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4

Def a cheat code
/r/seduction16/07/26 10:20 PM
6

Really?
/r/seduction19/06/26 07:41 AM
5

For me, it's everyone else around judging me
/r/seduction19/06/26 02:19 AM
3

"yeah, just your mom making sure you're ok"
/r/seduction16/06/26 01:55 PM
1

One time I was fwb with a chick, she didn't want to anymore because of something I said, which she referred to as breaking up lol didn't know we were ever in a relationship
/r/seduction28/05/26 03:46 PM
1

What is the difference between a short and ltr, I never understood that
/r/seduction28/05/26 02:58 PM
8

Basically this
/r/seduction27/05/26 09:58 AM
1

Just ask her out, bruh
/r/seduction17/05/26 01:43 PM
1

west id assume, denver, seattle, cali etc
/r/seduction13/05/26 10:01 PM
0

wrong post, sorry
/r/seduction10/05/26 03:56 PM
2

I always try to keep mine on private, so even if they get the to ink, they won't see anything
/r/seduction10/05/26 03:00 PM
1

park
/r/seduction17/04/26 07:21 PM
2

Could cost you your job to find out lol
/r/seduction01/04/26 01:24 PM
4

It's important to stay true to yourself but try to show your good qualities
/r/seduction20/03/26 12:58 PM
6

As much crap as people give Facebook, at least they're doing the dating app correct (at least for now)
/r/seduction16/03/26 10:40 PM
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The problem I deal with is women wanting to talk on the app before meeting, which 9/10 they stop responding a few messages later
/r/seduction16/03/26 07:51 PM
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I used to be fairly successful pre 2010 but it's pretty low success since and gets consistently worse. And I don't think it's just from me getting older lol in person is def better but takes more effort
/r/seduction10/03/26 11:51 PM
1

Yeah dating apps don't save any time and aren't direct in terms of knowing who's interested in you. How many times have you matched with someone and they don't reply. Or they reply but ghosts after a day or so. Or you get their number and then they never have time to meet. Or they schedule something and flake out. Or they show up and they're a few notches down from their dating profile
/r/seduction07/03/26 03:43 PM
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Define zero success I've had a good amount of success pre 2013 with scattered results since but I definitely strike out a lot more now than years ago
/r/seduction07/03/26 03:38 PM
1

If you actually meet then I agree, but if they just like the attention they get from a guy showing interest and not even serious about meeting then it's all for nothing
/r/seduction12/02/26 04:07 PM
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I do it because chicks just like attention they get from texting so I try not invest too much until we're in person
/r/seduction12/02/26 04:05 PM
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You can say "if we text so much before meeting, well have nothing to talk about in person" I tend to try and meet asap but it seems lately chicks like to play games for the free attention. It's so lame
/r/seduction12/02/26 02:40 PM
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There's actually none of that in my town
/r/seduction10/02/26 11:10 PM
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im not even a long time member of the sub but can tell by the comments that something is off. im about to start blocking people
/r/seduction27/11/25 09:01 AM
1

i dont mind platonic female friends but not when its a damn penpal
/r/seduction27/11/25 08:59 AM
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shit, chicks will say this before even seeing you in person, " i have to get to know you before meeting" insane
/r/seduction27/11/25 08:58 AM
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I identify as a employee
/r/seduction26/11/25 05:12 AM
1

Guys have to chase, we don't like it
/r/seduction25/09/25 10:18 AM
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Sounds more like a club, but yeah some bars do have this. There's one I know where the 1st floor is a typical bar and they have the live music on the next floor
/r/seduction19/09/25 12:44 PM
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Any questions I ask I genuinely want to hear the answer. I do want to know more about her
/r/seduction16/09/25 12:56 AM
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yeah that seems to be where its trending, ive been hearing about social circle game for atleast a few months now
/r/seduction14/09/25 09:36 PM
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im content with rejection depending on the context, it gives me a straight answer instead of the song and dance that women can attempt to put your through
/r/seduction14/09/25 09:30 PM
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how do i know if im truly a good kisser? i mean i think i am from past experience
/r/seduction14/09/25 09:24 PM
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then do you really know her?
/r/seduction14/09/25 07:07 PM
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Meaning they will break their own rules if they want you, will have you jump through less hoops etc
/r/seduction13/09/25 11:56 PM
2

Is gleam free
/r/seduction13/09/25 07:13 PM
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If it's honestly a hassle just to make it to a date/meet, let alone after
/r/seduction13/09/25 07:12 PM
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So much easier said than actually done, at least from my experience.
/r/seduction13/09/25 07:10 PM
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perfectly said, girls will actually switch up with how much theyre attracted to you.
/r/seduction13/09/25 05:47 PM
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It really depends. I prefer to be direct and get her to meet asap, that way she can tell you sooner rather than later if she's interested and you don't have to go through the text game. Now if she claims she's busy or whatever then I take that as a soft no and leave her alone until she comes around and wants to hang
/r/seduction12/09/25 02:25 AM
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Yeah the key thing is them wanting to stay in contact even though they're busy. Based on your interactions so far, would they reach out to you if you didn't text them first? I've gone through this same issue time and time again though dating apps where girls will literally text you all day (if you let them) but will never want to meet up. I ask them out right away, might even be too soon in fact but I'd rather scare them off then go through the charade
/r/seduction09/09/25 12:56 AM
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is it? i thought you needed to pay last i checked. i use deepseek cuz i hear its better but forget why lol screenshot is good
/r/seduction08/09/25 09:31 PM
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i made a post about a couple of weeks ago for good ai tools to assist with text game. is there a free chatgpt i can use on the fly? and do you just ask it what i should reply with to "this message"?
/r/seduction08/09/25 08:50 PM
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how do go from friendly chat to hitting on her
/r/seduction07/09/25 06:55 PM
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Talking crazy to your phone? So may her think you're a lunatic
/r/seduction05/09/25 05:32 AM
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Lol does seduction get thrown out the window if you have to take her on a date?
/r/seduction04/09/25 11:32 AM
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Context please
/r/seduction04/09/25 01:16 AM
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I just cut it real low since I'm balding on my crown
/r/seduction03/09/25 02:43 AM
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I wasnt there for the conversation but if you met her at a bar and y'all are hanging out one on one, she knows you're into her. I don't think I've ever heard of a guy meeting a girl at a bar and it stayed platonic
/r/seduction02/09/25 12:17 PM
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I don't like when people act like dating isn't considerably worse than it was 10+ years ago, that's my only issue
/r/seduction01/09/25 10:24 PM
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oh i see, well she ll still like you for you regardless. shes not getting to know the random guys she sees that arent approaching. a chick will still curve you if you aint her type, trust
/r/seduction01/09/25 12:14 PM
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Wait, I'm confused. I'm asking have you gotten positive results since guys don't approach In that araa
/r/seduction01/09/25 01:16 AM
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I feel like showing up to coffee is investment enough, I can cover that
/r/seduction01/09/25 01:15 AM
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so curious, if that is the case, do you think that has been a factor for your results, assuming theyre positive. less competition i would think is good but it could mean nothing
/r/seduction31/08/25 07:47 PM
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meh sure, ive sent witty messages and it rarely works out. ive had less hassle with a simple "hey"
/r/seduction31/08/25 12:15 PM
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Matching doesn't mean too much, you just made it past the first filter. there's people I've matched with and never uttered a word, which tells me she has plenty of other matches that she likes better than you so why waste the time
/r/seduction30/08/25 12:06 PM
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I've ran into a similar issue, I thought it was because I've tried to get their number or made it clear that I was trying to meet because I don't like building a connection unless they invest something too (phone number etc). But honestly, if they really liked you then they'd be down for whatever you wanted to do so I'd chalk it up to improve your appearance/profile overall and maybe youd have more success
/r/seduction30/08/25 11:39 AM
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Oh socially, hm id have to think about that. Well for instance I don't think you should be disqualified from dating just because you don't play sports etc if everything else is solid. I personally think more demanding and it's only because they can be. And the reason why it seems that guys aren't stepping up is because a women's standard have only heightened so it makes sense. I will say there are certainly a lot of guys who don't even try or put in the bare minimum but they might have just give…
/r/seduction30/08/25 03:07 AM
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I agree with this but how do you leverage meeting before talking to the point when they're comfortable. A lot of girls have stopped responding after it's clear that id want to meet sooner rather than later
/r/seduction30/08/25 03:00 AM
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I think most of what you mentioned isn't basic, what kind of projects and future plans? I don't think gym is basic either, of course how well you dress and social skills are all relative. I think basic things would be having a good job, own place, car etc. I personally think it's more inflation, if she's shows you suitor that don't measure up it might be because guys have just given up while others are still holding out hope
/r/seduction30/08/25 02:55 AM
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Meh working on yourself is pretty hard, I have to admit. I almost feel like a chick, keeping up with maintenance on every little thing
/r/seduction30/08/25 02:32 AM
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Be genuinely interested in them, ask questions and match their investment from a communication standpoint
/r/seduction29/08/25 01:56 PM
1

i read your message, do you like the girl you went out for drinks with at all? you could say you see her more as a friend. i think its good you didnt kiss her or anything
/r/seduction26/08/25 10:02 PM
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ive never successfully pulled this off but id honestly say that the friend just has to show signs that shes down, girls honestly have no problem sharing you if youre at that level. if youre not, girls will screw their friends over if they want you for themself anyway
/r/seduction26/08/25 09:46 PM
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whats the name of it
/r/seduction26/08/25 09:03 PM
1

hm i wouldnt even call her a 10, id say shes probably a 4-5 in conventional beauty
/r/seduction26/08/25 04:16 PM
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Lol she isn't giving me another shot after, her kid is like 13 and we've talked throughout
/r/seduction26/08/25 03:20 PM
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she actually rejected me when i wanted to make her a gf years ago but i learned its because shes kinda funny with relationships with past experiences. i wouldve loved to start a relationship before she had a kid but what can you do
/r/seduction26/08/25 02:43 PM
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i mean we also hung out and chatted of course, we were just friends with benefits.
/r/seduction26/08/25 01:23 PM
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lol well if we never had sex, and also if she lived closer than yeah. but its not ideal to go back from that, especially when youre still attracted to the person
/r/seduction26/08/25 01:13 PM
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Well yeah there's always an exception but it usually means it's negative
/r/seduction26/08/25 10:51 AM
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Regardless of any resource, the best advice I could tell you is go do it and then later see like what you can improve
/r/seduction25/08/25 03:46 PM
6

Isn't is the same thing? You cold approach in the day or night..
/r/seduction25/08/25 02:20 PM
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Not sure if it's flattering or cute, to me it's a sign she's not comfortable around you, which is never good? I guess it depends on age
/r/seduction25/08/25 02:19 PM
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I would say cold approach may be bad for someone who's fat but it may be that much worse for online dating, so 🤷‍♀️
/r/seduction25/08/25 01:56 PM
2

And that app is? And is it free
/r/seduction24/08/25 04:52 PM
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I'll be honest, I don't freeze up it's just that girls tend to not reply after like 1 or 2 messages, or sometimes at all
/r/seduction23/08/25 01:59 PM
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She wont
/r/seduction23/08/25 03:48 AM
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This is for cold approach, what I'm referring to is mainly when you meet someone online. It's totally different
/r/seduction23/08/25 03:47 AM
2

I just simply don't see any benefit to learning text game, I'm perfectly fine with the social skills I have now and that should be enough to find a mate
/r/seduction23/08/25 03:45 AM
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Who's him lol and like I said I have 0 interest in learning text game. I have enough personality in person
/r/seduction22/08/25 08:10 PM
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As a man, I don't take women's advice on dating. But thank you
/r/seduction22/08/25 08:09 PM
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Thanks for your opinion
/r/seduction22/08/25 04:20 PM
-6

This is more for text conversations, I'm finding with in person talk
/r/seduction22/08/25 01:57 PM
1

Check out, or annoy them
/r/seduction22/08/25 06:14 AM
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Why do you think it's from you being a nice guy? Women are just like that, they'll give you their number but won't respond later
/r/seduction21/08/25 06:55 PM
0

Never did, again reread the message Even if I did say that, doesn't mean I'm broke
/r/seduction20/08/25 07:07 PM
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Well it depends, some nuance in there
/r/seduction20/08/25 05:55 PM
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Mhm what I was thinkin
/r/seduction20/08/25 05:45 PM
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Ah I see, how do you frame that within the conversation
/r/seduction20/08/25 05:12 PM
0

Oh wow, you have them pay their share for the coffee huh lol valid
/r/seduction20/08/25 05:12 PM
1

I wouldn't take any chick out to dinner based on a call
/r/seduction20/08/25 05:09 PM
1

Good point
/r/seduction20/08/25 04:42 PM
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A bar is decent but it can quickly get up there in price, could be worse than a restaurant. I think coffee is better typically but if it's real late then bar is obv better
/r/seduction20/08/25 01:59 PM
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Yeah at any bar in America, 10 bucks roughly covers 2 drinks-ish but at least one
/r/seduction20/08/25 01:57 PM
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This isn't always the case but it does help
/r/seduction20/08/25 12:37 PM
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Hm interesting
/r/seduction20/08/25 12:37 PM
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I'd love to but getting to that point is a struggle. I honestly can't wait to find someone I can provide for if I feel that person truly loves me and not what I can do for her
/r/seduction20/08/25 12:36 PM
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I actually live close to a hiking trail 🤷‍♀️ but read my original message again. Never said 10 was alot
/r/seduction20/08/25 12:34 PM
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True, there's a Dunkin like walking distance but there's really no atmosphere there, probably better off 5 minutes further for a better place
/r/seduction20/08/25 07:06 AM
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I don't understand why the assumption is that I'm broke, I'm certainly not
/r/seduction20/08/25 07:03 AM
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I've only heard chicks say this lol but no, Im well off than most my age
/r/seduction20/08/25 07:02 AM
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What would you consider close to my place, at most 5 mins?
/r/seduction20/08/25 06:41 AM
0

Heh idk bars can get expensive quick, 10 dollars might cover a drink and a half lol
/r/seduction20/08/25 06:36 AM
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Too many complexities here, how hot is this chick
/r/seduction07/08/25 08:15 AM
1

I'm in a very similar situation that op is in, I don't do cold approach as much, online success comes in waves, there's a drought and other times I'm having good success As others have mentioned try to lose weight, if not for dating but for general health as well. Being out more in general puts you in social situations by default which may lead you in dating opportunities just naturally
/r/seduction06/08/25 07:48 AM
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Yeah I usually ask within a few messages, youre better asking too early than too late imo
/r/seduction31/07/25 06:15 PM
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Like others have said, she probably just wants your attention. This used to be currency to women until recently when they just blatantly ask for money. Be careful of this even with chicks who are single
/r/seduction24/07/25 06:57 PM
1

follow number 2 for any chick honestly
/r/seduction22/07/25 05:12 PM
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Bar is probably the easiest answer, spending more time out of the house to open yourself up for opportunities
/r/seduction22/07/25 01:32 PM
1

make sure you always feel confident by how you look, so whether thats the clothes, being well groomed, smelling good etc. whatever that may mean to you
/r/seduction17/07/25 02:38 PM
1

It depends, how do I feel about her? Even though this is an extreme example
/r/seduction09/07/25 07:53 AM
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I didn't understand it until a chick showed interest that I wasn't a fan of. Only then do you kind of understand
/r/seduction09/07/25 07:51 AM
1

True, builds some tension. It's similar to talking too much before the date
/r/seduction07/07/25 03:40 AM
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I think I'm pretty cute if I weighed a lot less
/r/seduction07/07/25 02:34 AM
0

Well, it also depends on the date. I've found that chicks don't like certain date ideas but of course that can be wrapped up into looks anyway
/r/seduction01/07/25 11:46 AM
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That's not of the factors of why cold approach Is hard for me, so yeah I totally get it
/r/seduction01/07/25 12:44 AM
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Shit, in trying to figure out the whole " I need to get to know you before meeting" bs first
/r/seduction27/06/25 01:52 PM
2

What's a good metric to know what your score is
/r/seduction26/06/25 09:05 PM
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Would anyone agree that the degree of flirting has gotten harder in the past 10 years or so? I used to think I was pretty good but now I'm not sure
/r/seduction26/06/25 02:43 PM
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Yeah I'm already shadow banned on tinder, no idea why What's an example of a bright headshot, I assume not a selfie
/r/seduction25/06/25 04:53 AM
1

I'll be honest, it's too much work. I'm looking to lose weight and make changes from there, trying to attract the opposite sex is way too much work
/r/seduction20/06/25 12:14 PM
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"well I would've preferred you but that wasn't an offer, yet"
/r/seduction20/06/25 12:13 PM
1

Yeah, I mean I've had sex since then, what can I do
/r/seduction20/06/25 12:09 PM
2

Used that time to get in shape
/r/seduction20/06/25 10:26 AM
1

That sounds unbearable But yet, move the interaction to in person
/r/seduction19/06/25 12:08 PM
1

2016
/r/seduction19/06/25 12:07 PM
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I truly think the flirt gene is just not in me, I either don't say anything or I'm too pervy but I am a good conversationalist
/r/seduction19/06/25 02:02 AM
1

It really depends on the topic, I don't believe you can flirt within any bounds of conversation Some girl I know got her card stuck between the cash register and the wall, how do you flirt there
/r/seduction19/06/25 02:00 AM
1

Slightly off topic, would it be wise to start flirting with someone at work you've had little to no contact with for the last year
/r/seduction19/06/25 01:59 AM
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I mean I always go for number, it kind of separates you from any other way she's getting contacted. Plus I don't like communicating through apps unless it's business
/r/seduction19/06/25 12:11 AM
1

Will dating ever go back to the way it was? Seeing stuff on this sub is so overwhelming at times, I think tedious is the perfect word to use
/r/seduction16/06/25 05:52 AM
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What are the risks of being friends that's interested in you, like stalker type stuff?
/r/seduction15/06/25 01:54 PM
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Idk I never ask for a kiss, even before I step foot in this sub it just innately to felt weird I guess. The most I would I would say is 'come here' if I'm already next to her face. She ll pull back if she's not ready
/r/seduction14/06/25 10:53 AM
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It's hard for me to stop at this level or to have this much "imagination"
/r/seduction08/06/25 03:46 AM
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Funny, my problem kind of the opposite. I go for the close too fast and skip the small talk
/r/seduction03/06/25 12:01 AM
2

I think it depends on how your hair looks when not being shaven. If shaving/very low cut is an improvement, then it won't matter
/r/seduction31/05/25 02:49 PM
1

interesting, is there any videos etc from hypnotiqa at that time
/r/seduction29/05/25 08:34 PM
1

oh yeah if shes cancelling dates when im already out of my house then nope, only date im interested in after is if shes coming to my place for dinner.
/r/seduction29/05/25 06:34 PM
0

yeah thats just tricking obv, i mean id be more successful with women too if i committed to spending money on them
/r/seduction29/05/25 12:18 PM
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howd you know the man was stank tho lol
/r/seduction29/05/25 12:17 PM
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large in what way lol
/r/seduction29/05/25 12:14 PM
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i want to lose weight regardless, im more or less curious how much if this sub fits in that category
/r/seduction29/05/25 12:13 PM
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My socials are fairly dead but that's because there's not too much going on in my day to day. I would imagine it could only help, as long as it's not meaningless content like memes etc
/r/seduction28/05/25 08:12 AM
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alot of girls cant even bother to get on the phone for whatever reason, but yeah im the same way
/r/seduction24/05/25 10:48 AM
2

id be happy with a 5
/r/seduction22/05/25 02:50 PM
74

imo text game is just too time consuming to learn and doesnt really change anything. if a girl wants you, she ll follow your lead
/r/seduction22/05/25 02:38 PM
4

Depends on what you're into, like body type etc
/r/seduction15/05/25 03:44 PM
2

this might be irrelevant but alot of female friends dont like the idea of them helping you get a chick, theyd rather you remain single
/r/seduction14/05/25 03:52 AM
1

you can easily pivot sex to a relationship
/r/seduction14/05/25 03:10 AM
1

I'm a guy playa You def ain't no 2/10
/r/seduction03/05/25 01:24 PM
1

What makes you think you're 2/10
/r/seduction03/05/25 01:04 PM
1

Quick story, I met a girl who was really nice and not too bad too look at, no kids, good temperament. One issue, she had herpes, I had to turn her down which sucked. I wouldn't do anything with her unless you felt you'd marry her
/r/seduction29/04/25 10:15 PM
1

Unfortunately it's too direct in my experience, which kinda sucks because I don't like beating around the bush. Even on dating sites I get straight to the point cuz I don't like wasting time
/r/seduction29/04/25 10:34 AM
35

Is the note thing not looked down upon? I guess it's better than nothing but still
/r/seduction29/04/25 04:40 AM
1

Meh you gotta be careful and tactful, being too invest seems needy and that you don't have more options. So it's not s simple as appearing invested
/r/seduction29/04/25 03:07 AM
1

Because I do have spurts of success, which is great after a dry spell And also, I do want to settle down and can't just give up
/r/seduction24/04/25 03:29 AM
1

I tried this before, all 3 days cancelled lol idk, dating seems to be getting worse even though it was already terrible to begin with
/r/seduction13/04/25 11:24 PM
1

I never realized why I like girls who like to talk but this is probably why, you don't know that you miss a chatter until you talk to someone that barely gives responses. It's like pulling teeth
/r/seduction13/04/25 12:51 PM
2

Yeah I'm finally taking my fitness seriously after some recent events, I'm in the obese category so I have a bit ways to go before I feel satisfied but I'm gonna stay consistent. I actually love working out but some people don't so much, the only thing that sucks is the predatory tactics that gyms try to pull
/r/seduction13/04/25 12:36 PM
1

How do you turn a question like that into letting them knowing your intent
/r/seduction10/04/25 01:33 AM
1

I don't have funny or interesting stories...it irritates me when people suggest this
/r/seduction10/04/25 01:32 AM
1

id like to know age, but id take wealth in vast majority
/r/seduction07/04/25 02:37 AM
1

It's kinda hard when she's getting attention and money with the snap of a pic
/r/seduction05/04/25 02:04 PM
1

Well I'm not sure if it is
/r/seduction04/04/25 02:34 PM
2

I've had this one girl glance over in my direction way too many times, and she's with her man, or what I perceived as such. Imma make small talk next time I'm by her
/r/seduction04/04/25 01:52 PM
1

I'm with it, as long as you genuinely enjoy her company and shes not being consistent drama your way or becomes a penpal. If we're friends, we must hang out in person at the very least
/r/seduction04/04/25 09:16 AM
1

I personally don't want or need to, too high maintenance
/r/seduction03/04/25 08:40 PM
1

Maybe I'll look at your posts
/r/seduction03/04/25 03:00 PM
1

But do approaches need to be that long? What if she's taken or not interested
/r/seduction03/04/25 02:26 AM
0

Wow, I don't think I've ever had an approach longer than a few minutes? But I think I could've had that Latina if i had more skill, low key
/r/seduction03/04/25 01:34 AM
1

Probably right, I feel it's maybe important to watch for maybe the basics or work on something you're having a hard time with
/r/seduction02/04/25 11:51 AM
1

I live in the biggest city in the area, where that church was lol
/r/seduction02/04/25 08:35 AM
3

Some of Todds stuff is pretty decent, not sure why he gets a bad rap for some. Didn't even know mystery still put out content
/r/seduction02/04/25 08:34 AM
1

im looking to start a family, id onyl have something casual with anyone in their 40s or older
/r/seduction01/04/25 09:14 PM
1

i think i asked local facebook groups to see whats a church with a younger crowd, ill have to check the responses if any
/r/seduction01/04/25 08:55 PM
1

im about your age
/r/seduction01/04/25 08:54 PM
3

i dont see that as a problem, chruch has a good snse of community. as long as you lik the talks and the people, why not
/r/seduction01/04/25 08:54 PM
1

get shocked in a bad way? are they not open to date
/r/seduction01/04/25 08:45 PM
1

about 40k in my city with some neighboring towns
/r/seduction01/04/25 08:43 PM
1

There's always time to make sense
/r/seduction01/04/25 08:31 PM
1

punctuation please
/r/seduction01/04/25 08:20 PM
1

im in a small city, havent seen too many events advertised. you mostly hear it during church announcements when at meetings
/r/seduction01/04/25 08:10 PM
1

Basically the part after the opener
/r/seduction01/04/25 07:05 PM
1

i dont know about other guys but theres levels to attraction for me, shes in the realm of someone i would lay and possibly have as a gf depending on if she has kids etc but i do see what you mean Edit: I'll also say I have a more less popular view on what's attractive, I prefer thicker/curvy women which majority of guys may not find appealing
/r/seduction01/04/25 06:02 PM
1

i think i posted in a recent post the dialogue, it was pretty short why is approaching a 5 sus, do they not need love too?
/r/seduction01/04/25 05:06 PM
1

pssh, hm. uh, i would say the opening/stacking. i tend to internally be nervous at that point, you can see on a recent post what i said each time without a conversation. thats what i was bad with yesterday so thats a good start
/r/seduction01/04/25 05:03 PM
2

Sure, yes
/r/seduction01/04/25 04:17 PM
5

I personally disagree but game is still game regardless
/r/seduction01/04/25 03:25 PM
2

Interesting, I've never heard of these fellas but will have to search them out
/r/seduction01/04/25 03:09 PM
1

Very interesting, I think my last few approaches were in a store while they were looking at something so it was hard to gauge. What would you suggest for that scenario
/r/seduction01/04/25 04:03 AM
0

I don't think it is, and I'm not sure why people are saying as such
/r/seduction01/04/25 03:35 AM
1

I guess, it was in a real casual tone, I guess that question was too direct
/r/seduction01/04/25 03:13 AM
3

Imagine courage to just DM a insta girl
/r/seduction01/04/25 02:06 AM
1

I did ask if she lived around here but not quite the same thing, yeah I'll ponder on that
/r/seduction01/04/25 02:04 AM
1

Exactly...
/r/seduction01/04/25 02:03 AM
0

Geez does this sound exhausting
/r/seduction01/04/25 02:01 AM
1

How many of these girls are you actively seeing in person/fucking
/r/seduction01/04/25 02:00 AM
1

Idk I never have this problem
/r/seduction01/04/25 01:59 AM
1

You should only limit yourself if it seems like some are wasting your time/not willing to meet up/have sex. Only so much room on text thread screen, it takes attention away from who you should focus on
/r/seduction01/04/25 01:58 AM
1

She said after I asked if she was single if I remember right, and yeah trust me I know
/r/seduction01/04/25 01:34 AM
1

Right exactly, reason I try not to ever ask it. I'm def out of practice with approaching, haven't in at least over a year
/r/seduction01/04/25 01:33 AM
0

well just cause shes being whore-y doesnt mean she ll be one with everyone.
/r/seduction01/04/25 12:25 AM
2

i thought shit test would come in the form of questions
/r/seduction31/03/25 11:59 PM
7

why not, i still liked her mildy. i was at the mall on a monday afternoon, im not seeing anything crazy
/r/seduction31/03/25 11:32 PM
2

i agree, i say it when i dont have something to continue the interaction
/r/seduction31/03/25 11:30 PM
1

Hmm showed too much interest, I mean I wasn't giddy. So maybe it's the prior
/r/seduction31/03/25 11:00 PM
1

Well, I don't like asking it so early in the interaction, plus you're kind of giving her an easy out. It's better to ask for her number or you provide yours and go from there
/r/seduction31/03/25 10:58 PM
4

I mean I didn't say anything, mainly cuz it didn't deserve a reply I guess lol she did say she's not really looking for a relationship so meh, maybe with more conversation she would've took the bait. She still could contact me, guess we ll see
/r/seduction31/03/25 10:07 PM
1

Well that's just like your opinion, man
/r/seduction31/03/25 05:07 AM
1

Party? Can you be more specific on that one, where are there parties open to the public
/r/seduction31/03/25 03:08 AM
1

I've approached on the bus and street, I don't remember percentage but I've gotten the number almost Everytime so legit like 70% but I don't think it's a fair sample size as I didn't approach that much. Uh there's at least two girls I feel I could've fucked but I fumbled twice
/r/seduction31/03/25 03:07 AM
1

Solid comment, exploring is pretty good. What would networking opportunities be considered
/r/seduction31/03/25 03:04 AM
1

No not at all, if I was afraid to approach you'd see posts like "I saw hot girl, too scared to say something'
/r/seduction31/03/25 03:04 AM
0

I don't think it's either of those things really, I just think it's a waste of time to go out for just approaching. The alternative is talking the few matches I got into meeting up 🤷‍♀️
/r/seduction30/03/25 10:00 PM
1

This is said a lot but I think people need to add the caveat that you shouldn't just make a date like 5 days from now through text and not say anything in between, that chick is going to most likely forget about the date entirely
/r/seduction30/03/25 09:55 PM
1

Damn bro, I have pretty mid breath. It doesn't smell bad thankfully but there's not like a mint smell either
/r/seduction30/03/25 09:52 PM
0

I think you may have misunderstood the post or maybe not read the whole thing, Im not looking for a reason for anyone else besides myself, I can easily act like I'm at the store for a purpose but being there for the sole purpose of approaching just seems like a waste of time to me
/r/seduction30/03/25 09:47 PM
1

There is but bars aren't really my scene for a few reasons, for one I prefer day game, it's apparent that Im not enjoying myself all that much, it's expensive and I'd be there alone most likely. I've gone to bars by myself before and it's not ideal
/r/seduction30/03/25 09:45 PM
0

Heyy I just made a related post about this, how do I go out just for the sake of approach is my question.
/r/seduction30/03/25 09:36 PM
3

Hm only thing I can suggest is have your friends go to a bar? That's probably the one place where social proof matter, it's a lot hard being a lone guy to be successful there
/r/seduction30/03/25 09:28 PM
1

I doubt I could swing that, I live 25 minutes away and her mom will be watching her kids at home
/r/seduction28/03/25 07:19 PM
1

In my experience you waste your time talking to long before a date. I've been told they want to get to know only to never meet and they're always busy etc so you have to be real careful with that
/r/seduction28/03/25 06:21 PM
-1

Meh Im not taking it too serious yet but certain things I like about her where I'm willing to meet
/r/seduction28/03/25 05:51 PM
1

Yeah, I just mean a general place, so like library for instance etc but np, thank you
/r/seduction28/03/25 05:31 PM
1

i could do that but its not that serious lol i can just wing it and then have her come closer to the house if theres a second time
/r/seduction28/03/25 05:25 PM
2

Fair, I don't know which ones would be fairly private or would have a couch etc, I guess id just pick one and hope for the best
/r/seduction28/03/25 05:09 PM
1

Cute
/r/seduction28/03/25 04:49 PM
1

there could be someting to this, my success usually comes in spurts, its rarely a consistent thing. good success for a couple months then dry spell
/r/seduction27/03/25 06:36 PM
0

I'm currently going to the gym, and my currently hairstyle is just really short lol so I guess the one thing I can improve is fashion
/r/seduction27/03/25 02:16 PM
13

dont think ive had one yet, i guess one way to atleast weed them out is try to be direct as possible to see if theyre really interested. one thing i hate is anyone whos just looking for attention without any real interest, or very low interest
/r/seduction27/03/25 12:09 PM
0

this would require getting a match in the first place
/r/seduction27/03/25 11:44 AM
7

If she wasn't getting married then maybe you have a shot, for friend zone for 3 years, it's one of those things where you have to be willing to lose her, just shoot your shot and be prepared to leave if she ain't with it
/r/seduction25/03/25 08:06 AM
2

Just stay consistent, it's not a race nor should it be. As you lose weight (and don't jerk off) you should gain more confidence to pickup more hotties
/r/seduction24/03/25 01:27 PM
2

I still don't know how to flirt, at least I don't think I do. That's why I always try to push for meeting in person and not text too much
/r/seduction24/03/25 12:37 AM
1

It's the only way, never stick to one girl
/r/seduction23/03/25 04:12 PM
-1

Uh they sound like bored girls that are looking for entertainment as opposed to a good man
/r/seduction23/03/25 03:02 AM
-1

My flirting is way too direct, that's the problem. I go 0-100 real quick
/r/seduction21/03/25 09:52 AM
35

Hmm is this different when they're there with their friend? And yes they want to be picked up by a guy they like but who knows how picky they are
/r/seduction21/03/25 09:49 AM
21

This is good to know as I would've thought the opposite, girls dancing etc are more open to conversation There's actually a gay bar by me, might have to pay a visit
/r/seduction21/03/25 09:48 AM
14

i honestly cant give much enthusiasm if i dont find some attraction, or do the deed at all tbh
/r/seduction18/03/25 02:32 PM
8

hmm if youre attracted to them, sure? its better than jerking off
/r/seduction18/03/25 02:31 PM
1

Get out more
/r/seduction18/03/25 12:46 AM
6

Did you...even read my original question
/r/seduction18/03/25 12:19 AM
3

"Right before" isn't a clear measurement of time...
/r/seduction18/03/25 12:16 AM
5

Pretty nice, how soon before a date is optimal
/r/seduction18/03/25 12:11 AM
2

Make a new Facebook account is the only way
/r/seduction17/03/25 05:29 PM
3

I know I am but it's only because I get 0 on the other apps so anything is an improvement. Now doesn't mean every match even replies but it's still better than no match at all
/r/seduction17/03/25 05:27 PM
1

Maybe read a book about how to be a better story teller
/r/seduction16/03/25 07:08 PM
9

I understand the purpose of them, I just don't know in the moment when Its happening
/r/seduction16/03/25 07:04 PM
2

Can you DM me a pic for example? I'm actually in the market for a ring
/r/seduction16/03/25 06:56 PM
170

i still dont know what a shit test is or when im being shit tested however, from examples ive seen, its fairly hard to sound different or unique while still passing imo
/r/seduction16/03/25 04:10 PM
0

That's only if it pull results, if there's only a marginal change to your matches then I don't think it's worth it tbh
/r/seduction16/03/25 01:16 PM
1

Id honestly rather approach that then a group of girls
/r/seduction16/03/25 01:55 AM
0

Good lord does this sound like way too much work for something that isn't guaranteed success
/r/seduction16/03/25 01:19 AM
1

"let's grab a drink sometime"
/r/seduction15/03/25 07:04 PM
6

Losing weight would improve my looks by like 60%
/r/seduction15/03/25 06:47 PM
1

Would a hug not work?
/r/seduction14/03/25 05:58 PM
1

I try my best not to ever ask her opinion of me, I think the only time I've mentioned this was when she's not willing to meet and I don't waste time. But in person, no
/r/seduction13/03/25 07:01 AM
1

The best bet might be going to events, messaging random just seems like you need so much patience
/r/seduction11/03/25 08:24 AM
1

I'm guessing you mean guys
/r/seduction11/03/25 08:23 AM
1

Yeah same here in my experience but then again these are one I meet on apps, might be different in person. grant it I'm a guy of color in a smaller city so it may be different if I was white
/r/seduction11/03/25 08:22 AM
1

How to approach at the gym? Also, where do you find the bars where college kids go, I guess you gotta be in the know
/r/seduction11/03/25 08:20 AM
1

Where to find swinger parties outside of fet?
/r/seduction11/03/25 08:19 AM
1

What are considered outer suburbs, like smaller city bars?
/r/seduction11/03/25 08:15 AM
1

I don't mind curvy older women, not obese/fat How'd you find these clubs
/r/seduction11/03/25 08:09 AM
1

I've always been told I look around 30, as I love weight I'm sure this will decrease
/r/seduction11/03/25 08:08 AM
1

So I often rub into women who want to get to know me before meeting, said women also don't like talking on the phone
/r/seduction08/03/25 10:18 PM
1

I try but they rarely answer, I guess if they're interested they'll tell you a time when they're call you back
/r/seduction08/03/25 10:18 PM
1

What happens if they "don't like talking on the phone" AND "don't want to meet til we get to know each other" what then
/r/seduction08/03/25 10:17 PM
1

My first question is what do you look like, second is how much money have you "expended" on this over time. Bars are friggin expensive which is why I would prefer day game a little more
/r/seduction19/02/25 12:26 AM
1

I'm down
/r/seduction19/02/25 12:22 AM
2

It really depends how close we are to having sex, like how is she treating me. You can know in your gut when something's off, go by that
/r/seduction19/02/25 12:21 AM
1

A freak that waits til date 4? Doesn't add up
/r/seduction19/02/25 12:20 AM
1

Anywhere indoors lol
/r/seduction19/02/25 12:17 AM
0

How long does it take roughly to be good at text game, I'm not trying to waste an afternoon
/r/seduction15/02/25 01:04 AM
26

Ok great, but how do we get charismatic
/r/seduction11/02/25 08:42 PM
1

True, I guess it's because a lot of my flirting is done through text since it seems pretty hard to get a woman to meet in person. I guess I should try to keep the flirting attempts for when I see them face to face
/r/seduction13/01/25 01:54 PM
1

Openers is the hardest part for me, I can pretty much move from there
/r/seduction30/12/24 04:24 AM
1

Oh yeah dude shoot for the moon. My take is if I'm going to deal with the current bs of dating, she better be something good to look at
/r/seduction30/12/24 04:22 AM
2

Good Lord, this seems like so much. Is all this really necessary
/r/seduction30/12/24 04:20 AM
1

The issue is they don't want to meet right away, I have this happen a lot so I guess I run into a lot of women who aren't interested which means dating apps have to go
/r/seduction30/12/24 04:18 AM
0

Hey there
/r/seduction30/12/24 04:16 AM
1

What if you're fat, what is a good place
/r/seduction30/12/24 04:14 AM
1

Oh I thought you were a bot, no story to tell, at least not one I'm motivated to type
/r/seduction21/12/24 07:28 AM
1

Off by some years lol
/r/seduction21/12/24 04:26 AM
1

Depends on what you consider young, I'm almost kiddle aged
/r/seduction20/12/24 06:52 PM
2

some are, i feel like im too confident lol i was once told i dont act like how i look, basically saying the way i was acting was acceptable if i was more attractive
/r/seduction20/12/24 03:40 PM
1

hm, i actually never officially got played or cheated on and i was a playa simply because i had the ability to. this was years ago though, now im almost on the brink of incel
/r/seduction20/12/24 03:29 PM
2

heh i like the flake tag, never thought of that
/r/seduction20/12/24 03:28 PM
2

how do you put in effort to fuck without being looked at as creepy/perv
/r/seduction20/12/24 07:07 AM
2

um not being having good text game or not smooth enough for approaching. not being attractive enough/fit enough.
/r/seduction20/12/24 07:04 AM
1

be careful with boosts, i really think they're for people that are already having decent action from apps
/r/seduction20/12/24 06:05 AM
1

tldr?
/r/seduction20/12/24 06:03 AM
1

yeah man, I'm maybe about a 5 physically and I have a pretty good success rate of approaching. the hardest part is actually doing it, and seoncd hardest part is not looking like an idiot in public
/r/seduction20/12/24 06:03 AM
1

dating apps need to be mentioned when you think of things that can lower your self esteem
/r/seduction20/12/24 06:01 AM
1

well it's nothing that they see lol I have a good job, own place, car, tall etc. by no means am I God's gift but if someone in my position is struggling, then majority are cooked
/r/seduction20/12/24 05:59 AM
1

what are limiting beliefs
/r/seduction20/12/24 05:57 AM
1

no that ain't it, I'm pretty much this and have only been approached once which may have been a prank
/r/seduction20/12/24 05:57 AM
1

out of sight out of mind
/r/seduction20/12/24 05:46 AM
3

hey man atheist you have friends, j got family tho. j think the most depressing thing about my situation is I'm a very well put together guy that I really shouldn't be this 'single'. I understand that the world doesn't owe me anything but it's very discouraging and hurtful to see other men in a worse off spot in their life doing better than you romantically
/r/seduction20/12/24 05:23 AM
3

I've have two cold approaches, one I really liked the girl but j kinda messed up both so it's not that positive. I will say online dating is far worse, as bad as you might think cold approach is, I'll take it over online
/r/seduction20/12/24 05:20 AM
4

well that's why it's better to be aesthetically attractive so you don't have to worry about these macho head games
/r/seduction20/12/24 05:18 AM
4

part 1 is the hardest for me and you didn't add any specific examples how to keep it casual
/r/seduction20/12/24 05:16 AM
3

Why do chicks think Pedro is an attractive guy, man fame is the best makeup
/r/seduction19/12/24 01:30 AM
1

meh i think it depends on the woman, i find that its better to finesse if you have the skillset. im not sure if im just done with the games as im getting older but i just cut striaght to the chase
/r/seduction16/10/24 12:20 PM
1

My flirting is way too direct
/r/seduction14/10/24 02:14 PM
2

is this the same guy who wrote day bang? didnt find that one helpful
/r/RedPillBooks22/03/23 06:16 PM
1

punctuation?
/r/RedPillBooks20/03/23 03:02 PM
1

Never thought of that lol
/r/MensRights01/09/22 10:08 AM
1

well i dont know how the scam would work if youre not giving the money to them, but ill certainly update if it is
/r/MensRights01/09/22 12:10 AM
1

its legit, you dont physically bring the money to them, you just show a bank statement. and its through a large community group in the area
/r/MensRights31/08/22 09:59 PM
1

these are women who are protected by anonymity, we have no idea who these women are in the real world, it could be a woman youre dating now
/r/AntiFeminists31/08/22 04:52 PM
2

I just want free
/r/RedPillBooks16/08/22 04:19 AM
0

I clearly said free and I got two people in my dms soliciting 😕
/r/RedPillBooks15/08/22 05:28 PM
1

Not sure how to do that, you can dm me
/r/RedPillBooks15/08/22 03:49 PM
2

Can I get it for freew
/r/RedPillBooks15/08/22 03:48 PM
1

Well not every chick does, just a few have
/r/seduction14/08/22 04:44 PM
1

Can I get your number
/r/seduction14/08/22 04:27 PM
1

I alternate, sometimes I ask and sometimes I demand it
/r/seduction14/08/22 04:56 AM
1

I at least got the credit card thing going but I’m pretty frugal which is not that attractive
/r/seduction13/08/22 09:54 PM
1

What if I haven’t been outside of my city in a month, fake it til I make it?
/r/seduction13/08/22 09:51 PM
-1

What fairytale? It’s probably the women that ask for money before meeting them that gives me that ‘fairytale’
/r/seduction27/07/22 07:34 PM
1

Ok I’m glad you added the difference between women with options and others that don’t have a lot goin on
/r/seduction27/07/22 07:31 PM
-2

Going out to eat is pretty expensive
/r/seduction27/07/22 07:30 PM
-10

hm so what would you suggest that would help change my mindset? i mean women today are different than they were even just 10 years ago, i dont want to generalize but alot of them only want money
/r/seduction27/07/22 02:38 PM
1

True, any ideas?
/r/seduction26/04/22 03:13 AM
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Well she doesn’t have a car so it would be closer to her place, and it also depends on the time of day as you wouldn’t bring her to get coffee at 6pm. But I see your point, maybe just bring food to her house if anything
/r/seduction25/04/22 08:36 PM
1

Is it a long read
/r/RedPillBooks24/04/22 11:31 PM
0

How do I know when a place is catering to women
/r/seduction09/04/22 06:01 AM
1

And why do you like night game
/r/seduction09/04/22 04:11 AM
1

oh ok, yeah shes only about half hour but when you have no car she might as well be across the counter
/r/seduction31/03/22 06:08 PM
1

I feel like girls now don’t even talk for something like that, I’ve ran into very dry ones
/r/seduction31/03/22 03:27 AM
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Sometimes we want them after the fact, hate when that happens. there’s a girl I’ve been talking to for a few months, unrelated to this post that I haven’t met simply because I don’t have a car. But I recently found a couple ways to get there but starting to think like is it too late. It def late, like interest has scaled down but is it still salvageable
/r/seduction31/03/22 03:26 AM
1

When you say distance, you mean like physical or emotional distance
/r/seduction31/03/22 01:32 AM
2

Lol that’s actually not terrible if there’s a store that has a few catches
/r/seduction30/03/22 08:47 PM
2

We’ll see that’s not me, if a chick tells me she’s not interested I leave them be
/r/seduction30/03/22 05:03 PM
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my happiness is of utmost importance, im not happy following that method. shes at a customer facing position, shes had to deal with some unruly customer im sure. someone who is nice and strikes up a short convo before asking for her number im sure would be a positive time there at work
/r/seduction30/03/22 03:50 PM
1

yeah i dont like this approach personally, especially if its a place i dont plan to frequent anyway.
/r/seduction30/03/22 02:26 PM
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yeah thats exactly my mindset, theres no good reason to not try except to not make it awkward at a place you frequent. but even then who cares, buy shit and go. is there a better sub for this topic
/r/seduction30/03/22 02:17 PM
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well who said they had to be rude or awkward? i mean, theyre expected to be nice in the realm of customer service, theres no handbook that will say you have to entertain a customer asking you out for a date
/r/seduction30/03/22 02:16 PM
1

and why not, what is the con in this situation
/r/seduction30/03/22 02:14 PM
2

oh for sure, my question was more or less the best way to go about it, not if i should or not lol just wanted some feedback on the more optimal way for success
/r/seduction30/03/22 02:14 PM
4

Too many variables here, what do you consider a good woman? And are you doing all this before actually being intimate with her or being exclusive
/r/seduction30/03/22 01:16 PM
1

Do you think one should buy something each time? I personally prefer the direct approach, was this something you’ve been successful with in the past
/r/seduction30/03/22 12:53 PM
2

Oh, that’s pretty slick
/r/seduction30/03/22 07:01 AM
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In really surprised at this subs response, had no idea that you shouldn’t talk to women just cuz they’re at their job. I mean, seems like a missed opportunity
/r/seduction30/03/22 04:52 AM
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yeah its because i do have a type but admittedly i dont get the opportunity for alot of parties etc. im trying to put myself out there more so i can meet new friends and go to clubs as well.
/r/seduction30/03/22 04:44 AM
1

Right, plus a lot of these sound athletic, gotta drop some before I’m at that level lol but I’ll keep that in mind.
/r/seduction29/03/22 12:51 AM
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yeah thats something i was thinking. but bars can be expensive if going alot, im also trying to be somewhat more healthier by laying off the alcohol. i can only drink but so much club soda lol
/r/seduction28/03/22 11:09 PM
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not really sure, one of the guys was a old friend so who knows how much effort he put in. i honestly dont care as they have a better advantage regardless
/r/seduction19/03/22 10:28 PM
1

lol she lives in the boonies, literally no way to get there
/r/seduction19/03/22 06:34 AM
1

I asked what happened the night before
/r/seduction19/03/22 04:23 AM
1

hm well it depends on what you consider low/high value. she has 5 kids that her ex husband are raising currently, shes a prep cook, does have her own house somehow? no car, behind on eletric bills etc . the other woman i speak are really not much better status wise. i do enjoy our interactions more than with anyone else. she said one time she made a scammer break character and profess his feelings, thats crazy im gonna really evaluate this, another post really made me think. if she wants casual,…
/r/seduction19/03/22 02:15 AM
1

Hm I assume you mean about the guy she chilled with. She claims she’s honest to a fault, I’m fairly certain she wouldn’t have told me if I didn’t ask. Idk I’ll play it by ear
/r/seduction19/03/22 01:43 AM
1

Like a casual platonic friend, no. I’d need some type of intimacy, It’s hard to tell cuz she has super hard flirted with me so it’s likely it would be more.
/r/seduction19/03/22 01:38 AM
1

She wants casual good vibes but not sex, atleast not frivolous. She said she doesn’t want her number to go up unless it’s something meaningful.
/r/seduction19/03/22 01:34 AM
1

If it was just sex I have girls for that around here to occupy that, it’s more than that with her
/r/seduction19/03/22 01:27 AM
1

Yeah, maybe it’s just what it is at this point. Too complicated, I should’ve acted sooner it feels like. I’m conflicted for sure
/r/seduction19/03/22 01:01 AM
1

It is but it would be like 100 round trip, I do have it but do I want to. She’s not doing the best finally so I doubt she could split it
/r/seduction19/03/22 12:32 AM
1

I mean she’s at work rn lol but I know what you mean, she’s invited me over a few times knowing damn well I don’t have a car
/r/seduction19/03/22 12:07 AM
1

Ayy my immune system is better than most atleast, one thing to be thankful of
/r/seduction19/03/22 12:01 AM
1

100%, that was my main question is just to see if it’s still worth going to meet her
/r/seduction18/03/22 11:49 PM
2

I can actually meet her just not as on a consistent basis as maybe some others. And I’d only go out of my way if I knew it was something meaningful, it’s really not to fuck her. There’s girls I can fuck who are closer if it was just that
/r/seduction18/03/22 11:25 PM
1

Yeah i agree. I can still do that though, she invited me to her house and skip the traditional date
/r/seduction18/03/22 11:19 PM
3

Hm I could of atleast been more definitive about what I was feeling and what I would like to happen. If she says no that’s fine but I atleast I know sooner rather than later
/r/seduction18/03/22 11:15 PM
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Yeah I agree, hindsight I should’ve atleast set out rules as soon as I started to feel something. Then at the very least she could say no and I can decide what to do from there. I feel like that would’ve helped for sure Well she only told me cuz I had suspicion of that day. Im pretty sure she wouldn’t have told me if i didn’t ask, she’s honest to a fault which is something I can appreciate, I’d rather have the truth than not know
/r/seduction18/03/22 11:11 PM
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She hasn’t fucked anyone since December, and she could’ve been lying but for some reason I think that’s the truth. Unless you meant the guy she messed around with in february, I mean it’s my fault for being emotionally invested and hindsight I should’ve put out rules as soon as I felt something And yes we’ve talked on the phone plenty and video chatted a handful of times. She has a good excuse now that she doesn’t have a car, as far as right now I can still go to her house which is what I planne…
/r/seduction18/03/22 11:08 PM
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Could you expand on that please with just an example. I try to be unbiased so she was single, technically it’s nothing wrong
/r/seduction18/03/22 10:54 PM
1

Not sure if you that was a question or comment but the amount of time I’ve invested with phone calls, video etc I just feel she could wait to see for me to come over before entertaining others.
/r/seduction18/03/22 10:48 PM
2

That’s true, it might be a lot easier once we meet in person
/r/seduction17/03/22 11:14 PM
1

Hm so just focus on foreplay mainly
/r/seduction17/03/22 09:55 PM
1

Yeah, maybe r/sex would be better
/r/seduction17/03/22 09:55 PM
1

This guy is a little too vulgar for me at times, doesn’t really match my energy overall. I actually don’t think about sex every second or think it’s nearly as important but I want to listen more. Is there someone else who’s similar but also has the same opinions as me
/r/seduction17/03/22 09:33 PM
1

Hm she does have a dog so this may be applicable, thanks
/r/seduction17/03/22 07:34 PM
1

Thanks, any particular video you’d recommend for that topic
/r/seduction17/03/22 07:28 PM
1

this is what i was thinking also, makes sense
/r/seduction14/03/22 03:47 PM
1

Oh I’m sure, I can tell you I had much better luck 5+ years ago
/r/seduction17/02/22 02:53 AM
1

I agree, but you really do too much to improve your face, but clothes and hair you can. I’ve just been very busy with my studies that I kinda don’t have as much time
/r/seduction17/02/22 02:52 AM
2

Actually good advice
/r/seduction17/02/22 02:45 AM
0

I honestly don’t know if I’m good looking or not, I haven’t had the best of luck the last few years on dating sites but neither have a lot of other guys. How does a guy know unless he does go out and test the waters?
/r/seduction17/02/22 02:43 AM
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One reason I don’t approach right now is because my outer game ain’t right. I could definitely use some better clothes and a nicer hair cut maybe? Plus I’m overweight as well
/r/seduction17/02/22 02:41 AM
1

We’re not talking sumplygood or bad
/r/seduction30/10/21 03:00 PM
-8

Well not all women are the same, I’m work in IT which is not the most exciting industry but I’m very lively and personable.
/r/seduction28/10/21 11:45 PM
1

Well that’s just like your opinion, man And you’re probably right but a lot of y’all don’t deserve respect so nope I don’t respect them unless they give me a reason to
/r/seduction28/10/21 11:44 PM
4

Thank you for pointing this out, I wouldn’t say it was hard to talk to her but she didn’t give me a lot of substance to work with. I also work better on the phone and a lot of these girls these days don’t like conversing
/r/seduction28/10/21 11:43 PM
1

I know man and thanks for the insight, but shit gets frustrating sometimes regardless of what you do. Just wanted to say it loud
/r/seduction28/10/21 11:42 PM
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I never down any job, shit I work in IT and unless you like tech the job is pretty full but pays well obviously.
/r/seduction28/10/21 11:41 PM
0

How is that even relevant, because you’re dating one means what?
/r/seduction28/10/21 11:40 PM
0

Since when does salary make a job interesting?
/r/seduction28/10/21 11:18 PM
5

Cheap as in? And you must be a chick talking like that
/r/seduction28/10/21 07:50 PM
1

Hm place closes at 7, doesn’t start getting dark till about close to 9. There’s a couple of other places in the area like Duncan and a local shop that close at 9 but it has a lot less atmosphere than the place I would take her
/r/seduction10/07/21 06:01 PM
1

Ok thanks makes sense. I’m a bigger guy so the button up may not be the best look
/r/seduction10/07/21 05:17 PM
1

Hm ok I think I’ll make it after dinner, thanks
/r/seduction10/07/21 04:18 PM
2

Hm ok, I was gonna go for 2 but maybe I’ll maybe it like after dinner hours 6 or 7
/r/seduction10/07/21 04:12 PM
3

She doesn’t really drink, only wine. And I’m trying to keep it low cost
/r/seduction10/07/21 04:10 PM
1

Thanks I see what you mean, I think I can pull off a similar look. I actually have to cancel at least where the date it cuz it’s supposed to rain, should I invite her to my house instead or just switch to something like a coffee place
/r/seduction09/07/21 08:41 PM
1

Thanks I was gonna go like a hike but I think a coffee shop is better. Is a tshirt and shorts considered dressed well?
/r/seduction09/07/21 12:32 AM
1

hm actually coats/blankets could work and is a good reason to cuddle up. and yes i could also meet them somewhere and then just get a ride back? i didnt know tiktok recommends local girls at all, ive never experienced that. i wonder if theres a tool to hack the algorhythms
/r/seduction26/10/20 11:10 PM
1

twitter is easily my least used social platform for meeting girls, simply because theres no good method to see exactly whos in your area in the same way you can on say tinder. i mean i guess if i meet someone as close as a state away or so itd be nice but i feel like its alot more competitive now. you mustve lived in atleast a metro city since you were meeting so many local girl consistently. if you have any tips to atleast find local women id be happy to hear it
/r/seduction26/10/20 09:58 PM
1

lol i actually have a pretty big backyard but its a little cold for a picnic, it was 45F at high noon today. if you have any other suggestions im open to it but i think moving forward im going to be more open about it and go form there. is there an option on tiktok to see local girls? i havent been on the app for a few months or so
/r/seduction26/10/20 09:54 PM
3

i mean anything, like you could be joking and they may take you seriously. you could say something sarcastically, i personally dont like texting at all
/r/seduction26/10/20 09:22 PM
1

i dont get too many matches on tinder, it is a decent place to atleast get their snap or insta and go from there but youre basically saying any one of the dating sites
/r/seduction26/10/20 06:07 PM
1

things get misunderstood through text, so you cant really talk the same way as you would in person
/r/seduction26/10/20 05:56 PM
1

i will say the only time i dont try as hard to pursue someone is if theyre on social media/dating site. only because i feel like they have enough attention that theyll either wont take me seriously or try to drain my bank account. theres a chick recently who claims is high maintenance, in which i quickly lost interest. shes a good friend though but if its someone you meet in person, you definitely have a fairshot as much as anyone. just have more confidence and i think youll be fine
/r/seduction17/10/20 06:07 PM
1

i picked up how to win friends and influence people, not sure if its a similar book but i heard good things
/r/seduction14/10/20 10:21 PM
1

ok whats would the best resource be to find local clubs
/r/seduction14/10/20 10:18 PM
1

ive been trying to join clubs/groups that get posted at local libraries and colleges to get myself out there to meet new people. problem is because of covid theres not alot going on, any suggestions in the states?
/r/seduction14/10/20 09:47 PM
7

to me looks are an excuse, trying is always better than not trying. just put your best self out there when you do
/r/seduction14/10/20 09:30 PM
1

that seems like a logical step, definately something to consider if anyone is having AA
/r/seduction08/10/20 05:59 PM
1

lol i see, well how do know when someone likes you before even approaching them
/r/seduction08/10/20 03:18 PM
1

hm and even if there was some resource it would be too time consuming to learn imo. i dont like having to convince too much to a chick tha tim worth her time, and isnt it kind of contradictory in a way to do all this for a potential chick and still think shes not on a pedostal? im fat too, whats your secret? i typical like curvy women as well so i think thats what i have going for me
/r/seduction08/10/20 03:02 PM
1

well i guess it depends of who you talk to, alot of these books will lead you to belive you can do different things to greatly improve your chances of having a girl be into you who otherwise wouldnt
/r/seduction08/10/20 02:54 PM
1

maybe the problem im having is the indirect examples theyre using in the book, maybe ill finish it first and see whats what
/r/seduction08/10/20 12:42 AM
1

are you allowed to just hangout at college campuses without being a student, i guess its fine till you get caught lol
/r/seduction07/10/20 08:00 PM
3

saw a couple girls i wanted to talk to, i was with my mom so it was awkward. next time im out, its a wrap
/r/seduction06/10/20 08:34 PM
1

well thats how i feel, alot of the info you see on the seduction reddit is better fit for a social events because oh how long the process is. if you approach someone on the street or grocery shopping time is not really on your side so you have to be vocal about your intent immediately
/r/RedPillBooks06/10/20 08:21 PM
1

yeah i might have to take you up on that, ive been curious how wearing masks are interfering with normal pickup. ill look into the youtubes
/r/seduction06/10/20 12:32 PM
1

i see lol ill try to find one in the grocery store. the on i ran into wasnt really fair since it was like a busy shopping center, hard to open in that environment
/r/seduction06/10/20 12:31 PM
1

that makes sense, ive been reading magic bullets and even though im not done it seems like alot of the stuff is more for any kind of social gatherings and venue . nothing that could be applied easy while shopping etc
/r/RedPillBooks06/10/20 12:30 PM
1

ass approach what ever do you mean. and i wouldnt mind watching that, any keywords i can look for
/r/seduction06/10/20 01:08 AM
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