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No. Redpill is about being a man - which means having integrity, morals, drive etc. If you want multiple women, you do it in the open, upfront and with your partner's knowledge. You stand behind your decisions with conviction, not hiding them.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/26 01:40 AM
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Yeah - this is what most men get wrong. Redpill is 100% about YOU. Getting women is just a side benefit - NOT the point of RP.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/25 07:18 AM
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I've been following redpill for about 7yrs. It really helped me end my bad marriage and develop me. These first 3 chapters are good. I'd be keen to read the rest. Remember: advertising is about selling you something you WANT. (Even making you want it). If you have a good life, great friends, wonderful partner - then what can they sell you?
/r/TheRedPill05/06/25 03:07 AM
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Modern RedPill is not the same as what it started as. Modern RedPill is almost just pick up artistry. But it started as something much better.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/25 09:16 PM
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M49 here, divorced. Of COURSE you express love to someone else in YOUR language. That's natural because those are the actions/things that you think 'count'. Until you realise that others may have a different language. You are obviously aware that your language is different to your spouse. Is he aware? Does he know about the 5LLs? Does he know yours? That may be a great conversation. When I discovered the 5LLs, I realised my partners language was different. I then did things differently for her. …
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/24 10:50 PM
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RedPill is about helping men to see the world the way it IS. So... it doesn't matter if women AGREE or not. But if you're asking if RedPill is TRUE, well duh - that's the whole point.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/24 07:28 AM
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I'm a RedPill theory man, 48yrs old, have followed for 7+yrs. I also agree - this forum is great! You're able to discuss gender specific 'roles' and behaviours that allow men and women to be their authentic selves - even if it goes against our current PC feminist society. I'm bookmarking so many conversations so I can discuss concepts with my daughters when they get older. "Redpill" for men on reddit is now crap. It used to be proper RedPill - about teaching men to be men - now it's been overrun…
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/23 10:09 PM
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This whole post is about your failed attempt to chase women. So you're unemployed right now. That gives you LOADS of time to improve yourself. Learn how to cook. Work out. Lose the weight. Learn a new skill. There is SOOOOO much you can do for free to improve yourself. Prioritise improving you- life will work itself out.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/23 02:59 AM
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Women might be the ones "stopping" men from having sex, but look around - I think you'll find heaps of young men who are lazy and lack social skills, and are happier jerking off to ultra high def porn than actually trying to be attractive, and approach real women.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/23 11:24 PM
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We live in a throw away society. People are quick to judge others, and if things aren't right we KNOW there are many more options - so people don't even try to start relationships. But we need to realise that no-one will ever be 'perfect' for us - that any relationship takes time to grow, and that takes work, and respect. All around the world, sex is declining, marriage is declining and dating is declining. People seem more willing to be lonely than to even TRY to make a relationship work. There…
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/23 02:47 AM
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Yeah. I do agree with the red pill concepts and values, but TRP is where all the NEW 'red pill' men post. They are just getting into it, they don't really understand it, and just spread crap. I'd really love if men weren't allowed to post until they'd been living the red pill mindset for a few years first.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/21 10:45 PM
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I agree that the red pill principles have been lost in r/theredpill. It's now really become a PUA group. There is r/marriedredpill which could be ok (I haven't visited for a while)
/r/RedPillParenting09/06/21 10:15 PM
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And texting "see you tonight" or something similar the morning of the date, or a few hours prior, gets her thinking about you again. It allows you to start the momentum early. Especially if you can banter a little. Frame is important of course - you don't want to go on and on, or make her feel like this is the first date you've had in years. But it helps her get excited, starts those emotions, and makes your night much easier!
/r/askTRP27/04/21 09:51 PM
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It also depends on the situation. Where were you both when she asked? If she's just met you, and you're at a club - lie but in a funny obvious way, be playful - part of teasing and being fun. If you're at a business conference - maybe truth straight away. You have to have social awareness. But if you're going to lie, make it obvious you're just having fun. NOT that you're ashamed of your job. So when you do tell her - be positive.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 07:41 AM
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I agree with op. Most red pill advice is targetted at newbies trying to make them break bad habits. But it's a deliberate over correction. Once you start to actually get TRP, you realise it doesn't matter what you do - so long as it comes from a place of authenticity.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/21 07:51 AM
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I'm not saying whether op did the right thing or not. What I want to say is: There is a BIG difference between saying "I'm sorry for what I said", versus "I'm sorry that what I said upset you". One is taking blame (which you don't need to in this situation) and the other is NOT accepting blame, but showing that you have some level of basic care for her. And a red pill man certainly cares for his women. (Just not at his own expense)
/r/askTRP17/03/21 02:08 AM
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Redpill is not about women. Never was. It's about becoming the authentic man you're supposed to be IN LIFE, FOR YOU. Women are just a side benefit of that.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/21 06:42 AM
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(the other replies here suck) It sounds like he is tying his self worth to his job. That's never good. If he's feeling unfulfilled then I can understand he wants job recognition to show that he is some sort of man. I've been in the same job almost 25 years. I don't get my feeling of success from work. I feel success from good friends, from doing what I set out to achieve, great hobbies, great life - that is so much better than a job that will never give back to me. But I don't know how HE'S goin…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/21 03:05 AM
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So... A great rule (that we could never enforce) is READ EVERYTHING IN THE F*CKING SIDE BAR - and people are banned from posting until they've been here at least a year.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 07:57 AM
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Maybe "perfect" is agreement with the time and place, and "should be good" is a reference to the activity she's doing with you - as in "it sounds like it'll be a good date with you"...
/r/askTRP16/01/21 10:00 PM
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It doesn't matter if you achieve abundance or not. It's abundance MINDSET you are aiming for. Complete belief that there ARE plenty of women out there - you don't need a particular one. That gives you outcome independence. Same mindset should be had for jobs, friends, opportunities...
/r/askTRP25/11/20 01:37 AM
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The AGE of the woman makes a big difference. Older women (over 30 maybe) don't need plausible deniability - they openly enjoy sex and don't care who knows it.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/20 03:53 AM
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If you "don't have time" to read the entire side bar, and put in the work, then why are you here? If you want quick pussy - go read a pickup artist's book. TRP is for aspiring men.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 09:44 PM
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Of course, he needs to live breath and operate in a way that commands respect.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/20 02:17 AM
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I think the problem also is that ANYONE in this group can offer advice. And most of the time the people offering advice are men who've only been here a short time, and therefore don't really know what they're talking about. I'd love to see it setup so that the only men who can comment are those who've actually read the sidebar, put in the work for at least 2yrs, and who "get it".
/r/askTRP30/03/20 11:00 PM
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"Want to hang" is not the text of a quality man. Try: I'm doing <some fun thing> Tuesday. Join me?
/r/askTRP24/03/20 01:46 AM
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Live your life as a man, on your terms, authentically.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 02:06 AM
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"Cold approach" is NOT "hitting on them" (or at least it shouldn't be). Cold approach is chatting to someone random/new and THEN deciding whether to escalate or not. Because: you really do have outcome independence because all you wanted to do was chat anyway you haven't immediately validated her or put her on a pedestal solely based in her looks you demonstrate you're a social guy, with confidence She's got a small validation from you approaching, but she's not sure of your intentions so there'…
/r/askTRP06/03/20 01:00 AM
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Complimenting their "fanny" will get you slapped... 🤣
/r/askTRP16/01/20 01:34 AM
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I'm 44, so i may be dealing with a different kind of woman. But for me, the first date is all about talking and connection. Working out how she thinks, if she's interesting, and if i want anything with her. And it doesn't have to be the environment that makes it fun - but YOU make it fun. Take her to a bar, try a new cocktail together or play pool, mini golf, walk along the beach, grab dessert. Talking happens anywhere. Use logistics to plan to walk between 2 venues that takes 10mins. Be light h…
/r/askTRP20/12/19 04:46 AM
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https://www.marksdailyapple.com/start-here-beginners-guide/
/r/askTRP27/11/19 07:10 AM
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Most of this post may be true, except the "Red Pill ideology" as stated is completely wrong - in that it's completely focused on women. Red pill is NOT about women!!! Red Pill is about YOU. About seeing the world for what it is. About being the best man you can be. Women are just a small subset of that.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/19 01:28 AM
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"You're right - the kitchen bench is sooooo much more fun!"
/r/askTRP07/03/19 08:43 AM
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Romance is another tool a man can use to give a woman 'the feels' and deepen their connection. Used wrongly, you're perceived as blue pill sucking up to her. If you're doing it to prove yourself to her - blue pill. But as with ALL tools, used the right way it is totally red pill.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 04:36 AM
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To have a healthy body, mind and soul. To be a man i am proud of and others envy.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 01:13 AM
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Utter physical exhaustion from something like a day of lumberjacking, or a military style run and obstacle course, or lifting 1,000,000 lbs in a day with your son.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 02:49 AM
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You get out what you put in. It is easy to say "I want to do x..." but i think you're really saying "x would be great". Of course it would be great - but apparently not great enough for you to work towards it. That's ok. You decide what you want in your life. If you are happy doing what you are doing - then own it. Deliberately decide to enjoy what you have. If you want something different - then plan it and do it.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 02:32 AM
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Tom Cruise is too ugh for me. Try early Janes Bond films - with Sean Connery or Roger Moore.
/r/askTRP09/09/18 11:50 PM
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I like the captain in Firefly (tv series). Even just watching the first couple of episides he: is fiercly protective of his crew/family makes decisions - does not allow others to 'force him' enforces dicipline quickly and unemotionally respects people whilst atill disagreeing with their decisions But not a pua...
/r/askTRP09/09/18 11:47 PM
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Be the fun guy. Flirt if you want. Remind her that you *could* have any other woman - but I'm guessing if she's your LTR then you WON'T escalate (no touching, kissing, f*cking other women) - don't be overtly crass. You should EXPECT her to be able to hold her own - you shouldn't have to be by her side the whole night. However, if she doesn't know anyone, then it's up to you to introduce her to a few people - help her to feel comfortable, don't "ditch her". And Kino'ing while you are separate als…
/r/askTRP12/08/18 07:47 AM
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Thanks for sharing. I like your insights.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 11:10 AM
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Edit: thanks for all your responses. A lot I will have to investigate more. But I'm specifically trying to find stuff to do in the evenings AT HOME.
/r/askTRP04/05/14 03:34 AM
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