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that's a fine healthy mindset, but in reality they're fucking a chad higher than me on their list of chads
/r/askTRP22/08/20 04:04 AM
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understood. being too hard on myself
/r/askTRP27/01/20 09:01 PM
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Thats a truly awesome response. I'm defintely going to look into the shrooms and meditation
/r/askTRP26/01/20 09:31 PM
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Thanks for the response. Been rejected a lot since discovering TRP. Rejection is fine by now. At the same time, think I'm looking to rewire my brain to actually be who I've become after TRP. My past is hard to overcome. Mental training, exercises stuff like that, because the the tangible stuff is sorted
/r/askTRP26/01/20 08:22 PM
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For me its approaching that's difficult. After approaching, I'm good. Rejection is fine, you get desensitized to it after a few hundred rejections. Always stoked to forget the last girl and move on to the next. But having a few drinks for confidence to approach feels like cheating. My default sober self isn't confident. And I've tried fooling myself with some of the tricks like convincing myself "she wants to talk to me" and stuff like that. I know the problem is deeper, and I want real confiden…
/r/askTRP26/01/20 06:47 PM
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Tried it years ago. Helped a lot at the time. I've settled on maybe 1 fap a week at most. No need to go extreme anymore.
/r/askTRP26/01/20 06:31 PM
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Done this with alcohol-induced false confidence. I agree it works, and it's solid advice. Maybe I should start from zero sober.
/r/askTRP26/01/20 06:28 PM
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Gold. Thanks
/r/askTRP26/01/20 06:26 PM
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What do you do to be more interesting? Partying? Kinks? Risk taking? More exciting hobbies/activities?
/r/askTRP26/01/20 05:05 PM
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Thanks for the response. Any suggestions on specific supplements? Resources that I can read?
/r/askTRP26/01/20 04:59 PM
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Kickboxing, and I play the drums in a band
/r/askTRP26/01/20 04:56 PM
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tried to fuck her, she said she was travelling the next day and needed to pack/clean. solid advice though thats kinda what I thought
/r/askTRP23/12/19 08:46 AM
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the dad was just absent. away working for long stretches during her childhood. she was molested by a her god father as a child so that might contribute to her issues. but its not my problem to fix. yeah im not so angry anymore. posting here helped. moving on
/r/askTRP14/09/19 10:38 AM
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yeah agreed it was a mindfuck her telling me all that shit. during 3 years she definitely never saw me as a person. just a source of validation. now im just working on myself/job and mindlessly banging other girls. what else is there to do
/r/askTRP13/09/19 10:56 PM
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Plenty of times. she didnt like being straddled or having dick shoved in her face/ down her throat. she was more into us both being aggressive. like wrestling and slapping and pain
/r/askTRP04/09/19 07:28 PM
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coginitive dissonance I guess. She was definitely submissive but was never into being degraded.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 07:05 PM
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It's a massive shock that she would degrade herself like that. It's really unbelievable because she has a lot of pride, she's too proud in fact. I really hope she only said those things to hurt me, for my own sanity.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 10:45 AM
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agreed. what a waste of time
/r/askTRP03/09/19 01:08 PM
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reality slap!
/r/askTRP03/09/19 01:08 PM
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not together for almost 3 months, but you're right I shouldn't know or care about her
/r/askTRP03/09/19 01:08 PM
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because I'm a dumbass and agreed to a drink after she picked up some stuff from my house
/r/askTRP03/09/19 01:07 PM
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damn right my ego is hurt. makes me feel better to see all the guys here who have problems maintaining a girl longer than 3 years. still feels like shit
/r/askTRP03/09/19 01:06 PM
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I almost threw up a little in my mouth
/r/askTRP03/09/19 01:05 PM
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thanks that makes a lot of sense. also TRP teaches us to not try to fix daddy issues. this girl has them, I told her so. I'm not going to do any more than that. pff what a waste of time
/r/askTRP03/09/19 01:05 PM
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was only considering plating her to get in with the bdsm community
/r/askTRP02/09/19 04:37 PM
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we're not together, and if what she told me is true, we'll never be
/r/askTRP02/09/19 04:36 PM
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Dude she straight up bragged about it over a drink
/r/askTRP02/09/19 04:34 PM
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move on. don't get caught up with the insecurity of not cutting it
/r/askTRP02/09/19 02:41 PM
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Thanks, that's a great comment. I did think about how easy it is for her to get loads of dick. I hate it because I truly have a high SMV I work really hard to maintain. I go the the gym or kickbox every day, 9-to-5 high skilled technical job. I find time to go out and approach girls. And my ex has nothing but a degree in fucking theatre, sits alone in a bar and gets all the dick she wants plus threesomes and foursomes and all this crazy shit. About the bdsm, yes I am curious. I want to be more d…
/r/askTRP02/09/19 02:38 PM
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reality slap!
/r/askTRP02/09/19 01:10 PM
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yeah that would suck
/r/askTRP02/09/19 01:09 PM
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hahah for real, think I'm jealous of how much crazy sex she's getting
/r/askTRP02/09/19 01:08 PM
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Well, you might be right, I may be jealous.But she's a 6/10 and has put on a little weight since we broke up. I've had better looking girls in the meantime. I think it's just my inner voice saying "I'm better than those assholes". Also I agree, chasing is bad. She hangs out at a bar across the street from my apt building all the time. I think a FWB situation would be easy to get now that things have cooled down.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 11:41 AM
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Switch between playful/childish mode and hardass mode often. Create and release tension. For example: tease a girl with a serious face for only a few seconds, then smirk to let her know you're just kidding. For childish mode use basic offensive humour like dick and poop jokes, be obnoxious by imitating a girl's laugh or walk. Be sarcastic. Be physical, like flick a girl's hair or pretend you're going to chase her down and bite her like an animal. Use serious hardass mode when things are too comf…
/r/askTRP09/10/17 04:26 AM
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I appreciate the reality slap. She's probably already fucked ten dudes. Like I said, I'm not going to reach out to this girl. I won't explain anything or have a stern conversation. She either submits or not. You're right, for this shitty behaviour to happen in the first place, her perception of me must've slipped. In the past she submitted when I withdrew my attention or sent her away. This time I broke up with her. Maybe it's enough for her to get back in line, maybe not. Once again, it's her d…
/r/askTRP09/10/17 01:40 AM
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Thanks for the breakdown. I think she likes me enough to sacrifice her ego for me, which was the root problem. The bitchiness and "sex when she wants" was her thinking she's my equal, which was never the case. I'm not going to try and make amends. But if she truly sacrifices her ego for me, I'll consider giving it another shot.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 12:49 AM
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I grew up with an abusive mother who was abused herself, cuck dad who never understood what was going on with mom. I was abused by women and had a string of abusive girlfriends who ended up reinforcing my beta tendencies. Then I found red pill and healed a lot. I fully understand both sides of the dynamic. I'm in a position to help others. I'm studying TF-CBT and it makes me happy to know there's a solution. I'm a problem solver, it's what brought me to red pill. Maybe it's not my business or re…
/r/askTRP23/03/17 10:33 AM
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This rings true to me. I can definitely handle the baggage, since I grew up with similar women. I've already brought up her issues with her. I made her start a journal and start meditating. I feel she isn't being completely honest with me about her risk-taking, which is understandable given we've only known each other for a few months. She won't go to therapy. Any suggestions for other things I can do to help? Besides journaling and meditation?
/r/askTRP22/03/17 05:02 PM
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Yeah I've been thinking about just telling her it's non-exclusive and seeing what happens. I've been keeping other girls on the back burner so I'll be fine if she bails.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 02:35 PM
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Agreed. But my red flags have some speculation, based off of TRP slut identifiers. My green flags are mostly hard evidence she truly sees me as her alpha. I think I need proof she has no intention of getting better before moving on.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 02:06 PM
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I haven't yet. In fact, this post is to keep myself from doing it. My beta anxiety is getting the better of me. I can't tell the difference between paranoia and gut instinct.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 02:02 PM
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Agreed. The responses here have changed my mind.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 07:44 PM
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I trust him to be messed up like that. But if you're right and he's my enemy, I'll still keep him close (Laws of Power).
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 05:35 PM
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Even if she wasn't LTR material? Even if it was to teach a hard lesson, while getting something out of it? I'm also more physically attractive than my friend, so he's competitive with me.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 05:28 PM
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I don't think they were flirting beforehand. He made a move and she let it happen, spontaneously. My friend tried to drop hints before it happened. I didn't listen. Yeah sure he got something out of it, he busted a nut, but isn't that the typical alpha? Should I feel betrayed by my friend, when she was slutting it up on the regular with other guys? Bros compete at everything. Not only was he looking out for me, but he was also beating me at a friendly game of chess.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 05:05 PM
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I think it was a whim for her, she let it happen. My friend obviously had to make a move on her, so yeah a little premedidation on his part. The location was... under my nose. Maybe he felt a little guilty, but I also think he told me, shortly after it happened, because he saw me getting too Disney with her and was watching out for me. I think its fine for bros to bang the same sluts, as long as they're certified sluts. In fact I will sometimes "help" my friends out by putting their special snow…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 05:03 PM
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She put on a good show and treated me well, and while I had no proof, I spotted red flags and knew deep down she was slutting it up on the side. On TRP we say to be non-judgemental and to not care about sluts being sluts. In the end it's always the lying and hiding that gets me. If she wasn't pushing for LTR, or if she didn't lie about being a slut, I would have continued to bang her. But she decided to put on the good girl show.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 04:48 PM
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I was letting her get too far with me. My friend clearly did it on purpose to open my eyes, because I wasn't listening otherwise. He had dropped hints that she wasn't LTR material. My friend could have kept quiet and never said anything. I could have continued to let this "good girl" fool me indefinitely. To me that's a bro right there. Maybe I'm wrong. I don't have enough experience to properly vet women, so I have the tendancy to get emotionally involved if she plays the game better than me, w…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 04:30 PM
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Totally agree. But I, having read all the BP stories and being completely paranoid, also want to know if she's fucking anybody else. She might be fucking me, but I'm always vigilant for sluts/cheaters. It stings the most when she's playing good and then you find out she's bad.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 12:49 AM
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I hear ya. Thing is, she goes on and on about how satisfied she is with me (which seems true) and how she doesn't allow her lizard brain to take control of her actions. That she's exclusive. This messes with my head. I would rather she didn't say that shit so I can keep her in the plate/bar ho category. It hurts if she's lying straight faced. I don't like lies.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 02:45 AM
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Yeah I'm twisting my arm by telling her she can meet up with us. But she wanted me to go to her, so I don't think I'm losing frame. I'm having trouble keeping social life and plates separate.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 01:02 AM
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It's just the Oedipus and Electra complex working for whoever is the dominant parent. My mom raised me to be beta so she wouldn't feel attracted to me. Since TRP I remind her of my Chad dad and it makes her horny (shudder gross). I think alpha dads do the same thing to their daughters. They raise them to be rational, independant and masculine so they won't remind the dad of their hot mom and feel attracted.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 09:47 PM
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I already kickbox. Doesn't mean I want to get into street fights.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 06:46 PM
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Sometimes trouble comes to me, without any provocation on my part. Standing my ground doesn't include getting angry, quite the opposite in fact. It's about staying in control when people are in my face looking for a reaction.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 02:48 PM
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What so now I'm supposed to lose control of my anger, go full caveman, and get into fights on the regular? We wear masks to survive. If you go around puffing out your chest trouble is going to find you.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 12:54 PM
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This post reminds me of Thinking Fast and Slow, by nobel prize winner Daniel Kahneman. The book's central thesis is a dichotomy between two modes of thought: "System 1" is fast, instinctive and emotional; "System 2" is slower, more deliberative, and more logical. Basically "System 1" is autopilot, and "System 2" is mindful. The problem is that we try to conserve energy, and using autopilot conserves energy. So it's our default setting because we're fundamentally lazy.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 09:17 PM
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Like I mentioned before: Girls have years of experience above me in game and getting gamed. Girls kick my ass at game. They have refined bullshit. My only way to treat them like shit is to ignore or agree/amplify. I'm still working on defense. I'm not yet able to engage fully in bullshit, or even try some sort of offense. I get my ass handed to me. My defense/ignore game is top notch though /s
/r/askTRP22/10/16 04:33 PM
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using wit, humour, and sarcasm I use Confidence and Self-esteem to get unprecedented discounts on used products from promotional displays at walmart or kmart or wherever the hell
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 03:31 PM
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talking about her "other friends" (guys she's currently fucking) putting you face-to-face with one of her bfs flirting with you in front of her current bf saying your interests are shit, disrespecting your goals/passions loaded questions that are offensive ("are you retarded or autistic? a sociopath or a psychopath?") talking about gay shit asking for small things that you don't give a second thought about, but show that you can be bossed around ("get me a lighter/ashtray") getting you to look w…
/r/askTRP22/10/16 01:35 PM
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Women get extremely horny around me and gush sex smell. I don't know how else to explain it. I don't do anything, I just act aloof.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 09:32 PM
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You need to validate that quickly I haven't gotten to the point where it's easy or fun entertaining and listening to girls. Sometimes with alchohol. The autist thing is just how I imagine myself from a third person perspective. When I'm ignoring a girl, I just look somewhere else and lose myself in thought, so I'm hoping I don't look mentally challenged. BTW I get clear IOIs all day every day.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 08:57 PM
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Dude this girl is getting tingles. Her pussy is smelling up the whole office. Didn't talk to me, very quick eye contact. She only leaves because I can't help looking at her phone's screen when she flashes it. Yeah that's a shit test nowadays. Never look at their phones.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 08:30 PM
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Here's one example: At the health center, my ticket is 13. Girl comes in, gets a ticket, sits next to me and says she has ticket 17 to an old lady. After a few IOIs like getting up taking off jacket, doing a twirl to show the goods, sitting down again right in my field of vision, and whining out loud about the wait (to no one in particular). She drops her ticket to see if I react, only to reveal moments later that she has another one in her hand. I glace at the ticket she dropped and see it has …
/r/askTRP21/10/16 07:51 PM
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Yeah my shit has been weak forever bro
/r/askTRP21/10/16 07:29 PM
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Girls can be straight up mean when they test your frame. Like they put you through a lot of shit.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 07:10 PM
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My inhibition is these girls are coming on to me and my slut sense tingles. I then proceed to shit on them by ignoring.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 07:08 PM
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Nobody ever said TRP was fun
/r/askTRP21/10/16 06:19 PM
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I don't know. I guess it's just the pressure to talk to her. Like I'm doing what she wants me to do.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 06:18 PM
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Girls kick my ass at game. They're punishing and cruel. Sometimes I'm just like fuck it I don't have the mental strength right now. Don't get me wrong, I still get laid by shutting up and going caveman. But not before getting verbally outplayed and given a lesson in bullshit. I need to get more enjoyment out of game and bullshit.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 06:12 PM
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Girls give me things to say. She'll drop something, or speak her thoughts out loud, or have a dog. I know what to say. I just don't. Like "your shit is weak, no deal"
/r/askTRP21/10/16 05:33 PM
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All girls have years of experience above me in game and getting gamed. Girls kick my ass at game. They have refined bullshit. It's like kickboxing. You get the crap beat out of you. It's fine you learn. You try to take a day or two off. Dudes come after you during the day to keep beating the shit out of you.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 05:20 PM
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Yeah I'm making them work too hard for it.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 05:07 PM
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giving her the attention she wants I haven't gotten to the point where it's easy or fun entertaining and listening to girls. Sometimes with alchohol.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 05:02 PM
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So IOIs are not attempts to take control of the interaction?
/r/askTRP21/10/16 04:41 PM
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Interactions can be non-verbal. If a girl is trying to get me aroused without talking and I ignore her, could that be considered holding frame?
/r/askTRP21/10/16 03:59 PM
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Dude these girls just magically appear out of nowhere. I can't react. I feel like a fucking autist. I'm just hoping I don't look like a chump by being ice cold and ignoring them.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 03:48 PM
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Yeah this has happened to me too. And the funny thing is, they pop up "by coincidence" when you least expect it. Not ideal, but I guess I'll play along.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 05:32 PM
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A girl starts trying to deduct points from you the moment she sees you. IOIs are just the green light for you to try. She's constantly picking at your armor. She notices every twitch, blink and weight shift. She prods you with different questions but it's always the same fitness test. If you choke and fail, that's just how it is. It builds character.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 12:58 PM
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until they're not at the same school So how do you get with that one girl who you ignored a few months/years back? Just the regular text for coffee?
/r/askTRP18/10/16 10:53 AM
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Same story with me. Tips: - Move out - Find positive examples/mentors, online and off. Dad doesn't cut it - Hang out with guys who fuck a lot and learn from them. You'll get teased but it'll build your frame - Combat sports: Kickboxing or Muay Thai. Get punched in the face - Stop needing women for anything, even if it means being alone - Make your own decisions
/r/askTRP18/10/16 10:42 AM
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Dude, I'm in my 30s and girls fuck me for who I am. Not because of my resources. That's exactly what I want. Geniune attraction. A girl fucks me for no other reason than my awesomeness. In fact, some girls get turned off if I tell them what I do for a living. It ruins the magic. I now tell them that I'm a bullfighter or a torture specialist, something edgy and over the top.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/16 11:44 AM
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My 80 year old aunt is always surprised to know that school classes are mixed, that housing arrangements can be mixed, etc. As in, she assumes that men and women can't keep off of each other in these mixed enviroments. In the old days, male and female environments were separate, and there were specific controlled events created for socialization between sexes.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/16 11:26 AM
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As a handsome guy I can confirm this. The cat calling, the grabbing. Hotter girls won't put their egos on the line and approach though, just put out obvious IOIs. The direct approaches I get are usually low smv girls throwing hail marys with plausible deniability. Once in a blue moon I get a girl who asks straight up if I want to be her fuck buddy. That said, I don't like it when women initiate. It doesn't feel right and I'm not 100% present and interested in the girl. I go after the girls I wan…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 07:54 PM
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We are the regulators of our sexual market. Our order versus their chaos.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 05:26 PM
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I think she would have left me hanging if I hadn't asked the about the "different reason". Several minutes had gone by without answer so I was just trying to get a reaction at that point. Yeah I triggered her ASD. Yes I lack the ability to gauge responses, I just plow ahead. Fuck it, I polarized her and got her to feel something.. even if it was bad
/r/askTRP12/10/16 08:36 PM
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I see that now. But I had to make sure. So I initiated and polarized.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 08:33 PM
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Yeah I was basically saying "my way or the highway" and she chose the highway from that point onward.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 08:31 PM
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I think she mentioned the boyfriend because I pushed my agenda too hard. Hence the title of the OP. I think this was a negotiation from the start and I pushed too much.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 08:31 PM
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Asshole game is what I'm able to do right now. I couldn't be a nice guy even if I tried. And BTW asshole game works and is a valuable tool. Many RPers will agree.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 08:30 PM
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The usual. Hair flicking. Boob stretching. Showing up by "chance" for me to give her attention. Eye contact and smiles.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 08:27 PM
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Yes, I'm an entitled douchebag. I thought that was TRP. And yes I'm angry in general, but I was having fun talking to this girl. No anger during the convo
/r/askTRP12/10/16 05:10 PM
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I can accept that. But since I've known her she's been attracted. At least enough to send IOIs and have lunch with me and my friends.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 05:06 PM
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For me it's more who is leading. When a girl is initiating sex and pressuring me to have sex where, when and how she wants it, I don't like it. I'm being forced and I don't enjoy myself.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 10:19 AM
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Well said. Real truths. Thanks for your thoughts.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 10:37 PM
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When I say slutting it up in my face, what I mean is she's flirting with other guys or making it obvious she fucks around. I don't like it. Yeah if a girl is coming on to me strong and pressuring, she probably thinks it's her only chance. It's a last ditch effort. So my question is, how do I let her know subtly that I want it, but not right there or right now. A lot of girls seem to want it immediately, wherever possible. They can't or won't let me lead the interaction. Maybe I want a quickie, m…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 09:49 PM
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Exactly. I won't be pressured. I'm the one who leads, whether it's for marathon sex or quickies. Girls who try to force their agenda on me get a hard no.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 06:24 PM
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This is gold. I'm getting pressured into quickie sex and I'm not enjoying myself. I'm forcing myself to do it. Don't get me wrong, in the past when I wanted a quickie, everything went fine. When women want it and put on the pressure, it goes badly. I'm going to start hinting that I want longer sessions.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 06:12 PM
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I understand what you're saying. But I have no problem with not getting laid, or even turning down sex from a hot, albeit slutty girl. If she's slutting it up in my face, she's got no chance with me. My problem is that girls want spontaneous bathroom sex with me. Holy shit women put pressure on me to do it, do it now. I don't have ED. The times I've gone through with sex in uncomfortable places have been when I want it. When girls pressure me, I don't like it.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 05:55 PM
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Thing is, my track record, performance-wise, has been horrible in spontaneous sex. I've failed "quick" fucking so many times.. Something puts me off. Maybe I'm feeling the pressure to perform, maybe I feel disgusted with it. I don't know. My dick doesn't like it. I'm hamstering, looking for ways to fuck these girls properly, in my comfort zone. But if there's no getting around this problem, maybe the solution is to just keep trying (and failing) until I start functioning well in those quick fuck…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 04:45 PM
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Thing is, my track record, performance-wise, has been horrible in spontaneous sex. I've failed "quick" fucking so many times.. Something puts me off. Maybe I'm feeling the pressure to perform, maybe I feel disgusted with it. I don't know. My dick doesn't like it. I'm hamstering, looking for ways to fuck these girls properly, in my comfort zone. But if there's no getting around this problem like I trying to in the OP, maybe the solution is to just keep trying (and failing) until I start functioni…
/r/askTRP11/10/16 04:44 PM
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Thing is, my track record, performance-wise, has been horrible in spontaneous sex. I've failed "quick" fucking so many times.. Something puts me off. Maybe I'm feeling the pressure to perform, maybe I feel disgusted with it. I don't know. My dick doesn't like it. I'm hamstering, looking for ways to fuck these girls properly, in my comfort zone. But if there's no getting around this problem like I'm trying to in the OP, maybe the solution is to just keep trying (and failing) until I start functio…
/r/askTRP11/10/16 04:43 PM
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If you're grade A material, it's not about commitment. They want our genes. If we give them sex, they're getting what they want, especially if it's a quick fuck. A quickie means they get to use us as breeding machines. They treat us like breeding bulls.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 02:16 PM
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Why even give them sex on their terms. It's like giving candy to a spoiled brat who has you controlled.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 02:04 AM
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So we learn how to spin plates and they don't learn shit. We play by their rules. We accept their power over us, we accept being abused and treated like shit
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 01:53 AM
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Give her what she wants, now. Like the spoiled princess she is
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 01:26 AM
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So be the top 5%. Refuse to dance
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 01:07 AM
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experiences = good or bad feelings/emotions
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 01:02 AM
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Yeah because girls plate us on their terms, not the other way around
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 12:59 AM
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So we're here to learn how to join women's harems. Right
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 12:44 AM
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How much do you want to know about your bitches. What if they start throwing it in your face
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 12:19 AM
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If I refuse to fuck a girl because she's too slutty, does that seem controlling? I never tell them to do anything, just refuse when they want to fuck me.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 12:06 AM
1

Acceptance of evil is not a virtue
/r/askTRP10/10/16 11:16 AM
0

Sure, don't think about it. Don't give a fuck. You're still using another dude's sperm for lube. How satisfying is that.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 02:10 PM
1

How the fuck do you bring yourself to even entertain these sluts? You're fucking other guys' trash. You're fucking with a used condom, still slimy with some other dude's sperm in it. You're disrepecting yourself because you can't get a higher quality lay, you're waving the white flag and telling them it's ok to be sluts.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 12:58 PM
1

gold
/r/askTRP03/10/16 11:06 PM
1

You're right it doesn't matter. Her excuse is managing the rooms' rental. My post is ranting/venting. I need to.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 04:11 PM
2

I'm dealing with a real manipulative bitch. She has sunk her claws into my business my whole life. And she keeps trying, she keeps coming back. I stopped talking to her for 2 years a while back and she eventually found a way back into my life. Through my "dad". She used my relationship with him to get back. Holy shit. I'm going to find a way out.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 02:34 PM
1

Dude the 70's hippie stuff is spot on. My dad is like that. And yes, the solution is just to push them both away as fast as I can. I can't watch this shit anymore. Word gets around that my mom is a slut. It's a liability and damages my reputation.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 02:31 PM
1

It would kill my "dad". He's almost 70 and even though I have little/no respect for him, I feel sorry for him. He's been married to my mom for over 30 years, and the hints I drop about her behaviour already do plenty of damage to his peace of mind. I just want my dad to be happy and bringing down the hard truths on him is going to prompt a lot of pain, depression, possibly a divorce, I don't know. I'm still only 31, no kids, unattached, and TRP is hard to swallow but ultimately it's the right th…
/r/askTRP03/10/16 02:28 PM
1

I don't make enough money. I'm trying to get a second job but I'm also renting out rooms in my apartment (mom's idea). So she gets to stay involved.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 02:19 PM
1

I'll be honest. It's because I don't make enough money. I'm trying to get a second job but I'm also renting out rooms in my apartment (mom's idea). So she gets to stay involved.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 01:02 PM
1

My folks are still involved in my life for some reason. Where is this in the sidebar?
/r/askTRP03/10/16 11:34 AM
1

haven't lived with my folks since 2002.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 11:31 AM
1

I guess they're used to alphas lacking control and being impulsive. So when I'm not, it feels like a rejection to them. Yeah, sometimes I am rejecting them, but other times I'm just tired or it's not the right place/time.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 12:08 PM
1

With girls I know I do that. A hug or kiss on the cheek before I leave, a little kino. You better believe they think about me when they masturbate. With random girls it's way harder. They only risk a couple seconds of vulnerability before they feel rejected. I could smile I guess. I'm 31. I kinda break the smv scale.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 11:16 AM
1

Nice. Perfect for girls that are flipping the fuck out. And that might even work with random girls on the street, as in, approach and say "I'm busy but give me your digits and I'll get back to you"
/r/askTRP30/09/16 12:39 AM
1

The plan was to pay me less. So maybe the whole thing went over my head at the time. But if the plan was to get me to accept another job title at a lower salary, then my response would have been the same. Because the number on the paycheck is what matters.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 08:25 AM
1

Dude I'm good, maybe not that good, but good enough to not get fired for lack of skill
/r/askTRP28/09/16 12:21 AM
1

Real
/r/askTRP28/09/16 12:20 AM
1

True dat
/r/askTRP28/09/16 12:20 AM
1

In the contract the employer has a period of time where he can terminate it without any repercussions. Lawsuits are uncommon and unsuccessful here too.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 12:19 AM
2

Yeah that didn't take so long. Happened right before I wrote this post.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 12:18 AM
1

For real
/r/askTRP28/09/16 12:17 AM
1

I phrased things in a way that make sense to me. The order of events is: he takes me to meeting, says he's firing me asks if I'm insterested in another job, I refuse However the way it makes sense to me is that I only got fired because I refused. Like he was expecting me to accept. Like he wasn't planning on firing me in the first place.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 12:17 AM
1

In the contract the employer has a period of time where he can terminate it without any repercussions.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 12:13 AM
1

Ok maybe wannabe alpha.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 12:08 AM
1

Good shit. I get it. I saw that "get out of loyalty" card about 3 hours too late.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 12:07 AM
1

Sure, boss just needed help elsewhere. But, a simple request for me to help would have been enough. So why put me in front of the firing squad before asking if I would help in CS? He took me into a meeting room and said he was firing me before asking if I would take the CS job.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 06:51 PM
2

Thanks, need to hear this.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 06:45 PM
1

No case possible. They had the right to fire me without justification.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 06:44 PM
1

In my country there is no possiblity for a lawsuit. He had the right to fire me without justification, which was written in the contract. I was killing it. I agree, it probably wasn't a test, just an attempt to get me to work more for less money (or work two jobs for the same amount).
/r/askTRP27/09/16 06:44 PM
-8

This guy likes to drink, hit on women, is really impulsive, and likes to shit on people. He's not true RP but he's alpha.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 06:05 PM
1

I'm afraid of this. The second boss doesn't have the balls to stand up to RP boss. So I'll just get shit on again and again.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 06:04 PM
1

I was very good at my job. I made everyone else look bad. Failing to show loyalty is not reasonable though, since I hadn't been there for very long. That said, I made special efforts to never outshine him.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 06:02 PM
2

I had a good relationship with him. We could joke about stuff and we were cool. I never talked back or tried to threaten his authority. I performed above expectations at the job. I only made him look bad by maintaining frame after he fired me. There is a second boss I'm friendly with that I'm hoping to convince to let me back in. I don't know how to do it though, since I'm not at the office. Maybe offer to go out drinking with him?
/r/askTRP27/09/16 06:00 PM
1

Yeah I'm done. And I'm looking back. Onward to greater things I guess.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 05:56 PM
4

This is spot on. I got hired for my expertise in another area, and I was performing very well. The demotion didn't seem like my "last chance" at the time so I just told my boss the truth: that I wasn't interested. In fact, I thought he was joking until he made me sign the termination papers.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 05:54 PM
1

I maintained frame at the office, and sent the compromise e-mail from home. I think you're right in saying I should have accepted the demotion though. Probably would have kept a job.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 05:50 PM
3

Thanks man, I needed to hear this. I worded my response carefully too. I said I wasn't interested, not that I wouldn't do it.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 04:32 PM
1

Thanks dude, good medicine.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 07:23 PM
1

What I needed to hear. Not a good topic to discuss even jokingly.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 07:17 PM
1

Taboo enough to make girls leave? Shit, I talk about finding ticks on my asshole and it doesn't scare girls away like this did.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 08:35 AM
2

I was baited into the topic. I didn't think the reaction would be so dramatic. Maybe I'm reading this the wrong way and the girls left because they were with guys who value their pussies too much. Is it possible that lowering the value of the pussy made them more willing to fuck asap? Or did they leave to get their orbiters away from "bad influence"?
/r/askTRP15/09/16 08:15 AM
1

Agreed. I had a similar situation. Cut her loose when she starts wanting social time and other non-sex stuff.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 04:07 PM
1

I speak a language where talking about one thing while meaning another is easy and everybody does it. Even guys. Even old ladies. When it's about sex, everyone talks code.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 04:03 PM
1

Yeah I gave her my attention very sparingly after that. She loved it. But I could have had her easy if I didn't fail this shit.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 04:00 PM
1

For real. For some reason I didn't recognize the test in time. I needed two more seconds. It really is about small things like this for some girls. One time a different girl asked me to tie her shoe, didn't fall for it.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 03:59 PM
1

This girl is young, yeah. But I hate failing shit tests, no matter who the girl is.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 01:02 PM
1

She said "lighter". It wasn't a polite request. Kind of a demanding tone. And it wasn't specifically to me, more like to the whole group. But she was sitting next to me, so even though I took a while to react, in the end I did. I realized my mistake two seconds later when she left my side. Fuck.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 01:01 PM
1

She was definitely flirting, and even started escalating with me, but after the lighter shit, I think she cooled off a bit. I can probably still get with her but I want it to be genuine attraction and not for BB.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 10:59 AM
1

Yeah I asked her out already a few months back. She flaked and I nexted her. Now she shows up thinking I'm going to put her on a pedestal. She even code languaged "I'm a bride, I'm a fiance" to her friends. She rides the CC so I dgaf.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 10:52 AM
1

Agreed. I'm overthinking, but I keep cool. I'm sure she was testing to see if I'm a bitch though, because she code languaged something like "servant" to her friends, which is what stopped me from failing harder. I was very non-reactive the rest of that night after that.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 10:48 AM
1

Easier said then done. I've been at this for a year, and I'm still angry and hateful. I think it depends on how much damage you've taken. When I was BP, I was used time and time again to make boyfriends jealous, to make girls look good to their friends, used for social status, shit on by disrespectful bitches, strung along by egomaniacs, used for favours and homework, cheated on, saved for later for when they hit the wall, and generally gotten fucked over by naturals for over 15 years. This has …
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 08:59 PM
1

This post really hit home for me. I've got everything on track except solid game and practicing game has been an uphill battle. Most of the time my approaches go bad (polarization) and I get shit on. I've turned into such an asshole that I got more pussy when I was BP. Sometimes it's hard to force myself to keep doing it. I'm not very fun, just really serious and cynical. When I get drunk it's different but I would rather not fuck up my health going out and getting drunk every night just to be a…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 12:57 PM
1

Dude. posting here and real life are opposites. I keep my shit under control out there. Thanks for the concern anyway.
/r/askTRP05/09/16 10:35 AM
2

This is gold. With that mentality I don't think I'll pass so much on these retarded bitches.
/r/askTRP04/09/16 07:15 PM
2

Love weed but honestly I'm already too aloof and dgaf. Smoked for 10+ years so it's actually been good giving it up
/r/askTRP04/09/16 06:53 PM
1

I've started meditating recently and it does wonders for my anger. I understand it takes time but I want to be free and able to fuck these girls asap.
/r/askTRP04/09/16 06:51 PM
1

Kills the caveman even more. Makes me apathetic and passive.
/r/askTRP04/09/16 04:39 PM
2

I'm so angry it feels good denying women what they want. It feels great getting their hopes up and smashing their egos. I don't want them to have fun. I'm a vindictive, hateful prick.
/r/askTRP04/09/16 04:36 PM
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