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There’s no way that will work LMAO. And even if it does, I just can’t see myself saying something like that. It’s not part of my personality and it’s not my vibe. It’d honestly sound odd coming from me.
/r/seduction07/01/22 07:45 AM
1

Thats really helpful. Will definitely give it a shot then. Any particular types of places I should go then to practice cold approach by myself?
/r/seduction25/12/21 07:15 AM
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You’re very obviously trying to tear me down with your negativity. I feel like you’re putting too much emphasis on your virginity. You have to realize that women aren’t just going to come up to you and take your clothes off - even if you’re a high value man. As men, we are the ones who have to put the initiative. I’m aware I’m a virgin because I never put that initiative in; I never approach women and I never ask girls I know out. Like I said, it’s a skill like anything else in life. Just becaus…
/r/seduction24/12/21 05:43 PM
3

Well, I’m pretty happy with myself even being a virgin. Plus, I’ve had opportunities to lose my virginity in the past, but chose not to. It doesnt mean anything to me. And honestly, you come off more as an incel than a virgin. We are not the same.
/r/seduction24/12/21 05:24 PM
3

Nah you’re a self wallowing depressed kid who is trying to take others down with him. Touch some grass man.
/r/seduction24/12/21 05:21 PM
4

Maybe you should change your definition of what high value means. When I think high value, I think I have a lot to offer to a woman. I have my life together, I’m fit and practice healthy habits, and people generally think I’m charismatic and a good person to be around. I just need to do better initiating and being sexual. It’s a skill like anything else. Just because I’m not great at this one skill doesn’t mean I’m not high value and that I don’t have anything to offer. But regardless, your opin…
/r/seduction24/12/21 04:59 PM
5

Jesus bro, you’re a moron. For one, I never said my friends think I’m weird around girls. I said they are against approaching women we don’t know in general. Has nothing to do with me. And second, just because I’m a virgin doesn’t necessarily make me a low value guy. I have a lot going for myself besides not having sex with anybody. Also seeing your post history, it’s very obvious you’re projecting your insecurities of being ugly and a virgin onto me. Lmao.
/r/seduction24/12/21 04:40 PM
1

Don’t worry, I’m quite aware of what my flaws are
/r/seduction24/12/21 04:38 PM
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I’m just trying to step out of my comfort zone. And it’s not that they think the way I approach women is creepy; they just generally aren’t fond of going up to women you don’t know
/r/seduction24/12/21 06:56 AM
1

Not really. I don’t think I have depression because I have no trouble continuing other activities in my life. But I will often have these intense few days or weeks where I will feel extremely frustrated with myself and my life (lack of sexual experience, bullying from the past, loneliness, etc.), such as now. I don’t want to talk with my family and I just want to isolate myself.
/r/seduction23/12/21 09:47 PM
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Good to know that there is nothing I can do to make myself more desirable. I’ve done everything in my power to improve, but height is something I can’t change. Hearing shit like this makes me wanna just die - why did I have to be born the way I was
/r/seduction23/12/21 09:25 PM
1

I’m 5’7 and he’s like 5’9 or almost 5’10 I think
/r/seduction23/12/21 08:58 PM
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Yeah, I’m quite aware that I need therapy. But one, it’s really expensive. And two, it’s really hard to find a GOOD therapist. I’ve tried several. One even said it was “odd” that I haven’t been in any relationship at my age. So, I’m not a huge fan of therapy. And also, I really don’t need you making assumptions on what my intentions are and what I’m doing/not doing. A lot of these posts are a way of speaking my pains and letting it all out…and I really am trying to get better. But it’s a long pr…
/r/seduction23/12/21 07:26 PM
1

Yeah, we’re not all dealt the best cards in life. I honestly wouldn’t be surprised if I killed myself off sometime soon. I’d rather die young than live a life long enough to see everyone around me start families as I suffer from loneliness
/r/seduction23/12/21 05:38 PM
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Yes I was bullied a lot more in high school than my brother
/r/seduction23/12/21 05:33 PM
1

No my brother is really supportive and has tried to help me figure out what’s wrong…but he’s surprised as I am and doesn’t know what he’s doing differently that I’m not
/r/seduction23/12/21 05:25 PM
3

Never said I wanted to kill women or that I hate women, jackass
/r/seduction23/12/21 01:25 PM
4

Well I’ve assumed it these past few years once I was able to reap the benefits of having worked on myself. But nothing changed. Girls still didn’t give a fuck about me. Would act like I wasn’t even there
/r/seduction23/12/21 07:09 AM
5

It’s stuff like this that makes me not even wanna try. The game is already set up for the winners to keep winning. I struggle so much trying to keep it going with one girl - no chance I’ll be able to get to a point where multiple women want me.
/r/seduction23/12/21 06:11 AM
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Huh? I’m only 21, people still used snapchat and all that when i was in high school
/r/seduction23/12/21 05:30 AM
3

People say that, but then I read comments from guys in their 30s and 40s wishing they were more sexually active when they were younger. Honestly, I’m afraid and I feel so much pressure. My biggest fear is growing old and regretting not having been in enough relationships or sexual experiences. I honestly would consider suicide before having to live a life long enough knowing I couldn’t sexually attract a single woman.
/r/seduction23/12/21 04:20 AM
6

Yeah, my parents love me a lot. My mom honestly favors me more than my brother, though she loves us both very much. But validation from your parents isn’t necessarily the same as validation from your peers.
/r/seduction23/12/21 04:18 AM
6

Honestly, it’s my biggest fear. Growing old knowing I couldn’t experience sex and relationships like I should have. People say that it comes with time, but time is so short. I would much rather kill myself than live a life long enough to know that I wasn’t even able to sexually attract a single woman.
/r/seduction23/12/21 04:16 AM
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It’s not so much about the relationships; it’s more about the validation. I just wish I had girls showing attraction to me like they are to my brother…just so I know that I’m attractive and can be seen as a promising sexual partner for women. I’ve never had that sort of validation. Women are comfortable having me as a friend…but never in my life has a woman ever showed initial sexual attraction to me right off the bat. Never got a compliment in my life.
/r/seduction23/12/21 04:14 AM
2

Well honestly, I’m pretty involved with doing activities at my college. But I never have much luck regardless.
/r/seduction23/12/21 04:12 AM
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I guess he’s more outgoing than I am. But despite me being in a bigger pond, usually dating in college is easier? I haven’t had much luck tbh…but regardless, the fact that there are girls shooting their shot with him first makes me astounded, even if it’s a little pond.
/r/seduction23/12/21 04:10 AM
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I’m 21. Idk, I never had much validation growing up. It would be nice if I knew how much people cared about my existence. Sometimes I just feel like if I died, no one would really bother to care that much.
/r/seduction23/12/21 04:08 AM
11

Nah, society makes sexual experience such a big deal. Everyone expects you to have some sort of sexual experience my age and I have absolutely none. It’s hard not to think that there is something wrong with me
/r/seduction23/12/21 01:41 AM
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Yeah I guess. Despite not having to be distracted by that stuff and having my life together, it just sucks that I never got to experience having people to text constantly. No one ever texts me or hits me up.
/r/seduction23/12/21 12:48 AM
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I have and I asked him what he was doing that I wasn’t. He suggested I try to look more “fuckboy” like him - but tbh, he has no clue why I’m not doing as well as he is
/r/seduction23/12/21 12:16 AM
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I don’t think we’re all that close to where I can comfortably just call her lol. Haven’t even had a first date yet
/r/seduction19/12/21 06:46 PM
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I’m not discouraging guys to put themselves out there - there are countless other ways a man can put himself out there instead of going to a night club. You must have a very limited view on what socializing even means then, because meeting people doesn’t always have to be when you’re drunk and out on a Saturday night
/r/seduction17/12/21 04:23 PM
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I don’t get why the idea of someone not liking clubbing is so triggering to you…? A man can hate dancing with sweaty people and loud music, but still find good, if not higher quality women elsewhere. It has nothing to do with being an “enlightened man”. You’re probably one of those suckers who uses “alpha” and “beta” unironically
/r/seduction17/12/21 03:23 PM
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As soon as I heard “true, enlightened man”, I knew you were full of bullshit
/r/seduction17/12/21 03:09 PM
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I feel you. I hate clubbing, but that seems like the most common way to meet girls in your 20’s. Honestly, if you don’t genuinely enjoy that kind of scene, there’s no point in going. Girls are only going to be attracted to the guys who naturally look like they’re having a good time. I’d just go to places that you actually enjoy being at - chill at a park, go to a museum, a library, whatever it is…there will likely be girls there. Just show curiosity and interest in people wherever you go and you…
/r/seduction17/12/21 05:13 AM
3

That ain’t push pull bro. That’s just overt pressure and harassment.
/r/seduction15/12/21 06:29 AM
2

This is so dramatic lmao, feels like an incel wrote this. Yeah maybe this applies to girls who have little to no regard for what makes up a man besides dominance, wealth, and height. Generally, genuine women value personality and a man’s values as well. Some might argue it may even have more weight than wealth and height…
/r/seduction14/12/21 09:54 PM
6

The key is to not give a girl too much attention over text. Save the attention for when you are hanging out with her. It’s okay to have some small talk over text, but use text as a means of making plans and getting to see her. Otherwise, she’ll just use you for attention until she gets bored
/r/seduction14/12/21 03:25 AM
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Probably because you’re “super nice”. People dont like super nice people. Just be true to yourself
/r/seduction14/12/21 01:58 AM
2

That means you’re codependent..never a good thing in or out of a relationship. Definitely look into it
/r/seduction13/12/21 06:49 AM
1

Well looks like you’re in the same position as me then. I would spend more time working on yourself in any way you can. Whether that is working out, eating healthier, reading books, etc…just be productive and do good things for yourself and you will naturally value yourself more. That’s what I did and girls are giving me looks and willing to talk to me a lot more than before. Also, try to have an abundance mentality. Girls love it when guys have options…a man’s attention means nothing to her if …
/r/seduction13/12/21 06:38 AM
1

Well how old are you
/r/seduction13/12/21 06:33 AM
1

That probably means you need to work on creating a better relationship with yourself and valuing time with yourself more. I feel like I’ve done a lot of self development and growth on my own, and I’m ready for a gf, but I just have no game
/r/seduction13/12/21 06:29 AM
4

You’re telling me man, I’m 21 and never had a girlfriend
/r/seduction13/12/21 06:09 AM
10

She’s never your girl; it’s just your turn
/r/seduction13/12/21 05:59 AM
1

I’m not a huge fan of dating apps. I don’t really get many matches
/r/seduction13/12/21 05:28 AM
1

Thats fair, but like, how do you get dates in the first place lol
/r/seduction13/12/21 05:12 AM
1

Just wondering, any tips for dating after college? I’m 21
/r/seduction13/12/21 05:02 AM
1

Damn how old r u btw
/r/seduction13/12/21 04:53 AM
1

I have no game, could you explain how exactly theyre sexually assertive
/r/seduction13/12/21 04:28 AM
2

What are the other 2 guys doing that this guy isn’t specifically
/r/seduction13/12/21 04:01 AM
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I am that guy. A lot of girls are initially interested in me, find out I have no game, then leave. I would tell him that you like him and be straight up - in fact, be the one to make a move on him (ex. Kiss him).
/r/seduction13/12/21 01:48 AM
0

I hope so, it was a risky text. I’m still working on flirting and teasing…not the greatest strength of mine lol
/r/seduction12/12/21 02:55 AM
1

Damn, I was trying to make it in the context of something romantic lol. We’re planning on getting drinks together so I figured she was romantically interested
/r/seduction12/12/21 02:51 AM
2

This was super helpful, thanks. Was confused with everyone here saying “be a bad boy”, but this comment made the most sense to me
/r/seduction08/12/21 07:31 PM
7

Yeah. But the thing is, I don’t understand why people here think being kind and having boundaries are mutually exclusive. I’m a nice guy, but I don’t let people walk over me. When that happens, I don’t waste my time and I leave
/r/seduction08/12/21 06:49 PM
1

But you can be kind and gentle, while still maintaining your boundaries and showing self worth? I don’t understand why so many people here think they are mutually exclusive?
/r/seduction08/12/21 06:35 PM
2

Got it. Can you elaborate on how exactly I can be an asshole? I don’t think I’m being too nice or a pushover - it’s not like I’m constantly complimenting them or sucking up. I usually have a pretty laid back vibe. But maybe I need to learn how to be more dominant
/r/seduction08/12/21 06:19 PM
1

Yeah that’s what I was thinking. Now what if I’m dealing with a girl that is showing a lot of interest in me right off the bat? Should I match that energy or continue to play it cool?
/r/seduction08/12/21 03:57 PM
2

Ok. Here’s another case. There’s a girl who has shown a lot of interest in me that I met in class and I’m talking with. She has indicated wanting to hang out and suggested to get drinks last week. So we verbally planned on this coming weekend. So if I text her about the date this weekend, am I being needy? Or should I wait for her to initiate? Where is the line drawn where a text to the girl is not considered needy?
/r/seduction08/12/21 03:52 PM
1

Fair enough
/r/seduction08/12/21 03:44 PM
5

I’m really confused. I get that maybe it was a bit too eager, but what’s wrong with just sending a text saying the date was fun? Do I have to really play this game of waiting and letting her text first? If she was mature, I’m sure she would have appreciated me sending a text
/r/seduction08/12/21 03:43 PM
3

But how can I show dominance during the talking stage and my general interactions?
/r/seduction08/12/21 06:29 AM
4

Not every guy out there having sex is a “bad boy”, smart one. Have fun attracting women with daddy issues
/r/seduction08/12/21 06:28 AM
5

Well I’d describe myself as a soft dominant as well. I think I still need to do a better job of demonstrating dominance in my game though. Any tips?
/r/seduction08/12/21 06:13 AM
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To be honest, I think this is pretty shitty advice. Why should I change who I am to become a “bad boy”? That’s just not me. I agree though, maybe I did come off too serious in the beginning and probably should have let the waves ride a little bit before showing too much intention. But I don’t see anything wrong with being authentic and serious.
/r/seduction08/12/21 06:11 AM
6

Not cold or harsh in this context. Just in general (that’s what my friend suggested)
/r/seduction08/12/21 05:54 AM
52

Yeah lesson learned. I guess that’s one thing I could work on. But I still don’t understand the point of being cold or harsh
/r/seduction08/12/21 05:51 AM
79

Well, I don’t. I’m not a pushover. I just like to communicate and be honest. But maybe the girl had ghosted me because I was coming off too serious. Who knows
/r/seduction08/12/21 05:28 AM
1

Want me to shoot you a dm?
/r/seduction06/12/21 10:35 PM
1

I can dm you if u want
/r/seduction06/12/21 10:19 PM
2

I could dm you a selfie and get feedback if you want
/r/seduction06/12/21 05:01 PM
2

Well I’m not really great at reading body language tbh. What should I be looking for
/r/seduction06/12/21 04:22 PM
37

I want to, but I can’t bring myself to do it. What if someone I know in real life sees me lol
/r/seduction06/12/21 02:01 AM
38

Welp they are astonishingly wrong considering I’m a virgin lol, but who knows
/r/seduction06/12/21 01:11 AM
16

Whats a slut face
/r/seduction06/12/21 01:07 AM
1

Really? I don’t know what to believe anymore. Some people tell me I should kiss on the first date. Others tell me to avoid at all costs
/r/seduction04/12/21 04:34 PM
3

Any tips on how to show sexual confidence and how to know when to do it without it being too soon? I feel like a lot of my first dates fail because I don’t advance sexually, but honestly, I’m just trying to get to know them first
/r/seduction02/12/21 09:54 PM
1

I’m literally in the exact same position as you but I’m 21. I’m doing everything right in my life except getting girls. I got a good physique, good job out of college, pretty smart and have been told I’m charismatic, but I have 0 game with girls and I’m really unconfident when it comes to being sexual. And honestly, it really all does come down to your vibe. You could be the most perfect man in the world, but if you don’t know how to sexually engage a woman through your vibe or actions, she won’…
/r/seduction01/12/21 03:43 AM
2

2 is almost every girl tho
/r/seduction30/11/21 09:42 PM
1

From what people are saying, I’d say it’s okay to make eye contact…just don’t stare?
/r/seduction26/11/21 10:13 PM
1

Usually when women walk past me, they flip their hair or adjust it. Idk if it means anything tho
/r/seduction26/11/21 06:32 PM
1

Idk, I catch looks from strangers when I walk in public, but I never know if it’s cause I’m attractive or if they just glanced. I don’t really hold the eye contact with them, so idk
/r/seduction26/11/21 02:15 PM
5

That’s probably why I don’t get girls
/r/seduction26/11/21 02:12 PM
0

Straight ahead
/r/seduction26/11/21 02:03 PM
3

Is cold approaching bad though? I always hear girls saying they don’t want to be approached, which is why I asked what the signs are
/r/seduction26/11/21 02:03 PM
36

Really? I always felt that really attractive people aren’t told they’re attractive as much as you’d think since most people would assume they know (at least if you’re a guy)
/r/seduction26/11/21 03:31 AM
7

I’m often afraid to make eye contact with girls because I’m afraid of being seen as weird/creepy or just being outright ignored. Do you suggest trying to make eye contact with girls I don’t know more or is it weird?
/r/seduction26/11/21 03:13 AM
1

Well it’s good to know there are others like me out there struggling too and are also a fan of the Armor Titan
/r/seduction01/04/21 10:48 PM
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