| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 6 | This sub is turning into a joke. On another note, my wife saw me smile today, is that beta? Should I go no contact?hard next ABUNDANCE | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 05:09 PM |
| 0 | Girlfriends dog died, she is pushing me awayThanks for the advice, she rang me up 5 mins ago and said sorry for snapping at me etc and I normally would of sent that text around an hour ago so was defo the right decision, thanks man. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 09:43 AM |
| 9 | Boundaries in LTRHard next | /r/askTRP | 05/05/19 01:45 PM |
| 11 | Couldn’t get it up so embarrased.Mate it happened to me and we’ve been together for 4 months now, if she genuinely likes you and is a genuine girl then it wouldn’t matter at all. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Girl dating for 4 months has been walking all over mefuck off you ugly cunt | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Girl dating for 4 months has been walking all over meActually struggling not to message her today as she hasn’t text me at all, she’s going out tonight like I am too but I feel if she goes out unhappy she might cheat, should have done this during the week ffs | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 03:19 PM |
| -2 | Girl dating for 4 months has been walking all over meHow has she broken up with me? xd | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Girl dating for 4 months has been walking all over mePretty much yeah | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Girl dating for 4 months has been walking all over meYeah it's confusing, how long have you been dating? In what ways were you a pushover? W | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Girl dating for 4 months has been walking all over meHow would I do that? Tried looking at sidebar for 'passive dread' but couldn't find. Is it possible to do it over text or in person only? | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Girl I have been dating for 4 months has been walking all over meThanks for the reply, how would I make myself be aloof in that situation? | /r/seduction | 13/04/19 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Girl dating for 4 months has been walking all over meYeah I lift | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 11:14 AM |
| 1 | Girl dating for 4 months has been walking all over meYeah that's what I thought, normally the conversation is good as I am the one to carry it on but obviously yesterday I took a step back and decided to stop making effort, I guess in a way that is passive dread as I don't wanna come across as too keen anymore. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 11:13 AM |
| 1 | Girl dating for 4 months has been walking all over meWhich part? I've been a beta pushover for too long with her and feel like if I show her I don't care as much she will change her behaviour. I guess it's a longshot though! | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Pursuer/DistancerWhat does BS’ing mean? | /r/seduction | 12/04/19 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Fed up of being walked over by girl i'm datingTamed = controlled? How can you go about telling them you're not allowing them to goto the club? | /r/askTRP | 01/04/19 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Fed up of being walked over by girl i'm datingI accepted it last night and told her i'm here for her if she needs to talk, she then replied saying she isn't normally like that and blaming it on the drink, it's not me or anyone else apparently. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/19 09:25 AM |
| 0 | Fed up of being walked over by girl i'm datingI was at the club until 3AM that night, doesn't mean I was cheating... Had plently of oppurtunities to do so but didn't. I was in a LTR for 7 years and let her go clubbing whenever she wanted, all of my friends are in LTR 5years+ and all of them and their girlfriends go clubbing too. Legit didn't know this subreddit was about caging/controlling a girl. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/19 09:19 AM |
| 1 | Fed up of being walked over by girl i'm datingI was at the club until 3AM that night, doesn't mean I was cheating... Had plently of oppurtunities to do so but didn't. I was in a LTR for 7 years and let her go clubbing whenever she wanted, all of my friends are in LTR 5years+ and all of them and their girlfriends go clubbing too. Legit didn't know this subreddit was about caging/controlling a girl. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/19 09:18 AM |
| 1 | Help me get the fuck off this subreddit and not post again. Sick of it.Soft next her and spin plates. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 09:26 AM |
| 1 | Taking back control?I'm trying my best to do that, for example taking forever to reply on text, not answering phone calls straight away, i'm supposed to be going to her house tomorrow as her parents are away all weekend so I don't wanna miss this weekend but i'm guessing stop being available as much and seeing her as much will work? Anything else? I've tried this, every time I used to go out I would get atleast 2-3 girls try it with me and I even told her what happened on the nightout but then she will reverse it a… | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 11:03 AM |
| 1 | Is it morally wrong for me (29M) to seek out 18-19 y/o F’s?I'm 27 and been talking to a 19 year old for 2 months now and we're basically together, her 22 year old brother had a problem with it but it's all good now. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/19 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Should I be angry?Nah I don’t unfortunately, I get girls easy on nights out but this is only girl I’m talking to right now | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 04:29 PM |
| 2 | Should I be angry?Yeah sucks! I dunno why I get like this as when I go out I can get decent girls very easy, she just seemed different that’s all 😫 | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 04:28 PM |
| 0 | Should I be angry?What are you implying? Oneitis or? | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 04:27 PM |
| 2 | More options = attractive?Thanks for this advice! It’s hard to know how she will react in the future as she comes across as a shy/insecure girl even though she’s beautiful which is weird! | /r/askTRP | 19/12/18 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Were they flirting?hehe | /r/askTRP | 02/12/18 01:06 PM |
| 1 | SituationAppreciate the advice, honestly I really wanna do this but in my back of my mind I keep thinking ‘why would she even risk ruining friendship with her best friend over someone that she had a ONS with’ But then at same time I feel like you don’t meet a genuine girl like that everyday so fk it as I don’t have any trouble attracting girls it’s just finding the genuine ones that’s the hard part which sucks! Thanks for advice though I will have proper think about it in morning! | /r/askTRP | 13/11/18 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Put yourself in my shoes pleaseAppreciate advice, fully forgot about my ex now, girl was fully sober when we got back to the flat aswell! It's crazy but the flatmate admitted liking me n stuff happened last night just don't even know what's going on anymore lol thanks for the reply though man. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/18 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Put yourself in my shoes pleaseAppreciate it, problem with my thinking is if I don't mention it to my flatmate the girl might not think I even liked her etc but I guess that will also come across as needy and beta so I just can't win. Feel like such a pussy, she was a proper nice person to talk to and atleast an 8/10 in looks and it feels like my oneitis has transferred over to her which is ridiculous as i've only ever spoken to her that night and that's it! FML | /r/askTRP | 10/11/18 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Put yourself in my shoes pleaseYeah only problem is her mate lives quite far away so guess I gotta wait until she visits again, just hoping she says something about it whilst drunk tonight. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/18 08:25 PM |
| 4 | Put yourself in my shoes pleaseLiterally just got back from gym n okay yeah appreciate it, always take the wrong option and go beta mode when it comes to girls but gonna try so hard to not give a fuk | /r/askTRP | 10/11/18 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Getting over missed opportunity?Nah we hadn't drank anything for like 6 hours, but yeah I might mention that to her flatmate tonight cheers. | /r/seduction | 10/11/18 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Getting over missed opportunity?Thanks for the reply, obviously I didn't say the full story but I made it clear that I did find her attractive as she was easily a 8/10 but her friend kinda cucked me as she woke up from being drunk and was texting and ringing her asking where she was and had to leave. I'm actually going out on a nightout with my flatmate again (which is her best friend) so i'm wondering whether to mention anything to her whilst i'm drunk, what ya think? | /r/seduction | 10/11/18 05:21 PM |
| 1 | ONS girl lied about pointless stuffMy bad I forgot to add that she said this when we were walking around the city for 3 hours 2am-5am, haven't text at all. | /r/seduction | 09/11/18 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Messed up ONSYes it's weird in the way that it happened as I literally thought we were just friends until she got on top of me kissing lol! Okay thank you I thought that would be the best option, I have mentioned to my flatmate that I had a good time with her friend and i'm just gonna leave it at that. | /r/seduction | 09/11/18 08:32 AM |
| 1 | Do girls like the babyface or no?I get called babyface sometimes but I don’t understand because my face is angled as anything because of my low bodyfat and I chew quite a lot so yeah not sure how to stop being called it! | /r/seduction | 28/09/18 02:31 PM |
| 3 | The biggest lie a woman will ever tell you...Exactly... Was with ex fiance 7 years n literally less than a week before broke up she was telling me how much she loved me etc. | /r/MGTOW | 27/06/18 03:07 PM |
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