| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | False sexual assault allegationsRead the definition of sexual assault. Kissing someone on the cheek and neck does count as sexual assault in most jurisdictions not amounting to rape. Learn more about consent. If you cannot read non verbal clues just ask before doing anything. Better than assaulting someone | /r/seduction | 25/07/21 08:44 PM |
| 21 | Are You The “Clingy” Type?Dump him girl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 01:05 PM |
| 36 | It’s so hard for me to forgive my pickmeisha pastSame, I deal with it by taking on additional work projects so that I don't have time to think about it. Works for me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 03:30 PM |
| 5 | This is for all the ladies going through a breakup with a LVM/NVMThat's great but you should still have blocked him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 06:39 PM |
| 2 | How to Confront Narcissists' Lethal Weapon: ProjectionThis is great, but I would just block and move on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 09:42 PM |
| 1 | It's only okay when males practice seperatism bit lord forbid FDS is females only (2 slides)Then why did the temple conduct purification rituals after a woman entered its premises ? What you have said in your comment is incorrect and supports degrading of women. Here is the link https://www.shethepeople.tv › s... Web results Sabarimala Purification Rituals: Priests Are Deeming Women Impure ... https://wap.business-standard.com/article-amp/current-affairs/left-group-objects-to-purification-after-women-s-entry-into-sabarimala-119010300548_1.html | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 08:26 PM |
| 12 | “If He Wanted To He Would” and “He’s Just Not That Into You” Still Centers Male Desire: Empowering Alternatives To These PhrasesCan we add this in the handbook. It's amazing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 11:12 AM |
| 3 | Mom is a pickmeisha - please help me learn to forgive her and prepare for the worst.Find a different living arrangement: hostels, female roomates, studio apartments etc. Your mom, well you can't save everybody so save yourself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 08:55 AM |
| 2 | In a fb group, someone told a story about being ghosted on the way to meet up for a date. The comments were full of women telling similar stories. These women give so much time and so many second chances, for what? Disappointment.I would not drive at all for anyone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 04:13 PM |
| 3 | My Plan for ExclusivityI think the point us that she did not waste her time on nonsense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 03:26 PM |
| 6 | Did you know that "aftercare" was a thing with BDSM?Such cycles are common with domestic abuse victims too. The abuser usually treats them very well after abusing them, similar to this situation. That's why most victims don't leave, it "works". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Why does it throw me off and affect me so much when LVM from my past reach out to me even though I have a healthy relationship now?Block and delete rule exists for a reason | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 03:54 PM |
| 23 | How to recognize future fakingDoes it matter ? It is harmful to you irrespective of where it comes from | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 10:21 AM |
| 2 | 30 y/o man eats his own boogers, feed the dog with his spoon, doesn't wash his hands nor showers, gives his spouse diarrhoea with his cooking. "You may be going a bit overboard with expectations" says scrote in the commentsPeople in the above screenshot blaming her are as bad as her bf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 04:57 PM |
| 1 | 30 y/o man eats his own boogers, feed the dog with his spoon, doesn't wash his hands nor showers, gives his spouse diarrhoea with his cooking. "You may be going a bit overboard with expectations" says scrote in the commentsThe audacity. These gaslighters in the comments are as bad as her bf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Don't fall for a Fauxpology or a Self-made Victim: "I'm Sorry it Came Off That Way," "I guess I'm the Bad Guy Once Again"And you still stayed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 12:29 PM |
| 24 | Using kinks to your advantageGreat idea | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 10:02 AM |
| 2 | Please quit if you are about to start/ on this course... don’t waste years of your life.Same gurl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 07:03 AM |
| 14 | Why Online Dating is Awful and Makes People Feel AwfulAs someone in my early 20s, I agree with you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 07:56 PM |
| 7 | But god forbid you don’t take care of a LVM when he has his “man cold”You shouldn't have driven though, it's okay be wiser now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 01:57 PM |
| 18 | So you WANT her to cry over your dumb ass...okay. Sick emotionally manipulative mfThat's a manipulation tactic he wasn't going to marry you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 02:56 PM |
| 3 | It's important to be aware of the tactics used by those looking to emotionally manipulate and abuse us. Hands up how many of us have been spoken to like this by a man? I know I have.Saving this, can we add this in the handbook, please? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 10:47 AM |
| 1 | What is your timeline to marriage?Same | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 01:11 AM |
| 13 | I only have one question: WHYIf someone asks me for anal, I will tell them to find a guy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 11:44 PM |
| 9 | I keep seeing scrotes calling dates they pay for "glorified prostitution", because they expect sex for money. So to negate these erroneous beliefs I say, follow FDS standards and make them wait months and months on end.Love this so much | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 11:42 PM |
| 3 | Any ladies that dont drink, smoke or do drugs?Vet them before meeting, but don't ask directly. Ask him what he does for fun. If he thinks like that most likely his life is so boring, that's why he tries to escape it using substances | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 07:10 PM |
| 3 | Boy bye.THIS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 07:08 AM |
| 1 | I need helpBe safe, he was shit anyways | /r/ExRedPill | 04/09/20 07:03 AM |
| 2 | A scrote almost killed my dog tonightSue him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 11:23 PM |
| 127 | I—????????????Well, Indian women (me!) have very high standards. Even the pickmes do. Guess who got rejected, lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 10:19 PM |
| 4 | The amount of upvotes & awards this has is terrifying.Who told them that we are having sex while just 'dating' again ? Lol It can't be prostitution because we are not having sex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 09:24 PM |
| 4 | Today, I finally made peace with leaving a man on seen.been there. I was extremely tempted to text a guy who used to leave me on seen. Block and delete his number, nothing else works unless you have the control of a saint | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 11:41 PM |
| 59 | Hypocrisy of menyes take a look at TRP, muh she didn't suck my dick, sad sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 11:39 PM |
| 25 | I showed up my pickmeisha mother-in-law for the first time and...IT... FELT... AWESOME!is she Indian? I am too and low value is common here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, is this the "50-50" or actually fair?Some people just refuse to read the handbook before posting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 08:10 PM |
| 14 | I'm 30 yrs old, and I'm shocked at how old men lookThey lie about their age | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 09:11 PM |
| 5 | Creating boundaries doesn't need to be presented in a negative way. We can instill boundaries while still keeping it a positive experience.My new favourite quote | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 08:13 PM |
| 2 | I worry for the future of relationships.They will still come to.us for validation and "carrying forward their legacy". 😫😫 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 07:55 PM |
| 3 | Until you’re engaged, when you make plans for the future, always start your sentences by “if we are still together by [ insert month/year], we could go to xxx“Seems interesting !! Which book is it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 02:11 PM |
| 3 | There is no "one that got away"Block girl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 01:17 PM |
| 1 | At the first sign of disrespect, nip it in the bud.That's soo cool | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 03:16 PM |
| 14 | Should I block an ex for the simple fact that hearing from him makes me sad and hinders my self improvement progress?Hell yeah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 02:41 PM |
| 2 | I think my boyfriend cheated on me months ago and is still lying about itDump him, even if he has not cheated his behaviour is still unacceptable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 02:02 AM |
| 2 | Guy said he had a night planned and needed a date... for a sex club. Needless to say, BLOCKED.I don't think that's fds approved | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 12:49 AM |
| 5 | Guy said he had a night planned and needed a date... for a sex club. Needless to say, BLOCKED.I would like to hear how you would have 'fun' and enjoy yourself at a place like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Am I too sensitive?dump him. Trash belongs in the dustbin | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Advice on breaking up with someone emotionally manipulative?Block delete. Move away move on. Trash belongs in the dustin and not in your life. break up when he is out of your apartment and refuse to communicate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 12:33 AM |
| 1 | my vision of women is fucked up and probably irreversible, studies and life experiences do nothing but confirm itFds is not female red pill. It does not tell us to manipulate or use men. It tells us to avoid disrespectful people, that's it. But I guess disrespectful people don't like that they can't use innocent people anymore | /r/ExRedPill | 23/08/20 10:01 AM |
| 115 | "Why do you want to get married? It's just a piece of paper"if he actually thought that it was a piece of paper, he would have married you. He knows that it is a commitment that he doesn't want to make that's why they were bullshitting you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 02:16 AM |
| 11 | Man tries to get his girlfriend to sell the condo she worked her ass off for so he can take the money and be put on the deed since his is shitty and he can’t benefit from the one solely in her name. He tries to guilt her into selling by slut shaming her since she used stripper money.GOLDDIGGER !!! bet he got her pregnant on purpose to make her more invested | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 02:00 AM |
| 17 | My friends and I love this one: this LVM told me he didn’t believe in condoms on a first date and when I ended the date he unraveled.They act like little kids. So you dismiss them like little kids | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 01:43 AM |
| 2 | 1 sign he's a LVM = he's a LVM. Don't have doubts about it.Thank you so much. Need this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 07:26 AM |
| 20 | I have a problem with Indian men.Thats true, trying to date Indian men is like sorting through trash. Date multiple people at a time (fellow Indian here) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 06:20 AM |
| 8 | Unconventional red flagsOhhh, thank you so much !! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 05:37 AM |
| 10 | Unconventional red flagsCould somebody please explain. I am not able to understand why this is a red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 07:30 PM |
| 8 | The message I got after the last comment I posted here...A guy texting random women on Reddit has soo much going on in his life. As if a 15 pounds overweight, curvy woman would bother to look at him. Ha ha . The delusion | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 07:18 PM |
| 19 | This is why you VET and NEVER have sex too early - bullet dodgedThe grapes are sour | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 08:10 PM |
| 1 | How I Deliberately Revamped my OLD Profile to Attract HVM and Deter LVM (Example Profile and Rational Included)Please add this to the Handbook !! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 07:32 PM |
| 18 | What was one of the most infuriating neg comments an ex LVM/NVM said to you?Don't have any ex but just guys 'interested in me' Telling me that I was spitting while eating and then bragging about lying about this to his friends (he didn't know that a friend of mine was listening) Telling me that I was sweaty and saying 'eww' when I just walked out of the rain Making fun about my ethnicity, basically implying that people from my ethnicity were unruly or violent Actually it could be a book so let's leave it to this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 11:38 PM |
| 2 | I need your support, sisters!Your bf did not defend you, he should have. End of the story | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 04:39 AM |
| 6 | Quick question about cancelling datesBe proud of the improvement. We can not even imagine how low these men will stoop | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 08:06 PM |
| 20 | Quick question about cancelling datesFirst of all whether you should also block a man if he cancels on the same day of date because of work reasons ? indicates that you trust what he says. Do Not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 06:13 PM |
| 9 | Don't forget to ask men to get tested for STDs before sleeping with them.Don't standard shame. Not everyone comes from countries/areas/cultures where premarital/casual sex is common. It is okay to disagree but you seem to be mocking her and dismissive of her ideas. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 10:35 AM |
| 3 | Sincerely need advice (tough love but plz don’t be mean)why is more important than how. If you felt strongly about it, you would have changed the locks 10 years ago. what you allow, you encourage | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 10:29 AM |
| 12 | BLACK PILL PPD TRUTH SERUM TIDBITS ON HOW MEN DISTINGUISH BETWEEN GF/WIFE & FWB MATERIAL...EYE ROLL. NOTHING TO DO WITH BEING A SO-CALLED "NICE /GOOD /LOYAL WOMAN"Sad, doesn't sound good, but unfortunately is true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 01:28 PM |
| 5 | Men that want to be “exclusive” before asking you to be their girlfriend are low-effort. These guys are delusional and think they’re the selective gender. It’s your job as a woman to show them otherwise. WE have options, THEY don’t." Let him be exclusive with his hand. " Golden | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 10:57 PM |
| 9 | Get picked or die tryingTruer words haven't been said. And they will drag you down and shame you too. They are best left alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 05:30 PM |
| 1 | The goal is to keep you happyShe handled a scrote successfully which counts as success too. However block delete would be ideal | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 10:10 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else down to read Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft and do a virtual bookclub discussion each week to process the content/discuss? Details here!!!I am in | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 12:22 PM |
| 6 | People who dont believe sexual abuse claimsYes, they are LV. It seems bad but most people are LV and won't add shit to your wellbeing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 06:24 AM |
| 2 | Abuser and psycho GF are potentially moving across the country to my townGet a no contact order | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 11:51 AM |
| 6 | Advice/thoughts on the 90 days before sex rule?No sex before marriage. Sexual compatibility is usually based on effort. Like if he puts in effort to make sure that you get off, that's usually enough. Effort and intent can be figured out without sex too. Just my viewpoint, you can have a different one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 11:29 AM |
| 83 | It is not our jobs to make better boyfriends out of bums."Read this out loud: If he wanted to text or call me, he would" Recovering pick me here. I needed to hear this. Thank you so much !! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 10:21 PM |
| 11 | Why would you ever write something like this on your dating profile?Projection ladies. He has an STD !! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Ladies I need urgent advice!! My date is in 8 hoursCancel. I am not a vegan but I would never do something like that. He is disrespectful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 07:16 AM |
| 4 | Desi Pickmeishas be likeOmg hahahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 06:47 AM |
| 24 | Incel = involuntarily celibate, not picky and cynicalHe is projecting his insecurities onto that poor woman. Just Block him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 04:58 AM |
| 4 | Has anyone actually had success in advising their pickmeisha friends not to be pickmes?Nope, and they demonize you for not standing by your man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 02:09 PM |
| 3 | Am I low value? Kissless virgin.Thank you so much. Are there any other subs like vindicta that you know of | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 11:01 AM |
| 45 | Of course, the comments would say that they should just "communicate."He doesn't value you, move on gurl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 06:21 AM |
| 7 | I saw on purplepilldebate "do men hit the wall?" and of course, many claim women were the only ones who did. Do men know that they aren't immune to ageing ?The best response to deal with people like that is to ask them to wait till 40. Then we will see 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 02:15 AM |
| 194 | I hope this hurts a man's feelings 😂😂Soo true. I don't know who perpetuated this myth of the nice guy. That is a myth. Nice guys are worse than fuckboys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 03:29 AM |
| 2 | When you’re having a text convo with a new guy and he disappearsText with at least 4 guys on OLD. So that if one doesn't respond you don't even notice. Read the fds handbook. Date and talk with multiple guys until you are at least bf gf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 01:41 PM |
| 1 | The Power Of Teasing - Building Major Sexual Desire In WomenI have asked the same advice as a woman and it works guys !!!! This is awesome. But be careful, this only works when the other person considers you to be at least somewhat attractive. Bonus point : it also works in friendships to establish your dominance, but play a very mild version of this. | /r/seduction | 02/05/20 09:14 AM |
| 4 | Can't wait another month for her to be available because of a pandemicThis is the kind of excuses women give to themselves because the truth hurts. I did the same with a guy too. But, getting over him is the only option. I actually feel so retarded to fall for such bs but I think I was mad in love. Girl, the sooner you get out of this, the lesser the hurt and time wasted | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 08:32 PM |
| 7 | PSA: there is no such thing as "HVM-qualities"The main problem here is that men are applauded for being a decent human being. It is literally the bare minimum. Just because a guy is a decent non shitty person does not mean that he is a HVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Anyone that’s stayed single on purpose to heal , learn, grow!? How did you do it?Flirt but don't date. I get it male validation feels nice. Personally for me I get more validation from a variety of men as a single women. One guy would just reduce the amount of validation you get. I have had plenty of options since I lost weight about 2 years ago. I had options before that I had options but no so many. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 11:22 AM |
| 1 | Fed up with a man child!Dump him and the therapist, you deserve better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 12:01 AM |
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