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i think its our need for certainty as humans. there are the standard psychological techs to build a internet community. but there is a market for this cuz we all suck at intergendered dynamics. and this provides some semblance of an answer.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/22 06:28 AM
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i learned from this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sBtuqpNZwio an option is to judge to your standards, instead of societies, and take actions you want to take. The twin fires of action and acceptance............ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sBtuqpNZwio this was a lot of fun too. it goes over that the mind can solve many problems, through both insight and the error correcting method of reality.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/22 06:21 AM
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grading looks on a 1-10 scale like its a lab report is probably wrong saying that, its probably a good thing if you got the hots for your lady.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/22 06:06 AM
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talk to some women. youre making a lot of assumptions.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/22 06:03 AM
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I was just browsing social media and found your post in the feed. not everyone resolves this issue in their lives. there are uber rich billionaires who still seek acceptance. sometimes to accept yourself you have to be shown how by others. I was fortunate to have a family who healed and a girl who accepts me, warts, failures and all. not all are so lucky. but i hope you get that someday until then, practicing radical self acceptance is the best preparation anyone can make ​ cheers
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 02:13 AM
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Join a professional network?
/r/ExRedPill28/12/21 05:28 AM
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There is no real evidence for any sociological theory.
/r/ExRedPill25/12/21 09:03 PM
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good on you sir, good on you :)
/r/ExRedPill20/12/21 08:27 AM
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i hope u find a healthy circle of peeps to guide your path. they're out there, and catching up is very possible
/r/ExRedPill20/12/21 04:02 AM
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i got a page saying the thread is quarentined. i felt like i was entering a leper colony...
/r/ExRedPill20/12/21 03:58 AM
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i position myself where it wont be catastrophic if i offend anyone and everyone
/r/ExRedPill18/12/21 11:43 PM
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but what is he offering?
/r/ExRedPill18/12/21 11:40 PM
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solid post. i approve
/r/ExRedPill18/12/21 11:03 PM
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where have you pinpointed yourself on this curve?
/r/ExRedPill18/12/21 11:00 PM
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hmm...... cool post. i like the conversations in here - a lot of good reflection i think u can only get the best by being the best. but there is a problem of words. i can analogies to math. in calculus, there is no such thing as an instantaneous slope. cuz slope definitionally measures change and change demands more than an instant. however, there is an equation you can miraculously apply to certain polynomials and other equations to get the "best" slope for that point on the curve. ​ yes... i m…
/r/ExRedPill18/12/21 10:51 PM
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I lose track of the year when friend with girl meant beta orbiter. i had plenty of friends with girls and I had fun. no girlfriend tho ever until recently. i had a lot to improve about my life anyway. but i wonder....................... what did they do right that i do wrong? was it just being short fat and asian? and now that i have resources and real world insights I can build attraction with women? i might hate sex - cuz i'm private and didnt like the time i did it in amstradam. but i wonder.…
/r/ExRedPill16/12/21 06:16 AM
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i think they may be on spectrum. trp gives a "foolproof" system to calculate social interactions with women.
/r/ExRedPill15/12/21 02:30 AM
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My girl likes that im smart and driven
/r/ExRedPill14/12/21 02:40 PM
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but i'll try a new strategy. when someone angers or offends me, i bless them specifically. it solves the paradox i think when bad days come. thanks for incepting me with that notion. i appreciate it strongly
/r/ExRedPill14/12/21 02:04 AM
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oh. i conjectured wrong. apologies. i worry then about the permanence of either choice. its a big decision either way...... and honestly,,,,,,,,, we need to fund therapists and counselors. this whole system is breeding toxicity fear and panicked decision making P.S. i hate to be a mansplainer, but politics appears to be a momentum game. the one with the will and resources to win in politics tends to win long term. abusers keep pushing until confronted with real consequences. fun source; https://…
/r/ExRedPill13/12/21 08:13 PM
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sorry........... i think i misunderstood. are u talking vasectomies or getting "tubes tied?" i'm fine with access to any medical procedure a rational actor chooses while not under duress. to butcher a ron swanson quote, "that's what freedom is about." i just dont think its wise to assume this will shift the tide on single motherdom or to try to force it to. to me its a social malfunction that needs to be solved by rebuilding communities and connections among people. attacking the heart of hyper …
/r/ExRedPill13/12/21 08:09 PM
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i just mean i have no idea what black people struggle through now and before, so i should listen, instead of using my brain to engineer a solution to a problem i wont understand enough to even recognize a solution.
/r/ExRedPill13/12/21 07:24 PM
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tl;dr: simple sounding solutions often lead to horrific results when implemented. this is very common. drug laws, prohibition, gentrification, gerrymandering, u name it. the tv show Adam ruins everything is not always accurate, but they do have a habit of spoiling the allure of the obvious answer i'll try to understand thru an example. I dont deal with politics cuz social organization is my kryptonite. but take the norm of everyone MUST go to college to have a decent future. it's not forced on y…
/r/ExRedPill13/12/21 07:23 PM
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How? I dont see the link. How sterilizing anyone empowers any group of people. If people choice to never ever want kids sure thats fine. But what i hear argued is a way to solve a social problem by making a personal choice thats none of anyones business more socially popular. Im a dude so i dont decide abortion issues in my mind. The way im asian and dont know black experience solutions
/r/ExRedPill13/12/21 03:32 PM
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Its fine if a free agent under rationale faculties does an action that is his choice. But when u talk social pressure, that begins the slippery slope to social expectation to government petition to govt force
/r/ExRedPill13/12/21 02:54 PM
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Huh...perplexing. U show much more grace in a theoretical betrayel than i ever would. I would desire to go nuclear on em
/r/ExRedPill13/12/21 02:50 PM
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sure. i agree with volunteerism within bounds such as those. but coercion takes many forms. and taking social workers and telling low income individuals they should get spayed like feral cats...... that's a very mean thing we never fixed the problems of slavery in its many forms. we just use propoganda to keep people down instead of the less aesthetic brute force
/r/ExRedPill13/12/21 11:43 AM
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govt lives on slippery slope encroachment of rights.
/r/ExRedPill13/12/21 11:15 AM
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would u blame yourself if your business partner backstabbed you and pushed you out? sorry, i just mean..... sometimes its just incompatability or character issues on one side or the others. we probably only learn from failure. no one has a perfect track record in anything.
/r/ExRedPill13/12/21 09:02 AM
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cool. good perspective sharing. i'm a bit drained from night work so i'm reduced to terse english thanks hypergamy isnt a find the best gold mine to me. i dig where im at. with who im with. to make the best of what i have instead of trading for something i dont undertand. i think people grow and circumstances change. but i interpret high standards as building it for yourself and your circle of relationships i learned this from a business book. it said dont monkey branch businesses. if u cant mak…
/r/ExRedPill13/12/21 08:53 AM
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this sounds a lot like game theory. u quality by beauty beautiful people know you quality by beauty this gives them leverage over you no acceptable counter response, since u gave away all leverage mutual checkmate. everyone loses
/r/ExRedPill13/12/21 08:49 AM
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ur tesla level nuts. that's called eugenics and we opened that door before. voluntary oddly becomes expected to required real fast. income tax was just on the rich..... then the less rich........ then its everyone.
/r/ExRedPill13/12/21 08:45 AM
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know people lie. cuz its super easy to do on purpose or by accident no one knows what they are doing. its day by day just wing it congratulations on your progression as well. u see to be growing in a positive direction
/r/ExRedPill13/12/21 08:43 AM
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its skill and opportunity and innate gifts. most dont have the magic triad of these to succeed at anything on their own. my fam did by the grace of god.
/r/ExRedPill13/12/21 08:34 AM
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this beggars a question from me though - how do i spot whether a group will gaslight me at first impression. cuz i've quit many groups before with similar characteristics and i virtually go nuclear to remove their presence from my life. i get taken in by fake empathy and concern and reveal my guilts and shames
/r/ExRedPill13/12/21 08:32 AM
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Oh.. Whoops. I dont know what words mean. Red pill is from the matrix right? Thays the origin of the idea but i dont see a lot of spandex clad men and women doing super kung fu.... I assumed from the various fellows on the youtubes hypergamy was tethered to the notion of sexual market value and looks money and status. Which seems legit these days in many circles. Although i look for someone who i look for other things, a hot factor is a broad filter for even the most white knighter
/r/ExRedPill13/12/21 03:01 AM
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i opt for the eastern mindset. and that begins with removing the craving of attachment from your life. you have to realize you never know the future. vows can't barricade you from the whims of fate you can only do what you can and learn to live with the result
/r/ExRedPill12/12/21 09:59 PM
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i opt for the route that gives me the highest responsibility and sacrifice. and that's helping her reconcile with the father of her child(ren) . it's a unrealistic model few suggest, but a child deserves its father and a mother deserves a family
/r/ExRedPill12/12/21 09:56 PM
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bit of an ego to want to play the narcissus card :P anyway, it's low odds all around for everyone. we live in a culture brainwashed by opportunism. i got lucky and found a gal who will most likely work out. also, men lead. you cant expect the world to give it to you. to quite illidan stormrage,: "https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ATg67eE7uL0 "
/r/ExRedPill12/12/21 09:12 PM
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he gives good instruction. i still watch his video on the three types of businessmen. well it got banned now...
/r/ExRedPill06/12/21 11:33 AM
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