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| 1 | Would you guys be okay with this? It's sounds crazy to me.I didn’t read the long thread you posted. But in general I’ve thought of this before & thought that if I found a husband who was filthy rich & I would never have to worry about money then I think I would be more accepting of his cheating. In reality most men cheat already & I’ve gone through a horrible relationship where I found out he had been cheating the entire 4 years we were together- I got nothing out of that relationship. That relationship was a set back for me. If I’m going to be in a re… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/22 09:03 PM |
| 39 | What Are The Signs Of Porn-Sick Men?Actually I find many men don’t even hide the fact that they watch a ton of porn. They’ll literally tell you “I’ve seen all the types of porn” etc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/22 03:02 AM |
| 67 | Can we stop calling them fuck boys and move forward to the simple and subhuman title of skank?Shit most of them don’t even use soap on their dick. They definitely need a good scrub with bleach. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/22 04:14 AM |
| 8 | Man attempts to low-ball his date after getting horrendous advice from Reddit. Queen blocks and deletes in responseOmg yes they’re in the Denial stage of grief 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 10:31 PM |
| 39 | Man attempts to low-ball his date after getting horrendous advice from Reddit. Queen blocks and deletes in responseIf I remember right he’s a resident in a plastic surgery clinic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 10:28 PM |
| 77 | Man attempts to low-ball his date after getting horrendous advice from Reddit. Queen blocks and deletes in responseYeah exactly. I’ve never even met him yet why the hell would I go to his place?? I would just be asking to get raped if I did that lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 09:48 PM |
| 65 | Man attempts to low-ball his date after getting horrendous advice from Reddit. Queen blocks and deletes in responseTrue but it seems like a LOT of guys are stuck in the hookup culture :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 09:46 PM |
| 2 | The Consequences of The Male Birth Control PillI wish it was as easy at that but there are issues with doing that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 09:42 PM |
| 33 | Man attempts to low-ball his date after getting horrendous advice from Reddit. Queen blocks and deletes in responseHe expects sex for the price of a coffee | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 06:38 PM |
| 38 | Man attempts to low-ball his date after getting horrendous advice from Reddit. Queen blocks and deletes in responseI think guys haven’t realized yet that we don’t need them. We are capable of living a fulfilling life on our own & take care of ourselves. We don’t NEED a man. So if they want to participate in our life they better bring something to the table. We’re just fine being on our own, we’re not desperate like they are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 06:37 PM |
| 51 | Man attempts to low-ball his date after getting horrendous advice from Reddit. Queen blocks and deletes in responseIt would probably be a “promise ring” too instead of an actual engagement ring. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 06:22 PM |
| 95 | Man attempts to low-ball his date after getting horrendous advice from Reddit. Queen blocks and deletes in responseI had a first date take me to a really fancy downtown restaurant for dinner & drinks. I didn’t see the bill but it had to be around $200. Our connection prior to meeting for the date was really great so he was invested in getting to know me more. It ended up not working out between us (age difference/ he was much younger) but at least he put in the effort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 05:57 PM |
| 216 | Man attempts to low-ball his date after getting horrendous advice from Reddit. Queen blocks and deletes in responseThe fact is that guys think they can get away with a cheap date & still expect sex to happen. So basically they’re looking for cheap or free sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 05:52 PM |
| 300 | Man attempts to low-ball his date after getting horrendous advice from Reddit. Queen blocks and deletes in responseI recently was talking yo a doctor from one of the dating apps. He asked me on a date. He wanted to go to a coffee shop - I told him I’m not drinking coffee or alcohol right now. Then he suggested he cook me dinner. Umm I’m not going to your house when we haven’t even met yet. But they were both low value dates. I just stopped talking to him. Not worth my time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 05:20 PM |
| 13 | The Consequences of The Male Birth Control PillThere are men who choose to be childfree who STILL don't get a vasectomy. If they know they don't want any kids ever & won't even get such a simple procedure to prevent a pregnancy, then why the hell will they even bother with BC? On the other hand, I think men should be required to take BC. Women have had to deal with the physical consequences of BC for way too long. It's time for the men to sacrifice. And even if both partners took BC then there would be less of a chance of a breakthrough preg… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 10:53 PM |
| 37 | The Consequences of The Male Birth Control PillMen should still take BC though. If both partners were on BC there would be less chance of a breakthrough pregnancy. Since BC isn't 100% effective. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 10:49 PM |
| 21 | The Consequences of The Male Birth Control PillIt would be nice if there was male birth control AND there were legal consequences if a guy told a woman he's on birth control & then she gets pregnant because it turns out he's not on BC or he's not taking it as prescribed (skipping doses). Otherwise, even if there's male BC we can't trust them to actually take it. Why do they care about BC, they have no consequences if they get someone pregnant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 10:48 PM |
| 78 | Why you should NEVER accept a 50/50 relationship: THIS. Imagine how life is if she just stay single and work on her business alone.This is the exact reason why guys do this - to keep the wife / gf financially dependent on him & she doesn't have a way to leave him since she can't afford to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 01:24 AM |
| 80 | Woman finds out her boyfriend earns significantly more money than her, wants him to contribute more for their rent and take her on a nice date.It's all about control | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 10:20 PM |
| 144 | & that’s on porn addiction… SMHOmg I HATE this whole "don't kink shame" movement. It's just fuel to allow men to treat women poorly in bed & act out all of the porn shit they watch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 07:25 AM |
| 111 | Man withholds a 12.5K bonus from his SAHM wife because she didnt share the 200$ she made on Etsy (the first time in 7 years she earned anything). Be careful not to marry miserly men who loathe you.I noticed this too. It seems like he's set up financially & she's fully dependent on him. Their money already ISN'T being allocated properly between them. The retirement accounts (or lack of) prove that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 07:14 AM |
| 124 | Man withholds a 12.5K bonus from his SAHM wife because she didnt share the 200$ she made on Etsy (the first time in 7 years she earned anything). Be careful not to marry miserly men who loathe you.OP - "I don't give her money - we share finances" Also OP - "I thought with the bonus check maybe she would want more in her monthly allowance" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 07:09 AM |
| 134 | Man withholds a 12.5K bonus from his SAHM wife because she didnt share the 200$ she made on Etsy (the first time in 7 years she earned anything). Be careful not to marry miserly men who loathe you.Men want a stay at home mom purely for the control they have over her. No one could ever convince me otherwise. I've seen too many women trapped in abusive relationships / marriages because they're stay at home moms which means they don't have a job or money of their own & it's difficult for them to even get a job because they've been out of the work force too long (which is complete bullshit, but that's another conversation). This OP clearly wants control over his wife & when she didn't allow t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 07:07 AM |
| 316 | I don’t think what Will did was the best course of action or way to defend Jada. However I’m disturbed by the amount of people who antagonize her as a cheater; considering both of them agreed on an open marriage and have admitted they both have seen other people. They only praise woman who ‘stay’.Men are only ok with an open marriage when they're the ones having sex with other people, not when the wife is having sex with others. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 08:32 PM |
| 7 | Let’s not fund research of a HIGHLY underdiagnosed and treated disease, but how it effects their male partners because sex is too painful 🤦🏼♀️True. We've made some progress in the last 200 years but barely lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 08:13 PM |
| 17 | Let’s not fund research of a HIGHLY underdiagnosed and treated disease, but how it effects their male partners because sex is too painful 🤦🏼♀️I had severe pain with my menstruation since high school & it took decades to get a doctor to finally listen to me & try to help me. Fuck doctors, especially in the US, I don't trust any of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 07:43 PM |
| 15 | Let’s not fund research of a HIGHLY underdiagnosed and treated disease, but how it effects their male partners because sex is too painful 🤦🏼♀️I really hate being born in this world. Sometimes I wish I was born hundreds of years in our future instead when women are treated better. But the way our species is destroying the planet we'll probably not exist long enough to ever reach that point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 07:40 PM |
| 153 | This man really saw a woman’s standards of “has a job, showers daily, and has all his teeth” and came to the conclusion “nah, asking too much, men just can’t meet that”. If we lower our standards, there’s always someone trying to push them even lower.Men: women shouldn't expect a man to have proper body & mouth hygiene. Also men: women should get a boob job because I like big boobs. They should also stay ultra skinny & never physically look like they're aging. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 07:28 PM |
| 29 | Is there even a bar anymore?The only "bar" that exists is the one guys use to try to drug unsuspecting women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 07:12 PM |
| 45 | Beware of the man with a female friend/female friendsScreenshot 4 gave me the info I suspected : all the guy friends in that group shut down the wives suspicions about Mary because they were ALL fucking her. "Mary admitted she went through some situationsips with my ex & a couple of his friends" Yep. They all were having a piece of Mary & they didn't want to give that up. So anytime one of the wives brought up suspicion about Mary the guys all shut that shit down quick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 03:57 AM |
| 27 | I lost track of how many red flags I heard.Yeah that's too low effort. They will always be low effort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 01:33 AM |
| 51 | I lost track of how many red flags I heard.This dude is holding ALL the red flags & waving them like he's in color guard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 01:31 AM |
| 14 | Straight from the horse's mouth 🗣️Yep that's what I was thinking. Most of them don't get to the 3 month mark anyway. They get dropped due to various red flags. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 12:34 AM |
| 16 | Straight from the horse's mouth 🗣️Great points! Always listen when guys say these small comments about themselves (like they're not good enough, boring, confused) because they are telling you who they are, unintentionally. I don't think they realize what they're doing, but if you pay attention to these little things LISTEN TO THEM. They're not just passing comments. They're telling us who they are. Believe them lol. So many times we don't pay attention to these little things. After being in such a toxic relationship I notice the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 10:33 PM |
| 23 | Straight from the horse's mouth 🗣️Yep & this is why the whole "stick by your man when he is struggling & he'll be there when he's successful" mindset is so toxic. I'm not here to build up a man, he can see a therapist & a life coach / mentor to help build him up. I'm done doing that because they don't appreciate it, they don't respect you for it, & you're wasting your time because even if they do improve (which I think is rare) then they'll leave you for someone they perceive as being better (because they think they deserve more… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 10:29 PM |
| 9 | Straight from the horse's mouth 🗣️That's a great idea!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 06:01 PM |
| 81 | Straight from the horse's mouth 🗣️Yeah that happened to me too. It's no wonder we don't trust guys. We can't. They're always lying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 06:00 PM |
| 15 | Straight from the horse's mouth 🗣️I'll look back through the handbook for it! Thanks :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 05:13 PM |
| 48 | Straight from the horse's mouth 🗣️Hmm it's hard to think of examples. For me it can be really subtle things. If he makes a comment that you're too good looking for him / he's not good enough for you. He doesn't take criticism well. He can't admit to his mistakes. I'm sorry, hopefully others can add their thoughts on this as well. I just woke up & my brain is still sleeping lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 05:10 PM |
| 61 | Straight from the horse's mouth 🗣️Does anyone have insight on how to handle this though? Some guys will NEVER bring this up so do we give them a certain time frame for them to bring up the "are we a couple" stuff & if they don't bring it up in that time frame then just move on from them? Like say we give them 3 months to bring up this topic. We don't tell them there's a timeline on this of course. At the end of the 3 months if they haven't brought it up then we end it with them. Thoughts? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 05:05 PM |
| 105 | Straight from the horse's mouth 🗣️Exactly! This is the exact reason why we don't pursue men or initiate things with a man. Because they'll say yes to anyone even if they don't see a future with you. Just for sex. I refuse to initiate with a guy or be the one to ask him out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 05:00 PM |
| 172 | Straight from the horse's mouth 🗣️The low self esteem is a huge red flag for me now. After my last relationship where he ended up being a total failure I realized a HUGE part of his issue was extreme low self esteem. If I pick up clues that a guy has really low self esteem then I end it with him. So many guys have this crippling low self esteem & it contributes to their bad behavior in a relationship. So I won't deal with it anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 04:56 PM |
| 198 | Do not be jealous of the new girl… abusers do not change. Even if they somewhat “get better”, you deserve more than whatever half baked fuckboy shit this ex-douchebag has to offer you. Leave him in the past sisters, pray for the women who encounter him, and thrive. We are worth more than we know. 💞"Once an abuser always an abuser" Just like: "once a cheater always a cheater" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 05:48 AM |
| 164 | I’m begging...please! End the cultural idea that husbands are an extra little kid women have to drag along and care for - if he’s not making your life easier/better, drop him off at this “day care” and never pick him up again.I found one of these signs in Vietnam. It must be a "joke" enough that many places use this to get attention. It just showcases how much of a problem it really is. Most men are "man babies". It's not cute. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 10:35 PM |
| 76 | Porn sickness is a slippery slope, this woman needs to take her daughter and LEAVEHe's called her "little girl" in the past?? How do you miss such a huge red flag?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 07:45 PM |
| 16 | The Scrotation PlaylistHaha idk the lyrics, I assumed it had to do with failed pregnancies on the past. I never cared enough to research if my friend was right or not 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 01:25 AM |
| 31 | The Scrotation PlaylistSomeone told me he wrote this song for his future kid, which then the lyrics make much more sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 12:54 AM |
| 16 | Forever Girlfriend finds out her baby daddy isn’t going to marry her. This is why we need FDS.Oh wow, I didn't see that. She's so far off track :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 11:26 PM |
| 87 | Forever Girlfriend finds out her baby daddy isn’t going to marry her. This is why we need FDS.Same - sometimes I miss being in a relationship but seeing posts like this remind me it's worth it to wait for the right person. I've been in a shitty relationship before & it was hell. I would rather be single with my pets than ever be in a bad relationship again. It was so sad seeing her write at the end about how she should have asked him WHY when they were talking about it the night before & blaming herself for not asking him. No need to ask him. He probably wouldn't give an honest answer an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 10:08 PM |
| 276 | Forever Girlfriend finds out her baby daddy isn’t going to marry her. This is why we need FDS.I came here to share this post & knew it had to be shared already, glad I checked first lol! Omg what a dumpster fire!! She had 2 kids with someone she's not married to. She got the marriage license & he still wouldn't go through with it. She asked what he loved most about her & his answer was basically that she's his mother, babysitter, & maid. This post was the most difficult to read. I cringed with each new paragraph. I really wish girls in adolescent age were taught that they can have expect… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 09:21 PM |
| 35 | Scrote high off confidence from “self-improvement” demands his female friend stop telling his hookups he’s sleeping around. Molly for president 2k24I don't understand why people can be so cruel to keep these lies for a friend?? It's the whole "not my relationship not my business / I don't want to meddle" attitude, but it makes them just as horrible of a person as the cheater is when they stick by his lies for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 09:03 PM |
| 414 | Scrote high off confidence from “self-improvement” demands his female friend stop telling his hookups he’s sleeping around. Molly for president 2k24This was the biggest thing that caught my attention. How much a guy's friends will lie for him & not tell these women the truth. I had found out my ex had been cheating & seeing prostitutes throughout our 4 years together. Then I found out he had actually started seeing prostitutes at least 3 years before we met & started dating & that his friends new about that. And no one ever told. No hints about it. Nothing. They were completely fucking silent. Which actually explained why I never really got… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 04:56 AM |
| 177 | I understand the sentiment of this post was to tell women it is not our fault when a man has erectile dysfunction. I like many of her sketches. However, I think she forgot a lot of men also have (PIED) Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction... May I ask FDS sisters, how can we best tell the difference???Exactly. Men don't "put up with" a lack of sex in their relationship, why should women have to deal with it? Most men will use a lack of sex as a reason to cheat. If I'm not satisfied in the bedroom then I'm out of that relationship. I've been in a dead bedroom relationship before & won't go through that again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 10:41 PM |
| 53 | FDS works: Why men refuse to pay for datesI've had guy friends tell me that they swipe yes on every. single. woman. All of them. That's not special. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/22 11:10 PM |
| 112 | This review for an odor removing laundry detergent….what the heck is wrong with your husbands health that led to this review????Great review for the product lol, terrible review for the husband...... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 06:19 PM |
| 5 | in response to "female decision calculator" here's a scrote delusion calculator and a response siteI don't even make $65k & I have a masters degree | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 06:10 AM |
| 51 | This is one of the most horrific stories I have ever seen on Reddit. Thank god she is getting out. How is there not protections for young women like this.Can't she get into legal trouble when she leaves him now & takes the baby with her? I'm afraid her story will be difficult to believe (by police & judge) without any proof of what was going on. :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 03:23 AM |
| 5 | I was told by a female colleague that at first sight I’m totally unapproachableHaha yeah I have this issue too. I've had a few close friends over the years tell me that when they first met me I looked like I was going to be a real bitch. I have a good resting bitch face I guess. I'm ok with it though ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 06:39 AM |
| 89 | Follow the red flags & listen to your gut instinctThere were a lot of flags. Another big flag was when we threw a Halloween party a few months after we started dating. He didn't want to pair with me for beer pong so I paired with some guy that came to the party (he was a friend of a friend) & I KICKED ASS at beer pong that night. I was making trick shots & everything, it was great lol. That night after everyone left & my bf & I went to bed he treated me like shit & gave me the cold shoulder. I cried myself to sleep, then woke up early before hi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 06:00 PM |
| 6 | Gross old men commenting on underage girls figure skating. Disgusting to know that even if we do not hear or see men's depravity towards us, it still exists.I actually hoped that Covid would wipe out the older generations. I was severely disappointed by this pandemic :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 05:50 PM |
| 19 | Gross old men commenting on underage girls figure skating. Disgusting to know that even if we do not hear or see men's depravity towards us, it still exists.I can't wait until all the older generations die. The world will be a much better place without them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 03:36 PM |
| 27 | He was fine with 50/50 until she told him the cost of having a childHaha came here to comment the same. That one phrase told me all I need to know about this loser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 07:08 AM |
| 9 | He was fine with 50/50 until she told him the cost of having a childI couldn't read past "spiritually married" 😂 Get the fuck out of here with that BS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 07:05 AM |
| 99 | If they don't list in their OLD profile what they are looking for (relationship or casual) it's never for a good reason. This is from one of the OLD subreddits. OP is confirming my beliefs in the last screenshot."Looking for casual, but not a hookup, but I don't want a relationship" Sounds like he wants the benefits of a relationship without being tied to just that 1 person 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 11:00 AM |
| 14 | She did that! A woman can’t even run a business without a scrote having the audacity. She cleared his ass and I know his ego was deflated.bUt i'M a NiCe gUy 🤪 I assume this is something he says because "nice guys" always turn evil when they're denied by a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 10:53 AM |
| 54 | Abusers wait to reveal his true colours until you’re baby trapped. Vet ruthlessly by enforcing your boundaries during courtship.This is actually child neglect & would warrant a call to child protective services because it's an environment where the baby isn't getting fed when necessary. It's neglecting the baby's physical needs which (especially at this young age) is vital to proper health & keeping it alive. Also this environment of the baby not being allowed to feed when needed will have long-term psychology effects & the child will possibly have an unhealthy relationship with food when they're older (along with a host… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 10:45 AM |
| 151 | Never EVER share financial information with a man. It starts with $20 now but can easily escalate to much more over the years. Come across the wrong one and they will absolutely destroy you financially.Wow there's a lot of gas lighting. Yikes. Even aside from that, why didn't he buy the breakfast groceries himself? He acts like $20 isn't much to argue about - then why didn't he just buy it? Why take her card for it? And you don't need a pin# to use a credit or debit card, especially for such a small amount. It seems like he was testing the waters & maybe going to misuse her card after he had the pin# for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 09:33 PM |
| 117 | This Woman Dated a Man for 2 Years Without Ever Meeting His Family, Friends, or Seeing His HomeIt's also scary how much their friends & coworkers will help him lie to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 05:11 AM |
| 50 | Swipe. Man goes on 63 dates, does not use FDS tactics, still single. Huh...Exactly! "Not all dates were paid outings" He showed his true self in the beginning. If he's not going to put any effort in at the very beginning then how worse will he be years (actually months) into a relationship? Women notice these things & will move onto someone else who will actually put the effort in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/22 11:45 PM |
| 10 | It wouldn't have anything to do with that hateful, repulsive personality. Nah, must be the cheekbones. B*tches so picky 🙄"... deranged in their standards for male beauty" That's what this is about? Dude, welcome to the BS women have been forced to endure since the beginning of time. Suck it up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 08:36 PM |
| 33 | This is why you don't get an OnlyFans. Men that you know will happily buy the nudes to wank over you, and then go on right ahead to use that fact to stop you from getting a job. Male 'feminists' are evil, do NOT believe them when they say they are supportive of 'sex workers'."This further proves my support for women with OF" Is the same as saying "I'm not a racist, my dentist is black" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 10:56 PM |
| 45 | Backfooting: the Disturbing New Dating Trend Men Don't Want You to Know AboutMy ex would accuse me of cheating. At the end of the long relationship I discovered that HE had been cheating the entire time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 05:42 PM |
| 62 | UPDATE: on 46 y/o coworker claiming to be 34.Typical gaslighting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 07:09 AM |
| 7 | Ibu-f*ckin-profen - the difference in male and female medical careThat's awesome I wish I knew about that sooner! It's ridiculous how in the US we have to jump through so many hoops just to get basic medications. When most other countries have these medications available as OTC & are a lot cheaper. I just moved out of the US so hopefully getting the meds I need won't be an issue anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 02:53 AM |
| 31 | Ibu-f*ckin-profen - the difference in male and female medical careI've had to fight for proper medical care SO MANY FUCKING TIMES in my life. It's complete bullshit & one of the reasons I've finally moved out of the US. I had debilitating period pains since middle school. At one point I called my regular family doctor 3 days in a row crying & begging for help. Her nurse finally told me "the Dr thinks you might have endometriosis but we don't prescribe pain medication for period cramps." I was thrown by that statement. You just told me you think I have a painfu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 10:58 PM |
| 7 | That would be instant ICK for me followed by my departure and blocking everywhere. If he is doing something this gross in front of you, imagine the filthy shit he's doing secretly 🤮Ohhhhh haha I was half asleep & thought that was the original post 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 03:18 PM |
| 11 | That would be instant ICK for me followed by my departure and blocking everywhere. If he is doing something this gross in front of you, imagine the filthy shit he's doing secretly 🤮What did you do when you saw him do this? Did you continue dating him after this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 07:48 AM |
| 65 | Why you shouldn’t live together before marriage: 2 real-life examplesI would say you could "move in" with a guy by basically living there & staying there all the time but keep your own place still. This way you're not splitting rent & bills (which could be the motivation for him wanting you to move in), you can still get a good idea of what his real behavior & habits are, & you still have your own place if it all falls to pieces. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 12:46 AM |
| 29 | Tell the world you abuse women without telling the world you abuse women 🤫🤭Eww I can imagine how dirty & gross those robots will be when most men won't be keeping theirs clean =/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Tell the world you abuse women without telling the world you abuse women 🤫🤭"Sex robots will replace the need for women" News flash: vibrators have already replaced the need for men. We're a step ahead of y'all already. Most men are terrible in bed & don't know how to please a woman. Why would we want to waste our time & energy on that when we can use a vibrator, get things done on our own, have better orgasms, & not have to deal with a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 06:25 PM |
| 91 | what happens when you initiafe contact even onceI guess next time let this guy get shot 💁🏻♀️😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/21 10:49 PM |
| 7 | What I posted versus a reason for a permaban from a large “feminist” subreddit. Wow I wonder why :)I was banned from a dating subreddit because they saw that I participate in this group 🤦🏻♀️ people are stupid | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 12:13 PM |
| 28 | My fantasy isn’t for a man to protect me, my fantasy is to not be threatened by men in the first placeI wouldn't trust most men to protect me in an actually dangerous situation anyway. They'll either be incapable or they'll abandon the woman to save themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 09:56 PM |
| 47 | My fantasy isn’t for a man to protect me, my fantasy is to not be threatened by men in the first placeThis is exactly whey we see so many men butt into our conversations with "bUt nOt aLL MeN 🥴" They try to turn it around & play the victim. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 09:55 PM |
| 55 | US-based women who are actively dating/in relationships: Protect your wombSame I was turned down from so many doctors for like 9 years. They all said "you'll change your mind about having kids" 🙄 nope never changed my mind. I also had severe debilitating pain with my periods & doctors wouldn't look into it or give me pain medication for it, they just keep pushing me on BC which is super unhealthy to be on long-term. Finally found a doctor to listen to me 4 years ago & had a hysterectomy. Best day of my life. Also, she found that I had adenomyosis & that's what was cau… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 05:04 AM |
| 12 | Two of the biggest lies patriarchy tells us: “men age like fine wine” & “age gap relationships are totally natural”I hadn't heard that before, do you know what happened? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 12:12 AM |
| 22 | New to me LVM tacticI once was out for sushi on a first date with a guy. We ordered a few things & shared but he definitely ate at least twice as much as I did. Then when the check came we split the bill. Like, we didn't even split the food.... WTF?? Never talked to him again & he still tries to message me & match with me online. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 11:11 PM |
| 4 | Studies have shown that men (moreso than women) will leave a relationship / marriage when their partner gets sick. Not to mention the high rate that they abandon their family/parental responsibilities. This is why it's so important to not settle for LVM!I've had so many married men hit on me. It makes it difficult to trust any men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 09:01 PM |
| 26 | Studies have shown that men (moreso than women) will leave a relationship / marriage when their partner gets sick. Not to mention the high rate that they abandon their family/parental responsibilities. This is why it's so important to not settle for LVM!I really hope hell is real & is filled with men. There's so many of them who deserve to be there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 09:51 PM |
| 33 | Studies have shown that men (moreso than women) will leave a relationship / marriage when their partner gets sick. Not to mention the high rate that they abandon their family/parental responsibilities. This is why it's so important to not settle for LVM!The entire system is rigged against women. It's still "a man's world" out there :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 09:51 PM |
| 21 | Studies have shown that men (moreso than women) will leave a relationship / marriage when their partner gets sick. Not to mention the high rate that they abandon their family/parental responsibilities. This is why it's so important to not settle for LVM!This sort of thing should be illegal. Although men aren't held to any sort of consequences for any of their behaviors / decisions so I doubt it would change anything. :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 09:49 PM |
| 56 | Studies have shown that men (moreso than women) will leave a relationship / marriage when their partner gets sick. Not to mention the high rate that they abandon their family/parental responsibilities. This is why it's so important to not settle for LVM!I hate this part of our society / culture. Women are brainwashed into sacrificing everything for a man yet the man is allowed to abandon her & their family whenever he wants to. I'm actually glad that my dad bailed on me & my sibling when we were really young. It showed me how capable most men are of just abandoning their parental responsibilities & leaving it for the mom to deal with 100% with no consequences to the father for leaving. I decided when I was 10 years old that I would never have k… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 09:47 PM |
| 79 | Studies have shown that men (moreso than women) will leave a relationship / marriage when their partner gets sick. Not to mention the high rate that they abandon their family/parental responsibilities. This is why it's so important to not settle for LVM!Same for my step-dad. He stuck by my mom through cancer & passing from the cancer. He would even bathe her & change her diapers during that time when she couldn't care for herself. Wish more men were that loyal & caring. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 09:43 PM |
| 18 | Male friends and brothers will 'pity' my bfIt sounds like the male friends are trying to sabotage her current relationship by the comments they continue to make. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 04:33 AM |
| 45 | Scrote chases woman down an alley hollering and saying “come here” aggressively. Proceeds to call the woman racist for being scared, along with “dumb bitch” a few times.He's literally chasing her & growling/grunting. Fucking psycho. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 02:37 AM |
| 4 | Conservative men can be so misogynistic that I can no longer tell the difference between reality and satire.Scrote: demands perfection from a woman, but looks like an ogre himself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 10:24 PM |
| 33 | Conservative men can be so misogynistic that I can no longer tell the difference between reality and satire.This whole profile is "tell me you've never dated a woman without telling me you've never dated a woman" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 10:22 PM |
| 13 | As a woman looking to buy a property in the next few years. It’s so important to legally NEVER give a man this much financial/ legal leverage over me. Any advice from you ladies???Even if you don't marry the guy you're in a relationship you can still be considered as "common law married" in some states. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 04:54 PM |
| 23 | When dating, do you have certain professions that you avoid?I feel like the only job that hasn't been listed is the construction field lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 04:18 PM |
| 32 | When dating, do you have certain professions that you avoid?The musicians I've known also have very strange sexual kinks. Hard pass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 04:17 PM |
| 9 | When dating, do you have certain professions that you avoid?That's a great description of my relationship with my ex. It was the worst by far. I've turned down date requests from good looking successful attorneys since then. Never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 04:08 PM |
| 13 | When dating, do you have certain professions that you avoid?I started dating my ex right before he started law school, then all through law school & for a while afterwards when he was practicing. He didn't gaslight or emotionally manipulate me in the beginning. Makes me wonder if these type of people end up in the legal field or if the legal field helps to create these behaviors? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 03:52 PM |
| 10 | When dating, do you have certain professions that you avoid?Yep, I dated an attorney & I won't do it again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 03:12 PM |
| 49 | When people ask me why I suddenly only date younger guysI agree 100% Also, younger men tend to be more open-minded to learning new cultures (not racist), want to travel (not stay living in the same small boring town), try new activities..... LIVE LIFE. Older men are washed up, close-minded, stuck in their boring routine, didn't take care of themselves physically, misogynistic, etc etc. The list can go on forever. And yes, if I would have to deal with the BS either way then I'm 100% going with the younger man who looks better & has more stamina ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 01:10 AM |
| 6 | Excuse me?Exactly my thoughts. It's worrying that the baby might not be getting enough food, but I'm also worried about the mental health effect this is going to have on the baby. Trauma even as an infant has a lasting effect on a person's psyche (studies have proven this). An infant who can't care for themself & is dependent on their caregivers will likely experience this situation (a caregiver refusing food) as traumatic. It can affect the way they view food when they're older (overeating due to fear of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 03:46 PM |
| 6 | Excuse me?"I was the one my wife needed to look after" Jesus dude, you're an adult, look after your f*ing self. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 02:26 PM |
| 19 | "I know it's not actually 'cheating' per say" uum excuse me what 😀When I discovered my ex had been cheating throughout our entire 4 year relationship (with strangers from the internet & prostitutes) I did "out him" online & to his family. Online (when I first found out) I just said he cheated throughout the relationship, I didn't say he was meeting with prostitutes. Still, his family (especially his mom) was irate with me. My ex & his family kept saying I should keep our troubles "in the family" & not tell people outside of the family about it. They just didn'… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 02:45 AM |
| 28 | "I know it's not actually 'cheating' per say" uum excuse me what 😀I was with my ex for 4 years. At the end I discovered he had been cheating the entire 4 years with strangers from the internet & prostitutes. I got a counselor & she helped me see that he had also been emotionally abusive toward me. I felt so devastated that I had wasted 4 years of my life trying to help him be a better person & now I had to leave him & some other woman would benefit from the work I put into him. Obviously there was other damage to my financials & self-worth. But I remember bein… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 02:33 AM |
| 4 | "I know it's not actually 'cheating' per say" uum excuse me what 😀He's an alcoholic, has done some sort of cheating in the past & is doing cheating behavior again, he has a sexual infatuation with her mom, she thinks he'll gaslight her when she finally confronts him about it which tells me he's gaslighted her before, & he's not bothered that she has been giving him the silent treatment for a few days. Fuck focusing on school. Get a divorce attorney ASAP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 02:22 AM |
| 25 | Scrote: I have $7.5 M in assets, my wife has cancer, we have three little kids, if I quit my job I might resent the fact that I never got to my arbitrary $10 M target, I'm thinking of leaving her because the stress is too much for meWow. I really hope she's talking to EVERY divorce attorney in her state (so the husband can't get any of the good attorneys to represent him) & that she didn't sign a prenup. This is the exact reason why you don't sign a prenup. A prenup just allows a man to use & abuse you then throw you away when he doesn't need you anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 05:58 PM |
| 3 | I went and read comments about the Korean Marriage situation and thought this one was greatI wish I was gay. Men really AREN'T worth the effort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 01:20 PM |
| 192 | I went and read comments about the Korean Marriage situation and thought this one was greatThe same thing is happening in the US. Women now are realizing they don't have to live the life their mother & grandmother did. They can be independent, live life to fulfill their own wants & dreams. Men still want the life that their father & grandfather had but a lot of them aren't getting it & they're pissed - these are the incels. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 01:34 AM |
| 26 | Reality of a future with any scrote that uses porn. This poor woman.When I discovered that my bf of 4 years had a sex addiction & had been using porn, sex chatting with strangers online, meeting with strangers from online, & meeting with prostitutes it really hit my self-esteem hard. I thought how am I so disgusting that my own bf won't be intimate with me & is using this other stuff to fulfill those needs instead? It took a lot of time to heal from that but now I know that there's nothing wrong with me. He's just a disgusting f*ed up pervert. Like most men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 02:26 PM |
| 3 | I did this in high school 🤡 and guess what? It did not turn out well. Never doing it again. If he wanted to, he would.That's awesome that reddit has the option to report that as abuse! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 04:48 AM |
| 532 | The sign reads “Convince my boyfriend to propose to me.” Harry: How long have you guys been together? Her: 7 Years. Harry: I can’t help you.I was at his show a few days ago in St Paul when a lady hada sign "should I text him" - Harry asked the audience & it was a unanimous NO even though we didn't have any info about the situation yet 😅 at the end Harry said "if he's playing games then TRASH TRASH TRASH" Greatest moment ever & SO TRUE 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 04:45 AM |
| 1 | I did this in high school 🤡 and guess what? It did not turn out well. Never doing it again. If he wanted to, he would.Reddit Cares - haha the scrotes think you're suffering & need some extra support to feel better?? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 04:34 AM |
| 1 | I did this in high school 🤡 and guess what? It did not turn out well. Never doing it again. If he wanted to, he would.I thought of that, but my phone notification shows me part of the comment & it's comments agreeing with what I say, so they're no scrotes. Maybe they're users who are new to this sub. I think admin hides your comments until they approve them, when you're a new member here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 04:30 AM |
| 2 | I did this in high school 🤡 and guess what? It did not turn out well. Never doing it again. If he wanted to, he would.Anyone know why I get a pop-up on my phone that someone responded to my comment here yet when I go to the reddit app there's no notification & when I go to my comment there's no replies? It seems to only happen with this group :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 04:19 AM |
| 27 | This really backs up the study on a majority of men leaving/cheating on their terminally ill wives. 🙄I'm grateful that my step-dad really cared about my mom & took care of her at the end of her life. She got cancer & passed a few months after diagnosis. He helped her, took care of her, cleaned her, stayed by her side the entire time. When she was had to stay sleeping in the hospital bed in the living room he would bring his bed mattress out to the living room each night to sleep with her. There are good spouses out there. It seems more of them aren't good & it worries me if I ever find a long-t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 02:53 AM |
| 15 | I did this in high school 🤡 and guess what? It did not turn out well. Never doing it again. If he wanted to, he would.Guys will say yes to anyone. If you ask him out you have no way of knowing if he’s actually interested or if he said yes just out of convenience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 05:06 AM |
| 118 | Why do men always bring up women's height preference when factually speaking we know men have a race, weight, look, and physical feature preference?I've had a few guys tell me that they swipe right on literally every woman on the dating apps to try to match with whoever. Is it desperation? Is it to feed their ego when they do match with someone? This is why I don't take a "match" seriously anymore. It's not really a match together if they're swiping right on everyone's profile. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 08:26 PM |
| 3 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyThat's awesome you were able to recognize that & stop yourself! When I was younger I didn't get hangovers & yeah I drank a lot more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 10:12 PM |
| 2 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyOh wow that's interesting! I wish I had the "survive booze" gene lol. But it's probably best that I don't have it. Thanks for sharing this info. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 09:20 PM |
| 8 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyNo guys that say "that's what she said" jokes. My ex said that all the time & he turned out to be a total douchebag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 02:42 AM |
| 7 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyThere's "can handle their liquor" And there's "drinks so often that they have a high tolerance & don't get hangovers" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 02:36 AM |
| 1 | The average woman is more attractive than the average man, but NOT because she’s actually more attractiveIf men were that horny they would put in more effort toward themselves (like taking care of your hygiene, how you look, etc) to be able to better reach their goal of having sex. Instead they just complain that no one wants to fuck them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 01:03 AM |
| 1 | The average woman is more attractive than the average man, but NOT because she’s actually more attractiveI would argue against that. I can't find a guy who can keep up with my sex drive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 07:45 PM |
| 2 | The average woman is more attractive than the average man, but NOT because she’s actually more attractiveThat's a lot of words for "I don't want to put effort into how I look." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Can you post examples of photos of an average guy?Those usually aren't the women that guys complain about not getting attention from. So that's irrelevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 05:23 PM |
| 10 | Q4M: Can you post examples of photos of an average guy?Incels don't have trouble dating because they're average looking, they have trouble dating because they're assholes. Many women date short men. The two longer relationships I've had were with men who were 5'7" & overweight. But they had a great personality. If more average looking men would focus on taking care of themselves & having a decent personality they wouldn't have so much trouble dating. But most guys in the US are lazy & don't want to put any effort into themselves. So then deal with b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/21 04:19 PM |
| 6 | Q4M: Can you post examples of photos of an average guy?The problem I'm seeing is that men have very low standards. Many men have even said they'll fuck any woman who gives them the time of day. On the other hand, women do have standards. The most basic fucking standards like shower & groom yourself, actually put on a nice outfit for a date instead of wearing the plain jeans & graphic tee you've been wearing all day. Also, women are held to higher society beauty standards. I have spent time, money, & energy on making myself look good. I'll be damned … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/21 04:13 PM |
| 10 | Q4M: Can you post examples of photos of an average guy?A photo of a man's crotch doesn't tell me if he's average looking or not. Why do you continue to post this photo of a small penis? No one here wants an unsolicited dick pic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/21 04:08 PM |
| 9 | Q4M: Can you post examples of photos of an average guy?The problem is that guys think that the ones who were born with the ugly stick are "average." In this post I'm seeing pictures of middle-aged men who don't take care of themselves at all (very overweight / out of shape, don't put any effort into their looks or the clothes that they wear). That's not average, that's below average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/21 03:29 PM |
| 14 | Q4M: Can you post examples of photos of an average guy?You're describing an average lifestyle, not average in looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/21 03:24 PM |
| 0 | [Q4All] Why are men supposed to be responsible for both their own sexual response (getting hard), as well as their partner's (getting wet)It's sounds like you should be talking to a counselor about this, not reddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 04:21 PM |
| 8 | Just more evidence of how low-effort LVM are.Basic hygiene shouldn't need to be on a list of requirements, it should just already be a priority for everyone lol. I don't understand how anyone can be ok with being so unhygienic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 02:22 AM |
| 15 | Just more evidence of how low-effort LVM are.I'm guessing he uses this same bottle for cleaning his dishes too =/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 08:10 PM |
| 29 | Just more evidence of how low-effort LVM are.Clearly he doesn't take care of himself OR his home 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 07:59 PM |
| 118 | There’s so much creepiness here."This will be a kind of therapy for me" Then hire a fucking therapist dude. Stop being a predator. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 05:52 PM |
| 11 | 👑👑Ladies PLEASE, dont ever put a man on a pedestalSounds like it's pretty interesting, but unfortunately I would need a translation :( wish I knew Spanish ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 03:43 AM |
| 3 | She is still beautiful. There is no wallYes she's gorgeous, but being a millionaire & affording the top-level products & procedures will help keep you looking great. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 07:31 PM |
| 38 | It’s a beautiful ring but it took 20 years and a 10 year old child? That’s sadIf he's has 20 years to save up for a ring, I'd expect something bigger 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 01:53 AM |
| 28 | It’s a beautiful ring but it took 20 years and a 10 year old child? That’s sadI knew a few women who were with their boyfriend for 10 years still waiting for a proposal. I always wondered why they would stick around so long. It's mind blowing to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 01:49 AM |
| 174 | LIES MEN TELL TO GET OUT OF DOING THE WORKThat's a lot of words for "I don't know how to make a woman orgasm" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 07:53 PM |
| 13 | That's a HUGE no for meEwww this is so cringe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 12:37 AM |
| 1 | He sounds like, erm, the last 6,000 years of patriarchy and all of the mainstream, woman hating religions. Sure men have women’s best interests at heart, as evidenced by history!"Temper your emotions women" - as our MALE PRESIDENT is the definition of man-child. Right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 05:06 AM |
| 3 | My little “I love you” gift to myself arrived today. Years ago, I pinned this ring and when it popped up in my IG feed this fall I ordered one custom made. Loving all these ring posts.I love that mindset! Why shouldn't we be able to enjoy the finer things of life on our own? I've bought myself nicer things & took myself on nicer trips than any of my exes ever have. Just because we're single doesn't mean we can't have nice things & spoil ourselves. Your grandma sounds like #goals ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 04:47 AM |
| 3 | My little “I love you” gift to myself arrived today. Years ago, I pinned this ring and when it popped up in my IG feed this fall I ordered one custom made. Loving all these ring posts.Thanks, your ring is gorgeous! And I've been doing the same - acquiring nice pieces since I left my ex 4 years ago. I've learned that if I want something nice then it's best I get it myself. Guys don't do things like this anymore. But that doesn't mean we can't still have the nice things we deserve - we are independent enough to get it on out own. We literally don't need men for anything anymore. 💁🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 03:30 AM |
| 3 | My little “I love you” gift to myself arrived today. Years ago, I pinned this ring and when it popped up in my IG feed this fall I ordered one custom made. Loving all these ring posts.Idk, y'all bought a ring. I bought myself 3/4 carat diamond earrings set in platinum after I left my LVM ex 💎😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 03:11 AM |
| 5 | Men talk too much....and why this can be a good thing 😈This is 100% true I just spoke with a new guy (from an online dating app 🥴) on the phone last night. He talked about himself nearly the entire time, but it was great because he told on himself a. lot. I couldn't count the amount of red flags that were being exposed. My ex, who was definitely LVM, at least taught me a lot about law. We were together while he was in law school. It was basically like I took all his 1L courses with him lol. He kept traching me stuff through his 2L & 3L courses as we… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 02:04 AM |
| 14 | I can’t believe how the comments are encouraging this guy to ask for “consent”, he attempted to rape his GF when she was asleepProbably not. Most police departments don't care about rape unfortunately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 01:45 AM |
| 15 | I can’t believe how the comments are encouraging this guy to ask for “consent”, he attempted to rape his GF when she was asleepWow someone said "let her know you understand you crossed her boundary" WTF, no that wasn't a boundary, it was R A P E. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 01:39 AM |
| 48 | The sooner they get their robots the better for usThere are actually women-only communities already! I think I saw that it was in Africa. The women got sick of the men's shit & started their own colony with no men allowed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 11:00 PM |
| 17 | The audacity 🤦🏻♀️"I'm a chef" = microwaves frozen hamburgers at McDonald's | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 10:48 PM |
| 16 | The audacity 🤦🏻♀️I'm super curious what your place looks like! Do you have any pics? I'll be getting a new apartment soon & need to figure out how to furnish it :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 10:42 PM |
| -8 | The audacity 🤦🏻♀️I wouldn't necessarily agree. I write my non-negotiables on my profile. Why waste time vetting if someone can't even meet my minimal requirements? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 10:41 PM |
| 15 | The audacity 🤦🏻♀️Year end clearance sale - leftovers will be donated to the Goodwill. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 10:40 PM |
| 31 | Oh dear 😂I made that mistake once. The guy I dated for a few years wasn't the greatest looking, although I thought he was cute. I figured he wouldn't cheat since he's not super hot. So fucking wrong lol. At the end I found out he had been cheating the entire time with randoms from Craigslist & with prostitutes. Just because they're ugly doesn't mean they'll be faithful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 05:15 AM |
| 32 | Oh dear 😂And when did men start becoming broke, unattractive, bad hygiene, put zero effort in their appearance? Back in the early - mid 90s guys had swagger & cared about their appearance. The bar is so low for them now that it's impressive if they showered & wore actual clean clothes for that day. How did it get to this point?? :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 05:12 AM |
| 3 | So this woman I follow blurs her mans face. I thought they were married... turns out they aren’t so now that changes my perception of why she feels the need to do this. She says she does this because “people are weird”. What are your thoughts?Why do men dress like they're homeless?? Especially when their girl is dressed nicely. That is so frustrating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 05:24 AM |
| 2 | Why it's important to date multiple guysI like to just let them keep talking, usually they'll say something that refreshes my memory about it. Sometimes I'll give them the confused "can you explain that" look & then once they start explaining it that'll usually jog my memory & I'll say "oh yeah I remember you saying that / telling me this." If it doesn't jog my memory then sometimes I'll still say "oh yeah I remember you mentioning that" & usually they'll talk a little more & finish explaining it so I'll still get that info, or I just… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Why it's important to date multiple guysI can see how this might be more difficult for some women to do, that's OK. I would say just take the portions of this that you think you're able to implement. Even if it's just 2 guys you're seeing at the same time. Or you're seeing 1 guy but still on online dating (if you use that) & chatting guys there. The whole point that helps for me is it keeps me from becoming too emotionally involved in someone who hasn't proven they're worthy of it yet, & then I don't feel as disappointed when the guy … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Why it's important to date multiple guysThese recent 3 guys weren't from online dating. I met up with all of them in real life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 06:14 PM |
| 3 | Why it's important to date multiple guysThe guys are usually pretty different so that helps to keep info separated & for me to remember things. I'm not always the best at remembering things but I do work in counseling & have learned how to refresh my memory or not make it noticeable when I didn't remember something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 06:12 PM |
| 3 | Why it's important to date multiple guysThings are still open where I'm at, but two of the guys I knew a long time ago & reconnected with. The other guy I met through some friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 12:19 PM |
| 15 | Why it's important to date multiple guysOr I kept rationalizing the red flags. It's easy to blind yourself to the red flags when you're infatuated with someone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 05:44 AM |
| 12 | Why it's important to date multiple guysIt's definitely worse when this happens & you've been dedicating your time to only one guy. It hurts more. When you're seeing multiple guys then it doesn't feel like a big deal anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 05:35 AM |
| 74 | Why it's important to date multiple guysI stopped by his work with a friend. Not planned, she brought me there not knowing it was his work. I didn't see him so I asked an employee of he was there (he's the store manager). Employee told me he's in Mexico on his honeymoon right now lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 05:33 AM |
| 67 | Why it's important to date multiple guysI also found that if I was only focused on one guy then I would be too attached & would sometimes overlook the red flags :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 05:27 AM |
| 39 | Why it's important to date multiple guysI stay pretty busy too. I maybe go on 2 dates a week at the most, most weeks just 1. I find that if I'm only seeing one guy at a time that I do feel more emotionally invested. So for me it works better to see a few guys at a time. It has helped to keep me from getting too attached to any one guy. So far none of the guys I've dated in recent months have been worth keeping around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 04:02 AM |
| 1 | In terms of audacity does your cup runneth over?Omg I just spent the last hour & half going through her tiktok 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 08:21 AM |
| 4 | In terms of audacity does your cup runneth over?I've gone to the gas station hung over, not showered, looking grungy, and guys STILL won't leave me alone. It's pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 06:45 AM |
| 40 | Why I don't date "nice" guysOmg he hasn't gone to college & he has the audacity to try to bring you down for the grad school you're in?? At least you're in grad school. He's just a loser living with his parents. Jesus these guys are freaking stupid. That is classic gaslighting right there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 12:38 PM |
| 8 | STupiD whAmEn wAnT chADs 🤡Omg this is too real | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 02:13 AM |
| 11 | As soon as I hear he watches porn, I'm no longer interested nor attracted.Oh OK that makes sense. Thanks for the explanation! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 09:37 AM |
| 18 | As soon as I hear he watches porn, I'm no longer interested nor attracted.I see people mentioning PIED, what is that? I did a Google search & it didn't come up with anything that seemed relevant to this conversation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 07:40 AM |
| 6 | FaceTime date with seemingly HVM reveals his repulsive apartment. This is why you FaceTime first, imagine arriving here in person. Needless to say, that was our last conversation.That happened to me once with a guy who was getting his Psychology PhD. Went to his place & his apartment was disgusting. Not only was it messy but it also smelt bad. I noped right out of there & didn't see him again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 11:40 PM |
| 8 | It should be that simple. I’ve had a guy literally do all of these things, then proceed to say he doesn’t want us to be “official”.Same! I was happy for her.... then the alarm brought us back to the real world lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 08:58 AM |
| 7 | Why are women expected to change for men?Oh my god, I FEEL THIS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 05:15 AM |
| 110 | Need I Say More?Ewww AND she has to pay him?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 03:05 AM |
| 73 | I would have called the policeThey are able to live with themselves because they don't view women as people, only objects. They literally think they've done nothing wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 01:32 AM |
| 18 | The film "Midsommar"....if you enjoy watching LVMs get roasted, and a pickeme becoming a queen as a result, then watch this movie!Did we watch the same movie?? Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 10:37 PM |
| 21 | He went silent because he knows. They all know. Stop accepting their bullshit.Sometimes the truth isn't funny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 04:27 PM |
| 12 | Every man I’ve asked to get tested, whined about it.Well shit I didn't know that. I thought I had seen GW listed on an STD test before but I must not have. TIL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 09:19 PM |
| 3 | Every man I’ve asked to get tested, whined about it.I’m not asking about HPV, I was asking about the genital warts testing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 08:54 PM |
| 21 | Every man I’ve asked to get tested, whined about it.Does GW not show up on an STD test? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 07:01 PM |
| 22 | Law Student Gives Birth During Bar Exam, Still Finishes TestI don't see much positivity in this situation. It just shows how broken our society is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 09:21 PM |
| -1 | I wanted some advice on a few things if y'all are up for it.Some of FDS is just very extreme. If you live in a large city with unlimited dating prospects I'm sure it works fine, but not so much in a small Midwestern town with a limited population. | /r/askFDS | 12/10/20 08:16 PM |
| 10 | When the LVM reveal their true face. Is this a reminder not to trust anyone? How can we build a life with someone who we believe to be HV when literally anyone could be lying to us for years? It’s really scary to hear about such stories.I had a very similar thing happen with my ex, except we were together 4 years. There are definitely some red flags though, I just didn't recognize them until after everything was said & done. The red flags never would have made me think he was living a second life with a sex addiction & cheating, but they were red flags of his emotional immaturity & a LOT of gas lighting. This lady had red flags, she just didn't recognize them at the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 04:37 PM |
| 1 | I wanted some advice on a few things if y'all are up for it.Thank you. This is the realistic advice I was looking for. | /r/askFDS | 12/10/20 03:31 PM |
| 1 | I wanted some advice on a few things if y'all are up for it.It doesn't make sense to throw away the 2 guys I haven't even gone on a date with yet lol. Why would throw them away? | /r/askFDS | 12/10/20 03:28 PM |
| 1 | I wanted some advice on a few things if y'all are up for it.I appreciate the detailed feedback. I was leaning in the direction of dropping guy from question 1. Guess I felt like keeping him around for a bit because he's fun, but I have already been giving him much less attention than I was originally. I've been giving my attention to the other guys I'm seeing. The guy in question 2 is someone who I dated very briefly when we were younger & he has always been a more openly emotional person. I think it's more so his personality versus traditional love bomb… | /r/askFDS | 12/10/20 05:50 AM |
| 1 | To love & to obey? Nah, sisIt's sad that we can be so intelligent & still get so mixed up in this nonsense. Glad she's finally free from him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 09:29 PM |
| 35 | To love & to obey? Nah, sisYes I loved that! Even if it's just an edit-in lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 10:13 PM |
| 14 | To love & to obey? Nah, sisI figured this was from a TV show but wasn't sure. I've never seen 90 day fiance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 10:13 PM |
| 13 | “wish ALL girls would do this tbh”That's so true, we're very capable of dealing with rejection because it's a normal part of our life. And I've seen so many men on reddit & other social media & have even heard men say that they will fuck literally anyone. It's very pathetic & you can't filter those guys out if we're the one asking them out. They've literally said they will fuck any vagina, so if you ask them out you have no idea if you fall into the "any vagina" category & you also make it too easy for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 07:08 PM |
| 33 | “wish ALL girls would do this tbh”It's really unfortunate that it has to be this way. Guys complain all the time that they wish women would make the first move, but when we do we get shafted so why bother? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 06:43 PM |
| 126 | “wish ALL girls would do this tbh”This is the exact reason why I won't pursue a man again. I'm honestly not scared of asking people out, but it's the fact that they would say yes to anyone. So how would I know how committed they are? No thanks, if he can't approach me then I don't want him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 03:36 PM |
| 3 | Guy plans a fun day for his wife’s bday for her and their friends. Asks them to send a short vid saying Happy Bday. This isn’t asking for much and actually sounds like a fun day for everyone, but scrote is mad that any effort at all is being put into her bday and would rather play video games aloneWow this dude sounds super jaded. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 02:10 AM |
| 56 | Something doesn’t add upOmg my ex was like this. I even bought myself lingerie, & he continued to wear holey boxer-briefs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 12:21 AM |
| 142 | Men know when men doSame in Japan - their cell phones don't let you turn off / silent the shutter button on the camera. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:57 AM |
| 10 | Reframing of the Pickme PhenomenonOur love was valid. The person we chose to give it to was wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 12:09 PM |
| 24 | The term “gold digger” is men projecting their own scavenging ways onto womenDamn, saving this comment to use as a reminder to me later in life! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 07:00 PM |
| 114 | No. ❤️At the end of my last relationship (4 years) I had found that he was cheating basically the entire time. I had given him a couple really expensive birthday gifts which he hadn't used yet. I took them right back to the store & got my money back lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 09:02 AM |
| 19 | Why holding off sex is so importantThat's something I would think about a lot! Now I've had a hysterectomy & don't need to worry about ever becoming a single mom. It's such a relief! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Been seeing each other 4 months - how to DTR?Yeah that's what I'm trying to navigate now. It's definitely a lot more difficult if you don't start it off properly from the beginning! I do have another guy I'm talking with still who I met after the first guy left town. This other guy just messaged asking to hang out this week, so I'm trying to start this one better. I'll try to speed read the handbook tonight. Also, the first guy may be borderline gone now because I saw on his Facebook that his phone was broken last night when it ended up in… | /r/askFDS | 14/09/20 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Been seeing each other 4 months - how to DTR?Well the handbook & FDS came a little late for me lol. This already started before I ever heard of FDS, so not much I can change about the past at this point | /r/askFDS | 13/09/20 08:09 PM |
| -1 | Been seeing each other 4 months - how to DTR?We kind of talked about it briefly the third time we hung out & we just both said we weren't seeing anyone else. I'm pretty confident he still isn't seeing anyone else. We hung out a few times for like 3 weeks then he went out of state for a couple months for work. He's been gone a month now & we haven't had that talk again but we do chat a bit every single day. He'll be gone another 1-2 months so I figured I'd see what happens between us when he is back. In the meantime, I WAS still on the dati… | /r/askFDS | 13/09/20 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Been seeing each other 4 months - how to DTR?I really appreciate such a detailed answer! I've flipped through the handbook a bit but haven't Sat down & really read it yet. I think I'm going to make time for that tomorrow because I feel like I'm doing things wrong with this guy & I don't really know how to get it on the FDS track from here. There's so much that goes into all of this & I have a lot to learn. Your reply was really helpful & gives me something to reflect on, thank you! | /r/askFDS | 13/09/20 04:27 AM |
| 5 | Been seeing each other 4 months - how to DTR?During those first 4 months were you seeing other guys or still going on dates with other guys? If not, then aren't you basically together already & what would make him want to put a title on it if he basically already has it? This is something I wonder about & I'm at the beginning stages with someone & don't want that to happen. | /r/askFDS | 13/09/20 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Been seeing each other 4 months - how to DTR?During those first 4 months were you seeing other guys or still going on dates with other guys? If not, then aren't you basically together already & what would make him want to put a title on it if he basically already has it? This is something I wonder about & I'm at the beginning stages with someone & don't want that to happen. | /r/askFDS | 13/09/20 03:14 AM |
| 33 | We’re retiring the “Seeking Advice” flair and redirecting all personal relationship questions to r/AskFDSThe sub states it's for MEN who have relationship questions. So which sub do WOMEN use for questions? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 05:11 PM |
| 14 | "I like you, but I like you."Let's talk every day & hang out, but I'm not ready for a relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 12:08 AM |
| 23 | I really need advice on this one...I see two huge red flags - He's just getting out of a 10 year relationship, he needs time to process shit before he gets into another relationship. He cheated in his recent relationship. I won't date a guy if I find out he's cheated in a relationship. It shows me he has low morals, low self control, & most of the time once he's a cheater he's always a cheater. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 09:09 PM |
| 6 | Posted on another sub for 90 Day Fiancé tv show 😂Men are so delusional | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 04:17 PM |
| 8 | I think this is relevant for a lot of things guys do. Don't be fooled by guys who pretend to be something they're not. Just because they give the impression that they're one thing, don't automatically believe it.My last relationship (the fucking worst ever) was 4 years long with an attorney. Definitely not as smart as he thought he was, oh but he definitely thought he was lol. And at the end I found out he cheated on me the entire relationship. A high-end college degree don't mean shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 03:10 AM |
| 6 | I think this is relevant for a lot of things guys do. Don't be fooled by guys who pretend to be something they're not. Just because they give the impression that they're one thing, don't automatically believe it.100% truth. That would be so much fun to be a comedian! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 02:05 AM |
| 77 | I think this is relevant for a lot of things guys do. Don't be fooled by guys who pretend to be something they're not. Just because they give the impression that they're one thing, don't automatically believe it.Haha yes they definitely like to embellish! And man imposter syndrome is so real, I'm going through that now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 08:44 PM |
| 59 | I think this is relevant for a lot of things guys do. Don't be fooled by guys who pretend to be something they're not. Just because they give the impression that they're one thing, don't automatically believe it.Yes she went to Harvard Law | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 08:32 PM |
| 26 | I think this is relevant for a lot of things guys do. Don't be fooled by guys who pretend to be something they're not. Just because they give the impression that they're one thing, don't automatically believe it.Damn that's super cool! What a fun career field. And don't worry about feeling out of place - break those glass ceilings! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 08:10 PM |
| 44 | I think this is relevant for a lot of things guys do. Don't be fooled by guys who pretend to be something they're not. Just because they give the impression that they're one thing, don't automatically believe it.Sounds like you probably work in an interesting field! It sucks being in a field that's male dominated & have to work harder to get just a fraction of the respect & opportunities. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 07:27 PM |
| 19 | Could y’all imagine?Umm I need to know which culture! 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 07:27 PM |
| 8 | What are the little red flags you look back on and realize you should have paid more attention to?Damn we were both stupid lol! #neveragain | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 04:04 AM |
| 249 | I really love this tiktok. As someone that is currently learning to love myself and do things alone. Seeing ppl do this encourages me"... because men ain't shit" Lol this dude understands 😂💁🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 12:40 AM |
| 13 | What are the little red flags you look back on and realize you should have paid more attention to?I agree, that's a huge red flag! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 09:29 PM |
| 99 | What are the little red flags you look back on and realize you should have paid more attention to?A couple months into dating my ex we had a huge house party at his house. Whenever we played drinking games he always wanted to be on a team with his friends, not me. That's red flag #1. So this night I teamed up with some straight up hottie for beer pong (this was our first time meeting the guy) & not only did this hottie & I win 7 games in a row, I also made a few really cool trick shots. After everyone went home that night (I stayed the night) my ex just treated me like shit, cold shoulder, I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 09:27 PM |
| 9 | I’ve been rewatching Daria during quarantineGood to know, thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 04:26 AM |
| 4 | I’ve been rewatching Daria during quarantineI haven't heard of that one but I'll look into it. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 03:59 AM |
| 15 | I’ve been rewatching Daria during quarantineI loved Daria! Where did you find it - Netflix?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 03:54 AM |
| -7 | Negging?I see it as a compliment on your confidence. Bum bags aren't super popular (although they're getting more popular) & you're rocking it. A yellow dress would be a bold color to wear & not many people would have the confidence to wear something that's so bold & makes them stand out like that. And with his follow up response, it definitely seems like more of a compliment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 05:29 PM |
| 14 | Jeremy Piven stands on tiptoes to appear taller!I want to still be able to kiss him when we're standing together - can't do that if he's 6' tall lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 04:04 PM |
| 36 | Jeremy Piven stands on tiptoes to appear taller!Wow that's pathetic. I actually like guys who are shorter. I'm 5'3" & like guys just a few inches taller. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 03:48 PM |
| 4 | Not for FDS women!I just finished my master's in clinical mental health counseling & did my bachelor's in psychology.... I've literally studied this 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 09:17 PM |
| 7 | Not for FDS women!No they don't have different brains, but they do develop at a different rate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 09:17 PM |
| 6 | Not for FDS women!Technically their prefrontal cortex doesn't finish developing until around age 25, so it's not actually a myth that they don't mature until later. But they do definitely take advantage of that & it's not a valid excuse when you're a full grown ass adult over 25! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 08:23 PM |
| 2 | Not for FDS women!Oh damn!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 07:20 PM |
| 11 | Not for FDS women!Haha before I got my hysterectomy I would've happily dragged my ex to a vasectomy appointment 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 07:19 PM |
| 13 | Not for FDS women!Meh, I'd be like "guess you're missing that appointment" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 07:02 PM |
| 4 | Husband makes 975K a year and she wants to be a stay at home mother. Should she?100% true!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 07:01 PM |
| 11 | Not for FDS women!Haha yep! I had a hysterectomy & never wanted kids, but I've definitely been a mother 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 06:36 PM |
| 6 | Husband makes 975K a year and she wants to be a stay at home mother. Should she?I would say as long as my name is on the bank account as well, so he can't take over full control of it at some point, or I have a bank account of my own then I'd be open to it. Yeah if there was a divorce then she should get child support, but that doesn't mean it'll happen right away so she would still need to be able to provide for herself for a while. Also, if he's making this much money then he probably has a lot of connections & can get vindictive if he wanted to. I'm probably thinking of … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 06:21 PM |
| 49 | Not for FDS women!When do we see men of any age doing that? Not often. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 06:16 PM |
| 21 | Husband makes 975K a year and she wants to be a stay at home mother. Should she?That's too risky for me to ever do. I've seen many women not able to leave abusive marriages or a marriage where the husband is cheating because she doesn't have her own money & she can't get a job because she hasn't worked in a long time. Unfortunately, employers don't considered stay-at-home as a job, so you're looked at as having not had a job in 10 years & no one wants to employ you. Her husband may make $975k a year now, what happens when he takes control of the finances, cheats, abuses her… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 05:46 PM |
| 45 | Husband makes 975K a year and she wants to be a stay at home mother. Should she?Every woman should at least have a part-time job to save her own money on the side if she ever needs to leave & to stay relevant in the workplace in case she ever needs to leave & NEEDS a job. So many women become stay at home moms, then the marriage ends & they can't find a job because they hadn't worked in the last decade. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Why do men do this, it really irritates me. If you know you're not ready for a relationship or don't want one with her, then just leave her alone. Don't string a woman along just to feed your ego.God I wouldn't clean a guy's house if we don't even live together. I guess I didn't realize some women do this :( I've cooked for a guy, but it was only once or twice, not something I would do regularly. You made some good points. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 05:14 PM |
| 3 | Why do men do this, it really irritates me. If you know you're not ready for a relationship or don't want one with her, then just leave her alone. Don't string a woman along just to feed your ego.I hate the "what do you bring to the table"! It's always said in such a sarcastic way. Most of us have a LOT to bring to the table. Hell, I have a master's degree & guys still give me this BS. It's just another way to gaslight us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 05:06 PM |
| 4 | Why do men do this, it really irritates me. If you know you're not ready for a relationship or don't want one with her, then just leave her alone. Don't string a woman along just to feed your ego.Yep, exactly this! Guys aren't as stupid as we believe (sometimes lol). They know what they're doing in this situation. They know early on if they want a relationship with you or not. They can tell if you want a relationship. They string along just to get what they want. It's selfish & inconsiderate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 05:03 PM |
| 3 | Why do men do this, it really irritates me. If you know you're not ready for a relationship or don't want one with her, then just leave her alone. Don't string a woman along just to feed your ego.Exactly! If he knew he wasn't ready then he shouldn't even be dating & wasting people's time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Why do men do this, it really irritates me. If you know you're not ready for a relationship or don't want one with her, then just leave her alone. Don't string a woman along just to feed your ego.I definitely agree with not giving out marriage benefits while you're dating. But in the first few months a girl isn't doing all of these things for him. I would say probably not for the first year. Maybe when they finally move in together she's doing some of this stuff. So the cooking, cleaning, splitting bills, etc I feel aren't a consideration in this scenario because it's not happening. Sucks if the situationship lasts long enough for them to move in together though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Why do men do this, it really irritates me. If you know you're not ready for a relationship or don't want one with her, then just leave her alone. Don't string a woman along just to feed your ego.Yeah good sex can fuck with our minds! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 04:56 PM |
| 3 | Why do men do this, it really irritates me. If you know you're not ready for a relationship or don't want one with her, then just leave her alone. Don't string a woman along just to feed your ego.Because morals But we know that's a personality characteristic many men lack. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 04:55 PM |
| 4 | Why do men do this, it really irritates me. If you know you're not ready for a relationship or don't want one with her, then just leave her alone. Don't string a woman along just to feed your ego.So basically they want a relationship without the relationship. That's the problem. A true FWB you're not hanging out & messaging every day, you're just meeting for sex. When you're doing things together outside of sex then feelings will happen. Guys want to have their cake & eat it too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 04:53 PM |
| 3 | Why do men do this, it really irritates me. If you know you're not ready for a relationship or don't want one with her, then just leave her alone. Don't string a woman along just to feed your ego.Yep exactly! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 04:43 AM |
| 11 | Why do men do this, it really irritates me. If you know you're not ready for a relationship or don't want one with her, then just leave her alone. Don't string a woman along just to feed your ego.I think there are women who do this, but I definitely believe many more men do it versus women. I agree, after a breakup people need to take time off from dating to grieve & process the loss of the relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 12:51 AM |
| 23 | Why do men do this, it really irritates me. If you know you're not ready for a relationship or don't want one with her, then just leave her alone. Don't string a woman along just to feed your ego.Damn this is something I really needed to hear. Thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 12:37 AM |
| 9 | Why do men do this, it really irritates me. If you know you're not ready for a relationship or don't want one with her, then just leave her alone. Don't string a woman along just to feed your ego.Lol "nice guy entitlement" this is too common! Psychiatrist only diagnose & prescribe medication. Therapist / counselor would be the one to try to make him be more accountable, but they're not miracle workers either. Some people just don't want to change. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 09:30 PM |
| 8 | Why do men do this, it really irritates me. If you know you're not ready for a relationship or don't want one with her, then just leave her alone. Don't string a woman along just to feed your ego.True | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 09:08 PM |
| 20 | Why do men do this, it really irritates me. If you know you're not ready for a relationship or don't want one with her, then just leave her alone. Don't string a woman along just to feed your ego.The fact that he has the audacity to actually tell you that he doesn't want marriage & admits to being a bad boyfriend - is this dude brain dead? Or he's so full of himself he actually thinks he's a prize?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 09:08 PM |
| 47 | Why do men do this, it really irritates me. If you know you're not ready for a relationship or don't want one with her, then just leave her alone. Don't string a woman along just to feed your ego."Don't be his security blanket" - that hits hard | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 09:05 PM |
| 17 | Why do men do this, it really irritates me. If you know you're not ready for a relationship or don't want one with her, then just leave her alone. Don't string a woman along just to feed your ego.Lol well guess at least you got a nice meal for your wasted time? Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 08:59 PM |
| 49 | Why do men do this, it really irritates me. If you know you're not ready for a relationship or don't want one with her, then just leave her alone. Don't string a woman along just to feed your ego.Yeah, it's BS. They're the same guys who complain when a woman thinks the guy should pay for the dinner dates. If you're out here knowing you don't want a relationship, wasting my time, 100% you should be paying for the dates. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 08:26 PM |
| 52 | Why do men do this, it really irritates me. If you know you're not ready for a relationship or don't want one with her, then just leave her alone. Don't string a woman along just to feed your ego.That's what I don't understand either - why are they even putting themselves out there when they know they're not ready for a relationship? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 08:22 PM |
| 14 | Why do men do this, it really irritates me. If you know you're not ready for a relationship or don't want one with her, then just leave her alone. Don't string a woman along just to feed your ego.Wow that's pretty rare for them to be honest about that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 08:21 PM |
| 18 | Why do men do this, it really irritates me. If you know you're not ready for a relationship or don't want one with her, then just leave her alone. Don't string a woman along just to feed your ego.Yep this is my thinking about it too. It's just a placeholder until someone different comes along that he likes more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 08:19 PM |
| 60 | Why do men do this, it really irritates me. If you know you're not ready for a relationship or don't want one with her, then just leave her alone. Don't string a woman along just to feed your ego.Damn, I appreciate the truth bomb. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 08:18 PM |
| 19 | Why do men do this, it really irritates me. If you know you're not ready for a relationship or don't want one with her, then just leave her alone. Don't string a woman along just to feed your ego.Good point, I like this perspective of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 07:55 PM |
| 113 | RP: My sister had this exciting dude, asked her out on a date and decided to switch up on her???I hate guys who call you "hun" when they don't even know you yet. It feels so condescending. Love the ending of this conversation though! Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 09:14 PM |
| 1 | While we’re at it, let’s not reward this basic behaviour either.Yep same exact thing here - he's doing the same thing when I started to pull back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 04:18 PM |
| 3 | Boyfriend of three years still refuses to give me his passcode to his phone. Is this a red flag?That wasn't even the worst of it. I found out much more after this. Any time in the future a boyfriend wants to keep his phone private from me then he can keep his life separate from me as well because it's a definite red flag & I won't fall for it again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 03:16 AM |
| 28 | While we’re at it, let’s not reward this basic behaviour either.I always have to remind myself of the 'wanting clarity'. If it's been a little while & I still feel confused about what's going on between me & a guy - I don't need clarity because the answer is going to be "nothing serious" & I need to just move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 10:36 PM |
| 18 | Just a reminder to all you Queens out there!I wonder if this works for Siri too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 03:30 PM |
| 44 | Boyfriend of three years still refuses to give me his passcode to his phone. Is this a red flag?Yes - red flag! My ex was like this. After 4 years I did use his phone once to look up a tech support phone number (my phone was upstairs). He let his guard down for that one moment. The web page he had open on his phone was OK Cupid. Things went quickly downhill from there lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 02:07 AM |
| 9 | What is the Ultimate LVM name?I'm so sorry you had to experience a Joe 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 03:10 AM |
| 7 | What is the Ultimate LVM name?We must attract them for some reason lol. My younger sis was dating a new guy & when she told me his name was Joe I gave her a look & said something like "not a good idea lol." Turns out I was right. #neveragain | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 02:18 AM |
| 54 | What is the Ultimate LVM name?Any form of Joe -- Joe, Joey, Joseph I've dated 4 & now I absolutely refuse to even give a guy with this name a chance. I've literally told guys "I don't date guys named Joe anymore" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Just more proof of men being trash, the most he said was “yeah”Wow. If this is real I hope she dumped him after this & really did go to Italy 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 01:02 AM |
| 10 | Most importantly, NEVER SETTLE LADIES!"Don't marry potential" I live by this! I don't DATE potential. There was a guy who kept trying to take me on a date & finally I said to him "why? We have nothing in common" & mentioned how much I travel & move & he's never been outside of this small Midwestern town. His response was that he could do it, he just hasn't yet, he literally said "I have potential". Umm, you're in your thirties, if you were going to do it then it would have happened already - I don't date potential. He finally got th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 09:53 PM |
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