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If it's still pretty quiet in the bar or wherever, talk to the people who are paid to be nice to you (bartenders, bouncers, shot girls, shop keepers, ect). Some of the nights where I have been in the best state have been when I have gotten to the bar and talked to the bartender for about 30mins till the bar starts to fill up.
/r/seduction21/07/13 05:11 PM
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Isn't that why, mainly on Friday and Saturday nights, a lot of cabs in brisbane are asking for cash up front
/r/MensRights16/05/13 02:51 AM
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Newsflash!!! there is also more female nurses than male nurses. Oh my, what sexism. It couldn't just be because there is a less number of males than females who study nursing could it. Saying that there should be an equal number of both genders in a profession is moronic when there is a higher number of one gender that studies/works in that profession.
/r/MensRights26/02/13 02:40 AM
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I know those words but that picture makes no sense
/r/MensRights22/02/13 03:35 AM
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http://artofmanliness.com/2013/01/18/how-to-increase-testosterone-naturally/
/r/seduction30/01/13 04:29 AM
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A basic one straight to the point one iv used a lot is "I don't think we have met. Hi, I'm vj88"
/r/seduction18/01/13 09:09 PM
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One i'v used a lot (its one that i got from cajun) and it works pretty well is Me: Hey girls what do you think of mustaches (90% of the time they will say they don't like them and if they do say this) Girl: yea we don't like them Me: Ok ok. But what about on guys though If they say they like them go into a story that you and your friends were planning on having a bet on who can grow the best mustache for movember and what they thought you should grow. I used this once and ended up having an hour…
/r/seduction18/01/13 12:39 PM
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a lot of the love systems crew i don't think get enough credit. A lot of the stuff they focus on they do really well and its so well researched. I mean just one example is braddock's phone and txt book. It just breaks down everything in an easy to understand way with examples. Yes they sell commercial products but everything they sell (even the bootcamps that they offer) have a 30 day money back guarantee. I don't know of any other company in the pua area that does that. But yea they do offer a …
/r/seduction12/01/13 12:39 AM
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Nick hoss from love systems wrote this comment about storytelling. I think this is what you are looking for http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/10jhxw/getting_better_at_storytelling/c6e0rep
/r/seduction11/01/13 09:18 AM
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simple solution to not being able to access it due to being male. Step 1: Login to facebook (non-phone version) Step 2: Change your sex to female (and uncheck show sex in timeline) Step 3: download lulu and connect. Done. You have successfully bypassed their "female only" security.
/r/MensRights03/01/13 03:56 AM
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you sure you can't just change your gender on your facebook profile and login?
/r/MensRights03/01/13 03:41 AM
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Well here is the Keys to the vip ep that cajun was in. video
/r/seduction28/10/12 09:36 AM
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I'm not sure if it will help but I asked this question to cajun during the ama http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/xd7x5/i_am_cajun_woodsman_alcoholic_beard_connoisseur/c5lch43
/r/seduction09/10/12 12:41 AM
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You can also get the book off audible (as an audiobook) and if you use one of the deals off revision3 you can get the audiobook for free. Also in the book I thought the thought of there being two selves (your mind and your body) was very cool and very helpful
/r/seduction08/10/12 01:04 AM
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Generally love systems books are good to read. Magic bullets is like the bible for the basics. But again as everyone is saying for every hour of reading you should be doing equal, if not more, time approaching
/r/seduction05/10/12 12:21 AM
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Everytime I run out of things to say I go back to the transition stage, I do a new cold read or something like that. If that conversation goes stale I wait a few seconds then ill maybe even ask a question or say a statement eg "so let me guess your a uni student", "so let me guess your from <specific location>". I even sometimes go into another opionion opener or ill start telling a story. It doesn't have to have anything to do with what you were previously talking about. I do it a lot with frie…
/r/seduction03/10/12 07:53 PM
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Try this, make a rule that once you are in set you can't leave/eject. They are the ones that have to leave the set. The only way to get through the awkwardness is to force yourself to experience it
/r/seduction03/10/12 11:05 AM
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If you want a way to get yourself to start approaching just ask a question. For example "What is the time?". Then after you get a response leave. Then once that gets easy think of another question, then another, then start using opinion openers. If you can't do that start with eye contact. Force yourself to keep your head high and look people in the eyes for a second before you look away, then two seconds, then three, then maybe change to trying to approach. The best thing I ever heard was from …
/r/seduction03/10/12 10:59 AM
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I was at the v8 races at the gold coast in australia one year and I was busting to go to the toilet and I saw a bunch of porta-potties, a lot which were free, so i just went in and did my business. When I came out a lady came up to me and said "don't you realize that these are the female toliets". To which i shrugged my shoulders and said toilets are toilets. Also I actually never saw a sign anywhere saying it was the female section. To be honest though with this situation if I only needed to us…
/r/MensRights09/09/12 04:54 AM
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Hey Cajun, I did a bootcamp with you, tenmagnets and bullet in Brisbane last year and I recently did a one-on-one with future and i have to say that I think it's amazing how much incite to human interaction you guys have. Now my question. When out I seem to get the iv got a boyfriend line a lot. Any tips on that? Thanks man for doing this AMA. I hope to see you in Brisbane again sometime in the future.
/r/seduction30/07/12 01:17 AM
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the best thing i do to turn things sexual is pretend to misinterpret something in a sexual way and when she responds say "what, i was thinking of [non-sexual thing]. What were you thinking you naughty girl"
/r/seduction02/05/12 11:01 AM
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Awesome. Not sure if ill have any questions but I will defiantly be marking this down on my calendar to read.
/r/seduction17/04/12 11:24 AM
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The ultimate guide is awesome. Doesn't really have many transcripts but so in depth about understanding the interaction which after reading really helps when reading transcripts latter on
/r/seduction15/04/12 01:49 AM
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This article here has been the most benefit to me http://www.futuristicwords.com/2010/12/kill-beatrice/
/r/seduction04/04/12 02:40 AM
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Yea iv heard a lot of guys use the we're breaking up/getting divorced, as in role play that you are already going out or even the role play of switching the roles eg "look your not going to get any off me tonight cause in on my period". I just generally just play with the girls like I was with one of my friends and we were talking about guys who pay for sexual favors to which she to me "never pay for sex" to which I replied "sounds like you have experience in that area".
/r/seduction29/03/12 02:29 AM
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11 essentials from love systems (ok its 11 dvds (each dvd one of these topics - attraction, identity, inner game, frames, storytelling, day game, ect) but iv been watching it over and over and i learn stuff each time i watch the videos)
/r/seduction28/03/12 11:07 AM
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well it sounds like your on the right track. Just keep at it and after a while you will look back and say to yourself "wow I'm so much better than I was" and that is such an awesome feeling
/r/seduction27/03/12 05:59 AM
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Your asking her to put in high investment in when she probably has no attraction for you yet. So from her point of view she sees no reason to go see you. I'd try and start a txt chain of conversation and go from there
/r/seduction27/03/12 02:54 AM
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I'd more try to start up a bit more of a conservation before asking for a number. Also what is your openener anytime I go direct I generally say "hi I saw you from over there are I thought you looked cute and would be kicking myself if I didn't come over and say hi, my name is (your name)" than transition into a little cold read eg "let me guess your out shopping today"
/r/seduction27/03/12 02:45 AM
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Plus they have a 100% money return if you are unsatisfied and I have not heard of any stories of love systems not honoring this or of anyone who has actually asked for a refund. I didn't watch any more videos but I just think Ross is trying to defraud them to get more people to buy his products. Plus if I was to believe him I would like to see more than body language on 1 video
/r/seduction26/03/12 10:29 PM
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I think Ross is just trying to defraud people so he gets more business. I like love systems stuff, it makes sense. Plus their stuff is more of a construct so it is not making a hundred clones. I mean look at their instructors. I went on a boot camp with cajun, ten magnet and bullet and they all had their own style and skills. Just because savoy isn't the best communicator on video doesn't mean he is a frawd
/r/seduction26/03/12 10:23 PM
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Damn you beat me to it haha
/r/seduction26/03/12 03:05 AM
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Just to for it. Iv only ever had one k close, at a club, and that was about 1 year ago. The last month iv been rejected each weekend (nothing bad they just pushed me away). But each time I got closer and closer. The more you try the more experience you will get and you will get a feeling of when to and when not to.
/r/seduction16/03/12 08:34 AM
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I get that feeling about 12pm every Friday till I go out that night. Just realize its your fear response cause you have no experience with this situation. It's a bad feeling but the more you fight it and do it anyway your fear response will get weaker and weaker each time. Plus you will get a confidence boost cause you did something good that your brain told you not to do
/r/seduction16/03/12 08:30 AM
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Yea I do the same. For example if I'm going to a bar where 80% of people will be in jeans and a t-shirt I will wear a nIce shirt with a collar. Actually I generally always wear atleast jeans and a collared shirt cause then you will get into places that don't like no collar t-shirts
/r/seduction16/03/12 08:26 AM
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I will buy it after pay day in 2 weeks. It looks pretty cool.
/r/seduction16/03/12 08:21 AM
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Do everything you would normally do except physical progression
/r/seduction16/03/12 08:11 AM
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I know it as framing. Here is a few articles http://www.therealsavoy.com/2011/05/frames-frame-control-re-framing.html
/r/seduction16/03/12 05:06 AM
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I probably need to work on number 7 a bit, haha. I never get rotten drunk. But i probably do drink too much as I can remember who I talk to but I never remember what I said after the opener and transition. But I have to say after about 3 pints I am pretty much running round the club to open people haha
/r/seduction13/03/12 03:30 AM
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I'm starting to learn that you should just skip saying anything that implies that you are inexperienced. I guess if you want to look at it in pua terms its anti-social value to say any of that stuff
/r/seduction13/03/12 03:24 AM
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I agree with everone who said introduce yourself. You are being nice by introducing yourself and if he still responds negitivly then id just go to a friend "is he always like this" and whatever there response just say ok and continue on another subject. If you have the groups attention and the group likes you. If your nice then the one person will have to like you due to the social pressure of his group. If he doesn't he will just look bad in his group so its his problem
/r/seduction10/03/12 10:29 PM
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I go to a pub in my town that is a backpacker bar and I always open girls from different countries and I find its more about body language cause they generally don't understand what your saying anyway, especially with my thick aussie accent
/r/seduction10/03/12 02:48 AM
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I generally get too much in my head so last weekend I called my mate (who im always in a good state when talking to him) while i walked to the pub and i was in a pretty talkative/happy state when i first walked in so i had a pretty awesome night. opened about 10 people that night.
/r/seduction10/03/12 02:45 AM
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If the pua stuff is just a construct that you can use to create your own material them it is not worthless. For example a qualification construct iv used is this (everything in brackets is just an example to better explain the construct) 1. I like a girl who ... (travels) 2. It shows they love .... (excitement and adventure) 3. Do you like to travel?
/r/seduction06/03/12 08:28 AM
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so worth the money. cause of it iv gotten a lot better. if i had the money i would do it again
/r/seduction03/03/12 02:43 AM
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Iv never negged, iv only ever teased. Negging seems negative to me, cause a neg attacks her value, but teasing is positive cause it puts value into the interaction through humor.
/r/seduction01/03/12 10:27 PM
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Thats awesome. You got me motivated to do it. I love the ask for gum cause who has gum these days. My view on it is the more you do it and have the mindset to try and get rejected this less likely it will happen. I think I read Cajun from love systems (anyone who doesn't know who he is http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=2009352446961728591) saying once that he believes that one of the reasons he is successful is that he will go up to a girl with the mindset "I dare you to blow me out".
/r/seduction01/03/12 07:08 AM
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Well good on you for giving it a go. Its all progress
/r/seduction29/02/12 12:47 AM
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If you feel its a problem continually put yourself in that situation to get yourself to change it. eg Go out to bars by yourself. Also it could be cause when you are alone you aren't in a talky mood. At the start of the night chat to some guys. I generally just say "hey man, hows your night been". I usually make friends with them, hang out with them for an hour or two than im in the right mood/state to start approaching. Some nights you could get lucky and the those guys are with the hotties of …
/r/seduction28/02/12 12:18 PM
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Sounds like your framing is wrong. Your framing it as your chasing her when you should be framing it as she is chasing you and you are the one who is saying no so your being a challenge. eg when talking to her say something like "stop it, your making me think impure thoughts" type the banter line above into google and you will find some resources to use of better lines to say
/r/seduction28/02/12 01:01 AM
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I don't follow alot of mystery's stuff any more but this stuff on handling shit tests is pretty solid
/r/seduction20/02/12 09:47 AM
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