| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 9 | It's easy as fuckThis is obvious but very difficult for beginners especially beginners who are 28 years old like myself | /r/seduction | 28/01/26 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Unethical seddit tipThat’s because you have an attractive face lol, an attractive face just need to do some gym, work on his mindset like being himself in-apologetically and shit will work. Similarly being a douchebag work for some guys, which they call bad guys, giving example of serial killers pulling hottest chicks. This is not working with average face ever, an average face can be a serial killer, a douchebag or someone who believes like he is a reward that girls would have to qualify for, nothings working. | /r/seduction | 17/01/26 12:01 PM |
| 2 | In 2026 you will find more success than ever beforeClick on sub name and it will take you inside sub, click on + create icon at the middle bottom of screen. | /r/seduction | 30/12/25 08:34 AM |
| 2 | The Truth About Personality and AttractionA good post. Thanks for sharing. | /r/seduction | 30/12/25 08:03 AM |
| 0 | Looking to connect with brothers who want to get serious about cold approach and leveling up in 2026 (dating + business mindset)I want to be a part of this group. I am 28 yo guy and never had a girlfriend so basically have zero experience, will I be eligible? I have started going to gym from few months, but I have difficulty with consistency and have been searching for a community like this. | /r/seduction | 25/12/25 06:22 AM |
| 1 | I don't know what to sayBrother you took 18 days to setup a date, you wasted like 15 days, you should have shown interest from the first time approached her and setup a date in 2-3 days max. That’s why it’s said it’s a numbers game, if you waste 1 month on each girl without knowing if she’s interested or not, you’d be wasting a lot of time. What happened with you is completely normal, it’s just that you stretched it too long. Next time do the same thing but keep it under 2-3 days max, if she’s interested she’d say yes … | /r/seduction | 13/12/25 11:02 AM |
| 0 | Buying Instagram FollowersYou don’t need $100 for 20k, you need only like $15, get it from Indian SMM sites they are cheapest. | /r/seduction | 30/11/25 09:00 AM |
| 5 | How much the game changes for short guys, when they gain muscles?So is it the face that makes all the difference? I think it is. | /r/seduction | 21/11/25 10:04 PM |
| -1 | Approaching at the parkI think for cold approach, don’t approach where you regularly go and they also regularly come, because chances of it going right are very low and then you’d be embarrassed/hesitate to face them and might have to avoid going there again. Cold approaching is best where you won’t have to see them again, like street, malls, subway, etc. because if it doesn’t go right, there’s no worry of facing them again. | /r/seduction | 21/11/25 08:32 PM |
| 2 | If you have no success on dating apps, its a VERY strong indicator of how you do IRLI see a lot of below average/average guys with attractive girls. Do you think those guys would actually be even right swiped at on tinder and given a chance ever? No average or below has the chance online, but irl they can have it unless they are really unattractive. | /r/seduction | 19/11/25 09:31 PM |
| 6 | Advice on seeing girls in the 30-40 age as a 20 year oldI think older women in India are more romantically lonely than anywhere in the world because sex is seen as something meant only for producing offspring. Have you ever tried approaching any older one? I want to do it but scared. | /r/seduction | 06/11/25 09:56 AM |
| 13 | I Just Want To Wish Everyone Good Luck Tonight…..Good luck to all American fellows | /r/seduction | 31/10/25 04:42 PM |
| 1 | So if I cold approach and ask a girl for a location that I already know, wouldn’t she come to know later on that I lied to her?..Thanks for the reply bro. I want to ask, what should be the best direct opener to use in your experience which yielded you best results? I am 28 years old guy and intend to approach girls about 21-22 years old. | /r/seduction | 28/10/25 08:59 AM |
| 4 | So if I cold approach and ask a girl for a location that I already know, wouldn’t she come to know later on that I lied to her?..Your reply is very helpful. Thank you. | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 11:11 PM |
| -2 | So if I cold approach and ask a girl for a location that I already know, wouldn’t she come to know later on that I lied to her?..I am lying because I’m trying to start a conversation with her and just want to have something to say, and I feel like asking for direction is the easy way to start a conversation instead of saying something direct | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 11:03 PM |
| 1 | A random request, but can you please tell me if I look humane enough to approach girls?Im really sorry, but you literally said the same thing. I’m scared you are lying to me, because in real life I get called ugly all the time and had been bullied in the past, I’m not sure how can I be even close to average. I’ve been called ugly even by my loved ones like own siblings and parents so it’s not even that it was only some random people or friends hated me for no reason and called me ugly. | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 10:48 PM |
| 1 | A random request, but can you please tell me if I look humane enough to approach girls?Thanks for being honest bro. Good thing is that I live in India, and going to approach here. I know I don’t have any chance with white or Latina or even other Asians lol | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 05:28 AM |
| 1 | A random request, but can you please tell me if I look humane enough to approach girls?Alright, thanks for input | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 12:37 AM |
| 0 | A random request, but can you please tell me if I look humane enough to approach girls?Sorry for that issue, I just changed privacy to public | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 12:33 AM |
| 1 | A random request, but can you please tell me if I look humane enough to approach girls?Thanks, and sorry for that, now i changed to showing all posts | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 12:32 AM |
| 0 | A random request, but can you please tell me if I look humane enough to approach girls?Posted another one just now | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 12:28 AM |
| 1 | A random request, but can you please tell me if I look humane enough to approach girls?Guys please don’t be mad at me if this post is a weird request, I apologise for this, just help once and I would really appreciate. Thanks a lot. | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 12:06 AM |
| 2 | Fuck dating apps we gotta learn cold approaches and build confidenceWhat should I say to a girl when I approach? I am a 28 years old guy with social anxiety and never had a girlfriend. | /r/seduction | 25/10/25 01:37 AM |
| 2 | Guys who went from anxious to players, what book/course helped you the most?This is true about books, I’ve read several like how to win friends and influence people, but didn’t help. I have extreme social anxiety. I tried but couldn’t approach, I’m even on the uglier side looking guy. Can you tell me from your very first approach what did you actually say to girls? | /r/seduction | 19/10/25 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Looking for Wingman DubaiDubai has about 10% of native population, so you can’t do those certain things with them, but you have 90% of other people from other parts of the world. | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 12:31 PM |
| 1 | How to Talk to Women When You Have No Idea What to SayThanks for the reply. How do you ‘ask for the date through text’ in a real life? | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 10:41 PM |
| 1 | How to Talk to Women When You Have No Idea What to SaySo you mean that instead of doing the short talk, we should directly say something like ‘hey, I think you’re pretty cute, i think we should go for a coffee this weekend!’ ?? I’m a noob in this so don’t mind if the question is stupid. | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 08:33 PM |
| 1 | I Got My Gym Membership Suspended and Banned from the Shopping Mall for cold approaching women IRL. muh "just try offline bro, online is not real life is huge cope. online is real life."Did you do this cold approach at same store/place/mall for 2 weeks? | /r/seduction | 24/09/25 11:54 AM |
| 1 | I Got My Gym Membership Suspended and Banned from the Shopping Mall for cold approaching women IRL. muh "just try offline bro, online is not real life is huge cope. online is real life."Konsa shahar ka incident hai bhai? | /r/seduction | 24/09/25 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Can Someone Please Explain The Point Of Negging…..I think to make negging work you have to be real attractive guy, it won’t work if the guy is average or below average. Because for sure she has a lot of guys after her but not all of them are attractive, majority of them are just average. There’s no way an average guy would neg a girl and she’d be obsessing/thinking about him afterwards. The guys who says negging works are just attractive ones, who don’t even need negging to be successful because they are ‘attractive’. | /r/seduction | 05/08/25 10:19 AM |
| 1 | Age gaps in seductionThanks for the advice. I am new into this approaching stuff, I’m 27 and never had a gf until now. I want to know, how many approaches/rejections are needed on average to get success? I understand it depends person to person but just like a general idea from your experience. | /r/seduction | 25/07/25 09:57 PM |
| 2 | Age gaps in seductionHey, I want to ask, after how many rejections on average do you have success with one, like get her number or some social media? I tried approaching 10 girls in a mall some time ago and got rejected by like 3-4 and with other 6-7 just ignored so I’m now scared, but I’m planning to do it again and wonder after how many rejections is it normal to get a number maybe | /r/seduction | 25/07/25 09:10 PM |
| 11 | Can you really attract women if you’re not doing well inside?Why would someone downvote this comment, isn’t this a fact? There’s no way any girl is liking a 2/10 guy who is toxic, but there are lot of girls who’d love a 9/10 murderers. | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 07:44 AM |
| 2 | Anyone around Delhi doing approach?Thanks for the input. I did different types, to few I said that they look cute, to few I asked about a good restaurant in the mall, and to some i complimented about their hair color or bag.. in all ways I tried to have more conversation if they replied positively. Some girl even ignored me straightaway. I haven’t read the game man, nor rules of the game, I don’t know about these books, I’ll read them. | /r/seduction | 30/05/25 07:31 AM |
| 1 | Day game wingmanCan you suggest me a opener to use in day game in a mall? I want to be direct because I’d be approaching average girls.. | /r/seduction | 25/05/25 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Had 1 beer and was able to approach atleast 10 girls, help neededI work bro. Yes you can dm. | /r/seduction | 11/05/25 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Had 1 beer and was able to approach atleast 10 girls, help neededYeah people approach a lot here, everybody has girlfriends in Delhi, I’m the only loser here who couldn’t find anyone. Yeah it could be risky if you approach in average city here. | /r/seduction | 11/05/25 06:12 AM |
| 2 | Canned lines are good for all beginners, whether or not they decide to keep themOkay thanks | /r/seduction | 11/05/25 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Had 1 beer and was able to approach atleast 10 girls, help neededNo luck so far, yes I’m doing in Delhi. | /r/seduction | 11/05/25 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Had 1 beer and was able to approach atleast 10 girls, help neededYes it was in Delhi, random metro station and mall | /r/seduction | 11/05/25 05:52 AM |
| 9 | Canned lines are good for all beginners, whether or not they decide to keep themIs there some type of cheat sheet of canned lines? I want to cold approach as many girls as possible. | /r/seduction | 11/05/25 05:30 AM |
| 2 | Had 1 beer and was able to approach atleast 10 girls, help neededThanks for the input, i appreciate. My rating of myself comes from the reactions of others towards me and all the rejections I had in 27 years of my life, no girl has ever shown any interest in me so I have pretty low confidence, but I am also being realistic. I am working on myself and trying to get fit. | /r/seduction | 09/05/25 03:30 PM |
| 2 | Had 1 beer and was able to approach atleast 10 girls, help neededThanks for the input, I really appreciate it. I would definitely drop the beer once I have some result, I don’t drink usually, I only drink like once in a month. | /r/seduction | 09/05/25 03:28 PM |
| 6 | Had 1 beer and was able to approach atleast 10 girls, help neededThank you for the input. My confidence is pretty low due to all the bullying and rejections I had from girls in 27 years of my life. I am working on my confidence by getting fit, and would be building muscles in upcoming months. | /r/seduction | 09/05/25 03:26 PM |
| 0 | If I am 2/10 currently, will getting in good shape atleast make me 6/10?Thanks for the review bro. I appreciate. | /r/seduction | 03/05/25 07:00 PM |
| 1 | If I am 2/10 currently, will getting in good shape atleast make me 6/10?Thanks for the detailed reply. Can you rate me and tell me if I am 2 or 3/10, I have posted pictures on my profile | /r/seduction | 03/05/25 01:48 PM |
| -1 | If I am 2/10 currently, will getting in good shape atleast make me 6/10?My face, I have my pictures on my profile, can you rate me? | /r/seduction | 03/05/25 01:12 PM |
| 1 | If I am 2/10 currently, will getting in good shape atleast make me 6/10?Thanks for the detailed reply. I will dm You bro. | /r/seduction | 03/05/25 11:46 AM |
| 1 | I am 27 and never had a girlfriend. How do I cold approach 500 girls?please help me guysThanks bro I hope I can do it | /r/seduction | 30/04/25 04:24 PM |
| 1 | I am 27 and never had a girlfriend. How do I cold approach 500 girls?please help me guysThanks brother. I’ll check it out. | /r/seduction | 30/04/25 07:41 AM |
| 2 | I am 27 and never had a girlfriend. How do I cold approach 500 girls?please help me guysI don’t understand how approaching 500 girls is you consider a harassment and 100 is not? | /r/seduction | 29/04/25 06:56 PM |
| 2 | I am 27 and never had a girlfriend. How do I cold approach 500 girls?please help me guysI’m thinking of approaching girls at the metro station because I’ve seen a lot of girls there just passing time, and under the bridge which is in nearby location, do you think it’s a good idea? (Maybe I’ll go to the metro station which is nearby the girls college and that way I could find girls who are in early 20s and could be potentially single). I would approach girls who are 3/10-5/10 in looks not more than 5 because I’d like to be in my league to have higher chance. Can you suggest me what … | /r/seduction | 29/04/25 06:38 PM |
| -7 | I am 27 and never had a girlfriend. How do I cold approach 500 girls?please help me guysCan you tell me the full name of Frankenstein, because I searched up on google and it shows me cartoon character | /r/seduction | 29/04/25 05:46 PM |
| 3 | I am 27 and never had a girlfriend. How do I cold approach 500 girls?please help me guysThanks for the suggestion, I really appreciate. Will these books work for a guy who is 3/10 in looks? And do they have like a roadmap of how to cold approach, and what to say exactly? | /r/seduction | 29/04/25 05:39 PM |
| 10 | Women, why you do that?He said ‘successful relationship’ | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 05:55 PM |
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