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Discussionyo_dwayne/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 10:00 PM
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Discussionyo_dwayne/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 08:23 PM
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Discussionyo_dwayne/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:59 AM
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Question For Menyo_dwayne/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:38 PM
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Yes they choose that and then cry about the wage gap. The gap that doesn’t exist. These are all choices made by a woman. Which is why it’s an EARNINGS AND LABOR gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 06:10 PM
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Taking care of YOUR child is YOUR responsibility, it’s not unpaid labor. If you’re taking care of the house and your husband is taking care of the bills, it’s even. Stop bringing shit shit up. If you don’t want responsibilities as a parent DONT BECOME A PARENT. Easy solution, but stop complaining about it and stop trying to use it in a wage/labor/earnings gap argument because it makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 05:12 PM
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Where do you live? Please list me a country or culture where men just lounge around and women do all of the hard work
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 01:06 PM
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More women accept welfare, unemployment, alimony and child support than men…. Laborless pay. Talk about that when you try to talk about “unpaid labor”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 11:58 AM
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If a woman doesn’t give birth, nobody has to do it. She made the choice to have the child. It’s not unpaid labor, it’s called living with your decisions. Nobody has to be paid for taking care of the child if it isn’t there to begin with. Yes, we acknowledge women make their own choices as they are free to do. Nobody is forcing the woman to have kids. She makes her own choices. Nothing is “happening” other than women making their choices in life and then crying for “unpaid labor”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 11:55 AM
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Women, please stop saying “unpaid labor” in reference to taking care of your responsibilities as an adult. Cleaning the house you live in and taking care of the child your birthed isn’t unpaid labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 11:53 AM
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Yea and if YOU don’t have a baby, nobody has to take care of it and nobody has to be paid, problem solved! The child is YOURS. You birthed it, you are expected to take part in taking care of it. It’s not unpaid labor. Nobody needs to pay you for taking care of your child. And by measure, more unpaid labor is done yearly BY MEN. Lest you forget the prison system is majority men and the labor in there is unpaid. Taking care of the child you created isn’t “unpaid labor”. If you don’t want to take c…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 11:43 AM
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No it doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 11:40 AM
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The wage gap doesn’t exist. It’s a labor gap and earning gap. Women don’t do the same well paying jobs that men do
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 10:41 AM
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Superior women who don’t want to get dirty? Sounds much like the old “non-superior” women of yesteryear lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 10:37 AM
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So women don’t work in factories because they get sexually assaulted too much? Lolololol this is getting dumber and dumber really.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 10:32 AM
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Sounds like you have single mother problems. Some of you women really try to make it sound like the woman does everything and men just get to lounge around. That’s isn’t even close to the norm in society so stop saying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 10:31 AM
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“Women work part time because they have to take care of their families” is the biggest sack of shit excuse I’ve heard in a long ass time
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 10:29 AM
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You sound reeeeeeeeeally silly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 10:26 AM
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Women don’t do unpaid labor in the household. Taking care of YOUR child and the house YOU live in isn’t labor, it’s called taking care of YOUR responsibilities
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 10:25 AM
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Men and women do earn the same for the same job, they just don’t go for the same jobs. The wage gap doesn’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 10:23 AM
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We date differently, I don’t spend money to have sex with them. I’ll do what I please, so far the results are great
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 04:00 PM
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I gotcha. Interesting take. Very judgmental but interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:59 PM
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You wrote a whole lotta shit there, but generally your dumbest idea was the one where you called it garbage that someone may not have the same definition of dating as you. Pretty stupid if you ask me. I stopped reading after that point because I don’t even entertain people who have that kind of tone in a discussion. Something not being the same as your outlook isn’t “garbage”. Grow up. Goodnight
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:29 AM
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I loved there for many years, I have a real Love/Hate relationship with Montreal because I don’t know French and for other reasons. The positives are amazing. Like the fact that there are SOOOOOOOOO many places to eat and do stuff. For that reason, planning dates was always a breeze
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 01:43 AM
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Really jealous that you’ve lived in those places. France so you probably speak French I assume, you’d probably do good in Quebec
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 01:37 AM
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They just jump to conclusions. Common theme on the internet really lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 01:36 AM
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That’s facts, a lot of people are jumping to the conclusion that dating means bf/gf
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 12:40 AM
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Where are you bringing originally?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 12:39 AM
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Lolol I like this
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:51 PM
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She can be right and I can be right to, everyone does dating differently
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:50 PM
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I don’t agree
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:10 PM
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What you did is called the organic method, the best way to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:08 PM
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I agree, I only court one woman at a time
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 08:57 PM
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It’s time and money consuming, I don’t court 2 women at a time, one is enough
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 08:57 PM
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Lol well damn
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 08:56 PM
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So the answer is No… no it does not help you because if my wife looks good until she’s 45 and then my kids are just ugly and then my wife has to pay to pay to maintain her fake look, then no, that’s not gonna help her SMV
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 11:19 PM
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Laser hair removal and facial treatments aren’t plastic surgery, that’s maintenance imho. Things where you’re being cut and changed or injected with something to make an immediate temporary change are the things I’m talking about. More so things where fat is being sucked out and removed or lived to another location
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:53 PM
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Well by supermodel, I MEAN an actual model who is multi time published and widely recognized as a top tier model… most of those women are naturally beautiful. To answer your question, it more depends on how good looking the man is himself. If you’re asking me, my answer is neither. Lol. I believe I’m above average looking so I want an above average looking woman. So I’m going for the 8 or 9 that’s au natural haha. Surgery also has a lot to do in confidence in one’s self’s AND athlete is up keep …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:52 PM
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You think the majority of super models have plastic surgery? You should back track on that comment. Men care about authenticity and genes. Besides “small adjustments” have to be redone over and over due to aging and weight gain/loss, which is why surgery very very rarely goes unnoticed. ESPECIALLY breast augmentation and facial reconstruction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:38 PM
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So how does surgery help genetics?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:08 PM
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Preach!!! Women in their natural form are just so beautiful. I really don’t like an unnatural woman
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:51 PM
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Louder for the people in the back lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:43 PM
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To me, it always looks good in clothing. Very easy to accomplish that. But when things get intimate and her ass is moving like a giant backpack or her boobs are stuck in place and her face looks like she’s always surprised, it’s a turn off ultimately. For me it’s the stomach work. Sticks out like a sore thumb. I dunno what happens but a girl will get the fat removed from her stomach area to have a flat stomach and it becomes flat but leaves ununiform ripples or wrinkles. Not like abs poking out …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:25 PM
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Changing weight like that leaves behind skin and skin has to get removed. In street clothes maybe you couldn’t tell but once the clothes come off, I’d surely be able to tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:18 PM
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I said the same thing, sounds funny to me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:13 PM
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You can’t speak for all men when you say they don’t care about surgery. That’s an asinine statement make and comes off as something you’re saying to make yourself feel better. A good number of men prefer a natural woman. Men will have sex with an augmented woman for sure but the numbers change for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:11 PM
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Lol I feel good about showing you that you’re wrong tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:28 PM
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Yes and plenty low income providers have families that live safely. What’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:27 PM
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I didn’t even read that article btw, I’m just gonna keep reiterating what a PROVIDER is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:20 PM
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Funny, you still used the word “provider” to describe someone who you said isn’t a provider lol. A provider is someone who provides food, shelter, light amenities(phone, cable, internet), and a means to continue making money. I’ll keep saying that until you prove that you’re too dense to understand what a provider is
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:01 PM
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The more you speak, the more I understand that you don’t know what a provider is
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:56 PM
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Lololol fuck this is classic
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:50 PM
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So provider means providing YOUR quality of life, to you. Meanwhile someone being a provider means they are able to have their partner and kids not work while they work and provide food and shelter and a means to get to and from work/school.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:48 PM
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The more you comment, the less intelligent you come off to me so I’m just gonna say “you win, you’re right and I’m wrong, thanks for the debate”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:43 PM
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How did he not prove that he is willing to cut grass? What are you even talking about, it’s literally nothing to do with the point. Illegal immigrants don’t make a lot. The point is they budget properly and live within their means that point went way over your head I see lol. The guy making 60k is a worse provider because he doesn’t know how to budget
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:43 PM
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If you asked him what he does for a living he says he flips burgers. It’s literally what he does for a living. I could go lower and say then men who work with him make good money too and they aren’t owners. There are ranges to professions
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:37 PM
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The point is, in their current lives, the 25k a year person would make a better provider. Illegal immigrants that cut grass and have their wives stay home prove this every day in America. America as a population lives above its means and in debt.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:35 PM
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Shit, everywhere. I know an electrician right now that still lives with his parents and he is mid thirties. I know a person who owns a food truck, flipping burgers and working 65 hour weeks and he’s clearing 65k/ year take home. Open your mind. A title does let dictate your position in life lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:31 PM
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Lolol hell yea
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:29 PM
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You said a person who makes 60k is a better provider than someone who makes 25k. I asked a question based on a hypothetical scenario I made. You still haven’t said who the better provider is
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:29 PM
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Lololol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:23 PM
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You didn’t answer my question. You just skated around the fact that I diminished the validity of your claim lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:18 PM
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I was just told that if you don’t want to talk about your job it’s because you’re embarrassed. You just proved me right. People don’t want to talk about their jobs for a host of reasons that have nothing to do with money
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:17 PM
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So if a woman spends 50 hours per week being a secretary, but hates her job, what does her job actually tell you about her personality/character?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:14 PM
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I like the idea of Having a job with a wide salary range
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:12 PM
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Lolol I’m gonna use this one hahaa
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:10 PM
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Lol really? What about if the guys who makes 60k has a cost of living that’s 70k? And the guy making 25k has a cost of living that is 10k? Sorry but providing is about budgeting more than anything. Yes earning potential is a part but if you spend more than you earn you’re not a good provider
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:08 PM
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Most high paying jobs also take 40 hours of your week but the key is budgeting and living within your means. Being a provider is making sure food is on the table and a roof is over your head, nothing else
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:05 PM
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It’s quite a shame
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:03 PM
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There are a good amount of burger flippers that are better providers than electricians, just saying
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:03 PM
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Lololol oh man I’m gonna use this one
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:02 PM
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Lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:58 PM
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You’re traditional, so you’re cleaning the house, cooking all meals, doing the laundry and all other house work? Also how does my job tell me how good of a provider I am?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:58 PM
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If your job is who you are, you don’t have any depth
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:56 PM
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Lolol I have to try “I pray that God provides for me” one time at least
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:51 PM
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I agree with what you said, having a certain job doesn’t make you a good or bad provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:50 PM
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You said all of that and it made literally no sense because grammar and punctuation obviously elude you but you didn’t answer the question. Not even a little bit lol. If a man pays for everything and no kids were involved, what do you think is a fair share for the woman to get in divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 01:24 AM
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It does sound shady until a woman uses a false accusation of cheating in a last attempt to get half of a man’s money. Granted, I’m not saying every woman is like this or even the majority, I’m speaking of an extreme. Extremes and “worst case scenario” are exactly why prenups and other contractual agreements are made. I don’t think infidelity should have no penalty, but I don’t think it should void the prenup. But I don’t cheat so that wouldn’t bother me. But I’ve heard of divorces taking years! …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 01:15 AM
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Just a question, if the man bought everything and paid for everything and there were no kids involved, what do you think a fair share would be for the woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 01:04 AM
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You red pillers are really annoying. Y’all obviously don’t get enough female attention but you e only got yourself to blame. Go do something with your time and stop responding. This conversation is over to me. You feel different, that’s great, leave me alone. Bye now
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 10:25 AM
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Dude get a life and stop responding. This conversation is over to me, I’m not debating about my views anymore. You feel different, great. You do you and leave me tf alone
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 10:22 AM
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You live in a reality where everyone has toddlers, which is why you think people need house keepers, they don’t. Where I’m from, high chill kids, capable body’s, did the house work. Nobody but one family had a house keeper and as I said, she was also a cool and baby sitter. I dunno what life y’all are living but out here in the real world, most families DO NOT have house keepers. I’m also trying to figure out who gets up at 4am to make breakfast for kids having to be at school by 7:45? Hockey is…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:35 AM
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I don’t know if that’s how it works but it is a good thing to think about. I would have to have an amazing prenup
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 07:00 PM
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Sold to split the positive equity*
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 06:57 PM
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If the physical attraction isn’t maintained, it’s doomed
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 05:55 PM
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To me, fitness is a way to a better, longer lasting and higher quality life Marriage just gives you your match to go through life with but none of the goals should change. The personal upkeep shouldn’t fall off either
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 04:55 PM
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Seriously, there is so much more than love that’s needed for a relationship to have longevity. Gotta constantly put in the work. Keeping yourself looking good is a part of doing the work. People often get complacent with a lot of shit after they get their partner
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 04:29 PM
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Oh no, I am about having a fit woman and believe both men and women should not be shy about nudging their partner to STAY physically attractive to them. I’m not trying to ever be a part of a dead bedroom
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 04:15 PM
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Now this type of energy is amazing lol. It’s the “weight limit” for me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 04:03 PM
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The average American owns a home. Buying a car doesn’t say anything but it refutes your notion that the average American drives an old car and not something quite young. Also, if you read carefully I said the average American married couple has $41,000 as a bank balance. Lolol take your time when reading, calm down
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 03:31 PM
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Well if the guy has been divorced multiple times, he deserves the bullshit because he’s obviously an idiot
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 12:23 PM
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Okay you’re wrong because the average American owns a home, entrepreneurialism has skyrocketed. Not saying they have a super profitable business but yes, the average American can afford to have their own business. Americans as a country are the biggest new car buyer market in the world. During the pandemic when sales were low, Americans bought over 10 million brand new cars. the average American has savings most likely through pension or 401k or something of that sort. And if not, they have it i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 12:21 PM
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I know exactly what a prenup is for, you just don’t understand the question
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 12:14 PM
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No, YOURE wrong, says the red pillars commenting
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 12:14 PM
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I didn’t say I’m any class, stop putting words in my mouth. It’s NOT rare to not have a house keeper. Lazy people have house keepers. I was raised differently and somehow, everyone I know was raised differently. In my entire life, 1 family had a house keeper and it was because one parent was a judge and the other a lawyer with her own practice so a lot of times they didn’t know when they would come home. The house keeper second and thirded as a babysitter and cook. She was also a family friend. …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 12:12 PM
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Even if it’s a stay at home mom, she’s cleaning up after herself and her child. Taking care of our child. If the father isn’t there, she would still have to do it. Cleaning up after yourself and your child is not something you get paid for, it’s your duty as a parent
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 12:08 PM
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What does what I said in my post have to do with alimony or child support? You said I was linking them when I never even mentioned them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 12:06 PM
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You’re on the wrong post, we are into marriage. You need to go on some red pill post. I am 1000000% FOR marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 12:04 PM
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Sorry, I stopped reading after “if you need a prenup, you shouldn’t be getting married”. That’s the most asinine statement ever, seeing as there are TWO people in a relationship and I can only be sure of one person, myself. Not even gonna read the rest because I’m convinced it’s not gonna be sensible. Don’t mean to be rude but I just don’t argue with or discuss anything with people who have views so naive. Have yourself a good day
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 12:03 PM
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Where did I link alimony and child support with prenup? I haven’t mentioned alimony nor child support at all if I recall correctly I think you have me mistaken
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 01:25 AM
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They’re definitely contributing, not a small amount either but I don’t think it out weighs the type of provider I’m talking about. When I say man pays for everything I mean, your pocketbook doesn’t exist. All you have is a clutch for your cards and ID. You have a card to his account, he gives you cash if you want it, he pays the car not, the bills, all the food, every supply that’s needed by you or the baby, pays for travel, pays for your clothes, pays for your nails, hair products, monthly esse…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 01:09 AM
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Red pullers don’t even want to get married
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 01:04 AM
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100k per year to live is a lot of fkn money… lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 01:03 AM
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Wealth and assets. The average American does have assets. Houses, business, cars, also retirement savings.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 01:01 AM
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Yard work and other outside type work is usually outsourced unless I have the tools necessary or my buddy does but anything inside the house, barring some type of electrical work(and if there’s need, my buddy is an electrician), I’m doing it. Maintenance and cleaning. Unless I’m physically unable, I’ll never pay for my house to be cleaned by anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 12:53 AM
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Okay, and?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 12:51 AM
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I said it before, I clean my own place. I personally don’t know anyone who is single and hires people to clean their place. And if you live in the house, you’re cleaning up after yourself too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 12:18 AM
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So basically, if he cheats on you, you feel you deserve half of his money? Or is that like a punishment?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 11:25 PM
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That system sounds good tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 11:16 PM
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Agree with you on the thought that most of the time it’s women who file for divorce and when they do, they’re kissed and try to take anything they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 11:06 PM
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😂😂 bro, quit while you’re not that far behind, trust me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 10:48 PM
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Okay that makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 10:48 PM
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Okay I understand, I disagree about the housework part because again, you’d have to do the housework anyways, no matter if you have a partner or not
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 10:47 PM
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No no, I’ve don’t enough and I don’t subscribe to that shit. If you do, that’s cool, all the power to you but not me. My views are different
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 10:44 PM
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Why not just the guy take care of the girl and sign a prenup, then they live on what he can afford
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 10:37 PM
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Lol I know about all that stuff and I still wanna get married. No awakening at all, some of it is dumb af to me and heavily exaggerated
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 10:36 PM
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Okay I see your reasoning but again, that changes from couple to couple because me personally, I’m clean so “housework” is something I do also even tho I work so I personally don’t feel like housework removes or adds money in that sense. Mostly because if my girl wasn’t in the house, it would just be me to clean up after and I have no problem doing it, never paid anyone to clean my house. Especially if we are talking about cleaning up after a child. The child is both of ours so how does the moth…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 10:35 PM
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Lol why do you say that? I’m a guy, I wanna get married
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 10:30 PM
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Well we can’t take unpaid work(whatever that is) or unpaid childcare into account because some marriages don’t have kids and if they do, it may not be until later in the marriage. So for the sake of argument, we can’t take unpaid childcare into account. Also because if the woman is staying at home and cooking and cleaning, it’s not that the pay off for having everything paid for by the man? And I’m not quite getting your answer, are you saying that if you’re taken care of completely, you wouldn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 10:18 PM
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To knowingly compete is silly, I already said that above but the fact is that we still do have to compete, unknowingly to an extent
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 05:02 PM
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Competition for attention is life lol. If you’re competing for attention from you bf or husband, yea that’s stupid and those are games but in dating and courting, you’re definitely competing wether you believe it or not Just because you don’t focus on it, doesn’t mean it’s not happening lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 04:41 PM
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You can view it as you’d like but you were still competing lol. You view competition as some childish bullshit games. I view competition as a biological process. Women and men both want the best mates and both women and men compete to be viewed as and attain the best. It’s life, it’s in soooo many things. For you to think you aren’t competing in dating is wildly naive but also totally your right to do so and I respect that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 04:33 PM
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It’s not games, nobody said anything about people playing games. But okay
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 03:58 PM
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Okay so the first marriage, you competed knowingly and lost. That doesn’t need to be explained. The second marriage, you still competed because your man has eyes and desires. He has a brain and free will. He definitely saw other women and was attracted to them and surely had other opportunities to court a woman, he chose you. You competed and won. Theoretically, now that he’s your husband, there should be no competition but there still is. Other women may still catch your husbands eyes and then …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 03:58 PM
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You can disagree all you want, won’t make you any less wrong. It doesn’t matter how you “feel” you are in fact competing before you are with someone exclusively(and sometimes even after you’re with them exclusively. Example:YOU). Unknowingly, but still competing nonetheless. You choosing to be naive of that fact is something you’ll have to reason with yourself lol And if you’re only getting with men who women don’t want so there’s no competing, what does say about the man? Or better yet, your se…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 03:02 PM
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Again, you missed the question because if the man was already with you on a serious level, you shouldn’t have to compete for him. If you do, you’ve already lost because that man isn’t treating you the way you should be treated. Knowingly or unknowingly, we all compete to an extent to become someone’s exclusive SO. In the dating or talking phase or whatever other phase there is before becoming someone’s husband/wife l, you are absolutely competing. Now I agree with you 10000000% on not wanting to…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 02:12 PM
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Yes but you missed the entire question. You shouldn’t have to compete for something that’s yours, that’s embarrassing af. But if he was NOT already your bf/husband, would you compete? If the answer is no, congrats, you lost and you could not live as a man. We ALWAYS have to compete. For some reason women hate doing it. Probably because it’s something about the rights and freedoms they gained that they didn’t think about! Yes, another woman can get the man you have your eyes on, especially if you…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:54 AM
1

Facts. I just responded above that “refusing to compete” is the most reliable way to lose lol. We as humans want a partner who is all about us. Everyone wants to be competed over. If a girl drops out of the completion, I don’t go after her, that’s stupid. I’m gonna go with the girl who is willing to come after me. Only girls do that dumb shit where a guy ignores them and it somehow makes them want the guy more.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:48 AM
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It’s also the most reliable way to lose, refusing to compete
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:45 AM
1

I don’t agree with this at alll simply for the mere fact that only a very very small percentage of people actually WANT to be single. Most, the overwhelming majority of humans want to BE with someone. That’s not ever gonna change. It’s biological. Also the whole having kids thing disproves your theory again. Unless custody trends change, your theory would have single motherhood skyrocket even more. I dunno if you know this but women HATE that shit by majority and so do men. Nobody wants to raise…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 09:59 AM
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This is a pretty dumbass statement. Especially when it’s known that men will almost get with ANYTHING! Don’t believe me? Go on google and type in “pigwoman” and just watch and learn. Men have low enough standards, if it goes any lower men are gonna start doing even more questionable shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 11:23 AM
4

I think loyalty is #1. Mostly because loyalty to your SO will lead you to do all of the right things
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 01:51 PM
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I don’t care about anything you’ve said since you tried to make it seem like 2 parent households don’t produce better and more productive human beings by a wide margin. You obviously don’t care about statistics provided over more than 50 years of research. You’re not worth the conversation. Have a good day
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:54 PM
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I guess you didn’t read my comment correctly because insinuated that the parents would have to still be together and live together. Get your reading comprehension up a bit please Also it’s a proven fact that by majority, 2 parent households produce better children and better humans for society The statistics are wrong but you, some random girl on the internet, you’re correct, right? With your endless knowledge 😂🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:16 PM
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When you say “you can raise children just as well…” do you mean being a couple still and living together still? Because if not, what you said is 10000% wrong, it’s kinda been proven over years. Single parent households by majority do not produce then same type of person Also there is a much higher chance of financial stability for the sheer reason 2 incomes work better than one…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:02 PM
3

No, we wouldn’t, you’re just wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:45 PM
2

Being nice isn’t being easy and not being an easy lay isn’t being hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:01 PM
3

Actually, I have to say “just be nice to her” and “don’t sleep around” ABSOLUTELY still work
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 11:56 AM
1

Vetting can definitely go wrong. It’s like practice makes perfect, except it doesn’t, PERFECT practice makes perfect!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 09:44 AM
1

Both women and men start to go downhill in their mid thirties, it’s not exclusive to women. Only difference is most of these red pill men have been sloppy since college so it’s already been bad for them 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:37 PM
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I don’t care if I found the perfect partner, if her body count high like speed limits, that’s a no for me. We can bond all day long I will not make her my gf or put a ring on it. We can be friends tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 09:54 AM
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I don’t think you know what you’re talking about buddy. I can find a bunch of women who wear heels all day who will click them right off to walk on the beach with a nice drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 11:13 AM
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Leave it to FDS and you’ll be called a scrote for trying to not spend money on dinner on the first date lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 11:09 AM
1

The question is in the headline and I answered that by saying humans want to be with someone, that’s why they don’t just settle with staying single. If you wanna rebut that, I’ll continue but if not, I have nothing to add to the argument you’re having
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 06:03 PM
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Humans want to end up with someone to be with. Is there anything about that statement you want to rebut or are you just hell bent on arguing about animals, something that has nothing to do with the topic? Because if so, I’ll bid you a good day because it’s not on topic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 05:27 PM
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I didn’t say anything about monogamy, just that they want to be paired up. But the topic is about humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 07:53 AM
1

Of course, you’re not less of a person for doing what you feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 08:06 PM
2

I’m actually not upset at all, I just don’t come off so nicely online, mostly because I don’t really use “lol”, I kinda just hope someone doesn’t take my forwardness ass a reason to be defensive
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 08:02 PM
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Because women, like the other gender, want to be paired up. Most animals act that way too. The overwhelming majority of people and animals on this earth would rather go through life with someone than without
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 07:54 PM
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If all gatherings at your friends house or company are parties then you need to reassess the people you hang around with. The grocery store, art shows and art museums are romanticized? Probably because the people you choose to meet are party people. I said before that the party crowd is simple. The only time they escape that is for a super romantic date How likely am I to find someone at a more low key venue, pretty likely. But the real question is, how often do you go to a low key function or l…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 07:52 PM
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You’re 1 woman. I can name 10 friends who haven’t had good connections from party people When you’re older(33M), the “party” crowd is smaller and simpler. An event, art museum, at a friend gathering at someone’s house, at a company function, at the grocery store, speed dating, art show, how long do you want me to keep going? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 06:30 PM
1

Best plan is: stop trying to pick up women at a bar or at a party, those settings are conducive to lasting connections or connections that are worth anything. Speaking of majorities
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 06:26 PM
2

They don’t get into relationships to be cheating. It’s like what you’re saying is average men shouldn’t cheat. I am countering with “average women shouldn’t cheat either”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 12:54 PM
2

The average women can’t get into relationships with the men they want so it’s “hard” for them also. Women cheat for the same weird reasons that men do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 12:51 PM
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OP what was the last math class you completed? What you said can’t even be close to true since women cheat just about as much as men and there are more women on the earth than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 12:50 PM
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Women and men cheat at about the same rate. Men are a tad bit higher but it’s because men are more forthcoming about the cheating they’ve done while women often try to escape accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 12:47 PM
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Felt this on a spiritual level
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 12:58 AM
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Yes, you can totally blame whoever you want but it’s not gonna stop anyone from doing it lol. It’s also not going to make people look at it negatively since it’s both human nature and something done by both genders en masse
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 05:41 PM
1

Yes that’s true but you cannot blame someone else for doing something because of how YOU respond. I’ve had plenty girls do this to me because I’m a confident guy. They’ll neg me to try and have me become unconfident but it just doesn’t happen lol. Now if they do this to another guy and they get the desired result, we can’t blame the girl. With the internet,people, ESPECIALLY women, are more into public perception and how people may or may not feel about them. I say don’t blame the “negg -er”(don…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:48 PM
1

Negging only works on someone who seeks the approval of others. This would never work on someone who is very secure in who/what they are
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:11 PM
1

Well damn
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 09:01 PM
2

What’s “AF/BB”?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 06:47 PM
1

Yes we are not “back in the day” at all. Women didn’t work back then, now y’all do, pay for your food. The amount of single complaining women I see on FDS is indicative that most men feel the same way that I do. FDS is trying to mix modern with old school and picking and choosing what they want to benefit them. Back in the day women didn’t work, does FDS promote women to depend on their man? NOPE!! How about the fact that back in the day, women dated one guy at a time, does FDS support that? NOP…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 07:25 AM
1

Paying for a date isn’t wife treatment, paying for EVERY date, is wife treatment. Paying for her bills is wife treatment. I’m referring to when a bf and gf don’t live together and aren’t married, FDS still expects the man to be generous and giving with the woman and the woman is still not supposed to clean his place, not cook, not move in with him, not pay for anything if she does live with him and don’t do groceries. It’s an imbalance, just the notion that if a man doesn’t pay for everything fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 01:13 AM
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Women are told on FDS to NOT offer husband treatment for a man who is not your husband, yet expect a man to pay for everything and pamper and not go 50/50 on anything. Basically, a man should treat a woman like his wife but the woman should treat her man like just another thug until they’re married And this logic is silly when a man cleans up after himself and helps with house chores. And what about when there are no kids and they live separate. FDS says not to live in before marriage and defini…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 12:52 AM
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Lol okay, as I said, you pick the most minuscule thing and sidestep all of the real complaints. This is why a lot of ppl don’t fk with FDS lol. Y’all crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 12:42 AM
0

No
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 12:25 AM
2

Dude, google is free. There are 166 million women in the US. Go consult google and not me. Or go count all the women in the US. You are honed in on 1 thing that is obviously not accurate but an approximation and meant to prove a point. Why don’t you try and rebut the other things I said? Like how men are supposed to pay for everything and women should be pampered and allowed to just save all their money while also having access to the man’s account. Cat got your tongue on that one?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 12:24 AM
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Beta simps ARE WHAT WOMEN LIKE. I already said this, you keep showing you don’t know what women like like
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 12:21 AM
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Of course not. I didn’t say treatment doesn’t matter, it’s just not as important. A broke ugly dude who treats you great surely isn’t high value either lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 12:15 AM
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My problem is you and the way you speak and know nothing lol. It’s wild really. You honestly think only “alpha” men get women and are attractive to women? If you believe that you’re a tool bro, I’m sorry to say
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 12:14 AM
1

You sound like you should be on r/niceguys lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 12:00 AM
0

Don’t care what it’s a retaliation to, “roasties” could be retaliation for “scrubs” 😂. You sound like a child trying to justify this behavior by pointing out what someone did first, grow up
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:58 PM
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A beta simp is exactly what they want. And a beta simp. An surely be high value, look at Steve Jobs and bill gates. Many many many many beta simp HV men. Rich handsome Beta simp is gonna pay for everything, be good looking, be only about his woman, cater to her, let her save her money….. do you know what HV is to a woman? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:54 PM
2

166 million women in the US so that’s more than half of the US population. Yes, men are sloppy and obese in the United States too, but as a whole, women have put on more weight in the last 20 years. You’re FDS and you’re not obese, great. So a confirmed 1 of 200,000 members aren’t obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:47 PM
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If someone can go on FDS and find a post that is advising women of how to treat a man in a relationship in reference to being a good woman and that they should treat their man great, I’ll pay you $100. PayPayl ready lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:45 PM
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Oh oh, I got more: They openly call men “scrotes” but I’d be willing to bet my life that they would say that men who call women bitches or “females” are low value 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:40 PM
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I’ve met none, I’m just going based off of the average woman in the United States. Did you know 68% of the United States is considered obese? 68% of 330million. But let me guess, all the 10s flock to FDS, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:39 PM
1

FDS also has this serious hate and almost preoccupation with porn. They blame a lot on porn and repeatedly bring it up. It’s funny actually lol. Everything is because of porn and referenced to porn Wait wait wait, I read something the other day that was preaching that women should dictate to their male partners when they are “allowed” to climax 😂😂. I shit you know this got many upvotes. Like some serious BDSM shit, telling your partner they’re not allowed to cum until you say so. Lol my gosh a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:37 PM
1

High value is about looks and money and how the man treats you, with looks and money being the most important. FDS makes average women expect top notch everything. FDS preaches women to drop and ghost men for very silly reasons but get mad when guys do it to them. FDS says women should go after preference but ridicule men for having a type and voicing that. My MAIN problem with FDS is they leave it purely up to the men to prove meanwhile 3/4 of the women are there are overweight and need much at…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:34 PM
1

High value is about looks and money and how the man treats you, with looks and money being the most important. FDS makes average women expect top notch everything. FDS preaches women to drop and ghost men for very silly reasons but get mad when guys do it to them. FDS says women should go after preference but ridicule men for having a type and voicing that. My MAIN problem with FDS is they leave it purely up to the men to prove meanwhile 3/4 of the women are there are overweight and need much at…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:33 PM
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High value is about looks and money and how the man treats you, with looks and money being the most important. FDS makes average women expect top notch everything. FDS preaches women to drop and ghost men for very silly reasons but get mad when guys do it to them. FDS says women should go after preference but ridicule men for having a type and voicing that. My MAIN problem with FDS is they leave it purely up to the men to prove meanwhile 3/4 of the women are there are overweight and need much at…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:33 PM
0

Lol okay buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 08:58 PM
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If a woman’s goal is to end life single, working and coming home to cats and/or fatherless children, then more power to them. If you think this situation is good, then do you boo lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 12:12 PM
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Own job, own bank account, own house, own cars, own cats, divorced, no man, sounds about right for the average American woman. If womens goal is to end life single and working and coming home to cats and/or illegitimate children, then more power to them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 12:00 PM
2

There’s really nothing that sets him apart, he’s average at best
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 11:58 AM
1

Yes you can get rid of an abusive man quick, that’s great but a HVM can drop you in 2 seconds as soon as you start the BS and it won’t affect his life either. So you’re back to competing for the best men anyways lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 11:53 AM
1

I totally would but I feel she would have a power trip about something and I would drop her quick lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 09:33 AM
1

Bye bye online dating!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 10:35 AM
1

“Hiding” is the key word. If my partner hides anything from me, it’s a red flag and I’m out
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:23 AM
2

It’s not superficial to want to date someone you’re attracted to. Stop putting so much weight into words you read from other people on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 10:07 AM
2

Because women enjoy a man with money, meanwhile men really don’t care how much a woman makes if we can provide. Most men are also starting to not care if the woman cooks or cleans around the house
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 11:31 AM
1

Learn to read the comments before in a comment thread and you won’t end up looking like an acute 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 08:19 PM
1

It’s definitely about looks. Looks alone won’t seal the deal but looks are most important to a woman, like it is for most men also imagine trying to tell someone else what they said when it’s in WRITING!!! 😂 you are cringeworthy rn
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 08:16 PM
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Angry that you can’t read lol. I’m the one saying attractiveness is important so you’re not even disputing what I’m saying and you don’t even know it. Frankly, you look foolish rn
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 08:01 PM
1

Go read more of my comments because you’re way behind. I already clearly stated that looks and physical attractiveness are the same level of important for both genders. Typical, seeing one comment and commenting about shit that’s already been said. I’m gonna just stop coming back to these after2 hrs
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 07:57 PM
1

Lol okay there
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 04:06 PM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:32 PM
1

I’m still standing by what I said: many relationships have survived “cold” approach starts. The semantics in trying to break down everything I bring up to find room for reasonable doubt is fine, but doesn’t change anything and not something I’m gonna go back and forth on. The point of a “cold” approach is to get a legitimate opportunity, what is done with the opportunity is up to the people. Lastly, may I introduce you to the statistics of how unsuccessful dating is over the internet? How many o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:27 PM
1

Meeting through social connections can still be “cold”approaches(ie: at a party where you both know the host but weren’t formally introduced)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:09 PM
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😂 x 10000
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:05 PM
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There are many relationships that have survived from “cold” approaches, ask anyone who had a bf before 1999 😂. And yes, I’m sure it was her number, especially sure because she had me text her so she would have mine
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:04 PM
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Lololol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 01:56 PM
1

Lol god-like level of attractiveness? Really? I got a girls number in Walmart yesterday…. And I am surely not a 10. I look good for sure but I think you grossly overestimate what it takes to cold approach a woman and get her number
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 01:56 PM
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They can repeat it 100000000x and I wouldn’t care, WOMEN WANT A MAN THEY ARE PHYSICALLY ATTRACTED TO. Period. May you didn’t see the other thread on PPD about what ppl say vs what they do and this is the same kind of case. Women will swear up and down that looks aren’t important but they are, it’s human nature. Not every woman finds the same physical traits attractive but physical attractiveness is most important. You’re just gullible it seems because 3 or 4 girls on Reddit said looks aren’t mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 12:42 PM
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It’s definitely about looks. Looks alone won’t seal the deal but looks are most important to a woman, like it is for most men also
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 11:34 AM
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Physical attraction is more important to a woman than anything else, just like the majority of most men. Physical attractiveness comes after nothing for women. Or do you sit and say “wow that guy over there looks like he has a great personality, let me go talk to him’???. I don’t think, so please knock it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 11:32 AM
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For women, attractiveness is probably number one on the list. If you don’t believe that, tell an average guy to approach 10 women and record the interaction, listen to how many women basically won’t give him the time of day. Coming from someone who doesn’t have dating apps, trust me, women DEFINITELY want an attractive man before much of anything else. I’m in the gym regularly and there have been a few times I have gotten a number and another guy (average looking) will say “damn I couldn’t even …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 08:42 AM
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OOOHHHH BABAAAAYYYY YOOOOUUUUUUUUUUUU
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 12:07 AM
1

I don’t pay for the first date but I will pay for every other one after that as long as it’s me planning them lol. I’ve gone on too many first dates to pay for all of them. What’s the point in paying for a meal for a girl you may never see again? And if a girl wants to drop me because I don’t pay for everything before I even know if she’s committed to me, then she’s not the girl for me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:13 PM
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