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| 43 | Something positive for onceI also had a pregnancy loss that really put a spotlight on how LV my ex was. It's peak male depravity to impregnate a woman and then treat her like shit when she miscarries. OP, I love that you have a HV partner and I hope your healing is going well <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 01:28 AM |
| 67 | Normalise telling men to just shut upI had one of those and when I broke it off he said he thought he had been "therapeutic" for me, because he certainly felt I was for him. That's because he monologued for the entirety of the time we spent together. I was literally made into a free therapist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 12:06 PM |
| 13 | What is the most messed up way you found out your partner was cheating on you?Came home early from work, found him giving another woman oral sex in our bed. Tale as old as time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 11:39 AM |
| 78 | Vetting Strategy (US)Most places have public access to court dockets online, and tax assessor property searches can tell you if a man co-owns a home with someone else (like his wife for example). I use this as a vetting strategy and have found a few married dudes, a handful of guys with DV and even sex offender crimes, and a bunch of dudes who were just generally incompetent (lots of speeding and parking tickets that point to irresponsibility and general fuckwittedness IMO). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 04:38 AM |
| 15 | FDS: From minimizing dating disappointment to averting life-derailing disaster - Or the power of sticking the hell up for yourself.Just yesterday I had the distinct pleasure of telling my ZVM ex-husband that he needed to realize that the only reason he had a few years of nice things was because he was with me, and if he had wanted to keep his nice things, he should've believed me when I told him to treat me like a wife and not an employee. Now he feels entitled to a new truck, a nice house, etc but doesn't make enough money for it and tried to blame me. I was happy to send him and his new wife screenshots of the financial d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 04:18 AM |
| 9 | Recovering from narcissistic abuse.I can't agree hard enough with u/kinkardine that boundaries are the key. Putting up boundaries with my dad has taken back my power from him in so many ways, big and small. My father is a real piece of work. Controlling, emotionally, verbally, physically, and spiritually abusive- he uses religion to exert control and excuse away his actions, which killed my ability to maintain the faith I was raised in. He was "self-employed" my entire childhood and we scraped by on about 15k a year as a family o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 10:48 AM |
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