Ladies, I’ve been on a few dates the past couple of months and have gotten out of a couple first date situations that definitely would have gone down a weird path with this simple question; “do your initials spell out anything funny or make an acronym?” I’ll tell you why. While we chat pre-date it allows me to ask in a casual way for their middle name. There’s no way I’m going on a date if i don’t know his last name. Out of all the times I’ve asked, no one has turned me down. In my experience, their names are pretty basic but it helps create a profile for me which I then turn around and enter into Judyrecords.com. The public database shows me all of their previous records in which they were found guilty. I have seen DV, theft, speeding ticket, etc..so yeah, get their middle name or at least the initial so you don’t wait until they show you who they truly are. Hope it helps!