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| 3 | Techniques to get a girlfriend and not just a ONS? | whydidilose | /r/seduction | 27/02/15 04:44 AM | |
| 0 | How do I overcome being chronically modest? | whydidilose | /r/seduction | 29/06/15 06:00 PM |
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| 1 | How do you date good looking girls when you're not a good looking guy?Don't worry about him. Back in the day, when we were swinging hand to hand weapons at one another, it was beneficial to be bigger. Longer reach, larger weapon, and such. Nowadays, there's really no advantage to being taller or larger. Guns have evened the playing field, as hand eye coordination is in no way related to height. In fact, all things being even, it's better to be the smaller, faster accelerating target. And let's not forget that being short in a group of tall peoples (such as Scandin… | /r/seduction | 04/08/15 12:24 AM |
| 1 | How do I overcome being chronically modest?I don't really talk about my accomplishments in person. I just wanted to list specific examples so my post would be as concise as possible. Though in retrospect, maybe it would have been sufficient to just say that I've accomplished a lot, still don't feel proud of my accomplishments, and left it at that. I'll have to read up on imposter syndrome. Maybe give that mirror method or that book a go. And thank you for answering the last part of my post. I do most of those things that you mention but … | /r/seduction | 29/06/15 11:44 PM |
| 1 | How do I overcome being chronically modest?I appreciate the advice you've given me here. Maybe I am depressed and should seek some professional help. How would you apply meditation to something like this? Do you know any good starting places/references? My particular presentation of this problem was tailored to a message board. I just wanted to lay everything out in a factual list manner, as I thought that may be a better way for people to understand what I'm saying. I make it a point to not present a grocery list to women or go into int… | /r/seduction | 29/06/15 11:38 PM |
| 1 | How do I overcome being chronically modest?I appreciate the reply. Ditto on not leading conversations with what I've accomplished or what I have. If anything, I feel extremely awkward talking about those things in person. Maybe my thought pattern is wrong, but I thought that accomplishing things would boost my self confidence. Aside from working out to get in good shape (which was extremely difficult), none of my other accomplishments led to any type of confidence. Is there some other way to become confident aside from setting goals? Do … | /r/seduction | 29/06/15 11:33 PM |
| 1 | How do I overcome being chronically modest?I guess you aren't aware that humility = modesty? So you're advice does not help in the least. In person, I don't come off as an arrogant sociopath. I tried to emphasize this point by stating (multiple times) that listing my accomplishments was not me trying to brag. I know that other people would view some of those things as confidence boosters, but I do not. That said, is therapy a good course of action? Or is there any other way to reframe this problem that I'm having? How can I be proud of w… | /r/seduction | 29/06/15 06:30 PM |
| 3 | 'The One' doesn't really exist. Get over your Oneitis.Using 600k people as the total population is misleading. There are probably an additional 300k when you account for the nearest suburbs and influx of college students every August to May. | /r/seduction | 29/06/15 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with guys hitting on your girlHow am I to know that you had to work hard and go through lots of networking when your post read: "My family is filled with business people and lawyers; really, I think I'll be fine." There is a big difference between what you just described vs. your initial comment. I don't see how that could have been interpreted any other way. You should have posted that originally. And I'm still not understanding how I'm "salty as a peanut". This thread has nothing to do with me or my career. A guy posted a … | /r/seduction | 27/05/15 09:33 AM |
| 1 | Please, if you have a legit anxiety disorder, get it checked out!!Inaccurate comment. To say things lightly. | /r/seduction | 27/05/15 09:17 AM |
| 1 | Please, if you have a legit anxiety disorder, get it checked out!!I'm calling BS on all of the comments about benzodiazepines. With regards to drugs with physical/mental addiction potential, benzodiazepines are not something you need to be worried about. They are nowhere near as addicting as any type of pain medication, ADHD medication, or commonly used party drugs (MDMA, Cocaine, etc). Heck, physicians use benzodiazepines to treat addiction for other drugs and alcohol. Also, you would need to take an insanely high amount of Klonopin to overdose- I'm talking i… | /r/seduction | 27/05/15 09:17 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with guys hitting on your girlTo clarify, it is a point in your favor because you'll be getting a professional job due to luck (we don't get to pick our families), rather than something you can control (like working hard). Gotcha. Not sure where the saltiness and envy come from. We could talk about nepotism vs. merit in the philosophical sense, but I think it may be lost here. | /r/seduction | 26/05/15 09:31 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with guys hitting on your girlI don't think the above comments from that dude are relative to the discussion, but nepotism isn't really a point in your favor... | /r/seduction | 26/05/15 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Techniques to get a girlfriend and not just a ONS?Thank you for the thorough response. Those are all valid questions that I hadn't really considered. I guess I just always talked about those things before sex and not during(?)/after. So I should do less fluff talk post-sex. Gotcha. Do you have any good recommendations for books that talk about building conversation techniques? I thought I had a handle on this since I feel I have interesting/odd things to say. But a lot of women tell me that they "just don't feel a connection". I guess their con… | /r/seduction | 27/02/15 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Techniques to get a girlfriend and not just a ONS?Thanks for the response. I'll have to try out the denial thing that you mentioned. Would you also do that on D2 or just D1? | /r/seduction | 27/02/15 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Techniques to get a girlfriend and not just a ONS?That makes sense. Those are all good tips. Appreicated. | /r/seduction | 27/02/15 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Need a wingman? List your location and search for sedditors in your area.Manchester, NH | /r/seduction | 16/12/14 12:49 AM |
| 2 | Girl I've been seeing for a couple of months sometimes doesn't reply to me. I last texted her "If you're free tomorrow let's hangout" and got nothing back. Also, previous to that text, I tried to make plans (in person) for this weekend and she gave me a "I'll have to see."I think you let her know by directing your attention towards other things. From your two posts, it seems to me that she is playing games. I get the impression that you've devoted more time and resources into this relationship than she has. It seems really one sided, as you've paid for most of the activities and she hasn't reciprocated with you meeting her family or friends. A 23 year old would/should want to show off her older, cooler boyfriend to her friends. If she isn't doing this then.. Well… | /r/seduction | 12/12/14 01:41 AM |
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