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| 1 | Wearing sunglasses doing daygame. Any positive experience?Nah not Rayban, not a well known brand, but it appears brandless :) But it's very cheap, was a good deal I thought ;) | /r/seduction | 15/03/18 10:36 PM |
| 3 | Wearing sunglasses doing daygame. Any positive experience?Damn right, I didn't think about it, so basically don't wear it. | /r/seduction | 15/03/18 08:48 PM |
| 0 | Finally I realized that for me, it's not so much about the girls, but my value as a man in comparison to other guysSo you start talking like this because you know what I said was all true and you run out of lines to counter. I make a post to share my thoughts and get it off my chest. I don't remember asking for advice in this post. Sure you have the right to voice your opinion, that's completely fair, but I also have the right to disagree with it if I feel that it's useless and non-sense. If you think that someone's life problem could be easily solved by 2-3 magical lines out of your mouth, then this world w… | /r/seduction | 12/02/18 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Finally I realized that for me, it's not so much about the girls, but my value as a man in comparison to other guysParty girls are still girls. And I also don't understand why you still clearly talks like getting laid is the only life-and-death thing for me when I clearly said (even in the title Jesus Christ) that it's not so much about the girls themselves. | /r/seduction | 12/02/18 02:30 AM |
| 0 | Finally I realized that for me, it's not so much about the girls, but my value as a man in comparison to other guysIf you're really that unhappy with your height get surgery But here's the thing, even if the LL is success, I will definitely be semi-crippled and give up my passion for martial arts and fighting. Of course, even after I become tall, there will still be many other men who seem superior to me. But the number would be largely minimized. Says now I am inferior to 50% of male, if I was tall, I would be superior to says 95% of male. Of course this number is just a rough estimation to give you the ide… | /r/seduction | 11/02/18 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Finally I realized that for me, it's not so much about the girls, but my value as a man in comparison to other guysBro, did you even read the title of my post? | /r/seduction | 11/02/18 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Finally I realized that for me, it's not so much about the girls, but my value as a man in comparison to other guysReality is that your could grow 6 inches by Sunday Reality is I couldn't. Reality is I could change my personality in a blink of an eye (I wanted to). Let me grow and I wouldn't care whether it changed my dating life or not. It never fails to amaze me how the responses are always so generic, so exoteric, so useless even when I've already warned it. | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Finally I realized that for me, it's not so much about the girls, but my value as a man in comparison to other guysShort guys get laid all the time Jesus. Did you even see the title of my post? | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Finally I realized that for me, it's not so much about the girls, but my value as a man in comparison to other guysYou think someone who look like Anthony Joshua can't learn the proper attitude and how to make people feel like you do? is still more important than looks, But the keyword here is "more". Which means that you admit that height also hold its importance. No one says attitude, body language, character or such shit are not important. But my height certainly cripple me already no matter what I do to improve my ATTITUDE. | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Finally I realized that for me, it's not so much about the girls, but my value as a man in comparison to other guysAll I can say is that my current face is more likely to be my strong feature, let alone a flaw like my height. | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Finally I realized that for me, it's not so much about the girls, but my value as a man in comparison to other guysWell yeah, I guess any woman could also say this whole sub (who's putting a lot of effort into getting laid) is unattractive in itself. I actually already know what most people gonna say about it, but it doesn't mean much and is not useful at all. Also who's talking about relationship? | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 03:57 PM |
| -1 | Finally I realized that for me, it's not so much about the girls, but my value as a man in comparison to other guysYes, probably I lean more towards number 2. Because I can't just pretend as if nothing went wrong. I admit that it did go wrong. And it's not an easy way out. I don't see how you even interpret this as "out'. The way I see it, I am trapped for choosing to face the reality instead of resigning from it. I don't really blame society for favoring taller men. I think it makes sense why taller men are seen as more masculine or better or sexually desireable. But does it piss me off? It's a whole differ… | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 03:02 PM |
| 0 | Finally I realized that for me, it's not so much about the girls, but my value as a man in comparison to other guysWho are you trying to prove this to? Yourself? Or everyone else? Both, I'd say. I have a suggestion for a new goal: being happy. Do you realize how exoteric and cliche it sounds? There will always be guys better than you. Get used to it. Fine, but my height really fucks everything up. I stunted my growth when I was young and the guilt will always remain with me for as long as I live and I will always be haunted by "what if" of how different things would be would be if I grew to the height I was … | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 02:42 PM |
| 0 | Finally I realized that for me, it's not so much about the girls, but my value as a man in comparison to other guysI don't need friends and don't intend to be the leader of the group. I'm an individual person. You think girls masturbate over Putin? or Anthony Joshua regardless of how many friends he has? You're joking if you think you can protect someone by learning how to talk. lol | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Finally I realized that for me, it's not so much about the girls, but my value as a man in comparison to other guysSomeone that can protect his family and friends. And height is often associated with the ability to protect oneself and their family. I don't really get why you even bring friends into this. | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 02:27 PM |
| -3 | Finally I realized that for me, it's not so much about the girls, but my value as a man in comparison to other guysmole you might have on your face? Just get it removed really. how about the way you walk or your voice? Learn to walk properly or the look of your left tooth? Wear braces (just like I am having atm) these are all things that could be greatly affecting your chances but you don't see that because you aren't told that through social media No, I saw every single thing you mentioned and took care of them. But height. I see that you're new into this son. | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 02:25 PM |
| 0 | What are some direct openers that are not cheesy and don't make you look like a pickup noob?I still need to say something. Sometimes you just can't find something to point out as situational opener. It's better to have a backup. | /r/seduction | 22/01/18 05:15 PM |
| 1 | What are some direct openers that are not cheesy and don't make you look like a pickup noob?I was waiting for someone to validate or invalidate this opener. What do you think is a good direct opener then (besides situational)? | /r/seduction | 22/01/18 05:13 PM |
| 3 | What are some direct openers that are not cheesy and don't make you look like a pickup noob?Hmm I am not sure actually. "Are you single" sounds a lot more aggresive than just complimenting. Yes, we're equal and not giving up any value, but sounds like we're asking straight for sex. I could be wrong. Probably throw it after 2nd or 3rd line could be good? Me: "Are you single" Her: Yes, why? Me: ....? What's your answer? | /r/seduction | 22/01/18 10:49 AM |
| – | If her phone is not available, would you rather go for Facebook or Instagram?Just curious, why is Facebook inferior to insta? I feel like Facebook is more intimate than Instagram which is more like a public page. | /r/seduction | 08/01/18 06:27 PM |
| 1 | If her phone is not available, would you rather go for Facebook or Instagram?Yeah, I'm building the followers now. | /r/seduction | 07/01/18 09:18 PM |
| 1 | If her phone is not available, would you rather go for Facebook or Instagram?Bad idea unless you have big social proof (at least 1k followers). All social media is a bad idea, snap-chat would be ok because I don't think you can see someone's follower count on that app. I'm building the account now. I aim to have about at least 5k before slowing it down. I'm building a real fan base not buying inactive followers. I think snap-chat is far less common than instagram. | /r/seduction | 07/01/18 03:05 PM |
| – | If her phone is not available, would you rather go for Facebook or Instagram?I don't have that. | /r/seduction | 07/01/18 09:56 AM |
| – | If her phone is not available, would you rather go for Facebook or Instagram?It's just whatever you feel comfortable with. And whatever she feel more comfortable with. Btw my insta is 2 days old. There are 22 pics posted on the same day. I wonder if she'll notice something strange. Lol | /r/seduction | 07/01/18 09:56 AM |
| 1 | Advice from my friend: "Don't let her see you see her". But then how can I expect to have an eye contact?It's not about what worst that could happen. It's about doing the right thing to maximize your chance. Sometimes if the girl see me checking her out, it can be taken as needy as if I am looking something to prey on which is why my friend gave me that advice. But I'm also thinking about eye contact. | /r/seduction | 02/01/18 08:29 AM |
| -1 | One biggest thing that I've learnt in my first year is to never take the "I have a boyfriend" seriously.I've been in the position where I wouldn't have gotten laid if I fell into that trap. | /r/seduction | 16/07/17 04:05 PM |
| 18 | One biggest thing that I've learnt in my first year is to never take the "I have a boyfriend" seriously.Because I want to have sex with her. | /r/seduction | 16/07/17 03:14 PM |
| 3 | One biggest thing that I've learnt in my first year is to never take the "I have a boyfriend" seriously.not yet | /r/seduction | 16/07/17 01:47 PM |
| -1 | One biggest thing that I've learnt in my first year is to never take the "I have a boyfriend" seriously.Don't mind him. He's trolling. | /r/seduction | 16/07/17 01:40 PM |
| 6 | One biggest thing that I've learnt in my first year is to never take the "I have a boyfriend" seriously.lol | /r/seduction | 16/07/17 01:24 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Finally I achieved my first lay after 10 months and I never expected it to be so amazingly beautiful.Probably not Why do you think so? Don't you think that she wouldn't have been so keen to meet me again as shown in our text convo if she didn't feel that the first night was something? | /r/seduction | 20/05/17 09:03 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Finally I achieved my first lay after 10 months and I never expected it to be so amazingly beautiful.I'm still not fully sure until now what I was dealing with. She definitely fucked other guy(s). What I am not sure is the frequention. Only the Mexican that has been confirmed. She claimed that it's the first time she went on vacation without parents far from home. She also claimed that she just did it here since back home she had a boyfriend of 6 years. I feel that our energy level kinda matched regardless. The phrases she threw at me and how we're intimate were also romantic and didn't sound l… | /r/seduction | 20/05/17 06:04 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Went on 2 dates with a Czech girl and lips-to-lips kiss was the best I got.Thanks man that's encouraging. I've never been a party person in my life so the girls that are into me aren't so much either usually. | /r/seduction | 16/05/17 12:22 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Went on 2 dates with a Czech girl and lips-to-lips kiss was the best I got.Well I meant to be assertive and aim for the close. | /r/seduction | 16/05/17 07:44 AM |
| 1 | "I have a boyfriend" plow through or pass?Use 3 strikes or she's out. Ask, then push twice more. What do you mean? | /r/seduction | 28/04/17 08:28 AM |
| – | "I have a boyfriend" plow through or pass?Yeah because I meant to filter out uninterested girl and find ones who are DTF. | /r/seduction | 27/04/17 09:42 PM |
| – | "I have a boyfriend" plow through or pass?Lol how am I creepy? | /r/seduction | 27/04/17 09:39 PM |
| – | "I have a boyfriend" plow through or pass?More than likely doesn't have a boyfriend but just isn't interested. Why not plow through and see if we can change her emotions? | /r/seduction | 27/04/17 09:38 PM |
| – | [FR] "The more you try to convince me, the more I have to say no."If this girl wanted you to leave her alone she wouldn't have invited you to exercise with her. Whether or not she was DTF is anybody's guess, but take solace in the fact that you showed up and had an enjoyable interaction. I thought it was actually very good. Strong IOIs: she laughed and wanted to touch me, she asked my name (when I never asked hers), she's analayzing my behavior (me taking time to think before answering questions), even gave me a dating advice (of the more me convincing her the… | /r/seduction | 24/04/17 10:21 PM |
| 1 | [FR] "The more you try to convince me, the more I have to say no."Unlock premium posts and articles reserved for subscribers only. Get instant access for $1 a post. lol the same dude who mocks RSD for making money out of teaching pickup. | /r/seduction | 24/04/17 04:58 PM |
| 1 | [FR] "The more you try to convince me, the more I have to say no."I've met people who have been helped by RSD. versus you a random guy on the internet and who knows, you got something to sell to. | /r/seduction | 24/04/17 04:12 PM |
| 1 | [FR] "The more you try to convince me, the more I have to say no."you've never gotten laid lol see? Not even a fact. Ok bro keep sending them your money. Let me know how that works. I don't. And the video I linked was a free content. | /r/seduction | 24/04/17 04:07 PM |
| 1 | [FR] "The more you try to convince me, the more I have to say no."Dude a girl says no is the opposite of an IOI. The "no" is not the IOIs I was referring to and if you couldn't find it you need to re-read my thread like I told you to. "IF she wanted to fuck you she wouldn't have said "not gonna happen."" I don't know what it was that's why I post here. Because sometimes it doesn't make sense, a girl tell you we're not having sex tonight means we're going to have sex tonight. A lot of times I saw a guy trying to kiss a girl, the girl gave him cheek multipletime… | /r/seduction | 24/04/17 04:03 PM |
| 1 | [FR] "The more you try to convince me, the more I have to say no."The real problem is that you are generally super desperate and needy right now, and girls can tell. Whatever, but IOIs are still IOIs and the IOIs this girl's giving me was too strong to miss out unless she's purposely faking it for self-amusement which is not likely unless she's super alpha. Focus on other parts of your life. Focusing on other parts of my life without putting myself other didn't get me laid in the first 23 years of my life. | /r/seduction | 24/04/17 03:55 PM |
| 1 | [FR] "The more you try to convince me, the more I have to say no."Girls say no right off the bat then move on. But girls saying no while at the same time still giving out lots of IOIs, then I believe I should persist. In fact I regret I wasn't being persistent enough today by walking with her. | /r/seduction | 24/04/17 03:47 PM |
| 1 | [FR] "The more you try to convince me, the more I have to say no."Sorry, but how can we tell that you're real unlike them? | /r/seduction | 24/04/17 03:40 PM |
| – | [FR] "The more you try to convince me, the more I have to say no."Being medium fat is better than being obese, doesn't make being fat is an achievement. | /r/seduction | 24/04/17 03:39 PM |
| – | [FR] "The more you try to convince me, the more I have to say no."https://youtu.be/9APVllJ9zxo?t=20s | /r/seduction | 24/04/17 03:37 PM |
| – | [FR] "The more you try to convince me, the more I have to say no."WHEN A GIRL SAYS NO, YOU MOVE ON. Period. Period. Anything else is creepy, needy behavior. Okay, what about hundreds of PUA videos where the girl says no in the beginning but ended up f-close later? Are you gonna claim that they're all fake? I give you one example : https://youtu.be/VWN-aCFQ9ZQ You need to take a break from PUA and this sub. And continue to jerk-off and be depressed? | /r/seduction | 24/04/17 03:29 PM |
| – | [FR] "The more you try to convince me, the more I have to say no."Also, it's a really sad, beta thing to think that you've achieved something with a girl just because she is talking to you. Girls talk to all kinds of guys they don't give a fuck about. It's also sad how hard you exaggerate just trying to prove you point that doesn't make sense. When there's not even an indication in the post where I think that it's an "achievement" | /r/seduction | 24/04/17 03:25 PM |
| – | [FR] "The more you try to convince me, the more I have to say no."But a girl saying "not gonna happen" is her affirmatively telling you "get the fuck out of my face" but in nicer words. Okay, then why did she stay there, talking to me for the next 10 minutes. Even keen to know my name and other IOIs I mentioned that you ignored. Nope. A girl may decline to acknowledge your presence because she is busy or has other stuff on your mind. But a girl saying "not gonna happen" is her affirmatively telling you "get the fuck out of my face" but in nicer words. I stick … | /r/seduction | 24/04/17 03:21 PM |
| – | [FR] "The more you try to convince me, the more I have to say no."What's a more harsh rejection than a girl saying "not gonna happen" or "The more you convince me, the more I have to say no"? Serious question. Easy answer : by just not acknowledging my presence Once I tried to hold girls hand and she said "It's not gonna work with me" but ended up kissing her in her room later at night. Just because a girl says, "Not gonna happen" doesn't mean it won't. A girl says "We're not having sex tonight and from what I've read, what happens is usually the opposite. | /r/seduction | 24/04/17 03:15 PM |
| – | [FR] "The more you try to convince me, the more I have to say no."You should either stop trolling or re-read my thread. Even if it was a rejection, it's nowhere near the "most harshway possible" or even bringing up police lol | /r/seduction | 24/04/17 03:10 PM |
| 1 | "Giving Value" Vs "Taking Value" a la RSD JulienJulien's forehead is too big and he's out of shape and pale. | /r/seduction | 17/04/17 07:23 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Pulling an Aussie girl, k-closed but failed to take her home.The constant texting. Suggesting plans when she didn't even respond is a great sign of neediness. You've gotta accept the fact that its over man. Just move on. Yeah, on texting, but prior to that when gaming her that night, I don't think I acted that needy. I know it's over, like I mentioned it happened 3 weeks ago and she left anyway. I posted it for educational purpose. From your FR, it sounds like she just wanted one good night of being naughty. I wonder how it would have ended if her boyfrie… | /r/seduction | 14/04/17 08:20 PM |
| – | [FR] Pulling an Aussie girl, k-closed but failed to take her home.You acted too needy. Besides "..?", what else are the things I did that showed neediness? Her reluctance to give you social media information is a great indication that she wanted you to be just that one guy she had fun with that night. Actually I believe that she really doesn't have Facebook after checking her best friend's Facebook. But I got her Instagram. | /r/seduction | 14/04/17 05:17 PM |
| – | [FR] Made a long trip driving the girl home & failed to even k-closed. Weird set.Yeah, she was into me to some extent inside the club before I offered anything. I took a bet by offering a free ride and it's a form of offering value. Maybe I shouldn't have offered it directly. | /r/seduction | 12/04/17 08:11 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Made a long trip driving the girl home & failed to even k-closed. Weird set.You should just mass approach I massed approached earlier but the girls were not available, got blown out till I found this German girl, the set I wanted to commit too. try pull that same night to avoid flakes. Yeah I agree that I should have persisted a little bit more and not put hope in Day 2 anymore. | /r/seduction | 12/04/17 07:06 PM |
| 1 | [FR] One step ahead, for the first time I was in a bedroom with a white girl.That makes sense. I'm glad to know that it wasn't my fault that it didn't happen. | /r/seduction | 12/04/17 07:57 AM |
| – | [FR] One step ahead, for the first time I was in a bedroom with a white girl.Thanks man, your post is deep. But I didn't really get how she didn't sleep with me is relevant to the fact that she confided in me that she's a victim of rape? | /r/seduction | 11/04/17 09:23 PM |
| – | [FR] One step ahead, for the first time I was in a bedroom with a white girl.Try out a freeze out; That means do something else like reading a book and wait till she escalates on you. That's what I thought. But in this case, she wanted me to leave so that she could sleep for 3 hours before attending her flight. | /r/seduction | 10/04/17 03:51 PM |
| 1 | I'm not affraid of getting rejected, I'm afraid of being seen by other girls getting rejected.Or you can use my method of approaching. I just say "hi". If she says hi back, I then go to something else "how are you"? Etc... I like this. In fact, I used to this. | /r/seduction | 05/04/17 07:29 PM |
| – | I'm not affraid of getting rejected, I'm afraid of being seen by other girls getting rejected.We never know? | /r/seduction | 05/04/17 05:36 PM |
| – | I'm not affraid of getting rejected, I'm afraid of being seen by other girls getting rejected.That's called provoking IOI, but the thing I will filter out so many 'maybe' girls that don't give IOI. | /r/seduction | 05/04/17 04:24 PM |
| – | If the girl does not respond to my last text, should I let ago or send the second text after a while?I thought we were supposed to text only to schedule a date | /r/seduction | 03/04/17 02:03 AM |
| 1 | If the girl does not respond to my last text, should I let ago or send the second text after a while?dude you can't force emotional investment, especially over text. emotional investment happens because she likes you and enjoys hanging out with you, not cuz you pulled some pua trick on her. what about asking the girl if she remembers our name. it's a very common trick taught among PUA community to get her to invest. | /r/seduction | 01/04/17 06:20 PM |
| 2 | If the girl does not respond to my last text, should I let ago or send the second text after a while?Why not? | /r/seduction | 01/04/17 04:40 PM |
| 1 | If the girl does not respond to my last text, should I let ago or send the second text after a while?For the first text, she replied to me late but I texted her early. And for the second, I was trying to force an emotional investment by getting her to affirm that she indeed misses me. | /r/seduction | 01/04/17 04:01 PM |
| – | If the girl does not respond to my last text, should I let ago or send the second text after a while?The point of this post is to find out where I did wrong so that I don't keep doing the same mistake. Because my flaking rates are high. Not about worrying about these particular girls. | /r/seduction | 01/04/17 03:58 PM |
| 5 | If the girl does not respond to my last text, should I let ago or send the second text after a while?What's that? Doesn't appear here. | /r/seduction | 01/04/17 03:56 PM |
| 1 | If the girl does not respond to my last text, should I let ago or send the second text after a while?What kind of motivation? | /r/seduction | 01/04/17 12:55 PM |
| – | If the girl does not respond to my last text, should I let ago or send the second text after a while?Where in the text did I wait around her and beg for a plate of food? | /r/seduction | 01/04/17 12:46 PM |
| 1 | If a girl already decides where she's going, should we follow her or try to set up another date another time?You're making the typical mistake of seeing or reading something in a PUA book and not realizing how to fit it into your own life So how to fit "...?" into my life? | /r/seduction | 31/03/17 02:40 PM |
| – | If a girl already decides where she's going, should we follow her or try to set up another date another time?unless they are already emotionally invested in the guy. Actually she was quite emotionally invested in me. I k-closed her the night before, we were holding hands during the long walk and hugging. She pointed out how cute I am. And then I texted her and the next day she became completely different on Instagram chat. Secondly, the additional question mark is needy. https://youtu.be/Udzzx_lR4wY?t=13m12s I would just go silent for a while on her. Like a few weeks. Unfortunately there was no few wee… | /r/seduction | 30/03/17 06:36 PM |
| – | If a girl already decides where she's going, should we follow her or try to set up another date another time?https://youtu.be/Udzzx_lR4wY?t=13m12s | /r/seduction | 30/03/17 06:33 PM |
| – | If a girl already decides where she's going, should we follow her or try to set up another date another time?http://i.imgur.com/l6Xilzc.png You think that's an invitation? | /r/seduction | 30/03/17 05:56 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Guys please criticize my text gamehttps://youtu.be/Udzzx_lR4wY?t=13m12s What do you think now? | /r/seduction | 28/03/17 08:32 AM |
| 0 | [FR] Guys please criticize my text gameBut it's RSD Todd man. So your point is to never send a second text? The good thing about "...?" is that we demand a response in a non-tryhard way. It's very low investment, non-needy but persistent and shows your feeling of entitlement. | /r/seduction | 27/03/17 07:26 AM |
| -7 | [FR] Guys please criticize my text gameWatch it. https://youtu.be/Udzzx_lR4wY?t=13m12s | /r/seduction | 26/03/17 09:27 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Guys please criticize my text gameWatch it. https://youtu.be/Udzzx_lR4wY?t=13m12s | /r/seduction | 26/03/17 09:27 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Guys please criticize my text gameSo what's right? | /r/seduction | 26/03/17 09:17 PM |
| – | Girl was into me until 4 of her friends pulled her away. Is there anything I could have done better in this situation?How did I make first bad impression? | /r/seduction | 24/02/17 07:21 AM |
| 1 | Girl was into me until 4 of her friends pulled her away. Is there anything I could have done better in this situation?Yeah her saying "Nice to meet you" made me fell already lost. | /r/seduction | 23/02/17 01:32 PM |
| – | Girl was into me until 4 of her friends pulled her away. Is there anything I could have done better in this situation?You were great. I should have asked her to stay and not given up so quickly | /r/seduction | 23/02/17 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Girl was into me until 4 of her friends pulled her away. Is there anything I could have done better in this situation?I did dance with other girls, but she didn't saw it. I finished the drinks when I went beast-mode. | /r/seduction | 23/02/17 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Girl was into me until 4 of her friends pulled her away. Is there anything I could have done better in this situation?In a situation like that where her friends want to go to a different part of the venue or a different venue altogether the two options you have depend on how much rapport you have with her friends and how much rapport she has with her friends I didn't build any rapport with her friends definitely, just shook hand/high fived them. If you ask her to say and she gives you resistance, you can entice her with a drink. "Stay with me" "no" "I really wanted to buy you a drink and chat with you more, but… | /r/seduction | 22/02/17 11:17 PM |
| – | Girl was into me until 4 of her friends pulled her away. Is there anything I could have done better in this situation?You did well up until you tried going downstairs to meet her, at that point you should have talked to other girls, or even gone to another club. The club has 4 levels. We were on the rooftop (L4), there's another dance floor on (L2) which was where they're going. When she went down I talked to other girls on the rooftop until there's nothing left, I went down and saw her again. | /r/seduction | 22/02/17 11:10 PM |
| – | Girl was into me until 4 of her friends pulled her away. Is there anything I could have done better in this situation?Why? | /r/seduction | 22/02/17 12:20 PM |
| – | Girl was into me until 4 of her friends pulled her away. Is there anything I could have done better in this situation?I was thinking that I should have just followed her or at least tried to ask her to stay and build more rapport with her friends. | /r/seduction | 22/02/17 09:35 AM |
| 1 | Girl was into me until 4 of her friends pulled her away. Is there anything I could have done better in this situation?I didn't know how. They already knew the reason why I talked to them. | /r/seduction | 22/02/17 07:24 AM |
| – | I try to get closer to a girl on the dancefloor & try to make eye contact, but sometimes they just don't want to look at me.Also i advise against the tactic of "trying to get close to a girl" unless you want to see her face better to determine if you should approach or not. I want to provoke some IOIs by getting closer and dancing with her to see how her reaction. | /r/seduction | 17/02/17 01:02 PM |
| 1 | How would someone like Tyler or Todd do on dancefloor?Besides what's so fun about getting drunk man | /r/seduction | 17/02/17 10:57 AM |
| 1 | How would someone like Tyler or Todd do on dancefloor?Yeah but dancing is a part of getting good with women. | /r/seduction | 17/02/17 06:59 AM |
| – | How would someone like Tyler or Todd do on dancefloor?How tall are you? | /r/seduction | 17/02/17 06:10 AM |
| 1 | How would someone like Tyler or Todd do on dancefloor?It's just him hugging girls, he didn't show it how the interaction began. | /r/seduction | 17/02/17 06:10 AM |
| 1 | How would someone like Tyler or Todd do on dancefloor?Yeah, the question is how would we game on a dancefloor? | /r/seduction | 17/02/17 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Does Being Tall Help w/ Seduction?Yeah, so does being handsome. | /r/seduction | 16/02/17 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Last night, I reapproached a girl I talked earlier, then she enthusiastically called me "Hey my friend!"Yeah I fucked up by being too aggressive and I have no skills. I should just chill next time. | /r/seduction | 16/02/17 07:03 AM |
| – | Last night, I reapproached a girl I talked earlier, then she enthusiastically called me "Hey my friend!"sounds to me like the girl goes through alot of guys and isnt really worth the time tbh. then it should mean that the girl is quite promiscous and easy. Then you say 'not yet' 'in a few minutes' again, sounding desperate. Yeah on one hand sounds desperate, but on the other hands I thought it exudes confidence implying that I firmly believe that I can get her right away. At least, that's what I think, but I think I am gonna figure out a better line. And I was dancing with another girl but then I … | /r/seduction | 15/02/17 11:14 AM |
| – | Last night, I reapproached a girl I talked earlier, then she enthusiastically called me "Hey my friend!"Sounds to me like you came across desperate and needy. Like Todd's "recovering sex addict" game. I gave up a little bit of value but then I am being congruent. And the girl was a 6 anyway. Look at this like a stepping stone to the next female encounter Yeah but you haven't pointed out the stuffs I did that I shouldn't have done and what exactly the right thing to do in this situation? She was leaving and I tried to make a last attempt to get her number. | /r/seduction | 15/02/17 06:42 AM |
| – | Man I don't care that they don't like me, I am just gonna place my body inside the club everyday and one day I'm gonna land something.It's not even about being an Asian. My problem has been about height. A lot of white women with South East Asians here. | /r/seduction | 15/02/17 06:28 AM |
| – | I still think you have to be careful from getting rejected in the early of the night.What do you mean by "balls deep"? I go in then they wave their hand and run away. What's so unbelievable about it. | /r/seduction | 13/02/17 07:43 PM |
| – | I still think you have to be careful from getting rejected in the early of the night.Yeah I am being man-to-woman straight away to be clear of my intent | /r/seduction | 12/02/17 08:06 AM |
| – | I still think you have to be careful from getting rejected in the early of the night.Usually girls rejected me by waving their hand like no no no. So it's pretty clear to others that I got rejected. | /r/seduction | 12/02/17 06:40 AM |
| – | RSD Madison was in exile, went alone for 2 yearsThe experience of going out every night. Not only in terms of number of interactions, but the results would be compounding since you're going out constantly/always "warmed up". But gotta be intelligent about your growth. I mean repeating the same thing over and over again won't improve your skills no matter the period. I love going out with friends or a wing but it's easy to use as a crutch or reason to not approach. Solo, you have no such luxury and have to approach. I tend to approach when I h… | /r/seduction | 10/02/17 06:22 AM |
| – | RSD Madison was in exile, went alone for 2 yearsReally? How? | /r/seduction | 09/02/17 09:27 PM |
| – | Tonight is probably the most painful night ever.Man too elaborated, usually I act like I don't give a fuck and ended up with nothing all this time. By approaching girl, we give a fuck already. he just wanted to have a good chat We're always taught to avoid getting friendzoned. Do something fun man. Go to the beach, learn to surf. Take a dance class, pick a new partner everyday and forget their names. Only that I don't find any of this fun. Start learning a language. Lift some heavy ass weights, get a haircut, some new clothes. These all I alr… | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 11:17 AM |
| – | Tonight is probably the most painful night ever.But I rarely got a possible IOI from a 9s/10s | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 10:55 AM |
| – | Tonight is probably the most painful night ever.So just stand behind and wait to get approached now? This guys dresses, acts, moves, smiles, and talks like a dominant, sexy, charming guy. You obviously overexaggerate everything about the guy you never even seen. | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 09:01 AM |
| – | Tonight is probably the most painful night ever.What is thin-slice? | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 08:51 AM |
| – | Tonight is probably the most painful night ever.Obviously that guy has the skills you lack. Didn't look that way man, seriously. It doesn't feel right. Instead of observing him I did, a lot. He just stood behind the group who's dancing with his beer, the girl talked to him. Of course I couldn't hear what he said to the girl that hooked the girl so much. | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Tonight is probably the most painful night ever.Thanks man, that's so relieving. I sacrificed my dignity for that, I said "I miss you" She's like no no no and went hug the dude, The dude just smirked. It was so humiliating. | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 08:35 AM |
| – | Tonight is probably the most painful night ever.this hot girl gave you all of the signs. Idk if it was a definite sign, she might have been looking at me for other reasons instead of attraction such as creepiness or etc. Because she didn't seem all that enthusiastic when I talked to her. Do not get upset because you missed a shot with 1 hot girl! I got upset more because I got destroyed by someone that should have been my pawn, man. | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 08:31 AM |
| – | Tonight is probably the most painful night ever.That night you got rejected by a hot girl. And got humiliated by other normal dude. You don't even deserve to get laid if you haven't tried and been rejected at least 10x. Lol have been rejected countless time, this post is just one case but the most painful ever. | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 08:20 AM |
| – | Tonight is probably the most painful night ever.If I approached first and she's that DTF, then something wrong with me that I didn't get the same reaction, me and that guy is same race. About height there are women who're simply attracted to taller men regardless of aesthetic discrepancy. There are no rules, just experiences. Don't over analyze and start again. You have to be able to bounce back up after a bad night. I know man, but I feel blatantly humiliated by that dude. | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 08:18 AM |
| – | Tonight is probably the most painful night ever.stomped I find myself with shattered heart and broken self-esteem now than a thick skin. | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 06:26 AM |
| – | Tonight is probably the most painful night ever.you don't know jackshit about him, He might be taller than me, but I'm sure I'm a much better-looking Asian face and body wise. Seriously I didn't get it man. And I did approach her first man. | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 06:11 AM |
| – | Tonight is probably the most painful night ever.What about that Malaysian getting it so easily? I am really curious what he said. Btw, what exactly did you mean by "nights" like this? | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 03:54 AM |
| – | Tonight is probably the most painful night ever.Why would you say that? Because I was indeed needy. just couldn't stand her doing so with the Malaysian guy and hoped that she'd fall back to me but apparently I just humiliated myself. I just didn't get it man how could she just easily get pulled by that guy, that guy didn't do anything man seriously. I wished I could erase this moment from my memory. | /r/seduction | 06/02/17 09:22 PM |
| – | Tonight is probably the most painful night ever.I humiliated myself even more when I reapproached that girl and said I missed her. | /r/seduction | 06/02/17 07:46 PM |
| – | Tonight is probably the most painful night ever.Maybe I fucked it up, or maybe she's feeling more attraction towards that Malaysian guy. I'm not sure, it's so fucking painful man. | /r/seduction | 06/02/17 07:29 PM |
| – | Travelling to improve chances of getting laid?But I still never get laid. Makes sense, as I was able to get laid in Magaluf some time ago when I was around thousands of absolutely hammered-drunk teenage girls. Wut? I'm fairly short How tall are you? | /r/seduction | 03/02/17 09:11 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Hostel life - everyone's on vacation looking for a good time just a matter of frammingor before you die prematurely. I mean we never know when our day comes. | /r/seduction | 03/02/17 07:32 AM |
| – | [FR] Hostel life - everyone's on vacation looking for a good time just a matter of frammingWhere's it man? I live in Bali and I've been thinking of working in a hostel for this reason. The alternative would be in popular clubs but as an introvert I think hostel would suit me more. Only that I gotta be prepared for lower wages, longer working hours, etc. | /r/seduction | 03/02/17 07:31 AM |
| – | [FR] Hostel life - everyone's on vacation looking for a good time just a matter of frammingHow to make your move though? Because if we start escalating first then we might creep out the customers, unless she escalates first? | /r/seduction | 03/02/17 07:27 AM |
| – | [FR] Hostel life - everyone's on vacation looking for a good time just a matter of framming"oh you know exploring, looking for seashells, maybe making a lame attempt to hold your hand and if I play my cards right maybe more making out on the beach" Doesn't this line automatically lower your value and put her on a pedestal? | /r/seduction | 03/02/17 07:18 AM |
| 1 | If Height Matters, shouldn't all short guys wear shoe lifts?I wear my shoe lifts with trousers and Nike Air Max 90 with shorts. Normal lifts adds barely 2". Also, don't forget that other people wear shoes too, shrink when you're barefeet is expected. | /r/seduction | 26/01/17 10:34 AM |
| 1 | What's the best thing to do the moment she says she's going to the bathroom?What if they finish their drink or take it with them to the bathroom? | /r/seduction | 26/01/17 10:28 AM |
| – | What's the best thing to do the moment she says she's going to the bathroom?I still feel that my version is better. Yours is like who even asked if you'll be around or what you're going to do, she didn't even ask you. | /r/seduction | 25/01/17 06:54 PM |
| – | What's the best thing to do the moment she says she's going to the bathroom?'Yeah, good luck' to her going to the bathroom? What are you implying here? | /r/seduction | 25/01/17 06:18 PM |
| – | What's so wrong about it? I really don't understand. PS : she is in her 50sI watched The Graduate but it's Robertson, not Robinson haha | /r/seduction | 24/01/17 05:31 PM |
| – | What's so wrong about it? I really don't understand. PS : she is in her 50swtf in your mind makes you think it's okay to OPEN with Mrs Robinson? I don't know what's wrong with it. I like to get the feeling of getting with MILF and I thought she might like the same. | /r/seduction | 24/01/17 04:41 PM |
| – | What's so wrong about it? I really don't understand. PS : she is in her 50sThere's no background story. She's in the dating FB group I am in. I messaged her and that first sentence was my opener. Age difference probably about 25-30 | /r/seduction | 24/01/17 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Made out with an Aussie girl today.I'm in Bali, they love Balinese/Indonesian dudes. But I am not really native. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 04:14 PM |
| – | I just went out solo tonight. I really don't feel comfortable going out alone as a local dude.For example, I won't go to a bar that specializes in punk music because I don't enjoy it and my mindset would be utter crap as a result. Unfortunately sociaty dictates this. As I mentioned I am into 80s songs and no such club that play the music exists. And club is #1 place where people get laid. | /r/seduction | 22/01/17 09:27 PM |
| – | I just went out solo tonight. I really don't feel comfortable going out alone as a local dude.This is all inside your head. This is not. People have been asking me why I am alone then gave me a weird look. | /r/seduction | 22/01/17 09:14 AM |
| – | I just went out solo tonight. I really don't feel comfortable going out alone as a local dude.Well, there's nothing I can do about it but to accept and to learn to like it as much as possible because it's the main way of getting laid. I can do streetgame or daygame, but I still haven't figured out a better way to do it than just wandering around approaching every single girl. Even Tyler treat daygame is a part-time thing. Even if I do daygame, doesn't mean I shouldn't go to clubs because there are higher chance of me getting laid just by being in the club than sitting at home. I never kn… | /r/seduction | 21/01/17 11:29 AM |
| 1 | How do you keep going despite rejection? How do you still believe in yourself if you know that every girl will never go for you unless you make the first move?I feel you brah. | /r/seduction | 21/01/17 08:16 AM |
| 1 | I just went out solo tonight. I really don't feel comfortable going out alone as a local dude.What did you "randomly message" to her? Because she's attractive and I want to knew her. It's not "validation seeking" to interact with people in a playful way. Yeah, if I am with friends. If I am alone and do that, people especially girls might perceive me to have no value and just want to join their party. If you don't like clubs, DON'T freaking go to nightclubs. Are you into torturing yourself for no reason? It's one way of getting laid. Or the most common one. | /r/seduction | 21/01/17 06:44 AM |
| 1 | I just went out solo tonight. I really don't feel comfortable going out alone as a local dude.Bali, Indonesia. | /r/seduction | 21/01/17 06:29 AM |
| 1 | I just went out solo tonight. I really don't feel comfortable going out alone as a local dude.To go out for 2 hours, spent most of the time sitting at the edge observing people, only later ending up approaching 1-2 sets which turned out to be a huge mistake. I should have congratulated myself dozens of times already. | /r/seduction | 20/01/17 08:43 PM |
| 1 | She went to toilet with her friend and didn't come back to me. Later, I saw her again in the dancefloor. Should I just go straight back to her?tons of clues Sounds like an exaggeration. What are those? Is asking my age and having conversation with me part of it? | /r/seduction | 20/01/17 07:35 PM |
| – | If a girl is really keen to know my age, is it a definite IOI?Is he serious? He's actually (or claims to be) a master of PUA. "Lots of edge cases in romance" says him. So next time, don't dodge the question and instead immediately tell her loud and clear with full eye contact. Be confident about yourself! I was confident but I don't agree with telling the right answer right off the bat which is often described as a "chode" answer. The guide is to be playful and make her guess. | /r/seduction | 20/01/17 09:53 AM |
| -1 | She went to toilet with her friend and didn't come back to me. Later, I saw her again in the dancefloor. Should I just go straight back to her?The thing is they're tourists in their very first day and don't have a local phone number. Could be WhatsApp if they had it. Me, my Facebook looks like a fake profile anyway since I just made it, so I am not sure if it's a good idea but I believe it's still better than nothing. | /r/seduction | 20/01/17 08:13 AM |
| 1 | She went to toilet with her friend and didn't come back to me. Later, I saw her again in the dancefloor. Should I just go straight back to her?dancing with other girls That's what my friend did which got him a Facebook close. | /r/seduction | 20/01/17 07:57 AM |
| 0 | She went to toilet with her friend and didn't come back to me. Later, I saw her again in the dancefloor. Should I just go straight back to her?Maybe she was a little bit ;) , but I just didn't entertain her friend. It simply means her girlfriend is bored of you and/or your friend, and just looks for an excuse to get away from you. Just saying that my friend Facebook closed her girl, I got nothing but destroyed by a tall white dude whom I saw got away with our girls from the dance floor. | /r/seduction | 20/01/17 07:32 AM |
| 0 | She went to toilet with her friend and didn't come back to me. Later, I saw her again in the dancefloor. Should I just go straight back to her?Honestly, if you told her to meet you after the bathroom and she didn't that's her loss. That's the reason why I hesitated to approach her again. I do think things went quite well until her friend initiated to go to the bathroom. She actually just got into the club, the toilet downstairs, I understand that she saw the dancefloor downstairs and was tempted to go there. But let's say for whatever reason, she didn't come back and I saw her again later. What should I do as there are no other girls t… | /r/seduction | 20/01/17 07:00 AM |
| – | When I challenge a girl to guess where I am from but she be like "I don't know, wherever you want". What are some best responses to counter that?Yeah, challenge her to guess where I am from is an attempt to make the interaction more interesting as opposed to just tell her where I am from. I can't tell you the source but I learn that always telling straight the correct answers is a chode response. Now you haven't answered my question. | /r/seduction | 15/01/17 04:53 PM |
| 1 | When I challenge a girl to guess where I am from but she be like "I don't know, wherever you want". What are some best responses to counter that?What about "I don't know" the she laughs? | /r/seduction | 15/01/17 11:49 AM |
| – | When I challenge a girl to guess where I am from but she be like "I don't know, wherever you want". What are some best responses to counter that?You never get an answer "I don't know" to question "Can you guess where I am from? | /r/seduction | 15/01/17 09:32 AM |
| – | When I challenge a girl to guess where I am from but she be like "I don't know, wherever you want". What are some best responses to counter that?I've got answers from "I don't know" to "Wherever you want to be... Thailand?" Maybe they lacked interest, but isn't the point of PUA to make the girls who are originally not attracted to you to become attracted to you? I must know what the best thing to say when I get the same reaction in the future regardless of I hook the girl in the end or not. | /r/seduction | 15/01/17 08:21 AM |
| – | When holding eye contact, should we stare at one of the eyes or focus on the middle between the eyes?Idk what you mean by "dominant eye". I'm firmly right handed and my right eye is far more near-sighted than my left eye. | /r/seduction | 08/01/17 07:17 AM |
| – | When holding eye contact, should we stare at one of the eyes or focus on the middle between the eyes?So left eye from our perspective? Why would looking at a woman's left eye be creepy? | /r/seduction | 08/01/17 06:15 AM |
| – | Girl on Tinder unmatched me shortly after I asked her WA number. Why?Walking up to 1000 different women and saying "wanna fuck?" also works Seriously? | /r/seduction | 06/01/17 10:02 AM |
| – | Girl on Tinder unmatched me shortly after I asked her WA number. Why?More like waiting for another single match. Why is it a waste of time? Other dudes have proven it work. | /r/seduction | 06/01/17 07:08 AM |
| – | Girl on Tinder unmatched me shortly after I asked her WA number. Why?I had two matches, this morning I woke up to get unmatched by both of them (including the one I talked about in the OP) :(( | /r/seduction | 06/01/17 06:34 AM |
| – | Is it a good idea to go to clubs alone as a local dude?that doesn't even answer the question in the title | /r/seduction | 05/01/17 06:26 PM |
| 1 | I feel that club staffs automatically have much higher value than the male guests.There's no confident. The staffs don't approach or anything. They just stand there and get hit on. Even girls simply asked them to come to their hotel. | /r/seduction | 04/01/17 08:25 PM |
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