| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 43 | When your 11 year old son starts watching violent and degrading rape porn all you gotta do is let him know that it's totally not a guidebook nor an okay portrayal of women!One conversation isn’t going to fix years worth of damage that p**n will do to his young brain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 01:04 PM |
| 18 | He’s picky af! 7-8ths are only for banging not love.He talks about women as if they’re a thing he targets… gross! What other inanimate object are we today, ladies? Someone get this scrote a dartboard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 01:01 PM |
| 32 | Don't let any entitled male tell you that you need to be desperate for male attention. This mess is Exhibit A for what they want women to believe about their chances of meeting a man. Don't lower your standards.Of course he’s 5’9” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 02:39 AM |
| 2 | Tell the world you abuse women without telling the world you abuse women 🤫🤭I pity the robots | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Why I have trust issues and why we should be guarded.THAT IS DISGUSTING I SHOULDN’T HAVE ASKED | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 03:13 PM |
| 5 | Why I have trust issues and why we should be guarded.Wtf is a tribute? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 05:46 PM |
| 3 | How Are You Treating Yourself this Holiday Season?It feels so good not having any monthly credit card payments!!! It’s such a relief having that extra money each month | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 02:54 PM |
| 6 | How Are You Treating Yourself this Holiday Season?Thank you!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 02:52 PM |
| 4 | How Are You Treating Yourself this Holiday Season?I love those ideas! Thank you 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 02:51 PM |
| 6 | How Are You Treating Yourself this Holiday Season?Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 01:05 AM |
| 46 | How Are You Treating Yourself this Holiday Season?I love how you ladies are treating yourselves! I’m paying off credit card debt this year but hope to live lavish next Christmas lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 11:45 PM |
| 43 | The nerve to be jealous that he didn't get the 'peak hot' version of her, what a shame for the poor woman.He shouldn’t get to f*ck her in any of her future years, either. What a terrible thing to say to your partner! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 01:31 AM |
| 13 | I guarantee there will be comments saying “hAve a ConVerSatiOn” disgusting 🤢😡AMEN | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 11:07 AM |
| 50 | It’s a beautiful ring but it took 20 years and a 10 year old child? That’s sadSadly, it’s their human daughter 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 01:26 AM |
| 12 | I read this and just thought “wow, that’s not romantic at all”. they got married today 😳Pre-FDS, I was big into making the first move and showing that I’m equal by paying my part. I was a mess and the relationships or dates never worked out. I was screwed over every. Single. Time. Those I dated during that time had no respect for me and put in low to no effort. It hurts me to know this newly married woman is in for a one-sided marriage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 06:46 AM |
| 3 | I read this and just thought “wow, that’s not romantic at all”. they got married today 😳She’s in her early twenties. I believe she graduated university last year but I could be wrong. She’s beautiful, too! It doesn’t add up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 06:26 AM |
| 23 | I read this and just thought “wow, that’s not romantic at all”. they got married today 😳I don’t see why she decided to share that on theknot. It’s not cute or charming; it’s sad and desperate. I know it can’t change what happened, but I’m sorry about your grandma and I’d like to mutilate your grandpa. Abusers, like my father, must face the consequences of their wickedness. I can’t wait for the day that happens to my dad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 06:24 AM |
| 12 | I read this and just thought “wow, that’s not romantic at all”. they got married today 😳I wish! She’s an educated and gorgeous young woman. I sincerely don’t understand why she’d put herself in such a demeaning position to chase after him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 06:13 AM |
| 31 | Instagram scam?I got one today also. I didn’t think it was legit so I didn’t allow them to follow. I’m happy to know for sure that it’s a scam! I’d bet money it’s a man trying to lure women in | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 10:28 PM |
| 1 | A 33 year old man is interested in an 18 year old woman. 🤮 she’s barely an adult!!Gotcha. Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 02:57 AM |
| 2 | Relationship red flags in movies/shows that are romanticized.Couldn’t have said that any better. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 12:45 PM |
| 3 | Relationship red flags in movies/shows that are romanticized.The entire 🤮relationship🤮 between Damon and Elena in the vampire diaries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 01:34 AM |
| 3 | He really thinks God gave me tinder for him. Oh, where his job title, he put “not looking for anything serious fr” so clear contradictions.The audacity 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 07:15 PM |
| 24 | What’s something that you did with good intention, too early for a man, and now look back in it with so much regret?I spent over $300 on Christmas presents for my ex. We had been dating 4 months at that point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 03:42 PM |
| 2 | Episode one of Love on the SpectrumYes! I laughed so hard. Their interactions made my heart happy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 03:34 AM |
| 8 | Couldn’t cross post so I took a screenshot. WTF?!Oh my god. There has to be a way to stop or at least limit the content they can see. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 06:45 PM |
| 36 | Couldn’t cross post so I took a screenshot. WTF?!I’m not sure if there’s a way to get authorities involved but it would be in the child’s best interest. If there is sexual abuse happening, maybe a family member/friend might sense that something isn’t right or the daughter might speak up. I hope this young girl is safe and that the mom realizes what’s going on before it’s too late. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 06:28 AM |
| 30 | Couldn’t cross post so I took a screenshot. WTF?!I hadn’t thought of that but now that you mention it... so gross! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 06:25 AM |
| 72 | Couldn’t cross post so I took a screenshot. WTF?!You’re exactly right. This woman is blinded by love/stupidity or willfully ignorant. Praying and hoping for the child’s safety. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 06:24 AM |
| 90 | Couldn’t cross post so I took a screenshot. WTF?!The majority of men have been raised to view women as nothing more than opportunities for sexual gratification. It starts young. Girls are mostly raised to seek approval of those around them; male and female. Many will do almost anything to get attention, likes, and views; giving pedos plenty of content. Even as I was growing up, I was dead set on being the “prettiest” and “most liked” by the boys in my grade. I would wear the clothes that were in style and what I thought would make my crush lik… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 05:10 AM |
| 52 | Couldn’t cross post so I took a screenshot. WTF?!You’re stating facts. I don’t understand how a father or mother or guardian or whoever could ever look at a child (especially their own child) and desire them in an explicit/sexual manner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 05:02 AM |
| 124 | Couldn’t cross post so I took a screenshot. WTF?!I read online that they’ll make women (we’re talking 20yrs+) wear “typical teen/pre-teen clothing” and hairstyles that children normally wear in order to gain more views and to seem more realistic. I’m sure that’s not a surprise to all of the ladies here but it really made me think.... why is there even a DEMAND for such content? That’s pathetic and disgusting. How are young girls a fantasy? Let them be kids! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 05:00 AM |
| 36 | Couldn’t cross post so I took a screenshot. WTF?!I truly hope, this once, he really is fantasizing about a porn star.. it’s disgusting also but it would be a more depraved situation if he is desiring the daughter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 04:55 AM |
| 25 | Couldn’t cross post so I took a screenshot. WTF?!I pray it truly is a porn star that he’s fantasizing about (as sick and disgusting as that is) instead of the daughter. No kid should be sexualized. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 04:49 AM |
| 8 | What are fictional characters that you consider HVM ?Nathan Scott from OTH, Stefan Salvatore from TVD, Robb Stark from GoT, Chidi Anagonye from The Good Place, Johnny Rose and Patrick Brewer from Schitt’s Creek, Rory from Doctor Who, Matthew Crawley and Tom Branson from Downton Abbey ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 11:50 PM |
| 50 | A real winner...What a waste of a man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 04:25 PM |
| 43 | One Christian guy (I'm also a Christian) with whom I texted for 2 weeks called me a whore after I stopped replying to his messagesAs a former Christian, I’m sorry and we reap what we sow. As a woman that’s been through something similar, what an asshat and i hope he gets what he deserves. I’m glad you found out early on and didn’t waste your valuable time on such a trashy human. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 04:51 PM |
| 5 | What’s your enneagram?INFP enneagram 6 here 👋 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 09:10 PM |
| 5 | What's your Meyers Briggs?INFP and enneagram 6 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 03:26 PM |
| 27 | To be "the prize" you've got to look goodI understand what you mean. However, I would love to be able to look at myself without my makeup done and feel content with my appearance. I have intense redness on my cheeks and I have never been completely comfortable without covering it up. Men are mostly brought up to believe they’re fine the way they are. Minimal effort (showering, shaving, deodorant) is enough. Women are taught to always strive to be better, even when they’re great already. F*ck what men think is okay. They need to worry a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 06:35 PM |
| 30 | Ladies, I hope you like the dollar menu! The audacity is limitless.Agreed! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 03:38 AM |
| 3 | How did you figure out your career path?Para here! If you don’t mind my asking, what part of the states are you in (assuming it’s the US)? I work full time but make nowhere near that. I have awesome benefits but I’m curious as to where I could work to make more money. I have an AS degree and they’re paying for me to get my CDA but it will only increase pay by $1/hr. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 03:10 PM |
| 6 | No longer on bumble (thank God!) having met my new HV boyfriend :) but I saved this screenshot.Unoriginal and awful all rolled into one male | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 11:24 PM |
| 10 | No longer on bumble (thank God!) having met my new HV boyfriend :) but I saved this screenshot.Sadly, degrees do not equal the presence of human decency. :( I don’t know how or why he thought that his profile would work... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 10:40 PM |
| 23 | At this point I feel only male Yorkies are HVMThis made me chuckle! It’s true but I’d like to add my 7 year old yorkie-poo to the list ❤️ fur babies are the best. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 04:19 AM |
| 6 | Romance movies without obvious LVM romanticizing?Same here. The finale killed my soul | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 06:40 PM |
| 23 | Romance movies without obvious LVM romanticizing?Not a movie but Damon from the vampire diaries. They tried to make an abusive, co-dependent relationship seem like passion and desire. Disgusting. Abuse is not sexy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 06:28 PM |
| 3 | Examples of HVM in mediaChidi, yes! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 06:40 PM |
| 29 | This trend is universally bad, but this iteration is the worst I've personally seen to date.I would throw myself into a furnace before thinking of doing something like this 🤢. At the same time, I feel bad for them (the ladies, not the scrotes) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 05:50 AM |
| 30 | Annoyed with my parents' relationshipSorry for the formatting, I’m on mobile. I feel that way about my dad as well. Aside from the verbal and physical abuse in the recent past, he thinks the sun shines out of his butt crack and that she should do whatever he says. Both he and my mom work. He makes more money and gets more hours but only works about 3 days per week. My mom works 5-6 days per week and does ALL of the cooking and cleaning unless I help. He hasn’t payed the mortgage, utilities, or internet bills in like 7 months. My mo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 10:22 PM |
| 14 | What are the last words your ex said to you?“Lol” It wasn’t funny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 02:19 AM |
| 2 | Before FDS, I would’ve been okay with this. Now, I know better! I’m a queen and I’ll wait to be treated as such.Will do! 😊 I read something once that said that men only call women bitches when they can’t control them or they don’t get what they want. I think that’s true. You do you and I wish you the best of luck! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 01:55 AM |
| 3 | Before FDS, I would’ve been okay with this. Now, I know better! I’m a queen and I’ll wait to be treated as such.I’ve had two guys that had no problem with my explicitly stating what I expect and that they would pay for dates. I could alter my approach with the next match and see what happens. Either way, I’m just trying to save time and effort for both parties. Thanks for your comment and I’ll keep that in mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Before FDS, I would’ve been okay with this. Now, I know better! I’m a queen and I’ll wait to be treated as such.I’m jealous! Have fun and enjoy ☺️🎄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 04:37 PM |
| 3 | Before FDS, I would’ve been okay with this. Now, I know better! I’m a queen and I’ll wait to be treated as such.While we may disagree on approach, I’m glad I figured out early so I didn’t waste my time or money. Merry Christmas if you celebrate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Before FDS, I would’ve been okay with this. Now, I know better! I’m a queen and I’ll wait to be treated as such.I won’t if I think there’s a good chance they’re low value. This was just my way of seeing if there’s a chance of being worth going on a date with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 03:20 AM |
| -2 | Before FDS, I would’ve been okay with this. Now, I know better! I’m a queen and I’ll wait to be treated as such.I appreciate your response and what you’re saying makes sense. The reason I said I expect to be paid for was to see if they’re willing. I don’t want to waste their time either. Finding a decent human, let alone a decent man is a lot of work! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Before FDS, I would’ve been okay with this. Now, I know better! I’m a queen and I’ll wait to be treated as such.True colors don’t stay hidden for long. Thanks for your comment! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 02:45 AM |
| 15 | Before FDS, I would’ve been okay with this. Now, I know better! I’m a queen and I’ll wait to be treated as such.I’ll keep that in mind! Thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 10:43 PM |
| 5 | Before FDS, I would’ve been okay with this. Now, I know better! I’m a queen and I’ll wait to be treated as such.I don’t want to cause trouble or insult but I want to be up front with my expectations. I just don’t want to waste my time on what’s likely going to be a LVM anyway. Online dating hasn’t given me much hope lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 10:09 PM |
| -24 | Before FDS, I would’ve been okay with this. Now, I know better! I’m a queen and I’ll wait to be treated as such.I might have but I don’t want to waste my time going out with a guy that has no intention of paying, especially if it’s just a mediocre date. Time it too valuable to waste on a maybe hvm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 09:25 PM |
| 30 | Before FDS, I would’ve been okay with this. Now, I know better! I’m a queen and I’ll wait to be treated as such.You got that right! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 09:05 PM |
| 6 | Before FDS, I would’ve been okay with this. Now, I know better! I’m a queen and I’ll wait to be treated as such.Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 09:05 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop thinking about my ex?You’re very welcome | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 03:53 AM |
| 17 | How do I stop thinking about my ex?The problem isn’t with you. The problem lies within him. You ask why he didn’t love you enough to try. I asked myself that too about my ex. I don’t have an exact answer but it’s not about loving enough. He’s just not a decent partner nor a decent human being. Like you said, he’ll need therapy to work through all of his issues. We all have problems but he doesn’t care about his. He’s okay with his behavior and I’m so glad that you’re not and that you got out. You’re a queen, don’t let a peasant g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 03:38 AM |
| 19 | Carrie Bradshaw is the ultimate pick-meishaYes!! He was okay but insecure. Could’ve been a great match. I wish the writers would’ve given them a different storyline and better choices! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 06:40 AM |
| 56 | Carrie Bradshaw is the ultimate pick-meishaPreach, sis! I watched the movies before watching the series so that might’ve influenced how I view each of the characters. Anyhow, Samantha radiates HVW energy. In the first movie, she said something along the lines of “I love you but I love me more.” Spoken like a queen. She was successful with and without a man. Charlotte is probably who I relate to the most but the girl needs some work. I’m not saying that Harry isn’t a good man, but she was Episcopalian before she met him. She said she “gav… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 05:45 AM |
| 3 | What songs empower you?High Heels by JoJo and The Less I Know The Better by Tame Impala | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/19 05:42 PM |
| 5 | "You're lucky to have me" and other things arrogant douchebags sayI’m sorry you were treated that way but I’m happy that you realized and got out! Better things and HVM are ahead! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 03:43 PM |
| 30 | "You're lucky to have me" and other things arrogant douchebags sayMy ex would help carry groceries in from the car and would think he was heaven sent. He would constantly say that “I’m lucky he does X” and bs like that. I’m so glad I came to my senses. This sub is part of the reason I was able to escape his manipulation and half hearted attempts at being a decent human being. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 05:59 AM |
| 25 | Stop reading mixed signals, start blockingI needed this today. Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 10:05 PM |
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