personal bits: i committed all-in on maximizing my intelligence, teaching ability, and compassion. i am min-maxing health appeareance and wealth the last few months. I'm trying to do self growth for myself and my peers. I have a permanent asian safety net and never needed a cent from anyone for anything - cuz fam has work for me to do.

What i do lack is perspective. i grew up pretty cloistered from tragedy. and life seems fine minus the stress of daily toil.

I really dont see how hypergamy is bad. people want the best.... and prefer not to settle.

in the west we view settling for less than the best at what you value as toxic. So why not become the "best at what you do" - to quote a short, amnesiac, bone cancered canadian superhero mutant, who has his share of ladies........who tend to be nuts or evil

ok maybe cartoon wolverine isn't the best example.

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but who doesnt want to be wolverine. the dude with literally the least offensive power set in existence - i heal fast.

so......... to end the padding:

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tl:dr; we all want the best. is that not all hypergamy means?