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Or reworded as mpulsivity which is a trait of psychopayny but also a sign of immaturity and is major factor in criminality ...in men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 12:10 PM
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I can't stand her lyric "I was just a child' or whatever she sings, sounds like she is saying her ex is a pedophile lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 03:56 PM
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Or as happens in England the police attending the crime scenes take their own photos to share via WhatsApp groups , some of these cases they ate also found to have images /videos of child and animal sexual abuse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 12:39 AM
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I have no respect for him and when I tell others this they gasp in horror. He is fake and entitled and boring and pushes some kind of agenda. But can't actually cook wtf lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 05:48 PM
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Two counts of murder 32 counts of sexual penetration of a corpse in respect of 32 individual victims One count of sexual penetration of a corpse as a group charge in respect of 27 victims Eight counts of taking indecent photographs of a child Three counts of possessing an extreme pornographic image Three counts of making indecent images of children One count of possession of an indecent photograph of a child One count of possession of prohibited images of children One count of voyeurism One coun…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 10:15 AM
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Like this dude.....'Zach is a self-proclaimed nerd, sex geek and consent junkie. He has been a volunteer facilitator for a weekly Polyamory Peer Discussion Group for two years' ....consent junkie wtf does that even mean?!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 10:53 AM
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I met this younger very good looking bodybuilder in a nightclub and what I thought would be a fun fling turned into hilarious dissapointment Red flags as follows : Unable to fully have sex and small willy ...probably due to steroids Less body hair and a better butt than mine... lol this is not sustainable. After non comlete sex would just talk about Arnie, looking at pictures of Annie, how he idolised Arnie Said he did this thing called gay to pay and when I was like what the fuck does that enta…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 08:57 PM
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They been doing this since they could speak or write, I have a book from the 1930's of famous quotes and proverbs (a beautifully bound green antique type it was being thrown out at a previous workplace) and the section on women is considerably larger than the one on men and the content is shockingly vile, degrading and violent towards us even back then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:21 PM
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It is like modern relationship goals for the porn addicted kinksters are Fred and Rose West.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 01:01 PM
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Was reading the comments thinking this, my ex said some similar shit line about a black heart or something (I literally cringed haha) , fast forward a few months when we were watching peaky blinders together when exact same line was used!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 05:34 PM
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Oh dear, I have a bad feeling too along with everyone else after reading this, the new bf sounds controlling and is anti-cats! Red flags. Maybe if you offered to re-home the cats on the basis that they would be fostered until the relationship goes south and she is single again,.. but then will be homeless as she will not be earning enough as she took a pay cut, but you can send updates to how the cats are doing.... Is there anyway you could get her onto the fds handbook and not compromise manage…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 08:13 AM
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Sorry, I have edited now, hopefully will work now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 11:28 PM
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Thank you, Sorry for that not working , I have edited and reposted link again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 11:27 PM
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This case stinks of a cover up as he was the most likely suspect from the get go, I don't think he acted alone though so many red flags early on in the reporting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 09:17 PM
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I'm glad I'm not on Instagram this is more like a potential serial killer profiling tool!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 10:09 PM
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And they are so ugly looking too let alone the horror called the ball sack. Even in nature everything that is penisy is ugly, like pickles, those wierd fungi, cacti and slugs lol whereas flowers smell and look beautiful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 04:21 PM
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Also all the cctv in public and private property, who is looking at those images, who controls and owns that data and has access to it, let alone the hidden cameras, people who film secretly too. Wierd neighbours can now film you on doorbell cameras. Men are so fucking creepy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:30 PM
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I don't believe the narratives of random lone males with issues just being caught out when they first offend, look at his position and how far he nearly got away with it.....probably part of a 'network' and those who enabled him to almost get away with it also in the 'network'. Blaming porn and ED... This will be the new 'excuse' for offending that men like they are helpless....back to victim blaming scenarios of women bad in porn corrupting men minds... When the reality is this is global organi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 08:19 AM
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The 'can't find a control group' sounds like porn marketing, Kevin please come back one day with your study when you have asked everyman on the planet and have categorically established this as a fact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:03 PM
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So like a resistance movement with this knowledge we can fight psychologically back, I'm in! Thank you for sharing your research and time taken writing up, I love this type of content. To take the points raised and to be able to critically analyse media and society/capitalism and gender, everything seems clearer and starts to make sense even if the truth is brutal. I research crime history and the media for my studies and found that pornography and the rise of sex crimes/objectivity of women/kin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 10:00 AM
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Yes to this, and police and crime commissioners - pcc votes are also really important as the last vote had very low turnouts and these represent a the whole police force in each area so for me will be looking for a candidate that takes dv seriously and children's safety online.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 10:15 PM
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The Hollywood propaganda machine produced romantic films at the end of ww2 as men were returning and many women would have to give up their jobs and newly found independence and society (capitalists) needed a baby boom. This coincides (well no coincidence when you go down the rabbit hole) with another rise in sexual crimes as seen with each feminist movement, a common pattern in history always supported by the media of the time to enforce power structures of Western patriachy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 10:01 PM
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This supports the 'double devience' theory where women are treated more harshly due to society's expectations (the patriarchy) of how women should behave, when in reality the numbers of women committing crimes/being prosecuted is still very low against the numbers of men (5% of prison population in UK are women). 46% of women in prison in the UK on drug charges because they were getting drugs for a partner! In fact in the UK the only crime where MORE women are prosecuted than men is Television l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 10:16 AM
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Excessive masturbation was classed as a mental health condition in the 1800's and they had asylums back then.....religions seem to deter this habit too.... Take away the images its just wanking. I'm sure a form of constant pulling on a part of your body will do physical damage long term let alone what's going on in their brains.... 25% from 2-4% in the short period of time online porn has been about....so will it continue to rise this figure? Mother nature she rocks, if porn = men unable to have…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 10:05 AM
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Yes this is so true, and even Charles Dickens wrote this into Oliver Twist with Bill Sykes treatment of Bullseye, and Nancy, nearly 200 years ago. My ex had a strange obsession with his male dog, he shared his bed with him meant the dog was not happy if I stayed lol, neither was I having been bought up on a farm when I was younger meant dogs were in the background and had their own places. When he bought dog to mine I said no way is he in my bed so they both slept downstairs lol (he was pissed o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 11:49 AM
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Advance media who own a majority share or reddit.... All makes sense now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 09:06 AM
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Thank you for sharing this as same happened to me except they did that stitch and I had to go back for surgery to fix it. Also I was given no pain relief for that first one. I would not reccomend having a partner at a delivery unless they are a women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 04:06 PM
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This is amazing, love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 09:34 AM
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This is going back about 20 years but it was a Mr hanky from South Park key ring (I was not a fan anyway). I'd rather had the scary cup lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 10:12 PM
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Thank you for sharing this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 10:40 AM
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Yeah that and her first pickme song of 'video games' such the cool girl not like other girls... I recall when she released ultraviolence she did an interview which was like a cut and paste word salad from the Internet on metaphysics... I was cringing for her but the ' woke' scrotes would have lapped it up lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 10:20 AM
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In the UK its classed as common assault, so changes to legislation in the form of a specific domestic violence bill will make it (hopefully if passed) so that if a male partner chokes a women during sex she can actually report it as a crime, its kind of fucked up that law has to be created to try and prevent men from doing this - this does not address why they think it's OK to try and kill us trying to copy porn.. Also choking/strangulation is always in the history of victims who are killed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 09:33 AM
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Yes, this is how it should be!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 11:36 AM
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Can anyone here tell me have they ever been to a guys place and found the toilet to be like normal standard clean (ALL parts of toilet) with a working lock and full stock of toilet roll (and not cheap kind)?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 10:05 AM
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Attended births in the 1800's were also high risk to women as these male Dr's and surgeons would be one minute discecting dead bodies for anatomy (often taken from graves) then go on to assist with births with NO HANDWASHING resulting in the women dying in about 4 days from the most terrible infections. Maternal mortality rates in the West only started to improve in the 1930's due to advances in medicine after ww1, penicillin, hygiene improvements, transfusions. In 1830's England was 5.8 women d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 05:48 PM
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I have always thought of it like that lol even wierder to me that it's juat a screen they looking at too, I have never understood how people can want to constantly watch porn, I just don't get it at all - like if I was hungry I ain't gonna be watching a cookery programme and pretend to chew invisible food. It makes all guys terrible at sex too thats befire the porn sickness kicks in physically... So yeah same not attracted to men anymore porn, lack of hygiene and 2020 vision.. They repulse me no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 09:00 AM
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Lol scrotes are that entitled in their own minds that the plant is shaped like them pmsl pretty sure that plant was growing before men appeared on this planet. Of all the flowers they could have replicated their dick design on and they choose this ugly specimen ha ha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 01:09 PM
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Yes with Dominic West in the role as Fred West, uncanny resemblance and same surname!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 11:21 AM
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In the UK the proposed domestic abuse Bill has had an amendment to cover non fatal strangulation in order to allow women to deny choking by a partner on the basis it would be illegal:at present the offense is only classed as common assult. Its proven that men who strangle or choke partners often end up killing them why the law is being changed, while these score pieces of shit are doing this to women behind closed doors in the name of their penis soon justice will be served once this becomes law…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 08:10 AM
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Fun fact: chefs are in the category of professions most likely to be a psychopath and also many prisons run employment schemes for offenders to become chefs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 09:26 AM
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The Lush cosmetic fresh mask caught my eye more lol I love their products and they are ethical and natural. They do amazing hair masks and henna colours for hair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 03:28 PM
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The violent porn and Google issue was being addressed in a popular yt true crime ch. yesterday, great comment was 'how many future Ted bundys are there out there..' they be on reddit that's where!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 09:42 PM
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These are killing me with laughter 😂 I think these collages should be hard bound into a beautifully covered FDS coffee table book called 'visual creatures', and all profits donated to women and animal charities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 11:34 PM
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Just googled images download into photos and created from there in Google, took 5 mins max
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 11:12 PM
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😂 That was literally what my friends and family said to me after meeting him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 11:05 PM
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To be honest I felt more sorry for the slug ending up there, yeah slug or shit its all the same really dirty environment but it's in the past now and we can all have a good laugh or cringe at it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 09:34 PM
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Slug that was resident
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 09:27 PM
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There was a resident slug in his bathroom I used to meet in the night when I stayed at his shit heap of a shed behind his mums.. He was 30.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 08:52 PM
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The best visual representation i found lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 08:49 PM
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Yeah so was the relationship until I blocked and deleted lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 08:35 PM
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Agreed, he is a vile piece of shit, not good looking pathetic body and is probably a drug dealer in debt I mean £22k in lockdown wtf (I'm not insinuating the girlfriends take drugs) . Had Caroline been surrounded by a strong grouo of queen's and advised to leave London maybe things would be different and she would still be here. I totally understand that a court appearance and conviction is life changing however if he was manipulating and gaslighting her, he was setting the stage for a confronta…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 08:31 AM
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These guys are certainly a type lol such visual creatures with their vibing and easy going ways, let the pickmes have them. Yes related but never again! Thanks for the reminder of what will no longer be tolerated and why vetting is crucial and the power of block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 10:36 PM
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Please can it include their online porn history data too, including graphs of time spent using it lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 12:54 AM
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No as I've dated 2 guys who were into this and they were both quite boring with low standards of hygiene zvm. I also observed for 2 men that watched what I would class as fantasy, they had little real life imagination lol like incapable of abstract thinking or ideas unless fed to them from TV or films.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 07:05 AM
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I know, me too! What do they even mean with this throwback outdated hippy talk lol apart from 'I want sex'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 06:35 AM
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Animal adoption even just supporting a shelter with donation or volunteering. Invest your love and attention where it's needed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 09:55 AM
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Lol def BS as if thst were super visual they wouldn't generally resemble unhygienic scarecrows (men of 2020), me and my daughter just point and laugh loudly/make comment we see or encounter this behavior in public.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 07:08 AM
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It's like we all have the same ex lol, I was going through photos my phone the other day and came across some whatapp ones of my ex that he sent me... Horrific.... The forehead wrinkles (at 30) he had were so bad like botox would not even help... Is this caused by the constant porn induced phone stare concentration while wanking maybe - enhanced by the hairline that is also trying it's hardest to escape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 07:38 AM
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Hi lots of hugs here I was mad when I read what you said about his driving as that is so dangerous... Potentially this could result in a car accident and death! You are what is important now! Suggestion could you contact him and ask him to mail your blanket and key - you could say a girlfriend is in a bad situation/breakup and will be staying with u so u need them (you could even describe your situation as her story if he presses for more info... Psyop lol) ... Not really a lie as said girlfrien…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 07:41 AM
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Hang on.... You couldn't make this stuff up... From his bio....' the editor of What I Meant to Say, an anthology of essays by men and about men, but for women.'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 08:11 AM
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Omfg.... Must be an old article as he looks more like 70!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 08:07 AM
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What a dusty name... Ian Brown ugh, I wanna see a pic of this dude lol as you know he's gonna look like a predator too and so we can push him off his bike should he follow any of us to stare at our bums... Pathetic... A grown 58 year old man behaving this way and justifying it... Just no no no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 07:43 AM
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Used to model semi professionally, translates as did a black and white head shot in 1994 in a fedora... Taken by my mum and dad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 07:26 AM
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Yes, 44 years and if I analyse every male I have encountered it is all men. Patriachy was in crisis 300 or so years ago in my country many women were put on witch trials, its gonna take a while to change 1000's of years of oppression and brainwashing and even then biologically our bodies are designed to reject their attempts at fertilisation at every step if possible, to avoid a parasitic pregnancy that most likely will kill or disable us. Guinea pigs are often used in experiments instead of hum…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 12:15 PM
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🕑🗑️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 12:32 PM
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Hollywood pushing the pedo agenda bunch of sick fucks, hidden in plain sight, brainwashing the masses via entertainment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 12:17 PM
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sharpieupbuttkinkdontshameme lol this has to be a fake story!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 07:14 PM
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So this piece of shit will be back in society and therefore could be using OLD soon as a millionaire could easily change his identity. Justice for men only as usual. A change in laws just seems to back up that men have become very dangerous sexually towards women, a family have lost a daughter and her daughter is now motherless and 2 years and he's free... Fucking hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 10:19 AM
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I was getting emails for video speed dating due to lockdown , I did attend one of their face to face events about 2 years ago and that was a great night but more for entertainment/cringe factor lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 10:12 AM
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Hi, UK and 44, been here since about December and ended with my ex in Jan, no plans to date at all as I have worked through the handbook and totally changed my mindset on men. I wish I had known what I have learnt on here and through others advice years ago. I have reprogrammed myself so I no longer seek any validation from men in any form and its so liberating that I don't even want to date or have a relationship at the moment. I found the information on biological differences between men and w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 09:53 AM
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Forget his greatest hits wtf is he wearing, 32 and dad jeans and uncle belt with a white shirt tucked in and jacket that looks too small...and zipper coming undone... Thought men were visual creatures! Looks like a stock photo for a mens article on incontinence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 09:08 AM
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In agreement with responses that say block, you could ask why did you send that? He will say its a joke and you could ask him to explain it however this usually ends up in gaslighting response and revaluation of further red flags so why bother. It is so cringe and if the male emoji represents him you dodged a bullet, caps prob hiding bald head and beard weak chin lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 12:11 PM
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Ahha yes red flag even , my previous ex used to call me baby and poppet... I heard him call his dog poppet at times too and it was just such a turn off... It is also the name of a voodoo doll used in magic(was this a neg lol ) or the following.. The word poppet is an older spelling of puppet, from middle English popet, meaning a small child or a doll. In British English it continues to hold this meaning. Poppet is also a chiefly British term of enderement or diminutive referring to a young woman…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 05:51 PM
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Thank you for posting the link, we all need to be more aware of this. Is it in the fds handbook? A lot of food for thought, but this line... 'Males are genetic parasites, possibly having originated as parasitic DNA or an infectious genetic virus' resonated with me today and will be my mood for life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 10:24 AM
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So do the mods think that 'most men are trash' is a popular opinion then? Therefore not fitting with unpopular opinion... Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 09:53 AM
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Loved it, however Boxer just reminded me of an old overgrown neckbeard in the end lol. Kika was a queen too. Great characters and storyline, I hardly ever watch TV or films but really enjoyed this during stay at home. Was really interesting watching with my fds head on like when zoe got with boxer I was like' noooooo!!! '
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 08:11 AM
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Well done you are well rid, from what you described he values women only on their visual attractiveness to him..so even if he had stopped with following Instagram he would still see women (and you) as mere objects. Is this why we get uncomfortable with this situations as our intuition is picking up on that deeper issue that they don't actually see women as humans?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 07:25 AM
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Thank you for sharing this, there is no benefit to the women in a fwb situation, I hope his struggle continues lol, 2020 does appear to a landmark year like women have collectively woken after years of shitty OLD and the rise of porn sickness to realise that majority of available men are effectively broken and being single is almost like a choice that will improve us no end. I have been constantly told I was too fussy, or your standards are way too high... Or impossible, I mean no one's perfect!…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 09:55 AM
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I will look into that, I have not heard that term before, thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 06:08 PM
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That's awful, I'm sorry to hear that. In hindsight we should have just advised that she got counselling after her recent break up but this situation just escalated so quickly with her customer (although we have no idea if she went or not). It was low value or even negative value of him to suggest or go along with her if she did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 06:04 PM
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Thank you for highlighting that, think you are spot on, sorry it happened to you too though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 02:53 PM
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Thank you for this, it is appearing very childish as I have a grown up daughter myself as well as married friend so we have to be direct and sound with our advice and not expect a pity party when she is putting herself at risk physically and mentally potentially.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 01:21 PM
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One of my close friends chased a guy she met at work on linkdin, swapped numbers, he had suggested champagne picnic socially distanced (I suspect she suggested though) so me and another friend said she should cancel as we are in UK with stay at home order and get to know him slowly as she is weeks out of a relationship with a guy who had a mental breakdown in her house, I was even sharing fds advice. She downgraded the date to wait for it... A dog walk! Me and other friend were very blunt and sa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 08:40 AM
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Thanks to all for sharing these! For me final straw with my previous lvm was I broke up with him due to his communication being inconsistant and I would get the sorry and an excuse, stupidly I got back together however days later he ghosted me off while I was having work issues and project problems, with his reason being he had been playing ... Wait for it.... Pokemon... He was 30,! he also changed it to 'I fell asleep I was stoned'! So inconsistant again. Also I'm sure you will agree this other…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 11:31 PM
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Amazing, I guess that truth hit some hard awww, if you do any more please share again! Really loved it and made me laugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 07:03 AM
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I reccomend doing some research on statement analysis in respect of deception, there are some good videos based more around criminal investigations however its great insight to language and words we use and can give some pointers towards words, phrases and order of words to allow you to be aware of when someone is not being truthful. I am not saying this is a strict science and there is debate on the validity of it however words are very powerful. Its just another tool that is helping me level u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 08:59 AM
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I've had worse comments via OLD, no longer on it and no pics on social media, problem solved. Name and shaming them and sharing what they post is the way forward though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 08:23 AM
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Yeah this is going to be my post lockdown look for autumn 2020 even the make up seems to say 'fuck off scrotes'!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 07:55 AM
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Totally on board with shaming them, go back and call them perverts like we used to instead of trying to be so cool with the 'kink' word.. No youre just a fucking perv. I would love a database or register so you could see porn use frequency and type of content that a person has viewed , especially when dating .. Like a sex offenders register. If its so normal what's to hide scrotes - perfect solution seeing as looking through the phone or hard drive is a crime worse than murder according to reddi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 08:28 AM
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Ha ha that therapist was brilliant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 06:17 AM
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For UK, I was having issues with usual prescription for retinol however I finally was given isotrexin which has worked fine on adult acne and free or £9 dependent on NHS cover, just a tip for anyone in UK who may want to ask Dr.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 12:22 PM
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Literally seems written by a man for women .... Not that I would read or pay attention to glamour magazine, but this bit wtf....quote- 'But the truth is, many feminists enjoy being called names such as “bitch,” “slut,” or “whore” in bed. Remember to discuss such activities beforehand and keep it consensual. That way, it’s feminist AF to engage in such play. In a patriarchal world where women have long been told sex is just to make babies,' A-z of shit I would call this! This is just abuse in dis…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 07:59 AM
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A quick Google search... The person shrugging emoji can designate ignorance, indifference, self-acceptance, passive-aggression, annoyance, giving up, or not knowing what to make of something. It could also be a visual form of the one-word response of indifference, “whatever.” Block delete and move on, my ex used this emojji more than any so its a bit of an lvm red flag. The above are no basis for dating to progress to any solid relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 09:01 AM
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Thanks, is that link in the fds handbook as valuable information for all of us here why it's so important to be vetting in the future when we are able to date again. It highlights the real danger to women not only in dating but also long term relationships, this is essential facts and also that these sick evil men sometimes get away with it, or a short sentence as sex game gone wrong or she consented.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 04:00 PM
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Well spotted and linking - it's a guy however I am relieved it's not a women in this instance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 09:40 PM
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Eww and some of the responses suggested he may have done that intentionally, I wonder if that's motivated by degradation of women or just twisted so called 'kink' he has. I hope she ended it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 05:22 AM
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Personally I just don't get porn... Spent a lot of time in Amsterdam central in 90's when sex and porn was still really seedy and to me its voyeurism - watching people have sex which to me seems so totally fucked up and laughable... I love sex personally so would love having it... Not watching someone else lolo. Also maybe being slightly older, porn addicts in the 80's would have been obvious as if you met a guy went to his house and found a million wank mags or room of videos you be like wtf I'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 07:15 AM
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Do you need to have sex like eating and breathing? No just get some toys if you really have to have an orgasm to survive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 06:43 AM
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This is so perfectly written to be so true of the moment... All the thousands of years of humans progressing surviving and creating and we get to this point where all guys just wanna pull pp to a screen all day long! All of a sudden lots of viagra aimed at young healthy males and balding under 30 adverts.... Coincidence or nature's karma.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 06:39 AM
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He seems well triggered that his porn sick life view was challenged in a direct manner, if you break down his reply he refers to people (what are people in this context) then says every single girl - is it people, every people or every girl or a single girl? My reckoning is maybe he only used this message on you.. Why girl and not women? Girl implies child easier to manipulate? His texting is irritating, what's with the word 'day' and gunna... It screams lvm so its 'gunna' be a tough life for hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 09:15 AM
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That's what I thought, they are kids ffs and it's seen as funny. They looked the age of my cousins, makes me so sad as when I was that age only porn I ever saw was pages from a magazine in our playing field (this seemed to be common in the UK for some strange reason... Prob pervs hiding watching us kids now I come to think of it so not saying it was any safer for kids) and we had a look said oh and eww and ran away and continued being kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 10:37 AM
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Maybe his d was not the smallest but not the firmest, not that you be wasting your energy on describing such things as he did, ex for a reason, what a loser he sounds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 07:43 PM
6

Levelling up means banishing these thoughts or urges as it's wasted energy. Blocked and deleted for a reason and should mean we are unable to act upon them. If you really have the urge here's a message to copy and paste... 'dear ex, I am contacting you in these troubles times as I really hope you get the virus and it causes you as much pain as you caused me in the past, I wish you not well'... Don't worry (that was a sarcastic joke I wish no harm) as we won't be sending it as their numbers are d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 06:26 PM
29

Mystery solved, wife grew up and he didn't. Well done for looking into that and thanks for posting. I'm so glad I raised my daughter without a man in the house...they can't be trusted when into porn its sick when he has a wife and children, I don't understand the so called normality of porn in society. Enough with the middle aged perverts!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 08:18 PM
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Mackenzie hasn’t found a single case of a man killed by a woman in an alleged “sex game gone wrong”. This fact is really interesting and says a lot about this situation. The case about the poor women found by the neighbour and no man was punished is so shocking too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 09:24 AM
20

Ladies there must be hackers amongst us... Can we not take this shit site down somehow? Just a suggestion
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 01:49 PM
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I saw this post and read it but something felt off about it, sounds fake like a LVM fantasy or something. Why would any women even post this shit asking for advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 07:44 AM
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Remember, many sperm have to swim to reach the egg, the egg is not chasing the sperm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 11:35 PM
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Again FDS has made me realise another red flag on my ex LVM, 2 months into dating he crashed his truck head on into a tree/written off smashed in, somehow just had bruises even though air bags went I suspect he had had a drink after work and was driving too fast, , never got any insurance back as apparently his mum had paid for it in her name but it was being used for his work. He then was loaned a car by his sister that he managed to ruin, was even driving with no lights, when that went his nan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 10:20 PM
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Well the jokes on them for falling the psy-op that porn is 'normal' and by becoming incels will mean they will be removed from humanity in due course anyway so it may take several generations hopefully by not breeding because of ED and low sperm counts and general dick failure. Ps notice his gaslighting response.. Typical LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 02:02 PM
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Because like them the males are useless
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 07:44 AM
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I have noticed how this is now heavily advertised using young men who appear to be in their 20's now, clearly there is no other reason than porn sickness for this as I don't believe the percentage of men this age with medical conditions causing ED would be high enough to target this age group in mainstream advertising. I'm so glad I was happily single this valentines day! It's so ironic that an addiction to excessive porn use can literally break their penis, and that they are in a collective den…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 06:42 AM
16

Looks like he is drinking a slug lol, needs alcohol too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 07:18 PM
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I feel like this would be better than the ideal man anyway!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 06:46 PM
61

In the UK after the first world war there was a massive amount of women who never married due to the amount of men that never returned from fighting.... A lot of these men were well educated, or strong from large working families, and I was discussing this with a friend as I felt that we are going to be in a similar situation except losing our guys to porn addiction... I called it WWPorn... My friend raised another interesting observation that after 2 World wars any remaining men were either not…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 02:03 PM
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I love the peg apron looks really good and useful! Good use of your time with idoits like that about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 06:31 PM
10

Yes totally agree, found this sub just before my breakup with lvm, like I was sleepwalking through my so called relationship its like each post I read I am finding the same red flags flying through his words and past actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 08:16 AM
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Me 43 and my daughter 19 have both realised and ended our relationships with lvm recently (thanks fds as I found you at the right time) so a lot of time has been spent together, also a close friend has gone through similar so a lot of reconnecting has been going on, loving the fact mine and mine and exs shared hobby has been left with me at my house (he lived with mummy) so I happily have been able to focus on that, lots of u tube workouts to increase my fitness too and many plans are being made…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 08:08 AM
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And now his name is shared for this- Amazing, great way to deal with these
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 06:21 PM
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Sorry but it's Monday morning in the UK got to go to work so don't have time to be articulate so ill just use a nice British compliment... What a dickhead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 08:29 AM
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Wtf is a kinky romantic journey lol pmsl and the reference to warm lube... He has never got a women naturally wet then... Yes or no.? ...blocked
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 08:12 AM
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I'd be going to police in this situation as what she's he have hidden on his computer phone... Is coaching teens and overly interested in them and then searching for that type of porn he is grooming 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 07:32 AM
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Having recently become single I have got the app but not completed the set up as even thinking about it is giving me anxiety and I am no way an anxious about anything else lol, as stated at least it sounds like a good option to delete those off that don't open the conversation. Thanks for confirming its trash though, I might now not bother use my time on a hobby instead. Even 5-10 mins of browsing lvm is better spent on something more productive lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 06:36 PM
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If porn really was empowering to women then men would have been the first ones to do it and we would have been fighting for decades to be able to do it..... Which has not been the case so the argument that fds is whorephobic is the same as the gas lighting we receive from LVM when excessive porn use is discovered. It's like social engineering.... Basically telling young women whoever you are you can financially make it from porn and what a strong women you will be for that... This is so fucked u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 08:18 AM
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Is this going to be a future red flag for us ladies, discovery of the dirty sex doll at potential dates house, has this happened to anyone on here yet? Oh my days!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 08:16 PM
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My ex did not post 1 reference to me in 14 months together, I'm not on fb so was not really aware however 5 day festival together, came to sharing our pics and he had taken about 100 pics and videos... Of himself. Upon checking his Facebook his bio read... Fuckwit, retard and sexual devient (cringe cringe cringe) .... The first 2 were correct and sorry in this day and age devient surly means pedo, incest or into animals.... He's done with, and typical hit the wall at 30, overweight balding and l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 01:56 PM
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Oh OK, I assumed from the post it was, so he is a risk taker, I find guys often use weed to not face problems or it could be the other way round, it makes them oblivious to issues as they too stoned and it costs a lot of money so if they are spending a lot on weed you find they never can afford spend anything on you, as weed will always come first if they are mis-using or self medicating for mental health issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 12:11 PM
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In making his statement about his use and frequency of weed he is setting the stage of this being an issue as he said he uses it to relieve stress, so what stress does he suffer from? What are the reasons and consequences of the stress not being relieved by weed, why mention something that is only done sometimes on a first date as usually a good impression is attempted at this stage, does sometimes mean daily, hourly, as soon as he gets up? He is not saying he is using weed to get high as its fu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 11:48 AM
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Thank you for this information, this is so true at the moment, myself, and 2 other close females have had relationships described as above, which we have all ended. All 3 LvM reacted with a pity party of their own, all had drug/drink overuse, all 3 had work issues not their fault, all were still being mothered or had past issues with mummy, all 3 lacked the effort or insight that constant let downs and excuses was not us overreacting or kicking off over nothing. Simply none of them was in a heal…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 10:44 PM
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Literally most men are now complete wankers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 01:56 PM
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I know that dissapointed feeling however you did the right thing and if he knows he may cover up his phone in future, yours is a great example of whatever it takes to investigate a phone or someone's past as cold facts cannot be denied but as you said he would have gaslighted you about porn being normal. It's interesting that if these guys think porn is normal why are they not open with the frequency and what they get off on... Why do they hide it or would be outraged if asked to see their phone…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 10:05 AM
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Yes me too and many more of us on here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 06:41 PM
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These bad experiences are the average interactions we have with men, get your head round that lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 01:24 PM
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Thanks for posting, this sub is amazing coincidently I found it as my sham 14 month constant let down of a relationship broke down, and now I can identify every red flag, thanks all its so supportive to hear so many similar real life situations with these LvM, more the power to us to stay safe and stick to our boundaries moving forward with our best lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 09:47 PM
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My granny once said to me with the most serious look and low tone.. 'never trust a man with red hair, whose eyebrows meet, who rides a motorbike', she was bought up by victorian parents and was involved in ww2 and looking back on it now totally think she had ptsd or mental health issues from her life. I never remembered what happened or even if she said why but always stuck with me to this day and guess it was a traumatic experience. As I little girl she would look after me and chain smoke King …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 06:49 PM
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Not to me but my friend was OLD and was initially talking to a guy and he sent a selfie from his bedroom however she saw there was a cot in the room... Upon questioning this he went on to say 'it's not a cot, it's a thing I put my clothes and shoes in!' and good for her she responded with 'no that's called a wardrobe, but that's a baby's cot in your room' and it went no further. Always check the detail in pics as these LvM more than often don't!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 08:18 AM
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