I'm atleadt a year out of practice from my last approach just fyi. So I didn't feel like staying in the house today so I decided I'd go hiking and window shop afterwards. First time hiking so it was a bit uncomfortable, which is fine cuz I didn't see any women alone who I was interested in chatting up.
After went to the mall, took a short walk around before I sat down on a bench and waited to see anyone. Saw one women go into a store but I I didn't want to go into a store just to talk to her, and glad I did cuz her part nwr was lagging behind for some reason. Only realized when she walked out. Saw a couple other that were mildly cute but not worth the approach. Once I got up I was walking back the main entrance and it seems like some lady was walking behind me which seemed like her sister. I was maybe 10 steps ahead so I acted like I was looking at a game to slow down some, I then turned around and said "excuse me, I just to say you looked really nice" I think he response was thank you but I forget, I then asked if they were sisters because the chick seemed older so I thought i was flirting but I noticed she was younger than I thought, she ignored that anyway lol one thing I learned was my tone can be a lot better, I plan to record myself so you guys could here if that could be meaningful content
I then sat at the entrance a while, I saw one milf type walk by me and I wouldve got up to talk if she didn't go into tattoo shop. The funny thing is I saw her earlier but kinda disqualified her, but she looked better close. I could've followed her into the shop to talk but I feel like that wasn't the best look.
So after I got up and went into the shoe store to see if they have size 15s, I was browsing and saw a girl who was about a 6 at best, fairly cute. I used the same line as before but then said right after "are you single" I need to take this out of my vocab, anyway she said I was forward and proceeded to say she's not looking for a relationship. I then told her I could just give her my number if she wanted to hang out and just hmu if interested. I put my number in my phone and I'm pretty sure she saved it but not 100%, anyway I decided to leave
Went to Barnes and nobles, didn't really see anything in there. Could've stayed longer and scooped it out but wasn't really feeling it, for the record this might be my best location just because of the vibe. It's a book store with a coffee shop in the corner of it, pretty nifty. Uh went to target after, I was behind this milf in a isle, waited til I ran into in the next isle to use the best line you heard "you look really nice/are you single" which she said no. Didn't really see anything else worthwhile so left
Went to a clothing store, seen some mildly attractive girls but noone I wanted to talk to, woman came in with a nirvana hoody. I walked from half way across the store to say "hey, I love your hoody" said thank you! And proceeded to tell me she got it to Walmart for $20 (might have to hunt down that hoodie section) so this was weird, I was having a decent conversation saying it may not come in my size etc. My body language was shifting slightly to the side, which may have told her I was trying to leave. I kinda randomly told her she has pretty eyes which she said I'm so nice and thank you, she hopes I have a nice day. I didn't ask for a number obviously, but I'm not sure if that was disinterest or she thinks I was trying to go
That's the last one, pretty lackluster day but I'm glad I went out. A few takeaways
I can definitely work on my tone when I say my opener and maybe my approach? Like say something immediately when I see them, I get a little nervous when other people are around which I need to get over because you'll not always get the opportunity to talk somewhat privately. I definitely need to think about continuing conversation, or don't even compliment them til after some conversation. Um I may be approaching the wrong type of women, I'm pretty sure every girl I talked to was over 30 at least, which may not be in my favor but then again my approach wasn't the best either
Um I may need better clothes, or dres better overall. I'm not a slob but I wasn'twearing anything top tier. That's it, I'm open to any and all feedback. I'm excited to get out there and try to see what creative ways I can improve my process
there doesn't seem to be anything here