So I was watching this PUA's (white guy) infield footage. He stopped a black girl and at first she was a little weirded out, but eventually warmed up to the guy.

So he starts going into his routines and one of the routines is where he tells the girl how he is amazing at picking out apples, like that's his weird talent. So then he says he is awful at picking out bananas. In a way it's supposed to be a sexual reference, you know the apples represent the balls and the banana represents the penis, so it gets the girl to think how she is good at picking out bananas or penises. It's even better if she vocalizes it.

Anyway, he tells her how if they get married, she would go to the grocery store and pick out bananas and he would go on the side where the apples are and pick those.

Here is where she asked him "Is that like a racial thing?"

Now you can view this as a shit test to test his frame or like a genuine concern, but honestly I don't know how I would handle this so I figured I'd ask her and see how you all would. The guy in the infield was just silent and made a gesture indicating it went over his head and he wasn't thinking. I don't think he handled it well.

So the question - How would you handle this situation or similar situation where the girl accuses you of being racist or subtly indicates she feels like the remarks you're making are racially offensive?