So I have been following FDS for a while and it was hard at first to let go of my pick me ways. But I did and it has been worth it. I found a partner after vetting and sticking to my guns. We got engaged after 2 years and had a surprise pregnancy recently that ended in miscarriage. The thing is that when tested he pulled through In ways I never believed possible. He paid all my doctors bills drove me to every appointment ordered food so I wouldn’t have to worry about cooking , cleaned the whole house, did all laundry, and worked 6 days a week to make sure I had everything I needed finically so I could take as many days off as I needed. I’m nearly 40 and it took forever to find someone like this. I thought about how cold and uncaring my exes were I can’t even imagine going through an ordeal like this with a LV male.

Mind you this man does physical labor and leaves the house at 5am and comes after 6pm. He pays for all my gas, bought me a car even though I’m a new driver (he taught me to drive), is buying me a house (yes my name will be on the deed), is fronting me the money to start my own business next year, supports my hobbies and goals and cheerleads me all the way.

The most random thing he did was buy me the animal crossing switch just because he knew I loved animal crossing even got me the matching case. Then a few weeks ago got me the new oled switch because he wanted me to have a bigger screen.

Be patient trust FDS and your instincts. I’m reminded everyday that if “he wanted to, he would”.

Don’t let them gaslight you, you deserve the world and deserve someone who will treat you with respect and dignity. I didn’t believe that about myself and kick myself when I think about all the LV men I dated and made excuses for. Truth is when you love yourself and elevate your life you won’t want anyone in it who treats you like crap.