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70/30 doesn’t sound like a traditional role or that he wants to provide for you. It makes 0 sense when children come into play and it’s unfortunate you’re finding this out as your pregnant instead of the conversation while planning
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/24 08:50 PM
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I get this. I think it’s a shame that a lot of people ignore that women too can age like fine wine. I’ve seen some stunning women in their 40s where I wouldn’t have even thought they were pretty in their early-mid twenties. It really varies all around
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/24 08:37 PM
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This hurts my feelings to read. You guys are mid thirties and he still isn’t ready?. He’s not worth the fertility or wait. You’re welcome to give him an ultimatum but at 35 he should’ve known within a year max (and that’s a long time)
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/24 09:06 PM
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This is all around unacceptable behavior. He needs to fix his mental state and learn regardless of depression to not treat you like chewed gum on the bottom of a strangers shoe.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/24 12:08 AM
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This is excellent
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/24 05:23 PM
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Her response is what I was pertaining to, not the basis of being born immature.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/24 10:48 PM
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I don’t think many women believe the lie that men are born immature I think they just say lines like that to maybe soothe some type of hole weak men without goals dig into them. Choosing someone without goals man or woman is always a poor choice
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/24 07:34 PM
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Did you read what you typed? There’s everything bad and complete wrong here. His family even thinks so. Get some self confidence and let this man go to the dumpster and never look back. You are worthy of so much more
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/24 06:18 PM
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Did you read what you typed? There’s everything bad and complete wrong here. His family even thinks so. Get some self confidence and let this man go to the dumpster and never look back. You are worthy of so much more
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/24 02:32 PM
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She’s coming off as super aggressive. Never chase a situationship
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/24 06:35 AM
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I think yours are pretty accurate
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/24 09:34 PM
78

So he decided to not give you any ownership after 5% was too small and to pay rent + take care of him and his kids? If that’s so, your parents sound 100% right imo.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/24 11:18 PM
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I firmly believe you need therapy first.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/24 02:30 PM
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He’s 13 years older than you, I get why you feel convinced already about sex. I also am curious why you started the sexual jokes, to me that comes off you trying to offer your body very very casually and flirty to get him to think about it and subconsciously keep you in the running. I wouldn’t put so much stress on it. Older men like that are usually a bit better with texting and photos since that’s how they grew up sort of thing. I’d make sure he’s a good guy, and I wouldn’t sleep with him righ…
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/24 03:41 PM
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I do believe there’s truth too if it feels too good to be true in a relationship it’s true. You guys are still in the early honeymoon stage, no idea how long you’ve been together. It’s ok that you don’t fully trust yet, and with your experience I don’t think you should. If he values you he will deeply understand that and continue to show you he cares. But being more feminine in which ways?
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/24 03:04 PM
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Um… we’re all on this same sub right? The sub that teaches you how to seduce and secure a HVM??? He’s making money off doing something similar and you know about it. Depends on him as a person
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/24 10:11 PM
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That’s a pretty good alternative for more sensitive husbands! When my husband was begging to become more masculine in all efforts I’d have to suggest things in that way and it worked wonders. I really think it depends on your relationship and what your man/you need and value!
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/24 11:48 PM
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I firmly believe in honesty between spouses. If you’re struggling with attraction you should be able to communicate that as kindly as possible to your spouse. If my husband became un attracted to me and beat around the bush I’d be offended he didn’t feel safe enough to tell me and help guide me.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/24 07:31 PM
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Honey, I wanted to share a concern and how I’m feeling. I want to let you know I respect and love you but I committed to being your wife, and to be honest always with you. I am concerned about your diet, lack of working out. My attraction is dipping slightly and I would love so much if we could work out together and get in shape. My intention isn’t to embarrass you. Honest is KEY. Personally I know my husband is masculine and I will never apologize for being honest and sharing if I believe somet…
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/24 11:52 PM
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Respectfully - that doesn’t matter. This happens on any dating platform. You don’t need to bring his beliefs into it. He is a fully able adult allowed to change his mind. Especially someone from a different country.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/24 02:24 PM
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Discipline is key!
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/24 01:43 AM
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We don’t, my husband would but I love the privacy. We used to share a lot! I now find it cringey when others do. I feel like you’re playing a game of proving something to people online when posting. However I don’t mind an occasional cute one :) in fact I think somethings up and over compensating when people share often or a lot about their s/o. In my experience, most guys don’t care to be posted. If it matters to you, bring it up. I get it! If my husband didn’t ever want to I’d be a little hurt…
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/24 04:05 AM
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Want to serve a type of church/religion or God/Jesus? In the Bible God loves sex between husband and wife, in fact there’s scripture that supports the only time you shouldn’t be having it is during prayer! Now does everyone have a million kids? No. The pull out method is effective if you choose not to use condoms. However you do need to do it properly. No ejaculation before (pre cum is fine, but if you have unprotected sex after masturbating or having sex earlier the sperm can linger in pre cum …
/r/RPChristians03/02/24 04:30 PM
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24 is incredibly young? Wym?
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/24 02:28 AM
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It takes time for your bodies to get comfortable sleeping next to one another with your differences. I was 100% your husband and my husband was exactly like you with needing sound. We compromised and switched on and off for a bit then I actually compromised more so and now have an air purifier I love hearing to help me sleep. I do love silence still. And if I truly need silence my husband will figure it out. It’s all about compromise and retraining yourselves to new sleeping patterns if you wish…
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/24 03:45 PM
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That’s wonderful it’s working for you and your father. IMO because you’re from a Latin country it may serve your dad better, I don’t believe this would work as smoothly in America just due to cultural differences/ mentalities of men who use their daughters for support. I absolutely adore this for you, and am rooting for you to finally step away in all ways you’re intending
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/24 06:21 PM
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Is this the same man who has a daughter you previously shared about? I’d love to hear your take on becoming a step mom into the mix with your rpw take!
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/24 04:55 AM
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He had a one night stand
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/24 12:25 AM
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I’d say so too. Many people here would love to disagree with you it seems
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/24 10:39 PM
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HPV is a very real threat with the vaccine, please do not spread incorrect information. It does not work for everyone, and a lot of people reject it as well. I disagree, not most people. A lot sure, but a lot do not as well.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/24 10:36 PM
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I also don’t agree with hooking up due to getting so much from kissing as well, so that combined there’s no way I could accept genital warts. Too many people think it’s okay because either their infected or think it should be normal due to high rates of infections
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/24 10:33 PM
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Thank you. I feel like I get more shame for my decision than support!
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/24 10:30 PM
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I’m married now, so not worried about it anymore. Very curious on RPWs take on this though. My husband is also clean
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/24 05:10 AM
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Edited my post it was HPV (genital warts) not herpes. I started to get the gardasil vaccine per his recommendation. I do not have HPV so committing to possibly getting warts was a bit overwhelming for me especially at 22
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/24 04:56 AM
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Yep I was wrong! I edited my post to reflect that. I started to get the gardasil vaccine, which is supposed to protect against HPV
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/24 04:54 AM
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Yes they can be removed bc he had genital warts (so I might be getting HPV and confused with herpes)
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/24 04:52 AM
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Seeing the scars from removal and knowing he would get an outbreak every couple of months freaked me out too much. I get it’s common but I don’t think it should be so acceptable still. If he was great in all areas I might’ve considered it further (I started to get the vaccine for it then stopped).
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/24 04:50 AM
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He would get outbreaks every couple of months, and would get them removed by a doc
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/24 04:47 AM
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I have to argue that so many women are looking incredible 24-30 these days more so than 18-23. I feel like if this was written today things would be different because women look different. There’s 40 year olds hotter than ever due to skin care, diet and playing up their genetics. Meanwhile yes absolutely there’s some extremely young knockouts but women today are just different.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/24 02:10 AM
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Yes. BUT you can do this on a lower budget too. (Maybe not the sports? Idk.) but the outfits, the bags- clothes that look nice on you
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/24 05:04 AM
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I’m with you, I usually just tell guys I like to go slow and if they argue discuss how I’m also a germaphobe, have no clue if they brush and floss twice a day and no clue if they have HPV. Or gingivitis idk that’s a risk you take.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/23 06:50 AM
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Communicate that you’re pulling away and you want to explore ways that make it naturally more fun. If you can’t think of some ask him to explore that with you. Mental connection, laugh together, just cuddle or have him say nice things about you. These small things matter in recovery
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/23 08:09 PM
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Since he has been twice divorced, are you worried about being a third? Is your prenup a good one in your favor?
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/23 03:07 AM
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It’s always good to take care of your body, skin and hair. If you don’t feel like makeup- that’s okay feel confident in your natural look! But maintain that too, no full face or makeup needed daily
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/23 01:09 PM
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Hmm.. is he like 20? Your update sounds kind of strange for a man to have said mid 20s onwards. Like why suddenly is his childhood beliefs coming into play if you guys have been having sex already? I’d be a bit more curious. Your emotions might’ve been big but you know something really odd just occurred. The lack of communication on that and saying something so drastic to take it back asap seems odd!
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/23 08:32 PM
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Hmmm is your husband from another country? Sounds like it’s their family culture in a way
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/23 03:48 AM
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Sexy is in the eye of the beholder, sometimes it’s hard for people to think of sexy & cute in the same category especially men. I’d ask your boyfriend what he would find sexy for you
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/23 02:45 PM
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I agree with you, I am a very honest person and my husband and I are firm on no white lies. Well me more so than him, (he likes to sugar coat and get intimated to speak negatives or request changes sometimes). I think a more gentle response instead of constantly blunt honesty might be the way to go- I’m working on that. But I refuse to be anything but honest with my spouse. It’s not me and I don’t believe in it. Unless it’s for a surprise like a present or trip then I give away that I am sending…
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/23 12:27 PM
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Not everyone likes everything, and it’s not just that. They’re business owners, creative and smart just no degree
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/23 01:56 AM
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Some truth. You can be brilliant and intelligent owning businesses and being successful without a degree, and most millionaires wives I know in my circle are degree less but absolutely smart and well respected. They are artistic as well, it’s always the artistic, thoughtful ones.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/23 09:01 PM
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Interesting, do you think you just chose to ignore these obvious signs? I do believe men and women can be friends, but I also know a lot of people can’t. Just really depends on the people, definitely not easy and making female friendships is better all around.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/23 02:58 PM
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Today, I think after 25/26. The world is so different, dating is different, people and emotions are different. We’re in times where women truly are able to shine and be treated better than history. Men are in a way of life where it’s nearly impossible for them to not stray even a smidge emotionally if they have any social media etc. Late twenties is probably the best IMO.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/23 06:48 PM
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I think if you’re posting on here about this, you’re not really in it for whatever reason. I’d bet you need more healing from your last relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/23 01:11 PM
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You’re 21, embrace the cuteness of your youth! You’ll age like fine wine.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/23 02:57 AM
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Don’t like the age gap. Too many issues, move on. You’re too young for this bs.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/23 02:17 AM
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Gotcha well just because he hasn’t gone to war, doesn’t mean he hasn’t been a typical military guy in the way of dating. He very well could be a good one! They’re not all bad. Ultimately your choice! Love that you’re thinking through things as well.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/23 02:38 PM
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I tend to lean anti military men unless you know who he really is and how he’s acted in the past. Many of them have lots of demons to kick out in order to be healthy partners and faithful. Two years is a long time to wait and not knowing a persons actual determination- what if he signs again? You could be a base wife. Not the greatest.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/23 12:55 PM
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I don’t like the age gap. I dated a 30 at 22, and while we were excellent in a lot of areas… that’s such a gap in terms of where you both are in life. This guy has heavy baggage on top of it
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/23 10:49 PM
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I love sex. I think I’ve loved it more than almost any of my exes and probably more than my husband. However I understand wanting to wait, I think that is beautiful and shows commitment, what I don’t think is happening here is this guy. How old are you? He divorced and broke up with his exes because they didn’t believe? He’s going against so many high beliefs that God speaks strongly about consistently- he sounds manipulative, self absorbed and aware but unaware. Big ick from that. How can you h…
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/23 01:13 PM
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I see where your coming from but to answer your questions it would be I think it has value in the sense of it could make her feel like she has some support and that he really is being quite extreme towards her with his quick sudden and sharp responses.. which is the definition of jerk. which is why I said he’s being a jerk with the way he responded and treated her. Actual contextual sympathy. Since it’s the proper word for his actions based on the context provided
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/23 04:16 AM
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She might not think it’s an STD but uti from him possibly having one from someone else, maybe not cleaning etc.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 11:54 PM
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Isn’t being (meaning acting like) vs is (meaning he is one) different and commenting on behaviors? I feel like it would be the same as he’s been a real turd, or being mean etc. Saying he is a jerk seems like insulting
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 11:53 PM
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Wow, he’s being a jerk. I wonder what the actual issue is for him.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 02:39 PM
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He’s amazing in the sense he’s rich lol that’s all I’m gathering and that you get to play wife and watch women give him dances at a strip club and sit at home playing fake house wife whiles he’s with his boys at the strip club, probs showing them how alpha he is with that exclusive room in the back, bc yanno- his cool young fiancé would probably watch him too! All while he’s got you isolated from any community in the past 6 years.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/23 09:21 PM
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He ISOLATED her from all of her friends in her past post. He’s terrible imo.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/23 08:50 PM
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This sub is not for you if you don’t take what we’re saying seriously and drop your defense, and be real. Money is definitely a main factor for you, otherwise you wouldn’t have shared multiple times he’s rich.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/23 08:47 PM
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Yikes. I had a feeling it was too good to be true with the blaring rose colored glasses that came through the initial text about how amazing he is. If he wasn’t making 8 figures would you still be down for this disrespect just to seem like a cool fiancé at 30, having spent 6 years dating and then your fiancé being 40 hitting up these strip clubs, getting dances ? What’s masculine about strip clubs?? Lmk. Girl, it’s gross disrespect. You shouldn’t have to shove down your boundaries and uncomforta…
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/23 07:45 PM
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One of my biggest pet peeves. Idk why so many women get sucked into the one. Especially Christians. (I am one and totally was into this too before I was like wait..) the one true soulmate is Jesus, God and the Holy Spirit. Right? Why would God just be like here Lucy spend 10 years of your youth and child bearing years to just dating some dude no ring, no major effort and like what? We have free will, we have the choice to choose our spouse. Now should you find a man who chases you and wants to l…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/23 03:13 AM
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He loves it and thinks it’s great, just wants a happier hi when he walks in and I’m busy
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/23 06:34 PM
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No I can’t
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/23 06:32 PM
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Feel about what?
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/23 04:22 PM
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Yes! I have alll of that down typically but because this 3rd business is in the middle stages it’s still a toddler that needs my assistance far more, and I think my husband kind of forgets that some days when he’s like too excited to talk to me as soon as he sees me. Some days he’s like oh I saw you’re busy and knew what your schedule looked like this week!
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/23 03:45 PM
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This is the reminder I was looking for ☺️. I’m trying so hard to be mindful, I think maybe finding like a hey babe todays busy so can you talk to me a little while after you get home and I’ll come greet you etc
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/23 03:43 PM
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So I have all of that I think it’s just we overlap when he arrives home like it’s usually my peak before closing up for the night, and I’ve tried saying maybe wait to say hello. Like in the sub we discuss when your husband comes home give him time to de stress and not chat his ear off. My husband is excited to see me and gets realllly chatty right at that time and this is just a season of extra effort here, like my other two I have running smoothly where I’m not needed everyday anymore. This one…
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/23 03:09 PM
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A HVM won’t say “you didn’t wear enough dresses and makeup” that’s a big ick that was a reason he didn’t like you. You can be feminine and wear minimal or no makeup, you can look nice in other clothes besides dresses. What type of guys are you looking for on the apps? What are your wants and standards?
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/23 02:06 PM
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Oh definitely.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/23 01:22 PM
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Ugh! Bigger ick! Don’t beat yourself up too much, lots of us have made similar mistakes. We learn, we get embarrassed and we move on. Also, block him what a cheap ass. Super gross he literally didn’t pay for anything either
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/23 01:17 PM
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Big ICK. You’re actually a child still, embrace it. (There’s almost no difference from 18-20). Don’t be having unprotected sex with a grown man who’s preying on you and is using your body like a cheap pre paid gift card. This one might sting for a bit babe but, move on. I hope he paid for plan b.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/23 05:49 AM
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I feel like it hasn’t been mentioned enough- most high value men I know do not care to be sent tiktoks and being able to scroll- it’s a distraction and takes away. A lot of them that I personally know find it annoying and unattractive to be hooked on it or always be sharing things. Fangirling isn’t classy, it can be cute/funny but in the right context. You may be too blunt as well. The way you wrote about yourself sounds very young and college like- maybe this girl has a more mature sound (none …
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/23 05:45 AM
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I wouldn’t like it, and my husband certainly respects me enough to notify me if he’s out later than expected. Personally, I’d communicate it felt disrespectful and inconsiderate of your feelings of just wanting to know he’s safe and to keep you in the loop. Especially if he wouldn’t like you doing that.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/23 05:37 AM
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There’s a lot to unpack here. First, I notice your anxiety pulling through. You’re instantly tearing yourself down and making checks of what you didn’t do enough of, it’s good to think what you could’ve done better, however, you go onto say he works 60+ hours. GIRL, he’s busy. He might be too busy for you, that’s okay. It’s sucks, but try to move onto the next and if he comes around- fantastic. If not, you’re so capable of finding another.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/23 05:34 AM
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Good men? No. higher value, providing, leading, etc type of men? Yes. But not all. Today is so different than even last year, if you met a high value guy and was like yes so obviously I’m not a hippy, but I didn’t want to live with my parents and I wanted to get out of dodge while saving money you could find a guy who’s down with that as long as you’re classy, and truly not hippy like. Or hey, maybe he’s into that! Life’s too short, you’ll find a guy who’s into it regardless, even if he’s anti v…
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/23 05:31 AM
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Dbat had the best response. You can’t fall for the age old lie of men want a sports car to get younger women.. no like you said he’s sacrificed and never spent on himself. He’s a grown man who works and he even asked your opinion. Be supportive. He will find that attractive, and he will still find out a way to provide for the kids. Don’t let the insecurities of your separation get to you on this
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/23 03:46 PM
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This is a great one esp for acne and sensitive skin
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/23 10:46 PM
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Like others have said look for remote, do you have a hobby or craft you could try to sell on the side?! Also… could he.. find another way to make more money or a second job if he’s not making much/maybe not as busy? Who’s gonna watch the kids? Will you be paying that? Idk personally, I’d be like babe I’m a SAHM, I’ll try and find something but I feel like as the main provider I’d love to help you find a way to grow our income but if need be I’ll get a job- however it makes me incredibly sad bc t…
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/23 10:44 PM
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You’re too young to be caught up in this with him, love a beautiful life and don’t stay with a controlling boy
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/23 04:11 AM
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If you don’t want to be around them you could just ask her to hangout alone and if she asks why say you don’t know if you feel like you fit in, that you’d like to but you’re unsure of how everyone feels about you. I wouldn’t like pour all of this onto her because like the comment above said, it’s not her doing and she’s trying to include you. It’s okay that you don’t get along with everyone, and you already pushed against your friend when she warned you not to go after him. Learn your lesson and…
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/23 02:16 PM
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Try bumble or hinge. Fb dating & tinder aren’t the best always. You sound very insecure and like an over thinker. I wouldn’t care so much what your co workers say, it’s your life and if you want a man you need to be more open. Hinge has the best quality & so does bumble. You said it yourself, you’re well taken care of and pretty. Be confident in that and don’t let the insecurities win!
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/23 12:21 PM
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Are you on any dating apps? Do you notice when men try to strike a conversation or do you send closed off vibes?
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/23 11:33 AM
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Tj Maxx!
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/23 01:53 AM
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His point is still ignorant (definition is lacking awareness) simply because you cannot make such a bold statement about an entire country. There are millions of women who are virgins, or every low body counts. There’s millions of women who want to be a housewife/stay at home mom. There’s millions that don’t go to college and search for a husband but work in the meantime. There’s millions that go to college and work to support themselves while they find a man worthy who is confident and can lead…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/23 04:37 AM
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Big no, I dated a 30 yr old at 22 and I was definitely mature, but still different stages of life. I only realized even that was a huge difference after the fact and to this day makes me uncomfortable he was turning 31, and telling me how mature I am yet young but I was his best friend and he wanted to marry me. I thought it was hot at first too as we tend to do at those ages, but yes girl it’s predatory you’re a child still. Like even 25 is a kid! He had a gorgeous apartment in the city, floor …
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/23 09:50 PM
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I think her pushing it more aggressively shows she might have some insecurities about it and trying to say how amazing it is that her husband sits around not making a dime, but she might love to provide and have a home prepped and a meal cooked with her man ready to give her attention when she gets home! Who knows. I’d just be kind in turning her down everytime, and just remind her it’s not your cup of tea.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/23 04:54 PM
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When I went off of BC I was very similar. It takes your body a couple of months to regulate again, BC can severely wreck havoc on your body.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/23 03:42 PM
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167 mil in one state you say, so if you x50 you’ve got a massive abundance, even tho that number isn’t 100% accurate because that number of women changes every few seconds due to birth and death. Regardless your statement is purely ignorant. You’re lacking awareness by stating you can’t find many tradional women in the us, that is actually absurd. You said you’re not even American, let me ask you this. How many women in the us have you met personally and found their desires? Or are you basing th…
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/23 02:41 PM
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This is just simply not accurate, there’s millions of tradional women here. I feel as if you’re basing off the media, Reddit or whatever you hear. Incredibly inaccurate. It does boil down to insecurity usually because they go to countries where they find women who want so bad to move to the USA and will do anything for it. It’s not as if they move to the woman’s home country.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/23 01:48 PM
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Hi! I’m sorry I appreciate your thoughts but I did get a little lost on the question. Are you asking what should you say to him to show interest that will make you stand out or be different than these other women? Or are you asking to find an excuse to stop talking to him?
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/23 11:12 AM
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And more often than not, we’ve ALL been here at some point. I hope you view this in a loving way, not trying to be harsh I’m trying to be realistic
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/23 01:36 PM
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Yes ofc, and you know what you’ll come to find a lot of us in this sub come from similar mothers and we deal with fighting our own defensiveness. Examples were you always had a specific answer or justification for why he treats you so poorly and is uninterested in you besides sex. The responses had a very defensive tone and one that is a traumatic one because we see this for you based on the context given and you’re in denial bc you’ve worked so hard to this man (boy with how he’s acting) and of…
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/23 01:35 PM
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Is this a recent TikTok thing? I can name 15 guys I personally know who wouldn’t dream of leaving the US to find a feminine red pill wife. I think this is not the norm, and if so there’s an insecurity/ maybe a kink happening or a very specific heritage their pin pointing. I wouldn’t worry, I’d hop off TikTok or any plat form that’s convincing you. I think it’s really silly honestly like it made me laugh reading it because men have gone to other countries for years to find brides (mail ordered br…
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/23 12:25 PM
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It’s absolutely tough but you seem to be making wonderful strides in your life, you absolutely deserve better. You’ve got this! And you have a supportive community here to back you.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/23 05:59 AM
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I’m just going to flat out say it rather than suggest it. Take a breath girl!! Take a BIG one and lose the defensiveness with all of us here trying to help and tell/explain how like literally none of us are believing he’s that into you. He’s not showing interest, there’s broke men who still pursue women and show high interest and let that motivate them to provide. You have to take a look at yourself and trauma background and STOP defending him and everything. You’re playing a wife and letting hi…
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/23 03:36 AM
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It’s hard! I’m always searching myself. I actually downloaded bumble bff and honestly met some amazing women off of there
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/23 02:07 AM
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This is your boyfriends battle to establish that you’re serious and he’s actually going to make you his wife. I don’t know if she respects you based on comments due to your boyfriend not coming off to serious about anyone previously. And he should say my gf will be coming too, or ask. He’s gotta be a man about it, respect yourself enough to notice what he will do and say without you telling him to. It’s very sad if he were to go or not say yes me and so and so would love to join you guys or I ho…
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/23 04:55 PM
1

I loved your comment, I seriously think more women should hear from you on here
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/23 03:36 PM
1

Aw love the togetherness you have planned!
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/23 03:36 PM
1

Remain positive and loving to make it extra special! That’s gotta be tough
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/23 03:35 PM
1

Yum! That’s my fav too. And ok yess love that
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/23 03:35 PM
1

Awww love this so much!! Sounds like it’ll be a wonderful treat for him, and your mama
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/23 03:34 PM
2

Make a post about this!
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/23 01:50 AM
2

Love the alternative! We do celebrate a little but not always, depends on my mood because I appreciate the gifts and extra stuff on days not designated as a consumer holiday haha
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/23 01:07 PM
2

So sweet!!
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/23 01:06 PM
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Aww I think that sounds super sweet to send food! Also you could send a little care package? Like socks, body wash, a cologne, a candle etc? Or you could order it off Amazon and send directly to him!
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/23 12:46 AM
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Oh I love this!! My mom made it a family thing growing up and made it such a sweet holiday for us as kids and as we’ve gotten older 💖
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/23 12:41 AM
1

Oooh yes!
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/23 11:48 PM
1

That’s awesome! Also fun ages 🥰
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/23 04:15 AM
2

My husband is always like just try it babe!! Haha so I agree, I think why not at least wing a dream. I might even take my own advice who knows
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/23 04:13 AM
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Incredibly exciting, I’m rooting for you! You may just find a new avenue to a better job/ more money this way unintentionally too.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/23 04:13 AM
1

Go for it!! We have one life, maybe chat up your spouse about the idea of it? Or something similar? Part time?
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/23 04:11 AM
1

I own 2, working on a 3rd. You can’t run any business without it it just depends on the person, and if dealing with the negatives is worth it. :)
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/23 04:10 AM
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I own 2 businesses! They’re successful, and I’m very thankful but it took a lot of hard work. 😊 I’m working on a third, but I totally day dream about this stuff my husband thinks it’s funny but honestly is super cute and says go for it to try it since life is short haha. We’ll see, I totally wouldn’t last long I think it would be way too much with trying to acquire another business however I love trying new things and experiences.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/23 04:09 AM
1

I own 2 businesses! They’re successful, and I’m very thankful but it took a lot of hard work. 😊 I’m working on a third, but I totally day dream about this stuff my husband thinks it’s funny but honestly is super cute and says go for it to try it since life is short haha. We’ll see, I totally wouldn’t last long I think it would be way too much with trying to acquire another business however I love trying new things and experiences.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/23 04:09 AM
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Me too!! My husband laughs at me all of the time because I have 2 successful businesses yet I tell him I dreammm of working at a cafe, being a server or bartender for a hot minute by the beach to just experience it and totally romanticizing so I know it wouldn’t be what I think 😆. He thinks I’m a dork, but he always tells me I should absolutely go for it since life is short and it’s utterly different than what I do now and have never experienced it- so sweet of him.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/23 04:06 AM
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Ugh I think of that too! Too many romance books maybe haha 😆 or like owning my Oceanside cafe serving sandwiches and stuff from like 8am-2pm!
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/23 02:27 PM
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Who’s like reporting us and checking so hard?? Creepy!
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/23 03:52 AM
3

Wow! Insane
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/23 03:52 AM
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Parenting subs can be a toxic cesspool, it’s incredible they banned you for THIS sub!
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/23 03:51 AM
2

Omg annoying!
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/23 03:50 AM
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Seriously. Absolutely ridiculous
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/23 03:50 AM
1

Which parts have you found of RPW to be the most successful for your marriage?!
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/23 02:02 PM
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My mom was the powerhouse, leader etc because my dad is everything you described (very lazy mamas boy took care of him) and It reminded me that I totally can be like my mom and take over from my MORE THAN capable husband who can be amazing if I don’t try to take over. I’ve worked on it and still am so definitely possible to make them submit, only if they want to. I am a Christian so it’s a struggle occasionally when I get judged by everyone, but I like it and I also am a badass (confident, hones…
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/19 04:53 PM
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This honesty and truth hit a nerve, but I needed it
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/19 06:57 AM
1

Of course therapy isn’t a cure, your thoughts and the way you go about these issues will be the cure. Therapy is an amazing and healthy start though. Surely way better than all these internet strangers who have no idea what’s truly going on, your history, your habits and so much more in an unbiased opinion. Ah yeah good insurance helps, but I feel like it’s super worth the price of a peace of mind. The hardest part is picking the right one for you
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/19 11:43 AM
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Haha absolutely get it, but what the comment said below mine was spot on!!
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/19 11:40 AM
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Have you tried therapy?
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/19 05:30 AM
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Ask your boyfriend/ his family what you can do, that is very respectful and considerate. Don’t just start cleaning someone’s house. For a gift, ask his brother and SIL what they would like/ if they have a registry Ask your boyfriend. A lot of these questions can simply be answered by communicating with your bf, strangers online can give you their personal answers but they are not his family. You’re new and it would show such kindness and thoughtfulness to ask/ properly know. Enjoy!
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/19 05:29 AM
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I’m not a fan of this whole situation. Either it’s serious and official and you figure it out or he’s still looking for other options/ isn’t over someone
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/19 04:15 PM
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Congrats!!
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/19 06:01 PM
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Right off the bat you’re thinking about your future-great. BUT you’re seeing things with children and it’s not made clear if you’ve clearly discussed your wishes with your husband to be a SAHM. Do you know how long you guys will certainly be in this city for? As for classes, yes that’s way too much you won’t have time for both kids and a husband the way you’re dreaming. You either need to plan realistically for the future or simply work with what benefits you both and as a couple now. Family wit…
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/19 09:56 PM
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Oops for sure lol or a dang! Whoops! Bummer! Yikes! Lots of cuter little ones
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/19 04:39 AM
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It sounds like you needed to vent. Otherwise if you’re really looking for advice, you’re imperfect. You will Make mistakes. Maybe your husband overreacts when you make one because you try to be perfect and not show weakness around him. Don’t be afraid to make them, own them and love yourself because of them. Your husband will too. When you make a mistake, own it, ask for help. Grow together, lean in and fall into each other.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/19 03:05 AM
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You are forgiven too, don’t forget that. You can certainly wait for marriage if you want and choose to do so. That doesn’t ruin a relationship with God at all! He knows what we’re going to do right? If you’re saved you are already forgiven because nothing you could ever do would cancel his love for you. We are born into sin, we are all sinners but Jesus died for us so we could be saved- something that premarital sex and an infection won’t take away from you! Don’t let that hurt you mentally. You…
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/19 06:28 PM
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Oh brave! I get infections for wearing it overnight because it’s in there way too long! I wear a pad, underwear and some spandex shorts or my husbands underwear lol. Layer that up!
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/19 06:02 PM
2

Have you thought about leaving? Establishing a relationship with Christ and not a religion?
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/19 04:48 PM
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That’s so weird, and makes no sense unless you’re chanting to satan and what not while doing it
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/19 04:47 PM
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What is your religion that doesn’t allow hot yoga? You seem to know what you want go for it
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/19 03:00 AM
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Oh gotcha so more casual! I see your point. Everyone’s being pretty fricken critical of your standards but I don’t blame you. I have high ones as well and it was challenging at first but I did marry a guy older than me who checked most of my boxes, and surprised me with some I didn’t want but it just worked with him
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/19 12:04 AM
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By looks here I meant with that outfit style specifically, sounds pretty plain tbh. And that sucks, I don’t blame you for not being interested. Hopefully you’ll find a guy or move somewhere else!
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/19 10:46 PM
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I haven’t tried it myself but I do have friends who have met some great guys and happily married
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/19 02:02 PM
2

I agree to a point. If you’re very attractive then some men get nervous and will not make the move too. I feel most of the Latino men I’ve met are VERY forthcoming and what not so I’m gonna agree with the looks here, big deal to guys, and plain Jane outfits are also going to be over looked a lot.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/19 01:24 PM
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Not all men online are low quality it’s a bit unfortunate you say that, you come off as very closed minded by giving that kind of advice. Many are low quality but there are also quite a few diamonds in there trying it out.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/19 01:20 PM
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I don’t see why her preference of white men is a bad thing? To each their own. She doesn’t have to be white to be into white men exclusively & this could change but probably not. I have many friends into only one type of race and they all vary.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/19 01:15 PM
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Thought dumping, love it!! Definitely what it does for me too
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/19 09:03 PM
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My husband and I both journal. I like to journal feelings, goals, my thanks and prayers to God. I personally feel it helps your marriage when you are angry, sad, stressed because you can write to your spouse in that journal everything you’re feeling. Then you can realize some of it you just needed to blow steam and don’t truly feel that way and have a better head space and mentality afterwards! You can spill your secrets and dreams on the page, make check lists and show self love and affirmation…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/19 03:30 PM
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I think work on your math and science hard. Find a tutor or friend to help you more often. My friend JUST went through this with her dental hygiene program. She got declined 2 times and put on a wait list, took an extra semester to educate and study her math/science and did well not great but got in! Good for you, keep going! This sub may not be the best for you due to lots of people saying you don’t need this level of education because of your SO. Don’t get discouraged :) you got this!!
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/19 09:14 PM
2

I’m loving these stories
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/19 03:59 AM
1

Flip flop works- fellow fashion model and lifestyle influencer living in NYC. They’re just not that feminine, if you have cute sandals (strappy, buckle, etc), that’ll look good (or whatever shoes you look good in). A well fitted top, dresses, a blouse, baggy but stylish top with cute bottoms and your hair + face all situated you’re doing great!! Lots of women in nyc our effort in, rock whatever is your style but just add some effort, if its jeans and tee then style your hair cute, wear some make…
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/19 05:21 AM
3

I swear I can’t remember her sleeping with so many guys??? Mind blow tbh.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/19 06:50 PM
2

What the heck. The ginger one then is the least I think.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/19 06:49 PM
8

Charlotte sleeps with the least amount and searches for a husband in each man
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/19 05:12 AM
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I am in the fashion industry and have been for 4 years, it is absolutely not run by women. It’s by straight men and gay men. I wish more women, it would be a whole new playing field, it’s growing though!
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/19 11:44 PM
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Because he objectified a woman and his “respectful” comment to his wife wasn’t cute, flirtatious or respectful. It was out of obligation, he completely disrespected her in all regards.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/19 12:35 PM
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More simple than muscles, watch what you eat, how much, water intake and walk or move for 5 mins after eating. Move around a lot throughout the day, start with 15mins of cardio (speed walking achieves the same heart rate as running for most people)
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/19 11:54 AM
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American, UK size 8 is thin
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/19 11:52 AM
2

That is some dumb cave man logic right there, it made me laugh. I realllly hope he doesn’t actually think that, I know guys can actually think that way too.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/19 11:50 AM
1

Exactly thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/19 11:45 AM
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It has nothing to do with trust, it’s her personal beliefs that come into play regardless if she had sex before. You can make that mistake and then become abstinent for yourself. If he were to even think that it shows an insecure man child
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/19 05:51 PM
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No problem ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/19 03:35 AM
3

Board game nights are awesome!! Remember you’re going to be the BIGGEST influence in their life, show them how to be feminine in a feminist world
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/19 02:20 AM
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It’s not about confidence, and I’m unsure why other women here keep telling you this. I brought up your situation to my fiancé and he was appalled he would do that to you and that women keep telling you you’re insecure and controlling. It’s your trust and loyalty being broken, because he has adapted secret feelings towards her and will not man up and communicate with you. Don’t hesitate, love yourself enough to know communication needs to happen and that a man who truly wants you will listen and…
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/19 02:19 AM
3

A simple one: protect them, love them, encourage them, embrace feminine qualities and talk about your admiration about them! Embrace the girlier things and encourage that behavior
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/19 11:20 AM
2

Why does he even want this female friend? I don’t understand why you keep blaming yourself. Secure men who are understanding and leaders don’t closely befriend women when they’re commited. Acquaintances are one thing or a “friend” that they went to school with/work/ same hobby that they interact occasionally. That’s normal even if you said it’s okay as long as you know when they’re hanging out, that’s not a controlling, that’s sharing your boundary with that relationship. It’s not black and whit…
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/19 03:03 PM
1

Unpopular opinion: get closure. I did this recently, I am engaged but had to reach out to 2 guys I hurt/they hurt me. It’s amazing what can happen to your mental state when you reach out and say hey I just needed to say this, I know it’s been a few years but I’ve been working on myself/ on a new path in my life/ and wanted to apologize for just cutting you off all those years ago, I should’ve just heard you out and it’s still affecting me the way we left things. I’m not proud of it and I hope yo…
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/19 02:46 PM
1

I’m in my early 20s and already in this boat. I’m just waiting and searching for new friends. Years do not mean anything when it comes to quality
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/19 03:32 PM
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Let me just be honest here. You are incredibly YOUNG sex should not be this much of a concern at your age. Especially about making him feel validated and loved with sex. You are stressing this so much, and from what you’ve shared, I don’t believe you are remotely ready- that is PERFECTLY okay! If he’s going to be distant and what not it just shows his immaturity which is very common for a 16 yr old boy. You’re 15 stressing like a 30 year old about this and that part concerns me the most. You mos…
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/19 03:24 AM
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I wish all of these responses were as kind as this. Thanks so much! I’m really working on accepting her and not letting it get the best of me. Growing up with a narcissist, I always protected my own and I think coming from that sort of childhood makes it INCREDIBLY hard to not defend him. That’s how I was raised so I’m sooo confused/ didn’t realize people frown upon this and I feel this is what no one is understanding. I appreciate your blunt/ honest, yet respectful response.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/19 04:06 PM
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Experience from my brothers: (Dad was a narcissist, abusive and controlling, cheated lots on my mom) Hopeless romantic fearful of commitment, jumps in, but doesn’t open up all of the way- or nearly enough to keep a woman happy with that level of bonding and understanding. You have to chip away at his walls, but he’s this human of love just afraid of it turning out like our parents. -he started to learn about himself, relationships, women, read lots of books and started dating and met a woman who…
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/19 03:45 PM
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Love your response! We have actually talked about it and it’s calmed my nerves, except he loves family vacations and we struggle with me not wanting to go and him wanting to. Lol and I hurt his feelings when I talk about children and say I don’t want them left alone with her (drastic, I know). I’ve apologized 2 times! She won’t forgive me. She told me she doesn’t know how to fully forgive people, she has years of things she still gets mad about from her childhood too. That’s why I think she’s na…
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/19 03:27 PM
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I get what you’re saying, but I’m unsure of how I have been coming across as blowing up? Everyone seems to think that when I stated I kindly brought it up to her.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/19 03:15 PM
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Oh man I don’t want this to cause an argument but it does not require repentance to other humans. We’re called to repent as an act of obedience to God. We are saved if he is our Lord and Savior. We are called to forgive those who refuse to ask or show mercy, out of love because us believers are forgiven. Jesus died for our sins, and for our forgiveness. (Please do not take this as an attack I am just informing you so you can understand why that isn’t applicable here, which is totally unfair I kn…
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/19 03:12 PM
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I never spoke about my own mother, i don’t have a strained relationship with my mother, it’s excellent and I wasn’t extremely rude to my FMIL. I stated that in my post I was kind about it. Your responses are incredibly drastic for someone not looking at what was posted and thinking before you comment. If you would have read, you would see her negative behavior is common. If you would have read my later post to other comments, like you claim, you would have seen this is reoccuring and she is a he…
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/19 03:07 PM
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We’re a month out from the wedding, that they have helped pay for. Do you have any temporary ideas until I can fully do that?
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/19 03:00 PM
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That’s true, but the thing is I’ve been with them consistently weekly for almost 3 years and I’ve gone on vacation with just her, her husband and the girls. We have gotten so close at times she would cry about how happy she was i was becoming her daughter in law and how i was the one she could go to for advice and what not. I know them better than my fiancé and the whole family jokes about it. (He’s never felt close with her and always felt like the odd one out, and his parents do make that obvi…
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/19 02:26 PM
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I actually really appreciate this and this was exactly what Iwas looking for, so i hope you can see where your response came off as ignorant to me when you didn’t go in depth. Now ignorance comes from me because I didn’t even think about the 5 years vs now aspect, all I wanted to do was show her that I will not put up with that in front of me. I’m just not sure how to handle this 24/7, her own husband has stopped telling her to not gossip and make things up because he doesn’t like the backlash a…
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/19 02:07 PM
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You’re so dang rude lol. I don’t think I’ve ever met someone who gets so drastic over an honest statement and clear assumption. Good Luck.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/19 01:46 PM
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“You stuck your nose where it didn’t belong” that is ignorant, please correct me if I’m wrong, but that is where I belong, defending the man I love and am going to spend my life with. I just don’t understand how everyone thinks that not approaching it (kindly I might add), I asked to speak with her a little later about something that bothers me deeply, and she requested I tell her right then and there, and then was appalled I would even tell her to not speak about her son the way she pleases and…
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/19 01:37 PM
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Christianity isn’t a religion. And no, it doesn’t. A son can’t change a mother’s choices for what she chooses to act like.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/19 01:26 PM
2

I asked for a way to make it better, not an ignorant response that wasn’t needed. If your mother in law is saying awful things about your husband to her friends right in front of you and you don’t stick up for him, I wish you well. Her commenting on his weight and the way he dresses isnt something that’s a big enough deal to ask her to not say those things- since she is his mother and is allowed her opinion, and inconsiderate as it might be. Loyalty is something men love and respect, a woman who…
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/19 01:25 PM
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I really appreciate your in-depth and kind reply. So she is a married woman of 26 years and has 7 children, she has loved all of his exes, and is constantly surrounded by people. I am a professional model and that is her biggest issue with me, she can’t stand me for it because she doesn’t love herself. I’ve worked on calling her beautiful, complimenting, letting her in on my life and our life and it just fricken backfires. My dad is a narcissist, and I believe she is too. Her behavior is wild an…
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/19 01:20 PM
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It has a lot to do with it, I’m going to just assume you’re not Christian (for having that outlook) I forgive her often because I am as well BUT this time I’m deeply hurt by his sisters doing this to me. His hand in the matter doesn’t change anything, this is the woman that she is and she refuses to change. She blames the way she is on her childhood- not an excuse to either one of us. When he speaks to her about issues it blows up and makes it worse, he’s not a mommas boy but he knows just how c…
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/19 01:14 PM
1

He’s told them many times, she will apologize and hide behind her Christianity. she is a very self conscious, jealous and angry, so I approached it very kindly and she lost it- definitely fuel to the fire. He appreciates that I would do that but thinks it is pointless because he says she is psycho and won’t change (very accurate) and that part breaks his heart that she can’t help but dislike me and be cruel.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/19 12:48 PM
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Yes he’s told them before multiple times, but keep in mind he is from a Christian home and forgiveness is key.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/19 12:41 PM
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Thank you! I’m not sure why everyone thinks it’s a problem to defend him when things are said behind his back, that I witnessed firsthand.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/19 12:38 PM
1

Why comment something so childish? I didn’t realize being an adult and letting her know I don’t appreciate her saying hateful things about my fiancé behind his back is telling someone off.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/19 12:37 PM
1

You made a very ignorant comment. My fiancé was not around, and I am loyal and respect him too much to allow such awful, wrong things to be said. It’s unfortunate to know neither you or your husband would have each other’s backs. Maybe you should re evaluate your marriage and it’s loyalty sometime.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/19 12:36 PM
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You have been warned, you’re not dumb and so many people on here are beyond critical. If you can communicate openly and you both choose eachother everyday the age gap does NOT and will NOT matter. This sub can get pretty snappy and unforgiving when it comes to unique/ uncommon situations. Some men are ready at 18 to take on the world and have life experience some 50 year olds don’t. You guys know what’s best, do whatever you want to and know is best! Good luck, marriage is very exciting!
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/19 05:00 AM
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Just flirtatious ways to compliment him and get my wit back, I used to be excellent at this and I went through a lot and working on getting myself back there as I prepare for marriage
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/19 02:43 AM
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Simple but sweet: get closure. Say what you need to, reach out. Maybe it didn’t end right, and you need to say something. Whatever it is, make sure you get the closure you need to move on or get back together but figure it out before it affects you even further or in another relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/19 11:29 AM
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