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Because we love self-improvement ;)
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 01:43 AM
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I was reading your flaws thinking wow this sounds a bit like me... lo and behold youre also an INFJ!
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 01:43 AM
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holding my self accountable is something I'm big on! I'm constantly self assessing and trying to be a better me (which is what led me to this sub) but you struck a chord with me when you said I need to decide what a good day looks like. I haven't really done that, I think in part that was why I made this post, because I'm not yet sure what I want a good day to look like. Thank you for putting that in perspective for me!
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/17 12:37 AM
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I just wanted to add that I just saw your post in the side bar about responsiveness and oh my goodness, thank you again! That was immensely helpful and something that i struggle with all the time
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/17 12:35 AM
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I really think this is it. I need to recognize my strengths and work with them not against them, and let go of my fear of vulnerability. I don't know what your profession is but you did a great job at helping me get to the bottom of this, thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/17 08:58 PM
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Now that I think about it, I associate sharing about myself with making myself vulnerable to the other person. And vulnerability is something I pretty much stay away from.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/17 08:43 PM
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I do recommend to try to talk about yourself sometimes - I usually share stories about my own life I don't really like to talk about myself much, not because I'm insecure about myself but because I just like to stay very private. I usually make friends by listening, getting to know the person and being there for them when they need me. But this hasn't really been successful in terms of dating. Is there a middle ground, I guess sharing a comfortable amount about yourself but not indulging on ever…
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/17 07:42 PM
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Thank you! As an introvert, finding the balance between personal time and social time can be difficult. I will check that assertiveness article out right now as well :)
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/17 07:24 PM
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Thank you! I believe I've been falsely conditioned into thinking that the loud, dominating confidence that many of my girlfriends exude is the way to go. They tend to get a lot of attention (from men and other women) in social situations while I find myself observing the whole thing in fascination lol. I already do many of the things you listed as confident behaviour, I guess I just need to recognize it as that and be happy with it/myself now too.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/17 07:22 PM
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What I struggle with is being myself in social situations, particularly when I'm not familiar with the people/person I'm around. If I be myself, then I tend to feel unnoticed in group settings as I sit back and let others do the talking while I quietly observe and listen. I don't necessarily want to be loud and outspoken, and I don't even want a ton of attention, but I don't want to be the fly on the wall either
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/17 07:19 PM
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Thank you! this was very helpful. You don't owe it to anyone to be loud or outspoken. This is something I forget often. The trouble is, I feel like if I'm not outspoken I come across as boring, both to women and men. Maybe I'm wrong, thoughts?
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/17 07:13 PM
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lol ok
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/16 09:19 PM
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RPW theory says that you should always wait for commitment before sex. Also, I'm a bit concerned.. you two have been getting to know each other for several months, as in dating for several months, and you're still not exclusive yet? I understand that some people like to take it slow, but to me that would be a red flag.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/16 06:03 AM
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You are advising women to sleep with someone whom they just met, without commitment. That goes against the core of every RPW principle. Your'e also advising women to play childish mind games, which is just wrong and annoying. None of the "advice" you have given here would be helpful to finding and keeping a LTR with a high quality man, which is the ultimate goal of most of the women on this sub.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/16 04:13 AM
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Huh? Is this a serious post? Where is the downvote button?
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/16 03:56 AM
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Lol, I started when I was 17... my birthday is in December...
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/16 03:44 PM
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lol yeah I thought it was pretty mild as well but Idk, still new to RP theory so i was unsure, thanks for the input!
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/16 12:53 PM
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Well there's no way I would know if he knew anything about shit tests unless I brought it up to see how he responded... which would in a sense be another shit test, no?
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/16 11:20 AM
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Hi! I see a lot of positive things in your post and things that can be worked on without a problem. and I'm a virgin. Never even kissed a guy yet. most of my friends are girls anyway A quality man will not see these things as a problem, and being a virgin is definitely not a bad thing. I don't go out much to clubs and stuff like that, so I don't really have the opportunity to meet guys. Unless you're looking for a casual hook up, this is not the kind of place you want to meet guys anyway (assumi…
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/16 01:25 PM
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Good for you for putting more effort into your appearance! As they say, "look good, feel good". I'm in the same situation and have recently been dressing up a bit more for class and it really does make a difference in how I feel about myself. First of all, don't wear anything that you feel too uncomfortable/ awkward in. Its okay to push the boundaries of your comfort zone a little at a time, but if something truly makes you feel uncomfortable it will show in your body language and this will have…
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/16 01:03 PM
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Awww, I'm so happy everything is working out for you! I have been following your other posts and was wondering how it worked out for you, so thank you for updating us. Sounds like you have a great man!
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/16 12:52 PM
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This is a good perspective on it. So moderation seems to be the key here.. well, at least thats how I feel about men who play video games lol
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/16 08:36 PM
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interesting read! thank you
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/16 02:52 PM
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Thank you! I love reading your advice on here
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/16 01:09 AM
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What are RPW views on social media use like instagram/snapchat/facebook etc? for both single women and women in relationships. Is it a hindrance, a positive, or neutral?
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/16 08:18 PM
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I really appreciate you touching on the emotional aspect of this! I tend to build up hopes in my head of how I want people to be when I meet them, and this often leads to disappointment. So I would definitely have to try to be more guarded with that
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/16 02:25 PM
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Haha yeah I'm pretty introverted so when I do go to social events it requires effort and usually leaves me pretty tired and wanting to go curl up with a book and be left alone. Great sometimes but not when looking for an LTR lol
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/16 12:53 AM
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Thank you! I'm glad to be learning from all you ladies here and it's nice to know my more so traditional views are shared by others as well!
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/16 12:48 AM
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Thank you! I'm glad to be learning from all you ladies here and it's nice to know my more so traditional views are shared by others as well!
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/16 12:48 AM
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Thanks for your response. I definitely agree that being in uni makes it easier for me to meet potential captains. As it is I struggle with meeting people due to shyness, so I think it's best if I take advantage of my time in college where meeting people is easier and there's already some common ground to go on. Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/16 09:25 PM
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Thank you! I'll try this!
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/16 03:29 AM
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Haha yeah a lot of this is very very traditional which I like, to an extent, but I think the theories behind RPW make a lot of sense. Thank you for the advice, I am going to do the list you have suggested!
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/16 03:29 AM
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