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Why the hell not?
/r/PussyPassDenied09/11/16 10:18 AM
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This post is High Technology
/r/TheRedPill02/10/16 09:06 PM
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Another option is to go your own way and focus your life on something else.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 05:18 AM
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I've been hearing outrageous stories coming out of that country for years.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 03:34 AM
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Money is kind of a masculine currency in that it is purely about action, power, and success. It accomplishes things, controls things, and rewards successful behaviors. I won't disagree that there is such a thing as emotional effort or labor, but I don't think it's something that can be compensated with money. Nor do I think nor money can necessarily buy it. Furthermore, if you were to start paying people for emotional support, I think it would destroy what tenuous emotional connection is left be…
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/15 09:13 AM
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Hence marriage is pointless if he has to put forth the same effort, whether married or not.
/r/askTRP17/08/15 04:19 AM
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This is true. The "just world fallacy" was interesting to read about, and really I don't think it was discussed as deeply as it could have been on wikipedia, because the idea underpins a lot of philosophies and religions. You make a good point that even if it does not apply at an individual level, it may very well be more applicable at a global level. It's something to keep in mind.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 08:47 AM
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The top posts (even most of the upvoted posts, I'd argue) are where the gold is at. The sidebar is but a small fraction of the content, and is already available elsewhere on the web. To lose the archive of posts here would be huge.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 03:54 AM
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I recently found a few papers on it, and it appears that depression actually physically damages your brain and can be diagnosed via brain scans: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3100220/ https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S2213158213001162?np=y Bottom like is I think that you have to deal with the depression head-on to avoid brain damage. Furthermore, lifting is one of the few things shown to cause neuron growth. See this article.
/r/askTRP10/01/15 12:04 AM
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There are a lot of things that are out of your control, for example if you get into an accident, get cancer, get laid off and can't get work in your field, those things can knock you off your edge. And really that's why I think the dark triad is so rare and sought-after. In gay, bsdm, and strait situations they're universally rare and in demand, but it's a double-edge sword because they are abandoned when something happens to them. It's like the opposite of women who have a social support net fo…
/r/askTRP05/01/15 07:16 AM
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I don't understand why you believe RP knowledge is "too good to be true". The basic premise is that women will never really love you for who you are, and you have to go out and earn respect every single day. The traditional falling in love scenario sounds much more like what guys (and women) want to hear.
/r/askTRP05/01/15 06:05 AM
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The only thing I can think of is to find some local foreign clubs, perhaps you could find a Russian one (I think Seattle has a sizable population of them). There you can probably find some bros who have some type of cultural training on how to be masculine. From there hopefully you can find other like-minded guys who aren't of that ethnicity. I know this advice is pathetic, but it's the best I've got. This is how bad our culture has gotten. There are manginas EVERYWHERE. I too would like to hear…
/r/askTRP03/01/15 07:31 AM
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Great post, and even more than that, it's a great perspective to take and think about. I recently saw a typical tumblr post getting liked on facebook, posted by a female and upvoted by all her friends. Overall, it pretty was benign and the type of thing you ignore. But being ever observant however, I was watching who was liking it. 19 women and 1 guy liked it. lol, who is this guy? I browse to his profile and see he studies women, gender, and sexuality at a university. I guess that answers that …
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 08:11 AM
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I saw that too. It's pretty funny how we are so hated/feared that not even our name can be uttered anymore. I think one of the mods hates us and is just cleaning up the thread so no one comes across mention of us through searches in the future. They couldn't censor it while the thread was live because that would cause the Streisand effect and make it worse.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 07:07 AM
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Guy here. I think it could be one of two things. Either he has lost attraction to you, or as someone else mentioned has some type of anxiety, or both. I can envision a situation where the woman is sexually active/assertive, and that is both a turnoff and causes anxiety. The reason is that a more sexually active woman will naturally want the most dominate man. That puts him on the spot and means that at some level, in order for him to even get it up and mate with you, he has to be psychologically…
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/14 09:32 PM
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Thank you, this is exactly what it's about. As an abstract concept, it is supposed to be reality, an explanation of cause and effect - nothing more, and nothing less. What someone chooses to do with that information is up to them. Any individual's post will in practice have a bias one way or the other toward what they personally feel "should be done", but that's all just personal opinion which is inherent in any open discussion. I think the OP is unintentionally concern trolling. Usually a good …
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 06:06 PM
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She has no self respect. By staying with her, you lose your own self respect. That's the type of thing that takes years to fix. Just move on.
/r/askTRP12/12/14 05:33 AM
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Your post would be appropriate if he was suffering from depression, but I get the feeling that is not his problem. His issue is primarily that he recognizes specific flaws in his personality and would like information on how to fix them. In my opinion, the last part of his post shows that he's not self deluded into thinking this an easy process. That's part of taking the red pill. I think he's mature and on the right track. He'll be ok. The fact that he can objectively recognize that he does ind…
/r/askTRP11/12/14 06:16 AM
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Exactly, they key is continuous focus of your mind over a period of time. I would like to add that exercising causes brain cell growth. This could be helpful to change the thought patterns and reprogram yourself. http://healthyliving.azcentral.com/exercise-brain-cell-growth-4032.html
/r/askTRP11/12/14 06:06 AM
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Great point and solid advice.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/14 12:07 AM
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This all started a few months into us dating. We would be getting intimate and I would notice hair on her legs (she shaved when we were first hooking up). No big deal, I know it's can be annoying and I don't expect them to be silky smooth all the time. But I would say something jokingly, implying that I prefer shaved over not shaved. She would shave for me, but be sure to let me know that she doesn't like doing it and it's because women should do what they want with their bodies. Next.
/r/askTRP26/11/14 02:36 AM
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I just browsed through that subreddit for the first time... So many damaged and self-loathing people there, I feel for them.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/14 03:59 AM
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Sorry, I was being off topic there, and answering questions you didn't ask.
/r/askTRP19/10/14 05:34 AM
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I've always despised men who spin plates, but I might start An alpha does things for himself, because he wants to. If you don't want to spin plates, then don't. And don't ever let others dictate what you do or how you feel. You may not be spinning plates, but that doesn't mean you're letting anyone freeload off of you because you're hesitant to walk at any point in time. Nor are you lacking in any relationship if you so desire one.
/r/askTRP19/10/14 04:48 AM
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I agree with /u/youcantdenythat, and furthermore, the extra attention won't count for much unless you also have good alpha traits. Getting an alpha's attention and care for free will cause them to have more self respect. An alpha respects himself, and those around him respect him also. When he transfers that through time and attention to someone else, she will by extension perceive herself in that way.
/r/askTRP19/10/14 04:18 AM
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Mating/fucking is an inherently selfish behavior. Both parties are playing the game and trying to get their own genes propagated into the future with the highest probability of success as possible. Bonding though, as most commonly seen between parents and children, is a different behavior. It is designed to help the other person unselfishly. A relationship between a man and woman is a combination of these two things: mating and bonding. Two behavior programs built into our brains. After a period…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 07:20 AM
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True. I just had to write that paragraph to give him a point though, I didn't really have a comment to make on what he said.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 06:40 AM
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A lot of truth is like this. Going out and evangelizing people is useless, and in fact it causes them to misunderstand what you tell them, and then to spread misinformation. Then you get exactly the opposite reaction than what you intended. Instead, never teach someone unless they first ask a question. This is actually the first "rule" in satanism: "Do not give opinions or advice unless you are asked." Not that I'm a satanist, but this is just a basic description of how things work. ♂
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 06:23 AM
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It seems to me that perhaps you are feeling like you aren't really needed. She will be fine whether you are around or not, because she's so awesome. Meanwhile you're struggling to keep your head above water just trying to stay relevant. People giving you attention would make you feel relevant and important and needed. But really, none of that matters. People outside your family will never really care about you anywh
/r/askTRP27/07/14 06:12 AM
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Spend the weekend with him doing bucket-list type things, fun things. I know it's short notice, but I'm sure you can think of something. Maybe by the time Monday comes around he will have changed his mind. But don't waste the next 2 days sitting around arguing.
/r/askTRP18/07/14 03:56 AM
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Notice the implicit assumption that the two scenarios (divorce or staying together) should have equal outcomes. Where in the world did that come from? Of course if you choose to have kids, and you choose to sacrifice your career, and you choose to divorce your husband, those chain of events will indeed fuck your life up, as it should. They're your own choices and the only fair and equal outcome is for you to take sole responsibility for them. However, as it stands now there are laws and preceden…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 06:41 AM
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Language is a higher-brain function which is lost on modern society. Most words people speak are indeed noise - unimportant, rambling, and pointless. They usually serve to convey the emotional state of the individual, create territorial understanding, or establish friend-or-foe status. Instead of obediently doing what we're told as society teaches us from a young age, we need to think and then respond based on our own critical thinking and analysis. When we do this, our words will have force and…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 08:30 AM
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I need The Red Pill because I need honesty in my life. This is the reason right here. Personally, I found this sub one day by repeatedly clicking the random subreddit link looking for something interesting. I had seen in a few months prior from clicking random, but I didn't really read much and it just seemed bizarre, because my idea of a red pill has more to do with conspiracy theories. You could say I come more from the conspiracy background. Questioning everything, suspending disbelief at all…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 06:48 AM
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I agree, it does make sense in this case. If we completely ignore the women's tournament, then we have just a general tournament open to anyone and based on skill. The existence of the women's tournament is hopefully because there is a market of people who like watching the girls compete even if the skill level isn't that high. Which is fine, as long as there are sponsors and fans so that it's supporting itself. It's no different than foreign-only tournaments which exclude Koreans. One reason I …
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 06:01 AM
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Their goal isn't really to look out for men's rights, which is something men have to do for themselves. What they try to accomplish is to support and cultivate men who can take care of both themselves and their partners, and lead the relationship in the right direction. Give some encouragement to keep him going instead of breaking him down. We can't expect them to do our jobs, they only help us do better. It may be disappointing, but TRP is indeed difficult and disappointing. We're on our own. W…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 06:38 PM
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He's already several steps ahead of us, he's putting the grand scheme of things into perspective and looking at the How and Why questions. These are things everyone should be thinking about after they've had a chance to get up off the floor and have gotten their life together. In The Way of Men, I used Bonobos and Chimpanzees to compare the female-oriented society to the male-oriented society. People aren’t exactly the same as apes, but I think Chimps and Bonobos make revealing metaphors for whe…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 06:39 AM
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The red pill is about facing reality. Seeing the truth without illusions. That's what it is in it's entirety, nothing more. The response to that realization is very similar for many people however, and hence these responses are typically mistaken by outsiders and newcomers as being the red pill itself. It is closely related but not the same. The hard truth is that each of us really has two options: (1) we can roll over, emotionally implode, and die, and nature will not give a single fuck or drop…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 05:22 AM
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reddit . c o m / r /TheRedPill/comments/26wgma/define_frame/ Delete the spaces in the url.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 09:52 PM
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Good points, you shouldn't be downvoted so much.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 09:10 PM
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A very good point you mentioned is, that TRP doesn't purely consist of self improvement, but rather of building value in your life to get all the things you want. TRP is really about truth. No more, no less. It is a philosophy where truth is desired more than comfortable illusions. Beyond that, it is true to say that many who swallow the pill choose self-improvement as a goal. But that is an individual choice and not a requirement.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 09:02 PM
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The destruction of traditional families and morals have indeed been accelerated intentionally. But this is only natural: ignorant and isolated cultures were easy targets for the more advanced and predatory cultures. If we are all made to be worker bees and no one has a father and therefore don't understand anything about the world, then that benefits the few who do have history, knowledge, and control. But this was inevitable, and temporary. It's hormesis on humanity overall, which will cause us…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 08:17 PM
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Knowledge is power. Knowledge about the world is passed down from father to son. Break the chain of knowledge, and society is ignorant, blind, and easily controlled.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 08:03 PM
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Romance was never about women loving men. It was about a man's love for a woman. All she had to do was maintain purity, that's pretty much it.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 05:53 AM
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Saying that we all compromise a little bit and look at things from a different perspective feels good, but that's not any different than any other relationship advice. Romance never really was a wide-spread thing put into practice by everyday people. It's always been RP between men and women. Romance was an ideal. An ideal with very specific conditions, where female honor and chastity was valued above all other things, and serves as the very foundation for the romantic love. It was a formula. Pe…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 05:48 AM
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Agreed. This is actually a better sticky post for newcomers in my opinion: http://redditlog.com/snapshots/776785
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 03:44 AM
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I really hate how words like sexism have been hijacked. It should simply mean making a distinction based on sex, which itself is not inherently good or bad. That is NOT the same thing as misogyny, prejudice, or bigotry, which are all inherently negative things. The word "discrimination" is also unnecessarily charged, it can and more often should mean to simply understand that one thing is different than another. So fuck it. I'm going to say we are "sexist" because we "discriminate" one sex from …
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 03:11 AM
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To guys: "Otherwise it wouldn't be fair" To girls: "But still more than you can handle"
/r/askTRP28/06/14 06:31 PM
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You'd think that evolution over millions of years would have already removed it if there was an issue.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 07:08 AM
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I don't blame her if she can't or won't fulfill this role. Ultimately, people need to understand and deal with their own problems. If he can figure out what's wrong with himself then he can at least specifically find a mate who can help him fix it. The true facts are usually the most difficult thing to face, and when you find something that is absolutely the furthest thing from what you want to hear then you're probably getting close. Only a small minority of people are willing to face issues li…
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/14 07:10 AM
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My friend seemed a bit put off at the idea of 'mommying' her fiance.... which I can understand. When I say that, I mean sexually. Not in regards to other aspects of everyday life.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/14 06:34 AM
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I have a theory about men who have issues like this. I don't think he ever fully sexually matured into an adult, probably because his parents weren't able to fully complete the task (perhaps due to their own issues). In this case I think it's mommy issues. He never felt enough security to be able to go out and compete with others. He can't handle taking action and being responsible for those actions. He can't bring himself to fuck a girl because then he's competing with every other guy who fucks…
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/14 02:26 AM
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I'd guess that you are exhibiting traits which your father lacks and this makes their own relationship uncomfortable. Even though they're your parents, when it comes to mating everyone is ultimately on the same playing field. And what I mean by that is all adults are on the same playing field regardless of age, income, etc, so I can definitely see them feeling uncomfortable in certain situations. You just have to be conscientious of that, and always leave them a way out of situations such that t…
/r/askTRP02/06/14 04:40 AM
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"Frame" is short for "Reference frame". A reference frame is a stable and reliable point of reference from which to observe or experience the world. Something that is secure and unchanging, even as the environment around it is uncertain and in continuous flux. Fundamentally, what gives a person frame is not an interpersonal skill-set such as appearing calm, which is just a natural consequence of frame. What allows someone to maintain frame in an uncertain world is by aquiring power over one's en…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 08:15 AM
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Does she have a man? It sounds like she probably doesn't and it's a self-reinforcing feedback loop. No male attention -> act bitchy -> drives men away, less attention -> acts bitchier That's the problem, see if you can get her some male attention to fix it. If she's overweight that could be another symption from lack of male attention that causes a similar feedback loop - overeating from anxiety from lack of any male attention. One of the things we frequently employ is withholding our attention,…
/r/askTRP23/05/14 07:11 AM
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Listen to /u/walkingthelinux's advice. Things are good now, but as he describes, the overall situation with these women isn't good and will do harm over time.
/r/askTRP10/05/14 08:57 PM
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Mental illness. He should probably get it diagnosed, perhaps he could get some of his stuff back.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 03:37 AM
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Bootcamp: /r/NoFap, /r/Paleo Stopping those dopamine rushes will give you more self-control, which will translate into willpower which can be directed to any area of your choosing. As long as you're controlled by external impulses, you have little free will.
/r/askTRP03/05/14 09:42 PM
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Diet is about 80% of the equation. Eat a paleo/keto diet, it will be good for both of you. Also, running doesn't really help much. Intense weight training is what causes certain hormones to be released which change the metabolism and add calorie-burning muscle. Definitely get her to read this book, it explains the whole exercise aspect with modern-day medical knowlege.
/r/askTRP23/04/14 06:48 AM
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I agree with everything except the masterbation part. It's really just a bandaid that hides other issues; it's not a long-term solution. In the best situation it's something you would never do, but I guess if it's between masterbating and getting involved with an ex, you go with the lesser of two evils (but really that's a false choice).
/r/askTRP16/04/14 07:51 AM
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Men plan for the future, and you can't just quit because of a feeling, you have to have a real plan which you are going to execute. Unless you can come up with a better, solid, and realistic plan, you continue to follow through with what you are doing. If you really don't want to follow through, then you need to come up with a solid and realistic plan of what you are going to do. Let me repeat that again. You have two options: follow through with the current plan, or create a solid new plan for …
/r/askTRP30/03/14 09:22 AM
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Great thread. So much redpill here. Check out the little tidbit at the end. One of my best friends had that experience. When she was in her early twenties she got together with S. S was funny, amazing with children and devoted to her. S however was not at all adventurous. He loved her sense of adventure and would happily join in on everything, but he was very much a "salt of the earth" kind of guy. Not artistic, not going to wake up one morning and decide to trek around India and thus too boring…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 06:17 AM
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Why don't you like CS? What types of things appeal to you?
/r/askTRP29/03/14 11:03 PM
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And spend a little bit of their his hard-earned money in the process.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 05:47 AM
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These days, we use bitcoin.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 04:27 AM
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That guy is just going to keep doing it to people in prison. He should have just taken care of the problem with a heavy blunt object.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/14 08:55 PM
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Remove the indentations. It thinks you're writing code when you indent.
/r/askTRP06/03/14 06:00 AM
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Don't use a gun, it just gives them an excuse to ban guns.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 05:39 AM
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If anyone, we need to get angry at other men. It is they who willfully allow themselves to be used and deceived because they aren't strong enough to face reality. Then they become white knights and fiercely fight anyone who would stand up and tell the truth. They have kids and set them up for a miserable life because the best they have to offer is either falsehoods or a disconnected silence because deep down inside they know something is wrong. Women themselves are in such a situation that, due …
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 09:41 AM
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In addition to willful ignorance, I think we're seeing some of what is described here: http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1v8cc0/a_woman_cannot_tell_you_how_you_must_proceed_she/ They literally can not understand any type of objective statements of fact without personalizing it into being about what you think about them at that moment.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/14 06:12 PM
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How does that work?
/r/askTRP15/01/14 11:14 PM
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I'd recommend a paleo diet for health and weightloss.
/r/askTRP15/01/14 08:11 PM
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I can relate to TRP quite a lot guys, but some theories don't have much to stand on, in my opinion, and others can require a bit more. It's based on abductive reasoning. Many observations have been made over time (field reports), and TRP is simply the best explanation that fits the data. It isn't something that's been deduced from first principles, and it doesn't need to be. Science is just a logical process of discovery, and the important thing is we understand the observations and assumptions …
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 01:15 AM
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No one is truly diverse and unique.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/14 06:26 PM
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Check out my post here: http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1r1nu9/radical_extension_to_red_pill_theory_the_mythical/ I think there are basically two things we're looking for, the dopamine-based sex drive and the oxytocin-based bonding fulfillment need. If you can understand what those two are and how they are fundamentally different, you can figure out what you need to do. My post has more info.
/r/askTRP29/12/13 03:11 AM
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It's just the way humans are in general.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/13 12:58 AM
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/r/ForeverAlone
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/13 09:44 AM
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Guy here, but maybe you could just give them non-sexual attention. Kind of friend-zone yourself. Obviously you can't spend too much time or it would be a burden. But maybe go to the level of pleasantries, force yourself to just sit there a few extra minutes and give them some attention which is something they need and doesn't take too much away from you. Over time, I would assume the attraction would die down if you do this. But maybe the ladies can give their point of view on doing this. By mak…
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/13 07:05 AM
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Don't ignore your natural feelings, they are no less "true" than trp itself. You just need to understand what's happening and figure out how to resolve it. This book may help explain what's happening in terms of the bonding/oxytocin you're feeling vs the dopamine hit you were initially pursuing via sex. The feeling you get is designed to keep you two together long enough for a child to become a few years old, then other feelings of disenchantment and unattraction come into the picture to drive y…
/r/askTRP26/11/13 08:14 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f8cq9y3QagI
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 04:40 PM
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/r/paleo I've found weight just starts falling off if you do it. No other work necessary.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/13 07:10 PM
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You shouldn't get to the point where you get blue balls, as described in the book. That only happens if you get too excited/overheat. With this there's hardly any movement. I hope you're happily together in 50 years too. But in reality all of the odds are against you. So that is unlikely to happen. The information presented here could explain why that is so often the case. But I wish you luck.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 09:25 AM
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Cut out all sugar and eat paleo, and results will come. I think it's a lot safer to criticize the food she is eating, because it's objectively bad no matter what weight she is at. She should get the message if you criticize her diet.
/r/askTRP07/11/13 12:54 AM
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I've met a number of women who I wasn't initially attracted to but after spending time with them, I've developed attraction. Same here.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/13 08:44 PM
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/r/NoFap /r/pornfree http://sacredsexualityproject.com/wordpress/
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/13 06:41 AM
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I think men are "positive" and women are "negative". When a man says something, it's what he means, when he reasons he can discover the causes for issues he has. On the other hand, women say the opposite of what they mean, they really want the opposite of what they think they want. Their reasoning doesn't really use reason. Notice in TBP that they typically reflect what we write but switch everything around. Like, they'll take a post or paragraph and just reverse everything in it, or they'll exa…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/13 06:52 PM
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blindingly
/r/askTRP06/10/13 06:43 PM
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Could you explain what your degree is in and why you can't find a job?
/r/askTRP06/10/13 12:17 AM
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"pleads not guilty" "Lynch set the next hearing in the case for Oct. 15."
/r/TheRedPill05/10/13 04:31 PM
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Maybe carry around a little pocket calendar or notebook with a bunch of notes written in it, and when you come up with a tentative time to meet again, whip it out like you need to double or triple check that you're actually available. Then, when they say "maybe", just say there are no guarantees you won't be booked, the notebook has a mind of it's own and if you don't write it down then she doesn't have a spot reserved.
/r/askTRP02/10/13 10:25 PM
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Are you expected to marry someone your own age? Or could you go younger in india?
/r/askTRP29/09/13 10:48 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/DEFCON
/r/TheRedPill26/09/13 02:28 AM
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Embedded text article with additional commentary and pics of her: http://www.celebitchy.com/324791/katia_elizarova_cumbys_russian_girl_i_enjoy_being_a_fragile_little_thing/
/r/TheRedPill25/09/13 07:30 PM
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Looks like guys trying to enforce monogamy in their social group by trying to shame her. It doesn't work though because their social group is relatively small compared to the society it is immersed in. In a muslim country however, it would be a different story, and the tactic would probably work.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/13 05:35 AM
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Asian or eastern european?
/r/askTRP21/09/13 08:47 PM
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I want to point out an important fact that people just don't seem to get. The science is in the observations, it's the data from going out, doing experiments, and recording the results (field reports). All of the explanations such as comparing primates to humans, explaining how women think, evolutionary aspects of male and female behavior, all of these are simply hypotheses to explain the data. They aren't proven, and indeed, we base nothing on them. They are only a conceptual aid to help determ…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/13 02:04 AM
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One thing I'd like to say in response to his comment, which I won't do because we're quarantined, is say that many of us here are 'disgusted' with these things as well. We view it as an unfortunate truth, not as some sort of righteous idea that we're happy about. I don't think this point is clearly understood by them.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/13 01:36 AM
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The problem is he's trying to be objective. (And it looks like lots of people over at /r/Foodforthought try to be objective). The problem is that objective reality isn't attractive to women.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/13 09:26 PM
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They're both kind of right but also both very wrong. She's making the logical (selfish) choice, while at the same time deceiving and using him. He's simply following the instruction and advice he's grown up with his entire life, but refusing to face reality and shed his delusions; he's overlooking the signs of problems which would otherwise lead him to discovering the truth.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/13 09:21 PM
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Wisdom here
/r/TheRedPill16/09/13 08:20 PM
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I think what we really want is empathy. The silence between two guys isn't about letting the guy's brain process things in peace and quiet, it's about the other guy feeling and understanding what the first guy just described. If women can't empathize then it's understandable, but at the very least they shouldn't exasperate the fact that they can't. For example, constant talking, more than anything, shows they don't feel anything and instead are trying to provide superficial help in the form of a…
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/13 08:37 AM
1

Why don't women come to try and understand how evolutionary forces caused them to react in certain ways to alpha and beta men? Why don't they realize that they are attracted to the men who will lie and cheat on them because their primal brains are telling them these are the best mates, and then choose differently? Why can't they learn, as men who have taken the red pill have, to fight against their own self-defeating behaviors and learn to how to live in a world where the urges of their primal b…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/13 07:11 AM
4

Did the experience change you?
/r/TheRedPill13/09/13 06:32 AM
1

If someone could make a rebbit.com or something where all the banned subs could reorganize it could form a real balance against the corrupt modding policy here. There's already an effort underway: /r/timetostartanew
/r/TheRedPill12/09/13 01:27 AM
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Personally, I view it like I view scientific theories. TRP is like Newtonian physics. It basically describes the observable world around us and is perfectly correct in the world we have experience in. That doesn't mean it is valid when we start to zoom in and observe very fine things like atoms and particles, or very large things like galaxies. It is no longer valid and instead it is only one part something larger and perhaps not fully explored. Indeed, there is potential for breakthroughs which…
/r/askTRP11/09/13 09:45 PM
1

He's using abductive reasoning which doesn't guarantee the right conclusion but is a perfectly valid approach.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/13 07:09 PM
1

Sometimes it's nice to talk to and look at (and smell, haha) feminine, pleasant, women as an activity by itself. It's ok to let it happen a little bit. Realize that few women they encounter will even be friendly enough to even say 'hi' back to them.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/13 06:15 AM
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What you are doing is an act of faith, which is the first step to changing and becoming better. What is more admirable than self improvement, getting out of an unhealthy situation, and making things better? It's a false notion that you can sacrifice your own health and well being to such an extent to make things better for those you care about, because they will only learn how to be miserable themselves while working under the facade that they too are doing it for someone else. You can't push so…
/r/askTRP10/09/13 10:40 PM
3

Your personality is the external part of you formed by your environment and upbringing, and right now it's autonomously running your life by making decisions according to the programming which it's received. If you're unhappy with this then you'll need to work on changing your personality. In the most extreme case you could detach from it completely and become a totally different person with no previous resemblance of what you were. Some drugs, mental illness, or extremely traumatic events can d…
/r/askTRP09/09/13 07:32 AM
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There are people who are willing to accept it and those who aren't. If they aren't willing to accept reality, what can you do about it? It happens so much more than just this topic. It's in everything, politics, religion, history, current events, it goes on and on. The best you can do is observe the characteristics of such blindness when you see it, then do your best to make sure you don't fall into the same traps in the other areas I mentioned.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/13 06:21 AM
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I think the majority want it (relationships), we just don't yet understand how it's possible
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/13 04:57 AM
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Read Women in Love in the sidebar
/r/TheRedPill03/09/13 01:48 AM
2

So you have 10 years experience, but not in your field of training (RF engineer)? I would have guessed that wireless/rf engineering would be one of the areas in demand.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/13 10:12 PM
2

What field?
/r/TheRedPill02/09/13 09:43 PM
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How will you feel about this when you're 70?
/r/askTRP31/08/13 02:52 AM
1

If all other advice here fails, I recommend you stop ejaculating. Have sex like normal, just don't ejaculate. Store and conserve your male energy. See what happens after a few months.
/r/askTRP30/08/13 09:05 PM
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Anyone here who was raised by a single mom that could give their opinion on whether they thing some other guy should have taken care of them, or do you blame your mom for being so stupid? It would really suck to not have a dad on the one hand. But it's completely the fault of the mom for ruining her kids life or the life of a potential man who doesn't know the kid isn't his.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/13 01:22 AM
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Tax breaks?
/r/TheRedPill22/08/13 03:23 PM
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Maybe say you want a woman who needs you to take charge because you want to be pushed and supported to rise to new challenges because that's the kind of person you want to be. That could be worded much better, but the idea is to turn it around and specify requirements not of women, but requirements you have of yourself and the type of woman you need to achieve them.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/13 11:17 PM
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Another thing I would add, or maybe rephrase, is to be a net benefit to his health, both mentally and physically. Being feminine, supporting, and encouraging all boost mental health. Eating healthy yourself will help his diet. Not spending tons of money and bringing in your own money will make it so you aren't making him a slave for earning money but rather reasonably not consuming more than necessary. Being attractive means that children would be healthy and attractive, and you are just pleasan…
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/13 10:26 PM
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I would say that the proportion of superficial relationships is the same here as anywhere else, the only difference is that here it's recognized for what it is, whereas in other places people don't have a firm grasp of what is really going on. It's very difficult to have the idealized type of relationship in reality, which I think is the main thing you are observing with your question. Not the only thing, but the main thing.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/13 09:32 PM
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I don't know anything about gays, but it seems to me like if you could somehow become your own man inside, build an independent core of masculinity, that you would be able to enjoy women and wouldn't need masculine men any longer.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/13 04:27 AM
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I don't think any of the advice from the previous thread mentioned anything about toys. The idea was for you to change yourself, not try to change her or bring in external changes. It seems the issue is she's not very attracted to you. Having someone you aren't attracted to saying dirty things or trying to use toys and all that would make anyone feel uncomfortable. Don't make her feel like you need anything from her, that you need something from her and she's obligated to provide it. That just m…
/r/askTRP11/08/13 10:12 PM
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Yes. Focus on the things you do have control over: your body/fitness, diet, clothes, hobbies, skills, male friends, knowledge, and after you're that awesome then that little issue with actually talking to girls will be more of an annoyance to you at that point than the gut twisting experience it is now.
/r/askTRP11/08/13 07:41 AM
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Marriage is a legal term, and there are many legitimate reasons not to involve the state in your personal relationships. Humans aren't government property, and we don't need permission from the state to have relationships, families, and commitments to those we love. So redefine "marriage" to mean "the two of us are inseparably bonded and committed to each other". From a red pill perspective, your commitment to saving yourself for, loving, and waiting for your future partner, is pretty much the i…
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/13 06:57 AM
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I've thought about mainstream psychological though, and I think many of us have. In the sidebar of /r/TheRedPill there is some material, one of them talks about how men want to be loved vs how women actually love (I think it might be the "women in love" article). Basically our mothers gave love to us when we were small, and most of us end up trying to reacquire that for the rest of our lives through the women we have relationships with. However, that desire is beta in a very fundamental way, and…
/r/askTRP06/08/13 07:04 AM
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Or meet someone else and subconciously lose attraction even if they think nothing of it
/r/askTRP06/08/13 06:36 AM
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I like this explanation a lot better than "artists are masters of emotional manipulation". I don't think that last one stands up to how genuine artists pour everything they have into what they do and what they express.
/r/askTRP06/08/13 06:30 AM
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Don't suppress your feelings. They're yours, accept them. Embrace them. Let yourself feel guilty. Let yourself feel really really guilty. Think about it non-stop, 24/7. Force yourself to think about it. Only once you've reach the very bottom, the lowest possible point, will you then be able to reboot. To rise back up as something different than you were before. You will be a different person. A better person. This event will help you achieve that. Don't try to hold on to the old life and pretend…
/r/askTRP06/08/13 06:09 AM
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Maybe he meant there aren't physiological risks like being poisoned? But it's important to clarify that doesn't mean it won't mess you up psychologically. At low doses though (non psychoactive), there is evidence that it may help repair a damaged brain.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/13 07:36 PM
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By the way, I wouldn't necessarily categorize this as one of the 'rational subreddits'. There's a really big difference in that it's based strictly on empirical observations. Here we use abductive reasoning, whereas the other rational subreddits use deductive reasoning. And that is why we don't get stuck in large circular debates but instead move forward even if not everything is perfectly right all the time.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/13 05:06 AM
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What I wrote isn't original to me. Just as the red pill is an evolving set of aggregate knowledge, all coming from different directions and fusing together, there is another system of aggregate knowledge which is fusing together. Look up fourth way books by Ouspensky and Mouravieff. I've attached a link to them. Here's a link to the books I uploaded: https://mega.co.nz/#F!khtT2BJb!E3fcwF3kyDIQsIHNPdMjYw Read the three volume set to understand what I wrote and more. Those are foundation books, it…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/13 01:56 AM
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I don't think people here want to get too philosophical, but I'll answer your question since I've thought about it and I think it's good. Jesus claimed to be both God and man. What people don't understand is that he wasn't different than us. We are all composed of both animal and spirit. Animals with spirits. We ARE animals. At the same time, we are spiritual beings. In the animal world, at least with regards to primates, the males are definitely above the females. We know all the reasons why so…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/13 02:08 AM
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Yes, you can imagine there's a large amount of variation and even if something isn't perfect, if it's well-maintained, hasn't been abused or in an accident, then it's a lot better than ones that have been. That's why dealerships advertise things like "one owner". You also asked another question, why won't you simply get traded in for a newer model? That goes both ways though. Attractive young women are more likely jump from one guy to the next (ride the carousel). While they may have more value …
/r/TheRedPill02/08/13 09:09 PM
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"Why do people hate me for choosing to be a virgin?" The reason men do it is because they're trying to basically haggle over the price of poon, if they can get it low enough then they will be able to get some. Women do it because they don't want you to have an advantage over them. It makes them less desirable compared to you. "Contradictory messages? Don't be a slut, don't be a virgin?" Think about it like a brand new car (sorry to put it this way). A brand new car is expensive. People balk at t…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/13 08:55 PM
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It's a shit test. If she wins, you both lose. She has challenged you to overcome the test.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/13 06:55 PM
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Either give him everything (your passwords, respect, body, gratitude), or leave in shame.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/13 05:09 PM
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You're investing in your own future, family, and happiness, and they feel like they're being left behind because they aren't a part of it. But you can't pull them along with you, the only thing that will happen is they can hold you back with them. Tell them if they continue to disrespect you and your fiance then you won't be able to continue to be friends with them anymore, through no choice of your own. It's regretful, but they aren't being friends by trying to hurt your relationship with your …
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/13 04:55 PM
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Men are romantic at heart, they just need feminine inspiration to drive them to do great things. Women pretty much crush this aspect of us by instantly giving their bodies to men with higher status while at the same time manipulating and leading those of lower status on and squeezing as much as they can out of them. Don't do these things. Don't let yourself get free emotional support from guy friends, because that is manipulative (even if you don't realize it). It's just like guys with game bang…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 07:19 AM
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it almost is establishing a paranoid mentality That's exactly what it is. It's the animal kingdom, and mother nature is a harsh ruler. Go watch any national geographic video and you'll see the constant struggle for life every single other species must suffer. We don't get a pass, at least not in the current state of things.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 05:36 AM
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I think what you need is a plan. You need to come up with different scenarios of what her past might have been, then come up with different reactions to those scenarios. Perhaps you are ok with a certain number, even a double-digit number, if the circumstances were acceptable. Maybe you're ok with some other things as well, but there are some things you definitely aren't ok with. Once you have all this sorted out in your mind, then ask her about it. Grill her with questions until you're satisfie…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 05:18 AM
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I'd either like to have all of the animal instincts but without any rational capabilities, or I'd like all of the higher awarenesses without any of the animal instincts.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 04:32 AM
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There are two things I'd recommend: 1) Be masculine, protect them, make decisions, be everything you'd want the men they get involved with to be plus a little bit more 2) Pour out tons of attention to each of them. Spend lots of time together. Have a special activity with each one weekly. Make them the center of the world. Those two actions will raise their expectations and the value they give themselves and their bodies when they start dating. They will expect the same level of masculinity and …
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 03:01 AM
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Here's a post that I thought was really good, it shows how the beta behavior of allowing cheating actually destroys the woman's respect for the man, causing more cheating. It's kind of sad but that's how it works. rosythewench 3 points 9 hours ago (6|3) I'm going to flip this around the other way. I cheated on a boyfriend many years ago. We decided to stay together and try and make it work. It was horrible. We acknowledged that I had made a mistake and that we loved each other enough to try and …
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 02:32 AM
3

I can't claim experience, but I can give you nice-sounding advice. You have a fundamental systemic problem, and specific instances such as what restaurant to choose or whatever are merely symptoms. You want to kind of stand up and have an equal if not greater say than her in these types of things, but the problem is that you're on her level, in her world. You can never be equal to her in her world, and to try and do so will cause conflict. You have to create your own world, a bigger world, withi…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 12:27 AM
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Others have answers your questions pretty well, but I just want to add this I am not exactly sure I like what I am reading I think we can all agree with you here. We aren't here because we like it, rather it's out of necessity.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 12:04 AM
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Lets not forget what this sub is all about: sexual strategy and understanding our otherwise obscured motivations. I agree feminists are dumb and any political nomination or discussion is going to bring out biases, but, while true, we shouldn't let it divert us from our goals and primary focus. There are mountains of this stuff and it isn't worth our valuable time.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/13 11:49 PM
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wow...lol
/r/TheRedPill30/07/13 10:04 PM
2

/r/becomeaman
/r/TheRedPill29/07/13 11:35 PM
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Would that be equivalent to a slutty woman? They freely give out what only they can give and the other side wants. Same thing here, except what is given and what is wanted is reversed.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/13 08:08 PM
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I see where you're coming from, and there's one key point I'm trying to make. Very few here think it's a moral issue. Instead, we view it as a biological issue. Men and women are different biologically, and basically a needy man is equivalent to a promiscuous woman. If you understand hypergamy you'll see that those two things are basically the the traits of those which haven't been competitive in a hypergamic social group. A man with a high partner count is mostly neutral. It would be very simil…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/13 04:19 PM
1

Man here. Why not show him /r/TheRedPill? I wouldn't say his problem is necessarily that he doesn't know how to be a man and it would help him with that, but rather he is being a man be doesn't understand the behavior of the bitches at his work. He doesn't understand why they behave the way they do. These might be some good threads http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1hbfrw/anyone_out_there_work_in_femaledominated_jobs/ http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1en3v0/dealing_with_hams…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/13 06:46 AM
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And in the end, the kind of man I would want to be with wouldn't be judging me for not having some ridiculously idealized clean-slate sex life, and would appreciate everything I have to offer Sexual feelings aren't logical. They don't adhere to any specific philosophy or being open minded, they just exist. Take the current boyfriend you have as an example. He thinks people should be able to overlook those things, but he can't seem to do it himself. It's easy for you to overlook because males are…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/13 06:12 AM
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I've always found it revolting whenever women take their clothes off to protest or make political statements.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/13 06:58 AM
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And that's fine, but the real person to be angry at in this situation - I've been there! - is yourself, for being naive. That's exactly what we think and what we work towards. Things get messy though, because of the emotion and the fact that we have no long term solution that guarantees everyone happiness, as this person's thread is trying to understand. Your view of men is inspiring, I hope you've told it to the men in your life. Encourage them to be leaders, use what you've learned here to hel…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/13 04:24 AM
2

He wasn't a man though. He was weak. Let me ask you, why is it illegal for adults and minors to have sex? It's because older people have more powerful personalities and stronger personalities over-power weaker ones.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/13 03:15 AM
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We should get a good field report either way.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/13 02:41 AM
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His wife didn't even get penetrated though.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/13 02:37 AM
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He did voice his opinion though, and he didn't want to do it. He wanted to talk it over sober. Just saying 'no' to his wife make out with the other wife would have made him look weak and clingy. After things started he was partially in shock and partially not forceful enough to stop the other 3 from having group sex. So the most manly option he felt he had was just to join in and be an equal to the other man. But it all fell apart. The other couple worked together and the man and his wife both g…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/13 02:23 AM
2

Predator?
/r/TheRedPill27/07/13 02:22 AM
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Real truth isn't something that should be evangelized, and there is a good reason for that. People can only accept the truth at a certain point in their lives, and if it is evangelized to them, they won't completely understand it. It will get twisted over time, and eventually commonly be understood as the exact opposite of what it represents. Instead, you have to wait until somebody asks. I don't mean explicitly, but when they're receptive and will sit down and listen. When they need it. When th…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 08:32 PM
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Militant feminists are no better, and I'd out them too if I came across a sub this bad. Hate is not the answer! We're not enemies on a battlefield, guys! We're here in our own sub discussing things with each other. You're the one that wants to destroy us, you're the one with the issues. You're being intolerant. No one is forcing women to sleep with anyone, their personal decisions are still their choice. And no idealistic young person is going to stumble in here and accidentally get brainwashed.…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 03:11 PM
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There are lots of women over at r/RedPillWomen
/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 07:01 AM
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Fantastic post. Really good. But I think it's only half the story (though perhaps the larger half). One thing I've noticed is that it's usually the woman who dumps the man for relationships that are longer-term. We know why that is, it's because the relationship turns into mother/son as opposed to the father/daughter type. So the woman was able to gain commitment in that case, but it still failed. Whose fault was it? The woman for badgering the man and not being feminine, or the man who wasn't t…
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/13 05:12 AM
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I'll give you some philosophical advice. The red pill and the blue pill are overarching concepts and not specific to this sub. The red pill is about facing reality for what it is, someone whose primary goal is the truth and not comfortable delusions. The blue pill is the fear of the unknown, the the false world the ego prefers where it will remain safe and comfortable. People here have gravitated towards the term because they feel dissatisfied with delusions and instead decide to acquire truth e…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 05:47 AM
2

Just use this proxy http://free-onlineproxy.com/ To check the shadowbancheck website.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 10:39 PM
3

The rate at which we're growing should demonstrate our value.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 04:29 PM
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I agree that coercing your beliefs in a controlling manner wouldn't be an alpha trait. He could try to philosophically or intellectually change your mind about it perhaps, but having your beliefs outright controlled isn't something you should expect or put up with, it isn't alpha. On the second issue, as a male who is particularly sensitive about high/any partner count, what happened/was let happen seems to have absolutely zero effect on my psychology. I won't try to rationalize why that is, I t…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/13 08:05 AM
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It's truth, and it's going to hurt. But it's going to hurt even more for longer to live in the world of illusions. That isn't to say that the whole and complete truth is necessarily here, but at least a coherent subset of it is. And in addition to the links and knowledge, there are a group of people here willing to face tough questions and examine themselves and those around them in a brutally honest way.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 06:24 AM
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I don't understand why this was down voted. I for one appreciate knowing about this finding.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 12:09 AM
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We're all great apes, and the red pill philosophy accepts and exposes that fact, then explores the implications of it. If this is unacceptable, then you suffer from self-delusion which will ultimately cause disharmony and problems. But once you accept it, you don't necessarily have to be satisfied with it. If it's unsatisfactory, then the goal would then be to become something other than a great ape. This is a change in being, changing from one thing to another. There are many teachings and phil…
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/13 06:05 PM
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She may indeed suffer from some type of handicap
/r/TheRedPill23/07/13 04:21 AM
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Sounds like good advice on potentially fixing some of the issues. Most of the advice I see is to break up and find someone that's already got everything together, which is a valid solution, but how much better would it be if we could figure out how to teach people how to properly behave as needed? You'd end up with a larger portion of the population doing it right and we'd all win.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/13 05:29 AM
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Probably off topic, but it made me think of this Empires of Eden - Total Devastation
/r/TheRedPill20/07/13 05:35 AM
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Cut out all sugar. It destroys your body. Sugar: The Bitter Truth
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/13 06:01 AM
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