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| 1 | The power and importance of the word "No"Very solid post. Getting a girl to say yes is a technique I used to use in the past in order to get a girl to agree to a date. I would ask a series of Yes questions where, this would get her in the mood to say yes, and when eventually I asked her for the date, she would be more likely to say yes. At some point I realized, I didn't care whether they said yes or no I was planning on doing my own thing anyway, her saying yes to a date proposal was not a better alternative to what I had going on so … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/22 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Did I make the right choice or am I just a big mess?Overreaction because a stranger didn't respond and left you on "Seen" = You put her on a pedestal, you created this idea in your head of you and her being together in some fashion and developed oneitis. Don't develop oneitis. Next time, have some important shit to do, do that important shit to the point where you're so focused on it that nothing else matters. You will forget you even texted her and when you go check your phone hours later you will have a response from her if she really wanted to… | /r/askTRP | 20/06/21 05:51 AM |
| 1 | Volunteering = low SMW?SMV is a perception in the girl's eyes. There's no defined chart or rules, it varies from person to person. There are common things that would indicate that the perception of your SMV would be higher or lower, but it's all relative. In my opinion volunteering is not something that would lower your SMV. At the end of the day if you are passionate about something and you have a drive and motivation to do it, women will be attracted to that drive and motivation that you have to do that certain thin… | /r/askTRP | 20/06/21 05:42 AM |
| 1 | Why low self-esteem for a woman is a red flag?Short answer - read the sidebar. More expanded short answer - You end up being attracted to the girls that reflect your own self-esteem the best. They all act the same, all have insecurities and shit test you. It's about how they do it that matters and what will happen in the long term when shit hits the fan. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/21 05:36 AM |
| 2 | FWB not texting me, am I overanalyzingShe's a FWB who you've put on a pedestal and now you're over-analyzing why she does or does not do certain things. Snap out of it and put yourself on the pedestal and work to develop the best version of yourself. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/21 05:11 AM |
| 3 | Should I break up with new GF?I'd say give her time. but do encourage her to please you in other ways. She has two other holes which you can use after all. Ensure that she continues to bring what she brought to the table before the promotion and if she continuously does not, then it's time for her to go back to the streets. Could be a little more difficult to deal with if she is living with you as you said and she has nowhere to go, but you have needs and if you're not happy there is no need to continue with something that d… | /r/askTRP | 20/06/21 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on asking to kiss someone?I don't ask. Learn to read the signs that a girl gives you that she wants to be kissed or that she doesn't want to be kissed. Then you would not need to ask if you can kiss her, you will just have a general idea and go for it. If done right it will display confidence and manliness to her especially if she realizes that you as a person are a shy type. She will gauge the even though you're shy or what not you are still in tune with the world can read social signs and know what you want and go afte… | /r/askTRP | 20/06/21 04:57 AM |
| 3 | Reminder: girls use snapchat for their beta orbiters, texting for their alpha dick providers. Go for her number?Go for the number. Text/Call to set up a date. Escalate on the date and later Penetrate. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 01:51 AM |
| 1 | How to reattract a girl I ghosted?First...Do you really not any any other options that you have to go back to someone just because it may be easier? You ghosted her for a reason, think of those reasons and don't try to get with crazy. They belong to the streets. Second.. Attraction is not a choice. You don't just choose to attract someone and then it happens. Attraction is NOT generated by pickup lines and witty comebacks via text. To build attraction you need to pass the girl's shit test, which gives her assurance that you are … | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Career Change. What Job would suit me?I think university have career counselors you can go to, they give you a test or two to help you figure out what you are good at and what you like if you are confused. Then based on the results you can decide which field to go into. IF you're enrolled in a university already utilize all resources that the school offers already and get your money's worth. Do something not because the position you can potentially get into is lucrative and can bring a lot of money. Do it because you genuinely have … | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 01:35 AM |
| 1 | LTR "breaks up" with me multiple times a monthShe belongs to the streets not in your bed sheets. Don't fuck with crazy. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 01:27 AM |
| 13 | How to not let rejection get to me?You're human, rejection sucks, all people want to feel accepted and wanted. Guess what, life is a bitch and it aint always nice. You just have to suck it up buttercup. As a practical advice: don't compare Brad Pitt getting rejected to you, turn the situation into a positive for yourself. "Oh she flaked on me, sucks for her she could've had the best sex of her life tonight. This is perfect for me, I now get to do X and work on myself even more" Remember girls should not be the priority or purpose… | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 03:52 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with an empty past?Set goals (weekly, monthly, quarterly) for yourself and go after them. This is the basis of self improvement. The more you work on yourself and work towards becoming the best version of yourself, the better things will get. So what that you've had a lackluster past, fuck it, it's life, I guarantee you there are people out there living worse lives than you and are happier. Imagine yourself on your death bed right now, you are looking back at your life and thinking of things that you should have d… | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 03:43 AM |
| 7 | Just broke up with LTR of 1.5 years. What do?I know this probably stings a little, but a lot of other males will go through this soon. The stupid pandemic caused a lot of girls to realize they want to be free to hoe around and not be tied down. One thing you can do for the future is learn to set boundaries and talk about these major topics in the beginning before you make her your LTR, this way you know exactly where her head is before you decide to make her LTR. Express your views early, this way in the future if she decides to give you s… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Should I assume she's DTF?Yes assume attraction and that she is DTF (especially if she comes over or you got to her place). If she is not she will tell you and you just calibrate your actions accordingly. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 07:41 AM |
| 1 | "Why do you only see me on weekdays? Am I not worthy of a weekend night date?"It matters to me to handle the situation properly. I can care less what she thinks of what I say. I want to handle the situation and give the correct response for me. She can take the response and go with it or walk, I don't care either way. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 07:35 AM |
| 3 | Do any of you guys still have success on appsI've heard (never done myself) that if you reset your Tinder/Bumble account every 3-4 months, the algorithm puts you in front of more girls than if you just kept the app for a long time and kept swiping. I know someone who resets his account every couple of weeks or so makes a new account and gets matches, not much, but at least a few more than before. He does get banned a lot so he has to make new phone numbers and sign up all the time. Also another thing I've heard that was being done is deepf… | /r/askTRP | 27/12/20 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Why did my body react like thisWell one key part you left out is whether you are gaming/fucking other girls out there. If you are not or "kind of" doing it then your ego went from having 0 validation because you're not gaming, to 1 solid validation from someone who you considered close. This causes you to get excited - "wohooo, someone likes me", regardless of what you really feel towards that person or what the message from them said. This is why it's key to game other girls and have abundance. If you truly came from a place… | /r/askTRP | 27/12/20 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Well fuck it finally happened...You can't call a 3 month old relationship an LTR. In 3 months you’re not getting the authentic self of the woman, you’re getting someone who is representing her best side and getting the best behaviour/most well behaved little Becky. Doesn't matter what you say to her. Pay attention to what she does and not what she says! That's the key here. Just continue fucking her and pay attention to her actions so you can learn what she really means when she says something. If you've already made her your … | /r/askTRP | 27/12/20 04:17 AM |
| 11 | Tinder, Coronavirus, and the Holy GrailSetting dates directly to my place has been my go to move since before the pandemic started. Tbh the pandemic is like a cheat code for this. Simply telling them that you'd normally invite them out on a proper date makes you seem like a normal guy and due to the circumstances, you both have no other options. Of course there are many different objections you can get from a girl when you directly invite her over right off a dating app, but if you overcome them you can definitely succeed. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/20 04:04 AM |
| 1 | How much are you in contact with your LTR during lockdown?thanks for sharing the link these commandments are gold. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/20 05:42 PM |
| 4 | I finally fucked my first 9You're missing the point, the point is that we are conditioned to think one way all of our lives and just by stepping out of our reality and taking these "magic glasses" we all wear to interpret the reality around us off, we can achieve great things. In this case OP stepped out of his reality which was filled with negative thoughts about hot girls and f-closed her like a champ. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/19 01:54 AM |
| 0 | What to say when a girl doesn't give a counter offer to date?That's a great advice and exactly matches my thought process. If we leave it without a response, it just appears butt hurt. I completely agree with your last statement, you always have to be willing to walk away and let her know that you don't need her. The best way of course is to have abundance and options, but if you don't you can always fake it. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/19 04:58 PM |
| -5 | What to say when a girl doesn't give a counter offer to date?You misunderstand me or perhaps I didn't relate what I meant correctly. I am saying, when I next girls, it usually tends to be a hard next, so as result of that I basically ignore them and never contact them again. When I say it gets nowhere, I mean, maybe the girl didn't have immediate interest, yes, but I've had situations where I would hit up a girl once, then again after a while and she would be interested because I demonstrated SMV via the social media. I completely agree that time should n… | /r/askTRP | 11/03/19 04:41 PM |
| -9 | What to say when a girl doesn't give a counter offer to date?This is why there are tons of people here and on other subreddits who make posts about so called alpha RP masters trashing people on the ASKTRP. Dude calm your balls, first you are not providing any valuable information to the topic, second you are calling people dumb and using profanities without any knowledge of the people instead of being helpful. Hop off your high horse and learn to be helpful. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/19 04:35 PM |
| -17 | What to say when a girl doesn't give a counter offer to date?I would disagree and counter your statement with No offer = low interest. The interest level can be increased through use of social media where you show high SMV. Every time I've assumed no interest and done a next (perhaps because I tend to do hard next), I get nowhere. However, every time I keep the girls in the funnel and simply show them the higher SMV at the very least I end up being invited to social outings with them and their friends where I can game freely. The point here is not to argu… | /r/askTRP | 11/03/19 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Is nofap worth it?According to ancient Taoist texts , men have certain time intervals in which they can ejaculate without doing harm to themselves . The periods of time between these intervals are utilized for replenishing lost vital energy and nutrients. Formula: Age x .2 = Frequency in ejaculation in days. I've personally gone through two cycles of 90 days. Once full 90 where I didn't jerk it, but did cum a bunch times from sex and wet dreams and another (the current streak) where I don't jerk it, don't watch a… | /r/askTRP | 11/07/18 01:41 AM |
| 1 | If attraction is value, how do become someone with value ?Value and comfort go hand in hand. Sometimes you would meet a girl who is in town for one night and all she wants is to hook up with a guy, in that scenario, you would only build value. On the other hand if you meet some girl who is a virgin, she will want to have a lot more comfort with you that you will give her a nice experience and will care very little about the value. So you have to really go out and experience the situation so you can realize whether value is needed. | /r/seduction | 10/07/18 04:01 AM |
| 1 | What is calibration and how do you get it ?Calibration is like saying something and then adjusting to your environment. You can use calibration in openers and as you are talking to the girl. For example in openers you can just go to the girl and say Hi in a really loud voice, then you would calibrate by saying "oh, I am sorry, that was probably too loud and awkward, let me try again ... Hi" During conversation it would be like saying something seeing how she reacts and then carrying on forward. | /r/seduction | 10/07/18 03:57 AM |
| 4 | Instead of acting confident, I am acting rude, how do I fix this?Just calibrate, throw a sarcastic comment, see how the girl reacts, if she back off or she is not impressed by the comment, dial it down. Your problem is that probably in the beginning you are coming on as a confident guy by throwing these sarcastic comments and shit like that, the girls like it, but then you overdo it and you go from being confident to rude. Think of like eating something really sweet, at first you like it, but then if you eat a bunch more you start to develop a dislike for it … | /r/seduction | 10/07/18 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Opportunities to practice approachingI suggest you get snapchat, go to the map, it usually shows a bunch of hot spots and then go to the hot spots. Usually those hot spots are places where they have concerts or events. You can 1) post those places on your social media - hence developing your social media game and 2) pick up women cuz those places are guaranteed to have lots of hot women. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/18 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Should I leave a toxic work environment or stick it out?Eventually the toxic environment will start affecting your work and performance, even if you decide to stay for the so called "experience" you could end up learning almost nothing because you are in a constant battle to try to remain sane. Update your LinkedIn and resume, add the right keywords for the job that you want to get and start going to interviews and making connections. Line up a job and put in your two weeks. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/18 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Friendzoned After Date With Makeout - Post Mortem?A girl is usually ready to sleep with you within 2-3 dates. If your game is good, 1 date is fine also. With that in mind, on a second date you should push for the pull because it's highly likely the girl feel comfortable enough. If she is not down she will let you know, if she is then you can pull - simple as that. Remember a girl is more sex driven that even you are because they experience a lot of pleasure during sex. They can have multiple orgasms and that brings a lot of pleasure. So if you … | /r/seduction | 09/06/18 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Girl asked me to add her on Facebook so she can stalk my profile before going out with me.I meant nope as in I didn't add her. Other than that, I agree with you. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 12:22 AM |
| 6 | Girl asked me to add her on Facebook so she can stalk my profile before going out with me.Nope told her I don't randomly add people, she has to earn that privilege. She then proceeded to tell me how she doesn't think we should go out. After which I said, cool, I'll make other plans and left her. At this point she has my number, if she wants to find out more about me she can come out and do so, otherwise not. Either way I will not contact her again. At some point she will run into all the mediocre guys and realize she missed out, but by then I'd likely be with way hotter girls than he… | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 12:03 AM |
| 2 | Girl asked me to add her on Facebook so she can stalk my profile before going out with me.I completely agree and follow what you are saying. I just have not had a girl so adamantly and bluntly express her intention. It doesn't matter anymore though, I told her she has to earn it, she said she didn't think we should go out and I have swapped the time slot I was using to meet her to meet another girl. Her loss really. Abundance is a beautiful thing. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 07:36 PM |
| 7 | Girl asked me to add her on Facebook so she can stalk my profile before going out with me.Right on! Thank you, didn't think about putting it back on her and asking to earn it. Much appreciated! | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Want to confirm some IOIs before moving forwardI get exactly where you are coming from because you see this girl a lot in the gym and you don't want to have this awkwardness where you ask her out, she rejects you and then you guys never speak again. Based on what you described it seems like the IOIs are there, especially when I saw the part about her watching you do legs. The shake thing, could be interpreted like you said, but I think by you doing so you added bias to the situation, so now I can't tell for sure. In terms of the first IOI, I… | /r/seduction | 25/05/18 04:03 AM |
| 2 | Bad Game or She was Not Down?My car and I have an understanding... | /r/askTRP | 24/05/18 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Bad Game or She was Not Down?You could be right, but I feel like I held frame pretty well, at one point she even started doing something that I thought was not appropriate for my frame and I told her "that's not how we do things" and straight up rejected whatever she was trying. The only reason I might somewhat agree that I maybe dropped frame was because 1) I didn't ask her to leave the place we were at and mess around - she did and 2) she asked to go to the back seat when we were initially making out in my car maybe 30 se… | /r/askTRP | 24/05/18 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Rate my Tinder exchangeGet her to invest more in the conversation, for example you could have asked for a hint with the excuse that there are way too many majors out there. Then you could have asked her to make it a multiple choice, that way you get her to invests in the conversation more than more. I like that you try to be a leader in the interaction by saying we are doing this, instead of asking her if she wants to do it. However, you didn't build attraction, you just played a guessing game which to me reading the … | /r/seduction | 20/05/18 08:00 AM |
| 1 | I got her number, now what?First, you have a oneitis, which is normal for a guy your age, but you should really learn how to deal with oneitis early on so you don't have this problem when you go to college, what you need to do is get more girls and text them. I know, easier said than done, but that's the beauty of game. To answer your question however, you don't want to use texting for building up attraction, you want to use texting for setting up logistics for a meet up. Attraction should be built when you meet the girl … | /r/seduction | 18/05/18 03:32 AM |
| 2 | Afraid of rejection because of lose skinWhen you get old and your balls touch the water in the toilet when you sit, would you say to yourself, "man I am glad I didn't approach any girls and glad I listened to my insecurities" or would you say "I am so glad I paid no attention to minor details when I was young and lived my life to the fullest". I am sure you will want to say the second one so work towards that moment. Don't over think things, sure some girls might get turned off, but until you try you won't know. Also so what if they r… | /r/seduction | 18/05/18 03:06 AM |
| 1 | [FR] first real date after a LTR -- tinder date (+ some background info)For the most part they are the same, but you need to just pay attention for smaller more subtle signs. Like eyes getting "bigger" when she is ready to be kissed or her playing with her hair or matching your body language, etc, etc. Look "signs a girl wants to be kissed" and you will get lots of them. | /r/seduction | 14/05/18 08:19 PM |
| 1 | How is dating in Europe different than dating and hooking up in America?It depends on the country you are thinking of going. For example, I've heard in Czechia, girls tend to have a sweet spot for American boys so it could be easier there than in say Albania, where a girl has 11 brothers and you have to make sure you don't hurt her feelings. I joke of course, but I hope you get my point. | /r/seduction | 14/05/18 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Why do I only attract girls that I am not interested in?Either start treating every girl you meet, even new ones as friends that you have already met before or look at every girl as a 1 or 2. This ensures you won't put the HB10 on a pedestal and become needy while having a idgf attitude towards the ones that are 1s and 2s. | /r/seduction | 14/05/18 03:56 AM |
| 1 | [FR] first real date after a LTR -- tinder date (+ some background info)Have better plans Not a big deal as long as you don't show the girl you are bothered by it. It only becomes a problem when you start trying to have this perfect date and when something doesn't go right, it throws you off your game completely. When dating, you have to know that sometimes things can happen that you can't control. For example, you may plan on going to a bar to get drinks, but they are closed, you can't let that throw you off. Be a leader show that you are not phased by the obstacle… | /r/seduction | 14/05/18 03:53 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Have any of you dealt with just flat-out weird girls?I didn't read the post, but just wanted to answer your question in the title - yes! Last night in the club, this random chick started dancing with me and next thing you know she started talking about she was from Canada, showed me her student ID and her drivers license to prove she was from there. I was like wtf, bitch nobody asked you haha. So yea weird.. | /r/seduction | 07/05/18 03:26 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Two examples from today of my typical Mall approach. Seem to be running into a lot of women who already have bfs...I honestly believe girls don't care about the money and job unless they are looking for a sugar daddy and have issues. Sure it matters to small extent, but they usually overlook it as something that doesn't hold as much value as say whether a guy smells like a homeless person or not. When I say that you can prove you are better, I am referring to your overall SMV and projecting a higher SMV than the guy she is currently with. I'll give an example, there are many people on social media that take … | /r/seduction | 26/04/18 06:15 AM |
| 9 | [FR] First date with HB8.5, went normalOne thing to point out, when you are doing dates, don't say "we should do so and so", this leaves the ball in her court to decide whether to do it. Instead use "let's do so and so", she can still reject you, but the point is you want to take a leadership role rather than leaving things up to her to decide. Now this could have been just translated wrong, I am just saying as a general tip. Another tip, if you ever go on a date and you walk the girl home, if you are not sure if it's on (which you w… | /r/seduction | 26/04/18 05:30 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Two examples from today of my typical Mall approach. Seem to be running into a lot of women who already have bfs...The "I have a boyfriend" means nothing. It really just means "Oh I have given this other guy a chance to fuck me right now". If you look at it from that perspective it really just means it's the guy's turn to be with her, doesn't mean it's the last guy she will ever be with nor is the last guy she will talk to. Women usually have guys on a "retainer" usually beta like guys who don't get anything better than breadcrumbs from the women. So what you need to do is get their number and show them that… | /r/seduction | 26/04/18 05:20 AM |
| 1 | Approaching a cute girl I’ve never personally met but have come across on social media?So I was just recently wondering the same thing and I got a hard no when I asked the experts and honestly, I knew from previous experiences I've had. So the answer I will give is that you shouldn't really contact a girl you do not know on Facebook just because it's not socially acceptable. Unless you are a high value/profile guy who has more SMV than the girl it generally doesn't end well for you. Which to me doesn't make much sense because how is contacting someone over Facebook or IG any diffe… | /r/seduction | 25/04/18 10:47 PM |
| 3 | Push-pull :3Simple push-pull examples: You are adorable (pause), but I don't know. Essentially the whole thing with push-pull is you give a compliment, but then you follow it with a negative statement. Here is another one: Wow you are cute, but I don't know you, I just met you, you could be a serial killer. | /r/seduction | 23/04/18 02:05 AM |
| 3 | [Update]{Text Screenshot} Girl That Flakes On Me Twice Then Invites Me To Party Notices I Ghosted Her.I don't understand the problem with calling, I am in your age group and have never had a girl not pick up the phone when I called her. Say you lock your keys in your car and your roommate has a spare key to your house, but he is over at his girlfriend's place. It's 10 degrees outside, half past midnight, you send him a text, he doesn't respond. Nobody is around, what do you do? You pick up the phone and call him? Why is that situation not weird, but calling a girl is weird? You needed to talk to… | /r/seduction | 22/04/18 03:45 AM |
| -3 | [Update]{Text Screenshot} Girl That Flakes On Me Twice Then Invites Me To Party Notices I Ghosted Her.Even better, when she leaves it and lets it go to voice mail, leave a voice mail. "hey, I'm not like the other mediocre guys who constantly text. I have no intention of becoming your pen pal, figured I'd talk to you and hear your sweet voice, but it looks like you are busy. Anyway, I got something to ask you, when you got time hit me up" Again you are standing out from all other guys, just by calling you are showing a much higher value than other guys who are texting her and sending her dick pic… | /r/seduction | 22/04/18 02:28 AM |
| 2 | [Update]{Text Screenshot} Girl That Flakes On Me Twice Then Invites Me To Party Notices I Ghosted Her.Perfect text in terms of content. Timing, not so great, you should have waited maybe until Sunday to text her because it would have left her thinking "WTF, I invited him and he didn't say anything and didn't come to my party, did I say something wrong?" etc..This gets her to invest into the relationship and anytime you get a girl thinking about you, it's a good sign. The text itself shows her you are a high value guy who has a busy schedule and doesn't need her to have a life and have fun. Next … | /r/seduction | 22/04/18 01:39 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Day game of cute college Volleyball ChickThe only thing that would have made your approach better is you taking her on an instant date. Instead of asking her what she was doing this weekend, you could have asked what she was doing now and where she was headed. This way you find out the logistics and if she was free you could have asked her to join you for a coffee in a nearby coffee shop. On college campuses there is always smoothies/coffee shops around so it would have been easy to find out even if you were not familiar with the area.… | /r/seduction | 21/04/18 01:32 AM |
| 1 | [TEXT SCREENSHOT] Girl Flakes On Me Then Invites Me To Party But With A TwistSure. When I say afternoon, I mean 4-5 pm range. Here is the most basic example that applies for first dates: You go to to a coffee shop, spend some time getting to know her, essentially getting all the boring shit out of the way. This is a perfect setting because you start the date off with lower energy. A lot of guys start their dates with super high energy and it becomes very hard to sustain for a long period of time. So by going to a coffee, walk in the park, etc, you are 1) getting the bori… | /r/seduction | 20/04/18 08:45 PM |
| 4 | [TEXT SCREENSHOT] Girl Flakes On Me Then Invites Me To Party But With A TwistShe is what we call a Ding Dong... Don't go to the party, don't text her. If she texts you and says, hey what's up or whatever, just be like hey been busy and missed your texts, project some high value. Right now all you have done is projected low value because you let her flake on you a couple of times. Next time a girl says she can't make it, say "cool I'll make other plans". If she doesn't propose another date, her interest level is low and you may be wasting your time. If you still want to t… | /r/seduction | 20/04/18 03:54 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Approach IRL is Much More Different than Over Dating AppsSo I like that, being unique is definitely the way to add more value. However, I heard many PUA describe men as dogs who see a squirrel and they just start chasing after her, the dog doesn't know why, it's just chasing the squirrel. Men are kind of like that when it comes to girls, we see a girl and we just know we are attracted, sure sometimes you see a girl's dress and you are mesmerized by how well it fits or how it makes the girl's eyes stand out, but a lot of times it's just I see a girl, I… | /r/seduction | 13/04/18 02:17 AM |
| 1 | [FR] first “real” date, went well! wanting some insightYour should have gone for the kiss. Even if she was backing off, you should have kept it man to woman and tried to kiss her. | /r/seduction | 06/04/18 02:26 PM |
| 6 | [FR] Make a good situation out of a bad oneThat's a great post, as I was reading, I started to think whether anyone asked you who you were at the party with. When people asked you who are you here with, did you tell them you were on a Tinder date? How did you handle those type of questions? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/18 09:17 PM |
| 2 | How to flirt with an older man that may like me?You want to see if the guy is exhibiting a pattern that indicates attraction. So what you need to do is push it just a tiny little bit, not exactly flirting just small things that you would not exactly do. It might be that you smile at him from across the room and give him a little bit of eye contact and see if he gives it back to you. You might see that if one time you walk into his office, he goes out of his way to make time to acknowledge you or pay attention to you or perhaps if you meet him… | /r/seduction | 29/03/18 12:01 AM |
| 3 | How to talk to a girl/get her number when her guy friend is with her?I do not think there will be any issue if you went up to her and the friend was there. If you maintain your frame of a high value guy who is cool you will have no problem. Don't be phased by the guy at all, just go in and interact with them. The key is to not go in expecting anything. If you go in and expect to get her number so you can text her later or so you can ask her out on a date, she and probably the friend will sense that and give you a lot of shit tests and probably put up a wall. Just… | /r/seduction | 28/03/18 11:49 PM |
| 2 | [FR] From 0 to a 100 real quick. 28yr old feministOne of the best FR, I've read on here. It was filled with little nuggets that I will use next time I go on a date. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/18 12:57 AM |
| 4 | Need help with grocery store day gameDon't ask yes or no questions. Ask open ended questions, pick up on the answers and then carry the conversations on from there. Instead of have you tried that go with something more subtle "Hey do you have a second, my friend asked me to get ____, but I am not an expert which one would you go with if you were me?" I don't know get this one ... What made you choose this one instead of the other one? | /r/seduction | 24/03/18 03:44 PM |
| 8 | My first Tinder dateI actually would have tried to fuck her in the bathroom or your car. She was obviously down with risky shit by giving you a hj at the movies and especially at a highly visited movie. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/18 12:45 AM |
| 5 | I don't know how to talk with my Tinder matchesYour questions are boring, the girls probably feel like they are in a job interview. Ask them qualification questions like, so are you the nerdy bookworm or crazy adventurous type of girl? Then when they respond, just go off their response and make a witty or smart comment about what they just said and challenge their response or ask another non-interview type question to which she can either qualify or say yes to. When you get a girl to say yes to one of your questions, she will be more likely … | /r/seduction | 21/03/18 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Not sure if I’m pulling ahead of the other two guys at work that’s going for the same girl I amWell for starters, don't go out on a movie date night, instead go do something like bowling or mini golfing, etc. Movie date nights are horrible because you basically have time a little before the movie starts and a little after the movie ends to talk to her. You want to set up a date in such a way so that you can spend time with her talking (yes I said her talking). Girls love to talk about themselves, so you want to set up some date where you can sit down, ask a few questions, actively listen … | /r/seduction | 21/03/18 12:54 AM |
| 2 | I am confused about what to doIt sounds like you are putting her on a pedestal. That's a big no no. I will address your question, but you really need to get an abundance mindset. According to a mutual friend she "is talking to a guy she likes" which might or might not be me Your friends obviously know who the guy is, why not just ask them who he is? Also it's safe to assume that if the girl is a 10 she is not just talking to one guy, she likely has 3-5 guys she is talking to at the same time, rotating each one and giving the… | /r/seduction | 21/03/18 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Snapchat general questionI don't use snapchat so I may not be the best to answer this, but from my experience if a girl is really interested, she will find a way to contact you. I've had girls meet me we add each other on Facebook, I think nothing of it basically I friend zone her and next thing you know we are out on a date. Snapchat is as you mentioned more casual, but I am still of the opinion that if she wants to do something with you she will be hitting you up all the time. So what I would do if I were in your shoe… | /r/seduction | 21/03/18 12:24 AM |
| 7 | Should I buy her something for her B-day?Don't get her anything. She hasn't done enough to deserve gifts from you. By buying her a gift even if a small one you are putting her on a pedestal. | /r/seduction | 21/03/18 12:17 AM |
| 3 | Scored a 9.5, felt on top of the world, went back to her place. Then, absolutely humiliated myself. I'm thinking of seriously hiring an escort now to teach me what I don't know.no, but check out this link, it's available there, plus there are more videos https://www.reddit.com/r/MegaPickup/comments/7lb1ak/2_girls_teach_sex/ | /r/seduction | 18/03/18 02:29 PM |
| 7 | Scored a 9.5, felt on top of the world, went back to her place. Then, absolutely humiliated myself. I'm thinking of seriously hiring an escort now to teach me what I don't know.There is a good video for beginners called 2 girls teach sex. Once the stuff starts to get frisky, it feels like you are watching porn with commentary where the people are explaining everything step by step. Instead of hiring a stripper or an escort, watch that video and implement the techniques. Good luck, hope it helps you and you get to bang HB10's soon. | /r/seduction | 18/03/18 07:21 AM |
| 4 | How do you act when a girl is trying to make you jealous?This kind of behavior is called shit testing. She is testing your frame to determine if you really are the guy who you are projecting to be. To pass jealousy shit tests you can agree and amplify the situation. Here is an example: Girl: "Omg, he is so hot, blah blah blah You: "Yes, oh my god, if I was a girl I would totally have his babies, let's go ask him if he will have a threesome with us." In this scenario the girls would normally get a "Who that guy? I am better" response from the mediocre … | /r/seduction | 18/03/18 07:13 AM |
| 1 | after a date with a girl from class.Just another day in class. The only difference is you went out with the girl and that's it. In terms of how to behave, you don't want to behave completely different from the meet up. If you project high value, and confidence on the meet up, do the same in class. Don't change your behavior drastically. You know, if you were laughing and cracking jokes on the meet up and then you don't even make eye contact with her, that's weird. Make good eye contact, talk about random stuff related to class, th… | /r/seduction | 18/03/18 07:01 AM |
| 1 | Seeking motivation for tonightMy advice would be to start talking to as many people as possible and as soon as possible. When you get there start engaging everyone and talk to them. This will get you in a more social mindset/frame, which in turn will make your approaches feel smooth and natural. | /r/seduction | 16/03/18 02:27 AM |
| 1 | New to Reddit/Good GameIt's doesn't. I have hooked up with two girls from this app, one turned out to be crazy and clingy and the other, well I am training her to be my fuck buddy as we speak. Both of those girls didn't have any mutual friends with me. I currently have 18 matches and I don't even try as much as OP, simply like the picture and wait for them to like back. | /r/seduction | 15/03/18 03:22 AM |
| 2 | Girls surprised when asked for numberNot necessarily, but even if she doesn't add you back, who cares right? You are a high value guy who has an abundance of women (or at least you should be portraying that) and you should not care much if she doesn't add you back. Plus if she is hot like you said she probably has way too many requests and doesn't add anyone unless she really knows them. | /r/seduction | 13/03/18 02:38 AM |
| 2 | Girls surprised when asked for numberI meant if she is not very receptive to flirting you can propose the meet up in the form of a casual study session as oppose to simply asking her out. You know, just making her feel like it's not a formal date kind of thing. | /r/seduction | 12/03/18 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Girls surprised when asked for numberNo such thing as "I have no chance". If you go in with that mentality, you already lost the battle. Just message the girl project high value and let things work themselves out. You have to realize that hot girls have a lot of guys they talk to, by talking to a girl who is talking to a lot of mediocre guys who are all pretty much the same and then you come out of no where and provide high value, by not being needy and being a cool guy/portraying a cool lifestyle, even if you don't have it, it wil… | /r/seduction | 12/03/18 04:01 AM |
| 2 | Am i casually dating? Dilemma! Need advice.Your long text kinda threw me off so I agree didn't read it all, but I think you are asking what to say to someone when you know they do not meet your criteria of people that you are looking for. IF you are open to casual hook ups with the person you can say, "I am not sure I am ready to jump into anything serious, if you are open to casually meet up, that's fine, otherwise I understand". Girls usually know what casually meeting up means. IF you don't want to ever see them again because they are… | /r/seduction | 12/03/18 03:53 AM |
| 2 | Girls surprised when asked for numberYou usually want to exchange numbers when you have talked to her about setting up something at a later date, for example you talked to her about some bar and told her she should come out with you. At that point it makes sense for her to give you her number as you have communicated logistics and made your intentions clear. Also if you talked about an interesting topic like say how everyone when they are in high school know what the circumference of a circle is but when they are out of school it's… | /r/seduction | 12/03/18 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Drunken voice messageCall her, if she doesn't pick up, text her and let her know it was your turn to leave a VM, but you were not drunk so it didn't feel right. Ask her when she is free to get together and help you get drunk. To answer your question, I would actually take a different approach and not even focus on the VM she left me. Simple "haha sounds like you had a fun time, what's your schedule like, i think I am more fun we should meet up to find out" | /r/seduction | 12/03/18 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Text gamePost them here, just hide the private information if you have any that way other members of the subreddit can learn from your mistakes. | /r/seduction | 12/03/18 03:19 AM |
| 4 | Girls surprised when asked for numberSo usually that means two things: You haven't build enough attraction in the interaction so when you ask for the number it throws them off and they laugh because they were only seeing you as a potential friend and not in a romantic way. The solution is to work on your game and build attraction. Remember when your game is on point the girl should be closing you, not you her. In other words, when you say "Listen, I gotta go meet up with some friends, let me grab your number so we can catch up late… | /r/seduction | 12/03/18 03:16 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with number rejection?Ok, so you should really just ask her and be a man. The fact that you will see her at work is a little awkward, but at the same time, think about it, you won't work there forever and then you may lose her if she starts dating someone or something. You know girls are always talking to at least 2-3 guys so if one of them becomes more than just a guy she is talking to you will be kicking yourself you didn't have the balls to ask her. That being said, here is how you can do it. Somewhat Direct: Go u… | /r/seduction | 12/03/18 03:05 AM |
| 3 | Tip of the day: be mindful about grocery shoppingTo add to the tip, usually the grocery stores that are focused on healthy lifestyle have the hottest girls in my experience. Stores like Whole Foods, Sprouts, etc. Stores like Walmart, will not likely have the same abundance. | /r/seduction | 06/03/18 05:57 PM |
| 3 | Had a date last night, unsure of when to text her. What works for you?Your game should always be done in person, phone calls/texting are used to set up the meet ups and dates not to put out your life story. I get what you are saying about not texting in between dates, but when you set up dates properly, you really don't need to text much. By not talking to her much in between dates, you are showing that you are a high value guy who is not needy and has an abundance of things that can occupy your time. Also by not texting/talking to her much on the phone you elimin… | /r/seduction | 06/03/18 05:55 PM |
| 7 | Girl who was leading me on turned out to be in a relationship with someone... what's the best way to get over this?You're wrong, the only way to forget about her and allow the feelings to dissipate is to move on to someone else. You are currently struggling of oneitis and the cure for that is abundance of women. Sure it may be difficult for you to even imagine it now, but believe me when you have abundance, things like what you have described doesn't bother you one bit. Abundance doesn't come on it's own though, you need to be confident in your skills. How do you become confident in your skill? You do more a… | /r/seduction | 06/03/18 05:45 PM |
| 7 | Had a date last night, unsure of when to text her. What works for you?I always text her the following day. "It was great meeting up with you, when are you free to get together again?" I don't use the texting to establish frames and get her to like me over text, I'd rather meet her and let my game do the talking for me. | /r/seduction | 06/03/18 05:31 PM |
| 6 | How to tell a woman who likes me that i just wanna have sex"I’m not ready for anything serious right now but would be OK to occasionally meet up and keep things casual. Is that OK with you? If not, I understand." | /r/seduction | 01/03/18 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Said screw it and sent this text, how should I respond?I don't know if I formulated this sentence correctly, but here is what I would respond. Take it as you wish and modify it if needed be. "If by bro you mean, the person you will be laying in bed naked with, then I guess I am your bro" ..then after she responds and depending on what she responds (positive or negative) "Haha, I am not one of the mediocre guys you text. Lets grab a drink (or whatever you feel like doing) Wednesday at 7 if you don't have any prior engagements. If she says anything ot… | /r/seduction | 25/02/18 04:10 AM |
| 4 | I just keep blowing it with girlsDon't ever tell a girl you got "literally nothing" going on, even if you don't.. make up something plausible and close to your life. You want to project the high value guy frame. One where you don't need the girl to have some fun or be doing something, etc. Try not to think about the outcome so much and focus on the interaction itself. For example, you saw the girl talk with her friends, you are obviously interested in the girl and she gave you a few IOIs, go up to the group and start gaming the… | /r/seduction | 25/02/18 03:55 AM |
| 2 | If a girl changes the time of the date..6 is kind of early, there could be traffic. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/18 09:32 PM |
| 3 | FIELD REPORT SAME DAY F CLOSERight on man! How do you handle situations where the girl does not live alone, lives with roommates and is hesitant about bringing you home so she doesn't look like a slut in front of the roommates? Same frame, lets go to your place or do you/would you have a different approach? | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/18 04:11 AM |
| 2 | FIELD REPORT SAME DAY F CLOSEI suggested that we go back to her place about 3-hours after we met Just curious, what did you say to her when you suggested this? Did you drive to the venue and then left your car when you hopped in the Uber or you went to the venue in some form not driving? | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/18 01:23 AM |
| 2 | Girl who flaked on me twice keeps sending me nudes?You can ask her to make a selfie with your name on a piece of paper. She probably won't do it and will continue sending the nudes to the other mediocre guys she is talking to. If she is really down, she may actually do it at which point I would say you maybe just need to call her and facetime her or something. Tough call on this one, in my opinion she should be hard nexted, but you probably know the context better. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/18 02:55 AM |
| 2 | Advice needed for moving things forwardI would tend to disagree on the oneitis, as I am still meeting with several girls, I would consider her a oneitis only in the sense that she is the one that I haven't f-closed yet. Her interest level for the most part has been high, she didn't offer a specific day/time on which she could meet with me she basically told me every day this week except Sunday is a day she is available. That to me shows a high interest level. I suggested Wednesday at a time I knew may be inconvenient for her and she … | /r/askTRP | 20/02/18 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Best Eastern European cities for game?Look up StreetPickUp's YouTube channel you will get a lot of ideas for game in many different European cities. | /r/seduction | 20/02/18 02:02 AM |
| 2 | Ping numbersThe answer here depends on the context.Clearly you should come from abundance and have other girls you can text, but if you want to try for one girl you can certainly try. When I ping girls, I usually ping them to find out if my ping texts actually work and if I get responses I send them to main girls to get an even better reaction. I also use pinging girls as a way to really push the boundaries, you know, if I say something outrageous, I want to see how the girls would react, etc. To answer you… | /r/seduction | 19/02/18 03:58 AM |
| 1 | After you get the number during a cold approach is it better to setup a date right then in person or leave and text her to set it up.You always want to push the interaction as far as you can possibly can. The answer to your questions depends on the time of the day you are doing game. So I will assume you are doing day game and answer your question. You want to try to propose going on an instant date, doesn't need to be anything fancy and really depends on the time of day you are gaming. Nonetheless, you can offer to go grab some coffee or smoothie or even walk somewhere and talk. If she says no, then you mention something lik… | /r/seduction | 19/02/18 03:51 AM |
| 1 | If a girl changes the time of the date..Oh I am not butt hurt about it, I can care less if she pushes 30 mins. I was just curious from a theory perspective if we are supposed to use the fact that she is pushing the date a little to our advantage while still keeping the man to woman frame. I hope I am clear here, I don't really know how to explain this. Like if a girl pushes the date say one or two times say maybe an hour total, we are ok with that, but I feel like if a guy did it the girl will hold him accountable in some way for maki… | /r/askTRP | 16/02/18 07:16 AM |
| 0 | If a girl changes the time of the date..Normally I would agree with that response, but if you looked at the request for a time change as a shit test or a test of your frame, would your reply change? In other words, if you didn't think it was because she really needed time - there was traffic and she is running late, etc. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/18 11:34 PM |
| 1 | STOTD - You are not even cute...You're right I am not, cute is an adjective you use to describe babies, I'm a grown ass man. | /r/seduction | 12/02/18 10:05 PM |
| 1 | What should I do if I get a boner at the pool?I once saw this guy get a boner while doing some crazy acro-yoga stunts as part of some circus show. None of the women objected to looking at him just because he had a boner and in fact when it was all said and done, there were lots of women taking pictures with him after it. He still had a boner and everything. So don't be ashamed, there are probably lots of girls who see it and would want it. On the other hand, men might not admit it, but by you being able to maintain such a massive boner and … | /r/askTRP | 12/02/18 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Why NoFap is bullshitAccording to ancient Taoist texts , men have certain time intervals in which they can ejaculate without doing harm to themselves. The periods of time between these intervals are utilized for replenishing lost vital energy and nutrients . A formula for determining an individual's particular rhythm is: Age x . 2 = frequency of ejaculation (in days) I participate in NoFap and currently have my longest streak since I started NoFap which was Oct 28 of last year. Honestly I have to agree to some exten… | /r/askTRP | 12/02/18 06:05 PM |
| 1 | How to practice kissing if I never kissed?Fill up a cup of water, put some ice cubes in the water and with your tongue start trying to catch them. The point is not to get you to catch them it's to get your tongue working so that when you kiss a girl it can feel natural. You want to go in a clockwise direction first and then in a counter clockwise. Do it until you are comfortable doing it or until the ice cubes melt. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/18 02:06 PM |
| 3 | How to properly escalate?Read this post: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/hlmra/dicarlo_escalation_ladder_concise_and_emphasized/ It should give you a basic idea how and what to focus on when it comes to escalating. One thing I would add is don't feel awkward about it, if you do the girl will notice it and give you resistance during the escalation is which not what you want, you want a pure, smooth escalation. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/18 02:03 PM |
| 2 | STOTD - Your voice sounds weird"Yeah, I've been working my vocals to try to get this voice actor role, you think they'll like it?" | /r/seduction | 12/02/18 01:50 AM |
| 2 | STOTD - I could out drink you, any day"First round's on me, the next 5000 are on you though" | /r/seduction | 12/02/18 01:44 AM |
| 3 | Why should i say things like "no biggie" or "no worries, another time." when a chick rejects me?Again you are over thinking things! You don't expect her to say absolutely anything to you. I don't know how else I can say this, I think I have related it quite clearly in my previous posts. You are showing abundance by telling her you don't need her and it's her loss that she doesn't want to meet with you. If she just replies with "ok" then you just soft next her and move on to the next girl, if she texts you then you should be flirty and witty and try setting up a date. It doesn't matter what… | /r/askTRP | 10/02/18 06:16 PM |
| 3 | Why should i say things like "no biggie" or "no worries, another time." when a chick rejects me?You're over thinking things. The response means you will just make plans that don't involve the girl since she just rejected you. You're showing her you don't need her to have fun or be entertained. It's not responsive, it's what alpha males say because they truly don't care. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/18 05:59 PM |
| 2 | On Tinder, should you bother with women who have “just interested in meeting people” on their bio?It's not a special emotional thing in the sense that you shouldn't feel pressured to perform really well or to have a memorable experience. Sex is just a natural part of being human. But do you want to always come up with a lie when somebody asks you about the first time you had sex? | /r/askTRP | 10/02/18 05:21 PM |
| 3 | Why should i say things like "no biggie" or "no worries, another time." when a chick rejects me?You should always be willing to walk away. You want to let her know that you like her, but that you don't need her. The best thing is to have options, then your non-needy attitude won't need to be faked. The reason you say "no biggie", etc is because you are in a way relating to her that you are not like all other guys who would immediately suggest another day to meet up or something else to do. You're right you telling her you are ok with not meeting up won't get her to think that you do not ca… | /r/askTRP | 10/02/18 05:12 PM |
| 4 | On Tinder, should you bother with women who have “just interested in meeting people” on their bio?In my experience the "just here to meet people" is usually used to weed out all the fuck boys who open the chat with "lets fuck" or something super direct. The usual flirting and banter would basically just tell you if she is dtf or if she just wants to go out with someone who can pay for her meal. Also do you really want to lose your virginity to a tranny? | /r/askTRP | 10/02/18 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Female in social circle just exited a relationship...Short term fling might work out, but remember she just got out of a relationship and usually the girls that do come with a lot of baggage. She might seem ok at first, but then you will start seeing all the craziness come out. Especially considering it was a decent amount of time, maybe she felt comfortable in a relationship and would want LTR not a STR. On the other hand she could be dtf as a revenge to her ex so yeah. Nonetheless, I would not advise you to play with a girls feelings. Find out w… | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 04:39 AM |
| 1 | I just dont know what to doDrop it. You were seeing her too much 2-3 times a week is too much. You want to see a girl about every 5-10 days, I've heard people say also minimum 7-10 days. By seeing her as many times as you did, you are basically becoming like all the other guys she is/has dating/dated who throw themselves at her and just always make time for her are there for her. You want to have time where she is thinking about you. A lot of times if you do it right she will get so obsessed that she will just constantly … | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Having hard time matchingI've heard that on Bumble in order to trick the algorithm you have to make several updates to your profile (rearrange photos, new about me, delete/create account, delete add photos) in order to get you pushed to the top of the stack queue. At which point once you are towards the top, the more people swipe right on you, the more you appear and stay on top. There is a reason why all the hot girls on Bumble appear first and then we see the not so good looking once. | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 04:24 AM |
| 3 | I matched with a girl on tinder who is only replying with fire emojiSend her a gif with something really sexual, but not hard core, like a guy liking a girls back or whispering in her ear while they are both naked - just something that when she sees will turn her on. Then send her - "This could be us, but you keep sending me fire emojis instead of your number". One of two things will happen, she will either get in your frame and reply to you with either her number or a real message or she will just reply with another fire emoji at which point you can just ignore… | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 04:20 AM |
| 2 | Having trouble with women once in bed with themThis... To also add there is a video set called "2 Girls Teach Sex" which is basically a few porn stars teaching you what to do in bed. If you are completely new to this then it might be worth checking out. The thing is though, you should do what feels natural, don't overdo things just to try to prove something to the girl. | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 04:13 AM |
| 2 | what do you say to bring a girl back to your place?"I would take you home to kinda show you a glimpse of my life, but your place is closer, lets grab a bottle of wine and go there" "I don't know what the rest of your night looks like, but what say you we head to your place to hang some more and throw on a flick? We can probably chat more easily there than at mine with a bunch of wild roommates running around going ape." "How about we get out of here... your place is a lot closer than mine. We can grab some pizza on the way and watch a movie and … | /r/askTRP | 09/02/18 04:13 AM |
| 0 | What do you do when you meet a girl for a dateThere two cases when you can compliment her, 1- when you first meet her and 2- when she is naked and you are about fuck her. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/18 03:34 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when you meet a girl for a dateHug, "wow you look adorable". | /r/askTRP | 05/02/18 01:18 AM |
| 3 | Good chemistry but we started off as friends?Up to you, if you feel comfortable enough calling it a date then you can call it that. I would go with a more open approach - "Hey, there is this place I've wanted to go, want to come with?" If she asks if it's a date, then tell her it is. | /r/seduction | 04/02/18 03:18 PM |
| 7 | Good chemistry but we started off as friends?If you have been projecting yourself as a high value guy who does fun stuff and have not become her "gay best friend" then you still have a chance. Simply invite her out, on the date escalate, fill out the vibe, is she receptive or is she not and from there escalate more or back off. The important piece is projecting high value, fun and everything will fall in place for you. | /r/seduction | 04/02/18 05:11 AM |
| 2 | Should i text after a considered fail date ?Don't wait too long to text her back, as a general rule you should wait 24-48 hours and 48 is really pushing it, you want to give her a good amount of time to think about you, but if you give her too much she will start thinking about the next guy (and girls have 2-3 at least that they can talk to at any time). My recommendation would be to text her and schedule a time you will call her. Then at that time maybe a day or two later call her and ask her out on a date. Don't waste time texting, just… | /r/askTRP | 04/02/18 04:01 AM |
| 3 | What the fuck is wrong with my dickHappened to me man, I just told the girl I am doing no fap and I am in a flat line. She was understanding, we waited a bit, she played with my dick, I started kissing her and eventually got hard enough. I lasted very short amount of time, but rebooting does that to you. I am currently on day 50 btw. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/18 03:54 AM |
| 1 | How do I get her to back off?I appreciate your response. I don't like ghosting people because I don't like being ghosted myself and karma is a bitch, but at this point ghosting seems like the logical thing to do. I've told her I don't want to be with her and have communicated several times that I just want to be friends (which at this point, I am kind of second guessing that decision also) so if she continues to send me messages confessing her attraction I will likely end up ghosting her. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/18 03:24 PM |
| 1 | How do I get her to back off?Should I just be blunt and say - listen you got attached too much too quickly, it scared the crap out of me, please back off and give me space? Or is there a different more subtle approach? | /r/askTRP | 03/02/18 07:07 AM |
| 2 | On a date, she takes out her phone and starts typingIt could be a test to see how you react. She could be testing your frame to see if you get offended easily or she could bored or she might really need to text in an emergency. I would suggest try to find out what exactly is the reason for her looking at her phone instead of at you. Then when you get a basic idea handle it accordingly. If she testing you - act normal like it is not bothering you, maybe even spark up a conversation with someone else who is not on a date with you, it will make her … | /r/askTRP | 03/02/18 07:00 AM |
| 1 | Nowhere To Have SexEveryone will tell you to move out on your own. You have your own reasons as to why you are with your parents. I would advise you to do some further reading on alternative places where you can hook up. I recently read and article that suggested finding rooftops that you can easily access and have sex there because 1) it's something that the girl has probably never done and will be new and thrilling for her and 2) pretty much nobody takes girls on some rooftop with a banging view of the city and … | /r/askTRP | 03/02/18 06:50 AM |
| 3 | Looking for advice on beating approach anxiety and good openers transitioning to phone number close.Number close is easy. If you have had a good interaction, "Listen I was actually on my way to meet up with a few friends, I loved talking to you. It would be great if keep in touch and maybe grab some coffee later. Let me get your number." Reality is though that you should only go for the number if there is no other option. For example if she has denied an instant date or hang out with you. As far as approach anxiety: * When you see a girl you want to approach, wave at her, it gets you to commit… | /r/seduction | 02/02/18 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Never give up guys! Finally lost the V-CardIt's a way for you to make yourself seem like a high value guy. If you are hooking up with other women, it must mean that the other women wants you so it puts the girl in sort of a competition. Sometimes it can be a good thing, other times it can be bad. The reason you do it is to make her invest more and compete for your attention. You project yourself as this high value guy and she starts chasing more and more. | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 11:43 PM |
| 5 | I have this girl sending me nudes on Snapchat, and I’m not sure if it’s just for the attention or what but how doe I escalate from here?What's your schedule looking like for the next couple of days? blah blah Lets grab a cocktail or two on XXX blah blah Great I will text you the place later. **Send her a screenshot of the place from like Google Maps or whatever app you use. | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Question: Is it a good thing or bad thing to jump from topic to topic during a conversation with a girl?If that's your personality then why change it? Be genuine and do what feels natural. For me personally I sometimes jump from topic to topic on purpose and keep 2-3 topics flowing at the same time because it lets me see whether the girl is intelligent enough to keep the conversation going. I guess I am ok at this because usually this builds a lot of interest with the girls especially if the conversation doesn't feel forced, but yeah my advice is if the reason you do it is because of your own pers… | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 01:18 AM |
| 2 | Never give up guys! Finally lost the V-CardCongratulations! Get yourself ready for the bullshit...how many women are you sleeping with besides me or something like this. The key is to make it seem like you are hooking up with others even if you are not. When she asks, treat it like a shit test and just pass the shit test. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 01:14 AM |
| 9 | How to respark sexual attractionI would say do the things you didn't do last time that you wanted to do. Last time you were shy and too drunk, so don't repeat the same mistakes, become a little more extroverted at the "group thing" and show your fun side. If you get close to her, use some kino, and if it is a loud group thing lean in to talk in her ear, it creates this subconscious level or comfort and if you go for the kiss, she is more likely to be receptive. | /r/seduction | 28/01/18 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Recently found out my neediness is holding me back. Any tips on overcoming this?There is a simple yet hard to a achieve solution to neediness. It's abundance. If you have many girls with which you are talking to you don't need to be needy because you know for a fact that if one girl ghosts you or becomes uninterested, you can easily go to the other girl. So what you have to do when you do not have many girls with which you are talking to is come from that abundance frame in which you honestly don't care too much if she dumps you or loses interest. You need to understand tha… | /r/seduction | 28/01/18 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Tips for approaching at college party?RSD Julien covers this really well in 10 Game, but I figure you won't have time for the full course. Just try to have fun and offer value to the girls and the people you are interacting with. I feel like at parties you may be successful with direct approaches if the girl is DTF or if she is just open to approaches, but you will have a lot more solid success if you use social interactions and basically attract girls through the fact that you are fun guy, everyone seems to be talking to you and la… | /r/seduction | 28/01/18 04:50 AM |
| 3 | Number of friends a guy has?It's more of a social proof in a way. You are usually portraying yourself as a high value guy, if you have no friends or very few friends, then you are not really a high value guy because you can't even attract friends. If you have lots of friends though, you not only earn validation by the fact you have those friends, but you also in a way become more attractive. There is a reason why men who know a lot of people in the bars usually have 2-3 girls around them. Girls are attracted to them. | /r/seduction | 26/01/18 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Letting girl get your number instead?if you're self assured enough giving her your number wouldn't convey to her that you're caving in to her It's your job as a man to be the chaser and leader in the initial attraction. If a girl initiates the conversation at the very beginning it almost always doesn't work well. It's ok if eventually it becomes where she is chasing you, that happens after you have conveyed enough value and portrayed yourself as a high value guy whom she would want to sleep with. However, in the beginning stages it… | /r/seduction | 26/01/18 05:04 AM |
| 3 | Screwed up another date with low confidence/Sneaky shittestsShould I just never go on a date if I am a bit tired and I don't feel that confident? Keep going on dates, even if you are tired or don't feel that confident, it's how you will learn what not to do and still win during the date. Think about it, if you never go on a date when you are tired and don't feel so confident, you will be exploring only one side of your game. It will prepare you for the time when you are super confident and go on a few dates with a girl, but then you lose that confidence … | /r/seduction | 21/01/18 04:28 PM |
| 1 | How to Cope with Flaky girls?ave a phone call chat the night before, and text good morning the day of That's clingy behavior. Sure have the phone call to set up the date, but no need to follow up with them until the day of the date. If a girl has a high interest level in you, she would reach out to you before the date and ask you to confirm. You should only confirm when asked to by the girl, otherwise assume things are on and a few hours prior to the date send a ping text like "Hey, might be a bit late, will be there closer… | /r/seduction | 21/01/18 04:19 PM |
| 3 | First Date Ideas?concerts - a lot of times you can go to cheap concerts for less than $20 bucks ice cream - i am sure there are lots of little mom and pop type of ice cream shops you've never heard of, google some and take her there. a lot of times you can find cool places that are unique and unheard of. If you are 21+ you may find a place where they have alcohol flavored ice cream, this is a great first date option. walk around the park - ideally you want to do this on a first date during the day so don't propo… | /r/seduction | 21/01/18 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Is it a date or a friendly meet up?This is a good advice. Kind of planned on doing this anyway, but the linking up and catching up part of her replies made me rethink the approach. | /r/seduction | 20/01/18 12:52 AM |
| 1 | If a random girl online asks a guy out, should the guy pay for just his food/drinks, or hers too?I'd say if she offers to pay, then you should pay, it's the gentleman's way of showing you are man to woman. However, if she doesn't offer to pay or even reach for her purse, then I am usually going to ask her to split the bill or I'd still pay, but chances are i won't go out on a date with her again just because of that original impression. | /r/seduction | 19/01/18 04:50 AM |
| 1 | How should you react if a girl has shown you disrespect and/or been patronising? Different than towards men or what? (Few examples)Example 1: She is shit testing you to see if you are a guy with more value than her. You pass shit tests by coming from an abundance mindset and showing that what she is saying the doesn't phase you. This on a subconscious level speaks to her that you are a high value guy and she should lower her guard and let you sweep her off her feet with your game. Per your example: Girl: You won't amount to anything with girls or in life. You: That is so funny, you know my mom was saying something like that… | /r/seduction | 03/01/18 04:22 AM |
| 1 | What does it mean when a girl says she talks about you a lot ?Call her out on it and find out for yourself. Maybe she talks about you because she likes you or because she considers you her gay best friend with whom she has a lot of fun, but would never get together with. We can only make assumptions here. Just say something witty about it and make her tell you what that means. | /r/seduction | 20/12/17 04:42 PM |
| 3 | What are your favorite openers for specific situationsSounds like you are asking for indirect openers. Clearly we can't cover all possible situations so I would just say either use a situational opener or use a generic opener. My go to generic one is "hey, I saw you, I thought you looked cute/attractive/beautiful/nice and I had to meet you". Then for situational ones, it varies. Say you see a girl walking and she is wearing a t-shirt that says LIFEGUARD on it...easy opener "hey are you really a lifeguard". | /r/seduction | 18/12/17 04:35 AM |
| 2 | Need advice for being less nervousWhy did you get nervous? Did you expect to get something out of the conversation you were having? A lot of times when this nervousness happens is when you know you are about to try to number close or go for a kiss or something like that. My advice is to not look for anything out of the conversation, but instead try to have fun, project that you are a cool guy and really not worry about the outcome. if you do however, get into that same situation, just think, these girls have not left, they must … | /r/seduction | 18/12/17 04:32 AM |
| 3 | I’m a freshman in college is wondering how I could possibly pickup girls that I see in passing sometimes but don’t have any classes with them or an obvious connection of any kind?Comment on something they are wearing. A lot of girls in college wear sweaters of the school or even other schools they went to or just wanted to go, but ended up in your school. Comment on something like that. Example would be "Hey cool sweater, where did you get it?" she will say oh thanks blah blah and you just say... "Ah cool, well listen you're really cute and though I think your sweater is awesome too, I really just wanted to meet you" ..from there just carry on with questions. A lot of ti… | /r/seduction | 17/12/17 05:21 AM |
| 1 | How do you pull while living with relatives?I've even thought about just renting out an AirBnb for a night or two when I know shit can go down and just pull her there. I've seen a lot of PUA do this when they go to another city where they do not live. | /r/seduction | 15/12/17 03:45 PM |
| 1 | How do you pull while living with relatives?It's right on topic and you bring up really good points. I am sometimes the same way, I would say something like "I live with my parents, yeah I am saving up to buy my own place" ...always justifying the answers. And you're right, a lot of times I think about what the girl would think rather than what the relatives living with you would think if you bring a girl over. "Would she be embarrassed when we wake up in the morning and my relatives are in the house?" How would you advise we overcome tho… | /r/seduction | 15/12/17 03:43 PM |
| 4 | How do you pull while living with relatives?It's a culture thing, technically I can move out, but in Asian cultures inter-generational cohabitation is pretty much the norm. If there is a specific reason like you having to work somewhere far away it is acceptable, but normally you are staying with your family. | /r/seduction | 15/12/17 04:46 AM |
| 1 | How do you pull while living with relatives?I am not saying anything specific here just in general. Let's just say bring up two scenarios. Scenario 1: You go on a date, maybe not a first date, let's say date 2 or 3, but even if one a first date, everything is going great you two hit it off, but you know you can't bring her home because of the situation mentioned above, what do you do? How do you escalate to the point where you can end up in her place? Assume you have already found out the logistics and know that she could potentially be d… | /r/seduction | 15/12/17 04:38 AM |
| 1 | How do you pull while living with relatives?Any advice on getting to their place? | /r/seduction | 15/12/17 01:12 AM |
| 8 | How do you pull while living with relatives?Asian parents like you. | /r/seduction | 15/12/17 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Can I get a wingman in Atlanta?Hit me up if you are interested, even if you found someone I'd be down to chill hit up places like Buckhead and Midtown. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/17 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Total noob tips to beginI see you're a fellow fapstronaut so glad to see you are taking the right step. My advice would be to go to /r/pickupshares and download some of the programs there to gain the confidence to start going out. If you are in a populated city you will have no issues with people you can talk to. If you are in a not so populated city then that may be a problem, but don't worry there are I think 4 Billion women out there, there will be at least one out there for you. | /r/seduction | 12/12/17 09:26 PM |
| 3 | I wussed out againNext time just wave at her. A good trick is when you see a cute girl, wave at her, once you do that you are committing yourself to talk to her otherwise you look like a random creep who just waved some girl. | /r/seduction | 12/12/17 09:21 PM |
| 2 | Planning on inviting her out, any possible advice?Don't ask girls out on a Friday or Saturday. Those days should be reserved for you to have fun, you should only go out with them on those days if they ask, but not in the first 1-3 dates, meaning you can on date 4 for example. "She obviously might know that I'm interested", don't just assume that because you DMed her she knows you are into her. Also you don't sound too sure about it. My suggestion is to build up, not a lot, just a little banter and flirt over text and ask her out for coffee on a… | /r/seduction | 12/12/17 05:06 PM |
| 13 | What do you say when your match asks you “what are you looking for” on a date or afterIn my experience there two situations. When a girl asks you she either 1) wants to have a quick hookup or 2) wants a relationship. Either way the "What are you looking for on here?" is a qualifying question to understand whether you are what she is looking for. This is kind of like a shit test to see if you are the type of guy she is looking for. How do you deal with shit tests? You just pass them. Example (misinterpreting): Her: What are you looking for? You: I am trying to find my keys, but ca… | /r/seduction | 12/12/17 04:38 PM |
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