (the same friend he had said that was ugly). Guess what, my friend used him and dumped him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 03:32 AM
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working hard in gym makes men hotter, a lot of men start very late with gym because they have other things to do (graduating working hard to survive and such) as they can't rely on the partner sponsoring them like women can I hate how people believe that gym will magically make them attractive. I go to several gyms because I travel a lot, and I see a lot of ugly people, men and women, who are ugly beyond repair. The gym is not going to make you taller, more symmetrical, address your prostate or …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 03:30 AM
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if I am not attracted to a man, his personality is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 03:28 AM
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Women aren’t fucking your maturity or responsibility, Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 03:23 AM
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The word "hotter" does not refer to just physical hotness, the older men get the more mature and responsible they get which is generally seen hotter for men Not true at all. As a woman, no matter how wise and mature a man is, I don't find him physically attractive. Ewww. Yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 03:23 AM
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This is a great post. I swear, I am tired of this rhetoric that men's value goes up as they age. It's a lie. Rich Cooper is one of those older men who most vocally perpetuate that lie. I am 23 and I have never been attracted to a man older than 30. I can't help it. You know how men love to throw around the word "biology"? Well, it's my biology. I just cannot be attracted to older guys. I am not being mean or shady, I simply do not find them attractive at all. In fact, I am repulsed by older men.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 03:22 AM
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What is boring to one person, is riveting to another. So this is extremely subjective. You are doing the same thing. Trying to find subjectivity where there is objectivity. Obfuscating. Attempting to sound smart while showing how deficient you are. ​ Your voice. I cannot stress how important a voice is. This is an AGP talking. Richard cooper aka the human drone, makes my vagina lock, pull down the security gate, and build a moat around it. AGP fantasies. ​ A sense of humour. I’ve seen a few comm…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 04:00 AM
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Look, I know my looks are average buaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhh, this is the funniest line. So funny, it's almost tragic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 03:56 AM
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You are not a woman. You can't be. I know how men type and you are not a woman. I have read a few of your messages and they are all strikingly similar. You try to overcomplicate extremely simple topics just to derail the conversation. Your responses are always a lot of nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 03:55 AM
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No, you don't get a choice. Most people don't break up because of inertia. You are making it sound like it's very easy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 03:53 AM
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love doesn't require effort. Otherwise, it's not true love
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 03:52 AM
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You haven't been hit on by HUNDREDS of men, so you cannot possibly imagine that it would happen to someone. I am 23 AND Slavic. I am 5'10'' and conventionally attractive. Of course, men will hit on me. Duh. Men will hit on way less attractive women than myself, and you think they would not hit on a 23-year-old Slavic girl? You are utterly clueless and detached from reality. That is something absurdly simple and yet you have never experienced it. In fact, saying "hundreds of men" is an understate…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 03:48 AM
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I mean we readily accept that some, but not all humans will be amazing performers, or scientists, or leaders. Why is it so hard to accept that some humans will be capable of enduring romantic love whilst others won’t? It doesn’t have to be a binary. What a bad, disingenuous, trashy analogy!WTF. Comparing performance level to the ability to feel love? Are you serious? Are you kidding me? Is this a joke? Your entire response is built on the "you cannot generalize" fallacy. Certain things should, c…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 03:36 AM
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No, it is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 03:31 AM
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you are the most absurd and most nonsensical individual I have interacted with, in real life and on Reddit. Yes, I have read the old article you have linked (it's 18 years old). It's completely irrelevant. I have read many more books than you have. I can tell by the way you type that you are not well read and you don't have a rich vocabulary. Don't overcomplicate things. Mean cheat because they are inherently polygamous. Case closed. End of discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 03:31 AM
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Love takes time to develop no, it doesn't. If it takes time to develop, it means it's not love
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:52 PM
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Additionally people are delusional and incredibly skilled at pretending everything is fine when it's not. this
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:49 PM
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The Bible??!! Are you joking??!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:46 PM
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not the point at all
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:46 PM
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And what the hell do you think the linked article is going to prove? Defining yourself "science-pilled man" makes you look more pompous and pretentious but doesn't make you look smarter. You don't get it. The fact that so many married men hit on me tells me that so many married men are dissatisfied with their partners or, at the very least, they are not in these idyllic marriages as they display on social media. You are clueless, unaware, obtuse, and myopic. I am not the one taking social presen…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:11 PM
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for the love of Christ, do I really need to spell it out? Romantic love is completely different from familial love. Two completely different emotions. One, for example, is devoid of any sexual connotation. In fact, the term love is too nebulous and is used ambiguously. There is an enormous difference between the strong, unconditional, asexual love I might feel for my pets from the infatuation I might feel for a man. I genuinely feel insulting by having to write this out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:08 PM
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I like you. A LOT. I am cynical too :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:57 AM
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Yes, but when people use the adverb happily next to the adjective married, they mean there is love.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:57 AM
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I don't buy it. Sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:51 AM
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I agree with you, but if people realized that it's all a lie, we would go extinct. We romanticize having kids, after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:49 PM
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And I agree with you, at least in part, but how long does mutual love last?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:48 PM
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because it's theoretical. Once you live in a relationship, familiarity breeds contempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:04 PM
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in your opinion, does lust love? Because from what I have observed, even if you are a gorgeous woman, men will lose their attraction towards you because they need variety
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 08:56 PM
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they’re usually stuck in a situationship with the promise of marriage only to be used in the end and have their youth wasted on the wrong man. truer words were never spoken
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 04:35 AM
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whether that’s someone of a different race, gender, body type etc. You are a VERY intelligent woman. I can tell by this brief comment that you are very astute. This is something that most people ignore. A lot of men will marry women even though they are attracted to men. You are 100% right and I want to upvote you 1k times
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 04:34 AM
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Transitioning likewise typically entails taking synthetic hormones and surgeries. You are very misinformed. I am a scientist who studies neurobiology, among other things. True gender dysphoria is something people do not choose. Some people are born with a brain that is sexed differently from their biology
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 04:33 AM
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I am not shifting the goalpost at all. You are not comprehending. Yes, women will do anything to avoid loneliness, including being with guys they are unattracted to or being with guys who are using them. It is not a weaker claim at all, you just don't get it. They will tolerate being treated like shit by guys who are not even Chads simply because they can't live by themselves. So, you are very mistaken when you say that only Chads can do that. You are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 04:31 AM
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No, hon, you are the one who did not understand. Men are not entirely self-aware. Men need to believe in fantasies. One of the fantasies is that the girls at the strip club truly like him. Or that the prostitutes they are sleeping with truly like him That is a lie. And just because they resort to r*pe, it doesn't mean they can fully conceptualize the unattraction of the person they are having sex with while they are horny. Also, you are incredibly misinformed. There are already medications that …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 04:27 AM
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No. You want a relationship because you have never had a relationship, so you have a very idealistic view of things. Once you have a relationship, you will get bored. Yes, you are quite unique, in the sense. You claim that you got a lot of DMs from women. Assuming that is true, DMs mean absolutely NOTHING. They do not translate into real-life encounters.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 04:21 AM
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It is 100% true. The real problem is that most men are not self-aware, so even when they cheat on their wives and go to sex parlors to have sex with prostitutes, they think it doesn't count as cheating. A lot of men want to believe in fairy tales, just like women. But the Coolidge effect is 100% true
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 04:18 AM
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you are very mistaken. Some guys might marry ugly women or single mothers simply because they need to use them. No, obese women don't usually pair up with obese men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 04:16 AM
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you should not be surprised at all, honey. Unlike you, I have traveled a lot and have lived in three different countries. When you move to a different country and you see a lot of cultures, you start learning a thing or two, honey/
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 04:16 AM
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He also cheats on her. how old is he and how old is she, if you don't mind me asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 03:35 AM
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Virgin men who reject casual sex and are interested in the long haul do exist. Only in theory, not in practice. They would get bored anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 03:34 AM
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men feel this way is because biologically they’ve already fucked, now they’re bored coolidge effect, and yes all men are like that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 03:34 AM
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Yeah, I think you and I would get along in real life. I would love to read your opinions on men and their (in)ability to love. Please read my responses in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 03:33 AM
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I have a hard time believing your average Joe could find a woman who agrees to a “forever girlfriend” arrangement. You would be amazed. Single mothers, obese women, women who have had mastectomies, women with body image issues and low self-esteem. You just would be amazed what women are willing to put up with to avoid loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 03:32 AM
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only for him to go marry and knock up the next women he sees in a matter of weeks or months. It always happens like that. These guys string women along for YEARS because they don't want them and these women are blinded by false hopes. Then, these men marry the women they truly want in a matter of weeks or months
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 03:31 AM
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It came to me in a dream I had What was the dream about? Tell me more, I am intrigued.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 03:00 AM
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A lot of objectively unattractive people (men and women) live their life thinking they are attractive. It's a protective mechanism. The ego has a lot of delusions in place to protect itself. That is why more intelligent and more self-aware people tend to suffer more from depression. There's something called depressive realism. People in general, at least most people, vastly overestimate their attractiveness. The ones who realize they are unattractive are exceptionally smart. A lot of men believe…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 03:00 AM
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you are right but only up to a certain point. Dating is a strategic game
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 02:53 AM
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your response reeks of toxic positivity. It's better to be cynical and avoid disappointment. You know what a miserable life is? It's the inevitable epilogue of people like you who are "good vibes only" and refuse to face reality
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 02:04 AM
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that is not true at all. I am a girl in her early twenties and I can get 4 or 5 guys on my roster and respond to their texts right away.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 02:03 AM
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it's extremely common, actually. Men have been doing that for centuries. Like sailors who had a wife in every port.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 02:01 AM
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Just date people who date monogamously and aren’t dating multiple people at the same time. are you joking? Do you truly believe people will openly admit to dating multiple partners simultaneously?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 01:58 AM
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that you should not date women where it's apparent you were not her first choice. Stop right there. This applies to all genders and all sexualities. You do not want to be in a relationship where you feel settled for. It's worse than loneliness. The real problem is that the signs are hiding in plain sight but we delude ourselves and we get clouded by false hopes. Almost nobody has sufficient intellectual honesty as to admit to themselves that they are not their crush's first choice. I have dated …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 01:52 AM
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Except that Leonardo Di Caprio hasn't aged like wine and he doesn't even like women. Every single model he is in a relationship with is paid. The most masculine thing that Leo can do to one of his fake girlfriends is aggressively comb them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:46 PM
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You should not be surprised, HONEY. I am Slavic and I now live in the US. Many, many, many guys go to my home country thinking they will magically become attractive. No need to be surprised, HONEY
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:32 PM
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yeah, prostitution exists. But my question remains: don't men feel horrible knowing that these women are not attracted to them? Isn't it better to nuke your sex drive if you are unwanted?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:20 AM
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I have never been a man, so maybe I am going to make a mistake that all women make: applying my frame of mind on men. Personally, I would feel disgusting if I slept with a man who is not genuinely attracted to me. I would fee unsexy and unwanted. I never understood this: don't men feel the same? Do men really want to have sex with women who are repulsed by them and are only having sex with them because of money? I truly don't get it, help me understand it. I see a lot of ugly and old guys hittin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 09:36 PM
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You are overestimating human's abilities to sus out scams. People lie to themselves and want to believe they are attractive. If a rich man is dating a hot and young woman, he will ignore the signs that she is not genuinely attracted to him. He will block out anything that hurts his ego. He will, instead, interpret every single detail as a sign that the woman is truly attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 09:07 PM
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he won’t want to have sex with you. Wrong. I can have sex with a guy I am not attracted to. It will be robotic, mechanic, lackluster. However, I can still have sex with a guy I am not attracted to. Now, I cannot have sex with an older guy I feel repulsion towards. Not being attracted and feeling repulsion are two different things. For example, I feel repulsion towards older men (above 30), and nothing will change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 09:05 PM
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Yeah, but there is bad sex. In the past, for reasons I won't explain, I have had sex with guys I wasn't attracted to. I just starfish in bed, I refuse to kiss them. There's a whole spectrum. And it's in no way comparable to the sex I have with a guy I genuinely like.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 09:04 PM
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Bein attracted to good looks is in no way comparable to marrying someone for money (someone you are unattracted to). Completely different thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 09:02 PM
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I know a few women around my age (23) who have married guys in their 40s and they are not attracted to them. Usually, they try to fake it and they offer sex at the beginning and men are naive enough to believe that the woman genuinely likes him. Once she is married and she is secure, the sex dwindles and she cheats on him with a younger guy she usually likes. The lie that men age like fine wine and that us women like old farts is super dangerous. I have never ever been attracted to a man older t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 09:01 PM
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Nobody is attracted to unattractive people. Nobody feels genuine love or attraction to unattractive people. There needs to be a minimum of physical attraction for the other person to fall in love. Yes, we can overvalue someone's attractiveness if we are infatuated, but the other person cannot be objectively unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 07:01 PM
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I am a woman. I am 23 and conventionally attractive. I have been around the block. I am not sheltered like you. Nobody is attracted to unattractive people. Just because two ugly people get married, it doesn't mean ack shit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:23 PM
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Men do the same thing and have always been doing the same thing. They might marry a woman and keep her as a placeholder while not being truly attracted to her
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:19 PM
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The biggest lie in the manosphere is that men age like fine wine and that they peak at 40. That is utter BS. Women are not attracted to old men. Men age horribly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:14 PM
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it is not funny and that is not what I meant. Some attractive women have very ugly vaginas. And some ugly women have beautiful vaginas. I never understand what men mean when they say divine p. Are they actually appreciating the beauty of a woman holistically? Or are they focusing on the genitals?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:10 PM
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Not true at all. Ugly men become pickier and there are ugly men married to ugly women, it doesn't mean there is real attraction there. It's recipe for disaster. You claim to be a science-pilled man, but how can you be so dense? How can you possibly believe that being married is a sign of mutual attraction? How sheltered can you be?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:34 PM
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I understand that, but what if the woman is beautiful but her vagina is ugly? Do you refer to the whole (the physical beauty of the woman) or to the part (the vagina per se). I am trying to understand how men think
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:06 PM
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When you say "divine p." do you actually mean a hot woman? Because there are hot women with ugly p. I am not joking, I seriously want to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 08:08 PM
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Qwerty, I agree with everything you said, even though there are people who can trick biology and nature. For example, certain women can become more attractive through plastic surgery and treatments and coloring their hair. This is literally tricking biology because attraction is based on the phenotype and not the genotype. Therefore, a woman with bad genes can (through a lot of work) become attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 08:04 PM
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Absolutely well said. Libido limits intelligence. Hot assholes get women. Ugly assholes don't. And yes, a hot woman can get away with a terrible personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:47 PM
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yeah, but you are overcomplicating an extremely simple issue with all of this useless crap about axes. There are no axes, not really. If a guy is ugly, no amount of behavioral change will change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:34 PM
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All of this is useless if there is no physical attraction. A guy can be super nice or super bad, if he is ugly, nothing will change my lack of attraction. Anything else is a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:24 PM
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I am a woman and let me tell you that women give trash advice, at least most women. Women give way worse dating advice to other women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:28 PM
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Because you need to have physical prerequisites. You can be an asshole and still be ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:53 PM
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Now that you have said "LOL", you have completely incinerated me in this dialectical duel. HA! No shit, women, including myself, might pick the best looking guys on Tinder, but that does NOT mean that in real life those good looking guys are actually good looking guys. There is no self-improvement. It's a lie. You cannot improve your height or your bone structure which are the determining factors for physical attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:45 PM
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No, you are very mistaken. Whatever you see on Tinder, TikTok, Facebook is not real life. People only show the best angles. Photos can be filtered, airbrushed. And even when there is no airbrush and no filter, photos don't tell the full story. I have met men in real life who were way less attractive than what they appeared on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:38 PM
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Tinder is in no way representative of reality. You might get a lot of matches on Tinder, but those do NOT translate into reality. Men just want to jerk off.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:14 PM
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Yes, but a billionaire is just buying a woman who is not truly attracted to him. Who the hell wants that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:03 PM
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Leo is not even attracted to women. Period. All of these models who pose as his girlfriends are just his "beard." Also, men actually age much worse than women, contrary to popular belief.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:13 PM
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You need to understand that Leonardo Di Caprio is not attracted to women, and I am not shaming him or anything like that. He is doing what Ricky Martin was doing years ago before he came out. All of these "relationships" he has with young models are not real. Contrary to whatever comforting lies society tells men, young women are not GENUINELY attracted to old bodies. At all. Money and status don't buy genuine attraction. Lastly, young doesn't equal attractive. There are several young girl who a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:07 PM
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A lot of gay men or bisexual men are married to cis women and their women are convinced they are straight. These women are usually oblivious and unsuspecting. They do not want to know the truth. That is why men get violent when found out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:26 PM
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It's better to be alone than to be in a relationship with someone you don't like. It's terrible and it's not even fair to the other person. You cannot and you should not force attraction. I made that mistake a few times. I tried to enter into relationships with guys I wasn't attracted to at all (because they were nice guys), and it was devastating. I could not even kiss them and we were not sexually compatible. I ended up hurting them, unintentionally, because I had bought into this lie that you…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 07:58 AM
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It's better to be alone than to be in a relationship with someone you don't like. It's terrible and it's not even fair to the other person. You cannot and you should not force attraction. I made that mistake a few times. I tried to enter into relationships with guys I wasn't attracted to at all (because they were nice guys), and it was devastating. I could not even kiss them and we were not sexually compatible. I ended up hurting them, unintentionally, because I had bought into this lie that you…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 07:55 AM
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I am not capping
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:46 PM
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Just because people are in a relationship it doesn't mean that there is REAL attraction. People can be in relationships out of loneliness or fear. But there is no genuine attraction. Women can always date up. Women are coveted.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:45 PM
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You are using deflection and distraction. My point is still valid. I used a hyperbole as a literary device. You don't go into the minus region, but you become MORE unattractive without hair. No question about it. Having your hair is still important. It's part of your identity and self-image. I am a woman, but regardless, I would rather be more attractive and have a low libido. Thing about it. Being unattractive AND having a high libido is a double whammy. Oh please. These products are very cheap…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:12 AM
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What kind of absurd argument is that? Unattractiveness is on a spectrum. If you are unattractive but you have lots of hair, let's say you are a 4. If you are unattractive AND you are bald on top of that, you are what? A minus 1?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:12 AM
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god, you are so dense
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 12:05 AM
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The only bullshit here is yours. You have failed to comprehend what OP is saying. A high libido is a curse for unattractive guys, and several guys are hopelessly unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 12:04 AM
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This is an excellent post. Of course you are going to get downvoted because people are brainwashed. I am a woman and I am around women every day. We do not find most men attractive. Period. We just can't help it. Having a libido is a curse if you are ugly and unwanted. I see a lot of men worrying about losing their libido if they take Finasteride, but it is so stupid, because, why would you want to have a high libido if you are bald and you will become even more unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 11:59 PM
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and who cares? A lot of men, most men, are unattractive to women. Who cares about going extinct? Most men will never have the women they truly want anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 11:57 PM
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Gurl, are you kidding me? How many Disney movies have you watched. Nature is far from perfect. Nature is monstrous. Deformities, diseases, natural catastrophes... children born with disabilities, mothers who kill their own children, tumors. Aberrant dysfunctions? That is intrinsic in nature. You are idealistic. You have a very romanticized view of life
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 11:33 PM
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Appeal-to-nature fallacy at its finest. Nature is far from perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:33 AM
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It is the tragedy of life. It happens every day. Men lose attraction to the women they have impregnated.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:18 AM
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oh please. You have no idea what masculine men do behind closed doors. But I agree with you that men want to be lied to. And it is not all about reproduction as a lot of women lose their value once they have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:14 AM
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Excellent analysis, but there is a different between theory and practice. You are right, anything outside of strict heterosexuality in men is treated as irrevocably gay, but fully heterosexual men will engage in homosexual behavior. They will lie about it, of course. I have explained it above.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:00 AM
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What a convoluted and absurd explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:59 AM
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That is not true at all. Read my response above
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:58 AM
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Do you GENUINELY believe that men will tell the truth in surveys? Men lie all the time, sometimes they lie to themselves. Denial is a thing. Fully heterosexual men engage in what could be considered as homosexual behavior every single day... but they lie about it. They are married to women and live a heterosexual lifestyle. They will even be very homophobic to ward off any suspicion. How can you be so credulous? There are gay men who are exclusively attracted to men. And then there are predomina…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:57 AM
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or the bald, old, unattractive man who is constantly told that all he has to do is have game and be confident
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:15 PM
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it's all a lie. Everything is a lie. Society is built upon lies
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:34 PM
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Good luck with that. Men do the same. They get in relationships with women they are not attracted to and then wait until something better comes along
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:04 PM
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Why would you be in a relationship with someone you’re not fully attracted to Because people get lonely. Stop being Jane Austen. Tons of people are in relationships with individuals they do not truly like. They are afraid of being alone
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:57 PM
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If a woman loves that man and is sexually satisfied with that man she has no problem splitting bills and doing house work. Do you realize that most people enter relationships with individuals they are not truly attracted to? Either because of peer pressure, or because they are afraid to be alone, or because they need to split bills. I am a 23-year-old woman and I am unattracted to 99% of the men I see. I can't help it. The boyfriend I have now was super attractive to me initially, but not anymor…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:45 PM
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No. You are mistaken. Women are told every single day that they have to lower their standards. Men and women enter relationships with people they are not fully attracted to and use them as placeholders. Even if someone is truly attracted to their partner, the honeymoon phase is short-lived
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:44 PM
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Yes. Nothing worse than having do have sex with someone you are not fully attracted to. That being said, the goal is to become independent. I have a boyfriend now, but I know it will end soon. He wanted me to quit my job. Hell no.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:43 PM
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Just go outside and you'll see plenty of Plain Janes with husbands and boyfriends. And what the hell does that prove? It doesn't mean there is genuine attraction. Guys will marry women who are not attracted to and use them as placeholders. The husbands of these plain Janes still ogle hot women and desire them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:37 AM
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Men lie all the time. People lie, even to themselves, but since your post is about men, you are totally right. I repeat this, MEN LIE about what they like. Never go by a man's words. Never take what a man says at face value. Men are attracted to nice features, whether these features are natural or not. Of course, plastic surgery must be subtle, not super obvious. Men say A and they mean B. Every man says he wants a nice, docile, submissive girl, but THAT IS A LIE. They get tired of sweet girls a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:36 AM
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One of the best lessons I have learned in my life is that men lie, even to themselves. Sometimes they do it innocently, sometimes they do it maliciously. Men say A and they mean B. Men say they want a loyal, sweet, docile woman, but that is a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 07:49 PM
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This applies to men too. Men say they want a nice girl, but they don't. They lie to themselves. The more I mistreat men, the harder they fall in love with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:22 PM
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Doesn't matter. Truth hurts
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 07:43 PM
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That is what you say in THEORY. In practice, you would get bored. Men are intrinsically masochistic and they love being treated like crap. You need to be hot, though
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:41 PM
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Men lie too ALL the time. Men lie to themselves. Men lie and say they want a nice woman but they don't, they fall for the abrasive type. I am living proof of that. I treat men like crap and they fall in love with me. If I am nice to them, they lose the attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:25 PM
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You really can't offer any useful solutions as an individual. Based on your descriptions about average men, its obvious that you are destined to be a side piece and be a perpetual miserable woman who's unable to keep a man for more than 5 years straight. And you think that if I chose an ugly or average guy I would be happy? Boy, how can you be so gullible and naive? Ugly men are the WORST. In your humble opinion, an average guy will make me happy? I would rather have a hot stud and I know how to…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:22 PM
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You fail to see the logical connections here. You are talking about men being redpilled and you don't see the relevance? What are you on
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:13 PM
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I genuinely want a man help me understand this. Okay, a lot of men are bitter and claim that women's standards are high. But what can we do? I am a woman and I cannot fake/force my attraction. I have tried to be in relationships with guys I wasn't attracted to because they were nice guys, they were educated, but it was a disaster and it wasn't fair to me and wasn't fair to them. So, is it truly our fault if we don't find most men attractive? Take it on God. It's like gay guys getting mad at stra…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:13 AM
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Blind men might rely on tactile sensations. I am not making a mistake, but you are making SEVERAL MISTAKES. Scarlet Johansson is a 10? Are you kidding me? She is a 6 on a good day. She can get to a when dolled up. I have seen her in real life, and she is short and you wouldn't look at her twice. AT ALL. Seriously. There are thousands of girls who can be a 10, but not her. Oh please. Hot women get away with very abrasive personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:22 AM
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There is no projection here, and you are AT LEAST partially proving my point. A woman will always get old, no matter what. So you are telling me that all men will end up losing their attraction once a woman gets old. Not true at all. You might lose you attraction to a woman who gets fat FASTER, but even if she stays in shape, the attraction is doomed to die, contrary to what Disney movies told you. You were told comforting lies. Also, as for stopping wanting sex, not true, again, You couldn't be…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:58 AM
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The point is that whenever someone comes back with the stupid "generalization" argument, I know they are being willfully ignorant. You probably do not even realize that. ALL MEN, no exception, are very sensitive to physical appearance. Men are truly convinced that they hate the makeup look except that in real life they drool over women who have makeup. Similarly, you might be deluding yourself and you might be saying that you do not care if a partner were in the house with a pajama, but I know h…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:06 AM
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You have irreparable and incalculable cognitive deficits. Contrary to what your college professors told you (assuming you went to a community college), the whole "generalization" argument is trite and useless. There are definitely common trends among certain demographics. Men care about looks. Period. No amount of denial will invalidate that. Swallow your own fecalomas.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:54 PM
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You are not going to get an honest answer. Some men will lie to themselves without knowing that they are lying. Of course, here men will say that they do not care, they are looking for a lifelong partner and yada yada yada. In reality, the same men will say that they have lost their attraction towards their partners and will rationalize it and blame it on her not using makeup and not making an effort to appear sexy. Men's attraction is not conscious or willed. Men are not in control of what they…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:32 PM
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What a convoluted, circular, stupid, and useless answer. I already offered a solution
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:42 PM
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And you are proving my point. Isn't it better to kill the urge?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:36 PM
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The reasoning is that, firstly, high libido is a sign of a healthy, functioning male body. Nobody would want to choose to have low-functioning bodily functions. Give me a break. Sex is overrated. And why would you want a high libido if your preferred sex finds you repulsive?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:36 PM
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You can be unattractive and have thick hair. But if you are bald you are automatically unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:34 PM
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You are lying to yourself. It's like me saying that having both legs amputated is more attractive. Give me a break. There is nothing sadder than a man losing his hair
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:34 PM
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t's a natural bodily urge to satisfy a biological imperative: stay alive and reproduce. Shut the hell up. You are the same one who resorts to appeal-to-nature fallacy. Appeal-to-nature fallacy. Just because something is natural, it doesn't mean it's good or desirable. What a naive and dumb conception of things. There is no biological imperative. If that were true, homosexuals would not exist. Jesus Christ, in 2023 there are still people like yourself who believe that nature is perfect and that e…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:33 PM
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What a stupid comparison. How the hell does that relate to having a high libido and being unattractive? Jesus christ
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:31 PM
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She's preaching eugenics. and so what? Who gives a fuck? Unattractive people have miserable lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:30 PM
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Most women find most men unattractive. Plain and simple
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:21 PM
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Why would ugly people reproduce? I don't get it. For what purpose? To create more ugly children who will then have miserable existences?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:20 PM
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You ain't no Beethoven, Edison, or Franklin, honey.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:19 PM
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I don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:18 PM
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Stop there. You are the same one who appeals to nature. Ugly people are not necessarily smart. This stupid and idiotic myth that ugly people are good people must die. If it were for me, the entire humanity could go extinct
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:15 PM
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Appeal-to-nature fallacy. Just because something is natural, it doesn't mean it's good or desirable. What a naive and dumb conception of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:08 PM
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Appeal-to-nature fallacy. Just because something is natural, it doesn't mean it's good or desirable. What a naive and dumb conception of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:07 PM
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Why would you want to desire something you could never have?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:03 PM
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Nah, even the men who can't get laid are happy with a high sex drive. And ugly men have this joke that heaven is being surrounded by hot and young women. I say to them that it would be hell because these women would not be attracted to them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:43 AM
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wagyu You are very mistaken. There are several medications that lower the sex drive
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:42 AM
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Another stupid comparison and bad analogy. It is not the equivalent of burning their taste bads. A lot of people become frustrated, angry, hateful because they are sexless an not because they want to be sexless but because they are ugly. Also, so stupid to compare it to telling people to stop lifting because they will never participate in the Olympics. Ugh. What the hell does that have to do with anything? Some people do not want the iberico and do not want to go to the Olympics. They were depri…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:41 AM
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eople don’t want to have a lower libido , they want to have sex, I mean isn’t that obvious? Lol Duh, no shit Sherlock. But if they cannot have sex because they are ugly and repulsive, what is the alternative? Are you for real? Are you serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:38 AM
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What a useless and vague response. Ugly people should not reproduce anyway. And I am saying that the sex driving killing should be targeted to ugly or deformed people who can't have sex, because unfulfilled sex desire creates monsters. Look at Danilo Restivo. Look him up. He was ugly, repulsive, creepy, an was constantly rejected by women. He killed two women. If he had had a lower libido, he would have not killed anybody. Your analogy about the computer is dumb and doesn't address my point
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:37 AM
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I know a lot of men are sexless, but very few want to kill their libido. There are antidepressants and antiandrogens that kill your libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:35 AM
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The analogy is TERRIBLE. I mean, TERRIBLE TERRIBLE TERRIBLE. Wanting to play sports and not being able to play sports due to organizational things is in no way comparable to people not being able to have sex. Certain people are repulsive and cannot have sex, or have ugly genitalia that no partner would feel attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:34 AM
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I'm a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:33 AM
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Women don’t generally support broke men. Wrong. Women who are desperate will support men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:29 AM
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Gurl, you have never been around Slavic women. We are quick, we are smart, we are ruthless. I am relatively new here because I am relatively young, ma'am. Miss Thing, you are not calling me on any BS. You are a coprolite and your mouth is full of fecalomas. I never claimed to be X, Y, Z. I simply enumerated some common phenomena. You are doing a huge disservice to other women like yourself. How can you be so obtuse? You can start from the assumption that I am lying, COMPLETELY, and my main post …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:22 AM
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You completely missed my point. Isn't it painful to acknowledge that your partner is not attracted to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:16 AM
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Missy, you are contradicting yourself. Completely. I will continue using the term "hobosexual" and other terms that are typical in the black community. You Miss Thing will not police my language. Have a nice rest of the evening, princess.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:16 AM
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It's a complete non sequitur. The fact that the term has been around for a while does not prove, sic et simpliciter, that I didn't come across it only last year. It is not a widespread term. Girl, you are contradicting yourself. You just said that it's a typically male term, and now you say that you don't buy it. No, it is not my life. I would rather slit both of my wrists than end up with a man who is using me for a place to stay. I am not quoting shit. I am enumerating things I have observed, …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:09 AM
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Continuous? What a poor lexical choice. You don't have to buy shit, because I am not selling shit. Unlike 99% of the population, I do not have my head up in my ass. I carefully observe. Especially here in the US, I have been invited to dinners or parties and I would carefully observe couples. And to me, from an external point of view, it was very obvious that the man was NOT attracted to the woman he was with. Upon further inspection (masking my curiosity as small talk), I would find out that sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:03 AM
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What kind of dumb argument is that? Men paying for prostitutes doesn't translate into men wanting RELATIONSHIPS with women who find them repulsive. Also, these men don't fully realize how unattractive they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:57 PM
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Oh girl, give me a f***ing break. I am Slavic. I have seen men faking attraction just to have a place to stay. How naive must you be? Just because a white term might not know the term "hobosexual", it doesn't mean that she cannot recognize the phenomenon that the term so eloquently describes. JEEZ. Terms are very useful because they help us conceptualize certain ideas. So yes, I have seen men faking attraction just to use a woman. Period. The expression "slap some sense into someone" doesn't lit…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:56 PM
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Same rules apply to abusers of all kinds, you can't know these things going into a relationship. Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:13 PM
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No shit. You make it sound like it's easy. When you are emotionally involved in a situation, you do not see things clearly. It is not like people will hold a sign saying, "I AM ABOUT TO EXPLOIT YOU." People hide their heads under the sand.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:13 PM
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No, unfortunately, there isn't. People lie all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:11 PM
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And do you think she is truly attracted to you? Don't you feel rejected? Don't you feel like she is acting? Or that you are in a dead bedroom?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:01 PM
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And she has to have sex with you? While finding you unattractive? Do it with the eyes closed? Isn't it better to be by yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:59 PM
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Come on! Do you TRULY believe people are gonna be upfront and say, "look, femcelphobic, I find you repulsive, and I am only in for the money. How can you be so naive?"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:55 PM
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with looks, money, and status simultaneously. Women will get dick from the hot broke guy and is attracted to him primally, but for life? She'll marry the average/below average looking rich guy to have access to a life of leisure, probably while getting dick from the hot broke guy. I agree with your assessment. But do men really want that? For example, I know a lawyer who is bald and unattractive. He is married to a younger woman. She doesn't like him. She cheats on him with young studs. You act …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:54 PM
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You get money and status. You become a Jeff Bezos. And then what? You get a woman who is NOT attracted to you. You say that women are in for the money, but women are still attracted to hot men. I could date a rich guy, but a rich guy doesn't make me wet. As a woman, I want a good-looking guy. Money and status doesn't buy attraction. Men need to stop lying to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:37 PM
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Men contradict themselves. They claim that there will be a comeuppance when all the ugly guys who were rejected will become rich and powerful and will attract hot babes. PLEAAAZE. Every single day, I am bombarded with videos and content that spread lies about men aging like fine wine and that all you have to do is become wealthy. And then what? You become wealthy and you get women who are repulsed by you? Do men really want that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:33 PM
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That’s not going to bode well for someone who chose me for my youth and I’d expect to get swapped out like a tired pair of shoes. You vastly overestimate men's abilities to get younger women. It's a lie that society is spreading. It happens in badly written novels and in stupid romcoms, not in real life. You don't see crusty old farts pulling hot young women. It's pure fantasy. I tell all of my girlfriends to never ever ever waste their youth with an old fart, but some women will date an old far…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 10:32 PM
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Most women aren't going to prioritize their looks into their 30s/40s, and won't be as naturally good looking as they were in their 20s. Except that a lot of women in their 20s are unattractive. It's pretty stupid to think that a woman will automatically be beautiful simply for being 20. I am Slavic and in my country, women and men are much more attractive than here in the US. Regardless, I see lots of women in their 20s who are unattractive. On top of that, "quality" people in the dating pool te…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:56 PM
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trp What the hell is trp? The red pill? What is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:48 PM
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I have never been attracted to a man over 28-29. Period. Mysoginists are using scare tactics to force women into marrying men they are not truly attracted to. It's a recipe for disaster. The wall is a lie. Yes, women age and become less attractive (even though there are cases of women who are more attractive in their 40s than they have ever been in their 20s). But men age too, and they age terribly. Women are not attracted to old farts, contrary to popular belief. Yes, we might use an old fart a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:20 PM
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No, you are MOSTLY right, but ugly guys will treat you worse and will cheat on you with sex workers. Don't ever make the mistake of assuming that an ugly guy will stay loyal or will treat you kindly. I have dated three ugly guys in my life. Never anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 10:46 PM
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I don't need to find true help. You sound very American, ha ha. The one who loves romcoms. All I have to do is spread my legs and I can get all the dick I want. Whereas you have to work extra hard to get pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:04 PM
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Honey, I am abrasive and I am bitter and yet men drool over me. They do the proverbial backflip for me. You're dating someone who is not truly attracted to you. Successful? Oh please. No woman you are truly attracted to will give you a chance. Once the veil will be lifted in front of your eyes, reality will slap you in your asymmetrical face.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:02 PM
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What a stupid comeback. We are talking about facial fat loss we are not talking about me hating the world. I am blunt. I am direct. I don't beat around the bush. You are butthurt because I tell the truth. No amount of weight-lifting will make you attractive. You will always be rejected. Guaranteed
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:58 PM
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Oh please, I don't have to post shit. Seriously. Facial fat grafting is a thing because when you get older, you lose facial volume. And people who lose weight tend to look older in the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:55 PM
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Do you genuinely believe that face gains has any credibility? How naive must you be? Not to mention that facial fat grafting is very popular. Being a bit on the plumper side makes you look younger
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:47 PM
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I hate beards. I find them disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:16 PM
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If a guy only wants a woman for sex, it means she is not that attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:41 PM
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It is not
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:41 PM
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They cannot articulate it. Duh. They don't consciously make a decision based on whether a woman has an ugly head, but, unconsciously, they can see she is ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:39 PM
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Sounds like something an abysmally ugly person with an ugly bone structure would say. Ha ha.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:34 PM
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No, no, no, no. Lifestyles are not chosen. They happen on a person. Having cats is demonized and ugly men try to manipulate women into dating them with these tactics. Ugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:33 PM
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You couldn't be more wrong. People LOVE to believe that there are things they can change. That is why they waste so much money buying false hopes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:28 PM
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I am not the one who is fat, you stoooopid idiot. In fact, if anything, I need to gain 5 lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:01 PM
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What makes you think they are happy? What makes you think that? Tell me, what makes you think that? Just because a young woman is using a man with money, that doesn't mean there is genuine attraction there
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:00 PM
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A man who is short? A man who is bald? A man who has a small penis? Okay, I see plenty of guys who are very fit and they are still ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:49 AM
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I don't buy it. This is like Cinderella story. She might get pumped and dumped, but I don't think she gets that much of attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:47 AM
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Yours is an intelligent response, up until to a certain point, though. People say they want to hear the truth, but they don't. People don't want to give up hopes. I used to work as a psychic for a call-center and we would get paid to lie to people and tell them what they wanted to hear. These are the same people who told us they wanted the truth, but when we told them the truth, for example that a person they fancied was not attracted to them, they would stop calling. And you don't need to be a …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:45 AM
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I don't know about that. Short legs, long torso, unattractive faces, big noses, big heads, narrow faces, all things that can't be fixed with makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:40 AM
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Everybody likes to believe that the reason why they are unattractive has to do with their weight. And this applies to men and women. What I am about to explain is a perfect example of just-world fallacy. After all, losing weight requires discipline and will power, but it's doable. Changing a very ugly bone structure is impossible. So, what do people do? They love to blame it on their weight. Think about it. Imagine you are ugly, assuming you are not already. What do you want to hear? Do you want…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:29 AM
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You get laid by whom? I have never had sex with a guy under 6'2''
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:28 AM
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Everybody likes to believe that the reason why they are unattractive has to do with their weight. And this applies to men and women. What I am about to explain is a perfect example of just-world fallacy. After all, losing weight requires discipline and will power, but it's doable. Changing a very ugly bone structure is impossible. So, what do people do? They love to blame it on their weight. Think about it. Imagine you are ugly, assuming you are not already. What do you want to hear? Do you want…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:26 AM
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I am Slavic but now live in the US. Both in my country and here, I have seen people losing weight and they are still ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:25 AM
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You are oversimplifying a very complex issue. Of course it's my life. DUH. But not every woman is as strong and opinionated and pervicacious as I am. Most women are easily influenceable and they do care about what other people say about them. A lot of women get shamed and brainwashed by society and they end up marrying guys they are not truly attracted to. It's also very naive to tell me, "oh well, just don't follow red pill content"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:15 PM
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You are mad. You are butthurt. You are bitter. Why? Because we, women, have options, whereas you don't. You'll keep getting rejected. No amount of game, self-confidence, sense of humor and any other lies that YouTube creators sell you will work
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:05 PM
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No. I have at least another 37 years before I become a cat lady. I will enjoy the ride until it lasts. I am not using him as much as he is not using me. I will dump him before he dumps me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:59 PM
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I am not obsessed with cats. I just like them and you must be very very butt-hurt. There’s a report from the Journal of Forensic and Legal Medicine about a 2010 case where an aneurysm victim’s face had been eaten overnight by her dog while her cats didn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:57 PM
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Wait, what? What does anything to do with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:47 PM
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Who said I don't want a man? I just know it never lasts. Ever. It is impossible to maintain the attraction to the same man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:46 PM
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it is not normal, it's demonized. If you go anywhere in the manosphere, men threaten women with becoming cat ladies if they don't settle for them. It is not normal at all. Single women with cats are ridiculed and pitied.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:46 PM
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it is not normal, it's demonized. If you go anywhere in the manosphere, men threaten women with becoming cat ladies if they don't settle for them. It is not normal at all. Single women with cats are ridiculed and pitied.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:46 PM
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When we talk about the cat lady it is not an attempt to intimidate, but a warning, as many women end up sad and alone. Being alone is much better than being in a fake relationship. And all the "Happily married" people I see around me are faking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:46 PM
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No, because you see all these men acting pissy because women don't give them a chance. There are YouTube channels who shame women for rejecting "nice guys." The same channels celebrate old men allegedly getting young women. And these men do not realize that women do NOT like old men. We might use old men for money, sure, but we are not truly attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:45 PM
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Another stupid lie. You do know that dogs will eat your body before cats? You do know that, right? Stop spreading these idiotic anti-cat lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:43 PM
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Nah, bullshit. You are demonizing cat people. It's a load of crap. Cats are very loving and beautiful to look at and very calming. I love cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:42 PM
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You are right, that is why I plan on marrying a rich old fart and if he doesn't die within 4 years of marriage, I will just divorce him and get all of his assets. Cheers :) That is what happens to old farts who think that younger women are TRULY attracted to them. Ha ha.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:41 PM
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Oh please. Older men who date younger women? It's extremely rare. I never see it in real life. Plus, even when that happens, these women are not attracted to these men. At all. it is not normal, it's demonized. If you go anywhere in the manosphere, men threaten women with becoming cat ladies if they don't settle for them. It is not normal at all. Single women with cats are ridiculed and pitied.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:40 PM
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Except that this is not what society tells us.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:40 PM
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Are you kidding me? I am not gonna tell on myself. Plus, if I were to truly fall head over heels for him, he would lose his attraction to me. I know how men operate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:39 PM
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I 100% agree
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:38 PM
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it is not normal, it's demonized. If you go anywhere in the manosphere, men threaten women with becoming cat ladies if they don't settle for them. It is not normal at all. Single women with cats are ridiculed and pitied.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:38 PM
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I am a cat person, fortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:37 PM
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It's truly unsexy to do that in front of your partner. Go to the bathroom, go outside, and don't tell me you need to fart. It's disgusting. When I moved to the US, guys would make jokes about farting. Disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:37 PM
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fuck dogs. I don't like dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:35 PM
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Nah. Cats are the best. Plus, liking birds is not incompatible with liking cats. My cats have NEVER killed any bird
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:35 PM
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Not at all. All of the cats I have interacted with are/were loving to the point of being clingy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:27 PM
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Ha ha ha, well, go to the bathroom and fart. Don't fart in front of your boyfriend. Yes, cats are clingy. I know better. It is impossible to maintain the same level of attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:26 PM
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I have never denied that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:57 PM
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I am a heterosexual cis woman. You have missed the point. No, you can't increase your value. Maybe only by a small margin
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:31 AM
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Who the fuck is complaining? I am a woman. I am not complaining, dummess
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:59 PM
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LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:19 PM
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There is so much naivete in this post. First of all, the whole rating system is dumb, simply because, even though there is a degree of objectivity to physical beauty, the SAME woman can fluctuate between 5 and 7 based on stuff like clothes, makeup, hair. For example, I have a neighbor and when you see her dolled up, she is very pretty. Hair, makeup, clothes, heels, jewelry. But when you see her in day-to-day life, she is plain. She is a 6 at best. But again, the rating system is so stupid and re…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:18 PM
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Okay, Miss Thing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:06 AM
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beauty is not subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:57 PM
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being fun and interesting. Useless when you are ugly. I am a Slavic woman. A guy could have the best personality in the world, that won't cut it if I don't like him looks-wise. Let's stop lying
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:46 PM
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Yeah, as a woman, I COMPLETELY agree with you. COMPLETELY. I will say this again: people want to be lied to. People prefer to believe that it's in your control even when it's not. That is why stupid ass pseudo-philosophies like the Law of Attraction are so popular. Because people love to believe everything is in our control. Personality doesn't matter nearly as looks. I will tell you something. I am in my early 20s and Slavic. I am almost 5'10' and modelesque. I am not telling you this to brag, …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:43 PM
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Okay, but being friends is not the same as having sexual attraction. When I have broken up with my boyfriends, I no longer feel attracted to them. I love them as friends. I do not want to hurt them, but I cannot feel any attraction towards them. Is it my fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:32 PM
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When you don't have any counterargument left, you insinuate I am a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:29 PM
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Why don't you get a vagina, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:28 PM
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See how I end up? I will end up much better than people who are unhappy together. And what a stupid ass argument. Einstein? Hawking? They could have been very intelligent in narrow areas, it doesn't mean that they were happily married. "Their" (sic) tons of practices in the past that we have thrown out? What a useless argument. Yeah, we are getting there. Evolution (mental evolution and cultural evolution) doesn't happen in a night. Exactly, single parents, that is why i am happily childfree. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:28 PM
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those are oxymorons and are completely irrelevant with what I am explaining
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:23 PM
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I am like everybody else, except that I am not delusional, whereas you need to believe in happily ever after.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:22 PM
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You don't know what your husband does. You simply don't. The married men who want to have sex with me all act like your husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:22 PM
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how the F am I a troll? You must be butthurt
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:05 PM
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Being hot and young isn't special at all. It won't last for you either. At that point. I will retire with dignity. I will not lie to myself. ​ If you don't want to be in a monogamous relationship that's your decision. Humans cannot be monogamous. It's impossible. We always desire new people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:53 PM
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You actually hear your parents having sex? Like in their old bodies intertwining? And you even hear them going to the bathroom to wash their old parts. I am gonna puke
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:51 PM
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Another standup comedian. Ha ha ha. You are so witty. Ha ha ha. My vaginal flaps are clapping.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:50 PM
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You have no idea what he does when you are not around, if he has a second phone, what kind of porn he watches (and he does watch porn. 100%. No question. The question is WHAT kind of porn)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:50 PM
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You do not even know the meaning of the term SCHIZOID. You have used it incorrectly. You have used the adjective "stupid" twice in your poorly written and incoherent response. You are describing yourself. There is nothing grandiose about my post. Quite the opposite. Another misused adjective. Do you even know what grandiose means, Miss Thing? And do you think there are surveys about people lying about their marriages? How credulous and oblivious must you be, Miss Thing? Yeah, right. Totally. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:49 PM
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People building their lives together? Basically becoming roommates and lying to society. Buaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhh. My neighbor who is only 28 and has two daughters (one is 4, the other one is 1) has dates with his wife, they hold hands, they kiss, he sends her flower, he celebrates her beauty on Facebook, and yet he is texting me every single night wanting to fuck me. He found my number and he is harassing me. I have blocked him and he creates new phone numbers, he puts notes on my car. I am consid…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:46 PM
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I am not "homie", miss Thing. Please call someone else "homie." How dare you disrespect me? I come off as schizo because people are brainwashed and want to believe in fairy tales.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:44 PM
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You have no idea how many dead bedrooms are out there. And how many apparently exemplary husbands cheat on their wives. No idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:43 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:42 PM
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I am never single, though. I can change them pretty quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:41 PM
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Oh wow, what a witty and remarkable and original comment. You are brilliant. Ha ha ha. Wow. What a comedian. Are you trying to compensate for your shortcomings through comedy?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:40 PM
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What a stupid ass argument. Just because marriage has been an institution for thousands of years, it doesn't mean that two people can stay attracted forever. What kind of dumb argument is that? It's like saying that people who believe in gnomes and fairies are right because their folkloristic traditions have lasted years. Marriage is an archaic institution with no benefit. In the past, people married for other reasons, but it doesn't mean that they can stay attracted for ever. If you think that,…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:39 PM
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Huh? Are you really asking that question? Because people like to believe in fairy tales, because people cling to hope, because people were sold a lie. Yes, men are slave to their sex drive. That is the whole point. It doesn't mean that marriage works.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:36 PM
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I don't care. Humans, in this specific case, are not complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:34 PM
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Yeah, exactly. I have had people trying to prove me wrong by showing two deformed or differently abled people married. And? Are people really that naive?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:34 PM
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And this shows me that you are incapable of thinking in abstract terms. Your argument is useless. What the hell does that mean? It's like saying not all humans die, not all dogs bark, not all cats meow. Jeez
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:33 PM
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This is one of the best responses. Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:33 PM
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because I do not have my head stuck up in my ass. That is why.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:56 PM
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If they were truly happy as they claim, they would not need to be cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:55 PM
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this is so disturbing, creepy, and sinister
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:52 PM
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I do not need to put any effort. That is the whole point. The moment you think I need to put effort, I am no longer attracted. Next. And you started your senseless message saying you wanted to laugh at you, so once again, laugh at my passionflower
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:54 AM
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oh jesus christ, you have no idea. You have no idea how the "happily married" men who want to fuck me act in front of their wives and children. And yes, having a house together and managing finances are things born out of convenience. It is not the little fairy tale you like to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:52 AM
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I am going to get bored of him before he gets bored of me. Period. Now, keep laughing at my passionflower
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:51 AM
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and while you are at it, ask them to help you remove the rose-tinted glasses
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:48 AM
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No, it is not. Because it is implicit that attraction is the fundamental thing to be happily married. They are just roommates. Period
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:48 AM
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Yeah right, your little anecdotal experience is useless. You are lying to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:45 AM
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They are not fucking pretending shit. They might have fun, they might do little things together, they might keep peace in front of you, but that does NOT mean they are attracted to each other
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:44 AM
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How do YOU know that Santa Claus and Mickey Mouse are not real?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:43 AM
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Ha. The naivete is shocking. You have no idea what they are feeling inside, you have no idea what goes in their mind, you have no idea what goes on in their bedrooms, you simply have NO IDEA. People lie all the time, sometimes even to themselves. You are clueless
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:41 AM
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What makes you think that I am single? I am seeing a guy, and we like each other, but I know sooner or later, it will end. You are the weird one. You believe in fairy tales
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:40 AM
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You can laugh at the passionflower I have between my legs. Let me know when you are ready, so I can spread my legs :)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:36 AM
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Then you have to accept that after 18 months maximum you will start gradually becoming roommates. It is physiologically impossible to keep the same level of attraction, no matter how much you love a guy. And knowing everything about each other is a recipe for disaster. Have you heard about a man's cave? Well, men need their space
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:35 AM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:10 AM
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your mother in love and your pigeon. They both hurt me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:10 AM
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The key is NOT cohabiting, first of all, because time changes novelty into routine. You can talk to a person every day, as long as you don't share the same house and you see each other maybe twice a week, three times maximum. Definitely, NOT every day. That is when you become unattracted. Also, always keep mystery. A lot of the attraction is based on the unsaid. Assuming you are a woman, your man doesn't need to know you have diarrhea, don't take a shit with the door open, don't fart and burp. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:09 AM
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That is a very reductionist and disingenuous interpretation. It's more complex. Society sells comforting lies because humans need to believe lies. The world is a very cold place. There is no divine purpose, no karma, no divine justice, and men cannot stay attracted to the same woman, no matter what fairy tales like to tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:11 AM
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Duh, no shit people don't live forever. And you have no idea what you are talking about. How do you know that the flame lasts longer than the lifespan? You say so? Or just because you read it in a poorly written novel? Unlike 99% of people, I am cynical and a realist. I have seen a lot despite being you. I have lived in different countries and, being a PhD student who is paid by a prestigious university to conduct research, I am smarter, more analytical, and I do not buy into society's bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:09 AM
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The flame cannot last forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:03 AM
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of people that pulled LTRs cause they don’t want to actually do any of those things? You are very gullible. My grandparents have been married for 60 years. Does it mean that they are happily married? Hell no. Does it mean that the fact they tolerate each other and are roommates make them experts in the marriage arena? Hell no. My grandma complains that she feels very lonely because my grandpa is basically useless and an annoyance. And a lot of "happily married" people will put an act and lie to …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:57 AM
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Yeah right. And you think that people who don't get divorced are happily married? Geez
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:54 AM
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You put it very well. "Happily married" is an oxymoron because it is impossible to be truly happy when you are married. Of course, society has sold us a lie and whoever is smart enough to realize that society is built on lies is silenced and ridiculed. Because society wants to drive us away from the truth. But it is mathematically impossible to be happily married. The attraction ALWAYS ends. ALWAYS. It always has an expiration date. ALWAYS. But people are too naive and brainwashed and think that…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:54 AM
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The attraction ALWAYS ends. ALWAYS. It always has an expiration date. ALWAYS. But people are too naive and brainwashed and think that just because two individuals stay together, it means they must be happily married LMAO. Most people are lazy and can't even bother to call customer service to cancel a subscription because they are lazy. And you want me to believe that if you are unhappy, you just divorce? LMAO. People stay together for fear of loneliness, to split the bills, because they don't ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:53 AM
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You put it very well. "Happily married" is an oxymoron because it is impossible to be truly happy when you are married. Of course, society has sold us a lie and whoever is smart enough to realize that society is built on lies is silenced and ridiculed. Because society wants to drive us away from the truth. But it is mathematically impossible to be happily married. The attraction ALWAYS ends. ALWAYS. It always has an expiration date. ALWAYS. But people are too naive and brainwashed and think that…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:53 AM
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You couldn't be more mistaken. People are more awake these days, for lack of a better term. Younger people (in my age group, early 20s) tend to be much more realistic whereas older people were brought up with lies, comforting and stupid lies that they end up doing more harm than good. For example the lie that there is everyone for everybody. Or the lie that confidence matters. Bullshit. Confidence is useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:43 AM
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if you want to get married, your best bet is to listen to and observe happily married people Buaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh this is the funniest line I have read on Reddit. You do realize that married people are no longer attracted to each other? Because attraction has ALWAYS an expiration date, no matter what people tell you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:41 AM
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Married people give crappy advice, but I have noticed that usually older people (above 35) give terrible advice. They cannot comprehend that the world is not what they were led to believe through the comforting lies. Finally, younger people are waking up. But yes, married people give terrible advice, but older people in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:40 AM
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people all across the globe (and heavily on this sub) love to blame what they physically look like, and their lack of materialistic values, as to why nobody wants to date them. BECAUSE THAT IS the real reason people get rejected. As a conventionally attractive woman in her early 20s, I can be abrasive and nasty and men are willing to put up with pretty much anything when they like me physically. By the same token, for me, looks in a guy are everything. How well-endowed he is, how tall he his, hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:57 AM
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Ugh. What a naive and limited interpretation of things. If the birth rates are falling, the bombarding is still active. Even if the birth rates are falling, women are still being shamed and ostracized for not having children. I myself can tell people to fuck off and not ask me inappropriate questions. Not everybody is capable of that. Even I get asked those questions, and I am an abrasive bitch. I get asked those questions by women. So, yours is a non-sequitur. Women who haven't had children or …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:53 AM
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I wouldn't even give you a chance
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:49 AM
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as long as I enjoy the ride, hon. I want to be their number 1, even if it's for a brief period of time. I will enjoy the marry go round and then next, honey bunny.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:49 AM
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ou go girl” and “only god can judge” culture for the women. So whether you want to You couldn't be more wrong. For every "you go girl" you get online you get 10000 questions in real life, "when are you gonna have babies?" You must be very sheltered. Even though I am in my early twenties, I have had very uncomfortable conversations with women, yes WOMEN, who were propagating this natalist bullshit and assuming I would want children. You are very, very, very wrong. In real life, women are shamed a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:48 AM
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We are basically in agreement here. I am surprised. I agree with everything you said, but the first line was superfluous because there is still a push into having children
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:35 AM
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Are you kidding me? Society DOES shame and pushes women into popping out babies. Just because some women like myself don't get brainwashed, it doesn't mean society is not doing that. Women are shamed for not having children. Are you kidding me?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:29 AM
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Women aren’t rushed into having children. The average age of women giving birth for the first time is super close to reaching 30, if it hasn’t already hit it. And the number rises as the years go by. Non sequitur. The two things are not inextricably intertwined. Women might be having children later, it doesn't matter. The underlying message is still the same and we are still get bombarded by it daily EVEN if women get children later. ​ Anecdotally, my very traditional Asian parents advised me to…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:26 AM
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Initially, I thought you were going to disagree with me. But the part that said, "no thanks, to Barb" clarified it for me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:24 AM
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I live in the US. I watch a lot of YouTube content when I am in a waiting room or at night before falling asleep. Society is pushing women to have kids. Women who do not have kids are shamed and seen as defective. You tried to make it into a political issue, but I do not see it as a political issue. Whether the birth rate is low or not, whether illegal immigrants are having more children, the issue remains. People are sold this idea that having children will fix their relationship problems or th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:00 AM
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Okay, hon. I will do it just for you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:50 AM
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Nah. Respect has absolutely nothing to do with attraction. Please. I can be very attracted to a guy I have no respect for. You can't be with someone who doesn't find you attractive, you say, but when you are in the situation, you do not see things clearly. I appreciate your honesty, though. But you are mostly right, except for the part about respect
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:30 AM
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He absolutely no self-awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:29 AM
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Genuine love? Are you that naive? You have been told comforting lies. Not everybody finds genuine love. In fact, the vast majority of people do not find love. They end up in fake relationships. No, contrary to what you were told, there's not anyone for everybody. Self-improvement does only some much when you are unattractive, bald, short, or simply have ugly bone structure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 01:57 AM
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Do you really need to ask? Are you trolling me? How my man views me is an integral part of the attraction. You are right that I do not believe them. But there are subtle cues, you just need to pay attention and read between the lines. And it is not a matter of being interested or not. If a man tells me I have mesmerizing eyes and them they compliment a woman with crossed eyes, how can I believe them?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 01:48 AM
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Because people in general want to be lied to. Most of it, it's a lie. I am not going to specify what my area of expertise is, but as an expert in my field I can tell that some of the most sold products sold to people are predicated on lies. People want to believe that hard work pays off. People want to believe that going to the gym and working hard is going to compensate for your ugliness. People want to blame the victim. There are fat people who barely eat and their hormones are out of whack, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 01:29 AM
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You have no idea how many old men hit on young women and we act repulsed. I never claimed he wanted to marry me, but he is definitely one of the richest men in the area. You are mad because you have fantasies that one day life will treat you right, but you'll have every single problem you have now AND more ';
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 01:24 AM
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And they probably already know that. Thing is, if they stay where they are they will be perpetually single. Some men don't like to be single and prefer some company, so they move abroad. I agreed with most of your post until I reached this part. Men do not know that. They lie to themselves. Also, being single is more dignifying and much better than being in a relationship with someone who is not attracted to you. But what do I know? I have never been a man, I have never had a male libido, but I …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 12:43 AM
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Otherwise people like Andrew Tate would never have gotten as popular. Are you really using Andrew Tate's popularity as an argument? Are you serious? Andrew Tate is so popular because he is a fast-talker and because he sells (false) hopes to lonely guys. People love being lied to. Especially desperate men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 12:27 AM
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The solution is for these men to annihilate their libido. Period. We would kill two birds with one stone. They shouldn't be reproducing anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:20 PM
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you must be kidding, right? We have hundreds of videos every day telling guys to just keep working on themselves that when they become old farts, hot women will flock to them. You cannot be serious with this response. RP is predicated on a lie. Men do not age like fine wine and they think their wives will find them attractive. Yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:15 PM
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Miss thing, if I am trolling, so are you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:13 PM
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Your hair won't ever grow back and you'll keep getting rejected
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:13 PM
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what the hell does this have to do with anything? I was on a birth control pill that caused my hair to thin out and now it's super thick. You are on crack
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:13 PM
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Are you really that naive? Plenty of women marry guys they are repulsed by just because they need someone to provide for them, or they need a green card, or for whatever reason. Jeez. How many Disney movies have you watched?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:12 PM
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you have never left your house, so speak for yourself. I have been with guys for whom I was the number 1, and I maintained that position as long as I rejected them. I cease to be the number 1 when I become approachable or when I reciprocate their feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:07 PM
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Yeah, right. Whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:06 PM
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Yeah, and so what? They are two different things but they go hand in hand. I can be unattracted to a guy, or I can be repulsed to a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:06 PM
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The passport bros are delusional. They are not grounded in reality, and so are the sugar daddies. They think these women are GENUINELY attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:04 PM
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It is not a stereotype but reality. You believe in fairy tales. Ugly chaps should work on money and should work out, whatever, but stop selling them lies and telling them they will become attractive. They won't
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:03 PM
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No. False dichotomy. You can be a rugged guy with an attractive face. I do not like pretty boys. You can be short or have ugly bone structure, small hands, ugly feet (a lot of men have hideous feet that turn me off)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:01 PM
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I felt violated because why on Earth would this man who is the same age as my father think I would be GENUINELY attracted to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:00 PM
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I’m 46F You said it yourself. You have a very archaic and outdated view of the world. The world you conceptualize does not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 09:57 PM
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You would be amazed. I have hoards of men flocking to me and the more abrasive I am (being Slavic), the more they like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 09:56 PM
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Bad analogy. Hyperboles. Prostitution and rape are at the extreme. We are talking about normal relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 09:56 PM
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have more leverage to pull women by increasing their status, wealth and game though, since in sufficient quantity those things can offset, Women who will feel repulsed by them and are only using them for money
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 09:54 PM
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Yeah, big deal. It's a pyrrhic victory. No shit that being ugly and unfit is worse than being ugly and fit. However, you guys fail to comprehend that there is a myriad of reasons why people are ugly and most of these reasons are not fixable in the stupid ass gym. You also don't know if these women are TRULY attracted to you. Women fake orgasms and you think they can't fake their attraction to you? Please
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 09:52 PM
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He did not have confidence. What you call "confidence" is distorted self-perception. And my friends would cheat on him anyway because, as I said above, kissing him would be tantamount to licking cemetery soil. He has pussy? Yeah, what kind of pussy? Women who brutally reject his old, decrepit, nasty ass. I doubt prostitutes feel attraction for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 09:50 PM
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Unserious? You are the unserious one here. What sense does it make to have a high sex drive when you are ugly and unwanted?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 09:48 PM
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Because he is like 24 years older than me, bald and unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 09:43 PM
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I see a lot of ugly people walking with young attractive girls here an These are men who lie to themselves. They do not realize they are ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 09:43 PM
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People get with people they are not attracted to all the time. It's sad, but it goes on. Absolutely this
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:27 PM
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In the manosphere, there is this myth sold to desperate and ugly guys that all they have to do is have confidence and up their game. Please!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:26 PM
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I don't disagree with you. Play the game until you can. Then, have dignity and retire. Men are spreading lies. Even the "good guys" are no longer attracted to their wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:25 PM
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he more common advice is to work on your fitness, style, charisma, as well as status, so you can improve your desirability. Very naive advice and it's predicated on the just-world fallacy. I see a lot of fit but ugly guys at the local gym. You can tell they dress nicely, they groom themselves, but they are just ugly in the face in a way that surgery can't fix. Women are not attracted to old men. They might use old men. They are not genuinely attracted. And old men can't satisfy us in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:25 PM
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When I am 50, I won't be attracted to 60-year-old men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:23 PM
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Because you do not get women lying to other women and saying that they age like fine wine or that they are entitled to young bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:23 PM
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Except that men can't enjoy their turn because they will still be ugly and unwanted. Getting a Porsche won't get women really attracted to them. Women will resent kissing their mouths which is tantamount to licking cemetery soil. Yuck. And, trust me, the old guy with the Porsche keeps getting rejected. He was sold a lie. He thought that money and status would let him have access to young females. Young females reject him brutally and the very few ones who might let him have sex with their bodies…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:22 PM
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There is no contradiction here because a woman being unattracted to a guy is not the same as a woman being attracted to a guy but the guy being more attracted to the woman. How can you think the two are the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:19 PM
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They would need to internalize their truth instead of deluding themselves. They should find ways to lower their sex drive. What is the point of having a sex drive if you can't satisfy it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:19 PM
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Naive. And, in your humble opinion, just because two people are in a relationship, it means there is mutual attraction? Pleaaaaaaaaaaase! They put up an act on social media, but they are very unattracted to each other. I cannot believe that in 2023, almost 2024 people are so so so so naive. People get married to people they are not attracted to for a variety of reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:18 PM
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Massive amount of copium. Your knowledge on how to get abs is useless in the face of old age. Men age terribly. No matter how hard they hit the gym. Confidence won't fix skin laxity. Confidence won't cure erectile dysfunction. Keep coping
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:16 PM
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Yeah, pointless argument
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:37 PM
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always remember that most adult men are married. A and? You think marriages are for life? Are you trolling? You have no idea how many unhappily married people are out there
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:36 PM
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A lot of the guys in the manosphere say that they should become rich and so hot women will flock to them. Or the passport bros
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:35 PM
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I am not angry at men. I am angry at men who spread lies. How the hell is my reading selective and biased? How sheltered must you be? There are literally hundreds of YouTube channels promoting this idea that men become more attractive as they get older
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:34 PM
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You couldn't be more wrong. Ugly guys are the ones who will dog women out the most. In fact, in female circles, we know to never give a chance to an ugly guy. We don't need to be super complex organisms. My argument still stands. Also, you don't understand how much men overestimate their looks. Ugly men don't fully realize they are ugly. A few do, but most don't. I have had relationships with hot guys, like super hot, and they were the best. I will never give an ugly guy a chance
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:25 PM
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You have no idea how badly I treat them. The worse I treat them, the more they become lapdogs
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:45 PM
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No, not at all. A jerk is someone who doesn't want a relationship and claims he wants a relationship. A jerk is someone who has sex with men and women and then acts super homophobic in front of you to ward off any suspicion of homosexuality. A jerk is someone who leverages your vulnerability. I do not care. I do not put it out easily. A man who has invested time and money in you, has taken you out, is less likely to lie and use you. He can still do that, duh, but it is much less likely. That is …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:44 PM
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No. You are wrong. They will change for a woman they are TRULY attracted to and a strong woman who puts them in their place. That is why you have to demand. Dates, dinners, he has to pay, he has to show consistency, you need to call him out, you need to scold him. Bullshit that a normal guy will feel guilty because they are not even aware of their own feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:41 PM
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A fuckboy can become a lapdog. He needs to be trained. You know how they say that there are no bad dogs, just bad owners? Men need to be trained.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:38 PM
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Your comment makes no sense. It's absurd
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:31 PM
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If a guy doesn't change for you, you are not the one. It's that simple. Oh honey, I don't want him. I'll keep him on "read" and will give him a fake address like my friend does. I don't want him. I don't want any man who doesn't worship me and doesn't make me feel the best of the best. I won't falter. I won't waver.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:30 PM
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Bullshit. Bullshit. BULLSHIT. Here, ladies and gentleman, do not ever listen to this person. Humans are not monolithic or unidimensional. A lot of nice guys are not nice guys but are putting a mask on. Ugly guys are not necessarily nice guys. In fact, I no longer give ugly guys a chance because they are the absolute worst. Also, it all boils down to attraction. An average guy can be an asshole to someone he is not truly attracted to and a doormat to someone he is attracted to. You couldn't be mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:29 PM
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Ugh. You were trying to be funny, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:27 PM
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You make zero sense and, contrary to what your improv teacher has told you, you are not funny
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:27 PM
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No, you couldn't be more wrong. Men are not consciously making changes. They change without even realizing it based on the woman they have in front. A man can be hurtful and disrespectful to a woman he has low attraction for, but he will act like a doormat for a woman who puts him in his place. You have Pollyanna's syndrome
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:26 PM
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Nah, this is a lie and an oversimplification. It all boils down to attraction level. Women were told lies for centuries. Women were told that you need to be nurturing and sweet and that you can have any guy. That is a lie. LIE LIE LIE
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:25 PM
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Jesus christ, the amount of stupidity here. Is it really hard to fathom, even for someone with your intellect, that the posts about the football player were removed? And that you only see the title? Jesus Christ, you need help. ASAP
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:23 PM
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What a stupid, idiotic, dumb, naive, obtuse comparison. A thief is not a man who is dating. A man who is dating humans change based on how much he likes the other girl (if he truly does), how much the other girl treats him badly. It is not about character but about attraction level.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:22 PM
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You are a conquest that most if not all will lose interest in once they have conquered. Believe it when they show you who they are. People don't change that easily. That is why I will never cave in and always make them feel rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:18 PM
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I will continue doing what I am doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:18 PM
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That's besides the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:15 PM
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I don't care if you hate it or not, because it describes the nature of all bad boys who become lapdogs when women treat them badly
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:13 PM
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You fail to comprehend that these women don't even actively try to change these men. These men change spontaneously when they meet a tough cookie, a woman who treats them like dirt and takes them for granted. Society has spread this lie that men want a submissive and docile woman. Wrong wrong wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:13 PM
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100%. Past behavior is the best indicator of future behavior, and anything a person has done they’ll find easier to do again. It’s just human nature, it can be good with things like job experience, and bad with things like criminal behavior Very naive conception of things. We are talking about dating, we are not talking about criminal behavior or job experience. What a bad and useless equivalence. In dating scenarios, people adapt based on the other person. The SAME guy will act extremely differ…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:12 PM
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Yeah, except that a lot of them are terrible and they think they are good lovers. the problem is that fuck boys pretend they want a relationship when they know damn well they don't
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:26 AM
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Make them one dimensional Exactly. This is a good definition. One-dimensional.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:25 AM
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They will be forever tortured and rejected. They deserve it for lying and pretending to want a relationship. I agree that they lose interest, but that applies to all men. I specifically said that there are dominant traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:25 AM
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Miss Thing, please. Do you think it's that hard to find married guys willing to lie? Please.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:24 AM
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you would be amazed. You have no idea how many bad boys become lapdogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:23 AM
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Yeah, but you would be amazed. You have no idea how many bad boys become lapdogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:22 AM
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Girl, what are you on? What is brag dawg? Brag about what?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:22 AM
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Looks is key. Of course. As a woman, I cannot be attracted to an old guy, or an otherwise unattractive guy. He can be filthy rich, I don't care. I would feel repulsed having to kiss his mouth. Yuck. There's a lot of cope and lies being spread around. Looks absolutely matter. However, a lot of ugly guys think that it's within their control. It is not. Only a small percentage is in your control. No matter how much you lift, if you are short, bald, your facial structure is ugly, you are fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:43 PM
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You are coping. Men age terribly. TERRIBLY. Even their genitals age terribly. Proper fitness? Give me a break. There's no comparison with a hot stud in his 20s who can do three consecutive rounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:39 PM
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Exactly! I am NOT attracted to old farts and I tell all women not to waste their youth with old farts. There's this myth that men age like fine wine and that there will be some sort of comeuppance. Yeah, right. If a man is ugly in his 20s, he will be even uglier in his 40s. He can make all the money in the world, but women won't be genuinely attracted to him .
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:38 PM
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I couldn't agree more with you. You are the wisest person on Reddit. I swear. Reading your messages is so refreshing. I do not like old, fossilized farts. I tell women not to waste their youth with old farts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:23 PM
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Sex is overrated. And good sex with someone you truly like AND who likes you back is very rare
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:53 PM
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I don't need to spend time with higher quality people. You'll see. I have seen this pattern in many socioeconomic settings. Period
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:47 PM
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He will get gold diggers who will cheat on him with studs. Duh. Yes, a lot of men who are ugly get told that confidence will do the trick.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:22 AM
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It's the opposite. They like abrasive women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 08:06 PM
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yeah right. Pleaaaaze!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 08:03 PM
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You know that the moderator did that, right? You do know that or not? You do know that? Do you know that? I had flaired it as "debate"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:51 PM
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No, you are the deluded one. I have been around the block. I know for a fact that men will compliment women whom they find unattractive. Period. Plain and simple. Spare your energy. You won't change my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:35 PM
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it doesn't have to go as far as reading minds. You must be on the spectrum
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:32 PM
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No. I am talking about when other women are unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:31 PM
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You are talking about online dating. I can tell it by the use of "match." I don't do OLD. People look different in real life. Useless
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:30 PM
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we're interested in different women until one of them show her interest back. So you are saying that when a woman reciprocates your interest, you are no longer attracted to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:28 PM
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Honey, if I am not physically attracted to you, no amount of compliments will work. Plain and simple. And childbirth kills the attraction a man has for a woman, but he will never admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:28 PM
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Oh please, honey. They call themselves "ugly" to fish for compliments and to force other people to tell them, "no, you are handsome." I am appalled at the amount of naivete in this forum. Plus there are literally studies that show how ugly men overestimate themselves. I know plenty of old farts who think women will be attracted to them. Look at Rollo Tommasi. He is ugly in a grotesque way and yet he believes he has chances with women. No, you are wrong. Men are bombarded with lies that all you h…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:26 PM
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What makes you think that this post was written by a man? Are you that out of touch with reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:23 PM
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hat doesn’t mean that the other girl in the room isn’t also pretty. Except when she is objectively UGLY, like objectively, and he gives compliments to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:23 PM
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Are you really that naive? Because men want to use you as a cumdumpster
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:22 PM
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BS. Maybe 50 years ago. Not today. Everybody under 30 thinks she is an Instagram baddie. Please
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:21 PM
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I am a woman. Jeez. And if I see guys giving compliments to objectively ugly and fat women, how on Earth can I possibly believe them?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:20 PM
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you mean, you want some pussy? Your comment is backwards
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:20 PM
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And you must be a basement dweller. How can I be bitter if every man I come across wants to have sex with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:19 PM
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Proves that if you're 6.3' and jacked they would smash even if you're gay. Oh please. Another naive individual. How can you be so naive?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:16 PM
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"I love the colours you chosed today, it combines with your skin tone/enhance your eyes", "your boots/shoes are awesome, make your legs so long", "what did you do to your hair? It really looks bright and full of life tonight!" or just "Damn you're a fucking Queen tonight"... I would immediately put you in the gay friendzone if you were to tell these things to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:16 PM
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It's not about cohesion as much as relevance or logical inference.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:12 PM
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Complete, utter, total BS. I have a lot of unique features. Objectively unique.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:11 PM
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You are wrong. You are very wrong. I go to places and men are all over me, and when I go to the restroom or pretend I am distracted, they flirt with other women and compliment on them. Don't try to invalidate my experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:11 PM
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Terrible type of gaslighting. Mine was a rhetorical question but you are unable to perceive nuances and social subtleties.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:10 PM
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Bad analogy and fake equivalence. Liking different genres of music is one thing. Physical attraction is a completely different thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:08 PM
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No, because men go for the same type of baddie, but they will also try with ugly girls
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:08 PM
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Oh please. Give me a break
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:07 PM
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Jesus Christ. How sheltered must you be? Because guys like to fuck and so they will fuck an ugly woman. Or it's simply an ego boost, they want a girl to get to like them even though they have no intention of sleeping with her. How naive must you be?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:06 PM
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but, if you’re talking about physical beauty there actually have been universal patterns of things people find attractive, such as youthfulness and symmetrical facial features. Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:05 PM
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No, you are overcomplicating something extremely simple because men end up drooling over the same type of girl. Please stop with this nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:04 PM
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No. There is objective beauty and objective ugliness. The whole "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" is a lie that boomers have divulged.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:04 PM
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No. No. No. The adjective "fake" is unambiguous. You are overcomplicating something that is extremely simple. And you are also oversimplifying what I said. The only nonsensical thing here is you. For example, I am always told that I have gorgeous eyes. Some men have even said that my eyes are "mesmerizing." Then they give the same compliment to a woman with crooked and droopy eyes. Get out of here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:03 PM
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Beauty is not in the eye of the beholder. Are you in your 50s? No offense meant, I want to understand. Because younger people don't say that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:48 AM
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and how can a woman truly gauge if the guy is truly attracted to her or he hasn't found anything better?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:47 AM
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Sorry for destroying your delusion of destroying my non-existent illusions. I do not give compliments to men that I really don't mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:46 AM
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of you? no, because beauty is objective and not subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:45 AM
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I think people do overestimate their own attractiveness. However, I don’t see the connection between that and men being unable to compliment women. How can you not see the connection? Men are horny and want to fuck anything. In order to do that, they compliment everybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:45 AM
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No, honey, I am a woman. What makes you think this was written by a man? You are very mistaken. A lot of unattractive women receive compliments both in real life and in person, and it goes to their heads and end up vastly overestimating their attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:44 AM
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if they say some generic stuf like "nice eyes" then no This is contradictory. "Nice eyes" is quite specific. No? I get people telling me that I have beautiful even mesmerizing eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:43 AM
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I think people know exactly where they fall. J No, you would be amazed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:41 AM
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Okay, but if a guy tells me that I have gorgeous eyes, and then he gives the same compliment to a woman with crossed eyes, how can I believe him?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:41 AM
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No, I am not presenting two different arguments. Men give fake compliments, women end up believing them, women end up overestimating their looks. It's very obvious. It's the same topic. And what do you mean by "mid and all that?" Like average?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:40 AM
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My topic was different. It was about men giving fake compliments to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:38 AM
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Really? Wow, what a shocking revelation. And how come men complain about women and yet they give fake compliments to women? I am not saying future faking, I am saying stuff like, "you are stunning, you are gorgeous"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:37 AM
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I disagree, because I see a lot of unattractive women who think they are hot. Usually, the most attractive women are the ones who are insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:34 AM
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Do you think men truly mean it when they say, "you are stunning", "you are beautiful", "you are gorgeous"?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:33 AM
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Huh? Fake like in fake. Fake, meaning not genuine, insincere, phony. Do you need more synonyms? It is crystal clear what I mean by "fake." No, like they say, "you have gorgeous eyes" and then they tell the same thing to women with crooked eyes. I am not stupid, I know when a woman is objectively unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:32 AM
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You completely missed the point. There are way many more reasons to being ugly other than being overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:43 AM
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Things is, the overweight woman is becoming the normal nowadays, especially in America. Yeah, because the ONLY reason to be unattractive is being overweight, right? Jesus. Forget about the existence of skinny but ugly girls
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:33 AM
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You are clueless. Men are not attracted to pixie hairstyles, men are not attracted to short hair, men are not attracted to gray hair, the hair can make or break a look
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:31 AM
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What are you talking about? Most men find a woman attractive as long as she isn't overweight... Please remember that we all have the ability to control our weight by eating healthy, fasting, doing cardio-vascular exercises, lifting weights, etc.' This is a reductionist and naive explanation. Plenty of skinny girls are ugly. Stop equating being thin with being beautiful. Being thin is only maybe 10%. Leg-to-torso ratio, skin, hair, eye shape, cranial shape, face shape, nose shape, teeth, etc etc …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:28 AM
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nd judging women more harshly is all. It often happens when men fall into the manosphere rabbit hole. I have noticed it that too. That these guys tend to have unrealistic standards. Why is it that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:26 AM
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The biggest mistake women make is projecting a typically female mentality onto men. The biggest mistake men make is projecting a typically male mentality onto women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:48 AM
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oh my god! How am I gonna survive now? I have been discovered on an anonymous board. And you are right, I feel envy for all the used up and oblivious women who settled for ugly men who fart and burp in their faces. So sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:11 AM
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You will just find a female version of a hobosexual. What a stupid take. You are making things up. Having a home doesn't make an ugly man attractive. Ugh. I can't believe the level of stupidity
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:45 AM
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brilliant! What a witty, intelligent, articulate, autogynephilic response. I can't wait for you to come back here crying when you find out that your "tall handsome husband" was lying to you. Your naivete is appalling, that is why I knew right away you were an autogynephile
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:43 AM
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Where did you see me crying, you enormous coprolite, if I keep getting chased by men years after. Your autogynephilia is showing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:41 AM
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The honeymoon phase and the unavailability have one thing in common: lack of routine. Attraction always fades. It's impossible for attraction to last a lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:41 AM
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You do not understand. The same guy can act like a jerk with a nice girl and as a doormat with a woman who treats him like shit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:33 AM
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so why do guys look at other women even when they are with the woman they are dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:30 AM
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No, no, it's the opposite of the apex fallacy. I have observed that even ugly men and shortlets approach a woman, and then their eyes wander. It is the opposite of apex fallacy because it applies to ugly men and shortlets
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:29 AM
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This is fanfiction, and the worst quality. I don't know if I have to laugh or pity you, because, from the way you write, I can tell you are completely detached from reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:28 AM
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Even a broken clock is right twice a day, and even someone of your "intellectual stature" has been able to say something sensible. Men will follow a hot woman to the ends of the Earth. True. What you failed to understand, due to your impaired cognitive abilities, is that I have had men chase me aggressively and even harass me. High-quality men I had to file a TPO against. And the common denominator was that I rejected them or was unavailable. So there's that. I clearly specified it in my post an…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:25 AM
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Thank you so much for clarifying what OTT means and for linking the FDD website. Also, thanks for clarifying your point of view. Now, it's about nuances. Of course, if a woman is ugly, no strategy will help her. But definitely, if a woman is hot, being too available will turn a guy off
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:19 AM
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because you can't comprehend it. Also, now that you have started your message with LMAOOOO, I am definitely floored and defeated. Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:17 AM
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Your comparison is nonsensical because it is based on a bad analogy and a fake equivalence. Attending an event or going on a dream vacation are in no way comparable to the complexity of dating someone and becoming less attracted once they are available. Also, read the title of my post and pay attention. You are not perceiving nuances. I wrote AT LEAST A PERCENTAGE of their attraction. I am writing it in all caps to make it easier for you. That means that men don't necessarily become COMPLETELY u…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:15 AM
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You do not observe them carefully. Try it next time. Watch how their eyes wonder on other girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:37 PM
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Where can I find the FDS handbook? It's not linked on Reddit. What is OTT? Also, things are not cut-and-dried as most people here think. Of course, if you are an ugly woman, no playing hard to get and no strategy will work. There needs to be a modicum of attraction. If a guy is somewhat attracted to a woman, his attraction can diminish or increase based on her availability or unavailability, respectively.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:37 PM
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I have described patterns. You have not
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:34 PM
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Yes, honey, we will see how long it lasts with this stud, before he is one of the many "happily married" good guys who cheats on his wives. I wouldn't wish being in your smelly shoes not even in my wildest dreams. I wouldn't wish that fate to my worst enemy. I am not bitching and moaning, how old are you? You must be in your late 50s to vomit these empty platitudes. Do you also believe in the law of attraction LMAO. I am simply observing, but you cannot make a distinction between observations an…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:33 PM
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Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:28 PM
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You don't understand. I am saying men can be attracted to a woman and then become disinterested once she shows interest
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:27 PM
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And? You think your little anecdotal experience based on one single case is going to disprove a pattern that has been observed thousands of times even by social scientists? You can't be serious
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:24 PM
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Ha ha ha, honey, you are not hot. At all. You have a distorted perception of reality and you have watched too many Disney movies. You have Pollyanna's syndrome and reading comprehension issues. I have observed this pattern in many other women and in different sociocultural settings. Of course, you didn't comprehend that part. Don't you ever dare to victim-blame. This tactic won't work on me. And this happens to women outside of myself. And you are incredibly naive for thinking that "nice guys" a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:23 PM
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It might not be new, but every man online and in real life complains about women having high standards or playing hard to get, when they do not realize that they lose their attraction to women who are available. Duh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:16 PM
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Huh? Wait, what? What are you talking about? You missed the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:11 PM
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That might be PART of the reason, but not the only reason. I have seen guys with huge egos and huge self-esteem becoming unattracted the minute the woman they are fancying becomes available
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:11 PM
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It's self-explanatory. Like hot girls acting crazy with guys who are pursuing them. These girls do random stuff like singing opera in the middle of a mall, acting stupid, acting like a clown, these girls sending the guys photos of autopsies or gore stuff and the guys do NOT get turned off simply because these girls are objectively beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:10 PM
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Lust turns into love and trust and commitment. You are assuming love lasts forever
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:09 PM
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I don't know. Because foreplaying is not the litmus test of sexual compatibility. Also, a lot of women are too enmeshed to realize that a guy is no longer attracted to them. We can't be objective when we are emotionally involved and we lie to ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:05 PM
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It is not semantics at all. Two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:03 PM
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No. Not at all. The guy doesn't stick to a woman. I have observed it many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:03 PM
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Of course, if you are ugly as sin, being unavailable won't magically make you attractive. Duh. But if there is a modicum of attraction, being unavailable or too available can sway things in opposite directions
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:02 PM
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I admire your honesty
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:57 PM
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but what you can do and control is not let your SO treat you as granted and make him always assume that you can leave any moment if he is not good enough this is will force some cat and mouse dynamic make him constantly doing efforts to keep you I completely agree with this part. ​ >can be by being available most of the time , I completely disagree with this part. That is when they lose their attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:29 PM
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Getting intimate as soon as possible? I agree that you need to assess sexual compatibility as, in my experience, a lot of men I have slept with are complete disasters or have small and ugly penises, or they just don't know what the hell they are doing, but how does sleeping asap do any good?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:21 PM
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Ugh. Jesus. You are speculating in purely theoretical and abstract terms. You are overcomplicating something that is extremely simple. We are on Reddit, we do not have to survey men, especially because men would lie anyway on surveys, most of them do not even realize they are lying. What is your point exactly? Because your circular argument is useless. "Generalized analysis of human behavior"? Jeez. This is the same line of thinking of, "you can't generalize", which is one of the stupidest state…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:20 PM
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That means you are sexually aroused, not truly attracted. You are speculating in theoretical terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:15 PM
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The truth is, I can be wildly attracted to girls I won't date. I don't buy it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:12 PM
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I don't know why you assume I was talking about someone taken. No. Not at all. I was talking about men losing their attraction once a woman reciprocates them. Nothing to do with being taken or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:08 PM
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No, it's much much simpler than that. You are overcomplicating an extremely simple thing. You also seem to assume that just because two people are in a relationship, they must be TRULY attracted to each other. Nothing further from the truth. Men everywhere claim to want a nice girl. But, in real life, they will get bored with a nice and available girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:07 PM
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I agree with you and I wasn't saying that I am hot or attractive. I intentionally tried to avoid talking about myself too much. But yes, not giving a guy a chance will make you seem unavailable and hot. Maybe you were speaking in generic terms and you didn't actually mean YOU as in me. I didn't understand the part about meeting expectations, though, or exceeding them, when most of it is based on physical attractiveness, so you can only do so much
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:04 PM
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If you read my post carefully (I know it was long, so you probably only cursorily read it), I said that I have seen it happening to super hot women. Judging from your photo (and I know it's only ONE photo), I highly doubt you have as many options as you claim to have. Maybe you do have options, but not the high-value, coveted women everybody wants. You are saying rationally that you get turned off when you have to compete with other men. But relationships are not rational or logical. So I don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:00 PM
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All of these processes are unconscious and instinctual. It's not like a man says, "okay, let me actively pursue a woman who is disinterested." Contrary to popular belief, a lot of what happens in our lives is outside of our control. Even balanced and highly educated men will, in the abstract, say that they want a nice and loyal woman, but then they will end up falling in love with an erratic and unpredictable woman. Physical attraction is paramount for men. Period. Physical attraction for men tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:50 PM
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I choose the dull ache of hopelessness over the stabbing pain of rejection or competition even if I could win it. Very poetic and beautifully put :) I like that. I am going to steal this. I get what you are saying, but I guarantee you that things in rea life work differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:39 PM
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Easier said than done. We say one thing, we end up doing the opposite. I am sure that if you met a woman you truly like and there seems to be a connection, you would fall hard, no matter what you say now. Not trying to disrespect you or trivialize your feelings. I am saying that we overestimate our strictness and compliance
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:33 PM
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Because, no matter what society tells us, it all boils down to being attractive as a woman. A woman who is TRULY attractive (not fake attractive), can get away with a lot. Being awkward and nerdy won't turn a guy off if you are TRULY hot. I emphasize the adverb TRULY because a a lot of people believe they are much more attractive than what they truly are. It's a survival mechanism. And well-meaning friends and relatives bombard us with compliments, so we end up believing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:13 PM
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Oh God. Just because two people are in a relationship, it doesn't mean they are TRULY attracted to each other. In fact, most people end up in relationships but there is no genuine attraction, they just settle. Men have the same pattern of attraction. Just because they settle for an unattractive woman because there's nothing better they can get, it does not mean anything. How can people be so naive? I don't get it. Do you have any vague idea of how many people are married to someone they are not …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:10 PM
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If I had to guess, you are not as attractive as you think you are. Also, that is so weird. People don't compliment on income. It's like me going to the grocery store and the cashier telling me, "wow, you have such an amazing income." You must be joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:00 PM
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Yes, you are 100% right. One of the hardest lessons I had to learn in my life is that men say A but they mean B. They say they want a docile and submissive girl, but they fall in love with the b*tch. Men say they like no-makeup looks, but their idea of no-makeup look means that you spent 60 minutes doing your makeup. Men harshly criticize women who then worships. Men say they want no drama and no crazy girls, but if a girl is hot, she can be crazy and nasty. It's all backwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:59 AM
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Excellent analysis! Amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:38 AM
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Not only that, but men who complain about women not giving them a chance would immediately lose their attraction to whichever woman gives them a chance. I will be downvoted, I know, but there is a masochistic quality to men. Most men are not aware of their masochistic traits, but I have noticed that men will lose at LEAST a percentage of their attraction once the woman of their dreams becomes available.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:11 AM
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