She’s afraid of being “naggy”

geologykitty · 2021-12-15T01:56:33+00:00

Imagine using depression as an excuse to be a pornsick loser.

GlitteryMoss · 2021-12-14T20:27:58+00:00

How to address it? Leave him, you'll lose 200 lbs of shit in one day.

xfelugirlx · 2021-12-14T20:39:03+00:00

Girl you are already saying everything, dump him. More than depressed is a porn sick scrote that doesn’t care about u lol he didn’t buy you a piece of bread and you buying everything for him😂

stbfAAA · 2021-12-14T20:24:34+00:00

The woman was too stunned to speak. 🤦‍♀️

scorchedsouI · 2021-12-15T06:34:31+00:00

She could have been spending the 25th year of her life next to an attractive young man who can properly sexually excite, pleasure and romance her.

Instead, she's wasting precious years of youth and beauty being the caretaker of some useless able-bodied idiot that can't be bothered to use his frontal lobe to make some decent lifestyle choices. It also seems she's forcing herself to endure sexual activity with the porn-damaged slob. Your body outright rejects the idea for a reason, dumbass.

onceuponasea · 2021-12-14T20:25:52+00:00

Ugh. So unattractive and gross. I would be instantly turned off.

keep_my_stuff · 2021-12-14T21:12:55+00:00

She's very close to getting it though.

softestbean · 2021-12-14T20:50:42+00:00

She seems so sad and trapped in that situation. It’s sad that he is fine with being taken care of like that and using his gf while he doesn’t want actually help like he should. (I know that is easier said than done, but that is not an excuse for his behavior towards others)

Important to remember: People (including depressed people) treat us only how we allow them to treat us. If she continues to facilitate him like this it is likely she is going to keep being used like this.

Astral_weaver · 2021-12-14T21:49:28+00:00

She should throw this piece of shit out of her home and life.

Sincerely, a person that managed to earn a masters degree while struggling with depression.

ewokblubber · 2021-12-14T22:32:46+00:00

I understand, to a certain degree, how hard it can be to wake up and realise you're in a bad situation, especially when abuse is involved. Leaving an abuser is hard and if you did it, you rock.

But in situations like this- where, from her description, the 'boyfriend' is not particularly abusive, just exceedingly neglectful of himself and his environment, including her- I sometimes seriously don't quite understand how these women seem to be so utterly blind to the situation they are in.

I get it. Generational cycles, normalisation, etc. It makes it hard to see how fucked-up a situation is. But still. Sometimes, I see posts like this, and I seriously just wonder how something like this realistically happens. How do you not see that this 'man' is not worth a second of your time?

I'm not blaming the victim here, but I am advocating for all women to develop a certain amount of awareness when it comes to the realities of their own lives- a bird's eye view, so to speak. The ability to take a step back and realise 'Hey, I'm 25, I have my whole life ahead of me, what exactly is tying me to a loser like this? Nothing, right? So let's get my bag and leave.'

Guyincognito9876 · 2021-12-15T02:00:14+00:00

How she needs to address it - read what she has just written.

Japanese_Lasagna · 2021-12-15T05:26:11+00:00

Time to dump him

albahe12 · 2021-12-14T22:12:46+00:00

wow, there was a post shared a few days ago about a guy would legit CRY (probably just a manipulation tactic) because his partner hadn't given him sex after 5 months . Legit making a fuss because he hadn't made his pp wet after ONLY 5 months of dating someone.

Meanwhile this the shit we have to deal with. Being a WHOLE caregiver for a useless man-child. Yet WE'RE the weak ones, WE'RE the EMOTIONAL ones. This is so unfair, they have it so easy.

Title	She’s afraid of being “naggy”
Author	voidcactus234
Upvotes	362
Comments	20
Date	December 14, 2021 8:19 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/rgga62/shes_afraid_of_being_naggy/
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