If I am 2/10 currently, will getting in good shape atleast make me 6/10?

fakis1 · 2025-05-03T04:22:56+00:00

It’s not actually the appearance on the outside that will only change things, you will find your own confidence within changes dramatically and that instantly makes you more attractive

What you think is what you project. If you are internally rock solid and happy with how you are, women know this and feel this.

Disregard ranking yourself out of 10, focus on constant improvement until you die. Work out, stay in shape and you will look and feel better.

Not only that, when you consistently work out people immediately recognise discipline as a trait of yours which in turn is very attractive to likeminded individuals

Medical_Tutor_7749 · 2025-05-03T04:23:12+00:00

Any guy can be a 6 or even a 7 (or even 8).

Build a lean, muscular physique (2 years, no need to be big, just a brad pitt fight club body)

Improve your social skills/learn to flirt and do it well

Buy some nice, fitting clothes (mall clothes are good enough, 1 or 2 sets is all you need)

Go to a stylist and get a fresh haircut that fits your face

Don't drink or smoke or eat excessive junk (people that avoid this are noticeably healthier)

Be talented at something and show it off a little

Have a visible social circle (to be socially desirable and for social proof)

shiwenbin · 2025-05-03T11:43:41+00:00

Honest answer, yes. Great physique can open a lot of doors. Tiny percentage of population has great physique. But the reason why that’s the case is that it’s difficult.

Tbh I doubt you’re a 2. But if you have the will, you should get a great physique. It will make your life better.

In 12-15 months you can entirely transform your appearance. It’s simple, but it’s hard. And life gets in the way, that’s ok. It’s a process.

Big topic but check out rp strength and Jeff nippard on yt. If you have specific questions you can dm me

deuxbulot · 2025-05-03T13:44:34+00:00

Fitness is always a good idea.

You don’t have to make it your entire personality either.

3x a week for an hour each in the gym is better than no activity. And you can scale up per your preferences as you experience it further.

I do exactly 3x a week and it leaves me at an appearance I am proud of and makes me look good in shirts.

I scale up with 3x a week, 5% incline walking for 60 minutes when I want to burn some stubborn belly fat. But I don’t do this all year round.

Cixin97 · 2025-05-03T04:23:02+00:00

Honestly maybe. Fitness alone could bring you up 3 points for sure, maybe 4. And in some people’s eyes maybe more. For example I personally have extremely high standards for face and personality but the second a girl is crazy fit with a bubble butt my standards for all of that drop immensely. Same goes for how women look at men. But even if to the average woman you being fit only increases you from a 2/10 to a 5/10, you can also increase from a 5/10 to a 6/10 by having great style, a 6/10 to a 7/10 by having a great haircut, etc. Short of major genetic deformities (your eyes don’t count), most people can get to 7/10 with some work. Beyond that you’re hitting genetic limits or personal preferences from each girl.

TripleDigitNomad · 2025-05-07T10:42:15+00:00

There's no way you're a 2/10, that would require severe genetic deformities in your face and body. You're likely maybe a 5, if that, so yes, getting in good shape will make you a 6, if not a 7.

JackSquirts · 2025-05-03T04:27:10+00:00

You're likely not as ugly as you think you are and a good style glowup is likely going to be just as effective looks-wise as the gym/diet time. Do them in tandem, you could probably jump 3-4 points.

More than anything though, confidence and social skills are what pays the bills (aka, gets you women). If the gym and the clothes/hair/etc give you a ton of confidence, that's really what will be helpful. If they don't, you'll probably continue to fail - or even worse, you'll get attention you won't have any idea what to do with.

Newtabs9 · 2025-05-03T11:52:57+00:00

some very blue pilled replies lol. Why do we still try to kid ourselves that looks are super important when it comes to cold approach?!! lol

But I seriously doubt you are a 2/10. That would be kinda rare.

But getting in good shape will typically raise you a few points if you are chubby now.

Most guys can hit 5-6/10 and that very likely includes you

somethinlikeshieva · 2025-05-03T13:04:19+00:00

What makes you think you're 2/10

MineDesperate2920 · 2025-05-03T15:59:19+00:00

Doesn’t matter. Looks matter about 30% of your game. BUT they still matter for 30%. So yes max out your looks. Get fit. Dress well. Fix your life. What matters most is the vibe and how you carry yourself. But fix the looks too

Dwerg1 · 2025-05-03T22:12:00+00:00

If your insecurity remains and your self-esteem is unchanged then you'll still be a 2/10, just with a better shaped body.

Almost everyone underestimates how huge of an impact it makes to be comfortable in their own skin and have bit of fire within them.

I'm not saying you shouldn't get in better shape, it does contribute a bit and there's plenty other good reasons to do it, but it's not what's going to do the heavy lifting in terms of attractiveness.

There are dudes out there blessed with good genetics who are essentially incels in spite of that, because their minds are all kinds of messed up and women will avoid them like a plague because of it.

Edit: Saw that you had photos right after posting my comment. You don't look anywhere near as bad as you think, purely physically. It will definitely serve you a lot more to focus on thinking better of yourself, bringing some positive glow to that face will lift your attractiveness several points. Basically, if you feel better, you're gonna look better.

Zebo57 · 2025-05-04T00:16:48+00:00

Getting lean (10-12% BF) and strong will drastically improve all phases of your life.

Playful_Dot_537 · 2025-05-03T04:25:42+00:00

There is nothing wrong with trying to make yourself look better (improving body shape, reducing fat, better skin quality, well fitting clothing, smelling better).

But once you get past the basics you should worry much less about that. Start worrying about meeting and talking to women of any type anywhere you can find them. Old, young, married, single, hot, ugly. Doesn't matter. You are at the "woman gym" and you are there to get reps in. You aren't waking around with a marriage contract.

Stop worrying about what they may think and start paying very close attention to their actions. Talk to enough women and I guarantee you will find some women who are showing interested in you. And that's when you can start leveling up in different ways.

All of that 2/10 and 6/10 nonsense is all BS. It's like rating women as some sort of 9/10 HB. Who gives a fuck. Women's attraction happens in a completely different level then men's. You are human and they are human. Either you have a connection with them or you do not.

Spend less time telling yourself why they would say "no" and spend more time getting reps and paying close attention to the unsaid "yes's" through body language and how they speak . It just takes a lot of practice.

I know plenty of literally ugly or obese dudes who have GFs. It's much more about you as a man than it is about them as women.

Good luck!

Tyler020 · 2025-05-03T04:35:38+00:00

What kinda question is this bruh 😭 You should be in good shape regardless. But working out solely won't be enough. There's more factors to your looks. Body fat imo being the most important, followed by skincare, hair, wardrobe, hygiene. If you're below ~13% bodyfat, you'll be noticeable difference in your face.

norwegiandoggo · 2025-05-03T05:28:10+00:00

Let's start with your assumption that you're a 2/10. That is a self assessment? Have you ever been assessed by neutral third parties? Because our self assessments can often be wildly wrong. Not saying yours are. But how do you know you're a 2? Looking in the mirror and just making a call is rarely going to be accurate. I have seen plenty of dudes on here who call themselves a 2, then they post a picture, and they're like a 5 easily.

As for your shape. Getting to that kind of body would at least put your body in the top 20% or so. So let's say it makes your body an 8/10. I would give you a 9 if you were taller. But short body detracts somewhat on the body score.

Your face would improve too, because reduced bodyfat makes the face look better. You get a better jawline and so on. So let's say it's now a 2/10 but after working out it's a 4/10.

So let's say body accounts for 50% of your looks and the face another 50%. Then your body would be an 8/10 and the face a 4/10. The midpoint between those are 6/10. So your guess is probably good. But that's provided you're actually a 2. Which I don't know how you measured.

Far-Sir1362 · 2025-05-03T09:01:19+00:00

Purely appearance wise, 2/10 would mean you not only have a terrible looking body, but also a terrible looking face too, so no, getting your body in shape would still leave you with a disgusting face.

In reality I think you're exaggerating and you're not actually a 2/10 now.

Bludditor · 2025-05-03T11:21:56+00:00

short answer: yes, but not for what you think.

if you stick to this goal and see yourself making progress, your mentality will change which will make you more attractive.

Cutch22 · 2025-05-03T14:50:54+00:00

I’m not sure if it will jump you that much but I notice when I’m in the best shape it helps me get more female attention. I go back home and get fat over the holidays then it takes me a bit to get it all back.

Affectionate-Ant4888 · 2025-05-03T07:29:14+00:00

grooming and style will make you 6/10 lol; go to a hairdresser and show it a picture of a pretty cool haircut or whatever and go to a mall and ask women what style they recommend;

Title	If I am 2/10 currently, will getting in good shape atleast make me 6/10?
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Date	May 3, 2025 4:14 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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