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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | Used to be big into pickup, now I'm gay. But I thought I'd share an interesting perspective for whatever it's worth.Homosexuality is way more complicated and diverse then I thought. My attraction to girls has not gone away, I've just developed less interest in them in terms of intimacy. And I do quite well for myself in the gay arena that I just don't feel the need to go after girls any more and all the effort and stress that often comes with it. My answer is always the same: I think i'm just gay, but right now I'm not sure and I'm not too concerned about it. It'll figure itself out." | /r/seduction | 02/05/17 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Used to be big into pickup, now I'm gay. But I thought I'd share an interesting perspective for whatever it's worth.Hmmm. I can't really comment on the daytime part. Simply because on a daily basis you just don't run into many other gays unless you live in one of a very few gay pockets in this country. I would probably react similarly but that's just my personality. When I'm out doing shit during the day, I want people to fuck off and let me get my shit done. Cause it's kind of a stereotype that gay men are pretty aggressive lol. I think men in general can be pretty aggressive. We just don't often see from th… | /r/seduction | 02/05/17 04:24 PM |
| 7 | Used to be big into pickup, now I'm gay. But I thought I'd share an interesting perspective for whatever it's worth.Haha yeah I guess I was always attracted to both sexes but did my best not to mind the gay part growing up. It really wasn't some horrible conflict I had inside me. I just wanted to live a straight lifestyle I guess, and since I was pretty darn good at it, it made it a little easier to live with myself. I honestly didn't know how into guys I was until about 2 years ago where I was in a pretty good place and finally said "fuck it, let's try this gay stuff, only live once right?" Well one of my fi… | /r/seduction | 02/05/17 04:06 PM |
| 4 | Used to be big into pickup, now I'm gay. But I thought I'd share an interesting perspective for whatever it's worth.Nah man. I'm trying to say is you just need to first, work on your inner self. When a girl can sense fear, it means she can sense that what she thinks of you matters to you. If she can see it in your eyes that her bitchy little rejection game doesn't mean shit to you, then you have a way better chance. The difficulty is the fact that you can't fake that confidence. It has to be real, and most guys try to fake it, hence their low success rate. | /r/seduction | 02/05/17 05:28 AM |
| 4 | Used to be big into pickup, now I'm gay. But I thought I'd share an interesting perspective for whatever it's worth.this is what I was missing and you said it perfectly. My perspective came off a little too hopeless, which i didn't intend. | /r/seduction | 02/05/17 05:22 AM |
| 8 | Used to be big into pickup, now I'm gay. But I thought I'd share an interesting perspective for whatever it's worth.What I'm trying to say is. It's like owning a tiger. Some douche that just loves tigers is going to get his fucking face ripped off. But someone that understands tigers, that knows what's going in that fucked up tiger head of theirs, will be much more successful. | /r/seduction | 02/05/17 05:17 AM |
| 3 | Used to be big into pickup, now I'm gay. But I thought I'd share an interesting perspective for whatever it's worth.Wait. No. Fuck. I uuhhhh. | /r/seduction | 02/05/17 05:13 AM |
| 7 | You and a girl are at a music venue. Older, more attractive, and more "alpha" dude walks up and starts hitting on the girl. What do you do?Agreed. Everything else he was saying was pretty solid and then this. | /r/seduction | 28/03/14 11:55 PM |
| 3 | [FR] F-closed a random girl I took a photo for on a night out thanks to simple tips from Seddit.So this is what happened, everyone: Guy meets a cute chick and starts talking to her. Guy is attracted to the cute chick and so he acts like a normal dude that's attracted to this cute chick. Chick digs it, our man succeeds. That's right, it really is just that simple fellas. It's not all that complicated. Well done brotha. | /r/seduction | 27/05/13 01:30 AM |
| 4 | You know what, fuck it. Today is the day I make progress.You're doing it right. | /r/seduction | 10/03/13 05:34 PM |
| 3 | A perspective on women.Something tells me this post was upvoted mainly by women... | /r/seduction | 30/09/12 03:11 PM |
| 2 | Inner game is all about falling in love with yourself.When I'm on a roll and I'm getting a lot of pussy, I say to myself out loud, "now is a very prosperous time in the kingdom." | /r/seduction | 11/09/12 04:57 PM |
| 4 | Seddit has a problem and so do you.Thank you for callin out the canned material/NLP. Such a joke. But I gotta tell ya, it's just not that easy for a lot of people. Reading some of this shit, and watching (pirating) dvds is exteremyl helpful. It was for me. The other great thing about pickup is that I have yet to pay a dime for anything i've learned. Gotta love them internets. | /r/seduction | 23/06/12 01:18 PM |
| 6 | I think it's worth clarifying what exactly it is that we do here on Seddit.Why thank you my little bundle of cold hard evidence :) | /r/seduction | 07/06/12 10:21 PM |
| 40 | I think it's worth clarifying what exactly it is that we do here on Seddit.Only half joking man. If you say those exact words with the right framing, I can guarantee you it'll work. | /r/seduction | 07/06/12 10:17 PM |
| 2 | I think it's worth clarifying what exactly it is that we do here on Seddit.Those are not "high level" tactics. That is a particular school of thought, and one that I don't take kindly to. | /r/seduction | 07/06/12 08:08 PM |
| -2 | I think it's worth clarifying what exactly it is that we do here on Seddit.^ This | /r/seduction | 07/06/12 08:03 PM |
| 18 | I think it's worth clarifying what exactly it is that we do here on Seddit.And a simple, casual approach like that will get you laid my good sir. Just you wait. | /r/seduction | 07/06/12 08:00 PM |
| 24 | I think it's worth clarifying what exactly it is that we do here on Seddit.Yeah, I had a lot of loud angry sports coaches when I was a kid. | /r/seduction | 07/06/12 05:30 PM |
| 24 | I think it's worth clarifying what exactly it is that we do here on Seddit.very well put. I'm in a very good place right now overall both mentally and physically and this all stems from learning "seduction." Sex hasn't changed since the dawn of man: you can't fake the qualities that attract females, mother nature just doesn't let that shit fly. | /r/seduction | 07/06/12 04:15 PM |
| 22 | [FR] How to initiate sex with a guy and get what you want (F-close)!So ummm. I'm sure OP is a girl. But she never explicitly clarified that... I was visualizing something very different while reading this FR. | /r/seduction | 21/04/12 12:02 AM |
| 1 | I would like to thank the living shit out of you, Seddit, as well as share some thoughts.Totally understandable. I'll probly give it a gander. | /r/seduction | 23/03/12 03:31 AM |
| 1 | I would like to thank the living shit out of you, Seddit, as well as share some thoughts.Your LR's are great, man. But dude you gotta do more podcasts! "Girls Love Dick" has had a greater influence on my approach to women then all other pickup material combined. Thanks a ton man, you really helped me out big time. | /r/seduction | 23/03/12 12:17 AM |
| 1 | I would like to thank the living shit out of you, Seddit, as well as share some thoughts.You see, "thinking too long" and thinking the opportunity is "lost" is nothing more then a product of your own imagination and exists nowhere else in the universe. That girl is entirely unaware of any such barriers between you and her because those barriers do not truly exist outside of your mind. All these things you just listed are textbook moves by your mind to beg you, for the love of god, not to go anywhere near that girl for fear of the unknown. Now, in the context in which I'm using it in… | /r/seduction | 23/03/12 12:12 AM |
| 3 | What to do when someone says.."Who is this guy?""I'm the guy that does his job. You must be the otha guy." There's a Departed quote for every social situation. | /r/seduction | 10/03/12 10:47 PM |
| 4 | Amazingly, an honestly self-aware girl (x-post from /r/funny)Pickup Podcast. But I wouldn't recommend it. It's cool to listen to interviews with a lot of the top names in pick-up but outside of that it has little value. Manwhore's podcast on the other hand. Fuckin gold. EDIT: Episodes #25 and #120 of Pickup Podcast were HUGE eye openers for me personally, but the vast majority of these guys' podcasts are basically PUA's talking about - and thus trying to sell - their products. | /r/seduction | 10/01/12 03:57 AM |
| 5 | Amazingly, an honestly self-aware girl (x-post from /r/funny)If she said "bla bla bla friendzone, it's because you're a pussy," fine, by all means be a bitch about it. But a vague ass statement like "it's because we're not attracted to you," could not have been a worse thing to say. As if guys in the friendzone weren't already confused, they now have to figure wtf this girl means by "attractive." | /r/seduction | 10/01/12 03:32 AM |
| 31 | Amazingly, an honestly self-aware girl (x-post from /r/funny)Neil Strauss made it perfectly clear on this podcast I was listening to. "It's not about nice guys vs assholes. It's about being strong vs. being weak." If you're in the friend zone it's because your niceness causes the girl to perceive you as weak. Oh and fuck this girl, acting like a total bitch. | /r/seduction | 10/01/12 03:00 AM |
| 1 | [FR] F-close and a Day 2We had never interacted until that night so yeah, i was a pretty random guy. The hook-up? Yeah that was pretty random too, it was 4 dudes and 1 girl and shes kinda like one of the guys. No one was really out for the purpose of getting laid it was a pretty quiet saturday. We weren't stone cold sober so booze certainly factored in a bit at least. And I mean shit I was blowin up her phone the next morning trying to get back in her panties, i'd say that's coming on a little too hard. | /r/seduction | 30/11/11 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Regarding these posts about success outside of seduction, what do you do that leaves you feeling satisfied?Exactly. Working out provides both long and very short terms goals that you can conquer. Yes, there is the satisfaction of months, even years of hard work paying off. But it is also a very straightforward process to feeling satisfied one day at a time. There's nothing abstract or complicated about it. Get in the gym, be a man, and bust your fuckin ass for 1-2 hours. Only a pussy will grimace and not fight through a tough workout. It's that simple. Go out and beat the shit out of your body and af… | /r/seduction | 09/11/11 05:07 AM |
| 1 | On texting.Agreed. I've always been good at txt conversations and really getting girls attracted. Then I started using the whole "too busy for you" technique that most PUA websites and forums swear by and it completely fucked me over. This is one of the few areas where I don't revert back to the PUA community for guidance. | /r/seduction | 09/09/11 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Can you guys give me some pointers as to how spice up my love life?Handcuffs. This podcast will explain everything. Normally these guys are only mildly interesting. But this one interview is just spot the fuck on. | /r/seduction | 09/09/11 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Abundance mentality pays offI can definitely relate to this. When I started out, I researched very intensely for just a few days and the difference was like night and day. I'd also like to add that when guys are just starting out at this, it helps to just go out and experiment with your new-found knowledge, not even having much intention of closing that night. Just keep approaching girls, remember what you've learned, employ those things, and simply note how girls react to you. Make sure to use every interaction, success o… | /r/seduction | 22/08/11 02:47 PM |
| 3 | Fucking Lesbians.I don't know bout the whole part about lesbians needing cock, from all the lesbians I know (as in like, completely lesbian), that's just not true. But I can definitely reiterate that lesbian couples tend to be significantly less exclusive. Most of my lesbian friends, unless in a VERY serious relationship, will date/fuck multiple people. Shit they even meet up with their multiple dates at the same bar/club. And this is the thing that, as a masculine straight dude, absolutely baffled me at first: … | /r/seduction | 19/08/11 02:38 AM |
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