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It is when you tell someone to be a man by upholding an unmanly promise.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 10:52 PM
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One of my favorite FRs ever. Well done. between 27-35. I have had no success with that age bracket. Ah, the old "I need to get married immediate bracket." For an older guy, its fun having 3 plates but it is exhausting. 2 are better/more manageable. But don’t forget “new business development” is part of an abundance mentality. I like having a main plate and a backup. Anymore plates than that and the shit seems like a choir. Gotta save time for yourself. I'm constantly keeping my eyes open for new…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 10:03 PM
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I'm not pulling her away. I agree that'd be fucking pathetic. I just quoted the way the guy I responded to phrased it. I do it with a gentle hand on her back. If you read my response to OP, you will see the kind of scenario I'm envisioning. Why should you need to move from your current spot for him? Again, in my scenario, I was coming out of the bathroom and she was waiting for me. That wasn't our spot. Had I left her at our spot on the dance floor though and came back, I would simply start danc…
/r/askTRP29/01/16 09:28 PM
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No problem. I think other guys in here bring up valid strategies and points but I just don't put up with the nonsense anymore. I'm not gonna chat up every guy who hits on my girl when I take a piss.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 09:14 PM
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Lead and she will follow. Maybe by taking her hand and walking away amused? So you don't care if she fucks other dudes when your not there, but you care if she doesn't readily follow you as you pull her away from the situation? Very odd... How I am treated is what is important to me. What she does on her own is of no concern to me. I assume all of my plates are constantly banging other dudes even though in all likelihood they are probably not. It's so much more drama free. You strip them of all …
/r/askTRP29/01/16 09:11 PM
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I don't care what she does when I'm not there. I have zero control over what a woman does when she is not with me. I realized that long long ago.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 09:01 PM
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Yeah I think I'm starting to realize that the situation has to be a little more defined to determine how to react. I think both trying to walk your girl away and trying to engage the dude could both be seen as mate guarding if done improperly. The way I do it though, I just act as if the dude is legit not worth my time. I'm here to snag my woman kind of vibe. I'm better than the dude she is talking to and I know it. However, if I did that to some dude who was like legit being friendly with her a…
/r/askTRP29/01/16 08:53 PM
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I guess I can see that perspective. The way I do it, I definitely do not let on in the slightest that I'm threatened by him. I act amused the whole time. However, I'm not going to validate him or her by giving him any of my time. I guess I am picturing the scenario I described in my reply to OP though, where the dude was clearly clearly hitting on her. I think that in a scenario where it was just some dude kind of chatting with her and they are both laughing or whatever, then I think engaging th…
/r/askTRP29/01/16 08:48 PM
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take your dates hand and say let's go Step 1 through 10 for me. I don't get why the hell you would give the guy two seconds of your time. If she resists, you just figured out all you need to know about your date and you next the fuck out of there. Be prepared for non stop phone calls and texts once you bounce. EDIT: Not literally pulling her away. That'd be pathetic indeed. Gently lead her elsewhere. Imply that it is her choice to choose you or him.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 08:38 PM
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What is there to gain by engaging with them? What is the best possible outcome of that? Flexing your dominance over him in front of your plate? A lot of you guys are saying this but I don't get why in the world you wouldn't just snag your girl and walk away, ignoring the dude the whole time. If she tries to stay with him she gets nexted. I don't pretend girls don't know when they are getting hit on. If my date is getting hit on, she knows she better blow that dude off or I'm out of there.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 08:35 PM
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Abundance mentality. Use it as a test to see how your girl reacts. Your power move is to walk away, as always. So I was at a nightclub two weekends ago with my main plate and had to use the bathroom twice and leave her chilling alone. I was gone maybe one minute both times. Both time, when I got back, this same Mexican dude was aggressively hitting on her. She really wasn't putting up much of a fight either. I won't lie, when I saw it was the same guy the second time, I was a little weirded out.…
/r/askTRP29/01/16 08:28 PM
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I'm also a very active music listener. I have a hard time not intently listening to whatever music is playing. Seems distracting. To each their own of course.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 07:39 PM
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♪♫♪♫ Smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack smack ♪♫♪♫
/r/askTRP29/01/16 07:29 PM
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Heh one of my good friends who is a skinny bro started working out and for some reason or another we were talking about protein shakes. I mentioned I used milk in mine and he's like "Dude use water milk is just fat." Welp he never saw results and gave up shortly after that.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 07:02 PM
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Yeah I just think back to my mindset before I started lifting, and I know if you had told me I was capable of puttig on 50 lbs of muscle I woulda have called bullshit.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 06:12 PM
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A man would never ever make such a promise in the first place.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 05:47 PM
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I'm cringing so hard right now. Holy shit.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 05:47 PM
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113lb 6'4 to an incredibly well built 181 6 pack the works Incredible. You should really post before and after pics to the fitness or redpill subreddits. I think a lot of skinny guys do not realize how much muscle they are capable of putting on.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 05:34 PM
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Work on increasing how much you can lift every single time you go to the gym. That is progress. The mirror gains will come with.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 04:55 PM
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I know. I'm hoping that by standing next to you I just look good by comparison.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 04:53 PM
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Nope. My beezy.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 04:35 PM
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Ah my mistake. Deleted. Now I agree she was just a bitch.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 04:35 PM
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This is a good list, but for the 9-5 working man, good luck accomplishing this every day. I think the app should be designed to where if you do any 5 or 6 of these a day, then you have completed your day. Or you could wear a neck harmonica while rockclimbing.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 04:31 PM
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Asked out my oneitis on a date and she agreed. Stopped reading. Stop using our terminology to be a bitch.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 04:28 PM
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Well whatever you were doing didn't work. That's literally all we can tell you from the shit quality of this post.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 04:18 PM
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Even BTC is traceable if whoever is auditing your funds is astute. It's really not. I send a bitcoin to nitrogensports.eu (bitcoin sportsbook), or an exchange like Bitfinex or OKcoin, then I withdraw it to a few addresses I created offline. There is no way for anyone to prove what addresses belong to me, nor is it possible for them to prove that I didn't lose my private keys in a boating accident.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 09:25 PM
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You know that the bitcoin history of transactions is all public. It's extremely easy to mask what you are doing with your bitcoin to the point that nobody would ever know for sure what address yours are at. And more than 2/3 of all bitcoin exchanges have ran with the money So don't keep your Bitcoin on a shady exchange. Sorry you got goxxed dude, but blame gox, not bitcoin. If you had USD on there, it would have been the same story.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 09:15 PM
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TRP and Bitcoin, my two favorite things. All I am going to add is the necessary disclaimer about Bitcoin: At this time, it is a speculative asset, and no one knows what the hell your Bitcoins will be worth in a month, let alone in a few years. They could be worth way more, they could be worth $0. It is still technically possible to store your wealth in Bitcoin without subjecting yourself to that risk though, by opening a short position on an exchange of equal size to your bitcoin holdings. That …
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 09:11 PM
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Can even follow it up with something like "I think you look great, just a lot different." They will think you are just backtracking to save their feelings and now the ball is in your court.
/r/askTRP28/01/16 08:50 PM
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Yup, or say you want to go run on a treadmill, ride a bike, swim, whatever. Any excuse to get a membership and get into the gym.
/r/askTRP28/01/16 07:24 PM
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Not only would asking them likely make them want to stop talking with you, but it will also put you in a bad light for getting laid. I like to ask a girl about her number at some point during the first date, but you have to be very very careful with how you do it. You do not want to activate her ASD. If you indicate to her that you prefer a girl who doesn't sleep around, then that's exactly the girl she will pretend to be in order to win you over. That means your chances of getting laid just dro…
/r/askTRP28/01/16 07:19 PM
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Captain hindsight checking in. You should not have started an LTR with a HB6. You have given away your commitment and therefore your freedom. One other thing I'll say: I guarantee you if HB6 got asked out by chad, she wouldn't think twice about accepting that date. She doesn't give a shit about your feelings.
/r/askTRP28/01/16 07:02 PM
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Sounds like you are fighting a little fictional battle in your head. That's a waste of time when you could be using that cognitive energy for better things. Try meditation.
/r/askTRP28/01/16 07:00 PM
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I can tell you this much: For two years, I had a routine that had a few compound exercises mixed in with a bunch of isolated exercises. Squats/bench/deadlift were in my routine, but usually once a week each, whereas I would hit isolated exercises generally twice a week. This gave me great results, hence doing it for two years. However, I kind of plateaued on all my exercises for a few months, so I thought I'd switch it up. 5x5 SL was something I'd heard a lot about but never tried. So I tried it…
/r/askTRP28/01/16 06:55 PM
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Yes if you read the rest of my post after that quoted line, you will see we agree completely.
/r/askTRP28/01/16 06:34 PM
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Deadlifts are the most primal form of strength too: Being able to pick something up and carry it. It's fun to know that I could lift Shaq up if only he was shaped like a barbell.
/r/askTRP28/01/16 06:12 PM
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I love starting off dates with "Oh hey, almost didn't recognize you. When did you take your tinder pictures?" Has them clawing for your approval from the start when they showed up thinking they had it in the bag.
/r/askTRP28/01/16 05:57 PM
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Breh I get this all the time too. I know I could probably get some better pictures if I really put forth the effort, but I also legit just don't think I'm very photogenic. I hate having my picture taken and I think it shows.
/r/askTRP28/01/16 05:56 PM
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Classic case of pay attention to what they do and not what they say. What she said to her friends who she wants to look great too: "This is his last chance to treat me like the little princess that I want you guys to think I am." What she is doing: Paying for herself twice and agreeing to a third date. She is interested, she is just trying to save face with her friends. If you had managed to already bed her, she wouldn't be down talking you to her friends. DO NOT PAY. If splitting the check come…
/r/askTRP27/01/16 09:27 PM
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Dude, what is a fantasy you've had for a long time that you've always wanted to try? Tell her to do that.
/r/askTRP27/01/16 08:16 PM
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Focus on getting yours man. So fucking true man. Girls are much more concerned with you getting yours anyways. Of course they want to get theirs too, but try these two things and let me know which one upsets the chick more. Guys who have had a moment of ED whether drunk or for whatever reason can all agree that that shit makes the woman extremely insecure. Finish in 2 minutes. Get your quick. Make no effort at doing anything for her after. Finish without getting off, or tell her you can't get tu…
/r/askTRP27/01/16 08:14 PM
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IMO she has/had a thing with bartender bro and was using you to try to make him jealous. Why else in the world would she be so set on visiting him twice during your date? She has likely been alpha widowed by him. She had no intention of ever actually sleeping with you. Oh and you made out with a chick who had a cold sore a week earlier. Yeah yeah yeah, we all have mouth herpes from our grandmas. I don't care, I don't get cold sores and I'm not kissing a girl who does.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 03:29 PM
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Well getting their number is best, but getting their snapchat is better than nothing if you have a happening social life. I personally suck at social media, but I know plenty of dudes who get more tail off facebook/insta/snapchat than anything just because their life looks cool and that's all bitches be caring bout yo.
/r/askTRP27/01/16 03:20 PM
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I'm gonna assume you still happily accept condom-less BJs though.
/r/askTRP27/01/16 03:15 PM
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Exactly what you did by asking them to meet up. "polarize" in the sense of make them give you a yes or no. Girl's with no life seeking validation will chat you up 24/7 with no intention of actually meeting you in person. By polarizing, you are figuring out if they are worth your time or not. To answer you original question, yes that means they were not interested in you more than for validation. Happens to the best of us. It might be no reflection on you whatsoever, as they may already be juggli…
/r/askTRP27/01/16 03:12 PM
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You know how I learned the answer to this question? I bulked and then cut. It was well into my cut that people started telling me my arms looked bigger. Looking good is about definition. Feeling good is about how much you can lift.
/r/askTRP26/01/16 09:50 PM
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I know. I feel like captain hindsight in that sub, but the only other advice I can give some of these people is "Dude, you are fucked. Sorry?"
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 07:43 PM
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"Of course, I love your body too, babe." Wait, so you say this to her, and you are surprised that she doesn't work out? Man you have dug yourself a hole here. Going to be hard to suddenly switch to dread. You certainly don't have to call her fat or anything haha but when she is fishing for you to say something nice about her body, letting some of her insecurity out, all you have to do is not say a damn thing. Silence can be the best communication ever. I would withhold all compliments of her bod…
/r/askTRP26/01/16 07:38 PM
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And if he left her in the dust for that behavior, I'd praise the hell out of it. That's the thing about all the relationships subreddit problems people have. For some reason or another, they have put themselves in a situation where walking away is not an option. Then when the boat starts leaking, all they can do it patch it up over and over.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 07:32 PM
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What I don't get is, why does this bother me? Our interaction with the rest of the world is entirely dependent on your reputation and how others view you. Him attacking that is him attacking your ability to interact with the world. I'd have to know a lot more specifics to advise you on how to deal with it. I like stuff along the lines of "Ya know, I haven't met someone so skilled at giving me nicknames since that girl who had a crush on me in the 6th grade."
/r/askTRP26/01/16 07:28 PM
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"Yet here we are. Now about that friend..."
/r/askTRP26/01/16 05:43 PM
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I was watching old Entourage episodes with a girl this past weekend. She asked me "So do you just like this show because of all the boobs and the awesome lifestyle they have?" I said "Nope, that's not the fantasy they are selling here. The fantasy they are selling is being a part of a male friend group with clearly established pecking orders who are all looking out for each other no matter what. That's extremely hard for guys to find these days."
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 05:12 PM
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It was the best of times, it was the worst of times...
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 05:07 PM
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Kinda. Both were very different. The first time I basically was just a baller haha. I was going to bed, two girls were spending the night at our place and both wanted to share my big bed with me. I had two isolated moments with each of them and made out with them both one on one. From there it was obvious where this was going. However, once we were all in bed, it was like I wasn't there. They mostly just wanted to play with each other. After one of them fell asleep (pretended most likely), the o…
/r/askTRP26/01/16 04:34 PM
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"That's what they all say." I've had my main plate trying to legit prove to me that she doesn't sleep with other guys for months now. I never told her she couldn't. In fact, I tell her that she can but should use protection. It's fucking hilarious seeing women try to win you over when they can't use sex against you.
/r/askTRP26/01/16 04:30 PM
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When it's obvious you are trying too hard. No one likes a try hard.
/r/askTRP26/01/16 04:19 PM
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I've had two MFFs, and both times it seemed like it was more of an excuse for them to go lesbian with each other than anything else. Also seemed like none of the girls were comfortable being with me in front of the other girl. ASD or whatever. This was before I worked out though and your results may vary.
/r/askTRP26/01/16 04:19 PM
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Compliment more women's physiques. Make it obvious that's what you are attracted to and what you want.
/r/askTRP26/01/16 04:16 PM
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"Is that just a down payment?" "Yeesh, be a little more discreet about selling yourself to me. Could be cops in here." Or if you aren't comfortable dissing them a little bit, go with something like "Nah but I'll play you in a game of [insert bar game] and winner buys."
/r/askTRP26/01/16 04:15 PM
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"I know what you're thinking, 'cause right now I'm thinking the same thing. Actually, I've been thinking it ever since I got here: Why oh why didn't I take the BLUE pill?" "You know, I know this steak doesn't exist. I know that when I put it in my mouth, the Matrix is telling my brain that it is juicy and delicious. After nine years, you know what I realize? Ignorance is bliss." It's called the red pill for a reason. Let me tell you what is truly exhausting: Being in a relationship with a girl w…
/r/askTRP25/01/16 08:31 PM
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Yes they were but guys couldn't call them out on it after going through their text/dating app history. Guys also didn't care as much because it wasn't hard for them to get some too.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 05:39 PM
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Nah just split the check when it comes. Beta-bucks disengaged.
/r/askTRP22/01/16 08:34 PM
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Dude you can order fancy earplugs customized for your ears. They not only will protect your ears, but will make the music sound better. I go to a lot of shows, and have two different friends who wear them to every show. It's very hard to tell they are wearing them, but they aren't concerned about that. They just brag about the improved sound quality and not being deafened. They run expensive, but this sounds like a no-brainer for you. Friends will tease you about all sorts of things but you just…
/r/askTRP22/01/16 07:47 PM
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When they arrive at your place: "Have you told anyone you were coming over here?"
/r/askTRP22/01/16 05:09 PM
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This happens all the time to me, and is sadly how most of my plates end. There is nothing blue about having human feelings of guilt IMO. Men are the caring sex. She doesn't give a shit about your feelings, I can guarantee ya that. The only way to get rid of the guilt is to be completely honest. Tell her that it will never be a serious relationship if it never will be. Don't lead her on into thinking she might win you into one. After that, it's completely on her if she keeps investing in you, and…
/r/askTRP21/01/16 09:44 PM
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I have no doubt that all these responses in here that deflect the question might work for some of these guys, but I don't get the point. I'm an engineer personally. That's probably the most beta-bux answer you could ever give. I give it anyways. I let the rest of my game get me out of the beta-bux light. It's pretty simple, just talk about sexual things and be outcome independent. Have abundance. Project pride and happiness in your work and don't bring up money. If I was every asked about how mu…
/r/askTRP21/01/16 08:49 PM
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Yeah women like sex breh. Start having some yourself. Problem solved. Stay single throughout college. Trust me.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 08:32 PM
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I can now work remotely from anywhere This is my goal. Be able to work from anywhere with good job security or some form of reliable income. Fuck being a barista or barback or some shit.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 05:27 PM
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When a good friend leans against my car I simply say get the fuck off my car. I wouldn't be any different to this guy.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 05:25 PM
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Things do come up. Friends' birthdays are not one of those things. You know about them ahead of time. I've been flaked on quite a few times, and I'd say 75% of the time, the excuse was a friend's birthday. I've also had girls make outlandish claims like that their friend burned their hand and she has to take them to the hospital. A flake is a flake, but a flake is way better than just getting stood up.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 10:11 PM
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IMO, two things here you are doing wrong. You are texting her for funsies. You aren't telling her anything meaningful about yourself or learning anything meaningful about her. You aren't pushing for a date. You are showing that your time is not valuable and the conversation is turning dull. She clearly had some serious interest at one point to even keep this lame conversation going this long. Don't be overly sexual before you even meet them. It's a given that men are sexual creatures. "Let's get…
/r/askTRP20/01/16 08:06 PM
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I 100% think there are many benefits to keeping sex as an intimate encounter in a LTR. The problem is finding girls that not only feel the same way, but also have the self control to stick to that. We play the hands we are dealt, and I have mostly been dealt sluts.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 04:18 PM
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I should have probably responded to OP directly but your post made me think of it. I agree on the no kids
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 03:53 PM
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Haha one of the "A number means nothing!" haters from the FR of a guy who sent a girl a drink is hating so hard he has now made his own post. Hilarious.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 03:48 PM
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Let me help you out. Assume all women are sluts. Now the logic is completely sound isn't it? We don't advocate LTRs here, but in the event that you want one, it is definitely in your benefit to take the power in the relationship from the get go by having her give over the only power she has (sex) from the get go.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 09:46 PM
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I think it goes both ways. I think both men and women like a challenge. The easier they give "it" up, the less I'm likely to think "it" is worth. If I get "it" easy, I think that I can get "it" and more with a little bit of effort. Why settle?
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 09:41 PM
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I've done a lot of testing with multiple pictures to see which pictures in which order got the best results. I have never gotten better results than when I use a picture I have of me with one of my most attractive female friends. It could be just because I look good and like I'm having fun in the picture, but I doubt it. It's social proof and pre-selection at the same time. I would certainly agree that a picture with an unattractive girl or your sister will not help you.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 09:36 PM
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Well done. DONE WITH HER. Why? Because she didn't follow with any plans to reschedule or do something else. In just 1 line of text I was able to determine her disposition toward me. Favorite part right there. Minimize effort, maximize results. Whether you got matched on Tinder, got her number at a bar/bookstore, or whatever, you have to accept that they may actually have no intention of meeting up with you. This is how you filter those ones out.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 09:22 PM
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Whenever I'm second guessing my TRP views (very rarely), I just head over /r/relationships to take a look at how the "normals" view relationships, proceed to vomit in my mouth, and head back to trp.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 04:19 PM
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Seriously? I've deleted my tinder and made a new one with a fresh facebook account multiple times, but not recently.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 08:39 PM
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If you made two facebook profiles and two correlating tinder profiles for your friend, and then tried to keep as much about them as consistent as possible, with the difference being that one has the abs pic as the first picture, and then swiped right on every girl for 1000 swipes each, and then compared results, that would be main sub worthy IMO.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 08:11 PM
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No you shouldn't and you know you shouldn't. I don't live with people who are somewhat messy, let alone people who legit made me want to kill myself before. ROFL.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 08:54 PM
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There is no secret. You just have to do it. The more you do it regularly, the more it becomes a habit. The more you bail on school/gym, the more that becomes your habit. I'm going to guess that your good phase last year was not that lengthy. Positive habits need to be established for at least 6 months, and usually a year or more. Something happened a few months ago and I just somehow stumbled into this shit hole way of living again. Stop misplacing blame. You make it sound like you weren't in co…
/r/askTRP14/01/16 08:17 PM
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Don't meet up with someone with their commitment level being "I might make it." Besides it obviously being a waste of time, it looks like you were willing to waste your time in exchange for nothing from her but a maybe, and it makes you look weak. Assume maybe means no. My go to response for maybes are "I can't make plans with a maybe." Be polarizing. Get a yes or a no. "I did" is anything but subtle. Go with "No worries maybe another time." How to show abundance? Soft next. Any future meeting w…
/r/askTRP14/01/16 07:18 PM
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It's going to take time and patience. Don't rush it or you will hurt yourself again. The trick with staying motivated (for me) when you know you have to start all over again is to develop a system where you consistently see results. You are either consistently lifting more wight (5x5 SL style), consistently running longer distances, consistently putting on weight, whatever. In your situation, I would recommend keeping track of your weight as the first goal. Set a goal of what weight you want to …
/r/askTRP14/01/16 05:09 PM
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Personally, I would be more confused and unsure of my own feelings and observations regarding the opposite sex. Those same feelings and observations would be there, but I wouldn't know how to articulate, and I would question if they made me a bad person, as it seemed like I was the only one who had these perspectives. TRP was basically an articulation of my own perspectives that I already had.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 07:34 PM
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If we only ever wanted what we already have, we wouldn't have reasons to push ourselves individually or as a society.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 07:31 PM
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Why do so many men get caught up with being "needed"? I've seen male friends and men in my family succumb to handing themselves over to a pathetic woman because of how manly it makes them feel for these wretched women to be 100% dependent on them. I love absolutely nobody but myself and my aging parents "needing" me to get by just fine. I don't need that commitment or responsibility. Anyways, back to your question. Instead of focusing on her needing you for manly protection, why not just focus o…
/r/askTRP13/01/16 05:55 PM
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