Signs that I am attractive?

Dianabayyebii · 2021-11-26T03:58:46+00:00

Eye contact, she’ll flash you a smile. But mainly prolonged eye contact. She’s will also be gauging your interest as well, so smile back if you are interested! It’s hard for some girls as well so relax and don’t over think it. We’re all in the same boat at one point or another!

mexicoke68 · 2021-11-26T06:32:20+00:00

The eyes, chico, they never lie

Agentbrowneyez · 2021-11-26T03:43:13+00:00

Body language. If she’s somewhat shy/reserved OR if she gives you strong eye contact that’s a good sign.

Just approach. The worst she can say is no. Playing guessing games may be a waste of time in the end.

TerminatorReborn · 2021-11-26T03:29:55+00:00

The big truth bomb is that if you are really good looking a lot of people will say it (family doesn't count).

Since it's not our case (be honest guys, what 10/10 hot dude is gonna spend time on a seduction subreddit?) the best way to know if you are attractive, or more specific, if you are attractive to certain girls, is if you catch them looking at you consistently

CompetitionFair7686 · 2021-11-26T10:44:53+00:00

The problem is that women feel attraction when you make them feel, so while i understand your question it comes from a man’s perspective of the world, where the man decides i am attracted or not attracted based on looks.

Women might find a guy good looking, but feel no attraction for him, because attraction for girls is emotional.

It’s not about finding out if she likes you, it’s about making her feel things for you so she starts liking you.

5_7pickup · 2021-11-26T08:56:50+00:00

Your issue isnt if she finds your attractive or not. Your issue is youre afraid of rejection which is a very unattractive quality.

Alot of people here will tell you to look for IOI or signals. Its dumb and a waste of time. Youll miss 95% of your opportunities if you wait for a signal. Instead you can be a man and just approach.

I do 99% of my approaches without a signal. Refer to my field reports.

thementalyogi · 2021-11-26T03:46:33+00:00

The only thing that makes you attractive is that you believe yourself to be. The more you believe your attractiveness to be true, the more confidence you have, and thus the more attractive you are.

JacobMoogberg69 · 2021-11-26T05:48:56+00:00

If your mom calls you the handsomest guy in school.

whosthatgirl79 · 2021-11-26T03:07:17+00:00

It’s all in the eye contact.

thegunner666 · 2021-11-26T03:09:38+00:00

Mostly eye contact. However, females care less about physical attraction than they do charisma and personality. You could be a sexy ass dude, but if you're a douchebag with no personality, they will usually ignore your looks

Leviathansplunge · 2021-11-26T03:46:02+00:00

Sometimes women will say incredibly stupid things just to start a conversation with you. Many women don't have good social skills because they never needed them, so if a girl acts awkward or stupid around you, it's very good news.

Equivalent_Ad7389 · 2021-11-26T10:38:32+00:00

The only thing I look for in a girl before I approach is her left ring finger. I always feel stupid hitting on married women.

Don't wait for an opportunity or her eye contact. If it's there, great. If it's not you can make it by getting her attention.

bewaregravity · 2021-11-26T13:19:21+00:00

TBH if you gotta ask. You probably ain't. I doubt your some Draconian monster. You should just focus of making sure your dressed nice ( clean , no stains , no rips , the right size ). You're well manicured ( clean face , or beard is lined up nice ).

It's all about balance. What you lack compensate for.

andyquest69 · 2021-11-26T11:55:16+00:00

You not asking in reddit 😉

MikeAlphaGolf · 2021-11-26T12:13:09+00:00

Proximity is the best indicator. If you’re in a bar or a party and suddenly she’s in your circle then she wants you to talk to her. The next part is on you to open.

Radio_Unique · 2021-11-26T08:05:57+00:00

2 types of girl, shy and bitches

So shy has shy actions blushes

Bitches are bold so very obvious LOL

throwitnow · 2021-11-26T09:39:46+00:00

What's weird is I'm very successful in online dating, I would say I'm rather confident, and generally seen as a attractive guy (not model looks, but nerdy attractive). But I almost NEVER have women check me out or make eye contact.

tnpersona · 2021-11-26T16:10:39+00:00

You just know. You’ll feel it

mattyice822 · 2021-11-26T18:53:24+00:00

I was once at a party, socializing and having a great time meeting new people when at the end of the night a women comes up to me and goes "I was giving you flirty eyes all night but I guess you weren't interested." I was very interested but had no idea flirty eyes were a thing, so I guess look out for those and pay attention to the crowd.

TheRealAlkemyst · 2021-11-27T02:59:38+00:00

My wife tells me it's the girls that watch me enter a room and also leave it.

Humblepie125 · 2021-11-26T12:33:00+00:00

Don't wait for signals to approach. My current (Russian) gf of three years I approached the moment I saw her. Obviously calibrate accordingly and use context to your advantage. But waiting for signals is a sucker's game.

Make it simple: see girl, like girl, talk to girl.

Ikem32 · 2021-11-26T08:09:54+00:00

One clear sign is, if she bites her lips.

earsurgery9 · 2021-11-26T14:41:05+00:00

the way she looks at you. Also proximity and little things like ficking her hair etc

redeyerds · 2021-11-26T15:19:18+00:00

Many say eye contact, as I agree, I've been confused by it as well.

Eauji87 · 2021-11-26T17:24:49+00:00

My guy, you not talking is the problem. You need to GENUINELY be interested in her interests and life. Once you do that, you will naturally be able to think about things to ask her. Even then you may still get shot down but, love like most other things, is a game of average. The more you shoot your shot, the better odds you’ll have of success.

Bj0rnstorm · 2021-11-26T17:56:14+00:00

When you walk in public and notice a cute women has looked at you, how often do you catch them starting to fiddle with their hair right after they spotted you?

Woman instinctively and most frequently want to ensure their hair is looking good the moment they realise a man they find attractive has entered their close vicinity.

Shanbaceball · 2021-11-26T18:24:04+00:00

Eye contact and smiling

IrreverentlyRelevant · 2021-11-26T18:57:57+00:00

No, you can't. Some people express interest on their sleeves and with others you'll never know unless they tell you.

Just be smart about the timing and setting, and be respectful with how you talk to her.

ImJustHereForInfos · 2021-11-26T19:47:20+00:00

I’d like to know too, apparently a lot of women would check me out when I was with my ex (she would tell me but I was always oblivious) and never noticed anything out of the ordinary. Maybe I just don’t notice every chick even though I scout all the ladies when I go out

UrFavPlayerIsBack · 2021-11-26T23:50:22+00:00

Hell nah they might have lotta shit in their mind (or character, mood..) and not even look at ya..

The only way u can figure it out is by talking to her.

As long as she’s still there, she IS interested in you. If she’s rushing to leave, then.. and f the other signs, don’t even bother to overload ur brain worrying about anything else.

cormacru999 · 2021-11-27T01:59:44+00:00

Its difficult to give a list of advice because everyone has different issues & part of dating is that element of taking a chance, taking a leap. Some are more confident & will use eye contact, or may just approach you. Others will be very friendly when you approach them. But generally just talking to anyone is not a sure sign of attraction & one often pretty clear sign someone is into you, is if they are comfortable enough to touch you. It will be minor, in passing, maybe she'll laugh at something you say & punch you in the arm playfully. That's often a sign that they are interested in more, breaking the 'touch barrier' is a good sign.

But many people are just as anxious as you, not to mention all the worried women have just going out into the world of men. You're allowed to approach women, in the right circumstances & talk. If they are not interested, its not a big deal, just let it go. If you're not sure what are the right circumstances for approaching women romantically, just look up some articles written by women talking about it.

Title	Signs that I am attractive?
Author	xSathya
Upvotes	120
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Date	November 26, 2021 3:06 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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