First off let me say this kind of success is still out of the ordinary for me. Was introduced to the community about 4 months ago so still very new to all this. I'll definitely post some failures as it's much more productive then this shit but I figured this would be a good start for my first post on r/seduction. Apologies for the length but hey, gotta give all the details, hopefully it's helpful.
Saturday night I meet up with my friend and a couple of his buddies that I didn't really know. Had no expectations just wanted to chill and have a good night. We're at his place, having drinks, shooting the shit. Then this HB8 comes over, she looked familiar but I didn't know her name or anything and I made it known. She said she knew who I was, that she'd seen me around. I'd been too outcome dependent lately so I didn't make much of it, I was fairly quiet the whole night, definitely the most sober one besides maybe her.
We leave and go into this dive bar, maybe like 10 other people are in the place when we get there. The three other guys I'm with are all pretty sloshed, so on the way there and once we get to the bar I figured I could at least be calm, collected and shoot the shit with her, not heating things up by any means though. We're at the bar and suddenly she's giving IOIs; touching me, eye contact, etc. I initiate some kino and begin taking a more caveman type approach, holding her pretty tight, just kinda staring her down. From then it was pretty much on.
We all go back to her place, which is a dam nice apartment, I basically just chill the fuck out, everyone knows what's gonna happen so I give her less attention and just have fun with everybody to keep the pressure off her. The boys eventually leave, boots are knocked and that's that.
So she txts me the next morning to apologize about some shit she said last night and I brush it off, tell her no worries then figure 'fuck it, let me see if this girl wants to bone al day.' The following convo ensues. It's a bit shortened to keep the fluff out.
ME: what r u doin today?
HER: watching adventureland, kristen stewart keeps doing that hair pull thing you were doing last night.
ME (trying to sexualize things): yeah i don't care for twilight but kristen stewart turns me the fuck on in adventureland (this girl kinda looks like kristen stewart).
HER: haha I like her in this
ME: Oh man if only we could tag team her.
HER: I'm down let's find her.
ME: Not sure where she is but there's this girl I know that looks just like her that could use a good bang.
She proceeds to give me resistance, saying she's afraid her friend I hooked up with would be mad. I basically play it cool, saying she's got nothing to worry about in various ways, making it known that i'll take care of whatever bullshit happens. She continues to resist, showing apprehension, sort of teasing me. So, on a whim, the gloves come off.
ME: how bout I fuck you senseless and you can have that to think on.
HER: haha I don't even sleep with random people any more that's what freshman year was for.
ME: Who says I'm random?
HER: Didn't say random person said random sex haha.
ME: who says the sex has to be random?
HER: haha I'm not gonna win this one am I?
She's clearly showing reservations and I just treat it as a shit test, demonstrating that I know exactly what I want, not gonna apologize for it and that I have it all under control. She obviously just wants to be reassured that I'm a normal guy that's not just hounding for her pussy, so that's what I do, I reassure her.
ME: haha no. Look if there's something you're worried about then how bout we just hang out later today or this week. no sex required.
HER: That sounds good.
So we have a day 2, long story short I made no advances just acted totally normal, assuring her I was a regular nice guy she can be comfortable around. Walk her back to her place, smooch her on the lips and we part ways.
Day 3: boots were knocked, end of story.
EDIT: Post-Game Reaction: Fact is this wasn't a very impressive/skillful close. A mountain of external factors were playing in my favor. I'm a bit of a drifter, so I held a higher status in that group which I usually don't have in social gatherings. With this particular group I've been able to create an image as the guy who makes a rare appearance and when he does he's hooking up with someone. Also, there was no one else to game her, I was this cool collected guy just enjoying myself while everyone else was a drunken mess. All I had to do was fill in the gaps with what little I've learned so far from the seduction community. What I can take away from this is the importance of skills that are outside of the act of sarging ie. social circles, creating a certain image of yourself, etc. Thanks to the seduction community I've realized that this is how a lot of my past hook-ups have worked out. By correctly positioning oneself into a given social circle, that position will basically do a lot of the work for you.
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