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| 985 | If He Wanted To, He Would 💍 | FDS SUCCESS! | wepersisted | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 07:16 PM |
| 341 | Pick a Partner, NOT a Project | MOOD FOR LIFE | wepersisted | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 08:25 PM |
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| 10 | How much do you expect your SO to spend on gifts for special occasions?Effort definitely means the most. It needs to demonstrate that he's attentive, with a profound perception of what's important to me. Along with that, though, gift giving often involves a monetary component, because candidly, that's how a lot of men (and people in general) show that they value someone else. Effort requires not only thought, but also substance. For example, one of my suitors bought me a designer bag, which cost thousands of dollars, as a "just because" present because he saw how I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 08:24 AM |
| 3 | What are some tell tale signs a man is into porn?Almost every guy I've dated has been pornsick. Here are a few clues, from my personal experience: He follows IG/OF/"fitness" models. Even worse if he actively likes their posts, comments, etc. I've blocked and deleted a lot of men because of this. He is protective over his phone and laptop. Watch out for men who are glued to their tech and bring it everywhere with them. He might be waiting for a chance to search something problematic when he thinks he's alone. He may also accuse you of "snooping… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 11:00 PM |
| 53 | This is What LVM consider “great dating” and gaslight us into believing is acceptable. Hope the PickMe Woman Who Settled for these Low Effort Dates Wakes Up...Scrotes are entitled, embarrassing trash. Nothing about this is a date, and he knows it too. He's thrilled to get away with it. Every guy I've seen for longer than a few days has recognized this without a second thought. They've never tried to pressure me with a "lazy day in" or any "Netflix and chill" nonsense. Just last week, one man I've been dating surprised me with a shopping day at a luxury designer store, where he asked me to pick out anything I liked. Then he treated me to a lovely dinne… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Pick a Partner, NOT a ProjectSo true. I love that. Thank you for sharing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 07:04 PM |
| 2 | Pick a Partner, NOT a ProjectOf course, sis! It's always important to focus on leveling up. However, nothing should stop you from having high standards when it comes to selecting a potential partner, no matter where you currently are in life. My personal rule is that all of my money stays my money whereas the purpose of his money is to support us, and I'm looking for a generous and financially stable man who understands that and is happy to provide. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 05:17 AM |
| 2 | Pick a Partner, NOT a ProjectThank you! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Pick a Partner, NOT a ProjectI'm so glad you liked it! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 05:12 AM |
| 8 | Why we don't do "girlfriend" titleHa, yes, pretty much! My general rule of thumb is that I will have exactly one conversation with a man about this before I block and delete. Regardless of whether he acts combative or "confused" (despite the fact that I just explained it to him), I refuse to waste my time. 👋 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 04:33 AM |
| 13 | Why we don't do "girlfriend" titleI primarily meet men through my social circles. I join professional organizations, attend networking events, and try out various social activities. I don't go there looking to chat with men (I select where I want to go and what I want to do based only on what I'm interested in), but it tends to happen naturally over time. In addition, I advertise to my best friends that I'm actively dating. All of this is hit-or-miss, but I've found it to be much more reliable than OLD. In my personal experience… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 04:02 AM |
| 106 | Why we don't do "girlfriend" titleThis is gold. Precisely the reason I refuse to be anyone's "girlfriend." I will never have a boyfriend. I only have suitors until I find a man who enriches my life to such a degree that marriage or lifelong commitment looks appealing. Ladies, please consider only dating multiple men if you choose to date at all. In my opinion, dating doesn't benefit us otherwise. Here are a few of my observations from dating openly over the past year (collectively, as I didn't date during the height of the pande… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 07:57 PM |
| 3 | Future Queen!We’re trying to thrive in a system that was created for men with stay at home wives. Men bosses are toxic abusers to their women subordinates, even if they don’t sexually harass them. I have so much trauma from corporate jobs, and unlike a bad relationship I couldn’t leave. The Girl Boss aesthetic is so far from the reality. Amen, sister. I feel exactly the same way. I've been struggling with staying in my current career for this very reason. I've studied for years to enter a profession that is … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 06:21 AM |
| 27 | 🚩 RED FLAGS 🚩 Career edition 🤭😳 (psychopath edition 🥲🧛♂️)I have dated CEOs, lawyers, and doctors, and YEP, this is spot-on. I'd add engineers and professors to the list, from my experience. Never dated anyone from the clergy, but I did briefly date a guy I met in a singles group from church who turned out to be a huge cheater. The moral of the story is that so many men are trash, regardless of the profession and across the board. Keep your standards high, my fellow queens. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 05:54 AM |
| 27 | Don’t Let him Skip the CourtshipAmen to this. The cheapest men I've had the displeasure of dating were doctors, lawyers, and engineers. It has nothing to do with the guy's profession or bank account and everything to do with his personal sense of generosity. So many times they try to suggest coffee, hiking, or walking as a first date. Um, nope, dude. No way in hell am I putting in any effort into my appearance, blocking out time from my busy schedule, and risking my welfare to waste an hour with your pathetic ass. Make it make… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 05:48 AM |
| 15 | Why 50/50 is NOT FAIR50/50 is such a scam and a huge red flag. It's used as an irrational excuse for men to act lazy, low effort, and entitled. I block and delete any guy who even mentions this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 11:12 PM |
| 172 | Nah a degree >>> a man. A man can leave, die or be broke. You will always have your degree & it will always put money in your pocket. A good piece of Red Velvet cake can replace a husbandYES. Degree >>> a man, always and forever. Looking back, I'm so grateful that I prioritized my education over finding a relationship. Personal investment is essential; it's the key to stability and success. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 07:59 PM |
| 111 | Nah a degree >>> a man. A man can leave, die or be broke. You will always have your degree & it will always put money in your pocket. A good piece of Red Velvet cake can replace a husbandYou're amazing! Way to level up, and congrats on pursuing your PhD!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 07:53 PM |
| 8 | Remember, wanting gifts isn't shallow or materialistic, but it's also your right to decide what kind of gifts and level of effort you're willing to accept. Me? That pink flower better be made of gold, buddy. 🤣🤣🤣Here's the rule I personally follow: if a guy can't provide for me in at least the same way that I can provide for myself, what good is he? I don't need a man to take care of me, but I'm looking for someone who wants to take care of me. Otherwise, I'm lowering my standards and opening myself up for potential exploitation. I expect a partner, not a project. The most generous man I've dated was a grad student who worked part-time. He didn't have much, but he would pay his bills and then anything l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 07:44 PM |
| 5 | I design and made this - self love strategy.These are so lovely! Great job! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 05:04 PM |
| 19 | FDS Podcast Episode 2 is HERE!!! FAQs about Feminism, Double Standards, Being Friends with an ExI love this podcast so much! Very compelling points about men who stay friends with their exes or other women they've slept with, had crushes on, etc. I've had awful experiences with this. Worst case scenario, they will be unfaithful or they're looking to keep their options open. Best case scenario, they lack any understanding of proper boundaries. One guy I dated had a serious relationship for several years without proposing to his ex or marrying her (🚩), did not break off communication with he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 03:12 AM |
| 22 | Defining GF and Wife BenefitsYes, thank you! Honestly, this is the best approach. We do ourselves a disservice if we limit our options or tie ourselves down to one man without the commitment of marriage. So many men have no issues (morally or practically) with wasting our time. They experience virtually no consequences, while we suffer a plethora of them. I refuse to be anyone's forever girlfriend and allow a LVM or NVM to drain me emotionally, physically, and financially. I'm enjoying my life on my own and dating multiple … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 02:47 AM |
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