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| 3 | [Q4All] Where do you stand on the recent supposed rise in young male sexlessness?Well a MAJORITY of white people back then supported or were complicit in institutionalised racism, Jim Crows and colonialism. Youre an ideologue so youve already made up your mind about this long time. So there's really no point in trying to argue with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 03:08 AM |
| 8 | [Q4All] Where do you stand on the recent supposed rise in young male sexlessness?Oh right, the appeal to historical injustices that have largely been corrected and now society caters to your needs, at least moreso than men. Thats your only justification for dehumanizing men and treating their problems as nothing?. In that case as a mixed race black man, Im going to have an axe to grind with every white person, irrespective of their character, and Ill never help them out or treat them as fellow human beings because back when human life was far more expendable, and people beli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 02:49 AM |
| 10 | [Q4All] Where do you stand on the recent supposed rise in young male sexlessness?Tax payers, and hence men increasingly cater to your well being and safety, especially if you live in a mixed economy welfare state with strong feminist institutions like Australia/Canada/NZ/Europe. And there are other ways to help Sexless alienated men other than enforced monogamy. Like socialisation programs for men between 16 to 24 and better mental health services that caters to men and how they behave and not just treat them like defective girls. But I doubt even if the solution is near per… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 02:10 AM |
| 6 | [Q4All] Where do you stand on the recent supposed rise in young male sexlessness?I think it serves the female sexual imperative for their to be a tight bottle neck when it comes to sexual success among men, even if it hurts men. So women would be against most measures thatll help alleviate the problem, even if it didn't involve enforcing monogamy but simpler things like having male programs thatll help with socialisation or better mental health and community services that caters to young men and how they behave . So probably 3. Women and elite men and blue pilled betas will … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 01:44 AM |
| 12 | Men should be grateful they even get to betabuxLol.Guys like you are crushing my 33 year old sister. I mean its sad how all her relationships seem to end like that and she complains about being used, all men are trash, and how shes wasted best years on trash men so and so and thats not nice. But damn, I cant help but not feel sorry for her when she cheated on a few perfectly good guys in her 20s when her douche bag ex boy friend who was 6 foot 5 body builder wanted her back after screwing with her friends. Women are there own worse enemies. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 12:27 AM |
| 9 | Men should be grateful they even get to betabuxYeah. Is it really love anyway, or is it just a marriage of convenience for gals who wanna have a disposable wallet after they had their fun and men too desperate and lacking in self respect to care about why they appeal to women? I mean damn, Im going through a tough time myself but Id rebuild myself and try to be as sexually attractive to women or be forever alone than become a betabux. Men need to get comfortable being alone. Its not the end world if you cant secure an ex whore when you reach… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 12:01 AM |
| 7 | What do you think about the rising popularity of androgynous men? Why do many men believe that masculinity will make them more attractive?I think to pull off the feminine look, you have to be physically top tier. A tall, fit pretty face man can pull off the ying yang contrast between the feminine and masculine. Average dudes cant. Short dudes even less. Generally, the less attractive you are, the more you have to compensate your masculine/Attractiveness deficit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/20 12:18 PM |
| 15 | Reuters: "Sexual activity among young American men has declined sharply since 2000, with nearly a third reporting no sex with a partner in the prior year...Yeah. The generational change is astonishing. My cousins dad, who is 5 foot 6, and an immigrant of the ninties, showed me and his son a photo album with all his girlfriend's. He had 11 girlfriend throughput his early 20s, some of them were really hot. His son, average height(5"11) average socially hasnt gotten laid for years. My uncle doesnt know whats wrong with him because he says he had the same characteristics and personality traits when he was young, hes not a loser socially awkward incel. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/20 07:26 PM |
| 2 | Reuters: "Sexual activity among young American men has declined sharply since 2000, with nearly a third reporting no sex with a partner in the prior year...Careful, weve got a few femdom fetishists around here. I suggest you delete that comment before your inbox gets flooded by men showcasing their neck collars and chains. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/20 07:06 PM |
| 3 | Reuters: "Sexual activity among young American men has declined sharply since 2000, with nearly a third reporting no sex with a partner in the prior year...Facebook is a major platform where people meet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/20 01:51 PM |
| 5 | Reuters: "Sexual activity among young American men has declined sharply since 2000, with nearly a third reporting no sex with a partner in the prior year...https://news.stanford.edu/2019/08/21/online-dating-popular-way-u-s-couples-meet/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/20 01:42 PM |
| 13 | Reuters: "Sexual activity among young American men has declined sharply since 2000, with nearly a third reporting no sex with a partner in the prior year...Instagram+facebook+tinder=dating for the average twenty something girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/20 01:40 PM |
| 2 | Reuters: "Sexual activity among young American men has declined sharply since 2000, with nearly a third reporting no sex with a partner in the prior year...Japan has some pretty strict social mores that discourages most sexual strategies other than monogamy. So when japanese men suffer from those issues, most japanese women too , instead of the pseudo harems we get here when women dont get married or choose to not stick to ltrs- whilst more guys become incels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/20 01:35 PM |
| 3 | Reuters: "Sexual activity among young American men has declined sharply since 2000, with nearly a third reporting no sex with a partner in the prior year...Its probably both, and few other different factors . But I have seen a few credible studies that shows that there is a component of hypergamy when it comes to low marriage rates among those in egalitarian countries. They didnt use the word hypergamy though, for obvious reasons. https://www.theatlantic.com/business/archive/2016/03/earnings-women-weddings/474924/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/20 12:11 PM |
| 4 | Reuters: "Sexual activity among young American men has declined sharply since 2000, with nearly a third reporting no sex with a partner in the prior year...Studies have also surmise that womens climbing wages relative to men is becoming a major obstacle to marriage. I guess some women are bucking the trend out of necessity to not end up as a lonely spinster, but lots of women like my progressive med sisters are waiting longer to marry because they still havent found a man who is well off enough. Also, lots of those female primary breadwinners werent intending to outearn their husband, but the last decade has seen quite tumultuous economic times, an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/20 11:29 AM |
| 7 | Reuters: "Sexual activity among young American men has declined sharply since 2000, with nearly a third reporting no sex with a partner in the prior year...Again what women? Because Hispanic, black, and asian men all overwhelming vote for leftwing parties, while white women are slightly more likely to vote for conservative. Racial differences matter more than gender. Im talking as a gender. Women are far more likely to vote left. We arent going racial here because PPD isnt a reactionary right wing sub. Like what? You mean being a breadwinner, because thats changing fast, 30% of wives make more than their husbands. And many are unhappy about it, and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/20 11:19 AM |
| 6 | Reuters: "Sexual activity among young American men has declined sharply since 2000, with nearly a third reporting no sex with a partner in the prior year...Yeah. Thats exactly what Im saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/20 10:54 AM |
| 8 | Reuters: "Sexual activity among young American men has declined sharply since 2000, with nearly a third reporting no sex with a partner in the prior year...Lol. Sure. Virtual signalling is one thing, but as with most progressive women I know, actually putting those principles in action, even in those situations where your own impulses takes precedence is another thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/20 10:12 AM |
| 30 | Reuters: "Sexual activity among young American men has declined sharply since 2000, with nearly a third reporting no sex with a partner in the prior year...Yeah, I sort of agree. But Ive been in threads where theres been far more nuance in the arguments and less woman blaming, and even then, youll hardly see some honesty and more of the same male blaming, but with less malevolency. I doubt women see anything wrong with lots of men being frustrated and alone. In my own life, Ive seen how women treat good but low status downtrodden men, and Ive come to the conclusion that low status men are just repulsive and somewhat dehumanized to lots of women. I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/20 10:05 AM |
| 8 | Reuters: "Sexual activity among young American men has declined sharply since 2000, with nearly a third reporting no sex with a partner in the prior year...And lots of women dont want men to impose gender roles and will demonise them as archaic women beaters and incels, and whole organisations defending them from men who do, but still expect men to abide by theres and will alienate and put down men who refuse to be a good lil masculine trope and glorified wallet. Most men arent libertarian conservatives. But you can keep flooding this thread with false equivalencies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/20 09:44 AM |
| 23 | Reuters: "Sexual activity among young American men has declined sharply since 2000, with nearly a third reporting no sex with a partner in the prior year...And its funny how women want socialism to outsource the consequences of their behaviour but want the brutal free market for their pussys. Or how women want to and have largely liberated themselves from strict gender roles abd will shane men for imposing gender roles abd expectations on women, yet still demamd men abide by theres to be worthy. Both sexes are hypocrites and want to have their cake and eat it too, women probably moreso, but female solipsism is one hell of a mind bender. By the way,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/20 09:22 AM |
| 16 | Reuters: "Sexual activity among young American men has declined sharply since 2000, with nearly a third reporting no sex with a partner in the prior year...Women are smart enough to also diversify their dating platforms. So its more like tinder+facebook+instagram+bumble | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/20 09:00 AM |
| 86 | Reuters: "Sexual activity among young American men has declined sharply since 2000, with nearly a third reporting no sex with a partner in the prior year...PPD Women here wont concede any ground and will deflect all blame on men for being defective, porn addicted unattractive no gooders, with bad personalities who dont have sex because they're bad people. Ignoring the fact that men our society would consider morally bad tend to have more sex and considered more desirable. And our pussywhipped society has more or less agreed with this consensus. But I wonder as things worsen and you start to see western men face problems like Japanese men when it co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/20 08:32 AM |
| 2 | women burdening men with their "feelings"?Alpha female/Alpha male pairings tend to be like this. I bet people around you had lots of "opinions" about your relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/20 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Is it all about AF/BB or is it all about power?I really dont think so. If you have the data to back up your assertion that mamy women wanna be dom, Ill take back what I said. But from my understanding of statistics and my own personal life, its a minority. Most women wanna be dominated in bed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/20 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Redpill men in LTRs, what do you do if youre going through major life difficulties, since you believe that women will unconsciously hold it against men for having major chinks in their armour?Awh, that sucks. I hope you get well mate. Theres a few outdoor gyms in most cities, and if youre concerned about corona, carry a sanitizer. The Lockdown is relaxing so you should be able to at least use those outdoor gyms | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/20 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill men, who do you express your emotionally vulnerability and vent your frustrations if you believe women are not capable of respecting or desiring men with major kinks in their armour?Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/20 07:15 AM |
| 2 | Is it all about AF/BB or is it all about power?Red Pill is wrong about AWALT since many women long to be dominant You couldnt be more wrong. As someone who was actually in a BDSM group and a few online forums , there's long been an observation among many I know that there are far more sub women than dom women in the BDSM community, something like 10 to 1 in favour of sub women. Men are for more fluid in the sub-dom spectrum whilst women are more fluid when it comes to bisexuality. For whatever reasons, an inclination for dom sexual behavior … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/20 06:21 AM |
| 2 | The Manosphere/MRA types should focus on teaching undesirable men how to respectively live with women instead of trying to shame women for having discriminatory dating standardsSure. But I dont know what this has to do with my initial post or arguments. So im gonna stop responding since we are going off in a bit of a tangent and I have better things to do. Seeyah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/20 07:09 PM |
| 3 | The Manosphere/MRA types should focus on teaching undesirable men how to respectively live with women instead of trying to shame women for having discriminatory dating standardsIm not following you? I dont think I disagree with what you said. I agree that BOTH men and women had limited choices and were oppressed according to our standards , but unlike feminists, I dont think it was imposed by some cabal of men who called themselves the patriarchs but the circumstances both men and women found themselves. Although sexism played a part. Im not saying we should go back either, I dont think even the incels would wanna go back to the days of rigid gender norms and slaving a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/20 06:54 PM |
| 3 | The Manosphere/MRA types should focus on teaching undesirable men how to respectively live with women instead of trying to shame women for having discriminatory dating standardsI dont think you know enough about the life of someone who lived a hundred years ago to know whether they felt forced or restricted getting married. For my Grandmother, she lived in tight nit matriarchal communities that according to her, restricted the individuality and agency of both men and women for cohesion and function of the clan. My grandmothers generation saw marriage as a gateway to adulthood and being freed from the tight clutches of the older matriarchs(since the male elders were kil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/20 06:30 PM |
| 2 | The Manosphere/MRA types should focus on teaching undesirable men how to respectively live with women instead of trying to shame women for having discriminatory dating standardsProbably not emotionally or even sexual fulfilling for some, but I guess there must have been some transaction at play which would make marriage fulfilling for men and women when it comes to security and producing a progeny. Or else people wouldnt have gotten married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/20 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Is it all about AF/BB or is it all about power?On the other hand, there’s this common theme, (especially in the BDSM community) whereby people who are in positions of power in their real life, tend to be submissive in their sex life, and people who have little power in their real life tend to be very dominant in their sex life. This seems to be a genderless phenomenon, but, please correct me if I’m wrong. Hah. In that case, as a partial sub I shouldn't have a problem attracting powerless disenfranchised women roleplay dom to get back at the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/20 06:12 PM |
| 7 | The Manosphere/MRA types should focus on teaching undesirable men how to respectively live with women instead of trying to shame women for having discriminatory dating standardsI dont doubt people will marry later but It still doesnt mean there wont be a shrinking number of men getting hitched and having fulfilling relationships. We will have to wait till the early 2030s to know the full picture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/20 04:45 PM |
| 13 | The Manosphere/MRA types should focus on teaching undesirable men how to respectively live with women instead of trying to shame women for having discriminatory dating standardsSexual trends can wreak havok on society, especially when it negatively affects low value men. https://www.economist.com/the-economist-explains/2018/03/19/why-polygamy-breeds-civil-war I dont think the large swathes of marriageless dudes are going to be hooking up and having kids when theyre middle aged, even if more people are getting serious in the later stages of their lives. A poorer version of Norway is our future. https://sciencenorway.no/childlessness-fathers-forskningno/a-quarter-of-norw… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/20 04:24 PM |
| 3 | Question for woman and men on this sub, how much do you think the obesity epidemic lowers the physical attractivness of each respective gender in the United States? How do their Eastern European counterparts compare?The worst aspect of obesity in terms of attractiveness, is probably the smell. I havent noticed it in fat dudes, but fat chicks just smell really bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/20 10:59 AM |
| 2 | Question for woman and men on this sub, how much do you think the obesity epidemic lowers the physical attractivness of each respective gender in the United States? How do their Eastern European counterparts compare?I remember when I was younger, being approached by a few overweight chick freaked me out enough about my own SMV at around 18 that I focused on becoming fitness nut. At least around my area, there's quite a few thin guys/overweight women pairings. I think a large minority of fetish dudes passing around fat chicks are giving a lot of overweight women the idea that its okay to be overweight if youre a woman, especially if youre only interested in casual sex. With the rates of obesity in my area, i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/20 10:41 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many men refuse to give oral to women despite many being desperate for approval for their sexual abilities?How should I alter the OP? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/20 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many men refuse to give oral to women despite many being desperate for approval for their sexual abilities?Plenty of women settle for mediocre sex with attractive guys who dont put effort in sex or who compensate in other ways . I have a few pretty boy buddies who sworn to never do oral on women and they still have LTRs/casual sex. With so many women complaining about guys theyre dating or in LTRs not doing oral sex makes me think this isnt the case | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/20 07:13 PM |
| 12 | The reason why these guys think every girl is a social media addicted club slut is because they don't really know any women(have no female friends)I dont understand why some women here equate men getting physically fit to the fakery a lot of instathots utilize to make themselves more attractive than they really are IRL. Lifting doesnt yeild equal results for all men, and genetics and hormones plays a big role in the muscle creation process. Ive lifted and rowed for 2 years, whilst my brother gym hard for 4 years, yet Ive gained more muscle mass than him, because thats just what Im genetically predisposed to. In that aspect, I am better tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/20 06:57 PM |
| 1 | There's a good reason why FDS does not preach self improvement like TRP does - "self improvement" is constantly thrown at and practiced by women.The female obesity/overweight stats would suggest otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/20 09:27 AM |
| 3 | 50% of women support banning white male students from being allowed to speak in college classes?Well thats funny, because Im pretty sure "white male students" are a minority at Melbourne uni because its essentially an international university for rich asian students who want to have an Ivy leagye tier education without travelling all the way to the U.S. for it. I completed a degree there before moving to monash. These are just impressionable immature girls who just wanna hop on the "hate the white guy" trend thats gotten so popular in the US. Just ignore it | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/05/20 06:30 AM |
| 4 | What if men's physical changes have also changed men's behavior and that's why people disagree on what men are like?Yeah, in my parents traditional culture , men are socialised to become the masculine caricature you see western women lament the loss of, when they talk about modern men. The old guard socialised men to be like this because both women and pre-advanced industrial societies in a constant war footing demanded it, and it cost many men their individuality and mental health which is why alcoholism is so rampant among men of that era. They were self medicating from the constant pressure of conforming t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/20 03:56 AM |
| 5 | Where does this obsession with women’s sex lives come from?Its both guys and girls are encouraging men to be studs. Stacy wants to tame a heartbreaker is such an overplayed trope because its so common IRL. Personally, I think promiscuity is not a good thing for both men and women, and not for the manospheri-an reason of wanting a low n count wife who wont monkey branch. I have a lot of relatives in medicine and the shit they tell me about new strains of STDs being detected every month that cant be treated by anti biotics or vaccines is freaking me out. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/20 03:06 AM |
| 2 | Where does this obsession with women’s sex lives come from?Yeah, I dont get the blatant gaslighting from some women here pretending that women select for less promiscuous partners as much as men. That is very untrue. Any guy with female friends under 30 and who observe the various relationship dramas of the average young woman know that women go crazy for promiscuous men who know how to please women. Its why even relationship focused men wanna be those guys and have the options and reputation those guys have, even if casual sex doesnt bring them much sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/20 02:54 AM |
| 5 | If men are naturally disgusted with promiscuous women due to evolution why do many fall in love with sex workers?The party slut is an airhead whos only good for ONS, prostitutes have a shit ton of baggage and undesirable behaviourial predilections, even if theyre able to exercise depersonalisation when on the job to minimise potential trauma. Id go for neither, although that could just be me seeing how Im not sexually attracted to the average airhead dom alpha male seeking party girl that most straight guys would pick. Lots of hot escorts have hot bfs and even husbands, but they tend to be ultra passive nu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/20 01:27 AM |
| 7 | If men are naturally disgusted with promiscuous women due to evolution why do many fall in love with sex workers?Youre citing an example of a minority of a minority of a minority of men who catch feelings for escorts. Most men dont fall in love with escorts and will want to gtfo immediately after busting a nut. Im great friends with escorts, so I can understand why some tiny minority of men fall in love with them on the job. They are very adept at understanding men and their needs, far more than the average woman. And unlike the average snowflake, escorts come from hard beginnings and despite muh morality,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/20 12:40 AM |
| 2 | What if men's physical changes have also changed men's behavior and that's why people disagree on what men are like?I have a cut jaw, part black and Im fairly stocky with a natural V taper(high T) due to my small waist and broad shoulders yet Im non masculine and polite. Physical manifestations of high T doesnt always correspond to predisposition to masculine behaviour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/20 12:18 AM |
| 1 | If it's acceptable for men to watch porn when their wife doesn't have as much sex as they want, then it's acceptable for women to camwhore when their husband doesn't make as much money as they wantBut are women really happy in those situations? Camming pays well if you know what youre doing, but most women have really high levels of discomfort and neuroticism about strange unattractive men they dont know objectifying them, let alone storing their photos and videos in archives for other guys to look at. Once youre done with the industry, youll always fear your past catching up to you, especially as you get older abd settle down. Whilst Jerking to porn is far less harmful to men psychologic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/20 12:06 AM |
| 1 | If it's acceptable for men to watch porn when their wife doesn't have as much sex as they want, then it's acceptable for women to camwhore when their husband doesn't make as much money as they wantI dont think the porn issue in relationships will ever be resolved, especially with porn being so normalised. Men just have high sex drives, and women, whether they have fluctuating attraction to their husbands or have low sex drives are never going to fully meet the sexual needs of the average man. So men are left with either some significant amount of sexual repression, thatll get worse as the relationships settles which will inevitably lead to conflict and tension. Or they masturbate to porn.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/20 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Is male ephebophilia the reason why men shit on the celebrities/characters that teenage girls have a crush on, like Edward Cullen and Harry Styles?Never felt hatred towards teenage heart throbs for those reasons, even as a young man myself. But Ill be honest here, I hate the fact that they make really safe bubble gum corporate pop and teenage girls cant get enough of them. I would rather have teenage girls be interested in better and less corporate musicians and actors who are goodlooking, and are actually breaking new ground in their respective artistic fields or putting out stellar performances. Its important to me because cultural trend… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/20 11:08 PM |
| 2 | From pick-up artist to devout Christian: Roosh V on his conversionLol. Typical middle aged Armenian. Go crazy in their youths, then find religion so they can bible bash the youngins doing the same thing they did in their youth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/20 03:44 AM |
| 8 | FDS agreeing they all look like Peter Griffin in a wig.Honestly, why care about a bunch miserable cunts on an obscure subreddit? This is just punching downwards to mentally ill folks who use their hatred and desire to control men as a cope. Im sure the attention some in the manosphere give these miserable and obnoxious people is encouraging them to stay in their toxic bubble . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 12:55 PM |
| 2 | What do you think about that ?Yah, the trick is to always self improve. Personally, my type of non masculine sexuality and hyper egalitarianism has made me repulsive to most women who want a dominant career oriented man, I cant stand role playing to appease women in past relationships , so I think MGTOW is probably the best for me. I make sure that Im attractive enough enough to get the sex I need and I keep myself occupied with work and friends and a life purpose. The problem is, maintaining the effort in maintaining a life… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/20 11:25 PM |
| 2 | If Brad Pitt cant keep a wife what chance do normal average men have?Lol. Anyone who know rich attractive people of either sex know that they live totally different lives and have vastly different experiences when it comes to dating and relationships. Rich Alphas married to rich stacies are most likely only monogamous when they want to give an appearance of it, but most are in open marriages where they both have their mistresses and high tier fuckboys when they get bored of each other. I doubt Brad pit even cares. He was probably emotionally disconnected from his… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/20 11:01 PM |
| 4 | The future is nowI doubt that most men care about women using masturbation tools like dildo, I secretly use a prostate massager during sex, which spices things up, because most sex is boring when youre with the average woman past the novelty phase. But Vibrating toys are known to desensitize clits. Just as having a death grip is known to desensitize your penis. My ex gf could only climax with me giving her head whilst aggressively rubbing her clit with her hitachi because she was desensitized by rubbing her clit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/20 10:47 PM |
| 5 | Female Dating Strategy subreddit is proof that women can be just as toxic and sexist as incelsLol. Seeing that article was probably one of the most surreal moments I experienced in the last few months. I always thought FDS were just a fringe group full of cranky overentitled cunts wholl ban anyone who dont subscribe to their warped views or happen to have a penis. Anyone who actually get to know men will know that FDS is full of bullshit tips and blatant misandry. But you got the guys in one of the biggest newspapers who see them as the conveyors of truth when it comes to dating and men.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/20 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Women on FDS are not necessarily fat or uglyTheres no doubt that FDS is full of uggos. But youre right that their is probably a range of attractive women on the subreddit, but probably skewed towards below average. I also think FDS, with its overrepresentation of black women, minorities, and non umc folks suggest the sub is partly reacting against a certain type of urban working class male culture, which has always espoused a lot of proto red pill dogma about women before RP became thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/20 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Imagine being inundated with male interest all your life and you're still massively insecure with yourselfWith the way lots of women freak out or get mad when they see their partners looking at other women, Id say most women do care, but I think lots of women are just less likely to be honest about it when being asked. Also, I dont think theyd care as much about strange men opinions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/20 08:47 PM |
| 2 | Imagine being inundated with male interest all your life and you're still massively insecure with yourselfYou can apply this to many problems both genders experience , but which disproportionately affects women despite men being neglected. According to some studies, women have twice the rates higher rates of self reported depression amd mental health issues than men despite suicide rates being significantly higher for men. Yet women have greater opportunities to foster social networks than men, whilst the feelings of emotional desolation and alienation is common for men. The one size fits all method… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/20 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Struggling since I started passing as a manYes, I agree. Men must change, but its hard to change male culture when male culture is incredibly obsessed with sexual success, sexual hierarchy, and in putting the traits that attract women on a pedestal. This includes conforming to a narrow range of masculine behaviours that women are very receptive too. Male shaming of men who dont conform to those behaviours is partly about correcting undesirable behaviour that women are repulsed by. Until those behaviours are tolerated by women, straight m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/20 07:20 AM |
| 1 | Struggling since I started passing as a manSome do, but it hasnt stopped gay men from exploring different expressions of masculinity. I have a few gay friends who do struggle with how some perceive them if thet arent stereotypically masculine, but they can always retreat to gay culture and their partners to get the validation and acceptance they need, that they may not get from mainstream society or their families. Men who dont conform to performative masculine norms dont have that luxury, and most interactions with women or their partne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/20 06:58 AM |
| 1 | Struggling since I started passing as a manGay men experience just as much social pressure to conform to masculine norms and stereotypes as the average man, yet they are still able to explore different expressions of masculinity because they arent held hostage to those repressive and hard to achieve ideals by their life partners. I think both men and women enforce potentially harmful gender norms for men, but its clear that women have disproportionate influence in enforcing those norms. Mate selection is pretty powerful in moulding behav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/20 06:11 AM |
| 4 | Struggling since I started passing as a manI wonder what she thinks of that post one year later? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/20 05:56 AM |
| 1 | Women without makeup are just ugly boysAnd let me say this. I am one of those guys who will admit to some women being able to pull off the naturale look, whilst being truthful to those who cant. Heck, Im an only male child in a family full of women and Ive been my sisters male reference point when they want to try out a different look during the years the dated a lot, so Ive got some experience. The problem is, makeup doesnt improve your skin with the exception of foundations that may have some moisturiser and vitamin complex inside … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/20 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Women without makeup are just ugly boysWell, just proving my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/20 08:37 PM |
| 3 | Women without makeup are just ugly boysI think my mother is the most beautiful woman Ive known personally, and Ive seen her without makeup. Ive inherited her bone structure and perfect light golden conplexion but not her eyes, which pisses me off. She basically looks like a well aged racially abiguous version of Nigella Lawson. I was brutally honest with her when she did start wearing makeup and told her she looked like a transvestite and that going naturale suited her. There are women who do look gorgeous without makeup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/20 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Women without makeup are just ugly boysYah, women who are naturally beautiful. Not women who use makeup to artificially upgrade their look which is akin to a manlet wearing lifts. I have a few female relatives who look gorgeous and cute without makeup but would look like victorian era whores with makeup. And Ive told them that. But its probably more to do with the fact that western cosmetic companies dont make much makeup for racially ambiguous folks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/20 08:01 PM |
| 5 | Reminder that KandyApplez aka AdamsApple is an ethnic trannyI get the feeling that a lot of women and some guys here live vicariously through their reddit personas but are most likely not who they claim to be here. PPD is looking more like a subreddit full of low self esteem peeps who use this subreddit to get their serotonin hit by shitting on men who are far more honest than themselves, about their own situations. I guess one of the few thing the weordos at 4chan got right was their skepticism towards people on the web claiming to be who theyre really … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/20 07:33 PM |
| 19 | "I want a guy with a sensitive side"Id suggest the same if youre a man who suffers from mental health problems stemming from trauma. Weakness or vulnerability is rarely sexy and youll just deplete your musculine tokens, which the average man has few off | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 04:13 PM |
| 3 | Does online dating inflate the egos of women with low SMV?A few of these women just end up so disillusioned by the the fact that few men who that seek online and have casual sex with are going to consider them relationship material that when they step out of the OLD bubble, they just resign to loneliness than seek out men who are in similar RMV. Or they go the single mother by choice route. Which is fair enough for them. But I kinda feel for the fat guys who are made to feel repulsive by those they consider equals. I guess its a good incentive to get f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/20 04:44 PM |
| 2 | The Norwegian branch of the International Alliance of Women opposes female conscription,claims it to be "Misconceived equality".So many Karens | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/05/20 02:08 PM |
| 2 | Karens aren’t FeministsTheyre opportunists | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/05/20 01:49 PM |
| 6 | Should people with mental health problems/depression/anxiety take a break from relationships? Does gender play a role in how acceptable is it for someone to be mentally unwell whilst in a relationship?Id stay, stay out of relationships if youre a young man. Getting shit tested when youre severely depressed and anxious is not a good feeling. Depressed guys also feel like they need validation to get back up, and thats probably the worst thing you can ask of of most young women. It just shows youre low value and needy. As the other guy says, Id probably ghost the girl and lick my wounds until I get better. And If the severe depression and anxiety was a longterm thing, Id stay out of relationship… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/20 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Women don't like sensitive men. But rather men with a *sensitive side*.Women dont have a duty to make it easier for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/20 03:24 PM |
| 22 | Women don't like sensitive men. But rather men with a *sensitive side*.Or weve had legitimate experiences with women that suggests that showing vulnerability or sensitivity as a man can be detrimental. Im not in anyway a redpiller or an incel, yet I cant seem to remember the last time admitting my vulnerability to a woman didnt make me regret being emotionally open later on. Other non RP male spaces like Menslib(which is a male feminist sub) and askmen has lots of personal testimonies of men regretting being vulnerable to their partners, although there are lots of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/20 02:54 PM |
| 3 | Women don't like sensitive men. But rather men with a *sensitive side*.You can thank men for selling their chance to be freed from gender roles and expectations in a relationship for a chance of pussy. If men didnt tolerate womens narrow view of masculinity and not conform to behaviour that limits them emotionally so they can get approval from women and society , youd be seeing a lot less male self repression. Men are atomised and they have themselves to blame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/20 02:09 PM |
| 9 | Women don't like sensitive men. But rather men with a *sensitive side*.Therapy rarely works without support from others. Trust me, Ive been in therapy for years, and it was only when I had a few good friends who I was able to confide with that the load became less. For some men, that support are their wives or partners, because they havent had the luck of developing really close friendships. The difference between a man being a whiny bitch and being able to be in touch with their emotions is also very subjective. That line can be very blurred with women, so to stay… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/20 01:06 PM |
| 6 | Women don't like sensitive men. But rather men with a *sensitive side*.Thats where masculine tokens come in. You need to compensate in other areas to have the chance of opening up to many women without the women feeling like you just took a huge dump in your desirability. Masculine or attractive guys have some space to be vulnerable, your average beta male doesnt. If youre depressed and you dont suppress obvious signs that youre suffering depression or anxiety from your SO after a period of time, and you do the things depressed fags do like stop going to gym, perfo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/20 12:26 PM |
| 2 | What does a man have to do to get a reasonable proportion of women to not impose gender roles and expectations in a relationship?Ehh, having feminist beliefs doesnt really correlate with being able to entertain alternative gender roles and expectations for your partners. Maybe for some, this is the case, but Ive had a few feminist gfs who were not able to carry their enthusiasm for egalitarianism to their own personal lives. Theres also the fact that feminism for most women these days is about women having the flexibility to switch from different gender roles, whilst still being able to to adhere to gender norms for their… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/20 10:04 AM |
| 1 | What does a man have to do to get a reasonable proportion of women to not impose gender roles and expectations in a relationship?I dont even know how to respond to that. Are you implying that just because I feel like Im not going to be happy following the gender role script that is so common in my family and in the society I live in, I must be scared of the future and I shouldnt have relationships? Lol. Btw, most of the things Ive listed are very much expected and tge norm for men. I cook, I clean, I take care of myself, Im fit. Im not going to be a burden on women when it comes to doing domestic duties, and Id rather jer… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/20 09:18 AM |
| 1 | What does a man have to do to get a reasonable proportion of women to not impose gender roles and expectations in a relationship?Its not about making good money. Most jobs in my country pay about the same unless youre a high tier profession like a doctor. Hell, a plumber gets more than an accountant here.. Its the expectations that men must become primary breadwinners and spend their youths working 60 hours a week and getting ahead financially which irks me. I come from a high achieving workaholic Armenian family, so I know what happens to people when they put their work as a priority in their lives especially the men in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/20 07:23 PM |
| 2 | What does a man have to do to get a reasonable proportion of women to not impose gender roles and expectations in a relationship?Good advice, ill have to be more upfront than I usually am. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/20 06:31 PM |
| 7 | What does a man have to do to get a reasonable proportion of women to not impose gender roles and expectations in a relationship?Yes, that was implied in my OP. The question is, what do men like myself need to compromise so we dont end up shrinking our dating pool to an extreme minority of women, whilst also maintaining some key goals and principles? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/20 06:29 PM |
| 3 | What does a man have to do to get a reasonable proportion of women to not impose gender roles and expectations in a relationship?Nah. Id like a partner who can switch from Sub to dom. Basically someone like me. Im dominant in some ways, Im submissive in others. But even when Im behaving dominant, I wouldnt be behaving like a dom stereotype. Basically equals. Maybe in some areas, my partner can take charge or when Im feel sub, and sometime, I can carry the burden or initiate. We take turns switching roles under a mutual understanding. No one is pidgeonholed to their traditional roles or even roles they may have willingly o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/20 06:18 PM |
| 4 | What does a man have to do to get a reasonable proportion of women to not impose gender roles and expectations in a relationship?I dont want a strict dom, I want someone like me. Someone who can switch from sub to dom or is neutral. Im not interested in domineering women. Trust me, I have a family full of them. I dont need one as a partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/20 06:13 PM |
| 2 | What does a man have to do to get a reasonable proportion of women to not impose gender roles and expectations in a relationship?I guess a female version of myself, but maybe funnier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/20 06:09 PM |
| 3 | What does a man have to do to get a reasonable proportion of women to not impose gender roles and expectations in a relationship?Im not that passive actually. Im just not stereotypically dominant. Sexually, I can shift from Sub to dom depending on how I feel at that moment. Im kind of all over the place really, depending on my mood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/20 05:58 PM |
| 8 | What does a man have to do to get a reasonable proportion of women to not impose gender roles and expectations in a relationship?Be Hot Im getting there with gyming and rowing Money Not interested in becoming workhorse for a soulless corporation or wasting my youth Finding dominant women on fetish sites Tried that already. Limited options for sub/dom switches with a slight preference for sub . Fetish sites are filled with BDSM chicks with their dom kings. Honestly, seems like the whole sub man dom woman scene is full of extremes. When I went to a local meetup, it was just full of dull fat misandrists larping as "dominatri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/20 05:43 PM |
| 1 | How can the "collapse" (due to the "sexlessness epidemic") of modern western society be prevented?It wont be a collapse, itll be a slow decline, and there will be enough time for the elite to develop robots and AIs so the economy can survive even with a shrinking population and a decline of male labour participation. Incels will have to face the fact that they will soon become obsolete both as mates and as workers. Japan hasnt imploded yet despite vrginity for bith sexes being at all time highs and low birth rates since the 70s. The west will be a less worse Japan, considering women in the w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/20 07:11 AM |
| 1 | The SAHM/Homemaker role is great. Women gave away their happiness and power by choosing to work for a corporation insteadI think a lot of women specifically suffer from the "grass is greener on the other side" syndome. Ive known SAHM who bemoan their supporting roles and wanted to go back to their jobs. I knew a friend who works full time with her husband, who is spiteful and jealous of their neighbour next door, a 50s glam style stay at home mom who fills the neighbourhood with the smell of their good cooking and is great at selling the trad suburban bliss life whilst they are the miserable workaholic couples tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/20 06:28 AM |
| 7 | Is the happiness and fulfillment of bottom tier men dependent on the suffering and misery of women?This. This right here. Its not just Incels who are discontent about the current arrangement, but most average men with a spine. Ive had sex, Ive had relationships, I lift, yet I cant pretend to not feel frustrated by the limitations of male gender roles and the inequities of dating as man, all because many women would much rather squeeze dry the previleges and double standards they have at the expense of the average man. I have to as a man to conform to gender roles and expectations which puts u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/20 05:16 AM |
| 2 | Study: People report conforming more strongly to traditional gender roles and believing more strongly in traditional gender stereotypes since the coronavirus pandemicWell peopeople here are predictimg the worst rerecession or even a depression since the 1930s, so.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/20 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Is the loss of communal safe spaces a significant reason dating has become so difficult?I totally agree. I just wonder when most people will admit OLD is a failure and has created more problems than it solved? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/20 06:23 PM |
| 4 | Is the loss of communal safe spaces a significant reason dating has become so difficult?Ive done hobbies like rowing for years, its not a good way to meet up with the opposite sex , especially when most people do hobbies or meet ups not with the intention of hooking up or starting a relationship with members. Im sure some do, but most dont. Youll only make lots of women more wary of men doing hobbies if men followed your advice and used hobby meet ups to flirt with women. Lots of hobbies a man may actually be interested(and is not just partaking in so he can get into the pants of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/20 05:59 PM |
| 3 | Is the loss of communal safe spaces a significant reason dating has become so difficult?Armenians who fled to Ethiopia after the Armenian genocide https://armenianweekly.com/2015/05/06/remembering-the-armenians-of-ethiopia/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/20 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Is the loss of communal safe spaces a significant reason dating has become so difficult?Lol. Its hard to play up the bbc stereotype when you look like a green eyed Bedouin or a really mixed up brazilian. The only black physical trait I have is slightly thicker lips and light caramel skin. Ive had more luck with playing the racially ambiguous card though, so Im not complaining. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/20 11:02 AM |
| 2 | Is the loss of communal safe spaces a significant reason dating has become so difficult?Armenian/Ethiopian | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/20 08:28 AM |
| 9 | Is the loss of communal safe spaces a significant reason dating has become so difficult?Its not just white people, but anyone that has assimilated into the mainstream. I mean, there are stricter rules in these places, but theres also a sense of safety and security which makes women a lot less neurotic when it comes to interacting with men on a romantic basis. At least in my community, parents and community elders knew when to loosen the leash and let the kids have fun, but they also knew how to protect their daughters from predatory men. Theres also a bit socialisation for guys. El… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/20 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Would men get more sympathy for their issues if they showed sadness instead of anger?Ive had clinical depression for years, which isnt related to any dating whoes, and which gives me a constant appearance of hopeless melancholy when I didnt actively regulate my emotional expressions. Women I met were either hostile, indifferent, or creeped out when I didnt hide the fact that I was in a state of total despair and numbness. Most women arent very nice to vulnerable men, and probably even more so for men who are incels. Older women were always pretty nice though. Ive learnt my lesso… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/20 07:07 AM |
| 5 | Is the loss of communal safe spaces a significant reason dating has become so difficult?Fair enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/20 06:52 AM |
| 18 | Is the loss of communal safe spaces a significant reason dating has become so difficult?Those have always been outliers. Average people want structure and a narrative to follow in their daily lives. These communities provide a pretty good psychological safety net from total atomisation. Before the neoliberal cultural infestation, America was full of small tight knit communities, rotary clubs, Church societies where it was common for men to court women and to make long life friendships and community connections. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/20 06:29 AM |
| 3 | [CMV] The future of dating is easy: just add "sugar"Its moderately conservative but nothing like Islam. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/20 09:20 PM |
| 2 | [CMV] The future of dating is easy: just add "sugar"Armenian Ethiopian. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/20 09:10 PM |
| 3 | [CMV] The future of dating is easy: just add "sugar"I know Im not allowed to go full racial in here, but I just help feel bad for young white guys. As someone from an ethnic minority, I know that if mainstream dating doesnt go well for me, I can always go back to my roots and date the old fashion way. And theres always friendly community places, cultural events and festivals to meet up with women from my cultures. In fact, thats where I met my first gf. White guys just have tinder, and maybe the church. And after uni, things just get harder for b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/20 09:01 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Men who want to date kinder women should volunteer moreIts strange really. Im a pretty nice guy, and Ive had plenty of conversations with girls of all tiers of attractiveness at my work. Some women saw me having long conversations, or having fun with the resident fat chick or acne ridden nerd or the nigerian immigrant girl(because theyre honestly interesting people, and I kinda felt sorry for them for being alienated by the main female group). Many women there used to assume that we were dating or sucking each others mouths during break. I mean, Im … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/20 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Do you think it's become acceptable to be fat or "thick" as a woman, and what effect has this had on dating and the sexual marketplace?But I dont understand why so many within the body positivity movement seem to blame men or "society" for the trends started by these subcultures, fashion companies and magazines. Just start doing what the french government did and advocate for women with unhealthy BMIs to be barred from fashion advertisements, thatll solve 90 percent of the legit problems the BP movement has raised. Too many Body positivity social justice warriors who are making this more bigger than it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/20 06:10 PM |
| 12 | CMV: Men who want to date kinder women should volunteer morePretty much this. Ive seen women go from sensitive angels to stone faced bitches within minutes of meeting some ugly or low status guy. Most women have a kind side, but unlike most men, they are selective in who they show it to. A lot of women fear that behaving kindly to men they see as undesirable is giving these men the impression that theyre equals or a possible prospect, and theyll do as much as they can in subtle or not so subtle ways to indicate they arent, which includes limiting kind ge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/20 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Do you think it's become acceptable to be fat or "thick" as a woman, and what effect has this had on dating and the sexual marketplace?Speak for yourself. Weight is very manageable if youre willing to intermittent fast and use a gym membership. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/20 05:29 PM |
| 3 | Do you think it's become acceptable to be fat or "thick" as a woman, and what effect has this had on dating and the sexual marketplace?Stop being so influenced or triggered by pop trends in female spaces that has no barring on what the average man finds attractive. The Heroin chic look was more about the nihilism of the fashion industry in the 90s and its crusade against healthy curvy women of the 80s, who men lusted after. It was probably started by a few resentful gay men and older women within the industry who hated the youthful curvy and healthy models who were in demand in the fashion industry . That aesthetic was only pop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/20 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Do you think it's become acceptable to be fat or "thick" as a woman, and what effect has this had on dating and the sexual marketplace?Limb lengthening for cosmetic purposes is banned in most western countries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/20 04:54 PM |
| 0 | Do you think it's become acceptable to be fat or "thick" as a woman, and what effect has this had on dating and the sexual marketplace?But being healthy isnt an unreasonable expectation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/20 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Do you think it's become acceptable to be fat or "thick" as a woman, and what effect has this had on dating and the sexual marketplace?Hnnng. Shes aging like fine wine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/20 02:15 PM |
| 3 | Do you think it's become acceptable to be fat or "thick" as a woman, and what effect has this had on dating and the sexual marketplace?A Body positivity movement that focus on removing shame that comes with having an physical attribute which you cannot change is ok. Having a body positivity movement that promotes unhealthy living as normal is a great way to create a generation of diabetics, future heart disease and high blood pressure sufferers. The only people in society who are pushing the size zero ideal are high fashion magazines and companies, filled with gay men and bitter old women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/20 02:07 PM |
| 9 | Do you think it's become acceptable to be fat or "thick" as a woman, and what effect has this had on dating and the sexual marketplace?You can be fitter and healthier but you can't change height. Not even comparable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/20 01:49 PM |
| 4 | Do you think it's become acceptable to be fat or "thick" as a woman, and what effect has this had on dating and the sexual marketplace?Im a fitness fanatic. I run, I'm a member at a rowing club, have a pretty physically intensive job at a meat factory while studying to get my degree. And let me tell you, it's amazing what fat women think appeals to men is their flabby ass when most non black men wouldn't want to be smaller than his partner. Yeah, a little thickness is nice, but we aren't talking about having boulders for an ass. Also fat women who are fortunate to have the body genetics that places their fat in the body parts t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/20 01:36 PM |
| 21 | CMV: Men don't really love women for who they areIt's not just intellectual stimulation. It's also how that person makes you *feel*. Even without the promise of Sex, hanging around some women feels pretty good. Especially when theyre not the judgemental type who expect you to constantly entertain them just because of what's between their legs, and you feed off each other's energies for hours. There's also so many unpleasant young women who seem to think putting on a bitch shtick would make them far more alluring to men, because they think th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/20 11:20 AM |
| 1 | Who’s responsible for a woman’s orgasm - man or woman?Any man who simply goes down on a strange woman without asking her if she has any std that can be transferred through oral and increases cancer risk for men, is putting his health before pleasure of some random ho. Personally, I keep it as a rule to only do risky sexual moves in LTRs where I at least know my partner isn't going to be giving me some incurable form of ghonnorhea or many of the novel strains of HPV that can't be vaccinated against by the HPV vaccine. Simps are allowing women like y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/20 09:38 AM |
| 2 | Is the Male variability in sexual behaviour being repressed?Anyone whose been in the scene know that BDSM communities are either heavily skewed to BDSM chicks looking for a dom, or the extremes of subby male behaviour. Limited options for most men. Its a numbers game | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 04:39 PM |
| 0 | Is the Male variability in sexual behaviour being repressed?yeah, weirdos. Its skewed to the extreme. Most men with out of the norm fetishes arent into those extremes. Its almost a caricature of subby behaviour at that point, which will just irk guys like me who dont want to be put on a leash or whipped, or treated like a baby. I guess the extremes are entertaining, but theyre not for most men who cant be placed in the spectrum of stereotypical masculine sexuality but arent totally into those extremes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 04:25 PM |
| 3 | Is the Male variability in sexual behaviour being repressed?I think you werent here, when the vast majority of the women in this enlightened sub admitted to being disgusted by a man who doesnt largely conform to masculine behaviours aside from a few harmless kinks, when we had a similar topic a few months ago. Guys arent stupid, I dont think men just "breaking out of their roles" will do anything but alienate them from the opposite sex. Men are equally as harsh to guys who have out of the norm fetishes and sexual preferences, but women enforce those stan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 04:20 PM |
| 3 | Is the Male variability in sexual behaviour being repressed?Sex clubs are usually heavily skewed towards women with BDSM fetishes who wouldnt want to be in the same room with a sub guy. Or its full of legit wierdos. High end Sex clubs are ok if your a girl who wants to further her journey to being a sub to a dom. Guys tend to have limited options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 04:13 PM |
| 3 | Is the Male variability in sexual behaviour being repressed?Well, im focusing on the sexual aspect, which is rarely explored by the mainstream. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 04:06 PM |
| 3 | Porn raises men's expectations of women during sex and that's not a good thing for both men and women.nah, not old enough. More like that busty slightly overweight Teacher who has predilection for punishing students by humiliating them. Most of my fantasies have a huge power advantage to women. I also have sexual dreams about being a leader of a defeated Meso-American army who has to become the sex slave to some hot but strongly built Aztec empress, in order to have peace in the newly conquered lands. Honestly Im thinking of selling the rights to my fairly fleshed out alternative aztec universe … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 02:53 PM |
| 3 | Porn raises men's expectations of women during sex and that's not a good thing for both men and women.Are you me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 02:36 PM |
| 6 | Porn raises men's expectations of women during sex and that's not a good thing for both men and women.LOL. Its like they dont even know what goes inside mens heads. Im personally bored of porn because my imagination can come up with kinkier and far more unrealistic scenarios and hotter women to masturbate to than porn. Porn is marginally worse than the kind of things that the average man can imagine. Honestly, I havent gone on porn for months, yet Im probably as screwed up or "normal" as the average once a day porn watcher. Eventually, the numbskulls at r/FDS will get this and then theyll eventu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 02:31 PM |
| 1 | New study links number of sexual partners to an increased chance of cancerI love eating out women, but the fact that HPV is so common among under 30s makes me feel Im putting my self into longterm throat cancer risk by trying to please women, to the point where Id only eat a woman if she is a longterm gf who is mature enough to get tested monthly. Women who think HPV is nothing because its so common are making pleasing women as a man so less enjoyable. I cant even believe some women think expecting oral during a first date sex is acceptable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 11:09 AM |
| 1 | What makes you want to know more about a woman?I dont know, theres a certain energy and aura those women tend to give off. Theyre not just attractive, many are in fact average looking and some are even older women. They have this optimism, empathy, humility, feminine playfulness and non pretentious attitude that is missing in a lot of women my age. Theyre not just random for random sake, they have this unique perspective on life and theyre spontaneous. They make you feel important and worth something. Maybe Im just a depressive looking for s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 10:18 AM |
| 6 | Porn raises men's expectations of women during sex and that's not a good thing for both men and women.itll get worse, as sex becomes harder to acquire for average men and our culture becomes more pornified. Get used to the new normal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 10:11 AM |
| 1 | Will guys eventually have to take infidelity as a matter of course in a relationship?Older men gen x/boomer are far more likely to cheat, but Ive noticed than among my friends groups and colleagues, relationships tend to end when the female partner cheats. I know Im biased, but it feels like theres a generational change when it comes to whose doing more of the cheating. I would be interested in a study of relationship break downs and infidelity for those under 35. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 10:06 AM |
| 2 | If a man talks about his feelings, is he a weak little pussy?I think momentary displays of vulnerability is ok, but that must only come after months and years of gathering masculine tokens. A tough stoic has more room to play with when it comes to showing emotions, but your average man doesnt. Personally, Ive had deep mental problems all my life due to an abusive childhood, and I havent had good experience with showing vulnerability to women, which is why Im not so keen on getting into a relationship right now, until Im able to properly put a facade of ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Do you think we are going to see an increase in Islamic conversions by Low status males?You really think South America, with its history of western backed authoritarian military juntas and proud socialist heritage will have a problem with instigating illiberal policies that limits emigration when the elite sees fit? lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/20 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Do you think we are going to see an increase in Islamic conversions by Low status males?Well if youre a proud Judeo-Christian American, you probably dont have to worry since youre already circumcised | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/20 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Do you think we are going to see an increase in Islamic conversions by Low status males?Well, Im talking about long term. South America is facing a similar population crunch, so youre about to see governments over there becoming more interested in limiting emigration. Mexico is getting its shit together and becoming a regional power, so the economic incentives for Mexicans to leave for America is diminishing. The only regions in the world where economic , geopolitical and demographic factors are pointing towards unrelenting waves of mass immigration in the next coming decades are t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/20 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Do you think we are going to see an increase in Islamic conversions by Low status males?I agree, but its not going to stop neoliberals from claiming anyone who criticises useful muslim immigrants with problematic beliefs as racists or xenophobes, because in the end, they dont want to let their multicultural neoliberal dreams to die. That would mean putting up borders, and seeing less of those useful immigrants from becoming the next consumers, tax payers and workers, whilst the west slowly dies from modernity induced low birth rates. What are they going to do then, ask women to bec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/20 07:45 PM |
| 0 | Do you think we are going to see an increase in Islamic conversions by Low status males?Well institutionalized racism has largely died off. Im sure racism flares up from time to time, but in most neoliberal multicultural nations, theres basic rights for all minority and aside from a minority, most people arent outwardly racist. Compare that to the 60s where Jim Crows existed. Im sure if you had grandparents who lived in the 50s and 60s, theyd consider todays world a multicultural paradise compared to where they were brought up. All im saying is social and cultural norms are always … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/20 07:29 PM |
| 4 | Let us impregnate youincel content | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/20 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Do you think we are going to see an increase in Islamic conversions by Low status males?Short term, yes. But things will change. And those Latin Americans now have as low birth rates as natives. Their population is actually stabilising. If America is willing to kill a substantial proportion of its population to keep the economy going by reopening it prematurely amid a pandemic, do you think the average capitalist or politician isnt willing to condition Americans to see immigration as the only viable way to maintain the pension system and to increase economic dynamism by increasing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/20 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Do you think we are going to see an increase in Islamic conversions by Low status males?America is also a nation with a low birth rate and both the capitalist and political class are willing to open the immigration floodgates so the economy wont tank due to an overburdened welfare system that doesnt have enough young productive tax payers willing to subsidise the pensions of millions of elderly people who will make up a large proportion of your nation and even larger proportion of the voting demographic. Muslim immigration is bound to pick up pace in the US, as burgeoning Islamic A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/20 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Do you think we are going to see an increase in Islamic conversions by Low status males?Maybe for America, but in Europe, youre seeing quite a few nations where Islamic immigration is changing the local demographics. Islamic countries are going to be the main source of skilled and non skilled immigrants for western states with low pop growth/fertility in the coming decades. Its going to be a relevent factor soon enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/20 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Do you think we are going to see an increase in Islamic conversions by Low status males?I dunno, Im sure they have their problems, like everyone else, but religion seems like a pretty good psychological placebo and an adequate guide for the average unquestioning sheep to organise their lives. Personally, I dont see the appeal, but considering some people do crave structure and a narrative that organised religion offers, moreso than even individual freedoms, lots of people within these societies are probably content. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/20 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Do you think we are going to see an increase in Islamic conversions by Low status males?I dont know about that though. Lots of those guys are legtimately converting to Islam and are religious as fuck. Theyre growing beards too. Theyre seen as tokens to show off for the average muslim according to my friend. Despite the tensions, lots of muslims I think secretly look up to white people or westerners, and are flattered when they convert to their religion. Just my view as an outsider with a lot of contact with muslim people in general. Im sure it helps that muslim immigration means th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/20 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Do you think we are going to see an increase in Islamic conversions by Low status males?Im also Armenian, and we tend to hang around other middle eastern immigrants, despite being far more westernised and accepted in the white dom mainstream | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/20 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Do you think we are going to see an increase in Islamic conversions by Low status males?lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/20 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Do you think we are going to see an increase in Islamic conversions by Low status males?I dont want to be chosen. Im honestly fucked in the head. Id be a disappointment for most women. Ive rejected a few women, so Im not jealous for not being chosen. I just dont think Im in the right mental space for a relationship, thatll only disappoint the person Im with, and put a whole lotta pressure on me to perform and undermine my own health. Most women are not good for your mental health, even the nice ones. Heck im in this deep hole because of a woman. I dont need a woman in my life right… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/20 05:53 PM |
| 0 | Do you think we are going to see an increase in Islamic conversions by Low status males?In my areas, theres lots of recent muslim immigrant and I have a few muslim friends. I know of ton of guys converting. Heck, I went a friends ramadan fest or whatever you call it, and I was taken aback by the number of white guys there with their muslim wives and gfs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/20 05:42 PM |
| 3 | Do you think we are going to see an increase in Islamic conversions by Low status males?No, but thats not the question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/20 05:36 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] How do you feel about having more sexual power than an average man?There is never a case of heterosexual sex in which the female is not being used. ohhh wow, another one. Do you actually believe this, or are you a MGTOW troll larping as a radical FDSer? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/20 04:56 PM |
| 0 | Most men stop the emotional effort they put in from the beginning once they get the girl. Why are men surprised when sex dies down too ?The only sane comment here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/20 08:07 PM |
| 7 | Most men stop the emotional effort they put in from the beginning once they get the girl. Why are men surprised when sex dies down too ?Do women not get satisfaction from sex as well? Sex for sex. Asking the man to constantly put effort to get something as integral to a relationship as sex, and not demanding both parties to put effort in showing affection and love to each other, outside of sex is a pretty shitty mentality many women have. Almost like it reinforces the idea that women don't enjoy sex and that most men dont offer anything to women when it comes to sex and must compensate in other ways. If you feel like your partne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/20 07:56 PM |
| 0 | Why oppose porn when it's a great way to pacify the unattractive genetic dead ends?Explain his "enforced monogamy" comments, his "make up shouldnt be allowed at work because itll turn on men" comments, his constant incel grift. Yes even admitted on several occasions that he dislikes modern feminism. Face it, the dudes a typical tradcon anti feminist grifter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/20 01:17 PM |
| 8 | I feel like people downplay the importance of sex for certain people just because it's not literally a need, it's not as important to them, and it's hard to care for basic needs when they're already fulfilledBecause empathy isn't afforded to male failures. I mean with the way some women treat these guys, there must be a belief that they are better, purer and superior for being who they are, whilst these men are forever tainted by things they can't control. It also explains the feelings of visceral disgust that these women can't help but feel, and that is similar to the visceral disgust some racists feel about races they see as inferior and who they simply cannot humanize. Women like that don't have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/20 10:49 AM |
| 2 | Are women turned on by men who help with the chores?Lmao...You don't have to be turned on to appreciate someone doing the chores. This is basic adult shit. I don't know why this is a popular topic on PPD. Are there really men who don't do chores? Most men I know do chores pretty well or good enough to maintain a clean household. Ive been doing chores since I was 5, so personally I don't understand why this has become a topic of the gender wars? I dont see domestic chores as an inherently gendered thing. More like a civilised person thing, like le… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/20 12:16 PM |
| 3 | Have you ever met a FDS woman in real life?I thought that sub was just full of trolls and MGTOW larps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/20 07:42 PM |
| 6 | They say it takes a village to raise a child but do you consider it moral/fair for society to ask men to provide for children that aren't theirs?Ill tell you a story. My aunt had an unstable relationship with some loser in her youth, and he left her when she had a kid. My uncle, who's a nurterer and beta male, but ran a successful grocery business and was a good man, chose to help raise her kid, with his other kids. Heck, he even let her sleep at his house for 15 years until she managed to secure a stable well paying job, even though they were only related through his wife, who is her sister. My uncle was my aunts brother in law. He tr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/20 05:18 PM |
| 4 | They say it takes a village to raise a child but do you consider it moral/fair for society to ask men to provide for children that aren't theirs?I don't think the incels fear of a male reproductive bottleneck caused by "female hypergamy" and the diminished role of the male breadwinner will ever eventuate to the extent that a lot of men will lose out on raising kids. But its quite telling how women, who do entertain that premise and embrace that future, believe communal child rearing would solve the problem of unstable family arrangenents rooted in mate sharing of elite men will be the solution to th disintegration of the nuclear family… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/20 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Can a relationship where women are dominant truly sustainIts less about telling women what to do and more about behaving in a way which inspires confidence and assurance that you are able to protect her and lead when she's vulnerable or want you to step up. It's about showing that you're more capable than other men, and you are assertive and masculine, and will do anything to get what you want. And that youre able to command the respect and sometimes fear of other men. And when appropriate, showing leadership qualities. These are the traits of men who… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/20 07:22 AM |
| 0 | Wgat do you think will happen to relationships in a post employment future?Well they're doing it now. Government, even those controlled by oligarchs care about not tanking the economy, and having no consumers would destroy the economy. They'll give us the bare minimum, enough to stimulate economic growth and consumer spending but not enough for someone to have some semblance of control over their financial destiny or to live lavishly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/20 09:11 AM |
| 4 | Can a relationship where women are dominant truly sustainBecause most men, aside from natural doms dont enjoy performing or are indifferent to the dom role. But because women want men like that or respect them and desire them more, we go our whole dating lives trying to fulfill that role so we can have a chance with most women. I noticed highly attractive pretty boys have enough attraction tokens to pull off the quirky neurotic bisexual subby for some women though. But even this is a tricky balancing act. Even these guys have to show some instances of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/20 09:10 AM |
| 2 | Can a relationship where women are dominant truly sustainMost dom women want even more dom men. It's very rare for a dom woman to seek out sub men, and for that relationship to work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/20 09:01 AM |
| 2 | Harvard study - Expectations of wives’ homemaking may have eroded, but the husband breadwinner norm persists.People fall in love, and one can have sex potentially every day if one gets married. Haha...may be the first few years of the honey moon period. So what happens when that dries up, like it usually does? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/20 05:35 PM |
| 3 | Coronavirus quarantine has proved the 80/20 rule of the casual sex marketI came from a traditional immigrant household and when we were young age my older sisters were a bit more reserved and traditional, they were so surprised about the dating habits of their friends that one day, my sister bursted into my room angry or surprised(I couldn't tell) and told me that a few of her friends regularly had guys on rotation . According to my sister, her friends told her they were just serial dating , but apparently, they later admitted that they were using each guy for a spec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/20 11:25 PM |
| 16 | Coronavirus quarantine has proved the 80/20 rule of the casual sex marketPPD would probably be a better place to have discussions about this issue if the mods made everyone verify their age on their flairs. It's becoming too much of a PPD trope that out of touch older women are telling younger guys about shit they really aren't aware about or suffer from the tyranny of age related selective memory when it came to their own youth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/20 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Coronavirus quarantine has proved the 80/20 rule of the casual sex marketLol, the hamster wheeling in this thread. Until we have thorough, decade long quantitative study on the dating and sexual habits of women between age of 18 to 30, you won't ever convince many here that this is happening. Ive been noticing the same thing on my facebook feed for a while | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/20 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Technology will make masculinity obsolete and societies becoming feminized is a good thingLI don't how you could believe this if you've been in this subreddit for a few days. The biggest obstacle to your idea of a feminised utopia will always be other women, even if the utilitarian aspect of masculinity becomes obsolete. Because women are still quite attracted to dominant, assertive and violent men(who know how to perpetuate violence in the right circumstance), whilst the conditions that are allowing utilitarian masculinity to become less important to society has also allowed women t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/20 09:18 PM |
| 9 | Testosterone levels and attraction?We should really start shaming them. Fukn enablers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/20 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Testosterone levels and attraction?Right now, I work in a factory part time whilst studying, doing hard menial labour. I've gained about 5 kilos of muscle within a year, and I went from barely able to lift 15 kilos of carcass to pushing 500 kilos of carcass around my factory within that time frame, so many would consider me high test. I have broad shoulders, small waste but an average height(5'11), Yet I'm repulsed by chubby fat women. I prefer healthy thin and toned to a bit thicker, but I do enjoy taller and medium height women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/20 01:55 PM |
| 1 | To those believe that something should be "done" about whatever it is you've observed (e.g. sexlessness). What do you think should be done?Sure mate. Must 've nice being one of those a quarter of men and growing in countries like Norway who will never have children or LTRs. Anyway, I was just listing things I've thought about literally for a few minutes within seeing your question. I'm sure having studies, community outreach, and research on possible solutions would yield better solutions. And as I've said repeatedly, this would be the last measure if all things fail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/20 04:27 PM |
| 0 | To those believe that something should be "done" about whatever it is you've observed (e.g. sexlessness). What do you think should be done?I dont know. Measures that maybe curtail the ability of some men to have children with multiple women, which is having a detrimental impact on the marriageability of working class men in places like Norway. https://sciencenorway.no/childlessness-fathers-forskningno/a-quarter-of-norwegian-men-never-father-children/1401047 Ban dating apps that have highly skewed gender ratios or heck, just ban dating ban outrightly. Increase the tax burdens on men and women who dont wed or have children pass a cer… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/20 07:00 AM |
| 0 | To those believe that something should be "done" about whatever it is you've observed (e.g. sexlessness). What do you think should be done?Well thats the same line of reasoning social Darwinists and libertarians used to justify inequality and other policy stances that many here I assume see as problematic. In that case, if individual freedoms trumps all concerns for the collective should we just eliminate social welfare programs that primarily help women because excessive taxation does limit the freedoms of the individual, and perhaps it's just natural that people do worse than others in a system that maximises individual agency an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/20 12:53 AM |
| 0 | To those believe that something should be "done" about whatever it is you've observed (e.g. sexlessness). What do you think should be done?Solutions are so far away right now. I think first we have to an uncomfortable but necessary conversation about gender dynamics before leapfrogging to society spanning solutions that may or may not include curtailing some individual freedoms, excesses or even a gender oriented program for struggling men. It would be great if femitards didnt always hijack every debate about male sexlessness or deny the overwhelming evidence and experiences of men that suggest we may have a problem. Right now, the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/20 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Men rating themselves higher than they actually are: what does it imply?Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/20 09:00 AM |
| 1 | Q2tallwomen: would you rather date a short attractive guy or a tall homely one?I dont think you can rely on what women say. Just look at their actions. Go around any streets and observe couples height difference. There's usually a significant height advantage to the men, of at least a couple of inches. Then look at the guys who are alone. They're usually below average height, or average height. Im not one to praise redpill philosophy, but one they got right about women was that you need to look at what they do, not what they say. Short guys below 5 foot 9(which is the aver… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/20 03:23 AM |
| 5 | Men: how do you feel about being dominant?It's enjoyable for a time, especially when you're horny as fuck or feeling a testosterone high after an intense gym session, but it eventually gets tiring, boring and predictable. Most men don't like to admit it, but we do have a sub side too, II think good sex involved both sides embracing both their submissive and dominant versions of themselves. Men also want to be desired and be the pursued sometimes. Unfortunately, lots of women don't seem to see it that way and lots of men are forced to re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/20 02:24 AM |
| 4 | Men: how do you feel about being dominant?Couldn't have said it better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/20 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Do you feel uncomfortable when walking in the same direction as a woman that's in front of you?I feel you brother. As a guy who looks like an above average built swarthy Arab in an area with a problem with islamophobia and Arab youth problems, I feel like I get prejudged by women the most. A lot of women just assume I'm the steriotypical aggressive young Arab man when I'm actually Armenian/Ethiopian and fairly non masculine and I currently go to one of the top universities in my area whilst working in a meat factory. I live in a fairly middle-class or upper middle class area, and I do fee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/20 02:01 AM |
| 1 | The Orgasm intensity gapIm not saying its the same, but it is the closest a man will ever get to experiencing a female orgasm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/20 01:57 PM |
| 1 | The Orgasm intensity gapNo,a million are subscribed, but there are at most a few tens of thousands active members who partake in the daily discusions once every few week, and probably even less if youre counting those who are there weekly. Not a big community when you take account of only active members. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/20 01:55 PM |
| 3 | The Orgasm intensity gapI didnt take ppd women as representative of the average woman but as a subset of women who should be far more enlightened, inquisitive and be more willing to question the narrative/status quo/whatever than the average woman and not follow the herd, yet even many here cant overcome the disgust towards men who dont conform to traditional or pseudo trad masculinity, especially pertaining to the roles men play in sex.There are plenty of thread here where the vast majority of PPD women display disgus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/20 01:51 PM |
| 5 | The Orgasm intensity gapWhen did niche reddit communities represent real life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/20 01:36 PM |
| 3 | The Orgasm intensity gapAre you afraid thatll youll need to get your thrusting game on point once straight men figure out why the gays love it so much? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/20 01:20 PM |
| 2 | The Orgasm intensity gapyep | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/20 01:18 PM |
| 1 | The Orgasm intensity gapI dont know about that. Lots of women I know love to tell me how great their sex lives are. Which is why Im kind of jealous of womens ability to have earth shattering orgasm. The things my cousins and casual female friends tell me, makes me think there is a population of women who have really bad sex lives, but the vast majority of women have had their big Os at least in the last few months. Stories of bodies shaking, seeing stars and even blacking out after a good sex session is pretty common a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/20 01:14 PM |
| 1 | The Orgasm intensity gapI dont know, my gay/bi friends have told me most of them dont get a full prostate orgasm during sex, but they do feel warm after sex, and they tend to jerk it off afterwards. Maybe my gay friends arent the pros I thought they were. This is a very weird conversation I might say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/20 12:55 PM |
| 7 | The Orgasm intensity gapI think theyre an extreme minority. Most women want their man to be a dom, doing all the hard work. Even many of the enlightened women of PPD have gone on record plenty of times here that they dont want a man who is a sub in bed, let alone a man who likes a fat dildo strap on in his arse. Many here consider it a deal breaker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/20 12:45 PM |
| 4 | The Orgasm intensity gapLol. Most Women dont want a submissive butt man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/20 12:34 PM |
| 3 | The Orgasm intensity gapNah, its apparently difficult to rewire your prostate to be sexually stimulated. You should try reading about guys who get into prostate toys and milking. I did it for a while after hearing all the great thing about the prostate from my gay/bi friends and I didnt feel shit. It just felt weird. Apparently, it took my bi friend 3 years to gain sexual sensitivity of his prostate through rewiring. I dont have that patience., even if it leads to earth shattering orgasms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/20 12:31 PM |
| 5 | The Orgasm intensity gapAnal sex for a guy entails a lot of risks like anal tears, infections, hemorrhoids and increased risks of contracting STDs. It may feel good but the anus was not designed for penetration, unlike the vagina, which is almost perfectly designed for PIV. According to them, orgasming is tough though, but well worth it with a great attentive partner. A lot of them switch between sub and dom at one point or another, so theyve experienced the "other side". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/20 12:21 PM |
| 1 | The Orgasm intensity gapWell as I understand the bi guys had girl friends at one point, and they described their experiences with them, and apparently, their girlfriends were convinced the things they experienced during a prostate orgasm were pretty closed to how they experience a female orgasm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/20 12:16 PM |
| 2 | What feminine products could be commonjplace for men to use in the future and why is it not socially acceptable for men to use feminine products?.01 percent of the total male population in Europe. Those so powerful and assured in their places of power, and nearly raised to the levels of overseers of God's unwashed masses that putting a little makeup didn't threaten their places in the masculine hierarchy. It's the same deal with these highly flamboyant and fashion conscience athletes and rock stars who are allowed to indulge in the feminine because their status and desirability gives them pass to keep their masculinity card. I don't know… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/20 10:55 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men's entitlement is far more dangerous and common than female entitlementYah, average IQ. I'm talking about those who cluster at the extreme ends of behaviouribehavioural spectrum and IQ bell curve . Please read about the male variability hypothesis | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/20 10:13 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Men's entitlement is far more dangerous and common than female entitlementMost in the know recognise that men cluster in the extreme ends of the personality and IQ spectrum. You'll see far more idiots and violent thugs who are men, but you'll also see far more philosophers, scientists, innovators and great thinkers and humanists who are men. For example, you may know more male violent thugs, but you'll also know more men who would be willing to put their lives on the line to save you from those thugs like cops and heroic bystanders, which is probably why most of the h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/20 09:33 AM |
| 9 | CMV: Men's entitlement is far more dangerous and common than female entitlementHolyshit yes. I know so many low self esteem guys in my own class who wouldn't even dare flirt or talk to a girl because they have such crippling self hatred and self doubt yet tons of women I know think they believe they deserve the world and social media feeds into this. I know this is all anecdotal, but you can't seriously believe that the average man thinks he's the shit that deserves everything when self improvement gymbro ideology has become so rampant in male youth culture that so many no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/20 08:56 AM |
| 1 | If a guy watches porn because his wife doesn't want to have sex with him, does she have the right to be upset?I don't think we will ever know every situation women use sex as a tool of control or behavioural moderation of their husbands, but from my own experience, you are correct in that many women do use sex as a way to correct bad behaviour in some men. But you also conveniently fail to mention the subtle and not so subtle ways women use sex to achieve their own selfish interests at the detriment of the longrerm success of their relationships and the mental health of their partners. And also as a way… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/20 08:35 AM |
| 8 | If a guy watches porn because his wife doesn't want to have sex with him, does she have the right to be upset?I'm sure there are plenty of women in relationships and marriages who are unfortunately in these kinds of situations, and no doubt these husbands need counseling for their addiction. But I'm also not going to pretend that there isn't a problem of women using sex to control their husbands and coerce them to do things they may not want to do, or as a means of punishing their husbands through withdrawal of sex. So lots of married guys use porn so their wives don't have significant emotional leverag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/20 06:19 AM |
| 21 | Do all women eventually settle?Lots of women,like my sister, just end up alone in their 30s and just focus on cultivating friends after a decade of living the high life and never dropping their standards. Women in my family who are the stereotypical picky spinsters seem far more happier and fulfilled than the guys I know who end up alone due to circumstance or their own inability to attract a mate. In my country, roughly 20 percent of women over 50 have never been married or have had children and yet male suicides for those o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/20 11:47 AM |
| 7 | What should I man provide in a relationship?No theyre not. The delusions of grandeur of the average MGTOWer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/20 02:48 PM |
| 3 | Sex is much better for women than for men.I dont think you understand the burdens of performative masculinity on men, and how different those pressures are compared to the anxieties women face. Lets agree to disagree. Expectations are a lot lopsided against men when it comes to sex and performance. So its only rational that men face far more stressors and anxiety during sex. Women face different pressures, but dont suffer from the same burden of living up to some feminine performative ideal during a sexual exploit. You dont live under a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/20 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Sex is much better for women than for men.As someone with a larger than average girth, ive told the few partners Ive had that if they felt uncomfortable accomodating that puck, just tell me to stop. And most of them did, which made me focus more on improving my foreplay game. I dont understand why so many women feel they lack agency? Be assertive. Most decent men want honesty, and unless youre fucking a legit sociopath, lots of men wouldnt want to cum at the expense of their lovers sensitive bits. Heck, its just plain self interest. Guy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/20 02:07 PM |
| 3 | Sex is much better for women than for men.Anxiety about fullfilling masculine expectations and self loathing stemming from perceived impotency can have real effects on mens self esteem and emotional wellbeing. I think we can appreciate that the moments of temporary physical pain that women experience during unfortunate sexual encounters and the emotional pain and anxiety lots of men experience day in and day that eventually consume a lot of men who percieve themselves to be incomplete men or inferior and that saps the joys out of experi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/20 01:55 PM |
| 0 | Porn Addiction.I think constant clit rubbing is far more of a problem than merely porn consumption for women. Desensitized clits is a real problem, but most women dont have the porn habits a lot of men have. We need a clit cage for prolific rubbers, just like there are penis cages for men who masturbate too much without their partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/20 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Sex is much better for women than for men.I love going down there as well, but lots of women make it harder with poor hygene and STDs. Get a check up before you tell your new partners to go down there. Every man has to know the potential danger his getting himself into before he decides to please women down there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/20 06:49 AM |
| 0 | Sex is much better for women than for men.Exactly. Which is why I dont pressure my ex partners do something they dont feel comfortable doing with me, unlike a lot of women, who shame men for not going down them, and giving them the orgasm theyre entitled to, despite smelling like dead fish down there. Women, clean your vajayjays and check for yeast infections and stds before you start demanding men munch your carpet because penetrative sex doesnt do anything for you. You have to make men want to go down there, if you want to get the rig… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/20 06:31 AM |
| 1 | Sex is much better for women than for men.lol. Its nice being so intellectually dishonest about issues that effect men due to the nature of masculine expectations and pretending the female equivalent is any way similar. If that was the case, the popularity of women complaining about the sexual inadequacy of their boyfriends or ONS wouldnt be a thing, since women would be so self conscious about their own sexual inadequacy and contribution to the lackluster sexual exploits that they would turn inwards and internalise it all like men have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/20 06:09 AM |
| 23 | Sex is much better for women than for men.Try having performance anxiety or going limp dick because youre too focused on giving her an orgasm to enjoy yourself and not be called a selfish lor an impotent lover. Sex can be very horrible for guys. We rarely complain because no one gives a shit about men and their experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/20 08:23 PM |
| 1 | The BP claims that its mens inability to adapt to the rise of the working woman and fulfill a caretaking role a major reason for the marriage crisis is kinda bullshit.Oh, I am a bit sleepy so I didnt realise that was not what you said. Either way, yes, I would like you to know that I have in fact gone outside to breath the good air, I have seen the world, and I have known lots of women who dont appreciate and even find men embracing traditional female gender roles as disgusting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/20 09:46 AM |
| 1 | The BP claims that its mens inability to adapt to the rise of the working woman and fulfill a caretaking role a major reason for the marriage crisis is kinda bullshit.If we stopped at challenging gender roles once any of the two genders found the other behaving not in accordance to traditional expectations as "disgusting", women would still be chained to the kitchen. Women need to be a little more brave and courageous to challenge their own internalised misogyny and break away from traditional expectations of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/20 09:39 AM |
| 1 | The BP claims that its mens inability to adapt to the rise of the working woman and fulfill a caretaking role a major reason for the marriage crisis is kinda bullshit.Not everyone who works in services or have a university degree is upper middle class. I’m probably lower middle class despite having a degree, and I have cousins in the trades who out earn me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/20 05:40 AM |
| 1 | The BP claims that its mens inability to adapt to the rise of the working woman and fulfill a caretaking role a major reason for the marriage crisis is kinda bullshit.Maybe I live in an urban progressive bubble, but of the few class mates who ended up shacking up with their college gf and becoming staying at home fathers to look after their children because of a downturn in their industry or other circumstances , most of the guys I know felt kind of jealous of those guys. We all hate our lower/middle middle class white collar jobs. We werent smart enough to get into the interesting high tier professions like law, med or computer programming and now we are glo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/20 04:34 AM |
| 2 | The BP claims that its mens inability to adapt to the rise of the working woman and fulfill a caretaking role a major reason for the marriage crisis is kinda bullshit.I live in a post industrial advanced economy that is largely service oriented. I dont live in the US. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/20 04:23 AM |
| 5 | The BP claims that its mens inability to adapt to the rise of the working woman and fulfill a caretaking role a major reason for the marriage crisis is kinda bullshit.But Ill be taking care of her as well. We will all be taking care of each other in different ways. I thought thats partly what marriage is about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/20 03:29 AM |
| 0 | How should the minority of men with a sexuality that aligns closer to the female sexual archetype deal with the modern sexual and relationship market place?That sounds like my adderal addicted med sister. I really am going to end up like her, arent I? :( Youre jewish right? Arent a lot of Jewish men known for being neurotic? How do they deal with it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 02:30 PM |
| 0 | How should the minority of men with a sexuality that aligns closer to the female sexual archetype deal with the modern sexual and relationship market place?lol. I think Theyre too old and bitter for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 02:06 PM |
| 0 | How should the minority of men with a sexuality that aligns closer to the female sexual archetype deal with the modern sexual and relationship market place?Im black and Armenian, so it doesnt really fit with the image doesnt it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 01:51 PM |
| 1 | How should the minority of men with a sexuality that aligns closer to the female sexual archetype deal with the modern sexual and relationship market place?Not really, why would i wanna a good boy cookie? Ive just admitted that im not conforming to what it is to be a man, which many in this sub hold dear as sacred, considering the purple pill is far more red than blue. Id be looking for a good boy cookie, if i wrote this in the gender critical sub. But youre not very bright are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 01:50 PM |
| 1 | How should the minority of men with a sexuality that aligns closer to the female sexual archetype deal with the modern sexual and relationship market place?I wanna know what someone like me, who does have a sexuality closer to that of a female sexual archetype should do in the modern SMP/RMP? Ill probaby will have it harder, but im sure there are better ways to go about things than give in to despondency. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 01:45 PM |
| 0 | How should the minority of men with a sexuality that aligns closer to the female sexual archetype deal with the modern sexual and relationship market place?Im not trying to turn this into a virtue. I cant have sex with any girl. I It doesnt do anything, and i just feel numb afterwards, if theres no real connection. I couldnt care less about keeping score. Ive rejected a few women, so Im not ugly. I just cant seem to get into casual sex, and relationships are hard . Im just kind of concerned that the girl who id have a connection with would care if I told her ive had years of sexlessness because I casual sex doesnt do much for me and relationships h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 01:13 PM |
| 0 | How should the minority of men with a sexuality that aligns closer to the female sexual archetype deal with the modern sexual and relationship market place?The problem is that men like me are incredibly picky. I cant help it. Most women are a turn off And it takes time to build enough emotional connection and chemistry for things to happen. I could be friends with women, but I have such a specific type and such a narrow range of attraction , that its difficult to find someone new, build enough connection, and have that spark. Sex outside of that is almost completely numbing. So it feels like im searching a needle in a hay stack, but Im working with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 01:05 PM |
| 1 | How should the minority of men with a sexuality that aligns closer to the female sexual archetype deal with the modern sexual and relationship market place?re editted repost. https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/f1o43x/how_do_men_with_low_sexual_libidos_or_have_a/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 12:43 PM |
| 1 | How do men with low sexual libidos or have a sexuality closer to the archetypal female sexuality cope in the modern dating paradigm?can I write a OP about men like myself without making it seem like its related to my personal circumstance? Kind of like how many posters here elude to issues that they most likely face, without making it obviously personal? This subreddit seems appropriate for such a taboo question to be answered and debated honestly. Ive seen subjects that affect the OP be asked regularly here, but the only difference is that they keep it as objective as they can, whereas I probably was a little too personal a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 11:42 AM |
| 1 | How do men with low sexual libidos or have a sexuality closer to the archetypal female sexuality cope in the modern dating paradigm?Arent most posts here in some way or another, about seeking advice and offering different perspectives to the one youre used too(blue pill vs red pill vs purple pill/female vs male etc)? Perhaps my post is too personal but Im sure there are other men like me who face similar problems, and who will need different perspectives to find the right balance. Im sure there are ways to change the OP to make it less personal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 11:33 AM |
| 1 | How do men with low sexual libidos or have a sexuality closer to the archetypal female sexuality cope in the modern dating paradigm?how do I change the post to make it allowable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 11:24 AM |
| 1 | How do men with low sexual libidos or have a sexuality closer to the archetypal female sexuality cope in the modern dating paradigm?Im moderately muscular due to the work I do(Im studying whilst working at a meat processing factory, pushing nearly half a ton of beef carcass across extensive railing network all day), and Im a bit of a fitness freak(Im a weekend rower), so I dont think I have test deficiency or else I would have noticed. But yes, for a time being, I did think I was gay until I did have "an experience" with an older gayer friend, and I quickly realised I was not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 11:01 AM |
| 1 | How do men with low sexual libidos or have a sexuality closer to the archetypal female sexuality cope in the modern dating paradigm?Got it. fixed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Are most older single women happy about their choices?Alone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/20 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Are most older single women happy about their choices?Oh ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Are most older single women happy about their choices?Either way, I don’t think my sisters would want to be single mother by choice even if my mother would approve of them using a sperm bank to have children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Are most older single women happy about their choices?Ethiopian Armenian | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Are most older single women happy about their choices?We were raised to believe that children should be raised by both mother and father. We all experienced what it was like without having a father around with the passing of our own father. It wasn’t a great experience and led to many of us having severe mental health problems later on. My mother and family, including my otherwise very culturally western oriented sisters are against the narrative that children can do fine without a stable father figure. We are all vehemently against single motherho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 08:05 PM |
| 2 | Are most older single women happy about their choices?37 and 33 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 07:40 PM |
| 0 | Are most older single women happy about their choices?My mother actually cares less about the fact that my sisters don’t have husbands and more about the childlessness of my sisters. My mother was a single mother for most of my youth due to the passing of my father at an early age, and she said that a kid can occupy your time and make your life meaningful more than a husband ever could. Unfortunately or perhaps fortunately, single motherhood is immensely frowned upon in our family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Are most older single women happy about their choices?I don’t think you’ve ever experienced what it’s like to be the oldest male in a mildly conservative but at the same time laissez faire immigrant family, where you’re blamed for not “steering your sisters correctly to the right life path” because you’re the oldest man in the house. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Are most older single women happy about their choices?One of my single sister is a doctor, the other is broke and travels a lot. My female cousins have largely follower their father/my uncle into the medical profession but half of them are in mediocre 9 to 5 jobs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 07:16 PM |
| 2 | Is height a source of asymmetry between men and women?I agree. There’s probably more pressure on height for men when it comes to sexual selection than any other factor. Short guys have it tough, heck I’m 5 foot 11 and I hate my height. I can’t imagine what those who are under 5 foot 9 feel. I think there’s a reason why each generation gets significantly taller despite levels of nutrition either staying the same or in some parts of the US, it’s getting worse. Women are increasingly leaving out a significant proportion of men who are below average in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Why do guys not want relationships as much as women?Personally right now, relationships are just too much effort, especially when I’m going through a mini mental health crisis I don’t like talking about with anyone other than my psychologist but which requires me to put double the effort in seeming normal/ masculine”/confident to women who are turned off by men with cracks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 03:02 PM |
| 6 | What would you do if your partner wanted you to fulfil the dominant role in bed or do a sex act to him that would be considered submissive?This. This right here! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 09:37 PM |
| 2 | What would you do if your partner wanted you to fulfil the dominant role in bed or do a sex act to him that would be considered submissive?It takes practice and dedication to the art and good communication skills. That’s rare, especially when femdom is taboo. It isn’t inherently degrading, but those who aren’t well versed in the art of female domination can often make the mistake of thinking that degrading someone is the only type of domination. There are different types of domination in any sexual relationship which doesn’t involve degrading the sub party. Just as here are male lovers who are capable of dominating their woman with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 09:20 PM |
| 2 | What would you do if your partner wanted you to fulfil the dominant role in bed or do a sex act to him that would be considered submissive?I agree with your sentiments when it comes to degrading acts. Your partner is a lucky man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 09:13 PM |
| 2 | What would you do if your partner wanted you to fulfil the dominant role in bed or do a sex act to him that would be considered submissive?Fair enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 09:09 PM |
| 2 | What would you do if your partner wanted you to fulfil the dominant role in bed or do a sex act to him that would be considered submissive?Nah, there’s a line,. Not all femdom is degrading. If you’re someone easily offended or with a sensitive ego, most femdom would be degrading. But I guess there needs to be understanding between both parties that you don’t cross a line. Communication is very important so you don’t cross that line. Also femdom includes everything between the female party fulfilling the role of dominant which isn’t degrading at all to all that bdsm crap that can be very degrading. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 09:03 PM |
| 3 | What would you do if your partner wanted you to fulfil the dominant role in bed or do a sex act to him that would be considered submissive?I’ve always had these fantasies even when I was younger and didn’t have much exposure to porn though. My first sexual dream was me being sent to a school principal office for doing something bad and getting suffocated by the breasts of the busty school principal in question as punishment. That was when I experienced my first full on erection, which lasted for at least half a day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 08:59 PM |
| 2 | What would you do if your partner wanted you to fulfil the dominant role in bed or do a sex act to him that would be considered submissive?I’m friends with a few escorts who specialise in femdom and you’d be surprised how many straight masculine guys in successful LTR relationships or marriages use discrete escorts to live out their kinks. The rarity of women who know how to do femdom properly without it being overly degrading that it’ll hurt a mans sense of self respect and who aren’t totally turned off by their kinks is so small that for many men, escorts are the only way they can express this side of their sexuality, unfortunate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 08:38 PM |
| 3 | What would you do if your partner wanted you to fulfil the dominant role in bed or do a sex act to him that would be considered submissive?Alright ignore that. But the rest is pretty vanilla | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 08:04 PM |
| 4 | What would you do if your partner wanted you to fulfil the dominant role in bed or do a sex act to him that would be considered submissive?Well, dominatrix are a bit of an overkill in this situation. I’m not saying bdsm extreme stuff...Im talking about vanilla femdom stuff like the female just taking a leading role in sex, maybe even some strap on sex? Face sitting, Role playing, having Sexual aggression that is greater than her partners. Not whips, painful contraptions, degrading treatment or penis chastity cages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 07:52 PM |
| 11 | Men or women, who generally overestimates their value more?For LTR relationships, women. For casual sex, Men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 07:18 PM |
| 5 | Anti-pornography and anti-prostitution are anti-male pushbacks.Most men arent into that stuff though. Countless of studies have shown that the average man has vanilla tastes in porn. Also prostate play would give men the impression of what is needed to be done to get someone ready for anal. Make prostate play more popular if you want men to properly know how to warm up women for anal. The problem is, once men start putting things up their butholes, they’ll realise why the gays love it so much. Lots of women will need to get their strap on and prostate play … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Anti-pornography and anti-prostitution are anti-male pushbacks.Depends on the porn doe. Personally, I can’t stand most hetero porn and I prefer female friendly lesbian/lezdom porn where touching and foreplay are important. Lesbian doms have taught me a shit ton of things when it comes to sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 06:44 PM |
| 7 | Why do weeb Red Pillers fetishize Japan and Korea when these countries have many of the problems they complain about?They’re hankering to get with their sperm though. https://www.scmp.com/lifestyle/health-wellness/article/3041258/wealthy-single-chinese-women-choosing-white-sperm-donors Aa a swarthy middle easterner who doesn’t like to prop up white male ego, even I can’t even pretend to not see that large swathes of women from the global south and East Asia worships white men like no tomorrow. Until another non white culture succeeds in cultural imperialism and defining beauty standards according to their own … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Why do weeb Red Pillers fetishize Japan and Korea when these countries have many of the problems they complain about?Please stop pretending there’s any similarities between the relatively progressive west and Asian patriarchies like Japan. Don’t get wrong, the west isn’t perfect but it is far better than east Asia. Your complaints stems far more from the fact that a capitalist system where labour is a commodity, the conditions don’t suit women who may want to have far more flexibility or a less cut throat predatory workplace environment , where these kinds of behaviours are incentivised. It’s less about the ro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 01:37 PM |
| 22 | Why do weeb Red Pillers fetishize Japan and Korea when these countries have many of the problems they complain about?There’s also widespread sexism and patriarchal beliefs about women who work past a certain age in Japan. By necessity, women in Japan must find a primary breadwinner because Japanese society does not treat working women past a certain age well and they have significantly less career opportunities than men in the same age range. There’s even been scandals in Tokyo universities where female students taking the entrance exams for medicine were scored far more harshly than men, in order to skew the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 11:47 AM |
| 6 | Women Overtake Men as Majority of U.S. Workforce - How will it impact dating and long term relationship prospects?With the knowledge economy and wealth inequality exacerbating the employment opportunity and medium income gender gap stemming from the fact that men tend to populate the extreme ends of the IQ bell curve, whilst women are more towards the middle, I think we are going to see huge changes to the institution of marriage and dating culture. Longterm Monogamy will be dead within a generation, whilst serial monogamy with a minority of high status men who are recycled by multiple women in their lifeti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 11:39 AM |
| 3 | If a woman is rejected by an attractive male, she becomes more bitter towards an accepting male who is unattractive or of low status.No, the equivalent would be a fat guy or an ugly guy criticising women who are fat. But if you’re talking healthy guys shaming fat girls for being unhealthy, that’s not the same. Female Obesity has pretty much warped the SMP, where now being just a healthy weight as a woman would make her above average. Now healthy average guys are being pressured by the nature of the SMP to fuck fat girls, because fat girls are just everywhere, especially as you get older and healthy women are seeing their SMV … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 04:07 PM |
| 3 | Men don’t acknowledge that there are women who men don’t notice out there. In fact, these women are most likely the majority.Stacy is destroying western civilisation! We need to stop her before more homely looking but decent women turn to cats for affection and are trapped in a long sequence of romantically fulfilling daydreams fostered by decades of reading Jane Austen romance novels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 03:36 PM |
| 10 | Men don’t acknowledge that there are women who men don’t notice out there. In fact, these women are most likely the majority.Why not approach and start friendly conversations with men if you feel this way? Most women don’t feel the way you do, and wouldn’t want random men to bother them unless they’re in a social setting. So now most decent men have gotten the message that women don’t want to be bothered unless they’re in a a club or a bar or they’re super attractive. For women like yourself, you’ll just have to face the reality that you’re a minority and you have to do more approaching to get what you want since a lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 08:14 AM |
| 7 | Men don’t acknowledge that there are women who men don’t notice out there. In fact, these women are most likely the majority.The problem is that OP, you may feel this way, but many women don’t. Many women don’t want to engage in needless conversation or small talk with random men, especially if they’re not attractive. A lot of women also suffer from resting bitchface syndrome, where their baseline facial expression evokes hostility and indifference to those who have the unfortunate luck of crossing eyes with them, even if they don’t feel this way themselves. Men already get not so subtle hints that most women don’t wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 07:55 AM |
| 5 | Q4 men - do your significant others actually serve as therapists? not a shit postEvery time I could feel the respect and attraction dwindle. This is a thing. Women probably don’t even realize it’s happening, but they are 100% sexually repulsed by a man showing weakness or helplessness. Even for a moment. This is one of those things guys refer to when they claim to have been “lied to” by society. The message that men should “share their feelings with women more” is absolute bullshit gaslighting. Meanwhile, “if you can’t handle her at her worst, you don’t deserve her at her be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/20 06:00 AM |
| 5 | Q4 men - do your significant others actually serve as therapists? not a shit postWhen I was in a relationship, I seldom told my partner some of my many emotional issues stemming from an abusive childhood, and when I did, it usually backfired. No, I learnt my lesson earlier on that being vulnerable is an extreme liability for a man. When I go through depression, I usually stay out of relationships as much as I can. The problem is these days, those depressive episodes can now last years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/20 05:45 AM |
| 5 | "Porn featuring violence against women is far more popular among women than men. The rate at which women watch violent porn is roughly the same in every part of the world. It isn’t correlated with how women are treated."I think this is partly why a lot of women find “Nice guys” unattractive, even those who are legitimately nice and aren’t just putting up a facade to fuck them. They can’t be themselves when they’re with men who only see the best in women. They can’t admit that they have dark impulses that kind of contradicts the whole Women are wonderful and morally superior narrative that so many have just accepted unquestioned. Being with truly nice guys can be suffocating when you like getting mistreated duri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/20 09:23 PM |
| 3 | "Porn featuring violence against women is far more popular among women than men. The rate at which women watch violent porn is roughly the same in every part of the world. It isn’t correlated with how women are treated."Feminists who cry rape culture suffer from the same self projection as progressive Hollywood actors and directors crying about Toxuc Masculinity or some other morality issue whilst they use their power take advantage of or are complicit in the abuse of powerless subordinates. You’d be surprised how common it is that people who accuse others of doing something without proof are usually guilty of doing that exact thing. If someone claims something problematic is rampant without actual concrete pro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/20 09:07 PM |
| 3 | "Porn featuring violence against women is far more popular among women than men. The rate at which women watch violent porn is roughly the same in every part of the world. It isn’t correlated with how women are treated."If someone as talented as Herzog directed a string of pornos, I’d probably be willing to pay for it instead of pirating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/20 08:43 PM |
| 8 | "Porn featuring violence against women is far more popular among women than men. The rate at which women watch violent porn is roughly the same in every part of the world. It isn’t correlated with how women are treated."Lesbian porn features better acting, storylines, plots, and taboo subjects that are relatable to a lot of women compared to straight porn. Context is important in a lot of lesbian porn too. I enjoy Lesbian femdom porn, far more than straight or gay porn and I’m a straight man. Most straight porn is just suck cock, jackhammer dick into pussy, cunnilungus, then facial/Pearl necklace or some variation of that. It’s too focused on the sexual act and the context or story doesn’t matter as much. The a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/20 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Its perfectly reasonable for women to be selective when using OLD.They do do it, but I don’t think they enjoy it as much according to a few women I know. I don’t do much casual sex and I’ve only been in LTRs so this is just hearsay. Personally, I’m a tiny bit neurotic and self conscience and I don’t enjoy random sexual encounters to the extent as I’d enjoy sex in a committed relationship. The average woman is far more neurotic than me, and doesn’t have a male sexual libido which makes orgasming easier. So I just assume random hook ups rarely results in the gir… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/20 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Its perfectly reasonable for women to be selective when using OLD.It’s not about rejecting women with high n count but the fact that a lot of men seem to believe m that women with high N counts don’t deserve longterm commitment. Resentful guys who arent total unattractive incels or men who are used to polyamory aare just gonna be even less loyal to their partners as they are today. Beggars can’t be choosers but under this incredibly transactional and brutal relationship/sexual free market, less men would find reason to stick to one woman, especially when oppor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/20 02:53 PM |
| 11 | Its perfectly reasonable for women to be selective when using OLD.Most women don’t do random hookups since the sex is rarely ever satisfying. When women say casual sex, it’s usually fwb scenarios where they fuck a few “proven” guys who know how to satisfy them and know wtheir sexual quirks and who they know aren’t creeps. Most casual sex are fwb. Women on tinder looking for casual sex are pretty much trying to recruit a man who could become a future booty call so they don’t have to go on Tinder every time they want an itch scratched. Even most sexually success… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/20 02:32 PM |
| 20 | Its perfectly reasonable for women to be selective when using OLD.Its understandable. Most guys will just have to get used to the fact that many women have an abundance of options for casual sex, and they’ll have to work harder to get matches. As we are seeing with zoomer guys bodybuilding and doing steroids and becoming redpilled, many guys eventually adapt, even if society is still thinks the dating paradigm is stuck in the early 2000s. The only problem I have is that a lot of women who initially do enjoy the attention and the casual sex/short term relations… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/20 01:39 PM |
| 2 | What are your predictions for sex and gender issues in the 2020s?Already did🤡 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/20 11:48 AM |
| 1 | What are your predictions for sex and gender issues in the 2020s?what happenes to them when they get old? They do what most divorced or widowed older women already do;refocus their energy on cultivating community based social networks and being more apart of their children’s lives. They have way better options than the average single man. There will be less single women dying of grief than single childless men. if more men drop out and stop working or spending so much where is the government going to get the tax money from to support these women? They’ll be t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/20 10:36 AM |
| 2 | Anti Feminists on the Internet are Just Convincing Women to be Pink Pilled or FDS.Lol. In most YouTube videos, less than 1 percent of total viewers end up commenting. There are some videos with hundreds of millions of views yet only a few thousand comments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/20 08:23 PM |
| 0 | Anti Feminists on the Internet are Just Convincing Women to be Pink Pilled or FDS.According to some, the altright are all over the internet. Does that mean half your family are secret white supremacists? Unless you visit certain hubs(4Chan, YouTube comments, some subreddit) you will rarely meet these lowlifes. Most are just trolls looking for a reaction, the internet doesn’t represent the real world. Some people spend their whole youths trying to get their respective social movements viral. 1 percent of internet users are responsible for 99 percent of the content. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/20 08:18 PM |
| 3 | Anti Feminists on the Internet are Just Convincing Women to be Pink Pilled or FDS.Women who actively search for social media spaces where misogynists congregate to spout their unoriginal vitriol have probably already made up their mind, and merely sought those spaces to give themselves a socially acceptable reason to embrace the pink pill. Any woman with any sense will know those kinds of guys constitute a fraction of the male population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/20 08:11 PM |
| 2 | Be in touch with your masculinity if you desire feminine women, vice versa.And they get resentful of the fact, which can lead to passive aggressive behaviour.. Trust me, I know from personal experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/20 07:34 PM |
| 10 | Be in touch with your masculinity if you desire feminine women, vice versa.Yep, as an egalitarian non masculine guy who actually wants to date dominant or non feminine women, I can confirm that it doesn’t matter how you approach your own masculinity in the hope of attracting certain types of women, most women who are more dominant/masculine than average prefer guys who are even more masculine. Men in my experience don’t have much moving space when it comes to embracing alternative gender roles and acceptable behaviours without heavy social penalties in the dating world… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/20 07:24 PM |
| 4 | What are your predictions for sex and gender issues in the 2020s?I think sexually frustrated disenfranchised white men will become an even bigger factor in politics. The rich/right will probably exploits these men fear of becoming even more redundant as mates by instilling fear of feminist led welfare expansion that would give more working class and middle class women the chance to comfortably raise children without fathers, by expanding single mother assistance to include basic income for mothers. There might be a few more massacres and terrorist attacks com… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/20 03:43 PM |
| 0 | What are your predictions for sex and gender issues in the 2020s?Exactly. Sex robots would probably be more appropriate in a 2030s prediction thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/20 03:26 PM |
| 3 | How long will it take for Polite society to realise that we are undergoing another sexual revolution which will upend nearly all previous sexual and relationship norms...Why does your post always fill me with dread? I completely agree with you. The future isn’t gonna be kind to most mediocre men. It’s why I think well informed but self interested women and elite men don’t want to talk about the current trajectory we are heading for when it comes to dating or why it’s taboo to discuss these things. They’ve got most gain from the average beta males ignorance about their increasing disposability in a post welfare state/secured employment society, especially pertain… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/20 07:11 AM |
| 10 | CMV: Women are right to select for "Chad" even when it's just a ONS because low value men like those found in TRP are more trouble than they are worth.Yep, I have a lot of female cousins under the age of 25 who are active in the dating game and that’s pretty much their operandi modus. I think young women are far more ahead than young men when it comes to embracing non monogamous but unstable relationships that suits their sexual imperative. Although many do start to care and embrace some sort of pseudo monogamy when their looks fade and they want to have a responsible longterm partner for raising a family. Although even then, many women I know… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/20 03:42 AM |
| 0 | [Q4W] In what areas do you expect the man to treat you equally and where do expect dominance?I’m not a submissive perse, but I’m also not a dominant either. It’d be hard to put me in a box. I sometimes like dominating, sometimes I want my partner to take control. Taking control and being the dominant party in sex doesn’t always mean degrading that person. It means taking the initiative in sex and being the active party. It also means acting aggressively, and doing whatever you can to get that person off. Sometimes that entails some role playing as a dom to that partner. . Lots of guys l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/19 04:42 PM |
| 2 | [Q4W] In what areas do you expect the man to treat you equally and where do expect dominance?Hey, sometimes guys wanna be Desired and lose control too? Personally, I prefer sex where both partners spontaneously switch roles, and experience both submission and domination in a session. That’s great sex to me. I don’t want to always be in control. It gets tiring and predictable. I’m friends with a high tier escort dominatrix/mistresses who does femdom sex for a high price and has a ton of networks in the femdom escorting game. Youd be surprised the kind of guys who are attracted to femdom.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/19 04:24 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] In what areas do you expect the man to treat you equally and where do expect dominance?Lol. As a guy who sometimes like have femdom sex and be dominated by a woman, this thread is a little disheartening. Does anyone here have any sexual inclinations for guys who like to switch roles during sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/19 04:03 PM |
| 3 | TRP has done innumerable harm to womenLol. I doubt the TRP or FDS has had measurable influence on the general population. Most are fringe groups, who attract certain types of people who aren’t representative of most women and men. It’s cute how TRP and FDS folks think they somehow have control of the dating cultural zeitgeist. Delusions of Grandeur much? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/19 12:00 PM |
| 8 | How do you treat an ugly woman in comparison to a pretty woman?Pretty much this. It’s easier to relax and chill with an uggo than with a hottie, who’s probably used of men treating her a certain way. You have to walk on egg shells with a lot of attractive women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/19 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Study: Men who do more housework have less sexWell in that case they’ll both be impoverished. I maintain my argument from the other comment that most women in traditional breadwinner/housewife arrangements tend to have wealthier husbands where divorce can be lucrative for women. But even in those cases, the mere fact that divorce can mean poverty for both parties means women can operate under a MAD doctrine, where she can threaten divorce if she doesn’t get her way, and destroy her husband and perhaps her own future in the process. And she … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/19 03:21 PM |
| -2 | Study: Men who do more housework have less sexI’d agree if you were talking about traditional marriages in conservative patriarchal societies where husbands bending women’s will is seen as tantamount to the stability of a marriage and where institutions exists to merely disenfranchise women. But this is the west we are talking, where most women who are in these arrangements and aren’t from some backward migrant enclave choose to to be in these kinds of relationships. Progressive feminist Divorce, alimony, Spousal abuse and inheritance laws … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/19 03:00 PM |
| 2 | Study: Men who do more housework have less sexOK...If you’ve seen my posts, you’d know that I’m the opposite of a traditionalist and It would be my dream if women weren’t so intent on judging men according to performative masculine ideals, where being rich, dominant and masculine is the pinnacle of what a high value man is to a lot of women. But alas, I can’t control nature or the vast majority of hetero women and I’ll just have to accept my fortunes in life . Your comment doesn’t really properly address the study, and you seem pissed so I’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/19 02:42 PM |
| 5 | Study: Men who do more housework have less sexWhat an odd argument. Most of these women who partook in these kinds of studies have enough backbone to admit things on paper about their sex lives, especially when most of these studies are confidential and none of their husbands will know what their wives admitted to some random research student or survey. Western tradcons and traditional couples aren’t religious zealots or sexual Puritan where women feel the need to repress their true feelings about their sex lives or else face the consequenc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/19 12:44 PM |
| 12 | Study: Men who do more housework have less sexCould it be that wives in traditional marriages where the division of labour are along more traditional lines(husbands breadwinner/housewives), husbands tend to be far more wealthier than the average man which would make these kinds of arrangements possible? Women married to richer men have shown to have more orgasms and satisfying sex than women married to men who earned similar wages. Women married to men that earned similar wages tend to be in relationships where the power dynamic is far more… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/19 11:24 AM |
| 0 | The dilemma of the repressed non Natural ManI’ve been friends with gay men since my uni days, so I call bullshit on the claim that most gay men have as much affinity for masculine men as the average woman. There’s ofcourse a type of gay man who wants masculine men, but there are gay men who also want egalitarian partners and non dominants. And you’re pretending that the extremes in the spectrum of effeminate behaviour like the queens are representative of non dominant guys when that’s not the case. I’m not dominant but I’m not so submissi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/19 07:28 PM |
| 2 | The dilemma of the repressed non Natural ManYah, but there’s also tons of gay men who are tolerant of different expressions of masculinity. Im not saying gay men are perfect, just that they’re better at accepting different models of masculinity than women. Some of those jacked gay men have no problem being in touch with their emotional side and having holistic approaches to masculinity. Lifting is just apart of self care regime. Although yes, there are tradcon gays too. Bisexuals seem like they the best of both world, so I’ll admit that i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/19 05:41 PM |
| 2 | The dilemma of the repressed non Natural ManGood luck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/19 04:13 PM |
| 2 | The dilemma of the repressed non Natural ManAs I say, they certainly exist. But they know how to hide themselves, just like gay men before the LGBTQ revolution hid their behaviour for thousands of years at the threat of death in many cultures. Men are great at adapting to masculine norms that socuety and women demand they conform to at the threat of alienation, but they do feel repressed and this can manifest itself in destructive behaviour. Feminists are right that all this repression is causing men to have psychological and anger proble… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/19 04:11 PM |
| 2 | The dilemma of the repressed non Natural ManAnd lots of animals and some men from barbaric cultures kill the children of their mates previous partners before they impregnate them through rape. What’s your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/19 03:57 PM |
| 3 | The dilemma of the repressed non Natural ManProbably. I think many of them are guys who feeling so miserable that they do think it’s a preferable to chop off their dicks and larp as a woman than face another day as a man. I don’t think I’ll ever reach those levels of despairs, and I like my parts too much to desecrate them. Many of them will just regret becoming trans eventually and their despair will be far worse than any man who hates the expectations that society and women impose on them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/19 03:51 PM |
| 4 | The dilemma of the repressed non Natural ManI don’t know man, I used to be as hopeful as you. But as I dated a few women who told me I didn’t need to behave like some masculine trope to be a great partner eventually held it against me that I wasn’t conforming. A few toxic relationships later and I’m starting to think that perhaps there are rare women like myself who have equal disdain for male gender roles and expectations as they do for their own, but they’re either taken or are so rare that’ll it’ll take my heart being broken countless … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/19 03:46 PM |
| -1 | The dilemma of the repressed non Natural ManI hate that misogynistic sub...but yes, it would be MGTOWs “final solution” to the non natural problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/19 03:35 PM |
| 2 | The dilemma of the repressed non Natural ManI’m not woke or conforming to some fringe cultures conception of masculinity. I’ve always been like this, even when I was a kid. My father was a natural, my youngest brothers is a natural. I’m not like them. I have another brother who’s a bit like me. I come from a high achievement but traditional migrant family, so I have no connection to that culture. I have Armenian roots and I’m currently living in Australia . I’m not American. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/19 03:19 PM |
| 1 | The dilemma of the repressed non Natural ManHas anyone really got the gist of what I’m saying? These guys may be good with women, they may be average, they may be outright incels, but even if they succeed in having relationships, they feel repressed from performing their roles and fillfilling expectations that women impose on men or implicitly expect of men. It’s all an act, which they dont like to perform but must keep up if they want to not be alone. These guys may be great with women, but still hate the charade they have to put on to g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/19 03:03 PM |
| 1 | The dilemma of the repressed non Natural ManBut these men probably outnumber unattractive women. So all it’ll do is create demand for tolerant unattractive women. And even Unattractive women still have standards when it comes to men behaving like men. Unattractive women are as turned off by submissive/non dominant or passive but average looking guys as the average woman. She’ll tolerate if it means dating above her pay grade, but I don’t think these relationships would be entirely fulfilling for anyone, unless she’s that rare woman who is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/19 02:57 PM |
| 3 | The dilemma of the repressed non Natural ManAnd if being your real self hasn’t penalised you in dating and has in fact rewarded you with opportunities with women, then you’re a natural. These guys can have sex, but it means putting on a face and lying to women when it comes to who they really are. It means putting on a facade, in order to pass the threshold of attractiveness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/19 02:53 PM |
| 5 | Would men be happier if women were more like gay men?In some ways, yes, in other ways, no. I’ve been friends with gay men for nearly 5 years and one thing that’s great about their relationships is that it truly can be egalitarian. Gay guys can talk about their feelings with their partners and there’s hardly any judgement, which is probably why gay men are far more emotionally healthy and open when compared to the average man. Gender roles are flexible too, and no ones strictly imposing what a man should be in these relationships, unless they’ve in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/19 12:39 PM |
| 2 | Yep, Porn is misogyny, and," men who watch rough porn are just trying to fulfill their need to rape. " I guess the women are searching up rough porn to make themselves feel better.Just like their fancy salads, women want their porn to be made locally too....Something something ethical. | /r/MensRights | 27/12/19 04:53 PM |
| 1 | For straight, non-deformed people... I do believe that there is "someone" for everyoneTell that to the 60 percent of men and 20 percent of women during much of history who didn’t have the chance to pass on their genes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/19 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Has this sub actually changed anyone's mind?I moved from red to very dark purple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/19 03:06 AM |
| 2 | [CMV] A man should not discuss his negative emotions with a woman other than his mother, his sister or his wife.I almost agreed till you mentioned wife. Never tell your wife anything that undermines your perceived ability to perform your role or behave “masculinely”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/19 06:00 AM |
| 7 | Why do quite many red pillers seem incapable to love?Or loses too many Masculine tokens by having bouts of depression resulting from a shitty childhood . I’ve been ghosted three times by women when I started to be overwhelmed by depression. Many women know how to separate their emotions and act brutally for their self interests in a relationships, why can’t men? I’ve yet to see my sisters have relationship problems due to their mental health problems, many of them are still married to great guys despite having as worse mental health problems as me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/19 04:28 AM |
| 7 | Why do quite many red pillers seem incapable to love?I don’t understand this comparison. It’s a major purple pill lesson that most relationships are transactional, and that if you’re not bringing something to the table and performing your roles, you’ll get sidelined for another guy or ditched. Redpill guys are simply those who are aware of the transaction and think the transaction isn’t worthy it. No ones selfless and love always comes with conditions. Most women know how to play the game better than the average blue pilled man and they know how t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/19 04:06 AM |
| 12 | Women push men to adhere to typical Male stereotypes more than other men do.Can you tell me the ways in which men collectively enable or promote socially powerfully gender identitarian movements that tells women that traditional femininity and gendered behaviour is harmful and outdated, whilst at the same time enforcing those same “outdated” and “toxic” female gender norms in their personal lives? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/19 02:27 AM |
| 13 | Women push men to adhere to typical Male stereotypes more than other men do.Im laughing at the hamster wheeling in this thread. I mean no ones is saying men don’t contribute to the enforcement of male gender roles and expectations that may have a toxic aspect to it, but most women definitely do enforce a narrow range of acceptable behaviour from men. And women are far more influential when it comes to incentivising such behaviour, because most men will do anything to better their chances of getting laid or having relationships , even if it means embracing some restricti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/19 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Are relationships just suffering and a constant battle for power?In my previous relationships, I was usually ok with a little shit tests...if it doesn’t go too far or she does them when I’m not in a fragile state of mind. Guys who suffer from moments of emotional fragility , know what Im talking about when I say shit tests can really make already stressful situations worse. You’re trying to make things work, hold things together and make her happy, then you’ve got your SO making you feel less of a man or anxious by constantly testing your boundaries. And even… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/19 03:28 PM |
| 1 | ‘The Wall’By far the most overrated Pink Floyd album | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/19 01:09 PM |
| 3 | [Q4All] Would someone please explain 'masculinity tokens'I’d include in doing unmasculine things as having emotional issues, illness or anything that would impede your ability to perform your masculine roles. If you’re depressed or having moments of mental fragility (and visibly so), injuries that leave you partially disabled etc, you get a red card in the minds of many women, and unless you’re great at hiding problems, no amount of accumulating masculine tokens can compensate for your failure of being a man . So hide yourself and lick your wounds bef… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/19 07:55 AM |
| 3 | The people on here are hypocritical when they say women only want chadOr you know, hot young prostitutes. If you’re that desperate, start getting to know a few escorts and then stick with the one that is great for your needs. I’m going through severe mental health problem right now so dating is out of the question for me, but I’m not sexually deprived because I choose to have mediocre but thirst quenching sex with a great escort that I’ve known for a few years. Guys like yourselves don’t need to lower your standards to zero, and enable these disgusting low impulse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/19 04:20 AM |
| 6 | The people on here are hypocritical when they say women only want chadI rarely challenge this notion of men wanting to fuck anything that moves, but in my own personal life and the personal lives of men I know, this certainly doesn’t ring true. I think a certain type of immature low self esteem man who measures his worth according to many girls he can bed are more likely to have pretty low standards, because fucking these girls are less about sexual pleasure and more about bragging about how much of a player you are that you’ve managed to bed 100 women by dropping… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/19 08:33 AM |
| 4 | Everybody is wrong here.It’s ruinous to men, society, children etc. Those kinds of sexual strategies breaks up families, create bitter men who will fall prey to redpill and hyper conservative ideology and creates an even more cut throat sexual market where both genders are more disposable than ever. You could say the same about successful guys who play the polygamous/polyamorous game at the expense of women who may want to commit to a partner . A society full of atomised individuals who only think about their own dicks… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/19 04:01 AM |
| 11 | [Q4M] Why are men putting less effort in chasing women than before?So in other words, women’s priorities changes as they get older and lose the leverage they once had in their youth. Got it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/19 02:39 AM |
| 28 | [Q4M] Why are men putting less effort in chasing women than before?Because it’s tough approaching women, even when you have your shit together. A lot of men know they need to work on themselves or have issues like depression and anxiety, which makes the first few stages of dating very difficult. Most women don’t want to approach men because they don’t like rejection or the anxious feeling it gives them , what makes you think many men who arent naturals don’t feel the same way? Women want to be equal or the same as men in most aspects of life that seems to benef… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/19 02:30 AM |
| 4 | Q4RP - Can a seasoned TRP please explain the 'she won't do anal because you'require low value' notionSome women prefer doing anal with some men whilst withholding it from others because she might be more aware of her bodily limits than you. I mean, my ex girlfriend didn’t want me to do anal because I have a relatively large girth despite letting her ex hit it. Anal is painful when things go wrong. I knew a girl who is a bit of an anal sex connoisseur, and according to her, long but thin medium dicks with upward curves are great for anal. But anything with a girth larger than a small toilet roll… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/19 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Emotional labour in the context of a toxic masculinity crisisFair enough. It’s always the hardest to resist sunken cost fallacy in relationships. But, yes, most healthy women do leave these toxic relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/19 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Emotional labour in the context of a toxic masculinity crisisBut in my experience, these women tend to not be the norm and have their own problems like crippling low self esteem and severe mental health problems. Most assertive and healthy women enjoy being emotionally open with their partners, to a certain extent of course. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/19 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Do men care about women's feelings?It sounds like read my recent thread, where some of the PPD girls and guys were saying that a guy caring for a girl isn’t very attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/19 11:05 AM |
| 2 | Do men care about women's feelings?It depends on the person and the severity of their issues. No to mention how they’ve treated me in the past. There are some women who are a tad bit neurotic and just want to find something to be bothered about. I’ll give some comfort but Im not going to bother myself too much trying to placate them or else I’ll be spending my free time having hugs and shit. And I’ll just be enabling them. There are others who are less likely to bother me, and when they do raise an issue, I know it’s serious and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/19 10:51 AM |
| 11 | Women actually love red-pilled lyrics.I don’t know how women do it. Even if you say you only listen to the beats, you’ll still hear some blatantly misogynistic shit when you’re deep into it. If Nicki Minaj said half the things rappers say about women, but to men, I would find it hard to listen to her music. I guess I understand how some feminists seem to think many women have internalised misogyny issues. Personally, even as a POC guy, I’ve stopped subscribing to hip hop culture for this reason. I personally find it embarrassing tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/19 06:31 AM |
| 2 | Emotional labour in the context of a toxic masculinity crisisI think you’re in denial, if you think this is the norm. Most women want their man to care and be able to emotionally confide to them, to a certain extent. Most relationships where a women’s emotional needs are neglected don’t tend to last long. It’s a common trope. I get the feeling you know this, but continue to pretend otherwise because it’s convenient In this discussion to pretend that women are as demanding on their men as men are when it comes to emotional support. Try to write longer sent… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/19 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Emotional labour in the context of a toxic masculinity crisisSo emotional labour overload has many sources and causes. Yet why do men who women are romantically involved with continue to get blamed on society for many of women’s own self imposed expectations towards those in their family and social circles, especially when a lot of men are admitting to feeling emotionally repressed in relationships? And a lot of these these complaints sound like the they come from women who have reached middle age with children and are responsible for holding their family… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/19 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Emotional labour in the context of a toxic masculinity crisisI don’t know about that. Dead bedrooms have many causes as I understand. My brother is a hit with a lot of women and he plays the sympathetic tortured artist well. You sound just like my oldest sister who has a thing for emotionally distant men as well, but she suffers from deep seated self esteem issues. I don’t think you’re going to find many women who will agree with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/19 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Emotional labour in the context of a toxic masculinity crisisI don’t think this is a common thing. Perhaps in your relationship with your husband, you’re both fiercely emotionally reserved, which I guess works for you guys. But I’ve known my aunts, my sisters, my girlfriends, my female friends who would emotionally confide to their partners. I guess you’re a bit like my oldest sister, who’s a bit reserved herself compared to a lot of women I know. I definitely don’t see this as a common thing among many women I know. Have you always been like this, or doe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/19 05:17 AM |
| 3 | Emotional labour in the context of a toxic masculinity crisisAttractive doesn’t equal emotionally neglectful though. Unless you’re talking about attractive in demeanour to you. I know a lot of guys, like my brother who would be considered very attractive but who are also decent guys with empathy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/19 05:10 AM |
| 1 | Emotional labour in the context of a toxic masculinity crisisFair enough. If you’re talking about momentary feelz, I don’t have time for that too. I was talking about shitty problems some women have, which does affect their lives. I grew up in a dysfunctional home where I took care of my sisters, and a few of them suffered from severe mental health problems which I continue to help them out with. I keep forgetting that the average woman who has problems don’t really have significant issues. Most of them just suffer from momentary feelz. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/19 05:04 AM |
| 0 | Emotional labour in the context of a toxic masculinity crisisMaybe you need to get introspective to understand why you keep falling for guys who neglect your emotional needs? This isn’t normal for most well adjusted guys to behave. Some people are just attracted to dysfunctional hurtful people and unless you understand why, you will keep making the same mistake of committing to those who don’t deserve your love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/19 04:40 AM |
| 2 | Emotional labour in the context of a toxic masculinity crisisWell that’s more of a problem of toxic relationships than emotional labour. I don’t think most women who complain about emotional labour are in abusive relationships with tools. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/19 04:35 AM |
| 0 | Emotional labour in the context of a toxic masculinity crisisWell unfortunately many women seem to blame men their romantically paired with, for the expectations they hold themselves hostage to when it comes to the wellbeing of most people in their social and family circles. When men are feeling emotionally repressed, and yet they’re being blame for a lot of women’s emotional burdens which has other causes , it does evoke confusion from these men. Most guys here are young, like myself and we aren’t married to women who have these responsibilities, so we a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/19 04:32 AM |
| 2 | Emotional labour in the context of a toxic masculinity crisisSounds like you have a thing for arseholes. Most men, who are betas like myself are concerned about the emotional state of their SO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/19 04:24 AM |
| 2 | Emotional labour in the context of a toxic masculinity crisisWell this is mainly in the context of relationships, which many women complain about. I’m sure these factors do impact emotional labour for the average woman, but you can also draw parallels to how men are expected to be a beacon of confidence, Charisma and competence to be taken seriously in the workplace and how that affects men who arent naturally confident Alpha males who are often overlooked for promotions, even if they have the credentials. Trust me, as someone who isn’t very naturally con… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/19 04:16 AM |
| 2 | Emotional labour in the context of a toxic masculinity crisisFair enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/19 04:08 AM |
| 2 | Emotional labour in the context of a toxic masculinity crisisI’m just highlighting one of the main support channels many women in ltrs use to get emotional support, which you didn’t include in your initial post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/19 04:06 AM |
| -2 | Emotional labour in the context of a toxic masculinity crisisYeah, that’s just unpaid housework. Nothing to do with emotionally handling someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/19 03:57 AM |
| 2 | Emotional labour in the context of a toxic masculinity crisisYou guys also use men as your shoulder to cry on, unless you’re dating an arsehole or you’re a tough gal. Many men I know feel good when we can bear your problems and hopefully fix them. We aren’t like women. When my younger sister or ex gf had a problem with something, I was always there to fix it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/19 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Men don't like feminine women, they like feminine LOOKING women with "masculine" energyWell, my previous oneitus was a pretty Greek girl who behaved like one of my best friends and made me constantly laugh. I’d say there’s a limit to how masculine you can be before it becomes a liability, but personally speaking, I don’t feel attracted to clingy, ultra feminine submissive women who almost always place the burden on their partners when it comes to dating, and general social interaction and behave like ornaments for their partners. I actually like women who are assertive and have a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/19 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Men who suffer from Depression or other ongoing mental health problems, how are your experiences with relationships and dating?My sister has MS and suffers bouts of depression. Yet she managed to marry a successful man who cares for her, and helps with her rehab when he isn’t working. They have 2 kids. They’ve been going 10 years strong. If he wasn’t feeling fulfilled, he would have bailed out a long time ago. It is possible for men to have fulfilling relationships with unwell women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 07:34 AM |
| 3 | Some Men Have Dead Bedrooms or Get no Sex Because They Don't Care about Women's Sexual PleasureYet these types of men don’t love these women enough that they would invest time and energy to make their partners reach climax. Sounds like this is another problem of failing to set expectations of mutual enjoyment. If your partner doesn’t value you enough that your pleasure is seen as secondary to his, maybe you should have a talk with him and not generalise men, in which many are invested in the sexual pleasure of their partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 07:04 AM |
| 1 | Men who suffer from Depression or other ongoing mental health problems, how are your experiences with relationships and dating?I usually don’t tell anyone, and I always reluctantly admitted my problems to my partners only after they notice significant changes to my behaviour. I don’t usually tell people I suffer from mental health problems if I am able to fake it. But sometimes I feel like I’m letting them down when I’m not being the fun guy I usually am, so I tell them to make them understand why Im not myself. Perhaps in the hope that they can wait it out and be with me until the blues goes away. It made sense in my h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/19 07:40 PM |
| 2 | are women uninteresting?This is true. The general rule is the level of funniness or interestingness of a woman is inversely proportional to how attractive she is. I’ve met many interesting and funny fat and unfortunate looking women, yet only a few truly funny 7+ attractive women. So if you wanna have a great conversation at a party, always talk to the fat lady. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/19 09:16 AM |
| 1 | are women uninteresting?I don’t know about boring, but there is some sociological data that hints to western women having less varied personalities than men. It’s also been observed that western men are more individualistic than western women. Although this could be more of a question of culture than biology since these behavioural trends are especially dominant in egalitarian western countries. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3612964/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/19 09:00 AM |
| 1 | South Korean Women reject dating, marriage, sex and child rearingWell you could have said the same about the likelihood of single motherhood gaining popularity in the west if you were a white young boomer of the 70s. Social norms can change very rapidly, as the LGBT movement can attest. I’m betting on east Asian feminism using the birth rates crisis that has the potential to destroy the future prospects of Asian prosperity to get big business supporting single motherhood by choice. And they could use renationalise like Norway and Israel as case examples of co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/19 04:45 AM |
| 4 | South Korean Women reject dating, marriage, sex and child rearingI Wouldn’t be surprised if East Asian New Age feminism will involve a lot of single mother by choice advocacy. It seems like a lot of East Asian women detest the average East Asian man, and East Asian men are too rigid to ever change to appeal to the average empowered East Asian women. Also, they’re seeing the same trends witnessed in the west, of East Asian women outperforming east Asian men. Considering how much of the average East Asian man fulfills the unsexy betabucks stereotype yet can’t e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/19 12:20 PM |
| 3 | Red pill dudes always seem like they’re secretly miserable and the girl’s that go for them are serial dating head casesI think where I disagree with the redpill is to the extent men must repress themselves to appeal to attractive women and find happiness. Most redpill guys whove succeeded in pulling off their RP personas arent naturally like that. And so when they find themselves in relationships with women who find them appealing due to their facade, it becomes a game of how long the man can repress his true self to maintain attraction or "frame". So ofcourse, a lot of these guys would be miserable and insecure… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 06:33 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: how can you tell if a guy is a "porn addict"?Is that why porn addiction is a sign of sex addiction for many sexually successful men? Porn addiction is an issue of impulse control moreso than being sexually unsuccessful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: how can you tell if a guy is a "porn addict"?PPD women are full of shit when they say this. How many times have women here or any where complained when the man, who they manage to find sexually appealing, are stupid enough to pull of a porn move on them and things go sideways? If unattractive men and incels were the only porn addicts around, this wouldnt be an issue. Porn is basically ubiquitous for those under 35. The only difference between young men, irrespective of their attractiveness is if theyre stupid enough to believe that porn is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 06:05 AM |
| 36 | CMV: Men need to learn to have Self-respect and self-empowerment just like women are doing. Step one? Saying NO when you realize you are merely a "backup plan" in a relationship.YAAAAAS. SLAY KANG | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 05:49 AM |
| 11 | What do you think below-average men should do?If you’re short, get your legs extended through surgery. If your face is ugly, get surgery and be discreet about it or compensate through bodybuilding and steroid use. If you have a weak beta male personality, change that. Maybe even go to the army to learn from real men how to be masculine, since you probably didn’t have a great male role model growing up or none at all. If you’re depressed due to some trauma, see a non feminised male psychologist and build yourself up. If youre stuck in a shit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/19 09:34 AM |
| 1 | The "second shift" of women doing more housework than their male partners.... why is it women take no responsibility for this?In my country where the vast majority of women marry men who outearn them, the women I know prioritise having a primary breadwinner over an egalitarian house husband. I mean, my female relatives who are married complain about their husbands not doing enough housework, but these guys are pretty much working 12 hour shifts in stressful jobs whilst they work in comfy 9 to 5 admin jobs connected to the government , where the pay is meh but the job comes with a lot of benefits that many women would a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/19 08:23 AM |
| 3 | Women watch more porn than conventional wisdom suggests.Thank god that women are into porn though. Personally, I can’t stand most jackhammer 10 inch cock into vagina, 10 minutes of fake groans then facial porn that is usually targeted to men. Female oriented porn tend to have better acting, escalation and story arcs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/19 08:02 AM |
| 4 | Do most women marry men that they are not physically attracted to?Considering the low marriage rates even among women in richer nations that don’t have the wealth inequality problems of the US and have all the right factors for a marriage boom to happen according to the average economist, like the many welfare states in Europe and Oceania, I’d say that women are increasingly withholding commitment from men they see as unattractive and not ticking all the right boxes. Many women don’t want to be in passionless marriages with productive beta males, and those lik… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 10:50 AM |
| 3 | What is the deal with porn hate?Let’s ignore data and the latest porn findings and just go with whatever you’re saying if it means it’ll validate your experience whilst failing to reflect the trends of porn watching among many men. Do you feel better now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 06:08 AM |
| 1 | If men had easy access to sex, would they be less masculine?Better thread on this topic tbh. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/d92gmz/would_more_men_pursue_alternative_models_of/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 05:07 AM |
| 5 | What is the deal with porn hate?Stress disorders and lifestyle. I know that when I was going through a major depressive episode, I couldn’t get it up. This wa during a time when I wasn’t watching as much porn as my teenage days. Now that I’m working in a physically intensive job after delaying uni, my testosterone levels are up, my stress is down, my porn watching habit is up, but my dick feels like it’s working like as if I was 14 again. Don’t discount the fact that men are facing a stress epidemic which is leading to things … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 04:31 AM |
| 4 | What is the deal with porn hate?Nope. https://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/life-and-relationships/latest-porn-statistics-are-surprising-20180424-p4zbd8.html New research published last month in the Journal of Sex Research disputes the claim that sexually aggressive porn is increasing. It also shows consumers of porn prefer videos depicting mutual pleasure to violent interactions. The researchers claim their work breaks new ground in monitoring the most watched and rated videos on PornHub and provides the only empirical evidence on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 04:25 AM |
| 5 | What is the deal with porn hate?Most men watch vanilla porn. A minority are only into that gonzo shit. https://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/life-and-relationships/latest-porn-statistics-are-surprising-20180424-p4zbd8.html New research published last month in the Journal of Sex Research disputes the claim that sexually aggressive porn is increasing. It also shows consumers of porn prefer videos depicting mutual pleasure to violent interactions. The researchers claim their work breaks new ground in monitoring the most watched and ra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 04:24 AM |
| 4 | What is the deal with porn hate?Lol. Didn’t we just had several threads by PPD women complaining that sexual attraction is non negotiable and that many women can only have satisfying non commitment sex with above average men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 04:11 AM |
| 6 | What is the deal with porn hate?I watch porn nearly every two days, and I still do well when the time comes to perform. I know it’ll horrify women like you, but Most men irrespective of their sexual value watch porn and most men don’t have porn ED. Learn to live with it girls, just like men must learn to live with your dildos and vibrators. Of course, always in moderation, as like everything. Porn ED has probably more to do with death grip than the porn itself. Teaching men how to masturbate safely would do wonders for a lot o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 03:59 AM |
| 13 | What is the deal with porn hate?Unless women put out more for the average man, porn will always exist. You’re asking to eradicate a symptom of a problem without addressing the underlining issue. A lot of Men have higher sex drives and many men don’t have the same sexual opportunities as women. Either start regulating the industry more so exploitation is less common or get more women having sex with average men. It’s far more easier to regulate the porn industry, than to coerce women to meet the sexual needs of the average man.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/19 09:53 PM |
| 2 | Why do women hate n-counts?Well, of course they’d be older. How are you supposed to quantify the state of a marriage without older couples to provide the longterm data? As millennials get older, I’m sure there will be more data from those age groups as well And as I’ve stated in my other comments, a high N count is a liability in LTR for both men and women. I’m not shaming women, just recognising the uncomfortable truth that someone who’s been around are less likely to stick around or be fulfilled in a monogamous longterm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/19 12:38 PM |
| 1 | I want to know, do men have a harder time socialising?I think men are just so much more competitive among themselves to form diverse networks of male friends. But when they do, it’s a lot more deeper. But it is a lot harder to achieve too, so many men don’t end up forming those kinds of deep platonic bonds. I think many western men are too individualistic and believe in the self made man ideal, where a real man is someone who can bear his own problems, be the lone wolf against the world, manipulate circumstances to his will. This hyper individualis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/19 11:48 AM |
| 1 | Women underestimate how ugly most men areI think what a lot of women find attractive in men is the scarcity of certain attractive traits, whether that is above average height, facial symmetry or build. Even muscle building is limited by genetics. Ive known a few guys go to the gym for a decade, to achieve a look that someone who only went to the gym for 2 years could achieve. When it comes to straight forward attraction, a lot of men will find it that it’s a lot harder to be sexually attractive than it is for a woman. They’ll need to c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/19 11:26 AM |
| 1 | Women underestimate how ugly most men areI think what a lot of women find attractive in men is the scarcity of certain attractive traits, whether that is above average height, facial symmetry or build. Even muscle building is limited by genetics. Ive known a few guys go to the gym for a decade, to achieve a look that someone who only went to the gym for 2 years could achieve. When it comes to straight forward attraction, a lot of men will find it that it’s a lot harder to be sexually attractive than it is for a woman. They’ll need to c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/19 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Why do women hate n-counts?https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2018/10/sexual-partners-and-marital-happiness/573493/ https://www.huffingtonpost.com.au/2014/08/21/more-sexual-partners-unhappy-marriage_n_5698440.html | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/19 10:48 AM |
| 1 | Why do women hate n-counts?The problem is that you assume that the majority of men who are concerned about N count are openly asking women about their sexual pasts, when most men are either cowards, coerced by social pressure to not dare ask , or don’t have enough faith in their partners to be truthful and know that it would only lead to problems in relationships that usually arises when such a can of worms is opened, since most men know that women are sensitive to these types of questions. All the while they’re tentative… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/19 10:40 AM |
| 1 | Why do women hate n-counts?Theres long been observed that there is a correlation between marital instability and N count, especially as those numbers reach double digits. This isn’t some red pill pseudoscience shit either. https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2018/10/sexual-partners-and-marital-happiness/573493/ I don’t understand why so many women seem to think men worrying about N count isnt without merit or proper reason. It does matter, as with all the other things you’ve mentioned as well. Although where a lot … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/19 10:23 AM |
| 0 | Do you think we wanted the red pill to be true?Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/19 09:42 AM |
| 3 | Reproductive success of individuals with schizophrenia, autism, bipolar disorder, depression, anorexia nervosa, and substance abuse. A fertility ratio of 1 represents that of the general population.Well obviously, but Im saying women like my sisters who do suffer from mental health problems like depression aren’t usually seen as a huge liability to the same extent as men. Men are far more penalised for having chinks in their armour than women in both dating and work. This is hardly controversial to state. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 11:04 AM |
| 1 | Choose one and only one: the ability to have children or the ability to have sexSex. If I had children, they’d just be apart of the 80 percent of disposable average to below average IQ masses who would be made redundant by robots and AI algorithms and dependant on government support in the next 30 years. They’d be miserable, especially if I had sons. They’d be lacking in purpose and value. I have a feeling a lot of the dysfunctional social and gender dynamics will be exacerbated in the future. Climate change will also make shit harder too. If you aren’t rich, having childre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 09:26 AM |
| 2 | Reproductive success of individuals with schizophrenia, autism, bipolar disorder, depression, anorexia nervosa, and substance abuse. A fertility ratio of 1 represents that of the general population.Well truly mentally fucked women are just outliers unless you take misogynists for their word about women. Most mentally ill women and men suffer from depression. In fact, it’s as common as the cold in some countries, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 07:59 AM |
| 5 | Reproductive success of individuals with schizophrenia, autism, bipolar disorder, depression, anorexia nervosa, and substance abuse. A fertility ratio of 1 represents that of the general population.Yep, experienced this disparity. As a result of a pretty poor childhood, both me and my sister suffer from longterm depression. She got married at 22 to her high school sweetheart who has a booming business connected with the government. Despite her illness(She has MS), her husband is pretty loyal to her and has helped her for the past few years with rehab. I’ve had 2 medium term relationships, and all of them ended when my depression got obvious enough to my Ex’s that they both started ghosting… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 07:16 AM |
| 1 | Reproductive success of individuals with schizophrenia, autism, bipolar disorder, depression, anorexia nervosa, and substance abuse. A fertility ratio of 1 represents that of the general population.Being depressed(which is the most common type of illness studied here) doesn’t mean you’re crazy. It just means you’re bit damaged and you need some help and empathy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 07:10 AM |
| 4 | The rise of Hating Women's Rights is correlated with the rise of Low Value MenBut there’s are also many women refusing to marry because they can’t find men who outearn them. Most blue pill studies on the marriage crisis confirm that the rise of economically unattractive men who may not be unemployed but are earning lower than the average white collar woman is contributing to low marriage rates among many women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 07:03 AM |
| 1 | The rise of Hating Women's Rights is correlated with the rise of Low Value MenExactly, for once I agree with a blue piller. I don’t think OP spends much time within the manosphere community like MRAs and leftist male advocates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 06:59 AM |
| 2 | The rise of Hating Women's Rights is correlated with the rise of Low Value MenI’m from the “manosphere”, and I’ve rarely heard anyone from those communities call for the destruction of women’s rights, unless they’re alt right loonies. You guys are creating pretty pathetic strawmans of men who are starting to question the fairness of the current gender contract. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 06:57 AM |
| 0 | Have you ever met the male counterpart of a bad boy chaser?Not to the extent that I see the female equivalent. Although my social circles arent full of the party types, and most of them are quite apprehensive about those kinds of girls, as theyve heard a fare share of horror stories from relatives and other friends. In fact, most of my friends are pretty conservative when it comes to what women they find appealing for relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Is porn as bad as PPD women make it out to be?C O M M U N I C A T I O N As ive said, men deeply care about the sexual pleasure of women. Im sorry that many women have had these experiences, but it can be easily avoided if more women practice some agency and tell guys what theyre doing wrong and what they want. Men arent sociopaths. Theyre not doing these things for the intention of harming women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Is porn as bad as PPD women make it out to be?Well, thats where communication comes in I guess. Its clear a lot of men care about the pleasure of women, and perhaps many of them have been mislead by porn when it comes to what kind of sex women are interested in. So communicate about what you want. Help them out a little. Its not a big issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 12:32 PM |
| 2 | If so many men are out of the market (live at home, are in prison, bad social skills, have crappy jobs etc) why is it still fairly competitive to get a GF?https://news.gallup.com/opinion/polling-matters/214601/moral-acceptance-polygamy-record-high-why.aspx We are getting closer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 12:24 PM |
| 3 | If so many men are out of the market (live at home, are in prison, bad social skills, have crappy jobs etc) why is it still fairly competitive to get a GF?Hence part of the reason marriage rates are tanking, birth rates are declining and single adults will outnumber married or paired adults by the 2020s. Many Womens ability to just forsake relationships when they feel they can do better is probably their biggest trump card in the RMP | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Is porn as bad as PPD women make it out to be?Did you read the vice article? While men still search for significantly more porn than women, search rates for these more extreme types of sexual content are at least twice as common among women than men. Those statistics make for fairly surprising reading, but are the facts Dr Seth Stephens-Davidowitz, a former Google data scientist, discovered when he was given complete access to PornHub's search and views data for his upcoming book. "If there is a genre of porn in which violence is perpetrate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Is porn as bad as PPD women make it out to be?its still a quarter. Ive read somewhere a few years ago that it climbed up to 40 percent but Ill have to look the source. Pew Research commisioned a study which showed it ranged from 20 to 50 percent. Either way, itll be very hard to quantify accurately. A quarter to a third of porn users being women isnt small. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Is porn as bad as PPD women make it out to be?Nearly 40 percent porn viewers are women, and it’s probably the biggest growth area for pornhub. Female porn viewers aren’t some hidden minority. We are talking about nearly half of porn viewers who are women being into some pretty violent stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Is porn as bad as PPD women make it out to be?Most men aren’t into violent porn though. Personally, I almost exclusively watch female friendly lesbian porn because I find it too much of a turn off to watch some guy jack hammer his 9 inch cock into some unfortunate porn actress cervix, and seeing the obvious look of pain in the eyes of the porn actress. Most research have backed my assertion that the stereotype ype of the porn addicted gonzo porn watching man who gets turned on by watching guys giving facials and abusing women is mostly a my… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 11:33 AM |
| 1 | The red pill is a flawed antidote to mental poisonYou ok buddy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/19 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Female entitlement exists; it just manifest itself differently than its widely frowned upon male equivalent and there’s far more political advocates for itThe problem is, a solution isn’t as straightforward as just asking tax payers to fund more single motherhood welfare. As I’ve said multipke times in this thread, that has just demonstrably worsened the rates of single motherhood by breaking down the disincentives and drawbacks of single motherhood for irresponsible young women and men. Most nations that have expanded their single motherhood welfare have seen single motherhood rates skyrocket like those in many parts of northern and western Europ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/19 12:38 AM |
| 3 | CMV: RPers who claim they were “lied to” about what women find attractive reflect common and understandable misconceptions shared by many young men. However, it’s a myth that these misunderstandings are the mainstream “Blue Pill” position.Did I say ugly, I said average. And It’s been pretty much backed by data that average men are at a disadvantage in the casual dating scene compared to average women. This isn’t some huge manosphere conspiracy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/19 04:22 AM |
| 15 | CMV: RPers who claim they were “lied to” about what women find attractive reflect common and understandable misconceptions shared by many young men. However, it’s a myth that these misunderstandings are the mainstream “Blue Pill” position.I think most men know that women like the men who had all these favourable physical attributes. They assumed that women liked these guys as much as the average man may have been attracted to Stacy and her double Ds. They just assumed most of these girls would still date towards more their level, because most guys have this flawed notion that women had casual sex with their relationship equals and that average men are as sexually appealing as the average woman. . They didn’t realisehow unequal th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/19 04:06 AM |
| 3 | Do women actually want kids these days? If so, why is the birth rate so low in every developed nation, and continuing to fall?Cultural mores and lifestyle preferences. I come from a liberal immigrant family and few of my sisters are pretty traditional, they got married at 20 and have like 4 children. I have a sister and a few cousins who are a lot more feministy, less religious(not religious at all), have never been in successful longterm relationships that translated into marriages and are still single in their 30s. I think some women prefer the working empowered women lifestyle and 20s sexual exploration at the expen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/19 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Why don’t men appreciate the shit women go through with birth control and pay for dates?I never said anything about casual sex. It’s still risky to not put a rubber on, even when you’re a serial monogamists with multiple partners a year. Most STDs are forever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/19 03:36 AM |
| 2 | Why should women care about the sexual and dating issues of men?Sounds like she went on 4chan Pol, and assumed those crackheads represent the average aggrieved man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/19 03:29 AM |
| 2 | Why should women care about the sexual and dating issues of men?Do you think those policies weren’t supported by male voters when whoever in government decided to legislate them? Western governments aren’t dictatorships and those policies wouldn’t have been passed if “men didn’t care about women”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/19 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Female entitlement exists; it just manifest itself differently than its widely frowned upon male equivalent and there’s far more political advocates for itWell, we are talking about who generally partake in that lifestyle, who often leave the welfare state to do the raising of these children. Don’t be so asinine. You know exactly what I mean. Most Men who “monopolise the reproduction of several women” are irresponsible degenerates who love letting the tax payers shoulder the burden of their sexual conquests. Unless you’re like Triad, and you’ve come around the idea of polygamy. Which isn’t possible unless you’re stacked. Face it, You’re most likel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/19 02:26 AM |
| 2 | Female entitlement exists; it just manifest itself differently than its widely frowned upon male equivalent and there’s far more political advocates for itAttractive/high status men to be exact. And I’m using the Norway example as an case for how this dynamic affects both lonely single men and single mothers. My main contention isn’t hinged on single mothers being the main cause of the single motherhood crisis, but that single motherhood is just the inevitable side effect of sexual liberalisation resulting in the men women are increasingly choosing to have children with refusing to be committed partners since they too have an abundance of choice, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/19 11:59 PM |
| 2 | Female entitlement exists; it just manifest itself differently than its widely frowned upon male equivalent and there’s far more political advocates for itThis line of thought has only proliferated the number of children born in these unstable unions, thanks to women outsourcing many of the financial drawbacks of single motherhood to government. It isn’t about what is just, but what is fair in competitive sexual free market. If women are just gonna decide to use short sighted “think of the children” rationale for increasing welfare spending to avoid the inevitable consequence of the sexual free market, then it isn’t really a free market , but a re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/19 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Female entitlement exists; it just manifest itself differently than its widely frowned upon male equivalent and there’s far more political advocates for itWhen women choose to date and have unstable unions with men who are either higher status or more attractive than she is, those men tend to have far more of an abundance of dating choices. Those men, tend to exercise those choices and ditch these women when they feel like it, because the restrictions placed on men to be committed partners have also been weakened. This has happened in Norway. I’m sure your notion of who is attractive or high status changes within any given context, but the fact is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/19 10:44 PM |
| 13 | Female entitlement exists; it just manifest itself differently than its widely frowned upon male equivalent and there’s far more political advocates for itLol. You really still believe in the abstinence causes single motherhood nonsense? I’ve lived in Northern Europe for half of my life where sex Ed is pretty much enthusiastically endorsed by the state, and yet in the Netherlands, the single motherhood rate is far more higher than most regions in the US. Check the statistics, most single mothers arent your sexually ignorant teenagers but women in their 20s and 30s who are aware of safe sex but choose to have unsafe sex and unstable relationships w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/19 12:55 PM |
| 14 | Female entitlement exists; it just manifest itself differently than its widely frowned upon male equivalent and there’s far more political advocates for itI should have made this clearer in the OP, but in my subsequent comments, I reiterated that this isn’t about who’s at fault but the fact that the increase in single mothers are just as much of a product of the brutality of our sexual free markets where male commitment isn’t ensured as the fact that there’s a growing population of undesirable men due to the sexual advantage women enjoy and exercise. We have no sympathy for failed men and men who are seen as intrinsically undesirable, and they nev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/19 12:39 PM |
| 11 | Female entitlement exists; it just manifest itself differently than its widely frowned upon male equivalent and there’s far more political advocates for itNo, I’m not American. But even if that is the case for our American PPD redditors, as u/shammythefox noted, it’s about maintaining the principles of a free market that both genders cannot escape the almost inevitable consequences and advantages of their positions in the sexual and relationship free market. Even if you don’t have a European, Canadian or Australian style welfare system, there’s undoubtedly welfare policies that does help single mothers in the US. Why should we accept that men who … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/19 12:13 PM |
| 11 | Female entitlement exists; it just manifest itself differently than its widely frowned upon male equivalent and there’s far more political advocates for itFinally someone gets it, you put it far more succinctly and concisely than I ever could . This isn’t about the good of the economy or any of that stuff really, or else we’d be doing more things to help struggling unproductive men out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/19 10:43 AM |
| 2 | Female entitlement exists; it just manifest itself differently than its widely frowned upon male equivalent and there’s far more political advocates for itAll I’m saying is, women have a right to their sexual agency. Just don’t expect society and primarily men to the foot the bill when things go wrong. Taxes are obviously important, but only when taxes goes towards areas that will have a significant ROI to the public interest. Incentivising single motherhood by cushioning the consequences of bad sexual or relationship choices women make through legislating feminist welfare policies isn’t a great way of spending Tax payers money. In fact, it’s lead… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/19 10:28 AM |
| 12 | Female entitlement exists; it just manifest itself differently than its widely frowned upon male equivalent and there’s far more political advocates for itI’m suggesting than in a post sexual revolution world where women can indulge in their natural sexual advantage at the behest of the average man , this advantage does come at a cost, in that the men with favourable traits who will be increasingly chosen by more women will naturally have an abundance of choices, far more than them. So they will exercise those choices, just as women have done, like in Norway, where trad monogamy is nearly a dead concept and where a quarter of men are never going t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/19 09:08 AM |
| 20 | Men do not need or want to control women.I never got the emotional labour argument. I mean, before my life became a mess, I was in a few relationships and so were my friends. Yet despite having committed partners, we still had those emotional man to man sessions where we always discussed problem one of the gang had over a beer and a little pot, because most of us came to a common understanding that the women in our lives were not going to understand our problems or would judge us. Many of us came from dysfunctional homes or were suffer… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/19 09:50 AM |
| 14 | Question For Everyone: What have you done to improve or maintain your appearance?At the start of last year, I was diagnosed with major health problems right now(don’t feel bad, it runs in the family), my girlfriend dumped me because of it, and which has made me kryptonite to women, and the stress has fucked me up. I took a break from uni to work on myself and to lick my wounds. I’ve work a massive meat processing plant for the last 18 months, doing probably the hardest job, which is moving half a ton of beef on railings near the kill floor. My arms are getting thicker and mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/19 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Study: Women, without exceptions, found muscular, "ripped" men most attractive; although in social contexts they lie to avoid hurting men around them.Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/19 12:48 AM |
| 3 | Study: Women, without exceptions, found muscular, "ripped" men most attractive; although in social contexts they lie to avoid hurting men around them.Yeah, feminists and the PC culture they spawned is responsible for misleading a generation of men and pretending that the progressive egalitarian ideals that they’ve succeeded in largely implementing for women can be extended to men when it comes to gender roles and expectations. I’m going to ignore your hyperbolic victimising because everyone here isn’t stupid enough to believe women were getting raped left and right. That shit only works in feminist subs where you take sheepish conformity to a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/19 12:23 AM |
| 3 | Since men think they're better than women, why shouldn't women go for the best man possible?Well that’s what women do already. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/19 11:35 PM |
| 5 | Both genders have their own difficulties when it comes to dating, but men have it harderWhat a revelation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/19 11:32 PM |
| -2 | Why not just support decriminalizing prostitution?Because prostitutes are disgusting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/19 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Is it time to admit that egalitarianism is a dead end for most men?And feminism is about changing the nature of relationships and women’s and men’s roles. I’m just going to keep repeating myself. But I guess feminism changes according to what the average BP woman think serves her agenda, we will just ignore Germaine Greere, and all the other second waivers who delved into sexual politics and gender roles, and influence a whole generation of women, because it’s not convenient for you gals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/19 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Is it time to admit that egalitarianism is a dead end for most men?The vast majority of men in the workplace are merely cogs in the machine. You’re not doing anything groundbreaking by working 9 to 5, making some guy richer. Whilst feminine roles may not have immediate capitalist rewards, they are essential in raising children and shaping individuals and hence shaping nations. Traditional feminine roles are just as important as masculine roles. Do you think the average workaholic man at the end of his life would have preferred more time with his family or worki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/19 11:06 PM |
| 2 | Is it time to admit that egalitarianism is a dead end for most men?Well they’re not, because just like women of the 50s were pressured to limit themselves to their trad gender roles partly because of restrictive social norms, the same could be said for men today. Unless men want to be miserable and low status , straying from masculine norms carries a huge social cost, that has been imposed by primarily women and to a certain extent the workplace. Just like the average woman could in theory stray from traditional femininity in liberal democracies , and explore a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/19 10:18 PM |
| 2 | Is it time to admit that egalitarianism is a dead end for most men?You know what, you guys should really back up your assertions about women not wanting masculine men with studies because right now, the consensus is that women in fact want masculine men and there’s plenty of studies to show it. For someone PPD blue pullers seem averse to data, and believe that their anecdotal experience somehow quantifies as hard proof. https://www.foxbusiness.com/economy/unmarried-women-lack-economically-attractive-men-study https://www.zmescience.com/medicine/mind-and-brain/w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/19 10:04 PM |
| 3 | Q4Men: If sex for you was like it is for us...We are talking about the women who do partake in casual sex culture though. Do you have any studies that shows that young women are rejecting casual sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/19 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Woman makes more money - she carries the bulk of the financials...would you have a problem with it? Both sides speakThe current marriage crisis is partly caused by men failing to fulfil their trad expectations of outearning womem, I’d say a lot of women have a problem with men who don’t out earn them. https://www.foxbusiness.com/economy/unmarried-women-lack-economically-attractive-men-study The minority of women who do marry someone earning significantly less than they do are more likely to have seperate bank accounts. On the other hand, Men who outearn their wives are more likely to have shared bank accounts… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/19 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Is it time to admit that egalitarianism is a dead end for most men?I know it’ll go above your head, but I’m saying there was a time when feminism was about liberating men from their gender roles too, because it was tied to the patriarchy theory of oppression. Feminists of the 60 and 70s saw men suffering through their gender roles, and told them that if they supported female liberation, they’d be liberated too. Feminists wholly bought into the social constructionists view of gender roles and gendered behaviour. . Read some 70s feminist literature for once. Sex/… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/19 09:18 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: If sex for you was like it is for us...Well women are already incredibly discriminatory in the casual sex scene, and you’re still facing those problems. Maybe if you feel this way, you’re not built for casual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/19 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Is it time to admit that egalitarianism is a dead end for most men?Tell me why I’m the one on the hamster wheel? Do you girls deny that there is a preference for men who outearn women? Are we just going to pretend these trends don’t exist and that the current generation of men who fail to live up to those ideals aren’t that successful in dating? I think you’re all bloody delusional really. https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/dating/marriage-rates-decline-reason-economically-attractive-men-jobs-income-a9098956.html | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/19 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: If sex for you was like it is for us...I haven’t played video games since I was 15 and when I had these unenjoyable games , I stop playing them, and played other games I enjoyed . If women’s sexual satisfaction is that unlikely in casual sex, why do they partake in it? I somehow doubt that women don’t enjoy casual sex as much as you suggest they don’t, or else casual dating apps would exist. I respect women’s intelligence and judgement too much to believe that the vast majority of them knowingly partake in a risky activity that alway… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/19 12:57 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill recommends to lift/work out to attract women. But how much of a difference does this make in reality?I’ve been bodybuilding for a year and a half now at one of the largest local gyms, and have quite a few friends within the local natural BB community. Trust me, the proliferation of steroids in gyms is warping the perception of what is achievable natty, within a given time period of course. You’re looking at guys who take steroids, but not enough to make them cartoonish looking, and they’re telling everyone their natural when that is a lie. Natural BB who get tested for drugs regularly are a who… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/19 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: If sex for you was like it is for us...Oh you live Germany, yeah nah. I’ve heard that German women are a lot less promiscuous than average though, and it was confirmed by a survey that I found here but I can’t remember the link. So it’s probably a regional thing. I don’t know, I really feel like I can’t relate to this with my social group. Most Women here seem fine with their sex lives. Maybe women in their late 20s/early 30s seem to have this sentiment like my sister but not women in my age group. They appear pretty to be happy and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/19 09:04 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: If sex for you was like it is for us...I don’t know, maybe 50 to 30 percent of single women under 30. A lot of my uni colleagues seem to have tinder on their phones and talk about their experiences regularly with their friends at my discomfort. Some you PPD girls are saying casual sex uncommon yet that’s counter to the growth of casual dating apps and anecdotal experience. Unless you guys are living in a different cultural bubble than myself. Perhaps Australia is a bit more sexually liberal for women than the US, or women here are ol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/19 08:55 AM |
| 0 | Q4Men: If sex for you was like it is for us...Then why partake casual sex culture then? That’s basically what happens during most ONS. Girls aren’t naive, and must know from their own experience their chances of getting played or achieving an O. I can accept this explanation from a virgin or someone new to the game, but not women who are experienced enough to know what will eventually happen in most of these encounters. If this is how they feel after a PNS, then just stick to relationships or a fwb scenario | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/19 08:44 AM |
| 1 | The Red Pill recommends to lift/work out to attract women. But how much of a difference does this make in reality?The lifelong pain of being a short man is far worse than the few months of pain of getting your legs slowly ripped apart and your bones regrown again. My cousin sent me his video journals, during the growth period, where the pain in constant, and he looked way more happier than his depressed old self. Women can cause more emotional pain to a man who happens to not fit the bill than any archaic surgery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/19 08:31 AM |
| 2 | Is it time to admit that egalitarianism is a dead end for most men?What? Are you seriously saying that women who explore alternative models of femininity, such as the vast majority of working women, women who aren’t submissive in relationships, women who behave like “one of the guys” are these unwanted, alienated individuals who can only find solace in fringe groups? Dominant strong matriarchs are even historically celebrated. Please stop trying to pretend that women are a victim in this aspect when men have been bullied, alienated and rejected when they are pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/19 08:11 AM |
| 1 | The Red Pill recommends to lift/work out to attract women. But how much of a difference does this make in reality?Lol. Plenty of studies show that Steroid use and success in casual sex apps go hand in hand though. Women are attracted to the steroid look, but we aren’t talking bloated up Mr universe either. The Chris Hemsworth/Mammoa look can only be achieved by steroids if you’re not in the top 10 percent in muscle growth genetics and they seem to get a lot of interests from women. You Should have seen half the cinema gasp and giggle when Mammoa took his shirt off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/19 07:38 AM |
| 0 | The Red Pill recommends to lift/work out to attract women. But how much of a difference does this make in reality?How tall are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/19 06:59 AM |
| 2 | The Red Pill recommends to lift/work out to attract women. But how much of a difference does this make in reality?If you’re under 6 foot, weightlifting won’t help. My cousin unfortunately got his great grandfathers short genes(he is 5 foot 7) and lives in Australia, which is probably the top 5 places in the world for men’s height. After a decade of weightlifting m, he was still not getting attention he desired. I think he saved up 30 grand and went to India to get some leg extension surgery which took him a year to heel. He is now nearly 6 foot with weird proportions, but apparently he is getting laid left … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/19 05:51 AM |
| 2 | Q4Men: If sex for you was like it is for us...Even if women are orgasming at half the rate of men, women still have plenty of more sexual opportunities, far more than men. So even if women only orgasm once every two lays, has had 30 sexual experiences in a year, that totally beats the guy having casual sex once a blue moon, and most likely not enjoying it as much as when you’re getting the good dick half the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/19 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Is it time to admit that egalitarianism is a dead end for most men?I’m talking about trends that have been backed by a plethora of studies, and that has been posted plenty of times on this subreddit. You’re not going to concede ground, so please keep that hamster wheel going, I’m out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/19 05:01 AM |
| 4 | Is it time to admit that egalitarianism is a dead end for most men?This isn’t about “just getting laid” but relationships. And feminists have done more than their fare share in gaslighting society about women sexual imperatives, and claiming that men who supported liberating women from their gender roles would also experience liberation of their gender roles, since the patriarchy is trapping both men and women to their roles. For god sake, you’re denying that feminist icons like Germaine Greer exists since that’s her main schtick. Feminists do care about the ch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/19 04:33 AM |
| 0 | Is it time to admit that egalitarianism is a dead end for most men?Alright, but my point stands. What you’re saying isn’t going to change the fact that most women still seek men with more resources than themselves and abide by masculine gender norms, despite the fact that women are outearning the average man under 30. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/19 04:23 AM |
| 2 | Is it time to admit that egalitarianism is a dead end for most men?lol. More empty platitudes from women who will never face the consequences of their collective choices. We aren’t talking me or you, but men in general and the trends that influence their chances of finding happiness. I’m sure there are women out there, earning the big bucks, who are willing to date men who are earning significantly less than them, but this isn’t common. Most men, will need to reconcile the fact that the vast majority of women still judge men on personal metrics which be conside… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/19 04:10 AM |
| 3 | Study: Women, without exceptions, found muscular, "ripped" men most attractive; although in social contexts they lie to avoid hurting men around them.You wouldn’t welcome it, if it means your potential partners having more options than you and being more likely to call it quits and chase that younger Stacy when you’re older. Especially when the places where get fit are teeming with young attractive women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/19 03:55 AM |
| 4 | Is it time to admit that egalitarianism is a dead end for most men?It means flexibility to pursue different roles, which most men don’t have the luxury to enjoy to the same extent as women, without becoming full blown incels or joining some fringe group. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/19 03:53 AM |
| 3 | Is it time to admit that egalitarianism is a dead end for most men?We aren’t talking about your scenario, like most discussions here , it’s about averages or the general consensus. Your husband sounds like a lucky man, but most men don’t have that opportunity. The fact is , the lack of men who are outearning women is commonly cited as a major factor in the decline of marriage for women. Men who aren’t able to fulfil their gender role are generally discarded by the opposite sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/19 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Is it time to admit that egalitarianism is a dead end for most men?Yep, lots and lots of gold diggers. But hey, they’re still getting laid if they’re not too autistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/19 03:47 AM |
| 4 | Study: Women, without exceptions, found muscular, "ripped" men most attractive; although in social contexts they lie to avoid hurting men around them.I don’t get it either. Women have men by the hamstrings. If they stated their preferences and it becomes the culturally dominant narrative, you’d see many men quickly change their behaviour and their lifestyles to meet those expectations. I think many women are aware that if their man were to focus on their physical appearance more than them, they’d feel threatened and perhaps fear that their nice stable dadbod partners would behave more like the ripped Chads they desire but can’t get a commitme… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/19 01:00 AM |
| 9 | Study: Women, without exceptions, found muscular, "ripped" men most attractive; although in social contexts they lie to avoid hurting men around them.Exactly. As someone who used to be one of those nice egalitarian guys with mediocre bodies but now who is reforming his behaviour and lifestyle to be more attractive , this constant narrative about men is perhaps the most damaging thing society and feminists have done to men and has fed a lot of resentment. It’s the same with all this talk about how modern men should strive to be less dominant and be more vulnerable and open with their feelings, yet studies constantly show that women reward and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/19 12:33 AM |
| 2 | What makes a man a cuck to you?The vast majority of blue pill identifying men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/19 09:29 AM |
| 1 | What makes a man a cuck to you?You mean the welfare state which men disproportionately fund and which single mothers disproportionately benefit from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/19 09:25 AM |
| 1 | Becoming "red pilled" is essentially just realizing that women are people.No, they don’t see women as fallen angels. That’s probably domain of MGTOWers though. Redpillers, like Bluepillers, see women as people who like any other rationale being, take advantage and exploit the privileges they might have, to fulfill their sexual imperative. Right now, many redpillers believe that because of many factors, women have far more power or leverage than men in the dating arena. Many women do choose to exercise that power at the expense of men. Many don’t. The point is, that po… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/19 09:12 AM |
| 5 | An alternative viewpoint.Lol. The average man in public is pretty outwardly blue pill. The fact that she thinks all men engage in this behaviour shows just how much her obsession with the manosphere has clouded her perception of the average man. MRAs, Redpillers, MGTOWers and the like are considered fringe groups for a reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/19 08:34 AM |
| 1 | How many of you think women were never oppressed?I think both men and women were oppressed by the natural or imposed circumstances they found themselves in. I don’t have an absolutist view of oppressor-oppressed like so many feminists or delusional MGTOWers. Throughout history, both pleb men and women had it shitty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/19 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Watching internet porn has created this environment of "everyone is having sex but me" and destroyed everyone happiness.Do you really think women are these innocent precious flowers who would never dare to have some pretty kinky desires? Women make up 30 to 40 percent of total porn users and that proportion of female viewers is growing every year. A lot of recent porn studies have shown that these women tend to go for pretty violent stuff compared to the average man. https://www.vice.com/en_au/article/bm9w7v/why-are-so-many-women-searching-for-ultra-violent-porn Men on other hand prefer watching vanilla porn wher… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/19 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexuallyWomen partnered with Wealthier men also get significantly more orgasms than women paired with men with similar incomes. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-human-beast/200902/do-wealthy-men-give-more-orgasms Seems like theres a lot more factors that contribute to women sexual satisfaction then just the mans immediate performance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/19 11:35 AM |
| 2 | Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexuallyA segment of men who are having a shit ton of sexual encounters just see a lot of women they fuck as just another lay or a number in their lists of sexual conquests. A lot of these guys see giving bad dick game and prioritising their own sexual satisfaction whilst still receiving a lot of women attention as a huge ego boost and validation. Why change if you keep getting rewarded for a shoddy lay just because you’re attractive enough that many women will just ignore your sexual shortcomings? The … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/19 11:27 AM |
| 2 | Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexuallyI don’t think you know many men then. A lot of Men get turned on when they see their partners enjoying sex. Personally, theree are times when I couldn’t cum because I could tell my partner wasn’t enjoying it and it turned me off. It’s also part ego thing, since many men still equate their masculinity to their ability to please women sexually. A lot of men also care about women and want to give good sex so they can keeping tapping that ass, so there’s a bit of an incentive there as well. It sound… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/19 11:11 AM |
| 1 | Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexuallyHahaha... Some of these women need to go lez or pretend to be a man for at least a few weeks to realise that the blame goes both ways. So many women seem to think men are just supposed to read women’s minds about what they want in a sexual interaction. Men who are honest about how little they know about how to make a woman satisfied and are more than happy for feedback are seen as a turn off because having doubt in ones sexual ability is seen as a shortcoming of low self confidence which is a bi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/19 11:02 AM |
| 7 | Men and women, how aware are you of polygamy/hypergamy as well as your same-sex friends/family?Or how a lot of these “insecure” “red pill” men were raised in a feminist culture where female sexual imperative were rarely discussed because it went against the PC feminist narrative whilst the social engineers took away masculine influence from school, programmed a generation of boys to think that boys and girls are the same, and that they desired the same thing as them and that egalitarianism is what the average empowered woman wanted? Or how society can’t seem to admit that whilst female ge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/19 04:38 AM |
| 10 | Year 2020: are relationships still relevant?Some nice things as other people have mentioned and that I can get from my gay and non gay friends who aren’t attracted to me(I hope). Other than that, hypocritical pseudo traditional expectations, anxietyabout my own masculinity, being forced to not behave like myself to be the man a lot of these women desire . I’m not MGTOW but Im also not going to pretend that dating and partnering with women is entirely enjoyable, especially when many men can appreciate different expressions of femininity wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/19 03:41 AM |
| 3 | Would women sexual attraction towards power cause destabilization of society?Poly blue pilled women aren’t a thing really. They’re just blackpillers in female form who are aware of the inequities and the advantages women have in both the dating and relationship world, and in how society treats them. They’re just willing to use every influence and advantage they have to pursue their own selfish sexual strategy, at the detriment of most people in society, whilst using the veil of female vulnerability to hide this fact. Any blue pilled egalitarian man who comes to this thre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/19 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Would women sexual attraction towards power cause destabilization of society?There we go, it’s nice that blue pilled women in this thread are revealing themselves to be the elitist eugenicist and hypocritical pseudo traditionalists(only when it benefits women) most redpillers suspect them to be. Now we only need to get the brainwashed egalitarian minded blue pilled men to realise how little they actually care for the average man, whilst forcing them to shoulder the financial burden for their little dysfunctional arrangements and lifestyles with “superior men”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/19 02:20 AM |
| 3 | Would women sexual attraction towards power cause destabilization of society?Well that entails added costs, and even with increasing skilled immigration, it isn’t enough to handle all the needed changes in the rosters as more successful women do what most successful women do and revert back to pseudo traditional roles when convenient, whilst they rely on their successful husbands as primary breadwinners. You’ll be paying more for medical converge in your taxes, and with an aging population caused by generations of low native birth rates, it will certainly mean a cost blo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/19 02:01 AM |
| 0 | Would women sexual attraction towards power cause destabilization of society?We are most likely entering a world where a substantial proportion of pleb women and men can be replaced by robots and AI algorithms in the next 30 years and the economy would still be fine(with UBI of course). Only a minority of primarily high male achievers and creative types are truly irreplaceable. The majority of Women already exit the full time gritty rat race by their late 30 and 40s, because of children and the economy isn’t stalling. Actually the fact that the British NHS is disproporti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/19 12:42 AM |
| -1 | Would women sexual attraction towards power cause destabilization of society?It’ll be interesting how feminists and egalitarian blue pilled advocates respond to progressive millennial and gen Z women’s problematic dating choices that seem to fly at the face of social constructionist theories about gender roles and expectations? . I wonder if during the 2020s whether those progressive intelligentsia preaching this worldview will just give up the egalitarian fantasy and admit that men are stuck in their roles if they want to contribute to the gene pool? OP I don’t think th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/19 12:27 AM |
| 0 | Q4All: When it comes to men and their struggles with dating do you fall into "the sky is falling" or "everything is fine" camp? Or maybe somewhere in the middle.If it turns out that this is the natural state of things, a lot of men will just have to re-evaluate their expectations and mentally prepare for a lifetime of loneliness. I just don’t think it’s fair that once we as a society fully accept the ways things are, that it make sense for these men to pay the extra taxes to then ameliorate the financial and social problems this arrangements will inevitably bring. Men will need to stop being so self entitled to women, but women will have to start realis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/19 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: When it comes to men and their struggles with dating do you fall into "the sky is falling" or "everything is fine" camp? Or maybe somewhere in the middle.I’m a bit of a pessimist about the outlook for the average man, but I will also wait for the data to come out before claiming the world is over for any XY chromosome people who aren’t privileged in the looks, status or charisma department. It’s clear that the dating picture is a lot more complicated and nuanced than what many here assume, and I hope there are unbiased science based organisations out there willing to go through the gritty details to show us the big picture a few years from now so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/19 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Crazy new "Consent" law proposal in Australia?There’s a correlation between the number of sexual partners someone has and marital instability. So yes, your past may affect your future. https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/j.1741-3737.2003.00444.x?deniedAccessCustomisedMessage=&userIsAuthenticated=false | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/19 11:12 PM |
| 3 | Will society/Women be honest about the importance men conforming to gender roles like performative masculinity in spite of the popular egalitarian narrative?Women’s roles are a lot more flexible than men’s though. The dominant lib feminist narrative about female gender roles have made it possible for women to try alternative gender roles when they’re young and adventurous whilst being able to revert back to pseudo trad gender roles when they reach their 30s/40s and they’ve succeeded in partnering with a primary breadwinner. These women don’t face any threat of alienation or social disapproval, which is why this is so common for women to do. Mainstre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 08:07 AM |
| 2 | Will society/Women be honest about the importance men conforming to gender roles like performative masculinity in spite of the popular egalitarian narrative?Considering that plenty of studies have shown that dropping marriage rates among millennials has a lot to do with women outearning men within the same age bracket, and not being able to find a primary provider, I don’t think gender roles for men are changing fast enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 07:55 AM |
| 1 | Why is talent so undervalued by RP communities as a way of attracting women?And some men just don’t have the time. There’s a reason I stopped playing and practicing music when I started working full time, and having weeks of overtime. Men are overworked so they can be of value to women and to survive in this economy. Learning an instrument when you’re working at an accounting firm paying you peanuts, but with great overtime means that you’ll eventually stop playing music for weeks, and like any skill, long times gaps without practice will mean your proficiency at that s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/19 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Why is talent so undervalued by RP communities as a way of attracting women?If only I were you . I went through a piano phase during my early 20s/late teens, and I couldnt even perform a simple sonata after 3 years and few grand worth of lessons. I think you either have the brain for it or you don’t. Age is also a factor. I’ve had cousins who practiced violin for a few years and get really good at, whilst some of my cousins just couldn’t get better at it, even when they devoted half their childhood to practicing. Although practicing an instrument shouldn’t be about gett… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/19 02:22 AM |
| 5 | Why is talent so undervalued by RP communities as a way of attracting women?I don’t think you’ve realised how long it takes to become good at something, especially a music skill, and especially when you’ve already reached mature age and your brain isn’t as plastic as it once was. A 23 year old guy struggling with girls being told to pick up a “sexy” skill, he probably doesn’t even care about, and devote a good portion of his day practicing for the next 10 years in order to get laid, not to mention spending tens of thousands of dollars on lessons, would mean he’d be in 3… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/19 01:53 AM |
| 3 | Why is talent so undervalued by RP communities as a way of attracting women?Because it takes better part of a decade for an average dude to get a sexy skill like playing the guitar and be proficient enough to impress a woman. Most guys who are facing the sexual inequality in the dating game are those in their 20s, who don’t want to wait till there 30s till they’re good enough for a skill for it to be an asset in attracting a mate. It’s just unrealistic, and if you are learning a skill that takes such a long time and hours each of devotion each day to be okay, just for t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/19 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Do you think women and society will eventually stop gaslighting men about conforming to gender roles like performative masculinity?How can I frame question without it being taken down? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/19 09:23 PM |
| 4 | Lesbians having the highest divorce rate proves that women are more responsible for heterosexual relationships failing than men.I think it’s a combination of gay men tending to wait far more longer to have LTRs(which has shown to increase marriage success irrespective of gender or sexual orientation) and the fact that women are far more likely to not work things through a marriage crisis and call it quits earlier than men. I don’t think the divorce disparity is exclusively because women are less likely to commit longterm to a partner, and to work through marriage difficulties, but it is a factor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/19 12:43 AM |
| 13 | Having lots of sexual partners doesn't negatively effect a woman and can usually be a positive thingThere’s long been a correlation between the number of sexual partner a woman has and future marriage instability. This is pretty taboo to talk about in our hyper feminist PC discourse about sex, but most men do get the feeling that women who are sluts tend not to make guild wives. It is what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/19 12:38 AM |
| 1 | What’s next for female identity politics when it comes to the SMP/RMP?Most feminists seem ok with empowered women imposing ebil traditional expectations and gender roles on men, even though their movement was firmly against traditional gender roles as they saw it as apart of the patriarchal tools of oppression and control. Feminists will be ok with women choosing to form this kinds of unions as long as it’s their choice and beta males get to suffer. Feminists will find creative ways to make it seem empowering if the majority of women are fine with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 11:08 PM |
| 2 | What’s next for female identity politics when it comes to the SMP/RMP?I think for more men to start doing more of the housework would entail more women marrying men who work part time or who didn’t primarily prioritise their career over child rearing and taking care of the home, and that’s just never going to happen with even the current generation of young progressive women refusing to marry men who don’t outearn them, which is leading to lower marriage rates. So unless men are able to work less hours without being penalised, things won’t change. The bulk of Hous… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 05:42 PM |
| 11 | Bias against men on RedditBecause reddit is driven to make money like any corporation, and right now, the suits at reddit corporate headquarters are trying to capture the female social media market, since reddit has succeeded in courting male social media users since its inception. I know it’s a generalisation, but many young men on social media have a thicker skin in dealing with anti male internet communities and shitty and horrifying content in general. Women on the other hand are far more sensitive to content and com… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/10/19 07:32 AM |
| 5 | Is it even possible to subvert male gender roles and expectations?I agree mate. The pressure has actually gotten worse in that men who aren’t outright outearning the average women now have to compensate by becoming almost masculine caricatures, building muscles, holding “frame”, behaving like a stoic emotionally stunted man, always being dominant, always taking the initiative in order to have a chance in dating. You know, all those toxic masculine traits that a lot of women seem to can’t get enough off. In some ways, men are doubling down on unhealthy masculin… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/10/19 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Lonely women have it different, but it is still bad.Hence why RPers/MGTOWers always say “enjoy the decline”. The way things are in the dating market cannot be changed until there’s a drastic and radical shift in how women perceive the vast majority of average men. And that’s not going to happen as state feminism and economic changes make these men far more expendable to women. Marriage rates will keep declining, and we will enter a post monogamous era where women are content with entering unstable short term unions with highly attractive men, who… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/19 02:22 AM |
| 3 | Is it a deal breaker if a guy can't last long in bed?Oral sex. Get your ass down there. It kills me that men expect BJs to completion, but say a woman's vagina is 'icky'. It could be because the average sexually experienced woman can’t seem to resist raw sex and eventually contract an array of STDs like HPV which has shown to dramatically increase rates of oral cancers in men who partake in oral sex with these women. I’d be willing to go down on a woman if she proved that she doesn’t have an STD like Herpes that will impact my health in the short … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/19 01:48 AM |
| 8 | It's almost as if traditional gender roles were responsible for the Renaissance...No, that guy is totally wrong. The reason why these men had the time and energy to advance science and the arts is not because wymmin in their lives were sacrificing their freedom and time to enable these men, but because there was a whole class of serfs, servants, workers, slaves and tradesmen that created the economic conditions that allowed these men to further specialise and advance these fields. The wives of these renaissance men probably had both male and female servants. | /r/MensRights | 25/10/19 05:01 AM |
| 3 | Dying wife? Drug addiction? No empathy. This is what struggling men face when they open upIn my opinion, and hence it’d be wise to take what I have to say with a huge grain of salt , but I notice this is problem for most subcultures that is born out of female dominated spaces. 21st Century progressive culture has a heavy feminine component, and a major theme of post feminism western femininity is the struggle to reconcile the social progressive ideals that have benefited women immensely, with the instinctual disgust that many women seem to experience when men do not follow the script… | /r/MensRights | 24/10/19 11:16 AM |
| 1 | The only way we can fight for equal rights is if good women help. Men, we cannot do this alone.Its one thing to stand up for what’s right or to virtue signal, but it’s another to actually sacrifice some of your privileges and gender advantages that most women enjoy, for the sake of men and true equality . I’m sure there are plenty of women who are willing to defend men against some normalised forms of misandry. But asking these same women to stop subjecting men to outdated gender roles and expectations, or to accept less funding for female focuses welfare programs so the state can support… | /r/MensRights | 18/10/19 05:58 PM |
| 1 | We need dating equalityLol...It’ll never happen. Women have to much to gain by maintaining gender roles and traditional expectations when convenient. What men must do is collectivise against all these double standards perpetuated by women, and stop having sex and relationships with women who demand that men must abide by gender roles whilst refusing to do the same. This partly what MGTOW, before it became a lm incel misogynistic cesspool, used to be about. | /r/MensRights | 18/10/19 07:48 AM |
| 3 | We need dating equalityComment of the thread | /r/MensRights | 18/10/19 07:45 AM |
| 1 | The only way we can fight for equal rights is if good women help. Men, we cannot do this alone.I don’t think there enough of good women willing to not follow the herd to be of help to the cause. Sure, the rare introspective woman can join a local MRA organisation, but Men’s right activism will always be primarily a male thing. It is what it is | /r/MensRights | 18/10/19 07:31 AM |
| 1 | Why should women feel sorry for the current sexlessness epidemic?Is that why more than half of millenial mothers are unmarried and that statistic is growing https://www.wealthysinglemommy.com/how-millennials-are-redefining-single-motherhood/ If women really are taking control of their destinies, prioritising themselves and thinking ahead, then why are more them increasingly entering unstable union partnerships or are outright becoming partnerless single mothers? You guys need to start engaging more with reality and the trends among young women before you star… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/19 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Why should women feel sorry for the current sexlessness epidemic?Single motherhood will increase no doubt. The trends have been increasing for all racial groups, and has been progressively getting worse, irrespective of the state of the economy. And even if they make do, there will be a significant proportion of those women will channel their frustrations to identity politics, like many older single women who do turn feminism and we will see politics become even more polarised along gender lines. I don’t think people are prepared for the massive ramifications… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/19 06:49 AM |
| 5 | Why should women feel sorry for the current sexlessness epidemic?The sexlessness epidemic and the warped dating market does affect all women, even if they don’t interact with sexless men. Men who are able to have relationships and be successful at it, are at such a huge power advantage, since they are forming a shrinking proportion of men who are still seen as marriage or relationship worthy that they start to operate under a post scarcity mindset. Which means that more of these men will feel their worth gradually rise as they age and the qualities that make … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/19 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Why should women feel sorry for the current sexlessness epidemic?You don’t understand me. When you need these men men to be there for you, and you can’t leverage your looks, or your priorities change, it’ll be hard to find men who will want to shoulder that burden after being treated like shit in their youth . Even if we all get old and ugly, both men and women still need each other, especially women as they reach peak motherhood age. Women may hit the wall in their 30s but they’re still able to have children increasingly by their 40s with advances in IVF. Ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/19 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Why should women feel sorry for the current sexlessness epidemic?Because eventually, when you’re old, undesirable and unwanted, you’ll be hoping those same men you rejected would find in their hearts to be your white knight and saviour from a lifetime loneliness or raising fatherless children by yourself. Most incels aren’t those hateful bigots you interact with online, and I think you have enough perspective to know that. I believe in Karma and women like yourselves who can’t dare empathise with these downtrodden men, will receive the same treatment when you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/19 12:51 AM |
| 46 | Because your degree matters more to women then your personality apparently.I remember a few years ago, if anyone ever discussed the “hypergamy” question in the context of the earnings gaps and why it’s sometimes necessary on public forums , you would have immediately gotten the misogynist or even the incel label, for suggesting that men must outearn women for a rational reason. Now, as more empowered progressive women ironically complain about men not meeting traditional and sexist expectations, hypergamy is no longer a taboo topic to discuss. Although it’s important t… | /r/MensRights | 11/10/19 10:13 AM |
| 1 | Wouldn't you just end up with dead-beadrooms, if you force women into relationships with unattractive menAttraction is a totem pole. Do you really think in a country, like Burma, where the average man is 5 foot 6, most Burmese women would be forsaking marriage and relationships with their native men because on the other side of the pond, Australian men are far more taller and according to our standards, far more attractive than the average South East Asian man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/19 04:31 AM |
| 5 | The comments are disgusting. Peolpe supposing that women shouldn't need to bear "Emotional Labour". Emotional labour in this case being defined as being supportive or putting someone elses needs first. Because men don't get emotional help, they're men. /s for the last sentence if you're confusedI don’t even think these people making the emotional labour argument know many men. Most men learn to internalise their issues and deal with it, with the occasion emotional blows up that occur when you just repress too much emotions. That’s partly what toxic masculinity is. On the other hand, Men I know are more than happy to listen to their wives complain about the most pettiest things about their lives, whilst they hang by a thread. Men learn by a certain age that women cannot help them, or th… | /r/MensRights | 07/10/19 10:58 AM |
| 3 | Reframing the gender pay gap myth - a great ideaAnd also see their worth as a workhorse for their wives and society. | /r/MensRights | 07/10/19 10:38 AM |
| 8 | Reframing the gender pay gap myth - a great ideaAnd remember, this only applies to older men. Young women are currently on parity or outearning young men under 30. | /r/MensRights | 07/10/19 10:37 AM |
| 1 | A4men who hate traditional gender roles and feel like the male gender role is oppressive: would you LTR/ marry a very masculine woman?This is such a false equivalency. You’re justifying female imposed male entrapment in gender roles and expectations by asserting that because men aren’t attracted to women who behave like masculine caricatures, that means that men can’t complain. The truth is, women already fulfil many male gender roles, especially when it’s advantageous. If you compare the average empowered woman to a 50s housewife, most men from the same period would consider modern women extremely masculine. Heck our culture … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/19 05:27 AM |
| 2 | The sexual revolution was a failed experimentSweden has also been voted as the top 4 places to live as a result of their welfare state, paid parental leave, comprehensive public health care system and social housing. The cost of living is high because Taxes are high to fund all those social welfare programs. But everyone that is productive shares the tax burden, although it disproportionately men paying extra Taxes to fund the feminist welfare state. See the poverty rates in Sweden, barring the immigrant areas, and it’s far less than most … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/19 02:56 AM |
| 7 | The sexual revolution was a failed experimentYes,, because people living in wealthy nations with low wealth inequality, workers rights, and comprehensive welfare Safety nets like Western/Northern Europe are getting married earlier lol. Those who keep bringing up this economic deterministic argument seem to forget that the west isn’t America, and wealthy countries that have strong middle classes like Germany and Scandinavia have worse marriage rates than even the US. Your explanation doesnt even take account of the fact that the US is far m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/19 02:35 AM |
| 8 | Wouldn't you just end up with dead-beadrooms, if you force women into relationships with unattractive menDead bedrooms still exist, even in the most sexually liberal and promiscuous places in the west. A person who would have had a dead bedroom in some traditional macho monogamous culture would probably have a dead bedroom in the socially liberal west. Some people will always get bored of having sex with the same person, irrespective of how attractive they are. I don’t think they constitute the majority though. They are mostly women. Some people just aren’t meant for monogamy. But, trying to get so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/19 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Wouldn't you just end up with dead-beadrooms, if you force women into relationships with unattractive menIt’s almost like women experiencing the highs of their casual dating days during their youth sets them up for disappointment when they realise that the average man who they will need to get hitched to raise a family, isn’t going to provide them with the tingles Chad gives them. As someone whose parents who emigrated from a monogamous traditional society that frowned upon casual sex, I will say that the experience of my mother and my aunts is very much contrary to the assumption that attraction i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/19 01:57 AM |
| 23 | If you are, or are considering, MGTOW--what are your reasons for doing so? Are there any parts of TRP do you believe are true? And does your version of MGTOW include sex?I don’t want to be reduced to how much of a utility I am able to be in order to be worthy of a relationship with women, which is the reality of most men who aren’t incredibly attractive or charismatic. I don’t want to be repressed like my married oldest brothers who needs me to be his shoulder to cry on from time to time after months of dealing with shit from work and his own personal problems , because most women cant tolerate men who are emotionally vulnerable. I don’t want my life to be a con… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/19 12:38 AM |
| 4 | How many young men will be dateless/undersexed in the next 10-20 years?Abortions in Norway are funded by the state and isn’t stigmatised, yet you’re seeing a push towards unstable family models by women themselves, who do want to have children, but just with a increasing minority of men whilst footing the bill to productive men who are less likely to have children or get married. You’re seeing these trends with many parts of Europe, Canada and Oceania where Abortion isn’t as stigmatised as in the puritanical US of A. Abortion reform isn’t the silver bullet to chang… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/19 11:50 PM |
| 5 | How many young men will be dateless/undersexed in the next 10-20 years?Well that’s good for you, but a lot of women aren’t embracing responsibility unfortunately, which is leading to a rapid growth in single motherhood and unmarried mothers who are in far more unstable relationships that tend to fail, which leaves them becoming primary welfare recipients. The number of single motherhood within each age bracket has been increasing since the sexual revolution and welfare reforms of the 70s/80s.. https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/wonk/wp/2014/12/18/the-unbelievable-… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/19 11:28 PM |
| 8 | How many young men will be dateless/undersexed in the next 10-20 years?And women aren’t entitled to male resources via the welfare state , yet as more women become single mothers because they’d much fuck Chad raw and get pregnant, and then outsource financial responsibility to the state, men across the west are being forced to contribute more to the welfare state. Incel entitlement is one thing, but the entitlement women who think the average productive man should be subsidising their shitty choices when things go pear shaped because they are so committed to forsak… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/19 10:55 PM |
| 6 | "A Good Man Is Getting Even Harder to Find" - or: how women are picky and men more equality-minded when it comes to choosing a mate, measured by the Gini coefficientIt’s also telling how gay men have less problems with “toxic masculinity”, embracing alternative models of masculinity and repressing emotions, despite the fact that they face the same pressure to conform to restrictive notions of masculinity. The only major difference between gay and straight men is that straight men have a whole gender subtly enforcing and incentivising harmful gender roles and expectations, whilst claiming men are wholly to blame for how they are socialised to behave. Accordi… | /r/MensRights | 05/10/19 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Gender Bias in Job Referrals: An Experimental Test": Our data suggest that women tend to favor women when choosing a candidate, whereas men do not attach much importance to the gender of potential candidates" (!)The popularised feminist notion of a patriarchy bestowing privileges onto men, merely because they’re men is just a projection of their own genders predilections for in group preferences. It’s always been about self projection. | /r/MensRights | 05/10/19 01:53 AM |
| 1 | What kind of impact do you think it could have if women were more sincere about their sexual preferences?Well it’s just male sexual Realpolitiks, just as female sexual realpolitik that is embedded within feminism has promoted male wealth transfer to women via welfare/alimony laws as a feminist goal. Irresponsible women are transferring wealth from men who need resources to be attractive mates to subsidise their own shitty choices, which will just incentivise more of the same behaviour. Which will only make the dating pool of the average non chad man smaller, as welfare enables more risky and unequa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 08:50 AM |
| 4 | [Q4All] Why are some of the men on PPD obsessed with single moms?Agreed. Which is why it’s a pretty bad reflection on western women that in spite of their increasing selectiveness when it comes to choice of mates , they can’t seem to vet men who have observably shitty traits that make them unsuitable longterm partners and fathers which is why single motherhood is rising every year. Sexual liberalisation and female empowerment has enabled women to have total control of their own dating lives and even a dating advantage over men , yet it seems like a sizeable p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 08:35 AM |
| 9 | Silence misogynist plebs! Science is speaking to women about their boyfriends!Wasn’t there a study that showed that feminists preferred benevolently sexist men? | /r/MensRights | 03/10/19 09:24 AM |
| 1 | Since when did nightclubs become so horrible?(Dark lights, overcrowded, very loud...etc?lol. There’s a reason that I’ve only gone to these kinds of clubs maybe 3 times in my life. I prefer rock clubs these days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/19 05:16 AM |
| 7 | Q4Men: Do you embrace the same traditionalism for your own daughter?But those kids will embrace liberalism, just as the generations before them. Traditionalism is a dead end in our current economic paradigm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/19 10:30 AM |
| 10 | Q4Men: Do you embrace the same traditionalism for your own daughter?I don’t know why you assume every man who points out the hypocrisy of modern empowered women and feminists on the gender role/trad expectations question would ever want for women to go back to gender roles, when that’s just untenable in the current economic and social environment? Most of these guys just want the same freedom to explore alternative gender roles as women, but without significant costs to their dating and marriage lives. Nobody thinks traditionalism will ever make a comeback for w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/19 06:29 AM |
| 4 | pornography and its effectsYes, its fueling a lot of reactionary politics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/19 12:54 PM |
| 20 | pornography and its effectsA world without pornography would be world where undesirable men who would inevitably exist as a result technological and social changes would need to channel their sexual urges to other alternatives, like prostitution or sexually coercing women. There would be far more instances of outbursts of beta male violence against society, and the minor instances of illegal prostitution and human trafficking in the west will worsen to the point where we will have illegal prostitution dens full of women f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/19 06:47 AM |
| 1 | What makes men so shocked that women use makeup? I see a lot of shock onlineSame reason why women feel shocked when that 6 foot 2 hunk who works at accounting, and who they’ve been trying to whoo for ages turns out to be a 5 foot 8 bald man who wears a toupee and lifts to overcompensate his physical shortcomings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/19 05:32 AM |
| 5 | Isn't there a significant chunk of dudes whose only barrier to sex and dating is their own apathy?I think these are men who we talk about when we discuss men leaving gender roles at the expense of their dating and sex lives. There are of course incels out there who don’t have a choice when it comes to being single, but there are a ton of men who couldn’t give a shit about dating or marrying women if it means tap dancing to the average empowered women’s outdated preferences and whims, whilst they take advantage of societies disdain for men who do subject women to the same standard. They see l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/19 11:19 AM |
| 15 | Traditional gender roles were never two sides of the same value, and talking about happiness is irrelevantYour husband sounds like he is pretty insecure about his masculinity. Maybe he thinks occupying female roles would make him less attractive to you? Men, especially those over 35 are brainwashed into thinking their sexual and social value is linked to their ability to fulfil gender roles and expectations whilst rejecting female roles. I think you need to just keep reassuring him that youre still attracted to him, even if he started taking on more female roles. And that you still value him as a pa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/19 02:35 PM |
| 18 | Traditional gender roles were never two sides of the same value, and talking about happiness is irrelevantWe’ve had countless of great threads on the PPD on studies that show that the main determinant or factor in whether a man gets married is his ability to out earnwomen, and that the current marriage crisis is partly caused by the fact that many women aren’t attracted to the new generation of men who aren’t outearning them and assuming their roles as primary breadwinners . If you seriously think there’s no obstacles in men ditching their gender roles, you’re either seriously delusional or intellec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/19 02:27 PM |
| 24 | Traditional gender roles were never two sides of the same value, and talking about happiness is irrelevantI totally agree with what you’ve said. But the question is, have men been totally liberated from their gender roles, considering the high number men who still feel the need to prove their worth to society and to women according to what extent they can become utility and walking wallets? Roles that women can occupy has been expanded radically, but I wouldn’t say that’s the case for men. I think this sentiment of ”muh traditional gender roles was better” from a lot of men, despite historical data … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/19 02:08 PM |
| 3 | Implications of a generation of Women(like my sisters) preferring to stay single and refusing to settle down with lesser men after years dating/experiencing Chads?To be fair, all those studies that show that married men make more money and are healthier than single men has more to do with selection bias. Women select those men with those traits and characteristics. They reject men who don’t earn as much and who may be suffering from depression or unhealthy lifestyles which lead to shorter lifespans. I don’t think the act of marriage automatically makes men wealthier, although added motivations of providing for your family probably does contribute somewhat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/19 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Implications of a generation of Women(like my sisters) preferring to stay single and refusing to settle down with lesser men after years dating/experiencing Chads?We called that a de facto relationship where I live(Melbourne) and statistically, it is far more unstable and precarious of an arrangement for women than traditional marriage. It’s essentially serial monogamy, where men in these relationships are far less likely to commit longterm with their partners and are more likely to have children with multiple other women. It’s desirable men having their cake and eating it too, since in many places, these types of arrangements lead to partner-less single … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/19 04:53 PM |
| 9 | Implications of a generation of Women(like my sisters) preferring to stay single and refusing to settle down with lesser men after years dating/experiencing Chads?Exactly. As I’ve said and the the other poster has repeatedly ignored, a lot of women’s primary casual sexual encounters are mostly with men who wouldn’t give them a second look if they tried to have a LTR with these men. So an average woman feeling only sexually attracted to highly desirable guys who they had random sexual encounters and short fling with during college ends up becoming the barometer for prospective LTR mates, even when those men they typically attract for LTR wouldn’t ever pass… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/19 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Implications of a generation of Women(like my sisters) preferring to stay single and refusing to settle down with lesser men after years dating/experiencing Chads?Because social shaming totally worked when it comes to curtailing behaviours once perceived as problematic like recreational drug taking, Underage sex, Homosexuality, and Sex before marriage? Single motherhood is rising with all racial demographics in the US and Europe. Social shaming has rarely worked when it comes to these kinds of issues. Single motherhood will just become normalised, like other once taboo topics and alternative lifestyle choices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/19 03:49 PM |
| 19 | Implications of a generation of Women(like my sisters) preferring to stay single and refusing to settle down with lesser men after years dating/experiencing Chads?This post is a prime example of how Apex fallacy can warp a women view of men. When you say men are pumping and dumping and arent being committed to LTR with women, you mean the minority of men who are able to have a plethora of dating choices and exercise those options, which just doesnt exist for the average man. I never said women are conspiring to date only non committed "Desirable men" over mediocre men, just that they have the advantages of having options but each has its own drawbacks. Ri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/19 02:17 PM |
| 7 | Implications of a generation of Women(like my sisters) preferring to stay single and refusing to settle down with lesser men after years dating/experiencing Chads?Realistic sex bots will be like Fusion or true AI, always 50 years away. Theres just to much a of a complex soup of phermones and fleshy feels in human sex, which makes it difficult to replicate it in a sexy robot form. By the time we have realistic Sex bots, we as a species will be far too transfixed on other amazing Technologies thatll enable convincing sex bots like AGI and cyborg tech that can augment human strength to care about Sex robots. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/19 01:04 PM |
| 2 | Implications of a generation of Women(like my sisters) preferring to stay single and refusing to settle down with lesser men after years dating/experiencing Chads?Im predicting that as fatherless children becomes the norm in many communities, we will have pseudo communes organised by the government and rent a father programs that will mean many of these boys will be able to have male figures for 7 hours week. Ofcourse at the cost of predominantly single male tax payers. The government will increasingly become the role of a father to many women. Remember, a feminist welfare state that caters to the needs of single mothers that currently exists in much of w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/19 12:39 PM |
| 3 | Implications of a generation of Women(like my sisters) preferring to stay single and refusing to settle down with lesser men after years dating/experiencing Chads?lol. Im thinking of eventually starting a "rent a father" or "rent an older brother" business in my area, considering single mother by choice seems very much in vogue among upper middle class women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/19 12:24 PM |
| 7 | Implications of a generation of Women(like my sisters) preferring to stay single and refusing to settle down with lesser men after years dating/experiencing Chads?Not saying that there won’t be many single women who will be frustrated about their single status, just that they will still be far more fulfilled than the average single man. And many have made informed decisions about their longterm happiness and many would much rather be a little miserable and alone than settle down with a mediocre but stable man who they will have no sexual feelings for and who will never measure up to their previous lovers, and who they will eventually resent and hate until… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/19 12:01 PM |
| 3 | Implications of a generation of Women(like my sisters) preferring to stay single and refusing to settle down with lesser men after years dating/experiencing Chads?What makes you think technological advancements, automation and the inevitability of UBI won’t make average men more disposable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/19 11:33 AM |
| 4 | Implications of a generation of Women(like my sisters) preferring to stay single and refusing to settle down with lesser men after years dating/experiencing Chads?Read the Norway link. These measures are having a discernible difference in birth rates of career and working class women, partly at the expense of the marriageability of working class men. If you give single mothers enough welfare, birth rates trend start to slowly reverse. Although it’ll take time to change complex social trends that have an economic, social and cultural component. Norway has the highest native birth rate of any European country, although it is still below replacement. But it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/19 11:14 AM |
| 6 | Implications of a generation of Women(like my sisters) preferring to stay single and refusing to settle down with lesser men after years dating/experiencing Chads?Like with most female consequence of the sexual revolutions, it’ll be outsourced to the state because that is where the tide of change is heading when it comes to government policies, because women are an incredibly powerful and cohesive voting bloc. Most western countries will be moving towards a progressive welfare state model like Western and Northern Europe, which will allow many women to have children by themselves, without huge personal costs to single mothers. Subsidised childcare is now … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/19 10:31 AM |
| 1 | Implications of a generation of Women(like my sisters) preferring to stay single and refusing to settle down with lesser men after years dating/experiencing Chads?But if these women feel lonely by middle age, nothing is stopping them from becoming single mothers by choice and filling that void with a child via IVF/Sperm donor or freezing their eggs when they are young. Women are blessed with options that men dont have. Im not saying some these women wont be emotional wrecks, but because of the amount of options these women have in family formation, they'll be far more fullfilled than single men in their age groups. Sure they will become parasites to socie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/19 09:33 AM |
| 4 | Do you think men will be able to liberate themselves from gender roles and expectations?I doubt it. The menlib types can’t even identify the problem because it would be offensive to their feminist overlords sensibilities, who can’t bear to hear how empowered women are enforcing gender roles for men. They’d prefer to blame economics when there are countless of examples of egalitarian social welfare states like Scandinavia that seem to disprove their economic determinist theories about male gender roles that absolves women of agency. The revolution won’t emerge from the left nor the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/19 07:45 AM |
| 8 | Do you think men will be able to liberate themselves from gender roles and expectations?Just a lurker here, but great debate guys. I’ve been wondering the same thing for a while. Although what’s with the absolute silence from the popular female pillers in the discussions? It’s a bit odd that there’s not many women commenting on an issue that has a lot of implications for them. I want a female perspective on why men have rigid gender roles and what modern empowered women want from men. This discussion is incomplete without a female voice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/19 06:13 AM |
| 5 | Abolish the welfare stateA welfare state that take cares of the material concerns of both women and men, and which is controlled and managed by those who aren’t aligned with potentially discriminatory ideologies is ideal. Problem is that men are essentially funding an institution that doesn’t take care of many of their concerns whilst enforcing male disposability and misandry . Feminist organisations that have the Duluth model enshrined in their ideological foundations are being bankrolled by male tax payers, which mean… | /r/MensRights | 07/08/19 08:29 AM |
| 11 | Man calls out Pediatric clinic on FB for performing routine infant circumcisions, and their response is unbelievably revealing about the true nature of why the “procedure” is done.It’s ironic since those from so called “backward” cultures who partake or condone FGM procedures would cite similar reasons of “aesthetics”. | /r/MensRights | 06/08/19 06:00 AM |
| 10 | “They aren’t trying to destroy masculinity” bullshit!Ignoring the blatant misandry, its strange how feminists seem completely oblivious to how women incentivise men to behave in certain ways. If they really wanted to abolish traditional masculinity, maybe they should tell their own gender to stop putting hyper masculine ultra competitive males on a pedestal and upholding traditional masculine norms like expecting men to be primary breadwinners before they ask men to castrate themselves. If these feminists really buy into the blank slate theory of … | /r/MensRights | 03/08/19 09:50 PM |
| 2 | Showerthought: If men entering a profession raises the overall salary: WHY isn't there a huge push by feminists to get A LOT more men into nursing and other female dominated industries.Because then they’ll just have to admit that it’s merely correlation, not causation. There are certain specialities in nursing which men dominate, and which has a lot of these men earning significantly more than the average female nurse. Does that mean that mean men merely entering these specialties are causing wages to inflate whilst female nurses are denied their owed pay rises? No, because these specialties are physically and psychologically demanding, require long hours and constant educatio… | /r/MensRights | 24/07/19 08:10 AM |
| 13 | I'm a girl and I support men's rightsThe reason why men’s issues are less prioritised and even actively suppressed by feminists is because government resources are limited. Feminists have a financial interest in belittling male issues because of the populace were to start realising that men have issues, there would need to redistribute resources from feminist led programs to organisations that deals with mounting male problems. Feminist sees these programs as employment opportunities and career stepping stones so they feel personal… | /r/MensRights | 21/07/19 06:52 AM |
| 6 | Christina Hoff Sommers - Chivalry is Dead? Good! Women Do Not Deserve It!Chivalry only made sense when women were actually at a power disadvantage when it came to social interactions. These days, women have tons of social and legal power over men. The fact that women are still demanding chivalry in a time when men are being overpowered the feminist legal and political apparatus that was built up by decades of female collectivism and an army of white knights willing to protect women, irrespective of whether they were the abuser or the victim is a testament to how much… | /r/MensRights | 20/07/19 10:34 AM |
| 8 | Women can be just as badIf it took place in a private function, they should have surveillance cameras. These clubs are probably filled to the brim with surveillance cameras just in case a sexual assault against women takes place. Speak to the owner of the club or Security personnel about what happened, and do it as soon as you can before they reset the hard drive of their security system. | /r/MensRights | 20/07/19 06:03 AM |
| 5 | Women can be just as badHell hath no fury like a threatened Thot ego. OP, just know that what happened to you was not alright. You dont have the right to feel ashamed for your sexual preference. Next time any woman does that, you have every right to defend yourself. These women like to take advantage of the fact that society looks down on men who defend themselves against vile women, because in spite of so called equality, women like to take advantage of chivalry when its convenient. Next time, let them know that they … | /r/MensRights | 20/07/19 05:52 AM |
| 2 | Girls holidays 🥴🥴🤡🤡 It's frightening of the group approval these women get on cheating their partners.I totally agree. Although the major difference is that the vast majority of women aren’t incentivised to maintain their monogamous relationships and men suffer financially and as fathers when their marriages unravel due to the infidelity of their wives. Men are punished far more harshly by society and the legal system if they do have an infidelity. There is no doubt a major power imbalance when it comes to these situations to the advantage of women, which will eventually lead to more women than … | /r/MensRights | 18/07/19 06:29 AM |
| 3 | ‘Believe all women’ makes the ‘Pence rule’ just common senseIt’s almost like we’ve faced these issues throughout human history and organised religion found a blunt but straight forward way of dealing with gynocentrism when it disadvantages men when it comes to false allegations and the rare cases of violent men abusing their power. This MeToo shit isn’t new. The only thing is new is the naive attitude we have against the idea that women can lie about something serious as sexual assault when they want to defame a man for whatever reason. | /r/MensRights | 16/07/19 11:14 AM |
| 7 | I'm starting a Left Wing Male Advocates subreddit!The prevalence of those who identify as centre of right in this sub has more to do with the fact that left wing men are less likely to advocate for men’s rights and more likely to condone feminist mantra about men than the fact that this sub is built as a right wing platform by default. It’s not right of centre MRAs fault that left wing men are such passive bystanders when it comes to defending their gender interests against rabid feminists and condoning mainstream misandry. Galvanising leftist … | /r/MensRights | 15/07/19 01:09 PM |
| 2 | I'm starting a Left Wing Male Advocates subreddit!Careful, make sure your sub doesnt become another r/Menslib. I’m probably considered centre right on the political compass, but Im n not against a leftist interpretation of Men’s rights seeing how much r/men’s rights has turned a bit right leaning. Although this has more to do with the fact that criticism of feminism and advocacy of male rights is far more prevalent among the right than the left. But I can see a need for a lefty version of MRA if it means we can battle feminists on their own ide… | /r/MensRights | 15/07/19 12:58 PM |
| 21 | USAToday article slams Tesla cars for not appealing to women, viewing them as "impractical toys" for men. Suggested that CEO Elon Musk's male "bravado" and "aloofness" is off-putting and "untrustworthy", hurting the brand insteadThis must be satire, right? | /r/MensRights | 10/07/19 11:41 AM |
| 2 | Forbes article from March justifying the US national soccer teams wage disparity. "The Women’s World Cup brought in almost $73 million, of which the players got 13%. The 2010 men’s World Cup in South Africa made almost $4 billion, of which 9% went to the players."Forgot the /s. On a serious note, I think the national women’s teams demanding a bigger cut of total profits generated in this World Cup is probably the worse thing you can do right now for the Women’s game considering how much FIFA women’s federation need to grow their grassroots programs to hopefully expand the talent pool of female soccer players in the future and generate interest for the younger generation.. If they do increase their share of profits, i won’t be coming out of the fifa assoc… | /r/MensRights | 08/07/19 09:46 AM |
| 8 | Apparently, the dad is a jerk who has been cheated on by his wife along with paternal fraud and highest level of emotional abuse any human can face. Are men's emotions anything at all for the society? Do men have no rights and only responsibilities? Wait, society sees men as a resource, right?A mandatory court ordained paternity test for all new parents would reduce the number of these cases though and save millions of men from emotional anguish and years in the legal system though. | /r/MensRights | 08/07/19 09:32 AM |
| 11 | Apparently, the dad is a jerk who has been cheated on by his wife along with paternal fraud and highest level of emotional abuse any human can face. Are men's emotions anything at all for the society? Do men have no rights and only responsibilities? Wait, society sees men as a resource, right?My friends cousin is in a similar situation, but his non bio father still treats him like his Son. The family is a mess because of the lies of the mother though and they’re still going through a messy divorce after 4 years, which is deteriorating the financial state of the family . Situations like these are becoming more common, or at least the truth is coming out far more than it used to. I wonder when paternity fraud will become an issue worth talking about? Gendered issues like rape against w… | /r/MensRights | 08/07/19 09:18 AM |
| 2 | American women have it easier than American men by every objective measure, they just complain more.Doubt it. Do you have any hard data or anecdotal evidence to back up that claim that Indian women are more previleged than Indian men? | /r/MensRights | 06/07/19 01:10 PM |
| 6 | Have Feminists ever called out women for upholding restrictive notions of masculinity and male expectations?Those men have gynocentric family law, the Duluth model, Alimony laws, feminist corporate culture, billions of dollars invested in female NGOs, gynocentric western governments, feminist corporate media and Feminist infiltrated public institutions to contend with. Men who suffer those issues and exploitation from women are alienated by society and held hostage by the political, cultural and social instruments of gynocentrism that feminists have strengthened. You cant compare apples to oranges her… | /r/MensRights | 05/07/19 01:27 PM |
| 7 | Have Feminists ever called out women for upholding restrictive notions of masculinity and male expectations?There are plenty of women who do take advantage of damaging gender double standards that feminists have made possible. There are women who are more than happy to impose trad gender roles on men whilst they demonize men who do the same to women. There are plenty of women who do uphold traditional male expectations whilst they take advantage of their genders liberation from traditional roles and expectations. There are certainly plenty of women who do emasculate and punish men when they try to tra… | /r/MensRights | 05/07/19 01:05 PM |
| 18 | Have Feminists ever called out women for upholding restrictive notions of masculinity and male expectations?Wrong. Feminism isn’t about egalitarianism for both sexes, it has always been about the advocacy of female self interests. And it’s within women’s interests to have men chained up to certain models of masculinity and gender roles that serves womens own selfish needs but not vice versa. Feminists don’t want to ruin their successful gaslighting of society, where admitting that feminism in the real world is mostly about blatant female self interests which includes the imposition of gynocentric trad… | /r/MensRights | 05/07/19 10:09 AM |
| 1 | OKCupid profile. There are a lot of profiles just like this.Meh, what women say and their actual actions are two different things. I wouldn’t lose sleep over it. | /r/MensRights | 02/07/19 10:50 AM |
| 3 | Women are uncomfortable with discussing men’s mental healthAlright | /r/MensRights | 02/07/19 10:46 AM |
| 23 | Women are uncomfortable with discussing men’s mental healthI have bipolar 2. Experienced the same thing with women in my life. I’ve become an expert at masking symptoms when I’m on a downward spiral to just survive toxic women in my workplace and in my family. Men like my supervisor and my friends were always there for me during my toughest hours, whilst the women in my life were always the first ones to take advantage of my vulnerability. If you’re suffering mental illness, the ways a lot of toxic women treat you when they see you as vulnerable is way … | /r/MensRights | 02/07/19 06:04 AM |
| 2 | Bars that won't allow men to enter without sleeves (tank tops) but will allow women to do the same are sexistIn Australia, most clubs only let you wear collared shirts. T shirts are non kosher | /r/MensRights | 30/06/19 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Bars that won't allow men to enter without sleeves (tank tops) but will allow women to do the same are sexistAs someone who sweats a lot when I wear collared long sleeve shirts while doing activities, this does bother me. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/19 08:37 AM |
| 1 | Cute but psycho? This romanticizing of abusive relationships towards men is out of controlIts rooted in insecurity and misandry. Feminism has succeeded in making many women believe that all men are repressed beasts who will hurt women if they didn't have the feminist legal apparatus and social expectations coercing men to act civilly towards women. Some women take it further and justify hurting men as a way to feel more secure about themselves. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/19 07:35 AM |
| 2 | how about that.More wealth transfer from men to women https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/7qn6m8/research_finds_as_a_group_only_men_pay_taxes/ | /r/MensRights | 25/06/19 10:38 AM |
| 3 | I wish I was FemaleLol. Feminists love promoting female hypoagency when it comes to problems facing men that women contribute to, yet for the last 50 years, have used notions of male hyperagency to demonise men at worse and at best used male agency to change male behaviour towards women which has has had discernible impacts on female rights. Are we going to pretend that women don’t contribute to gendered expectations of men? How long are we going to blame society for the fact that women are more than happy to subj… | /r/MensRights | 25/06/19 05:26 AM |
| 4 | I wish I was FemaleI think for me, I envy women’s ability to manoeuvre through both male and female gender roles without being socially punished for it(or at least to the extent that men are). Women are allowed to inhabit traditional male roles when its within their self interests whilst also being allowed to return to traditional female roles when it’s advantageous. The modern notion of Femininity is so much flexible and encompassing than masculinity. Men on the other hand will always be questioned, denigrated an… | /r/MensRights | 25/06/19 04:27 AM |
| 2 | Newbie liberal female perspective: Why does men's rights have such a bad rep?To be fair, many men’s rights activists are concerned about the growing Incel problem which is facing many young men. We arent exclusively an Incel sub that demonises all women all day , but we are t delusional about the growing seriousness of the problem. It is a major issues for MRAs of the future and present to deal with. The disparaging attitude that many women have against the growing number of men who can’t have relationships or experience intimacy because of various factors, is an another… | /r/MensRights | 18/06/19 09:29 AM |
| 3 | Why most women don't vote for feminist political partiesBecause feminist doctrine has become entrenched in most major political parties around the west. Why rock the boat by voting in even more radical anti male feminist parties, when they’ll only risk galvanising reactionaries. This is almost as nonsensical as claiming that because people don’t vote for the extreme Libertarians or Free Market party, that means everyone is against capitalism. When an ideology becomes so entrenched within the political system that legitimate political parties must mak… | /r/MensRights | 18/06/19 09:10 AM |
| 2 | Harvard study proves women are most responsible for gender-pay gap.As a feminist that experienced a tidbit of self awareness in her genders contribution to these problems once said, “OMG, I am the Patriarchy” | /r/MensRights | 16/06/19 10:03 AM |
| 6 | I finally tried to open up to my girlfriend tonight...But feminists told me that women are burdened with emotional labour from men? | /r/MensRights | 15/06/19 03:50 PM |
| 4 | The future of men and marriage is bleak - Suzanne VenkerThe problem isn’t unemployed purposeless shut in men , which accounts for a minority amongst the male population. It’s the fact that women still hold onto very traditional notions of masculinity when it suits them. A growing proportion of men can’t meet those expectation as more women climb the economic ladder and increase the financial yardstick of what is considered to be marriageable as a man. Women preach equality when it comes to wages and employment opportunity but don’t want to face the u… | /r/MensRights | 15/06/19 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Why Rich Men Fuck Ordinary MenBecause whether we like it or not, rich men makeup the vast majority of those who we would call the capitalist elite. | /r/MensRights | 12/06/19 10:56 AM |
| 1 | Why Rich Men Fuck Ordinary MenLol. Rich men support feminism because it serves their interests to do so. Liberal Feminism gave the capitalist class an expanded consumer base. Political feminism that has become the status quo among the left has alienated working class men to the extent that men who would have formed a strong unionist leftist political block now support right wing populists . Feminism has divided pleb men and turn their economic disenfranchisement to a story about how women are out competing entitled men, inst… | /r/MensRights | 08/06/19 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Can a female-only racing series solve Formula One's man problem? | Funny how "women can't compete" = a "man problem"Meh, as someone who is an F1 fan for a few years and an MRA, I have no problem with women getting their own feeder series. Itll likely wont have much impact on the better and far more lucrative racing series like F1, since the talent pool of female drivers is still quite small. If creating a female feeder series increases the amount of female viewers in a time when F1 is losing viewership from their traditional demographic, I say go for it. | /r/MensRights | 08/06/19 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Just to help lighten the Monday moodIt’s ironic that a fetus is given importance only when it can be used by women to castigate men for not being white knights, yet a fetus getting aborted.... | /r/MensRights | 04/06/19 10:11 AM |
| 1 | Are women becoming less individualistic?Youre just discovering one of the uncomfortable truths of life and relationships that men have known since time immemorial. Studies show that Men, across most cultures, have displayed more variability in personality than woman of the same age. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3612964/ I think social media and technology have probably worsened young womens predilection for conformity and consensus building , but I think it would be naive to believe that this is a recent phenomena. Y… | /r/MensRights | 01/06/19 05:21 AM |
| 4 | How herbivores, hermits and stay-at-home men are leaving a generation of Hong Kong women unsatisfiedIt’s not about victimhood though. Not many young women are immersed in that toxic feminist culture, especially those in countries where herbivore men exists. The problem is double standards in gender roles and expectations whereby men are expected to be primary breadwinners by society and women, but are given little incentives to do so. They see how women are more than happy to take advantage of female empowerment, female quotas and other such gender equality measures that improves their financi… | /r/MensRights | 26/05/19 03:01 AM |
| 7 | How herbivores, hermits and stay-at-home men are leaving a generation of Hong Kong women unsatisfiedA lot of my voluntarily single male friends reject relationships because they saw how their fathers got fucked by the legal system and gender double standards that made them workaholics with no life balance. Most would much rather focus on their careers, gaming or their hobbies than be used by women. | /r/MensRights | 25/05/19 03:42 PM |
| 3 | The myth of the tyrannical fatherI think there is some truth to the austere patriarch stereotype, but i think there is some historical revisionism and lack of consideration of cultural relativism when it comes to feminists claiming that they were tyrants who abused their power. The fact is, you had to be tough as nails, stoic and emotionally distant to care for a whole family during a time when poverty was rife, crime and premature death was ever present and there was no welfare state to care of your family if you were to die f… | /r/MensRights | 21/05/19 10:44 AM |
| 2 | Men should not support women's right to choose parenthood unless and until they are given the same right.I dunno, I think the viability of the welfare state will eventually trump any legitimate concerns men may have with the current arrangements. The unfortunate truth is that whilst supporting a reformation of family law where men who arent interested in raising their illegitimate children past the critical stages of life can relinquish their financial duties after lets just 3 years from birth may be fair and create a far more equal gender power dynamic, the truth is that men will collectively will… | /r/MensRights | 20/05/19 03:11 AM |
| 4 | Wife is forced to pay husband £250,000 for 'tricking' him into believing three sons were his for 21 years after doctor told him he had been infertile since birthIve got a sibling who works at a large financial firm who personally knows several women, married to the egalitarian types, and who were making as much money as they were , cheat with men who are all intends and purposes more richer and successful than their husbands. I’m told these men werent even the most handsomest guys out there, and several were in their late 40s/early 50s. And these women never even had a chance of a serious relationship with them since they were all married with longterm … | /r/MensRights | 13/05/19 07:57 AM |
| 1 | Some women do take equality seriously. How do we encourage more women to be like this?Apologies, wrong link https://www.victoria.ac.nz/news/2014/research-shows-disparity-between-tax-paid-by-women-and-men Additional resource: https://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=2375926 | /r/MensRights | 10/05/19 07:59 AM |
| 9 | Noted Feminist Begs Men To Join In The Fight To Keep Abortion | Daily WireIt’s like they have no self awareness or sense of irony | /r/MensRights | 10/05/19 07:41 AM |
| 15 | Some women do take equality seriously. How do we encourage more women to be like this?Lol. It’s not just dates. The whole modern feminist welfare system that exists in Europe and many parts of the west is predicated on the assumption that men must generate resources for the state to destribute it to women and children. Men are the biggest Tax contributors whilst receiving the least support, and feminists still complain about productive men being the harbingers of the patriarchy despite being more than happy to prop up a welfare system that reduces them to Tax serfs to women. http… | /r/MensRights | 10/05/19 07:34 AM |
| 3 | Man talks about his negative experiences when being emotionally expressive in a relationship. As men do you think this is common?As someone who suffers from bouts of depression as a result of childhood trauma and growing up in an unstable family, this hits home. In my personal life, I try to live up to stoic ideals, and women in my life tell me I’m too “emotionally closed off” but I notice my relationships begin to fail when I’ve opened about my battles to my SO and showed my vulnerabilities, in times when it became too much to bear . Ive had gfs who considered themselves feminists to tradcons from migrant communities and… | /r/MensRights | 09/05/19 08:39 AM |
| 2 | Feminist Sharia Has Arrived: Companies Considering Ban On All Physical Contact To Avoid Sexual HarrassmentI can’t count the number of times I’ve known women use their sexuality to further their careers. I guess there’s a flip side to all this puritanical outrage over office sexual and gender politics. | /r/MensRights | 09/05/19 08:19 AM |
| 5 | Ministers plan to ban watching porn on buses on mobile phones and tablets amid crackdown on sexual harassment. A separate Government-commissioned review is considering whether sexual harassment of women in public should be made a hate crime.How do you even legislate such a law? Are the police going to start randomly searching your display tabs for porn when you’re in public? Will pornographic or explicit screensavers be banned too? Heck male dominated blue collar job sites, where it’s common to see naked posters of pinup girls on trucks or on the walls of garages will become police central over night. Seems like feminists are more than happy to embrace police state authoritarianism if it comes with a matriarchy. | /r/MensRights | 08/05/19 11:03 AM |
| 2 | Mums who took cocaine on play dates (AKA 'being a mum is the most difficult job in the world')Many young women are finding out the hard truth that becoming mothers doesn’t automatically make them good or well adjusted people. | /r/MensRights | 08/05/19 10:56 AM |
| 1 | Bill Burr Rant: SURPISE! We're getting a divorceIm starting to think Bill Burr is a closet MRA | /r/MensRights | 07/05/19 08:23 AM |
| 10 | Man Killed Himself after False Rape Claim Despite ‘Texts That Proved His Innocence’And we had a thread the other day about how Feminist campaigners in Britain have succeeded in pressuring police to ditch plans to create a digital strip search in rape cases, which could mean police would have access to text messages of alleged accusers and victims. https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/bkefjg/uk_controversial_digital_strip_search_plans/ Feminists just want to give women all the power to imprison men. | /r/MensRights | 05/05/19 01:04 PM |
| 1 | A pay gap feminists have no issues withTo be fair, thats just the free market, there isnt artificial market forces or government interventions causing the inflation of the wages of female models. Turns out women are heavily influenced by fashion campaigns when it comes to their buying habits and many do follow individual models on social media and in magazines. The same market forces that inflate the wages of female models are also inflating the wages of those shitty but necessary jobs that has a gender imbalance favoring men. | /r/MensRights | 05/05/19 05:18 AM |
| 5 | At least they aren’t agreeing with OP, who wants to force men to pay a tax.... for being men.The patriarchy tax is called the feminist welfare state. Male tax payers disproportionately fund it, women disproportionately benefit from it financially. Feminists have already largely succeeded in creating a patriarchy Tax, and have also succeeded in covering up that fact by calling it something egalitarian sounding like the welfare state/progressive tax, despite the fact that male needs have been largely neglected by progressive western states at the benefit of women. It is the pride and joy … | /r/MensRights | 04/05/19 08:06 AM |
| 2 | They imply that women's safety is more important than HUMAN safety in r/feminismlmao. The rise of feminism within large academic, cultural and government institutions in the west is what propelled a type of PC culture that habitually limited freedom speech, for the sake of "feelings". Not not mention is increasingly censoring male issues and voices. Feminism in the real world is the radical idea that womens safety, feelings, livelihoods, ability to exploit gender double standards, the welfare state and benevolent sexism takes precedence over any justified concerns men may h… | /r/MensRights | 04/05/19 06:26 AM |
| 1 | Slavoj Zizek on the #MeToo movement. Guaranteed to piss off feminists AND right wingers.I think it’s interesting and telling that Slavoj fails to take account of how women contribute to the feeling of male impotency and alienation among many working class men. I wonder if he’s just too blinded by his class centric worldview to ever admit that women are just as relentless to the average man when it comes to their place in the economic hierarchy as the average elitist capitalist or upper class bourgeoise feminist , even if they profess to be against gender roles and traditional expec… | /r/MensRights | 02/05/19 10:04 AM |
| 4 | Irish women regardless of education don't want to return to work even when they can. Will only do so when situation is perfect for them. Obviously they all have men working full time.And I can understand why as someone with several doctors in my family. The first few years of post med school work is always the hardest and least financially rewarding. But still, it sucks like women like these are so prevalent when there are so many men out there missing out on truly contributing to society because women would much rather use their degrees to mate signal than use their skills to make the world a better place. It’s why I think quotas are a double edge sword. The government is w… | /r/MensRights | 02/05/19 08:33 AM |
| 57 | The Hard truth about DivorceEven single men who are productive are getting screwed over in the west. If you live in a country that has a feminist welfare state, like western/Northern Europe, NZ, Australia and Canada and you decide not to get married, you’re still paying a substantial amount of your income subsididing irresponsible women’s poor life decisions whilst the welfare state neglects men. Men are seen as mere wallets by both the state and women. | /r/MensRights | 02/05/19 08:20 AM |
| 12 | The Hard truth about DivorceI thought Australia doesn’t have Alimony? | /r/MensRights | 02/05/19 08:16 AM |
| 4 | Men under 30 not having sex increased 300% this decade. For women, only 18% increase.I’m not an incel but I am apart of the growing cohort of men who probably have to do more than previous generations to get sex from overentitled and narcissistic women, and let me tell you, sometimes Sex isn’t worth all the headaches and drama. Modern Women have mastered the art of demanding equality when it’s convenient whilst also relying on traditional gender roles and expectations when it’s advantageous for them and inconvenient for you. When it comes to dating, you have to pursue and pay fo… | /r/MensRights | 01/05/19 12:18 PM |
| 63 | Feminist journalist from the editorial board of NYT proposes "Castration Lottery for men"I’m more concerned about the fact that a reputable paper would continue to hire someone showing clear signs of mental illness than the fact that a few deranged and juvenile feminists wants to cut men’s balls off. | /r/MensRights | 28/04/19 01:23 PM |
| 8 | So women think their dates are rapists at first glance, good to know.I’m starting to suspect that a lot of these women who truly believe most men are bad, because of previous relationship experiences, despite the fact that a vast majority of men are decent people may not be honest with themselves, when it comes to their role in putting themselves in these situation. There’s a type of woman that seems to be attracted to bad men yet can’t seem to break the cognitive dissonance when they wonder why they most always find themselves in destructive relationships. And i… | /r/MensRights | 27/04/19 12:39 AM |
| 10 | MUM'S THE WORD Women wear the trousers in most British households, research findsI wonder what proportion of these are single mother households? | /r/MensRights | 23/04/19 10:51 AM |
| 5 | Charlize Theron’s F- Parenting Skills Proves Why She Is Still Single At 43Ive known many men who are married to much worse women than Charlie Theron. The problem is not men stepping up, the problem is that just like most successful women, Charlie finds the idea of dating a man of lower stature repulsive, even if that said man is a millionaire and Nobel prize winner who happens to make a tad bit less than her. Women like Charlie only perceives the top 99.99999 percent of men worthy. Yet these ultra successful men probably have done their due dilligence and realised she… | /r/MensRights | 20/04/19 04:23 AM |
| 2 | Paternity fraud should be illegalI mean, the poor fellas a late gen Xer who experienced his youth when marriage and monogamy was promoted as good things, and even then he still had the unfortunate luck of marrying a disloyal cunt who cucked him without much remorse. I work with a lot of older people, and I personally a few cases among older colleagues who’ve been in similar situations and who only found out about their children’s illegitimacy status during their children’s teenage years. I can’t imagine how common these cases o… | /r/MensRights | 18/04/19 02:25 PM |
| 10 | AITA yet again dumping on a guy for choosing to not raise a kid THAT ISN'T HIS. More blaming the victim and forcing men to bear the consequences of things they didn't consent to, and stripping them ofWith the breakdown of trad monogamy among millenials and gen Zers, I expect these stories to become even more common in the next 20 years. Its going to be a tough convincing millions of young men that they are worthy of enough self respect and dignity not to be treated as disposable wallets by their partners, when our feminised/gynocentric society is doing such a great job of telling men otherwise. | /r/MensRights | 13/04/19 08:56 AM |
| 1 | Toxic feminism hurts women tooLol...If there were societies that were as tyrannical to women as you suggest, they would cease to exist within generations. Oppressing half the population through violence rarely works in the longterm and tend to create dysfunctional communities and weak societies, which were vulnerable to invasions by more cohesive and egalitarian tribes/nations . Women, even before feminism, were capable of wielding power. It’s downtoght insulting towards 99 percent of women who ever existed before the rise o… | /r/MensRights | 09/04/19 07:21 AM |
| 1 | Spotted in DubaiHence, why I said: ›One of the few good things It is possible to appreciate some possitive aspects of a given culture without condoning all the bad. | /r/MensRights | 08/04/19 06:00 AM |
| 18 | Spotted in DubaiWell traditional Arab culture does place huge importance of strong fathers when it comes to the health and well-being of families. One of the few good things about societies that haven’t totally severed their ties to traditional mores is that they tend to not embrace the misandry of cosmopolitan social movements like feminism. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/19 11:27 AM |
| 3 | What If "Toxic Masculinity" Is The Reason For Climate Change?Women pretty much drive the consumer economy. Who are they kidding? | /r/MensRights | 05/04/19 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Men's cuddling group aims to redefine masculinity and heal trauma“Hah...You haven’t figured out the theory of gravity, it must mean gravity can be a social construct!” Look, we see gender roles everywhere in nature. Even when baby mammals lose their troops/parents, they rarely ever deviate from their natural sexual roles. There is a degree of environmental influence when it comes to gender roles, but you have to be pretty delusional to think these things aren’t ingrained in our genes. I encourage you to look into Israel’s radical Kibbutz communes gender exper… | /r/MensRights | 01/04/19 08:53 AM |
| 3 | UK: Biggest increase in divorce for 15 years: More cases come before the courts as 'trend towards fewer break-ups since 2003 begins to reverse'. OP: With these figures it would seem well over 50% of aEven as someone who lives in a country known for producing toxic man hating feminists , I’ll admit that British feminism is probably the most toxic brand of misandry and female supremacy there is. And what’s worse is that it has become entrenched within most major political factions. Even conservatives like the Torries are full of man hating feminists and gynocentric mps, who would constantly sell out men to appeal to women. I don’t see anything changing for the better when it comes to the decou… | /r/MensRights | 01/04/19 08:40 AM |
| 1 | The percentage of young men 18-30 having no sex at all has tripled in the last 10 years. A worrying trend.Did they show a male vs female comparison? | /r/MensRights | 30/03/19 02:22 AM |
| 5 | Why is a pro life guilt trip ad being directed at the sex that has no say or rights regarding reproduction??Traditionalists and feminists share one thing in common. They both believe that women lack agency when its convenient, whilst promoting male hypoagency when it comes to responsibility. | /r/MensRights | 28/03/19 07:54 AM |
| 3 | The feminist belief that women are superior to men in almost every way is incompatible with the other feminist belief that women have been completely dominated, victimized, and oppressed by men for all of human history.It’s a response to the fact that in spite of decades of preferential treatment in the workplace, a gynocentric educational system that caters to how girls brains work whilst disadvantaging boys and a culture that treats men like useless idiots and women as the thankless saviours, women are still underrepresented in imperfect meritocratic power structures. Feminists can’t continue blaming a non existent patriarchy for the lack of female tech superstars, nobel prize winners, entrepreneurs, accompl… | /r/MensRights | 27/03/19 10:25 AM |
| 1 | Never seen so much rampant misandry from women in one place. That includes r/feminismThey’d have to start writing songs about deeper things other than flings and casual relationships, like those icky male dominated music genres like Prog rock. | /r/MensRights | 22/03/19 09:22 AM |
| 5 | Modern woman learns that people are still accepting of traditional relationships.It becomes a problem when these types of women still implicitly subscribe to male gender roles(when it suits them) and are more than happy to expect men to be primary breadwinners, whilst they live out their glamourous low paying but low stress service job dreams, but then claim any expectations from their partners of reciprocal treatment as sexism. I’m willing to bet OP still subscribes to some traditional gender roles and expectations when it’s advantageous or deem acceptable by the hypocritic… | /r/MensRights | 22/03/19 09:05 AM |
| 1 | I don’t think I can do it anymore guys.Limb lengthening | /r/MensRights | 19/03/19 08:46 AM |
| 4 | Feminists want females to be dominant "for a few centuries"Its literally the mindset the Nazis had when it came to persecuting undesirables like the Jewish community. Crazy people. | /r/MensRights | 09/03/19 11:08 AM |
| 1 | Lesbian Women Have Higher Rates of Domestic Violence Than Hetero Women, 43.8%Theres a bigger world outside of the cultural bubble of Californias liberal progressive cities. | /r/MensRights | 02/03/19 06:50 AM |
| 1 | The Future is Female, Reality in 15 years from nowThis forum isnt the male version of Tumblr. Post this on some other juvenile forum | /r/MensRights | 02/03/19 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Bernie Sanders campaign announcement includes pledge to end already debunked $0.78/$1 gender pay gapBut I thought he said he will be against identity politics next election? | /r/MensRights | 02/03/19 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Lesbian Women Have Higher Rates of Domestic Violence Than Hetero Women, 43.8%Well the opposite I think is true. Gay men who aren't openly flaboyant or like publically parading their gay status, or who prefer their personal lives to remain private, which probably constitute the majority of gay men, outside of affluent progressive urban centres with their own cultural bubbles, feel similar pressures as straight men when it comes to masculinity. Yet, as anecdotal evidence and studies suggest, this doesn't impact their personal lives as much or their intimate relationships, … | /r/MensRights | 02/03/19 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Lesbian Women Have Higher Rates of Domestic Violence Than Hetero Women, 43.8%Then theyre just steriotyping and caricaturising gay men. There are plenty of gay men who are no different to straight guys when it comes to behavior, barring the fact that theyre attracted exclusively to men. Yet, they have less issues when it comes to toxic masculinity or being open about their feelings to their partners. | /r/MensRights | 02/03/19 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Men's rights group successfully sues to force US military draft to include womenWell there are plenty of feminist inspired legislations and legal precedents that ignore inherent biological and behaviorial differences between men and women, when its convenient for women. Why is it only a problem when women can no longer have their cake and eat it too? | /r/MensRights | 02/03/19 03:17 AM |
| 3 | Lesbian Women Have Higher Rates of Domestic Violence Than Hetero Women, 43.8%Also its peculiar that when there two men in relationships, issues like toxic masculinity is less of a problem, despite the claims by many feminists that men are the exclusive harbinger and promoter of toxic masculinity, whilst women are its usual victims. Its almost like women contribute to gender issues, that affect men, but for some reason its taboo to admit this. | /r/MensRights | 02/03/19 02:58 AM |
| 4 | Why do they like to think that they can speak for all boys? I do not believe I've ever heard any boy actually say that.The problem is that even so called concerned feminists pay lip service to this issue, or attribute toxic or inflexible masculinity to factors that conform to the rad feminist narrative and which ultimately undermine men, even when on closer inspections, these explanations rarely sufficiently explain why Men are risking their mental health, and their lives to conform to a type of masculinity which may harm them in the long term. And what's worse, these feminists will actively alienate and demonis… | /r/MensRights | 27/02/19 07:32 AM |
| 3 | Nearly half of US female scientists leave full-time science after first childThis goes for a majority of female lawyers, doctors, and MBAs. I wonder what economic effect mandating quotas will have on performance when half of the workforce are taking years off for children and living their housewife fantasies. I guess we can always put more workload on male employees to allow women to have their cake and eat it too, whilst men are limited to traditional gender roles. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/19 11:18 AM |
| 17 | Why Are So Many Women Man-Haters? | A woman calls out the misandry of her friends group and a big percentage of women in general.This is basically the mindset of most of these so called non feminist women who dont identify as feminists, but are more than happy to let their deranged and politically powerful sisters degrade and undermine men. Its why I take no comfort in the fact that the majority of women don’t identify as feminists. | /r/MensRights | 18/02/19 01:13 PM |
| 2 | Why traditionalism is not the answer to men's problemsNot defending traditionalism but why do you think that pre Sexual revolution/feminist traditionalism in the west has anything to do with traditionalism in far more culturally backward and impoverished parts of the world? My great grand parents espoused the sort of traditionalism that was dominant in much of continental before the 60s and my great grandfather wasn’t a tyrant or someone with great burden. He treated my great grand mother with respect and they loved each other for decades, but knew… | /r/MensRights | 18/02/19 05:37 AM |
| 5 | A question about double standardsehh, not saying thats justified but, there has been a history of great all male produced/directed/written shows and films. Its a pretty bad counterpoint considering how many of the greatest films and shows of all times were created by teams which were 90+ percent men. Sometimes feminists have justified grievances about the male domination of commercially profitable and culturally influential artistic endeavors . The problem is that how they confront this historic imbalance, which tends to be cou… | /r/MensRights | 16/02/19 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Jameela Jamil "Build These Men from Scratch to Fit Women"Well, how she got her role despite being a mediocre unknown actress is probably the reason why she has such a warped view of men. Same goes for most of these pretty but mediocre actresses who turn to feminism to extend their 15 minutes of fame. A lot of these actresses have spent decades using sexual favours and being used by powerful men to progress their careers. They truly think powerful liberal Hollywood executives with sociopathic traits represent the average man. | /r/MensRights | 15/02/19 02:52 PM |
| 8 | Girl doesn't like boyfriend because she found out he got raped as a child.But with that added pressure to perform and conform to a narrow definition of masculinity that many women and society impose on men and which many men will try to painstakingly emulate for much of their lives, men were atleast previously given some previleges and power. These days, Men are in the precarious of not only having to conform to traditional masculine ideals that is getting more difficult to achieve and with shrinking rewards , theyre being demonised by feminists and society at large f… | /r/MensRights | 15/02/19 01:06 PM |
| 1 | BBC The Big Questions: Is feminism in crisis? (to be broadcast Sunday 11:30 – 12:30)I hope they invited peter Hitchens | /r/MensRights | 03/02/19 04:45 AM |
| 1 | These kind of girls that don’t understand equality...We are on the path towards a Pseudo Matriarchy | /r/MensRights | 02/02/19 04:36 AM |
| 2 | Single fathers were the single mothers on steroids for most of all of human historyThis is why I can never support feminist historical revisionism. Both genders had it bad since the dawn of civilization, yet we are supposed to pretend men were these all powerful patriarchal oppressors. Men and women needed to be a team to not succumb to the tyranny of nature. | /r/MensRights | 02/02/19 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Japan as a possible window into the future - fathers for hireNah. For such a thing to exist here would entail our culture actually valuing fathers, for more than their financial contributions. Single mothers in the west are being told that they dont need a man to raise healthy children and all attempts by MRAs, traditionalists and psychologists like Jordan peterson to challenge the narrative is always met with ridicule and claims of misogyny. I expect in the future that the state will contunue to play a bigger role when it comes fullfilling the breadwinne… | /r/MensRights | 02/02/19 02:17 AM |
| 0 | Toxic Masculinity: Man got assaulted by ex girlfriend: "I'm still a man because I didn't hit her back!" When we believe we can't defend ourselves from abuse otherwise we're not men.I’d say your half right. He should have had the right sense and judgement to not get into relationships with toxic women. But our culture also teaches men that women have a right to be physically aggressive when they don’t get their way, and that men should just take it, perhaps we should teach these men to value themselves more. Anyway, this is in the same line of argument many of us use when we tell me women to stop projecting their hatred of men as a result of their shitty choices of partners… | /r/MensRights | 29/01/19 02:17 PM |
| 10 | Male teacher helps boys without male role models--Great to see men out there helping other menThis is the thousandth repost, but one thing Ill say is, the normalisation and celebration of single motherhood by feminists, and the suppression of legitimate criticism of alternative family models that leaves fathers feeling irrelevant, and children vulnerable to abuse, because the so called liberation of women from oppressive patriarchal institutions is prioritized over the health of society , is one of the most malicious and damaging things institutional feminists have done. I dont think the… | /r/MensRights | 29/01/19 08:26 AM |
| 3 | Second Wave Marxists Intend to Complete the Feminist RevolutionSo who going to pay for an even larger feminist welfare state? Thats right, Male Tax Payers. https://relampagofurioso.com/2018/03/12/the-gender-tax-gap-men-pay-200-more-taxes-than-women/ What will happen once the state replaces men as their role as provider and protector for the family? You get an explosion of single mothers, institutional abuse and a large segment of the male population who will never marry or have children. Children suffer, Men suffer. This is what happened in Norway. http://s… | /r/MensRights | 28/01/19 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Nice to see we can have a civil discussion with feminists about the gillette issue 🙃This is generally why I can see there are some legitimate concerns over the feminisation of culture and politics, which is inevitable when half of the population that has a soft tendency to commit to feelings over cold hearted logic, and have an in group preference are given the power in the social arena to direct the narrative on social and political issues, and whose more rational and impartial sisters fail to police the hysterical narcissists and the feels over reals feminist mob. Men aren’t … | /r/MensRights | 27/01/19 01:32 PM |
| 20 | Oscars 2019: "Can we stop focusing on gender and focus on talent instead?" asked one female Twitter user on Tuesday after the Oscar nominations. "To include a woman just to fill a female quota is sexist and an insult to all women"Well they need to start speaking up. | /r/MensRights | 24/01/19 05:31 PM |
| -4 | Oscars 2019: "Can we stop focusing on gender and focus on talent instead?" asked one female Twitter user on Tuesday after the Oscar nominations. "To include a woman just to fill a female quota is sexist and an insult to all women"This whole comic book phase in Hollywood has been atrocious for the state of American film. Burn both Marvel and DC to the ground. To think people thought Nolans Batman was a prelude to something better for comic book films | /r/MensRights | 24/01/19 05:30 PM |
| 3 | Black men are immune from feminist criticismWell the thing is, some say that notable feminists dont criticise black men because they achieved what they wanted within the black community. Due to the breakdown of the family within the black community, instigated by feminist supported Single mother welfare reform and the war on drugs, and, the normalization of single motherhood, the black community is now essentially a matriarchy. Without the guidance of a strong father figure, black men perform worst than black women at school and have wors… | /r/MensRights | 24/01/19 04:15 PM |
| 1 | The Gender Inequality mythWell when the alt right and the right in general are the only political faction willing enough to openly question modern feminism at the risk of social exclusion, because material centric leftists are too passive to mount a critique of feminism and have repeatedly failed to combat anti male bigotry and gynocentrism within the modern left, is it surprising the the MRA movement has an overrepresentation from these political factions? This is more of an indictment on leftist MRAs that theyve allowe… | /r/MensRights | 24/01/19 03:40 PM |
| 6 | Now look at this...Yep. So many women fear and loath failure, and the social consequences of appearing like a "loser". Yet you cant succeed without losing and hitting rock bottom a few times. | /r/MensRights | 24/01/19 03:26 PM |
| 4 | "Global Attack on Gender Studies"Unfortunately, its starting to feel that way. Until material centric leftists like Bernie Sanders start disendorsing political/state feminism within the modern left, we are destined to see politics become increasingly polarised along gender ideological lines. Leftist men dont seem to have much of a spine when it comes to confronting radical and bigotted elitist feminists within their ranks. Nor are they keen on challenging anti male bigotry, and gynocentrism within the cultural left. | /r/MensRights | 24/01/19 03:17 PM |
| 13 | Feminist gets the Gillette treatment at the Sydney women's march and is badly triggered. What do they say? "If you get offended by this then you're part of the problem". Funny how that changes when they get a taste of their own medicine...Good man! | /r/MensRights | 23/01/19 10:10 AM |
| 1 | What do you think the next 10 years holds for mens rights and gender relations?This sub would be deleted by facebook admins before it reaches half a million members, let alone a million. | /r/MensRights | 21/01/19 01:24 PM |
| 4 | Even women hate feministsIts strange how I keep hearing about all these women who see the bullshit in modern feminism, yet this rarely translate to any backlash against socially destructive and divisive feminist agenda. Just once I would like these beautifully sane women to stop being passive bystanders and fight with men against the tyrannical feminist sisterhood. Something like the internet manosphere backlash against Gillette would be great. It doesnt matter if your against feminism and see the damage its causing men… | /r/MensRights | 21/01/19 07:37 AM |
| 5 | What do you think the next 10 years holds for mens rights and gender relations?For Millenials, the trends I see impacting where gender relations going into the future is the rise of Spinsterhood and single motherhood. Personally, the women I know who gravitate towards feminism are those whose lives lack meaning and are lonely. Theyre also incredibly insecure and lack the social networks offered by organised religion, so they adopt feminism to fulfill an emotional need. Those who stand to benefit financially from state feminism like single mothers, those living in non tradi… | /r/MensRights | 20/01/19 07:21 AM |
| 1 | Mixed messagesThis comment should be its own thread. Beautiful. | /r/MensRights | 19/01/19 02:25 AM |
| 3 | Thousands of dads are left in shock as DIY paternity tests soar. Up to 30,000 tests are being performed every year, says Alphabiolabs. In the UK about 750,000 babies are born every year. Feminists want the test to be illegal without the written consent of the mother.Ehh I’m not even pleased with the way modern women have been complicit or have supported the rise of state feminism and the coerced delegation of responsibility from women to male tax payers, but even that’s not going to make me think every woman is a cheater. Dude, people like you are giving this sub a bad name. Take your blatant misogyny to the MGTOW and incel subreddits | /r/MensRights | 13/01/19 02:21 PM |
| 17 | Thousands of dads are left in shock as DIY paternity tests soar. Up to 30,000 tests are being performed every year, says Alphabiolabs. In the UK about 750,000 babies are born every year. Feminists want the test to be illegal without the written consent of the mother.It’s also to do with the burden on the welfare state. Lawmakers don’t want more single mothers on the dole so they make it harder for men to find out if they are the biological fathers of their children. The growth of single mothers dependant on welfare programs in the western world and the collapse of the nuclear family will probably force lawmakers to create even more draconian ways of extracting resources from men. Hardworkimg Men pay for empowered modern women’s irresponsibility either way. | /r/MensRights | 13/01/19 02:19 PM |
| 24 | Thousands of dads are left in shock as DIY paternity tests soar. Up to 30,000 tests are being performed every year, says Alphabiolabs. In the UK about 750,000 babies are born every year. Feminists want the test to be illegal without the written consent of the mother.I thought you were talking about our gynocentric welfare state, which transfers wealth from hard working men to irresponsible women, for moment there. | /r/MensRights | 13/01/19 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Trans Men Furious to Be Excluded From ‘Toxic Masculinity’ Rant Just Because They Don’t Have a PenisOr you know , the lefts own demigod Marx antisemitic statements about Jews | /r/MensRights | 05/01/19 05:49 PM |
| 7 | Feminism latest effort “emotional labor” of women, has smiling excessively the same as construction. “We’re also talking about the extra emotional labor that we go through in order to be smiling at work ...the expectations of how we’re supposed to behave when we are at work.” Sure.Yeaah Im starting to think many of these feminists are life long comitted trolls trying to see how far they can take it | /r/MensRights | 05/01/19 05:43 PM |
| 3 | what's a issue you face as a man that you really wish you did not?Its painfully annoying when these same women ask why men who work more harder and longer hours than them, are getting payed more than the average woman, like its some proof of some shady cabal of patriarchs occupying positions of powers in these companies HR department(when its full of women). Hello, we need that money to impress you folks and to seem like viable partners. Modern empowered Women need to tell us what the deal is, when it comes to gender roles and expectations. Theres just so many… | /r/MensRights | 05/01/19 05:43 AM |
| 3 | what's a issue you face as a man that you really wish you did not?I have pre existing mental health problems stemming from my traumatic childhood and I try my best to hide it from my ex GFs, as I know from my past relationships that women generally dont want hear about male problems or issues when things get too overwhelming,even if they say they do. Whilst Im expected as a man to be the beast of burden for the women in my life, or to be an empathetic fixer. I wish women would be more empathetic towards men who they know personally. I mean I dont need my hand … | /r/MensRights | 05/01/19 05:36 AM |
| 76 | Top UK Lawyer Commits Suicide After Female Colleagues Accuse Him of “Inappropriate Behavior” at Christmas Party; Media Focuses on Trauma of Female ColleaguesThe same number of women who quickly realised the modern divorce laws benefited them at the expense of men, and used the courts to transfer wealth from their husbands to themselves. | /r/MensRights | 03/01/19 04:04 AM |
| 2 | A Middle-Aged Career Woman on the Lies of Feminism She Learned Too LateDont forget fem centric welfare states wouldn't exist without male Tax payers, so either way, men are supporting women. Its just that now, the government has a gun to the head of every productive man. Im convinced Social welfare is what propping up this delusion among many women and feminists that women dont need men in the modern age. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/19 12:29 PM |
| 1 | A Middle-Aged Career Woman on the Lies of Feminism She Learned Too LateBut enough do that its starting to become a recurrent meme at this point. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/19 09:42 AM |
| 5 | A Middle-Aged Career Woman on the Lies of Feminism She Learned Too LateLooking at the childless and marriage statistics, I have no doubt that the current craziness from feminists and many modern women in generalwill likely get worse. Incels will look tame compared to the millions of frustrated spinsters looking to blame men for the fact that the choices they made when they were young, and their own gullibility to the feminist movement has made them miserable and lonely. If you think todays normalized anti male bigotry is bad, just wait when the third of unmarried m… | /r/MensRights | 02/01/19 09:38 AM |
| 6 | A Middle-Aged Career Woman on the Lies of Feminism She Learned Too LateAnd people wonder why Western men are increasingly dating foreign or non white women from more traditional backgrounds where men and women complement each other.. Honestly as someone who isnt white but who has dated women from both traditional cultures and those raised in this western culture, this is the main complaint I have against predominantly white women or those instilled with that western feminist "I must compete with men, or else I am lesser" mindset. I can understand why marriage rates… | /r/MensRights | 02/01/19 09:29 AM |
| 3 | The Fragile Male Ego Has Ruined Online Dating – Shannon Ashley [Archived]Just wait till the 2020s. Ive seen some pretty depressing stats on the growth of single motherhood and women who dont marry. If the media continues to pay lip service to these women, this sub will be full of articles and anti male hit pieces from all the frustrated and entitled leftover women. Anti male bigotry will get worse. Male Incels have nothing on these women. MRAs are going to have to get stronger and smarter to deal with the normalization of anti male bigotry, rooted in this phenomena, … | /r/MensRights | 02/01/19 06:27 AM |
| 24 | Male Feminist Kills Himself After Girl He Loves Falsely Accuses Him of Sexual Abuse at Women's MarchWho do you think indoctrinated him into the cult of feminism? | /r/MensRights | 02/01/19 06:09 AM |
| 2 | "Women bearing the brunt of job losses as age of automation takes hold, warns RSA"Lol. I remember a few years ago, there were countless of pro feminist articles in the MSM celebrating the loss of male dominated industries as an indicator of the fall of the patriarchy, and the traditional blue collar male breadwinner. This was when the famous feminist meme, “the future is female” became popular. In fact when men lost their jobs in the GFC, the increase in divorce rates, male suicides and loss of status pertaining to employment was laughed at as fragile masculinity or ignored. … | /r/MensRights | 01/01/19 10:12 AM |
| 2 | What would happen, if (by law) women were completely equal to men?If the welfare state operated under the law that men and women are equal in status and in need, there would be a whole lotta cuts to the gynocentric welfare system, and more support to men in need. Right now, our western welfare state operates under the paternalistic assumption that women need extra protection from the state whilst men are free to fend for themselves when things get tough. | /r/MensRights | 01/01/19 10:00 AM |
| 26 | Organizers cancel Women's March Jan. 19 due to 'overwhelmingly white' participantslol. Considering most of these movements are spearheaded by resentful upper middle class white women with an axe to grind against men higher up in the economic hierarchy, something tells me self preservation will kick in and any more claims that white women are too privileged to take part in these movements will be met with calls for unity against deh ebil patriarchy who conspiring to split women up. Dont assume these women arent idiots and dont know anything about purity spirals. | /r/MensRights | 30/12/18 07:20 AM |
| 2 | Is the new method of male birth control the ultimate symbol of male privilege?The pill or any other oral contraception aren’t enough to stop the spread of dangerous and life altering STDs. Condoms and other barrier protection is needed in this day and age of untreatable super gonnhorea outbreaks and rising HIV rates. If the author is so reliant on the Pill for her own sexual agency, then she’s got more problems than a little weight gain. It’s going to be irresponsible people like her which will make casual sex more dangerous for the average man. I would never date a woman… | /r/MensRights | 26/12/18 07:45 AM |
| 2 | The man-bashing train - full steam aheadOr you know, date women from communities that arent as affected by this culture of male hatred? White men need to realise that entitled and hypocritical WASP white women with inflated egos arent the be all, and end all of relationships. There are still communities where men are still respected. Ive recently been dating a Pakistani girl from university and shes a lot better than the girls I used to date. She call herself a cultural muslim but still respects the role of men play in society and doe… | /r/MensRights | 25/12/18 03:47 AM |
| 3 | Feminism's Dependency Trap | Female author describes how feminism indoctrinates women to believe they're oppressed by men, which makes them angry, hateful, helpless and without agency.I think its because feminists have suceeded in creating a whole generation of women who are reliant on the fruits of institutionalised/state feminism. Women who may posess some sense may be repulsed by the ugly side of feminism, but still feel the need to support the sisterhood or stay silent because their livelyhoods or careers depend on feminist hegemony within culture, corporate and government structures. From single mothers who benefit from the feminist welfare state transferring wealth from… | /r/MensRights | 22/12/18 09:12 AM |
| 2 | An argument can be considered domestic violence - New South Wales PoliceOr most likely the state. Feminists are statists | /r/MensRights | 03/12/18 12:24 PM |
| 102 | Men should pay for the first date because of the gender pay gap and makeup is expencive. More rubbish from the BBCWomen out earn men under 30. https://www.theguardian.com/money/2015/aug/29/women-in-20s-earn-more-men-same-age-study-finds | /r/MensRights | 24/11/18 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Men 25-34 see biggest increase in unemployment in decadesI wonder if these phenomenas are interrelated https://www.cnsnews.com/news/article/barbara-hollingsworth/bachelor-nation-70-men-aged-20-34-are-not-married | /r/MensRights | 17/11/18 12:28 AM |
| 6 | Women in the 16th century sued their husbands for erectile dysfunctionehh, in the past men were also allowed to sue women or their families and leave them destitute if they were barren. Not a good argument. Being an MRA doesn't mean that we need to be in a constant competition with feminist to appear more of the victim, especially when it entails historical revisionism. Most people who werent apart of the elite were treated horribly in the past, irrespective of their gender. . | /r/MensRights | 10/11/18 03:29 PM |
| 3 | The reason why feminism in 2018 is so over the top and hateful is because there’s really nothing more to gain. The entire movement is just based around trying to change opinions of INDIVIDUALS. That’s it, they have equal opportunity under the American system.No, its because the underlying agenda of feminism is the destruction of all male dominated power structures. Female rights is secondary when it comes to the concerns of institutionalized intersectional feminists. The average feminist is so obsessed with power, they ignore how the average women have it better than the average man . Female lack of rights, have given way to privileges within the welfare state, the judicial system and culture, and so the average feminist is now fixated on the fact t… | /r/MensRights | 10/11/18 01:15 PM |
| 7 | NBC’s program "Will & Grace" - Marriage is a Weird Thing Invented by Straight Men to "Own Women"Lol. Alimony laws would say otherwise | /r/MensRights | 02/11/18 01:20 PM |
| 2 | Illegal Immigration and Men's RightsEhh._ The immigration debate from MRA point of view is a lot more complex and nuanced than your straw man(no direspect intended). Whilst its unfair how male illegal immigrants are treated in contrast to female illegal immigrants, you have to remember that the phenomena of mass illegal immigration in general has a disproportionately negative effect on working class men, and their access to economic opportunities. So on one hand, we should be concerned about the dehumanization of male illegal immi… | /r/MensRights | 31/10/18 05:02 PM |
| 2 | What's Killing America's White Men? BBC NewsThe weird thing is, in my experience, ive known more white women who would bemoan white men and subscribe to nonsensical theories about white men than non white men. Im mixed race, and Ive never heard any of my non white cousins or family friends say anything negative about white men or the so called white patriarchy. Actually many non white guys who arent steeped into victimhood culture are, at worst feel indifferent, and many I know have positive things to say about the societies white men hav… | /r/MensRights | 30/10/18 02:56 AM |
| 6 | Women are scared their man won't provide them enough money. Men are scared they will have a work place accident resulting in loss of limb or deathMate, i have a sister who has MS(who also has children) and every few days I clean her place when her symptoms flare up. And let me tell you this, unless you live with extremely messy children, cleaning a house isnt that difficult. And you only really need a big clean up session once every week. Other than that, its mostly doing dishes and cleanig the floor. The kids are epxected to clean their rooms. Dont fall for the lies feminists tell you when they say domestic duties should be considered eq… | /r/MensRights | 26/10/18 11:29 AM |
| 2 | "Equal" rightsIts not even about the ability of female athletes but total viewership. Women even prefer to watch male sports than female sports. | /r/MensRights | 26/10/18 09:25 AM |
| 3 | "Equal" rightsTennis already does it | /r/MensRights | 26/10/18 09:22 AM |
| 6 | Women are scared their man won't provide them enough money. Men are scared they will have a work place accident resulting in loss of limb or deathWomen are scared that not having a main breadwinner will mean they cant spend their 30s drinking wine in suburbia and having weekly picnics with their girlfriends, men are afraid theyll be forced into financial servitude if their wives leaves them after realising its gets boring drinking wine with friends for years, and she needs to discover herself again with that 30 year old hunk she met at the local cafe, while you slave away in your soul crushing job and think about killing yourself for fail… | /r/MensRights | 26/10/18 09:13 AM |
| 9 | Men think women don’t want to see them cry and feel shame showing emotion | I'm very skeptical of the claim that most women want men to show more emotion, at least in this context, because actions > survey answers.Oh my god, a woman with self awareness! Never thought Id see the day. I just cant wait untill men stop coddling women and lertting feminist set the narrative when it comes to male mental health. Yes ladies, it isnt deh patriarchy which limits men when it comes to exploring their emotions and reinforcing damaging notions of what it means to be a man, but women themselves. I think most men who deal with women know this but its depressing how long a lie can endure in this feminist cultural climate | /r/MensRights | 26/10/18 09:01 AM |
| 1 | Men's health doesn't matter at university in the UKThe psych wards are run by maniacs whilst the patients are the only sane ones. | /r/MensRights | 25/10/18 09:08 AM |
| 3 | Men's health doesn't matter at university in the UKAmazing. It’s almost like Tumblr has invaded the academics. | /r/MensRights | 25/10/18 09:03 AM |
| 7 | The price of feminist bigotry: Mother tortures and murders of her son, encases him in concrete. Father "had been fighting for custody of Evan in the months leading up to his death, and authorities had been alerted at least six times that Evan was being abused."“Mothers know best” | /r/MensRights | 25/10/18 08:52 AM |
| 6 | How can people on the right (Conservatives) help and support mens rights?Stop trying to convince men to tolerate traditional gender roles whilst saying nothing about how women can have their cake and eat it too. | /r/MensRights | 24/10/18 12:54 PM |
| 3 | BBC: Feminism can save the planetOh wow. Are they really going with this “women are the great saviours of the planet” narrative? Considering women gaining economic power was what inflated the consumer economy to the point where 80 percent of advertisement is now targeted towards women would suggest otherwise. | /r/MensRights | 20/10/18 08:57 AM |
| 12 | Karen Straughan explains the difference between how males are treated in traditionalist and feminist societiesUntil they’re in danger, in relationships or are planning to have families.... It’s all good to be independent, but the average empowered woman want it both ways. They want the choice of being freed from gender roles, responsibilities and independence. Yet also want men to abide by trad masculine gender roles and male disposability when it suits them. Male Tax payers must shoulder the burden of female centric welfare programs, whilst men have limited welfare and government support, which is help… | /r/MensRights | 12/10/18 10:30 AM |
| 1 | A scientist claims that scientists get fired for citing studies that contradicts the intersectionalist narrative, and a petition to fire him is formed. I mention that he was proven right by this, and get banned... niceSo if the year 2050, men are still recieving the vast majority of the Nobel prizes in the hard sciences, in spite of more than 50 years of female quotas, favouritism and a fem centric educational system and feminists still havent reconciled with the male variability hypothesis, I wonder how feminists of the future will explain the disparity? | /r/MensRights | 09/10/18 09:26 PM |
| 2 | Silly thought: How long would it take for feminists to start crying "oppression!" if they had to do ALL the paid labor and men were in charge of the household?Women were raped throughout history, but men and fighting age boys were usually massacred when an invading army occupies a territory. Both are shitty outcomes, but Id much rather be alive and traumatized than be worm food. And men were also raped as apart of demoralization tactics by foreign armies and adversaries, but since male rape is even more taboo than female rape, and male rape survivors get laughed at, many victims stay silenced. If we played this stupid game of who is the bigger victim,… | /r/MensRights | 08/10/18 09:34 AM |
| 3 | Silly thought: How long would it take for feminists to start crying "oppression!" if they had to do ALL the paid labor and men were in charge of the household?Mate, I clean up my sisters house when her MS symptoms flares up and she has 3 kids. Chores are not as difficult as so many women say they are. Yes, they sometimes become monotonous but isn’t that the case with most Jobs? I work as a labourer part time whilst I go to uni and my current job is far more difficult than cleaning up my sisters house. And it’s not like you’re cleaning your whole house every day. I have sisters who are housewives and they end up spending the whole day drinking wine, pl… | /r/MensRights | 08/10/18 06:54 AM |
| 2 | Silly thought: How long would it take for feminists to start crying "oppression!" if they had to do ALL the paid labor and men were in charge of the household?You do know that for much of recorded history, 99 percent men were denied those same rights as well? Both women and men were essentially properties of powerful landowners, and were limited to toiling the fields or dying in mines up until recently. This female victim hood narrative ignores 95 percent of recorded history where men and women were both disenfranchised by the ruling landowner class and occupied similar position in the social and economic hierarchy. Men only received the vote a few de… | /r/MensRights | 08/10/18 06:43 AM |
| 2 | This subreddit may be banned soon..I recently called out a post which was blatantly antisemitic, and which recieved a handful of votes. https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/9kwzl2/update_georgetown_professor_who_wanted_to/e736l1h/?context=0 Undercover feminists or incel/alt right migrants are creating these stupid threads, which will get us banned | /r/MensRights | 06/10/18 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Update: Georgetown Professor Who Wanted to Castrate Men's Corpses Suspended From Twitter // Notice Also How She, Like Representative Jerry Nadler use the AntiSemitic ((( Echo ))) Meme. Anyone Else Notice This?Theres a fare number of non Jewish twitter accounts and obnoxious SJWs who use the echo sign to show solidarity with the Jewish community,. This shouldnt mean anything, unless youre apart of the alt right. There are Jewish MRAs just as there are Jewish feminists. Maybe you can share this /pol/, where you can jerk yourself off in that retarded echo chamber instead of a subreddit which is against nonsensical Jewish conspiracies and discrimination of all kinds, and which those who wish to do our mo… | /r/MensRights | 03/10/18 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Believe Women : Full page Bumble ad in the WSJ.How progressive! | /r/MensRights | 01/10/18 06:16 AM |
| 15 | Liberal activist and actress America Ferrera: "White men" will make us "handmaids" - take away our rights and votesI sometime wonder if these paranoid feminist women are more self aware than we give credit and secretly know that how they treat men is unjust, and feel like theres going to be a severe pushback against feminism, so they double down. Except they assume men behave like power hungry vindictive sociopathic feminists when men would put themselves at risk for women. Theres no such thing as female chivalry for example. Theyre just projecting their own sick impulses onto men. And btw, the average man g… | /r/MensRights | 30/09/18 07:24 AM |
| 3 | I don't see anyone saying it, so I'm going to. I don't give a damn of your political beliefs, but the Kavanaugh fiasco should be concerning to everyone here.I feel like we are on the precipice of a sort of a gender cold war. This is not good. | /r/MensRights | 30/09/18 06:03 AM |
| 3 | Thoughts on feminists and their idea of sex-based segregation?I think it’s honestly one of the few good ideas to come from modern feminism. At this point, I think it’ll be healthy for men to have seperate working quarters from women, so they can be focused on working and not on whether theyre a stare or a smile away from sexual assault allegations. MeToo has created so much tension in the workplace. I also think men work better together and can form better comradeship with other men, without the presence of women. Sex segregration in schools will also mean… | /r/MensRights | 20/09/18 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Seen at my university’s cork board near the cafeteria today.Free Speech Fascist dogwhistle | /r/MensRights | 18/09/18 10:44 PM |
| 2 | I want to talk about r/twochromosones for a secI thought people here already knew this? I mean most idealogues dont have insane opinions on every issue, just those important issues which might threaten their ideological worldview and narrative like the alleged existence of white male patrarchy keeping women down or gender social constructionism | /r/MensRights | 16/09/18 11:52 PM |
| 1 | If feminists believed their own bullshit they would be demanding sex segregationMenlibs | /r/MensRights | 16/09/18 01:12 AM |
| 4 | If feminists believed their own bullshit they would be demanding sex segregationYet feminists, while embracing all the theories of political lesbians, never advocate the one solution that would solve the alleged problem. This leads me to conclude a few things: subconsciously at least, feminists are aware that (a) about 95 percent of men are good people who want to help, not harm women (they are in fact exploiting the good nature of men for their own nefarious ends) (b) their theories are therefore bullshit c) if women did strike out on their own and create a female-only soc… | /r/MensRights | 16/09/18 01:10 AM |
| 8 | The overlap between MRAs and MGTOW; Your thoughts?Well until the imbalances that are powering gynocentrism in the legal system and society, not to mention male disposability are addressed, I think MGTOW seems like the only rational option for many men. I dont support some of the misogyny that emanates from that community but I can understand their frustration. | /r/MensRights | 11/09/18 11:44 AM |
| 2 | "I’m fed up with people criticising new mums for drinking alcohol – it’s SEXIST, and it’s unscientific". Says non-scientific feminist, who drinks, and runs a giftshop...From society condoning Single motherhood with all its drawbacks and social ramifications because female empowerment reasons, to this, its clear that mothers are being held to different standards to fathers. | /r/MensRights | 11/09/18 11:22 AM |
| 3 | Women are tax-negativeI know this is going into incel territory but I think it’s important that we discuss also how an expansive female centric welfare state disadvantages men in the dating market. sciencenordic.com/quarter-norwegian-men-never-father-children In Norway, the welfare state has warped the dating market so much that women, who would have otherwise valued working class and average looking men for their ability to provide are now rejecting a significant proportion of young men, who don’t measure up because… | /r/MensRights | 10/09/18 03:54 PM |
| 5 | Women are tax-negativeWell the premise that men only out earn women because of basically deh patriarchy is pretty stupid, which is what you’re eluding to. Men and women have equal chances of pursuing high paying stressful jobs, women just have different priorities in life. Women also have additional flexibility when it comes to life choices, whilst men are called bums for doing the same. Do you really think men want to spend their best years in the rat race and miss out on seeing their kids grow up, even for a margin… | /r/MensRights | 10/09/18 03:33 PM |
| 2 | ‘Feminist’ denial on all the ways women have it better | New York PostNah, too late. I hope they go full totalitarianism trying to imitate men, so they can be as miserable and tired as the average man. Women want to destroy gender roles to free themselves of responsibility , yet these women want to keep gender roles when it benefits them. I say they can have their cake. They can’t have it both ways. | /r/MensRights | 10/09/18 03:09 PM |
| 1 | White feminists are the most useless members of the victimization hierarchy. Race, ethnicity and sexual preference trump feminism.Why do you think Terfs are growing in numbers? | /r/MensRights | 06/09/18 06:39 AM |
| 2 | Student op-ed: Fifty-fifty gender ratio needed across the board for true 'equality'How about trade school? | /r/MensRights | 06/09/18 06:37 AM |
| 2 | This Is What Propaganda Looks Like - "New research confirms millennial men are leading a backlash against women’s rights" - Nice Headline, But What About The Rest?It sounds like Feminists in Australia wants benevolent sexism, and double standards in gender roles when it advantages them, and are angry that men are starting to wakeup | /r/MensRights | 06/09/18 03:26 AM |
| 11 | This Is What Propaganda Looks Like - "New research confirms millennial men are leading a backlash against women’s rights" - Nice Headline, But What About The Rest?Ignoring the rad feminist diatribe, its good that young men are starting to wakeup. Really encouraging stuff. | /r/MensRights | 05/09/18 01:32 PM |
| -2 | Why Women Are So Unhappy & Taking it Out on Men?please go back to r/MGTOW | /r/MensRights | 05/09/18 01:25 PM |
| 3 | You don't want to be a 1950's wife, but you want a 1950's husband. You want to define what real manhood is, but you don't want men to define what womanhood is.Unfortunately this belief is pretty common among women, even those who consider themselves progressive. | /r/MensRights | 05/09/18 09:54 AM |
| 3 | Countries where women clearly do better: Mexico, Brazil, Japan, Finland, USA. Where men do better: Italy, Slovenia, the Benelux countries. (Click "gender differences" in the topics box.)Women purportedly fair better in mexico, the US and Brazil than in Holland and Germany. So women do worse in countries where gender relations arent defined by double standards and benevolent sexism to their benefit . | /r/MensRights | 30/08/18 02:57 PM |
| 9 | Ever notice every passing trans man tends to be shocked when they enter a "man's world"?Its why i never understand why some reactionaries within the MRA movement feel so strongly against Trans right. These guys need to understand that trans men have the opportunities to tell the world how living like a man is not filled with privilege, as feminists led the west to believe, but responsibility, alienation and pain. Theyre the perfect advocate for Mens rights,since they have a unique perspective on gender equality and experiences of both men and women. And to the SJWs and progressive … | /r/MensRights | 30/08/18 12:26 PM |
| 1 | STUDY: Feminists more willing to 'sacrifice' menI wonder what folks at r/2Xchromosomes and r/feminism will say that about this study? | /r/MensRights | 05/06/18 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Female privilege in Indian metro trainsI know I'll get downvoted, but I'll never understand why Indian posters here think what happens in their country is any way comparable to the west, where gynocentrism is almost ingrained into law and culture. Whereas in India, you guys have an actual problem with the treatment women, and is the case in most developing countries. I mean for example, there's a perfectly good reason why there's a separate carriage for women in Indian trains. Anyone who'd know anything about India would know that th… | /r/MensRights | 03/06/18 04:00 AM |
| 3 | Is #MeToo worsening the divide between men and women?Yes,like the privilege of dying in a war or seeing your body become crippled by decades of manual labour in mines and factories, and dying from iron lungs. | /r/MensRights | 29/05/18 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Getting banned from TwoXChromosomes for being active in other communities, but not for my posts there.....Just shows you how much they value free speech. Well I guess I can't fault them for their honesty of quashing any kind of discussion that isn't just a circle jerk or sounding board.Ah yes, is that the Pro feminist sub that wants to dispel sexist female archetypes about PC obsessed neurotic women incapable of having a rational debate without premeditated censorship? | /r/MensRights | 16/04/18 02:46 AM |
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